1 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, it's Monday. I know y'all at work, um, 2 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,239 Speaker 1: but we make here mondays so much better. So this 3 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: is another episode of horrible decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy, 4 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm Wheezy, and apparently I am really holding on the 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: front lines because there's a nigga sitting next to me 6 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: with a bunch of rope. So this episode, if you 7 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: ain't reading Tiger is B is for bondage, Um, Wheezy 8 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 1: and I just had her friend on an episode of 9 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: our Patreon and she titled it A is for anals, 10 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: So it only made sense that now we're on B, 11 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: let's go ahead and get it going like that. I 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 1: guess before we start, go ahead and introduce yourself, um, 13 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: and let us know what you do. Hello, everybody welcome. 14 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: My name is uh, Sir Dashington. I am a erotic 15 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: vision performance artist. I am a healer. I ain't dumb. 16 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: I do a little bit of everything. A little bit 17 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: of Everything's a little passive to your dom, do you 18 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: find Yeah, you feel very calm and you're soft spoken. 19 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 1: I feel like people always assume that doms are like yo, 20 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 1: Do women ever say that to you that they're surprised 21 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 1: that you're a dom lader because you're so they will. 22 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: I kind of thrive off the concept of people not 23 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: you know, getting caught up in whatever they seeing, whatever 24 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 1: they're the mirage as they see, they want to they 25 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: want to claim in say, Okay, don I'm supposed to 26 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: be this type or whatever, but I'm a type of person. 27 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: I really don't fall into any type of box that's 28 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: you say, if you say yeah, I'm this, then somehow enough, 29 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: somehow fit that, you know. That's how kind of made 30 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: this whole thing for work for myself. I don't necessarily, 31 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: you know, going out and say yeah, I'm don't I'll 32 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: never call myself a dom Really. The reason I brought 33 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: that up is like a lot of women have said 34 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: things to me, like when I talk about doms in 35 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: my life, asking if you know, they're like super assertive, 36 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: if they make me feel like I even have a choice, 37 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: things like that, And it's like realizing that being a 38 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: stub is the choice relinquishing that power to somebody, and 39 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: I'm having, you know, the honor of being dominant to you, Like, 40 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: it's not every domb isn't one and the same. You 41 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: don't have to think, you know, it's someone out here 42 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: with a whip ready to like make you get on 43 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: your knees and get the ship out of you. It's 44 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: absolutely what you asked for. It's absolutely what you asked for. 45 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: And I feel like, um, there's different types of doms 46 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 1: I'm saying, and when you get into it, you start 47 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: to realize there's different type of just sometimes are really 48 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: statistic and they really get off from getting pain. And 49 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: then there's some guys like myself, I'm more of asential 50 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: dom so um and I like to do that within 51 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 1: the realm that I'm doing it with him like a 52 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: living seven am I expecting nobody to you know, yeah, 53 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: I want you want, I still want to we want. Yeah, 54 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: I still want a power black woman to make your 55 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: own decision. That's a boss that when it comes down 56 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: to me, come on the bedroom and when I when 57 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 1: when I make my faces, my show, we're certain things 58 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: and it's ready to make that move. She already knows 59 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: where's where to go. I kind of reminds me of 60 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: a King Noir, like he's very sensual and his videos 61 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: and how he even treats a woman, but he's very 62 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: much a dom. So you said you're an erotic visual artist, 63 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 1: a visual performance art performance artists, and that is your 64 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: full time job. Orb's my full time thing. You full time. 65 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: You want a bandage full time, Well it's not something 66 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: in the bond full time where what happens is is 67 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: I started doing this as an artist. I'm an artist. 68 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: So I was doing shows out on Brooklyn. I had 69 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: this party called the Mad tea art party. Was giving 70 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: anybody shroom t get them zudo on shrooms, and I 71 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,119 Speaker 1: would do these scenes. We'll have girls dancing in front 72 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: of a canvas and I would throw paint on them. 73 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 1: And then yeah, even all this stuff I do, it's 74 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: all some trippy shroom down ship that I just started 75 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: from back in the day. I just want you all 76 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: to know, if y'all are not watching us on YouTube, 77 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: well you're sitting across from a black man with dreads. 78 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: This is because I mean, I associate like the shrooms 79 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: and like those type of parties. I mean, three white 80 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: people ship. So to be real, all these plants come 81 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: from people like medicine. I just kind of don't fall 82 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: into any of those dudes. Dudes, I don't just know. 83 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: I never let whatever I am or whoever the people 84 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: think that I am, stopped me from doing anything I 85 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: want to do or try. So I didn't even like 86 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: think about it like that in my realm. But I 87 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: start to events and then um, one of my whole 88 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: gros for me, the spanker with with whips dipped in 89 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 1: paint and make a canvas painting. And I'm like, oh, fuck, helly, 90 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this ship. And I actually um started 91 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 1: looking it up to see anybody was doing the ship, 92 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: and I didn't see nobody doing it. And then I 93 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: seen girls tied up and be being a cup scout. 94 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: Boy scout was a path find I grew up like learning. 95 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: I had to learn my not to get my little 96 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 1: badges and ships. So whom I saw that, I was like, 97 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: oh I could do that ship. I'm gonna tire up 98 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: first and boom boom and literally I did yeah, literally yeah, 99 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: literally a brount of the church because we come down 100 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: to it was like a church boy scout program. Did 101 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 1: they put your head? Didn't put a little soldiers into this? 102 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: And I went when I was in Japan, like they 103 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: had a section of a sex story that was all 104 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: about like taking a class and learning how to tie. 105 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: So I sat in there for like five minutes. Name 106 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 1: speak English. But I was like, oh wow, okay, Like 107 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 1: YouTube really helps, but that ship is really hard and 108 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: really I started, like literally, I went to YouTube a 109 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: week before my show, learned one fucking tie how to 110 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: do the likes whatever I do and figured it out 111 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: and did that one time for the show and did 112 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: it from there. And once I did that show, people like, yo, 113 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: that ship is We're doing again, Girls like I'm next. 114 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you were sent in by about three of 115 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: our followers on Instagram and they're like, if y'all do bondage, 116 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: you have to get this guy on something your page 117 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: has been said multiple times and I know we talked, yeah, 118 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: I know for a long time, wanting to get to 119 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 1: have someone that like we've been chatting with for a while. 120 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 1: I was just thinking too when you mentioned tying someone up. 121 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: We had a guest a few weeks ago, Liz Goldwyn, 122 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: who talks about our friend of hers who tied her 123 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: up and it took three hours. What's the longest she 124 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: was completely bound? I think, like, what's the longest it's 125 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 1: ever taking you to tie someone up? Well s, Yeah, 126 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: I I maybe a performance artist, and I think about 127 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: the show. I think about people watching, how many people, 128 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: how long is it will get people attentions being so 129 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 1: I do different things to to intreat people while I'm 130 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: doing a tie so it doesn't look like you're just 131 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 1: getting tied up for a long time. But I do 132 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 1: sessions that my my, my, my sessions. I have my clients, 133 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: you know, two hours minimum, two hours minimum, two hours 134 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: minimum and minimum being tied up. It's not gonna be 135 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: tied up for the whole time. Like when I just 136 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: do what I start off with the consultation and beginning, 137 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: we talked. I find out what you with you with you, 138 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: what you're comfortable with with you? Now you dudes, your dones. Um, 139 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 1: we kind of vibe out, we laugh, we joke, I'm saying, 140 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: and then you know, just get into the session. Tell 141 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,679 Speaker 1: me what you want to do. I sent you guys earlier. 142 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: I have a whole menu. You tell me what things 143 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 1: you want to do. Can mix them up however you 144 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: want to do within the time. Friend, you want to 145 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 1: do it. And and I come to people, I come, 146 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: I go to them, I travel to them. In house call. 147 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: I do in house call. Is that how you make 148 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: your money? I do that. And I do a lot 149 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 1: of shows. Do you consider it sex work? Um, it's 150 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: weird feeling a weird line because I feel like it's 151 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: for me, it's not sex work. Like as far as 152 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: how far as I concerted, like I ain't pull my 153 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 1: dick out in insert and nobody, so that's to me, 154 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: I'm not having sex. However, strippers, Yeah, I was about 155 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: to say strippers dance and they're not having intercourse, but 156 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: they're considered a line of sex working. I'm not going 157 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 1: to read off the prices because we'll we'll give your 158 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: booking if anyone's interested, but I want to read off 159 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: some of your services, um, and then maybe we can 160 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: be like, how can you not consider the sex work? So? Um? 161 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: Some of the services that um, Sir Dashington um provides 162 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: is goddess pampering service. Um. It's all sensual play, no 163 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 1: pain or ropes. But that's optional. Um, it is optional. 164 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: So um, real quick, I'm actually going to compare that 165 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: to a boyfriend experience a bf E because a lot 166 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: of that or GF for girlfriends. Um, it's they don't 167 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: necessarily have to have sex, but it's more of the intermac. 168 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: People want to touch, you want to cuddle, people want 169 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: to all that stuff. So it's it's it's and their 170 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: sex workers just you know, because we're gonna get you 171 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: to reclaim your sex work title. The next one is 172 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:58,679 Speaker 1: toy Land, so that that includes ropes and sex toy sampler. 173 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: You have a spain can paint which includes ropes and 174 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: floggers dipped in paint. What you explain um, electrocutioner, electro 175 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: play and toy ropes optional? Can you explain what electro 176 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: play is? Electro play is um just like a whole 177 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: unit of things people like to play with electricity. And 178 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: so there's toys as the neon wine, which has like 179 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: a little dial on it and you can kind of 180 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: touch one kind of tables really really light version of 181 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: you can control the volume of how excuse me, how 182 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: hard and how high high it is, so you find 183 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: people really good spot. If you do it really at 184 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: a nice level, it could tickle somebody that I've seen 185 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 1: people laugh until they bust utters. They normally wanna be electrocuted. 