WEBVTT - Ep115: B is for Bondage feat Sir Dash 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:07.040 Hey, guys, it's Monday. I know y'all at work, um, 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:10.239 but we make here mondays so much better. So this 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:13.520 is another episode of horrible decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy, 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:16.880 I'm Wheezy, and apparently I am really holding on the 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:18.840 front lines because there's a nigga sitting next to me 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:23.160 with a bunch of rope. So this episode, if you 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:27.960 ain't reading Tiger is B is for bondage, Um, Wheezy 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:30.479 and I just had her friend on an episode of 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:34.000 our Patreon and she titled it A is for anals, 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:35.760 So it only made sense that now we're on B, 0:00:36.200 --> 0:00:38.600 let's go ahead and get it going like that. I 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:42.160 guess before we start, go ahead and introduce yourself, um, 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:46.360 and let us know what you do. Hello, everybody welcome. 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:50.640 My name is uh, Sir Dashington. I am a erotic 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:54.040 vision performance artist. I am a healer. I ain't dumb. 0:00:54.880 --> 0:00:57.040 I do a little bit of everything. A little bit 0:00:57.080 --> 0:01:00.880 of Everything's a little passive to your dom, do you 0:01:00.920 --> 0:01:05.040 find Yeah, you feel very calm and you're soft spoken. 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:08.039 I feel like people always assume that doms are like yo, 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:12.319 Do women ever say that to you that they're surprised 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:15.959 that you're a dom lader because you're so they will. 0:01:16.800 --> 0:01:19.360 I kind of thrive off the concept of people not 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.560 you know, getting caught up in whatever they seeing, whatever 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:24.759 they're the mirage as they see, they want to they 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:26.640 want to claim in say, Okay, don I'm supposed to 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:28.560 be this type or whatever, but I'm a type of person. 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:30.520 I really don't fall into any type of box that's 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:33.280 you say, if you say yeah, I'm this, then somehow enough, 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:36.760 somehow fit that, you know. That's how kind of made 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:38.800 this whole thing for work for myself. I don't necessarily, 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:41.240 you know, going out and say yeah, I'm don't I'll 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.760 never call myself a dom Really. The reason I brought 0:01:43.840 --> 0:01:46.000 that up is like a lot of women have said 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:48.320 things to me, like when I talk about doms in 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:52.160 my life, asking if you know, they're like super assertive, 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:53.920 if they make me feel like I even have a choice, 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:56.800 things like that, And it's like realizing that being a 0:01:56.880 --> 0:01:59.640 stub is the choice relinquishing that power to somebody, and 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:04.720 I'm having, you know, the honor of being dominant to you, Like, 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:07.320 it's not every domb isn't one and the same. You 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:08.960 don't have to think, you know, it's someone out here 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:10.480 with a whip ready to like make you get on 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:12.040 your knees and get the ship out of you. It's 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:14.560 absolutely what you asked for. It's absolutely what you asked for. 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:17.280 And I feel like, um, there's different types of doms 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:18.799 I'm saying, and when you get into it, you start 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.440 to realize there's different type of just sometimes are really 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:23.919 statistic and they really get off from getting pain. And 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:25.840 then there's some guys like myself, I'm more of asential 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:29.040 dom so um and I like to do that within 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:30.679 the realm that I'm doing it with him like a 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:34.400 living seven am I expecting nobody to you know, yeah, 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:37.919 I want you want, I still want to we want. Yeah, 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:39.280 I still want a power black woman to make your 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:41.080 own decision. That's a boss that when it comes down 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.200 to me, come on the bedroom and when I when 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:45.359 when I make my faces, my show, we're certain things 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:47.000 and it's ready to make that move. She already knows 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:50.040 where's where to go. I kind of reminds me of 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:54.160 a King Noir, like he's very sensual and his videos 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:56.440 and how he even treats a woman, but he's very 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.720 much a dom. So you said you're an erotic visual artist, 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:04.079 a visual performance art performance artists, and that is your 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:08.240 full time job. Orb's my full time thing. You full time. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.359 You want a bandage full time, Well it's not something 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:13.320 in the bond full time where what happens is is 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:15.800 I started doing this as an artist. I'm an artist. 