Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to Ryan.
Speaker 1: Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: Good Monday Morning, Monday. I know this is Tiny's favorite
Speaker 2: day of the week, so she's celebrating.
Speaker 3: I want you guys to think of Mondays differently. Actually,
Speaker 3: Mondays are mid for me.
Speaker 2: No really, No, here's why. If I think of Monday differently,
Speaker 2: Friday's less. Like I need money to be at a
Speaker 2: certain decibel, so Friday's higher. Yeah, Mom builds up as
Speaker 2: the week goes. Exactly. If there's no build, it's like
Speaker 2: having too much sugar, right right, Like if you have
Speaker 2: dessert every day, it's it. Doesn't you don't look forward
Speaker 2: to it on Friday?
Speaker 4: I know?
Speaker 3: But then don't you love a reset Like I love
Speaker 3: a reset. It's like my favorite thing. And I feel
Speaker 3: like Monday is a reset.
Speaker 2: We have so much to do. Yeah, that's why I
Speaker 2: don't see it as a reset. I see it as
Speaker 2: the mountain.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, check the checklist of things that we need
Speaker 1: to get done, the need to get done for the week.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a game.
Speaker 5: That's why we're all different.
Speaker 2: Guys. Tanya say something, Well, I don't know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I think that mondays.
Speaker 2: Are you staring at me?
Speaker 3: Because Mondays are they set the tone for the week?
Speaker 3: Or you if you have a bad Monday, you're gonna well,
Speaker 3: let's say you have a good Monday, You're gonna have
Speaker 3: a good week.
Speaker 2: So there's the positive reinforcement you need. Then there's the
Speaker 2: realist in Sissy and I saying we got to climb
Speaker 2: them ountain. But fine, all we're all in it together.
Speaker 2: But he continues highs in the upper eighties, low hundreds inland.
Speaker 2: It's hot a week. So just to set it out
Speaker 2: this hour, I want to talk about this. If you
Speaker 2: and your partner are starting to feel a little lack
Speaker 2: of connection, maybe it's your Monday every day, then we'll
Speaker 2: let you know something that might help that spark come
Speaker 2: back immediately. We'll talk about that this hour. Okay, Ryan's
Speaker 2: roses next hour. So she came home early from work
Speaker 2: the other day. She found her with their bed stripped
Speaker 2: and the blinds closed. What's the bed strip? WHOA what'd
Speaker 2: you do in the bed? You had to strip the bed?
Speaker 5: Well, if they have kids, maybe one of the kids
Speaker 5: came in the bed.
Speaker 3: And pete or threw up, or maybe or maybe he
Speaker 3: had a fever and swept through the night.
Speaker 2: Nope, nope, no noe.
Speaker 5: Okay, are you saying note like you know or he doesn't?
Speaker 2: I do? Oh I read some of the emails. Oh
Speaker 2: so that's a seven forty six Nags magic mound tickets
Speaker 2: every hour? First, how will your day shape up? Do
Speaker 2: you follow your star sign? Sistany Tanya, let's go for it.
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna kick it off with aries. Sometimes
Speaker 1: saying nothing is saying at all.
Speaker 3: Taurus, try to get to the green today. Gemini, try
Speaker 3: meditating before you.
Speaker 5: Go to bed.
Speaker 1: Cancer, say hi to a stranger today.
Speaker 3: Leo, seek deeper to get the answer you're looking for.
Speaker 1: Virgo, listen to an old album for the nostalgia feelings today. Libra,
Speaker 1: quit the cycle today, Scorpio. Positivity will get you through
Speaker 1: the day, Sagittarius. Plan for something in twenty twenty five, Capricorn.
Speaker 1: If you can't figure it out, dance it out, Aquarius.
Speaker 3: Spiderwebs aren't built in a day, Pisces, try planting a
Speaker 3: new sea today.
Speaker 2: All right, so good luck with accomplishing what you need
Speaker 2: to today. You know, in a second, I also want
Speaker 2: to get into I'm reading about all the new venues
Speaker 2: named for the Olympics in Los Angeles. Very exciting. All
Speaker 2: this is happening in our backyard. It may it'll be crowded,
Speaker 2: but then afterwards there are some real benefits to the
Speaker 2: stuff that will be happening here. So we'll get into
Speaker 2: that first sysney. What do we miss while we were sleeping?
Speaker 1: Well, Vice President Kamala Harris has emerged as the front
Speaker 1: runner for the Democratic nomination in the hours since President
Speaker 1: Biden announced he would not seek reelection. The Democratic Convention
Speaker 1: starts August nineteenth. In Chicago, a vegetation fire near Corona
Speaker 1: and Lake Matthews has forced officials to give evacuation orders
Speaker 1: to some residents.
Speaker 2: In the area.
Speaker 1: The fire is currently about four hundred and fifty acres
Speaker 1: and twenty five percent contained. And Twisters opened number one
Speaker 1: at the weekend box office with eighty point five million,
Speaker 1: the year's third biggest opening after Inside Out two and
Speaker 1: June Part two.
Speaker 2: And that's what happened overnight. Well, the Paris Olympics they
Speaker 2: start this week. It's so wild, so many great memories
Speaker 2: of the Olympics with you guys. I know, remember we
Speaker 2: went to London, went to Rio Tubs, I don't know why.
Speaker 2: It stands out to me that you had the most
Speaker 2: fun in Rio. I can tell you why.
Speaker 1: Why because he was single at the time and it
Speaker 1: was during his birthday, so it was just like extra kind.
Speaker 2: Of party vibes the tubs. I was single then, I
Speaker 2: remember specifically, and I know why I remember.
Speaker 1: Care to share.
Speaker 2: Nice remember specifically, and I know why I remember tubs.
Speaker 2: But you were single and you were that's when you
Speaker 2: just discovered Tinder, right, Yeah, that was earlyubs days. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but we're at the real Olympics. I'll never forget it.
Speaker 5: I mean, good on tubbs.
Speaker 2: You're in Brazil. What I mean, that's what you're d
Speaker 2: in Brazil.