186 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: I took them well. I usually would be my choice 187 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: when you're tied up and stuff like that. So I 188 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: used to tantalizing and message you and find your sweet spot. 189 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 1: That's the whole that's my niche, that's my differ. Everybody's different. 190 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: Before I start a session, like if I do section, 191 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 1: most time, I sniffed the girl from head to toe. 192 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: My sniffer from head to toe on some primer ship. 193 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: I swear to God, I super from head to toe. 194 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: And when I finished sniffering, makes I connected with her body, 195 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: and her body kind of tells me. I did this 196 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: recently during like a body worshiping session I was talking 197 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: about on our Patreon episode, how like we did a 198 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 1: lot of foreplay for an hour. Yeah, it wasn't like 199 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:13,719 Speaker 1: a weird sniff, but it was like really going down 200 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: and smelling my entire back, your entire but it's kind 201 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: of hot at me. It actually lacks me into your 202 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 1: energy and your vibe. It's weird. And then from there, 203 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: literally I probed myself off of women. I have to say, 204 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: you have to do a B C D. From there, 205 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 1: I just your body is till I read your body 206 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: and I teach people how. I'm sorry I did say 207 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:36,599 Speaker 1: it wrong. I was the one who did it. I 208 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: used the wrong wording, like his hair to bear neck chest, 209 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 1: like I love the smell of just I don't know. 210 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 1: There's those pheromones and like female and stuff you can't 211 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: even explain. It's hard to even say. Just like the 212 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: things sometimes my sessions, things happen that are like really 213 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: hard for me to explain. What happens really out of 214 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: my hands. I feel like, can they tell you're doing it? 215 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: Because I w see me what I was doing? Yeah, 216 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: people tell what was doing. I've done stuff, we're doing 217 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: suff I might even touch people's body and I pull 218 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: up their whole body, lifts the funk up, and I'm 219 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: just like, like they had strings. Well, it's it's energy. 220 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:13,439 Speaker 1: That That's the real thing with erotica, right, It's like 221 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 1: figuring out a way besides penetrated or even sometimes your 222 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: genitals of like turning each other on. So the next 223 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: one kind of goes without explanation. It's wax on wax off, 224 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: which is wax play. Yeah, rope therapy, rope bondage for beginners, 225 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: sensual dominance for men. So is that you teaching central dominance? 226 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: Those last three year classes. The those are like courses 227 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: that teach or trainings or lessons. I do um beginning 228 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,959 Speaker 1: rope bonds for beginners. I do role therapies, different roal therapies, 229 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 1: different roal therapies where I tie people love and we 230 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: talk about things that are actually binding them and holding 231 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,079 Speaker 1: them down, and we can go through breathing exercises, and 232 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: then I released them in a representation of like letting 233 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: that ship go. Yeah, getting past certain things, you know, 234 00:10:59,000 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: and travel. A lot of people, a lot of wom 235 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: to come to a different trauma. They can't come. They 236 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 1: can't they haven't came in forever, or they don't know 237 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 1: how to squirrel, or they don't want these different things. 238 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: So they come to me and I showed them how 239 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: to do it, and I do these things to them 240 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 1: and in release it show them out to climax. Right. 241 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: The these next two are the last to that we'll 242 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,599 Speaker 1: talk about. Um. You have one that's called what's for 243 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 1: dinner food porn Um depends on the menu. The menu 244 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: price may vary for this, but you climax with food 245 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: or dinner served in a kitty bowl. Yeah. Sometimes it's 246 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: like well sometimes like like I'll basically I'll tire up. 247 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,559 Speaker 1: I'll tire her up. And now like raid refigerator, cook 248 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: the whole fucking meal, refrigerator, make a and then put 249 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: that ship in the bowl and then feed it to 250 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: her like a look at and this is coming from 251 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 1: a negro up one of our This last one that 252 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: I want to talk about, if you can um, what 253 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:53,439 Speaker 1: the funk is it? You do a unicorn kidnap and 254 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: this is the most expensive on the goddamn unicorn kidnap 255 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 1: is is basically organized kidnap where you kind of you 256 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: know that you know the day we we A lot 257 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: of people have seen that in the bonding the other day, 258 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: but you don't know that when and where I'm gonna 259 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,199 Speaker 1: snatch you up from. And I came, I get a 260 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: you hole of in and I call my snatch as 261 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:12,679 Speaker 1: up and I'll tie you up in the van and 262 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: take you to the location and then do a whole 263 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: full videos and scene. So this is kind of playing 264 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: into I was having this conversation. Actually, oh my god, 265 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: it was with Jill Soloway. So we met up with 266 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 1: this lady in in l A. It was me and 267 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:28,599 Speaker 1: her in Beard Bay, and I was like, there's a 268 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: lot of guilt that surrounds me around rape fantasies. And 269 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, all I want to do is give someone 270 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: to keep in my house, right, give him like a 271 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 1: three day span. Don't tell me when you come in, 272 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 1: but also the ship on me when you get there. 273 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: I don't want it to be like because unwanted is 274 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: a porn category, which I don't like that. I more 275 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: so want like the excitement of it, Like I don't 276 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: want to be like really saying no. I just wanted 277 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: to be like are you taking me? I feel bad 278 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: Like that whole unwanted thing there's actually because there's a 279 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,719 Speaker 1: difference between what you're talking about and rape. Get a 280 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: difference did that and actually like I've girls that was 281 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 1: having sex with until you're seeing rape me, Daddy raped me, 282 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: daddy rap me? Screaming that s loud as I'm like whoa, whoa, 283 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 1: whoa right, whoa you know why because that's part of it. 284 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,199 Speaker 1: And then it's playing into this because and then she 285 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 1: thinks I'm playing you listen to shut the funk up, 286 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: like can you screaming? I s like I mean like 287 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: someone can come get kicked out and doing kick my ass. 288 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: It's so crazy. There's this porn um that I've been 289 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: watching recently and it's so kind of it's along the 290 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: unwanted thing um. What is it? It's called mall something, 291 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: but basically it's they they're in like a back room 292 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: where like you get caught for shop lifting, and so 293 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,559 Speaker 1: it's all these guys that get caught for shoplifting and 294 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:44,559 Speaker 1: in order for the police or for the mall security 295 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: not to call the police, he's like, you gotta fuck me. 296 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: So if you all these men like no, I don't know, 297 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: but okay, just because I don't want to go to jail. 298 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: And then he starts like he starts making the guys 299 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: like suck his dick, and then like he also like 300 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: records it so you see like a camera phone angle 301 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,719 Speaker 1: then actual room England. It's really like some wants to 302 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: all straight men that now we're having to suck to 303 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: keep out of jail. So it's kind of some weird ship. 304 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: I want you to go back really quick to UM 305 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 1: talking about the releasing the ropes and the releasing the traumas, 306 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 1: Like I don't really know if we've ever talked about 307 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 1: this on the show, but I do know what you're 308 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: talking about. I've heard about and read about it. Can 309 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: you talk about that one more time? Like just how 310 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: much like when doing UM certain type of psychedelics or drugs, right, 311 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: we just brought up iahuasca it's funny I'm bringing it 312 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: up again. They say that you go through this period 313 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: of darkness to then you know, release it and feel 314 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 1: better even throwing up during it. Is that ritual is 315 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: like letting all of those demons go, like releasing yourself. 316 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: Talk about the trauma and like how untying the ropes break? 317 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: Is it a little bit? Well, well, I've noticed that 318 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: with with with the tying ropes. But I do is 319 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: I make sure that when I do this this session, 320 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: that um, we have a nice full consul consultation before 321 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: we even start, so so I know exactly what we're 322 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: talking about. We get into and then I kind of um, 323 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: once I get to a certain place where I knows 324 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: I'm hitting certain certain um uh trigger areas, then it's like, okay, 325 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 1: it's trying to tie you up. And then I tie 326 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: them up into this into the situation. And then from 327 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: there I kinda started asking a certain questions. It's kind 328 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: of like let them speak upon it, saying let them 329 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: speak upon these things, and people, um, you know, they 330 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: talk about it and and and and a lot of 331 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: a lot of these things are the things that people 332 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 1: don't really speak to speak to people about, and they cried. 