1 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 1: What's that at the bend. It's spookyoky. I'm pretty sure 2 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: it's dead. It's coming this way. 3 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, I said. 4 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: Tyrone's jenss Hey boo, it's me Roz. I had on 5 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: the show today Jen Kirkman, who is a writer comedian. 6 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: If you watch the show Chelsea Lately, she was on 7 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: a ton and you know she worked on as a 8 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: writer on The Marvelous Missus masl and she's done a 9 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: couple of Netflix specials, which is fun binging if you're 10 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: spending more time inside as we all are. But I 11 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: I love Jen Kirkman and she cracks me up because, 12 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: as you'll hear in this conversation, it's like, does she 13 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: believe in ghosts? Does she not? We explore that, but 14 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: she certainly seems to have had some experiences that cannot 15 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: be explained. And I had one recently too. Now, if 16 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: you're subscribed to my Patreon Patreon dot com slash hires 17 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: Dress Flees, then you may have seen a video I 18 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: posted last week where I went to the abandon the 19 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: old La zoo of Griffith Park, which is like, it's 20 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: so cool, it's so unique to La. It's like these 21 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: old I guess they were polar bear enclosures that now 22 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: are still standing, but people just like have picnics there, 23 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: and then people talk about how it's like also super 24 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: haunted for a variety of reasons. Some people say there's 25 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: animal ghosts, some people say there's human ghosts. Well, I 26 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: went in there and I was recording a little bit, 27 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: and I heard like a whisper right next to the camera, 28 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: and so I put that video up and I showed 29 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: it to a couple of friends and they're like, yeah, 30 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: that's kind of weird. If there really wasn't anyone in 31 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: there with you, it sounds like an EVP. So now 32 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, the tables have turned honey. Now I'm like 33 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: one of the EVP people. So go give it a go, 34 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: give it a watch, and tell me what you hear. 35 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: It might it might just be an ev police. I 36 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: don't know, but either way, I thought it was kind 37 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: of interesting. I also had that wonderful episode that you've 38 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: heard last week if you're on a Patreon again Patreon 39 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,679 Speaker 1: dot com slash ros dressfulst. I had on my dear dear, 40 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: dear dear friend Johnny Reinhart, who is a Hollywood drag 41 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 1: queen and incredible performer and singer, and you know, we're very, 42 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: very close and we've had a lot of experiences together, 43 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: many experiences that were paranormal that I encountered but Johnny 44 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: did not encounter. And we talked about that. And Johnny 45 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: was my friend that was with me when I stayed 46 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: at the Haunted Bed and Breakfast, like last fall, I 47 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: talked about it on the podcast. We went to this 48 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: Haunted Bed and Breakfast, we had some experiences. I made 49 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 1: Johnny leave in the middle of the night with me 50 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: and we drove all the way home a couple of hours, 51 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: and so I had Johnny on and we talked about 52 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: her side of the story, and we also talked about 53 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: the time we went to the Queen Mary and we 54 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: listened to some EVPs. It's like a full it's practical. 55 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: I mean, it's like basically a full episode of this 56 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: show that you can get since you didn't hear me 57 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: on this main feed last week, and again, I'll be 58 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: doing that for the holidays. I'll be doing that for 59 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: New Year's Eve and Christmas Eve. I'll be doing that 60 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: as well, only on Patreon, also on there. This week, 61 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: I had to go check out some eBay dolls, so 62 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: I'm back doing that. You can see me playing a 63 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: little game of what I like to call Chucky or 64 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: just Yucky, where I look at these dolls, these allegedly 65 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: haunted dolls on eBay, and I gave you my takes, 66 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: and I like to be a little critical of their outfits. 67 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. And with every episode, I always 68 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: do you know a bonus clip on Patreon and it's 69 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: kind of juicy the one that I'm putting up today. Okay, 70 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 1: So Jen's podcast, which is called No Fun. She talks 71 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: about all kinds of things, and she happened to be 72 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: doing this episode where she was staying at this Airbnb 73 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: in New York, old old, lots of history, and there 74 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: was like a whisper voice, not unlike the one that 75 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: I heard when I was recently at the old La Zoo, 76 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: and her listeners picked up on it and they were like, 77 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: you totally have an EVP going on in this episode 78 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: that you recently posted. So then she starts getting paranormal 79 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: investigators involved, and she's trying to look into what is 80 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: this clear is day voice, and then there turns out 81 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: to be an even more sinister backstory that involves the 82 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: horrors of not ghost people, living people, and so you 83 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: can hear her explain that story certainly got the real ty, 84 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: so you can hear that on Patreon. And I've recently 85 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: lowered my price on Cameo. So hey, it sounds like 86 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: a fun holiday gift. I would love to send a 87 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: little video of me saying happy Holidays or Merry Christmas 88 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: or happy Honika. Whatever you want me to say, I'll 89 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: do it. So go to cameo dot com slash Shross 90 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: dress Felas for that. Because mama is still on the hustle. 91 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: All right, let's just get into this conversation. Here is 92 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: me talking to Jen Kirkman on with the Show. Hello, 93 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 1: Jen Kirkman, how are. 94 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 2: You hi, Thanks for having me, Thanks. 95 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: For being here. I was actually just thinking, like around 96 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: the summer year, I'm like, okay, what are like, what 97 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: are the Christmas things that I love doing? And then 98 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,919 Speaker 1: I was thinking about your Christmas show that you've done 99 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: at the Improv and are are you doing it this year? Digitally? 100 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 3: I am thanks for asking, Oh my god, I'm doing it. 101 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 3: It's called the Jen Kirkman Dysfunctional Christmas Show. And I yeah, 102 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 3: I do it every year only in LA as a 103 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 3: great way to you know, not have to travel in 104 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 3: December and risk gigs getting canceled because of weather and anyway. 105 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 3: But this year I get to do it online so 106 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 3: the whole globe can come. And what's more dysfunctional than 107 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 3: doing a show alone in my living room in front 108 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 3: of my Christmas tree during a pandemic. So it's Friday, 109 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 3: December fourth, at six pm Pacific time, and it's through 110 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 3: this company called On Location Live. And the fun part 111 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 3: about it is if that time or none of those 112 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 3: time zones work for you wherever you are in the world, 113 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 3: if you buy a ticket to it, you have the 114 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 3: download available for forty eight hours, so you can kind 115 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 3: of watch it that weekend or whatever. 116 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 2: So I hope you can come to it. 117 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's on If people go to my website 118 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 3: Jenkirkman dot com and click tour, they'll see it, or 119 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 3: if they just go to my pinned tweet on Twitter. 120 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 2: You know, it's not hard to find. 121 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 3: There's always a sketch, a Hallmark sketch spoof and it's 122 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 3: more like sketch and monologues and music than any stand 123 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 3: up And I'm certainly not doing stand up on it, 124 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 3: and because I think it's weird to do from zoom. 125 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: It's just not so weird. I've tried. It's hard. 126 00:07:58,040 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 2: I don't do it. 127 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 3: But yeah, so this here, the Hallmark sketch will be. 128 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 3: You know, I haven't written it yet, but I want 129 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 3: it to be roughly about spoofing Laurie Laughlin going to 130 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 3: jail and on. She is like their star Hallmark actress, 131 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 3: but now she's in prison during Christmas. 132 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: No, maybe she could do like a Christmas story. I'm 133 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: trying to segue ghosts into Christmas. 134 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 2: Yes, oh perfect, that was You know. 135 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 3: It's funny though, because you had just told me off 136 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 3: air that you were kind of bummed that Halloween. 137 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 2: Is over, and it is. 138 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know, there's something about this time 139 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 3: of year that maybe because it gets dark so early 140 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 3: or whatever, but there is something still like spooky and spiritual. 141 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 3: I think about Halloween through New Year's there's all kinds 142 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 3: of like religious and magical and weird traditions, and you're right, 143 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 3: things that involve ghosts, and I don't know, it's a 144 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:54,559 Speaker 3: magical time of year. 145 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: I feel like, well, so what do you what do 146 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: you believe in when it comes to this kind of stuff, well. 147 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 3: You know, my my beliefs have gone all over the place, 148 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 3: And this may sound disappointing, but I actually think it's 149 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 3: not I don't actually believe in ghosts, but. 150 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 2: I don't not if that makes sense. 151 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 3: Like I'm I'm not someone who believes in a traditional god, 152 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 3: but I do actually think prayer is a powerful way 153 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 3: for me to like calm down, get outside myself. 154 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 2: And I don't need to. 155 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 3: Be praying to anything in specific that I really believe 156 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 3: is out there. 157 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 2: Looking at me. 158 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 3: So in that sense, like I'm a hugely spiritual person. 159 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 3: I love the paranormal, but at the end of the day, 160 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 3: gun to my head, I have to pick one. I'm like, 161 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 3: I guess I don't believe in ghosts, but I don't believe. 162 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 3: In other words, I don't disbelieve that they could exist. 163 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 3: I'm just not sure how many people who've experienced them, 164 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 3: including myself, have actually experienced a ghost. You know, I 165 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 3: think it's as even more wonderful and exciting and strange 166 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 3: than that, you know what I mean, That's all I believe. 167 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 3: I love like everyone tell me your stories. 168 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 2: I want to hear. I love to scare myself. 169 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 170 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:05,439 Speaker 3: But you know, my sister really believes in ghosts, really, 171 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 3: really really and she's very black and white about it, 172 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 3: to the point where she actually doesn't have fun with 173 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 3: ghost stuff because she believes it. So she had a 174 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 3: ghost show up in her bedroom the house we grew 175 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 3: up in, and honestly, I don't think she's lying, but 176 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 3: I just I one hundred percent know what she was 177 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 3: experiencing with sleep paralysis, like I just know I've had 178 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 3: it happen. 179 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: You know, what did she say happen to her? 180 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 3: She just felt like she couldn't get up, and she 181 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 3: was screaming and no sound was coming out, and there 182 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 3: was a boy dressed in a colonial outfit holding her down. 183 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 184 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,679 Speaker 3: And we grew up in a house in Massachusetts built 185 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 3: in the eighteen hundreds. But everything she's describing is someone 186 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 3: in a dream having sleep paralysis. And I've had it 187 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 3: happen to me, and I just don't believe it, because 188 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 3: you wouldn't just have. 189 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 2: That one time thing if there was a ghost. But 190 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 2: she believes it so severely. 