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Speaker 1: Transmitting Welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio, Ray Mudo.

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Speaker 2: What's the game it is? How well do you know

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Speaker 2: TV show songs? The theme songs? So I'll give you

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Speaker 2: a question about details from these famous TV theme show lyrics.

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Speaker 1: Hey, give us an example.

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Speaker 2: In the Golden Girls theme song, what would the card

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Speaker 2: attached to the biggest gifts say the card attached Wou'd

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Speaker 2: say thank.

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Speaker 1: You for being a friend? Correct? Okay, how many questions

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Speaker 1: do you have here? We have ten? Let's do seven,

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Speaker 1: all right? Write your answers down elimination style. All four

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Speaker 1: of us are in number one. In the Friends theme song,

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Speaker 1: it feels like your life is always stuck in what gear?

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Speaker 1: I'm in?

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Speaker 3: What is.

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Speaker 2: This game?

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Speaker 1: Is gonna be hard? Yeah? Because if you sing it,

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Speaker 1: other people are getting possibly hear it. But Amy's singing it.

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Speaker 4: Well, you already have it, so I can think they

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Speaker 4: don't have.

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Speaker 1: It's me? What the heck?

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Speaker 4: Can you say it? One more time?

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Speaker 2: In the Friends theme song, it feels like your life

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Speaker 2: is always stuck in what year?

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Speaker 1: I'm in the wind? Amy d o A, No, you

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Speaker 1: love life? Do I know You're always stuck in second gear?

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Speaker 1: Second gear? Second first?

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Speaker 5: I never drew, I never drove stick, so I don't

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Speaker 5: know what that means.

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Speaker 1: Just numbers though, and bunch of guys eliminated wow, eliminator style.

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Speaker 1: I thought it'd be easy at first, all right.

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Speaker 2: Next up in the Jefferson's theme song, what part of

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Speaker 2: town are they finally moving on up to?

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Speaker 1: I'm in, I mean moving on up to the east side,

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Speaker 1: east side side. Okay, we finally got a piece of

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Speaker 1: the pier. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Next, in the full House theme song, the singer wonders,

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Speaker 2: whatever happened to predictability?

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Speaker 1: The milkman, the paper boy? And what is the third thing?

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Speaker 1: Got it? I'm in? I mean you can sing it.

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Speaker 1: The sign okay, the milkman, the paper boy even in

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Speaker 1: TV correct Okay.

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Speaker 2: Next in the Fresh Prince of bel Air theme song,

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Speaker 2: where did Will spend most of his days?

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Speaker 1: Got it? Had to get there, but I got it.

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Speaker 1: I'll sing this one. I'm in in West Philadelphia, born

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Speaker 1: and raised on the playground is where I spent most

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Speaker 1: of my days? Playground? Okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: According to the Brady Bunch theme song, all the daughters

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Speaker 2: had hair of gold like their mother, and how was

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Speaker 2: the youngest one's hairstyle.

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Speaker 1: Described I'm in. Will you read that again? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: According to the Brady Bunch theme song, all the daughters

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Speaker 2: had hair of gold like their mother. How is the

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Speaker 2: youngest one's hairstyle described?

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Speaker 1: You might have singing it? Do you have? Are you no?

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Speaker 1: I need to sing it to get it so I

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Speaker 1: can sing it. I already have it. Okay, here's a

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Speaker 1: story about the lovely lady who is really not very lovely.

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Speaker 1: Girls like their mother, their youngest one in curls, curls.

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Speaker 1: I have curls. I had to get there all. I

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Speaker 1: had to fight that one, all right.

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Speaker 2: Next, in the Beverly Hillbillies theme, the singer invites you

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Speaker 2: to come and listen to a story about.

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Speaker 1: A man named what Okay, got it? You know that

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Speaker 1: you can say this one? I'm in. Go ahead, the

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Speaker 1: story of a man named Jed. Well, here's a millionaire.

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Speaker 1: Oh you don't know what they're red it's Jed, but

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Speaker 1: I think it's Come and listen to a story about

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Speaker 1: a man named Jed. The poor mountaineer barely kept his

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Speaker 1: family fed. That one day he was shooting at some

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Speaker 1: crude and up from the ground, no, shooting at some food,

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Speaker 1: and up from the ground came a bubbling cruise? Is

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Speaker 1: that like a black goal texasity? All right? One more? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: This is it? Last one?

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Speaker 2: In the Hannah Montana theme song, because of her fame?

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Speaker 2: What does she get out front?

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Speaker 1: What? I don't know this one? I don't know that

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Speaker 1: Anamal Hanna theme song either? Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: So read it again? Ray?

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Speaker 2: In the Hannah Montana theme song, because of her fame?

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Speaker 1: What does she get out front? What does she get

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Speaker 1: out front? I'm in? What do you have? Bentley? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I flowers combining flowers? I don't know? You know front?

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Speaker 1: Limo? I don't know how that song go wrong? Get

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Speaker 1: out front?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I know the melody? Yeah, we appreciate you all. Too

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Speaker 1: old for that one. Okay, we have three more though, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll do these next two normal, and if we don't,

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Speaker 1: we'll do tie break on the third.

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Speaker 2: In the Family Matters theme, it's a rare condition this

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Speaker 2: day and age to read any good news on what.

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Speaker 1: I'm in. Newspaper page, newspaper page.

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Speaker 3: Correct?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: In the Family Ties theme, how many years have they

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Speaker 2: been together?

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Speaker 1: This is where you win? I don't even know that.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, that's been yes, ladies. Oh no, I'm

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Speaker 1: off now, I'm off. Hold on, what are we singing?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: No, because I don't know. I have no idea. I

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Speaker 1: have it, repeat it. I need to sing it though.

