WEBVTT - More Covid-19 Money Questions Answered 

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we're back. We're black, we're brown, abbish

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<v Speaker 1>yr I decided to like you see, you had that tone,

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<v Speaker 1>that tonal change. Everybody can't do that. Everybody can't do

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<v Speaker 1>that each week.

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<v Speaker 2>I just regret that we never came up with an

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<v Speaker 2>actual gone for the entry. No, it's just tip spin

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<v Speaker 2>pull tip spin, you know, holding that burying that weight

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<v Speaker 2>on her shoulders for a good four and a half

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<v Speaker 2>years now. I try to switch it up with y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>You would appreciate it, that's what you are.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I appreciated you. I'm just like Mady. We should

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<v Speaker 2>give you a break.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, that would actually be cool. If we had

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<v Speaker 3>a little rodo vision like little Diddy Bop, maybe we

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<v Speaker 3>could get there.

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<v Speaker 2>We've been saying that for half we.

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<v Speaker 3>Should hit up the girl. Remember the young woman that

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<v Speaker 3>did that, did the Molly Moore theme song.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, yeah, right, if you wanna, yeah, let's do that.

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<v Speaker 2>But before that, let's uh, let's talk about what's happening.

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<v Speaker 2>What's happening in year old? How are we? How? First

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<v Speaker 2>of all, mental health check in? How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Eh? Okay, it's a lot, you know, it's about right.

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<v Speaker 3>That's literally like and I guess it's better than like

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<v Speaker 3>being worse than it, but definitely I'm feeling like like, yeah, yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>A cabin fever getting to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean some days and some days not. I

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<v Speaker 3>mean because I do work largely from home, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>hard because you know, you work from home, but I

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<v Speaker 3>can leave, but knowing that you really can't and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not gonna lie. More and more of my friends have

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<v Speaker 3>friends that have passed or really sick from Corona, so

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<v Speaker 3>it just it's starting to creeping closer and closer, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just you know, you have this feeling where you

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<v Speaker 3>know that eventually you're going to know somebody like, well

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<v Speaker 3>that's like really sick or yea worse than sick. And

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I'm kind of like bracing myself. What is that?

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<v Speaker 3>What does that feel like? You know what I mean? So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels almost like you're that person in the movie

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<v Speaker 2>and you're trap somewhere where the water is seeping in

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<v Speaker 2>and right now it's around your ankles, and every week

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, Okay, it's my shins, and it's my knees

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<v Speaker 2>and it's my waist and when is it going to

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<v Speaker 2>get me, Yeah, it's that. It is that that just

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<v Speaker 2>cloud of anxiety which sort of just hangs over everything.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the things I started to do around I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know the third or fourth day since I started

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<v Speaker 2>to work from home, was pull out this old just

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<v Speaker 2>I always buy journals and I'm like, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>write in them one day. I love collecting journals that

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<v Speaker 2>I'd never write in, but I finally I picked one

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<v Speaker 2>out and I started to just jot down what really

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<v Speaker 2>frustrated me that day or what was happening that day,

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<v Speaker 2>because there really isn't. I mean, I do have my

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<v Speaker 2>therapist who I still see via a tell a what's

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<v Speaker 2>it called telehealth I think is the platform they use,

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<v Speaker 2>But for me, it helps to just write out what's

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<v Speaker 2>stressing me out and even if it's four am. Especially

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<v Speaker 2>when I was really dealing with intense anxiety when I

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<v Speaker 2>had the baby, I would wake up all night and

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<v Speaker 2>just couldn't. I would stay awake all night and could

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<v Speaker 2>not sleep, and I would just get up, go to

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<v Speaker 2>the kitchen, pull out a notepad and just like write

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<v Speaker 2>out what I was worried about and just write it down.

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<v Speaker 2>And something about that helps me. So if that seems

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<v Speaker 2>like something that could help you. I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>share because it's very simple and it's free, and just

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<v Speaker 2>getting it off your chest, saying it out loud, as

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<v Speaker 2>my therapist always says, like one of the things that

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<v Speaker 2>she and I talk about is it's not about pushing

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<v Speaker 2>down the thoughts, the scary thoughts, what could happen, the

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<v Speaker 2>what ifs, But it's about looking at them and acknowledging

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<v Speaker 2>them and letting them float away, just kind of saying, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I had that thought, it's just a thought, can't hurt me,

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<v Speaker 2>and kind of moving on from it, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>my journey through anxiety continues, but not something that's helped me.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess you know what it is that I used

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<v Speaker 3>to always strike me as odd, not odd like but odd.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know any other way to put it, is

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<v Speaker 3>that things, terrible things can happen, and yet the world

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<v Speaker 3>is still moving, you know. Like I remember when I

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<v Speaker 3>was in it was in my twenties, and I remember,

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<v Speaker 3>like my grandmother passed away, and I remember being like, yo,

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't everybody understand my grandmother passed away? Like as if

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<v Speaker 3>like like everyone stopped for a moment. You know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like it's like like I was teaching preschool

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<v Speaker 3>at the time, and I remember I had to go

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<v Speaker 3>home because it was like, you know, the kids, they

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<v Speaker 3>were like miss Tiffany, look at my dog baby and

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<v Speaker 3>watch me kick and you know, like it's everything keeps

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<v Speaker 3>turning despite tragedy, and so sometimes it's hard because like

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<v Speaker 3>you can't catch your breath because you're like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>although this is the first time that it does seem

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<v Speaker 3>like a of a kind of a screeching halt because

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<v Speaker 3>things are not turning and churning. But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>That always struck me as kind of like this weird

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<v Speaker 3>sense that you have to keep walking despite losing limbs

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<v Speaker 3>along the way or something. You know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if I'm describing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, I get it. It's it's again. I'll go

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<v Speaker 2>back to that analogy of like there's a like a

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<v Speaker 2>tornado hits a big city and maybe you're across the

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<v Speaker 2>country and it's sunny outside and it's hard for you

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<v Speaker 2>to imagine and you go about your life and I

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<v Speaker 2>and it does feel that way being here in New

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<v Speaker 2>York and being in the New Jersey area like we are,

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<v Speaker 2>it feels like you're you're in the eye of the

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<v Speaker 2>hurricane and it's just destroyed. You know, it's we're about

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<v Speaker 2>to hit the apex in terms of deaths. In New York.

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<v Speaker 2>They say the middle of April. It's the end of

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<v Speaker 2>April where it's going to keep getting worse. But there's

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<v Speaker 2>parts of the country where it's not quite as bad.

