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Speaker 1: people who go out on second dates never return our emails.

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Speaker 1: an update on their situation. We're gonna play their original

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Speaker 1: that's coming up next second date update. What counts as

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Speaker 1: dating right now? I think that's a fair question. Like

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Speaker 1: is that Well, that's how I used to date. I

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Speaker 1: thought that was dating. If you've only bought you socks

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Speaker 2: In that case?

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Speaker 1: In some circles, I think that might qualify. And one

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Speaker 1: her hangout should be considered worthy of a second date update.

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Speaker 1: She said she was hoping that we would do it.

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Speaker 3: Well, we have low standards, so I'm sure we will.

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Speaker 1: And she's actually lucky that the first four people that

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Speaker 1: Because of that, Nicole, you are worthy of a second date.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Hookup, Nicole. We look forward to

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Speaker 1: helping you, even if you've only bought someone socks recently. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: well I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start

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Speaker 4: Nicole?

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Speaker 1: Who are we trying to call today?

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Speaker 5: We're trying to well, Evan, I wasn't sure afet answer

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Speaker 2: Oh I think that counts more than like a three

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's thoughtful, it's planned out right.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date. I actually I

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Speaker 5: You know, when you meet people online, there's a lot

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Speaker 2: Is that why you chose to do a virtual date,

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Speaker 1: Or because you can start a virtual date with no

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Speaker 2: That usually makes a date go better even in person.

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Speaker 6: A little bit of both, A little bit of both.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of

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Speaker 1: She meant. I think she meant that as a compliment.

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Speaker 5: I was a little nervous because he had a really

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Speaker 5: No, No, and it wasn't messy because his idea is

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Speaker 3: It's not a bad angle.

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Speaker 1: All right, So how do you end a burrito date?

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Speaker 5: We were just hanging out and talking, you know, we

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Speaker 6: But he asked me to play a little bit.

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Speaker 5: Or something, no, like another One bites the Dust or

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Speaker 2: But you're worried that it like turned him off. Did

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Speaker 5: virtual date. I was like, do I not look like

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Speaker 5: I don't know why he's kind of faded out.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like you covered a lot of basses there, Nicole.

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Speaker 1: Do you have your bass guitar with you right now?

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Speaker 5: It's in the other room, but it's it's here.

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Speaker 3: These so uncomfortable people playing music. That's just because you have.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's good because we actually have to play a song.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, radio, hold on update.

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Speaker 2: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 2: right after you here part two.

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Speaker 1: I'm purposely bumping into this segment without any music because

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Speaker 3: I've never been so excited about the second part. It's

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Speaker 1: just a second. But she's an up and coming bass player. Nicole.

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Speaker 1: We asked for a little demonstration because you played a

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Speaker 5: I'm telling you I just started this month another one

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Speaker 1: and jam please welcome to the stage for your listening pleasure.

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Speaker 1: Nicole and the finger flip.

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Speaker 2: Nic That would give her a second day to think,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 7: Okay, body, all right, now.

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Speaker 1: We've heard the YouTube version. Now play it yourself. An't

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Speaker 5: That was legit.

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Speaker 1: And so if you're just joining us and you don't

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Speaker 1: know why Nicole played, it's because during her virtual date

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Speaker 1: to show him what she's been doing, along with tasting

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Speaker 2: That is, if you didn't die from embarrassment just now, Nicole,

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Speaker 5: I'm still breathing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna dial Evan's phone, and we're gonna try

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My name is jeff from the

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Speaker 1: radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're hoping

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Speaker 4: Uh okay, Well I'm not interested, so, uh, could you

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Speaker 1: Regardless that No, yeah, it's not us, it's actually somebody

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Speaker 1: to call you. Her name is Nicole.

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Speaker 4: Oh so this is a real call.

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Speaker 2: Then, yes, yes, dial one to sign up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so what's going on with this is called a

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, to be honest, I don't think an in

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Speaker 1: Oh that's too bad.

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Speaker 2: I mean she seems so fun loving and your date

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Speaker 2: a what would we call it a burrito battle?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we had burritos and it was fun. It was

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Speaker 4: a fun date, don't get me wrong. But if I

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Speaker 4: must get into it, Nicole is a liar.

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Speaker 2: WHOA, that's heavy.

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Speaker 4: Well what I found out that she liked to me

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, dang, bro Like, I mean, is that how

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Speaker 4: She told me she was twenty nine, but I found

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Speaker 3: Wait year are you? Is that a joke?

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Speaker 4: No? That's the wretch flank to me, Like, what a

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Speaker 3: That's true?

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Speaker 1: Who cares?

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Speaker 3: It's one year?

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Speaker 1: Well what does that mean to you?

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Speaker 1: Why is that such a big deal that she's one

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Speaker 4: Well, she's lying about that. What else could she be

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Speaker 2: Just maybe she made her profile when she was twenty

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I get it.

