WEBVTT - BA Q&A: How Will I Make Money?

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<v Speaker 1>It's time for the b a qa a to b

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<v Speaker 1>ain't no man day, but the b a q a

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<v Speaker 1>is tipping. M Okay, the b a q aa me

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<v Speaker 1>and my high pony wearing my five dollar shirt that

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<v Speaker 1>says black and beautiful because what I'm belth get you

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who could do beth. So I'm going to do

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<v Speaker 1>this b a qa by myself and my lonely. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a money question and then I also have a

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<v Speaker 1>business question. I'm just trying to make sure my hyghe pone.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like the pony's not giving what I

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<v Speaker 1>want to give. Anyway, We're gonna focus. Okay. I have

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<v Speaker 1>therapy today, so I'm feeling very zen. Okay, do you

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<v Speaker 1>guys go to therapy. I feel like if you're black,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to. I feel like everyone needs therapy, but

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<v Speaker 1>especially black and brown people. My therapist is awesome, Doctor Green,

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<v Speaker 1>She's awesome. I recommend therapy because it will help if

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<v Speaker 1>you are one place. Therapy is like mentorship, right or

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, being like a having a teacher, because

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<v Speaker 1>it will help you get to from the place you

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<v Speaker 1>are to the place you want to be. In a

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<v Speaker 1>more concise way because oftentimes I've done a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>self work. Like many of you listening, I'm sure you've

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<v Speaker 1>done a lot of self work, but I cannot tell

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<v Speaker 1>you how much faster I've been able to get to

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<v Speaker 1>some of my internal mental emotional goals as a result

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<v Speaker 1>of therapy that maybe it would have taken me years

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of figure out on my own, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying and failing, trying and failing, and so a

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<v Speaker 1>really good therapist helps to give you shortcuts to the

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<v Speaker 1>place that you want to be internally, and it's top tier, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>top tier. I could not have made it through grief

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<v Speaker 1>without therapy, and there's just other things I've worked on.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm just a I don't even recognize the

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<v Speaker 1>person that I am. I mean outside of the grief.

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing therapy before that. And so I just

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<v Speaker 1>recommend this. You know, this not be a key, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is really because it's like it's a question some

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<v Speaker 1>of you guys ask me sometimes, and I just highly,

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<v Speaker 1>highly highly recommend it. You might have to go through

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<v Speaker 1>a few therapists before you find the right one. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to feel super comfortable, you want to not feel

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<v Speaker 1>I'm judged or afraid. You get to decide. Like for

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<v Speaker 1>some people, let's just say you didn't have a mother figure,

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<v Speaker 1>so you might want a therapist that kind of fulfills

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<v Speaker 1>that energy for you. You know, for me, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of wanted a therapist. I specifically wanted a black woman

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<v Speaker 1>who was around my age because I needed like a

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<v Speaker 1>homegirl esque feel when talking to my therapist. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the energy that I needed for where I am

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. Now. I know a friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>his dad is not super present, and he needed He

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<v Speaker 1>loves the fact that his therapist is an older black man.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend is a young black man, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, because it kind of is like I get

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<v Speaker 1>to lean into that component that I've been missing. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I just say all that to say, get you some

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<v Speaker 1>therapy groom, right Doctor Joy, who we've had on the

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<v Speaker 1>show before. Oh you guys have heard of her on

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<v Speaker 1>the show before. She has a book called out called

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<v Speaker 1>Supporting Your Sisters. I believe, hey, doctor Joy, but doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Joy also is the founder of Blackgirltherapy dot com. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe you have to be just a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, and it's full of therapists who were

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<v Speaker 1>both men and women. So it's just a great place

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<v Speaker 1>to start if you're looking, all right, if you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>for love, I see what eve seen. All right, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start with a money question. Then we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>a business question. Okay, okay, all right. So this question

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<v Speaker 1>came in from the emails, Hi ladies. It was just me, Hey, ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>why is it you can't go? I'll be cutting up

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<v Speaker 1>my man, he's not here. I started listening to your

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<v Speaker 1>podcast late last year and I find it very informative. Thanks. Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I turned fifty years old last December twenty twenty. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a single mom of a seven year old daughter. Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a late bloomer and a sole financial provider. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you had your baby when you were forty three,

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<v Speaker 1>which you know. Oh girl, that's cute, because I'm forty three. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for ideas and best options to optimize, slash

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<v Speaker 1>invest the excess income from my regular job to generate

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<v Speaker 1>passive income that can help boost my retirement income. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So she has job, she has excess income left over

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<v Speaker 1>after paying bills and everything else, and she wants it

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<v Speaker 1>to She wants her money to make money, so that

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<v Speaker 1>way she can be ready for retirement. Got you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking to retire at about twenty I mean at about

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<v Speaker 1>sixty two slash sixty three years old, okay, when my

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<v Speaker 1>daughter finishes high school. That's cute, love that. But I

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<v Speaker 1>would work a part time for benefits until social Security

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<v Speaker 1>if there is any to get and Medicare kicks in.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what Barista fire, but I know what

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<v Speaker 1>fire stands or fire stands for financial independence retire early,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know what Barista fire is, if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being honest. That's what she wrote here. So she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to retire early because typically retirement age starts about sixty five.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to retire early, but she might work a

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<v Speaker 1>little part time, you know, in the meantime untwil you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so she can have her benefits. I'm assuming wherever you work,

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<v Speaker 1>you won't be able to take your benefits with you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she says, I own my own house outright, yes, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>So I only pay taxes, insurance, and HOA utilities monthly. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no debt, yes, queen, I stand you. My

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<v Speaker 1>retirement account is decent and I contribute about sixteen percent

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<v Speaker 1>of my salary, but not at the catchup max contribution limit. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So just so you know, I believe if you oh

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<v Speaker 1>my goodness, let's see. Let me remind myself, when can

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<v Speaker 1>you start doing retirement catch up? Because you know my memory,

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<v Speaker 1>there is catch up age you can start, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>catch up contributions. You can start doing ketchup contributions when

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<v Speaker 1>you're fifty. That just me. And there is typically a

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<v Speaker 1>max that you can contribute to a retirement account like

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<v Speaker 1>an individual retirement account or a Wroth individual retirement account.

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<v Speaker 1>So these are just retirement accounts that you have, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So there are limits. So let's just say the limit

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<v Speaker 1>is normally six thousand dollars for the catchup contribution. It

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<v Speaker 1>might be actually, let's not even guess. Let's look at

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<v Speaker 1>what it currently is right right about knee, how about now,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm up right now? Okay. So so for example,

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<v Speaker 1>for an IRA contribution for those fifty and older, it's

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<v Speaker 1>seventy five hundred dollars, which is an additional thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Because for everybody else like me, I'm forty three, I

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<v Speaker 1>can max out in my IRA, my individual retirement account.

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<v Speaker 1>I can max out at sixty five hundred dollars a year,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you're fifty and above, you can put seventy

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred. They do that because they know some people

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<v Speaker 1>have not might be behind and setting aside for retirement,

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<v Speaker 1>and so they're letting you add additional thousand dollars a year.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what she's saying. She's not maxing out at

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<v Speaker 1>her she's not doing the full catchup contribution. She's not

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<v Speaker 1>doing the seventy five hundred just yet, but she is

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<v Speaker 1>maxing out on her HSA that's a health savings account,

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<v Speaker 1>and she started a WROTH in twenty twenty one, but

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<v Speaker 1>she's leary. A WROTH is another retirement account, type of

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<v Speaker 1>retirement account, but she's leary of losing money in stocks

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<v Speaker 1>outside of her four one K, so she's only putting

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<v Speaker 1>about half the annual max. She also has a five

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<v Speaker 1>to twenty nine plan that's a college fund that you

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<v Speaker 1>can set aside, and there are tax benefits to that

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<v Speaker 1>for her daughter. And her emergency fund is six months.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that six months? In about eight to nine months?

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<v Speaker 1>If she goes on a noodle budget, girl, you are

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<v Speaker 1>just so you have an emergency fund of six months,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you noodle budget, it's really like eight to

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<v Speaker 1>nine months. I mean, are you my bestie? I feel

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<v Speaker 1>I could be doing more, but I'm not sure what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to strangle you because you're doing all the

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<v Speaker 1>things well. I do have some suggestions. Is this the

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<v Speaker 1>time that I should probably sit with a financial plan

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<v Speaker 1>or a financial advisor? And which would you recommend? And why?

