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Speaker 1: Yeah she was. She definitely talked back. Didn't they say

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Speaker 1: Like she made the show. What she died, They're gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you all about my weekend because it relates to Samantha.

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Speaker 1: Answer my boy thought, don't play with me. I ain't

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Speaker 1: little fish for him to eat. Last week, I bit

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Speaker 1: a new episode. If we talk back, this is your

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Speaker 1: girl a bam. But you know who did have a

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Speaker 1: good fucking we Porsha girl store stole that forty million

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Speaker 1: dollar minter Porsche, got the fucking internet on fire right

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Speaker 1: now on fire. But you know he African dude? Do

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Speaker 1: you think I don't think she would have wanted people

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Speaker 1: So does he just want to be in a limelight

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Speaker 1: Porsha Williams from the Housewives of Atlanta just announced her

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Speaker 1: engagement to Simon did a job coming, don't do that

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Speaker 1: to that man's name. He announced her engagement to Simon

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Speaker 1: Guba and failing his ex wife. Now they're not even divorced.

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Speaker 1: They are not they are not divorced yet. Well, they're

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Speaker 1: currently trying to having to divorce. How he engaged before

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Speaker 1: here exactly you got now. Some girl is also all

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Speaker 1: several wives though, so why are you why divorce one?

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Speaker 1: Just keep him all? But I don't think he can

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Speaker 1: forty million you can have you a couple in this country. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: going to find a marriage certificate for those people. I

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Speaker 1: need to know if did y'all hire the fallon, did

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Speaker 1: Now she's saying just one month, he's already asked you

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Speaker 1: gonna get that nigga bag. So wait, is that a

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Speaker 1: Because we were introduced to Fallon as Porsche's friends. I've

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Speaker 1: So who the funk was? Who was sucking Bolow? For real? Now?

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Speaker 1: But like I seen her butt on that reunion. There

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Speaker 1: might be too much asked for me, girl, I asked,

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Speaker 1: nine four three tune one things that women should and

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Speaker 1: that a real story? Yeah? Why? I I almost fell

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Speaker 1: more than friendships too, Like what the fuck? Like, I

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Speaker 1: do you here? She was like, oh, I went to

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to do something with it. Two months later,

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden you want strapping your ass. It's

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Speaker 1: I can't be paid? No, you're just getting sucking ass, bitch. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's stupid. I don't know why I think a peg.

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Speaker 1: So would you do that? No, put the but put

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Speaker 1: Don't just work your upper body working, lord, buddy, Look

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Speaker 1: You want to be shamed. That's terrible girl. Fucking bitches. No,

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Speaker 1: fuck the niggas. No, No, I'm not constantly compromising with anybody,

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Speaker 1: I don't understand. I'm pretty sure you have friends that

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Speaker 1: but the quality is better. Absolutely. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: It's the whole liability people. I've said that before and

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Speaker 1: You're ready for my ship? If it's gonna be like yes,

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Speaker 1: we got a dumb bitch story. Though, Let's do a

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Speaker 1: in with girl code in a minute. Well, I'd like

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Speaker 1: to call it woman code, because we are not girls,

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Speaker 1: get into anything else, Let's pay some bills real quick,

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Speaker 1: dumb bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb bitch

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Speaker 1: at least once or twice, contests from a listener on Instagram. Actually,

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Speaker 1: Two girls I love y'all show keep spreading that black

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Speaker 1: girl magic. So here's my dumb bitch story. I'm twenty

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Speaker 1: went to work. I'm talking about paddles with little spike

422
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:51,920
Speaker 1: rollers all at she said, all of that. We rolled

423
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: around in the bedroom for hours. After it was all

424
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 1: said and done, we end up talking about relationships in general,

425
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: and one of his partners came up and about how

426
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 1: she wants to marry him for insurance purposes At that moment,

427
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: I'm a speechless and then he said I told her

428
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: I got you. My mouth could have hit the fucking floor,

429
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: but my dumbass stayed stayed because I was still coming

430
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 1: down off the high what he just did. So he's

431
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 1: going to get married a few weeks but still wants

432
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: to continue to see me as well as the other

433
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: three partners. Am I wrong? They both don't really honor

434
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 1: marriage as it's a business deal for them. But I

435
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: feel like it's bad Carmon because he's technically will be

436
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 1: somebody's husband. Who knows. I'm probably going to take another

437
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 1: ride for time's sake, but who knows. Dumb bitch story

438
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 1: is still developing, l if she is this really a

439
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: dumb bit story? If she's if he's not lying to her,

440
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,199
Speaker 1: she's not lying to him, and all parties involved are

441
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,640
Speaker 1: okay with what's going on, right I it's only dumb

442
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 1: bitch if you know that you don't want this type

443
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: of relationship and you're still going to stay in it.

444
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,919
Speaker 1: That's where the only question I did ask her a question?

445
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 1: So I asked her what was his profession, like what

446
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: type of money he had? Um and he has he

447
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 1: does have one child, so he's into social work and

448
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: he has a child, a little girl as four and only,

449
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 1: I said, the only reason why I'm asking this because

450
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to determine whether or not he can afford

451
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 1: for women. A social worker definitely can't afford for women. Basically,

452
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: he got dick. This is this, that was just it,

453
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,239
Speaker 1: she said, he pulled out the whips and yeah, so

454
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: basically he just had straight dick for her. He'll full

455
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: time dick slayer and a part time social Yeah, because

456
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 1: how do you focus on actual like having any other

457
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: business if you're sucking four bitches? Like how? So I

458
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 1: don't again, I don't really feel like she She's calls

459
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: it a dumb bit story, but I really, I mean

460
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: she's having fun. She will become a dumb bit if

461
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,919
Speaker 1: she falls in love with this dick, because we all know,

462
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: unless you're a real live car hopper, your pussy run

463
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: straight to your heart. So now you fuck somebody long enough,

464
00:25:54,440 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: if they're sucking, you're good chane of fools period. So

465
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: I don't know she would technically be a dumb bitch um,

466
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: but yeah, if she falls in love, then the dumb

467
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: bitch story will have development. Send us another one, Send

468
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 1: us another dumb Yeah, exactly, Send us an update, bitch,

469
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 1: it'd better not be that your fucking act is pregnant. Okay,

470
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: are in love with this I'm in love with him

471
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,360
Speaker 1: and I'm living in the house with two other bitches

472
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: that I don't like. He's about to get married for

473
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: the next bitch, can have health insurance? You better get

474
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 1: some Obamacare. The fuck right, do you have insurance? Because

475
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: that's the next question. Look, that sounds like some bullshit

476
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: he told her, like, oh, yeah, we're just getting married

477
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 1: for insurance purposes. Or maybe he was in the military.

