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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are heart. How much you paying? We're

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Speaker 1: paying good, that's fifteen cents a box. That ain't good enough. Nope,

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Speaker 1: we can't pick it for that. We want twenty two

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Speaker 1: cents a box. Now, Now we can't give you that.

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Speaker 1: George started over. Okay, we'll do it for twenty two cents,

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Speaker 1: straight through good and the bad. Now we can't well,

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Speaker 1: we can't pick it. Then we forty miles from town.

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Speaker 1: I know we still not gonna pick it. Well, y'all

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Speaker 1: pick a load. I don't want to send the truck

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Speaker 1: pick a load into the packing house. Then I'll send

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Speaker 1: word to the boss and tell him what y'all wanting

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Speaker 1: to do. No, we're not gonna pick one. You can

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Speaker 1: send the truck back down back to town and we'll wait.

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Speaker 1: Got nothing to do. Y'all just doing us this way

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Speaker 1: because y'all got the upper ya y'all got their advantage

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Speaker 1: over us. This war ain't gonna last forever, and by god,

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Speaker 1: y'all gonna pay for this. We already paid, George said

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Speaker 1: all these years, we couldn't even ask how much you

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Speaker 1: were paying for a box of fruit, or we get fired.

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Speaker 1: You gave us what you wanted to give us. You

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Speaker 1: promise us one thing and give us another. You put

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Speaker 1: the payday off whenever you get ready, and sometimes you

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Speaker 1: didn't pay us period. So now far as n't concerned,

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Speaker 1: this is reckoning day, and I ain't worried about after

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Speaker 1: the war, you could pay us what we want or

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Speaker 1: else your fruit gonna hang out there, and they wanted

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Speaker 1: in New York. They wanted it all over the world,

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Speaker 1: and you ain't got nobody to pick it. The foreman

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Speaker 1: needed the fruit out of the trees. He left with

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Speaker 1: the truck driver and before along he was back from

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Speaker 1: the packing house, told him to go to work. He

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Speaker 1: would pay them twenty two cents this time. Hey, welcome

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Speaker 1: too the Black Hout Tests podcast. Your host Rod and Caring,

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Speaker 1: and we're live on Tuesday. Only two more days till

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Speaker 1: whatever celebrations y'all are calling this on this wote and

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Speaker 1: it's twenty nineteen. You know what I'm saying, I don't

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's Thanksgiving, friends giving, family function,

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Speaker 2: fuck Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 3: You know it ain't a real holiday.

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Speaker 1: Have you want to celebrate it Indigenous People's Week and

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Speaker 1: like people call ou a bunch of different stuff. Whatever

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Speaker 1: you're doing, good luck to you and your family. Come

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Speaker 1: on saying, hope y'all, hope y'all enjoy each other. I

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Speaker 2: Like if you like me and you don't give a

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Speaker 1: a great one. Of course, you can find the show

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Speaker 1: Your weapon of the show is an unofficial sport and

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Speaker 1: bullet ball extreams at. Today's excerpt was from the Warmth

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Speaker 1: of other Sons, which I've read from I think once

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Speaker 1: or twice about Isabel Wilkinson and that I just got

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Speaker 1: to this chapter and that, like I I was in

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Speaker 1: just like misnomer. I think it's just a white supremacist

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Speaker 3: Know, like nobody never thought about that, fought back.

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Speaker 1: George is an interesting person. I mean, all these stories

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Speaker 1: So it went a week because black people was like, okay,

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Speaker 2: And like always, you get people to get caught up

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Speaker 2: It's not the same because years ago, everybody, every black person,

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Speaker 1: What was interesting is that there was always levels to it.

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Speaker 2: But like you say, once the equality of that impression

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Speaker 1: Segregation, you know, that kind of stuff really made it like,

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Speaker 1: you know, you're unifying because you had to be unified. Correct,

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Speaker 1: Even within what I'm trying to say is even within

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Speaker 1: Everybody didn't you know, March. Everybody didn't even come to

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Speaker 1: like well, black people that were straight up like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: But but I guess my thing is when it's a

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Speaker 3: People most people not all, because.

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Speaker 2: You're always gonna have somebody that's going to be like, well,

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Speaker 2: the life I live and is just fine. The white

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Speaker 2: man just letting me live, you know, people, and you're

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Speaker 2: else is like, no, this is wrong, this is not right.

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Speaker 3: And even those people know the sh it ain't right.

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Speaker 1: Sure, Like, like I said, from my reading, it seems

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Speaker 1: just like everything, there's a certain level of getting used

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Speaker 1: So not everybody was a revolutionary. You know, a lot

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Speaker 1: because it was like y'all gonna get us killed, like correct,

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Speaker 1: Like they killing motherfuckers for this shit and they and

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Speaker 1: it's like somebody getting hung, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: we accusing some random person this. And so you know,

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Speaker 1: that stuff. But yeah, this dude, like reading about him

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Speaker 1: well you could kind of like stand up for yourself

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Speaker 3: More people would be.

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Speaker 2: Upset about them passing all types of fucked up loss,

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Speaker 1: All right, that's uh, today's of course reading Rainbow segment. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Some people's least favorites.

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Speaker 3: Butterfly and I can go twice. Take a look.

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Speaker 1: It's in a book reading Rainbow. I can go anywhere.

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Speaker 1: Where's the grow read Rainbow? A can anything? Take a

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Speaker 1: look book reading Rainbow. All right, here's what happens to

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Speaker 1: your people rather hear about than this. It's y'all fault. Really,

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Speaker 1: I mean every podcast talking about t I let me

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Speaker 1: guess they don't agree. Here's what happens to you. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: this person is definitely never changing that review, but.

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Speaker 3: They might actually go back and drop the star.

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Speaker 1: These motherfuckers get.

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Speaker 3: Mad even like fuck them niggas.

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Speaker 1: They got jokes. That's gonna be the title of the

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Speaker 1: next review. Think they got jokes? One star. Here's what

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Speaker 1: happens to your body when you overthink all that excessive

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Speaker 1: obsession and obsessing and rumination totally takes a toll on

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Speaker 1: you physically and mentally. If you rehash past conversations, dwell

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Speaker 1: on your choices, or get trapped in a tunnel of

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Speaker 1: what if scenarios, there's a pretty good chance you're an overthinker.

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Speaker 1: Oh ha mei. This wise spead, rumination and over obsessing

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Speaker 1: has become somewhat of an epidemic. One study from the

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Speaker 1: University of Michigan found that seventy three percent of adults

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Speaker 1: between the ages of twenty five and thirty five overthink,

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Speaker 1: as do fifty two percent of forty five to fifty

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Speaker 1: five year olds. Interestingly, researchers found that many overthinkers believe

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Speaker 1: they're actually doing themselves a favor by cycling through their thoughts.

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Speaker 1: But the truth of the matter is that overthinking is

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Speaker 1: a dangerous game that can have a lot of negative

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Speaker 1: consequences on our well being. As David Spiegel, the director

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Speaker 1: of the Center of rest in Health or Stanford health Care,

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Speaker 1: puts it, there are times when worrying about the problem

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Speaker 1: is a lot worse than the problem itself. Here's what

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Speaker 1: happens to your body when you overthink. By the way,

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Speaker 1: I definitely understand that because there were times when I

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Speaker 1: got paused on something I need to be doing and

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Speaker 1: thought about it longer than it took me to do it,

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, if I would have just

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Speaker 1: did it, it'd be done right now. Most likely, you're

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Speaker 1: less likely to take action. Overthinking create so many options

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Speaker 1: and choices of scenarios that you end up unable to

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Speaker 1: make a decision. It's a concept called analysis paralysis. I

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Speaker 1: have experienced this. You get stuck in potential consequence that

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Speaker 1: may not even happen, just worrying about certain outcomes, and

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Speaker 1: that could paralyze us or freeze us from taking an action.

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Speaker 1: If you don't try things, you don't fail, which may

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Speaker 1: be a potential concern, but you also don't succeed. She added, well,

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Speaker 1: you do finally move forward with a decision, wind, you

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Speaker 1: might wind up making the wrong one because you got

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Speaker 1: so mixed up by all the competing thoughts. Yeah, yep.

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Speaker 1: I used to do this with friendships, Like I have

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Speaker 1: somebody on like this person seems like a whack person,

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Speaker 1: but it might be into presumptious of them. I don't

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Speaker 1: know this person, maybe they maybe it's just a misunderstanding

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Speaker 1: and everybody else that knows them doesn't like them. And

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Speaker 1: that's really my you know, that's just me and assuming.

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Speaker 1: But they might be straight. I might maybe everybody else

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Speaker 1: is wrong, and I would talk myself into being friends

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Speaker 1: and then like a month later be like this niggas

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Speaker 1: whack as fuck? What am I doing? Hang out this person?

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Speaker 3: And I do think, but I don't.

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Speaker 1: Really.

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Speaker 4: I'm less of an overthinker, like way less.

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Speaker 2: Than you when it particularly when it comes to certain things,

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Speaker 2: and to an extent that might be a quoting somewhat

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Speaker 2: a disadvantage, and I'm like, fucking do it? Move on, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, and I'm more quick to be like, well

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Speaker 2: that's my answer, you know, Like I'm.

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Speaker 4: More quick to be like it is what it is

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Speaker 4: and okay and just.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: But that's not always healthy to either.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes in certain situations, if I would have thought

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Speaker 2: about a little bit more, I would have made a

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Speaker 2: better or more educated decision.

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Speaker 4: But the pondering thing, I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 2: Maybe in certain situations I might do that, but I'm

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Speaker 2: less likely to do that because in my mind.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what the future is, and whatever.

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Speaker 2: I imagine is, it's gonna be worse than the reality of it.

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Speaker 3: And once I realized that.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'm fucking myself up, because you know,

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Speaker 2: somebody gets your call and say that, you know, come

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Speaker 2: home in this an emergency your mind, which most of

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Speaker 2: your mind lives, and this is kind of that's a

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Speaker 2: bad example, but you know, that's kind of an example

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Speaker 2: of how your mind just kind of goes all over

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Speaker 2: the place. And you get home and your child talking

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Speaker 2: about uh yeah, Billy bumped his head on the water,

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Speaker 2: and you're looking like, Okay, you made me go through

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Speaker 2: these all these scenarios for it to be a simple situation.

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Speaker 4: And sometimes it is big, don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 2: But most of the time, whatever's in your mind, because

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Speaker 2: your imagination is gonna be bigger than the situation.

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Speaker 1: For me, that's not really what I'm talking about stuff

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Speaker 1: like that. I'm talking about stuff like, you know, doing

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Speaker 1: your taxes and you're like, okay, I know taxes, I

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Speaker 1: do this day, and you procrastinated. You think about, well

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Speaker 1: if I do this first, and I do that, and

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Speaker 1: then now now you got up at the deadline, it's like, ah, alright,

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Speaker 1: you do my taxes. I oh lord, I'm gonna file extension.

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Speaker 1: What am I gonna do? And it's like, oh, because

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Speaker 1: I thought about this longer than that, then it would

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Speaker 1: have took me fifteen minutes to just go in there,

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Speaker 1: fill out the paperwork that I need to fill out

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Speaker 1: foul away, all the stuff that all the programs and

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Speaker 1: shit I've already hooked up to make sure that this

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Speaker 1: is a smooth transition. I've thought about it longer than

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Speaker 1: I needed to. I could have just done this already, right,

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Speaker 1: And that's and it's stuff like that that happens all

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Speaker 1: the time, you know, Okay, and that's not you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, like just on that level

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Speaker 1: another side, another thing, you're less creative.

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Speaker 4: Yes, agreed, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: They said. While some overthinking can lead to fresh new ideas,

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Speaker 1: it can also backfire and create mental roadblocks that make

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Speaker 1: it challenging to think outside the box. Another study from

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Speaker 1: Stanford came to the same conclusion. While hooking up to

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Speaker 1: magnetic resonance image machines MRYS, participants were asked to draw

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Speaker 1: a series of images, some easier to illustrate, some difficult.

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Speaker 1: The more difficult the images were to draw, the more

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Speaker 1: the participants had to think, and the less creative the

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Speaker 1: drawings were. On the flip side, the less thought involved,

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Speaker 1: the more creative the drawings were, in short, too much

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Speaker 1: thinking scenes to put a cap on creativity. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: what we do for a podcast, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: That's one of the reasons I like, you know, I'll

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Speaker 1: try to be a little bit more careful. I lean

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Speaker 1: into the fact that I'm a thinker and that I'm

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Speaker 1: thoughtful because I you know, I'm never gonna lose that

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Speaker 1: or give that up. But you know, certain shit is

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Speaker 1: just like, you know, am I turning? Like? I know?

