Speaker 1: Hey, guys, it's Monday. I know y'all at work, um,
Speaker 1: but we make here mondays so much better. So this
Speaker 1: is another episode of horrible decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy,
Speaker 1: I'm Wheezy, and apparently I am really holding on the
Speaker 1: front lines because there's a nigga sitting next to me
Speaker 1: with a bunch of rope. So this episode, if you
Speaker 1: ain't reading Tiger is B is for bondage, Um, Wheezy
Speaker 1: and I just had her friend on an episode of
Speaker 1: our Patreon and she titled it A is for anals,
Speaker 1: So it only made sense that now we're on B,
Speaker 1: let's go ahead and get it going like that. I
Speaker 1: guess before we start, go ahead and introduce yourself, um,
Speaker 1: and let us know what you do. Hello, everybody welcome.
Speaker 1: My name is uh, Sir Dashington. I am a erotic
Speaker 1: vision performance artist. I am a healer. I ain't dumb.
Speaker 1: I do a little bit of everything. A little bit
Speaker 1: of Everything's a little passive to your dom, do you
Speaker 1: find Yeah, you feel very calm and you're soft spoken.
Speaker 1: I feel like people always assume that doms are like yo,
Speaker 1: Do women ever say that to you that they're surprised
Speaker 1: that you're a dom lader because you're so they will.
Speaker 1: I kind of thrive off the concept of people not
Speaker 1: you know, getting caught up in whatever they seeing, whatever
Speaker 1: they're the mirage as they see, they want to they
Speaker 1: want to claim in say, Okay, don I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: be this type or whatever, but I'm a type of person.
Speaker 1: I really don't fall into any type of box that's
Speaker 1: you say, if you say yeah, I'm this, then somehow enough,
Speaker 1: somehow fit that, you know. That's how kind of made
Speaker 1: this whole thing for work for myself. I don't necessarily,
Speaker 1: you know, going out and say yeah, I'm don't I'll
Speaker 1: never call myself a dom Really. The reason I brought
Speaker 1: that up is like a lot of women have said
Speaker 1: things to me, like when I talk about doms in
Speaker 1: my life, asking if you know, they're like super assertive,
Speaker 1: if they make me feel like I even have a choice,
Speaker 1: things like that, And it's like realizing that being a
Speaker 1: stub is the choice relinquishing that power to somebody, and
Speaker 1: I'm having, you know, the honor of being dominant to you, Like,
Speaker 1: it's not every domb isn't one and the same. You
Speaker 1: don't have to think, you know, it's someone out here
Speaker 1: with a whip ready to like make you get on
Speaker 1: your knees and get the ship out of you. It's
Speaker 1: absolutely what you asked for. It's absolutely what you asked for.
Speaker 1: And I feel like, um, there's different types of doms
Speaker 1: I'm saying, and when you get into it, you start
Speaker 1: to realize there's different type of just sometimes are really
Speaker 1: statistic and they really get off from getting pain. And
Speaker 1: then there's some guys like myself, I'm more of asential
Speaker 1: dom so um and I like to do that within
Speaker 1: the realm that I'm doing it with him like a
Speaker 1: living seven am I expecting nobody to you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want you want, I still want to we want. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I still want a power black woman to make your
Speaker 1: own decision. That's a boss that when it comes down
Speaker 1: to me, come on the bedroom and when I when
Speaker 1: when I make my faces, my show, we're certain things
Speaker 1: and it's ready to make that move. She already knows
Speaker 1: where's where to go. I kind of reminds me of
Speaker 1: a King Noir, like he's very sensual and his videos
Speaker 1: and how he even treats a woman, but he's very
Speaker 1: much a dom. So you said you're an erotic visual artist,
Speaker 1: a visual performance art performance artists, and that is your
Speaker 1: full time job. Orb's my full time thing. You full time.
Speaker 1: You want a bandage full time, Well it's not something
Speaker 1: in the bond full time where what happens is is
Speaker 1: I started doing this as an artist. I'm an artist.
Speaker 1: So I was doing shows out on Brooklyn. I had
Speaker 1: this party called the Mad tea art party. Was giving
Speaker 1: anybody shroom t get them zudo on shrooms, and I
Speaker 1: would do these scenes. We'll have girls dancing in front
Speaker 1: of a canvas and I would throw paint on them.
Speaker 1: And then yeah, even all this stuff I do, it's
Speaker 1: all some trippy shroom down ship that I just started
Speaker 1: from back in the day. I just want you all
Speaker 1: to know, if y'all are not watching us on YouTube,
Speaker 1: well you're sitting across from a black man with dreads.
Speaker 1: This is because I mean, I associate like the shrooms
Speaker 1: and like those type of parties. I mean, three white
Speaker 1: people ship. So to be real, all these plants come
Speaker 1: from people like medicine. I just kind of don't fall
Speaker 1: into any of those dudes. Dudes, I don't just know.
Speaker 1: I never let whatever I am or whoever the people
Speaker 1: think that I am, stopped me from doing anything I
Speaker 1: want to do or try. So I didn't even like
Speaker 1: think about it like that in my realm. But I
Speaker 1: start to events and then um, one of my whole
Speaker 1: gros for me, the spanker with with whips dipped in
Speaker 1: paint and make a canvas painting. And I'm like, oh, fuck, helly,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this ship. And I actually um started
Speaker 1: looking it up to see anybody was doing the ship,
Speaker 1: and I didn't see nobody doing it. And then I
Speaker 1: seen girls tied up and be being a cup scout.
Speaker 1: Boy scout was a path find I grew up like learning.
Speaker 1: I had to learn my not to get my little
Speaker 1: badges and ships. So whom I saw that, I was like,
Speaker 1: oh I could do that ship. I'm gonna tire up
Speaker 1: first and boom boom and literally I did yeah, literally yeah,
Speaker 1: literally a brount of the church because we come down
Speaker 1: to it was like a church boy scout program. Did
Speaker 1: they put your head? Didn't put a little soldiers into this?
Speaker 1: And I went when I was in Japan, like they
Speaker 1: had a section of a sex story that was all
Speaker 1: about like taking a class and learning how to tie.
Speaker 1: So I sat in there for like five minutes. Name
Speaker 1: speak English. But I was like, oh wow, okay, Like
Speaker 1: YouTube really helps, but that ship is really hard and
Speaker 1: really I started, like literally, I went to YouTube a
Speaker 1: week before my show, learned one fucking tie how to
Speaker 1: do the likes whatever I do and figured it out
Speaker 1: and did that one time for the show and did
Speaker 1: it from there. And once I did that show, people like, yo,
Speaker 1: that ship is We're doing again, Girls like I'm next.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you were sent in by about three of
Speaker 1: our followers on Instagram and they're like, if y'all do bondage,
Speaker 1: you have to get this guy on something your page
Speaker 1: has been said multiple times and I know we talked, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know for a long time, wanting to get to
Speaker 1: have someone that like we've been chatting with for a while.
Speaker 1: I was just thinking too when you mentioned tying someone up.
Speaker 1: We had a guest a few weeks ago, Liz Goldwyn,
Speaker 1: who talks about our friend of hers who tied her
Speaker 1: up and it took three hours. What's the longest she
Speaker 1: was completely bound? I think, like, what's the longest it's
Speaker 1: ever taking you to tie someone up? Well s, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I I maybe a performance artist, and I think about
Speaker 1: the show. I think about people watching, how many people,
Speaker 1: how long is it will get people attentions being so
Speaker 1: I do different things to to intreat people while I'm
Speaker 1: doing a tie so it doesn't look like you're just
Speaker 1: getting tied up for a long time. But I do
Speaker 1: sessions that my my, my, my sessions. I have my clients,
Speaker 1: you know, two hours minimum, two hours minimum, two hours
Speaker 1: minimum and minimum being tied up. It's not gonna be
Speaker 1: tied up for the whole time. Like when I just
Speaker 1: do what I start off with the consultation and beginning,
Speaker 1: we talked. I find out what you with you with you,
Speaker 1: what you're comfortable with with you? Now you dudes, your dones. Um,
Speaker 1: we kind of vibe out, we laugh, we joke, I'm saying,
Speaker 1: and then you know, just get into the session. Tell
Speaker 1: me what you want to do. I sent you guys earlier.
Speaker 1: I have a whole menu. You tell me what things
Speaker 1: you want to do. Can mix them up however you
Speaker 1: want to do within the time. Friend, you want to
Speaker 1: do it. And and I come to people, I come,
Speaker 1: I go to them, I travel to them. In house call.
Speaker 1: I do in house call. Is that how you make
Speaker 1: your money? I do that. And I do a lot
Speaker 1: of shows. Do you consider it sex work? Um, it's
Speaker 1: weird feeling a weird line because I feel like it's
Speaker 1: for me, it's not sex work. Like as far as
Speaker 1: how far as I concerted, like I ain't pull my
Speaker 1: dick out in insert and nobody, so that's to me,
Speaker 1: I'm not having sex. However, strippers, Yeah, I was about
Speaker 1: to say strippers dance and they're not having intercourse, but
Speaker 1: they're considered a line of sex working. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to read off the prices because we'll we'll give your
Speaker 1: booking if anyone's interested, but I want to read off
Speaker 1: some of your services, um, and then maybe we can
Speaker 1: be like, how can you not consider the sex work? So? Um?
Speaker 1: Some of the services that um, Sir Dashington um provides
Speaker 1: is goddess pampering service. Um. It's all sensual play, no
Speaker 1: pain or ropes. But that's optional. Um, it is optional.
Speaker 1: So um, real quick, I'm actually going to compare that
Speaker 1: to a boyfriend experience a bf E because a lot
Speaker 1: of that or GF for girlfriends. Um, it's they don't
Speaker 1: necessarily have to have sex, but it's more of the intermac.