478
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe she has some type of health

479
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: issues that that's other woman. Maybe she has some type

480
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,239
Speaker 1: of healthy she's where he cares about her in that

481
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: way and she really needs some souped up health. Yeah.

482
00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, but girl, listen, let us know. Enjoying

483
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 1: that little life while you kid girlfriends. You say low life?

484
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, you know what movie that's from? No, wait,

485
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: wait till him it's a savannahtone. Rob. I don't know

486
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: if he's a little life. I just wanted to say

487
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: that today. Enjoy that dick while you can just have

488
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: fun with it this, don't get don't get caught up. Please,

489
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,159
Speaker 1: don't get caught up because you ain't a dumb bit

490
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 1: yet but you're working on it, so you are really gold. Yeah,

491
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: let's pay some bills real quick, y'all will be that.

492
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: I prepared a long ass list of ship that I

493
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 1: expect from my friends. Basically, it's a long ass list

494
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: of a j woman cold rules. I don't know what

495
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: we want to call it? No, no, all right? So, um,

496
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 1: first of all, what exactly is a woman called girl cold?

497
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 1: What's a woman called to you? Tam? Um? Should that

498
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: women should do to remain loyal and have integrity with

499
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: one another. Loyalty always lies with women. Sometimes it could

500
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: be with women you don't even know. So, like if

501
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: you see some creep hitting on a girl and she

502
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: looks noticely uncomfortable, you don't even know her, Like maybe

503
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 1: you could be like, oh, that's my girlfriend, and so

504
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. So that's just like an unspoken girl

505
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: code thing, like you always stand in solidarity with other women. Um.

506
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,959
Speaker 1: So one of the first things always comes out when

507
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: people talk about girl code is talking to someone that

508
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: your friend used to date. So do you ask for permission.

509
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: Is that man always off limits? Is there a time limit? Oh,

510
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 1: when you can funk with this man that used to

511
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: be with your friend? All right, It just depends on

512
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: the women and the nigga honestly. Like, let's say, is

513
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: the girl who dated a guy in college they ended

514
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: up feeling like they were better as friends, and then

515
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: in your late thirties, your best your best home girl

516
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: meet him and they like each other. Would you keep

517
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: her from Datingum? No, I'm never loyal to men in

518
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: that way, like we can. Yeah, these niggas for everybody. Sorry,

519
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: unless if somebody I was about to marry or somebody

520
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: I had been in a relationship with for years, then

521
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 1: it's a problem. And it was like serious, Yeah, then

522
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: it's a problem. Like I'm like, damn, you'll always liked

523
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: each other's going on right behind my back when y'all

524
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: licking each other, right, I would have questions then, But

525
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: do you ask for permission first? Like y'all run into

526
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: each should you tell your friend like, hey, man, I

527
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: read into such and such. You know, we exchange numbers

528
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: and we've been texting. I wanted to see if it's

529
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 1: okay if we hang out. How do you feel about that.

530
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: I feel like before you get that nigga your number,

531
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: you should hit me up, all right? You know I

532
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: used to do you run and tell me like hold on,

533
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: you look good, but hold on a second. Let me

534
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: call my friend. One second, we call my friend. Is

535
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: that really how it goes down? Or you get a

536
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 1: number and then update the b better go beach putting

537
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: your face? What about? What about um guys that you

538
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: have a crush on, Because I've liked a couple of

539
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: guys and my friends end up working with them, Like

540
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: they know I like him. I've been very um so

541
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: y'all liked him at the same time, it's like nah, okay,

542
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: I'll tell you a situation. So it was a guy.

543
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: Um he was actually a professor at the college. At

544
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: the college and he was fine, like I really I

545
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: liked him like I was Actually one night in the club,

546
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: I ran into him and he was talking to me

547
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: until I told him I was one of his students.

548
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: The nigga like walked off like he got the funk

549
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: about it. There are real quick feel like a couple

550
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: like maybe a year later, So she ran into him

551
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: like she knew the story behind the nigger not even

552
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 1: a year later. It was within the same year. Some

553
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 1: months later, she ran into him at a house party,

554
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: hooked up with him, and all he did was fun.

555
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: It's not like he kept her. So you well, no,

556
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: that's not girl, cod because you weren't working with him

557
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: and he wasn't about to funk with you because you

558
00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 1: were his students. So it wasn't like she violated. I

559
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: don't feel like she's violent. I feel like it's a violation.

560
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 1: How you couldn't have them Listen, I could have had

561
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 1: him later on if now, I would never if I

562
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: run into him, if he's not married, I went pursue

563
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: him now because she don't sucked him. Yeah, you see

564
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You didn't have no, you didn't have

565
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: no DIBs over that man. I definitely had DIBs over

566
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: that man. She didn't even know that man. I didn't

567
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 1: even know that nigg existed, bitch, She didn't know he existed.

568
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: So all these names, but she didn't go out looking

569
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 1: for him. She ran into him, girl, and she's just

570
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: happened to not be his motherfucking student like you, man.

571
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: That man was not awful. That man was awful, limits bitch,

572
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: We could argue about that all day long. That man

573
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: was awful limits because you're talking to him for five minutes.

574
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: In the it was longer than five minutes, it was anyway,

575
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: that's my nigger in my mind. So no, bitch, why

576
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: are you trying to talk to him? What is up?