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:18.720 So I was doing shows out on Brooklyn. I had 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:21.160 this party called the Mad tea art party. Was giving 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:23.440 anybody shroom t get them zudo on shrooms, and I 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:26.119 would do these scenes. We'll have girls dancing in front 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.200 of a canvas and I would throw paint on them. 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:34.079 And then yeah, even all this stuff I do, it's 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:36.360 all some trippy shroom down ship that I just started 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:37.760 from back in the day. I just want you all 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.080 to know, if y'all are not watching us on YouTube, 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:42.240 well you're sitting across from a black man with dreads. 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:46.920 This is because I mean, I associate like the shrooms 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:49.360 and like those type of parties. I mean, three white 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:52.920 people ship. So to be real, all these plants come 0:03:52.920 --> 0:03:57.360 from people like medicine. I just kind of don't fall 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:59.880 into any of those dudes. Dudes, I don't just know. 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:02.840 I never let whatever I am or whoever the people 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:04.320 think that I am, stopped me from doing anything I 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:06.960 want to do or try. So I didn't even like 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:09.320 think about it like that in my realm. But I 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:12.240 start to events and then um, one of my whole 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:14.440 gros for me, the spanker with with whips dipped in 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:17.839 paint and make a canvas painting. And I'm like, oh, fuck, helly, 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.919 I'm gonna do this ship. And I actually um started 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:22.480 looking it up to see anybody was doing the ship, 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:23.840 and I didn't see nobody doing it. And then I 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:26.400 seen girls tied up and be being a cup scout. 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:28.360 Boy scout was a path find I grew up like learning. 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:29.880 I had to learn my not to get my little 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:31.480 badges and ships. So whom I saw that, I was like, 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:33.320 oh I could do that ship. I'm gonna tire up 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:38.240 first and boom boom and literally I did yeah, literally yeah, 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:41.760 literally a brount of the church because we come down 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:44.320 to it was like a church boy scout program. Did 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:48.160 they put your head? Didn't put a little soldiers into this? 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:52.560 And I went when I was in Japan, like they 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:54.760 had a section of a sex story that was all 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:56.760 about like taking a class and learning how to tie. 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:58.680 So I sat in there for like five minutes. Name 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:00.840 speak English. But I was like, oh wow, okay, Like 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:03.840 YouTube really helps, but that ship is really hard and 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:07.080 really I started, like literally, I went to YouTube a 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:10.200 week before my show, learned one fucking tie how to 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:13.040 do the likes whatever I do and figured it out 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:15.320 and did that one time for the show and did 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:17.200 it from there. And once I did that show, people like, yo, 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:19.400 that ship is We're doing again, Girls like I'm next. 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:22.080 Oh yeah, you were sent in by about three of 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:25.760 our followers on Instagram and they're like, if y'all do bondage, 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:27.920 you have to get this guy on something your page 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:30.400 has been said multiple times and I know we talked, yeah, 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:35.360 I know for a long time, wanting to get to 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:37.359 have someone that like we've been chatting with for a while. 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:40.280 I was just thinking too when you mentioned tying someone up. 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:42.640 We had a guest a few weeks ago, Liz Goldwyn, 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.320 who talks about our friend of hers who tied her 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:47.120 up and it took three hours. What's the longest she 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.800 was completely bound? I think, like, what's the longest it's 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.640 ever taking you to tie someone up? Well s, Yeah, 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:54.960 I I maybe a performance artist, and I think about 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:57.159 the show. I think about people watching, how many people, 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.120 how long is it will get people attentions being so 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:01.760 I do different things to to intreat people while I'm 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:03.200 doing a tie so it doesn't look like you're just 0:06:03.480 --> 0:06:04.840 getting tied up for a long time. But I do 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:07.720 sessions that my my, my, my sessions. I have my clients, 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:10.680 you know, two hours minimum, two hours minimum, two hours 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:13.560 minimum and minimum being tied up. It's not gonna be 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:14.680 tied up for the whole time. Like when I just 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.520 do what I start off with the consultation and beginning, 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:18.240 we talked. I find out what you with you with you, 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:21.120 what you're comfortable with with you? Now you dudes, your dones. Um, 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:24.039 we kind of vibe out, we laugh, we joke, I'm saying, 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:25.920 and then you know, just get into the session. Tell 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:27.679 me what you want to do. I sent you guys earlier. 