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for your time, thankful South Florida listener. So, as

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<v Speaker 1>a recap, we had this amazing fifty year old woman

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<v Speaker 1>who has daughter who's seven. She wants to retire about

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<v Speaker 1>the time that her daughter hits high school, which is

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<v Speaker 1>in about twelve years. But this woman does not have

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<v Speaker 1>any debt. She does own her own house, so she

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<v Speaker 1>has to pay the carrying cost, insurance taxes, and things

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<v Speaker 1>like that. She is contributing to her retirement fund through

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<v Speaker 1>her four oh one K as well as a roth ira,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a retirement account that you can do outside

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<v Speaker 1>of your job. She's not maxing out either one of those.

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<v Speaker 1>She has a five twenty nine plan for her daughter

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<v Speaker 1>which is a college tax beneficial college savings plan, and

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<v Speaker 1>she has emergency funds of six months and eight to

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<v Speaker 1>nine months if she had to get down to get

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<v Speaker 1>her noodle lawn. So, first things first, I pop up anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>First things first, what I would say, Florida, South Florida

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<v Speaker 1>listener is you're doing amazing, amazing, amazing. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>you for a moment to look into the mirror and say,

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<v Speaker 1>I am freaking doing amazing. You are at your debt free,

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<v Speaker 1>you own your home, you're contributing to retirement accounts, you're

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<v Speaker 1>contributing to a college from, you have emergency saving. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what a noodle budget. Girl, I need you to

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<v Speaker 1>pause for the cause. Breathe in, breathe out. I'm awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm awesome. I need you to say that because this

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing. This is goals. Now. I do see some

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<v Speaker 1>places where before you start thinking about some other place,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's saying she's basically wants to know they're like

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<v Speaker 1>there other ways that she can kind of like make

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<v Speaker 1>her money work for her. And this is what I say.

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<v Speaker 1>One you did say you're contributing sixteen percent of your

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<v Speaker 1>salary to your retirement account, but you're not quite up

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<v Speaker 1>to the catch up contribution amount. I say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have extra money, consider putting more in your

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<v Speaker 1>four one K if you're allowed to, because you know

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't quite put the seven you know, seventy five hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a place where you can put extra money if

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<v Speaker 1>you have extra money. Another thing that you mentioned is

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<v Speaker 1>that you started a wrath and I know you're a

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<v Speaker 1>leery of losing money in stocks, but you have over

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<v Speaker 1>ten years before you are set to retire or you

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<v Speaker 1>desire to retire, and so typically within ten years, ten

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<v Speaker 1>to thirteen years is a whole how we see thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>go down and up and down up, so you have

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<v Speaker 1>time to rebound. So you might want to consider maxing

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<v Speaker 1>out your raw ira as well. So like maxing out

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<v Speaker 1>your four one K and maxing out your raw ira,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, those are two places that you can put

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<v Speaker 1>extra money. Because the thing is this the benefit of

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<v Speaker 1>a four one K. They both give you tax benefits,

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<v Speaker 1>but two different sides of the tax game. Follow with me.

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<v Speaker 1>The benefit of a four to one K is that currently,

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<v Speaker 1>right now, it will lower your tax burden. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>just pretend that South Florida listener makes one hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars year, right and of the one hundred thousand she puts,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know I'm just making up the number five

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<v Speaker 1>thousand into her her four one k. The government says, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't make a hundred thousand. You made one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>thousand minus the five that you put up for retirement.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna charge you taxes not on one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>but on the ninety five. So you get your tax

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<v Speaker 1>benefits up front with a four to one k. Yay,

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<v Speaker 1>and lower our taxes. We like that. That's cute, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when you go to retire and you start

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<v Speaker 1>to pull money out, you pay taxes on the back end,

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<v Speaker 1>so you save on tax on the front end, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you pay taxes on the back end. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>benefit of a four to one k front end savings leaning. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the benefits of a rawrray is that a raw irray

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<v Speaker 1>is different in that it is money that you put

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<v Speaker 1>into a retirement account after you pay your taxes. So

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<v Speaker 1>you get your one hundred thousand dollars, you get you

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<v Speaker 1>paid one hundred thousand dollars a year, but not really

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<v Speaker 1>when it's all said and done, maybe you get seventy

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<v Speaker 1>right after taxes and everything else. Right, So from that month,

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<v Speaker 1>money you set aside and you put it in your

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<v Speaker 1>wrath IRA. Maybe you put you know, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>three thousand dollars into your raw IRA, so the money

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<v Speaker 1>has been taxed. They done got their money, because this

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<v Speaker 1>is money that you're putting into this retirement account after

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<v Speaker 1>from your take home paycheck. So but when you go

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<v Speaker 1>to pull that three thousand dollars out that you've been

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<v Speaker 1>putting every single year, when you go to pull it out,

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<v Speaker 1>that money most likely has grown, so you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to pay taxes on the money you already pay taxes on,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't have to pay taxes on the growth.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like am So what you will hear many

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<v Speaker 1>financial advisors say is that, like, you want to have

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<v Speaker 1>a retirement strategy that allows you one to take advantage

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<v Speaker 1>of paying lower taxes now through your four one K

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<v Speaker 1>and then paying lower taxes later through your raw IRA,

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<v Speaker 1>And you're doing both, but you haven't maximized both. So

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<v Speaker 1>that might be something that you want to look into

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<v Speaker 1>maximizing both if you have extra, okay, and so like

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<v Speaker 1>other than that, honestly, it sounds like you're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>amazing you know, like it does. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>there are so there is a point where I was

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<v Speaker 1>here South Florida listener where I was doing all the things.

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<v Speaker 1>I was maxed out on all things, and I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of had gotten myself to as good as I knew

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<v Speaker 1>how to get myself. I didn't have any dead you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I owned a home, all the things, just like you.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is when I reached out to a financial

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<v Speaker 1>advisor and I said, I've done this. I've taken myself

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<v Speaker 1>as far as I can take myself, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm solid, But can I do even better? And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I sat with my financial advisor, Anjulie, and she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of walked me through other things, like, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a seven year old what is your life

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<v Speaker 1>insurance looking like? You know, do you have a policy

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<v Speaker 1>that will be able to look after her? God forbid,

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<v Speaker 1>something should happen to you, you know, like have you

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<v Speaker 1>done estate planning so you won't be here forever? Just

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<v Speaker 1>because that's the nature of being a human being, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So how do you want Like so, for example, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a trust, and my trust dictates how my nieces

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<v Speaker 1>and nephew and my stepdaughter will receive the funds that

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<v Speaker 1>I've left behind for them over a period of like

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<v Speaker 1>between now and Today's thirty. You know, like do you

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<v Speaker 1>want that for your daughter? So a financial advisor, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>or well, really you want to Certified Financial Planner c FP,

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<v Speaker 1>South Florida Listener. That is the gold standard of financial advisors.

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<v Speaker 1>Almost anyone can be a financial advisor, but a CFP,

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<v Speaker 1>a certified financial planner, they have to take tests, they

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<v Speaker 1>have to you know, they got to they have to

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<v Speaker 1>like keep their license up. They also have to be

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<v Speaker 1>a fiduciary, which means by law, they got to put

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<v Speaker 1>you first. They got to put me first. Solutions, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta put me first. Okay, So there's not like a

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<v Speaker 1>I can't say, oh, I'm gonna recommend Like obviously I

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<v Speaker 1>love Angelie, but I don't even know if she's taking

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<v Speaker 1>on clients right now. But so it's not like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to recommend this particular financial planner. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to interview some You're actually gonna go to Get

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<v Speaker 1>Good with Money dot Com because I have a tool

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<v Speaker 1>that you're gonna use, you South Florida Listener or anybody

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<v Speaker 1>else's listening, not Hustle Magazine. What is going on? Get oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you type in get Good Money dot Com. It takes

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<v Speaker 1>you a hustle magazine. Ell get Good Money Hustle Mama magazine.