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Speaker 2: In the Family Ties theme, how many years have.

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Speaker 1: They been together? I think I have it? I have it?

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Speaker 1: I think? So Okay, singer, are you out? Do you

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Speaker 1: have nothing? Well I'm not in yet. Well, right, I'm in.

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Speaker 1: How many years are they together? I have it? Oh?

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm in. I don't know. What do you

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Speaker 1: heck to? Random number thirteen? I think the song goes,

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Speaker 1: I bet we've been together for a million years. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I bet we'll be together for a million more million? Correct?

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Speaker 1: Good job, dude. Glad you know hannim on Tana because

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Speaker 1: I know that one. I didn't have no clue. What

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Speaker 1: was the tenth one? It is?

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Speaker 2: In the Growing Pains theme, the singer asked them show

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Speaker 2: them that smile again and not waste another minute on

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Speaker 2: what show.

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Speaker 1: Them the smile? Look you show me in a smile,

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Speaker 1: don't waste another minute. Oh you're crying? Correct, good job dude.

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Speaker 1: Post Malone has a stalker and post malone stalker has

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Speaker 1: been arrested for the fifth time. It is a woman.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Cherish Gorner, and this time she was

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Speaker 1: taken into custody because she jumped in front of post

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Speaker 1: Malone's car as he was trying to leave his home. Wow,

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Speaker 1: a couple things are weird here. One just the general

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Speaker 1: idea of having a stalker. Two she knows where he lives,

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Speaker 5: And like, being arrested already hasn't deterred her, So like,

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Speaker 5: what needs to happen next?

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Speaker 1: I wonder if this is the first time, Mike, do

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Speaker 1: you know much about this story? I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: the first time it's happened. No, I mean first time

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Speaker 1: she was arrested and taken in arrest that I believe.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, oh, because I know she's been charged, but

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Speaker 1: this is the first time I believe she's been arrested.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, we need to scare straight while she's in there.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she's able to be scared straight because

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Speaker 1: she believes she has a spiritual connection with the singer

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Speaker 1: and his quote in title to be near him.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's a problem.

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Speaker 1: It's her fifth time that she's been charged with trespassing, stalking,

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Speaker 1: even intoxication at his Raising Cane's restaurant. The latest arrest

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Speaker 1: comes with fell Any charges for stalking and violating a

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Speaker 1: court order. The stalker is now being held with that

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Speaker 1: bail that's from the boot. So you could go, ah,

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Speaker 1: just some crazy woman, He's fine. The problem is with

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Speaker 1: crazy people, they can go next level very quickly. And

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Speaker 1: this turns into one of those well if I can't

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Speaker 1: have you, no one else will type situations, or then

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Speaker 1: you kill them, and that is not out of the

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Speaker 1: realm of possibility. In a situation like this, it's five times.

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Speaker 1: She knows where he lives, she tried to stop his car,

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Speaker 1: and probably what she can do something bad to him

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Speaker 1: right then, probably knows, she thinks he's he's her boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: She has a spiritual connection.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, you don't kill that person until you absolutely know

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Speaker 1: you can't have him, and then you kill him so

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Speaker 4: And that's justifiable too.

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Speaker 1: There's another one, and this one's creepy and dyer way.

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Speaker 1: And I do like Selena Gomez and I like Benny Blanco,

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Speaker 1: it starts to border on Okay, you're pushing this, but

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Speaker 1: here's one. Benny Blanco admits that when Selena Gomez is away,

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Speaker 1: he likes to spray or perfume on him to remind

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Speaker 1: him of her.

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Speaker 4: I mean this tracks.

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Speaker 5: Benny wakes up every day and says to himself, how

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Speaker 5: can I make Selena's day better?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Can I give a theory to this? He loves her

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Speaker 1: that I don't think he really does this. There are

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Speaker 1: two things here. This is from People magazine. One, I

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Speaker 1: think like this plays whenever he does over the top stuff.

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Speaker 1: This plays in many ways for her, for him, for them.

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Speaker 1: It gets a lot of hits. And then two, the

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Speaker 1: perfume he's spraying on himself is her perfume. Like, it's

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Speaker 1: not just her perfume that she owns, it's her raw.

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Speaker 1: It's like rare beauty perfume. So I think part of

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Speaker 1: the ankle there too. Advertising the world and he doesn't

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Speaker 1: like this. But the world is wrestling, Yes, the world

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Speaker 1: is wrestling. The world is a stage. So as funny

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Speaker 1: as that is and as weird as it, I don't

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Speaker 1: think that's really what's happening. I think he's probably making

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Speaker 1: it up. Or two, if he posts videos him doing it,

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Speaker 1: it's with her perfume and it's selling her perfume.

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Speaker 4: Genius.

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Speaker 1: The World's a wrestling ring. Finally, mister Beast credits his

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Speaker 1: poor mental health for a success. Hey, I feel seen.

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Speaker 1: Oh I feel I've never felt more seen in my life.

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Speaker 1: Mister Beasts the biggest YouTuber on the planet. But while

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Speaker 1: he was chatting on Lewis Howe's The School of Greatness podcast,

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Speaker 1: he dropped a bomb that shocked the host. Quote, if

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Speaker 1: my mental health is better, I wouldn't be as successful

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Speaker 1: as I am. I feel that to do anything great,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't have to even be in a professional space,

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Speaker 1: a parent, working at a bank, a runner, whatever. To

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Speaker 1: do anything great, it takes a lot of sacrifice, and

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Speaker 1: you're going to miss out in other parts of your life,

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Speaker 1: and you're missing out on other parts of your life

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Speaker 1: because the sacrifice of your mental health is never great.