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<v Speaker 2>And like in Georgia, my my own home state of Georgia,

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<v Speaker 2>Lord have mercy. How do this man beat Stacy Abrams?

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<v Speaker 2>I will never be able to tell you. But the

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<v Speaker 2>governor is trying to reopen beaches right now, and it

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<v Speaker 2>feels like there's some places where people just aren't getting it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I mean, living here in the middle of it,

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<v Speaker 2>we I mean I can't. And I'm talking to my

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<v Speaker 2>family in Georgia and I'm like, you guys have to

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<v Speaker 2>take it seriously, because New York is not special. We are.

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<v Speaker 2>It was always going to grow really fast here because

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<v Speaker 2>we live in such close proximity and there's so many

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<v Speaker 2>of us. But it can happen in other places and

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<v Speaker 2>it already is you see Louisiana. Anyway, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>And it also for people who have been impacted and

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<v Speaker 2>have lost loved ones to turn on CNN or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>news network and to see that stupid count of the

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<v Speaker 2>deaths like it's a telethon or something like that, ten

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<v Speaker 2>thousand and one, ten thousand and two, you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's just it's and I get why they're doing it,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's what people you know, it's it's the fear.

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<v Speaker 2>But it just you can get disconnected from the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that those are real lives that we're using. Up to

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<v Speaker 2>two hundred what was it, two hundred something thousand was

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<v Speaker 2>one of the projections of people who could die before

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<v Speaker 2>we hit before we get to the other side of

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<v Speaker 2>this in the US, and that just No, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>fifty million who died from the Spanish flu one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>years ago, but it's two hundred thousand people. Yeah, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's really sobering, and you you, I mean, you can't

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<v Speaker 2>think about that stuff all the time because it can

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<v Speaker 2>really weigh you down. So it's like you want to

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<v Speaker 2>stay personally. This weekend, I've tried to not watch the

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<v Speaker 2>news and tried to not watch social media and just

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<v Speaker 2>tried to just live and I did some yardwork and

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<v Speaker 2>it really helped. I treated it like it was a weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one of the problems I think is do you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like the days are just blurring together and the

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<v Speaker 2>weekend's not special anymore. It kind of just feels like

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<v Speaker 2>a continuation. But I truly tried to make it a

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<v Speaker 2>weekend where we slept in and we did some yard

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<v Speaker 2>work and we stayed outside because it was finally nice out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and just tried to you know, take a break from

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<v Speaker 2>the news.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it did feel like a weekend, like for the

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<v Speaker 3>first weekend because I refuse, Like I remember, there was

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<v Speaker 3>some stuff. It was kind of like overhanging on Friday,

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<v Speaker 3>and I kind of told the team like, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not that serious, Like everybody, WUSA take this Saturday and

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<v Speaker 3>Sunday to hug on your loved ones who were in

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<v Speaker 3>the house with you, and and you know, sit on

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<v Speaker 3>your front steps if you're able, and go in the

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<v Speaker 3>backyard if you have one, and not work basically, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>and there are a few things that we do on

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<v Speaker 3>the weekends, like we have for the Literature Academy, we

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<v Speaker 3>have A and a'sk the expert every Sunday, So Tamra,

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<v Speaker 3>I know, had to do some work, but for the

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<v Speaker 3>most part, we're really trying to give people like their weekends.

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<v Speaker 3>So that way there's just a sense of, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>bring some sort of sense of normalcy. So yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>then it's just been like even figuring out this whole

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<v Speaker 3>PPP program.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So for those who don't have know PPP program, it's

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<v Speaker 3>the paycheck protection. There's another p IM missing. What's the

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<v Speaker 3>plan plan? Play the hard the easy one.

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<v Speaker 2>So now with PPP, I had to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I love that. So the PPP program is meant

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<v Speaker 3>for business owners and even that word we use very loosely,

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<v Speaker 3>so proprietors ten ninety nine, folks in independent contractors, people

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<v Speaker 3>who have businesses, even nonprofits that have that employee under

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<v Speaker 3>five hundred people that you could qualify for help. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a loan that becomes a grant if you're GIA, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>forgivable loan.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the big selling point. They're forgivable potentially.

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<v Speaker 3>So at first they were telling us that hey, business

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<v Speaker 3>like your syphony, you can count because they're heavily leaning

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<v Speaker 3>into how many people that you're employing, and we will

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<v Speaker 3>give you two and a half months worth of payroll

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<v Speaker 3>plus a little extra sp like if you have rent

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<v Speaker 3>and some other bills, but mostly they're really leaning into

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<v Speaker 3>your payroll because the purpose of it is for you

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<v Speaker 3>not to let go of anyone. So it's that great

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<v Speaker 3>because honestly, as it relates to my business, it's myself

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<v Speaker 3>and my business partner Jabrill, we are the w two

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<v Speaker 3>workers and everybody else is an independent contractor. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, okay, great, we could submit and get two

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<v Speaker 3>and a half months worth of that payroll set aside

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<v Speaker 3>just in case, right, and then as long as after

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<v Speaker 3>that money is dispersed, you keep people employed for eight weeks,

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<v Speaker 3>then that loan becomes forgivable. And then if if you

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<v Speaker 3>don't keep people employed, let's just say you let go

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<v Speaker 3>of half of the people, then half the money is due.

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<v Speaker 3>And there still it feels like you're still working out

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<v Speaker 3>like what it looks like, but it looks like it's

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<v Speaker 3>going to be under four percent the interest on that loan,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think you have up to ten years to

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<v Speaker 3>pay it back. So anyway, I was all like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>this is awesome. And now I mean, all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 3>that of the blue. I guess someone said that there's

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<v Speaker 3>more versions of more interpretations of this Stimulus Care Act

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<v Speaker 3>than the Bible, because now the word really is that no,

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<v Speaker 3>you cannot count your your ten ninety nine workers. So

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<v Speaker 3>which is where most of the people on my team

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<v Speaker 3>are their independent contractors. And the reason, which it makes sense,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's just disappointing. The reason is because the ten

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<v Speaker 3>ninety nine independent contract also can actually claim themselves, so

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<v Speaker 3>they don't want to pay the ten ninety nine worker

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<v Speaker 3>to apply and then you apply for them too, so

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<v Speaker 3>that they're getting basically paid for twice.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, where'd you go if you're a

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<v Speaker 2>business owner. I mean, we put the link in the

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<v Speaker 2>show notes last week and I'll do it again to