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:29.520 I have a whole menu. You tell me what things 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:31.160 you want to do. Can mix them up however you 0:06:31.200 --> 0:06:32.640 want to do within the time. Friend, you want to 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:35.840 do it. And and I come to people, I come, 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:38.480 I go to them, I travel to them. In house call. 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:40.400 I do in house call. Is that how you make 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:42.800 your money? I do that. And I do a lot 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:45.600 of shows. Do you consider it sex work? Um, it's 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.039 weird feeling a weird line because I feel like it's 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:50.320 for me, it's not sex work. Like as far as 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:51.960 how far as I concerted, like I ain't pull my 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:54.160 dick out in insert and nobody, so that's to me, 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:58.560 I'm not having sex. However, strippers, Yeah, I was about 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:01.040 to say strippers dance and they're not having intercourse, but 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:03.719 they're considered a line of sex working. I'm not going 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:06.719 to read off the prices because we'll we'll give your 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:09.280 booking if anyone's interested, but I want to read off 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:12.840 some of your services, um, and then maybe we can 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:15.520 be like, how can you not consider the sex work? So? Um? 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:20.560 Some of the services that um, Sir Dashington um provides 0:07:21.160 --> 0:07:25.240 is goddess pampering service. Um. It's all sensual play, no 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:29.760 pain or ropes. But that's optional. Um, it is optional. 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:32.600 So um, real quick, I'm actually going to compare that 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:36.280 to a boyfriend experience a bf E because a lot 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:40.040 of that or GF for girlfriends. Um, it's they don't 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:42.240 necessarily have to have sex, but it's more of the intermac. 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:44.760 People want to touch, you want to cuddle, people want 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:48.200 to all that stuff. So it's it's it's and their 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:49.880 sex workers just you know, because we're gonna get you 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:53.440 to reclaim your sex work title. The next one is 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:58.679 toy Land, so that that includes ropes and sex toy sampler. 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:02.160 You have a spain can paint which includes ropes and 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:08.000 floggers dipped in paint. What you explain um, electrocutioner, electro 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:11.600 play and toy ropes optional? Can you explain what electro 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:14.880 play is? Electro play is um just like a whole 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:17.600 unit of things people like to play with electricity. And 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:20.320 so there's toys as the neon wine, which has like 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:21.840 a little dial on it and you can kind of 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:24.560 touch one kind of tables really really light version of 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:27.680 you can control the volume of how excuse me, how 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:29.760 hard and how high high it is, so you find 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:31.320 people really good spot. If you do it really at 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:33.400 a nice level, it could tickle somebody that I've seen 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:38.440 people laugh until they bust utters. They normally wanna be electrocuted. 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:40.160 I took them well. I usually would be my choice 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:41.520 when you're tied up and stuff like that. So I 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:45.320 used to tantalizing and message you and find your sweet spot. 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:49.079 That's the whole that's my niche, that's my differ. Everybody's different. 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:51.560 Before I start a session, like if I do section, 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:53.839 most time, I sniffed the girl from head to toe. 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:56.360 My sniffer from head to toe on some primer ship. 