191 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 3: That she you know, I don't know, it's like I 192 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 3: she gets, I'm I'm scared of ghosts too, Like, I'm 193 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 3: not going to sit in a graveyard overnight. I'm not 194 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 3: gonna sit in a haunted if you said this is 195 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 3: supposed to be haunted, No, I'm not spending the night there. Yeah, 196 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 3: but I I can't deny that feeling you get when 197 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: you're in a house that's old, right, and something feels 198 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 3: like you feel like there's something behind you, or I 199 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 3: don't know, there's just there's something. I just don't think 200 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 3: anyone has actually really really seen a ghost. 201 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: It just doesn't make sense to me. 202 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: So when it comes to sleep paralysis and you see 203 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: a figure, it seems like an actual person is there? 204 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: What is that? That's all in your head? 205 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 3: You think you're just in a lucid state. You're half dreaming, 206 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 3: half awake, so. 207 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:51,479 Speaker 1: Your dreams have kind of bled into your awakeness. 208 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, and listen, I mean in the in the before 209 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 3: medical times, they thought that was like some kind of 210 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 3: devil possession. And I don't think there's not some element 211 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 3: of evil to it. 212 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 2: I don't. 213 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 3: When it's happened to me, it's been horrifying, and you 214 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 3: it is one hundred percent feels like someone's sitting on you. 215 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: Well, what's can you tell us about when it's happened 216 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: to you. 217 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 2: It happened to me, And I live in a. 218 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 3: Building that's really new, it's like seven years old, and 219 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 3: I was the first person that ever lived in my apartment. 220 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 3: It was built from the ground up, and so you know, 221 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 3: of course anything can happen. 222 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 2: It could be built over a burial ground. 223 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 3: But you know, it's like, I don't equate it with 224 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 3: my place being haunted, but it was. Here are the 225 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 3: mitigating factors. It was right after the twenty sixteen election. 226 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 3: I went through a breakup like right after that as well, 227 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,840 Speaker 3: So it was like intense grief from the election and 228 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 3: the breakup, and I started having a lot of stress. 229 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 3: And then in addition to it, a few times a week, 230 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 3: I would have sleep paralysis where I would wake up 231 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 3: and I would hear something and I would have no 232 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 3: idea that I was in any sleep state. 233 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: It was dead serious. 234 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 3: It was me awake, and then suddenly I would see 235 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 3: a figure just like a big gray blob of I 236 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 3: couldn't even tell what it was, and I would and 237 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 3: I would be screaming and no sound would come out, 238 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 3: and then I would realize my head is on my 239 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 3: pillow and my eyes are shut and I'm laying down 240 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 3: like you know what I mean. I would slowly start 241 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 3: to wake up and I was like, oh my god, 242 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 3: that was so real. Or I would be sitting up 243 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 3: screaming and feeling like someone was like touching like some 244 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 3: you know, almost like if you had a dog that 245 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 3: jumped on the bed and just start laying on you. 246 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 3: But I don't have a pet, And so I was like, 247 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 3: I'm just putting this all together. I'm extremely depressed. I'm 248 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 3: going through breakup trump just one. This is anxiety. 249 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 2: You know. 250 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 3: If it hadn't if it had happened in an old 251 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 3: colonial house when my life was going great, I probably 252 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 3: would think it was a ghost. 253 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: See, Okay, Now, I talked to so many people that 254 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: of course there's like no rules to ghost because nobody 255 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 1: really knows. But a lot of people believe that sleep prousses. 256 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: There's some demon type entities involved in that, and they 257 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: feed off of people that are stressed depressed, Like you know, 258 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 1: low frequency is when they are ready to pound. So 259 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: I mean, and the other thing that I've learned from 260 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: talking to people is that it's not necessarily because somebody 261 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 1: died in your house or you know, yeah, like ghosts 262 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: or demons or whatever. They can just like find they 263 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: can find you and they'll get you. 264 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 3: Well, you know, I think I think there's something to it. 265 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 3: Like my frequency was low. I was stressed out, and 266 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 3: you know, it was a dark place, and I do 267 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 3: think however, the solution for me was like more therapy, 268 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 3: more meditation, you know, get that vibration higher. There was 269 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 3: really nothing spirit super natural I was going to do 270 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 3: because I needed to feel better all day long, not 271 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 3: just at night. But I think you're right. I was 272 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 3: one of my first day jobs in Los Angeles was 273 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 3: working at Lifetime Television in the web department. And this 274 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 3: was like fifteen years ago when website, I mean when 275 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 3: TV networks were just beginning to have original content on 276 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 3: their website. And I was like in charge of like 277 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 3: helping to produce this little show about people who thought 278 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 3: they had ghosts. And anyway, long story short, I go 279 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 3: and this woman and her boyfriend kept seeing this like 280 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 3: black blob in their. 281 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 2: Room, like just hanging there. 282 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 3: And the guy I worked with was like, there's no ghosts, 283 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 3: there's nothing, there's not even energy. No, And they showed 284 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 3: him a photo of it and we saw it and 285 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 3: we were like, oh, this, this looks like something. Anyway, 286 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 3: the whole point is the woman who came in to 287 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 3: sage the place and whatever she said. You know, it's 288 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 3: because this woman's boyfriend was an alcoholic and his when 289 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 3: you're drunk, like you are more open to spirits and 290 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 3: entities coming into you because your boundaries suck. And yet 291 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 3: you're kind of that low frequency, especially if it's like 292 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 3: the disease of alcoholism and not just like you're drunk 293 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 3: one time, so the guy got sober and moved out 294 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 3: and they stopped seeing that blob in the in the room. 295 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 1: I believe that I do too. 296 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 3: It was and it was, honestly, it was so scientific 297 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 3: almost it was like an energy, you know, it wasn't 298 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 3: it was a oh I forget what she called it, 299 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 3: but you know, so stuff like that. 300 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know something to it. 301 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 3: I just don't ever think when people are like I 302 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 3: stayed in this house and I saw a woman walk 303 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 3: down the stairs in a white dress. I'm like, if 304 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 3: you really did, your mind would be so blown that 305 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 3: that you would have to like take time off work. 306 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 3: It would become your new mission to prove it, like 307 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:11,959 Speaker 3: you woantn't just be so casual, like it was a 308 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 3: cat you saw once that was interesting, Like that's. 309 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,919 Speaker 1: Sounds what I'm surprised about, Like so many people. I mean, 310 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 1: I'm a kind of person worry something like that happens. 311 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: I'm blabbering, I'm telling the whole world. But there's a 312 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 1: lot of people that are just like, yeah, it was 313 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: no big deal, I just saw it. 314 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, like the people that have that one ghost story 315 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 3: and yeah, you know. And also I'm cool with people 316 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 3: that are like, hey, I'm I see them all the time, 317 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 3: so I'm just like whatever, I mean, I'm into it. 318 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 3: I again, I want to hear everybody's stories. But you know, 319 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 3: you gotta like there's certain people that are very spiritual. 320 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 3: Then there's people that are negative, like all the time 321 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:51,120 Speaker 3: or going through something negative like I was with my story. 322 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 3: And then there's people like, let's just be honest, that 323 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 3: are just dumb and you're like, that wasn't a ghost, honey, 324 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 3: and like you can't even it's not fun to listen 325 00:17:58,600 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 3: to them. 326 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,679 Speaker 1: You know, there's people like me that want to believe 327 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: it's a ghost. And then sometimes I'm like, I don't think, actually, 328 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 1: that wasn't a ghost now they think about it. 329 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm cool with being like, I don't know 330 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 3: what blank was. 331 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 2: About. 332 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,479 Speaker 1: What about if somebody tells you a story, Oh, they 333 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: saw this woman walking down the hallway, and then they 334 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: find out that a hundred other people have also seen 335 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 1: that woman walking down the hallway. 336 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 3: I go it honestly doesn't increase my ability to believe it. 337 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 3: It makes me actually go, oh, well, that's one of 338 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 3: those scientific things where it's like group conscient group you know, 339 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,120 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't even have the smart thing 340 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 3: to say, but you know, groups, not group psychosis, but like. 341 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 2: That thing that had collective unconscious. 342 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 3: You know, whatever, you know, if it turns out there 343 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:55,880 Speaker 3: are no aliens, that's why everyone's alien descriptions are the same, 344 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 3: even people who never met and never knew. I don't know, 345 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 3: but I think, but whatever that phenomenon is of a 346 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 3: hundred people seeing the same thing, if it isn't a ghost, 347 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:08,360 Speaker 3: whatever that phenomenon is is just as thrilling to me. 348 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:08,920 Speaker 2: As a ghost. 349 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 3: It's like, that's insane that all of our minds can connect. 350 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 2: That way, and we you know, like totally whatever that is. 351 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 2: So you know, I don't know what it is. I 352 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 2: think it's just what the clothing trips me up? 353 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 3: What do you mean just that they're not why are 354 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 3: they wearing clothes? Like the clothes become see through? 355 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 1: And well, I know that's what I've I'm constantly honestly, 356 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: that's That's so funny you say that, because that's one 357 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: of the things that always trips me up. I'm like, 358 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 1: why are you wearing that outfit? Why is it always 359 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:45,640 Speaker 1: people from the eighteen hundreds? Why, like do you get 360 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: to change your outfit? 361 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 2: Yeah? 362 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 3: I know one thing my aunt Kathy. You know, I'm 363 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 3: not very close with my extended family, but I was 364 00:19:56,600 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 3: when I was a little younger, and so she was 365 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 3: probably the last extended family member that I was really 366 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 3: close with. 367 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 2: Anyway. 368 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 3: She died, I don't know, fifteen years ago or so, and. 369 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:15,959 Speaker 2: Maybe even more, and we talked about it. 370 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 3: She was dying, you know, and she talked about it 371 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 3: with her kids, and there was a plan like, if 372 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,679 Speaker 3: you're a ghost, come back and do this because she 373 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 3: wanted to believe in ghosts, so did my uncle, and 374 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 3: she didn't, you know, and so it was like, you 375 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:33,639 Speaker 3: don't want to go, Well, she must be in hell then. 376 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 2: You know, it's just like that. 377 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 3: She said she would knock, and she would do this, 378 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 3: and she would do that, and she said she would 379 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 3: do this one specific thing. And what I thought was 380 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 3: very interesting is she didn't. But her kids and her 381 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 3: husband all claimed she came to them in various forms, 382 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 3: and you could just see that they wanted it to 383 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 3: be true that she came to them, but they they 384 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 3: moved the target. They're like, no, I know she was 385 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 3: to knock twice and do this if she was a ghost, 386 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,560 Speaker 3: but I saw a butterfly today and we don't have 387 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 3: butterflies in this area in fact, and like, okay, you 388 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 3: like they wanted something. 