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Speaker 2: Shane is on the phone today for our first Date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Carolina.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and
Speaker 2: see if she tell us why she's ghosting him and
Speaker 2: maybe get him another date.
Speaker 1: But first, Shane, how long has it been since you
Speaker 1: heard from her?
Speaker 3: It's been probably like three weeks.
Speaker 1: Okay. Have you reached out to her in.
Speaker 3: That time, Yeah, like maybe four or five times.
Speaker 1: That is a definite ghosting.
Speaker 4: So I don't think that's why he's us tell him
Speaker 4: that he knows.
Speaker 1: Tell us about your day. I'm sorry, Shane.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So I actually met her on Instagram.
Speaker 5: She just slid my DMS and apparently we had gone
Speaker 5: to the same college together, but I didn't know where while
Speaker 5: we were both there. But we chatted for probably a
Speaker 5: few weeks, and then we met up at this bar.
Speaker 5: It had arcade games in it. We played Papa Sean
Speaker 5: ski ball and.
Speaker 3: It was cute. What really attracted me to her was
Speaker 3: that she was competitive about it. You know, I love
Speaker 3: that and a girl. But we did that had some drinks,
Speaker 3: had some snacks, and it was a great time, like
Speaker 3: a lot of flirting, a lot of touching going on.
Speaker 3: We talked endlessly, we laughed like it really seemed like
Speaker 3: perfect date. Yeah, I mean, the only thing that I can.
Speaker 5: Think of is that we both uber there and then
Speaker 5: after the day we both went in our respective ubers.
Speaker 3: Now, but before that.
Speaker 6: She pulled me into the alley and we made out
Speaker 6: like pretty intensely, and it escalated into like this weird
Speaker 6: dirty talk.
Speaker 3: I mean, she told me to tell her that.
Speaker 5: I was a piece o what she Yeah, she made
Speaker 5: me do this little strip tease and she was filming this.
Speaker 1: And you were okay with that.
Speaker 3: It was weird, but something about it was kind of hot,
Speaker 3: like I was kind of into it.
Speaker 5: She kept asking me if I wanted more, and obviously
Speaker 5: I said yes, and then on a dime, it just
Speaker 5: completely stopped because.
Speaker 1: Your cars came or just all of a sudden, She's like, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm done now.
Speaker 5: No, It's like the switch was just turned off, and
Speaker 5: she thanked me for the night. She gave me one
Speaker 5: more kiss, and then she asked me if I knew
Speaker 5: what I did, and I didn't know how to answer that.
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know if it was some kind
Speaker 5: of like kinky build up thing.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but that was it.
Speaker 2: I mean, that was the that was the last time
Speaker 2: I talked to her, So, you know, you did something,
Speaker 2: he did a strip tease.
Speaker 1: Maybe I did something to her. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I have no idea. It was so bizarre.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, and you've texted her and she said nothing
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely nothing.
Speaker 1: I was just so invested.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, what what was like the last thing you
Speaker 2: did before she just stopped.
Speaker 5: I mean I think I just you know, say, I
Speaker 5: like to see her again, and I had a great time.
Speaker 5: You had the usual end of day small talk.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean like when you were like a
Speaker 2: naughty little boy well transition, Yeah, Like was there something
Speaker 2: that you did when she was like, okay, I'm done.
Speaker 1: Like pull your pants up, brokelay.
Speaker 5: No, the way that she actually it didn't seem where
Speaker 5: she was reacting to something that I did.
Speaker 3: It just all of a sudden, she just stopped. I
Speaker 3: really have no idea why.
Speaker 4: I mean, maybe she just like got it, you know
Speaker 4: what I mean, maybe she's done well. Some people get
Speaker 4: off on different things. Like maybe that was her moment.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: We'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her
Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
Speaker 2: and get you another day of his.
Speaker 3: Went okay, awesome, thank you guys.