Speaker 1: People want to touch, you want to cuddle, people want
Speaker 1: to all that stuff. So it's it's it's and their
Speaker 1: sex workers just you know, because we're gonna get you
Speaker 1: to reclaim your sex work title. The next one is
Speaker 1: toy Land, so that that includes ropes and sex toy sampler.
Speaker 1: You have a spain can paint which includes ropes and
Speaker 1: floggers dipped in paint. What you explain um, electrocutioner, electro
Speaker 1: play and toy ropes optional? Can you explain what electro
Speaker 1: play is? Electro play is um just like a whole
Speaker 1: unit of things people like to play with electricity. And
Speaker 1: so there's toys as the neon wine, which has like
Speaker 1: a little dial on it and you can kind of
Speaker 1: touch one kind of tables really really light version of
Speaker 1: you can control the volume of how excuse me, how
Speaker 1: hard and how high high it is, so you find
Speaker 1: people really good spot. If you do it really at
Speaker 1: a nice level, it could tickle somebody that I've seen
Speaker 1: people laugh until they bust utters. They normally wanna be electrocuted.
Speaker 1: I took them well. I usually would be my choice
Speaker 1: when you're tied up and stuff like that. So I
Speaker 1: used to tantalizing and message you and find your sweet spot.
Speaker 1: That's the whole that's my niche, that's my differ. Everybody's different.
Speaker 1: Before I start a session, like if I do section,
Speaker 1: most time, I sniffed the girl from head to toe.
Speaker 1: My sniffer from head to toe on some primer ship.
Speaker 1: I swear to God, I super from head to toe.
Speaker 1: And when I finished sniffering, makes I connected with her body,
Speaker 1: and her body kind of tells me. I did this
Speaker 1: recently during like a body worshiping session I was talking
Speaker 1: about on our Patreon episode, how like we did a
Speaker 1: lot of foreplay for an hour. Yeah, it wasn't like
Speaker 1: a weird sniff, but it was like really going down
Speaker 1: and smelling my entire back, your entire but it's kind
Speaker 1: of hot at me. It actually lacks me into your
Speaker 1: energy and your vibe. It's weird. And then from there,
Speaker 1: literally I probed myself off of women. I have to say,
Speaker 1: you have to do a B C D. From there,
Speaker 1: I just your body is till I read your body
Speaker 1: and I teach people how. I'm sorry I did say
Speaker 1: it wrong. I was the one who did it. I
Speaker 1: used the wrong wording, like his hair to bear neck chest,
Speaker 1: like I love the smell of just I don't know.
Speaker 1: There's those pheromones and like female and stuff you can't
Speaker 1: even explain. It's hard to even say. Just like the
Speaker 1: things sometimes my sessions, things happen that are like really
Speaker 1: hard for me to explain. What happens really out of
Speaker 1: my hands. I feel like, can they tell you're doing it?
Speaker 1: Because I w see me what I was doing? Yeah,
Speaker 1: people tell what was doing. I've done stuff, we're doing
Speaker 1: suff I might even touch people's body and I pull
Speaker 1: up their whole body, lifts the funk up, and I'm
Speaker 1: just like, like they had strings. Well, it's it's energy.
Speaker 1: That That's the real thing with erotica, right, It's like
Speaker 1: figuring out a way besides penetrated or even sometimes your
Speaker 1: genitals of like turning each other on. So the next
Speaker 1: one kind of goes without explanation. It's wax on wax off,
Speaker 1: which is wax play. Yeah, rope therapy, rope bondage for beginners,
Speaker 1: sensual dominance for men. So is that you teaching central dominance?
Speaker 1: Those last three year classes. The those are like courses
Speaker 1: that teach or trainings or lessons. I do um beginning
Speaker 1: rope bonds for beginners. I do role therapies, different roal therapies,
Speaker 1: different roal therapies where I tie people love and we
Speaker 1: talk about things that are actually binding them and holding
Speaker 1: them down, and we can go through breathing exercises, and
Speaker 1: then I released them in a representation of like letting
Speaker 1: that ship go. Yeah, getting past certain things, you know,
Speaker 1: and travel. A lot of people, a lot of wom
Speaker 1: to come to a different trauma. They can't come. They
Speaker 1: can't they haven't came in forever, or they don't know
Speaker 1: how to squirrel, or they don't want these different things.
Speaker 1: So they come to me and I showed them how
Speaker 1: to do it, and I do these things to them
Speaker 1: and in release it show them out to climax. Right.
Speaker 1: The these next two are the last to that we'll
Speaker 1: talk about. Um. You have one that's called what's for
Speaker 1: dinner food porn Um depends on the menu. The menu
Speaker 1: price may vary for this, but you climax with food
Speaker 1: or dinner served in a kitty bowl. Yeah. Sometimes it's
Speaker 1: like well sometimes like like I'll basically I'll tire up.
Speaker 1: I'll tire her up. And now like raid refigerator, cook
Speaker 1: the whole fucking meal, refrigerator, make a and then put
Speaker 1: that ship in the bowl and then feed it to
Speaker 1: her like a look at and this is coming from
Speaker 1: a negro up one of our This last one that
Speaker 1: I want to talk about, if you can um, what
Speaker 1: the funk is it? You do a unicorn kidnap and
Speaker 1: this is the most expensive on the goddamn unicorn kidnap
Speaker 1: is is basically organized kidnap where you kind of you
Speaker 1: know that you know the day we we A lot
Speaker 1: of people have seen that in the bonding the other day,
Speaker 1: but you don't know that when and where I'm gonna
Speaker 1: snatch you up from. And I came, I get a
Speaker 1: you hole of in and I call my snatch as
Speaker 1: up and I'll tie you up in the van and
Speaker 1: take you to the location and then do a whole
Speaker 1: full videos and scene. So this is kind of playing
Speaker 1: into I was having this conversation. Actually, oh my god,
Speaker 1: it was with Jill Soloway. So we met up with
Speaker 1: this lady in in l A. It was me and
Speaker 1: her in Beard Bay, and I was like, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of guilt that surrounds me around rape fantasies. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, all I want to do is give someone
Speaker 1: to keep in my house, right, give him like a
Speaker 1: three day span. Don't tell me when you come in,
Speaker 1: but also the ship on me when you get there.
Speaker 1: I don't want it to be like because unwanted is
Speaker 1: a porn category, which I don't like that. I more
Speaker 1: so want like the excitement of it, Like I don't
Speaker 1: want to be like really saying no. I just wanted
Speaker 1: to be like are you taking me? I feel bad
Speaker 1: Like that whole unwanted thing there's actually because there's a
Speaker 1: difference between what you're talking about and rape. Get a
Speaker 1: difference did that and actually like I've girls that was
Speaker 1: having sex with until you're seeing rape me, Daddy raped me,
Speaker 1: daddy rap me? Screaming that s loud as I'm like whoa, whoa,
Speaker 1: whoa right, whoa you know why because that's part of it.
Speaker 1: And then it's playing into this because and then she
Speaker 1: thinks I'm playing you listen to shut the funk up,
Speaker 1: like can you screaming? I s like I mean like
Speaker 1: someone can come get kicked out and doing kick my ass.
Speaker 1: It's so crazy. There's this porn um that I've been
Speaker 1: watching recently and it's so kind of it's along the
Speaker 1: unwanted thing um. What is it? It's called mall something,
Speaker 1: but basically it's they they're in like a back room
Speaker 1: where like you get caught for shop lifting, and so
Speaker 1: it's all these guys that get caught for shoplifting and
Speaker 1: in order for the police or for the mall security
Speaker 1: not to call the police, he's like, you gotta fuck me.
Speaker 1: So if you all these men like no, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but okay, just because I don't want to go to jail.
Speaker 1: And then he starts like he starts making the guys
Speaker 1: like suck his dick, and then like he also like
Speaker 1: records it so you see like a camera phone angle
Speaker 1: then actual room England. It's really like some wants to
Speaker 1: all straight men that now we're having to suck to
Speaker 1: keep out of jail. So it's kind of some weird ship.
Speaker 1: I want you to go back really quick to UM
Speaker 1: talking about the releasing the ropes and the releasing the traumas,
Speaker 1: Like I don't really know if we've ever talked about
Speaker 1: this on the show, but I do know what you're
Speaker 1: talking about. I've heard about and read about it. Can
Speaker 1: you talk about that one more time? Like just how
Speaker 1: much like when doing UM certain type of psychedelics or drugs, right,
Speaker 1: we just brought up iahuasca it's funny I'm bringing it
Speaker 1: up again. They say that you go through this period
Speaker 1: of darkness to then you know, release it and feel
Speaker 1: better even throwing up during it. Is that ritual is
Speaker 1: like letting all of those demons go, like releasing yourself.
Speaker 1: Talk about the trauma and like how untying the ropes break?
Speaker 1: Is it a little bit? Well, well, I've noticed that
Speaker 1: with with with the tying ropes. But I do is
Speaker 1: I make sure that when I do this this session,
Speaker 1: that um, we have a nice full consul consultation before
Speaker 1: we even start, so so I know exactly what we're
Speaker 1: talking about. We get into and then I kind of um,
Speaker 1: once I get to a certain place where I knows
Speaker 1: I'm hitting certain certain um uh trigger areas, then it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: it's trying to tie you up. And then I tie
Speaker 1: them up into this into the situation. And then from
Speaker 1: there I kinda started asking a certain questions. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like let them speak upon it, saying let them
Speaker 1: speak upon these things, and people, um, you know, they
Speaker 1: talk about it and and and and a lot of
Speaker 1: a lot of these things are the things that people
Speaker 1: don't really speak to speak to people about, and they cried.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, they cried. They um. Some people just
Speaker 1: you know, they talk about athers done, like how much
Speaker 1: better they feel because they got a chance to really
Speaker 1: release that stuff. And um, before I even get into
Speaker 1: the consultation and kind of really get into and talking
Speaker 1: to them about creating your own reality and creating your
Speaker 1: own your own reality with with your thoughts and how
Speaker 1: you think about things and projecting you know, and manifesting
Speaker 1: your thoughts and so um, this is when we start
Speaker 1: to get into our breathing exercises. It really kind of
Speaker 1: hits in what I'm saying. And we sit there, I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I'll sit there, and we sit there, and else sit
Speaker 1: there and let you try to talk you to and
Speaker 1: keep you in a in a place where your where
Speaker 1: your mind is on black and your focus on nothing
Speaker 1: but darkness, you mean, and then try to help pull
Speaker 1: some of these things out of people. And when I
Speaker 1: when I when I tend to release them from the
Speaker 1: ropes either they they crossed some people's shout. Some people. UM,
Speaker 1: some people come without even me having to do anything
Speaker 1: touching the genitals anything like. That's not even the whole
Speaker 1: point of this stuff. And um, and and that's what
Speaker 1: it is. I've had some sessions where people they they
Speaker 1: feel like they they've been you know, they've been through
Speaker 1: some really traumatic traumatic things, and they mostly traumatic sexual experiences,
Speaker 1: not all the time. Sometimes it's just things that just
Speaker 1: sunk up your concentration for you about the buzz or not.