389 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 2: But I always feel like, but. 390 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: What are the rules? Like when you die, we don't 391 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,879 Speaker 1: even know it could be you. You die. And then 392 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 1: they're like, okay, listen, we can give you. You get 393 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: two visitor passes, we can we can give you a 394 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:27,440 Speaker 1: butterfly visit, but the knocking, you're not quite there yet. 395 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 2: Well I think that's so funny. 396 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 3: You make such a good point where it's like, yeah, 397 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 3: we don't get to decide on Earth, Like, guys, here's 398 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:35,359 Speaker 3: what I'm gonna do in the afterlife. You know if 399 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 3: there is such a thing, which you know, I don't 400 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 3: believe in one, and honestly I don't because it scares me. 401 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 3: I don't want any sense of being aware of any 402 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 3: I just want lights out because I'm I'm afraid I'll 403 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 3: miss out. I'm afraid I'll miss stuff. But like I'm 404 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 3: afraid I'll be aware that I'm dead and missing out 405 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 3: on things, is what I mean. Yeah, yeah, I don't 406 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 3: enjoy thinking about that. But but you're that's right, like 407 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 3: she might of like in this fantasy world where she 408 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,919 Speaker 3: gets to, you know, call the shots as a ghost. 409 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,880 Speaker 3: I mean, we've all seen movies about that, like it's 410 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 3: a wonderful life, like Clarence didn't just get his wings, 411 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 3: he had to do all this stuff and yes. 412 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: Or the movie Ghost it's like that too. It's like 413 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,640 Speaker 1: you can't walk through people yet or whatever. 414 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 2: Oh right, right, right, right, Well I will tell you that. 415 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 3: Like, you know, I grew up in this house built 416 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 3: in eighteen twelve in Massachusetts and. 417 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: It's haunted totally. 418 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 3: And I think that it's like it's hard to you know, 419 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 3: living in la now where everything is so new and 420 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 3: there's definitely a difference between the energies I feel in 421 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 3: Los Angeles and the energies I felt in Massachusetts. In 422 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 3: Massachusetts it felt like just a bunch of eyes always 423 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 3: looking at you, like you were never truly alone in 424 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 3: certain houses. 425 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 2: But nothing bad. 426 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 3: But in la if I ever feel an energy, it 427 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,399 Speaker 3: feels dark and evil, like someone, oh deed here, you know, 428 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 3: like that kind of thing, right, But there was something 429 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 3: about growing up in Jets where everything. 430 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 2: Is just so old that. 431 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, just it was I don't know any other way 432 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:12,120 Speaker 3: of growing up, So I'm pre I'm predisposed to kind 433 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 3: of get into ghost stuff and go like, oh, maybe 434 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 3: something's there because everything around me was so ancient and. 435 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,880 Speaker 1: Well, I always think that in places like that, and 436 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: you know England and you just places that have old ghosts, 437 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: I think that they're they're they've been doing the job 438 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 1: for a long time and they've got it figured out. 439 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 1: Like I think ghosts here are younger and they're hotter, 440 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,679 Speaker 1: they're hot, they've got abs and they want to be 441 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: seen and they don't know how to do it yet. 442 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: But then like ghosts and places that they've been ghosts 443 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,360 Speaker 1: for three hundred years, they're just like, yeah, we're here, 444 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 1: Like it's fine. 445 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're just living on my very beetle juice, Like 446 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 3: we're just living with you in the attic, you know, and. 447 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 1: Right whereas here they want followers. 448 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:05,199 Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, they're like almost cult leaders. I just remember 449 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 2: growing up like it was very much. 450 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 3: We talked about ghosts. My family were like, this house 451 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 3: is haunted. 452 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 2: There's ghosts. 453 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 3: My parents were like that, They're like, there's also aliens. 454 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 3: You know, this is nothing was off the table. So yeah, 455 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 3: and so that's all we talked about. My dad especially, 456 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 3: is really into this stuff. 457 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: And so you know, did they have experiences, like are 458 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 1: they from Massachusetts? 459 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, they do, but they're I mean again, it's like 460 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 3: I hear their stories and I'm like mm hmm, it 461 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 3: just didn't sound real to me. But my dad is 462 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 3: more like he he claims he saw the piano playing 463 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 3: by itself in the house. 464 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: I grew up in. 465 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 2: Oh God, And I'm like, come on, I mean, what 466 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 2: am I gonna? All right? 467 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 3: But I've just known that since I was like three, 468 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:59,679 Speaker 3: you know, and I do remember that. You know, they 469 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 3: were my sisters are older than me, and they were 470 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 3: gone and out of the house, you know, out in college, 471 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 3: out in life by the time I was eight, So 472 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 3: I was kind of an only child most of my childhood, 473 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 3: and I was in no rush for my parents to 474 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 3: you know. I wasn't one of those people that was like, God, 475 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 3: I hope my parents go out for the night so. 476 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 2: I can be home alone. You know. I was actually 477 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 2: kind of scared at my house. 478 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,920 Speaker 3: And I wasn't like yeah, when they would be out 479 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,400 Speaker 3: at night and leaving me home alone. 480 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 2: I mean I was old. 481 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 3: I was like twelve or thirteen, and I was like, 482 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 3: I would get scared, like I always wanted my back 483 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:39,360 Speaker 3: up against something, like sometimes I wouldn't move for hours 484 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 3: because I just felt like it was haunted. My grandmother, 485 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 3: my mom's mom, really into ghosts, into everything everything, and 486 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 3: she claimed that a ghost pushed her in our bathroom. 487 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 2: And she wasn't like this. 488 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 3: I mean, she was an old lady, but she didn't 489 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 3: have like a fall or a dizzy spell. She was 490 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 3: like I got pushed, and I'm like, are these people 491 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 3: attracting this shit? 492 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 2: Because nothing like things happen like you know those. 493 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 3: We had like those shades in our house that were 494 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 3: like rolling you pull them down like on the windows, 495 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 3: and they would flip up and like you know. 496 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, those are made for haunted houses because they 497 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: can just go right. 498 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 2: Up out of the blue. 499 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 3: That would happen, or lights would flicker. There was always something, 500 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,159 Speaker 3: but you can always explain it away. You know, a 501 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 3: door opens for no reason. We had that three times 502 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 3: a week. It was just you know, thereo'se certain parts 503 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 3: of the house where there'd be like this weird cold 504 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,679 Speaker 3: chill for no reason. We'd be like, oh, that's like 505 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 3: the haunted part of the stairs. They're always and you know, 506 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:54,359 Speaker 3: every year at Christmas was a very ghosty time for me, 507 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 3: Like I always felt really tapped in during Christmas season, 508 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 3: and you know, we'd put those fake candles in the 509 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 3: window and the room where my sister saw the ghost, 510 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,479 Speaker 3: which I don't believe. I do think that room was haunted. 511 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 3: I just also think she'd I think both things are true. 512 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 1: I don't know what you believe. I'm so confused. 513 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 2: I'm so confused too. 514 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 1: You think of the room'sted, but you don't believe it goes. 515 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's fun to listen too, though. 516 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,720 Speaker 3: Well, I think there's some weird energy in there. I 517 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,159 Speaker 3: think there's some like energies trapped, you know. 518 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: Uh, huh. 519 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 3: But I don't think it would ever be manifested in 520 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 3: seeing it as a ghost, Okay, and I just don't. 521 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 2: I don't know why. 522 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 3: But in that room, for some reason, you know, we 523 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 3: would I always remember, we'd like go somewhere and then 524 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 3: come home at night and the candle would be off 525 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 3: in that room. We could see it from the street 526 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 3: and my mom would go back in and it wasn't 527 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 3: a thing with the light socket. She would twist the 528 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 3: candle and it would go back on. It was almost 529 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 3: as though somebody had untwisted it, you know with those 530 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 3: little electric plug in like Christmas. 531 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 2: Candles you put in the windows. 532 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 3: And this is like way before battery powered ones. So 533 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 3: and there'd always be that window was always foggy, you know. 534 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 3: It was always like had this like moist. 535 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 1: Like someone was breathing on it. 536 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it would have to be like forty people 537 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 3: breathing on Like the whole window was always that that 538 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 3: you could like write in it like a foggy window 539 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 3: on the morning on your car. 540 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 2: You know. It always had this wet quality to it. 541 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 2: So it was something was weird. But you know, they 542 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 2: don't have any of that now. My parents still live there. 543 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 1: Really maybe the ghosts were like, uh, attracted to you, 544 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 1: or maybe once you left they stopped. 545 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 2: Well that was that was something that. 546 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,479 Speaker 3: Let me put this out to you, so that that 547 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,479 Speaker 3: whole sleep paralysis thing that I had, Like my family 548 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 3: is you know, they're lovely, but uh dysfunctional, right, and 549 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 3: there was so much like just emotional chaos and drama 550 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 3: in my home. 551 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 2: Also very loving. No one was beating anyone, no one 552 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 2: had drug issues. 553 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 3: But my parents are just I mean now they're they're 554 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 3: just like the Costanzas, you know what I mean on Seinfeld, 555 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 3: like just yell. 556 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 2: Everything is yelling. 557 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 3: There's no reaction to anything that isn't utter hysteria and yelling, 558 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 3: and like there's no sense of there was a sense 559 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 3: of like being strict, like you're not allowed to do this, 560 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 3: you're not allowed to do that. 561 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 2: But there was no sense of like these people know 562 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 2: what they're doing. 563 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 3: I'm gonna look to them for the answers in life, 564 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 3: you know, none of them. 565 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 2: Everything to them was like hysterical reaction. 566 00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 3: And so I think like that kind of energy in 567 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 3: the house can feel haunted, like it's bad energy. 568 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:52,479 Speaker 2: There's something to that. 569 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: I think, Oh my god, that's so funny and then 570 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: there and then it's like then ghosts appear and then 571 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 1: they are very like they believe in it and they 572 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: think everything's that. 573 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 3: Goes and yeah, but it's like maybe it's everyone's whacked 574 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 3: out energy. That's like ster I will Okay, do you 575 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 3: want to hear a really crazy story? 576 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 1: Hell yeah? Wait is this still about the house? Because 577 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 1: I have like one or two questions about this house. 