577
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: It's all these niggers you can sunk with. You gonna

578
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: sunk with a nigger I told you I liked, So whatever, bitch,

579
00:31:55,200 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: we don't agree on that one. Hey, all right, So

580
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: this is the infamous one. Do you tell your friend

581
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,239
Speaker 1: if you know their man it's cheating? And what if

582
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 1: y'all are good? What if you good friends are both

583
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: of them? Like, what do you think you should if

584
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: I know my good friends man is cheating, I'm telling

585
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: her if they're both my good friends, I ain't saying ship.

586
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: I'm staying out of it. And and honestly, it depends

587
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: on the good friend and how many times he didn't

588
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: got caught cheating. Like, let's say this is the first

589
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: time I'm telling her, But if he doesn't been got

590
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: caught a million times, and she ain't leaving what, I'm

591
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 1: just gonna bring her some more agony for him when

592
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: she ain't going nowhere by my business right because I

593
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: didn't had it where I don't told a good friend

594
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: that her man was cheating, send her pictures and everything,

595
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: and they broke up, got back together, and I was

596
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: no longer invited to the barbecues and ship. Why y'all

597
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: mad at me? I wasn't exactly she broke up my else. Yeah,

598
00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 1: she broke up with me. Shame, that's why. So that's

599
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 1: a slippery slope when it comes to your friends and

600
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: their relationships. Okay, if it's my best best friends, like

601
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 1: my day one best friends, I'm telling because we're telling

602
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, I'm telling you, um because I think

603
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: we'll have a It would be like you understand each

604
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: other better. You know. I'm not telling you out of

605
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: malice or trying to disturb your day. But I don't

606
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 1: know it just it depends on the friend. It depends

607
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: on a friend. Otherwise I mind my fucking business, because

608
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 1: I know women will let your ass go because you

609
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: told them something about their man, or they'll make it

610
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: like a problem with you. I didn't have one of

611
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: my friends Niggas and one of my other friends, d

612
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: m R. We was on her phone together and I

613
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: was like, I've seen the nigga name. I was like, oh,

614
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 1: wait a minute, that's my home girl nigga. So I

615
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: ain't saying nothing to my home girl about it. But

616
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: when I saw him, I said something to him about it.

617
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: It's like, don't do that. That's not what's up, because

618
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: if you do, you're gonna be put me in a

619
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 1: place where I'm gonna have to say something. Now, what

620
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 1: if you're friends were to find out that he was

621
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: in the other friends dam and then you knew about

622
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: it and didn't tell him. A lot of women will

623
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 1: discard your ass because of that because you didn't tell them.

624
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: How she gonna know I knew about it? Maybe gone,

625
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: he might have snitched on you, like well, dam new

626
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: like Tam knew. I'm like, I ain't no ship for

627
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 1: you lying you. Yeah, these niggas ain't ship boy all right?

628
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: So look, is it okay for your friend to hang

629
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: out with your husband or your boyfriend without you knowing?

630
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: If they didn't planning a vacation trip, surprise or birthday

631
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: party for me? Why y'all hanging out without you knowing,

632
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: without getting your permission? Like they just meeting up for

633
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:52,879
Speaker 1: lunch somewhere just to talk and hang out. Were they

634
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 1: friends before? Like? Did I meet my man through her?

635
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: And they were like close friends? Those are all the mirrable,

636
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: So let's just stay to the That's the only way

637
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: that's gonna work for right, is that they were already

638
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: friends right prior to me, because now I can't say, Okay,

639
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: now y'all can't be friends anymore because we're together. But

640
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 1: you know, what the funk you mean, my niggafure, unless

641
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 1: you're planning my proposal or a surprise for me. I

642
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: just don't understand why the funk y'all learned together, right?

643
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: And what the hell y'all got so important to talk

644
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: about right that I wasn't in on the loop? I

645
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: talked to you this morning? Why the fund wasn't I invited?

646
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 1: You know? And look, so that's pretty much all I

647
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: had um pretending to like women and their relationships with

648
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: men and how other women should conduct themselves as friends.

649
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,760
Speaker 1: So this goes more into like the women on women

650
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: um about this friendships. So I have a pet peeves.

651
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: I don't like bitches wearing the same perfume as me.

652
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,399
Speaker 1: So that's the whole woman called for me, Like where

653
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 1: the fund is your smell good? Bitch? What if she

654
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 1: accidentally left her perfect are something? You accidentally left your perfume.

655
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: But I don't want you smelling like me in the

656
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: club or where we are, wherever we are at, Like

657
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 1: I know, I'd be having like great, You're not gonna

658
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: smell like There's a note that's missing from every fragrance,

659
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: and that's the note that your body creates. So you

660
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: will smell different even with the same perfume on. Not

661
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 1: all the time. That's not true. All the time your

662
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:27,760
Speaker 1: note changes. Look, bring your smell good. I'd be buying

663
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: like real good expensiveship. Did you you shop at Victoria's

664
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 1: Secret and you wait till you get to my house

665
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: to use my ship? No, bitch, I don't mind y'all perfume.

666
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: If a nigga can't decide which one of us he

667
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 1: want to funk with because we got on the same perfume,

668
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: that is not the nigga for me. Okay, you can

669
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: have that one, all right? What about girls night? If

670
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: there is a girl's night, it's never okay to bring

671
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: your nigga. Don't even ask if he can come. I

672
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: hate when bitches do that. Why is your nigga here?

673
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: Why is Tyrone here? I'm gonna I can't even talk

674
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 1: to you about my other niggas because You're nigga is

675
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 1: sitting here. Now he's gonna be judging us, say you

676
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: hang around. They already gonna say that because of this podcast.

677
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: Rapids would talk around his motherfucker. Man, alright, so who

678
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: does that? Has? Have you ever had someone bring the

679
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: nigga to girls night? Yes, like dinner, Like we're meeting

680
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 1: up for dinner and here you come walk in with

681
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: your man, Like, what the funk? Maybe I wanted to

682
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 1: just talk to you, now I got I can't even

683
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: talk about what I wanted to talk about because your

684
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: nigga is sitting in my face. When he comes. You

685
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: just bring their nigga to their herald point? Manh why

686
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 1: is he here? And? I hate? I hate? I hate

687
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: when the nigga be trying to tell me how to

688
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: do the girl here. I've had that happen and when

689
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: he finished talking, I would turn to her and I'd

690
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,280
Speaker 1: be like, so what would you like? That's like bringing

691
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: your kids? Why is he here? Yeah? I have Clane

692
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 1: spring kids too, and I don't mind the kids as

693
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 1: much as the boyfriend. Why I didn't even talk to you.

