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Speaker 1: She was going on a first date and the guy

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Speaker 1: changed it at the last minute because his ex was

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Speaker 1: at the restaurant they're supposed to go to, and she's wondering,

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Speaker 1: is that.

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Speaker 2: A red flag? Anna? Why do you think this could

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Speaker 2: be a red flag?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So basically, I just I was on my way

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Speaker 3: to a date and he let me know, like as

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Speaker 3: I'm walking into the restaurant that we had to change locations,

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Speaker 3: and because yeah, exactly exactly.

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Speaker 2: Why is that a bat on him?

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Speaker 3: Well? I don't know, Like maybe I'm overthinking it, but

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Speaker 3: is it a red flag? Like does he why can't

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Speaker 3: he get along with his ex? Or like why can't

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Speaker 3: he be in the same room with her?

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Speaker 1: It's just distracting. It's actually not fair to you or

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Speaker 1: to the ex, and it's distracting.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I don't think it's.

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Speaker 1: A red flag. I really don't think you got to

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Speaker 1: give this guy a shot. He's probably just trying to

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Speaker 1: make it comfortable for you. Wouldn't you find it uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: his ex is in the restaurant?

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Speaker 3: I mean yeah, but like I don't if it was me,

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Speaker 3: like I would want people to see me like happy,

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Speaker 3: like flirting with somebody else.

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Speaker 2: Maybe games. That's a game.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how did you find out.

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Speaker 2: It was his exit? He tell you specifically?

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Speaker 3: Yeah he did.

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Speaker 2: Then that's a green flag too, because then he could

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Speaker 2: have lied about it. He could have just not even

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Speaker 2: told you. Get this guy in the calendar. Yeah, get

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Speaker 2: him in the calendar again.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I will makes sense right.

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