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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: When it comes to Brook, I'm pretty confident. I'm like

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Speaker 3: ninety nine percent sure she loves her husband.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it should be one. I love him so much.

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Speaker 4: We are on such a good moment too. Write in

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Speaker 4: our marriage right now. It's just going great.

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Speaker 3: Everybody brags about how good their relationship is going when

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Speaker 3: it's going that well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but if I'm being.

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Speaker 3: Honest, I think Brooke can come off a little bit

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Speaker 3: clingy with him.

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Speaker 4: With my own husband, I.

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Speaker 3: Heard that after they got married, Brooke wanted to spend

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Speaker 3: the entire honeymoon with him.

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Speaker 1: Every day.

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Speaker 3: You can sit next to him on the plane both ways.

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Speaker 4: Well, since I was the one that booked the tickets,

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Speaker 4: you better believe that happens.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, it's a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Is that too much for you?

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Speaker 1: It's like a barnacle on the side of the boat.

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Speaker 3: And one of our listeners know a little bit about

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Speaker 3: having a girlfriend who's very, very attached, which is why

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Speaker 3: he's emailed the show for help. His name is Daniel,

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Speaker 3: So Daniel, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: Daniel.

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Speaker 4: I was going to be on your side. But that

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Speaker 4: set up. Really he has set me off from Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Well we honestly, I don't know anything about your relationship.

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Speaker 3: You just said in your email. She's a little attached

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Speaker 3: to tell us about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So my girlfriend, Courtney, we've been together a little over

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Speaker 5: two months.

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh, new new relationship, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Very new. I mean everything else is wonderful. She's very attentive,

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Speaker 5: like great communicator. It's just this like one specific thing

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Speaker 5: that I want to her to nip in the bud.

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Speaker 1: It's the one bad.

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Speaker 4: Thing, you know what he wants a perfect relationship. I'm

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Speaker 4: actually backing jose on that relation.

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Speaker 1: Well what's here? What is what is the one problem?

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Speaker 6: Is it?

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Speaker 1: Again? She cheats on me every day? What is it?

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Speaker 5: The one thing is she's super jealous. Yeah, it's like

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Speaker 5: a little over the top kind of jealousy, Like you know,

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Speaker 5: if we're ever out in public and if I'm even

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Speaker 5: noticing another woman going down the way or whatever, like

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Speaker 5: she gets upset, she calls me out.

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Speaker 1: Jealousy is normal, but a lot is not.

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Speaker 7: I don't know that you can fix that, Like, I

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Speaker 7: think only time fixes that, doesn't therapy y.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I mean generally to a degree. I like it,

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Speaker 5: you like, it's just a little bit of possessiveness. We

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Speaker 5: sort of had this nightmare at the barber's the other week,

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Speaker 5: and and that's I sort of want to like.

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Speaker 4: She went with you to the barbershop?

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Speaker 5: No, no, she I told her I was getting the haircut,

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Speaker 5: and she said, who's cutting your hair? And I said,

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Speaker 5: I don't know, Like it's you know, there's one three

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Speaker 5: people there, and she's like, well, is it guy ors

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Speaker 5: a girl? And then she insisted she wanted me to

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Speaker 5: video chat the whole like haircut, and I'm like, all right, sure,

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Speaker 5: whatever is this?

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Speaker 3: You video chat with your husband like all day long,

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Speaker 7: Well, no, that's just because he can't find the kid's

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Speaker 4: It's not because I'm worried about who he's with.

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Speaker 3: But right, okay, sure it's his fault that you're answering

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Speaker 3: the phone with you. If someone's like, show me your phone,

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Speaker 3: where are you, it is easier to just be like,

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Speaker 3: I have nothing to hide, Go ahead, right, So I

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Speaker 3: feel you on that, bro.

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Speaker 5: Like sure, yeah, yeah. So I'm like, it didn't seem

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Speaker 5: like it didn't put me out. I didn't care if

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Speaker 5: she watches me get a haircut. You know, it's like

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Speaker 5: you said, I got nothing to hide.

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Speaker 1: It can be a good bonding experience, even.

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Speaker 4: Not awkward for the barber at all.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so what happened?

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Speaker 5: So sit down at the haircut. She watched the whole thing.

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Speaker 5: I get home, and then she starts cussing me out,

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Speaker 5: trying to explain, like, look, I had a normal conversation

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Speaker 4: Thought you said this was just a small thing you

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Speaker 3: And by the way, at the French barbers, they do

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Speaker 3: make you kiss.

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Speaker 1: She should know that.

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Speaker 7: You said, you got home. You don't live together, do

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: No, no, she was just coming over for dinner that

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Speaker 5: night and we were going to hang out. That's all.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she has a key.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So the barber incident caused a huge fight between

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Speaker 3: you two. What's the status of the relationship right now.

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Speaker 5: I mean, we're still together, but it's just a little

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Speaker 5: awkward right now because like it's this point of contention

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Speaker 5: and I'm trying to let her know that nothing was happening.

