WEBVTT - Don't Be THAT Customer... 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:03.360 From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us. 0:00:05.840 --> 0:00:08.200 On air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:12.280 One or two point seven because f M, are you single? 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:17.040 Are you happy about it? This is so exciting. I 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:19.279 screenshot did this and send it to Mark for the show. 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:21.560 Listen to this, and I just want to make sure 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:24.920 that you hear this. Sisny Tanya, Yeah, Sophia, Michaela, whoever's single. 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:29.200 Nearly half of a half of Americans are single today 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.239 right now. They're single. Wow, And they don't mind it. 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:33.480 They like it. 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:34.400 Yeah. 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:39.400 They think they don't need someone. They say being single 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:43.320 is great. It's a lifestyle. You don't need someone else 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:47.000 to fulfill you. You don't long for a relationship. You 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:50.000 prefer to be alone. This gives me hope. 0:00:51.120 --> 0:00:52.400 Well, do you prefer all this? 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:52.920 Yeah? 0:00:53.040 --> 0:00:54.080 I don't. 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:57.080 I don't think I do. But maybe if all these 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:58.480 people do, I can do it. 0:00:58.560 --> 0:01:01.440 Don't try to convince yourself to be of something you read. 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:03.400 But I agree with you on the second half of this. 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:07.280 By the way, so single women are much more likely 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:11.319 to prioritize travel friendships over partners. Like traveling with partners. 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:16.680 It's like this was written for me. Do you feel 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:18.560 I mean do you when Mikayla you're single, do you 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:21.000 ever feel like it's just it's just a lifestyle, Like 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:22.479 why on the hunt? 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:25.360 Yeah, I mean I'm trying to meet somebody. But my 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:28.319 life with my friends who are also single is so fun, 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:30.800 Like we enjoy being single because we are single, so 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:32.920 we love to travel together. And my friends and I 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:34.800 were actually talking about this over the weekend, were like, 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:37.319 we don't need a man, you know. 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:38.120 But we do. 0:01:38.200 --> 0:01:41.320 People tell us we need a man because they have 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:43.280 one and they want us to be one of them. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:45.880 In like the back of everyone's head. Everyone that's like 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:46.720 hovering over them. 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:49.920 Well, no, and our system tells us that you need to, 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:52.120 like you get all these benefits when you get married. 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.480 It's like, why don't we have these benefits for single people, 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:59.320 like what like tax breaks when you get married and healthcare. 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:02.360 They're there's so many things, that's. 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:05.160 True, a lot of benefits also for being single. Don't 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:06.680 have to call, don't have to go home, don't have 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:08.400 to do certain things, you don't have to report back, 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.280 don't have to ask for permission. I don't know. I 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:13.280 just saw and thought maybe I should reframe my single 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:17.200 hood and get into it. It's you people to push 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:18.760 it on us. Marry people. 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:20.280 Oh, you don't have to do all those things if 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:22.680 you get married either. Don't you have to ask for 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:24.519 permission to do things. 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:27.160 You don't know what you do? Really, my friends always 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:27.640 have to ask. 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:32.399 I guess maybe he has to ask me. That makes sense, 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:35.680 I see. 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:39.880 Guys. Anyway, if you are single, everybody else is to 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:42.920 don't let those people who are in relationships try to 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:45.840 push you into something you don't want. That's this morning's message, 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:50.040 Kiss FM. It is kiss FM. Love that track. Ashley Hawthorne, 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:55.120 good morning, Good morning. So you are calling your mother 0:02:55.160 --> 0:03:01.000 in law got you insulting socks? Is that the issue? 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:08.680 Yeah? I know, I no, And I know maybe I'm 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.919 being too sensitive or if like, maybe maybe I'm being 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:14.000 too sensitive. Maybe this is actually weird. I just need 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:17.880 your advice. But so, my mother in law got me 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:20.519 these socks for my birthday and they have all these 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:25.320 funny sayings on them, but I don't know the sayings 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:27.160 just like don't feel very funny to me. And they 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:34.320 say things like currently overthinking or easily annoyed or work 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:40.480 in progress and hide maintenance and yeah, yeah, and everyone 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:42.560 laughed when I opened them, including her, and she said 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:45.200 it's just a joke, which, like, if we had a 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:48.000 really good relationship, that would make sense to me, I guess, 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:50.520 but I already feel like she doesn't like me. So 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:53.760 it just didn't feel playful at all. It felt like 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:57.440 really pointed and like she was like describing me and 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:00.640 not just giving me socks. And so now I'm torn. 