694
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: That's controlling. So he want to dictate how her hair looks. Yeah,

695
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 1: be telling me how to do her hair. Not be

696
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: looking at him, black boy. If you don't get the

697
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: funks out of my fucking face. You don't see that

698
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: sign on the door, nigger what you're doing in here?

699
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: And I'd be like, is that what you want? What

700
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: he said, is that what you want? I don't care

701
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: if he paid for it, right fucking Or a girl's

702
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,800
Speaker 1: trip and she's staying down the hall with her nigga.

703
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: I mean, you can stay down the hall, but don't

704
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,879
Speaker 1: bring your nigga fun somebody else while you there. I'm jumping.

705
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,959
Speaker 1: It wasn't even because I was reading at the same time,

706
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: but at registered so at my stop calling just mind,

707
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: I was like, right, all right, woman, code, I don't

708
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 1: believe your friends should ever be Yes, Ma'am's like just

709
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 1: yeah everything you say or yeah that everything you do.

710
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: If you're sucking up, you're sucking up. So I feel

711
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: like you should check your friends if they're sucking up

712
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: in love life and in business. You need to let

713
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: her know. I do have friends. Tell me that sometimes

714
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,439
Speaker 1: it's easier for me to just let me just think

715
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: what I think than try to correct me because it

716
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: becomes an argument and they don't feel like fighting with me,

717
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: so they just be like, girl, you got it, But

718
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: that's not good. You're a bully. Probably you think you ain't.

719
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm not no bully me. That's preposterous. Hey, look, I

720
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: can't be bullied. So I just got a very strong

721
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: opinion and it's hard to sway me. But sometimes it was.

722
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: You know, it's important to have friends that don't care

723
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 1: about how I feel. Right, you're just gonna tell you, like, bitch,

724
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: you're sucking up and here's why exactly. But see, I'm

725
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: the type they'll be like, well, let me tell you

726
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 1: how you funked up last week. You know your nigga,

727
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: Like you call me to talk about your nigga. Now

728
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: you're telling telling me about my nigga. Like, bitch, we

729
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 1: doesn't even talk about my nigga. You call me about

730
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: it about something with your man. So why are you

731
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 1: bringing up what I went through with my nigga last month? Bitch?

732
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 1: You want my ad? I want you to agree with me.

733
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 1: Oh no, if your friend is sucking up, let her

734
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: know we do not um reward bad behavior period the fuck. No,

735
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: all right, this is a major girl code woman code

736
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: for me. Don't be hating other women. You haven't talked

737
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 1: to your friend, and you'd be like, you know, you

738
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: realize that your friend is a whole fucking hater, just

739
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: the way they talk about other people. Like you may

740
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: look at this person and think this is this girl

741
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 1: is gorgeous, she's pretty, she got this that, and think

742
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: whatever going on? But your friend just talking about her

743
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: like a fucking dog, Like you're just hating on that girl.

744
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: How do you tell your friend being a hater right now?

745
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: You don't, I just say it. I'm like, stop, I

746
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 1: ain't hate. I'm just saying with everybody, no, but you

747
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 1: hater right now exactly. And if it's a general consensus

748
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: that this person is this ship and you just over

749
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: here like creating reasons why he ain't, you're fucking hater.

750
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 1: But I don't did that before, like saying something about

751
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 1: a bit you did, I realize like, like damn, I

752
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: was hating. Yeah, it was not nice to him. He

753
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: was hating on That's just now I have done that.

754
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: You know, I ain't even gonna lie it happened sub consciously,

755
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: a sub conscious hater the fuck. I tried my best

756
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: to support everybody, though, but hey, yeah, I guess the

757
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: hate being me sometimes. Listen, this is a big one

758
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: for me too. If your friend looks fucked up, you

759
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: gotta tell them, because what's what's the What's the first

760
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: thing we say when we see a woman that's not

761
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: aesthetically put together? What's the first thing we say? Usually

762
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:21,320
Speaker 1: she ain't got no friends? Where her fucking friends at? Right? So?

763
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 1: But then sometimes you got friends that like you don't

764
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:28,240
Speaker 1: told them about what they wear, how they do stuff,

765
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: and they do it anyway. What then are you gonna do?

766
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: You let people be happy with who they are, how

767
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: they are. Like, bit, you can't go everywhere with us.

768
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 1: We're gonna stop in fighting your ass. Now. If every

769
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: time you put something, you gotta be like this, look

770
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: all right, it's look okay, Bit you ain't got nothing

771
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: that you know? Look bomb. But that's me. I always

772
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: want I need validation from my friends in my outfit.

773
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: I'd be calling y'all like ho, look, even though I'd

774
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 1: be feeling cute. I just need you to tell me

775
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: that's something different. Bitch girl called woman called safety first.

776
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 1: You never drive off without making sure your friend is

777
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:12,439
Speaker 1: in the house, right, Okay, that's true. That's a that's

778
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: a big Listen, so do you lack Let's say y'all

779
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: came together, y'all always leave the club together. It's just

780
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 1: feel like at a certain age you can let a

781
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: bit go on by her business. Now, I letting my

782
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: friends if they noticeably drunk and you met somebody in

783
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: the club, or you're texting something I know you wouldn't

784
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 1: be working with if you weren't drunk, I might say

785
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: something like, are you sure you want to do that? Girl? Breaking?

786
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:38,919
Speaker 1: Carry your ass home? H Because well, when I was young,

787
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: like when I was, you know, really young, like we

788
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: came together, we're leaving together. But now in my thirties, like, girl,

789
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 1: go get that d um, that's probably not safe. But

790
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: all my girls carry straps though, and not the kind

791
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: of they kind. But that's a whole, isn't um? All Right?