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Its sorry, it doesn't always have
Speaker 1: to be UM. It doesn't have to always be something
Speaker 1: that's crazy traumactic when maybe you know, to everybody, but
Speaker 1: somehow affected them in a way where they you know,
Speaker 1: you know, it could be some some people that just
Speaker 1: been they were talked. People talk about him as a
Speaker 1: kid and it'd been really really self conscious and you
Speaker 1: know when they you know, before they get to the
Speaker 1: point they say, they overfunk and think things and and
Speaker 1: blow the moment. And do you do this with women
Speaker 1: and men or just women? Just women? And do you
Speaker 1: notice like a certain UM type of woman, whether it
Speaker 1: be like their profession or their and or their attitude,
Speaker 1: and like my clients are are they? I know one
Speaker 1: thing that UM within I first doing when I first
Speaker 1: got into this, and I really didn't realize that, you know,
Speaker 1: I got into the BDS and I thought it was
Speaker 1: about sex, and I thought about certain things and I
Speaker 1: realized that like by having sex with somebody doing the
Speaker 1: whole act to kind of cut certain type of connection off.
Speaker 1: And so I realize, okay, me take sex out the
Speaker 1: picture and see how how things go. I realizing that
Speaker 1: people really open up and certain it really really opened
Speaker 1: up a whole lot more and I'm able to tap
Speaker 1: into them doing my sessions in another whole realm. A
Speaker 1: lot of my own classes I teach you guys, and
Speaker 1: I teach other people, teach partners. Period is to like
Speaker 1: take sex out the picture. Sex is sucking you up
Speaker 1: dick and putting dick in the whole pussy. And that's
Speaker 1: just sucking the picture. If you concentrate on everything else
Speaker 1: besides that, yeah, you're gonna get them to another whole level.
Speaker 1: And of course you can get some pussy at the end.
Speaker 1: Like you just just a mind fun for yourself and
Speaker 1: for them to like, you know, I mean, to get
Speaker 1: yourself into that realm. If you got if the back
Speaker 1: back of your mind, you're subconscious, you know that you're
Speaker 1: just trying to get some pussy. You're just trying to
Speaker 1: get the honey. You're gonna skip certain levels, skip certain
Speaker 1: signs to get to the honey I'm saying, I mean
Speaker 1: and and the thing is to like sex to most
Speaker 1: people is like people ask me like, how do you
Speaker 1: have sex with a woman? And I'm like, how do
Speaker 1: I Not? Like people's idea of sex is literally pussy
Speaker 1: and a vaginas, So our gay men's virgins are lesbians virgins?
Speaker 1: Like what is our idea of sex? And to a
Speaker 1: lot of people, spinking can be sex, choking can be sex,
Speaker 1: oral sex whatever. And I like what you're saying about
Speaker 1: taking the sex out of it, because our societal view
Speaker 1: on what sex is it's kind of sucked up. Like
Speaker 1: I've had way better experiences outside of that kind of
Speaker 1: niche like everybody's having sex and saying everybody gets to
Speaker 1: that part. But so if you can focus on everything
Speaker 1: around that and not you're trying to get you out
Speaker 1: into right, if you're trying to get about to get
Speaker 1: into that ship, you pull away from that and actually
Speaker 1: get around everything else around it, you actually become on
Speaker 1: a better lover. Do you find that there's truth in
Speaker 1: people that are wanting to be dominated or generally dominant
Speaker 1: people in their personal lives? We've talked about how like,
Speaker 1: you know, cops are always the ones that love to
Speaker 1: get piste on or spanked or whatever like that. Powerful
Speaker 1: people like that. Have you noticed that trend, dude, there
Speaker 1: is that flip. There is that flip. I know that
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of the sisters I deal
Speaker 1: with did not did not know slouches. They all holding
Speaker 1: the ship down. They all got the thing going on.
Speaker 1: They all hold relationships, have families, they have their things.
Speaker 1: They're not you know what I mean, not necessarily uh
Speaker 1: you know there there they're they're very dominant. A lot
Speaker 1: of are great dominant there in the everyday life. You're
Speaker 1: saying that they gotta take charge and you gotta whole
Speaker 1: ship down, and you gotta this is Nata when he
Speaker 1: comes down to um in the bedroom. Wh It comes
Speaker 1: down to a certain situations. They want to take they
Speaker 1: want to they don't want to have to do that.
Speaker 1: And I noticed that a lot of times I have,
Speaker 1: like a lot of I have a lot of clients
Speaker 1: that are escorts in prostitutes and stuff like that, and
Speaker 1: they actually see me for for services too, because literally
Speaker 1: they getting a bunch of you know, they're having sex
Speaker 1: for money, and it kind of takes away from the
Speaker 1: they're faking it all day and I'm saying, yeah, right,
Speaker 1: they're they're faking it all day to do all this
Speaker 1: is the end of the day that they still they're
Speaker 1: still point to a certain level, but they don't want
Speaker 1: to dick because they haven't dick all day. But they
Speaker 1: still want like non penetrative services to Actually, my friend
Speaker 1: that the vanilla ship for this week. I actually found UM.
Speaker 1: And what it's gonna do is get us into discussing
Speaker 1: the safety UM around what you do and specifically bondage. UM.
Speaker 1: So a woman is charged in her husband's kinky sex
Speaker 1: death UM. A Mori County woman has been charged with
Speaker 1: reckless homicide for where her attorneys says was the accidental
Speaker 1: asphyxiation of her husband after he consented to being bound
Speaker 1: and gagged. The whole family is upset with what occurred.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say the name. UM. This is coming
Speaker 1: from the Daily Herald. We stand by the fact that
Speaker 1: this was an accident. According to the arrest warrant, the
Speaker 1: woman placed duct tape over her husband's mouth and eyes,
Speaker 1: put a ball gag in his mouth, and then tied
Speaker 1: bandage around his head. Leaving only his nostrils showing. She
Speaker 1: also tied his hands and legs behind his back. Then
Speaker 1: she left him for twenty hours. Apparently this was not
Speaker 1: the first time it happened. Um. Authorities found the twenty
Speaker 1: nine year old body UM and she now faces twelve
Speaker 1: years imprisoned if found guilty. UM. There's a lot of
Speaker 1: accidents suicides like this from the hanging themselves. If you
Speaker 1: even just look up like bondage, like there's nothing but
Speaker 1: stories on top of and there's no lead way. There's
Speaker 1: like if if anything ever happens to you, something that
Speaker 1: happened to some I am fux City. There's like when
Speaker 1: the court of law I was doing something that I
Speaker 1: had no business doing. City, he was looked at in
Speaker 1: a certain way to so they just they just throw
Speaker 1: you under the bus. As far as if people getting hurt, So,
Speaker 1: so how do you how do you go about being
Speaker 1: safe with here? Because there are people like he I'm
Speaker 1: sure requested to be left for twenty hours. And what
Speaker 1: we're gonna do this episode, We're also going to get
Speaker 1: into the thirteen types of bondage and this is on
Speaker 1: there UM and so we're gonna go through the different
Speaker 1: types of bondage, um what they mean and how they differ.
Speaker 1: But for this so that we my friend, I look
Speaker 1: like this, I look at this. Bondage is not safe. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm saying people want to say, okay, say you know
Speaker 1: it's it's safe if you can do it safely, and
Speaker 1: this it's it's just as safe as rock climbing a
Speaker 1: mountain climbing. To me, I'm saying like it's saying like
Speaker 1: people can do it and if you have the skill,
Speaker 1: you can get up and you can actually do it,
Speaker 1: and you can you're you're able to do it. But
Speaker 1: it's the wrong oneucker. Get up on that ship you doing,
Speaker 1: people fall and die. You'm saying, so it has that
Speaker 1: type of type of you guys that have to fake
Speaker 1: us to approach it like that. I'm saying, you gus
Speaker 1: a project. Okay, if you're a new beginner, you just
Speaker 1: don't jump into you know, the top of the highest
Speaker 1: craziest mountain. I think you're gonna climb that ship. Carry
Speaker 1: like scissors to make sure you can cut someone out
Speaker 1: of something. Yeah, exactly, Okay, there's a thing nothing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you definitely gotta be safe and d we're this lady
Speaker 1: sucked up at. What she sunked up at is that
Speaker 1: she didn't use her own discretion. What I'm saying, I've
Speaker 1: had a session real time where I had to grow
Speaker 1: and where the ropes were set up when I twisted
Speaker 1: the ropes in the middle of it with Choker, and
Speaker 1: She's like, harder, harder, harder. I'm like, yeah, I'm like harder.
