WEBVTT - EPISODE 178 "LOVE OVERBOARD" 0:00:01.360 --> 0:00:14.240 Hold up, hold up this fall alert ball Alert Baller 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:17.000 work until Balling the show podcast available everywhere you get 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:19.560 your podcast, and I go by the name of Ferrarison 0:00:22.079 --> 0:00:25.920 and what you know bt ct with that I missed y'all. 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:30.560 Honest sure if you want to call working another thirty 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:37.120 jobs a vacation. Short on vacation, use on vacation. Wain't 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:40.760 seen you in a minute? Use on vacation. Just st 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:46.920 Elizabeth the second has passed away. That is really sad 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:49.240 for all the people who really love her all around 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:52.640 this around the same time frame as I. It wasn't 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:55.440 her daughter Diana that that died in the car crash. 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:57.960 That was the anniversary here by the week ago we 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:02.320 can have ago. I can't remember how oh really post 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:09.640 the longest running queen seventy years. Honestly, it's it's very crazy. 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:12.200 Condolences to her loved one. She has a lot of 0:01:12.240 --> 0:01:14.120 supporters throughout the world. There are so many people that 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:16.640 love what she contributed to society. I'm one of those 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:18.400 people that's on the other side of the fans. I 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:20.840 would like to see all the stolen gold from Africa 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:24.000 and artifacts returned. Um. So that's where I'm at. With it, 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:28.039 but it is I sent you my love. However, please 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:31.600 take Africa out of the chokeholde take him out. You 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:33.600 can't be the people that cause a problem. And they'd 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:34.959 be like, oh, I have a solution for you, guys, 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:39.559 here's the donation. It's our god. Wow, I didn't know 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:42.240 some things don't make the history books. But I mean, 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:44.920 we know a lot of things don't make the history books. 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:47.360 But I thought she passed away like months ago, because 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:52.080 the Hollywood are you talking about? Hollywood posted that she 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:58.520 passed away. So if you notice when other media sites 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:00.760 were posting that she pa that's the way the day 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:04.520 they was tagging Hollywood unlocked because they said this happened 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:07.040 months ago. I actually forgot about that they posted it 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:09.400 and they had to come out and apologize because supposedly 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:12.000 it was false information. So what are you saying. Are 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:14.480 you saying that she might have really been gone a 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.200 few months? I don't know. I'm just saying I just 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:18.920 know Jason Lee probably got more insight than we do. 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:23.240 He probably knows somebody that we don't know. He's still alive, right, 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:29.600 Jason Lee, Yeah, missing in the future and broke some 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:32.040 ship that were supposed to get broke. Oh, I see 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:37.960 what you say. Yeah, apologize real quick? Yeah, how please? 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:46.000 The folks business over there, Uh is that it was 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:49.120 an active shooter in Memphis a couple of days ago. Uh, 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:53.520 suspect Ezekiel Kelly young as hell? How old was he? 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:58.919 Ninety year old Ezekiel Kelly killing people? And then yeah, 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:01.520 you can tell that he was actually on some drugs 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:04.640 because when you've seen his did you see his Monks 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.480 video circuling around as well too? Yeah, I don't want 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:11.079 to see that. It's face he would say, Oh my god, 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:13.679 is a graphic. Yeah, it showed him killing people. He 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:17.920 would be on Facebook live and oh my god. But 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:21.040 my thing is he started around like four in the afternoon. 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:24.880 Why did it take all the way to like nine 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:29.480 pm for him to be in custody? Because it was 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:33.760 a Memphis that's been going through it. You know that 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:37.560 there was a bit that heiress who was kidning dog 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:39.760 at four thirty am. It was around you know, those 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:43.160 hours or whatever, and she gets kidnapped and unfortunately they 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:46.320 do find her body. She is no longer with us, 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:51.040 she's no longer living. But the guy who allegedly kidnapped 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:55.560 or abducted her actually held a politicians child or a 0:03:55.560 --> 0:03:58.640 politician for random a long time ago. He went to 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:02.640 prison for years and then got out and then kidnapped, 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:05.040 you know, did the same thing again, same thing, And 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:08.080 so it seems like he does target these really wealthy 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:11.720 or like affluent people. She's literally the heiress of a billionaire. 