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Speaker 1: I remember with Justin. I was talking to Justin about

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Speaker 1: this and I was like, you know, one of the

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Speaker 1: things I admire about you is that you're dismissive. And

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Speaker 1: he was like, what do you like because people say

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Speaker 1: dismissively made mean some negative vite And I was like, no,

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Speaker 1: I like, it's a quality I need to have. I

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Speaker 1: need to be a bit more dismissive of people rather

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Speaker 1: than engaging people in fruitless conversations or things that what

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Speaker 1: does it matter if this person like agrees with me

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Speaker 1: on my Facebook page or not? Or why do I

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Speaker 1: even need to ask them to explain the ship. Let's

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Speaker 1: be real, they don't give a fuck what I think

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Speaker 1: on that level, and nope, and and and it's most

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Speaker 1: nine times out of ten that's not gonna work out,

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Speaker 1: and and and and I try to balance it, like

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Speaker 1: like I engage less than I used to, you know,

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Speaker 1: because just because it's like, yeah, I like this is

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Speaker 1: something I have to get used to. And the same

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Speaker 1: thing with you know, real life and shit. You know

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Speaker 1: there's people that I'm just like, no, I'm not talking.

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Speaker 1: There's a dude that used to come to the wind

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about politics every Saturday. And he

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Speaker 1: was a dude that voted for Trump. And then so

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Speaker 1: it would get everyone would come in because mostly black people,

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Speaker 1: but just why they come in and be like, hey man,

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Speaker 1: how can you say this when he did this this week?

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Speaker 1: And what about this week? And every week there's something

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Speaker 1: with Trump, right, and he always had an excuse and

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Speaker 1: now and then one time he wanted to talk to

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Speaker 1: me about it, and I just ignore him. And everybody

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Speaker 1: was like, damn, like that's kind of rude, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, no, it's not. It's what's rude is him

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Speaker 1: wanting to talk about this every week when he knows

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Speaker 1: that nothing's gonna change.

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Speaker 3: Correct, He's wasting my time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And so and it's just it's making my basketball

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Speaker 1: not fun.

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Speaker 3: Correct.

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Speaker 1: Your energy levels might drop because you're overthinking, you spending

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Speaker 1: all that mental energy and now your physical energy is

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Speaker 1: lower and you get fatigued. Yeah, I can see that

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Speaker 1: your sleep may take a hit. You might have trouble

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Speaker 1: falling asleep because you're over there thinking all night when

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Speaker 1: you need to be taking your ass to sleep. Your

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Speaker 1: heart rate needs to go down, as does your blood

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Speaker 1: pressure and breathing so you can sleep. Over Analyzing is

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Speaker 1: something that is arousing. And by arousing, I just mean

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Speaker 1: it elevates your heart and makes you alert to right,

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Speaker 1: so you can't really sleep. Your appetite might change. You

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Speaker 1: could either like not want to eat because you're thinking

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Speaker 1: all the time. It's a pressure appetite. But more likely

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Speaker 1: you have worry eating, which is much more common. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So you eat because you're just sucking up thinking, and

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Speaker 1: you go for the tastest and the healthiest things when

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Speaker 1: you're stressed, because that's you know, that's why they call

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Speaker 1: these foods comfort foods, high fast, sugary foods. You know.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, and it and it releases a hormone called cortisol.

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Speaker 1: I guess the stress that stress some all. Uh, it

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Speaker 1: increases your appetite when you're when you're with your motivation

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Speaker 1: to eat. So while you're stressed out, you're eating and

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Speaker 1: you're not even thinking about it.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Then the last part is how to control your tendency

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Speaker 1: to overthink. Hey, the first step is to notice that

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Speaker 1: you're overthinking. Okay, cool, I see the people in the

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Speaker 1: chat going through it. Hey, we had step one.

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Speaker 3: We had step one.

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Speaker 1: Next, you want to find a way to distract yourself

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Speaker 1: and go into a physical body and free up your

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Speaker 1: cognitive systems thinking like going for a job or trying yoga.

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Speaker 1: I do. I walk now a little bit, well pretty

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Speaker 1: much every day unless I'm playing basketball. I go for

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Speaker 1: a walk sometimes even if I play basketball.

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Speaker 3: Been able to tell the difference.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I mean people have been saying they notice the difference.

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Speaker 1: But I mean I feel a lot more clear about

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Speaker 1: just I'm a lot less stressed out. I'm a lot

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Speaker 1: less anxious.

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Speaker 4: Exercise is a great fune to relieve stress.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not, and it's not obviously one things. I mean,

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Speaker 1: life has things that you should be anxious about. That correct.

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Speaker 1: Some shit is going to stress you out, so it's

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Speaker 1: not complete like I'm zening and I don't feel anything,

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Speaker 1: but I am on a different I just man, I

651
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: said this shit like a year or two ago. In

652
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: a fucking minute, I'm leaning into just my own like

653
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: hippie ish, inner white woman type shit Like I'm not

654
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: like I say, white women, but I really just mean

655
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: like the idea of having some level of peace and

656
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: comfort correct, because because you know, being black man is

657
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable, it's so volatile, it's not that much peace,

658
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: and everything seems to be kind of taking from you.

659
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: This person got shot, the cops did this. Look you

660
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: shouldn't be watching the NFL. You shouldn't be eating this,

661
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be going here, you shouldn't be listening to song.

662
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: Like everything is like another box on yourself and another.

663
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: And when you add in what we do for a living,

664
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Speaker 1: and you add in the fact that we kind of

665
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: have to be on social media to do what we

666
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 1: do for a living, you have to I'm constantly thinking

667
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: about our image, how we're presenting ourselves. I'm thinking about,

668
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: you know, the fact that people have accessibility to us.

669
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: The other day, you know, I talked about Lizzo and

670
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: Summer Walker and all those people and it was upsetting

671
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,320
Speaker 1: to me to see young black women basically put through

672
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: that to the point where their mental health was at

673
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: risk and they had to lead the internet, right, you know,

674
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: or they had to like, you know, I want to quit.

675
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: They wanted to quit what they do for a living, right.

676
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: And we also talked about the fact that accessibility means

677
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: people can actually hit you up to tell you, hey,

678
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: I don't like your song or this thing you did

679
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 1: I didn't like.

680
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 3: Right.

681
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: Literally, the next morning when I got on Twitter, someone

682
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: had listened to our podcast and added the account and

683
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: was like, well, this show was angry. I mean, who's

684
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: listening It doesn't agree with you? Geez Louise. And it's like,

685
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: that's literally the example I was talking about, Like, that's so, Yes,

686
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 1: there are people that listen to our show that don't

687
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: agree with us on stuff people talk about all the time.

688
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: They'll say, hey, the things you said made me think it.

689
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: It's a different.

690
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 2: Way, and it's the thing people don't mind. Uh, we

691
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 2: can't agree to disagree on certain things.

692
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, So, but it's not even about it's just that

693
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 1: people do listen to disagree, Yes they do. So that

694
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: was number one, but number two that accessibility. That literally

695
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: was what I was talking about. It does, like because

696
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: you're talking to a human being, and it does make

697
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 1: people go damn like should I be am? I bothered

698
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: by this?

699
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 5: This?

700
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 1: This bothered me in my offset And so you know,

701
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 1: I responded back. I can't remember what I said, but

702
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: actually deleted the response. It wasn't mean or rude or nothing,

703
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 1: but I just actually deleted the response period because I said,

704
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,240
Speaker 1: you know, what, fuck it that that person had something

705
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: to say they didn't like that segment or they thought

706
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: it was too whatever the fuck cool? Like what like

707
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: like that's there was a time where I would have

708
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 1: been like trying to engage and get an interaction and

709
00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: talk to them about it, be like, now, why would

710
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,439
Speaker 1: you come in this? But you know, I feel much

711
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 1: more comfortable being me, and I feel much more comfortable

712
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 1: knowing that I'm doing my best and trying my best,

713
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 1: and I'm human. So I'm gonna be upset, sometimes I'm

714
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 1: gonna be sad, sometimes I'm gonna be happy. Sometimes all

715
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,800
Speaker 1: the show is is a promise to let you listen

716
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: to what the fuck we think? That's it?

717
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, And also, like I said, that's just how our

718
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,479
Speaker 2: minds tick because you have the right to say whatever

719
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 2: you want to say, but I have the right to

720
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 2: engage or not to engage. Yeah, So a lot of

721
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 2: times when I see shits like that, I'm like, oh.

722
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:40,320
Speaker 1: Well yeah, but but my point wasn't about the ol

723
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: or not. I think my overthinking side is one to

724
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,439
Speaker 1: be like, let me talk to this person and see

725
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: if we can come to some sort of understanding or whatever.

726
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: That's just how That's just the way my mind works, right,

727
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: And that's what I was gonna go back to to.

728
00:36:55,920 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 2: That's the difference between you, cause you want to understand that,

729
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 2: you want to.

730
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:03,959
Speaker 1: Be understood, right.

731
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 4: The average person don't give a fuck about that.

732
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 2: The average person just want to put shit out there

733
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 2: and they don't give a fuck if they understood, and

734
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 2: they not. They ain't trying to understand because if you're

735
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 2: always talking, you're never listening.

736
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: Well also even not always talking though, I'm saying like,

737
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: that's one second of that person's life, Like this is

738
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: what I do for a living, but that's one second,

739
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:24,919
Speaker 1: Like to shoot out that tweet, you can go off

740
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: live your life, might not even log on the Twitter,

741
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: but once a month, who knows. And I'm sitting over

742
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: here thinking to myself like, oh, me and this person,

743
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: I want to talk to them. I want to figure

744
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 1: this out. I want to, like, you know, see if

745
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: they can understand why I felt this way or that,

746
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 1: you know. But then I'm sitting there there, like, look

747
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: at all this amount of mental energy I'm expanding into

748
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: some random fucking tweet. This person might not even fucking

749
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: They might not like us, they might not know us,

750
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:52,879
Speaker 1: they might not fuck with us. They might have listened

751
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: to the show one time. I'm putting all this effort

752
00:37:56,880 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 1: out there into the world for a person that essentially

753
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 1: wasn't necessarily asking for that. Nope, you know, and not

754
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: and not and and and when it comes to my

755
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: time and my mental energy, there are people more deserving

756
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: of that, especially myself. Like I wasn't spending enough time

757
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 1: with myself. I wasn't spending enough time, like you know,

758
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: doing the things that calmed me down as opposed to

759
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 1: hype me up, so you know, I would be uh

760
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 1: uh out. So now you know, I'll go for that walk,

761
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: I'll go out on the balcony and read. I'll go

762
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: uh play some simple ass video game for hours or

763
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 1: whatever shit that I just wasn't. I was losing track

764
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: of you know, And I think part of that is

765
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 1: over overthinking. And I think social media is a tool

766
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 1: for people to overthink, to constantly be out there, you know, yes.

767
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 2: And I know for me because I've kind of had

768
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 2: real life experience with this where I would be the

769
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 2: person that was always considered because, like you say, particularly

770
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 2: being a one and being down south, you don't want

771
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 2: to be considered mean, rude or you know, uh, not

772
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 2: being considerate and all that shit. And to me, I

773
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 2: could be almost over considerate and overnight. So I understand

774
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 2: what you're saying because I used to be the person

775
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 2: where if we had a confrontation, I would be like, well,

776
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 2: how can I fix this?

777
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 3: How can I make this right?

778
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 2: You know, pulling its energy for a and not all

779
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 2: the time I had to determine is my effort worth it,

780
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 2: because sometimes it's completely not, because you end up pulling

781
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 2: and kind of going after a person that don't give

782
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 2: a fuck. They ain't thought twice about what the fuck

783
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 2: they said, They ain't thought nothing about you, like you

784
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 2: are the fucking furthest thing from their mind and they

785
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 2: live in their best life and you someonere fucking stressed out,

786
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 2: they have not considered you, they forgot about the situation,

787
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 2: They've moved on. So I had to determine is this

788
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 2: worth the effort. Sometimes yes, most of the time it

789
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 2: is not. Because the thing is, if I'm that important

790
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 2: to that person, that person would take the effort to

791
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,720
Speaker 2: reach out to me. Because I was always the person

792
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 2: reaching out. That's fucking exhausting. Sometimes that need to be reciprocated.

793
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 2: If I'm not worth you, taking an effort to reciprocate

794
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 2: it with the relationship wasn't worth it in my.

795
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: Mind, Yeah, I mean I understand that for sure. Like

796
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 1: I think that's the other That's just the other layer

797
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,959
Speaker 1: to the overthinking is that I also used to start

798
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: to assign motivations of people. Now, the thing is, I

799
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: never felt firm about motivation. So it wasn't like this

800
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: nigga didn't call me because they hate me. I didn't

801
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: do I'm not paranoid. I might be anxious and I

802
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: might be overthinking. So what I would do is be like, well,

803
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 1: maybe this happened, maybe that happened, What if this, what

804
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: if it is this? What if it's nothing? What if

805
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: it's this? And now I'm just spending spending my wheels fruitlessly,

806
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: you know, like these people they don't even know I'm

807
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 1: thinking all this shit, and so it's just something that

808
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: you know, I think I just had to work on.