Speaker 1: At this point, my hand is shaking. I know, I'm
Speaker 1: like at the top of my strength. And then she
Speaker 1: kind of just like kind of passes out and I'm
Speaker 1: like and she's like all and she wakes out it
Speaker 1: and it was all good, But my head I was like,
Speaker 1: never again. Now now it never. You're gonna time to
Speaker 1: tell me how much I'm gonna do to you. Whatever
Speaker 1: I'm administering to you. I'm gonna determine how what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna administer to you, what I'm saying, how much of
Speaker 1: that I'm gonna give you what I'm saying. So if
Speaker 1: this dude says I'm tying my mother, double take my
Speaker 1: fucking face, throw me in the class, leave me for
Speaker 1: twenty hours, my mind is gonna be like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna do that. Ship What I'm saying, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: pay me. He's gonna pay me. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: all right now to have you tired, I'm pull you
Speaker 1: out here in four hours. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: a lot of you have never heard of the tape thing.
Speaker 1: If you watched it's a very popular or not documentary.
Speaker 1: But what's it called bio docum something the Assassionary Nation
Speaker 1: of Chiani VERSACEI um the fashion line. There's a whole
Speaker 1: fashion line of a tape. Yeah, there is in there.
Speaker 1: He tapes the dude all the way around his face.
Speaker 1: And I remember googling and like, oh, should we have
Speaker 1: to make this a kink of the week because a
Speaker 1: lot of people have never seen that. But it's totally common.
Speaker 1: I've seen it. I do I do it. I do it.
Speaker 1: I do it with them with plastic wrap. Netflix. I
Speaker 1: do plastic wrap. Yeah, Netflix to take plastic wrapping, like
Speaker 1: I do this thing from fast wrapper. As I got
Speaker 1: her tiedle and once I get her fully fully full,
Speaker 1: you up and she's like locked in and then I
Speaker 1: just kind of go over a face. He's kind of
Speaker 1: panks a little bit and then it just pop a
Speaker 1: hole right in her mouth. You mean, make sure she
Speaker 1: could breathe? Is this a lot of shep? Was mine? Fun?
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like a lot of people, I'm claustrophobic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that to me would completely be like but I can't
Speaker 1: count on my face. I couldn't handle it. But it's
Speaker 1: one thing that I know that people are going to.
Speaker 1: I know people love, So I'm not gonna sit there
Speaker 1: and let you start to actually gag for air. It's
Speaker 1: just whoop, whoop. Leave me your eyes for that. What
Speaker 1: do you think? Like? Yeah, like, how long is someone
Speaker 1: wrapped up? It's too long? Um? Well, usually I can
Speaker 1: feel it, and I can I can feel when I
Speaker 1: keep my people tied up different things the West first
Speaker 1: start the session, I thought, a girl these ropes right here.
Speaker 1: These are more of a stretchy material that they're made
Speaker 1: up of, out of, um, like the material you know
Speaker 1: MAXI dress. This sung's basically it's basically it's spandexing. I
Speaker 1: taken the ropes out of it because I was doing
Speaker 1: stuff on dancers and they couldn't really dance and do
Speaker 1: what they want to do with this. So they still
Speaker 1: want to look and they still want to glow. So
Speaker 1: I found so I made these terally sold these hands,
Speaker 1: sold these together and put them together and make them
Speaker 1: long enough and tie somebody up with And then when
Speaker 1: I put them on the glow and I get different
Speaker 1: different materials and flavors and do like that, and I
Speaker 1: sell the ropes and all that good stuff like that.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into if you guys haven't known already,
Speaker 1: the kink of the week is bondage. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: get through um these different types of bondage. And if
Speaker 1: you have anything as far as historical background to them,
Speaker 1: or if you've done them or have any experiences you
Speaker 1: did said this before, I was like, keep speak on these, um.
Speaker 1: So the first one is shabari, also known as kin baku.
Speaker 1: It is one of the oldest and most popular types
Speaker 1: of bondage today. This form of bondage originated in Japan
Speaker 1: um and is known for using silk ropes, artful tying skills,
Speaker 1: and layering ropes to turn the bound person into work
Speaker 1: of art. So is that pretty much what you would
Speaker 1: consider what you do? This one? And I think we
Speaker 1: may have a story about this. It's gagging, um. So.
Speaker 1: Gags are one of the most common bondage related sex
Speaker 1: toys on the market. Um, and she actually brought one
Speaker 1: to the live show. If you guys came, it may
Speaker 1: have been New York Show last year. Um. But this
Speaker 1: is a whole genre of bondage. The concept behind gagging
Speaker 1: is to either bind someone in a way that makes
Speaker 1: it impossible to speak or breathe if you're into breath play,
Speaker 1: or to force someone's mouth open. Um, do you want
Speaker 1: to let them know kind of the ball gag? Or
Speaker 1: I don't think she had a ball of the gag
Speaker 1: that had holes in it. Um, it's just a ball gag,
Speaker 1: Like there can be all different kind of ball gags
Speaker 1: like this one is. I guess you could compare it
Speaker 1: to a belt, right and you put it on. I
Speaker 1: like the holes in it because it's easier for me
Speaker 1: to breathe. That's them. I mean, some people don't need that,
Speaker 1: and the holes are so to me. The holes will
Speaker 1: have to be a little bit easier, which makes the
Speaker 1: saliva don't build up so fast. But the one with
Speaker 1: the ball, the holes in your mouth and your jewel
Speaker 1: lot with it, which is I don't care to keep
Speaker 1: you from speaking like I want you. I want to
Speaker 1: hear all that ship, but I also want to gag
Speaker 1: you and see you just working. Just the drul is
Speaker 1: my favorite part of it. But I have such a
Speaker 1: bad gag reflex I'll drowl regardless. But I think, um,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's funny because there's such small amounts
Speaker 1: of gagging that people don't even realize they had done
Speaker 1: to them, right, whether it be like a pellow in
Speaker 1: your mouth or like putting something in your mouth to
Speaker 1: make you quiet, like, it's all just using one thing
Speaker 1: or another. Like, I think that gagging can be super
Speaker 1: sexy for you, either like the quiet thing or like
Speaker 1: the drooling, which a lot of people don't realize. The
Speaker 1: hand gaw like you reach around and you can basically
Speaker 1: gagger with your own hand. Bite like right here, just
Speaker 1: meat right here in your hand until the bite it
Speaker 1: and just hold it, hold it right. It's like when
Speaker 1: you're even though it doesn't mean not sound like gagging
Speaker 1: to y'all when something's deepen up. Think about like going
Speaker 1: to the dentist when like they put something in there
Speaker 1: and you have to clamp down when you do the
Speaker 1: X rays right and they put it deep enough, it
Speaker 1: makes you gag. That's the same with the hand gag,
Speaker 1: i'd so. The next type of bondage is sensory deprivation UM.
Speaker 1: This one specifically I've shared on the show that I'm
Speaker 1: not into because I was dealth while doing this UM. So.
Speaker 1: Sensory deprivation is one or more extreme types of bondage
Speaker 1: UM and it's the practice that uses restraints to reduce
Speaker 1: your ability to hear, feel, or see things around you.
Speaker 1: The most common example of sense sensory deprivation gear is
Speaker 1: the ever present blindfold. As we all know, UM. There's
Speaker 1: actually an extreme cases sensory deprivation chambers. Do you know
Speaker 1: anything about that? It's like soundproof rooms you can go
Speaker 1: on where you can't hear anything. Those are not really extreme.
Speaker 1: It's really get some of them little soft ear plugs.
Speaker 1: You put the ear plugs in, you blindfold them, UM,
Speaker 1: and then they don't really see what. I don't know
Speaker 1: about the blindfolding again. I like that. I like to UM,
Speaker 1: I like to use well. I realized that to tap
Speaker 1: into people the way I want to tap into and
Speaker 1: just some just gotta be some sensory deprivation going on.
Speaker 1: And there's got to be some some some sensory of
Speaker 1: other types of fields going on. So I use a
Speaker 1: feather and like a spike at the same time. I
Speaker 1: like to give pleasure in pain at the same time
Speaker 1: as I'm doing it, and it kind of sends your
Speaker 1: mind into, you know, a weird place. If you can't
Speaker 1: see and you don't hear what it's coming, that's another
Speaker 1: thing I'm saying. So that's very interesting when you can't hear. Yeah,
Speaker 1: even you can't hear. Keep in my bag. I keep
Speaker 1: my bag really slow. I don't want you to hear
Speaker 1: show y'all whole things. You don't hear the which whipping
Speaker 1: on me grab because some people they know my stuff,
Speaker 1: they know what it sounds like. They know they hear
Speaker 1: the ship rattling. They're like, oh you mean So sometimes
Speaker 1: we use that to the funk with him. I also
Speaker 1: do this to Uh. I have them blindfold for a
Speaker 1: little while, and then I take the blindfold of. I
Speaker 1: showed him a blade, and I popped the blade in
Speaker 1: front of him and then literally did not put the
Speaker 1: blade did I blindfold them back, grab baby oil and
Speaker 1: the credit card and sliced across the chest and put
Speaker 1: the blade at the same time. It should feel like
Speaker 1: they're getting sliced open. They fucking freak up. It's just
Speaker 1: the people, very Vanella bold. It just somebody put me
Speaker 1: onto that and I was like, yo, I the way
Speaker 1: did I say? People? That's I'm so like, there's I
Speaker 1: don't know working because The Weekly did recently, but it's
Speaker 1: like that operation thing with being sliced. One of my
Speaker 1: friends there's a place in the Orlando called the wood Ship.
Speaker 1: Shout out to James, my friend, and he was telling
Speaker 1: me like, Yo, there's a guy that came up to
Speaker 1: me with like mad cuts all over him, like he's
Speaker 1: super into that ship. And he's like they do it
Speaker 1: all the time, like in a super safe way, like
Speaker 1: the people that know how to do it can well.
Speaker 1: I mean that's where you go and there's a professional
Speaker 1: that doesn't probably much like yourself, right, you'll probably maybe
Speaker 1: you could get a little bit of a I don't
Speaker 1: do no blood play like I don't do no I
Speaker 1: want to pay because that's what someone makes it feel.