333 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: What I'm saying, they cried. They um. Some people just 334 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 1: you know, they talk about athers done, like how much 335 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: better they feel because they got a chance to really 336 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: release that stuff. And um, before I even get into 337 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: the consultation and kind of really get into and talking 338 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: to them about creating your own reality and creating your 339 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 1: own your own reality with with your thoughts and how 340 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: you think about things and projecting you know, and manifesting 341 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: your thoughts and so um, this is when we start 342 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 1: to get into our breathing exercises. It really kind of 343 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: hits in what I'm saying. And we sit there, I'm saying, 344 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: I'll sit there, and we sit there, and else sit 345 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: there and let you try to talk you to and 346 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: keep you in a in a place where your where 347 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: your mind is on black and your focus on nothing 348 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 1: but darkness, you mean, and then try to help pull 349 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: some of these things out of people. And when I 350 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: when I when I tend to release them from the 351 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: ropes either they they crossed some people's shout. Some people. UM, 352 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: some people come without even me having to do anything 353 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: touching the genitals anything like. That's not even the whole 354 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: point of this stuff. And um, and and that's what 355 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: it is. I've had some sessions where people they they 356 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: feel like they they've been you know, they've been through 357 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 1: some really traumatic traumatic things, and they mostly traumatic sexual experiences, 358 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: not all the time. Sometimes it's just things that just 359 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: sunk up your concentration for you about the buzz or not. 360 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Its sorry, it doesn't always have 361 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: to be UM. It doesn't have to always be something 362 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: that's crazy traumactic when maybe you know, to everybody, but 363 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: somehow affected them in a way where they you know, 364 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: you know, it could be some some people that just 365 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: been they were talked. People talk about him as a 366 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: kid and it'd been really really self conscious and you 367 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: know when they you know, before they get to the 368 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: point they say, they overfunk and think things and and 369 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 1: blow the moment. And do you do this with women 370 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: and men or just women? Just women? And do you 371 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 1: notice like a certain UM type of woman, whether it 372 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: be like their profession or their and or their attitude, 373 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: and like my clients are are they? I know one 374 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 1: thing that UM within I first doing when I first 375 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 1: got into this, and I really didn't realize that, you know, 376 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 1: I got into the BDS and I thought it was 377 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: about sex, and I thought about certain things and I 378 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: realized that like by having sex with somebody doing the 379 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:33,200 Speaker 1: whole act to kind of cut certain type of connection off. 380 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 1: And so I realize, okay, me take sex out the 381 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 1: picture and see how how things go. I realizing that 382 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 1: people really open up and certain it really really opened 383 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: up a whole lot more and I'm able to tap 384 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 1: into them doing my sessions in another whole realm. A 385 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: lot of my own classes I teach you guys, and 386 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: I teach other people, teach partners. Period is to like 387 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,199 Speaker 1: take sex out the picture. Sex is sucking you up 388 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: dick and putting dick in the whole pussy. And that's 389 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: just sucking the picture. If you concentrate on everything else 390 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 1: besides that, yeah, you're gonna get them to another whole level. 391 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: And of course you can get some pussy at the end. 392 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 1: Like you just just a mind fun for yourself and 393 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 1: for them to like, you know, I mean, to get 394 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: yourself into that realm. If you got if the back 395 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: back of your mind, you're subconscious, you know that you're 396 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 1: just trying to get some pussy. You're just trying to 397 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: get the honey. You're gonna skip certain levels, skip certain 398 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 1: signs to get to the honey I'm saying, I mean 399 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: and and the thing is to like sex to most 400 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 1: people is like people ask me like, how do you 401 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 1: have sex with a woman? And I'm like, how do 402 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 1: I Not? Like people's idea of sex is literally pussy 403 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: and a vaginas, So our gay men's virgins are lesbians virgins? 404 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: Like what is our idea of sex? And to a 405 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: lot of people, spinking can be sex, choking can be sex, 406 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 1: oral sex whatever. And I like what you're saying about 407 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 1: taking the sex out of it, because our societal view 408 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 1: on what sex is it's kind of sucked up. Like 409 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: I've had way better experiences outside of that kind of 410 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: niche like everybody's having sex and saying everybody gets to 411 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: that part. But so if you can focus on everything 412 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: around that and not you're trying to get you out 413 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 1: into right, if you're trying to get about to get 414 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 1: into that ship, you pull away from that and actually 415 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 1: get around everything else around it, you actually become on 416 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 1: a better lover. Do you find that there's truth in 417 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,959 Speaker 1: people that are wanting to be dominated or generally dominant 418 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 1: people in their personal lives? We've talked about how like, 419 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: you know, cops are always the ones that love to 420 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 1: get piste on or spanked or whatever like that. Powerful 421 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 1: people like that. Have you noticed that trend, dude, there 422 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 1: is that flip. There is that flip. I know that 423 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of the sisters I deal 424 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: with did not did not know slouches. They all holding 425 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 1: the ship down. They all got the thing going on. 426 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: They all hold relationships, have families, they have their things. 427 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,479 Speaker 1: They're not you know what I mean, not necessarily uh 428 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:40,639 Speaker 1: you know there there they're they're very dominant. A lot 429 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 1: of are great dominant there in the everyday life. You're 430 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: saying that they gotta take charge and you gotta whole 431 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: ship down, and you gotta this is Nata when he 432 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 1: comes down to um in the bedroom. Wh It comes 433 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 1: down to a certain situations. They want to take they 434 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 1: want to they don't want to have to do that. 435 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 1: And I noticed that a lot of times I have, 436 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: like a lot of I have a lot of clients 437 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: that are escorts in prostitutes and stuff like that, and 438 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: they actually see me for for services too, because literally 439 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: they getting a bunch of you know, they're having sex 440 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: for money, and it kind of takes away from the 441 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 1: they're faking it all day and I'm saying, yeah, right, 442 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:13,879 Speaker 1: they're they're faking it all day to do all this 443 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 1: is the end of the day that they still they're 444 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 1: still point to a certain level, but they don't want 445 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: to dick because they haven't dick all day. But they 446 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 1: still want like non penetrative services to Actually, my friend 447 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 1: that the vanilla ship for this week. I actually found UM. 448 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 1: And what it's gonna do is get us into discussing 449 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: the safety UM around what you do and specifically bondage. UM. 450 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: So a woman is charged in her husband's kinky sex 451 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: death UM. A Mori County woman has been charged with 452 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:45,199 Speaker 1: reckless homicide for where her attorneys says was the accidental 453 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,879 Speaker 1: asphyxiation of her husband after he consented to being bound 454 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: and gagged. The whole family is upset with what occurred. 455 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say the name. UM. This is coming 456 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: from the Daily Herald. We stand by the fact that 457 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: this was an accident. According to the arrest warrant, the 458 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 1: woman placed duct tape over her husband's mouth and eyes, 459 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: put a ball gag in his mouth, and then tied 460 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 1: bandage around his head. Leaving only his nostrils showing. She 461 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,679 Speaker 1: also tied his hands and legs behind his back. Then 462 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: she left him for twenty hours. Apparently this was not 463 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 1: the first time it happened. Um. Authorities found the twenty 464 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 1: nine year old body UM and she now faces twelve 465 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: years imprisoned if found guilty. UM. There's a lot of 466 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,920 Speaker 1: accidents suicides like this from the hanging themselves. If you 467 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: even just look up like bondage, like there's nothing but 468 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:48,640 Speaker 1: stories on top of and there's no lead way. There's 469 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 1: like if if anything ever happens to you, something that 470 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 1: happened to some I am fux City. There's like when 471 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 1: the court of law I was doing something that I 472 00:21:54,600 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: had no business doing. City, he was looked at in 473 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: a certain way to so they just they just throw 474 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,879 Speaker 1: you under the bus. As far as if people getting hurt, So, 475 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,120 Speaker 1: so how do you how do you go about being 476 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 1: safe with here? Because there are people like he I'm 477 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 1: sure requested to be left for twenty hours. And what 478 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,679 Speaker 1: we're gonna do this episode, We're also going to get 479 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 1: into the thirteen types of bondage and this is on 480 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 1: there UM and so we're gonna go through the different 481 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: types of bondage, um what they mean and how they differ. 482 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 1: But for this so that we my friend, I look 483 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: like this, I look at this. Bondage is not safe. Okay, 484 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm saying people want to say, okay, say you know 485 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: it's it's safe if you can do it safely, and 486 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 1: this it's it's just as safe as rock climbing a 487 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,159 Speaker 1: mountain climbing. To me, I'm saying like it's saying like 488 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: people can do it and if you have the skill, 489 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 1: you can get up and you can actually do it, 490 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,159 Speaker 1: and you can you're you're able to do it. But 491 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 1: it's the wrong oneucker. Get up on that ship you doing, 492 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: people fall and die. You'm saying, so it has that 493 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 1: type of type of you guys that have to fake 494 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: us to approach it like that. I'm saying, you gus 495 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: a project. Okay, if you're a new beginner, you just 496 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: don't jump into you know, the top of the highest 497 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 1: craziest mountain. I think you're gonna climb that ship. Carry 498 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 1: like scissors to make sure you can cut someone out 499 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: of something. Yeah, exactly, Okay, there's a thing nothing. Yeah, 500 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 1: you definitely gotta be safe and d we're this lady 501 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 1: sucked up at. What she sunked up at is that 502 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: she didn't use her own discretion. What I'm saying, I've 503 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: had a session real time where I had to grow 504 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 1: and where the ropes were set up when I twisted 505 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: the ropes in the middle of it with Choker, and 506 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:25,120 Speaker 1: She's like, harder, harder, harder. I'm like, yeah, I'm like harder. 507 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,439 Speaker 1: At this point, my hand is shaking. I know, I'm 508 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 1: like at the top of my strength. And then she 509 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 1: kind of just like kind of passes out and I'm 510 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 1: like and she's like all and she wakes out it 511 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:34,639 Speaker 1: and it was all good, But my head I was like, 512 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 1: never again. Now now it never. You're gonna time to 513 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 1: tell me how much I'm gonna do to you. Whatever 514 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 1: I'm administering to you. I'm gonna determine how what I'm 515 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: gonna administer to you, what I'm saying, how much of 516 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,239 Speaker 1: that I'm gonna give you what I'm saying. So if 517 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: this dude says I'm tying my mother, double take my 518 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: fucking face, throw me in the class, leave me for 519 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: twenty hours, my mind is gonna be like, no, I'm 520 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 1: not gonna do that. Ship What I'm saying, yeah, sure, 521 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 1: pay me. He's gonna pay me. You know what I'm saying, 522 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 1: all right now to have you tired, I'm pull you 523 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 1: out here in four hours. You know what I'm saying, 524 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: a lot of you have never heard of the tape thing. 525 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,640 Speaker 1: If you watched it's a very popular or not documentary. 526 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:09,360 Speaker 1: But what's it called bio docum something the Assassionary Nation 527 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: of Chiani VERSACEI um the fashion line. There's a whole 528 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 1: fashion line of a tape. Yeah, there is in there. 529 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: He tapes the dude all the way around his face. 530 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: And I remember googling and like, oh, should we have 531 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: to make this a kink of the week because a 532 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 1: lot of people have never seen that. But it's totally common. 