WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Stripped Bed 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:02.080 From Hollywood to you. 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:03.720 Thank you for listening to Ryan. 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:07.720 Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:15.360 Good Monday Morning, Monday. I know this is Tiny's favorite 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:17.079 day of the week, so she's celebrating. 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:21.280 I want you guys to think of Mondays differently. Actually, 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:22.599 Mondays are mid for me. 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:28.600 No really, No, here's why. If I think of Monday differently, 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:31.920 Friday's less. Like I need money to be at a 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:34.839 certain decibel, so Friday's higher. Yeah, Mom builds up as 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:38.080 the week goes. Exactly. If there's no build, it's like 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.680 having too much sugar, right right, Like if you have 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:43.519 dessert every day, it's it. Doesn't you don't look forward 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:44.200 to it on Friday? 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:44.479 I know? 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:47.560 But then don't you love a reset Like I love 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:49.640 a reset. It's like my favorite thing. And I feel 0:00:49.640 --> 0:00:50.800 like Monday is a reset. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:53.159 We have so much to do. Yeah, that's why I 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:55.360 don't see it as a reset. I see it as 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:56.360 the mountain. 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:59.480 Yes, yeah, check the checklist of things that we need 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:01.480 to get done, the need to get done for the week. 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:03.760 Yeah, it's a game. 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:04.839 That's why we're all different. 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:10.080 Guys. Tanya say something, Well, I don't know what I mean. 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:11.319 I think that mondays. 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:12.160 Are you staring at me? 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:16.120 Because Mondays are they set the tone for the week? 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:18.760 Or you if you have a bad Monday, you're gonna well, 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:20.560 let's say you have a good Monday, You're gonna have 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:21.080 a good week. 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.920 So there's the positive reinforcement you need. Then there's the 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:25.680 realist in Sissy and I saying we got to climb 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:27.639 them ountain. But fine, all we're all in it together. 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:31.039 But he continues highs in the upper eighties, low hundreds inland. 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:34.479 It's hot a week. So just to set it out 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:36.720 this hour, I want to talk about this. If you 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:38.520 and your partner are starting to feel a little lack 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:42.320 of connection, maybe it's your Monday every day, then we'll 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:45.240 let you know something that might help that spark come 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:50.240 back immediately. We'll talk about that this hour. Okay, Ryan's 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:54.040 roses next hour. So she came home early from work 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:57.360 the other day. She found her with their bed stripped 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:01.360 and the blinds closed. What's the bed strip? WHOA what'd 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:02.720 you do in the bed? You had to strip the bed? 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:04.559 Well, if they have kids, maybe one of the kids 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:05.240 came in the bed. 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.640 And pete or threw up, or maybe or maybe he 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:09.200 had a fever and swept through the night. 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:11.360 Nope, nope, no noe. 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:14.840 Okay, are you saying note like you know or he doesn't? 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:17.600 I do? Oh I read some of the emails. Oh 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:22.079 so that's a seven forty six Nags magic mound tickets 0:02:22.080 --> 0:02:26.240 every hour? First, how will your day shape up? Do 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:29.480 you follow your star sign? Sistany Tanya, let's go for it. 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:32.040 All right, we're gonna kick it off with aries. Sometimes 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:33.760 saying nothing is saying at all. 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:38.000 Taurus, try to get to the green today. Gemini, try 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:39.320 meditating before you. 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:39.800 Go to bed. 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:42.279 Cancer, say hi to a stranger today. 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:45.320 Leo, seek deeper to get the answer you're looking for. 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:49.560 Virgo, listen to an old album for the nostalgia feelings today. Libra, 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:54.440 quit the cycle today, Scorpio. Positivity will get you through 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:58.880 the day, Sagittarius. Plan for something in twenty twenty five, Capricorn. 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:02.760 If you can't figure it out, dance it out, Aquarius. 