Speaker 1: It feels real. There's even like on porn Hub, like
Speaker 1: the fake blood scenes where it's like super, um no,
Speaker 1: I have a blindfold like fantasy that I'm really excited
Speaker 1: to do soon where um so like during a threesome.
Speaker 1: I really want to be blindfolded, but like and bound,
Speaker 1: so like I can't really do anything, and like if
Speaker 1: they let me taste something, maybe, but like basically just
Speaker 1: sit there and have to listen to everything that's going on.
Speaker 1: And then if I'm allowed like masturbate, great, but I'm
Speaker 1: so hyped. I got the Jet blue massa. Um. The
Speaker 1: next one is really interesting. UM, And I don't know
Speaker 1: if anyone has ever asked you to do this. The
Speaker 1: next one is actually humiliation bondage. UM. For some people,
Speaker 1: the elements of b DSM that turned them on are
Speaker 1: the concepts and situations behind them. Humiliation bondage is one
Speaker 1: of those. For example, a form of situational bondage would
Speaker 1: be tying up someone naked in public just so people
Speaker 1: would point and laugh. Or it may involve using a
Speaker 1: gag that has a toilet brush on the end and
Speaker 1: forcing a slave to clean the toilet. Humiliation bondage is
Speaker 1: incredibly versatile when it comes to both the tools and
Speaker 1: situation it can include, um, just as long as humiliation
Speaker 1: is involved. Has anyone ever asked you for this sort
Speaker 1: of bondage? Yeah? I mean it could be done in
Speaker 1: a different extremes just different stream. It could be acmilation
Speaker 1: where people want to be outside and be humiliated, or
Speaker 1: it just or or you know, you know, they want
Speaker 1: to be embarrassed, you know what I mean. Um, And
Speaker 1: then it could be as simple as some people just
Speaker 1: want to be called slut, dirty, nasty. This isn't there
Speaker 1: like be a fucking verbally abusive I'm saying. And it
Speaker 1: could be just in the bedroom I'm saying. It could
Speaker 1: be like you know, yeah, it could be to be
Speaker 1: just in the bedroom and in this humiliation within the
Speaker 1: within the dynamic, I mean whole outside gets not that
Speaker 1: that's what we talked about. It's facial bondage UM, which
Speaker 1: is exactly what it sounds like. Facial bondage and gagging
Speaker 1: often go hand in hand, but the difference between these
Speaker 1: two types UM is actually that gagging is specifically focused
Speaker 1: on a person's mouth, while facial bondage tends to focus
Speaker 1: on the entire facial bondage yes, eyes, cheeks, nose, and
Speaker 1: I don't I have some stuff where type of face
Speaker 1: like that's facial bondas too, but also facial bonds would
Speaker 1: be I've also tied girls face into my lap and
Speaker 1: like just tie their face into my lap. Where's yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't even like they can pull their head up
Speaker 1: only for so far because the ropes are directing. I
Speaker 1: can always just just spin my fingers out the second. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's like, this is that for a show. This is
Speaker 1: my personal ship. This is my personal ship. I do
Speaker 1: it and do a different realms. So I have like
Speaker 1: my archie farti stuff. Yeah, you know, I do my
Speaker 1: archie fartie stuff that I do for for show, and
Speaker 1: I do for for shows. I do a lessons with
Speaker 1: people people just want to rope sometimes. This is I
Speaker 1: have my clients, which are the fetish services that shold
Speaker 1: you guys. And then I have my personal situations I'm saying,
Speaker 1: which I would have my my, my, my, whoever heard you, sir.
Speaker 1: The next one is predicament bondage um. Predicament bondage is
Speaker 1: bondage that's done to put people in a more uncomfortable situation,
Speaker 1: which is actually probably what you just talk to. This
Speaker 1: could be anything from being hog tied with a massage
Speaker 1: across the clutteri ist um to being forced to ride
Speaker 1: a horse while tied an awkward position. The entire thing
Speaker 1: that makes predicament bondage a different kind of b d
Speaker 1: S SIM is the fact that it's designed to make
Speaker 1: the submissive squirm uncomfortably. Um, So that's probably kind of
Speaker 1: more what you talked about. Shout out to Cold when
Speaker 1: she was just on the show and she talked about
Speaker 1: how she knows someone who did the hog tying, and
Speaker 1: it like became emotionally like draining for her to be
Speaker 1: into that position for as long as she was and
Speaker 1: then also untied. But it was hours of it. How
Speaker 1: long do you normally spend hog time? Maybe maybe it
Speaker 1: depends depending personal life. I usually don't do nothing longer.
Speaker 1: It has nobody in the ropes longer than two hours.
Speaker 1: And for that that happened, that means we had to
Speaker 1: been in this situation for at least two and a
Speaker 1: half hours. What I'm saying, but I do on ties
Speaker 1: of my and put them in another position. I tied
Speaker 1: from one, tied them three or four times if I
Speaker 1: wanted to. I'm saying, if I have to, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'll tie you in a certain position so I can
Speaker 1: get to a certain way a certain way, and then
Speaker 1: I'll flip you over, tip in another position and then
Speaker 1: tied to across. Then I just, you know, just flip it.
Speaker 1: And I have no since to not keep somebody. My
Speaker 1: thing is if I tie person in a position that
Speaker 1: they're actually comfortable sitting in, I can play longer, I
Speaker 1: can get to the I can I can get to
Speaker 1: them better if I gotta, if I gotta change and
Speaker 1: pull them out and change them out, because the realist,
Speaker 1: realistically is that if somebody's hurting her in their pain,
Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt I don't want engine nobody.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm not trying to inbody. So you gotta
Speaker 1: you know you're telling me you gotta suck up me.
Speaker 1: You gotta sucked the elbow and and I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: take your arm and jacket behind your back or have
Speaker 1: you on your knees. I know your knees sucked up
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Or if you ever in a position
Speaker 1: you're like yours is really hurting and I'm gonna put it.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop right there and put you out right there.
Speaker 1: And none of ship have you ever had to cut
Speaker 1: someone out and I had to cut somebody up. I
Speaker 1: have to take people out and read them. I've had
Speaker 1: people have like panic attacks in the middle of it
Speaker 1: ropes after like rub here and listen, if you keep pulling,
Speaker 1: do you keep like you do it again? Yeah? And
Speaker 1: actually they we smoked some weed and then we started
Speaker 1: over and then we finished the session. It was dope.
Speaker 1: You know, she just needed to get higher. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go through about two more and then, UM, we're gonna
Speaker 1: maybe do a little quick demonstration. UM. The next one
Speaker 1: is hair bondage. UM. Hair bondage is often done to
Speaker 1: restrict move meant at a certain psychological layer of subservience
Speaker 1: to a sub or for that incredibly appealing pulling sensation
Speaker 1: that many people love to feel. UM. So what I'll
Speaker 1: do for our patrons is there's actually a video of
Speaker 1: the basics of hair bondage. UM. But what it does
Speaker 1: is kind of give you that effect of maybe when
Speaker 1: you ask a guy to pull your hair, um in
Speaker 1: the bedroom, and it actually as her sitting down and tying.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna make sure you guys who are patron
Speaker 1: members get to see that. UM. This last one is
Speaker 1: probably the most interesting, UM. And so I wanted to
Speaker 1: get into this before we take it back to maybe
Speaker 1: a little bit more vanilla bondage. This one is called
Speaker 1: mummification slash vacuum ceiling. I've seen the flat vacuum ceiling.
Speaker 1: This one looks crazy and I'm also gonna post that
Speaker 1: for you guys too. So mummification and vacuum ceiling are
Speaker 1: two types of bondage that either terrify people, soothe people,
Speaker 1: or turn them on. That being said, it isn't the
Speaker 1: type of bondage for people who are claustrophobic like myself.
Speaker 1: Um this time of this type of bondage use this
Speaker 1: either bondage tape, a leather suit, a latex suit, or
Speaker 1: a vacuum bed to give people a full body bondage experience.
Speaker 1: Almost every inch except for maybe your head, will be
Speaker 1: covered with material during this kind of bondage, regardless of
Speaker 1: the method used. This is considered an extreme form of
Speaker 1: restriction bondage. Depending on how extreme you are with your
Speaker 1: bondage practice, you may or may not be able to breathe. UM,
Speaker 1: so this is definitely brings in the element of breath play,
Speaker 1: but also being to where this kind of probably isn't
Speaker 1: something you want to do without a professional or something
Speaker 1: you definitely want to do as much research and as
Speaker 1: possible before you try with your partner. I say, um
Speaker 1: that too, and say just it just trusting your partner.
Speaker 1: I mean you need to have a partner that listen
Speaker 1: to you. If you're looking at him like you know
Speaker 1: what this is you on morning bugging? You're gonna just
Speaker 1: stop if you if you have yeah, safe words, just
Speaker 1: telling people they pick a saf words, but what's my savings?
Speaker 1: Like whatever you wanted to be. I don't pick relative
Speaker 1: to choose the safer because you heard, oh, all kind
Speaker 1: of stuff, you know kind of people just whatever. I
Speaker 1: think I get all kind of STU get uh likely
Speaker 1: yesterday a guy said come quiet, his come quiet, and
Speaker 1: he said, when else will I use the word come quiet?
Speaker 1: See that's that's cool. But see I tell people, don't
Speaker 1: use nothing crazy. S you something that's just gonna come
Speaker 1: off your tongue really easy, like stop because they stop
Speaker 1: say stopping, I'll stop, Like you don't gotta have nothing
Speaker 1: crazy because if you're in Paining, you're in a certain city,
Speaker 1: sometimes you not do you forget that the extra like
Speaker 1: oh I said stop, I said stop and remember your
Speaker 1: first one. I could break your fucking arm, you said,
Speaker 1: or you can choke the funk out like this is serious.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm like, it ain't gonna be that
Speaker 1: serious if it ain't say was that this series for me?