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:14.880 So Memphis has been going through it, y'all. Please. My 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:17.280 thing is with that, I feel like that man is 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:20.240 very institutionalized because it just seemed like he wanted to 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:22.680 go back. Yeah, because I mean that's what prison does 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:26.400 to people. Our prison system is not designed to rehabilitate. 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:30.120 The prison is supposed to rehabilitation. They don't have any 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:33.679 therapists in their house. How it's supposed to help somebody 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:36.120 that's in there. The prison is nothing but a jungle 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:41.279 full of lines eating each other. That's playing your next situation. 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.240 Well here, it's all about money in America. But then 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:46.760 New Zealand, Okay, now they ain't the hotel baby that 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:50.920 was a five star Luxuria. They're probably coming out a 0:04:50.920 --> 0:04:53.440 little bit better than people living in cages over here. 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:56.880 But they focused on like job reform, they focused on 0:04:57.240 --> 0:05:01.400 helping rehabilitate the inmate. Just here. It's like, well, let 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:03.400 me stick him in this cage because it's gonna be 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:05.040 a drop in the book. And then they let him 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:08.040 right back out and they commit the same crime. Yeah, 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:12.080 sometimes they come out. He was in there when the kidnapper, 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:15.160 he was in there like around like sixteen, seventeen years old, 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:18.719 twenty years you know, you're coming back out. This is 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:21.280 all you know. That's why I say, I feel like 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.800 he's very institutionalized, and that's all he knew. He had 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:27.000 to get back to that. And for this shooter, you know, 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:29.480 like I said, for this shooter to go on the 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:33.200 killing free of wrong four pm, you know, rush our 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:35.520 kids getting out of school and all that, and for 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:38.720 you to be captured after nine pm, you know what, 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:41.480 didn't nobody but us back. It's a mess out here. 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:43.160 You guys saw the guy that got rob for twenty 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.279 thousand dollars in New York, Like literally it was like 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:47.640 a grand theft. All those situation this card was. They 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:51.080 were chasing each other, Yeah, chasing each other, slamming into 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:53.520 each other's cars, like it literally was like a scene 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:59.520 out of Fast and Furious with you dollars, So obviously 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:02.200 they must know each other they knew that he had 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:05.640 this money. Literally four pm in New York broad day, 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:07.599 like people are outside having a little coffee, a little 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:10.000 lunch or whatever, and you just see a high speed 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.640 chase and a man with a gun runs out, bust 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:15.520 the window and takes a bag full of money. What 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.640 the what the hell the world is coming to show 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:25.280 the world has been this we just have yeah, this 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:27.920 will This would be unbelievable to hear on the news, 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:31.239 But now we are social media and everything. It's like, wow, 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:34.320 this is this is like look at these people. Isn't 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:37.400 it weird that all these people that are doing like, 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:40.440 you know, random killings it, why are they on social 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:43.400 media posting it and streaming it live? What's you called 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:47.880 mentally unstable friends? People are not well. But remember back then, 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.160 you know, before social media, people will write them down, 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:55.719 they will have a journal, just another form of communicating 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:58.640 what they're doing. And it's just it's a drug. And 0:06:58.760 --> 0:07:01.560 sometimes it's easier to talk to your phone or to 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:03.400 like social media that it is to actually talk to 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:06.480 a person, you know, face to face. Unfortunately, that's that's 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:08.159 where we are with it. So people use social media 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:12.120 like it's a diary. Goofy ways. Speaking of social media, 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:14.360 I would like to take it to a positive note. 