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:02.000 I'm in this place where I'm like, do I just 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:02.640 laugh it off? 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:03.360 Let it go? 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:08.400 Is this something that yes, what are you gonna try 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:08.840 to get into this? 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:09.720 No? 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:13.240 I think she's actually showing a sense of humor with 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:16.640 all of this. I think she's actually making an effort 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:19.400 with all of this to be to have some levity, 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:21.599 to have some fun, to be a bit clever. I 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:23.560 don't think this is you don't push back on this. 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:26.040 I would not What good is pushed back on this? 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:31.200 Zero good? Let her think you think they're so adorably 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:34.640 cute and funny that she likes you more. Yeah, it's 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:36.000 so easy. 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:41.120 It's like where the wish I had a mother in law? Oh, 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:41.640 I mean. 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:48.080 Or in this call? So actually, let it be a 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:52.640 breakthrough moment where you get closer to her. You see, 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:53.760 it's an opportunity. 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:58.120 It's true versus like having my husband like you think 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:00.360 if I had my husband gently say something to that 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:03.600 my feelings, it's the wrong direction. 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:06.520 That's only going to cause more tension in the relationship. 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:12.280 Bad idea. Don't do that. Accept this and use this 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:14.880 as a way to charm her a little bit. 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:16.640 Yes, and the next time you see her, where the 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:18.800 socks show her like at my fucks. 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:21.120 Got a much trust, trust and trust. 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:25.160 I also like, don't really want to be wearing socks 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:27.000 that say like overthinking is my cardio. 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:30.359 You know, I know that. Just make it peaceful with 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:31.080 your mother in law. 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:33.600 It's so easy. 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:35.240 Good luck, Ashley. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:36.840 Perfect. 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:39.200 She did not want to hear that. No, she did 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:42.280 not no, But that's exactly what you should do. Use 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:46.559 it as an opportunity to leverage closeness. 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:48.440 You know. 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:50.479 This happens to me all the time. I test my 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:54.000 gas gauge. When it tells me I'm out, I keep 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:56.719 driving because I think it's not telling me the actual truth. 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:58.760 I think there's more there. The problem is I don't 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:00.440 want to risk it so much that I find out 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.120 how much is left when it says there is none left, 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:06.159 but there is some left there is some I don't 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.600 want to always be that person. I should fill it 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:10.760 up when it gets red. But I kind of like 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:13.200 this game of like you're gonna tell me it's empty, 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:15.760 but it's not. But how not can it be if 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:18.800 I keep driving? So two types of people, those who 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:22.360 fill it up on a regular they're very prudent about it. 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:24.960 And those of us that play the game Ruby. You 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:27.000 play the game, right, a game with your gas. 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:28.920 You live to play the game. And I'm like, why 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:29.800 am I like this? 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:33.039 Like what made me this kind of person where I 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:35.479 literally like love to play the game. 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:37.719 It is a literal game to me. I'm like, I 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:38.200 can do it. 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:41.320 I see I have twenty miles, okay, cool, ten miles 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:44.120 one mile. I did it yesterday on my way into work, 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:45.839 and I was like, I have five miles left. 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:46.760 I will make it. 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:51.520 Yeah, I think I do it in hopes someone will 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:54.719 just need to use my car and then see that 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:58.720 it needs killed up. That's my move. I just want 0:06:58.760 --> 0:07:01.280 to find someone, you know, I'll invite people over to 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:03.440 stay overnight. Oh you don't borrow my card more morning. 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:06.040 Miller xactly. 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:10.400 But then, like my mother is so diligent about it. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.320 You know if it gets down to a quarter left, 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:15.440 she's got to stop. My mom. We do not have 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:17.360 to stop right now. Yes, Ryan, we do. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:18.320 That's Michael. 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:19.200 That's me too. 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:22.160 I let I let it ride down to the one 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:26.400 mile and I'm like, okay, windows down, asy, don't hit 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:27.520 the gas so hard. 