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:58.240 I swear to God, I super from head to toe. 0:08:58.280 --> 0:09:01.480 And when I finished sniffering, makes I connected with her body, 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:03.920 and her body kind of tells me. I did this 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:06.760 recently during like a body worshiping session I was talking 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:08.760 about on our Patreon episode, how like we did a 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:11.199 lot of foreplay for an hour. Yeah, it wasn't like 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:13.719 a weird sniff, but it was like really going down 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:16.360 and smelling my entire back, your entire but it's kind 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:19.480 of hot at me. It actually lacks me into your 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:21.600 energy and your vibe. It's weird. And then from there, 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:24.640 literally I probed myself off of women. I have to say, 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:26.480 you have to do a B C D. From there, 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.560 I just your body is till I read your body 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:35.120 and I teach people how. I'm sorry I did say 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:36.599 it wrong. I was the one who did it. I 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:42.000 used the wrong wording, like his hair to bear neck chest, 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:45.319 like I love the smell of just I don't know. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:48.080 There's those pheromones and like female and stuff you can't 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:50.360 even explain. It's hard to even say. Just like the 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:53.800 things sometimes my sessions, things happen that are like really 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:56.360 hard for me to explain. What happens really out of 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:58.800 my hands. I feel like, can they tell you're doing it? 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.280 Because I w see me what I was doing? Yeah, 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:03.520 people tell what was doing. I've done stuff, we're doing 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:05.520 suff I might even touch people's body and I pull 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:07.480 up their whole body, lifts the funk up, and I'm 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:10.559 just like, like they had strings. Well, it's it's energy. 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:13.439 That That's the real thing with erotica, right, It's like 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.959 figuring out a way besides penetrated or even sometimes your 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:20.400 genitals of like turning each other on. So the next 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:23.360 one kind of goes without explanation. It's wax on wax off, 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:27.440 which is wax play. Yeah, rope therapy, rope bondage for beginners, 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:33.800 sensual dominance for men. So is that you teaching central dominance? 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:37.720 Those last three year classes. The those are like courses 0:10:37.800 --> 0:10:41.240 that teach or trainings or lessons. I do um beginning 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:44.959 rope bonds for beginners. I do role therapies, different roal therapies, 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:47.079 different roal therapies where I tie people love and we 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:50.400 talk about things that are actually binding them and holding 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:53.079 them down, and we can go through breathing exercises, and 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:56.040 then I released them in a representation of like letting 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:58.679 that ship go. Yeah, getting past certain things, you know, 0:10:59.000 --> 0:10:59.960 and travel. A lot of people, a lot of wom 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:01.680 to come to a different trauma. They can't come. They 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:04.439 can't they haven't came in forever, or they don't know 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.080 how to squirrel, or they don't want these different things. 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:07.560 So they come to me and I showed them how 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:09.360 to do it, and I do these things to them 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:12.360 and in release it show them out to climax. Right. 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:15.280 The these next two are the last to that we'll 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:17.599 talk about. Um. You have one that's called what's for 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:21.680 dinner food porn Um depends on the menu. The menu 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.640 price may vary for this, but you climax with food 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:27.480 or dinner served in a kitty bowl. Yeah. Sometimes it's 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:30.400 like well sometimes like like I'll basically I'll tire up. 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:32.559 I'll tire her up. And now like raid refigerator, cook 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:38.640 the whole fucking meal, refrigerator, make a and then put 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:40.040 that ship in the bowl and then feed it to 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:43.240 her like a look at and this is coming from 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:47.959 a negro up one of our This last one that 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.400 I want to talk about, if you can um, what 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:53.439 the funk is it? You do a unicorn kidnap and 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.760 this is the most expensive on the goddamn unicorn kidnap 0:11:56.920 --> 0:12:00.040 is is basically organized kidnap where you kind of you 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:03.160 know that you know the day we we A lot 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:05.720 of people have seen that in the bonding the other day, 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:07.360 but you don't know that when and where I'm gonna 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:09.199 snatch you up from. And I came, I get a 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:11.000 you hole of in and I call my snatch as 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:12.679 up and I'll tie you up in the van and 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:14.400 take you to the location and then do a whole 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:18.760 full videos and scene. So this is kind of playing 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:22.080 into I was having this conversation. Actually, oh my god, 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.000 it was with Jill Soloway. So we met up with 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.679 this lady in in l A. It was me and 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:28.599 her in Beard Bay, and I was like, there's a 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:31.400 lot of guilt that surrounds me around rape fantasies. And 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:32.840 I'm like, all I want to do is give someone 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:34.880 to keep in my house, right, give him like a 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:36.959 three day span. Don't tell me when you come in, 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:38.959 but also the ship on me when you get there. 