809
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: You know. I still am gonna have certain things because

810
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: my brain works that way. I'm gonna I always branch

811
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: conversations off in the fucking seventeen different branches, because that's

812
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: just the It's like a Chooson Adventure book in my head,

813
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: like if I would have said this, they would have

814
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:15,720
Speaker 1: said that, and then upseessing over mistakes, of sessing over misunderstandings,

815
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: of sessing over that stuff. I just needed to stop.

816
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: And one of the things that I think has really

817
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: helped me and in my opinion, improved the show. I

818
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: don't know, you know, people may or may not agree,

819
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: but I stopped giving a fuck about kind of get

820
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: everybody heard, you know, like I'm trying, I try to listen.

821
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: But this idea that I can let people that I

822
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: think what they're doing isn't fruitful. I think what they're

823
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: doing is kind of fucked up. I don't have to

824
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,959
Speaker 1: let them cook in my brain. They can do whatever

825
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: they want to, you know, but if I find that

826
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: shit funny or whatever. I'm not. I can't make everything

827
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 1: about their feelings. I can't make everything about, you know,

828
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: pleasing every person because people are impossible to please. And

829
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 1: I think, you know, that was one of the things

830
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: and many and you know what, nobody really said. Shit,

831
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 1: nobody really noticed. So you know, I just stopped doing

832
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: it and was like, fuck it. And if people don't

833
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 1: like that or whatever, I just said, that's cool, that's okay,

834
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 1: because at least they don't like me for who I am,

835
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 1: as opposed to you know, being some fake motherfucker that's

836
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: trying to please everybody or trying to fit in with

837
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: some crowd that they would never want to fit in with,

838
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 1: you know.

839
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, And also I think for me, a lot of times,

840
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 2: once you make that shift, people will fall off, Like

841
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 2: people will naturally just kind of fall off once you

842
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 2: start making shifts.

843
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 4: And once you start making.

844
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 2: Those changes, like a lot of times, there's nothing you

845
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 2: have to say and nothing you have to do if

846
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 2: you just change your behavior, the people that were there.

847
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 3: For not the right reasons will leave.

848
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 2: The people that were sucking you dry, sucking your soul,

849
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 2: sucking your money, sucking your energy, sucking your life say

850
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 2: you know they were fuck you know you hear their

851
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 2: name and all you be like, god.

852
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 4: Damn, that was people that leave, they will disappear.

853
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 1: That was the most rewarding thing about all of that

854
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: because I didn't know that and didn't expect that. But like,

855
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: cause I know, you know me, I don't really cut

856
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 1: people off like that, Like it's just kind of naturally

857
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,360
Speaker 1: I'm okay, but I'm okay letting people go, Like I

858
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: don't try to hold on a nobody you don't want

859
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,319
Speaker 1: to be around me, go ahead, like this is not

860
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: I don't do obligation friendships and relationships. So like it

861
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: was actually kind of like rewarding because I saw a

862
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: huge part of this was about people causing me stress,

863
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 1: and then when I chose not to like engage on

864
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 1: their level and go back and forth with them and

865
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 1: make a big scene, they just failed the fuck off,

866
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: you know. And it's getting to be frank, I'm getting

867
00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,919
Speaker 1: better at it. Like there's now and I just see

868
00:43:59,920 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: that that fucking you know four K in the rold,

869
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'm gonna just go ahead and pick

870
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,760
Speaker 1: the peace exit right here, and you can go ahead

871
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: and be upset by yourself or leave me alone, or

872
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: continue to like bother me knowing that or harassing me

873
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 1: knowing that I'm not gonna be bothered by. But it took.

874
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 1: It took a certain level of like understanding that I

875
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: only gained through conflict and saying I'm gonna try something

876
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:27,240
Speaker 1: different rather than matching their conflict energy, matching that push

877
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 1: push and pull go. You know, they say something, I'm

878
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: gonna say something worse rather than matching that, I said,

879
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do something else else and stay true to

880
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: myself because my true self would not be engaged in

881
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: such foolishness, you know, right.

882
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 2: And also I think from because we have different type personalities.

883
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 2: The bulk of my life, particularly in my youth in

884
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: early twenties, I was the people pleaser. And so that's

885
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 2: why this conclusion I came to a lot quicker than you,

886
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 2: because I had like real life confrontations, real.

887
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 1: Life I remember we had within our marriage. We had

888
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: people were trying to basically use you for all that

889
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: you were worth outside of our relationship, and it was

890
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: like killing it was killing our marriage, you know at

891
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:14,359
Speaker 1: that point. And like we've you know, we've been through shit.

892
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: You know, it's like it's not just us just because

893
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,319
Speaker 1: we're not you know, Facebook live in our whole lives.

894
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 1: Because we're not from that generation, doesn't mean we haven't

895
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: been through shit. But I remember that period of time,

896
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: you know, and the discussions we had about it and stuff.

897
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, And the thing is you had to talk to

898
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 2: me and kind of help me see and help me

899
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 2: view things.

900
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 3: And so for me, that's why.

901
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 2: I am very thankful that I am why I am now,

902
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 2: And like I told.

903
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: You, there for me.

904
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 2: And what's so funny about me is that when people

905
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 2: see me and they see my demeanor, and I've said

906
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 2: this before, I'm very nice and I'm very sweet and

907
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 2: I'm very kind, but a lot of people I become

908
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 2: a target, like like it's almost like they.

909
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 4: A sucker, they see a fool, they.

910
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 2: See an idiot, they see a dummy like like like

911
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 2: a lot of people actually see that with me. And

912
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 2: so because they see that, they make the assumption that

913
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna pick up or I'm not.

914
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 4: Gonna know, I'm not gonna be aware, or I'm just

915
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 4: gonna let them cook.

916
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 2: And just because I don't call you out, just because

917
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 2: I don't say anything to you, just because I don't

918
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 2: acknowledge that I see your action. It does not mean

919
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 2: I'm not aware. I tell people that all the time,

920
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 2: even at my job, and shit I say, I know

921
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:31,439
Speaker 2: a lot of shit.

922
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: I might not be.

923
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 4: Talking to everybody about it.

924
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 2: I might not say everything, but I am aware of

925
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 2: a lot of shit. I'm aware on how people interact

926
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:39,720
Speaker 2: with every people on social media.

927
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 3: I'm aware of their behaviors. I'm aware of what they say.

928
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 2: Just because I don't come in, but like hey, hunter chat,

929
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 2: it does not mean I'm not aware.

930
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 3: And once I know.

931
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 2: I adapt my behavior accordingly because I let you talk

932
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 2: your truth, and then I respond to your truth, you know.

933
00:46:57,600 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 2: And so a lot of times people are telling you

934
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 2: their life. They're telling you how they're going to behave

935
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 2: that you can look at people and how they deal

936
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 2: with confrontations and shit like that, and they're gonna tell

937
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 2: you this is how it's gonna happen with you. And

938
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 2: because I'm aware of that now and I'm alert and

939
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 2: I can look around, I'm like, Okay, I see how

940
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 2: you responded, and so I'm not I never think you're

941
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 2: an exception to the person's rules, you know, just because

942
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 2: it hasn't happened with you. Just because they ain't fill

943
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 2: out with you does not mean sooner or later it

944
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 2: won't come down to you and them, and odds are

945
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 2: they will behave the same, not not less.

946
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: I think with you, you're a worker and a joiner.

947
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 3: Correct.

948
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: People see that, and people use that and they're like,

949
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna work you to death. I'm gonna you're joining

950
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 1: into my cause, I'm gonna take the credit for the

951
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: things you do, all that kind of shit, like you

952
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,279
Speaker 1: do a lot of like part of the reason our

953
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: show works is because you work so hard and you're

954
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: such a team player. Right. But the differences I'm reciprocating

955
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 1: back because it's a partnership.

956
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:06,240
Speaker 3: Correct.

957
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:10,399
Speaker 1: There's nothing about what we do that isn't half yours, right,

958
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 1: And so I think the difference is there are people

959
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 1: who see, oh, this person is a worker and a

960
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: joiner slave. Now you're my slave, Like, now do the

961
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 1: work for me. You get no credit, you get no money,

962
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 1: you get no nothing, And that can that helpful team

963
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 1: building type of attitude that you have can easily be

964
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: weaponized against you. And so I think that was a

965
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: big thing, you know, with it early in our relationship

966
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,840
Speaker 1: and obviously we get better at it. You know, there's

967
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 1: you know, pitfalls here and there, there's stuff, but you know,

968
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: now it's like, Okay, I'm seeing the signs this person

969
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: is coming in and they're trying to you know, exploit

970
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: your labor, they're trying to exploit your whatever. And then

971
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: at the same time, I'm often not aware of when

972
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: it is happening with me correct and we.

973
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 2: Can almost kind of see it it kind of in

974
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,919
Speaker 2: each other because, like I said, for me, I'm more

975
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 2: aware and I'm more alert, and I think for me

976
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 2: when I made that changed and started actually telling people

977
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 2: know and started actually standing up and started because the

978
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 2: thing is people will not respect your no until you

979
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 2: demand they respect your no.

980
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 3: And if you don't respect my no, that means you

981
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 3: don't respect me. Because everything in.

982
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 2: Life is not going to be a yes no sometimes, nigga,

983
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 2: I ain't got it, and even if I do got it,

984
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 2: I ain't got it for you.

985
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 4: And you just have to deal with the fact that

986
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:39,399
Speaker 4: today ain't your day.

987
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 2: And so because of that, I've come to the realization that.

988
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 3: I'm more app now to say I'm not doing that.

989
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 2: I'm more app now to be like that's not my job,

990
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 2: like like like I'm more because, like you said, I'm

991
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 2: a worker, so before you know what I'm doing everything.

992
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 3: I'm more app now to draw.

993
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 2: Boundaries upon my self, like I have to to be like,

994
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 2: oh no, no, no, no, you're not going to use

995
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 2: me and you're not going to abuse me.

996
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,760
Speaker 4: And I think because I'm very nice and I'm kind.

997
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 3: Of sweet, when I make that switch to.

998
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 2: Oh I've had enough, I shock everybody in the room

999
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 2: because a lot of times they'd be like, well, oh,

1000
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 2: you always say yeah, well it's not today, no.

1001
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,800
Speaker 1: Right, And I'm quick to say no, just upfront correct.

1002
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: But at the same time, like I just you know,

1003
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 1: I just try to be understanding and recognized like with

1004
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: like I said, with you, I try to make what

1005
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: we do the least amount of work possible for you. You

1006
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:35,919
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Come in, turn on your camera

1007
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,720
Speaker 1: talk that's it, you know, And that because I'm trying,

1008
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: like I'm thinking of you as well. Most people aren't.

1009
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 1: They're not like that. Most people don't seem to think

1010
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 1: of people that way. Anyway. This is a big ass

1011
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: tangent from what we were talking about. Has nothing to

1012
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 1: do with overthinking. We just overthought that, But yeah, I

1013
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: also find a way to distract yourself with yoga jagging.

1014
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 1: I said that part. Also, you can use a worry

1015
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 1: log twenty minutes before a bed, write down the list

1016
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: of everything you're worrying about or have to do. Lit

1017
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: do help The process of writing it down, not typing,

1018
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 1: but actually writing has a processing effect to your brain

1019
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,800
Speaker 1: to help get it out of that spin cycle. Talking

1020
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:22,839
Speaker 1: to a therapist, friend, a loved one, can I also

1021
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 1: give you a fresh perspective and realize that something that

1022
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: seems terrible or complex really isn't so complicated after all. Yeah,

1023
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: I add to lean into a lot of my own

1024
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 1: like tighter circle for people that I can bounce things

1025
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: off of, Like, yo, what do you think about this situation?

1026
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 1: And you know they're my friends so obviously care about me.

1027
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:46,359
Speaker 1: But I also don't have any yes men friends. Like

1028
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: every person I every person that I trust, also knows

1029
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: they have the authority to be like, hold up, let

1030
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 1: me tell you why I disagree. Have you thought about

1031
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: it from this perspective? Now? Normally I'm the opposite. I'm

1032
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: the one that's thought about it from every perspective. And

1033
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: then they're like, nigga, you are overthinking this shit. This

1034
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 1: is this person stole fifty dollars from you. You don't

1035
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: have to keep fucking with them, you know what I mean.

1036
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: So like normally it's the opposite, but still it does

1037
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 1: help to have people around you like that.

1038
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know for me, just uh, particularly

1039
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 2: if I'm at a place where I'm multitasking or you

1040
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,760
Speaker 2: have a lot going on, like a lot crossing your mind.

1041
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 2: I've come to the conclusion it might sound weird, and

1042
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 2: I know we have.

1043
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 3: All this electronical stuff, and I know.