Speaker 5: I mean, why wouldn't he It's Brazilian women.
Speaker 2: Hello times, did you? Yeah? I don't talk about it
Speaker 2: because you're engaged. Oh, it was all very like innocent.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah. You want a gold medal that year
Speaker 2: for Tinder Tubs right now a wheel? Are you at
Speaker 2: the Wheel of Fortune Studio? Yes? I am. How's it
Speaker 2: going there? Uh, it's coming along a lot of that's
Speaker 2: sound good. We're building the kiss M Studio the Wheel
Speaker 2: of Fortune set. Yeah, that's pretty cool. Cool. I want
Speaker 2: to spin that wheel. Well, I saw your video of
Speaker 2: you spinning the wheel. Yeah, I was the first.
Speaker 5: Is it heavy?
Speaker 2: It is? Yeah, I'd be the contestant if I were
Speaker 2: to play, be the contestant where the wheel goes two wedges.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll do it again, sir.
Speaker 2: A lot of cords to plug it, all right. So
Speaker 2: I bring up the Olympics because I was just reading
Speaker 2: four years from now Olympics here in l A. And
Speaker 2: they're we're announcing what is going to take place where.
Speaker 2: So the coliseum is going to have track and field,
Speaker 2: which is historic because it did back in nineteen whatever
Speaker 2: and whatever. Eighty four, the into a dome, gonna have basketball.
Speaker 2: Nice Crypto dot Com arena is gonna handle the gymnastics
Speaker 2: so cute. You know, when the Olympics came to Atlanta
Speaker 2: when I was a kid, we all ranted to rent
Speaker 2: out our houses for people because the hotels were full.
Speaker 2: There wasn't enough like hotel rooms, so people were renting
Speaker 2: out their houses. I'm not mad at that idea.
Speaker 1: Maybe I will and then I'll just go move in
Speaker 1: with my parents for those two weeks.
Speaker 2: You could probably get a good deal like price. Yeah,
Speaker 2: there's two weeks of the games. But you know, a
Speaker 2: lot of weeks a little bookend on the festivities, l
Speaker 2: like con mentioned center, judo, table tennis, wrestling and all
Speaker 2: that stuff. So these are the venues they announced. Dignity
Speaker 2: Health Sports Park's gonna have rugby woo oh oh, and
Speaker 2: you'll love this there' they're putting in a temporary pool
Speaker 2: or maybe more than one, but they're doing the swimming.
Speaker 2: Get this so far.
Speaker 1: Fact that they're doing the swimming at so Far is
Speaker 1: pretty major. They're gonna put Olympian sized pools in it.
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, does the football field and then
Speaker 1: Monster Jam and then like it's crazy how they move
Speaker 1: everything out of there.
Speaker 2: And baseball will be at Dodger Stadium. Soccer's gonna be
Speaker 2: at Rose Bowl not confirmed yet, but that's what they're saying.
Speaker 1: Skateboarding and BMX and the supple at a basin.
Speaker 2: Well, we got fifteen hundred days from now.
Speaker 5: I think, Oh my god, I love the countdown.
Speaker 2: Olympics coming soon. Olympics start Friday in Paris. Up next.
Speaker 2: If you and your partner have been together a long
Speaker 2: time and there's a little LACKI lack, we have a spark.
Speaker 2: Spark Sidney Michael been married for fifteen years. My parents
Speaker 2: married fifty four years. They say it's normal from time
Speaker 2: to time to feel a little disconnect. Maybe this is
Speaker 2: happening to you, but I was reading that. Experts say
Speaker 2: if you do this, you'll feel that spark all over again,
Speaker 2: and that is rewatch your wedding video.
Speaker 5: Oh you know what?
Speaker 2: This is so true? Does that help rewatch your wedding video.
Speaker 1: It's not going to I mean if you're lacking a
Speaker 1: spark or whatever. But the memories that it brings back
Speaker 1: to watch it, Mike, when I watch it every anniversary,
Speaker 1: and it is it's so beautiful.
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's a great idea, So try it
Speaker 2: a few.
Speaker 1: That is not what I expected it to be.
Speaker 2: Honestly, No, it's a good one. It's easy. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2: Your quote this Monday, the six best doctors. They are sunshine, water, rest, air, exercise,
Speaker 2: and eating. Well.
Speaker 5: I mean so true.
Speaker 2: I love that best doctors. That is a good one.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you'd like it. I'm here to please believe
Speaker 2: me acceptance validation. This FM headlines with siciny well.
Speaker 1: Vice President Kamala Harris has emerged as a front runner
Speaker 1: for the Democratic nomination in the hour since President Biden
Speaker 1: announced he would not seek re election. The Democratic Convention
Speaker 1: starts August nineteenth in Chicago. Ella County public health officials
Speaker 1: have issued an ocean water closure near Baiona Creek after
Speaker 1: nearly fifteen thousand gallons of untreated sewage spilled over the weekend.
Speaker 1: Fourteen thousand Disneyland workers voted overwhelmingly to the rise a strike.
Speaker 1: Negotiations between the unions and the theme park are set
Speaker 1: to take place both today and tomorrow. And a three
Speaker 1: point five magnitude earthquake was reported in the South Bay
Speaker 1: at three nine yesterday afternoon. The epicenter was just off
Speaker 1: the coast, about four and a half miles west of
Speaker 1: palas Vera's estates on air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2: Well, Rachel's on the phone. Good morning, Rachel, how you doing.
Speaker 6: Hi, I'm good things.
Speaker 2: I wanted to take your call because I just was.
Speaker 2: I get a call screen of all the lines and
Speaker 2: I can see it, says Rachel. I saw my boss
Speaker 2: watching something in a photo he sent me. So, your
Speaker 2: your boss sent you a photo, but in the background
Speaker 2: you saw him watching provocative videos.
Speaker 6: Yes, that is correct.
Speaker 2: Was it a still shot?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 7: It was a picture of my invoice because I worked
Speaker 7: from home, and so I asked him if he could
Speaker 7: send me a picture of it, and he was holding
Speaker 7: it in front of his computer.