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<v Speaker 1>That's hilarious. Anyway, you're going to get good with Money

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. And there's a little green button at the

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<v Speaker 1>top that says get the GGWM Get Good Money toolkits.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna click on that, not the book club kit,

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<v Speaker 1>although you can get that if you want it, but

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<v Speaker 1>you here for the toolkit. Okay? Do you gonna put

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<v Speaker 1>your name and email in? The toolkit? Is gonna pop

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<v Speaker 1>up automatically on whatever on Kai. And then what you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do is you're gonna scroll down to chapter down

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<v Speaker 1>down down down dun d d d D. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>scrow down the chapter. I believe it's chapter nine. Yes, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna it's gonna be me. What did I do? Check? Okay? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna financial professional Okay. You're going to scroll down

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<v Speaker 1>to chapter ten, a ninety percent hole pick your money team, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're going to click the first link, which is

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<v Speaker 1>my sole called Financial Life Template. It's just a free

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<v Speaker 1>template that I created that I could share with potential

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<v Speaker 1>certified financial planners before interviewing them. That's literally what it says.

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<v Speaker 1>It says my sole called financial life template. Use this

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<v Speaker 1>template to create your own and share it with potential

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<v Speaker 1>certified financial planners before interviewing them. Click, you're gonna click,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's going to open to a Google doc for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And here is what you're gonna fill out before you

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<v Speaker 1>even start interviewing financial planners. Okay, and so this is

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna be really helpful because it's really helpful to

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<v Speaker 1>find a planner. When you share this with a planner,

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<v Speaker 1>you can share before even get involved with them, because

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<v Speaker 1>they'll be able to say, oh, actually I don't some

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<v Speaker 1>planner as specialize in helping divorce women or families or

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<v Speaker 1>millennials or whatever. So I love this template because I

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<v Speaker 1>used it. I must have sent it out to thirty

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<v Speaker 1>financial advisors and I only interviewed twelve of them because

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<v Speaker 1>the other ones were like, oh, no, you're actually not

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<v Speaker 1>a fit. So instead of me getting on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>I just sent them this said, hey, my friend suggested

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<v Speaker 1>you here's my financial life in a nutshell. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that I'm a fit? And they got to vet themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>So one you're gonna do that first okay, and then

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<v Speaker 1>fool okay after you do the end. You will see

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<v Speaker 1>also under chapter ten of this toolkit, the third bullet

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<v Speaker 1>says financial advisor search sites. And there's some search sites.

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<v Speaker 1>There's three of them that have on here right, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you can click on any one of them and

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<v Speaker 1>start to search for a financial advisor in your area. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking for a certified financial planner, and you want

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<v Speaker 1>fee only. You don't want to pay someone based upon

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<v Speaker 1>the percentage of money they have invested, because that gets

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<v Speaker 1>to be very, very very expensive. Want to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to pay out a pocket. Some places you can just

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<v Speaker 1>pay for the conversation for the you know, sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>can pay for annually for the year. So if it

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<v Speaker 1>was me South Florida listener, I don't know that I

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<v Speaker 1>would sign up for somebody to work with them for

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<v Speaker 1>the whole year. You might not need to do all that.

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<v Speaker 1>You might just need to sit with someone, pay for

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<v Speaker 1>two hours or three hours of their time and say

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<v Speaker 1>here is my my you know, my soul called financial life,

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<v Speaker 1>which is basically what you just did in this email,

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<v Speaker 1>and here's where i'd like to be. What are some

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<v Speaker 1>suggestions that what I should do? You know, and they

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<v Speaker 1>can just make those suggestions. You could do them to yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you find that there are heavier lift than

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<v Speaker 1>you think, then you maybe you can hire them to

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<v Speaker 1>help you do that. Does that make sense? Okay? And right,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna wrap up and do your homework again. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna go again to get good with money dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>That is, I wrote a New York Times best selling book. YadA, YadA, YadA.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's a free toolkit there that you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get instant access to. You can scroll to chapter ten.

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<v Speaker 1>First bullet, download that life template. Anybody could do this.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like for everyone listening, right, fill that out.

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<v Speaker 1>Third bullet. Start using these sites to find a financial advisor.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you see when you're interested in and you

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<v Speaker 1>can ask family and friends before you get on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>so you don't waste their time in yours. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>send them your my so called financial life temple that

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<v Speaker 1>you fill down and let them, you know, let them

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<v Speaker 1>decide whether you're a fit or not, and then start

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<v Speaker 1>to interview them. Okay, again, certify financial planners only, fee

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<v Speaker 1>only kind. There's also a ton of resources here that

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<v Speaker 1>are all free. Well, yeah, for the most part. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean some of these are like book suggestions, so

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<v Speaker 1>maybe those are not free, but you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Like my stuff Inta is free. Okay, Okay, wasn't that

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<v Speaker 1>good or whatever? It was? All right, We're gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>a break, a pause for the calls, a post for

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<v Speaker 1>the calls, and ate a pose for the calls. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take a cause for the cause. That was a

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<v Speaker 1>great letter. Honestly, I love when you know we have

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<v Speaker 1>it all together, you know, and I love the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you're reaching and wanted to do better and more.

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<v Speaker 1>But I I just hope you patch yourself on the back.

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing incredible in Clintee Black. Hey, all right, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be back in a moment. And I'm back and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>black and I'm brown ambition. Shit, I'm back and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>black and I'm brown ambition. I'm black and I'm black

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm brown ambition. Don't you wish we could be friends? Hey? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we are back for question new it all dose? Sidebar?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you guys do? Like? I? You know, round

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<v Speaker 1>these parks. I don't celebrate the fourth because when the

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<v Speaker 1>fourth of July was conceived, my people who are still

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<v Speaker 1>in slang fery. Okay, but I do enjoy that day

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<v Speaker 1>off to do whatever the hell I want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And we went to the shore. I rented a shorehouse

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<v Speaker 1>and have my family and friends come on through, which

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty awesome. This is my third year in the

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<v Speaker 1>road doing it. You know what I really love about kids.

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<v Speaker 1>They will have doing things that you won't do for yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>but you absolutely will do for them. Right. So I

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<v Speaker 1>started to do the short house because Mimimi and my

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<v Speaker 1>row Row, my sister's two kids that live closest to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I gotta shout out Lily, that's my other niece.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not booboo too, she just lives in Chicago, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see her as regularly. But my Mimi and

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<v Speaker 1>my row Row, well, like Auntie, I've never been to

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<v Speaker 1>a beach, but I saw it on YouTube Can we go?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, not only could we go, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna run a house. And I did like two years

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<v Speaker 1>ago or three years ago or whenever before COVID, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they enjoyed it so much. They were like, ooh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go back to your beach house. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not my house. They're like girls semantics whenever you're

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<v Speaker 1>going back. And so last year we went again, and

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<v Speaker 1>then this year we went again, and it was so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun and it was like such a blessing, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>to be surrounded. That's one of the things I learned

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<v Speaker 1>in therapy. Like my my doctor Green always reminds me.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, Tiffany, you are extremely bused. I am. I

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<v Speaker 1>am inundated with love. I mean between y'all, because y'all

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<v Speaker 1>will be low on me hard. Okay. I can't even

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<v Speaker 1>step out these streets without a black woman coming up

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<v Speaker 1>to me and pouring good thoughts and love and kindness

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<v Speaker 1>into me, you know. And then I have amazing family,

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<v Speaker 1>and even you know, I want even more amazing but

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<v Speaker 1>amazing friends, you know, and then like I have y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when I was at the beach House June

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<v Speaker 1>twenty eighth, is my was my sixth wedding anniversary, it

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<v Speaker 1>would have been well, I guess you can still say,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know child. So this is my second one

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<v Speaker 1>without Darrell. And so the first year I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be with anybody like I had rented like a

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<v Speaker 1>house in upstate New York. So I can scream and

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<v Speaker 1>cry by myself, which I did, and this time I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be surrounded by love and I was even

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<v Speaker 1>even my bonus baby she was there, which is so

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<v Speaker 1>nice because you know, she's sixteen, so child. She act

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<v Speaker 1>like she didn't want to do nothing, but last minute

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, I think I'm gonna gal. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>for reals, she came and she had a really good

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<v Speaker 1>time too, So it was nice to be surrounded. But

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<v Speaker 1>I live, so yeah, I just was just sharing like

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<v Speaker 1>what my you know what my fourth of July or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen days after the Juneteenth as we call around these

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<v Speaker 1>parts look like. But I hope you know you are

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<v Speaker 1>also surrounded by love, you know, because the crazy thing

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<v Speaker 1>about loss of loss of life is life still goes on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the weirdest thing, you know, because you're like, wait,

0:23:23.840 --> 0:23:26.400
<v Speaker 1>how come everything has not paused? How come the world

0:23:26.480 --> 0:23:30.040
<v Speaker 1>has not paused? The world doesn't pause, so life can