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Speaker 1: It can be pretty good at best, but it's hard

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Speaker 1: to be even great at balance because if you're balanced,

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Speaker 1: you're putting work into It's not just being even. You're

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Speaker 1: putting equal amount of work and making sure you don't

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Speaker 1: I want to be balanced, that means you are imbalanced

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Speaker 1: and you have to work extra to fix that imbalance.

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Speaker 1: So even being balanced is really hard. So I understand,

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Speaker 1: and I feel your mister beast, But for anyone that

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Speaker 1: Up with you, then you take the job, and then

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Speaker 4: Yeah I did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you mean would you have voicemail number four.

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Speaker 3: So I just wanted to call in on the segment

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Speaker 1: It's an art form.

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Speaker 3: Stop sipping the hater ade and let's start considering it

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Speaker 1: That's right now, it's art. It is for sure art.

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: I've been thinking about something. What is art? I've been

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Speaker 1: wheel of mild punishment. M Oh yeah, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 4: What is it?

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Speaker 1: Because you've been such a hater, it's actually really good. No.

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Speaker 1: I enjoyed it so much. You're gonna watch on Netflix Unreal,

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Speaker 4: Better than I thought. I thought you were about to

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know they have any of those. But

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Speaker 4: Like they really broke it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, yes, they really broke it. Okay, And then

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Speaker 1: and he's still yeah he's older now, but he wrestled

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Speaker 5: CM punk Yeah, like the letter CM. I just want

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Speaker 5: see them punk now?

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Speaker 4: Is the unreal? Is that showcase?

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Speaker 5: Men and women both wrestlers, Okay, so you don't know

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Speaker 4: I just have to pick a favorite.

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Speaker 1: I just I just want you to watch it. Come

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Speaker 1: This is your will of my old punishment, no will,

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna sign the punishment. But it's a great punishment.

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Speaker 1: I love it. It's one of the best documentries I've

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Speaker 1: seen it in a while.

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Speaker 4: How many episodes? Five?

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Speaker 1: Five would you play? Voicemal number one.

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Speaker 7: I think Amy should be assigned the homework of watching

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Speaker 7: have a better appreciation for wrestling. The WWE always gives

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Speaker 7: back to the community wherever they are. They always reach

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Speaker 7: out to the boys and Girls Club Special Olympics. They

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Speaker 1: Do you hate Special Olympics?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, no, so what is it called? Worry about the

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Speaker 1: movie yet? Just watch Unreal? But that's a movie and

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Speaker 5: No, I love that they give back in that way

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Speaker 1: It's always got. It's always got to be.

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Speaker 5: That's your attraction as an adult is because when you

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Speaker 1: Atracted am in with tights? Okay, I have my own reason.

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Speaker 5: Okay, maybe that will be me after I watch Unreal.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. So you've been assigned that. I'll check

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Speaker 5: Deal, sure, but I will put a spread this like,

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Speaker 4: Okay, whatever, No, I'm not proving anything. I'm curious.

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Speaker 4: Like, Okay, I get it, I'm into it. And again

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Speaker 4: that could be blowing up.

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Speaker 5: There's a woman that lives in southern Maryland and she

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Speaker 5: won the lottery because of her late father. Yeah, he died,

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Speaker 5: but she decided to enter in his death date.

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Speaker 1: That's a weird thing. I go my birthday anniversary.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she just felt like, I think I need to

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna do this. Pick five, I'm gonna use the

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Speaker 1: Hey should we all try that? But who's death date?

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Speaker 4: Our parents?

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Speaker 4: Hey, I could get to end her twice.

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Speaker 1: My mom my dad left, remember that day. I can

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Speaker 1: I don't hate the bit, I don't hate the bid.

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Speaker 1: Let's try it. We all put in the dead death

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Speaker 1: dates of our parents death date, Yes, yeah, I guess

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Speaker 1: dead death date feels a little too too dark. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but that's why she hit fifty rand?

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Speaker 5: Crazy, But how do you so it's a pick five?

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Speaker 4: Her date must have been because like mine, my mom's

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Speaker 5: Too many numbers, I know, walking through it because she

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Speaker 1: Oh you just wanted to make a millions with all

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Speaker 1: six numbers? Wow? Oh those are six numbers.

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Speaker 4: Second do six so I can do ten twenty seven fourteen?

439
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 1: Oh all right, yeah, we gotta try this, Okay, okay,

440
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 1: that's all.

441
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 4: My dad could be pick five.

442
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:53,200
Speaker 5: He's April Fool's Day four one.

443
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:57,880
Speaker 1: Oh twenty one. What a bit is turn weird? That's

444
00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 1: a good story though, Yeah, yeah, yah, that's a good

445
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,440
Speaker 1: story money because of it, and then we are too.

446
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 1: How funny would it be if we all won or

447
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 1: one of us wanted. Lunchbox didn't win because his parent

448
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 1: and didn't. That's why didn't die. All right, there you go,

449
00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: that's what it's all about. That was telling me something good.

450
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: So there was a wedding and the mother in law,

451
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,000
Speaker 1: I guess about two mother in law shows up and

452
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 1: she has tupperware and she has cake in the tupperware

453
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 1: because she didn't like the original cake. So she brought

454
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 1: cake and tupperware. And then later on in the wedding

455
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,919
Speaker 1: she got on the microphone and she was like, hey,

456
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: if you don't like the original cake, I brought other

457
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 1: cake and the tupperware.

458
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

459
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,360
Speaker 1: So when I hear this story, I think she had

460
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:44,199
Speaker 1: to know what she was marrying into the bride, Like

461
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 1: that mother in law doesn't just do that day up.