Speaker 2: Oh and his can you ever had adult things on it? Uh? Huh?
Speaker 2: And ouch? Oops? Did you tell him yet that you
Speaker 2: saw it?
Speaker 5: So weird.
Speaker 7: I don't know what to do. I waited a couple
Speaker 7: of minutes to respond, and he must have finally realized
Speaker 7: that it was in the background, and so we un
Speaker 7: sent the picture and then resent it without anything in
Speaker 7: the background.
Speaker 2: First of all, so everybody check your background, check the articles,
Speaker 2: the things that whatever's in your background, Like, take a look,
Speaker 2: I mean, chicks happened.
Speaker 1: This is not a mistake. Not the fact that he's
Speaker 1: watching dirty videos at work is not a mistake.
Speaker 2: Like wit was he at home or work? I was
Speaker 2: picturing it at home after hours? Okay?
Speaker 5: This is like during work hours.
Speaker 1: Well, Rachel is like what kind of project you're working on?
Speaker 5: And whatever?
Speaker 2: We don't know why. I was like, he always at homeworking. Okay,
Speaker 2: maybe he's mistake still happened, so but inappropriate at work completely? Yeah,
Speaker 2: Now it's your boss, so we need to think carefully.
Speaker 2: What do we do. Do you go to h R like,
Speaker 2: what do you want to do?
Speaker 7: I don't know? He he really like I haven't even responded.
Speaker 7: Do I say things and act like I didn't see that?
Speaker 6: He unset?
Speaker 2: I think you don't respond erase it and let's just
Speaker 2: move on. Oh right, it's not great.
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, strike one and then if it happens again,
Speaker 1: it's just like this is too much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I might just I mean, it fits me and
Speaker 2: this is not maybe good advice, but I would just
Speaker 2: like move on.
Speaker 1: But like, how uncomfortable now?
Speaker 2: But he probably knows you saw it, so maybe he's
Speaker 2: on that's appropriate. It's all bad on him too, It's
Speaker 2: all bad on him, but it is your boss. Oh
Speaker 2: I feel hunger pangs.
Speaker 5: Do you still have the original picture?
Speaker 6: I didn't screenshot it now, but.
Speaker 3: You should check your computer because sometimes when you unsend,
Speaker 3: it still goes to your other right and it.
Speaker 2: Goes to other devices. Okay, check that, and so check it.
Speaker 1: Keep it as evidence because if you ever tried to
Speaker 1: pull something fishy down that road to try to like
Speaker 1: fire you or do something weird because he's uncomfortable, then
Speaker 1: you have evidence.
Speaker 7: Okay, interesting, I like that idea.
Speaker 2: Thank you you've been watching your honor?
Speaker 1: Yeah, court of law.
Speaker 2: Yeah, good luck. I'm not messing around with her following
Speaker 2: the facts and the evidence here, Rachel, thank you very much.
Speaker 2: I mean, look, if she's uncomfortable, go to HR talk
Speaker 2: about him. If she's not, move on. Oh so listen
Speaker 2: to this. There's somebody posted. There's the one that posted
Speaker 2: and interactions she had with a guy that she met
Speaker 2: on a dating app. Right, they're chatting. He asked her
Speaker 2: out to dinner. She was into it, and then he
Speaker 2: said this, shall we have a short walk before the
Speaker 2: food to see how we feel?
Speaker 5: To see how we feel? Yeah, to see how we feel?
Speaker 2: Part kind of lingers at me. The part that strikes
Speaker 2: me badly too, is he like auditioning? Is he gonna
Speaker 2: go like see if they do we feel good with
Speaker 2: each other before we go on the dinner date.
Speaker 5: But I don't mind the walk before.
Speaker 2: That's kind of cute.
Speaker 1: No, it's so annoying.
Speaker 2: Why why because you're getting ready?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna walk, take a little walk, stroll on
Speaker 1: my heels. I'm not gonna wear tennis shoes on my date.
Speaker 2: Like intersting. You say that because I have been asked
Speaker 2: before in my past. Are we walking anywhere before or
Speaker 2: after because I need to know about my shoes? Or
Speaker 2: can we not walk before after? Because any you know
Speaker 2: about my shoes?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: If you want to go on a walk with me,
Speaker 1: then it's going to walk.
Speaker 3: If you want to take me to dinner or take
Speaker 3: me to dinner, but don't walk with me before, Oh
Speaker 3: my gosh, go with.
Speaker 1: The flow, wear with the walking shoes, and then bring
Speaker 1: your heels for dinner.
Speaker 2: Like what big deal? Where are you going to carry
Speaker 2: your shoes?
Speaker 7: Right?
Speaker 5: Leave him in his car? I don't know, it's not
Speaker 5: that big of a deal.
Speaker 2: What if you take a ride share?
Speaker 5: Right then you wear you don't wear heels for the date? Like,
Speaker 5: it's not a big deal.
Speaker 2: I agree, I change. I change, just you know, Tony,
Speaker 2: I change my transit pattern based on shoes. I'm not
Speaker 2: fighting that, Like if you want to put on shoes,
Speaker 2: does that we don't walk?
Speaker 1: But I'm you're already giving signs of high maintenance and
Speaker 1: you don't go with the flow, and so Jordan, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying. I'm saying, if one.
Speaker 2: Does this dating, yeah, not so fun, is it? I
Speaker 2: like walking after? If it's a walkable blocker straight after
Speaker 2: you have something. But I fully defer to shoe comfort
Speaker 2: and whatever. If you want vanity shoe ors comfort you,
Speaker 2: I'm fine.
Speaker 3: And also, like sitting jeans or standing jeans, tell me
Speaker 3: about that.
Speaker 1: You know those genes that are like you have jeans
Speaker 1: that you can only stand in. Yeah, like they're super
Speaker 1: it's because it snatches your waist. So those the genes
Speaker 1: that you can stand and they snatch your waist. But
Speaker 1: when you sit down, it's like, oh it's so painful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like there's sometimes that just doesn't give. And those are
Speaker 1: my standing only right, like if I'm going to a concert, yeah,
Speaker 1: standing only jeans because I'm going to dinner, comfy jeans.