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:28.160 We're good. 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:29.760 We're good, recruis gas. 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.360 It's a hassle. It's not a fun thing to do. 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.280 It's when has it ever been fun? The one that 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:35.600 finds the store inside. 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:36.440 It's like a chore. 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:43.520 Except have you seen TikTokers keeping toilet paper in the refrigerator? Why, well, 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:48.160 I went into it deep it's and it works. What 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:57.600 to absorb odors get out? Toilet paper is very absorbent. 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:00.920 It absorbs the moisture that contribute. It's two smells. 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:01.880 I'm done. 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:04.840 However, it does not work as well as baking soda, 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:08.280 which is also cheaper. But yes, it absorbs odors. So 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:10.640 why not you guys store the fridges under. 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:13.520 The This is gonna the new gift is going to 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:15.720 be these little mini fridges in our bath. 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:20.760 The magazine rack. I think it would feel you raised 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:22.760 a great point. I'm gonna test dry that does it 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:26.600 feel nice? Does it cool? Toilet paper will feel good? 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:30.840 Might I like my toilet paper in my bathroom? 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:31.400 All right? 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:32.320 Well that's fine. 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:35.840 Yeah, how do you get up and go waterle over 0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:38.880 to the fridge and then bring it back to keep it? 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:43.040 So far, I have done some really risky wattles before. 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:45.120 The worst. 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:47.600 Yeah, especially when in like a new place someone else's 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:48.240 are a hotel. 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:50.720 I know who doesn't replace the toilet paper? 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:55.679 Right, You're like, oh no, he's not here. Here I 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:59.320 go to wattle. You ever have to use the toilet 0:08:59.320 --> 0:08:59.880 seat covers? 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:02.600 Is the restaurant a public restaurant? 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:05.000 I know that's the word, and it makes so much 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:05.480 noise though. 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:08.280 Yeah, it's not that bad, though. 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:13.040 Tanya, it is. That's my feelings. Not that bad. Today's 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:18.560 quote it's quite soft. Let's normalize I'm willing to work 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:22.640 on that instead of that's just the way I am. Wow, 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:23.719 I'm willing to. 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:26.120 Work Okay, let's start trying to say that. 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:27.760 I'm willing to work on that. I'm willing to work 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:28.000 on that. 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:30.320 Right, I'm willing to work on that. 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:33.280 It's just even if you don't mean it sounds better 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:34.240 to the other, it doesn't. 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:35.560 Even sound natural coming out of my mouth. 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.000 Try with Michael to see if he just laughs. 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:40.199 He would, but what is it again? I'm willing to 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:42.680 work on that. Uh huh, I'm going to use it. 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:43.600 It be like who are you? 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:44.720 And what have you done with my wife? 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:50.360 We're gonna get through it Thursday morning on kiss. All right. 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:54.880 So we often talk about when you meet someone red 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:58.720 flags and green flags, and when someone throws up a 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:01.320 red flag, it's not great because you want to like 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:03.640 that person, but they read flag you with something so 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:05.640 early that you can't get past it, and that's stuck 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:09.520 in your mind. Right, And I have dumb red flags sometimes, 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:12.880 like little things can red flag and I is it 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:15.000 just because like am I small minded? I don't know? 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:21.280 Maybe so Mikhayela Jordan single people, right, let's hit that's 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:26.600 all we got three of us. Well, let's what is poppin'. 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:27.480 It's the question. 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:31.240 So I want to ask you a couple popping questions. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:36.000 Here are these red or green flags? You we right, 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:41.720 meet someone and they don't drink anything alcoholic at all ever? 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:43.079 Red or green? 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:45.439 I think that's a green flag, But I'd also want 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:47.360 to know why, like is there a backstory? 0:10:49.760 --> 0:10:52.160 I think it's a red flag, like, well, you don't 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:52.800 like having fun. 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:58.120 Look, if you have an issue, then that's a green flag. 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:01.480 I can't date someone that doesn't want to have something 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:03.960 every once in a while is like it's fun. I 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:06.160 want to go have a margarita on a Friday. I 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.720 want to have a taste of wine. Like we would 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:12.720 not be probably together. But if you have an issue 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:17.440 with it, green flag. But Sisney, you wouldn't be when 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:19.240 somebody doesn't drink anything. 