578 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 2: It's about the house. Yeah, okay, okay, ask me. 579 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 1: What's well, what's like the history and do you know? 580 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 581 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 3: So this is this okay, So this is where the 582 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 3: crazy story comes in. So my dad's a greenskeeper of 583 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 3: a golf course and he's eighty two. Now he's retired, 584 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,240 Speaker 3: but they still live there, and they got the house 585 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 3: for free, like it came free with the job. Otherwise 586 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 3: someone that is a greenskeeper wouldn't be able to afford 587 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 3: a house in this town, even though the house itself 588 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 3: was no great prize, you know, so the greenskeeper's house 589 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 3: comes with the job. So I lived on a golf 590 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 3: course ton of land, which obviously was not always just 591 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 3: a golf course. So we would find interesting things in 592 00:30:54,240 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 3: the backyard, like buried there like arrowhead, you know, stuff 593 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 3: like that, like Native American stuff, like just little weird 594 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 3: things here and there. And our house was registered in 595 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 3: the Historical Society. And I guess who used to live there, 596 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 3: Like in the layout of the town in the early 597 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 3: eighteen hundreds was a blacksmith and he had one arm 598 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 3: and he had a shotgun and a dog. And we 599 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 3: had a picture of him and we would just laugh 600 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 3: that this guy had one arm and he was a blacksmith. 601 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 3: But he did pretty well. And we found his diaries 602 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 3: in our attic, and so there was a sense of 603 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 3: this lonely guy that had lived there. 604 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 1: Wow, isn't that kind of cool? 605 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 3: So and he would write about the war, whatever war 606 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 3: was going on. 607 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 2: So that was the history of it. And then I 608 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 2: don't know, my parents. 609 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 3: Moved in there in like the early sixties, so I'm 610 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 3: not sure who lived there before. But yeah, it had 611 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 3: been around since eighteen twelve and when there was really 612 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 3: nothing else around and it was just land. 613 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 1: And so was the only report of seeing a ghost 614 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 1: your sister. 615 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 2: Yes, And this is the sister. 616 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 3: I love her to death, but she sees a million 617 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 3: things because she wants to do you know what I mean? 618 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 2: Like she's not a reliable source. 619 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 1: Is she looking for ghosts? 620 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 3: She's looking, but we all do. But if you talk 621 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 3: to anyone in my family, it's like I'm just telling 622 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 3: you that there's certain people that I would listen to 623 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 3: all day long telling me weird, spiritual, spooky stuff. And 624 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 3: then sometimes with my family, I'm like, would you shut up? 625 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 3: You guys really don't I hope you guys don't say 626 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 3: this like dinner parties or like at a job interview 627 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 3: or like on a date, like just you sound not crazy, 628 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 3: but you know what I mean, Like you guys can 629 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 3: sound kind of dumb, you know, like everything is like 630 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 3: I really believe I saw my sister claims my sister 631 00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:08,479 Speaker 3: now lives in another her house is newer, but like 632 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 3: she lives near a cemetery, and she claims she's seen 633 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 3: like three people standing in front of her barn that 634 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:23,000 Speaker 3: were ghosts. I'm like, all right, this is getting insane. 635 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: So but are you afraid that that's how you would 636 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: appear telling these stories? 637 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm truly not. 638 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 3: I used to be like this, and then I started 639 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 3: to be like, wait a minute, wait a minute, wait 640 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 3: a minute. 641 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 1: Well, what's the story that you were telling me it 642 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: happened with your grandmother. 643 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 2: Oh well, let me. 644 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 3: Can I just tell you the crazy house story first, 645 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 3: because this is this is just okay. So important to 646 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 3: the story is that my dad never bought this house. 647 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 2: It came for free. So when the house comes with 648 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 2: ghosts for free, with goes. 649 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 3: So when you get a house for free, you're not 650 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 3: really doing construction on it because A he didn't have 651 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 3: the money and b it's like a historical house. 652 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 2: You can't. 653 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,240 Speaker 3: You have to get permission from the town to do stuff. 654 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 3: But also you have to get permission from the people 655 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,839 Speaker 3: that owned the house, which were the people that the 656 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:20,800 Speaker 3: town owned it. The town owns the golf course that 657 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 3: owns the house. So he had to go through all 658 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 3: this red tape, so we did. They owned the house 659 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 3: from nineteen They lived in the house from nineteen sixty 660 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 3: until right now. So I remember in the eighties everything 661 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,880 Speaker 3: was just kind of dated, and my parents wanted to 662 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 3: do some minor renovations, and so we got some new stuff, 663 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 3: like we got a dishwasher in the kitchen, and they 664 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,480 Speaker 3: put in new counters, and then they took down the 665 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:49,240 Speaker 3: wallpaper in the dining room and put up new wallpaper, 666 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 3: and they had not done that since they moved in, 667 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:59,799 Speaker 3: and they moved in with whatever was there, so they 668 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 3: had I've never seen the original walls of the dining room, 669 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:08,799 Speaker 3: like the original stone walls ever until nineteen eighty four. 670 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 3: So cut two in nineteen eighty six. Sorry, so all right, so. 671 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 2: Pause on that. 672 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 3: So I have an older sister named Linda. And in 673 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 3: nineteen eighty two, I was I was little. I was 674 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 3: like eight. Linda is fourteen years older than me. She's 675 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:32,399 Speaker 3: twenty two. She got married impulsively. 676 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,400 Speaker 2: This guy sucked. He's their divorced. 677 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,120 Speaker 3: But uh, she got married to this guy whose last 678 00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 3: name was Blackstone, Okay, and she took his name and 679 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 3: she became Linda Blackstone. 680 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:47,320 Speaker 2: Okay. Great. 681 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 3: So that's nineteen eighty two. I'm eight years old. They're 682 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 3: divorced a year later, but that's part of her history. 683 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,280 Speaker 3: Her name at one point was Linda Blackstone. 684 00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,879 Speaker 2: Okay. Cut two. 685 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 3: Four years later, in nineteen eighty six, my parents are like, 686 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 3: you know what, We're gonna ask the golf club for 687 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 3: some money. We're gonna renovate the house a little bit. 688 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,840 Speaker 3: So they renovate the house. This is when they find 689 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,240 Speaker 3: the Blacksmith's diaries in the attic. 690 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 2: We didn't know about them before. 691 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 3: This is when we see the original wall in the 692 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 3: dining room. And basically, in eighteen twelve, there was the 693 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 3: house I lived in and another house. Uh I don't 694 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 3: know a little bit away, but you could see it 695 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 3: out the window. The Blacksmith was in love with a 696 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 3: woman named Linda Blackstone that lived in that house. 697 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 1: Okay, that's weird. 698 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,800 Speaker 3: I just blew the story, but I had to blow 699 00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:42,399 Speaker 3: it so that that can take you through it now. 700 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 3: So basically what happens is he's writing about this woman 701 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:51,319 Speaker 3: he's in love with. We it's in the diaries, but 702 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,839 Speaker 3: we don't know her name, you know, the lady from 703 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 3: the house or whatever, Linda from the house. 704 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 2: It's like something like that. 705 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 3: And my mom was like, oh, weird, Like the guy 706 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 3: that used to live here was in love with a 707 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:01,359 Speaker 3: woman named Linda. 708 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 2: We didn't know that. 709 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,840 Speaker 3: Then they get to the original wall in the dining 710 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,440 Speaker 3: room and there was a like someone had painted on 711 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:15,920 Speaker 3: the walls, a badly painted portrait of a woman and 712 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:19,880 Speaker 3: it said Linda Blackstone on it. So like in the wall, 713 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 3: does this all make sense? 714 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 2: Right? 715 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:22,759 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? 716 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, So and then. 717 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,080 Speaker 3: My family was just like, oh my god, this is 718 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,960 Speaker 3: so fucking weird and my but it's funny because, like, 719 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:34,439 Speaker 3: of all the things that like everyone in my family find, 720 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:39,480 Speaker 3: I thought that was the weirdest thing ever. And my 721 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 3: family's just like, eh, like we thought it. 722 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 2: Was weird at the time. 723 00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 3: And my sister Linda is not the one I'm talking 724 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 3: about that had the kid in the bed thing. Okay, 725 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 3: my sister Linda's a different sister. She's had other ghost experiences. 726 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 3: She doesn't find this thing weird. That would freak me 727 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 3: out so bad that I would probably want to just 728 00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 3: like live in an institution after that, if like somehow, 729 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,440 Speaker 3: oh you know, like I grew up in a house 730 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 3: my name was named after the woman that this guy 731 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,359 Speaker 3: had been in love with, and then I married someone 732 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:09,919 Speaker 3: with that last name, and that would weird me out. 733 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,200 Speaker 3: It's so weird, Like I don't know what that story means. 734 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 3: Does that mean there's a ghost, there's an energy, I 735 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,400 Speaker 3: don't know, just a weird coincidence that I don't like. 736 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:18,399 Speaker 2: It creeps me out. 737 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 1: It's such a weird coincidence. I mean, is that a 738 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 1: common name around the area or anything. 739 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,160 Speaker 2: I mean, it sounds very eighteen hundreds. 740 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,760 Speaker 1: It's a great name, but it's nice stone. 741 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 3: But it's like, I don't I mean, I'd never known anyone. 742 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. It was just strange. It 743 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,239 Speaker 3: was just strange to see your sister's name written on 744 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 3: the wall. 745 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 1: It's so weird. 746 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 2: Or she was a two hundred years before she was born, 747 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:46,759 Speaker 2: you know. 748 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 1: Now with her name being Linda, did she ever have 749 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: experiences in the house, you know, like if there's this 750 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:55,920 Speaker 1: ghost that used to be in love with him I 751 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,360 Speaker 1: named Linda, Like, was there anything any weird ghosts stuff 752 00:38:59,400 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 1: like that? 753 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 3: No, she just claims that she I mean, her ghost 754 00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:09,160 Speaker 3: stories are more about everywhere else she's ever lived, you know, 755 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 3: like got it. She thinks people are visiting her. You know, 756 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,480 Speaker 3: I don't know, but that was the That was just 757 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 3: something that I was like weird, you know, But my 758 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 3: grandmother's story, this is the closest I've had to like 759 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,600 Speaker 3: some kind of sense of like connection with the dead, you. 760 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 2: Know what I mean. Okay, like being so my mom's mom, 761 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:46,239 Speaker 2: Jeannette Is, we were very. 762 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 3: Close and similar and every Sunday we'd go to her house. 763 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:51,360 Speaker 2: Take her grocery shopping. 764 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 3: You know, her husband I never met my grandfather or 765 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,440 Speaker 3: husband died when she when he was in his sixties. 