Speaker 2: Both of you. Thank you for these teachable moments because
Speaker 2: I had no idea about that. Honest.
Speaker 5: That's the whole thing.
Speaker 2: This is teachable. It's time for Ryan's roses. Kiss I
Speaker 2: fab Ario, thank you for reaching out. I want to
Speaker 2: go right to it. We've been waiting to get you
Speaker 2: on the line all morning. So you come on from work.
Speaker 2: Your bed is all stripped, the blinds are closed, right,
Speaker 2: the bed stripped from all the sheets, everything's off the bed,
Speaker 2: and you think, wow, this is odd. Looks like the
Speaker 2: scene of something and you address it with your husband
Speaker 2: and he says what.
Speaker 8: He says, that one of our cats puked on the bed.
Speaker 5: Now, why don't you don't believe him?
Speaker 2: Why?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 8: I just you know, none of it made sense, like
Speaker 8: all the evidence, basically, like it was just one of
Speaker 8: those great days for me where everything went faster than
Speaker 8: expected and I made it home early. I basically got
Speaker 8: home around like three thirty instead of my usual time,
Speaker 8: which is right around I'm six, and my husband worked
Speaker 8: from home, and I texted him saying that I was
Speaker 8: on my way, but I didn't think that he got
Speaker 8: or I don't know, he never responded. So I got
Speaker 8: home and I basically found the beds tripped and the
Speaker 8: blinds were closed, which I never closed the blinds, And
Speaker 8: I asked him what happened, and he just very quickly said, oh, missy,
Speaker 8: or one of our cats got sick on the bed
Speaker 8: and so I stripped the bed and I washed them
Speaker 8: or whatever, And I just.
Speaker 2: Well, why don't you believe him? Why why does he
Speaker 2: even is there something that you've always thought about concerned?
Speaker 8: Well, not really not in that sense, more so just
Speaker 8: of the scenario, like mixty. Our cat rarely goes in
Speaker 8: our bedroom. I mean rarely, and you would think that, like, okay,
Speaker 8: if the cat got sick, there'd be some sort of evidence.
Speaker 8: You'd see something in the trash or like towels or something.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: There was no.
Speaker 6: Evidence of her getting sick.
Speaker 8: And I couldn't smell anything, I mean nothing, right, So
Speaker 8: I asked him why that blinds were closed too, and
Speaker 8: he just said, oh.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 8: And I was like, okat, you mean it on and
Speaker 8: he's like, oh, well, I raised them, you know. When
Speaker 8: I was cleaning up the mess. I'm like, wait, what,
Speaker 8: It's just none of it is making sense, and I'm
Speaker 8: afraid that he took a terrible war. And I'm just
Speaker 8: getting it in my head that something else is going on.
Speaker 6: In the bad.
Speaker 2: How long have you been married?
Speaker 8: Real quick, we've been married for your ears three.
Speaker 2: He doubts her husband doesn't believe him. Let's get into
Speaker 2: the next Ryan's roses. Well, it's time for Ryan's roses.
Speaker 2: So I don't want to judge before we do it,
Speaker 2: but I think that he's lying. She comes home from work,
Speaker 2: he's working from home, married, right, all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: she goes in the bedroom. The bed is stripped, the
Speaker 2: blinds are closed, like there was something going on there.
Speaker 2: He says, one of the cats puked on the bed. Mitzi.
Speaker 2: Mitzi was Mitzi the cat. It's a cat's name, something
Speaker 2: like that, Right, Ariel, You're going to call your husband
Speaker 2: and see what we can find out, just quickly, generally speaking,
Speaker 2: as the marriage been solid otherwise, because you're casting a
Speaker 2: lot of doubt.
Speaker 8: Honestly, no, it hasn't been great. We got married in
Speaker 8: twenty twenty one, so it's still pandemic time. And I've
Speaker 8: just always had the feeling that his family has never
Speaker 8: liked me. I thought that they would eventually come around,
Speaker 8: but I really don't think they have. And now we're
Speaker 8: at a point where you know, I'm I want to
Speaker 8: take her, I want to start a family with him,
Speaker 8: I want to start having kids. And he's coming and hawing,
Speaker 8: and I'm afraid he's just even completely changed his mind.
Speaker 8: And honestly, it just hasn't been It hasn't been wonderful.
Speaker 8: I'm afraid to say this.
Speaker 2: Is important, this is important. We're going to call him
Speaker 2: right now. I need you to say, Ryan, you have
Speaker 2: my permission to call, and then his name.
Speaker 6: Go ahead, Okay, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 2: We're doing it right now. Be very quiet. Let's see
Speaker 2: what we can find out. Who is this?
Speaker 6: Hi?
Speaker 5: Is this Derek?
Speaker 2: Yes, Hi Derek.
Speaker 5: My name is Wendy. I'm calling from Burbank Blooms. How
Speaker 5: are you doing this morning?
Speaker 6: How did you get this number?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 1: So you're in our database or a flower shop here
Speaker 1: on Magnolia and are offering a promotion. It's a free
Speaker 1: dozen red roses that you can send to anybody that
Speaker 1: you'd like today.
Speaker 2: How do I get off this list? Oh?
Speaker 1: Well, it's free roses that you can send to anybody
Speaker 1: that you'd like. I don't need cash from you or
Speaker 1: anything like that.
Speaker 2: Look, I don't appreciate calls from telemarketers. I'm on the
Speaker 2: do not Call list, but that does nothing. I get
Speaker 2: these calls every day. It's driving me crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm not a telemarketer. I just own very a local
Speaker 1: flower shop here in Burbank, and we do this promotion
Speaker 1: about once a month.
Speaker 5: It's free roses. I don't need cash from you or
Speaker 5: any info from you.
Speaker 2: Truly.
Speaker 1: We just hope that if you like our arrangements, you
Speaker 1: come back as a customer one day or FIRS to
Speaker 1: friends and family. I apologize for intruding with It's just.