1044
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 2: Maybe because I'm old. If I see it and physically

1045
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 2: take a pin or piencil and write on that paper

1046
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 2: like right, like just highlight it don't have to be detailed,

1047
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:44,320
Speaker 2: but just a list of certain things.

1048
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 4: I'm more apt to go through that list.

1049
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 3: I know for me personally, I'm.

1050
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 4: Okay, got that done. Check, got that done, check done,

1051
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 4: check that doesn't check.

1052
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 2: Yes, I have remind us that remind me electronically, but

1053
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 2: I was, okay, what what other things I've.

1054
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:56,919
Speaker 3: Got to do today?

1055
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,919
Speaker 2: And when you do that, it actually eliminates your mind

1056
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 2: from going in.

1057
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 4: All types of directions.

1058
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 3: You almost have.

1059
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 2: A plan before you and you will have to be like, Okay,

1060
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 2: these are the things that I need to accomplish.

1061
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 3: Let me go ahead and knock them out.

1062
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 1: Uh so yeah, that was. And the last thing was

1063
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,959
Speaker 1: meditation or mindfulness can also help to reset your brain,

1064
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 1: they were talking about. So all right, what else to

1065
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:25,479
Speaker 1: talk about? You know, I'm just get into some other ship.

1066
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: What else we wanna talk about? Oh, you know, we

1067
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: haven't played this game in a while. Let's do some

1068
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 1: fucking with black people, guys, with those black people. Just

1069
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: fucking with those blacks. We're just fucking with fucking with

1070
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 1: black people. That's right, guys, time to play the game

1071
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:53,720
Speaker 1: we all hate to play. Its fucking with black people today.

1072
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: Uh the game we go all round to go find it,

1073
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: argus make us so fuck with this. Black people will

1074
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 1: tip points sports the jail tire hundred and them was

1075
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 1: a twenty five sometimes to give your cars. Today's contestants, everybody,

1076
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,479
Speaker 1: and it's drug cars. I know I'm from the South

1077
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 1: and I pronounce it wrongs and fast sometimes, so some

1078
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 1: of y'all write in and say, juck Harris is drug

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Speaker 1: cards like like game of throngs.

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00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 3: Uh.

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00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 1: Tamir Rice's mother and the ACLU team up for a

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00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: booklet to teach kids how to interact with police. The

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00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: acl YOU and the mother Tamir Rice Samaria have created

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00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 1: and released a booklet and honor of the boy who

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00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,799
Speaker 1: was shot dead by Cleveland police five years ago. Publication

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00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: is called the tamiir Ris Safety Handbook and was created

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00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: to god children through police interactions. The booklet's cover is

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00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: red Rice's favorite color and features a smiling image of

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00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 1: the boy on the back with an n loven millionaire

1090
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 1: of Tamir Rice written. According to Cleveland dot com, his

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00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 1: name and likeness are featured on six pages that make

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00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 1: up the handbook. Details inside assists children and teenagers on

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00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: how to utilize their and possible scenarios ranging from questioning

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00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: on the way home to police visiting your home. The

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00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 1: ACLU states that being stopped by police officers a stressful experience,

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00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: and the handbook provides details the way for the way youth.

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00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: The handbook provided okay, I think they meant to say

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00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 1: provided not provided okay. The handbook provided details the way

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00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 1: for youth to be able to control their own actions.

1100
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 1: Even when you are doing when you do everything right,

1101
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 1: things can still go wrong. These tips can help protect yourself,

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00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 1: help you protect yourself. Black children have to be often

1103
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 1: have to be adults, said ACLU campaign manager Milikite Malaku.

1104
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: They have to navigate these encounters and have this information

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00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: on hand in a split second where they might be

1106
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: scared of what's happening next. We want to make sure

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00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: that we're giving kids the tools that they need while

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00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 1: acknowledging that it's not fair that young people have to

1109
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: walk around and fear for their self like they still

1110
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 1: do in Cleveland. Samaria Rice brought the idea to the

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00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,239
Speaker 1: ACLU to create the God as a part of their

1112
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 1: Know Your Rights initiative. It helps to say future children

1113
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: from me in the same face as the son. I

1114
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 1: told them to use the colors for kids to be

1115
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: more welcome. And so they read it and make sure

1116
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: that they read it. So they read it and make

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00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: sure that they read it with their parents. The God

1118
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: is available for download on the ACLU website, with physical

1119
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 1: additions available to those who are able to visit the headquarters.

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00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: So zerus one hundred.

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00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 2: I give this a one hundred, and the biggest is

1122
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 2: like giving one hundred not for the actions and not

1123
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 2: for to write a book, but for the fact that

1124
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 2: this shit has to be they feel like this needs

1125
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:49,879
Speaker 2: to be done in the first place, Like that's where

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00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 2: my hundred comes from. My my, you know, it's like,

1127
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 2: why don't police officers know how to interact with us?

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00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 2: Why does the people with the least amount of power

1129
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 2: need to know how to behave.

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00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also like Tamya Rights didn't have chance to

1131
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 1: do any of this shit.

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00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 4: No, he might not even say police.

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00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: Like, someone need to write a book for the fucking

1134
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: police to know how to interact with our kids, like

1135
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: it ain't it ain't the baby's fault. You know, this

1136
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: is essentially just the talk. This is why I didn't

1137
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 1: get mad when people had that fucking clip, sir getting

1138
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: the Bernie Sanders and Elizabeth Warren talking about what would

1139
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: you tell your black son, your black child if they

1140
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 1: were being pulled over by the police, because no one

1141
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 1: has the answers Tamia Samaria Rights lost, Samaria Ris lost

1142
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: her child, she did and the solution she could come

1143
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: up with, and whether in her grief or just the

1144
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 1: stone sober, hardcore facts, I don't have a chance in

1145
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: hell of changing the police. So let me teach our children,

1146
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 1: the next child, how to know their rights and to

1147
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 1: be careful and to be safe because we know the

1148
00:57:56,720 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 1: police ain't gonna ain't gonna be able to respect nobloas child.

1149
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's one hundred for me as well. And

1150
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:08,919
Speaker 1: I don't mean that against her or it's just behind Yeah,

1151
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 1: it's just as a black person. Every single time I

1152
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 1: think about how fucking unfair it is that we get

1153
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: killed by police for fucking existing, and then we have

1154
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: to tell our children how to behave so they don't

1155
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:27,919
Speaker 1: get killed for fucking existing. Uh. It's infuriating, mm hmmm hmm.

1156
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, even even even the it's a I.

1157
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 2: Remember a Worldwood junior and Jamail Hill was talking about

1158
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 2: plastic bags and how certain parts of the country now

1159
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 2: they actually want to band like the grocery store bags

1160
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 2: or for recycling reasons that they want.

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00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 4: You to bring your own bags in there. And I

1162
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 4: remember them talking about it, and for me, I'm like, no, no, no, no, no,

1163
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 4: give me a bag.

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00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 3: It ain't up but a pack of gum. Give me

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00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 3: a motherfucking bag.

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00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 2: Give me your bag with your right on it, and

1167
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna rapt the receipt around it. Why because I

1168
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 2: want to baby, get off the motherfucking store. You know

1169
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 2: you know, it's almost like I said from a freedom papers,

1170
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 2: you know, because all you have to do is somebody

1171
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:10,439
Speaker 2: accuse you or somebody think you did.

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00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 4: Don't matter the fact they.

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00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 3: Got cameras on you or whatnot.

1174
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 2: If somebody thinks that you got something in your hand

1175
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 2: that does not belong to you, they'll go through it.

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00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 3: You know.

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00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 2: I've even to the point where whenever I go in

1178
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 2: the groos store, I zip my pocket books up, I

1179
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 2: close on my pockets because you know what, you can

1180
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 2: have gum or something random in your pocket that you

1181
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 2: may have previously that no, zip it up, don't don't

1182
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 2: dig them upon And it's like I shouldn't have to

1183
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:33,919
Speaker 2: be like this, but for the fact that I don't

1184
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 2: want no problems. And the thing is you almost have

1185
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 2: to teach children that too, which is fucked up, you know,

1186
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 2: because that's really what it makes me think about. You know,

1187
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 2: how we have the police our behavior, but nobody's telling

1188
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 2: them police how to properly police.

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00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean people are, but they ain't gotta listen

1190
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: because they the one with the guns. AMC Theater fires

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00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 1: employees for alleged racial profiling incident during Harriet screening. Three

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Speaker 1: employees these were fired from a Louisiana AMC movie theater

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01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 1: after being accused of racially profile and African American moviegoers

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01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: during the screening of Harriet. The incident took place at

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Speaker 1: AMC Clearview Palace twelve and Mettieri, Louisiana, on November three,

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Speaker 1: during the opening weekend screening of the movie. Around halfway

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01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: through the film, the rejector reportedly stopped and the lights

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01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 1: were turned up as an employee entered to address a

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01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 1: possible ticket mix up with members of the African American

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01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: women's nonprofit Five oh four Queens, who were in attendance.

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01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 1: According to The Washington Post, the group had reportedly been

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01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 1: seated in seats they purchased when another group walked in

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01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 1: around eight fifteen pm. The second group allegedly saw the

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01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 1: seats were occupied and left. A theater employee entered the

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01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 1: theater shortly after it asked to check one of the

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01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 1: women's tickets. A six sixty five year old patron, Sandra Gordon,

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01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 1: said the employee told her she was in the wrong seat,

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01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: but she showed her e ticket and the employee left.

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01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 1: A few minutes later, manager stopped the movie in confronted

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01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 1: Gordon the manager allegedly yelled at Gordon accused her of

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01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 1: cursing at the employee who had first checked their ticket.

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01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: It was half and half, Gordon said, on the manager's tone,

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01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 1: part racial, part didn't know what to do, ignorance, but

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01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 1: it didn't even have to go to that level. However,

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01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 1: the incident wasn't over at that point. Shortly after the

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01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 1: humiliating scene, a third employee came into the theater to

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01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: check Gordon's ticket again. After the movie ended, Gordon and

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01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: fourteen other women from the Five or Four Queens organization

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01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: reportedly the manager to speak with the manager to complain

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01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 1: about their treatment. The manager didn't issued refunds to anyone

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01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 1: else who complained about the incident. AMC Theaters completed an

1222
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: internal investigation, which ended in the three employees evolved being terminated.

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01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:39,240
Speaker 1: Based on our initial investigation, operational mistakes by the theater

1224
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 1: team led to this unacceptable and unnecessary disruption, and we

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01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: are working with the theater to address what occurred. AMC

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01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 1: spokesman Ryan Noonan wrote in the statement, we sincerely apologized

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01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: to our guests in the theater for this disruption and

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01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: for the frustration they experience as a result. Yeah. One

1229
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 1: thing I have noticed a tiny detail that says everything

1230
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 1: to me in this in this article is the sixty

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01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: five year old patron Sandra Gordon did not deny cussing

1232
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 1: that woman out or that employee out. She did not

1233
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: deny it because she was well within her right. If

1234
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: you gonna try to stop a sixty five year old

1235
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 1: black woman from seeing Harriet, you getting cussed out. Fuck

1236
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 1: what the internet said. Okay, Sandra ain't on black Twitter.

1237
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: She ain't fucking with these you know, hotels and the

1238
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 1: Russian propaganda feminism that was trying to destroy this movie

1239
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: because I don't like Cynthia Revo.

1240
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:36,920
Speaker 3: She ain't worry about y'all counseling h She ain't worry.

1241
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 1: About none of that shit. What she did is she

1242
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:42,479
Speaker 1: came to finally see Harriet on the big screen because

1243
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 1: she probably done read up and learned about Harry telling

1244
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: me her whole fucking life. It ain't been no movies

1245
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 1: about this woman.

1246
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 2: Night, one of the first time she's probably been through

1247
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 2: the movie theater in forever, right, Sandra ain't about to

1248
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 2: let you motherfucking come in there talk.

1249
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: Cut on the lights on me. I tell you, I

1250
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,959
Speaker 1: shoulder showed you my e ticket. I'm in the right seat,

1251
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: ain't I damn hold on, stop the movie. We need

1252
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 1: to talk. Okay, now you gotta get cussed out. I

1253
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 1: was the light the first time.

1254
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 3: Come out. I was nice the first.

1255
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 1: Time these black women got together and organized to get

1256
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: this motherfucker fifteen tickets to your little RinkyDink ass did

1257
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:20,360
Speaker 1: come on?

1258
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 3: You messed it? What is the name of the group again, baby?

1259
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: The five O four queens?

1260
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was I heard that name.

1261
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 3: I said, Oh, it's not gonna be No.

1262
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 1: No, five four queens and not coming for this bullshit.

1263
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 3: Five of four queens? Was like what? And guess what?

1264
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 4: All fourteen to fifteen of the marsh day black asses.

1265
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 3: Up to the foint and was like, bitch, what you know?