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:21.920 No, not initially, but if. 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:24.520 But I don't know. 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:27.000 I just feel like nowadays everyone's so health conscious and 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:29.400 like it's it's not that big of a deal to 0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:29.959 not drink. 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:32.360 Yeah, maybe it's because I would feel bad about me. 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:36.200 Maybe it's that I don't know. Yeah, interesting next one 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:40.520 red flag, green flag. Single people here? How many? Just 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:44.920 three of us? All right? Three? They don't know pop culture, 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:48.240 never heard of heated rivalry. I don't care. That's I 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:50.280 don't care. That is not a flag for me at all. 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.080 That's a red flag for me. I feel like my 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:54.280 world is entertainment. Like if you can't relate or talk 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:55.760 to me about like what's going on? 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:58.960 Like no, yeah, I want to need someone that doesn't 0:11:58.960 --> 0:11:59.960 know any of that stuff and. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.600 Not talk about what I think that makes you a 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:06.120 boring person. I'm get tapped in. 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:09.200 I do it all day with you guys. I do 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:12.400 not need my partner to be talking about heated rivalry. 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:13.760 Oh my gosh. 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.200 Yeah, let's watch the clips on TikTok. 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:18.160 I did the guy once. 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:21.840 I didn't have a television and that was crazy business. 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:22.920 See that would not bother me. 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:24.160 I'm on TV. 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:25.880 I think that's so cool. 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:27.480 Oh no, that's a red flag. 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:33.960 Really? Yes, computer screen though, I guess that's different. 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:37.560 But like I love watching movies and TV shows, you know. 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:41.920 Maybe a red flag, green flag? All right? Single people only? 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:42.200 Please? 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:45.080 Who is that three of us? Okay, just turn my 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:50.040 mic off. They prefer staying in over going out. Red 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:50.440 or green. 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:56.880 Oh, I feel like that's it's a red flag at first, 0:12:57.000 --> 0:12:57.960 because what are you hiding? 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.679 Hiding it is? Why don't you want to go out 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:04.400 with you? No, they want the quality time with you. 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:08.120 They don't need everything else. It's a green flag. 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:11.600 I say red. I've been on that side of the tracks. 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:15.040 Like you cannot get too comfortable. It's not looking cute. 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:18.319 Really, that's all I want is to get too comfortable. 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:21.079 No, you can't be in your sweatpants, like on the 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:21.720 first day. 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:26.440 I want to be in my cozy so bad. All right, Well, 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:29.719 that was interesting. We had opposite opinions and that's why 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:35.600 I'm homely or single? All right? Well at two point 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:39.000 seven kiss FM. When you go to bed? Do you 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:43.000 go to bed at the same time as your partner? Tany? 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:44.560 Do you go to bed the same time as your partner? 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:44.880 Yes? 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:47.720 We do, all right, Sysney? Do you? 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:52.560 It depends on the season, meaning meaning there's some times 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:55.920 in our lives where I'm busier or he's busier, like 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:59.120 has long hours of work, and I have events and 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:01.160 concerts that I go throughout the night, and so it's 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:01.800 not every night. 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:06.120 No, So I this is a tough one for me 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:11.280 because I I I go back and forth, Like I 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:13.360 told you this, like I want someone to go to 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:15.480 bed at the same time until they're in bed, and 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:16.520 then I can't sleep. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:19.240 On because if they fall asleep before you, then it's 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:20.880 like annoying, especially. 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:24.360 If everyone before me. Oh really and yeah and usually 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:26.440 well I have to it's very embarrassing to be in 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:28.440 this moment with me because I have to usually explain 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:31.520 I need So there's four pillows and two of them 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:34.280 are specific that I need, and if someone is on 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:36.200 my other pillow, I have to ask for it back, 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.200 and then I have to tell them that I flip 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:43.320 a lot at night. And this isn't it's just it's 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:44.720 a it's a moment. 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:45.200 You know. 