Speaker 2: Something that we do, Okay.
Speaker 1: I would just need the name of the person you
Speaker 1: want to send them to and a note, and then
Speaker 1: we can deliver them by lunchtime today if that's convenient
Speaker 1: for you, or a different day or time.
Speaker 6: Okay, cool, send them to send them to my wives.
Speaker 2: Okay, say with love from no Wait nice, say you
Speaker 2: dare nice. Say you're on the air with us right now.
Speaker 2: I need you to stay on please. It's a nice
Speaker 2: save right there. You're sending your flowers to your wife,
Speaker 2: but you're hesitating. By the way, my name is Ryan.
Speaker 2: You're on the air with us right now. We have
Speaker 2: your wife on the phone, so I want to we
Speaker 2: know something here. Your wife reached out to us to
Speaker 2: step in for a second. It's a public service, and
Speaker 2: so it's not to me and I reason I want
Speaker 2: to jump in now is because you're hesitating about sending
Speaker 2: flowers to your wife. We were told, Derek that you
Speaker 2: were by yourself. Your wife came home early and the
Speaker 2: bed was stripped from everything, the blinds were closed. Your
Speaker 2: wife has real doubt in your relationship is he there?
Speaker 2: Are you there? No, he's gone there. What is it
Speaker 2: you hung up?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're talking Aerl hang up.
Speaker 6: I'm so confused.
Speaker 2: I hold on for a second. Is he not there?
Speaker 2: He's not Derek. How long is it going on without
Speaker 2: him on the phone? Good? Yeah, seconds for a while.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Up.
Speaker 5: No, you don't need to apologize.
Speaker 2: Hold on, I'm going to tell you something, Ariel. I'm
Speaker 2: very convinced. Well, he was hesitating to send you roses,
Speaker 2: meaning he was about to send them to someone else.
Speaker 2: So I really think he was covering up for something.
Speaker 2: I do believe that that's what I heard.
Speaker 8: Yeah, and I know him like that's not a confident
Speaker 8: that it should not have been a question mark and
Speaker 8: that was essentially a question really struggled.
Speaker 2: I think that was very telling.
Speaker 6: Oh, very telling.
Speaker 8: I'm just I wish I could have gotten more out
Speaker 8: of him. I really didn't think he would just hang
Speaker 8: up like that. And now I know how to handle
Speaker 8: it when I get home.
Speaker 2: Hold on for say, we can't pretend to know what's
Speaker 2: going on in your relationship or what you should do.
Speaker 2: But I, along with Sisney Tania, we heard you say
Speaker 2: you have a lot of doubt. And you don't have
Speaker 2: a good feeling in your marriage already right now, and
Speaker 2: if something is going on, you need to think about that,
Speaker 2: and also like what is best for you? What is
Speaker 2: you don't sound happy, what is going to make you happy?
Speaker 2: And there may be challenges. I don't know what they are,
Speaker 2: but if you're unhappy, you should really take a step
Speaker 2: back and think about it. And maybe this is the
Speaker 2: straw that breaks the camel's back. But it's not worth
Speaker 2: being unhappy for the rest of your life if you're
Speaker 2: not in a good marriage, Areel, You're right, I mean
Speaker 2: your marriage. You can also fix your marriage. I don't
Speaker 2: want to choose a path for you, but I could
Speaker 2: tell before we made the call it's not right.
Speaker 6: It's not I know it needs to change.
Speaker 2: Good luck to you. Thank you for reaching out. I
Speaker 2: hope you get to a place of peace and happiness.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Ariel. Don't you agree?
Speaker 5: I agree with you.
Speaker 1: I feel like I could have gotten a little more
Speaker 1: out of him without you interjecting.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you jumped.
Speaker 2: Too fast. It's not talking about hesitating that. Look, there
Speaker 2: was so.
Speaker 1: Much more info we could have gotten from what.
Speaker 3: And Sisty could have asked him what type of flowers
Speaker 3: you want? Romantic red roses or what?
Speaker 2: He hung up?
Speaker 1: Yeah, he hung up when he heard that he was
Speaker 1: on the es.
Speaker 2: Oh so I made him wong up? You Yeah you did.
Speaker 1: I blame you.
Speaker 2: But we don't need to blame anybody.
Speaker 1: You guys, sorry, but we could have gotten more.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, casting blame this morning, aren't we. So I
Speaker 2: just want to say, I don't know when the right
Speaker 2: time is to jump into the Ryan's roses call and
Speaker 2: tell whoever's on the line that they're on the air.
Speaker 2: I'm just going with it.
Speaker 1: Preferably after they we do the note, find out what
Speaker 1: they're going to write.
Speaker 2: So just to recap, see if he wrote love.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I didn't even see if he wrote love. Love.
Speaker 2: The guy was hesitating to send flowers to his wife.
Speaker 2: Flag Flag Flag, So Ariel and Derek married. She thinks
Speaker 2: he's lying about the fact that the bed was stripped
Speaker 2: and the curtains were closed when she walked in early
Speaker 2: from work. Right, he lied and said it? Well, I
Speaker 2: think he did and said it was the cat that puked.
Speaker 2: I don't believe it, But the point is, she said,
Speaker 2: going in, she's got real problems with the relationship. The
Speaker 2: marriage doesn't feel like anybody's in it anymore, like already,
Speaker 2: it doesn't even matter what happened there. She's sort of
Speaker 2: in a place of feeling alone in a marriage, and
Speaker 2: so you need to fix that part too, or she
Speaker 2: needs to move on. But you two, Sisany and Tanya.
Speaker 2: I jumped in because the guy hesitated to send flowers
Speaker 2: to his wife.
Speaker 1: And maybe he was hesitating about what he was going
Speaker 1: to write on the car.
Speaker 2: About somebody else. No, but I know when someone was
Speaker 2: thinking about something else, he was thinking about another name.
Speaker 1: No, you don't know.
Speaker 2: He tried to cover it up by using his wife's name.
Speaker 2: I do know. I've watched a lot of these shows
Speaker 2: on TV.