1266
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 1: They was all wearing civil rights shirts. Were like no,

1267
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 1: dash rose a.

1268
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 4: Park, Come on the Harriet tell me t shirts.

1269
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: On right right we out, Harriet, tell me come on.

1270
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 1: No like you you over there messing with d sisters.

1271
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 1: I'm glad like you. Let the only thing you got

1272
01:03:56,720 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: was cussed out. Come on. I ain't had the issue

1273
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 1: a refund, hummy had to give the money back, dummy,

1274
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 1: right for cost your company money because you couldn't just

1275
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: leave well enough alone.

1276
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 3: Now only that you you ruined.

1277
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 2: It for them, and you guess what, you ruined it

1278
01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 2: for the other people that were in there too.

1279
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 1: My question is the people that came in said they

1280
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 1: in our seats? What are they just standing outside like

1281
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:23,479
Speaker 1: I don't care what it says day in our seats? Well, ma'am,

1282
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: they showed us the tickets. I don't give a fuck.

1283
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 1: Get those niggas out of my seat, like what take

1284
01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 1: the alber go to another seat. Then something happened. Maybe

1285
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:34,320
Speaker 1: you got scalped. I don't know, maybe you got I

1286
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:39,480
Speaker 1: mean scalping tickets? Does anyway? Zero ten hundred?

1287
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 2: Oh you know what, I'm gonna get this one hundred

1288
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 2: for th old black women.

1289
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 4: But I give damn z zero because they fired them people.

1290
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I give it a fifty. I'm gonna split the difference, uh,

1291
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 1: because it's still fucked with because you know, them sisters waited,

1292
01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 1: waited their whole fucking life to get this fill and they.

1293
01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 2: Got They experienced rooms rowing ruin her and Ethel and

1294
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 2: Isabelle and Ida.

1295
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:11,960
Speaker 1: May come on, come on now. Patrick Patterson of the

1296
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:15,919
Speaker 1: Los Angeles Clippers referred to black women as bulldogs. Well,

1297
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 1: that's why NBA players married white women. On his anniversary

1298
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 1: post with his wife photos, a common theme of twenty

1299
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 1: ten has become love is love, where people are forcing

1300
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: people to accept all wait, forcing people to accept Okay,

1301
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 1: who wrote this? Jay Rich of Hip Hopbob dot com.

1302
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: Stigmas have existed for years over who people choose to

1303
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 1: be with. While prejudice still exists, there are nowhere near

1304
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 1: as bad as they once were. However, it seems that

1305
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 1: people still have issues with professional athletes, particularly NBA players,

1306
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: marrying and dating white women. A few months ago, Patrick

1307
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 1: Patterson of the Los Angeles Clippers celebrated his wedding. When

1308
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:55,439
Speaker 1: one fan saw his wife, he questioned them on it. Now,

1309
01:05:55,520 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 1: on lie, don't understand this thing where people they'll let

1310
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 1: me go on your Instagram wedding photos and ask you

1311
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 1: why you married the person you married because based off

1312
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 1: of their.

1313
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 4: Race, right, then, ain't got shit to do with me, doll.

1314
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: That's a level of entitlement and ownership that these fans

1315
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 1: have that is sick. Honestly, grow the fuck up. You

1316
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 1: don't have to be a fan of a person. You

1317
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:22,440
Speaker 1: don't have to like them and honestly, unless they have

1318
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 1: said or are saying something fucked up about you, then

1319
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 1: I don't know why you would make that your business.

1320
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:32,560
Speaker 1: That being said, let's get into whatever his comments.

1321
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 3: Were, because that's the problem.

1322
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but just the thing that started this scene,

1323
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:41,960
Speaker 1: to me, is already ridiculous. Correct. One fan basically said

1324
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: that Patrick Patterson never made it to the NBA, she

1325
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: would have never married him. Answering him, Pattison said it

1326
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: doesn't matter and love is love, but the fan kept

1327
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 1: hounding him, going as far as saying working at Walmart

1328
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 1: in Toronto, she would have never gone for him. What okay?

1329
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:02,760
Speaker 1: Patrick Patterson goes on the question the fan, asking if

1330
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 1: he should settle for a bulldog. After the man accuses

1331
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:08,600
Speaker 1: him of giving up loving our women, Patterson says he

1332
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 1: chose the happiness that doctor King fought for, adding that

1333
01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 1: color doesn't matter, telling the fan to wake up. Now,

1334
01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 1: see that's how you got fucked up defending yourself. You

1335
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,960
Speaker 1: were straight, should have just muted them and blocked them

1336
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 1: and moved the fuck on. And then he went one

1337
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 1: step too far and lost everybody. Yeah. True? If I

1338
01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: so he had responded to somebody, True, if I never

1339
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 1: made it to the NBA. I would have never met

1340
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:34,959
Speaker 1: her while playing for Toronto, But why does it matter?

1341
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 1: Love is love at the end of the day. And

1342
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 1: then mafia material underscore b w A who he's responding to?

1343
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 5: Bro?

1344
01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:45,480
Speaker 1: Why are you engaging with this person?

1345
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 3: Never?

1346
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 1: But it's not though, Bro, you grew up loving our women.

1347
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 1: Why wait till you get some real money for your perspective.

1348
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 1: And even if you wasn't in the NBA worked at

1349
01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: a Walmart in Toronto, you wouldn't stand a chance. Bro,

1350
01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:02,720
Speaker 1: You just jutt come another statistics. I bet she the

1351
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 1: only one in her family history today. The black staywoke

1352
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 1: my guy and.

1353
01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 4: He was.

1354
01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: He responded to this He really should not. This person

1355
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:15,440
Speaker 1: doesn't know you or your wife. Why are you responding

1356
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: to them? So I should settle for a bulldog and

1357
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 1: act like I'm happy with my life and preach keep

1358
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:23,719
Speaker 1: it in your race to the world. As if doctor

1359
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 1: King didn't fight slash die for equality exceptance, all coaches

1360
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:30,160
Speaker 1: loving one another and no hate, no thanks. That may

1361
01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:32,599
Speaker 1: be your life, but I don't he put the wrong

1362
01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: Maybe that may be your life, but I don't want

1363
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,080
Speaker 1: that for my or my family. Color doesn't matter. Wake

1364
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:42,559
Speaker 1: up yep, and you let it slip when you hit

1365
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:49,720
Speaker 1: that bulldog homie. And now the roasting begins. Now they've

1366
01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 1: been to call your wife. Every man of pumpkin spice Mayo,

1367
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 1: Becky did that can think of? I know he's still

1368
01:08:57,080 --> 01:08:59,280
Speaker 1: getting dragged. I ain't even I don't even fuck with

1369
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 1: his page, and I know that nig got to be

1370
01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: getting dragged. I think he issued an apology, but I

1371
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 1: can't picture any apology. What apology, because you have.

1372
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:11,759
Speaker 2: For that being accepted basically, And that's the thing, nobody.

1373
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 3: You should have.

1374
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 2: Ignored him, you know, because I don't care if you

1375
01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 2: married Backy.

1376
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:19,120
Speaker 4: That's between you and Backy. I'm not fucking you.

1377
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing, right. We always say that most

1378
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 1: people don't care, and most rational people don't care. Correct,

1379
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 1: some people do care, and they do harass these couples,

1380
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:34,240
Speaker 1: Yes they do, bruh. Just don't say shit like you

1381
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:37,040
Speaker 1: because because honestly, there's no defense you can have of

1382
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:40,920
Speaker 1: your personal love. People are putting macro motivations on a

1383
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:44,120
Speaker 1: micro situation, right, there's no fucking way for them to

1384
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: know what that is. And even if you just literally

1385
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:51,080
Speaker 1: slipped up and you were trying to say bulldog is

1386
01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 1: like to be ridiculous or some shit don't matter. Brou

1387
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:56,520
Speaker 1: you done have fucked up. You don't make an analogy

1388
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 1: or just straight up called black women bulldogs in your

1389
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 1: pension to try to defend yourself, which means you think

1390
01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:09,840
Speaker 1: black women are bulldogs now, so you get fried donk uh? Yeah,

1391
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:11,520
Speaker 1: they said he did issue an apology.

1392
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:14,479
Speaker 4: I gotta read this because people ain't gonna sapt that.

1393
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: I can't imagine what the fuck it could be.

1394
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 4: Like person wrote it right o, And he wrote he

1395
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 4: wrote it.

1396
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, Like I don't. I don't understand.

1397
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:30,679
Speaker 1: It's funny because I just don't understand the levels of it,

1398
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:33,240
Speaker 1: you know. And I know love is one of those

1399
01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:37,160
Speaker 1: things that make people want to you want you gotta

1400
01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 1: fight for your woman, and people do like think that's

1401
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: romantic and all this shit. But bruh, people projected.

1402
01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:44,640
Speaker 2: Because you have somebody projecting their own views on to

1403
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 2: you about how they think love is, it don't matter.

1404
01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and this happened a few weeks ago just somehow

1405
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 1: got brought to everyone's attention. He said, I want to

1406
01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 1: address my use of the word bulldog during a conversation

1407
01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 1: with someone who I felt was making disrespectful remarks about

1408
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 1: my wife and our relationship. I responded with the same,

1409
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:05,280
Speaker 1: making a cruel comment on my wife's physical stature. I

1410
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:07,120
Speaker 1: know that two wrongs don't make it right, but I

1411
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:08,600
Speaker 1: let my emotion get the better of me and the

1412
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 1: heat of the moment. Boy that for that. I apologize

1413
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:13,160
Speaker 1: to him, his wife, and the rest of his family

1414
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:15,360
Speaker 1: for the hurtful of crewel comments made on that day.

1415
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:17,560
Speaker 1: I love my black people. I believe in love and

1416
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 1: the quality. Oh okay, hear me out. I know what

1417
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:29,559
Speaker 1: you'll thinking, but hear me out. I get it. He

1418
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 1: was calling that man's wife ugly. He was saying, your

1419
01:11:35,120 --> 01:11:38,639
Speaker 1: wife looked like a bulldog. Oh his wife. But see,

1420
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:40,599
Speaker 1: that's the thing. It's like, when Lovey wrote that shit

1421
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 1: about light skin activists, blah blah.

1422
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 3: You end up hitting everybody.

1423
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 1: Now everybody else activist because light skin is like fuck you.

1424
01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:52,640
Speaker 1: You were really talking about one or two people making strokes,

1425
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 1: but you said you got too general with the shit,

1426
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 1: and now you done got fucked up. Well you hate

1427
01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:02,920
Speaker 1: to see it, but uh, look like I'm gonna give

1428
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 1: it a seventy five. I guess I mean you got

1429
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: caught out the dog throwing back and for wise man's

1430
01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:14,720
Speaker 1: just don't don't argue with fools with people from this

1431
01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:19,280
Speaker 1: Ktozo Bro, you shouldn't have Damn. I did not see

1432
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:24,639
Speaker 1: that context from the beginning. Uh and I definitely now

1433
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:29,280
Speaker 1: I do low Ky understand why he's why it was

1434
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 1: phrased that way, because it's basically, your wife is ugly.

1435
01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 1: It is what he was saying, which is what people

1436
01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 1: do whenever somebody comes with them. I mean shit, I

1437
01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: came from every time. I laugh every time I see

1438
01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 1: what these ugly dudes talk about, how they wouldn't date

1439
01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 1: some a super attractive black woman.

1440
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:48,960
Speaker 4: Want you to sniffed around her.

1441
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 1: Then the rest of the day becomes like look at

1442
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:53,840
Speaker 1: this nigga forehead or why his mustache or light hitler.

1443
01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:56,599
Speaker 1: You know, this nigga look like a potato baked potato,

1444
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:59,720
Speaker 1: and it's just like it's just roasting for the day

1445
01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:03,840
Speaker 1: on don't I don't participate, but I do participate.

1446
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 3: I'm just here for the joke. I'm not even gonna lie.

1447
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 4: And he don't participate, but good god, it'd be funny.

1448
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 1: Like he kind of got Papa John right here. He

1449
01:13:12,400 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 1: kind of got framed a little bit because then people

1450
01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 1: extrapolated the context of just when he thinks black women

1451
01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 1: are bulldogs, when he probably think that black woman that

1452
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,880
Speaker 1: that man is dated look like a bulldog, which is

1453
01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:29,840
Speaker 1: still which is still wrong. It is still wrong because

1454
01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 1: that woman didn't go on your page to say name

1455
01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 1: to you, and you called that man she.

1456
01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:35,559
Speaker 3: Got a stray bullet.

1457
01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 2: He was like, nigga, you're coming from my wife, I'm

1458
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 2: going at yours.