533 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: I've seen it. I do I do it. I do it. 534 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: I do it with them with plastic wrap. Netflix. I 535 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 1: do plastic wrap. Yeah, Netflix to take plastic wrapping, like 536 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: I do this thing from fast wrapper. As I got 537 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,400 Speaker 1: her tiedle and once I get her fully fully full, 538 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 1: you up and she's like locked in and then I 539 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: just kind of go over a face. He's kind of 540 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 1: panks a little bit and then it just pop a 541 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: hole right in her mouth. You mean, make sure she 542 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 1: could breathe? Is this a lot of shep? Was mine? Fun? 543 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:52,640 Speaker 1: I'm saying, like a lot of people, I'm claustrophobic. Yeah, 544 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,400 Speaker 1: that to me would completely be like but I can't 545 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 1: count on my face. I couldn't handle it. But it's 546 00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 1: one thing that I know that people are going to. 547 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 1: I know people love, So I'm not gonna sit there 548 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,120 Speaker 1: and let you start to actually gag for air. It's 549 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: just whoop, whoop. Leave me your eyes for that. What 550 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 1: do you think? Like? Yeah, like, how long is someone 551 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: wrapped up? It's too long? Um? Well, usually I can 552 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 1: feel it, and I can I can feel when I 553 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 1: keep my people tied up different things the West first 554 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: start the session, I thought, a girl these ropes right here. 555 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: These are more of a stretchy material that they're made 556 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 1: up of, out of, um, like the material you know 557 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: MAXI dress. This sung's basically it's basically it's spandexing. I 558 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 1: taken the ropes out of it because I was doing 559 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: stuff on dancers and they couldn't really dance and do 560 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: what they want to do with this. So they still 561 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 1: want to look and they still want to glow. So 562 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: I found so I made these terally sold these hands, 563 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 1: sold these together and put them together and make them 564 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 1: long enough and tie somebody up with And then when 565 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 1: I put them on the glow and I get different 566 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: different materials and flavors and do like that, and I 567 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 1: sell the ropes and all that good stuff like that. 568 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into if you guys haven't known already, 569 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 1: the kink of the week is bondage. So we're gonna 570 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,439 Speaker 1: get through um these different types of bondage. And if 571 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: you have anything as far as historical background to them, 572 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 1: or if you've done them or have any experiences you 573 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: did said this before, I was like, keep speak on these, um. 574 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 1: So the first one is shabari, also known as kin baku. 575 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,400 Speaker 1: It is one of the oldest and most popular types 576 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: of bondage today. This form of bondage originated in Japan 577 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,919 Speaker 1: um and is known for using silk ropes, artful tying skills, 578 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 1: and layering ropes to turn the bound person into work 579 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: of art. So is that pretty much what you would 580 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: consider what you do? This one? And I think we 581 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,920 Speaker 1: may have a story about this. It's gagging, um. So. 582 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 1: Gags are one of the most common bondage related sex 583 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,439 Speaker 1: toys on the market. Um, and she actually brought one 584 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: to the live show. If you guys came, it may 585 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: have been New York Show last year. Um. But this 586 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: is a whole genre of bondage. The concept behind gagging 587 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 1: is to either bind someone in a way that makes 588 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: it impossible to speak or breathe if you're into breath play, 589 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 1: or to force someone's mouth open. Um, do you want 590 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: to let them know kind of the ball gag? Or 591 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: I don't think she had a ball of the gag 592 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 1: that had holes in it. Um, it's just a ball gag, 593 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 1: Like there can be all different kind of ball gags 594 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 1: like this one is. I guess you could compare it 595 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: to a belt, right and you put it on. I 596 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: like the holes in it because it's easier for me 597 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: to breathe. That's them. I mean, some people don't need that, 598 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,120 Speaker 1: and the holes are so to me. The holes will 599 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 1: have to be a little bit easier, which makes the 600 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,119 Speaker 1: saliva don't build up so fast. But the one with 601 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,200 Speaker 1: the ball, the holes in your mouth and your jewel 602 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 1: lot with it, which is I don't care to keep 603 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 1: you from speaking like I want you. I want to 604 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 1: hear all that ship, but I also want to gag 605 00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: you and see you just working. Just the drul is 606 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 1: my favorite part of it. But I have such a 607 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: bad gag reflex I'll drowl regardless. But I think, um, 608 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's funny because there's such small amounts 609 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,239 Speaker 1: of gagging that people don't even realize they had done 610 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: to them, right, whether it be like a pellow in 611 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 1: your mouth or like putting something in your mouth to 612 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 1: make you quiet, like, it's all just using one thing 613 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: or another. Like, I think that gagging can be super 614 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 1: sexy for you, either like the quiet thing or like 615 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 1: the drooling, which a lot of people don't realize. The 616 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 1: hand gaw like you reach around and you can basically 617 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,680 Speaker 1: gagger with your own hand. Bite like right here, just 618 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 1: meat right here in your hand until the bite it 619 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: and just hold it, hold it right. It's like when 620 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 1: you're even though it doesn't mean not sound like gagging 621 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: to y'all when something's deepen up. Think about like going 622 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,680 Speaker 1: to the dentist when like they put something in there 623 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 1: and you have to clamp down when you do the 624 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 1: X rays right and they put it deep enough, it 625 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 1: makes you gag. That's the same with the hand gag, 626 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:47,959 Speaker 1: i'd so. The next type of bondage is sensory deprivation UM. 627 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 1: This one specifically I've shared on the show that I'm 628 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 1: not into because I was dealth while doing this UM. So. 629 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 1: Sensory deprivation is one or more extreme types of bondage 630 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: UM and it's the practice that uses restraints to reduce 631 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: your ability to hear, feel, or see things around you. 632 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: The most common example of sense sensory deprivation gear is 633 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 1: the ever present blindfold. As we all know, UM. There's 634 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 1: actually an extreme cases sensory deprivation chambers. Do you know 635 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: anything about that? It's like soundproof rooms you can go 636 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: on where you can't hear anything. Those are not really extreme. 637 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: It's really get some of them little soft ear plugs. 638 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 1: You put the ear plugs in, you blindfold them, UM, 639 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: and then they don't really see what. I don't know 640 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 1: about the blindfolding again. I like that. I like to UM, 641 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: I like to use well. I realized that to tap 642 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 1: into people the way I want to tap into and 643 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 1: just some just gotta be some sensory deprivation going on. 644 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: And there's got to be some some some sensory of 645 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 1: other types of fields going on. So I use a 646 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 1: feather and like a spike at the same time. I 647 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: like to give pleasure in pain at the same time 648 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: as I'm doing it, and it kind of sends your 649 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 1: mind into, you know, a weird place. If you can't 650 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: see and you don't hear what it's coming, that's another 651 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 1: thing I'm saying. So that's very interesting when you can't hear. Yeah, 652 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 1: even you can't hear. Keep in my bag. I keep 653 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: my bag really slow. I don't want you to hear 654 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 1: show y'all whole things. You don't hear the which whipping 655 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: on me grab because some people they know my stuff, 656 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: they know what it sounds like. They know they hear 657 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 1: the ship rattling. They're like, oh you mean So sometimes 658 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 1: we use that to the funk with him. I also 659 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 1: do this to Uh. I have them blindfold for a 660 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: little while, and then I take the blindfold of. I 661 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: showed him a blade, and I popped the blade in 662 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 1: front of him and then literally did not put the 663 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: blade did I blindfold them back, grab baby oil and 664 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: the credit card and sliced across the chest and put 665 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 1: the blade at the same time. It should feel like 666 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: they're getting sliced open. They fucking freak up. It's just 667 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 1: the people, very Vanella bold. It just somebody put me 668 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: onto that and I was like, yo, I the way 669 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 1: did I say? People? That's I'm so like, there's I 670 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 1: don't know working because The Weekly did recently, but it's 671 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 1: like that operation thing with being sliced. One of my 672 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 1: friends there's a place in the Orlando called the wood Ship. 673 00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: Shout out to James, my friend, and he was telling 674 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 1: me like, Yo, there's a guy that came up to 675 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 1: me with like mad cuts all over him, like he's 676 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: super into that ship. And he's like they do it 677 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: all the time, like in a super safe way, like 678 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 1: the people that know how to do it can well. 679 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 1: I mean that's where you go and there's a professional 680 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 1: that doesn't probably much like yourself, right, you'll probably maybe 681 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 1: you could get a little bit of a I don't 682 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: do no blood play like I don't do no I 683 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: want to pay because that's what someone makes it feel. 684 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: It feels real. There's even like on porn Hub, like 685 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 1: the fake blood scenes where it's like super, um no, 686 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: I have a blindfold like fantasy that I'm really excited 687 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: to do soon where um so like during a threesome. 