1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: Get donkey at the date time you get day, you 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: know you are. I'm gonna fatten all that around your 3 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: want this man to doton blowers man. They're waiting for 4 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: Charlomagne to top the boves to judgment who was gonna 5 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: be on the donkey of the day. They chose you 6 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: a brakfast for bitch. Who's donkey of the day to day? Well, 7 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: donkey today for Tuesday, February seventh is one of the 8 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: most heart woman donkeys I've heard in a long time. Okay, Now, 9 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: today's donkey is only thirteen years old. To he's a 10 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: juvenile and his name hasn't been released. Okay, I don't 11 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: have a problem with that, because public shame and ridicule 12 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: isn't what this boy needs at thirteen. He needs discipline, love, 13 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 1: and based off the crime he committed, probably some psychotherapy, No, 14 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: not probably, this young man needs a psychotherapy. Trust me. 15 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: If I had gotten psychotherapy at thirteen, I wouldn't have 16 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: made a lot of the mistakes I made. Okay, Young 17 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: brothers just be needing attenching and guidance. Okay. In an outlet, 18 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: Tex prestoff frustrations because when we don't get that attention 19 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: and guidance. We contend to make poor decisions and that's 20 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: what happened to this thirteen year old young Nancy. He 21 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: decided to put the pistol to the pastor. That's right, Lord, 22 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: day down here robbing reverence. Let's go to KMOVCBS poll 23 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: for the report. Police the carjackings and stolen cars in St. 24 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: Louis is not slowing down. The latest victims a church 25 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: pastor and a local children's charity. The pastor tells News 26 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: four he's thankful to be alive after two boys appeared 27 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: to be in middle school put a gun to his 28 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: face and took his van. This is surveillance video of 29 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: the incident last night and the parking lot of Chronult 30 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 1: Baptist Church in South Saint Louis. Please say, the two 31 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 1: boys did not get far. They hit other cars as 32 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: they drove away and abandoned the van they stole just 33 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: a few blocks from the church. Pastor says he had 34 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: to explain to the teens how to start the vehicle 35 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: because they seemed to be inexperienced thirteen and because of 36 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: their inexperience. Because of that, I didn't want them to say, hey, 37 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: this isn't working. Out shoot the guy in gold. I 38 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: mean seriously, I was trying to think a step ahead 39 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: of them. The teens ran from the scene. The pastor 40 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: says he pressed charges because he wants to hold them 41 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: accountable and he wants to prevent this from happening to 42 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: anyone else. I agree with him. Okay. When I was young, 43 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: my daddy salute the cowboy and ki Field, South Carolina 44 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: dropping a clue bump from my pops man. My daddy 45 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 1: used to say, boy them and words so crazy they 46 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: were shooting church. Okay, the meeting behind that in some 47 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: places used to be considered sacred some people. You know, 48 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: some people used to be considered sacred. I mean the 49 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: toughest gangsters. Wouldn't dare rob a pastor. Okay, Robbing a 50 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: reverend is like robbing God to a certain extent. And 51 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: now we know why Jesus has not fulfilled his promise 52 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: to you Christians of coming back. Why would he all right? 53 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: Think about that for a second. Y'all been killing God's messengers, 54 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: Jesus being one of them for the longest. Now y'all 55 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 1: jacking them? How are you sticking up the scripture? Spit up? Okay, 56 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: now I know y'all heard me say, this is one 57 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 1: of the most heart woman donkeys I've heard, okay in 58 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,119 Speaker 1: a long time. Ibably shouldn't have let with that because 59 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: y'all probably were wondering what was so a hot woman 60 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: about the path to getting robbed dance? It is nothing, okay, 61 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: but it's everything that happened after that. See, that little 62 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: boy got caught, okay, and he's currently chilged with for 63 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: US degree robbery. You know how he got caught not 64 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: just because they erect the cause. It's because someone identified 65 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: that little boy and turned him in, not just to someone, 66 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: someone who knows him very well. In fact, the person 67 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 1: knows that little boy better than he knows himself. Let's 68 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: go to NBC five for the report. Please new details 69 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: tonight about a thirteen year old accused of pointing a 70 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: gun at a pastor's face and then stealing his car. 71 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 1: Today we learned the teenager's mom is the one who 72 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: turned him in. Today, that teenager faced a family court 73 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: judge and five un years sides. Just Tina Cornell's in 74 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: studio right now to explain what's next. Yeah, make an 75 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: ann So the thirteen year old boy, his family and 76 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: the victim of the crime were all in court today. 