462
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's not difficult or it's not annoying,

463
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 1: but that mother in law doesn't show up and go

464
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,919
Speaker 1: all crazy mother in law without there being traces of

465
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: crazy mother in law to begin with. So, as funny

466
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 1: as it is, a little bit of that had to

467
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 1: be expected, right, and there probably had to be a

468
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 1: decision of the mother in law's like, well, I don't

469
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,159
Speaker 1: like the cake, can we get a different cake? And

470
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, we're going to get this cake. And

471
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 1: then you know she's already kind of a crazy mother

472
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 1: in law, so it's not super surprising. She did not

473
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 1: need to get on the mic though she didn't need

474
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 1: to bring it to begin with. But you know what,

475
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 1: if you have a crazy mother in law a crazy friend,

476
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: they have the right to be a little crazy because

477
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: they're still in your life while being crazy. But there

478
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: was no need for her to grab the microphone and

479
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,719
Speaker 1: declare that she had a different cake. We did make

480
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 1: a bet at your wedding. I offered somebody over a

481
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 1: thousand bucks to knock it over. Well I wasn't knock

482
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 1: it over. It was the cake. Really that wasn't being used.

483
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 4: Uh No, that cake was the cake they were going

484
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 4: to cook from it. Yes, and it was beautiful.

485
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 1: It was awesome, and I knew no one would do it.

486
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 1: I was like, thousand bucks, you knocked that cake over?

487
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 5: No, friend, I grew up with Margie. She became a

488
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 5: baker and that was her wedding gifts.

489
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 1: Me up, I shouldn't have done that.

490
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 4: So like and a cake, that's one of the most

491
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 4: expensive things.

492
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,439
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have really had that. I wouldn't have had

493
00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: him do it was just a joke. I was like,

494
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 1: thousand bucks, if you knock.

495
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 5: The takeover I mean, I think she was at the wedding.

496
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 5: She probably would have I don't think it.

497
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: Was knocking over me. I think it was like face

498
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,239
Speaker 1: planned inside, like fall on it.

499
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 4: I would have harmed all.

500
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that really wouldn't happened, But I think I would

501
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 1: have done it for a thousand bucks. Experts say if

502
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:15,719
Speaker 1: you're getting married, it's always important to have the marriage

503
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 1: counseling discussion before arguments arise. It can also save you

504
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 1: money when you apply for your marriage license, you get

505
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: a discount apparently really. In a study, eighty percent of

506
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 1: married people think pre marital counseling helped their marriages, and

507
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,360
Speaker 1: those that didn't speak to a councilor admitted to struggling

508
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: and fighting over things that could have been figured out prior.

509
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 1: It's from your tango dot com. My wife and I

510
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: started going to marriage counseling right before we got married.

511
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: But we've stayed with it. We go every two weeks,

512
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,160
Speaker 1: like we're still with it. It's it's way more maintenance

513
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 1: than anything. Obviously, we have the same fights and discussions

514
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 1: that any married couple have. I say, any everybody's a

515
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: little different based on how you live, where you live,

516
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: what you do, but ours are very similar to anyone else's.

517
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: But what it does for us, because I'm a big

518
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: believer in therapy and counseling anyway, what it does for

519
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: us or for me specifically, it teaches me ways to

520
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: communicate whenever times aren't as easy as when they're just

521
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 1: like life is living free, Like I have an issue

522
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: with communicating whenever I'm not right. If everything's normal, I'm great,

523
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 1: I'll communicate away. But as soon as something bad happens,

524
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I'm just gonna go ahead and shut

525
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: this down on the outside, figure it out on the inside,

526
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,439
Speaker 1: and then come back with the whole new approach. And

527
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: my wife will be like, you just had the whole

528
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: decision and discussion within yourself and then came back and

529
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, this is what it's going to be now,

530
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: and you didn't even include me in that. And so

531
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 1: I've developed better ways in those scenarios, so less shutting

532
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 1: down yeah, and more and also the ability to have

533
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: uncomfortable conversations because I never wanted to have them with her.

534
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: She's great at that. She communicates like a boss. If

535
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 1: there's a video game, she's bows her final boss of

536
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: communicating for me, I was like, dah, I got other

537
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 1: things I want to do and I'll just figure it out,

538
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: so I'm not going to have the uncomfortable conversation Personally. Professionally,

539
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: I don't give crap, but personally it was like dad.

540
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: But counseling for me has done that, and I think

541
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: premaritally what it does too is they bring up things

542
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 1: that you're eventually going to fight over, like fundamental things,

543
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: and you then have to kind of decide how you

544
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 1: feel about things right then instead of later when you're

545
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 1: already in the marriage, and they could be so fundamental

546
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: that they hurt the marriage thoughts.

547
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that you can.

548
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:36,120
Speaker 5: Also, it just sets up a healthy pattern, like you said,

549
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 5: like y'all are committed for that, and if you can

550
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 5: get in early before the marriage, then you know, hey,

551
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 5: we're going to agree if we encounter this. Obviously, you

552
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 5: don't know what's going to hit you during your marriage

553
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 5: at all whatsoever. But if you're both in alignment of like,

554
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 5: how are we going to move forward with a plan

555
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 5: if XYZ happens both your when it happens, Yeah, yeah,

556
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 5: it really is not if it's when and then you're

557
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 5: both in alignment on how you want to handle it

558
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 5: and bringing in outside help. Are you open to that

559
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 5: at all? Because some people just are not. They don't

560
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 5: want to involve a third party. It's either be the

561
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 5: best perspective for you.

562
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, they feel like it's embarrassing or they grew up

563
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,479
Speaker 1: like I did. What therapy wasn't around. Nobody went you went.

564
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 1: If you were to therapy, you were crazy. You were like,

565
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 1: you went to a shrink and why would you do that?