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:06.360 Spiderwebs aren't built in a day, Pisces, try planting a 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:07.160 new sea today. 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.720 All right, so good luck with accomplishing what you need 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:14.200 to today. You know, in a second, I also want 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:16.880 to get into I'm reading about all the new venues 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.760 named for the Olympics in Los Angeles. Very exciting. All 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:23.240 this is happening in our backyard. It may it'll be crowded, 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:25.880 but then afterwards there are some real benefits to the 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:28.600 stuff that will be happening here. So we'll get into 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.640 that first sysney. What do we miss while we were sleeping? 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:34.400 Well, Vice President Kamala Harris has emerged as the front 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:38.920 runner for the Democratic nomination in the hours since President 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:42.960 Biden announced he would not seek reelection. The Democratic Convention 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:47.960 starts August nineteenth. In Chicago, a vegetation fire near Corona 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:51.960 and Lake Matthews has forced officials to give evacuation orders 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:53.560 to some residents. 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:53.720 In the area. 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:57.000 The fire is currently about four hundred and fifty acres 0:03:57.040 --> 0:04:01.280 and twenty five percent contained. And Twisters opened number one 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:04.560 at the weekend box office with eighty point five million, 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:08.120 the year's third biggest opening after Inside Out two and 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:09.440 June Part two. 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:12.600 And that's what happened overnight. Well, the Paris Olympics they 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:17.600 start this week. It's so wild, so many great memories 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:21.320 of the Olympics with you guys. I know, remember we 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:24.640 went to London, went to Rio Tubs, I don't know why. 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:26.960 It stands out to me that you had the most 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:29.800 fun in Rio. I can tell you why. 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:33.080 Why because he was single at the time and it 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:36.599 was during his birthday, so it was just like extra kind. 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:39.000 Of party vibes the tubs. I was single then, I 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.480 remember specifically, and I know why I remember. 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:43.840 Care to share. 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:50.160 Nice remember specifically, and I know why I remember tubs. 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:52.640 But you were single and you were that's when you 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:58.800 just discovered Tinder, right, Yeah, that was earlyubs days. Yeah, 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:00.800 but we're at the real Olympics. I'll never forget it. 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:02.040 I mean, good on tubbs. 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:05.200 You're in Brazil. What I mean, that's what you're d 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:06.039 in Brazil. 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:08.800 I mean, why wouldn't he It's Brazilian women. 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:12.280 Hello times, did you? Yeah? I don't talk about it 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:16.920 because you're engaged. Oh, it was all very like innocent. 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:20.800 Yeah yeah, yeah. You want a gold medal that year 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:25.520 for Tinder Tubs right now a wheel? Are you at 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:28.680 the Wheel of Fortune Studio? Yes? I am. How's it 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:32.960 going there? Uh, it's coming along a lot of that's 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:35.799 sound good. We're building the kiss M Studio the Wheel 0:05:35.800 --> 0:05:38.400 of Fortune set. Yeah, that's pretty cool. Cool. I want 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:42.839 to spin that wheel. Well, I saw your video of 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:44.960 you spinning the wheel. Yeah, I was the first. 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:45.599 Is it heavy? 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:49.160 It is? Yeah, I'd be the contestant if I were 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:51.200 to play, be the contestant where the wheel goes two wedges. 0:05:51.320 --> 0:05:53.040 Yeah, I'll do it again, sir. 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:54.920 A lot of cords to plug it, all right. So 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:56.800 I bring up the Olympics because I was just reading 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:59.039 four years from now Olympics here in l A. And 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:02.640 they're we're announcing what is going to take place where. 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:04.679 So the coliseum is going to have track and field, 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:08.000 which is historic because it did back in nineteen whatever 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:13.200 and whatever. Eighty four, the into a dome, gonna have basketball. 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:17.880 Nice Crypto dot Com arena is gonna handle the gymnastics 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:20.440 so cute. You know, when the Olympics came to Atlanta 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:22.120 when I was a kid, we all ranted to rent 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:25.159 out our houses for people because the hotels were full. 