77 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: A pastor, Mike Coleman with the corondal Let Baptist Church 78 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: learned that the thirteen year old boy will stay in 79 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: custody for the time being. Wednesday morning, one of the 80 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: teams arrested a thirteen year old was in court. Police 81 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: say his mom turned him in over the week, his 82 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: mother becoming a word of the event in questioning her 83 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: son and turning him over to this juvenile court for prosecution, 84 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: and investigators are still working to locate the second suspect. God, God, 85 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: bless that mom round. I've applause to that mom. Man 86 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: salute to that mom. I don't know how old that 87 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: mom is, but that mom clearly is works too hard 88 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: on her camel. She has clearly cleaned up her sins, 89 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: been baptized, give her ties and offering. She clearly has 90 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: done everything she needed to do to get into heaven. 91 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 1: And she is not about to lose her blessings fooling 92 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: with this little human who came out her vagina. Okay, 93 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: she is not about to be a necessary to his 94 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: holy heist now. Is this an example of gentle parenting 95 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: or conscious parenting? Because gentle parenting is the parenting style 96 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: as composed of empathy, respect, understanding, and boundaries. Conscious parenting 97 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: is about letting go of you know, parents, ego, desires, 98 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: and attachment. So which one is it conscious parenting, gentle parenting? 99 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: Or is this simply find somebody else to do it parenting? Okay? 100 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: And when I say finds some do it, this means 101 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: that as a mom, she probably has done so much 102 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: to keep him out this position, but that little hard 103 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: headed boy won't listen. Okay, she'd probably been telling them, 104 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: you're gonna end up in jail, a dad, if you 105 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: keep going down the path you're going down. And now 106 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 1: look jail at thirteen because you out here thieving for offerings. Okay, 107 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 1: So now I didn't do all that I can do. 108 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: Now I'm letting the system put some fear in you. Okay. 109 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 1: If one does not discipline a child, he or she 110 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: will never learn obedience and good manners. In this case, 111 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: if Mama don't turn this thirteen year old boy in, 112 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 1: he's gonna end up dead, are in prison forever, because 113 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: if you're already robbing passes that thirteen, My god, and 114 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: I'm not mad at his mother at all. If you 115 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 1: think your mother is a snitch an opt, then sit 116 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: your ass in that juvenile detention center until you get 117 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: some sense about you because you got life all the 118 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 1: way effed up. Now, let me ask two fathers in 119 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: the room. You got envying Ray J Hill, thirteen year 120 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 1: old child robs the past that gunpoint your child, you're 121 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: turning them into police. Thirteen year old. It's your child, 122 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: right and he oh, I've turned my own child in. 123 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: Would you if they did? He take all the collect 124 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 1: the collection to like all of the like money from 125 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: the doubt and he robbed the path to path was 126 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: sitting in his car. Man. Oh, but he didn't take 127 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: to collect like the church money that they gave matter. 128 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: He tried to rob the path gun taking my cunt 129 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: my son home and then I'm talking to him, okay, 130 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 1: and I gonna report him to the police. It's my son, 131 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: thirteen years old. He already putting pistols to pastors. But 132 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 1: that's like if you like these, like if there's a 133 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: bunch of people tripping on people snitching, like and they 134 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: just friends like my son Bridge, I don't want to 135 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: be a snitch. I'm just saying there's a difference between 136 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: snitching and then turning your your son, like that's over. 137 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: I'm not turning my son. That's that's a different word. 138 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: He didn't kill nobody, He robbed him. I'mna beat his 139 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: ass and robbing him with a pistol. Now, I'm gonna 140 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: make him bring that gun and wasn't loaded. I'm anna 141 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: maker bring the stuff back. You know, we're gonna believe 142 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: we're gonna leave it at the pastor's door and beat 143 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 1: his ass. But I'm not taking what did he take 144 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: from it? Rob You know, if they don't learn the 145 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 1: consequences of their actions, right, you know, it's only gonna escalated. 