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<v Speaker 2>the application through the SBA. Is that where you apply

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<v Speaker 2>for PPP or do you go to your like your

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<v Speaker 2>bank or where you start?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you start with your local bank. Most banks, and

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<v Speaker 3>here's what's so crazy, because applications open on Friday, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>Bank of America, Wells Fargo, they're not taking applications anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>That's crazy, they said. They're so overwhelmed. They're like, nope,

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<v Speaker 3>closing the door. And so in most big banks or

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<v Speaker 3>most banks are only taking applications if you bank with them,

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<v Speaker 3>and so you know, so start with your bank. But

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<v Speaker 3>then you're going to have to do a search. If

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<v Speaker 3>your bank is no longer taking applications, then you're going

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<v Speaker 3>to have to do a search for banks that will

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<v Speaker 3>take applications from people who don't bank with them. So

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<v Speaker 3>that's what I'm kind of doing now because I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't realize it was going to just be filled

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<v Speaker 3>up so quickly. So my my CFO is quickly working

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<v Speaker 3>on submitting our application to a bank that you don't

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<v Speaker 3>have to bank with in order to in order to

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<v Speaker 3>apply with them. So yeah, it's just it's just I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>when I say a mess, I mean a hot mess,

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<v Speaker 3>a two year old temper tantrum because you say, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>no more, no more animal crackers, because you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>have dinner soon. Mess.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean on the because we've been following it to

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<v Speaker 2>our small business reporter, are really following it, and to me,

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<v Speaker 2>it seems like, well, the government is not always known

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<v Speaker 2>for being the best at rolling out new programs, let

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<v Speaker 2>alone new programs that it talks about on Tuesday and

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<v Speaker 2>then launches on Friday, like this has been really quickly

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<v Speaker 2>slapped together. And I mean, if I were a small

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<v Speaker 2>business owner right now wanting to apply and running into issues.

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<v Speaker 2>I would just say be patient and keep trying and

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<v Speaker 2>be persistent because eventually, hopefully people will figure out. The

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<v Speaker 2>banks are catching up with the government's stimulus package as

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<v Speaker 2>much as you know anyone else right now, and they

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<v Speaker 2>need time to get the right you know, people in

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<v Speaker 2>place and whatnot. And also they're struggling too. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>some banks have had to like lay off people or

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<v Speaker 2>you know, furlough people because of what's going on. So

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, be patient, try hard, contact community banks,

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<v Speaker 2>credit unions, like smaller banks that may not be getting

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<v Speaker 2>as overwhelmed as the big brand names are.

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<v Speaker 3>Right yep. I was going to say that, yeah, that

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of the smaller banks are definitely they might

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<v Speaker 3>have some space there. And also to call ahead of time,

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<v Speaker 3>ask to speak to the business banker so you know

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<v Speaker 3>what to bring. So because every bank is kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like figuring out and making up their.

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<v Speaker 2>Own rules, so you can go in person to the

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<v Speaker 2>bank for.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people, Yeah, there's some people who actually went, like

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<v Speaker 3>a friend of mine, she went and she and they

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<v Speaker 3>made her come in person. So yeah, so definitely call

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<v Speaker 3>the bank and ask those questions. Do I have to

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<v Speaker 3>come in person? Do I have to bank here, it's

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<v Speaker 3>so kind of open an account. Now what do you

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<v Speaker 3>need because like I said, every you know, Chase Bank,

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<v Speaker 3>for example, has their own application. So yes, there's the

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<v Speaker 3>there's the BA application, but then Chase has their own application.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're wanting to know, like what is the application

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<v Speaker 3>process because well, you don't want to think about this.

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<v Speaker 3>Thousands of people are going to be applying, hundreds of thousands,

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<v Speaker 3>right and if this is not like normal times where

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<v Speaker 3>they can coach you too. Oh your application got kicked

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<v Speaker 3>back because you forgot this. Don't be that person because

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<v Speaker 3>it might just be kickback. Like oh yeah, girl, you're

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<v Speaker 3>not getting nothing because we told you to fill this

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<v Speaker 3>out properly. So making sure that you're going to apply

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<v Speaker 3>that you take the time to give them everything they

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<v Speaker 3>ask for. Yeah, so you know you have the opportunity

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<v Speaker 3>to potentially get money. But yeah, that was just like

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<v Speaker 3>the only cause, like that's significantly less because we have

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<v Speaker 3>like twenty people on the team and there's a difference

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<v Speaker 3>between twenty people payroll to two people.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we've got a couple of questions relating to the

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<v Speaker 2>stimulus package. That will get to when we answer questions

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<v Speaker 2>and the next segment. Just FYI, okay, if you guys

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<v Speaker 2>do you guys want keep sending your questions and they've

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<v Speaker 2>been great. Go to brand Ambission podcast dot com ask

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<v Speaker 2>us ask us anything, or you can send me notes

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<v Speaker 2>directly on Instagram. We're at brand a Mission Podcast or

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<v Speaker 2>email Brando Mission Podcast at gmail dot com. Back, So

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<v Speaker 2>why don't we take a quick break and we will

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<v Speaker 2>come back and get into some of those questions.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's time for question DA questions. Honestly, I really

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<v Speaker 3>love the questions segment because folks ask such great questions

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<v Speaker 3>and sometimes I'm like, oh, good ones. What questions we

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<v Speaker 3>have in the mail bag?

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<v Speaker 2>As I mentioned, we have a couple of questions from

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<v Speaker 2>people who are wondering, you know, what should they be

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<v Speaker 2>doing now that there is this stimulus package coming out.

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<v Speaker 2>This question comes from with someone who wanted to remain anonymous.

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<v Speaker 2>She says, I actually haven't filed taxes in the last

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<v Speaker 2>couple of years. Does this mean I will not qualify

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<v Speaker 2>for a stimulus check? If not, what can I do

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<v Speaker 2>so that I can potentially qualify? This is a really

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<v Speaker 2>good question because we mentioned last week, so these checks

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<v Speaker 2>will be coming in the next couple of weeks or so.

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<v Speaker 2>There's still not a firm date on that, but the

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<v Speaker 2>way that's happening, so if you file taxes in twenty

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<v Speaker 2>eighteen or twenty nineteen, the IRS is going to use

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<v Speaker 2>that tax return to see if you're eligible or not.