766 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:58,560 Speaker 2: She lived to be ninety nine, and she was. 767 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 3: Just very feisty and as independent as you could be. 768 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 2: But she, you know, never learned to drive a. 769 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 3: Car because her husband wouldn't let her. She was an 770 00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 3: amazing seamstress, but her husband wouldn't let her work. And 771 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,000 Speaker 3: she never fulfilled any of her dreams, you know, she 772 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 3: didn't really want to have kids. And she was named 773 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 3: class wit in the nineteen thirties, no, not whenever to 774 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:25,840 Speaker 3: nineteen twenties. 775 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 2: And I think we were similar, you know. 776 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:32,120 Speaker 3: I think I just genetically got a lot from her, 777 00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:33,799 Speaker 3: even if i'd never met her, you know. 778 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 2: And I'm the spitting image of her. 779 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:42,280 Speaker 3: And we'd go, so we'd go every week and she'd 780 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 3: make me tea and we'd have tea at four o'clock. 781 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 3: And her mom was originally from Quebec, and so I 782 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 3: don't know, she always had this like European vibe to her. 783 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:51,879 Speaker 2: But she was just the simple old lady. 784 00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:54,960 Speaker 3: Lived in Lowell, Massachusetts, and she'd worked in the mills 785 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 3: of Lowell in the eighteen hundreds and been like not 786 00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,359 Speaker 3: eighteen hundreds, but whatever early turn of the censure and 787 00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:06,120 Speaker 3: sexual harassment, you know, the whole thing. So I think 788 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,840 Speaker 3: we just always had something between us, even though she 789 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:12,800 Speaker 3: would blatantly tell me that my cousin Justin was her favorite. 790 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,720 Speaker 3: But we used to watch Star Search all the time 791 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 3: every Sunday. Yeah, and she hated stand up comedians. Hated 792 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 3: hated male stand up comedians. She thought they were so stupid, 793 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 3: so unfunny, and she would just go she would just 794 00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,799 Speaker 3: look at me. And I was always just fascinated with 795 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,080 Speaker 3: anyone performing. I mean, I guess a little bit comedy, 796 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,520 Speaker 3: but she would turn to me and go, kind of stupid, 797 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:50,160 Speaker 3: isn't it. That was her thing, And that was just 798 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:51,640 Speaker 3: what Nana said. And she didn't like comedy. 799 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:53,360 Speaker 1: So did she like Ed Mahon? 800 00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 2: No, she she liked very little. She loved. 801 00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 3: She had a weird crush on Rob Reiner from All 802 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 3: in the Family and Tom Selleck. 803 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I get that. 804 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 2: She Yeah, she had a. 805 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:09,840 Speaker 3: Weird thing for like kind of more of a hippie 806 00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 3: man mm hmm, like a seventies man. Yeah, And she 807 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 3: didn't she'd be like, I'm so glad your grandfather's dead. 808 00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:19,720 Speaker 2: He's German, he's a jerk. 809 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,240 Speaker 3: I'm sorry that I I'm sorry I made another German. 810 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,200 Speaker 2: I hate Germans. You know. She'd always apologize to me 811 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 2: for making me part German. 812 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:32,120 Speaker 3: Anyway, she was just a trip. So as she gets older, 813 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 3: she's getting more stubborn. She won't move out of the house. 814 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 3: My mom's going up once a week. And my uncle Paul, 815 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 3: my mom's brother, he lives about ten minutes away, so 816 00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:45,280 Speaker 3: he would go check. 817 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:49,319 Speaker 2: On her, you know, basically. 818 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 3: Just make sure she's still alive, you know, hate call 819 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 3: her every few days. But Nana was fine, like perfect health, 820 00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:03,200 Speaker 3: just old, you know. And now obviously I knew, you know, 821 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 3: she was ninety nine, so it's not like it's not 822 00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,640 Speaker 3: or she was about to turn ninety nine, so ninety 823 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,759 Speaker 3: eight whatever, it's not crazy. If you had said to me, 824 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 3: you know, she died in two thousand and eight, if 825 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 3: you said to me, Jen, is Nana gonna die this 826 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 3: Year'd be like, yeah, well probably, you know, because she's 827 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:23,319 Speaker 3: ninety eight. But this isn't a story about predicting it 828 00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:23,840 Speaker 3: so much so. 829 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:26,520 Speaker 2: And also, my. 830 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:33,240 Speaker 3: Uncle Paul and his family, they love ghosts and the supernatural. 831 00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 3: I mean, it was the That's why I think Christmas 832 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,319 Speaker 3: is so ghosty to me. Whenever we'd go over there 833 00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:43,120 Speaker 3: for Christmas, they would tell us ghost stories about their house. 834 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,960 Speaker 3: Their house was haunted by a woman named Teresa, and 835 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,319 Speaker 3: you know, whenever they walk down the stairs they feel 836 00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:51,000 Speaker 3: like they're being pushed. And they used to have this 837 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 3: giant giraffe in their bedroom and it would you know, 838 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,320 Speaker 3: they'd come in the room and it would be facing 839 00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:55,720 Speaker 3: the wall. 840 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 2: You know, stuff like that. 841 00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,840 Speaker 3: And that's just all we talked about every Christmas and 842 00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,799 Speaker 3: things giving ghost gasts, ghosts, ghost ghosts, and it was 843 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 3: just like, you know, and I was like, all right, 844 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 3: you know it. 845 00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 1: I look as you grew up around this ghost culture. 846 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:09,880 Speaker 1: It's so cool. 847 00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 3: It's it's seriously the only thing my family talks about, 848 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,239 Speaker 3: like ghosts in aliens, ghost and aliens. 849 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,799 Speaker 1: So I want to have your whole family on, Oh my. 850 00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:24,760 Speaker 2: God, you should. They will come on. So they. 851 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 3: So Uncle Paul checks on Nana every few days whatever. 852 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 3: And he used to say, I know, someday I'm going 853 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,200 Speaker 3: to go over there and she's gonna be dead. 854 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 2: You know. He was just always kind of bracing himself 855 00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:38,239 Speaker 2: as she got older. 856 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 3: So anyway, uh, it's like Spring of two thousand and eight, 857 00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 3: and I had just gotten a job writing on the 858 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 3: Chelsea Lately show. Yes, and uh, I what was it 859 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 3: I gave my sister I gave I guess I gave 860 00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,319 Speaker 3: my family my desk phone number. 861 00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,200 Speaker 2: I don't know why. And anyways, so. 862 00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:09,240 Speaker 3: At the time, I was married or engaged or dating, 863 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:10,040 Speaker 3: so I don't remember. 864 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,319 Speaker 2: But we're divorce out but I was. I was with 865 00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 2: whoever the guy was. 866 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 3: I ended up marrying, okay, And we're in our apartment 867 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:18,120 Speaker 3: and in the middle of the night, I have this 868 00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:23,200 Speaker 3: dream it's so realistic, and I'm I'm watching one of 869 00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,560 Speaker 3: my friends do comedy at this guy, who I really 870 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:30,960 Speaker 3: think is funny. And I'm sitting there and I realized 871 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 3: there's someone next to me and it's my grandmother. And 872 00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:35,799 Speaker 3: she turns to me and goes kind of stupid, isn't it? 873 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 3: And I go, oh, Nana, you look so young. She 874 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:43,719 Speaker 3: looked forty years old, you know, just like in this 875 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:49,040 Speaker 3: little like nineteen forties outfit. She made her own wedding 876 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,040 Speaker 3: dress and wore like a black dress to her wedding. 877 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:52,360 Speaker 2: For some reason. 878 00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:53,720 Speaker 1: That's amazing. 879 00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:57,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really weird, like, and we were super Catholic, 880 00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,800 Speaker 3: but she was this like black wedding dress with like 881 00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,359 Speaker 3: this black hat and veil, and she's like wearing her 882 00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 3: wedding outfit. And I turn because I hear her voice 883 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 3: go kind of stupid, isn't it. And I look and 884 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:12,640 Speaker 3: it's my nana. I go, oh my god, Nanny looks 885 00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 3: so young. She goes, I'm young here now here where 886 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,239 Speaker 3: I am Now we're all young again, or something like that. 887 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,359 Speaker 3: And so I wake up from the dream and I'm like, 888 00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:28,239 Speaker 3: oh my god, I think she's dead. I think, and 889 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:33,319 Speaker 3: I start smelling and then I start sneezing, and this 890 00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:38,440 Speaker 3: like lavender, like the lavender bush outside was just the 891 00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,720 Speaker 3: windows were open in our bedroom, and I couldn't stop sneezing. 892 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 2: I couldn't sep snezing. I remember my husband woke up 893 00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,360 Speaker 2: and I was like, the lavender bush, the lavender bush. 894 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:50,160 Speaker 3: Anyway, cut to the next morning, my ex husband's like, 895 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,840 Speaker 3: why are you talking about a lavender bush in the 896 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 3: middle of the night. He goes, we don't have a 897 00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,920 Speaker 3: lavender bush. We lived in an apartment in West Hollywood, 898 00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 3: but there was no yard, and I go the. 899 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:00,080 Speaker 2: Wind, you know. 900 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 3: He kept saying that I woke up in the middle 901 00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,479 Speaker 3: of the night going the lavender bush and he said 902 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,360 Speaker 3: I was sneezing though and saying I smelled the lavender 903 00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 3: and he had to shut the window. 904 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:09,799 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, yeah, I kind of remember that. 905 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:16,360 Speaker 3: So my nana has a giant, like all this overgrown 906 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:20,120 Speaker 3: lavender outside of her kitchen window, just like insane, like 907 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:25,080 Speaker 3: needed to be taken care of. But so anyway, I 908 00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 3: get to work at Chelsea. I've only been there a 909 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:33,000 Speaker 3: couple of weeks, and I just have this feeling. But 910 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, God, that dream was weird, and I'm like, 911 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:39,000 Speaker 3: I'm gonna call my family later and just check in. 912 00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 3: But it was more like I had, you know, I overslept. 913 00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:43,319 Speaker 3: I have to get to work, Like it's not the 914 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,319 Speaker 3: first thing on my mind, but it's in there. And 915 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,600 Speaker 3: we're sitting there and Chelsea had just filmed something where 916 00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,200 Speaker 3: she went to a nursing home and was like fucking 917 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,800 Speaker 3: around with old people. And I just got really emotional 918 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,479 Speaker 3: and like almost started crying, and I started babbling, going, 919 00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 3: my nana would have been so good in stuff like this. 920 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,040 Speaker 3: She was so funny. And I just started telling these stories. 921 00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:05,359 Speaker 3: I just remember my boss going, that's a great story 922 00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,600 Speaker 3: about your Nana, jen, we gotta get on with the meeting. 923 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 2: I go, oh, sorry. So then I have to pee. 924 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:14,920 Speaker 3: And so I get up and go to the bathroom 925 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,839 Speaker 3: and I walk by my desk and the red light 926 00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 3: on my desk phone is on and someone has left 927 00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 3: a message. And I was like, that's someone from my 928 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,279 Speaker 3: family telling me Nana's dead. Like I knew it because 929 00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,080 Speaker 3: I was like, no one else really has this number. 930 00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 3: And I dialed the number and it was my sister 931 00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:30,520 Speaker 3: and she was like, call me. 932 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:32,480 Speaker 2: And I called her. I was like, Nana died. She's like, 933 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:33,640 Speaker 2: how'd you Mike? I just knew. 934 00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:38,240 Speaker 3: Now, obviously, it'sn't that crazy to guess that when someone 935 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 3: calls and your grandmother's ninety eight, think, of course, But 936 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,880 Speaker 3: all the things that had happened, you know, like that dream. 937 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,920 Speaker 3: And so they said, my uncle went to the house. 938 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,720 Speaker 3: So basically, my nana had a doorbell that didn't work. 939 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:58,560 Speaker 3: That's why my uncle's had a key to her house. 