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Speaker 1: If you're not concerned about it, Evan, then you should

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but this was after our date, and I wasn't

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Speaker 1: You're just gonna move on. Well, are you okay if

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Speaker 1: I asked her that question, because Nicole is actually on

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Speaker 1: I'm happy to do that for you. Oh great, So yeah,

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Speaker 1: here she has Nicole. Is it true did you lie

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Speaker 6: I wasn't like lying directly to Evan. It's not that

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Speaker 5: On my dating profile, I said, yeah, I'm twenty nine.

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Speaker 6: It's one year.

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Speaker 5: It really bothered you haven't one year firm.

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Speaker 4: It's just really weird, Like why why one year? Like

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Speaker 4: I see, if you lied by like five years, I

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Speaker 5: I mean year old really honestly, like, okay, wow, I

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Speaker 6: I'fs like I met someone and they were like forty

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Speaker 5: This is one year, and I.

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Speaker 6: Really feel weird that I actually have to explain this.

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Speaker 5: But I was on other dating websites and I have

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Speaker 6: So it was just a way to just maybe broad

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Speaker 2: So you were just trying to optimize your matches by

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Speaker 4: I mean, I buy it, but I feel weird about it.

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Speaker 3: How old are you, Evan?

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Speaker 2: I thought it was going to be something like I

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Speaker 1: It's just the more.

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Speaker 3: If she would have told you she was thirty, you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. It seems like she's gaming the

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Speaker 3: Isn't that what dating naps are for?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you obviously on your range set that you liked

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Speaker 4: First of all, I was sitting down for the entirety

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Speaker 2: just it seems like a pretty superficial reason not to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess so, and I accept her reasoning to

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Speaker 6: Okay, you know it's okay. Honestly, this was probably good

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Speaker 5: Gonna bother you and you're gonna not call me back

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Speaker 5: or even talk to me about it.

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Speaker 6: It probably is better that we don't see each other again.

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Speaker 1: It's spoken like a true thirty year old, right. It

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Speaker 4: Wait, but now that I've heard your reasoning, like, I'm

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Speaker 4: into it, let's not give up on there. It's just

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Speaker 5: You called me at The first thing you said about

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Speaker 5: me on this call was I'm a liar.

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Speaker 4: No thanks, but you did lie.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's not wrong on it. Oh man, this is

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Speaker 1: like such a little thing.

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Speaker 2: Guys. It's like they're already in their first fight and

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She is kind of going towards her midlife though, Brooks So,

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Speaker 1: but I'm still willing to offer to send you guys

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean maybe I jumped to conclusions too quickly

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Speaker 4: But if she's get.

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Speaker 1: It okay, well, Nicole, he admits that he made a mistake.

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Speaker 2: And which is a huge thing right now. Like to

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Speaker 1: So can we meet in the middle here and go

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Speaker 1: out just one more time and we'll pay for it?

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Speaker 1: Think of the burritos.

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Speaker 4: I can prove that build.

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Speaker 1: And maybe what would do it is if he's honest

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Speaker 1: really thinks about your bass playing.

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Speaker 4: It was pretty solid for someone who that live been

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Speaker 1: It wasn't over the top like glowing review. It wasn't horrible.

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Speaker 1: It was like, it's pretty good.

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Speaker 4: I would like to hear more.

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Speaker 5: Come on, all right, fine, stop yelling.

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Speaker 1: Me court into a second date, Nicole, to celebrate you

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Speaker 1: want to play a little bit of bass guitar on

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Speaker 1: the way out?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I like I'm trying.

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Speaker 5: No, maybe not.

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Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Making their glorious return to our show. A few months later,

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Speaker 1: we have Evan and Nicole once again back to give

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Speaker 1: us an update. Welcome back, guys, Yeah, hey every day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you both still sound friendly, which is a good sign.

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Speaker 5: I just want to first of all, clear the air.

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Speaker 5: A bit after that second date, the infamous second Day aired,

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Speaker 5: I got a lot of heat actually from my friends

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Speaker 2: Who really about lying about being twenty nine on your

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Yes, but you know, when we did the call, I

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Speaker 5: didn't know what Evan was going to say. We got

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Speaker 7: I said, what I said on my profile.

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Speaker 6: I panicked.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's a lot someone call you a liar

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Speaker 4: I said I was thirty, but the truth is, I'm

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Speaker 2: What the whole thing was based on how it was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how old are you?

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Speaker 6: I am thirty four?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's still not that big of a difference, I know, but.

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Speaker 1: It is when you say, Okay, you're right, I'm thirty,

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Speaker 1: to call her, she's gonna be fifty. Why didn't you

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Speaker 6: Well, I was. I was worried that if I know

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Speaker 5: More death right or set or whatever, because he really

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Speaker 1: For being thirty And Evan, how did you take that?

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Speaker 4: Not as bad as I did the first time?

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Speaker 6: Weirdly, Oh, it was pretty bad.

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Speaker 3: He was conditioned exactly an age at this point.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh. Well she opened with it, which I appreciated,

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Speaker 4: and uh, I get it. Like she was on the radio,

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Speaker 3: Are you dating an older woman then? Right now?

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Speaker 4: I am dating a cougar right now? Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It's nice when one of these actually turns out. We congratulations, guys,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, and remember you can always email the show.

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Speaker 1: We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back. It's

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.