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<v Speaker 2>So what that means is, if you earned a lot

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<v Speaker 2>more money in twenty eighteen than you did in twenty nineteen,

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to want to follow your twenty nineteen taxes

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<v Speaker 2>asap so that they can look at your lower income

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<v Speaker 2>this year because if you have higher income, I believe

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<v Speaker 2>they've capped it at around ninety nine thousand dollars for

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<v Speaker 2>an individual. If you have higher income, you won't qualify

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<v Speaker 2>for any stimulus money. So let's say you earned one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred thousand dollars in twenty eighteen, and your freelancer in

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<v Speaker 2>twenty nineteen it was super slow and you earned fifty

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars. You're going to want to file that twenty

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<v Speaker 2>nineteen tax return so that it reflects that lower income,

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<v Speaker 2>so you will qualify for a check. If not, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I said, they'll look at twenty eighteen's tax returns and

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<v Speaker 2>that if you earn more that year, you may not

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<v Speaker 2>qualify that being said, like she asks, what do I

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<v Speaker 2>do if I didn't file taxes those two years? So

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<v Speaker 2>what the IRS is doing is they're going to look

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<v Speaker 2>at social Security statements to see if people can be eligible.

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<v Speaker 2>Or you can quickly go ahead and file your twenty

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<v Speaker 2>nineteen tax It's just a simple tax return for twenty nineteen.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not too late, and they can use the income

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever you put on that tax return right now,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's not too late. And whatever bank account you

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<v Speaker 2>have connected to your your refund in the past, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>wherever it's been direct deposited, if that's how you've gotten

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<v Speaker 2>your refund, I think most people have, that's where the

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<v Speaker 2>IRS will be sending it. So get on it. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to put the same resource links that were

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<v Speaker 2>in last week's show in this show. Note says, well

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<v Speaker 2>for you guys to check. All right, and let's take

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<v Speaker 2>our next question from a listener will call Arti. Artie says,

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<v Speaker 2>God bless you both. During this time, the President announced

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<v Speaker 2>that interest on federal student loans will be discontinued until

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<v Speaker 2>further notice. My student loan provider said they implemented this,

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<v Speaker 2>but they said my payments will stay the same shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>my fixed monthly payment go down as a result of

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<v Speaker 2>interest no longer being applied, Artie, So she sent this

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<v Speaker 2>email on March twenty third. We just checked on this

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<v Speaker 2>and there's good news here. So the great news is

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<v Speaker 2>that actually the government has suspended student loan payments on

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<v Speaker 2>federal loans from March thirteen through September thirtieth, which means

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<v Speaker 2>if you have federal student loans, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>pay anything. What they've done is automatically put federal student

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<v Speaker 2>loan borrowers into forbearons. On top of that, typically when

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<v Speaker 2>you're put a loan in fourbearans is still accruing, so

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<v Speaker 2>although you don't have to pay anything, you still have

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<v Speaker 2>interest piling up.

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<v Speaker 3>And sometimes you can make interest payments because I used

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<v Speaker 3>to be for Baron's Queen and so I used to

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<v Speaker 3>make the interest payments just so it wouldn't accrue on

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<v Speaker 3>top of my principle. So just know that this is

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<v Speaker 3>a second break they're giving.

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<v Speaker 2>You exactly, so there's not actually any interest accruing even

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<v Speaker 2>though you're in forbearans. So this is a double wamy benefit.

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<v Speaker 2>So Alretie, you should call your servicer back and make

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<v Speaker 2>sure that they know that this is the new law

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<v Speaker 2>that's passed. And like we've said before, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>companies like banks and lenders, they're catching up with the

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<v Speaker 2>news just like we are. So if you're getting confusing

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<v Speaker 2>advice that conflicts with what you find on federal websites,

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<v Speaker 2>for example, definitely go to studentaid dot gov and click

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<v Speaker 2>on their corona we I'll put a link to this

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<v Speaker 2>in the show notes. I'll save you the trouble. Go

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<v Speaker 2>the show notes and I'll put a link to the

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<v Speaker 2>Coronavirus Federal student Loan page that you guys can check

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<v Speaker 2>the information. Call your servicer and if you get confusing advice,

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<v Speaker 2>I would just escalate it to a manager until you

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<v Speaker 2>get someone on the phone who knows what they're talking about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because yeah, you shouldn't have to pay anything. You can

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<v Speaker 2>still choose to pay, and say that if you can,

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<v Speaker 2>why stop, right, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>To me, I wouldn't like I only if, like, if

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<v Speaker 3>it already doesn't if you don't have like a good

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<v Speaker 3>amount of like emergency savings save, then I might reconsider

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<v Speaker 3>like kind of continuing to pay. But if you feel

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<v Speaker 3>like you know your bills are up to day and

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<v Speaker 3>you have a good amount of emergency savings. When by

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<v Speaker 3>good amount in times like these, I say six months.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think what Mandy was going to say is

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<v Speaker 3>that that all of the money that you send toward

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<v Speaker 3>your federal student loans now up until September thirtieth, all

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<v Speaker 3>of it will go to the principle that means, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>not some like like normal. So it's a it's an

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<v Speaker 3>opportunity to pay down your student loan debt just a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit faster. So not everyone has six months, So

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<v Speaker 3>this is an opportunity, like you know, to stack up

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<v Speaker 3>on your on your emergency savings just in case we

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what's going to happen moving forward. And I

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<v Speaker 3>think having a strong cash position so you can this

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<v Speaker 3>wave out is a really good idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And if I can be Devil's advocate, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're talking about I think we've had some questions

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<v Speaker 2>from people should I be investing right now? And we've

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<v Speaker 2>had some people who have been like, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>put more money in the market because you know, we're

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<v Speaker 2>at we're at bottom or nearing the bottom where we

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<v Speaker 2>were anyway, and it's sort of like stocks are on sale.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you're going to invest now is a good

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<v Speaker 2>time because then you can ride the wave. If there's

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<v Speaker 2>a wave, which history is shown, there usually is one

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<v Speaker 2>that goes back up. So, like Tiffany said, if you

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<v Speaker 2>have your emergency fund stashed, you have your regular bills

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<v Speaker 2>paid off, there's no other obligations that you have. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're torn between making a student loan payment on a

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<v Speaker 2>on a loan that no longer has interest through September,

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe kicking money into your four to one K,

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<v Speaker 2>it depends on your appetite for risk right now, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you could argue that it makes more sense

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<v Speaker 2>to potentially put it into even a CD would earn

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit something, or put it in a high

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<v Speaker 2>yield savings account if you're feeling you know, queasy about

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<v Speaker 2>maybe putting it into your four to one K or