Speaker 1: And no, now we'll never know because you jumped in.
Speaker 1: Even Ariel at the end was saying, I wish I
Speaker 1: would have gotten more out of that.
Speaker 2: Christine, you don't feel the same, but you tell them
Speaker 2: exactly what happened.
Speaker 4: I think she's stuck in a relationship with no trust.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, stirping the bed. I don't even know
Speaker 4: if he knows how to do that well. I just
Speaker 4: think the whole thing's bizarre. Between the shade thinks such
Speaker 4: shut tight sounds like there's zero trust, and there is
Speaker 4: the whole kids thing. They don't have kids. After three years,
Speaker 4: she doesn't trust anything about him, and then walking into
Speaker 4: the situation, I don't know. I don't trust him either.
Speaker 2: So this is a blessing, real bizarre. This is a
Speaker 2: blessing because now she's got real tangent reason to figure
Speaker 2: it out or move on.
Speaker 5: We could have gotten more out of him.
Speaker 4: I think so too. He jumped in so quick.
Speaker 1: I did not jump in, Christine, in no, Gabriel, how
Speaker 1: you did trying to help.
Speaker 3: You were like a puppy with like a milk bone
Speaker 3: dangling in front of his face, and you were like
Speaker 3: just waiting to interject there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like when have you ever interrupted the note?
Speaker 2: Like you've never? Because the guy was hesitating too much
Speaker 2: and I knew he was covering something up. I needed
Speaker 2: to get to him. You can't. You can't second guess
Speaker 2: one's gut.
Speaker 5: Well in this instance, yeah, Christine, thank you for listening.
Speaker 5: Thank you, Christine.
Speaker 2: I don't show trying to be perfect.
Speaker 5: No one's perfect.
Speaker 2: It's perfect, right, Well they have it. That was imperfect,
Speaker 2: all right?
Speaker 5: You know what?
Speaker 2: We all make mistakes I wasn't a mistake. I say
Speaker 2: it was a mistake. This was imperfect mistake. I said,
Speaker 2: I was imperfect.
Speaker 1: Do you want to have an interesting fact I've learned
Speaker 1: the other name?
Speaker 2: I mean a scale of out of ten. No, I
Speaker 2: think we're out of time. I'm like tired, tired physically
Speaker 2: from that. It's quick.
Speaker 3: Do you know that the percentage of marriages that end
Speaker 3: in divorce within the first five years?
Speaker 5: No, you want to guess half?
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty percent?
Speaker 2: Okay, and why do you have that fact floating through
Speaker 2: your nose?
Speaker 3: Well, because they're married for three years, so they might
Speaker 3: now be in that percentage.
Speaker 2: Do you know how many end ever? Anyway? Half?
Speaker 1: So now that that change, Yeah, it changed. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you got to update your backs.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can say the.
Speaker 1: Same fact for the last of the fact years.
Speaker 2: Monday, Thursday. Guess that, fab Hold on, let's come back.
Speaker 2: I'm physically exhausted from it. Yeah, it's going down of
Speaker 2: all marriages.
Speaker 1: Of all first marriages end in divorce.
Speaker 2: Yeah, check tomorrow. Well. Yeah, there was a big presidential
Speaker 2: race news yesterday everywhere.
Speaker 5: Quite the shakeup.
Speaker 2: Quite the shakeup. I mean, we've never seen this before
Speaker 2: in our life. Lifetime. No, So that happened. And you
Speaker 2: know what something like that happens when a big story
Speaker 2: like that happens. I just I sit there and I
Speaker 2: watched the news for hours the same they repeat the
Speaker 2: same thing. But I just I just keep watching. I
Speaker 2: love a special report.
Speaker 5: I know what you mean, but I do the opposite.
Speaker 1: I'm on, I'm online, and so I'm article after article
Speaker 1: after article, and there's different takes and there's different views.
Speaker 2: Well, when they say an ABC News special report sucks me,
Speaker 2: it sucks me in there. So yeah, Biden dropped out
Speaker 2: and that happened. But you know the other story that
Speaker 2: is really interesting. The city of La settled a lawsuit
Speaker 2: this about street vendors in La. Now you see them
Speaker 2: in certain places, but they were not allowed to set
Speaker 2: up in other places in the city. If they did,
Speaker 2: they were risking getting a citation, getting ticketed. That's right.
Speaker 2: So I guess they settled a lawsuit over the weekend
Speaker 2: brought by street vendors, saying that all the cities no
Speaker 2: vending zones violated the law. So basically, vendors were not
Speaker 2: allowed to sell food near check this out, schools, farmers' markets,
Speaker 2: swap meets, or temporary events which kept a lot of
Speaker 2: vendors away from the high traffic areas. So I think
Speaker 2: this is a great win. This is a big score.
Speaker 2: It's good for the vendors, that's your job, and it's
Speaker 2: good for us to be able to stroll up to
Speaker 2: some of these places and get what we want when
Speaker 2: we leave, you know, an event.
Speaker 1: More opportunities for us to grab on an elote or
Speaker 1: a paletereo man all that stuff.
Speaker 2: What is your face do you have of those your favorites?
Speaker 1: Like, what is your favor I'm a sucker for a
Speaker 1: good alte or escithe this something like that.
Speaker 2: I'm a sucker for a good smell of grilled onions
Speaker 2: anything that's anything anybody that's grilling onions, right, I want
Speaker 2: grilled onions.
Speaker 1: The bacon wrapped hot dogs after a Charger game at
Speaker 1: Sofi Stadium.
Speaker 5: That yeah, you're.
Speaker 2: Right, that gets you. So every time you've got Ernie
Speaker 2: from Munchie Dogs and Redondo, shout out to Earth and
Speaker 2: Lolos Filipino Barbecue, glass El Park. But street food street
Speaker 2: vendors can be some of the best food in any city.
Speaker 2: I mean when you travel around, if you travel at
Speaker 2: broad go to different cities. It's kind of all about
Speaker 2: eating the street foods.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you think about New York, I feel like there's
Speaker 1: one in every corner.