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:27.120 There wasn't enough like hotel rooms, so people were renting 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.080 out their houses. I'm not mad at that idea. 0:06:29.160 --> 0:06:30.520 Maybe I will and then I'll just go move in 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:31.839 with my parents for those two weeks. 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:34.520 You could probably get a good deal like price. Yeah, 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:36.600 there's two weeks of the games. But you know, a 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:40.120 lot of weeks a little bookend on the festivities, l 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:45.160 like con mentioned center, judo, table tennis, wrestling and all 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:48.440 that stuff. So these are the venues they announced. Dignity 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:52.560 Health Sports Park's gonna have rugby woo oh oh, and 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:55.000 you'll love this there' they're putting in a temporary pool 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:58.360 or maybe more than one, but they're doing the swimming. 0:06:58.560 --> 0:06:59.240 Get this so far. 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.560 Fact that they're doing the swimming at so Far is 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:08.120 pretty major. They're gonna put Olympian sized pools in it. 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:10.680 It's like, you know, does the football field and then 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:13.080 Monster Jam and then like it's crazy how they move 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:13.960 everything out of there. 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:16.640 And baseball will be at Dodger Stadium. Soccer's gonna be 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:19.080 at Rose Bowl not confirmed yet, but that's what they're saying. 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.840 Skateboarding and BMX and the supple at a basin. 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:24.680 Well, we got fifteen hundred days from now. 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:27.280 I think, Oh my god, I love the countdown. 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:31.160 Olympics coming soon. Olympics start Friday in Paris. Up next. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:32.600 If you and your partner have been together a long 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:35.280 time and there's a little LACKI lack, we have a spark. 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:38.040 Spark Sidney Michael been married for fifteen years. My parents 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:40.120 married fifty four years. They say it's normal from time 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:43.000 to time to feel a little disconnect. Maybe this is 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:46.280 happening to you, but I was reading that. Experts say 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:49.040 if you do this, you'll feel that spark all over again, 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:51.480 and that is rewatch your wedding video. 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:52.200 Oh you know what? 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:55.600 This is so true? Does that help rewatch your wedding video. 0:07:55.720 --> 0:07:57.520 It's not going to I mean if you're lacking a 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:01.000 spark or whatever. But the memories that it brings back 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.120 to watch it, Mike, when I watch it every anniversary, 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:06.120 and it is it's so beautiful. 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:08.600 Well, I think it's a great idea, So try it 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:08.920 a few. 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:11.000 That is not what I expected it to be. 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:13.680 Honestly, No, it's a good one. It's easy. Yeah, all right. 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:21.160 Your quote this Monday, the six best doctors. They are sunshine, water, rest, air, exercise, 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:22.200 and eating. Well. 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:23.520 I mean so true. 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.400 I love that best doctors. That is a good one. 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:28.720 I'm glad you'd like it. I'm here to please believe 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:33.600 me acceptance validation. This FM headlines with siciny well. 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:36.640 Vice President Kamala Harris has emerged as a front runner 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:40.200 for the Democratic nomination in the hour since President Biden 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:43.880 announced he would not seek re election. The Democratic Convention 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:47.920 starts August nineteenth in Chicago. Ella County public health officials 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:51.400 have issued an ocean water closure near Baiona Creek after 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:55.679 nearly fifteen thousand gallons of untreated sewage spilled over the weekend. 0:08:56.200 --> 0:09:01.160 Fourteen thousand Disneyland workers voted overwhelmingly to the rise a strike. 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:04.280 Negotiations between the unions and the theme park are set 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:07.680 to take place both today and tomorrow. And a three 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:10.480 point five magnitude earthquake was reported in the South Bay 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:14.080 at three nine yesterday afternoon. The epicenter was just off 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:16.040 the coast, about four and a half miles west of 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:21.360 palas Vera's estates on air with Ryan Seacret. 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:25.560 Well, Rachel's on the phone. Good morning, Rachel, how you doing. 