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<v Speaker 2>in the stock market, put it into a vehicle where

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you can earn a little bit of interest, because

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<v Speaker 2>if you've use it to pay your student loans right now,

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<v Speaker 2>the benefit is that you pay your principle down but

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<v Speaker 2>you're not being charged interest, So you could gain a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit more by you know, saving or investing it elsewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, but great question, thank you very much, Artie

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<v Speaker 2>and that seeing Should we take one more?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh a mass? I think we should because it's crazy

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<v Speaker 3>times right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, moss Okay. This comes from the gram listener

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<v Speaker 2>name Eli Eli says quick question. Prior to COVID, I

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<v Speaker 2>had planned for the month of April to open a

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<v Speaker 2>travel credit card for the rewards. My other credit cards

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<v Speaker 2>are paid off, so debt is an issue. I was

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<v Speaker 2>concerned that it might look desperate to open a card

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<v Speaker 2>at this time. On the other hand, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I might get a good rate. Should I wait till

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<v Speaker 2>after the pandemic is over? Or will it not matter?

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting look desperate to who?

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<v Speaker 3>For no right?

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't hurt you. Desperations is not one of the

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<v Speaker 2>components of a credit score. Not what you're worried about.

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<v Speaker 3>If like your hand shook that that your score drops

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<v Speaker 3>some points, like oh I needed money now, I say

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<v Speaker 3>you like you know, if that's not an issue, there's

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<v Speaker 3>nothing wrong with going ahead and open up a opening

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<v Speaker 3>up a credit card. If anything, now I have seen

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if you've seen, because I've gotten like

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<v Speaker 3>these credit card solicitations in the mail that they're actually

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<v Speaker 3>giving more reward points travel reward points than they were.

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<v Speaker 2>Before, are they Well I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean just seeing from what's coming in, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, ooh, before this was fifty thousand points, now

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<v Speaker 3>this is one hundred thousand. And I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>it's related to COVID, but like, for example, just with everything,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like like a Domino's just set me like

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<v Speaker 3>a coupon forty percent off, and I'm getting all of

0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:49.200
<v Speaker 3>these coupons all of you. I feel like people are

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<v Speaker 3>trying to hopefully sway folks into making a move when

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<v Speaker 3>it comes to investing in their business by being a patron.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I mean, definitely shop around. There's nothing with

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<v Speaker 3>that because what we do know is actually we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to fly again. We're not going to never fly again.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's nothing going to fly now.

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<v Speaker 2>You know you were brave enough and it's an emergency.

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<v Speaker 2>I would just say I wouldn't rush to open up

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<v Speaker 2>a travel rewards card that has an annual fee right

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<v Speaker 2>now unless you can immediately get some benefits that would

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<v Speaker 2>outweigh the cost of that annual fee, like if you

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<v Speaker 2>had to sign up bonus or whatnot and made it

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<v Speaker 2>worth it just because you know, the usual benefit with

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<v Speaker 2>these cards is that you have to spend spend using

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<v Speaker 2>travel sometimes entertainment or restaurants or what not to get

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<v Speaker 2>the most lucrative rewards. And if you're not doing a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of that right now, then you're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>be stashing away a lot of points. And is it

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<v Speaker 2>worth you know, paying like I know the Chase Sapphire Reserve,

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<v Speaker 2>they increase their feet of five hundred dollars and five

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<v Speaker 2>hundred and fifty dollars this last year. And definitely if

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<v Speaker 2>you were thinking about one of those really expensive annual

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<v Speaker 2>fee cards, just want to do the math to see

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<v Speaker 2>if the benefits outweigh that reward before you rush out

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<v Speaker 2>to sign up. Yeah, all right, cool, Well again, you

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<v Speaker 2>guys send us your questions. Brand Ambisson Podcast on the

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<v Speaker 2>Gram or brand Ambission Podcast at gmail dot com. We're

0:25:09.000 --> 0:25:12.000
<v Speaker 2>also on our website, Brandambition podcast dot com.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and now it's time for a boost or break,

0:25:17.680 --> 0:25:20.000
<v Speaker 3>boost a break. I have a boost and a break.

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<v Speaker 3>What about you?

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to do a boost keep it positive?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well my break is not really like a huge,

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<v Speaker 3>like a really bad break, So I'll do the break first.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh there's another streaming platform out It's called Quibi. Have

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<v Speaker 3>you heard of it? I have.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen a couple of ads for shows on Quibi

0:25:38.440 --> 0:25:42.480
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, ugh, I got one and another one

0:25:43.720 --> 0:25:45.840
<v Speaker 2>time these days the one not I know.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm kind of like, eh, so, what makes quibi

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<v Speaker 3>or Quibi? I'm not sure how they're saying it's so special?

0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:55.200
<v Speaker 3>Is I think like the Dreamworksky is, you know, one

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<v Speaker 3>of the founders and some other super fancy person that

0:25:59.080 --> 0:26:01.800
<v Speaker 3>has like all this knowledge. They've raised so much money,

0:26:02.000 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 3>like two billion dollars to launch this thing. But from

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<v Speaker 3>what I can understand, from when I can understand, what

0:26:06.640 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 3>makes it so special is that it's especially optimized for

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 3>your phone, so you can hold your phone horizontally and

0:26:12.880 --> 0:26:16.400
<v Speaker 3>then you can hold it vertically. And what they've done

0:26:16.440 --> 0:26:19.480
<v Speaker 3>is they shot this movie or this whatever and two

0:26:19.480 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 3>different like they shot it vertically and they shot it horizontally,

0:26:23.280 --> 0:26:26.040
<v Speaker 3>so you can actually get two point of views, like

0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:28.199
<v Speaker 3>as you watch, like ooh oh, this one, I can

0:26:28.240 --> 0:26:29.520
<v Speaker 3>see the outside of the house. This one, I can

0:26:29.560 --> 0:26:31.159
<v Speaker 3>see the inside of the house as you switch your

0:26:31.160 --> 0:26:33.520
<v Speaker 3>phone back and forth. I don't know, I'm just like

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<v Speaker 3>and all. What also makes it special is that all

0:26:36.800 --> 0:26:39.840
<v Speaker 3>of the content is like ten minutes to under so

0:26:40.320 --> 0:26:41.760
<v Speaker 3>it's really meant to be like kind of like on

0:26:41.800 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 3>the go. But I'm like, okay. I mean they say

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.920
<v Speaker 3>that it's not really geared toward Generation Z, that's really

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:50.880
<v Speaker 3>geared toward millennials. So I guess we'll see. I mean,

0:26:51.600 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 3>you know, like depending on who you ask on, one

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<v Speaker 3>year removed or one year one pinky toe in millennial land.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know. I just kind of a break

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<v Speaker 3>just from another platform.