Speaker 2: Well, the smell for me, the smell of the street
Speaker 2: vendors in New York are better than me wanting to
Speaker 2: eat some of this stuff I see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Ok, people don't eat it.
Speaker 5: Actually, you just smell it.
Speaker 2: People do eat. I don't eat so much of that,
Speaker 2: but I do smell it. But I love a grilled
Speaker 2: anything grilled with onions like that. Tommy, you got a
Speaker 2: favorite hot dogs? You can't go wrong with a hot dog,
Speaker 2: any hot dogs. Yeah, eight hundred and five to one
Speaker 2: to two seven here Texas to four one of two seven.
Speaker 2: Give a shout out to your favorite let's give them
Speaker 2: some love. Yeah, favorite local street vendor. And to those
Speaker 2: of you who do that for a living, congratulations on
Speaker 2: that big win here in La. All right, coming up,
Speaker 2: it is a chance for you to get six flags
Speaker 2: Magic Mountain tickets on this beautiful day. I love kiss
Speaker 2: music first thing in the morning. That's right on a Monday,
Speaker 2: Tanya's favorite day. Tell you so you just seem so
Speaker 2: ecstatic about today? You really don't, but you do. Tell
Speaker 2: us that this is your favorite day. I do love
Speaker 2: Monday and what's gone well for you so far.
Speaker 3: It's just a fresh.
Speaker 1: Start to the new week. That's the whole thing. It's
Speaker 1: like a reset every single week.
Speaker 5: It's like, that's it.
Speaker 2: Cisity. And I think Friday's are favorite days because on
Speaker 2: or Thursdays, you have Thursdays, you have Friday.
Speaker 1: I think I chose Saturday Saturday, okay, because what I
Speaker 1: do on Monday is I look to see how much
Speaker 1: I have to do before Friday.
Speaker 3: I know, But if you're really honest with yourself, aren't
Speaker 3: you tired on Friday?
Speaker 2: I'm excited. On Friday, No, I'm excited.
Speaker 1: And then Saturdays like the first day I really slept
Speaker 1: in Saturday.
Speaker 5: Saturday is a very cool day. That's like a whole
Speaker 5: vacation in one day.
Speaker 2: Anyway, I say this to say to you, if Monday
Speaker 2: is your favorite day, this is your day. Yeah all right,
Speaker 2: this is crazy. So you could be out in the
Speaker 2: wild and this might seem innocent and actually like a
Speaker 2: good thing, but it's dangerous. Sistani people are hugging strangers
Speaker 2: and robbing them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what would you do if a random woman came
Speaker 1: up to you asking you for a hug.
Speaker 2: I would think, Wow, I look good today.
Speaker 5: I mean maybe right?
Speaker 2: Whatever I did to my hair, whatever I'm wearing, I
Speaker 2: should wear this again?
Speaker 6: Yes.
Speaker 1: Well, two people have been arrested in connection with an
Speaker 1: attempted robbery in Orange County, and authorities are warning now
Speaker 1: so Cow residents to be vigilant of approaching strangers who
Speaker 1: appear to want a hug because one incident. In this case,
Speaker 1: a mail driver parked his vehicle right in his front
Speaker 1: driveway and out of nowhere, a woman came up, arms
Speaker 1: wide open, asking him for a hug the minute he
Speaker 1: got out of the car.
Speaker 2: But does she pretend to know him? Because I might
Speaker 2: fall for that.
Speaker 5: The details are there, I don't have.
Speaker 1: But what she's trying to do is she's trying to
Speaker 1: She's trying to rob his gold chain around his neck,
Speaker 1: which I don't even know.
Speaker 2: How do you do that? How can you be that
Speaker 2: quick with the hand these pickpocketers, how can they get
Speaker 2: into a tight pocket and out with your wallet?
Speaker 1: Well, she apparently had done it many times, and she
Speaker 1: was working with somebody else because when they searched their
Speaker 1: vehicle they found fifty plus different chains of pieces of
Speaker 1: jewelry things like that, and so this wasn't the first
Speaker 1: time that they were attempting to do that.
Speaker 2: So I am a hugger. If I do, like walk
Speaker 2: up to your van and try and hug you, I'm
Speaker 2: not going for your necklace. I do like to hug.
Speaker 2: But the thing is, I'm also a sucker for a hugger.
Speaker 2: So if she were to come up to me in
Speaker 2: a parking deck with her arms wide open, I might
Speaker 2: think I know her, and then I would also think
Speaker 2: I'm very rude to not hug back and reciprocate.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know what you mean. I think I would
Speaker 5: hug back too. I would be like, Hi.
Speaker 2: Yeah. The thing is, like, I'm less afraid of that
Speaker 2: than sometimes when people stop me to ask me a question,
Speaker 2: which I think they may be distracting me because somebody's
Speaker 2: going to do something around me. Question Tanya. It is
Speaker 2: a difficult world.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know what you mean, tough out there to Yeah,
Speaker 1: Michael thinks like this, He's like, don't trust anybody.
Speaker 2: Don't just anybody. They're they're distracting you because they're stealing
Speaker 2: your car.
Speaker 5: Totally. I'm just like, what do you mean? Look at
Speaker 5: that is nice?
Speaker 2: So be aware of where where has the world come?
Speaker 2: Be afraid of huggers? Oh my gosh, hey, what would
Speaker 2: you do, MICHAELA If we're talking about that that there's
Speaker 2: a thing going around now if strangers walk up to
Speaker 2: you and try and hug you, they may be trying
Speaker 2: to steal your jewelry. Now, would you be afraid of
Speaker 2: a stranger hugger?
Speaker 1: Or it depends. If someone came up to me and
Speaker 1: gave me a hug, I feel like it would be
Speaker 1: rude not to.
Speaker 5: I'd be like, oh, this is a little weird, but
Speaker 5: I probably still would.
Speaker 2: And by the way, when you're single, you kind of
Speaker 2: looking for arms went open, right, I mean I'm like,
Speaker 2: that's that's very sweet and I needed that because it's
Speaker 2: been a while.