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Speaker 7: Can you actually see a future with a person that

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Speaker 7: has this big issue assurance with jealousy?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like I said, everything else, I'm super happy with.

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Speaker 5: I just sort of want to deal with this.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 7: So we have all been in relationships where we needed

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Speaker 5: It's like this one thing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're not asking us to fix your entire relationship.

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Speaker 3: You're just asking us for help navigating through this one

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Speaker 3: particular fight that you're having with your girlfriend where she

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Speaker 3: got super jealous about you and the bar good question,

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Speaker 3: And are we calling the barber right now?

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Speaker 1: Back off?

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Speaker 5: I think trying to walk her through the fight, the

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Speaker 5: I wasn't doing anything.

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Speaker 7: There's no like, So you want to call your girlfriend

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Speaker 5: I mean it's really I just want to get closure

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Speaker 5: with the whole barber incident thing sort of keeps bringing up.

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Speaker 4: You know, okay, justice barber fight. We wanted to how much.

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Speaker 1: You want to bet she's going to be cutting his hair? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's solution. Orient about barber.

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Speaker 3: We've already got a lot of killer ideas for you here,

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Speaker 3: so we're gonna come back and give you our golden

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Speaker 3: advice for how to squash this fight that you're having

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Speaker 3: phone call right after this.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Jealousy.

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Speaker 3: Is it ever good in a relationship to be jealous?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: A little bit.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm gonna go know.

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Speaker 1: Jose is right.

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Speaker 3: According to Google, it's totally normal to feel a little

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Speaker 3: bit jealous when you're dating somebody or good. It can

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Speaker 3: become a hell fee if it's left unchecked for too long.

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Speaker 3: And that's where we come in today because we're giving

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Speaker 3: advice to our listener Daniel, since he is in a

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Speaker 3: him video chat during his haircut with a female stylist.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: When when he got home, a big.

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Speaker 3: Fight ensued because she accused him of flirting with the stylist.

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Speaker 7: Apparently there's a lot of cuss words flying around as well.

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Speaker 3: The thing is, we need to give him some advice

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Speaker 3: that they have going on. So, Jose, what's your advice

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Speaker 3: to help him get past this fight. I've had disagreements

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Speaker 4: That's a good start, Jose. I always like to hear that, yeah,

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Speaker 4: she thinks he flirted, So say, yes, he did flirt.

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Speaker 1: Maybe if it helps you get out of this one situation.

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Speaker 3: What do you think Daniel willing to fall on your

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I guess that's like if you think that'll satisfy

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Speaker 5: he and then she'll drop it. I mean, die.

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Speaker 3: I think it's very disarming when a woman hears that

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Speaker 3: you were right. They don't know how to respond. Even

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Alexis were taken aback by it. But Brook,

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Speaker 3: what's your advice.

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Speaker 4: Here's the thing, this is like the canary in the mine.

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Speaker 8: Right right, because like, sure, you think that this is

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Speaker 4: This is a huge issue.

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Speaker 7: And it is going to keep coming up again and

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Speaker 4: It's very hopeful, Brooke keep going.

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Speaker 3: I just say, like Brooke, he's asking not how to

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Speaker 3: fix his entire relationship. This isn't a like relationship therapy says.

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Speaker 7: They would send the canary in the mind to see

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Speaker 7: if there's poisonous gas down there, that the canary died,

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Speaker 7: then they shouldn't go in.

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Speaker 3: Well, you got to go to the pet shop, apparently, Daniel,

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Speaker 3: buy a canary and go to a mine with your girlfriend.

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Speaker 8: That sounds complicated, but yeah, I don't If anything else,

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Speaker 8: we can jump in and help to reason with her

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Speaker 8: some after your conversation.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that sounds like that'll help. Yeah. Cool.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're all in your corner.

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Speaker 3: Man, I'm gonna dial your girlfriend and let you make

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Speaker 5: This open the mind.

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Speaker 2: Gets here we go, Hello, hey babe, how are you doing?

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Speaker 6: What do you want?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I just I just want to see how

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Speaker 5: left the kind of weird last night. So okay, well

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Speaker 5: you made it weird. So look I saw more about

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Speaker 5: what you said. You know, I think maybe you know

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Speaker 5: you know you're right?

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Speaker 6: What you admit you were flirting?

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Speaker 5: Well it like it definitely wasn't on purpose, but like

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Speaker 5: maybe maybe across some kind of line I wasn't aware of,

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Speaker 5: Like I you know, I certainly didn't mean to do whatever.

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Speaker 2: But I you know that you were faithful?

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Speaker 5: What well wait? What?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 5: No, I wasn't faithful?

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Speaker 6: Like okay, okay, what what's this call even about? Like

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Speaker 6: you you let her touch your hair?

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Speaker 5: But yeah, like that that's her job.

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Speaker 2: She's a barber, babe, you didn't have to let her

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Speaker 5: Wait what oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Yeah you can request no touching?

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Speaker 5: Wait how wait? Wait? How does she cut the hair

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Speaker 5: without touch I don't, like, I don't even know how

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Speaker 5: that would work. Like how do you?