792
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: There's a going you have to turn into a professional

793
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 1: photographer when you're taking pictures that you're fucking friends, and

794
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 1: you are not to post any pictures that haven't been

795
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 1: cleared by your friends first either period. You can tell

796
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: when they post an ugly picture of you or like

797
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 1: you're not lost weight now you're extra fining. Your friend

798
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: posting an old ass fat throwback Thursday, bitch, whore you're

799
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: playing with you hope't even me no more. Bit you're

800
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 1: a whole fucking hater. One of my friends. Oh, that's

801
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 1: not fair, because your friend might think you're beautiful at anything,

802
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: so you can't really sit here in one of my

803
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 1: then she's not your friends. One of my ex friends,

804
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:48,240
Speaker 1: one of my ex friends sister posted a super fat

805
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 1: picture of me once randomly. It wasn't even a throwback, nothing,

806
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: just randomly, And at that point I was super find

807
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 1: why did you post this picture? And we don't even

808
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: talk like that? What was that of out? She was

809
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: trying to remind me, bro when me, bitch, she's trying

810
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: to remind me, bitch, I'll remember, humble, humble yourself, That's

811
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 1: what she said, humble, humble myself home, bitch, I'll remember

812
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: that I sat bitches stole inside. Sometimes some days I overeat.

813
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,479
Speaker 1: I remember, so I went on a church with a group,

814
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 1: a group chip with some bitches and some a man,

815
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 1: no right, and we end up sharing like Facebook and

816
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: Instagrams with each other. And then when I went to

817
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: her Instagram, she had this picture of me up there.

818
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: I was ordering my fish and it was just like

819
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: she took a can and shoting me ordering fish and

820
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: I'm looking at crazy and fat. I don't like girl.

821
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:48,720
Speaker 1: What the he posted? Hayden, Hey, the bitches be hating.

822
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: This is a friend of a friend that posted that. Yeah.

823
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: Oh hell no, see that's some bullshit. That's some real bullshit.

824
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 1: I'll be I'd be funny about going on group trips

825
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: with bitches. Listen. I went on a group trip once

826
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: with some friends I met st when I lived in St. Louis,

827
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 1: And when we got there, I was like so happy.

828
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so happy y'all all pretty? Because

829
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: I only knew my one friend right, and it was

830
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: two of her friends, so it's four of us, and

831
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know the other two girls. But when we

832
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: got there, I was I'm so happy you all pretty okay,

833
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,399
Speaker 1: because I don't like hanging around ugly bitches. Man, they'd

834
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 1: be ruining the trips and ship like that. Man, they'd

835
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: be acting funny the whole time. No. I went on

836
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: this one group trip and me and one of my

837
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:30,400
Speaker 1: close friends who's still one of my best friends. Today

838
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 1: we got into off argument about nothing. We was really

839
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: drunk and we got into this big argument about nothing,

840
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 1: and then we was trying to like have a conversation

841
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 1: to piece it out. And then some random bitch that's

842
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 1: on the trip gonna say yeah, because I mean, I

843
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: could see why they might like why you they think

844
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 1: you're shady because I heard you talking about me in

845
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 1: the back seat, Bitch, I don't know you. I was like,

846
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: getting this, bitch, I don't know you how I'm not

847
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: talking about you, talking about you? But I was like,

848
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: is this gag up? On Tammy Day? You got a

849
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: random bitches talking about I'm talking about them in the

850
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 1: backs where you talking about her? No, I don't know

851
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: talking about you for what? Because not because I heard

852
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: you laughing in the man Oh no, she was trying

853
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 1: to have a problem with you, and she she chose

854
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 1: that opportunity when you were beating with a friend. Bit

855
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,879
Speaker 1: shut up, Yeah, because I'm laughing in the back seat.

856
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 1: And look when I say I don't want to hang

857
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: around ugly bitches, they could be. And it's not just

858
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: aesthetics as personality, but the funck. No, if it's some bitches,

859
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't feel like dealing with some

860
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 1: random attitudes from some random bitches because they're salty, nobody

861
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: trying to haul at them the whole time, or something

862
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: crazy like that girl, she got an attitude all the

863
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 1: dudes whoever let us in v I p you got

864
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: an attitude with these niggas, like you're mad at these

865
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: niggas for no reason, like just acting stink. I don't

866
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,399
Speaker 1: have the time for that. I don't. I don't really

867
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 1: have those experiences no more. I think we had those

868
00:47:55,640 --> 00:48:02,360
Speaker 1: experiences as young women. Like bitches, you better let my

869
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: ugly friends with me with you want some of this

870
00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: pussy boy. I don't really got no ugly friends though

871
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: me neither. I really don't actual I don't think I

872
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: have no ugly friends. But I just think like pretty

873
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 1: women kind of like flock together. They link up. It's

874
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: gonna be a nigger listening like these bitches think they

875
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: and they not. Hey, No, I know if I ain't

876
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 1: let a bit think what I think period. All right,

877
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: So make sure you have the name, address, and social

878
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: security number of the guy whose house your friend is

879
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: going to. Woman code security. Just playing, But I need

880
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 1: you to send me a fucking drop the dop please

881
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: so I know where you have. Just share your location

882
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,280
Speaker 1: with me. Yeah, I had my friends share your location

883
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: for twenty four Yes, I need to know where the

884
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: funk you at. I will do that, but not I

885
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,720
Speaker 1: mean get his soul security. But we're about the scammal.

886
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 1: But other than that, I don't need it. Listen, always

887
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: speak up if you think your friend's friends isn't their friends.

888
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: Have you ever like friends? Yes? Have you ever had

889
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: a friend and you realize her friend ain't really her friend?

890
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: Like I guess that may be along the lines of

891
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,319
Speaker 1: telling somebody about their boyfriend. But like you see, like

892
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 1: little hate and ship this girl is doing. Would you

893
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 1: tell them one of my good friends, like one of

894
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: my best friends. Now we met because I was doing

895
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: her and her friends here, and when I did her friends,

896
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 1: I did her friends here. First I did her hair

897
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 1: and I said, yeah, how long you and so so

898
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: been friends? You'll best friends? She was like, no, not really,

899
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 1: we need best friends. I mean we you know, we

900
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 1: went to undergrad together. Um, and now y'all they lived together.