Speaker 1: But to remove your chain, I feel like that's not
Speaker 1: quite the move. Is the move like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: my bracelet stuck on you?
Speaker 5: Like, oh, I'm so sorry. Let me just and then
Speaker 5: you run for it.
Speaker 2: I wear a chain some with some shirts or silver chain,
Speaker 2: but it takes me about five minutes to hook the latch. Well, no,
Speaker 2: they would not cook it. They would just lift it
Speaker 2: over your neck. No, you wouldn't notice them lifting it
Speaker 2: over your neck.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, Tommy, I don't think you'd be a good
Speaker 2: hugging thief more. You can't just lift it over your head.
Speaker 2: They can't just unhook it. That's what they do. That's
Speaker 2: there were quick with the slide of the hand.
Speaker 1: I think the move is that they act like they
Speaker 1: got caught on you, and then then you're trying to like,
Speaker 1: you know, disengage, and then all of a sudden they
Speaker 1: get it and they run for it.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I couldn't be that person. It Literally
Speaker 2: the day I don't have my chain on, it's because
Speaker 2: I spent five minutes before I had to leave the
Speaker 2: house couldn't get it over.
Speaker 5: That's how I am with bracelets.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I forget it all right, let's get to this
Speaker 2: trending report, Tanya Okay.
Speaker 3: So, Nick Jonas posted a really sweet tribute on Instagram
Speaker 3: over the weekend.
Speaker 1: It was a picture and he said, I asked the.
Speaker 3: Most amazing woman in the world to marry me six
Speaker 3: years ago today, thank you for saying yes, Prianca Chopra,
Speaker 3: and so obviously Nick and Prianka they are married now.
Speaker 3: So it got me thinking about anniversaries. Yeah, when you're dating,
Speaker 3: do you celebrate the day that you met or do
Speaker 3: you celebrate the day that you became officially officially a couple.
Speaker 3: When you get engaged, do you celebrate your engagement day?
Speaker 3: Do you forget about your dating anniversary? And then when
Speaker 3: you get married, do you forget about all the dating
Speaker 3: stuff and just celebrate your wedding anniversary?
Speaker 2: Well, I mean for me, it's always a gray area.
Speaker 2: Where and when did we meet? Where? How what? When?
Speaker 2: When was it exactly? So it's not that uh and
Speaker 2: when we officially started dating. I usually generally don't forget,
Speaker 2: and I have been reminded in the past at the
Speaker 2: end of an anniversary day, you know what today is? Oh,
Speaker 2: that's so messed up. What's today? It's our for it's
Speaker 2: our anniversary? Oh, I mean, I I'm not great at
Speaker 2: at those in the dating world. What about getting engaged?
Speaker 2: Is that the celebratory moment? Like? What about you? Well,
Speaker 2: that's the thing.
Speaker 3: So Nick Jonas and Prionca are married, but he celebrated
Speaker 3: the day that he proposed to his wife.
Speaker 2: So I was like, what will you do?
Speaker 1: I think we'll.
Speaker 3: Celebrate our engagement anniversary instead of our dating anniversary this year.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, right, because I guess.
Speaker 1: That just goes out the window.
Speaker 3: And then after you get married, we'll celebrate the wedding
Speaker 3: anniversary and that's it.
Speaker 2: Well, cistany you've done all of these things, how do
Speaker 2: you celebrate just your wedding anniversary?
Speaker 1: I mean you have too many dates at that point
Speaker 1: when you get older too, like your kids birthdays and
Speaker 1: then all these other I just you're the wedding anniversary
Speaker 1: is all you really need. We I think about the
Speaker 1: day that we like are dating one every now and
Speaker 1: that it's May sixteenth, but you really.
Speaker 2: She's got ready, No, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I forget that day, but we don't celebrate it. We
Speaker 1: have three other birthdays that month. Like it's there's no way,
Speaker 1: there's no there's no reason to.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know if it's a dude thing or
Speaker 2: it's just a me thing. But the dates I can't remember.
Speaker 2: I can't remember what we did, but not the day
Speaker 2: we did it. That's the way my brain works.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's so dark that she reminded you after
Speaker 3: the day.
Speaker 2: I remember I was after the day, like at the end.
Speaker 1: Of the day, right right, right, I.
Speaker 2: Bet no one was mad, But I do forget because
Speaker 2: I'm not great on the birthday, anniversary calendar stuff. Anyway,
Speaker 2: I would definitely hug Nick Jonas and leave his necklace
Speaker 2: on the congratulate. They do seem like a great couple.
Speaker 2: Every time I hear about them or see them, they
Speaker 2: seem super happy. Yeah, so I told you guys, marriages
Speaker 2: can be good. All right, coming up, That's not what
Speaker 2: you say. I always say that. I say sometimes they
Speaker 2: work out. My vocal cords are tired from the Ryan's Roses.
Speaker 2: You know, you push, you push. Susanian thought that I
Speaker 2: jumped in too early on the Ryan's Roses call.
Speaker 1: We thought it, our listeners thought it, Yeah, so you
Speaker 1: can be the jodh on are Ryan seacrests.
Speaker 5: The people thought it.
Speaker 2: Take a listen to podcast and you let us know.
Speaker 2: I think it was the right time because he was
Speaker 2: trying to deflect. He was actually about to send the
Speaker 2: roses to another woman. I wanted to get him before
Speaker 2: he recognized it was Uselessney, So I say.
Speaker 1: Bonny Sandwich. It was so jarring when you jumped in that.
Speaker 1: I looked at Mark.
Speaker 5: I was like, what what do we do?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: You never attention? He was about to recognize your voice
Speaker 2: listening and I.
Speaker 5: No, he was not.
Speaker 2: What's not at all? You know what?
Speaker 1: Whatever makes you feel better is fine.
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to feel better, but you can because you're.
Speaker 5: Upset that you made a mistake and I'm zero says this.
Speaker 2: Is me on upset. Uh huh okay, not upset, look
Speaker 2: at me? No thanks mole Uh anyway, check it out
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