0:23:30.080 --> 0:23:32.640
<v Speaker 1>be lost and life still goes on at the same time,

0:23:32.720 --> 0:23:38.879
<v Speaker 1>and it is the trippiest, hardest, most just craziest like

0:23:39.080 --> 0:23:41.720
<v Speaker 1>ride to go on. Some days I'm okay, some days

0:23:41.760 --> 0:23:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm not okay. But I know one of the things

0:23:43.800 --> 0:23:46.320
<v Speaker 1>I talk about the grief so much with y'all is

0:23:46.320 --> 0:23:47.960
<v Speaker 1>because so many of you come up to me and

0:23:47.960 --> 0:23:51.480
<v Speaker 1>tell me how you lost, like your own partner or

0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:53.639
<v Speaker 1>your child, or your mom or your dad or your

0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:58.000
<v Speaker 1>aunt or whoever you love so deeply and dearly, and

0:23:58.040 --> 0:24:00.879
<v Speaker 1>you say you just appreciate hearing the ups and the downs,

0:24:00.880 --> 0:24:03.240
<v Speaker 1>and you know, like the truth of what grief looks

0:24:03.280 --> 0:24:06.520
<v Speaker 1>like here to like not make it this hidden dark secret.

0:24:06.640 --> 0:24:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Like no, you know, if you are fortunate enough not

0:24:10.160 --> 0:24:16.480
<v Speaker 1>to have have gone through an extreme loss, then you

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:20.120
<v Speaker 1>know you're really fortunate because it shifts you at the

0:24:20.119 --> 0:24:23.480
<v Speaker 1>most cellular level. You are no longer the same, you know,

0:24:23.560 --> 0:24:27.240
<v Speaker 1>and all you can hope is that somehow you can

0:24:27.320 --> 0:24:30.000
<v Speaker 1>see yourself through, although you carry that thing with you forever,

0:24:30.160 --> 0:24:32.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, Like, I don't care how many years have passed.

0:24:33.320 --> 0:24:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't care how many years have passed. Whenever I

0:24:35.560 --> 0:24:36.879
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to someone the other day, we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about business, and he kind of casually mentioned like, oh, yeah,

0:24:39.960 --> 0:24:42.080
<v Speaker 1>nine years ago, you know, that's when my son was

0:24:42.119 --> 0:24:46.760
<v Speaker 1>tragically murdered. And I was like what what? I was like,

0:24:46.800 --> 0:24:50.159
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, And he was taken by surprise and

0:24:50.200 --> 0:24:51.440
<v Speaker 1>I told him. I was like, you know, I lost

0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:53.840
<v Speaker 1>my husband less than two years ago. He was like yeah,

0:24:54.440 --> 0:24:56.440
<v Speaker 1>And we're both really quiet on the phone for a while,

0:24:56.520 --> 0:24:59.719
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I know people might tell you

0:24:59.760 --> 0:25:02.520
<v Speaker 1>spend nine year. It hasn't like nine minutes, right, He

0:25:02.640 --> 0:25:06.879
<v Speaker 1>was like yeah, And so you know, I like to

0:25:06.920 --> 0:25:09.960
<v Speaker 1>take a pause to honor the fact that I don't

0:25:09.960 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 1>care if it's been nineteen years, ninety years, or nine minutes.

0:25:13.560 --> 0:25:16.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, a loss's loss is loss, So you know

0:25:17.080 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 1>you are allowed to feel that and lean into it

0:25:20.400 --> 0:25:23.040
<v Speaker 1>like a wave. That's what doctor Green teaches me that grief. Once.

0:25:23.080 --> 0:25:26.359
<v Speaker 1>She taught me that that worked so well that sometimes

0:25:26.359 --> 0:25:28.520
<v Speaker 1>in the beginning, girl, you just drowning. Go ahead and drown.

0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:30.320
<v Speaker 1>Just make sure people around you can catch you, because

0:25:30.480 --> 0:25:35.600
<v Speaker 1>what you're gonna do. But over time I learned that

0:25:35.720 --> 0:25:39.280
<v Speaker 1>sometimes the wave that normally would drown me in the

0:25:39.400 --> 0:25:42.600
<v Speaker 1>very beginning, I was bracing as if it was gonna

0:25:42.640 --> 0:25:44.600
<v Speaker 1>drown me. But she's like, if you just waited out,

0:25:44.680 --> 0:25:46.760
<v Speaker 1>you find that the wave actually just hit your ankles

0:25:47.240 --> 0:25:49.439
<v Speaker 1>and then goes back into the ocean and then get

0:25:49.480 --> 0:25:51.119
<v Speaker 1>your knees and go back into you. Like if you

0:25:51.280 --> 0:25:54.160
<v Speaker 1>just waited out that not every wave knocks you out,

0:25:54.280 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 1>and so once I literally started to visually imagine when

0:25:57.359 --> 0:26:00.679
<v Speaker 1>the wave of emotion and sadness come over me, I

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:03.720
<v Speaker 1>would visually imagine it like standing at the edge of

0:26:03.720 --> 0:26:07.000
<v Speaker 1>the ocean at the shore or Florida or wherever, and

0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:09.520
<v Speaker 1>then realizing, oh, this is just a temporary this is

0:26:09.560 --> 0:26:11.760
<v Speaker 1>not this is not a tsunami. This is actually not

0:26:11.760 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna knock me out. I just have to wait it out.

0:26:14.400 --> 0:26:17.800
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's moments, sometimes it's you know, minutes, sometimes a seconds.

0:26:17.800 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>I can little be brushing my teeth and just start

0:26:19.600 --> 0:26:22.399
<v Speaker 1>hysterically crying and I'm like a cry, go ahead, and

0:26:22.440 --> 0:26:24.160
<v Speaker 1>then the wave will wash over me and then I'll

0:26:24.200 --> 0:26:27.359
<v Speaker 1>go back into the sea. And that has helped tremendously.

0:26:28.040 --> 0:26:30.600
<v Speaker 1>So it's not fighting against it. It's like the wave

0:26:30.640 --> 0:26:33.560
<v Speaker 1>is gonna wave either way. Just be still in the moment.

0:26:33.640 --> 0:26:37.359
<v Speaker 1>So I hope that helps you. So I know that

0:26:37.359 --> 0:26:39.840
<v Speaker 1>seems random, but it's not random, because I was talking

0:26:39.840 --> 0:26:43.000
<v Speaker 1>to one of my mentees today that recently just lost

0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:46.800
<v Speaker 1>his grandmother a couple of days ago, So it just

0:26:46.840 --> 0:26:50.720
<v Speaker 1>had me thinking about grief all over again. And he

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:53.360
<v Speaker 1>has been in business for a couple of years and

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:58.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, he's been having a hard time, and he

0:26:58.440 --> 0:27:02.520
<v Speaker 1>was just asking, like, how do you just even start, Tiffany,

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:04.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, like he's it's been like I think, like

0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:07.000
<v Speaker 1>five years. He's made a little money here there, you know,

0:27:07.080 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 1>and it's like not from this big budget niece to

0:27:10.880 --> 0:27:13.119
<v Speaker 1>space where like I have an access and knowledge that

0:27:13.160 --> 0:27:14.919
<v Speaker 1>d da, d DA, how do you just start? And

0:27:14.960 --> 0:27:17.680
<v Speaker 1>so me answering the question for him. And it's funny

0:27:17.720 --> 0:27:19.520
<v Speaker 1>because he called me and then I have another mentee

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:21.520
<v Speaker 1>who has like a business that you probably know if

0:27:21.560 --> 0:27:23.479
<v Speaker 1>I say it, but still he was kind of struggling too.

0:27:24.240 --> 0:27:26.119
<v Speaker 1>He has a business with his wife, and I was like,

0:27:26.160 --> 0:27:27.800
<v Speaker 1>I know his wife for a long time, and we

0:27:27.800 --> 0:27:29.399
<v Speaker 1>were talking on the phone for like an hour, and

0:27:29.440 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I was just kind of pouring into him, and I thought,

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 1>this is going to be a good question to answer,

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:41.760
<v Speaker 1>like how how do you how do you start? You know,

0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:45.439
<v Speaker 1>how do you start to walk towards success in business?