Speaker 1: If you're squirming wrong like you like you, like you
Speaker 1: was really really hurting, I'm gonna let up a little bit.
Speaker 1: I'm not just doing the last time that someone used
Speaker 1: it with you, um less, someone was spanking spanking paddles.
Speaker 1: We we did spanking and at the l show like
Speaker 1: and that's where we were like when to say a
Speaker 1: safe for it? But the girl literally spanked me in
Speaker 1: the same exact spot. So it wasn't even that she
Speaker 1: got harder with spanking, but being that it had been
Speaker 1: done in the same spot multiple times, I'm like, okay, girl,
Speaker 1: yeah you should. But what you should be able to
Speaker 1: say today whatever you say dash it. If you're using
Speaker 1: common sense, stop me stop like whatever I don't give
Speaker 1: you say in Japanese. I don't know Japanese. But if
Speaker 1: you say and you look at me someway, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: pull back and like and just check to seconds like
Speaker 1: you are you good? We were talking about I go
Speaker 1: back to what I mean like um as far as
Speaker 1: like I like yellow and red with spanking because that
Speaker 1: lets me know like how much. Yeah, the spanking with
Speaker 1: the paddle to the reason I've had trouble with it
Speaker 1: is because like it doesn't bruise you necessarily, but you
Speaker 1: could still really feel it the next day. And I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: it's not purple, but like I can barely sit. It's weird.
Speaker 1: That's some people. For most of the black people, I
Speaker 1: don't get. I don't never get them bruised. They get
Speaker 1: some bruises some stuff like that, but not crazy. But
Speaker 1: I've done a couple of a couple of white people,
Speaker 1: and I do. I feel I didn't do nothing much
Speaker 1: different than to my sisters, but they ship look like
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, I'm gonna make you sign
Speaker 1: a consent if I even give you mind. That legs
Speaker 1: right now are super bruised up. And I was like,
Speaker 1: I say a stripping out the damn bruises on my leg,
Speaker 1: Like I bruise. So I walked in. I was like,
Speaker 1: I need a banana because I heard potassium helps with
Speaker 1: the god damn bruising. Ship right, guys, ever, like do
Speaker 1: some videos, imn you get really bad bruising, brut bruising.
Speaker 1: There's a vitamin called Bramleine and the bramoline helps you
Speaker 1: with bruising. I don't know what it does with blood circulation,
Speaker 1: but it's just a basic righta main ordering on Amazon
Speaker 1: and that'll help you. Um. So I guess we're gonna
Speaker 1: get into real quick if we could do a live demonstration.
Speaker 1: Um of I guess let us know what type of
Speaker 1: of bonding you're doing, whether it's to her hands or whatever.
Speaker 1: But um, we are on videos, so if you have
Speaker 1: not yet, guys, um check us out on YouTube. Majority
Speaker 1: of our episodes are on YouTube. Shout out to Benson,
Speaker 1: our videographer. You guys heard him on a recent episode, um,
Speaker 1: but definitely check it out. We have sir dash about
Speaker 1: to um tie up. So, by the way, I hope
Speaker 1: you asked for concent because Mandy didn't for me. Well,
Speaker 1: I didn't ask to be fucked by shoulders during that
Speaker 1: episode either, So this is like, this is my payback now, Okay,
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do is I'm gonna do like a
Speaker 1: simple body harness, something simple. Um. I like to tipe
Speaker 1: people and body harnesses and this stuff because it can
Speaker 1: still have the bondage look and still be your hands
Speaker 1: and your fear free. You still walk around and do
Speaker 1: if you have to do. You can were as an outfit.
Speaker 1: This is something I can wear an outfit. I have
Speaker 1: girls to put these on and teach me on the
Speaker 1: self time. They literally we're just under the clothes, or
Speaker 1: can wins on top of your clothes, like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: put this over your outfit right here, and we leta
Speaker 1: get flat quickly, all right, So if you can buy
Speaker 1: your time to speak up louder so that or I
Speaker 1: can also even I don't know, I'll talk to let
Speaker 1: y'all know what he's doing. So um again. By the way,
Speaker 1: shout out to Bernie Duet. She actually lives in the
Speaker 1: other way and she has a clothing line that's full bondage. Yes,
Speaker 1: and it's all really hard roke the hard rope. It's
Speaker 1: super dope stuff. So if you guys are interested in
Speaker 1: maybe wearing this as a tire, to check it. Benson
Speaker 1: videotaping me with this smirk like bitch. Okay, they're normally
Speaker 1: our cameras are normally on a fucking tripod. And this
Speaker 1: nigger got up like, let me get the zoom. Okay,
Speaker 1: So where do you start? So you really to start
Speaker 1: in the middle of the rope, the middle of the rope.
Speaker 1: It's called the bite. It's the symptom of the rope.
Speaker 1: Find to both ends, mash it ends up and then
Speaker 1: to kind of pull the pull the rope to the
Speaker 1: to the center of the rope and side. I know
Speaker 1: I got the middle of my role. Okay. So for
Speaker 1: someone wanting to start this on the body of someone,
Speaker 1: where do you start on the body her? You want
Speaker 1: to get the center of the rope, right, don't you
Speaker 1: get yourself the center of this rope and then you
Speaker 1: can put this around her neck here right, you're gonna
Speaker 1: tie her braids. Make sure you get the braves out. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: you know what I do here is um I used
Speaker 1: to measure out everybody's different, everybody's size different. So I
Speaker 1: will come in here and bust are not here or
Speaker 1: a quickly crazy don't remember that bust then it's a
Speaker 1: bust of quick knight. You have to it could be
Speaker 1: just like you tie your shoe. Doesn't have to be
Speaker 1: nothing complicated. I did all that the boy Scout ship,
Speaker 1: but honestly, all that stuff is hard to take out
Speaker 1: when it comes down to undoing your ropes. So so
Speaker 1: he's tying another knot now near the vagina's two knots
Speaker 1: coming through here, and now he's going between her legs.
Speaker 1: So this is where she's gonna start feeling that here
Speaker 1: she's tied up coming here behind her here the same
Speaker 1: piece I put around her neck here gonna come right
Speaker 1: off the top of this here and pop that here.
Speaker 1: Now from there I can start sending the rope and
Speaker 1: making a little tighter sending. It's now going up her ask.
Speaker 1: This could be a cute little bag of sup right right,
Speaker 1: So we'll do a lot of time these dances. I've
Speaker 1: come and put these on them, and they'll go out
Speaker 1: and and and dance on the floor. Then I can
Speaker 1: switch it. I can switch it up for them. And
Speaker 1: we didn't have the outfit at first, and to come
Speaker 1: and do one of these real quick, I didn't suck
Speaker 1: it in, give me that instant. He just tied my
Speaker 1: food up back into my body. Where these come here, right,
Speaker 1: It feels good, looks cool and so at this point
Speaker 1: does this cause a sexual sensation at all to some
Speaker 1: people or for some yes, not a certain place. She
Speaker 1: had jeans on. But I like to put my nuts
Speaker 1: like right where when I'm moving around him, I'm getting spicy.
Speaker 1: She can see what's going on. It's rubbing her clut
Speaker 1: while you keep tying. It feels really good. And then
Speaker 1: it's also in her ass, so the back part would
Speaker 1: technically be in the crack of her ass. Now they
Speaker 1: are they naked when you do this, So you watch
Speaker 1: these ropes. This feels like BB already materials. I can
Speaker 1: always pop them into Washing Washington, then I um, I
Speaker 1: sell them in Most of time, I just give people
Speaker 1: the roles after they if you mess them up with
Speaker 1: them crazy to mess them up, like with what their
Speaker 1: faginal faces them up. They scored them up. They scored
Speaker 1: them up scu So so is there a reason that?
Speaker 1: Is there a reason that you go all the way
Speaker 1: down to because you're now around her ankles and now
Speaker 1: I'm just doing stuff because I like, we look like
Speaker 1: if I had the black lights on it, it does
Speaker 1: look really dope going down, Like I like what you're doing.
Speaker 1: It was like making like a little outphit of it.
Speaker 1: Like she was naked. It'd be like someone stripping off.
Speaker 1: My mom just asked me why I'm not answering, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm working so for the knot on
Speaker 1: the clip, right, can you put a knot inside of somebody? Uh?
Speaker 1: Sometimes if they tell to get in my roof and drawers,
Speaker 1: but I tell people, you know, okay, I recommended like
Speaker 1: little courtesy. You don't need to get see my rootes
Speaker 1: a little bit. But if you don't, if you don't,
Speaker 1: if you don't have to, if you have a drugs,
Speaker 1: it'll sit right right where it needs to be. So
Speaker 1: it looks really cool. I like that. Basically, I'm curious
Speaker 1: to know when I would do something like that, right,
Speaker 1: So am I gonna am I gonna like sit in
Speaker 1: this and wear it and like will it start to
Speaker 1: feel tight or it'll rotate and move a little bit,
Speaker 1: but it's still for the most part it's it's stretchy rope.
Speaker 1: So it's not gonna go nowhere make my butt look better, yo.
Speaker 1: So it looks really cool with somebody harness, And like,
Speaker 1: do you do a video to where someone knows they
Speaker 1: can do when when I sell the ropes out, some
Speaker 1: do a little show them how to ty because you
Speaker 1: can do all to yourself. Actually, you mean you really
Speaker 1: could have put this on yourself which around yourself and
Speaker 1: do it dif' just is next he's my other hard room.
Speaker 1: He's like really buying people. But I'm trying to time
Speaker 1: the down. Did you do something to maybe around her wrists?
Speaker 1: Um to show maybe how you would what doesn't go?