566
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you insane? But I think with the

567
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: knowledge of mental health and mental health issues and uh,

568
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: communicating better to keep your mental health better, I think,

569
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: you know, there's been a lot of knowledge, a lot

570
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: of education in that in the past few years.

571
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 5: My friend told me the other day and he's like

572
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 5: late thirties. He said he didn't start therapy till two

573
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,400
Speaker 5: years ago, and before that he would have told you,

574
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 5: no way, therapy is a huge waste of.

575
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 4: My time and I will never do it.

576
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 1: Why did it bit the first time for the radio show?

577
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because all my insurance and I was like,

578
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm show them how crazy I am. And I was like, oh,

579
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 1: I kind of like that. It was hard, but I

580
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: kind of like that. So I'm a big recommender of

581
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: therapy even as you're married. And sometimes we go and

582
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 1: I don't even want to go because we have nothing

583
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: to talk about. I was gonna say fight about, but

584
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: that's what it feels like. If we have nothing to

585
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 1: fight about, what even is there to talk about? And

586
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 1: so but we go and weasually there are days we

587
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,439
Speaker 1: just have good we only talk about good things, and

588
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: it's like, what do we need to do this?

589
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 2: Oh?

590
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the maintenance of it is that is super important.

591
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,719
Speaker 1: And that mother in law like justice for the mother

592
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 1: in law a little bit. She should probably go to therapy,

593
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: and she should that's my point. She should probably go

594
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 1: to therapy. Paris Hilton's husband gave her the ultimate birthday gift.

595
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: Hey pink and white, fully customized private jet. Wow birthday.

596
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: It even has the phrase that's hot stenciled on the outside.

597
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: That's so cool, wow, really cool. Your birthday president isn't

598
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: near as cool as Paris Hilton's. I don't care who's

599
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: listening me included, that's a cool birthday president I've ever seen.

600
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 3: So.

601
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: Paris's husband, his name is Carter Room, gave her a

602
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: fully customized golf Stream G four fifty, nicknamed Slive Air

603
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: after her stupid made up words sliving, which is a

604
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: combination of slaying and living. The jet looks awesome. It's

605
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:04,479
Speaker 1: a pink one. I'd like to have the pink jell.

606
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 4: It's a combination of what and living.

607
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: Slaying and living living. Yeah, OK, and that's hot. And

608
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: then her name is written in her autograph on the

609
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: back part of it. And I looked it up. The

610
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: gulf Stream G four fifty is a popular large cabin

611
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: private jet. If you were to buy it new thirty

612
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: nine million dollars. Oh my go, look at this. That's

613
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: the craziest birthday present I've ever seen.

614
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 8: She probably already has a jet, right, so this is

615
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 8: another one, you think, I don't know, probably so this

616
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 8: is just kind.

617
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: Of like you want to take the pink one, or

618
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 1: you want to take the other one, right, or they

619
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: trade in the other one. Now, I don't know. I

620
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm not pocket watching her money. I have

621
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: no idea. But that's the coolest thing I've ever seen.

622
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: Your son's birthday is coming up. Get them one? Yeah, yes,

623
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 1: for a jet?

624
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 4: He did not know.

625
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 5: I think the most extensive thing he asked for were

626
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 5: pit vipers, sunglasses?

627
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 4: You have a list, Yeah, I have a list. I

628
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 4: I he's not listening to this, so he'll never know.

629
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 4: But I ordered him the pit vipers.

630
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: You have to whisper to us if he's not listening.

631
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: He also here if you talk, Yeah, but ers are funny.

632
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, So whatever reason, he updated this list and I

633
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 5: got it, and pit vipers were first, so I was like, Okay,

634
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 5: that's easy.

635
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 4: You just better not lose them.

636
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 1: Or he said, well even adults that are responsible and

637
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: make sure to lose sunglasses.

638
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

639
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

640
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 5: But then in its second, third and fourth is candy.

641
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 5: He's just put Milky Way, reeses and sneakers.

642
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: Candy, all three of those that can happen.

643
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 4: Sneakers obviously, mint snickers. Oh shoot.

644
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 5: Actually the most extensive thing even on here is Apple Watch.

645
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 4: But I'm not getting in that.

646
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm not getting that. You're not getting him that. What's

647
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: the pit vipers?

648
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 4: Cause they're over one hundred dollars.

649
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: That's like his comparing them to the Apple Watch. Yeah

650
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: that way more? Yeah, yeah, war Is it an Apple Watch?

651
00:30:58,840 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

652
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe so. I think it depends on which

653
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 4: kind you get.

654
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: I think the Apple is. Yes.

655
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Speaker 4: He also asked for College Bowl.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

657
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Speaker 4: I don't know what that is.

658
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Speaker 5: V Bucks, Roebucks, I know what those are. That's money

659
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Speaker 5: on his video games. A glowing stainless steel cross necklace

660
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Speaker 5: and an armor of God figuring.

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Speaker 1: Did you get him those?

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Speaker 4: I think the I think grandma his his dad like

663
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Speaker 4: sent it off to his aunt. Grandma and grandpalled.

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Speaker 5: They're getting probably the cross birthday and the armor of

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Speaker 5: God Sunday.

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Speaker 1: Oh and Ray, when's your birthday? I got a month? Yeah,

667
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Speaker 1: because Ray made a list too. Yeah, and so far

668
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Speaker 1: I got you one thing from the list.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the Oliver People's Tom Brady's those are awesome. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and so you have other things on your list? Still No, no, no,

671
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Speaker 2: I don't know the shows. Oh we're not buying anything

672
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Speaker 2: to send that? Oh yeah yeah? Did you do you

673
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Speaker 2: give a list to your wife?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there, That's why I got to do it ahead

676
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Speaker 1: of time.