1459
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:41,479
Speaker 1: Oh, it's so fucked up. It's like it's like when

1460
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 1: they used to have at They don't even do it

1461
01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:45,640
Speaker 1: anymore because everybody's too old. But this used to be

1462
01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:49,240
Speaker 1: my favorite. When they used to share the it was

1463
01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:52,599
Speaker 1: either will no, it's the Jeopardy me, And it'd be

1464
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:57,040
Speaker 1: like for five hundred dollars, your girl looked like this

1465
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 1: this man. And then it would be people be like

1466
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 1: filling in the flame, like your girl looked like Jamal Crawford,

1467
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:05,559
Speaker 1: you jail, Your girl look like Charles Barkley, Your girl

1468
01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:09,240
Speaker 1: look like Seal, you know, like your your girl looks

1469
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 1: like this gentleman? Like who is still?

1470
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 3: They never do that no more?

1471
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:20,680
Speaker 1: Who is fight dog? You know what I mean?

1472
01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 3: Everybody woke for that.

1473
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:24,240
Speaker 1: Oh man, that's crazy.

1474
01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 6: Man.

1475
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:27,679
Speaker 1: Yes, Chase say his white wife ain't come to this defense,

1476
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 1: of course not. She don't want that smoke because listen,

1477
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 1: I thought this was totally different because I didn't know

1478
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 1: the context, and I really thought that, oh, this is

1479
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 1: what happens. You have an anti black white woman with

1480
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:43,519
Speaker 1: one of these anti black black men, and they think

1481
01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:45,320
Speaker 1: black women is ugly, and they sit over there and

1482
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:47,960
Speaker 1: drink tea over this and commisser rate and sip wine.

1483
01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:53,680
Speaker 1: It sounds like she's like, no, no, no, Patrick, we

1484
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:55,920
Speaker 1: don't do that. Leave me the fuck out of this.

1485
01:14:56,720 --> 01:14:59,040
Speaker 1: Let me go ahead and go on private. You you

1486
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:01,240
Speaker 1: you got yourself in it. You had to call that

1487
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 1: man's wife ugly. You didn't even need to be on

1488
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 1: line defending me. I ain't asked for that. I did

1489
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:10,160
Speaker 1: not ask for it, But I don't know either way.

1490
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:12,800
Speaker 1: It looked bad. So people gonna take it. I mean,

1491
01:15:12,880 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 1: after this much distrust in black men and black athletes,

1492
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:20,280
Speaker 1: I can see people taking it the most horrific way.

1493
01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm trying, and I've said it on

1494
01:15:23,520 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: the show several times and I'm not taking it back

1495
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 1: because it's really just how I believe trying my best

1496
01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 1: to stop walk going into situations and giving people, assigning

1497
01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:35,360
Speaker 1: people the worst motivation off tops and then being like, yup,

1498
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:37,880
Speaker 1: that's how it is because I leave a little bit

1499
01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:40,800
Speaker 1: of room. I don't know. You know, it sounded like

1500
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:43,200
Speaker 1: you thought that man wife looked like a full dog.

1501
01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 1: But did he think she like a bulldog because she's black?

1502
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. Now I kind of want to see

1503
01:15:52,240 --> 01:15:55,080
Speaker 1: a picture of it. But then then now I'm problematic, Right,

1504
01:15:56,240 --> 01:15:58,640
Speaker 1: what if we look up a picture. What if we

1505
01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:00,720
Speaker 1: all look up her picture? She do like a bull dog?

1506
01:16:00,760 --> 01:16:03,000
Speaker 1: What we gonna say there? How many are y'all gonna

1507
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:05,599
Speaker 1: forgive them? Of course, now it's too late, that's too late.

1508
01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:08,000
Speaker 1: We already decided. The jury is out, y'all. The jury

1509
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:12,719
Speaker 1: is already back in and decided. But man, that looks

1510
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 1: like a bull dollar. This is why I have offline

1511
01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 1: friend conversations, because we'll be sitting in the chat like, like,

1512
01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 1: you say that picture though, you know, kind of mmm,

1513
01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:26,519
Speaker 1: she looked like one of them creatures from the sixth sense. Uh,

1514
01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 1: there wasn't airport, you know, all right, let me stop

1515
01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:36,200
Speaker 1: man zero two one hundred seventy five for me, Karen.

1516
01:16:38,479 --> 01:16:40,880
Speaker 2: I I gotta say this.

1517
01:16:41,520 --> 01:16:43,040
Speaker 1: I am going to.

1518
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give this one hundred just for the simple

1519
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 2: fact that that man shouldn't have came for his wife

1520
01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 2: and he shouldn't have came for his wife, like like

1521
01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 2: like it's almost like every everybody get all the credit

1522
01:16:56,880 --> 01:16:57,559
Speaker 2: they got.

1523
01:16:57,960 --> 01:16:59,600
Speaker 1: They got kind of white wars.

1524
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:02,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, like like yeah, it's like that's what it happened.

1525
01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:04,640
Speaker 2: Like it is like you know my wife better than

1526
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:07,479
Speaker 2: your wife, and somebody crossed the line, and then everybrother's like, oh.

1527
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:08,840
Speaker 3: It's almost like.

1528
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:12,280
Speaker 2: When when y'all when you're going at somebody and you

1529
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 2: say something across the line and all of sudden you

1530
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 2: wrong when you be like, but.

1531
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:15,960
Speaker 4: You didn't hit it.

1532
01:17:16,439 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 3: Everybody heard the other shit he said, right, but I'm

1533
01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:19,960
Speaker 3: wrong because I talked about this nigga mama.

1534
01:17:20,000 --> 01:17:23,679
Speaker 1: Everything about this conversation is so bad because the way

1535
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:26,400
Speaker 1: I'm just going over the conversation, the way it started

1536
01:17:27,040 --> 01:17:30,480
Speaker 1: any and so he threw back was gonna be extrapolated

1537
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:33,960
Speaker 1: to all black women. Correct, So you really he couldn't

1538
01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 1: have even been like I don't want your ugly ass.

1539
01:17:36,520 --> 01:17:40,040
Speaker 1: White people were like, oh, cause she's black. Like it

1540
01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 1: was a lose lose response. Should have never responded dog.

1541
01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:46,160
Speaker 4: It was a lose lose situation when when it comes

1542
01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:46,759
Speaker 4: to that.

1543
01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:48,960
Speaker 1: And then it didn't blow up two weeks later, so

1544
01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:50,719
Speaker 1: he couldn't even be like, no, I was talking about

1545
01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:53,559
Speaker 1: his wife. Everybody's like, I don't think some nigga he man.

1546
01:17:53,680 --> 01:17:56,200
Speaker 1: The only response he could have had this your wife ugly?

1547
01:17:56,479 --> 01:18:00,680
Speaker 1: You your wife, yo, you have an ugly wife. And

1548
01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 1: then he could have just said that and been like,

1549
01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 1: I wasn't talking about black women, talking about that black

1550
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 1: man's wife who is ugly. He could have had it would.

1551
01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:09,639
Speaker 4: Have been a problem.

1552
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:11,800
Speaker 1: Oh, he was gonna get fried. Don't don't. I'm not

1553
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 1: saying this better. I'm not saying this right. I'm saying

1554
01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: this better.

1555
01:18:14,360 --> 01:18:16,479
Speaker 2: But you know what, it's better to shoot a straight

1556
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:18,400
Speaker 2: shot than to spray everybody in the room.

1557
01:18:18,400 --> 01:18:20,320
Speaker 3: And he lit and sprayed everybody in the room.

1558
01:18:20,479 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, he got a checkmate. That's actually kind of brilliant.

1559
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:27,000
Speaker 1: He wasn't checkmate. Damn, I don't think about it. Damn.

1560
01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:29,439
Speaker 1: That's kind of brilliant because it's like, whatever if he says,

1561
01:18:29,479 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 1: your wife ugly is because she's a black woman. Oh

1562
01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:36,040
Speaker 1: so all black wives ugly, like damn nigga should just

1563
01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:37,800
Speaker 1: stayed there and being rich. I guess.

1564
01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 2: Then y'all want to watch the celebrity sip tea in

1565
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:44,280
Speaker 2: the corner and then be uninformed and ship.

1566
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of other things he could have done,

1567
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:50,439
Speaker 1: and everything makes it worse. He could have been like,

1568
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 1: meet me somewhere and fight me, and people are like, oh,

1569
01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 1: so you fight for a white woman.

1570
01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 2: It's nothing that man could have because people had all

1571
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:04,679
Speaker 2: determined that it was a problem and you just wanna

1572
01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 2: love you on your wife.

1573
01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:12,679
Speaker 1: Oh man, that shit is so funny. Man, oh man, Yeah, you.

1574
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:13,320
Speaker 3: Know how it is.

1575
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:16,800
Speaker 1: Now, no matter what you say, you're not gonna talk

1576
01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:19,320
Speaker 1: about my wife like this. Oh so it's okay to

1577
01:19:19,400 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 1: talk about black women like this. I didn't say that. Nope, no,

1578
01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 1: you racist bro. You're gonna fucked up. Oh dolls, this

1579
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:29,040
Speaker 1: nigga get fried FORELBA what.

1580
01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:32,599
Speaker 3: He ain't never gonna be able to figure.

1581
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:37,960
Speaker 1: Oh it shouldn't be so funny, but it is.

1582
01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:38,600
Speaker 3: Man, ha ha.

1583
01:19:39,240 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 1: So sorry, I'm sorry to this man, because that's the

1584
01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:43,479
Speaker 1: other thing. I don't even know who this.

1585
01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 4: I don't either have no idea.

1586
01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:50,400
Speaker 1: I love I love the NBA, but I'm like, I

1587
01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:52,479
Speaker 1: could not pick this motherfucker out of a line up.

1588
01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:54,240
Speaker 1: I didn't even know he played for the Clippers.

1589
01:19:54,720 --> 01:19:57,000
Speaker 4: Would not know this man if he delivered Papa Josta

1590
01:19:57,080 --> 01:19:58,640
Speaker 4: me say it. I hope I don't sound because I

1591
01:19:58,680 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 4: don't know who this man is.

1592
01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:02,040
Speaker 3: I mean he could be walking down the street.

1593
01:20:02,040 --> 01:20:04,040
Speaker 4: I wouldn't I wouldn't know a thing.

1594
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 3: Sorry to this man.

1595
01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:11,439
Speaker 1: All right, should we do it another one?

1596
01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:16,120
Speaker 2: Regardless, I'm still here for the jokes, though I might

1597
01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:18,000
Speaker 2: not participate in the party, but it don't mean I

1598
01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:19,240
Speaker 2: ain't peeking in through the window.

1599
01:20:19,640 --> 01:20:21,439
Speaker 1: I mean it is funny to me. I'm not even

1600
01:20:21,439 --> 01:20:25,280
Speaker 1: gonna front like this is a bad situation to be in.

1601
01:20:25,760 --> 01:20:29,000
Speaker 1: And hey, maybe he meant it one hundred percent the

1602
01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 1: most racist possible way possible. But I really thought when

1603
01:20:31,800 --> 01:20:34,280
Speaker 1: I saw that headline, I was gonna go on his

1604
01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 1: Instagram page he was gonna be like, black women are bulldogs.

1605
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:40,599
Speaker 1: But then seeing his apology, I'm like, oh, he think

1606
01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 1: that woman bulldog. I don't you know what. I don't

1607
01:20:45,760 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 1: want to see the picture evidence that made him come

1608
01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 1: to that conclusion. You know, people have different standards of beauty,

1609
01:20:52,280 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 1: and maybe he has. Maybe he just everyone's beautiful to me. Okay,

1610
01:20:57,560 --> 01:21:01,240
Speaker 1: if you like it, I love it. Who you should

1611
01:21:01,240 --> 01:21:03,880
Speaker 1: have just not said ship anyway, Let's go to the

1612
01:21:03,920 --> 01:21:10,760
Speaker 1: next segment. Let's do uh oh wait ship almost uh

1613
01:21:12,360 --> 01:21:17,520
Speaker 1: I almost forgot about everybody's new favorite segment on the show,

1614
01:21:17,520 --> 01:21:24,480
Speaker 1: favorite segment that black capitalism can can't get this. Guys

1615
01:21:24,520 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 1: bring up my listening. They ain't gonna like it. I

1616
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:33,439
Speaker 1: ain't gonna like it. I'll be getting to the money.

1617
01:21:34,600 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 3: Everybody, everybody.

1618
01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 7: Same, same more, nigga, same moverybody drugs.

1619
01:21:57,320 --> 01:22:01,559
Speaker 1: Rihanna names Normani as Savage Fencey's first Let's do it?