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Like you don't have to Okay, from

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Speaker 6: now on, only guy, just only a male barber, Like

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Speaker 6: I don't trust her the second I saw her, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I just don't.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean whatever, I'll I'll ask for a guy

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Speaker 5: to cut my hair. I don't care to touch my.

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Speaker 6: Hair as long as and you know what you like

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Speaker 6: FaceTime and his flirt while I'm on the call like watching.

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Speaker 5: No, like so weird, Like look, I said, like I

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Speaker 5: I might have flirted, but I didn't intended like I'm sorry,

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Speaker 5: I'm not like lapping at.

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Speaker 6: Her and you were like saying you liked her hair,

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Speaker 2: Like like whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 5: I'm like shaking right now?

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Speaker 6: Are you like some sort of like sick pervert whoa whoa.

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Speaker 5: In front of you, like babe, look like sorry, it's

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Speaker 5: it's feeling more and more like I can't talk to

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Speaker 5: if I can't talk to like any other person out

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Speaker 5: there in the world that isn't a guy.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, so you want another relationship with a healthier woman.

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Speaker 5: No, that's not what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 5: Well, if you're okay, if you're so.

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Speaker 6: Desperate for female attention and a companion, then like talk

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Speaker 6: to your mom, you know, but who knows you're probably

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, mom. Well, I mean it can sometimes

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Speaker 4: This is so out of control.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what is this a courtney?

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Speaker 6: Why do I hear a bunch of women's voices right now?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's it's like.

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Speaker 6: The way you're breaking up with me, because it's like

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Speaker 6: it's this guy.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, one's breaking up with anybody.

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Speaker 3: You're on a very fun, lighthearted radio show called Brooke

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Speaker 1: You know it had its moments.

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Speaker 6: I don't want anything.

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Speaker 5: Why am I part of this?

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Speaker 4: Well, because you're a little difficult to talk to.

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, it's true.

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Speaker 6: You don't even know Daniel, Like you don't even know

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Speaker 6: what I've been going.

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Speaker 2: Through with Daniel.

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Speaker 3: We you are right, we don't know anything about you

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Speaker 3: and your relationship with Daniel.

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Speaker 5: We know a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Daniel came to us asking for a little bit of

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Speaker 1: I don't well, sorry, that was the strong word. He

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Speaker 4: He had like such lovely things to say about who

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Speaker 1: He really cares about you.

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Speaker 3: And the fight that you guys were in about the

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Speaker 6: It's hard to play other than if you were like

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Speaker 6: it's really.

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Speaker 1: It's because Daniel's a sexy man.

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Speaker 3: Daniel is a very very sexy gentleman, and I'm sure

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Speaker 3: it's very difficult parading around with such a hunk all

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Speaker 6: That's not even I mean, honestly, my grandma always said, like,

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Speaker 6: Like be careful.

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Speaker 5: Because okay, so we all.

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Speaker 1: Agree the problem is Daniel's hot mess. I could just,

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Speaker 5: Just stop going to the gym and start eating lots

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Speaker 5: of pizza and like maybe pull.

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Speaker 1: Out a few teeth. Yes you can.

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Speaker 7: I think more importantly, you should say, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: That's that's all I'm trying to do. I just I

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Speaker 5: like I want you to like feel okay with that,

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Speaker 5: and like I'm doing everything I can to show you that.

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Speaker 3: He literally called a radio show because the relationship is

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Speaker 3: that important. He's desperate to fix things with you and

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Speaker 3: and we're, yeah, we're that's radio. That's a very generous

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Speaker 6: So I think it's talk to me, like, I don't

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Speaker 6: understand why they just talk to me.

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Speaker 5: Like we were talking and then like the fight happened.

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Speaker 1: Let's not go back to blaming. Who's the reason why

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Speaker 1: it was weird.

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Speaker 6: Because you were like standing up for her.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but you just ended the last conversation you had

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Speaker 4: With his mom.

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Speaker 1: So it's not a bad idea.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know that you're hearing what he

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Speaker 5: I just like this, Okay, do you have to go

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Speaker 2: I don't He doesn't have to do that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't care. I don't care about the part

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Speaker 5: work all right.

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Speaker 3: So we're almost out of time, and we are getting

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Speaker 1: But Courtney, honestly, if you could put.

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Speaker 3: Yourself in Daniel's shoes for a second, it sounds like

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Speaker 3: he's scared to do anything right now because he just

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Speaker 3: doesn't want you to feel uncomfortable, and that puts a

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Speaker 3: lot of stress on him to constantly have to track

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Speaker 3: I would just give him a little bit of grace,

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Speaker 3: actually see he is very, very loyal, So I would

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Speaker 3: give it a chance. And Brook, do you have any

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Speaker 3: last words for the happy couple? Hopefully nothing related to

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Speaker 3: coal mine canaries.

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Speaker 1: Give us a canary.

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Speaker 4: Quote like the canary died a long time ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we've upgraded to a parent.

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Speaker 4: Good luck had some therapy.

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Speaker 1: Maybe keep us updatated. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.