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Speaker 2: My mom tries to order stuff from Canada, and stuff

678
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Speaker 2: stuff takes time to go flying from Canada, getting maple

679
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Speaker 2: upper weight, well, where they live, it's insane to try

680
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Speaker 2: and get stuff delivered sent Amazon where.

681
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Speaker 1: The upper Pensula in America, right, okay.

682
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so if my mom's sending something from where they live,

683
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Speaker 2: it's two weeks minimum.

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Speaker 1: Pony express or what pretty much. I don't think that's true.

685
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Speaker 1: It is.

686
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Speaker 2: If you send a Father's Day card, do it am

687
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Speaker 2: onth early. It's terrible. It's really weird. Only affects me.

688
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Speaker 2: Nobody else lives where my parents live.

689
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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe they are in some well, no.

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Speaker 1: One else lives where his parents live. That's true because

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Speaker 1: that's the one spot of land they live on. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, I get it.

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Speaker 1: I think they've just forgotten to send stuff forever and

695
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Speaker 1: rays claims it on that. Uh and you're you're son

696
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: starting holed fifteen and race turning forty. There we go,

697
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Speaker 1: two birthday lists right there.

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Speaker 4: Wait, but what's collegeable? Do you know it is?

699
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Speaker 1: It sounds like a video game, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Is it like a trivia game?

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Speaker 5: It's got to be on the I didn't have on

702
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Speaker 5: the I figured is you gave him the whatever game

703
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 5: he plays? What is that at xbox PSI? Oh yeah,

704
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Speaker 5: yeah yeah, the Big White Yeah you gave him that is.

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Speaker 1: A televised quest show or a series of postseason college

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Speaker 1: football games. That's oh College Bowl?

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Speaker 3: Is that?

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Speaker 1: Okay? The Quist show currently titled Yeah, I don't know

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Speaker 1: is I'll pass on that. Maybe he misspelled it. Maybe

710
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Speaker 1: it's like college ball because he did sneakers.

711
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 4: For Sneakers, Sneakers candy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd follow up on that one. Okay, It's time

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Speaker 1: for the good news. Bobby. He's eight years old from

714
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Speaker 1: near Chicago's as Mateo. He gave the twenty three dollars

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Speaker 1: they got from his birthday to a homeless woman selling

716
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Speaker 1: candy on the side of the road, saying he wanted

717
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Speaker 1: to help her because she was trying to buy formula

718
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Speaker 1: for her baby. His mom captured the moment put it

719
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Speaker 1: on social media. It went super viral, and now there

720
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Speaker 1: is a crowdfund campaign one hundred percent of donations going

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Speaker 1: to sport to people in need in that area, and

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Speaker 1: they've been able to raise thousands of thousands of dollars

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Speaker 1: because the mom recorded the kid and then didn't take

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Speaker 1: the money for themselves. They donated at all. All the

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Speaker 1: money coming in from the viral video and the people don'tate. Thanks.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty good.

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Speaker 8: That's his birthday money, all of his birthday money twenty

728
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Speaker 8: three bucks, Like, here you go, that's unheard of for

729
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Speaker 8: a child.

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Speaker 1: You have four kids. How many would have done that

731
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Speaker 1: with their twenty three dollars? One one, there's one.

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Speaker 8: Anytime he sees the homeless person who's like, do we

733
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Speaker 8: have money?

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Speaker 1: Like, how much do we have? Twenty bucks? Give it

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Speaker 1: to him? Does he give away his money too? Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: The other three no, no chance, no chance. They don't

737
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Speaker 1: act like they don't even see the person. That's from people.

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Speaker 1: That's what it's all about. That was telling me something good.

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Speaker 1: Wake up, wake up in the mall, and you turn

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Speaker 1: the radio and the dogs.

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Speaker 6: Ready and his lunchbox more game two, Steve Bred trying

742
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Speaker 6: to put you through this buck he's running this week's

743
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Speaker 6: next bit.

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Speaker 1: The Bobby's on the.

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Speaker 3: Box, so you know what to.

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00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: The babbleball? Okay, ninety seconds on the clock. How many

747
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Speaker 1: of Amy's corny jokes can we get right in ninety seconds? Amy? Ready,

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Speaker 1: up there, Ready, let's go the morning corny? What do

749
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: you call a sad cheese memory cheddar? Sad cheddar uh

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Speaker 1: American with American sad bree said brie cheese, cream cheese,

751
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 1: blue cheese. Well, I didn't. I didn't have that, thank you. Okay.

752
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 4: What do you call a sad brownie?

753
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Speaker 8: Okay, keep going the same thing, right, chocolate Betty Crocker,

754
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 8: sad brownie child ship?

755
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 1: Are you talking like a girl scout or like an

756
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Speaker 1: actual brownie? An actual? Okay? Either? Like brownie is like

757
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Speaker 1: a lower of ours. That's a great point. Okay, sad brownie,

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Speaker 1: I don't know anything her. She's melted chocolate, a brown ole,

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Speaker 1: a brown brown crystal, a dessert. What's sad about being brown?

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Speaker 1: Is not blue? Desert? A brown or brownie? Frown brownie,

761
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Speaker 1: frowning brownie? Wow? How did you get that brown?

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Speaker 5: What kind of vehicle does an egg drive?

763
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Speaker 3: Shell?

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Speaker 8: Cracked shell over easy, scrambled taurus, yolk, toyota yok yolks wagon.

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Speaker 4: What do you call a cow or sorry? What is

766
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Speaker 4: a cow without a map?

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Speaker 1: Lost? Cow? Lost? Cattle lost, b floped catalyst catalogue? Wait,

768
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Speaker 1: a cow without a map?

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Speaker 5: A cow without a map, it's got to be something lost,

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Speaker 5: utterly lost.