Speaker 2: All right, well, pleas I'll come back get your first
Speaker 2: day follow up next. Right in the middle of your
Speaker 2: first date follow up if you're just joining us, Shane
Speaker 2: is on the phone and Shane is getting ghosted by Carolina.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if just
Speaker 2: als why she's ghosting and maybe get him another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Shane, why don't you catch everybody up on
Speaker 2: your date with Carolina?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: So in our on Instagram we went out, had a
Speaker 5: great time in ArKade bar. Afterwards she had me do
Speaker 5: like this weird kinky stuff in the alley and I
Speaker 5: was pretty into it. And then she just suddenly stopped
Speaker 5: and I have not heard from her since.
Speaker 1: Okay, are you ready for us to call her? I
Speaker 1: i'd want to know what I'm ready? Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: here we go. She will still laugh. Sorry.
Speaker 2: Hi, Hey, hey, hey, is this Carolina? H Yeah, this
Speaker 2: is the Jewbil Show. It's a radio show. My name
Speaker 2: is Jubal. How are you hi?
Speaker 1: I am Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6: Hi.
Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show?
Speaker 7: I do?
Speaker 3: Actually? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do you have any idea why we're calling you today?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 3: Not really?
Speaker 1: Okay? Have you heard a first date follow up before? Oh?
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, well.
Speaker 2: That's why we're calling you. We got an email about
Speaker 2: you from somebody that you're ghosting.
Speaker 7: Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: His name is Shane.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Really yeah, Shane emailed us and told us about your date.
Speaker 2: And he said it's been three weeks since he heard
Speaker 2: from you, and he wants to know if you'll tell
Speaker 2: us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, I'm ghosting him because I I got what
Speaker 7: I want from him. It wasn't Oh my god, I
Speaker 7: can't believe you actually called it. Guys. It wasn't it like,
Speaker 7: was not a real date.
Speaker 1: Fore, it wasn't a real date. What does that mean?
Speaker 7: Okay? So I was literally just on Instagram. You probably
Speaker 7: told you that that's how we met. But I was
Speaker 7: scrolling and I saw him and I recognized him because
Speaker 7: he screwed over my sister in college.
Speaker 1: Oh how so.
Speaker 7: My older sister, Elena and him were together and He
Speaker 7: was a total just sleeping with anything that moved, just
Speaker 7: mind her, making empty promises and all this crap. And
Speaker 7: she was so, oh my god, I've never seen her
Speaker 7: more heartbroken. It was ridiculous.
Speaker 1: This was in college.
Speaker 2: Mm hm, So you saw him on Instagram and set
Speaker 2: up a date with him to get revenge?
Speaker 4: Yes, Oh, he never met you when he was dating
Speaker 4: your sister, Like he had no clue who you were.
Speaker 7: No, no, I said that. I told him that we
Speaker 7: went to college together. He just went to college with
Speaker 7: my sister. And I wasn't even like in the picture.
Speaker 7: But I mean, you believed it. I guess he believed
Speaker 7: what he wanted to believe, that a girl would want
Speaker 7: to go out with him.
Speaker 1: And girl, okay, does your sister know that you did this?
Speaker 7: She knows now, she didn't know before the fact, but
Speaker 7: I wanted to give it to her his kind of
Speaker 7: like a surprise because she's like fine now, I mean
Speaker 7: she's over him because he's garbage. But I and I
Speaker 7: wasn't even thinking about it. I just saw him on
Speaker 7: Instagram and I was like, oh my god, I have
Speaker 7: to do this.
Speaker 2: So is that why you filmed him doing all kinds
Speaker 2: of weird things in an alley and I was.
Speaker 4: Like, which part is revenge? Because it sounded kind of hot.
Speaker 7: He definitely seemed to think that it was because he
Speaker 7: was really into it, but I that was for Yeah,
Speaker 7: that was really wrench. I showed my sister the video, Fanny.
Speaker 7: We were cracking up about it. It was so freaking funny.