688 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: I really want to be blindfolded, but like and bound, 689 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: so like I can't really do anything, and like if 690 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 1: they let me taste something, maybe, but like basically just 691 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 1: sit there and have to listen to everything that's going on. 692 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 1: And then if I'm allowed like masturbate, great, but I'm 693 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 1: so hyped. I got the Jet blue massa. Um. The 694 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,200 Speaker 1: next one is really interesting. UM, And I don't know 695 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 1: if anyone has ever asked you to do this. The 696 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: next one is actually humiliation bondage. UM. For some people, 697 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 1: the elements of b DSM that turned them on are 698 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:25,239 Speaker 1: the concepts and situations behind them. Humiliation bondage is one 699 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: of those. For example, a form of situational bondage would 700 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 1: be tying up someone naked in public just so people 701 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 1: would point and laugh. Or it may involve using a 702 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: gag that has a toilet brush on the end and 703 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 1: forcing a slave to clean the toilet. Humiliation bondage is 704 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 1: incredibly versatile when it comes to both the tools and 705 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: situation it can include, um, just as long as humiliation 706 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 1: is involved. Has anyone ever asked you for this sort 707 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 1: of bondage? Yeah? I mean it could be done in 708 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 1: a different extremes just different stream. It could be acmilation 709 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 1: where people want to be outside and be humiliated, or 710 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: it just or or you know, you know, they want 711 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 1: to be embarrassed, you know what I mean. Um, And 712 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 1: then it could be as simple as some people just 713 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: want to be called slut, dirty, nasty. This isn't there 714 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: like be a fucking verbally abusive I'm saying. And it 715 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: could be just in the bedroom I'm saying. It could 716 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 1: be like you know, yeah, it could be to be 717 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 1: just in the bedroom and in this humiliation within the 718 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:27,960 Speaker 1: within the dynamic, I mean whole outside gets not that 719 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 1: that's what we talked about. It's facial bondage UM, which 720 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,719 Speaker 1: is exactly what it sounds like. Facial bondage and gagging 721 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 1: often go hand in hand, but the difference between these 722 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: two types UM is actually that gagging is specifically focused 723 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: on a person's mouth, while facial bondage tends to focus 724 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: on the entire facial bondage yes, eyes, cheeks, nose, and 725 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 1: I don't I have some stuff where type of face 726 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,480 Speaker 1: like that's facial bondas too, but also facial bonds would 727 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 1: be I've also tied girls face into my lap and 728 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 1: like just tie their face into my lap. Where's yeah, 729 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 1: you can't even like they can pull their head up 730 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 1: only for so far because the ropes are directing. I 731 00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 1: can always just just spin my fingers out the second. Yeah, 732 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 1: he's like, this is that for a show. This is 733 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 1: my personal ship. This is my personal ship. I do 734 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 1: it and do a different realms. So I have like 735 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 1: my archie farti stuff. Yeah, you know, I do my 736 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 1: archie fartie stuff that I do for for show, and 737 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 1: I do for for shows. I do a lessons with 738 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,400 Speaker 1: people people just want to rope sometimes. This is I 739 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: have my clients, which are the fetish services that shold 740 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 1: you guys. And then I have my personal situations I'm saying, 741 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:35,359 Speaker 1: which I would have my my, my, my, whoever heard you, sir. 742 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:40,320 Speaker 1: The next one is predicament bondage um. Predicament bondage is 743 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 1: bondage that's done to put people in a more uncomfortable situation, 744 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: which is actually probably what you just talk to. This 745 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 1: could be anything from being hog tied with a massage 746 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:52,439 Speaker 1: across the clutteri ist um to being forced to ride 747 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,880 Speaker 1: a horse while tied an awkward position. The entire thing 748 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 1: that makes predicament bondage a different kind of b d 749 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 1: S SIM is the fact that it's designed to make 750 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: the submissive squirm uncomfortably. Um, So that's probably kind of 751 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:10,399 Speaker 1: more what you talked about. Shout out to Cold when 752 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 1: she was just on the show and she talked about 753 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: how she knows someone who did the hog tying, and 754 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 1: it like became emotionally like draining for her to be 755 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 1: into that position for as long as she was and 756 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,439 Speaker 1: then also untied. But it was hours of it. How 757 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,360 Speaker 1: long do you normally spend hog time? Maybe maybe it 758 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: depends depending personal life. I usually don't do nothing longer. 759 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:33,920 Speaker 1: It has nobody in the ropes longer than two hours. 760 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 1: And for that that happened, that means we had to 761 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 1: been in this situation for at least two and a 762 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 1: half hours. What I'm saying, but I do on ties 763 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,839 Speaker 1: of my and put them in another position. I tied 764 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 1: from one, tied them three or four times if I 765 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 1: wanted to. I'm saying, if I have to, I mean, 766 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:47,840 Speaker 1: I'll tie you in a certain position so I can 767 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 1: get to a certain way a certain way, and then 768 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,239 Speaker 1: I'll flip you over, tip in another position and then 769 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 1: tied to across. Then I just, you know, just flip it. 770 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 1: And I have no since to not keep somebody. My 771 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 1: thing is if I tie person in a position that 772 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,800 Speaker 1: they're actually comfortable sitting in, I can play longer, I 773 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: can get to the I can I can get to 774 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 1: them better if I gotta, if I gotta change and 775 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,240 Speaker 1: pull them out and change them out, because the realist, 776 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,960 Speaker 1: realistically is that if somebody's hurting her in their pain, 777 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt I don't want engine nobody. 778 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,479 Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm not trying to inbody. So you gotta 779 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,279 Speaker 1: you know you're telling me you gotta suck up me. 780 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 1: You gotta sucked the elbow and and I'm not gonna 781 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 1: take your arm and jacket behind your back or have 782 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 1: you on your knees. I know your knees sucked up 783 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Or if you ever in a position 784 00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:23,840 Speaker 1: you're like yours is really hurting and I'm gonna put it. 785 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop right there and put you out right there. 786 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 1: And none of ship have you ever had to cut 787 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 1: someone out and I had to cut somebody up. I 788 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:30,839 Speaker 1: have to take people out and read them. I've had 789 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 1: people have like panic attacks in the middle of it 790 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:37,360 Speaker 1: ropes after like rub here and listen, if you keep pulling, 791 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,800 Speaker 1: do you keep like you do it again? Yeah? And 792 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: actually they we smoked some weed and then we started 793 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 1: over and then we finished the session. It was dope. 794 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:49,959 Speaker 1: You know, she just needed to get higher. I'm gonna 795 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 1: go through about two more and then, UM, we're gonna 796 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: maybe do a little quick demonstration. UM. The next one 797 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,360 Speaker 1: is hair bondage. UM. Hair bondage is often done to 798 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:03,319 Speaker 1: restrict move meant at a certain psychological layer of subservience 799 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: to a sub or for that incredibly appealing pulling sensation 800 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 1: that many people love to feel. UM. So what I'll 801 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 1: do for our patrons is there's actually a video of 802 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,600 Speaker 1: the basics of hair bondage. UM. But what it does 803 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 1: is kind of give you that effect of maybe when 804 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 1: you ask a guy to pull your hair, um in 805 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: the bedroom, and it actually as her sitting down and tying. 806 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,840 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna make sure you guys who are patron 807 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 1: members get to see that. UM. This last one is 808 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 1: probably the most interesting, UM. And so I wanted to 809 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,359 Speaker 1: get into this before we take it back to maybe 810 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,279 Speaker 1: a little bit more vanilla bondage. This one is called 811 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:42,959 Speaker 1: mummification slash vacuum ceiling. I've seen the flat vacuum ceiling. 812 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: This one looks crazy and I'm also gonna post that 813 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 1: for you guys too. So mummification and vacuum ceiling are 814 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 1: two types of bondage that either terrify people, soothe people, 815 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 1: or turn them on. That being said, it isn't the 816 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,840 Speaker 1: type of bondage for people who are claustrophobic like myself. 817 00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 1: Um this time of this type of bondage use this 818 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 1: either bondage tape, a leather suit, a latex suit, or 819 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 1: a vacuum bed to give people a full body bondage experience. 820 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 1: Almost every inch except for maybe your head, will be 821 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,840 Speaker 1: covered with material during this kind of bondage, regardless of 822 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,719 Speaker 1: the method used. This is considered an extreme form of 823 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 1: restriction bondage. Depending on how extreme you are with your 824 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,080 Speaker 1: bondage practice, you may or may not be able to breathe. UM, 825 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,359 Speaker 1: so this is definitely brings in the element of breath play, 826 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 1: but also being to where this kind of probably isn't 827 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: something you want to do without a professional or something 828 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 1: you definitely want to do as much research and as 829 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 1: possible before you try with your partner. I say, um 830 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 1: that too, and say just it just trusting your partner. 831 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 1: I mean you need to have a partner that listen 832 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 1: to you. If you're looking at him like you know 833 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,360 Speaker 1: what this is you on morning bugging? You're gonna just 834 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 1: stop if you if you have yeah, safe words, just 835 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,440 Speaker 1: telling people they pick a saf words, but what's my savings? 836 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 1: Like whatever you wanted to be. I don't pick relative 837 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 1: to choose the safer because you heard, oh, all kind 838 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 1: of stuff, you know kind of people just whatever. I 839 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 1: think I get all kind of STU get uh likely 840 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,880 Speaker 1: yesterday a guy said come quiet, his come quiet, and 841 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,200 Speaker 1: he said, when else will I use the word come quiet? 842 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,680 Speaker 1: See that's that's cool. But see I tell people, don't 843 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: use nothing crazy. S you something that's just gonna come 844 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,399 Speaker 1: off your tongue really easy, like stop because they stop 845 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 1: say stopping, I'll stop, Like you don't gotta have nothing 846 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,960 Speaker 1: crazy because if you're in Paining, you're in a certain city, 847 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:34,440 Speaker 1: sometimes you not do you forget that the extra like 848 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 1: oh I said stop, I said stop and remember your 849 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,399 Speaker 1: first one. I could break your fucking arm, you said, 850 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:40,560 Speaker 1: or you can choke the funk out like this is serious. 851 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm like, it ain't gonna be that 852 00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:44,719 Speaker 1: serious if it ain't say was that this series for me? 853 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:46,840 Speaker 1: If you're squirming wrong like you like you, like you 854 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: was really really hurting, I'm gonna let up a little bit. 855 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm not just doing the last time that someone used 856 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:56,920 Speaker 1: it with you, um less, someone was spanking spanking paddles. 857 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 1: We we did spanking and at the l show like 858 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 1: and that's where we were like when to say a 859 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 1: safe for it? But the girl literally spanked me in 860 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 1: the same exact spot. So it wasn't even that she 861 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,400 Speaker 1: got harder with spanking, but being that it had been 862 00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,879 Speaker 1: done in the same spot multiple times, I'm like, okay, girl, 863 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 1: yeah you should. But what you should be able to 864 00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:20,359 Speaker 1: say today whatever you say dash it. If you're using 865 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: common sense, stop me stop like whatever I don't give 866 00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 1: you say in Japanese. I don't know Japanese. But if 867 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,560 Speaker 1: you say and you look at me someway, I'm gonna 868 00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: pull back and like and just check to seconds like 869 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 1: you are you good? We were talking about I go 870 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,080 Speaker 1: back to what I mean like um as far as 871 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 1: like I like yellow and red with spanking because that 872 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: lets me know like how much. Yeah, the spanking with 873 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 1: the paddle to the reason I've had trouble with it 874 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,759 Speaker 1: is because like it doesn't bruise you necessarily, but you 875 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 1: could still really feel it the next day. And I'm like, yo, 876 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,600 Speaker 1: it's not purple, but like I can barely sit. It's weird. 