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Speaker 1: We don't respect that joke. That was not good, no

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Speaker 1: respect for.

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Speaker 4: And it's got to be something with loss.

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Speaker 1: Over the word boom, no respect. Okay, that's good. You

775
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: gotta respect that.

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Speaker 2: You got.

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Speaker 4: You got blue cheese, brownie and yolkswagens.

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Speaker 5: All right, I did like you would have gotten utterly,

779
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 5: no chance, no chance more than whatever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no respect back again. Okay, good job Bobby Bone

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Speaker 1: Show Today.

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Speaker 6: This story comes us from Buffalo, New York. A twenty

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Speaker 6: nine year old man was waiting for his flight. It's

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Speaker 6: one am, there's not a lot of people at the airport.

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Speaker 6: He's had a few drinks, and he sees one of

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Speaker 6: those golf carts that they drive people, you know, beep

787
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Speaker 6: beep coming through.

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Speaker 1: He's like, keys are in it.

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Speaker 6: Let me go ahead and drive that around the airport,

790
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 6: goes on the moving walkways and he crashes it and

791
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Speaker 6: gets arrested.

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Speaker 1: As is it. I would think that would be something

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't leave the keys in, just because there are

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Speaker 1: so many people walking around and so many of them

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Speaker 1: are drunk, and you can see those keys in because

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Speaker 1: it's open the cop car. You should't mess with. You

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Speaker 1: shoudn't even look inside of him. No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: But I would think you wouldn't leave the keys in

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Speaker 1: that in airport.

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Speaker 4: I know you would think though at one am maybe

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Speaker 4: they were.

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Speaker 1: Like especially one am though everbody's drunk or sleepy, it's

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Speaker 1: fairly empty or sleepy. Okay, I'm Lunchbox. That's your bonehead

804
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Speaker 1: story of the day. I'm not trying to bore everybody

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Speaker 1: with retirement talk, and I don't know that I will

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Speaker 1: ever actually retire. But mostly it's become a bit because

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Speaker 1: Eddie and Lunchbox always talk about wanting to retire yet

808
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 1: haven't done anything about it.

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Speaker 8: Gosh, I can't wait?

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Speaker 1: Which the problem? Which is the problem because you're not

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Speaker 1: doing anything and our listeners think that it's a bit

812
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Speaker 1: as far as we're just making up a story, but

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Speaker 1: it's absolutely true.

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Speaker 8: No, it's not a bit.

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Speaker 1: We're doing it as a bit, but it's true.

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Speaker 8: It's true. Like I don't have money to put into

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Speaker 8: a four oh one k right now in my life.

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Speaker 4: You made the money.

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Speaker 1: Do you think you're the poorest person than ever in

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Speaker 1: history of the world. Do you think there are people

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Speaker 1: that have more kids and less money that put money back.

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Speaker 1: I just asking because.

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Speaker 8: Yes, but my wife is in control of our finances,

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Speaker 8: and I've run this buyer hundreds of times. She says

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Speaker 8: this right now is not the time.

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Speaker 1: Great, I'm gonna present you with some more information. Uh,

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Speaker 1: Americans think they need to have blank set aside for retirement.

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Speaker 1: How much do you think Lunchbox? Did Americans think they

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Speaker 1: need to have set aside for retirement?

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Speaker 6: Two million?

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's way higher. So yeah, I thought it was

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Speaker 1: gonna blow you guys away. It's not. It's not going

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Speaker 1: to one point two million.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, Lunchbox is once an island, and we

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Speaker 4: need I.

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Speaker 3: Want to live.

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Speaker 6: I want to live a life of luxury, so I

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Speaker 6: don't want to be scraping by when I retire.

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Speaker 1: So I think you have to be a multi millionaire

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Speaker 1: to be able to retire.

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Speaker 8: So I don't care about that.

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Speaker 1: This is average Americans, So this is not being a multimillionaire.

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Speaker 1: So the whole I thought one point two million was

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Speaker 1: a crazy high number. It is a high number as

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Speaker 1: far as like you have to have that much saved up.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, because I'm thinking, like I just need enough to

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Speaker 8: go to McDonald's, you know, a few times a day

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Speaker 8: and five times a day, and pay for my tea

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Speaker 8: times and that's it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta pay electric bills?

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Speaker 8: Well yeah, yeah, but I figured by that, by that age,

852
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:13,439
Speaker 8: I should have like my house is already paid off

853
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 8: and it's my kids are out, so to my wife

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Speaker 8: to turn all the lights off and we're not in

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Speaker 8: the room.

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Speaker 1: It leaves a lot of people feeling doubtful they'll have

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Speaker 1: enough save to retire, but experts say it's still possible

858
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Speaker 1: to build a more secure financial future by taking the

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00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 1: right steps. This is from go Banking Rate. So I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna recommend what they're saying. Number One, enroll in your

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Speaker 1: employer's retirement savings plan. You can still do that. That's

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Speaker 1: number one. Yeah, you can still do that right now,

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Speaker 1: and it's taken out before your checks taxed.

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Speaker 8: You know, I heard a guy talk about how like

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Speaker 8: the taxes are going to be higher when you're sixty

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Speaker 8: or seventy years old, and so your tax is gonna

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Speaker 8: be You're gonna be taxed way more than you would

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Speaker 8: ever be taxed if you saved your money just in

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Speaker 8: something else.

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Speaker 1: What you just said makes no sense. I don't know.

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Speaker 8: You just said, well, I'm the guy on TikTok said it, dude,

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Speaker 8: you're really he said, basically, whatever, like you're you put

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Speaker 8: your money in the account now, right and you can't

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Speaker 8: take it out until you're sixty five. You can there's

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Speaker 8: a penalty where there's a penalty, right, so you wait

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Speaker 8: till you're sixty five years old to take it out

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Speaker 8: or whatever the age is. But whatever the taxes are

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Speaker 8: at that point, like whatever the government taxes for income,

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Speaker 8: that's what the number.