901
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: They were roommates at the time, going to school and

902
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:03,280
Speaker 1: whole another state. They came together, so they were best friends.

903
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: With the one girl, she was like, no, we're not

904
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:07,240
Speaker 1: really friends like that. She's not she's not my top five.

905
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 1: So I was like, so then when I did the

906
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: other friends here, I was like, hey, um, actually the

907
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 1: same thing. Basically, I say y'all that. She was like, yeah,

908
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 1: like that's my Yeah, that's one of my best friends. Yeah,

909
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: we went to undergrad together, we lived together. Like, yeah,

910
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: that's one of my best friends, one of my closest friends.

911
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 1: So when some ship had guys stupid between them, I

912
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: didn't told because now I'm now I'm more friends with

913
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,720
Speaker 1: the second girls who here, I did, I'm more friends

914
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: with her, So I let her know. Like when some

915
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 1: dumb ship was happening like that at least was about

916
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: to be up and they're moving out and she's getting

917
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: her own place and this bitch wants to come sleep

918
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 1: on her couch over here, I'm like, listen, don't let

919
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: her do that. Because when I first met y'all, she said,

920
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 1: y'all more friends. I mean, she said you weren't her

921
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,760
Speaker 1: best friend. She said that you're not even her top five,

922
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: But maybe that had changed over time. They had known

923
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 1: each other for years, what change over time like them

924
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 1: not being friends they were living together. How much time

925
00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 1: was it before the conversation, like a year later, Like

926
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: a year later when the least is up and I

927
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: told her that's not your friend. Don't even I wouldn't

928
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: even associate myself with her. No, they're not friends down

929
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,439
Speaker 1: to this day, and I'm so friend with my friend.

930
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 1: So did I steal her friend? I do steal people friends.

931
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: But if a person is not your top five, does

932
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: that not make you not friends? So no, But if

933
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: one person considers the other person a best friend and

934
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 1: this other person doesn't. Oh, so the other girl was saying,

935
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: that's my best friend, and she was like, she's not

936
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: even my top five, that's what was happening. But then

937
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: you opportunities. You were using her. Basically you didn't even

938
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 1: consider her a friend, but you were using her. No,

939
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,399
Speaker 1: she considered her a friend, just not her top five. Well,

940
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 1: listen to me and your friends, and you don't even

941
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: consider me, Like I'm saying, if first of all, I

942
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't even offer a list for anybody, I wouldn't be like,

943
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: she's not in my top five friends, She's not my

944
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 1: top five, Like was a't we rappers shut the funk up?

945
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 1: That's so fucking stupid, all right, it's dumb doing my offers. Look,

946
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: and this is the last on this long ass list

947
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:11,280
Speaker 1: of girl code woman code. You always celebrate your friend's

948
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 1: success period, that's a big one, like it's your own.

949
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. Sometimes it can be hard to

950
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: celebrate people's successes when you're down, when you're not happy

951
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 1: with it in your life. I know that can be hard,

952
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 1: but you still want to celebrate. You want to uplift

953
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 1: and give them their flowers for sure, because your time

954
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: is coming, you know. And if you're surrounding yourself by

955
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 1: people who are doing a lot of successful things, you're

956
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:40,879
Speaker 1: going to be successful. It's gonna happen. You you're trying

957
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: to do some ship and you're surrounding yourself by bums,

958
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 1: it won't happen. But you know, if you have a

959
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: friend that doesn't scelebrate your success in a way. All right.

960
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 1: So I have got my Range Rover and I was

961
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 1: so excited. I was like, I got a car. And

962
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 1: I went to one of my friend's house and I

963
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 1: was like, hey, I'm pulling out with my new car,

964
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 1: and she came to her door. She didn't come outside.

965
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: She just came to the doorway and she was on

966
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 1: the stand. She was still on the phone, and she's like, oh,

967
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: what years that? And I told her. She's like, oh,

968
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 1: that's cute, So come in. So I came in. I

969
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: was like disappointed that she didn't come outside and give

970
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: me a who But I had to consider that she

971
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: was having like a lot of trouble in her relationship,

972
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 1: in her work and the things that were going on

973
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: in her life. And I couldn't take it personal. I

974
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 1: didn't feel like that my friend didn't support me or

975
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 1: love me any less. I just knew that at that

976
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: time it was hard for her to celebrate me in

977
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: that way. So I didn't take it personal. Yeah, I mean,

978
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: I'm just another type of person that has to be

979
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: celebrated for real, So I don't need like the validation,

980
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 1: not saying like you needed validation from your friend. But

981
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have felt no type of way or she

982
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: didn't come at the door, I probably wouldn't even have

983
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: pulled up. I just I don't be liking to disturb people,

984
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: especially if I know they're going through some ship. I

985
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: just would just you know, well, she knew she was

986
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: going through, but you didn't think about it until after

987
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: the fact. Yeah, I didn't think about it. I wasn't

988
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,919
Speaker 1: even considering like what she was going through at the time.