146 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: They're already putting the pistol to the path at thirteen, 147 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: continue turning my son and pastor? Have that made him 148 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: rob him? What did he take from their phones? From 149 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: the narrative, it's not all the way there. He was 150 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: just saying like he robbed the pastor for what Jesus? 151 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: What did he get from the pastor? In his pocket? Like, 152 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: what did he get from him? Did he take his wallet? 153 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: Did he take he took his wallet, Maybe he took 154 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: some money, maybe took his jewelry. Watch always always remember 155 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: proverb of thirteen twenty four. Whoever spares the rod hates 156 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: their children, but the one who loves their children is 157 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: careful to turn they after the police when they out 158 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: here committing crimes against clergyman. Please let Remy ma give 159 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: this a little thirteen year old juvenile who robbed the 160 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: reverend the biggest he hucked. He shout out to Remy Ma, 161 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: I want to do this show with you, Remy, and 162 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: we gotta get on the phone. Would you turn in 163 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: your child? I don't know. So you just gave us 164 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: that host, give it that whole preet. Oh do this? 165 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: Oh he brought the past and when he goes and 166 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: then it's gonna happen to this and it's just a stage. 167 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: I applaud this mom for doing it, but I don't 168 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: know what I would do. I wouldn't term mysel if 169 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: I was in there. I like how you guys go 170 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: give that go back and forth and stuff. I guess dope, 171 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: and I don't have a fun. So you got four daughters, 172 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I really don't know. You ran up 173 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: in the hammer and when the pat I think, I 174 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: don't know. I'd be thinking, Dan, what did I do wrong? 175 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: That she would have to do that. I'm not you 176 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: know what I mean, I'm not. I'm gonna take a 177 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: herberall what a herball? It's a natural addie? All right, 178 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 1: what what are we doing next? We had uh, ellis, 179 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: ellis is here last last hour? That's right to have 180 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: a book out right now? Okay, yes, but they said 181 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: this was interesting. Listen, give a chapter called there's a 182 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: marriage after this wedding break that there. So while we 183 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: were writing the book, we had discussed what I thought 184 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 1: process was about getting engaged and being married, and Kadeen 185 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: had admitted that she had never really thought about the marriage. No, anytime, Yeah, 186 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: anytime I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or the wedding, 187 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: it was the wedding. It was you know, what dresses 188 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: are you gonna get? And who's the florest, and it 189 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: was the planning of the day. At no point in 190 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: time did anyone pull me aside and say, Kadein like, 191 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 1: once you get married, here are some things to expect. Right. 192 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: You watch these Disney movies and it says happily ever after, 193 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: no one sees what happens after they lied off into 194 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: the sunset. But it was particularly difficult because I just 195 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: did not think about or plan for what life was 196 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: going to look like after the wedding. M is that 197 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: something that we do what you mean, work on the 198 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: marriage yet do we plan for life after the wedding? 199 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: Or is there even a plan? You know what I mean? 200 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: There is there a blueprint to being married. Let's talk 201 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: about it when we come back. Eight hundred five eighty 202 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 1: five one on five one we all married brothers a pair. 203 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: We'll discuss when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. 204 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 1: Good morning, yep, yep, it is waked that ass up 205 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: nine about to go crazy, but this Ray J and 206 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: I've official shoually joined the Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club 207 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 1: Donkey today is brought to you by the law office 208 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: of Michael s Lammon Sau. Don't be a donkey. Dive 209 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: pound two fifty on your cell and say the bull. 210 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,719 Speaker 1: If you've been hurting a construction accident, that's pound two 211 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 1: five old from your cell and say the bull.