Speaker 7: Mm hmmm, and him saying I wanted to make sure
Speaker 7: that I made him say that he's a pie.
Speaker 1: He thought that that was okay. He thought you were like,
Speaker 1: you know, that was your thing?
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I was like degrading him or whatever.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Well for anything, the next time someone pulls
Speaker 2: out their cell phone and an alley and wants to
Speaker 2: film me doing weird things, I'm gonna question it twice.
Speaker 7: He made it so easy.
Speaker 1: He made it so easy.
Speaker 2: Thank you for being honest with us, Caroline. Shane is
Speaker 2: actually on the phone listening and wants.
Speaker 1: To talk to you.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, seriously, Honestly, I can't believe when I'm hearing.
Speaker 3: Are you serious?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: It's uh.
Speaker 7: After I like, you just not really want to talk
Speaker 7: after what you did to my sister. This is just
Speaker 7: like if you heard someone I love like like.
Speaker 3: Seriously, that was years ago. You are seriously crazy for doing.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, You're the one who would do whatever
Speaker 7: a girl tells you in an alley, So I don't
Speaker 7: really know whether you talk.
Speaker 3: I was in college, Like, I'm a completely different person now.
Speaker 5: Are absolutely psychotic? Okay, seriously, you're gonna record me like that?
Speaker 5: Who else has seen this video?
Speaker 3: Just oh my god?
Speaker 7: Literally, just me and my sister calmed down?
Speaker 3: Why should I believe you? No, honestly, Carolin, I should
Speaker 3: get a warrior.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, oh my god. Please, they're always overreacting,
Speaker 7: literally like, kill the f out?
Speaker 3: What do you? You don't even know me? No, I
Speaker 3: know what you're like, I know you out. How should
Speaker 3: I react to this?
Speaker 7: I mean, this is insane. I don't know. It's containing
Speaker 7: what you did to my sister. You don't cheat people.
Speaker 3: Like that, you have no like, Oh my god, absolutely ever.
Speaker 7: Man, it's just carm and it's just coming back around.
Speaker 5: You just can't handle it, don't do Yeah, sure, sure
Speaker 5: you're real.
Speaker 3: I really missed out.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I guess you did. You're having fun.
Speaker 7: You're the one who did all who was so willing
Speaker 7: to do all the stuff in the alley with me,
Speaker 7: like you didn't take anything.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I thought I was on a real bait
Speaker 5: and it turns on you're doing to.
Speaker 3: Revenge on me. This's just absolutely crazy.
Speaker 7: Whatever. You just can't you just can't take it. Don't
Speaker 7: dish it happen if you can't take it. Look, Oh
Speaker 7: my god, I'm gonna delete it anyway. I already said
Speaker 7: my sister, and I'm gonna delete it after I show
Speaker 7: one of my coworkers. Reason.
Speaker 3: You'll be hearing from me, Okay, advice about this. I'm serious.
Speaker 3: I'm dead serious.
Speaker 7: Okay, I'll hear from you on Instagram.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can do anything, though, what does he say?
Speaker 4: I willingly did a see and now it's public. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Shane. I know that sucks on both sides.
Speaker 4: I don't know what to say.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, I guess I want to leave the video.
Speaker 7: Then I'll just pulled onto it and caase I need
Speaker 7: to show it in court, and I'll just entertain me
Speaker 7: until then.
Speaker 3: Yike.
Speaker 1: Well, Caroline, would you like another date with Shane? We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it.
Speaker 7: If you're paying for it, I'll just record him doing
Speaker 7: more stupid stuff. That's find me.
Speaker 3: You're gonna hear from my lawyer. Okay, cool, you know what,
Speaker 3: I'm glad I cheated on your sister.
Speaker 1: Second date for you guys, yeah nobody in Hell?
Speaker 7: Yeah I don't think so. He obviously doesn't learn from
Speaker 7: his mistakes, all right them? Bye? Then Stripper Boy First
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