1620
01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:05,719
Speaker 1: Remember when Normani Turned It? Turned It out Rihanna's fashion

1621
01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: show extravaganza for Savage Fenty. It seems that the two

1622
01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:13,160
Speaker 1: artists had developed the real kinship that since then, because

1623
01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:16,559
Speaker 1: the Motivation singer just announced that Ree signed her as

1624
01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:21,840
Speaker 1: the Lingerie brands first ever branding that ambassador. Taking the

1625
01:22:21,920 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 1: Instagram to share the news, Normiani unveiled a series of

1626
01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:30,080
Speaker 1: photos where she's smoldering and posing in bright reg Savage

1627
01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:33,240
Speaker 1: Fenty garb. The singer has nothing but high praise for

1628
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:38,120
Speaker 1: reb telling Vogue that she was very honored that that

1629
01:22:38,120 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 1: that the ass came for Rihanna herself.

1630
01:22:40,720 --> 01:22:41,599
Speaker 4: Can we see pictures?

1631
01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:42,840
Speaker 3: So do you have pictures?

1632
01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 1: I do have pictures, but it's slow loaded, and I

1633
01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:49,920
Speaker 1: guess I could put it on screen so you guys

1634
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:54,439
Speaker 1: can celebrate this capitalism. I just hurting us and holding

1635
01:22:54,520 --> 01:22:58,400
Speaker 1: us back as black people. We won't get free because

1636
01:22:58,600 --> 01:23:02,599
Speaker 1: she could sell some lingerie money that is assuredly going

1637
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:05,360
Speaker 1: to some white person somewhere at the end of the day, yes,

1638
01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:08,200
Speaker 1: Rihanna gets a cut, but white people own the matters

1639
01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:11,559
Speaker 1: of production on this. So Rihanna ain't doing nothing but

1640
01:23:11,600 --> 01:23:16,640
Speaker 1: being a black face for white supremacist Caeses honey, And.

1641
01:23:16,360 --> 01:23:17,320
Speaker 3: Oh that's beautiful.

1642
01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: I know that this is her passion project, something she genuinely,

1643
01:23:22,360 --> 01:23:26,519
Speaker 1: heartily believes in and cares about, and unlike black people,

1644
01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:29,360
Speaker 1: she don't care about the people, and the fact that

1645
01:23:29,400 --> 01:23:31,120
Speaker 1: she wanted me to be a part of that meant

1646
01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:32,960
Speaker 1: a lot to me. She is somebody I looked up

1647
01:23:33,000 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 1: to for a very very long time. Wow, that's so

1648
01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:39,360
Speaker 1: sad looking up to another capitalist. So I already know

1649
01:23:39,400 --> 01:23:41,160
Speaker 1: what kind of systy you're gonna turn out to be

1650
01:23:42,080 --> 01:23:46,400
Speaker 1: another black person giving all making money for the white man,

1651
01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:52,600
Speaker 1: keeping all of us oppressed, looking all delicious in your lingerie,

1652
01:23:53,040 --> 01:23:56,720
Speaker 1: trying to trick us into being four capitalism that's not

1653
01:23:56,760 --> 01:24:00,640
Speaker 1: gonna get us for mm hmmmm. So this is the

1654
01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 1: kind of capitalism I'm supposed to be, okay, being on

1655
01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:09,200
Speaker 1: the bottom of being underneath, sitting on my face, dripping

1656
01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:15,360
Speaker 1: all of my bed. No, thank you don't appreciate this bullshit, Well.

1657
01:24:15,320 --> 01:24:16,719
Speaker 3: Then you're gonna be mad by yourself.

1658
01:24:16,720 --> 01:24:18,880
Speaker 1: My brother, look at this. You see how she got

1659
01:24:19,040 --> 01:24:24,160
Speaker 1: gold and and shit, that's just like Beyonce's billionaire purse. Okay,

1660
01:24:24,200 --> 01:24:26,880
Speaker 1: trying to flaunt her wealth all up in our face.

1661
01:24:27,160 --> 01:24:28,000
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

1662
01:24:28,160 --> 01:24:29,000
Speaker 3: I'm fine with that.

1663
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:33,320
Speaker 1: The people in the proletary are not pleased. Just you,

1664
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:36,680
Speaker 1: just you, reflecting on the sea car you and you

1665
01:24:36,840 --> 01:24:41,479
Speaker 1: defending these bourgeois ze blacks, and it's not doing nothing

1666
01:24:41,520 --> 01:24:44,519
Speaker 1: but setting us back. Reflecting on her time dancing and

1667
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:47,280
Speaker 1: performing at the Savage Fency Show, she described the experience

1668
01:24:47,280 --> 01:24:51,160
Speaker 1: as powerful, particularly for a strong showcase of diversity. It

1669
01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:53,719
Speaker 1: was great to be among so many amazing human beings

1670
01:24:53,720 --> 01:24:56,559
Speaker 1: to deserve to be celebrated because they're all beautiful, all shades,

1671
01:24:56,640 --> 01:25:00,120
Speaker 1: all sizes. The show represented everybody. I just love of

1672
01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:02,400
Speaker 1: how inclusive the brand is and how it gives everybody

1673
01:25:02,439 --> 01:25:04,679
Speaker 1: the opportunity to feel sexy, beautiful and in power, which

1674
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:08,800
Speaker 1: is everything that I stand for as well, except for

1675
01:25:08,840 --> 01:25:12,439
Speaker 1: poor people. How we're supposed to feel, how we're supposed

1676
01:25:12,439 --> 01:25:15,439
Speaker 1: feel in power. We can't even afford this shit. Anybody

1677
01:25:15,479 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 1: want to talk about that? Anybody want to talk the

1678
01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:22,080
Speaker 1: price of fentity and how explusive it is.

1679
01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 4: It's worth it, though, it's the best make about about.

1680
01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:25,840
Speaker 6: Wow.

1681
01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:28,280
Speaker 1: Of course it's worth it. To the white It's worth it, honey,

1682
01:25:28,280 --> 01:25:33,360
Speaker 1: the white industrial makeup beauty complex. Of course it's worth

1683
01:25:33,400 --> 01:25:37,639
Speaker 1: it because a woman's worth in capitalism is only seen

1684
01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:40,719
Speaker 1: as her attractiveness care waken even.

1685
01:25:40,600 --> 01:25:42,960
Speaker 2: Look here, black man that ain't don't give it them

1686
01:25:43,040 --> 01:25:46,959
Speaker 2: about makeup as somebody who is makeup deficient.

1687
01:25:46,960 --> 01:25:47,800
Speaker 3: I don't y'all know me.

1688
01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:50,400
Speaker 2: I don't know jack shit about makeup. I can put

1689
01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:53,600
Speaker 2: this on in one fell swoop. This This is the

1690
01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:54,160
Speaker 2: shit for me.

1691
01:25:54,600 --> 01:25:57,680
Speaker 1: Wow, look at my chat room full of just god

1692
01:25:57,800 --> 01:26:02,840
Speaker 1: damn capitalists, supremists. I sure am supremacist, just up in

1693
01:26:02,920 --> 01:26:05,400
Speaker 1: hell Taco supremacists.

1694
01:26:05,400 --> 01:26:07,920
Speaker 2: Shram, I'm I'm, I'm, I'm might mess around and go

1695
01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:09,640
Speaker 2: buy me some o lip glaus.

1696
01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:13,439
Speaker 1: Wow, it's really sad to see what they what they

1697
01:26:13,479 --> 01:26:14,519
Speaker 1: tricking you blacks into.

1698
01:26:14,560 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 3: Ben I haven't bought no Savage yet. I might.

1699
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:18,920
Speaker 4: I might have to peek over there and see what

1700
01:26:19,040 --> 01:26:19,479
Speaker 4: she doing.

1701
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:22,040
Speaker 1: Let me know when Rihanna come out with some socialist

1702
01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:24,160
Speaker 1: lingerie and then maybe we can talk.

1703
01:26:24,280 --> 01:26:26,280
Speaker 4: Okay, socialists by Savage.

1704
01:26:26,640 --> 01:26:31,080
Speaker 1: No they don't, Yes, they do. Not real ones them,

1705
01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:34,000
Speaker 1: fake ass ones probably do. But the real ones like me,

1706
01:26:35,000 --> 01:26:35,839
Speaker 1: we will go without.

1707
01:26:36,040 --> 01:26:36,960
Speaker 4: You don't buy nothing.

1708
01:26:37,000 --> 01:26:41,000
Speaker 1: Then Black women entrepreneurs acquire fashion Fair Cosmetics.

1709
01:26:41,280 --> 01:26:44,800
Speaker 4: Let's do it fashion feel fashion. How old is fashion fail?

1710
01:26:45,080 --> 01:26:47,760
Speaker 4: Let me see fashion fail been around since nineteen forty two.

1711
01:26:47,920 --> 01:26:49,639
Speaker 4: That's the old that's the old ass line.

1712
01:26:49,840 --> 01:26:52,600
Speaker 1: Black women are displaying the power of collaboration in the

1713
01:26:52,640 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 1: realm of business. According to the Chicago Sun Times, former

1714
01:26:55,920 --> 01:27:01,040
Speaker 1: Johnson Publishing Company executives Cheryl Mayberry McKissick and Desert Rogers

1715
01:27:01,080 --> 01:27:04,360
Speaker 1: have joined forces to acquire fashion the Fashion Fair beauty line.

1716
01:27:04,720 --> 01:27:07,920
Speaker 1: The businesswomen purchased the legendary brand for one point eighty

1717
01:27:07,920 --> 01:27:10,400
Speaker 1: five million dollars that could have gone to feeding the

1718
01:27:10,520 --> 01:27:15,800
Speaker 1: homeless or some other charity or a socialist organization from

1719
01:27:15,840 --> 01:27:19,320
Speaker 1: the Johnson Polishing Company. The cosmetic brand, which was created

1720
01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:23,479
Speaker 1: by Unice W. Johnson Unis Johnson Okay, launched forty six

1721
01:27:23,560 --> 01:27:25,880
Speaker 1: years ago and grew to become one of the most

1722
01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:28,400
Speaker 1: successful black owned beauty companies in the world.

1723
01:27:29,080 --> 01:27:31,920
Speaker 4: I wouldn't too far. It was founded in nineteen seventy three.

1724
01:27:32,160 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 4: I knew it was what I was born.

1725
01:27:35,280 --> 01:27:38,840
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I mean that's a good point. Fashion Fair

1726
01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:41,240
Speaker 1: one of them first cosmetic lines created for women of

1727
01:27:41,320 --> 01:27:43,600
Speaker 1: color mass fifty six million dollars at the height of

1728
01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:49,040
Speaker 1: its existence. Fifty six million dollars they took from the community. Okay,

1729
01:27:49,080 --> 01:27:51,439
Speaker 1: black people could have used at the Star. They owned

1730
01:27:52,400 --> 01:27:59,599
Speaker 1: independent gardens within the same zones where we have food deserts.

1731
01:27:59,680 --> 01:28:02,760
Speaker 1: But no, we're giving it to the makeup ladies so

1732
01:28:02,800 --> 01:28:05,479
Speaker 1: they could just get what manchains and cars and shit.

1733
01:28:06,280 --> 01:28:07,400
Speaker 1: Capitalism won't save us.

1734
01:28:07,520 --> 01:28:12,080
Speaker 2: Didn't didn't tell you that they burnt places down, like

1735
01:28:12,080 --> 01:28:13,960
Speaker 2: like whole City's Black Wall Street, you.

1736
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:16,240
Speaker 1: Know, And we could have built it back with some

1737
01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:19,280
Speaker 1: money that we would have put instead of in the

1738
01:28:19,320 --> 01:28:21,679
Speaker 1: makeup and putting things back up. That's all I'm saying.

1739
01:28:22,960 --> 01:28:25,599
Speaker 1: But stare y'all want to see these just because it's

1740
01:28:25,600 --> 01:28:27,840
Speaker 1: a black one, A group of black women making all

1741
01:28:27,880 --> 01:28:30,679
Speaker 1: the money. I guess it's okay, Yes, yes, sir, Yes,

1742
01:28:30,800 --> 01:28:33,639
Speaker 1: the women will revive a brand through a community focused

1743
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:36,720
Speaker 1: capsule collection. They want to introduce the brand to a

1744
01:28:36,760 --> 01:28:40,400
Speaker 1: new generation while staying true to fashion fairs rich cultural legacy.

1745
01:28:40,600 --> 01:28:43,439
Speaker 1: Fashion fair is just too valuable for our community to lose.

1746
01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:46,720
Speaker 1: Oh you mean the community they robbed of all the

1747
01:28:46,760 --> 01:28:51,960
Speaker 1: money to make us look good. Rogers told Crane Chicago

1748
01:28:52,080 --> 01:28:55,639
Speaker 1: Business and the Statement were planning to modernize the brand

1749
01:28:55,720 --> 01:28:58,240
Speaker 1: the products, but will remain true to the company's roots,

1750
01:28:58,280 --> 01:29:01,880
Speaker 1: which was to create prestige product focused on women of color.