989
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,839
Speaker 1: I just was like excited and I wanted to share

990
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:15,439
Speaker 1: my excitement with my friends, you know. Yeah, but see

991
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: the type of person I am. Let's say it's the

992
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: other way around, and I'm going through some ship or

993
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: I don't feel good or whatever, I'm still gonna be

994
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: like outside like, even though on the inside, even on

995
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: the inside, I feel like even if I feel like

996
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: that on the inside and outside like and that's what

997
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: I mean. Celebrate your friends successes, man, there, because your

998
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: time's coming your Yes, it is so damn You think

999
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: it's woman code a real thing or bro code a

1000
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: real thing. Yeah, it's a real thing. It's a real

1001
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 1: thing that most people don't live by. Right. And I

1002
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 1: got a friend that probably wants to be my friend

1003
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: and again in life, but I don't know how to

1004
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: be her friends. And especially because I found out recently,

1005
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 1: like we haven't been friends and years, but I found

1006
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: out recently that a couple of years ago, she fucked

1007
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,799
Speaker 1: one of my ex boyfriends that she cleaned just to

1008
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: hate his guts years prior, like not years part whenever

1009
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: we were together, she was like, I can't I don't

1010
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 1: even see why you talk to him like I can't

1011
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 1: stand him. But then like, from what I know she

1012
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 1: told him, Nigga, she always liked him. Bitch, you haint

1013
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 1: never been my guy there and friend, I'm putting that

1014
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: on wax. You ain't never been my friend, girl, And

1015
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: that's why the universe would allow me to be friends

1016
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:39,760
Speaker 1: back with you, because you're shady. You're fucking shady, boots,

1017
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,399
Speaker 1: and you wanted that dick the whole time. And if

1018
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,399
Speaker 1: me and actually see you on the street, we're gonna

1019
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:51,280
Speaker 1: beat your ass, especially before. We don't want them are exactly.

1020
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: And you know, I didn't even feel no type of

1021
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: way about the nigga. I really feel a way about her.

1022
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,240
Speaker 1: I don't really have like any animosity against the guy

1023
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: because Nigga, again, we expect this whack ship out of

1024
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:07,760
Speaker 1: these guys. But I just even though we aren't friends,

1025
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 1: or we weren't friends even at the time when she

1026
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 1: did suck them, I just feel some type of way

1027
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 1: that you were still trying to be my friend, you know,

1028
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: like come back into my life at some point throughout

1029
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 1: the years, and I just couldn't get there, Like I

1030
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: don't know how to be I couldn't. I didn't know

1031
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:24,439
Speaker 1: how to be her friend. And now finding this ship out,

1032
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,959
Speaker 1: now I know why my like the universe wouldn't allow

1033
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 1: me to be her friend again because you're want some

1034
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:34,320
Speaker 1: real shady ship. But now she feels justified, probably somewhere

1035
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: like she didn't want to be my friend always, so

1036
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: I ain't wrong for a way him ship girl, it's

1037
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 1: a whack bitch man. I'm very comfortable with the people

1038
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 1: in my life right now, very very comfortable. I've only

1039
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:53,439
Speaker 1: lost like three friends in life. You know what I'm saying.

1040
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:56,280
Speaker 1: I'm thirty six years old. I've only lost three friends

1041
00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:00,399
Speaker 1: in life, two women and a guy. I'm off theble

1042
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 1: with the people I know now. Fuck y'all. Fuck y'all.

1043
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: Three motherfucker's I lost so many. I keep the same

1044
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: friends forever. Bit because I value my friends. I value

1045
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 1: relationships way more than money. People just have no problems

1046
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: that relationships are more valuable than you know what I'm saying.

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00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I have friendships in but I'm

1048
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: never done. Like I have ended a few here in

1049
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: this past year, but prior to that, I never I

1050
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: would take everybody for face value and just be like

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00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: accepting with all their trauma and all their bullshit and

1052
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: just say, oh, that's part of life. People are gonna

1053
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 1: come with their ship. I want people to accept me

1054
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 1: with mine, and I would keep toxic motherfucker's in my

1055
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: life forever. Now, you gotta get some people up out

1056
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: of there, man, because everybody definitely don't mean you. Well.

1057
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 1: I remember I lost one friend, but I threatened to

1058
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 1: beat her up too, and that's oh so was our

1059
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: friendship is supposed to be open when I threatened to

1060
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: beat you up, No, because I knew you didn't mean that.

1061
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 1: And we're getting money together. So girl, fun that let's

1062
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: fight and let's get back to work. Right. You know

1063
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: you are my fucking friend for life, for life. You're

1064
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: for life for like a game. So this is what happened.

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00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 1: I went to Atlanta. This is before I was living

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00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: in Atlanta. I was doing I had a job interview

1067
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: at the bank and my home girl was already living there.

1068
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 1: So I was like, I'll come that morning, go to

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00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: my interview and just stay with you the weekend and

1070
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 1: let's hang out. She was like, I ain't got no

1071
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: money to hang out with. And during that time I

1072
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 1: was dating the Dominican drug dealer. I was like, we

1073
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: don't need to worry about money. Don't worry about it.

1074
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 1: So came to her house after the interview. I didn't

1075
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: get the job, but anyway, came to her house after

1076
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 1: the interview. Her hair wasn't done with the hair start

1077
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 1: bars some hair. I did her hair, like I got

1078
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 1: nothing to wear. We went to the mall, bought her

1079
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: outfit by her shoes, like, just got her lace to

1080
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 1: go out. We go out. I'm about like. I bought

1081
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: groceries for her house. Like I tricked off on her

1082
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: the whole weekend. So it's Sunday. I was gonna leave

1083
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: Monday morning. She was having like niggas come through and um,

1084
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: she has some weed. She had a little bit of weed, right,

1085
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: but she ain't had no cigar and she gonna come in,

1086
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: come in the room and say, can you buy me

1087
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 1: airl I was like, and it's a nigga out there

1088
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: about to smoke the weed with her. I was like,

1089
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 1: that nigga buy a cigar. He about to smoke, and

1090
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't smoking during the time because I'm trying to

1091
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 1: get a job or whatever. So she got mad at

1092
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: I told her to ask the nigga. Well, she didn't

1093
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 1: say nothing. She walked out, and I came in the

1094
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: living room. I was like, hey, can you buy us

1095
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: a cigar? So she got mad because I asked him

1096
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: to buy a cigar? Right, But I didn't say it

1097
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: like I wasn't flirting with him. I just said hey.

1098
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, yeah, that's cool, and she's like, why

1099
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: are you asking him to do that? I was like, well,

1100
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: you just seem like you don't want to ask him,

1101
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 1: and we need a cigar. Y'all need a cigar. So

1102
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: she got mad about it. They smoked. I went back

1103
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: in the room, they smoked, and then when he was gone,

1104
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: she was like, yeah, I'm about to go somewhere. So

1105
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 1: what you're about to do like basically saying I gotta

1106
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: get out of her house? And it was hard, and

1107
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 1: I meant, I live in Columbia, South Carolina, and this

1108
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: is Atlanta, Georgia, so that's three hours away, so you're

1109
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 1: gonna put me out of your house in the night.