Speaker 1: Are you up here? I could do anywhere? I mean
Speaker 1: where where we choose to do? You're gonna do it
Speaker 1: with anybody, you know, just for you guys, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do this. I'm going to lock your arms. Told you
Speaker 1: like that, right? And this is is this the most
Speaker 1: common that people ask is for the restriction of their
Speaker 1: arms and hands? Or where do you find people between
Speaker 1: the between the legs and the arms? Where do people
Speaker 1: what do you get specific exactly? Where do you want
Speaker 1: to get tired of? People just come to me and
Speaker 1: are you tying me up? And then they let me
Speaker 1: kind of figure it out. I mean, for the most first,
Speaker 1: relaxing my shoulders or where are they getting tense? I mean,
Speaker 1: you can relax them, but they're gonna I'm gonna you
Speaker 1: see hat he said, you'll see. So this is this
Speaker 1: is just very interesting. I guess for for anyone who's
Speaker 1: interested in getting this, where could they buy this at
Speaker 1: any arts and crafts store? Do they have to buy this?
Speaker 1: At a sex store or paid to my city. What
Speaker 1: is this? Where where can they buy these these ropes?
Speaker 1: I know you make the other ones, but this type
Speaker 1: of rope that you're using now, these ones that make
Speaker 1: to these are all blue in the dark. Did they
Speaker 1: look weird because they don't have my lights on them?
Speaker 1: But these are just like a hot pink rope. Was like,
Speaker 1: oh wow, So what he does guys? Um? He actually
Speaker 1: he actually does this with like black light and make
Speaker 1: it all a cooney sheet. So do you do it?
Speaker 1: Do you do like in calls or something? I do.
Speaker 1: I go people's homes and then sometimes they get a hotel,
Speaker 1: you bring their black light, you bring a black I
Speaker 1: bring my black lights and everything. Do you let them
Speaker 1: video David? Um? Depends on the situation. If I had
Speaker 1: a harm, I would snap this. Can you do it?
Speaker 1: This is? This is really really dope, though I don't
Speaker 1: know with me. With me, I think, look, how are
Speaker 1: you feeling. I feel fine, I don't feel like unsafe.
Speaker 1: I mean there's a whole lot of we got the
Speaker 1: lights on you on camera? Well. I mean that's also
Speaker 1: the other thing, like I can't tell you if I
Speaker 1: just met somebody and like they wanted to tie me
Speaker 1: up and they started doing is I wouldn't you know? One.
Speaker 1: Here's the other thing. I've never let someone dominate me
Speaker 1: that I didn't feel secure with like I've never thankfully,
Speaker 1: I've never had a bad dum experience. They also I
Speaker 1: also wasn't comfortable, right, I also have been with experienced.
Speaker 1: Um so, and so what are you doing right now?
Speaker 1: You're pretty much finishing up the knot? And could you
Speaker 1: could you turn around? I didn't wear makeup? Oh wow,
Speaker 1: So it's still really done very intricately. So it's longer.
Speaker 1: The longer you are, the more you can pieces because
Speaker 1: then if I want to add on it could just
Speaker 1: add on add on it. And if it's way too
Speaker 1: long and I'll be sitting here for a long time
Speaker 1: time type of right, I really get And then with
Speaker 1: the here and you could just and how quick how
Speaker 1: quick does that one get untied? Is it just kind
Speaker 1: of like the so she had to stay for it
Speaker 1: and it was like, okay, I'm done. How quick does
Speaker 1: she get out of this? That's so fast? That was
Speaker 1: really fast to get out of that. Okay, So untying
Speaker 1: is definitely like with a pull of a a couple
Speaker 1: of strings and she's out, Well that's really really really okay.
Speaker 1: I'm might to try to eat I mean, I might
Speaker 1: do the tying up. I don't think I want to
Speaker 1: be tied. I'm I'm very close for you. Honestly. The
Speaker 1: only uncomfortable part for me is probably like the shoulder restraint,
Speaker 1: like not even the end, but but I mean, but
Speaker 1: still never was there a point where I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is awful. So can I look?
Speaker 1: She want to keep she want to keep this string Listen.
Speaker 1: I'm I love that. Guys. If you guys want to
Speaker 1: try this, I think it's not only does it look hot.
Speaker 1: Um and again I'll even post um if you guys
Speaker 1: are interested in finding bondage lingerie, I know a couple
Speaker 1: of sites where you can get that. UM and he's
Speaker 1: cool or whatever. Um, So we are gonna go ahead
Speaker 1: while he um puts the ropes back into his box,
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into our wholemale portion of the show. Um.
Speaker 1: This one is actually really interesting, especially whalle it's current.
Speaker 1: I would say, Um, this one is called and sir Dash,
Speaker 1: if you have any advice on this as well, please
Speaker 1: chime in. So the title of this one is no
Speaker 1: sex during Ramadan, but he's not even Muslim. Hey, ladies,
Speaker 1: I just want to start by saying how much I
Speaker 1: love you both and how much I've learned from you
Speaker 1: guys through the podcast. I'm gonna get right to the point.
Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy on and off for like
Speaker 1: a year now. Last night I asked him to come
Speaker 1: over and have sex, and he says he can't because
Speaker 1: of Ramadan. But the gag is he isn't even Muslim,
Speaker 1: and he didn't even start participating in Ramadan until it
Speaker 1: was three days in. Now. I'm not mad because he's
Speaker 1: choosing to do this for himself and his spirit, but
Speaker 1: this is something he chose to do without even telling
Speaker 1: me about until I asked for sex. And he was
Speaker 1: at my house laying in my bed the night before
Speaker 1: telling me about Ramadan and couldn't tell me he wasn't
Speaker 1: having sex either. I'm not sure if I'm just being
Speaker 1: a brat because I've been so horny, or if he
Speaker 1: should have at least communicated this with me, being that
Speaker 1: he isn't even Muslim. Sorry this was so long, but
Speaker 1: I'd like to hear what you ladies have to say. Love.
Speaker 1: I ain't getting none until after June four. So I
Speaker 1: just pointed it um our engineer behind us, Chris, because
Speaker 1: I know that I thought you were a Muslim. I
Speaker 1: don't know why I thought that. Well, I'm no longer practice,
Speaker 1: but I used to practice a couple of years ago. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I used to, you know, practice Islam. We won't have
Speaker 1: to get into the details because they do pay attention
Speaker 1: to ship like this. But anyway, now listener's for me
Speaker 1: to talk about. It's about like Ramadon for you and sex.
Speaker 1: I participated in Ramadan for two years, my first one.
Speaker 1: I was engaged to a young lady. And yeah, you
Speaker 1: could have sex. Actually it just has to be during
Speaker 1: the hours of you know, eating and all of that.
Speaker 1: But yeah, you could pretty much smash bro. What are
Speaker 1: you talking about? Like, yeah, don't don't. I mean if
Speaker 1: he is though, like I understand and I respect his
Speaker 1: decisions and not smash well. And that's the thing too,
Speaker 1: Like for Ramadon, you can choose what you're giving up, right, Honestly,
Speaker 1: It's not like I don't know too much about land,
Speaker 1: but I know you could pretty much have a selection,
Speaker 1: be honest with you, Like, tensions are a little higher
Speaker 1: for me with religion right now, women's bodies, So I'm
Speaker 1: just like all of them. But honestly, I will say
Speaker 1: I do think it's kind of weird that this dude
Speaker 1: randomly decided to pop up and like is it a
Speaker 1: keto diet or like, not only that, you're he also
Speaker 1: joined it three days late, Like, oh, I see everybody
Speaker 1: doing Ramadan? Let you do that? Is that? Yeah? That
Speaker 1: thing you before, that's like almost like almost like a
Speaker 1: consent almost type of things at any point in time.
Speaker 1: If you if you that's what you're if that's what
Speaker 1: you're saying, there's a reason why you don't want to
Speaker 1: have whatever it is Ramadan as an excuse, I probably
Speaker 1: to do it for self. If you're doing for self,
Speaker 1: If you're doing for self purposes and something you have
Speaker 1: self different things, you're trying to take a break or whatever,
Speaker 1: then just say you just trying to take a break
Speaker 1: of this isn't that um, But if you don't. Sometimes
Speaker 1: some people just want to take a break but don't
Speaker 1: have a significant reason why they want to take a break,
Speaker 1: and so they use whatever ramadon or whatever something like
Speaker 1: that to maybe possibly I mean, but it just seems
Speaker 1: like just be honest with just so I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm not here for someone using uh a religion reason
Speaker 1: is like especially when you're like you don't practice it,
Speaker 1: I don't know. To me, I would wonder like maybe
Speaker 1: the communication of why and really seeing if he's doing
Speaker 1: it for purpose or does he understand Ramadan and what
Speaker 1: it actually means, because then if it is something to
Speaker 1: where he's new, because I'm not gonna lie I lived
Speaker 1: um in Asia for about six months and I was
Speaker 1: really like interested in Buddhism and what it stood for
Speaker 1: and what was what it was about. This is something
Speaker 1: that he's like, maybe I want to convert to this
Speaker 1: and this is how I want to start, then I
Speaker 1: would understand him. But for him just to say, well
Speaker 1: it is Ramadan, I gave up sex, I mean, here's
Speaker 1: the thing too. Is this the thing is he is
Speaker 1: that what really happened? Or is that's her her version
Speaker 1: of what she's saying, Because some of the people just
Speaker 1: break it down and really get simple with it. So
Speaker 1: when they explained to you just like yeah, he just
Speaker 1: you know, maybe yeah, but maybe maybe he did really
Speaker 1: break it down and we was really was been studying,
Speaker 1: really been because she didn't get no dick, she's just
Speaker 1: like you might be really out of here. I want
Speaker 1: to thank Sir Dash or stir dashing tone um for
Speaker 1: coming through the horrible decisions. I hope that you guys
Speaker 1: learned a lot about bondage, but now also may want
Speaker 1: to ring it into the bedroom before we get out
Speaker 1: of here. Can you let our listeners know where they
Speaker 1: can find you? Will also put all of his information
Speaker 1: in the description of this episode. Sounds good. Well, my
Speaker 1: name is Sir Dashington. Thank you guys for having me.