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:41.520 I don't want it to be like because unwanted is 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.280 a porn category, which I don't like that. I more 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.160 so want like the excitement of it, Like I don't 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:48.120 want to be like really saying no. I just wanted 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:50.800 to be like are you taking me? I feel bad 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:55.040 Like that whole unwanted thing there's actually because there's a 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:57.719 difference between what you're talking about and rape. Get a 0:12:57.800 --> 0:13:01.160 difference did that and actually like I've girls that was 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:03.439 having sex with until you're seeing rape me, Daddy raped me, 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:06.600 daddy rap me? Screaming that s loud as I'm like whoa, whoa, 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:12.679 whoa right, whoa you know why because that's part of it. 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:14.199 And then it's playing into this because and then she 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.720 thinks I'm playing you listen to shut the funk up, 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:18.760 like can you screaming? I s like I mean like 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:21.520 someone can come get kicked out and doing kick my ass. 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:24.440 It's so crazy. There's this porn um that I've been 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:27.520 watching recently and it's so kind of it's along the 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:32.360 unwanted thing um. What is it? It's called mall something, 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:35.880 but basically it's they they're in like a back room 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:39.160 where like you get caught for shop lifting, and so 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:41.559 it's all these guys that get caught for shoplifting and 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:44.559 in order for the police or for the mall security 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:47.280 not to call the police, he's like, you gotta fuck me. 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:49.880 So if you all these men like no, I don't know, 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:52.160 but okay, just because I don't want to go to jail. 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:54.400 And then he starts like he starts making the guys 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:57.120 like suck his dick, and then like he also like 0:13:57.240 --> 0:13:59.520 records it so you see like a camera phone angle 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:02.719 then actual room England. It's really like some wants to 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:05.280 all straight men that now we're having to suck to 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:07.760 keep out of jail. So it's kind of some weird ship. 0:14:08.200 --> 0:14:10.240 I want you to go back really quick to UM 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:13.560 talking about the releasing the ropes and the releasing the traumas, 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:15.840 Like I don't really know if we've ever talked about 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:17.560 this on the show, but I do know what you're 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.200 talking about. I've heard about and read about it. Can 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:21.680 you talk about that one more time? Like just how 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:26.440 much like when doing UM certain type of psychedelics or drugs, right, 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:28.440 we just brought up iahuasca it's funny I'm bringing it 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.880 up again. They say that you go through this period 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:34.800 of darkness to then you know, release it and feel 0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:37.480 better even throwing up during it. Is that ritual is 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.320 like letting all of those demons go, like releasing yourself. 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:43.320 Talk about the trauma and like how untying the ropes break? 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.280 Is it a little bit? Well, well, I've noticed that 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:48.560 with with with the tying ropes. But I do is 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.520 I make sure that when I do this this session, 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:55.760 that um, we have a nice full consul consultation before 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:57.680 we even start, so so I know exactly what we're 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:00.200 talking about. We get into and then I kind of um, 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:03.120 once I get to a certain place where I knows 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:08.000 I'm hitting certain certain um uh trigger areas, then it's like, okay, 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:09.680 it's trying to tie you up. And then I tie 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:11.680 them up into this into the situation. And then from 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:14.320 there I kinda started asking a certain questions. It's kind 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:16.040 of like let them speak upon it, saying let them 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:19.920 speak upon these things, and people, um, you know, they 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:21.880 talk about it and and and and a lot of 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:23.400 a lot of these things are the things that people 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:27.200 don't really speak to speak to people about, and they cried. 