940 00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 3: So basically the last couple of years of her life, 941 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,439 Speaker 3: her doorbell was broken, and she was just stubborn about 942 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 3: the weirdest things. She would not let my uncle send 943 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 3: someone to fix it because she didn't want strange men 944 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:15,279 Speaker 3: outside looking in her window, and he was like, I'll 945 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 3: come over, I'll deal with it. No, Paul, I don't 946 00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,680 Speaker 3: need the doorbell. You have a key, nobody ever needs 947 00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,600 Speaker 3: to ring the bell and never going to answer it anyway, 948 00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,000 Speaker 3: Who cares. I don't want a doorbell. Don't fucking give me. 949 00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,799 Speaker 3: He's all right, all right, no doorbell. So for two 950 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,680 Speaker 3: years she had no doorbell. I mean she had one. 951 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:34,200 Speaker 3: It didn't work. So Paul let himself into the house 952 00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,320 Speaker 3: because he had been calling all morning and she didn't answer, 953 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,440 Speaker 3: and he was like, fuck, all right, here we go. 954 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,360 Speaker 3: I no one about to find and he opened the 955 00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:50,319 Speaker 3: door and she was dead on the kitchen floor and 956 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 3: the window was open, and he just said that, like 957 00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 3: it was really strange because she had all these lavender 958 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,799 Speaker 3: bushes outside and then the smell of lavender was overwhelming 959 00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:07,680 Speaker 3: in the kitchen. Whoa, So it was like this really 960 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 3: nice smell. But there's this corpse and they, uh, you know, 961 00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:12,719 Speaker 3: she'd probably died like the. 962 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 1: Night before, and you had the dream. 963 00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she came right to me. I don't 964 00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,200 Speaker 3: know why. I don't think it was psychic on my part. 965 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,319 Speaker 3: I think there's when you're that close with someone and 966 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 3: you're that you. I have the same DNA. I think 967 00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:30,799 Speaker 3: energies connect. And I think she came. I don't she 968 00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,160 Speaker 3: didn't come to anyone else, but maybe I was open 969 00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:42,000 Speaker 3: to it, you know, and she so then uh, I 970 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 3: had a dream. So then we buried her, and she 971 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,000 Speaker 3: was buried right next to her husband, who she claims 972 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:53,360 Speaker 3: she hated. And everyone was like, oh, this is ironic, 973 00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 3: Like she's going to be buried next to Freddy, who 974 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,759 Speaker 3: she's been shit talking for forty years. 975 00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:57,640 Speaker 1: Oh god. 976 00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 3: And I had a dream that night that they were 977 00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:04,480 Speaker 3: dancing together in a kitchen. You know, that was probably 978 00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:05,440 Speaker 3: just creative. 979 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:06,200 Speaker 2: I don't think. 980 00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 3: I don't think I was actually like seeing some afterlife. 981 00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,239 Speaker 3: But but uh, when we were we all went to 982 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:15,000 Speaker 3: her house to clean it out, and I put on 983 00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:20,440 Speaker 3: her wedding hat that she'd worn, and I put on 984 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 3: her old furs and all that stuff, and we were 985 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 3: there and all of a sudden, the doorbell started ringing. 986 00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,040 Speaker 3: We were saying, she would fucking hate this, she would 987 00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:36,239 Speaker 3: hate us in here going through stuff, and then the 988 00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:39,600 Speaker 3: doorbell was just like man like, it just wouldn't stop. 989 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 3: Oh my god, And we all looked outside and Paul's like, 990 00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:46,200 Speaker 3: that doorbell is still broken. I never fixed it because 991 00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 3: she would be mad at me. He's like, that's her. 992 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:50,759 Speaker 3: And we were like, you're fucking with us. Stop and 993 00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,200 Speaker 3: he's like, how am I fucking with you? How would 994 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,160 Speaker 3: I make a doorbell ring? We're all inside. I mean 995 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:57,479 Speaker 3: it was it was weird, and I was like, God 996 00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,959 Speaker 3: damn it, I can't deny that that was something. 997 00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:04,480 Speaker 1: That's something. I mean, that's uh. When I talk to 998 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,960 Speaker 1: people that you try to analyze these things, and of 999 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,759 Speaker 1: course there are a lot of, you know, ways to 1000 00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,319 Speaker 1: rationalize these kinds of experiences, but I love it when 1001 00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,760 Speaker 1: when somebody has an experience with like there's no way, 1002 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 1: Like there's no other explanation. No. 1003 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,040 Speaker 3: And you know, my uncle Paul loves ghosts, but he 1004 00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,879 Speaker 3: also loves fucking with us. And of course, like many 1005 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,640 Speaker 3: of those Christmas and Thanksgivings that we spent together were 1006 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,920 Speaker 3: like part ghost stories that were true and part fucking 1007 00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 3: with us and always trying to scare us. Like that 1008 00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 3: was his favorite thing to do, was scare me because 1009 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 3: I was so into ghosts. 1010 00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,680 Speaker 2: And this was one of those times where he just 1011 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:42,440 Speaker 2: died laughing. 1012 00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:45,120 Speaker 3: He's like, I swear to God the one time I'm 1013 00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,000 Speaker 3: not fucking with you is now. And he's like, I'm 1014 00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,880 Speaker 3: scared too. Now here's how you could explain it away. 1015 00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,600 Speaker 3: The doorbell has been broken for two years. My nana 1016 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 3: didn't hear very well. And who would she tell about this? 1017 00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 3: Maybe it always rang intermittently like that. I don't know, 1018 00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:02,840 Speaker 3: you know, we don't know. But maybe she wasn't alone 1019 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:05,160 Speaker 3: though we might was. You know, my mom still visited 1020 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 3: her once a week, and. 1021 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,399 Speaker 2: It was just like, yeah, she was there. 1022 00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:12,719 Speaker 3: There was something weird about it, you know, and I 1023 00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:17,440 Speaker 3: just felt I felt shook when I had that dream. 1024 00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:23,359 Speaker 2: I just did. And I don't know, I don't know. 1025 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:28,799 Speaker 3: There was just I think my nana died in a 1026 00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:32,480 Speaker 3: kind of a scary way that nobody wants. And I 1027 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,880 Speaker 3: think she was just trying to like tell me, you 1028 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,719 Speaker 3: know what I mean, Like she it seemed there'd been 1029 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:41,560 Speaker 3: like a trail of blood, like she might have hit 1030 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,120 Speaker 3: her head in the bathroom and she was heading towards 1031 00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:48,000 Speaker 3: the phone, and she just she had a really violent fall, 1032 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,840 Speaker 3: like her wedding ring broken half, you know, like it 1033 00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,160 Speaker 3: was just bad. I think she was dead before she fell. 1034 00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,120 Speaker 3: But my uncle said It was just pretty gruesome. And 1035 00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,799 Speaker 3: she was also I used to do this bit about 1036 00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:03,360 Speaker 3: this in my stand up, so I don't mean it 1037 00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,600 Speaker 3: to sound horrible. Bit she had no clothes on except 1038 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:11,680 Speaker 3: for a black bra and it's not funny, but it's 1039 00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 3: just like, you know, obviously she was getting dressed or 1040 00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,480 Speaker 3: undressed or something, but just for her son to have 1041 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,800 Speaker 3: to see that, it was just like, oh my god. 1042 00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:23,719 Speaker 1: Well I love that. In the dream she says that 1043 00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:28,440 Speaker 1: she gets to be young and look cute. 1044 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:32,200 Speaker 3: Well that was That was something that I remembered from 1045 00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:37,040 Speaker 3: growing up that I was always taught. My grandmother had 1046 00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,759 Speaker 3: her own set of Catholicism. It was like based on 1047 00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:44,840 Speaker 3: like conspiracy theories, weird radio shows. She heard some Old Testament, 1048 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:48,920 Speaker 3: some New Testament, some just bullshit, like just made shit up, 1049 00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:50,520 Speaker 3: you know. And she would always tell me, oh, the 1050 00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 3: world's ending in the year two thousand, you know, all 1051 00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:56,680 Speaker 3: this crazy shit. And she used to tell me that heaven, 1052 00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 3: in heaven, you just you get to be your prime age. 1053 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:04,320 Speaker 1: Well, you know, there's a lot of people that believe 1054 00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:07,920 Speaker 1: that whatever you believe is what happens. 1055 00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,239 Speaker 3: Yes, And I believe that I do too, Yes, So 1056 00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,719 Speaker 3: I think that she did end up having that and 1057 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,680 Speaker 3: came to me to tell me even though I won't 1058 00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:16,680 Speaker 3: have that because I believe that. 1059 00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:18,319 Speaker 2: But yes, I totally believe it. 1060 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:23,279 Speaker 1: When I believe that, like what scares you can manifest 1061 00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,480 Speaker 1: as well, you know, like if you're afraid of a 1062 00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:29,000 Speaker 1: demon in the night, then maybe that's how it will 1063 00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:31,760 Speaker 1: appear to you. But if you're afraid of a clown 1064 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:33,799 Speaker 1: in the night, maybe it'll appear that way. Like I 1065 00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:35,840 Speaker 1: think that it's I think that there's something to that, 1066 00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:37,320 Speaker 1: but I don't know. 1067 00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:39,640 Speaker 2: Oh I do, because our minds are so. 1068 00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:45,080 Speaker 3: Mysterious and big, And that's why I said, like I 1069 00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:49,480 Speaker 3: you know, she always she had the crazy ideas the 1070 00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,799 Speaker 3: poor woman. I really wish she'd gotten to live in 1071 00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:55,320 Speaker 3: more modern times. But she was just convinced that God 1072 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:58,280 Speaker 3: and Jesus hated her because she didn't go to church anymore, 1073 00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:02,239 Speaker 3: and you know, and she didn't go because she didn't 1074 00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,120 Speaker 3: really have a way to get there. But then we'd 1075 00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,120 Speaker 3: ask her if she wanted, but I think deep down 1076 00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:07,239 Speaker 3: she just didn't want to go. 1077 00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:10,960 Speaker 1: You know what, It's funny that you you actually brought 1078 00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:14,400 Speaker 1: up like one of my buzzwords on this show or whatever, 1079 00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:17,360 Speaker 1: Like people are so like sick of me talking about it. 1080 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:20,640 Speaker 1: But I grew up Catholic, and I believe that Catholics 1081 00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:24,279 Speaker 1: believe in ghosts. Like it's just like passed out in 1082 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:29,280 Speaker 1: generation because there's just such a tradition of supernatural type 1083 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:31,839 Speaker 1: things and the Catholic belief, and so it's just like 1084 00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:35,480 Speaker 1: ingrained in you to at least teach your kids or 1085 00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:37,920 Speaker 1: you know, like I think parents raise their kids with 1086 00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:39,839 Speaker 1: the belief that they that ghosts are a thing. 1087 00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 3: Well even like in the in the you know, the 1088 00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:46,800 Speaker 3: the Trinity, like the Father Son and Holy Ghost or 1089 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:50,920 Speaker 3: Holy Spirit like that exactly, like the whatever that's supposed 1090 00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,760 Speaker 3: to be this feeling of our soul that that isn't 1091 00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,960 Speaker 3: you know, our brain is referred to as a ghost 1092 00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 3: or whatever. 1093 00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:01,600 Speaker 2: It's so totally but they tell very ghosty. 1094 00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,160 Speaker 1: I think about, like, oh, we're going to turn this 1095 00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 1: wine into blood. Like it's kind of like you have 1096 00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:12,319 Speaker 1: to suspend your belief a little bit or I don't know, 1097 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 1: you have to you really have to believe that. So 1098 00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:18,120 Speaker 1: then if you believe that, then what else is true? 1099 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:20,080 Speaker 3: Well I think then that's what it is in my 1100 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:23,480 Speaker 3: family is they believe all the things. And I don't, 1101 00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,520 Speaker 3: but I do believe that whatever you believe, you get 1102 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:27,680 Speaker 3: because I don't think life is that cruel and I 1103 00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:30,400 Speaker 3: think our brains at the end are made design to 1104 00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:31,040 Speaker 3: comfort us. 1105 00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:34,200 Speaker 1: So well, that's like when you what you said about praying. 1106 00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 1: I mean, there's also people that believe in manifesting through 1107 00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 1: meditation or chanting or you know, there's I think there's 1108 00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 1: different ways of doing things, and it's just like I 1109 00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 1: think that, like, yeah, with religion, whatever you believe in 1110 00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:53,840 Speaker 1: is what works for you. Like there's I don't know. 1111 00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:55,480 Speaker 2: And I love the idea, Like. 1112 00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:01,960 Speaker 3: You know, I love the idea that if she believed 1113 00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:05,520 Speaker 3: in Jesus, that that's what she saw when she died. 1114 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:09,280 Speaker 2: Like just this nice Rob Reiner hit be kind of man, 1115 00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:12,080 Speaker 2: totally her type, her type. 1116 00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:14,920 Speaker 3: Coming to give her a hug and saying, you know, 1117 00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:18,280 Speaker 3: you're forgiven for not going to church or whatever. I mean, 1118 00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 3: I hope, but who knows she was so hard on herself. 