Speaker 1: First of all, Um, you guys can find me at www.
Speaker 1: A Roddey ropes by Dash dot com, um on Instagram,
Speaker 1: you can find me at a Roddey roast by Dash
Speaker 1: three um, Twitter, roast by Dash, Email, roast by Dash
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. All of that before we also
Speaker 1: get out of here. You guys just heard me bring
Speaker 1: up some reproductive shape. You might have seen me say
Speaker 1: on Twitter like I had really just was not in
Speaker 1: the mood to work today, you know, like I was.
Speaker 1: It's hard to come in here sometimes when you're just
Speaker 1: like really in those emotions of what's going on around you,
Speaker 1: and as someone who's had an abortion and just seeing
Speaker 1: a lot of Twitter slander and I don't even have
Speaker 1: a Twitter, like you know, we post about horrible decision
Speaker 1: ship and I was like, still really annoyed whether just
Speaker 1: seeing the hierarchy of what abortion is okay to pee bowl.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's okay if you know, you get an
Speaker 1: abortion round this time, but not this one. It's okay
Speaker 1: if you get to but not four and blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. So I just wanted to look up
Speaker 1: as much as I can and see what I could do.
Speaker 1: So I found some stuff. Sure, I'm sure all of
Speaker 1: you probably feel as angry, especially if you're I guess
Speaker 1: open enough to listen to this podcast. So if you
Speaker 1: don't know, Alabama, it's now illegal to have an abortion
Speaker 1: after six weeks. The trouble with that is that most
Speaker 1: of us find out we're pregnant around six weeks, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, four weeks in a month, and then you
Speaker 1: missed your period and you're like, oh and then boom,
Speaker 1: it's six week. It's too weak. So a few things
Speaker 1: that we can do, right, So if you have I
Speaker 1: don't know, ten minutes of time, you can call one
Speaker 1: of your legislatives that are in or anyone that's in Alabama,
Speaker 1: and you don't leave him a voicemail about how you're
Speaker 1: feeling affected by this, I'll leave the number in the description.
Speaker 1: UM donate to local grassroots organizations plant parenthood. Of course,
Speaker 1: there's another one called n A R A l UM
Speaker 1: and the National Network of Abortion Funds UM. Actually, anytime
Speaker 1: someone passes me on the street in New York about
Speaker 1: the motherfucking doll, I'm like, dog, I only give my
Speaker 1: money to black people and plan parent. That's sorry. But
Speaker 1: I did want to say volunteering is a clinic escort,
Speaker 1: so I already looked up a place UM in Alabama
Speaker 1: to do it. As some of you guys saw the Louisville,
Speaker 1: Kentucky thing on Twitter where these people there was like
Speaker 1: five escorts for one woman. She like was totally covered
Speaker 1: her face, like people were screaming at her, like it's crazy.
Speaker 1: I know there's Ohio and Georgia that have crazy bands.
Speaker 1: So if you're in these cities or nearby, maybe making
Speaker 1: a girl's trip. You know what I'm saying, go with
Speaker 1: your friends, do something great for someone else. It's gonna
Speaker 1: do nothing but make you feel good. And I also
Speaker 1: wanted to talk about just the repercussions of the abortion band.
Speaker 1: So currently they're saying this, I don't know how true
Speaker 1: this is, but they are saying that if you live
Speaker 1: in Alabama and you go to another state to get
Speaker 1: an abortion, you can also be charged, yes when you
Speaker 1: come home. So here are a few rules from Planned Parenthood.
Speaker 1: Number one, uh taken at home test only because of
Speaker 1: rule number two, tell no one don't text over the
Speaker 1: phone social media. Everybody's like freaking out about it. But three,
Speaker 1: when you take your VACA in to another state, just
Speaker 1: go under the guys to sight see your visit family um.
Speaker 1: And for when you obtain the abortion, do not sign
Speaker 1: any waivers. If you don't sign any waivers for consent
Speaker 1: to providers to communicate to other ones, you are safe.
Speaker 1: Look up HIPPA. Your information is federally protected. If the
Speaker 1: one and only person who knows you had an abortion
Speaker 1: leaks it, they will go to prison because they violated HIPPA.
Speaker 1: And unless you've broke any other rules, they're the only
Speaker 1: ones who know. That was from an anonymous source at
Speaker 1: Planned Parenthood. So I don't know how true it is
Speaker 1: that you could go to fucking jail or like be
Speaker 1: you know, persecuted for UM having an abortion another state.
Speaker 1: But just keep aware of those things, making sure you
Speaker 1: don't sign any paper I would even so much as
Speaker 1: pay with motherfucking cash for an abortion. But not only that,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of laws. There's about fifteen states currently
Speaker 1: affected as well, UM, and more bills looking to be passed.
Speaker 1: So UM, I don't think that we aren't going to
Speaker 1: speak on this. We have had an episode where we
Speaker 1: s I both opened up about our abortions. UM. But
Speaker 1: I am planning an episode UM in which we will
Speaker 1: discuss kind of what's going on UM in our current
Speaker 1: state as far as politically UM, but also just getting
Speaker 1: some women UM who are in that space professionally to
Speaker 1: get on this show and really dig deep into abortion,
Speaker 1: the effects on the body UM, and of course the
Speaker 1: political stance in which our country is currently taking. So
Speaker 1: UM be on the lookout for UM that episode coming
Speaker 1: in those send some emails two of your personal stories,
Speaker 1: like especially men, I think that is a great um
Speaker 1: and untouched space with abortions. So many women like talk
Speaker 1: about their abortions and get shut on for it. And
Speaker 1: there's plenty of niggas that have had four or five
Speaker 1: six out here and don't talk about those moments. Don't
Speaker 1: talk about how abortions save their lives or their careers
Speaker 1: or their money. UM. So definitely share those stories with us.
Speaker 1: Will totally be anonymous if you want us to, UM,
Speaker 1: but just share that with us so these women know
Speaker 1: that they're not alone. And UM. Once again, this has
Speaker 1: been yet another episode of horror decisions. What is the
Speaker 1: craziest thing you've seen on the flight yet? Uh? Or
Speaker 1: craziest moment? Think catching someone give a blow job? Wait,
Speaker 1: that happened on your fight and to Orlando. It's a
Speaker 1: million kids girl and was from Lauderdale. They gotta be Florida.
Speaker 1: They just gotta And then the short no, it's like
Speaker 1: from yeah in the no, so they had they were
Speaker 1: in the background and you put the story. You put
Speaker 1: a little blanket over here, right, But the flights, the
Speaker 1: flights are full, Orlando flights are kids and maybe crying
Speaker 1: back and forth. And wait, she couldn't even give head
Speaker 1: being quiet that we knew, shut the funk up. There's
Speaker 1: a way to give me quiet, bro. Wait, you tapped
Speaker 1: her on the head while she was in action, except
Speaker 1: her back. We had to tell her like, hey, there's
Speaker 1: but two people can't go into the bathroom and it's
Speaker 1: not against the laws. You're you're telling me you can
Speaker 1: fucking fucking a bathroom. But do you want to? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't don't know the funk you do not let
Speaker 1: me tell you. I wasn't l a X this weekend, Okay,
Speaker 1: drunk Delta sky Club talking with this dude and he's like,
Speaker 1: I bet y'all. No, I wasn't like, but he bet
Speaker 1: everybody at the fucking bar a hundred dollars. He's like,
Speaker 1: y'all gotta pay for my drinks if I'm right. Two
Speaker 1: people can go in the bathroom, and you can. They
Speaker 1: can't say anything to you. And I was like, no
Speaker 1: fucking way. So someone googled something and it proved him wrong,
Speaker 1: and he paid for all of our drinks. You owe
Speaker 1: him some money, So what do you You told her
Speaker 1: she could go in the bathroom. Now you're about to
Speaker 1: give everybody locked up. You can get in trouble. So
Speaker 1: when you act up and you don't listen to us,
Speaker 1: you get to it and it's like, hey, if you
Speaker 1: don't stop, you're gonna get of whatever whoever it is,
Speaker 1: whoever I thought me and Mandy was about to get
Speaker 1: a ticket win. She's a lot of help was on
Speaker 1: the adults are like a baby sues girl that was
Speaker 1: heading into We were in how Utch. Some motherfucker would
Speaker 1: tell me to shut the funk up, bitch. No not.
Speaker 1: My bad experience was going over to uh d R
Speaker 1: and um. This lady was with her know she was
Speaker 1: with her dude at the time, but her side nigger
Speaker 1: was on the plane with her as well at the
Speaker 1: same damn time. So they go to the back of
Speaker 1: the aircraft and the dude the dude to sleep and
Speaker 1: she goes to the back of aircraft with her side dude.
Speaker 1: They go inside of the back and there in the bathroom.
Speaker 1: I don't know if they're talking to know what they're doing.
Speaker 1: And yeah, so the guy comes out, the man, the
Speaker 1: main man comes and he knocks on the door and
Speaker 1: they opened the door and he slapped the shot out
Speaker 1: of her. And the side guys just standing there like,
Speaker 1: what do I do? WI? What you was doing? What
Speaker 1: do you think I was doing? You just watching a No?
Speaker 1: I literally was like and I would be like, that's
Speaker 1: what the funk you get trying to Now we gotta
Speaker 1: call the captain, let them know that there's an emergency
Speaker 1: going on at land early for that, did y'all? Oh no,
Speaker 1: we actually didn't land early. We diverted even worse. Wait
Speaker 1: what yes, how do you stopped him? You go all right?
Speaker 1: Not me? No, No, what do y'all do in a
Speaker 1: case of niggas? And by that, I mean, however you
Speaker 1: take it? Can we tell them? Yeah we have flexi rods. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you for strained them. So they're like okay, okay, And
Speaker 1: so people are what you do? Throw it at him