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:29.680 What I'm saying, they cried. They um. Some people just 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:32.760 you know, they talk about athers done, like how much 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:34.800 better they feel because they got a chance to really 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:38.360 release that stuff. And um, before I even get into 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:40.320 the consultation and kind of really get into and talking 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:43.840 to them about creating your own reality and creating your 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:46.440 own your own reality with with your thoughts and how 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:49.560 you think about things and projecting you know, and manifesting 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:53.240 your thoughts and so um, this is when we start 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:56.520 to get into our breathing exercises. It really kind of 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:58.880 hits in what I'm saying. And we sit there, I'm saying, 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:01.080 I'll sit there, and we sit there, and else sit 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:02.720 there and let you try to talk you to and 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:04.320 keep you in a in a place where your where 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:06.240 your mind is on black and your focus on nothing 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:09.120 but darkness, you mean, and then try to help pull 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.600 some of these things out of people. And when I 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:13.680 when I when I tend to release them from the 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:17.080 ropes either they they crossed some people's shout. Some people. UM, 0:16:17.640 --> 0:16:20.000 some people come without even me having to do anything 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:22.920 touching the genitals anything like. That's not even the whole 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:25.880 point of this stuff. And um, and and that's what 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:28.360 it is. I've had some sessions where people they they 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:30.720 feel like they they've been you know, they've been through 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:34.840 some really traumatic traumatic things, and they mostly traumatic sexual experiences, 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:37.200 not all the time. Sometimes it's just things that just 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:39.600 sunk up your concentration for you about the buzz or not. 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:42.520 That's what I mean. Its sorry, it doesn't always have 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:44.920 to be UM. It doesn't have to always be something 0:16:45.000 --> 0:16:48.120 that's crazy traumactic when maybe you know, to everybody, but 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:51.040 somehow affected them in a way where they you know, 0:16:51.280 --> 0:16:52.640 you know, it could be some some people that just 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:54.760 been they were talked. People talk about him as a 0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:56.960 kid and it'd been really really self conscious and you 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:58.640 know when they you know, before they get to the 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:01.080 point they say, they overfunk and think things and and 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:03.280 blow the moment. And do you do this with women 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:05.720 and men or just women? Just women? And do you 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.200 notice like a certain UM type of woman, whether it 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:12.800 be like their profession or their and or their attitude, 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:15.760 and like my clients are are they? I know one 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:19.480 thing that UM within I first doing when I first 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:22.480 got into this, and I really didn't realize that, you know, 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:24.440 I got into the BDS and I thought it was 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:26.280 about sex, and I thought about certain things and I 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:30.320 realized that like by having sex with somebody doing the 0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:33.200 whole act to kind of cut certain type of connection off. 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:35.879 And so I realize, okay, me take sex out the 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:38.359 picture and see how how things go. I realizing that 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:41.000 people really open up and certain it really really opened 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:43.040 up a whole lot more and I'm able to tap 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:46.639 into them doing my sessions in another whole realm. A 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:48.520 lot of my own classes I teach you guys, and 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:51.320 I teach other people, teach partners. Period is to like 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:54.199 take sex out the picture. Sex is sucking you up 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:56.560 dick and putting dick in the whole pussy. And that's 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:59.080 just sucking the picture. If you concentrate on everything else 0:17:59.160 --> 0:18:02.280 besides that, yeah, you're gonna get them to another whole level. 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:04.760 And of course you can get some pussy at the end. 0:18:04.800 --> 0:18:06.920 Like you just just a mind fun for yourself and 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:08.760 for them to like, you know, I mean, to get 0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:10.800 yourself into that realm. If you got if the back 0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:12.960 back of your mind, you're subconscious, you know that you're 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:14.200 just trying to get some pussy. You're just trying to 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:16.560 get the honey. You're gonna skip certain levels, skip certain 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:18.879 signs to get to the honey I'm saying, I mean 0:18:18.920 --> 0:18:21.680 and and the thing is to like sex to most 0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:24.240 people is like people ask me like, how do you 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:26.960