1119 00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:22,920 Speaker 2: She probably but. 1120 00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:25,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's like, so I think there's a big 1121 00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 3: tradition in my family of like just a lot of 1122 00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,960 Speaker 3: fantasy and a lot of believing in ghosts. 1123 00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:37,200 Speaker 2: We just loved it, you know, And and I wouldn't 1124 00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:37,760 Speaker 2: take that. 1125 00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:39,680 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not one of these annoying people that 1126 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:41,680 Speaker 3: goes home and is like, Nana, this is real. 1127 00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:44,480 Speaker 2: This's just our minds. Like, no, I don't do that 1128 00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:44,919 Speaker 2: to them. 1129 00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:48,040 Speaker 3: But deep down, I'm like, Okay, all of these ghost 1130 00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:51,480 Speaker 3: stories can't be ghost stories like or else, you guys 1131 00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:54,960 Speaker 3: would be being studied by the greatest scientists of all time. 1132 00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:57,760 Speaker 2: That my family, each person. 1133 00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:00,720 Speaker 3: Has seen more than a hundred ghosts in their life, 1134 00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:01,720 Speaker 3: everywhere they've lived. 1135 00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:04,080 Speaker 2: Like, you guys, you can't be that special. 1136 00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,000 Speaker 1: I just think it's fun to believe it. I mean, 1137 00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,560 Speaker 1: if it's not harming anyone, I think it's just like, 1138 00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:11,160 Speaker 1: why not. 1139 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:13,600 Speaker 2: It's not harming anyone? 1140 00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:18,440 Speaker 3: But it also like there's just other areas where I'm like, Okay, 1141 00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:23,440 Speaker 3: you know, my sister fell for a multi level marketing 1142 00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:25,480 Speaker 3: scheme one, you know what I mean. It ties into 1143 00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,640 Speaker 3: a certain kind of naive you know what I mean, 1144 00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:31,600 Speaker 3: and not always, but I just go like, if we 1145 00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:35,320 Speaker 3: believe in ghosts, let's just be very careful about what 1146 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:36,240 Speaker 3: else we believe. 1147 00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:40,000 Speaker 1: Now that's I think that that's good though, because that's 1148 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,080 Speaker 1: how I was. I mean, I don't think I'm a 1149 00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:45,280 Speaker 1: naive person, because I also think that I'm pretty good 1150 00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:49,400 Speaker 1: at connecting with like my intuition and that sort of 1151 00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:53,240 Speaker 1: a thing, but my gut. But when it comes to ghosts, 1152 00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:56,760 Speaker 1: I've I've always like wanted to believe that things were real, 1153 00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,080 Speaker 1: And as time has gone on, especially from talking to 1154 00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:03,280 Speaker 1: so many different people on this podcast, I'm getting more 1155 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,840 Speaker 1: analytical or I'm just I'm just trying to weigh out 1156 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:10,320 Speaker 1: all the different options. But again, it's so fun when 1157 01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:12,440 Speaker 1: you can't explain things. 1158 01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,240 Speaker 3: Well, you know, there's a there's a ghost hunter that 1159 01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,480 Speaker 3: I was I was listening to some podcast and I 1160 01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:20,240 Speaker 3: guess there's some famous ghost hunter guy. 1161 01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:21,400 Speaker 2: Uh. 1162 01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:23,400 Speaker 3: I don't remember his name, but I think if I 1163 01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:25,560 Speaker 3: said it, you and everyone that is into. 1164 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:27,160 Speaker 2: Ghosts would be like, oh, that guy. 1165 01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:29,480 Speaker 3: He doesn't believe in them, and yet he hosts like 1166 01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:31,720 Speaker 3: one of the most popular shows because he wants there 1167 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:32,640 Speaker 3: to be had. 1168 01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:34,040 Speaker 2: He just hasn't found. 1169 01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:36,920 Speaker 3: He doesn't feel he's found definitive proof even though he's 1170 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,120 Speaker 3: had unexplainable crazy things happen. 1171 01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:42,640 Speaker 2: And so that's kind of where I'm at too, where. 1172 01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:47,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, I would love it, like I would love it. 1173 01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:51,000 Speaker 3: I want ghosts, I want aliens, I want everything I want, 1174 01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:54,400 Speaker 3: like I want to like I don't know, Like there's 1175 01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:57,640 Speaker 3: this notion that somebody said something really cool once, like 1176 01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:59,840 Speaker 3: the dead aren't above us or below us, they're right 1177 01:00:59,880 --> 01:01:03,920 Speaker 3: now to us all times. And I thought that was 1178 01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:04,800 Speaker 3: a neat way to. 1179 01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:05,280 Speaker 2: Look at it. 1180 01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:07,160 Speaker 1: Look behind you. 1181 01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,040 Speaker 2: Yes, and you know it is true. 1182 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:13,080 Speaker 3: Whenever I'm scared at night, I will run and sit 1183 01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,400 Speaker 3: and put my back against the couch. It's always this 1184 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,280 Speaker 3: back thing, and I don't know what that is, but 1185 01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:20,120 Speaker 3: I've had it since I was a kid, But there's 1186 01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:21,200 Speaker 3: something behind me. 1187 01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:27,200 Speaker 1: I still open up the shower curtain. I'm still I 1188 01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:31,400 Speaker 1: don't like being around windows that are open at night, Like, 1189 01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:33,640 Speaker 1: I don't like I have to have curtains covering them. 1190 01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:36,560 Speaker 1: I'm just like I have things like that that I 1191 01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:37,760 Speaker 1: just I can't get over it. 1192 01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:41,080 Speaker 3: Wait, what's the curtains covering the windows thing? In case 1193 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:41,960 Speaker 3: people are looking in. 1194 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:44,000 Speaker 1: I'm afraid that someone could look in, because if the 1195 01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:47,800 Speaker 1: lights are on and you're in the home, anyone outside, 1196 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,800 Speaker 1: you're perfectly illuminated, but you can't see them. 1197 01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:51,680 Speaker 2: Yes. 1198 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 3: No, That's why I'm so grateful that I live on 1199 01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:58,200 Speaker 3: the fourth floor and none of that can happen like 1200 01:01:58,320 --> 01:01:59,520 Speaker 3: no one can look in anywhere. 1201 01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:03,640 Speaker 1: Well, somebody is looking and they're floating, and as a ghosts. 1202 01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:07,480 Speaker 3: An out You never see a ghost outdoors, except my 1203 01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:09,800 Speaker 3: sister who saw three outside of her barn. But like 1204 01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:12,640 Speaker 3: they always seem very indoors, indoorsy types. 1205 01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:14,800 Speaker 1: They're yeah, they're like cats. 1206 01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:16,160 Speaker 2: Like do you see a ghost at the beach? 1207 01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:26,200 Speaker 3: Ever, I do remember this one night, like hearing my 1208 01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:29,840 Speaker 3: parents wake up, and I could hear all this banging downstairs. 1209 01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:33,040 Speaker 3: And my sisters were grown up, and there was no 1210 01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:36,560 Speaker 3: pets and very small house. It wasn't like someone could 1211 01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:41,200 Speaker 3: have passed through and got like and uh. I heard 1212 01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:43,800 Speaker 3: my parents sort of talking it out, like what do 1213 01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:45,680 Speaker 3: we do? Do we call nine one one? Like is 1214 01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:48,000 Speaker 3: this it is someone in the house, you know? And 1215 01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:50,680 Speaker 3: you could hear it. It felt like someone walking around 1216 01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:53,120 Speaker 3: in our kitchen and like banging pots and pants. 1217 01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:55,280 Speaker 2: And my dad got his baseball bat. 1218 01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:58,040 Speaker 3: I could hear them doing this, and he went downstairs 1219 01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:01,520 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, we're fucked, you know, and 1220 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:05,080 Speaker 3: he's like hello, and he turned on the lights and 1221 01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 3: all the noise. 1222 01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:06,680 Speaker 2: Stopped and no one was there. 1223 01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:08,320 Speaker 1: That is so scary. 1224 01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:10,600 Speaker 2: It was terrifying. And I remember him coming back up 1225 01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:11,040 Speaker 2: and I was like. 1226 01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:13,600 Speaker 3: Dad, I heard everything, and he's like, it's just a 1227 01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:17,000 Speaker 3: ghost gen like that, you know, go back to that. 1228 01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:19,200 Speaker 1: It's just the literal boogeyman. 1229 01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, oh, okay, but you know 1230 01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:22,800 Speaker 2: stuff like that. 1231 01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:25,360 Speaker 3: It's like maybe it was mice, you know, I don't, 1232 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:29,480 Speaker 3: you know, and they were in the cabinets like who knowshing. 1233 01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:31,320 Speaker 1: I saw the other night where I had just taken 1234 01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:34,400 Speaker 1: a shower super hot water and then I was hearing 1235 01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:38,800 Speaker 1: banging and I guess it's like the water heater doing 1236 01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,960 Speaker 1: that kind of a thing and like an apartment. But 1237 01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:44,959 Speaker 1: I was like, I think there's somebody in the other room. 1238 01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:48,479 Speaker 2: I don't like that when you're in the bathroom and. 1239 01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:51,000 Speaker 1: That's a scary thing because is it like what if 1240 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:54,280 Speaker 1: it was somebody? Like so I don't want to be like, 1241 01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:56,800 Speaker 1: you're getting that predicament where you're like, do I call 1242 01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:58,640 Speaker 1: the cops, because with the cops come here and there's 1243 01:03:58,680 --> 01:03:59,520 Speaker 1: nobody here. 1244 01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 3: Right and they're like, oh boy, well, you know, I 1245 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,520 Speaker 3: will say this for someone that I don't like, definitively 1246 01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 3: believe in ghosts or not. If you gave me the 1247 01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,840 Speaker 3: choice of two houses, and they were exactly the same, 1248 01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:13,760 Speaker 3: and I would have no problems with either one. It's 1249 01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:17,840 Speaker 3: just that one was a little one was built yesterday, 1250 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,240 Speaker 3: and one was built two hundred years ago, and there 1251 01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:22,320 Speaker 3: might even be more benefits to the one from two 1252 01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:24,439 Speaker 3: hundred years ago, so it's cheap or whatever. I would 1253 01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:26,240 Speaker 3: go with the one that was just built. I am, 1254 01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:29,240 Speaker 3: you know, I would be afraid of hauntings. 1255 01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:31,560 Speaker 1: Well, do you know about the Los Felis murder house? 1256 01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:32,400 Speaker 1: That's it for sale? 1257 01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:35,120 Speaker 2: You know what's so funny. 1258 01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:38,560 Speaker 3: I hate anything about like murder and killing, and I 1259 01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:43,080 Speaker 3: just it. I feel like I'm attracting demonic energy if 1260 01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,800 Speaker 3: I listened to podcasts about that or watch things about it. 1261 01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:48,320 Speaker 3: But I went on a walk, and I haven't really 1262 01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:50,200 Speaker 3: been doing much in the quarantine, but I went on 1263 01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:53,400 Speaker 3: a socially distanced mask walk with my friend and he 1264 01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:56,240 Speaker 3: is really into all this kind of stuff, and he 1265 01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:59,280 Speaker 3: was like, that's the Los Fela's murder house, and. 1266 01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:00,200 Speaker 2: It was all well. 1267 01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:02,720 Speaker 3: He said he'd walked by it like last year and 1268 01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:06,760 Speaker 3: they still had a Christmas tree up and like presence unwrapped. Yeah, 1269 01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 3: it's like the doctor that killed all his family. 1270 01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been a couple of years because a couple 1271 01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:13,680 Speaker 1: moved in they started like renovating it and then they 1272 01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:16,920 Speaker 1: all modern. Oh they got out, they got out of there. 1273 01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:18,720 Speaker 1: And right now. The last time I looked at the 1274 01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:22,080 Speaker 1: listing a couple of weeks ago, it's like just stripped 1275 01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:24,920 Speaker 1: down to the studs and it's like it would take 1276 01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:28,680 Speaker 1: so much work to make it livable. But it's still 1277 01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:30,400 Speaker 1: at least, you know, like on the outside. 1278 01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:32,520 Speaker 2: And yeah, because we. 1279 01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:34,600 Speaker 3: Walked by, it looks a brand new modern on the 1280 01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:40,200 Speaker 3: outside and oh interesting, well se Yeah, I wonder if 1281 01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:41,880 Speaker 3: the people left because it was haunted. 1282 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:46,640 Speaker 1: I think it's probably because it was so much work. Oh, 1283 01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:49,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it's like a it has like a ballroom, 1284 01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:53,520 Speaker 1: like it's like a huge mansion that is like so 1285 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,320 Speaker 1: old and has been abandoned for like since I think 1286 01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:59,560 Speaker 1: the fifties. Like, ugh, I can't even imagine what you 1287 01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:01,840 Speaker 1: would have to do. Well then, I also speaking of 1288 01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:06,840 Speaker 1: Los Felis murder houses, the uh with the LaBianca murder happened. 