0:27:45.480 --> 0:27:49.480
<v Speaker 1>And what both of them, they both have businesses that

0:27:49.840 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 1>very much are good for the community, you know, like

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:56.880
<v Speaker 1>it's good for our community, Like these are black centric

0:27:57.040 --> 0:28:01.600
<v Speaker 1>focused businesses that are meant to uplift and uphold and

0:28:01.800 --> 0:28:06.600
<v Speaker 1>enhance and empower our communities. And so they've been doing

0:28:06.680 --> 0:28:10.119
<v Speaker 1>that work for a number of years and they're like,

0:28:10.160 --> 0:28:13.880
<v Speaker 1>but I'm not making sustainable money. And this lesson took

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:16.760
<v Speaker 1>me a long time to learn. But you've been a

0:28:16.880 --> 0:28:19.399
<v Speaker 1>learner to day. You can't go get you a notebook,

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 1>Go get you a notebook. So here's a lesson I

0:28:23.920 --> 0:28:27.600
<v Speaker 1>had to learn because I too have a community based business,

0:28:28.359 --> 0:28:32.159
<v Speaker 1>that doing a good job with the community side is

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<v Speaker 1>not the same thing as making money. I know. It's like, what, Okay,

0:28:38.600 --> 0:28:42.120
<v Speaker 1>you have to have an impact plan if that's what

0:28:42.160 --> 0:28:49.640
<v Speaker 1>you's so desire, and then a separate income plan. Many

0:28:49.680 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 1>of us who start businesses to be of service to

0:28:52.040 --> 0:28:54.520
<v Speaker 1>our people, we already have the impact plan. We know

0:28:54.560 --> 0:28:56.880
<v Speaker 1>it's built into our DNA or you out here to help,

0:28:57.840 --> 0:29:00.360
<v Speaker 1>right And then like, and I know, you know. It

0:29:00.400 --> 0:29:03.880
<v Speaker 1>took me four or five years of perfecting my impact

0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:07.400
<v Speaker 1>plan and wondering why I was still broke before I

0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:10.680
<v Speaker 1>realized I don't actually have a plan to make money.

0:29:10.880 --> 0:29:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I just assume if I make the bigger the impact

0:29:14.320 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 1>money would come. Is say, lie, maybe every once in

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:19.240
<v Speaker 1>a while you get a little lucky. You almost say

0:29:19.240 --> 0:29:22.480
<v Speaker 1>you hit a lack. But the truth of the matter

0:29:22.560 --> 0:29:25.280
<v Speaker 1>is that's not actually how it works. Like, that's really

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:27.240
<v Speaker 1>actually not how it works. That like you have to

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<v Speaker 1>have a separate income plan. Here's a crazy thing. You

0:29:32.160 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 1>can have major impact make no money. You can have

0:29:36.040 --> 0:29:38.280
<v Speaker 1>all this income and not have impact on people in

0:29:38.280 --> 0:29:40.840
<v Speaker 1>a positive way. That's the crazy part. Like you could

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:42.400
<v Speaker 1>if you could literally just have an income plan and

0:29:42.480 --> 0:29:44.720
<v Speaker 1>have a successful business. But how you want to sleep

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 1>at night? Because I sleep good, So I like to

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:50.680
<v Speaker 1>have an impact and an income plan. Okay, Now how

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>you and yours do in your household, that's up to you.

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:55.840
<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying is is that you always have

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<v Speaker 1>to have an income plan. How will I make money

0:30:00.800 --> 0:30:04.400
<v Speaker 1>separate from the impact? How will I make money? And

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<v Speaker 1>so I started once I realized that, I started to

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<v Speaker 1>really look at I'm like, wow, all the things I'm

0:30:08.640 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 1>doing to create impact, none of these things make me money.

0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:15.040
<v Speaker 1>And if I'm being honest, the budget NISA, which is

0:30:15.040 --> 0:30:18.040
<v Speaker 1>my first business, my first baby, I still struggle with

0:30:18.080 --> 0:30:21.880
<v Speaker 1>that because my first mind is always impact, impact, impact.

0:30:21.880 --> 0:30:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll give you an example. I recently did a wealth

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:27.120
<v Speaker 1>walk in Maryland, and so my wealth walk went really good.

0:30:27.160 --> 0:30:29.680
<v Speaker 1>Like the first Wealth walk I had in Jersey, I

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<v Speaker 1>think like fifty people showed up, which was nice. We

0:30:31.760 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 1>just walked and talked about money. The second walk I

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:35.600
<v Speaker 1>had a Mayland, about one hundred people showed up, and

0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:37.640
<v Speaker 1>then this time we went live and four thousand people

0:30:37.720 --> 0:30:41.560
<v Speaker 1>showed up live. It went great. But the Wealth Walk

0:30:42.200 --> 0:30:45.640
<v Speaker 1>is impact and it was such a heavy lift for

0:30:45.720 --> 0:30:47.520
<v Speaker 1>my team, and it cost me money to fly out

0:30:47.520 --> 0:30:49.800
<v Speaker 1>there and to get a hotel to hire the photographer

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<v Speaker 1>and da da da da dah. There was no income

0:30:52.720 --> 0:30:55.800
<v Speaker 1>men and people keep saying, ooh, can you do a

0:30:55.800 --> 0:30:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Wealth walk, kreq, I can't afford to do that, And

0:30:58.640 --> 0:31:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm struggling with want to do more Wealth walks because

0:31:01.560 --> 0:31:04.480
<v Speaker 1>they were It was so amazing because one y'all know,

0:31:04.520 --> 0:31:07.720
<v Speaker 1>I've been a walking child right since has been getting

0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:11.640
<v Speaker 1>snatched right. And I know for our community, especially for

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:14.560
<v Speaker 1>black and brown people, but especially for black women, the

0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:20.000
<v Speaker 1>impact of like of distress and diabetes and high blood

0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:22.480
<v Speaker 1>pressure and hypertension, all these things we carry in our body,

0:31:22.720 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 1>that walking is a great tool that for the majority

0:31:27.280 --> 0:31:30.200
<v Speaker 1>of us, is not overly taxing. You know, it's a

0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:33.080
<v Speaker 1>community based activity. It's so good for your legs and

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 1>your limbs, and also for most people, not everyone. I

0:31:35.360 --> 0:31:37.560
<v Speaker 1>know that everyone is not able. But the beautiful part

0:31:37.600 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 1>about the Wealth Walk is that we walk and then

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:43.640
<v Speaker 1>those who could not walk, we came back anyway to

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:47.680
<v Speaker 1>a you know, safe, secure place and then we talk

0:31:47.720 --> 0:31:50.000
<v Speaker 1>about money. And the last one I did was with

0:31:50.040 --> 0:31:54.880
<v Speaker 1>the counsel Counselman at large, Will Juando in Maryland, and

0:31:54.960 --> 0:31:59.120
<v Speaker 1>he talked about how to how to lean into legislation

0:31:59.400 --> 0:32:02.440
<v Speaker 1>and your polo titians in a way that will impact

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:04.920
<v Speaker 1>your wealth. So it was awesome. I mean, Will was

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:08.280
<v Speaker 1>so knowledgeable from how to get money for your businesses

0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>to how to purchase a home using the tools available

0:32:11.400 --> 0:32:14.440
<v Speaker 1>to you in your state. It was just so impactful.

0:32:15.520 --> 0:32:18.959
<v Speaker 1>No income, all of that awesome. And I know if

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<v Speaker 1>I do the next one two hundred and the next

0:32:20.480 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 1>one three hundred and next one front and no income

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:28.440
<v Speaker 1>and I realize, okay, I have to have an income plan.

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:30.280
<v Speaker 1>And so some of the things I can do is

0:32:30.320 --> 0:32:32.240
<v Speaker 1>I can sell T shirts like Wealth Walk T shirts.