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:48.920 But I guess you know. More and more couples do 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:50.720 not go to bed at the same time. And the 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:54.440 average bedtime gap. Think about this, if this is you, 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:58.520 the average bedtime gap is eighty minutes. Like one goes down, 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:03.480 another one goes down, eighty minutes separation. And I just 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:05.440 I'm the kind of person that wakes up. So if 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:07.040 you were to if I were to go down first 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:09.120 and fall asleep, and then you come in eighty minutes later, 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:09.720 now I'm away. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:12.160 Yeah, I know that happens too. 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:18.120 Bedtime gaps. Don't feel bad if you need to sleep 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:20.840 in another place, I mean not another place, but like 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:22.760 you know, every once in a while, if you have 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:25.280 a guest room, if you have an extra room, sleep there, 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:26.880 sleep on the couch. I think, sleep on the couch 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:28.720 and let your partner have a good night's sleep. If 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:30.720 the I'm not a good night sleep, it's very romantic. 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:34.440 I think it's thoughtful, especially if one is sick or 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:36.720 one is you know, just sometimes you have to separate 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:37.320 for those reasons. 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:40.400 But sometimes yeah, you do it and you kind of 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:41.760 don't mean it, but you want to make the offer, 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:45.040 and then they're like, yeah, that's a great idea. I 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:46.680 never really want it. I want you to say, no, 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:50.760 that's okay, we can share ye germs? Uh what about germs? 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:51.680 Why am I gonna have germs? 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:53.520 Like, if they're sick, I want to share a bed. 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:56.000 If they're sick, I'm like, oh, gladly sleep on the couch. 0:15:59.040 --> 0:15:59.280 Well. 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:02.640 It is one of two point seven kiss FM, a 0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:05.880 sign for Ryan's roses. Jasmine has reached out to us. 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:07.680 Good morning, Jasmine, thanks for coming on. 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:09.920 So are welcome. 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:13.600 Hello, Hi Jasmine. So, an anonymous co worker sent your 0:16:13.640 --> 0:16:17.200 husband a message saying you're having an affair. Either you 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:19.080 tell your wife or I'll tell your wife. You got 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:20.520 one week to do it. Is that correct? 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:21.840 Yep? 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:22.840 That is correct. 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:25.880 So when you obviously asked your husband about this, what he. 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:29.960 Say, Uh, he denied it. He completely denied it. He 0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:33.080 told me that you know, he was doing something else 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:34.480 that during that time. 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:38.120 He denied it. Do you believe him. 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:41.560 I do, but there's like one little detail that just 0:16:41.640 --> 0:16:44.640 stuck out to me and rubbed me the wrong way. 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:51.440 So yeah, so what bothered me is this anonymous person 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:53.800 said that he made plans to meet up on a 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:58.120 Tuesday night at six point thirty and I then just 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:01.080 checked the date, and I remember he told me he 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:04.440 got a flat tire that night and he came from 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:07.000 home from work three hours later than usual. 0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:14.280 You know, I'm not that's not bothering me. Really well, 0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:16.280 it's not not bothering me. But what I'm stuck on 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:19.040 is why is this co worker trying to cause trouble? 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:22.440 There's something there to me about that. Hold on one second, right, 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:26.160 we're gonna get into it next. We'll call her husband. Yeah. 0:17:26.200 --> 0:17:28.720 See what I'm saying here, Sisney, is that like, why 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:32.919 is the coworker causing this panic zone? She the coworker 0:17:33.600 --> 0:17:34.440 wants to break up? 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:39.000 Or maybe the anonymous coworker is the other girl, the 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:39.560 other woman. 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:46.520 These things, these things, Ryan's Roses Kiss FM, Kiss FM. 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:49.560 It's time for the Ryan's Roses calls. So we're on 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:53.280 with Jasmine about to call her husband. Sysney. Get ready, Yeah, 0:17:53.359 --> 0:17:57.359 a co worker, anonymous co worker sends Jasmine's husband a 0:17:57.400 --> 0:18:00.199 message saying you're having an affair. I'm giving you one 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:01.959 week to tell your wife or I'll tell your wife. 0:18:02.080 --> 0:18:04.600 Now I ain't. That's a red flag. Yeah, so, Jasmine, 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:07.920 something's up with this woman to want to cause this panic. 0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:12.280 Either she doesn't like that you're together, or she's the 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:14.080 one having the affair, maybe with your husband. 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:17.840 Yeah, I don't know why someone would. There's got to 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:19.200 be a reason, I agree. 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:23.320 What's like? What's her anonymous motive there? That is clearly 0:18:23.359 --> 0:18:26.159 causing panic? Jasmine, I need you to say, Ryan, you 0:18:26.200 --> 0:18:30.000 have my permission to call, and then his name. 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:35.880 Okay, Ryan, you have my permission to call. 0:18:38.160 --> 0:18:41.480 Okay, we're gonna do it right now. Be very quiet. 0:18:41.600 --> 0:18:43.840 Let's see what we can find out. Do you know 0:18:43.960 --> 0:18:46.480 the woman's name at work he's been accused of having 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:46.960 an affair with. 0:18:48.119 --> 0:18:49.119 Yeah, it's Maya. 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:53.760 Okay, we're gonna get into this right now. Be very quiet. 0:18:53.760 --> 0:18:54.160 Good luck. 0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:05.760