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:18.680 Can we say his name correctly? From your Francis Francis 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:23.920 Francis ta Tiafa becomes the first black man to reach 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:32.000 the US Open semifinals since Arthur asked can snap Lebron Silencer. 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:39.800 You know what I'm saying, Black superpowers? I said, hey, baby, yeah, 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:43.800 I'd like to see some negros playing some tennis. Money 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:50.880 how much too? Yeah? And he has humble beginnings. His 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:53.800 family came here in the nineties from Sierra Leone and 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:58.120 they lived out in Maryland and his whole family was 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.640 standing out of one of the office, says that his 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:04.960 father used to clean because his father was a custodian. 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:07.840 But um, yeah, he's has very humble beginnings, and you know, 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:11.239 I hope to see him Sunday at the finals. Beautiful. 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:17.840 Let's I know it was. I mean, I'm not a 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:19.280 tennis fan. I'm not gonna sit here now like I 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:20.920 watched everything, you know what I mean. But I do 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.800 know that Raphael Nadal is like a very big deal. 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:25.679 And the fact that like I got on social media 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:28.920 and saw that this black man annihilated him. I knew 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:30.760 what that man, and I think it's amazing, especially after 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:33.640 seeing King Richard. Definitely gave me a little more insight 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.200 as to how much work it takes to do this, 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:39.800 especially for black people. So shout out to uh Serena 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:47.200 Williams who had her last day baby. He's one of 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:52.200 the greatest athletes ever. She's been playing tennis professionally for 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:55.000 twenty years. She's forty one. Correct me if I'm wrong, 0:08:55.040 --> 0:09:00.559 forty one. Yes, she's playing amateur since she was younger 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:02.719 than that. Yeah, I know, but she went pro when 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:05.559 they were like fifteen or yeah, around the age I 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:08.080 think it was sixteen seventeen. But if you haven't watched 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:10.120 King Richard, like it breaks it down about you know, 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:11.880 them trying to get into it and then him pulling 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:17.040 them back, making sure that gang members and all those things. 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:22.120 The uh Serena was walking yeah remember that. Yeah, man, 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:25.560 Serena is the goat and she just played her heart out. 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:27.840 She beat the number two players. One of the best 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:33.800 athletes ever. I feel like stadium too for sure, man 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:36.520 or female, she's one of the best athletes ever. She 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:40.400 is very deserving to wear a gold crown from Africa. Yeah, 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:43.240 and she was still beasting like up to that, Like, 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:45.640 I mean, I felt like she was a little tired, 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:46.960 you know what I mean. But I felt like if 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:48.760 she had a day of rest and didn't do doubles, 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:52.120 she would have liked won that that last matches she 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:55.120 um and she lost. But phenomenal woman. You go girl, 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:58.720 And let's not undermind venus venus. Now we're just talking 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:02.080 about you know, he's they came. But Serena is the 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:04.960 one who says she was stepping away, not we here, 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:08.120 we here from all? Alright? Cool? Uh so you you 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:10.880 was talking to uh to me earlier off camera about 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:14.080 this little this female that I was talking about how 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:18.800 she don't need a man. Lord, Okay, so that's a 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:21.439 woman who is This video is going viral right now. 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:24.319 She literally said, really hated women are like, if I'm 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.400 paying all the bills, then you should at least be 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:28.680 cooking and cleaning the house. I should come home to 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:31.560 a meal. If I wasn't here, you would still be 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:35.400 paying the bills. The things that you do that you 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:38.080 considers for our marriage, you would be doing if you 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:41.040 were single. Okay, your check don't come to me, so 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:43.160 therefore I don't give a damn about how much you work, 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:45.800 because you was working before and you're gonna be working 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:47.880 after you met me. I don't care how much you work. 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:50.040 A hard working man is nothing for me. So what 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:53.640 is she doing at home? Nothing? Okay? Fellas? What's up? 0:10:54.040 --> 0:10:57.400 Could you? You know? What? Enough fun? What's up? Beat? 