1289 01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:10,560 Speaker 1: That house just went back up for sale after being 1290 01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:14,560 Speaker 1: bought by the guy from Ghost Adventures. He was going 1291 01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:16,520 Speaker 1: there for like a year and then he put what's 1292 01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:17,240 Speaker 1: that guy's name? 1293 01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:18,560 Speaker 2: That might be the guy I'm talking about. 1294 01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:21,120 Speaker 1: Waggins. No, he is, he's somebody that's like that was 1295 01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:26,440 Speaker 1: a something just touched me like he's okay, very into that. Wait, uh, 1296 01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:28,320 Speaker 1: we have one more thing that I wanted to do. 1297 01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:32,280 Speaker 1: If you're down, we play a game where we listen 1298 01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:34,240 Speaker 1: to ghost voices. Does that sound good? 1299 01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:38,440 Speaker 2: Terrifying? But yeah, it's time for it. 1300 01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:47,200 Speaker 1: EVP or ev plice. Okay, you know what an EVP is, right, yeah, 1301 01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:50,560 Speaker 1: of course. So I go to YouTube and I find 1302 01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:56,280 Speaker 1: EVPs Electronic Voice phenomena, and I like to have my 1303 01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:59,360 Speaker 1: guests listen to it and tell me either what they 1304 01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:03,640 Speaker 1: heard or what the ghost hunter believes that the ghost said. 1305 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:05,760 Speaker 1: So I'll play it and then I'll give you some options. 1306 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:12,080 Speaker 1: This first one on YouTube is from somebody named Oh. 1307 01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:15,720 Speaker 1: It's from Haunted Salem and it's in Salem, Massachusetts. 1308 01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:17,400 Speaker 3: Oh, by the way, spend a lot of time in 1309 01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:19,440 Speaker 3: Salem that feels haunted ish it. 1310 01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:21,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I want to go there so bad. 1311 01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:24,960 Speaker 3: I've gone on all of the witch House tours. There 1312 01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:26,600 Speaker 3: is something going on there. 1313 01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:30,600 Speaker 1: Oh so cool. Now they didn't say where exactly in Salem. 1314 01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:34,320 Speaker 1: This was but tell me what you hear? 1315 01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:43,560 Speaker 2: Well, I heard a man's voice, but this what am 1316 01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 2: I supposed to? 1317 01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:47,600 Speaker 1: What do you hear? Well, let's tune in and let's 1318 01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:55,880 Speaker 1: see if you could hear any words at all. Okay, 1319 01:07:56,880 --> 01:07:59,920 Speaker 1: I they edited it. It sounds very robotic. 1320 01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:03,120 Speaker 2: I do hear a guy's voice. But is this supposedly 1321 01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:05,640 Speaker 2: someone that you? Oh, bless me? 1322 01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,560 Speaker 3: Is this supposedly someone that went into a home with 1323 01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:09,800 Speaker 3: a recording device. 1324 01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:14,320 Speaker 1: They went someplace in Salem and where I'm assuming ghost 1325 01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:19,320 Speaker 1: hunting because it's called Haunted Salem, and they caught this voice. 1326 01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,759 Speaker 2: If I if I did that, I would feel scared. 1327 01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:24,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you hear that? Anything? 1328 01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:25,559 Speaker 2: I did? 1329 01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:28,400 Speaker 3: But I, you know, I'm like, well, that was just 1330 01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:32,640 Speaker 3: like a air traffic control like. I don't believe that 1331 01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:35,839 Speaker 3: that's from a person in Salem posting their like I think. 1332 01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:37,960 Speaker 1: It's Well, let me give you some options, because it 1333 01:08:38,040 --> 01:08:40,880 Speaker 1: was they believe it was one of these options. Is 1334 01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:46,439 Speaker 1: it a ooh I just can't handle you. B we 1335 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:52,519 Speaker 1: are behind you, Christina? Is it c you just turned 1336 01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:53,120 Speaker 1: twenty two? 1337 01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,479 Speaker 2: Wait? These are the things they think that it's. 1338 01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:58,439 Speaker 1: One of these options, And I've got one more. 1339 01:08:58,920 --> 01:08:59,960 Speaker 2: Okay, wait, play it again. 1340 01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:04,519 Speaker 1: Okay, here it is. 1341 01:09:05,640 --> 01:09:09,559 Speaker 2: I didn't hear any discernable words, but sir, we play 1342 01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:18,400 Speaker 2: it again. I hear nothing but. 1343 01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:24,040 Speaker 1: The options again. So hey, ooh, I just can't handle you. 1344 01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:29,599 Speaker 1: B we are behind you, Christina. See you just turned 1345 01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:30,520 Speaker 1: twenty two? 1346 01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:32,759 Speaker 2: Or I think it would be oh yeah. 1347 01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:36,240 Speaker 1: D welcome to Jack in the box. Would you like 1348 01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:39,120 Speaker 1: to try our new sauce and loaded curly fries with chipple, 1349 01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:40,080 Speaker 1: cheese and bacon. 1350 01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:44,519 Speaker 3: I think it's see if anything, but I didn't hear 1351 01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:46,120 Speaker 3: any discernible words. 1352 01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:53,599 Speaker 1: They believe it is. We are behind you, Christina. 1353 01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:54,200 Speaker 2: Of course they do. 1354 01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:56,040 Speaker 1: Maybe it's the ghost of John Crawford. 1355 01:09:56,880 --> 01:10:01,280 Speaker 2: I don't hear. How did they hear? And I hear. 1356 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:04,000 Speaker 3: I can tell it sounds like a man's frequency of 1357 01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:04,559 Speaker 3: a voice. 1358 01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:06,439 Speaker 2: But that's it. I can't tell words. 1359 01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:08,840 Speaker 1: I know, I didn't really hear it. Deiler, Well, let 1360 01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,559 Speaker 1: me play it one more. This is from somebody named 1361 01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:17,840 Speaker 1: Joseph Fontaine, and he wrote along an old stagecoach path 1362 01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:21,760 Speaker 1: in the woods of Attleborough, Massachusetts. 1363 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:22,760 Speaker 2: Oh haunted, yep, I. 1364 01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:26,880 Speaker 1: Came across an old foundation while metal detecting, always a 1365 01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:31,439 Speaker 1: metal detector guy. This voice was recorded as soon as 1366 01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:34,160 Speaker 1: I came to the foundation and turned my recorder on. 1367 01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,479 Speaker 1: It seems intelligent and aware of my presence, and it 1368 01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:41,280 Speaker 1: also sounds female. Okay, this one, I think I can 1369 01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:43,280 Speaker 1: hear a little bit better. All right, here we go. 1370 01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,439 Speaker 1: It's a lot of background noise, but it's kind of 1371 01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:51,160 Speaker 1: a whisper voice. Let me play it again. 1372 01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:57,200 Speaker 2: Okay, I just hear birds. 1373 01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:00,599 Speaker 1: I know you can definitely hear birds, but it's like. 1374 01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:02,160 Speaker 2: I know what you mean by the whisper. 1375 01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:04,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, well here, let me give you some options. 1376 01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:06,920 Speaker 2: It's way too low. Okay. 1377 01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:12,679 Speaker 1: Is it A you're not my brother either, B remember 1378 01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 1: evil canievil? See get out of here? No more people? 1379 01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:23,000 Speaker 1: Or D I'm out of the rainbow paper. You know 1380 01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:26,360 Speaker 1: that thing like when you are a manager at a 1381 01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:31,240 Speaker 1: gay pride stationery store and you run out of Oh yes, 1382 01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:32,000 Speaker 1: you know that thing. 1383 01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:34,679 Speaker 2: One of my many jobs. Wait, play it one more time. 1384 01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:42,160 Speaker 3: I guess I maybe could hear the word people, so 1385 01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:43,560 Speaker 3: I'd say no more people. 1386 01:11:43,360 --> 01:11:45,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, get out of here, no more people, which is 1387 01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:49,959 Speaker 1: like very relevant to now, like people in these grocery 1388 01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:54,080 Speaker 1: store packs. I honestly I hear I'm out of the 1389 01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:55,000 Speaker 1: rainbow paper. 1390 01:11:58,160 --> 01:11:58,880 Speaker 2: I wish it was. 1391 01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:01,240 Speaker 3: I still don't even really hear anything, but there is 1392 01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:02,960 Speaker 3: something with the P for sure. 1393 01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:07,479 Speaker 1: Turns out the correct answer for that one was see 1394 01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:12,479 Speaker 1: get out of here, no more people. Oh, Jen, this 1395 01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:16,280 Speaker 1: has been wonderful. Thank you so much. It's been interesting 1396 01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:21,839 Speaker 1: to hear your like you have a very a different 1397 01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:25,679 Speaker 1: type of approach than then I was thinking for some reason, 1398 01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:28,719 Speaker 1: I don't know, for some reason, I guess I assume 1399 01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:32,640 Speaker 1: that you like really believed or something, but I don't know. 1400 01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:36,400 Speaker 1: I think it's cool to hear the way you break 1401 01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:36,840 Speaker 1: it down. 1402 01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:39,360 Speaker 3: Well, I think there was a time when I really 1403 01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:42,320 Speaker 3: really did and then just something like I wasn't trying 1404 01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:44,639 Speaker 3: to not believe, but then I just think, naturally something 1405 01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:47,120 Speaker 3: happened really went. Oh, I guess I don't, but that 1406 01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:48,880 Speaker 3: doesn't mean that I don't love it, And then I 1407 01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:51,120 Speaker 3: don't want there to be and then I'm I'm sure 1408 01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:54,479 Speaker 3: I'm wrong, you know. Yeah, it's just fun to think 1409 01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:57,240 Speaker 3: about it. And I love that your EVP clips were 1410 01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:00,519 Speaker 3: from Massachusetts and I was talking about that that it's weird. 1411 01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:05,040 Speaker 1: Well, I try to not to your well, actually yeah 1412 01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:07,519 Speaker 1: it was. That was a ghost thing. No, but I 1413 01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:10,880 Speaker 1: tried to. I try to take it from places where 1414 01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:11,639 Speaker 1: people are from. 1415 01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:15,519 Speaker 2: Well, something's going on in Salem for sure? 1416 01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:18,840 Speaker 1: What's going on with you? Where? Where can people find you? 1417 01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:23,080 Speaker 1: Can you say where the uh? The your Christmas show 1418 01:13:23,160 --> 01:13:23,519 Speaker 1: is again? 1419 01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:24,720 Speaker 2: Oh sure? 1420 01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:27,920 Speaker 3: If people want to come, it's on location live dot 1421 01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:32,200 Speaker 3: com slash Jen Kirkman or follow me on Twitter at 1422 01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:35,479 Speaker 3: Jen Kirkman and it would be the pinned tweet. And 1423 01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:37,960 Speaker 3: then I also have a free podcast people can listen 1424 01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:41,600 Speaker 3: to called No Fun, the Jen Kirkman Podcast anywhere you 1425 01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:44,160 Speaker 3: get podcasts. It's just me an hour a week talking 1426 01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:47,200 Speaker 3: about what went on in my life and the world 1427 01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:50,840 Speaker 3: that week, and you know, just it's really stupid. It's 1428 01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:52,679 Speaker 3: not really political or anything serious. 1429 01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:57,000 Speaker 1: I love it though. I mean it's like it's it's 1430 01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,559 Speaker 1: almost like listening to someone's diary or something. Like you're 1431 01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:08,599 Speaker 1: so open and you share all kinds of things. Thank you, Jen. 1432 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:15,520 Speaker 1: Isn't that such an interesting perspective. It's like she's definitely 1433 01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:19,720 Speaker 1: she seems to be a skeptic, you know, but she's 1434 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:24,880 Speaker 1: had her experiences and she's very funny about it. And 1435 01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:29,880 Speaker 1: check out her Christmas show. I love her Christmas Show 1436 01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:34,479 Speaker 1: and that's actually, oh my god, this tomorrow, so you know, 1437 01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:37,200 Speaker 1: make sure you go check that out and follow her 1438 01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:40,840 Speaker 1: on the social media platforms for all that information. I'll 1439 01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:45,240 Speaker 1: be doing a listener episode very soon, so please if 1440 01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:48,320 Speaker 1: you have a listener story, I want to talk to 1441 01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:51,120 Speaker 1: you on the show, So send those to me. I'd 1442 01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:54,439 Speaker 1: ghosted by Roz at gmail dot com and put in 1443 01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:58,400 Speaker 1: the subject line listener episode. If you want me to 1444 01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:01,439 Speaker 1: give a shout out to your love ones, if you 1445 01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:08,040 Speaker 1: want me to say Hi, Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, happy Hanukkah, whatever, 1446 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:13,400 Speaker 1: I'll say it. That's just Cameo dot com slash rozdres Fales. 1447 01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:17,320 Speaker 1: Follow me on all the platforms at Roz dress Fales, 1448 01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:22,519 Speaker 1: join our Facebook group Ghosted by Roz dress Fales, and 1449 01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:27,439 Speaker 1: hear that exclusive bonus clip that I find very juicy 1450 01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:32,639 Speaker 1: with Jen Kirkman at patreon dot com slash roz dress 1451 01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:35,479 Speaker 1: Fales where she talks about the EVP that she captured 1452 01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:41,600 Speaker 1: and the spooky backstory that is not necessarily paranormal but 1453 01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:45,920 Speaker 1: nonetheless terrifying. And you can see those clips of me 1454 01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:50,280 Speaker 1: hearing an EVP at the Old La Zoo and talking 1455 01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:55,040 Speaker 1: about haunted dolls on eBay. Please give the show five stars, 1456 01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:57,840 Speaker 1: and if you have a ghost Story, leave it on 1457 01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:01,639 Speaker 1: a five star review, and tell your friends about it. 1458 01:16:03,080 --> 01:16:06,360 Speaker 1: I love you all, both living and dead. But if 1459 01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:09,160 Speaker 1: I didn't ask you to haunt me, don't haunt me. 1460 01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:25,519 Speaker 1: Okay bye. Star Bans a podcast network