0:32:32.240 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I thought about that. Also, I can say, hey brands,

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 1>hey brands, looking like you always do, why don't you

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 1>sponsor or Wealth Walk because you get these people in

0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:45.600
<v Speaker 1>person one hundred, two hundred and three hundred, and then

0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:48.880
<v Speaker 1>on top of that, you get thousands of people watching

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:52.160
<v Speaker 1>the walk the talk part of the Wealth Walk, and

0:32:52.200 --> 0:32:55.960
<v Speaker 1>so there's like, you know, potential for sponsorship there. So

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I have not done those things yet. But what I'm

0:32:57.600 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 1>saying is that even me a season entrepreneur, teen years

0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:04.080
<v Speaker 1>in the game, I still struggle with the income impact component. Okay,

0:33:04.720 --> 0:33:09.200
<v Speaker 1>And so I was telling my mentees about So here's

0:33:09.200 --> 0:33:11.280
<v Speaker 1>how I had him start and hopefully these these will

0:33:11.280 --> 0:33:14.240
<v Speaker 1>help for you. You ready, get shippad down. I know you're

0:33:14.240 --> 0:33:16.880
<v Speaker 1>probably driving in the car and to pull over to

0:33:16.880 --> 0:33:19.000
<v Speaker 1>the side of the road, get your pen on. I say,

0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:22.440
<v Speaker 1>here are the steps. One I always visualize whenever I'm

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:25.480
<v Speaker 1>trying to reach your goal. I always visualize a white board,

0:33:25.560 --> 0:33:28.240
<v Speaker 1>typically a corkboard, and I say, put your numbers on

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:31.720
<v Speaker 1>the board. So I want you to visualize a whiteboard

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:34.160
<v Speaker 1>or a corkboard and put a number at the top

0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:37.040
<v Speaker 1>of the board. And so that number can be a

0:33:37.120 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 1>number of people you want to sign up for your

0:33:38.640 --> 0:33:41.280
<v Speaker 1>email list or whatever. But we're talking about income right now.

0:33:41.640 --> 0:33:44.200
<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna put an income number on the board

0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:48.280
<v Speaker 1>and it has to be folk, it has to be

0:33:48.360 --> 0:33:54.160
<v Speaker 1>based on something to concrete. So for one of my mentees,

0:33:54.200 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 1>it was based upon he was filing some paperwork for

0:33:57.200 --> 0:33:59.480
<v Speaker 1>his business or whatever, and like he had some lawyer

0:33:59.480 --> 0:34:02.400
<v Speaker 1>feeslah blah blah, and I was like, add up those

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 1>feeds so you can get very clear on the number,

0:34:06.320 --> 0:34:08.839
<v Speaker 1>you know, So for you, you want to get very

0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:10.000
<v Speaker 1>clear on. So I don't want you to just come

0:34:10.040 --> 0:34:11.279
<v Speaker 1>up with some random and oh I would love to

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 1>make ten thousand, I don't care about all that. What

0:34:13.640 --> 0:34:16.919
<v Speaker 1>number do you need to make for a specific reason,

0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:19.200
<v Speaker 1>because it's going to give you purpose to walk toward it.

0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:23.360
<v Speaker 1>So you might say, honestly, I need to make three thousand,

0:34:23.480 --> 0:34:27.160
<v Speaker 1>five hundred because that's how much three months worth of

0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:28.560
<v Speaker 1>rent and the place that I want to rent I

0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:30.799
<v Speaker 1>don't know, and just make it to them. Or maybe you

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:33.400
<v Speaker 1>need to get materials for whatever. The paintings that you

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:35.840
<v Speaker 1>sell and the materials you added it all up is

0:34:35.880 --> 0:34:39.239
<v Speaker 1>like two hundred, I don't know. Get that number on

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:43.120
<v Speaker 1>the board and a timeframe. Numbers are critical, So that's

0:34:43.120 --> 0:34:44.680
<v Speaker 1>going to go on the top of your board. You

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:46.000
<v Speaker 1>can go on a real board or the board in

0:34:46.000 --> 0:34:49.080
<v Speaker 1>your head. Okay, that goes first on the board. Okay,

0:34:49.400 --> 0:34:51.759
<v Speaker 1>very clear. So it's the number that you need to hit,

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:55.280
<v Speaker 1>specific number based upon a specific goal and a timeframe.

0:34:55.320 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Those two numbers go on top. Second on the board.

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:02.759
<v Speaker 1>Is that's your I must make number. Second number on

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<v Speaker 1>the board is your like to make numbers. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>just say it's twelve hundred dollars is what you need

0:35:07.320 --> 0:35:08.920
<v Speaker 1>to make in order to buy the materials to do

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:11.399
<v Speaker 1>your paintings. But ideally you would love to make two

0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:14.160
<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars those in the next three months. So maybe

0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:16.319
<v Speaker 1>you said to yourself, you know, I want to like,

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:20.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, I have three months because I don't know

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:22.880
<v Speaker 1>essence fast or invest fast or whatever's coming up, and

0:35:22.920 --> 0:35:25.360
<v Speaker 1>I need my paintings to be ready by then, you know,

0:35:25.480 --> 0:35:27.040
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. I'm just making it up, Like that's why

0:35:27.040 --> 0:35:28.920
<v Speaker 1>you have the three month timeframe. You needed to make

0:35:28.920 --> 0:35:30.759
<v Speaker 1>the twelve hundred because you added up how much pain

0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:33.160
<v Speaker 1>and whatever things you need are going to cost you

0:35:33.520 --> 0:35:36.280
<v Speaker 1>in twelve hundred is what you need to make. Second

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 1>number on the board, what I like to make. It

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:40.680
<v Speaker 1>would be cute if I could make two thousand. Now, okay,

0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:43.279
<v Speaker 1>a little boost up, a little reach. So that's the

0:35:43.320 --> 0:35:47.520
<v Speaker 1>second number on the board. You with me, Okay, third

0:35:47.560 --> 0:35:50.920
<v Speaker 1>thing on the board is I want you if you

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<v Speaker 1>already have been in business, I want you to write

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<v Speaker 1>down a number of ways you've already made money before.

0:35:58.719 --> 0:36:02.200
<v Speaker 1>So I'd say, you know, I did sell one painting before,

0:36:02.960 --> 0:36:08.360
<v Speaker 1>or I did sell a T shirt before, or you

0:36:08.440 --> 0:36:11.400
<v Speaker 1>know what, my sister's best friend did pay me to

0:36:11.600 --> 0:36:13.319
<v Speaker 1>make a cake. I need you to write down all

0:36:13.360 --> 0:36:15.680
<v Speaker 1>the ways you've made money before. And if you haven't

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:17.600
<v Speaker 1>made any money because you're brand new, I need you

0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:21.279
<v Speaker 1>to write down ways that people have made money in

0:36:21.280 --> 0:36:23.839
<v Speaker 1>the space that you're in before. I'm not talking about big,

0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:26.600
<v Speaker 1>big ways. I'm talking about people who are similar size

0:36:26.600 --> 0:36:30.279
<v Speaker 1>to me. You're like, Yo, my homegirl, you know she

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:33.839
<v Speaker 1>sold I don't know, acrylic nails, or she's done retightening

0:36:33.840 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 1>of hair or whatever that is. So either ways you've

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:40.279
<v Speaker 1>made money before, or ways that you've seen someone who's

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:42.919
<v Speaker 1>about at your level has made money before. Okay, write

0:36:42.920 --> 0:36:45.520
<v Speaker 1>down as many ways as possible. You're right, you're ready,

0:36:45.560 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 1>So remember number one, how many time frame and a

0:36:49.640 --> 0:36:52.400
<v Speaker 1>specific amount that you want to make within that timeframe

0:36:52.480 --> 0:36:56.319
<v Speaker 1>based upon specific goals, not just these random things based

0:36:56.440 --> 0:37:00.879
<v Speaker 1>on specific goals. Two same timeframe, but your stretch goal,

0:37:01.800 --> 0:37:03.720
<v Speaker 1>add another five hundred to it, and add a thousand

0:37:03.800 --> 0:37:07.200
<v Speaker 1>to it. Stretch goal. Three ways that you've already made

0:37:07.239 --> 0:37:09.600
<v Speaker 1>money in this space already, or ways that you've seen

0:37:09.640 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 1>people who are at your level, very beginner level made

0:37:11.800 --> 0:37:14.520
<v Speaker 1>money in this space. Okay, and so we're doing three

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<v Speaker 1>now three A is now here? Are here are the

0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:20.399
<v Speaker 1>ways that? Cause you can't do all the things right.

0:37:20.440 --> 0:37:22.200
<v Speaker 1>So let's just say you write down ten different ways

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>that you've made money in this way before, or you've

0:37:24.040 --> 0:37:27.520
<v Speaker 1>seen people who are beginning make money in this way.