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:28.199 Hi, I'm good things. 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:30.400 I wanted to take your call because I just was. 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:32.199 I get a call screen of all the lines and 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:34.520 I can see it, says Rachel. I saw my boss 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:38.920 watching something in a photo he sent me. So, your 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:42.240 your boss sent you a photo, but in the background 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:44.680 you saw him watching provocative videos. 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:47.640 Yes, that is correct. 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:49.160 Was it a still shot? 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:50.800 Yeah? 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.240 It was a picture of my invoice because I worked 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:55.000 from home, and so I asked him if he could 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:57.480 send me a picture of it, and he was holding 0:09:57.520 --> 0:09:58.640 it in front of his computer. 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:03.520 Oh and his can you ever had adult things on it? Uh? Huh? 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:06.480 And ouch? Oops? Did you tell him yet that you 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:07.640 saw it? 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:08.520 So weird. 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:11.480 I don't know what to do. I waited a couple 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:14.480 of minutes to respond, and he must have finally realized 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:17.160 that it was in the background, and so we un 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:20.800 sent the picture and then resent it without anything in 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:21.439 the background. 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:26.040 First of all, so everybody check your background, check the articles, 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:31.640 the things that whatever's in your background, Like, take a look, 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:33.160 I mean, chicks happened. 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:39.480 This is not a mistake. Not the fact that he's 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:41.560 watching dirty videos at work is not a mistake. 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:47.280 Like wit was he at home or work? I was 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:49.320 picturing it at home after hours? Okay? 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:53.400 This is like during work hours. 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:56.960 Well, Rachel is like what kind of project you're working on? 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:57.480 And whatever? 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:00.240 We don't know why. I was like, he always at homeworking. Okay, 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:05.400 maybe he's mistake still happened, so but inappropriate at work completely? Yeah, 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:08.760 Now it's your boss, so we need to think carefully. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:10.600 What do we do. Do you go to h R like, 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:11.400 what do you want to do? 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:17.760 I don't know? He he really like I haven't even responded. 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:20.640 Do I say things and act like I didn't see that? 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:21.240 He unset? 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:23.880 I think you don't respond erase it and let's just 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:26.880 move on. Oh right, it's not great. 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:29.280 Maybe yeah, strike one and then if it happens again, 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:30.480 it's just like this is too much. 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:33.920 Yeah, I might just I mean, it fits me and 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:35.560 this is not maybe good advice, but I would just 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:36.600 like move on. 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:39.679 But like, how uncomfortable now? 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:45.480 But he probably knows you saw it, so maybe he's 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:48.160 on that's appropriate. It's all bad on him too, It's 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:50.520 all bad on him, but it is your boss. Oh 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:52.520 I feel hunger pangs. 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:54.120 Do you still have the original picture? 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:59.880 I didn't screenshot it now, but. 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.480 You should check your computer because sometimes when you unsend, 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:04.480 it still goes to your other right and it. 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:07.959 Goes to other devices. Okay, check that, and so check it. 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:09.800 Keep it as evidence because if you ever tried to 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:12.199 pull something fishy down that road to try to like 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:15.319 fire you or do something weird because he's uncomfortable, then 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:16.160 you have evidence. 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:20.120 Okay, interesting, I like that idea. 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:22.360 Thank you you've been watching your honor? 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:25.240 Yeah, court of law. 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:27.880 Yeah, good luck. I'm not messing around with her following 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:30.480 the facts and the evidence here, Rachel, thank you very much. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.040 I mean, look, if she's uncomfortable, go to HR talk 0:12:34.080 --> 0:12:37.760 about him. If she's not, move on. Oh so listen 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:40.120 to this. There's somebody posted. There's the one that posted 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:42.720 and interactions she had with a guy that she met 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:45.360 on a dating app. Right, they're chatting. He asked her 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:48.320 out to dinner. She was into it, and then he 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:51.560 said this, shall we have a short walk before the 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:52.880 food to see how we feel? 0:12:54.679 --> 0:12:58.960 To see how we feel? Yeah, to see how we feel? 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:02.560 Part kind of lingers at me. The part that strikes 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:05.720 me badly too, is he like auditioning? Is he gonna 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:08.280 go like see if they do we feel good with 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:09.760 each other before we go on the dinner date. 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:12.160 But I don't mind the walk before. 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:13.480 That's kind of cute. 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:14.680 No, it's so annoying. 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:17.360 Why why because you're getting ready? 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:20.040 Yeah, I'm gonna walk, take a little walk, stroll on 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:22.000 my heels. I'm not gonna wear tennis shoes on my date. 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:25.120 Like intersting. You say that because I have been asked 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:29.680 before in my past. Are we walking anywhere before or 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:31.880 after because I need to know about my shoes? Or 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:33.840 can we not walk before after? Because any you know 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:34.480 about my shoes? 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:34.760 Right? 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:35.920 If you want to go on a walk with me, 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:36.959 then it's going to walk. 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:38.040 If you want to take me to dinner or take 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:40.200 me to dinner, but don't walk with me before, Oh 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:41.000 my gosh, go with. 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:43.120 The flow, wear with the walking shoes, and then bring 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:44.040 your heels for dinner. 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:46.679 Like what big deal? Where are you going to carry 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:47.079 your shoes? 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:47.360 Right? 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:50.440 Leave him in his car? I don't know, it's not 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:51.160 that big of a deal. 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:52.320 What if you take a ride share? 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:55.520 Right then you wear you don't wear heels for the date? Like, 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:56.560 it's not a big deal. 0:13:56.840 --> 0:14:00.760 I agree, I change. I change, just you know, Tony, 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:04.319 I change my transit pattern based on shoes. I'm not 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:06.160 fighting that, Like if you want to put on shoes, 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:07.800 does that we don't walk? 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:10.559 But I'm you're already giving signs of high maintenance and 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:13.880 you don't go with the flow, and so Jordan, I'm 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:16.360 not saying. I'm saying, if one. 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:23.080 Does this dating, yeah, not so fun, is it? I 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:26.240 like walking after? If it's a walkable blocker straight after 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:29.680 you have something. But I fully defer to shoe comfort 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:32.320 and whatever. If you want vanity shoe ors comfort you, 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:33.120 I'm fine. 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:36.280 And also, like sitting jeans or standing jeans, tell me 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:36.680 about that. 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:40.760 You know those genes that are like you have jeans 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:43.400 that you can only stand in. Yeah, like they're super 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:49.840 it's because it snatches your waist. So those the genes 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:51.800 that you can stand and they snatch your waist. But 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:54.720 when you sit down, it's like, oh it's so painful. Yeah, 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:57.440 Like there's sometimes that just doesn't give. And those are 0:14:57.480 --> 0:15:00.360 my standing only right, like if I'm going to a concert, yeah, 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:03.200 standing only jeans because I'm going to dinner, comfy jeans. 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:05.160 Both of you. Thank you for these teachable moments because 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:06.640 I had no idea about that. Honest. 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:07.520 That's the whole thing. 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:12.080 This is teachable. It's time for Ryan's roses. Kiss I 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:14.240 fab Ario, thank you for reaching out. I want to 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.880 go right to it. We've been waiting to get you 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:19.040 on the line all morning. So you come on from work. 