1110
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: Because because I asked the nigga bus cigar. Literally, that's

1111
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 1: all that happened. What the funk? I left her house,

1112
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: Like I leave, that's not a problem. But um, she

1113
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: sent me this in the text too, like you need

1114
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 1: to go basically, so I was like, I'm gonna beat

1115
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 1: your ass when I see you send me all the money,

1116
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 1: all that money I spent on you this weekend. I'm

1117
01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: gonna need you to run that back. And I probably

1118
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 1: shouldn't have did that, but I told her either give

1119
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:43,480
Speaker 1: me that money back I spent on her this weekend,

1120
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 1: or I'm gonna beat her up. So she she sent me.

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01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: She sent me a certified check in the meal, and

1122
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: we never talked again. Well, look at least she gave

1123
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 1: you that money back. She might have really I was not.

1124
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,040
Speaker 1: She might have really thought you was gonna run down

1125
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: to her ass. I was. I was so hurt. Yeah,

1126
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 1: I couldn't. That's terrible. Why are you doing me like that? Over?

1127
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: But then she said all right. Then she also said

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01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 1: that I think I'm better than everybody because she took

1129
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: me to her friend's house. Right, they have no electricity.

1130
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 1: They had a baby up in there, but they smoking

1131
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 1: weed and drinking beers in the dark, and I was

1132
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: sitting in there like where the funk am I? And

1133
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 1: I probably did have like a little add not an attitude,

1134
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: but this is just and look, not my vibe, just peasantry.

1135
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: First of all, I am better than you. Let's listen.

1136
01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: If you're feeling that I was better than you, just

1137
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 1: know that I am. Because why are y'all in the

1138
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: head with the baby, drinking liquor and smoking, smoking in

1139
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 1: the dark. Where are your priorities and why are you

1140
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,160
Speaker 1: hanging around these type of people? Bitch? We was never

1141
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: meant to be friends. Thank you for running me that chat.

1142
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 1: And that's what I told her when we got in

1143
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: the car. I was like, this is not the type

1144
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: of people you need to be surrounding yourself with. You

1145
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 1: you said that about my friends, and you just think

1146
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: you're better than everybody. Oh girl, good ridding good. That

1147
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 1: was my life long friend. We fell out about money, girl,

1148
01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:05,919
Speaker 1: good riddens y'all to not fall about money, y'all fell

1149
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 1: out about principle. Why are you around here asking me

1150
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 1: for money to smoke with this dude and not asking

1151
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 1: him a dollar exactly damn cheap. So let's go into

1152
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 1: random sex facts. All right, So today's random sex fact

1153
01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: is brought to you by so Wet and Live dot

1154
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 1: c O dot z A. Apparently, in several countries, some

1155
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 1: new brides placed tiny bags containing chickens blood into the

1156
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 1: vagina prior to intercourse to prove the hime and was

1157
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 1: intact before marriage. In other countries, women have placed congealed

1158
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: sheep's blood in their vagina. Is for the same purpose.

1159
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: Y'all want to make sure y'all bleed them. Then they

1160
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 1: condict to prove you a virgin because you ain't a virgin.

1161
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 1: OI is because you just might not bleed your first time.

1162
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: They've been either that or men. I guess sometimes your

1163
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 1: hyman doesn't always break the first time you have sex

1164
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: first of all, so I know if you do good

1165
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:13,000
Speaker 1: gymnastics exactly, so you may not bleed the first time.

1166
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: So it's just you're trying to prove to a man

1167
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 1: that you're a virgin by bleeding. But you don't really

1168
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 1: have to bleed your first time. That's just weird. So

1169
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: we're just basically trying to again the expectations men have.

1170
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: We're just feeding it by putting some fucking chicken blood

1171
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 1: in your pussy. The funk is that about? It must

1172
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 1: be very important to you together, because I ain't putting

1173
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: no chicken blood nowhere nothing. Yeah, like you trying to

1174
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 1: get salmonella. Pussy shut up, shut your dat chicken chicken

1175
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 1: blood do not smell what you could get me to

1176
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 1: stick that bag? And exactly like, what the fun could

1177
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:55,439
Speaker 1: you imagine trying? They gotta have health issues after that ship?

1178
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 1: What the hell? I don't know what sheets blood smelled like,

1179
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 1: but that sounds like something that really sound like some

1180
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: voodoo type ship. You already got the man, you'all already married, right,

1181
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to Yeah, so that's you from Charleston.

1182
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: Y'll be doing and boodo. You know, like people try

1183
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 1: to say women from Charleston don't ever eat spaghetti from

1184
01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: them because we put our period blood in the spaghetti. Child,

1185
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: I can't say that no one's ever done that. I've

1186
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 1: never done that. The pussy alone back well, okay, yeah,

1187
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 1: I never did a nasty ship like that, But I

1188
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 1: can't say people haven't done it because it has. I

1189
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 1: feel like, um, things like that come from a real place,

1190
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 1: So somebody did it at some point. Can you teach

1191
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: me a spell. You know, I really don't know how

1192
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 1: to do spells. I just have to watch my thoughts

1193
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 1: and the things I think because I really be manifesting

1194
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 1: ship and it could be good or bad. So when

1195
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 1: i'd be telling people I'm a witch, that's really what

1196
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:57,480
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like I have to watch my thoughts.

1197
01:04:57,480 --> 01:05:00,200
Speaker 1: Even like when I hate somebody, I have to watch

1198
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: my thoughts about them because I've had I've made things

1199
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: happen to people, um, and I can't say it wasn't.

1200
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 1: Can you make something happen to my bank account? People, bitch? Look,

1201
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,040
Speaker 1: I need to make something happen to my bank account.

1202
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 1: Fucking me. Let me go ahead and and brew that

1203
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: up right now. So yeah, shout a hund range of

1204
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 1: that would help you, a bank bitch. All right, y'all.

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