0:37:27.680 --> 0:37:30.000
<v Speaker 1>You can't chase all of them. So you're gonna write

0:37:30.000 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>down these four questions you're gonna ask yourself, and it

0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:35.080
<v Speaker 1>has to say yes to these four for you to

0:37:35.080 --> 0:37:37.440
<v Speaker 1>decide if maybe you're gonna do it. One you have

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:42.239
<v Speaker 1>to ask yourself, like ideally, you know, oh, I think

0:37:42.239 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 1>it's three questions really but really r Like I said,

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 1>have you made money in this way before? Right? Have

0:37:47.760 --> 0:37:49.960
<v Speaker 1>I made money in this way before? Or have I

0:37:50.040 --> 0:37:52.319
<v Speaker 1>seen someone who is very beginning make money in this way?

0:37:52.360 --> 0:37:54.520
<v Speaker 1>Cause we wanna know is it possible? We're not guessing

0:37:54.560 --> 0:37:57.200
<v Speaker 1>out here. Now, this is not your life business plan

0:37:57.320 --> 0:37:59.399
<v Speaker 1>ten year plans for this is a make money now

0:37:59.440 --> 0:38:01.680
<v Speaker 1>planning the next three months, right or four months or whatever?

0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:04.319
<v Speaker 1>Have I made money like this before? Have I seen

0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:08.000
<v Speaker 1>a beginner make money like this before? Yes? Moving along? Two?

0:38:08.400 --> 0:38:11.239
<v Speaker 1>Can I do this by myself? Because one of my

0:38:11.280 --> 0:38:13.120
<v Speaker 1>friends he was like, oh, if I only had a team,

0:38:13.160 --> 0:38:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what that's like saying? If I only had

0:38:15.280 --> 0:38:19.640
<v Speaker 1>a magic wand duh, if we all have humongous teams,

0:38:19.680 --> 0:38:22.359
<v Speaker 1>if we only had a million dollars, if we only

0:38:22.440 --> 0:38:24.080
<v Speaker 1>had no worries, if I only could eat cake, can

0:38:24.160 --> 0:38:26.360
<v Speaker 1>I get fat? I mean, what are we saying? Of course?

0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:29.680
<v Speaker 1>But you don't got none of them things? So step

0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:32.359
<v Speaker 1>two is can I do it without a team? Can

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:34.279
<v Speaker 1>I do this by myself? Like I said, this is

0:38:34.320 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 1>not a forever plan. This is just in the moment

0:38:38.239 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 1>plan so I can get to my first major financial goal.

0:38:42.120 --> 0:38:44.520
<v Speaker 1>You know, can I do this by myself? When I

0:38:44.520 --> 0:38:46.480
<v Speaker 1>first the first six seven years, by Jesus, it was

0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:49.560
<v Speaker 1>me myself and not that's all I got to the end,

0:38:50.080 --> 0:38:51.960
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know that. Okay? Can I do it

0:38:51.960 --> 0:38:54.759
<v Speaker 1>by myself? That's question number two? If you can't do

0:38:54.800 --> 0:38:57.160
<v Speaker 1>it by yourself. Like, if you're fortunate, then maybe you're

0:38:57.280 --> 0:39:00.359
<v Speaker 1>your significant others helping and maybe you got assist helping.

0:39:00.360 --> 0:39:02.680
<v Speaker 1>Great Q for you, but in large part for most

0:39:02.680 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 1>of us, can I do this by myself? To start?

0:39:05.840 --> 0:39:09.439
<v Speaker 1>Third question, can I is this possible within a time frame?

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Because sometimes what I will find, especially with a new

0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:14.440
<v Speaker 1>entrepreneurs so I'll have these huge ideas, but that's a

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:18.880
<v Speaker 1>five year plan. Bro were talking about five months from now, Max, Like,

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:20.520
<v Speaker 1>don't give me no five year plan. You don't have

0:39:20.560 --> 0:39:23.040
<v Speaker 1>no money coming in tomorrow, Like you might not be

0:39:23.080 --> 0:39:25.640
<v Speaker 1>here in five years to see that through. Can I

0:39:25.680 --> 0:39:27.440
<v Speaker 1>do this within my time frame? I would not make

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:29.479
<v Speaker 1>a time frame more than five months, honestly, I'm looking

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:32.759
<v Speaker 1>like three months on the average that timeframe, you know, Like,

0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:35.839
<v Speaker 1>can I do this within the timeframe? Is that possible? Yes?

0:39:35.920 --> 0:39:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I can bake a cake and sell a cake within

0:39:37.520 --> 0:39:41.399
<v Speaker 1>three months? Okay, there you go. And then fourth is

0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:44.000
<v Speaker 1>do I not have to come out of pocket? Really?

0:39:45.080 --> 0:39:49.439
<v Speaker 1>Or is it nomenal? Meaning like hmm, like what can

0:39:49.520 --> 0:39:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I do to keep my cost as low as possible

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:54.879
<v Speaker 1>because I don't have any money? You know, like maybe

0:39:55.000 --> 0:39:56.560
<v Speaker 1>baking a cake You'm like, oh, I do have to

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:59.399
<v Speaker 1>spend a little bit of money to start. Well, what's

0:39:59.480 --> 0:40:01.279
<v Speaker 1>cheaper than the ca Hey? Are cookies cheaper than cakes?

0:40:01.320 --> 0:40:03.399
<v Speaker 1>I could sell that instead, you know what I mean?

0:40:04.000 --> 0:40:07.040
<v Speaker 1>Or can I do pre orders of these cakes instead

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:09.520
<v Speaker 1>for people who already eating cakes from me? Can I

0:40:09.560 --> 0:40:11.440
<v Speaker 1>do it without taking much money out of pocket or

0:40:11.520 --> 0:40:13.000
<v Speaker 1>zero money out of pocket? You see how you have

0:40:13.040 --> 0:40:15.040
<v Speaker 1>to be clever. So those are the fourth questions you're

0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:18.960
<v Speaker 1>asking Under number three, Have I done this before? Made money?

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:21.319
<v Speaker 1>Because you want to? I don't want you guessing, So

0:40:21.440 --> 0:40:24.800
<v Speaker 1>that is your preliminary I ain't never made no real money.

0:40:25.000 --> 0:40:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm still super new in business. Or you've been in

0:40:27.280 --> 0:40:30.080
<v Speaker 1>business for a while, but you're not really sure, like

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:31.799
<v Speaker 1>you know why you're not making no money? That is

0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:38.520
<v Speaker 1>a preliminary income plan. Ain't that good job? I'm not

0:40:38.560 --> 0:40:42.759
<v Speaker 1>gonna lie. I'm smart, you know, but for real, that's

0:40:42.760 --> 0:40:44.960
<v Speaker 1>a preliminary plan. And when I told it to my

0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:47.800
<v Speaker 1>two and I've got about three male menties everybody else's

0:40:47.840 --> 0:40:49.920
<v Speaker 1>like women, and I told it to them, they were like,

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:52.040
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I could do that. Right away, they

0:40:52.080 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 1>started texting me like, Yo, here's all the fees that

0:40:54.719 --> 0:40:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I have to pay, and so I know my number

0:40:56.800 --> 0:40:59.919
<v Speaker 1>thirty eight hundred dollars. I know my number twelve hundred dollars. Okay,

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:02.279
<v Speaker 1>in three months, I really have to have it done

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:05.279
<v Speaker 1>or this thing expires. Okay, but my stretch numbers, I

0:41:05.280 --> 0:41:08.279
<v Speaker 1>would love to make forty five hundred dollars. Okay, here

0:41:08.320 --> 0:41:10.400
<v Speaker 1>are the three ways that I've made money before. Then

0:41:10.400 --> 0:41:12.160
<v Speaker 1>we started to look at those ways. Once those ways

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:15.959
<v Speaker 1>answer those four questions, Boom, I've made money like this before.

0:41:16.000 --> 0:41:18.200
<v Speaker 1>I've seen someone do it. Boom, and don't take more

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:21.520
<v Speaker 1>money out of pocket or very little Boom. I could

0:41:21.520 --> 0:41:23.400
<v Speaker 1>do it within a timeframe. Boom, I could do it

0:41:23.400 --> 0:41:26.000
<v Speaker 1>by myself and answer those questions. Then we started to,

0:41:26.080 --> 0:41:27.960
<v Speaker 1>like I said, let's put some money, more money on

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:30.279
<v Speaker 1>the board. Once you start to you look at your

0:41:30.320 --> 0:41:32.520
<v Speaker 1>list of number three, you start to eliminate those things though,

0:41:32.520 --> 0:41:35.440
<v Speaker 1>don't say yes to those four questions. And then I

0:41:35.480 --> 0:41:38.640
<v Speaker 1>started to say, okay, you sold merch before we told

0:41:38.640 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 1>me that the merch made you two hundred and fifty dollars.