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:00.840 Ferrari Simmons. Could you be with a woman? Would you 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:04.360 be a provider to a woman who literally says you're 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:06.520 doing what you're supposed to do as my husband, I'm 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:09.959 not cooking or cleaning? Hell no, What do you require 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:12.599 from a wife? I mean, I'm a partner. What do 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.120 you require from a partner? I mean, I feel like 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:17.719 it's just I feel like everybody's requirement as a man 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:20.520 is different. If I'm at home and if I'm paying 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:23.640 all the bills and I'm taking care of everything, then 0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:26.160 just just just be a woman. I would, I would 0:11:26.200 --> 0:11:29.840 hope that you a woman. Okay, let me let me 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:32.920 reiterate that, let me read it should let me first, 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:35.920 but go ahead. I mean, I feel like it should 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:39.120 be I feel like it shouldn't be a fifty deal. 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.600 I feel like it should be a hundred percent on 0:11:41.679 --> 0:11:43.679 either side. You know what I mean? If I'm working. 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.199 I expect you to be working, But as a man, 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:47.960 I don't expect you to be paying the bills or 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:50.880 do anything on that nature. But I don't want you 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:53.199 just sitting at the house doing nothing. You're gonna pay 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:54.559 all the bills. You're gonna pay all your wife. You're 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:56.800 gonna say you're gonna pay all the bills. Don't let 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:58.959 him set you up. No, it's gonna set up that 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:04.520 I'm all paying all my bills. What is that you said? 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:08.840 You already gonna pay bills. But but but it's different. 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:11.880 She's an added expense. Now, there you go. She's an 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:14.800 added expense. So you gotta think about taking care of 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:18.360 two people, not just one. You get what I'm saying. 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.240 But I am, but as a man, I am gonna 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:23.240 You know, I'm gonna take care of all my bills. 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:26.760 You know, if if I have a wife, she would 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:28.880 just require her to be like balanced you you would 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:31.880 like to like maybe I want to come home. I 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:34.560 had a long deer of work, you know, home, cook meal, 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:39.000 a little breakfast, of dinner, every nothing. You just wanted 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:42.160 to be feminine, softly. Okay, I'm gonna be out here 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:46.199 getting the Chilchen Ferrari. If your wife did not work 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:52.040 and you provided an entire lifestyle and she refused to 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:55.520 cook and clean, how would you handle that? Oh, that 0:12:55.640 --> 0:13:00.440 wasn't the initial question. You change the question. First of all, 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:01.880 I wouldn't need my wife. I wouldn't even be with 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:05.160 anybody that does that because I require teamwork, like you 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:07.840 have to be my teammate. We're in a relationship, so 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:10.600 it's not even gonna get that far. So now if 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:12.160 you switched up on me and that happened, then I'm 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:14.040 probably gonna get the hell out of dives. I'm leaving. 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:16.160 I'm not going to be in the situation where I'm 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:18.440 doing all the work. I'm not doing all the work. 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:21.600 It ain't that ain't even possible. My wife is technically 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.200 the breadwinner. She makes more money than me on paper. 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:31.760 But let's just say she write all the cheese and 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:35.160 I'm gonna do something. But like, I'm I like being 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:39.680 on the team situation. So the housemaking hell yeah, and 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:41.840 what would still I'm still I'm still I don't know. 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:47.000 Whatever whatever we decide together, you're gonna be a household. 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.400 I would entertain it. I'm gonna play some playing with 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:54.800 to k all day though I would clean up play two. 0:13:54.880 --> 0:14:00.720 K are you gonna cook orderful? We're gonna we're gonna 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:08.600 eat good hard. Yeah, it ain't gonna be. You're getting 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:12.200 expensive with how money? Tell me something you get expensive 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:17.640 with mine? She's talking about women. Ain't no general role 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:22.720 in my house. It's me and you, Me and you. Motherfucker. 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:25.720 You spend. You're gonna spend all my bread, your bread too. 