877 00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,000 Speaker 1: That's some people. For most of the black people, I 878 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: don't get. I don't never get them bruised. They get 879 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 1: some bruises some stuff like that, but not crazy. But 880 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:00,799 Speaker 1: I've done a couple of a couple of white people, 881 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 1: and I do. I feel I didn't do nothing much 882 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:06,360 Speaker 1: different than to my sisters, but they ship look like 883 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, I'm gonna make you sign 884 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 1: a consent if I even give you mind. That legs 885 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,400 Speaker 1: right now are super bruised up. And I was like, 886 00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:20,880 Speaker 1: I say a stripping out the damn bruises on my leg, 887 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,480 Speaker 1: Like I bruise. So I walked in. I was like, 888 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 1: I need a banana because I heard potassium helps with 889 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,680 Speaker 1: the god damn bruising. Ship right, guys, ever, like do 890 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,320 Speaker 1: some videos, imn you get really bad bruising, brut bruising. 891 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,719 Speaker 1: There's a vitamin called Bramleine and the bramoline helps you 892 00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,320 Speaker 1: with bruising. I don't know what it does with blood circulation, 893 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 1: but it's just a basic righta main ordering on Amazon 894 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 1: and that'll help you. Um. So I guess we're gonna 895 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,200 Speaker 1: get into real quick if we could do a live demonstration. 896 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 1: Um of I guess let us know what type of 897 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,439 Speaker 1: of bonding you're doing, whether it's to her hands or whatever. 898 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,759 Speaker 1: But um, we are on videos, so if you have 899 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,720 Speaker 1: not yet, guys, um check us out on YouTube. Majority 900 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,320 Speaker 1: of our episodes are on YouTube. Shout out to Benson, 901 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:05,359 Speaker 1: our videographer. You guys heard him on a recent episode, um, 902 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 1: but definitely check it out. We have sir dash about 903 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:12,399 Speaker 1: to um tie up. So, by the way, I hope 904 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 1: you asked for concent because Mandy didn't for me. Well, 905 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,920 Speaker 1: I didn't ask to be fucked by shoulders during that 906 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:23,879 Speaker 1: episode either, So this is like, this is my payback now, Okay, 907 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do is I'm gonna do like a 908 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,759 Speaker 1: simple body harness, something simple. Um. I like to tipe 909 00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:30,759 Speaker 1: people and body harnesses and this stuff because it can 910 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 1: still have the bondage look and still be your hands 911 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:37,680 Speaker 1: and your fear free. You still walk around and do 912 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 1: if you have to do. You can were as an outfit. 913 00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 1: This is something I can wear an outfit. I have 914 00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 1: girls to put these on and teach me on the 915 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:46,440 Speaker 1: self time. They literally we're just under the clothes, or 916 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:48,680 Speaker 1: can wins on top of your clothes, like I'm gonna 917 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,439 Speaker 1: put this over your outfit right here, and we leta 918 00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,439 Speaker 1: get flat quickly, all right, So if you can buy 919 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: your time to speak up louder so that or I 920 00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,920 Speaker 1: can also even I don't know, I'll talk to let 921 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,279 Speaker 1: y'all know what he's doing. So um again. By the way, 922 00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 1: shout out to Bernie Duet. She actually lives in the 923 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 1: other way and she has a clothing line that's full bondage. Yes, 924 00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 1: and it's all really hard roke the hard rope. It's 925 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,440 Speaker 1: super dope stuff. So if you guys are interested in 926 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 1: maybe wearing this as a tire, to check it. Benson 927 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:24,960 Speaker 1: videotaping me with this smirk like bitch. Okay, they're normally 928 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,160 Speaker 1: our cameras are normally on a fucking tripod. And this 929 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:31,279 Speaker 1: nigger got up like, let me get the zoom. Okay, 930 00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,759 Speaker 1: So where do you start? So you really to start 931 00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 1: in the middle of the rope, the middle of the rope. 932 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,319 Speaker 1: It's called the bite. It's the symptom of the rope. 933 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 1: Find to both ends, mash it ends up and then 934 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,960 Speaker 1: to kind of pull the pull the rope to the 935 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,200 Speaker 1: to the center of the rope and side. I know 936 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 1: I got the middle of my role. Okay. So for 937 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,720 Speaker 1: someone wanting to start this on the body of someone, 938 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 1: where do you start on the body her? You want 939 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 1: to get the center of the rope, right, don't you 940 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 1: get yourself the center of this rope and then you 941 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:59,080 Speaker 1: can put this around her neck here right, you're gonna 942 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:03,280 Speaker 1: tie her braids. Make sure you get the braves out. Okay, okay, 943 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,640 Speaker 1: you know what I do here is um I used 944 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,640 Speaker 1: to measure out everybody's different, everybody's size different. So I 945 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 1: will come in here and bust are not here or 946 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:18,279 Speaker 1: a quickly crazy don't remember that bust then it's a 947 00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:19,920 Speaker 1: bust of quick knight. You have to it could be 948 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,279 Speaker 1: just like you tie your shoe. Doesn't have to be 949 00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,160 Speaker 1: nothing complicated. I did all that the boy Scout ship, 950 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,440 Speaker 1: but honestly, all that stuff is hard to take out 951 00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:30,360 Speaker 1: when it comes down to undoing your ropes. So so 952 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:36,359 Speaker 1: he's tying another knot now near the vagina's two knots 953 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 1: coming through here, and now he's going between her legs. 954 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:43,600 Speaker 1: So this is where she's gonna start feeling that here 955 00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,640 Speaker 1: she's tied up coming here behind her here the same 956 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 1: piece I put around her neck here gonna come right 957 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:50,879 Speaker 1: off the top of this here and pop that here. 958 00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,880 Speaker 1: Now from there I can start sending the rope and 959 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:56,359 Speaker 1: making a little tighter sending. It's now going up her ask. 960 00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,960 Speaker 1: This could be a cute little bag of sup right right, 961 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,719 Speaker 1: So we'll do a lot of time these dances. I've 962 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,279 Speaker 1: come and put these on them, and they'll go out 963 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,880 Speaker 1: and and and dance on the floor. Then I can 964 00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:07,360 Speaker 1: switch it. I can switch it up for them. And 965 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 1: we didn't have the outfit at first, and to come 966 00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:10,839 Speaker 1: and do one of these real quick, I didn't suck 967 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 1: it in, give me that instant. He just tied my 968 00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 1: food up back into my body. Where these come here, right, 969 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:31,879 Speaker 1: It feels good, looks cool and so at this point 970 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,840 Speaker 1: does this cause a sexual sensation at all to some 971 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,080 Speaker 1: people or for some yes, not a certain place. She 972 00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:39,799 Speaker 1: had jeans on. But I like to put my nuts 973 00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:45,080 Speaker 1: like right where when I'm moving around him, I'm getting spicy. 974 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 1: She can see what's going on. It's rubbing her clut 975 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:51,200 Speaker 1: while you keep tying. It feels really good. And then 976 00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:54,399 Speaker 1: it's also in her ass, so the back part would 977 00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,839 Speaker 1: technically be in the crack of her ass. Now they 978 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,040 Speaker 1: are they naked when you do this, So you watch 979 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:03,719 Speaker 1: these ropes. This feels like BB already materials. I can 980 00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,279 Speaker 1: always pop them into Washing Washington, then I um, I 981 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,439 Speaker 1: sell them in Most of time, I just give people 982 00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,120 Speaker 1: the roles after they if you mess them up with 983 00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 1: them crazy to mess them up, like with what their 984 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:19,760 Speaker 1: faginal faces them up. They scored them up. They scored 985 00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 1: them up scu So so is there a reason that? 986 00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,520 Speaker 1: Is there a reason that you go all the way 987 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: down to because you're now around her ankles and now 988 00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,360 Speaker 1: I'm just doing stuff because I like, we look like 989 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,319 Speaker 1: if I had the black lights on it, it does 990 00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:35,400 Speaker 1: look really dope going down, Like I like what you're doing. 991 00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 1: It was like making like a little outphit of it. 992 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 1: Like she was naked. It'd be like someone stripping off. 993 00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:42,360 Speaker 1: My mom just asked me why I'm not answering, and 994 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:47,719 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm working so for the knot on 995 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 1: the clip, right, can you put a knot inside of somebody? Uh? 996 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,360 Speaker 1: Sometimes if they tell to get in my roof and drawers, 997 00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 1: but I tell people, you know, okay, I recommended like 998 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:03,399 Speaker 1: little courtesy. You don't need to get see my rootes 999 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,839 Speaker 1: a little bit. But if you don't, if you don't, 1000 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,359 Speaker 1: if you don't have to, if you have a drugs, 1001 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 1: it'll sit right right where it needs to be. So 1002 00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,520 Speaker 1: it looks really cool. I like that. Basically, I'm curious 1003 00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 1: to know when I would do something like that, right, 1004 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 1: So am I gonna am I gonna like sit in 1005 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 1: this and wear it and like will it start to 1006 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 1: feel tight or it'll rotate and move a little bit, 1007 00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:27,960 Speaker 1: but it's still for the most part it's it's stretchy rope. 1008 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:33,080 Speaker 1: So it's not gonna go nowhere make my butt look better, yo. 1009 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 1: So it looks really cool with somebody harness, And like, 1010 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,319 Speaker 1: do you do a video to where someone knows they 1011 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 1: can do when when I sell the ropes out, some 1012 00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 1: do a little show them how to ty because you 1013 00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 1: can do all to yourself. Actually, you mean you really 1014 00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,040 Speaker 1: could have put this on yourself which around yourself and 1015 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 1: do it dif' just is next he's my other hard room. 1016 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 1: He's like really buying people. But I'm trying to time 1017 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,320 Speaker 1: the down. Did you do something to maybe around her wrists? 1018 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 1: Um to show maybe how you would what doesn't go? 1019 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 1: Are you up here? I could do anywhere? I mean 1020 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,440 Speaker 1: where where we choose to do? You're gonna do it 1021 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:19,120 Speaker 1: with anybody, you know, just for you guys, I'm gonna 1022 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,480 Speaker 1: do this. I'm going to lock your arms. Told you 1023 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,480 Speaker 1: like that, right? And this is is this the most 1024 00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:26,879 Speaker 1: common that people ask is for the restriction of their 1025 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:30,280 Speaker 1: arms and hands? Or where do you find people between 1026 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,680 Speaker 1: the between the legs and the arms? Where do people 1027 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,480 Speaker 1: what do you get specific exactly? Where do you want 1028 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:35,520 Speaker 1: to get tired of? People just come to me and 1029 00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,040 Speaker 1: are you tying me up? And then they let me 1030 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,200 Speaker 1: kind of figure it out. I mean, for the most first, 1031 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:44,239 Speaker 1: relaxing my shoulders or where are they getting tense? I mean, 1032 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,160 Speaker 1: you can relax them, but they're gonna I'm gonna you 1033 00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:51,200 Speaker 1: see hat he said, you'll see. So this is this 1034 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 1: is just very interesting. I guess for for anyone who's 1035 00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:58,680 Speaker 1: interested in getting this, where could they buy this at 1036 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 1: any arts and crafts store? Do they have to buy this? 1037 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 1: At a sex store or paid to my city. What 1038 00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:07,479 Speaker 1: is this? Where where can they buy these these ropes? 