0:41:42.280 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>Can you put merch down for five hundred? I think

0:41:44.000 --> 0:41:45.840
<v Speaker 1>if you did two fifty on some old la la

0:41:45.960 --> 0:41:48.120
<v Speaker 1>la la, I think you do five hundred in three

0:41:48.120 --> 0:41:50.120
<v Speaker 1>months if you did two fifty in one month. He

0:41:50.200 --> 0:41:52.040
<v Speaker 1>was like, yes, So now we're starting to cross things

0:41:52.080 --> 0:41:55.280
<v Speaker 1>off the board because you want to make three thousand dollars. Okay,

0:41:55.520 --> 0:41:58.759
<v Speaker 1>you already down like we've already made we can put

0:41:58.800 --> 0:42:00.839
<v Speaker 1>merch down for five hundred dollars. So now you're down

0:42:00.880 --> 0:42:02.440
<v Speaker 1>to twenty five hundred dollars that needs to be made.

0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:05.920
<v Speaker 1>What else I could do speaking? Okay? Because before he

0:42:06.000 --> 0:42:09.200
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, I don't know how many speaking engagements

0:42:09.280 --> 0:42:11.919
<v Speaker 1>A how I should charge for speaking engagement? But now, bruh,

0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I said, look, if it was me, I'm looking at

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:15.759
<v Speaker 1>the board, I'm looking at the people who want me

0:42:15.800 --> 0:42:17.960
<v Speaker 1>to speak. You let them know I would love to

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:20.480
<v Speaker 1>make fifteen hundred, but in your mind you might take

0:42:20.520 --> 0:42:23.319
<v Speaker 1>six or seven hundred, okay, And so you might even

0:42:23.360 --> 0:42:24.840
<v Speaker 1>push to say, you know, do you have a budget

0:42:24.880 --> 0:42:26.920
<v Speaker 1>of two thousand? If they push back to fifteen or

0:42:26.960 --> 0:42:30.960
<v Speaker 1>at least one thousand a thousand, damn, you already halfway done.

0:42:31.120 --> 0:42:32.879
<v Speaker 1>Cause he said, there's some speaking people who have asked

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:34.600
<v Speaker 1>him to speak, and he's always been like, oh no,

0:42:34.640 --> 0:42:38.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, get your no less than five hundred, push

0:42:38.160 --> 0:42:40.200
<v Speaker 1>for at least one thousand dollars, you know, but ask

0:42:40.200 --> 0:42:43.120
<v Speaker 1>for maybe twenty twenty five hundred. See what they say.

0:42:43.239 --> 0:42:45.560
<v Speaker 1>So he was already like, yo, okay, march down for

0:42:45.600 --> 0:42:48.759
<v Speaker 1>five hundred, speaking down for fifteen hundred. Boom, Now we're

0:42:48.760 --> 0:42:51.959
<v Speaker 1>at two thousand, other three thirty five hundred that you need, boy,

0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:54.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, and so slowly but surely. You see how

0:42:54.800 --> 0:42:56.759
<v Speaker 1>you go from I don't know what I do to

0:42:57.200 --> 0:43:01.440
<v Speaker 1>boom boom boom boom boom boom boom, let's go. Well

0:43:01.560 --> 0:43:03.160
<v Speaker 1>that was first ices in that When I was a kid.

0:43:03.480 --> 0:43:05.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, do you remember that song? Boom boom boom,

0:43:05.360 --> 0:43:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Let's go back to my room. So I was like

0:43:07.040 --> 0:43:10.480
<v Speaker 1>in second grade anyway. But you see how you go

0:43:10.840 --> 0:43:14.960
<v Speaker 1>quickly from like here, it's an actuable income plan that

0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I can do today. Is that really helpful? Because then

0:43:18.560 --> 0:43:21.239
<v Speaker 1>you can start assigning amount that you believe you can make.

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:23.880
<v Speaker 1>That's why asking yourself the question have I made money

0:43:23.880 --> 0:43:26.520
<v Speaker 1>in this space before? Because then you can say if

0:43:26.520 --> 0:43:28.560
<v Speaker 1>I was able to make two hundred, maybe I can

0:43:28.600 --> 0:43:31.520
<v Speaker 1>make four. Or if my friend or someone who I

0:43:31.520 --> 0:43:33.719
<v Speaker 1>saw do it, you know, I see that they if

0:43:33.760 --> 0:43:35.880
<v Speaker 1>I can estimate they made about a thousand. Maybe I

0:43:35.880 --> 0:43:38.320
<v Speaker 1>could do two thousand. You see what I mean. So

0:43:39.280 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 1>I hope that was helpful. You know, I love me

0:43:40.960 --> 0:43:44.560
<v Speaker 1>some personal finance, but I also love some business. So

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:48.400
<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. Here's the thing. When you started a friends,

0:43:48.440 --> 0:43:50.160
<v Speaker 1>if you want me to mentor you, which you know

0:43:50.239 --> 0:43:53.200
<v Speaker 1>you do? No, you no, you no, you know you do.

0:43:53.960 --> 0:43:57.279
<v Speaker 1>I actually have a mentorship program called mymntor Tiffany dot com.

0:43:57.320 --> 0:44:00.600
<v Speaker 1>We use this platform called Patreon, and it's twenty bucks

0:44:00.600 --> 0:44:02.879
<v Speaker 1>a month. It's like two sixteen for the year, because

0:44:02.880 --> 0:44:04.200
<v Speaker 1>I think you get like ten percent off if you

0:44:04.200 --> 0:44:06.719
<v Speaker 1>pay for the year. And the benefit if you pay

0:44:06.760 --> 0:44:08.680
<v Speaker 1>for the annual is when I come to your city.

0:44:08.719 --> 0:44:10.560
<v Speaker 1>So whenever I go to a city, I try my

0:44:10.600 --> 0:44:13.000
<v Speaker 1>best to have a mentee dinner with about twenty to

0:44:13.040 --> 0:44:15.719
<v Speaker 1>twenty five women as much as a restaurant will allow,

0:44:15.760 --> 0:44:17.960
<v Speaker 1>which usually they cap it at twenty five, and then

0:44:18.000 --> 0:44:20.440
<v Speaker 1>we have dinner together and we get to like introduce

0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:22.799
<v Speaker 1>ourselves to each other, share our businesses. I mean, it's

0:44:22.880 --> 0:44:25.239
<v Speaker 1>just an amazing time. Like in Maryland it was about

0:44:25.239 --> 0:44:27.560
<v Speaker 1>twenty two of us. It was awesome. But if you

0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:30.600
<v Speaker 1>pay annually, I set aside the first half of the

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:33.880
<v Speaker 1>tickets for annual members to because it always sells out.

0:44:34.000 --> 0:44:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I set aside the first half of the tickets that

0:44:35.640 --> 0:44:37.799
<v Speaker 1>they get to buy first, and then I leave it

0:44:37.840 --> 0:44:39.480
<v Speaker 1>like I open up to the rest of the mentees.

0:44:39.560 --> 0:44:41.920
<v Speaker 1>That's the benefit of being an annual member. You get

0:44:41.920 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 1>ten percent off and you get access to things before

0:44:44.360 --> 0:44:48.160
<v Speaker 1>everybody else because it always always sells out. So yeah,

0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:50.000
<v Speaker 1>if you want to join you on a twenty bucks

0:44:50.040 --> 0:44:53.239
<v Speaker 1>a month, my mentor Tiffany dot com, I don't talk

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:55.440
<v Speaker 1>about personal finance there. Don't come there like I need.

0:44:55.920 --> 0:44:58.040
<v Speaker 1>I have to live richer Academy dot com for that.

0:44:58.080 --> 0:45:02.759
<v Speaker 1>If you want a personal finance you know courses. But

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<v Speaker 1>my mentor Tiffany is really me mentoring you in business. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So hopefully that was helpful. I know that was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of around or word, but I just know that was

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<v Speaker 1>really helpful for them, and you know, hopefully that was

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<v Speaker 1>helpful for you. And I will see you at the

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<v Speaker 1>next b a q a A b a q A

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<v Speaker 1>wit to say the b a q A with Tiffany

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<v Speaker 1>the b a q A see your next Friday. All right, bye, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey ba fam. We could not do this show without

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