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:28.040 We're gonna eat real good. I heard that. Do you 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:30.240 want to be a house? Five? No? I don't want 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:33.680 anybody to be a house Anything sounds restricted. What's your 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:36.640 ideal relationship? I like the I like the teammate thing 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:41.200 to like, you know, I liked independence that got, you know, 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:43.920 for both parties. I can tell you live with nobody 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:50.160 yet and you guys, you have what you crazy today? 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:54.400 What do you lived with a significant other? People? Boyfriend? Yes? Yes, 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:57.640 I can't live I ain't live with nobody. I just asked. 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:03.120 I can tell y'all, y'all you're not just said it's 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:07.280 a team work. I'm saying nothing. So I don't know 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:09.520 how I got caught up it. But that girl is wrong. 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:15.520 That girl is ignorant. That I definitely believe in partnership, 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:19.920 whatever that looks like for your relationship. A manmates totally 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:23.280 be fine with a housewife and as long as she's 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:25.680 providing some type of a balance for him, that's fine. 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:27.880 If that works for y'all. Me personally, I don't see 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:30.880 myself not working. I enjoy working. Maybe I'll have to 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:34.520 adjust slow down, who knows. It depends on like my community, 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:36.200 the village of people that I have to help me 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:39.880 with my family. But by nature, I'm a very nurturing person. 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:42.680 I am. I'm a lover, you know what I mean. So, 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:45.920 but I don't never see myself not working, So that's 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:48.040 that's not gonna be a thing in my house. But 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:51.440 I do respect partnerships, whatever that looks like. I do 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:54.040 laundry sometimes, you do laundry. Sometimes I do this. I 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:56.120 take us out for a day night and I pay 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:58.360 for it. You do it once. I'm like, I'm totally 0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:00.320 fine with that, y'all. Here, y'all hear this is a 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:03.760 woman saying, is not that woman that wants every like. 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:06.960 I don't think everything should be taken care of. I don't. 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:14.680 But whatever this internet narrative that all these celebrities are 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:17.960 saying like, you know, a dude supposed to pay for 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:21.040 everything and pay for all the bills. And you see 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:24.000 other people in the comments and they're like, every guy 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.680 doesn't have it like you might have it, and every 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:30.120 woman doesn't have the mindset of saying if I don't 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:33.880 have a guy who can't financially support me, then I'm 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:35.880 not going to be in this relationship. You have women 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:38.120 that are like, I'm cool, we're gonna have on the bills. 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:41.440 I'm cool with paying for dinner sometimes. But we got 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:44.720 this whole narrative on the internet because y'all listening to 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:47.840 whoever y'all listening to and saying, go get you a 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:51.120 rich dude, and all this stuff. So whoever y'all listen to, 0:16:52.480 --> 0:16:59.920 okay in the internet, the internet that get that BBL girl, Yeah, 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:03.240 go get the beat, Go swipe their credit card, girl, 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:06.399 And then and if he go to jail, then you 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:13.040 go on to the next for it. Because men are 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:15.600 bragging I paid for ten b bls, Like, come on, now, 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:19.239 it's a balance, it's ace. But but those type of 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:23.440 men that are bragging are not the average men. You 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:25.280 know what I'm saying. I would having a conversation with 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:28.320 my rich homeboy, and he was telling me he has 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:31.320 not been like him and his wife have an understanding 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:38.080 that he's just she's okay with him having girlfriends, so well, 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:42.520 he's probably she's not. I mean, she's say that for everything. 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:44.960 He could do whatever, literally does nothing. She can do 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:49.160 whatever she wants except for and that's nothing about two. 0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:53.320 If you want to be taking care of that person, 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:55.560 most women, but a lot of women can't do that though. 0:17:55.720 --> 0:17:57.240 That's all I was gonna say, people, I don't think 0:17:57.320 --> 0:18:00.480 I think a person can't handle that. Some people can't 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:04.240 handle that. Some people wanted to be in a monogamous relationship. Question. 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:08.280 I was saying, uh, a lot of people, I don't. 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:13.240 I forgot what I was gonna say. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:16.560 I'm sorry, go ahead, I forgot. I think what you 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:20.160 were trying to U get to is that a lot 0:18:20.200 --> 0:18:23.199 of people can't handle trying to say they want to 0:18:23.200 --> 0:18:25.440 be what to do with money and all this stuff. 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:27.199 And then he's like, Okay, that's cool, I take care 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:31.440 of everything, but I gotta have some some stuff going on, Ricky, 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:33.439 I gotta have stuff going on over I don't like 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:36.440 that affiliation. I don't like the idea that because the 0:18:36.520 --> 0:18:38.679 man has money, he's going to go cheat and he's 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:40.840 gonna have multiple girlfriends. I don't think that's true. I 0:18:40.880 --> 0:18:42.879 think a brokeman gonna do the same damn thing. So 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:47.560 those things are not they're not okay. If everybody cheats, 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:50.040 it's not my man takes care of me. He has money, 0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:52.280 I expect him to have other girls. Like, no, that's 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:54.200 not what it is. But there are people that do 0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:56.200 live that lifestyle. And if you're okay with it, you're 0:18:56.240 --> 0:18:58.240 okay with it. Don't just don't be one of those 0:18:58.240 --> 0:19:00.919 people that's only okay with it because your life is 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:03.480 taken care of and you at home fucking crying because 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:06.000 you know your man is outside with somebody else with 0:19:06.200 --> 0:19:14.399 other Yeah, speaking of relationships, I wanna interject with a 0:19:14.480 --> 0:19:16.920 new segment for ball Alert. You know, we're always talking 0:19:16.920 --> 0:19:19.960 about relationships here and stuff like that, but we gotta 0:19:20.080 --> 0:19:22.199 balance it with some money because you know, this is 0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:27.560 the faller over. So I want to introduce love versus money. 0:19:27.600 --> 0:19:29.840 You know, shout out to the dream, but this love 0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:32.040 versus money. I want to shoot a couple at you guys, 0:19:32.040 --> 0:19:34.520 and then you guys let me know individually, if you 0:19:34.560 --> 0:19:37.119 think that they're there for the love or is it 0:19:37.240 --> 0:19:42.440 just the money. You know, in America, marriages like business. 0:19:42.520 --> 0:19:45.840 You know there's some people, but some people want love. 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:50.439 The couple today, I wanna say, what do you guys 0:19:50.560 --> 0:19:58.560 think if they're here for love versus money? Chris Shaw 0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:03.080 rock in Blue Face, Oh that's that's that's that's that's 0:20:03.160 --> 0:20:10.640 literally want the first first, first breakdown, Chris Shaw if 0:20:10.640 --> 0:20:12.720 she's there for the love versus money, and then Blue 0:20:12.720 --> 0:20:14.280 Face if he's there for the love person. I don't 0:20:14.320 --> 0:20:15.960 know what the hell blue Face is there for. I 0:20:16.040 --> 0:20:18.200 just think blue Face is there for the entertainment. He 0:20:18.280 --> 0:20:20.760 just thinks this is hilarious. I'm pretty sure you can 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:24.439 have what whoever, whatever he wants. He has a he 0:20:24.480 --> 0:20:28.840 has a plentiful selection that he can select from. Now, shoudy, 0:20:29.440 --> 0:20:33.120 she's in love with that man. I'm telling you from 0:20:33.200 --> 0:20:36.600 the way that she punched him and connected, I said, damn, 0:20:37.200 --> 0:20:40.520 she really got her feelings involved. Anytime a woman wants 0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:44.520 to Mike Tyson fight you, you didn't hurt her feelings 0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:48.320 like she her feelings was hurt. He cares, He cares 0:20:48.320 --> 0:20:50.359 about that man. This ain't it. This is clearly not 0:20:50.440 --> 0:20:52.760 about money. Okay, So she's there for the love, and 0:20:52.800 --> 0:20:54.760 you say, blue Face, you don't really know. I don't 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:56.680 know what the hell blue Face got going on. I'm 0:20:57.119 --> 0:21:01.200 it's up her either. I think he likes her, Okay, 0:21:01.440 --> 0:21:03.560 I don't. I don't know if he's in lover. She's 0:21:03.680 --> 0:21:07.440 in love with that man. Okay, what I think it's 0:21:07.480 --> 0:21:13.080 for the love of drugs. For the love of drugs, 0:21:13.160 --> 0:21:15.840 you hear me, because it ain't no damn way, it 0:21:15.880 --> 0:21:19.840 ain't no white, none none. Let me tell you all something. 0:21:20.200 --> 0:21:23.040 She got books to host a party and I love y'all. 0:21:23.080 --> 0:21:26.640 I love y'all at Revel Nightclub in Atlanta. I love you, 0:21:26.680 --> 0:21:29.879 but I could not get myself to go to this party. 0:21:29.920 --> 0:21:33.560 I could not believe that y'all books are her put 0:21:33.560 --> 0:21:36.000 her on the flyers sent me a text, so we 0:21:36.160 --> 0:21:40.000 got get a table. I can't not that night. Maybe 0:21:40.040 --> 0:21:44.280 next week. I cannot stand there and watch this girl 0:21:44.280 --> 0:21:48.639 in person. It's already cringe worthy on social media. In person, no, 0:21:48.800 --> 0:21:51.800 I cringe because I'm sad for her, Like any time 0:21:51.880 --> 0:21:54.400 that they polly. She posted a video of this nig 0:21:54.400 --> 0:21:57.240 is taking her tool foul like what she got his 0:21:57.320 --> 0:21:59.520 whole face on her I don't know. And then what 0:21:59.680 --> 0:22:01.880 she was the car throwing up and he was like, baby, 0:22:02.600 --> 0:22:06.040 wake up, man, man, she's throwing up. No, this is 0:22:06.040 --> 0:22:08.600 for the love of curp, cocaine or whatever the hell 0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:11.840 it is that he be providing, because it's gross. And 0:22:12.400 --> 0:22:15.160 I've had to find this video, y'all. She was hosting 0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:17.719 this club and she had the mic and she was 0:22:17.920 --> 0:22:20.840 wrapping his song and it was terrible, and he was 0:22:20.880 --> 0:22:23.080 just standing there next to her, just trying to stick 0:22:23.119 --> 0:22:27.000 beside him, and it was just what is she? What 0:22:27.160 --> 0:22:30.200 is he there for? He's there for the entertainment. He's 0:22:30.240 --> 0:22:33.720 there because he is broken spiritually, and it does something 0:22:33.760 --> 0:22:36.720 to him to have a woman that is gawking over him, 0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:40.520