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<v Speaker 2>Platform to pay for, you know, if you're looking for

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<v Speaker 2>expenses to trim, I would like your streaming services.

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<v Speaker 3>People are like, what girl, not Netflix? Go ahead? I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like understood that.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel it's do you need Apple TV? Like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. Reese Weatherspoon Show is pretty good, but like

0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:24.080
<v Speaker 2>it's over so we canceled it.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I don't know that quibi is necessary. So

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<v Speaker 3>then that's just my light break. But my boost is

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<v Speaker 3>I really want to boost my financial friends circle. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess my financial network circle. They have really just been

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<v Speaker 3>rising to the occasion and just sharing their knowledge just

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<v Speaker 3>freely with folks. Like if you guys know, like two

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<v Speaker 3>weeks ago, I did a free financial series and it

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<v Speaker 3>was Tila teaching stocks. I taught budgeting and savings, Sandy

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<v Speaker 3>taught how to make money from home, and Cara taught

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<v Speaker 3>you know, emotional wellness. And we did it for free

0:27:59.760 --> 0:28:02.199
<v Speaker 3>and really like well received. I just ran the numbers.

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<v Speaker 3>Mandy over two hundred thousand views, thousands of comments, thousands

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<v Speaker 3>of shares. It just was great and awesome and if

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<v Speaker 3>you like I missed it, it's honestly it's on the

0:28:11.240 --> 0:28:13.520
<v Speaker 3>budget needs to Facebook page. I just you can cook

0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:16.120
<v Speaker 3>video and all the videos are there. Every lesson. It's

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:18.679
<v Speaker 3>like a deep lesson, so totally free. It was our

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<v Speaker 3>way of giving back. And then I leaned in again

0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:22.600
<v Speaker 3>because people are like, you know, are you going to

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<v Speaker 3>do it again? And I wasn't going to be. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not an easy lift. It's a lot of work, but

0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:28.640
<v Speaker 3>I know people are really in need. So I kind

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<v Speaker 3>of took like this informal survey of what do you

0:28:30.600 --> 0:28:32.480
<v Speaker 3>want to learn? And then I've reached out to my

0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:36.400
<v Speaker 3>financial adjacent friends based upon what people said. And even

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<v Speaker 3>as you're listening to this, even if you've missed like

0:28:38.800 --> 0:28:42.120
<v Speaker 3>a session or whatever, they'll still be the like I said,

0:28:42.120 --> 0:28:43.640
<v Speaker 3>the replay will still be on the budget needs to

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<v Speaker 3>Facebook page. But we have ec who's teaching how to

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<v Speaker 3>land your dream job when no one is hiring. She

0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:52.000
<v Speaker 3>teaches dream job how to land your dream job anyway,

0:28:52.040 --> 0:28:55.760
<v Speaker 3>but she's really leaning into like now and you know,

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:57.600
<v Speaker 3>like what it seems like no one's hiring. There are

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<v Speaker 3>people who are hiring, how do you land that job?

0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:03.320
<v Speaker 3>Than Ash Cash my boy is teaching how to master

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:07.680
<v Speaker 3>your mindset and manifest some abundance in times of uncertainty.

0:29:07.720 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 3>He's an awesome like mindset kind of coach. It's just

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:13.120
<v Speaker 3>like really like he's got amazing energy and I think

0:29:13.120 --> 0:29:16.320
<v Speaker 3>we could all use that boost. Then after that on Wednesday,

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<v Speaker 3>Dawn she has been my friend for a number of years.

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<v Speaker 3>She's a naturalist down has ms and as a result,

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<v Speaker 3>she's really had to lean in and create natural products

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:29.720
<v Speaker 3>and certain things for herself to help manage her ms.

0:29:29.720 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 3>And so she's going to show us with the things

0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:35.200
<v Speaker 3>you have at home, how do you strengthen your immune system,

0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 3>like on a budget. So it's like, do you have lines?

0:29:38.000 --> 0:29:39.520
<v Speaker 3>You know you could like squeeze shot a line a

0:29:39.520 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 3>little bit of honey, Like do you have tumoric did

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:44.440
<v Speaker 3>you know if you are going to cook with tumoric,

0:29:44.440 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 3>it's essential that you also add black pepper so it

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:48.800
<v Speaker 3>helps your body break down the tumork. So these are

0:29:48.840 --> 0:29:50.440
<v Speaker 3>things that you might not know. And I wanted her to,

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:53.920
<v Speaker 3>you know, because so many of us might eventually get corona,

0:29:53.960 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 3>but it won't affect us all the same, especially if

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:58.040
<v Speaker 3>we have a strong immune system. And then let's but

0:29:58.160 --> 0:30:00.480
<v Speaker 3>at least my friend Nicole black And is going to

0:30:00.520 --> 0:30:03.560
<v Speaker 3>teach negotiate your way to lower bills, interest rates, and

0:30:03.640 --> 0:30:07.880
<v Speaker 3>more savings because almost everyone, all your service providers are

0:30:07.880 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 3>offering some leniency when it comes to your you know

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:14.440
<v Speaker 3>who you own, how much you own, and so now

0:30:14.440 --> 0:30:17.080
<v Speaker 3>it's time to lean in and negotiate some assistance. And

0:30:17.320 --> 0:30:19.640
<v Speaker 3>she's going to teach that. So I just want to,

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<v Speaker 3>like I said, I want to just thank like the

0:30:22.120 --> 0:30:26.240
<v Speaker 3>financial network that I belong to because everyone has said yes,

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:27.880
<v Speaker 3>so something fun we're going to do too. And I

0:30:28.160 --> 0:30:30.080
<v Speaker 3>don't know if the word is fun, but I reached

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<v Speaker 3>out to like my Elevate network that's a group of

0:30:34.120 --> 0:30:37.640
<v Speaker 3>US personal finance folks of color, and I say, wouldn't

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:40.080
<v Speaker 3>it be great if we could each explain what it's

0:30:40.080 --> 0:30:43.640
<v Speaker 3>seemingly like a big financial term in under a minute,

0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:46.440
<v Speaker 3>and we can share the videos like what is quantitative

0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:49.760
<v Speaker 3>quantitative easing? What is the stock market? What is points

0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:52.440
<v Speaker 3>in the Dow Jones? And I so like, I had

0:30:52.440 --> 0:30:54.080
<v Speaker 3>so many people say yeah, I'd love to do that.