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Speaker 3: Is going to be.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't know what the tax is going to be.

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Speaker 8: He's he's assuming it's going to be higher than he

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Speaker 8: is now.

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Speaker 1: He's assuming and projecting with direct which okay, don't believe

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Speaker 1: people on TikTok when you so.

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Speaker 8: Now, my algorithm is feeding to me like, do not

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Speaker 8: put your money in a four oh one k.

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Speaker 1: Uh, they say, look to catch up on contributions to

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Speaker 1: IRA four to one k plans. They say, check into

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Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Oh if you're not gonna do put

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Speaker 1: one to two percent of your salary in retirement one

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Speaker 1: percent even one percent one to two okay, And if

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Speaker 1: you get a bonus or raise, put half of that

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Speaker 1: extra money towards retirement.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I feel like talking to them is

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Speaker 5: just like Geddy's over there, he's like one percent.

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Speaker 4: No, Eddie.

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Speaker 5: But if you just have yourself to do it, then

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Speaker 5: you find other ways or like you could I just

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Speaker 5: recently learned about a checking account that gives you a

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Speaker 5: high earning one like four percent.

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Speaker 4: So I move some stuff over there, and that's going

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Speaker 4: to make me more money than whole thing else.

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Speaker 6: Tells where you got that.

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Speaker 8: I want to do that.

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Speaker 1: Give me that.

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Speaker 8: I want to do it right now.

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Speaker 5: Let me ask you if you if you find the

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00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 5: one percent from your paycheck, you'll do it.

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Speaker 4: Do I get a finder's fee?

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Speaker 8: You're pro bono?

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Speaker 1: Okay? So my only point with this whole thing is

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Speaker 1: you guys keep waiting and you're like, well, I can't

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Speaker 1: do it, but it's going to be time to retire.

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Speaker 1: When you actually think you can't do it, you're not

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Speaker 1: gonna have any money.

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Speaker 4: How about this, guys, you give me your money and

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Speaker 4: all put.

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Speaker 8: It in the checking Risky she'll lose it.

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Speaker 1: You sound like made off, Hey, but some people made

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Speaker 1: a lot of money with made off maybe because you

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Speaker 1: had to pay some of them can make it look successful.

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Speaker 4: I forget about them.

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Speaker 1: Some people did it awesome, really, yeah it was. You

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Speaker 1: just never wanted to be one of the last ones in. Like,

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Speaker 1: if you got any and you're in for a while,

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Speaker 1: he starts to pay you back some. But there's the

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Speaker 1: new people coming in, he would keep their money. You

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Speaker 1: always wanted to be the next one up. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: good luck with your money.

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Speaker 8: Okay, Amy, we'll talk after the show.

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Speaker 1: Here's a voicemail from Lindsay in California.

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Speaker 7: I have a question for the room.

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Speaker 9: Do you guys believe that cheating is a non negotiable

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Speaker 9: as in that is something you'll never be able to

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Speaker 9: get over or it's something that you are able to

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Speaker 9: get over and stay together.

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys. No, I guess I would wonder does she

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Speaker 1: mean in our relationships or do we mean that? Because

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Speaker 1: I would say nothing is a non negotiable unless it's negotiated.

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Speaker 1: Like some couples, I mean they've cheated, and they've they're

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Speaker 1: happier now because they learned why the marriage or the

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Speaker 1: relationship wasn't successful. Like they've been able to address the issues.

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Speaker 1: There's been a lot of pain, obviously, but they've been

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Speaker 1: able to work through things that probably they would have

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Speaker 1: never worked through had the really hard thing not happened.

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Speaker 1: So I think every circumstance is different. So I don't

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Speaker 1: think cheating is just generally a non negotiable. I think

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Speaker 1: it sucks. I think for me it's easy for me

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Speaker 1: to go, yeah, it is, and then if it happens,

951
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Speaker 1: you're like, well, and now I have to address this.

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Speaker 1: So I would say nothing is a non negotiable. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm just blanket statement in it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not a black and white I think for

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Speaker 5: so many people it's great, like you said, until you're

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Speaker 5: in it, then you know how you're going to handle it.

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Speaker 5: But some people they might be like, out front, hey,

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Speaker 5: this is a non negotiable anyway it happens, or like

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Speaker 5: peace out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some people could be like that, And some people

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Speaker 1: may say that out front and be like, no, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, let's walk through exactly. I've just seen it

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Speaker 1: happen in so many ways where yes, many of them

964
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Speaker 1: have been like they cheated, I'm out, some of them

965
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Speaker 1: have been like, let's work through it. They don't get

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Speaker 1: all the way through it. And some have been like, well,

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Speaker 1: let's address instead of addressing the symptoms, let's address the

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Speaker 1: actual problem. And they do and they're actually happier because

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Speaker 1: of it. So I think it's not a one size

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Speaker 1: fit all. But yeah, sure, I'll say that now non negotiable.

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Speaker 1: I don't negotiate it with cheaters or terrorists think they

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Speaker 1: don't negotiate with cheeters are terrorists? Thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: You can leave us a voicemail anytime. Eight seven seven

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Speaker 1: seventy seven, Bobby, that's our number. Eight seven seven seventy

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Speaker 1: seven b O, B B Y. We appreciate you guys

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Speaker 1: being here. Bailey Zimmerman will be on the show tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: We are excited about that. We'll see you tomorrow. Bye, everybody.

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Speaker 1: The Bobby Ball Show The Bobby Bones Show theme song written,

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