1039 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,160 Speaker 1: I know you make the other ones, but this type 1040 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,480 Speaker 1: of rope that you're using now, these ones that make 1041 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,040 Speaker 1: to these are all blue in the dark. Did they 1042 00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 1: look weird because they don't have my lights on them? 1043 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,239 Speaker 1: But these are just like a hot pink rope. Was like, 1044 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:20,600 Speaker 1: oh wow, So what he does guys? Um? He actually 1045 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,600 Speaker 1: he actually does this with like black light and make 1046 00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,960 Speaker 1: it all a cooney sheet. So do you do it? 1047 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,759 Speaker 1: Do you do like in calls or something? I do. 1048 00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,400 Speaker 1: I go people's homes and then sometimes they get a hotel, 1049 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:34,480 Speaker 1: you bring their black light, you bring a black I 1050 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 1: bring my black lights and everything. Do you let them 1051 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,799 Speaker 1: video David? Um? Depends on the situation. If I had 1052 00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 1: a harm, I would snap this. Can you do it? 1053 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 1: This is? This is really really dope, though I don't 1054 00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:58,480 Speaker 1: know with me. With me, I think, look, how are 1055 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 1: you feeling. I feel fine, I don't feel like unsafe. 1056 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:04,759 Speaker 1: I mean there's a whole lot of we got the 1057 00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,319 Speaker 1: lights on you on camera? Well. I mean that's also 1058 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:08,800 Speaker 1: the other thing, like I can't tell you if I 1059 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:10,719 Speaker 1: just met somebody and like they wanted to tie me 1060 00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:14,200 Speaker 1: up and they started doing is I wouldn't you know? One. 1061 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 1: Here's the other thing. I've never let someone dominate me 1062 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,760 Speaker 1: that I didn't feel secure with like I've never thankfully, 1063 00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:23,560 Speaker 1: I've never had a bad dum experience. They also I 1064 00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:28,400 Speaker 1: also wasn't comfortable, right, I also have been with experienced. 1065 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:34,920 Speaker 1: Um so, and so what are you doing right now? 1066 00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,960 Speaker 1: You're pretty much finishing up the knot? And could you 1067 00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 1: could you turn around? I didn't wear makeup? Oh wow, 1068 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:48,120 Speaker 1: So it's still really done very intricately. So it's longer. 1069 00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,600 Speaker 1: The longer you are, the more you can pieces because 1070 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:51,600 Speaker 1: then if I want to add on it could just 1071 00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,640 Speaker 1: add on add on it. And if it's way too 1072 00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 1: long and I'll be sitting here for a long time 1073 00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:59,719 Speaker 1: time type of right, I really get And then with 1074 00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:03,839 Speaker 1: the here and you could just and how quick how 1075 00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,560 Speaker 1: quick does that one get untied? Is it just kind 1076 00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,680 Speaker 1: of like the so she had to stay for it 1077 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:11,920 Speaker 1: and it was like, okay, I'm done. How quick does 1078 00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:15,160 Speaker 1: she get out of this? That's so fast? That was 1079 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:19,080 Speaker 1: really fast to get out of that. Okay, So untying 1080 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:22,600 Speaker 1: is definitely like with a pull of a a couple 1081 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 1: of strings and she's out, Well that's really really really okay. 1082 00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,560 Speaker 1: I'm might to try to eat I mean, I might 1083 00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,440 Speaker 1: do the tying up. I don't think I want to 1084 00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:34,880 Speaker 1: be tied. I'm I'm very close for you. Honestly. The 1085 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,680 Speaker 1: only uncomfortable part for me is probably like the shoulder restraint, 1086 00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 1: like not even the end, but but I mean, but 1087 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:45,360 Speaker 1: still never was there a point where I was like, 1088 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:50,359 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is awful. So can I look? 1089 00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:54,080 Speaker 1: She want to keep she want to keep this string Listen. 1090 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:58,880 Speaker 1: I'm I love that. Guys. If you guys want to 1091 00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:02,319 Speaker 1: try this, I think it's not only does it look hot. 1092 00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,480 Speaker 1: Um and again I'll even post um if you guys 1093 00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:08,120 Speaker 1: are interested in finding bondage lingerie, I know a couple 1094 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,560 Speaker 1: of sites where you can get that. UM and he's 1095 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:15,080 Speaker 1: cool or whatever. Um, So we are gonna go ahead 1096 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:18,399 Speaker 1: while he um puts the ropes back into his box, 1097 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:21,879 Speaker 1: We're gonna get into our wholemale portion of the show. Um. 1098 00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 1: This one is actually really interesting, especially whalle it's current. 1099 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:31,399 Speaker 1: I would say, Um, this one is called and sir Dash, 1100 00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 1: if you have any advice on this as well, please 1101 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,080 Speaker 1: chime in. So the title of this one is no 1102 00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 1: sex during Ramadan, but he's not even Muslim. Hey, ladies, 1103 00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 1: I just want to start by saying how much I 1104 00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,000 Speaker 1: love you both and how much I've learned from you 1105 00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 1: guys through the podcast. I'm gonna get right to the point. 1106 00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy on and off for like 1107 00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: a year now. Last night I asked him to come 1108 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,320 Speaker 1: over and have sex, and he says he can't because 1109 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:59,160 Speaker 1: of Ramadan. But the gag is he isn't even Muslim, 1110 00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 1: and he didn't even start participating in Ramadan until it 1111 00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:05,279 Speaker 1: was three days in. Now. I'm not mad because he's 1112 00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,719 Speaker 1: choosing to do this for himself and his spirit, but 1113 00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,719 Speaker 1: this is something he chose to do without even telling 1114 00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:13,480 Speaker 1: me about until I asked for sex. And he was 1115 00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:15,520 Speaker 1: at my house laying in my bed the night before 1116 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,680 Speaker 1: telling me about Ramadan and couldn't tell me he wasn't 1117 00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,319 Speaker 1: having sex either. I'm not sure if I'm just being 1118 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,680 Speaker 1: a brat because I've been so horny, or if he 1119 00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 1: should have at least communicated this with me, being that 1120 00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,000 Speaker 1: he isn't even Muslim. Sorry this was so long, but 1121 00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,399 Speaker 1: I'd like to hear what you ladies have to say. Love. 1122 00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:37,040 Speaker 1: I ain't getting none until after June four. So I 1123 00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:42,440 Speaker 1: just pointed it um our engineer behind us, Chris, because 1124 00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:44,560 Speaker 1: I know that I thought you were a Muslim. I 1125 00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:46,680 Speaker 1: don't know why I thought that. Well, I'm no longer practice, 1126 00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:50,200 Speaker 1: but I used to practice a couple of years ago. Yeah, 1127 00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,840 Speaker 1: I used to, you know, practice Islam. We won't have 1128 00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,160 Speaker 1: to get into the details because they do pay attention 1129 00:53:56,200 --> 00:54:00,600 Speaker 1: to ship like this. But anyway, now listener's for me 1130 00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 1: to talk about. It's about like Ramadon for you and sex. 1131 00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,799 Speaker 1: I participated in Ramadan for two years, my first one. 1132 00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:10,040 Speaker 1: I was engaged to a young lady. And yeah, you 1133 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,359 Speaker 1: could have sex. Actually it just has to be during 1134 00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:14,239 Speaker 1: the hours of you know, eating and all of that. 1135 00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,560 Speaker 1: But yeah, you could pretty much smash bro. What are 1136 00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:20,440 Speaker 1: you talking about? Like, yeah, don't don't. I mean if 1137 00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 1: he is though, like I understand and I respect his 1138 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,200 Speaker 1: decisions and not smash well. And that's the thing too, 1139 00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,360 Speaker 1: Like for Ramadon, you can choose what you're giving up, right, Honestly, 1140 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,400 Speaker 1: It's not like I don't know too much about land, 1141 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,440 Speaker 1: but I know you could pretty much have a selection, 1142 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,959 Speaker 1: be honest with you, Like, tensions are a little higher 1143 00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 1: for me with religion right now, women's bodies, So I'm 1144 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:41,160 Speaker 1: just like all of them. But honestly, I will say 1145 00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:43,920 Speaker 1: I do think it's kind of weird that this dude 1146 00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: randomly decided to pop up and like is it a 1147 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,879 Speaker 1: keto diet or like, not only that, you're he also 1148 00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:53,600 Speaker 1: joined it three days late, Like, oh, I see everybody 1149 00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,320 Speaker 1: doing Ramadan? Let you do that? Is that? Yeah? That 1150 00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:59,440 Speaker 1: thing you before, that's like almost like almost like a 1151 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:02,080 Speaker 1: consent almost type of things at any point in time. 1152 00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: If you if you that's what you're if that's what 1153 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:06,400 Speaker 1: you're saying, there's a reason why you don't want to 1154 00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:10,200 Speaker 1: have whatever it is Ramadan as an excuse, I probably 1155 00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:12,799 Speaker 1: to do it for self. If you're doing for self, 1156 00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 1: If you're doing for self purposes and something you have 1157 00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,839 Speaker 1: self different things, you're trying to take a break or whatever, 1158 00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:19,719 Speaker 1: then just say you just trying to take a break 1159 00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:23,520 Speaker 1: of this isn't that um, But if you don't. Sometimes 1160 00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:25,000 Speaker 1: some people just want to take a break but don't 1161 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,319 Speaker 1: have a significant reason why they want to take a break, 1162 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 1: and so they use whatever ramadon or whatever something like 1163 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:34,040 Speaker 1: that to maybe possibly I mean, but it just seems 1164 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:38,680 Speaker 1: like just be honest with just so I don't know. 1165 00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:44,600 Speaker 1: I'm not here for someone using uh a religion reason 1166 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 1: is like especially when you're like you don't practice it, 1167 00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:50,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. To me, I would wonder like maybe 1168 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,879 Speaker 1: the communication of why and really seeing if he's doing 1169 00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:56,560 Speaker 1: it for purpose or does he understand Ramadan and what 1170 00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,640 Speaker 1: it actually means, because then if it is something to 1171 00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,200 Speaker 1: where he's new, because I'm not gonna lie I lived 1172 00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:04,160 Speaker 1: um in Asia for about six months and I was 1173 00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,680 Speaker 1: really like interested in Buddhism and what it stood for 1174 00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:10,200 Speaker 1: and what was what it was about. This is something 1175 00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,600 Speaker 1: that he's like, maybe I want to convert to this 1176 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,160 Speaker 1: and this is how I want to start, then I 1177 00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,239 Speaker 1: would understand him. But for him just to say, well 1178 00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:21,479 Speaker 1: it is Ramadan, I gave up sex, I mean, here's 1179 00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:25,480 Speaker 1: the thing too. Is this the thing is he is 1180 00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,919 Speaker 1: that what really happened? Or is that's her her version 1181 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:29,719 Speaker 1: of what she's saying, Because some of the people just 1182 00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: break it down and really get simple with it. So 1183 00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:33,719 Speaker 1: when they explained to you just like yeah, he just 1184 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:37,799 Speaker 1: you know, maybe yeah, but maybe maybe he did really 1185 00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,080 Speaker 1: break it down and we was really was been studying, 1186 00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,960 Speaker 1: really been because she didn't get no dick, she's just 1187 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:50,160 Speaker 1: like you might be really out of here. I want 1188 00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:53,759 Speaker 1: to thank Sir Dash or stir dashing tone um for 1189 00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,839 Speaker 1: coming through the horrible decisions. I hope that you guys 1190 00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,880 Speaker 1: learned a lot about bondage, but now also may want 1191 00:56:59,920 --> 00:57:01,960 Speaker 1: to ring it into the bedroom before we get out 1192 00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:03,640 Speaker 1: of here. Can you let our listeners know where they 1193 00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:05,920 Speaker 1: can find you? Will also put all of his information 1194 00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:10,080 Speaker 1: in the description of this episode. Sounds good. Well, my 1195 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 1: name is Sir Dashington. Thank you guys for having me. 1196 00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:18,520 Speaker 1: First of all, Um, you guys can find me at www. 1197 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,440 Speaker 1: A Roddey ropes by Dash dot com, um on Instagram, 1198 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:24,480 Speaker 1: you can find me at a Roddey roast by Dash 1199 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:29,560 Speaker 1: three um, Twitter, roast by Dash, Email, roast by Dash 1200 00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:32,439 Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. All of that before we also 1201 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:34,440 Speaker 1: get out of here. You guys just heard me bring 1202 00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:36,560 Speaker 1: up some reproductive shape. You might have seen me say 1203 00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 1: on Twitter like I had really just was not in 1204 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:41,320 Speaker 1: the mood to work today, you know, like I was. 1205 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:43,760 Speaker 1: It's hard to come in here sometimes when you're just 1206 00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:46,160 