0:30:54.320 --> 0:30:56.520
<v Speaker 3>So see, like you know, you'll see those videos soon

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:59.000
<v Speaker 3>because I feel like sometimes those words just go over

0:30:59.040 --> 0:31:00.600
<v Speaker 3>your head and like what does that mean? Can you

0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:03.760
<v Speaker 3>explain it to me? Like I'm five, and so, like

0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 3>I said, so many people say that they would do

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 3>those little clip videos for me, So we'll just see

0:31:08.000 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 3>them being shared. So lead into your financial educator and

0:31:10.840 --> 0:31:13.080
<v Speaker 3>give them a virtual hug because we try out here

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:14.560
<v Speaker 3>in these streets to make sure you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay and it's fr e for real.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I said, Facebook page, Like I know people are

0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:22.800
<v Speaker 3>like I don't have Facebook, Well says get it for this.

0:31:22.880 --> 0:31:25.360
<v Speaker 2>Wait a second? Who who know a lot of people like.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd be so surprised how many people are like can

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<v Speaker 3>you do this on Instagram?

0:31:29.080 --> 0:31:31.960
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't go out of style? Facebook face go out

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<v Speaker 2>of style? Yeah, I mean it was like, you know,

0:31:34.120 --> 0:31:36.640
<v Speaker 2>they're hacking into our data or whatever and selling.

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<v Speaker 3>It, but they own Instagram.

0:31:38.840 --> 0:31:41.600
<v Speaker 2>They do own Instagram. They don't. They don't try and

0:31:41.600 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 2>advertise that if you.

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<v Speaker 3>Noticed, I know. But the thing is the reason why

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:47.320
<v Speaker 3>we do a Facebook is because because of the nature

0:31:47.360 --> 0:31:49.320
<v Speaker 3>of wanting us to do it for free and not

0:31:49.760 --> 0:31:52.400
<v Speaker 3>it not confining you. Because with Instagram, you these lives

0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:54.640
<v Speaker 3>on the last twenty four hours. They might sit in

0:31:54.680 --> 0:31:56.960
<v Speaker 3>the highlights, but it's hard for you to see and

0:31:57.480 --> 0:31:59.920
<v Speaker 3>like for example, like everyone who's teaching, some people might

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<v Speaker 3>have a slide that they want you to see, and

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<v Speaker 3>so it just makes it easier. It makes it really

0:32:04.160 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 3>easy to make it free on Facebook. So sorry if

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:08.920
<v Speaker 3>you don't have it, But.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I did share the link to your Facebook page

0:32:11.680 --> 0:32:13.800
<v Speaker 2>last week when you talked about the courses. But if

0:32:13.800 --> 0:32:16.960
<v Speaker 2>you have like a specific link to a public like

0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:19.400
<v Speaker 2>episode that people can see even if they're not logged in,

0:32:20.200 --> 0:32:21.480
<v Speaker 2>maybe maybe that will work.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I believe so. I believe like the ones that

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<v Speaker 3>are already, like the ones we recorded like two weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that those links, if I share them and

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<v Speaker 3>you're not logged in, you can still watch them not

0:32:31.000 --> 0:32:31.600
<v Speaker 3>being logged in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, shoot me the links and I will

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<v Speaker 2>add them to the show notes.

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<v Speaker 3>Awesome. What about you. What are you besting?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to boost big, big, big, big boosts. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think I've done this yet. To all the parents

0:32:43.360 --> 0:32:46.160
<v Speaker 2>who are at home with the children and having to

0:32:46.240 --> 0:32:49.160
<v Speaker 2>become a nine to five worker plus mom and dad

0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:54.880
<v Speaker 2>mom or dad and juggling schooling, I feel somewhat lucky.

0:32:54.960 --> 0:32:58.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean, the newborn is challenging, but he's not asking

0:32:58.040 --> 0:33:00.240
<v Speaker 2>me a million questions a day and needing my you know,

0:33:00.320 --> 0:33:03.760
<v Speaker 2>undivided attention and trying to jump off coffee tables and

0:33:04.160 --> 0:33:06.520
<v Speaker 2>almost breaking his orbital bone like a friend of mine's

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<v Speaker 2>tolder did the other day. I just major shout out.

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<v Speaker 2>And one of the things I did recently at my

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<v Speaker 2>company was we have a company Slack and I decided

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<v Speaker 2>to start a parent Slack channel just because it felt

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<v Speaker 2>like one I'm a new parent, and I wasn't sure

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<v Speaker 2>who else at the company were parents, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a crazy, freaking time for us, and we

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<v Speaker 2>need to acknowledge that it's crazy. So started a parent

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<v Speaker 2>Slack channel and it's been really fun and people are

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<v Speaker 2>sharing just you know, notes about how they're setting up

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<v Speaker 2>tents in the living room for their kids and how

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<v Speaker 2>they're getting online courses for free from this website or

0:33:39.720 --> 0:33:42.960
<v Speaker 2>that website. So just a shout out and give yourselves

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<v Speaker 2>a pat on the back if you're a parent and

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:49.560
<v Speaker 2>you are juggling at all, and give yourself grace. We

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<v Speaker 2>just can't do. Like I'm going to be the first

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<v Speaker 2>to admit I am not as effective at my job

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<v Speaker 2>as I was a month ago. When I could go

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<v Speaker 2>to an office and work undividedly, undivided attention all day.

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:02.320
<v Speaker 2>You just you can't do it all. So you just

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<v Speaker 2>we have to make peace with imperfection right now. And

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<v Speaker 2>speaking of a baby, was that a baby in the

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<v Speaker 2>background there?

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<v Speaker 3>My my? What'sile? Call him? My TV?

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<v Speaker 2>And it was like, shut up, oh god, that's like

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<v Speaker 2>what at night after when I put the baby down

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<v Speaker 2>finally and my husband starts watching videos of him and

0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:23.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, the baby's crying. He's like, chill out. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just watching this video. And I'm like, you can't do

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<v Speaker 2>that all right anyway, So shout out to parents, and

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<v Speaker 2>then a quick shout out to me because we started

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<v Speaker 2>sleep training. This we do and mama is finally getting

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<v Speaker 2>her groove back. I cannot People are like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>letting them cry.