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:22.040 Your bed is all stripped, the blinds are closed, right, 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:25.320 the bed stripped from all the sheets, everything's off the bed, 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:29.440 and you think, wow, this is odd. Looks like the 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:33.000 scene of something and you address it with your husband 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:33.840 and he says what. 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:38.480 He says, that one of our cats puked on the bed. 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:41.080 Now, why don't you don't believe him? 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:41.360 Why? 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:43.120 Right? 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:47.200 I just you know, none of it made sense, like 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.000 all the evidence, basically, like it was just one of 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:53.240 those great days for me where everything went faster than 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:56.080 expected and I made it home early. I basically got 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:59.360 home around like three thirty instead of my usual time, 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:03.560 which is right around I'm six, and my husband worked 0:16:03.560 --> 0:16:06.440 from home, and I texted him saying that I was 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:10.440 on my way, but I didn't think that he got 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:15.040 or I don't know, he never responded. So I got 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:17.680 home and I basically found the beds tripped and the 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:22.040 blinds were closed, which I never closed the blinds, And 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:26.200 I asked him what happened, and he just very quickly said, oh, missy, 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:29.800 or one of our cats got sick on the bed 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:32.360 and so I stripped the bed and I washed them 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:34.040 or whatever, And I just. 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.760 Well, why don't you believe him? Why why does he 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:41.440 even is there something that you've always thought about concerned? 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:45.880 Well, not really not in that sense, more so just 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:49.240 of the scenario, like mixty. Our cat rarely goes in 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:53.680 our bedroom. I mean rarely, and you would think that, like, okay, 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:55.960 if the cat got sick, there'd be some sort of evidence. 0:16:56.000 --> 0:16:59.920 You'd see something in the trash or like towels or something. 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:00.360 You know. 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:01.280 There was no. 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:02.520 Evidence of her getting sick. 0:17:03.200 --> 0:17:08.360 And I couldn't smell anything, I mean nothing, right, So 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:11.399 I asked him why that blinds were closed too, and 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:12.320 he just said, oh. 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:12.879 I don't know. 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:15.919 And I was like, okat, you mean it on and 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:18.080 he's like, oh, well, I raised them, you know. When 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:20.480 I was cleaning up the mess. I'm like, wait, what, 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:23.080 It's just none of it is making sense, and I'm 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:26.760 afraid that he took a terrible war. And I'm just 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:30.520 getting it in my head that something else is going on. 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:30.920 In the bad. 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:32.120 How long have you been married? 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:36.920 Real quick, we've been married for your ears three. 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:40.240 He doubts her husband doesn't believe him. Let's get into 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:43.159 the next Ryan's roses. Well, it's time for Ryan's roses. 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:47.679 So I don't want to judge before we do it, 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:51.480 but I think that he's lying. She comes home from work, 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:55.760 he's working from home, married, right, all of a sudden, 0:17:55.760 --> 0:17:57.399 she goes in the bedroom. The bed is stripped, the 0:17:57.400 --> 0:17:59.680 blinds are closed, like there was something going on there. 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:03.240 He says, one of the cats puked on the bed. Mitzi. 0:18:03.359 --> 0:18:06.720 Mitzi was Mitzi the cat. It's a cat's name, something 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:11.520 like that, Right, Ariel, You're going to call your husband 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:15.119 and see what we can find out, just quickly, generally speaking, 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:17.680 as the marriage been solid otherwise, because you're casting a 0:18:17.680 --> 0:18:18.200 lot of doubt. 0:18:19.720 --> 0:18:23.760 Honestly, no, it hasn't been great. We got married in 0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:28.119 twenty twenty one, so it's still pandemic time. And I've 0:18:28.200 --> 0:18:30.280 just always had the feeling that his family has never 0:18:30.520 --> 0:18:33.399 liked me. I thought that they would eventually come around, 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:36.120 but I really don't think they have. And now we're 0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:39.280 at a point where you know, I'm I want to 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:41.160 take her, I want to start a family with him, 0:18:41.160 --> 0:18:44.679 I want to start having kids. And he's coming and hawing, 0:18:44.840 --> 0:18:47.920 and I'm afraid he's just even completely changed his mind. 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:51.200