Speaker 1: like really in those emotions of what's going on around you, 1207 00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:49,600 Speaker 1: and as someone who's had an abortion and just seeing 1208 00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:51,680 Speaker 1: a lot of Twitter slander and I don't even have 1209 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,240 Speaker 1: a Twitter, like you know, we post about horrible decision 1210 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,200 Speaker 1: ship and I was like, still really annoyed whether just 1211 00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:00,240 Speaker 1: seeing the hierarchy of what abortion is okay to pee bowl. 1212 00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's okay if you know, you get an 1213 00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:04,680 Speaker 1: abortion round this time, but not this one. It's okay 1214 00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:06,919 Speaker 1: if you get to but not four and blah blah 1215 00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:09,520 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. So I just wanted to look up 1216 00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:10,880 Speaker 1: as much as I can and see what I could do. 1217 00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:13,640 Speaker 1: So I found some stuff. Sure, I'm sure all of 1218 00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:16,160 Speaker 1: you probably feel as angry, especially if you're I guess 1219 00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:18,360 Speaker 1: open enough to listen to this podcast. So if you 1220 00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,960 Speaker 1: don't know, Alabama, it's now illegal to have an abortion 1221 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:24,200 Speaker 1: after six weeks. The trouble with that is that most 1222 00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:26,680 Speaker 1: of us find out we're pregnant around six weeks, you know, 1223 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,240 Speaker 1: you know, four weeks in a month, and then you 1224 00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,000 Speaker 1: missed your period and you're like, oh and then boom, 1225 00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,439 Speaker 1: it's six week. It's too weak. So a few things 1226 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:35,640 Speaker 1: that we can do, right, So if you have I 1227 00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,760 Speaker 1: don't know, ten minutes of time, you can call one 1228 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:42,240 Speaker 1: of your legislatives that are in or anyone that's in Alabama, 1229 00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:44,640 Speaker 1: and you don't leave him a voicemail about how you're 1230 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:46,880 Speaker 1: feeling affected by this, I'll leave the number in the description. 1231 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:51,360 Speaker 1: UM donate to local grassroots organizations plant parenthood. Of course, 1232 00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 1: there's another one called n A R A l UM 1233 00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:57,640 Speaker 1: and the National Network of Abortion Funds UM. Actually, anytime 1234 00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:59,280 Speaker 1: someone passes me on the street in New York about 1235 00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:01,400 Speaker 1: the motherfucking doll, I'm like, dog, I only give my 1236 00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 1: money to black people and plan parent. That's sorry. But 1237 00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,720 Speaker 1: I did want to say volunteering is a clinic escort, 1238 00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,720 Speaker 1: so I already looked up a place UM in Alabama 1239 00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:11,680 Speaker 1: to do it. As some of you guys saw the Louisville, 1240 00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,840 Speaker 1: Kentucky thing on Twitter where these people there was like 1241 00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:17,640 Speaker 1: five escorts for one woman. She like was totally covered 1242 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,400 Speaker 1: her face, like people were screaming at her, like it's crazy. 1243 00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,200 Speaker 1: I know there's Ohio and Georgia that have crazy bands. 1244 00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,640 Speaker 1: So if you're in these cities or nearby, maybe making 1245 00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:27,640 Speaker 1: a girl's trip. You know what I'm saying, go with 1246 00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,400 Speaker 1: your friends, do something great for someone else. It's gonna 1247 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 1: do nothing but make you feel good. And I also 1248 00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:35,640 Speaker 1: wanted to talk about just the repercussions of the abortion band. 1249 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:37,960 Speaker 1: So currently they're saying this, I don't know how true 1250 00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,840 Speaker 1: this is, but they are saying that if you live 1251 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:42,280 Speaker 1: in Alabama and you go to another state to get 1252 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:46,000 Speaker 1: an abortion, you can also be charged, yes when you 1253 00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:49,040 Speaker 1: come home. So here are a few rules from Planned Parenthood. 1254 00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:52,800 Speaker 1: Number one, uh taken at home test only because of 1255 00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:56,040 Speaker 1: rule number two, tell no one don't text over the 1256 00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,600 Speaker 1: phone social media. Everybody's like freaking out about it. But three, 1257 00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,200 Speaker 1: when you take your VACA in to another state, just 1258 01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:04,160 Speaker 1: go under the guys to sight see your visit family um. 1259 01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:07,520 Speaker 1: And for when you obtain the abortion, do not sign 1260 01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,960 Speaker 1: any waivers. If you don't sign any waivers for consent 1261 01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 1: to providers to communicate to other ones, you are safe. 1262 01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:16,200 Speaker 1: Look up HIPPA. Your information is federally protected. If the 1263 01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,040 Speaker 1: one and only person who knows you had an abortion 1264 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,800 Speaker 1: leaks it, they will go to prison because they violated HIPPA. 1265 01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:22,800 Speaker 1: And unless you've broke any other rules, they're the only 1266 01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,160 Speaker 1: ones who know. That was from an anonymous source at 1267 01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:27,280 Speaker 1: Planned Parenthood. So I don't know how true it is 1268 01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:28,880 Speaker 1: that you could go to fucking jail or like be 1269 01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 1: you know, persecuted for UM having an abortion another state. 1270 01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:34,160 Speaker 1: But just keep aware of those things, making sure you 1271 01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,000 Speaker 1: don't sign any paper I would even so much as 1272 01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,880 Speaker 1: pay with motherfucking cash for an abortion. But not only that, 1273 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,400 Speaker 1: there's a lot of laws. There's about fifteen states currently 1274 01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,880 Speaker 1: affected as well, UM, and more bills looking to be passed. 1275 01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:48,080 Speaker 1: So UM, I don't think that we aren't going to 1276 01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,080 Speaker 1: speak on this. We have had an episode where we 1277 01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:52,600 Speaker 1: s I both opened up about our abortions. UM. But 1278 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:55,400 Speaker 1: I am planning an episode UM in which we will 1279 01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:58,240 Speaker 1: discuss kind of what's going on UM in our current 1280 01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:01,560 Speaker 1: state as far as politically UM, but also just getting 1281 01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:05,120 Speaker 1: some women UM who are in that space professionally to 1282 01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:08,360 Speaker 1: get on this show and really dig deep into abortion, 1283 01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:10,960 Speaker 1: the effects on the body UM, and of course the 1284 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:14,320 Speaker 1: political stance in which our country is currently taking. So 1285 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:18,120 Speaker 1: UM be on the lookout for UM that episode coming 1286 01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,440 Speaker 1: in those send some emails two of your personal stories, 1287 01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:24,080 Speaker 1: like especially men, I think that is a great um 1288 01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:28,000 Speaker 1: and untouched space with abortions. So many women like talk 1289 01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:29,760 Speaker 1: about their abortions and get shut on for it. And 1290 01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:31,919 Speaker 1: there's plenty of niggas that have had four or five 1291 01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:34,760 Speaker 1: six out here and don't talk about those moments. Don't 1292 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,200 Speaker 1: talk about how abortions save their lives or their careers 1293 01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:40,400 Speaker 1: or their money. UM. So definitely share those stories with us. 1294 01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:42,800 Speaker 1: Will totally be anonymous if you want us to, UM, 1295 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:44,360 Speaker 1: but just share that with us so these women know 1296 01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:47,640 Speaker 1: that they're not alone. And UM. Once again, this has 1297 01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:55,080 Speaker 1: been yet another episode of horror decisions. What is the 1298 01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:58,320 Speaker 1: craziest thing you've seen on the flight yet? Uh? Or 1299 01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:03,160 Speaker 1: craziest moment? Think catching someone give a blow job? Wait, 1300 01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:06,960 Speaker 1: that happened on your fight and to Orlando. It's a 1301 01:02:07,040 --> 01:02:12,200 Speaker 1: million kids girl and was from Lauderdale. They gotta be Florida. 1302 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:17,400 Speaker 1: They just gotta And then the short no, it's like 1303 01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:24,640 Speaker 1: from yeah in the no, so they had they were 1304 01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:27,080 Speaker 1: in the background and you put the story. You put 1305 01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:29,280 Speaker 1: a little blanket over here, right, But the flights, the 1306 01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:32,920 Speaker 1: flights are full, Orlando flights are kids and maybe crying 1307 01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:38,840 Speaker 1: back and forth. And wait, she couldn't even give head 1308 01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 1: being quiet that we knew, shut the funk up. There's 1309 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:47,000 Speaker 1: a way to give me quiet, bro. Wait, you tapped 1310 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,320 Speaker 1: her on the head while she was in action, except 1311 01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:52,959 Speaker 1: her back. We had to tell her like, hey, there's 1312 01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:56,920 Speaker 1: but two people can't go into the bathroom and it's 1313 01:02:56,920 --> 01:03:03,760 Speaker 1: not against the laws. You're you're telling me you can 1314 01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:07,479 Speaker 1: fucking fucking a bathroom. But do you want to? Yeah, 1315 01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:11,200 Speaker 1: you don't don't know the funk you do not let 1316 01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:15,760 Speaker 1: me tell you. I wasn't l a X this weekend, Okay, 1317 01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 1: drunk Delta sky Club talking with this dude and he's like, 1318 01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:24,959 Speaker 1: I bet y'all. No, I wasn't like, but he bet 1319 01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:28,720 Speaker 1: everybody at the fucking bar a hundred dollars. He's like, 1320 01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:30,720 Speaker 1: y'all gotta pay for my drinks if I'm right. Two 1321 01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:32,320 Speaker 1: people can go in the bathroom, and you can. They 1322 01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:34,240 Speaker 1: can't say anything to you. And I was like, no 1323 01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:38,160 Speaker 1: fucking way. So someone googled something and it proved him wrong, 1324 01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:40,640 Speaker 1: and he paid for all of our drinks. You owe 1325 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:47,880 Speaker 1: him some money, So what do you You told her 1326 01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:50,920 Speaker 1: she could go in the bathroom. Now you're about to 1327 01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:55,720 Speaker 1: give everybody locked up. You can get in trouble. So 1328 01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,240 Speaker 1: when you act up and you don't listen to us, 1329 01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:01,120 Speaker 1: you get to it and it's like, hey, if you 1330 01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:05,920 Speaker 1: don't stop, you're gonna get of whatever whoever it is, 1331 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:07,640 Speaker 1: whoever I thought me and Mandy was about to get 1332 01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:10,040 Speaker 1: a ticket win. She's a lot of help was on 1333 01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:14,480 Speaker 1: the adults are like a baby sues girl that was 1334 01:04:14,600 --> 01:04:21,600 Speaker 1: heading into We were in how Utch. Some motherfucker would 1335 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,160 Speaker 1: tell me to shut the funk up, bitch. No not. 1336 01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,240 Speaker 1: My bad experience was going over to uh d R 1337 01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:32,160 Speaker 1: and um. This lady was with her know she was 1338 01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,120 Speaker 1: with her dude at the time, but her side nigger 1339 01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:35,400 Speaker 1: was on the plane with her as well at the 1340 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:37,520 Speaker 1: same damn time. So they go to the back of 1341 01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:41,040 Speaker 1: the aircraft and the dude the dude to sleep and 1342 01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:43,240 Speaker 1: she goes to the back of aircraft with her side dude. 1343 01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,280 Speaker 1: They go inside of the back and there in the bathroom. 1344 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if they're talking to know what they're doing. 1345 01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:50,960 Speaker 1: And yeah, so the guy comes out, the man, the 1346 01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:53,520 Speaker 1: main man comes and he knocks on the door and 1347 01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:57,120 Speaker 1: they opened the door and he slapped the shot out 1348 01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 1: of her. And the side guys just standing there like, 1349 01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,840 Speaker 1: what do I do? WI? What you was doing? What 1350 01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:08,560 Speaker 1: do you think I was doing? You just watching a No? 1351 01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:16,040 Speaker 1: I literally was like and I would be like, that's 1352 01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:18,439 Speaker 1: what the funk you get trying to Now we gotta 1353 01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:21,040 Speaker 1: call the captain, let them know that there's an emergency 1354 01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:24,560 Speaker 1: going on at land early for that, did y'all? Oh no, 1355 01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:28,880 Speaker 1: we actually didn't land early. We diverted even worse. Wait 1356 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:33,560 Speaker 1: what yes, how do you stopped him? You go all right? 1357 01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:36,800 Speaker 1: Not me? No, No, what do y'all do in a 1358 01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:40,320 Speaker 1: case of niggas? And by that, I mean, however you 1359 01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:45,200 Speaker 1: take it? Can we tell them? Yeah we have flexi rods. Yeah, 1360 01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:49,840 Speaker 1: you for strained them. So they're like okay, okay, And 1361 01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:53,280 Speaker 1: so people are what you do? Throw it at him