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<v Speaker 1>It out.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to hear your opinions, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>because I stopped carrying what anyone else does with their

0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:49.520
<v Speaker 2>kid six to eight weeks ago, and it changed my

0:34:49.600 --> 0:34:52.759
<v Speaker 2>life entirely because my kid ain't your kid, so you know,

0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:55.759
<v Speaker 2>do your own thing. That's fine. My kid. I knew

0:34:55.760 --> 0:34:57.520
<v Speaker 2>he could fall asleep on his own. He just had

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<v Speaker 2>to be given the opportunity. As how I looked at

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<v Speaker 2>it and I sat it was just like, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>literally would have taken me an hour in the past,

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<v Speaker 2>just sitting there rocking and boob and rocking and boob

0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:10.959
<v Speaker 2>and white noise and whatever. I just put him down.

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<v Speaker 2>I walked away. I had a big bagglass of wine.

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<v Speaker 2>He cried for about thirty minutes and that was that.

0:35:17.040 --> 0:35:19.480
<v Speaker 2>And the next night it was twenty five minutes. And tonight,

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<v Speaker 2>let's hope it'll be twenty. But I have gotten more

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<v Speaker 2>sleep in the past four days, and I feel like

0:35:25.520 --> 0:35:28.880
<v Speaker 2>myself almost again. And in these crazy times, I just

0:35:28.920 --> 0:35:33.359
<v Speaker 2>wanted to say, yes, I'm getting my group back, I'm

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:37.200
<v Speaker 2>cooking again, I have I'm not dead by seven pm anymore.

0:35:37.560 --> 0:35:39.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean, knock on wood, because who knows what tonight

0:35:39.600 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 2>will bring. But it's going great, and I just really

0:35:42.880 --> 0:35:46.040
<v Speaker 2>feel like, finally I have stopped, like I said, caring

0:35:46.440 --> 0:35:48.839
<v Speaker 2>what other people do and just doing what my kid

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<v Speaker 2>and I like. We just talk. I'm like, Rio, what

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:51.640
<v Speaker 2>do you need?

0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:52.000
<v Speaker 3>Rio?

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<v Speaker 2>Tonight is a night you're going to sleep on your own?

0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:57.600
<v Speaker 2>He's like, cool, Mom, I got this. And it's me

0:35:57.719 --> 0:35:59.680
<v Speaker 2>and him, y'all. It's me and him. We're working on

0:35:59.680 --> 0:36:03.440
<v Speaker 2>it's a and yes. So I am very happy, very

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<v Speaker 2>very happy right now. And I mean I can't stop

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<v Speaker 2>talking because I have energy now like in the past

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<v Speaker 2>to be like Tiffany, can we stop the show at

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<v Speaker 2>forty minutes? Because I can't. I can't go on any longer.

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:16.359
<v Speaker 3>But you know what, because how old is Rio now?

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<v Speaker 2>He's four and a half months.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, every new mom that I know will say, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, until about four months, you're like, who am I?

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:30.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm in the desert alone, So that sounds about right

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<v Speaker 3>that about three or four months you start to see

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<v Speaker 3>your way out. You're like, Okay, I'm wandering out of

0:36:34.840 --> 0:36:35.600
<v Speaker 3>the wilderness.

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:38.239
<v Speaker 2>So they might stop wearing maternity tights because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to, but they comfy, but they have like holes

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<v Speaker 2>in them, so I might like actually shop and get

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:44.280
<v Speaker 2>some new clothes. This steels good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's awesome. And he is so adorable. I'm like,

0:36:46.880 --> 0:36:49.120
<v Speaker 3>how is it possible? He's getting cutter every day whenever

0:36:49.120 --> 0:36:51.160
<v Speaker 3>you post him. And poor Molly. I was like, if

0:36:51.200 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 3>you don't leave my friend alone, she didn't mean to

0:36:52.680 --> 0:36:55.120
<v Speaker 3>do that to that basket. If you don't follow up

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:57.279
<v Speaker 3>Mandy on ig, you need to. I just be all

0:36:57.320 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 3>in it, like, leave my Molly alone.

0:36:59.040 --> 0:37:03.160
<v Speaker 2>She didn't mean it. Mollie is so confused. I think

0:37:03.200 --> 0:37:05.319
<v Speaker 2>all the pets are like, why are you home? What's

0:37:05.360 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 2>going on? Where's my mean time? Everyone's on the couch,

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:10.680
<v Speaker 2>there's a spot for me. And this baby is crying

0:37:10.719 --> 0:37:12.880
<v Speaker 2>all day? Can you guys go back to work? What's happening?

0:37:13.000 --> 0:37:15.080
<v Speaker 2>Mollie is definitely feeling the anxiety.

0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, her little face too. She looks so guilty.

0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:20.520
<v Speaker 3>She was like, and then I had enough to pick

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:21.840
<v Speaker 3>it back up, like ooh thanks.

0:37:21.760 --> 0:37:25.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when we catch her. It's so funny. She never choose,

0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:28.040
<v Speaker 2>but she's only started to chew on random things, like recently,

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 2>she loves to chew on toys, but not anything else.

0:37:30.200 --> 0:37:32.919
<v Speaker 2>I thought I was always so lucky, but when we do.

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<v Speaker 2>The rare occasion find she's chewed something.

0:37:35.480 --> 0:37:37.200
<v Speaker 3>She is so funny and.

0:37:37.040 --> 0:37:39.520
<v Speaker 2>How she reacts and she'll growl at you like she's like,

0:37:39.960 --> 0:37:41.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, like I could just hear her being like,

0:37:41.600 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm really really sorry, and also get out of my face.

0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:50.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh yeah. So there's light. There's little little delights

0:37:50.280 --> 0:37:51.480
<v Speaker 3>like that that we have to lean into.

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:54.719
<v Speaker 2>Have to laugh, laugh, laugh, laugh at anything that makes

0:37:54.760 --> 0:37:57.759
<v Speaker 2>you laugh. Just whatever. Don't know, there's nothing to feel

0:37:57.760 --> 0:37:59.960
<v Speaker 2>guilty about these days. Do whatever you can to survive

0:38:00.040 --> 0:38:02.719
<v Speaker 2>ive and to feel good, you know, as long as

0:38:02.760 --> 0:38:07.759
<v Speaker 2>it's legal. Don't come and say, Brandon Bischen told me

0:38:07.920 --> 0:38:11.959
<v Speaker 2>to go rob a liquor store because I wanted something.

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<v Speaker 2>It felt really good. All right, Well, take care, Tiff,

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<v Speaker 2>be well, are you too?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>See y'all next week