1751
01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:06,680
Speaker 1: Prestige is just another word for the bourgeoisie. That is

1752
01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:10,320
Speaker 1: all that is. M M, You're not fooling me. Cis

1753
01:29:11,280 --> 01:29:14,760
Speaker 1: this ain't nothing but Donald Trump in blackface? Okay? What

1754
01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:16,679
Speaker 1: this is? How it? Stars?

1755
01:29:16,720 --> 01:29:16,920
Speaker 3: Care?

1756
01:29:17,960 --> 01:29:18,400
Speaker 1: Next thing?

1757
01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:18,720
Speaker 3: You know?

1758
01:29:19,840 --> 01:29:22,160
Speaker 1: They out here running for president.

1759
01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:24,479
Speaker 3: Had need to get on now.

1760
01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:27,160
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just trying to stop the capitalism at

1761
01:29:27,200 --> 01:29:30,599
Speaker 1: its roots, y'all. Every time I see y'all share these articles. Yes,

1762
01:29:30,960 --> 01:29:34,760
Speaker 1: secure the bag, Sis, currect, black Girl magic, You, sir

1763
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:38,880
Speaker 1: mean black girl capitalism. H Okay, I don't think there's

1764
01:29:38,920 --> 01:29:43,559
Speaker 1: no magic in capitalism. Earlier this year, they purchased a

1765
01:29:43,560 --> 01:29:44,920
Speaker 1: Black Opal breathly glans.

1766
01:29:44,920 --> 01:29:48,360
Speaker 3: See they over there, they going for all of it Opal.

1767
01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:50,240
Speaker 3: Let me see the op been around forever.

1768
01:29:50,320 --> 01:29:53,280
Speaker 1: Two they trying to buy a park place next at

1769
01:29:53,280 --> 01:29:56,439
Speaker 1: the Black Opal. See this is how it happens, and

1770
01:29:56,520 --> 01:29:58,880
Speaker 1: y'all be okay. Then they raised the rent and now

1771
01:29:58,920 --> 01:30:01,439
Speaker 1: we broke. The two wanted to lead the resurgence of

1772
01:30:01,600 --> 01:30:04,479
Speaker 1: iconic companies that historically caated to black women. It really

1773
01:30:04,479 --> 01:30:06,800
Speaker 1: didn't make much take much convincing when she told me

1774
01:30:06,840 --> 01:30:09,519
Speaker 1: we might have this opportunity with Black Opal. For me, yes,

1775
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:11,880
Speaker 1: it was about beauty and cosmetics and skincare. It was

1776
01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:14,200
Speaker 1: also about for my community and women of color. And

1777
01:30:14,240 --> 01:30:17,200
Speaker 1: I loved all that. I felt. There was so many

1778
01:30:17,280 --> 01:30:21,360
Speaker 1: opportunities here, both in the industry and even with this brand. Well,

1779
01:30:21,479 --> 01:30:25,880
Speaker 1: last time I checked, you can't get us free by

1780
01:30:25,920 --> 01:30:30,040
Speaker 1: buying up the block. Okay. Jay Z said that everybody

1781
01:30:30,080 --> 01:30:32,880
Speaker 1: said all that was gonna do was raise the rent

1782
01:30:32,920 --> 01:30:35,360
Speaker 1: and black people was gonna gentrify other black people out

1783
01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:37,800
Speaker 1: of their place. They said, that's how he meant it

1784
01:30:37,880 --> 01:30:41,240
Speaker 1: because black capitalism, y'all. Now you're telling me they're not

1785
01:30:41,240 --> 01:30:43,080
Speaker 1: about to do this with all these black owned beauty

1786
01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:47,920
Speaker 1: brands that they buying up. Hmm. See, this is how

1787
01:30:48,479 --> 01:30:49,759
Speaker 1: I guess I'm too WoT for y'all.

1788
01:30:50,040 --> 01:30:52,719
Speaker 4: You sure is, sir, you are too woke.

1789
01:30:53,040 --> 01:30:55,799
Speaker 1: The acquisitions come at a time when there still remains

1790
01:30:55,800 --> 01:30:57,760
Speaker 1: a lack of diversity in regards to ownership in the

1791
01:30:57,760 --> 01:31:01,200
Speaker 1: beauty industry. According to Business Insider, the industry, which is

1792
01:31:01,200 --> 01:31:04,040
Speaker 1: worth five hundred and thirty two billion dollars, is white

1793
01:31:04,080 --> 01:31:09,679
Speaker 1: male dominated, right as it should be, because white men

1794
01:31:10,280 --> 01:31:15,439
Speaker 1: capitalists is exactly who runs white patriarchal capitalism. That's how

1795
01:31:15,439 --> 01:31:18,960
Speaker 1: it's supposed to be. Every time a black person get something,

1796
01:31:19,200 --> 01:31:22,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on their ass because that's white's only money.

1797
01:31:22,320 --> 01:31:24,599
Speaker 1: Black people shouldn't be all here geting this money. Are

1798
01:31:24,600 --> 01:31:27,439
Speaker 1: you crazy? We all need to be poor and wait

1799
01:31:27,520 --> 01:31:30,599
Speaker 1: till socialism hit and then we'll all have the same

1800
01:31:31,600 --> 01:31:32,479
Speaker 1: universal income.

1801
01:31:33,040 --> 01:31:35,320
Speaker 3: Do I need to counsel my husband? What's happening care?

1802
01:31:35,439 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to stop the black capitalism that y'all

1803
01:31:37,920 --> 01:31:40,920
Speaker 1: are being seduced by, just because y'all see black women

1804
01:31:40,960 --> 01:31:43,840
Speaker 1: with nice makeup looking all good and shit, I know

1805
01:31:43,880 --> 01:31:49,599
Speaker 1: because I follow most of them on Instagram. What we

1806
01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:51,400
Speaker 1: need to stop it is what I'm trying to say.

1807
01:31:52,320 --> 01:31:57,000
Speaker 1: That's been it for this This saying they're gonna like that,

1808
01:31:57,040 --> 01:32:01,639
Speaker 1: ain't gonna like it. I'll be getting to the.

1809
01:32:01,680 --> 01:32:23,160
Speaker 7: Money too much funny, same same mold nigga, the same modus.

1810
01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:29,160
Speaker 5: Now that it is time for some guest star race,

1811
01:32:29,960 --> 01:32:34,679
Speaker 5: that's right, it's guest star race time. Now that it's

1812
01:32:34,760 --> 01:32:38,760
Speaker 5: time for some guests the race, that's right, this guest

1813
01:32:38,800 --> 01:32:40,040
Speaker 5: star race time.

1814
01:32:40,800 --> 01:32:44,760
Speaker 1: But that's right, it's time for guas the race. The

1815
01:32:44,840 --> 01:32:46,720
Speaker 1: number game going across all the podcasts, and we need

1816
01:32:46,720 --> 01:32:49,360
Speaker 1: to play new ars test today. Karen in the chapmen

1817
01:32:49,439 --> 01:32:53,040
Speaker 1: to guests look race and of course everybody playing is

1818
01:32:53,120 --> 01:32:56,000
Speaker 1: a racist. All right, let's get to our first one.

1819
01:32:56,040 --> 01:33:01,280
Speaker 1: Karen mm hmmm. A Florida stripper is facing criminal charges

1820
01:33:01,280 --> 01:33:03,920
Speaker 1: after allegedly kicking the manager of a gentleman's club in

1821
01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:08,599
Speaker 1: the genitoles while wearing high hel exotic dancer shoes.

1822
01:33:08,760 --> 01:33:11,000
Speaker 3: Oh that is a king now, well.

1823
01:33:10,920 --> 01:33:18,040
Speaker 1: Didn't I mean consensually yes, consently? Yeah yeah? Also, wouldn't

1824
01:33:18,040 --> 01:33:26,040
Speaker 1: it now be a genital man's club. Yes, Yes, I did.

1825
01:33:29,400 --> 01:33:35,040
Speaker 1: Investigators alleged that Lakeisha Ortiz, thirty five, became unruly early

1826
01:33:35,160 --> 01:33:39,760
Speaker 1: yesterday morning after the manager of Sensations spelled Si N

1827
01:33:40,120 --> 01:33:44,280
Speaker 1: Sations and Adultant Club at C and clear Water asked

1828
01:33:44,320 --> 01:33:49,559
Speaker 1: her to go home for the evening. Cops noted that Ortiz,

1829
01:33:49,560 --> 01:33:52,280
Speaker 1: who was employed as an exotic dancer, was asked lead

1830
01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:54,920
Speaker 1: the club because she was intoxicated.

1831
01:33:55,640 --> 01:33:57,919
Speaker 4: Oh you can't coordination.

1832
01:33:58,920 --> 01:34:01,920
Speaker 1: She allegedly threw beer bottles and glass drinking cups upon

1833
01:34:02,000 --> 01:34:07,400
Speaker 1: being asked by manager Mark Kotchucha cotchuescha all right to

1834
01:34:07,520 --> 01:34:10,439
Speaker 1: depart the club later as a club as club security

1835
01:34:10,479 --> 01:34:14,800
Speaker 1: and Kotchucha sought to de escalate the situation. Or Teas

1836
01:34:14,840 --> 01:34:17,920
Speaker 1: allegedly front kicked him directly in his genitals while wearing

1837
01:34:17,920 --> 01:34:21,679
Speaker 1: her work shoes. He then or she then allegedly kicked

1838
01:34:21,760 --> 01:34:24,560
Speaker 1: him in the stomach at the Costa ride the Sensations

1839
01:34:24,880 --> 01:34:28,280
Speaker 1: or Tea's allegedly kicked kicked him a third time directly

1840
01:34:28,320 --> 01:34:30,120
Speaker 1: in front of the police department sergeant.

1841
01:34:30,360 --> 01:34:30,880
Speaker 4: Oh shit.

1842
01:34:31,160 --> 01:34:34,920
Speaker 1: She's been charged with battery and disorderly conduct, both misdemeanors.

1843
01:34:35,200 --> 01:34:37,800
Speaker 1: Or Tease was booked into the County jail at three

1844
01:34:37,880 --> 01:34:40,280
Speaker 1: fifteen am. She was at least from custody Sunday evening.

1845
01:34:40,320 --> 01:34:42,880
Speaker 1: I'll see hundred and fifty dollars bond. Karen guessed the

1846
01:34:42,960 --> 01:34:46,360
Speaker 1: race of Lakeisha or Teaz. Oh she's black, all right,

1847
01:34:46,439 --> 01:34:48,200
Speaker 1: let's chake the chat room and see what they believe

1848
01:34:50,160 --> 01:34:56,519
Speaker 1: about it. About it black? All right? Wait, Diamond said,

1849
01:34:56,600 --> 01:35:00,519
Speaker 1: locked the door black. Worst thing she sa so black.

1850
01:35:01,080 --> 01:35:04,360
Speaker 1: The worst thing you can do to Keisha is messed

1851
01:35:04,400 --> 01:35:08,800
Speaker 1: with her money. Black Lakeisha Diamond Ortiz player ball black,

1852
01:35:08,840 --> 01:35:14,200
Speaker 1: Puerto Rican, Latina, Afro latinix can't be giving sloppy lap

1853
01:35:14,280 --> 01:35:17,479
Speaker 1: dances at the players club. Black likes to play kickball

1854
01:35:17,560 --> 01:35:20,720
Speaker 1: black black, and I blame him for still being with

1855
01:35:20,840 --> 01:35:25,240
Speaker 1: their kicking distance after the first time blaming the victim. Anyway,

1856
01:35:26,760 --> 01:35:43,120
Speaker 1: she was black and my understandings as white and black

1857
01:35:43,200 --> 01:35:47,479
Speaker 1: Latina or Latin ex people and her ass black. She

1858
01:35:47,600 --> 01:35:51,320
Speaker 1: wanted the black ones. So you say anything other than black,

1859
01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:10,880
Speaker 1: and if you didn't know from the name, her face says,

1860
01:36:11,040 --> 01:36:12,200
Speaker 1: I will kick you in the balls.

1861
01:36:13,240 --> 01:36:15,400
Speaker 4: She got she got that, she got a ball kicking face.

1862
01:36:15,600 --> 01:36:19,719
Speaker 1: Definitely gotta kick you in the ball's face. An ex

1863
01:36:19,840 --> 01:36:24,720
Speaker 1: con has been jeled on grand theft burrito charge. Oh shit,

1864
01:36:25,040 --> 01:36:30,920
Speaker 1: and Arizona felon is back behind bars following his arrest

1865
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:35,000
Speaker 1: last Saturday night on a grand theft burrito charge. According

1866
01:36:35,040 --> 01:36:39,559
Speaker 1: to investigators, Timothy Bell twenty nine, approached a man on

1867
01:36:39,600 --> 01:36:42,960
Speaker 1: a Phoenix street and took that person's property by force

1868
01:36:43,080 --> 01:36:47,799
Speaker 1: while making threatening statements. Okay, the stolen property of felon,

1869
01:36:47,840 --> 01:36:50,880
Speaker 1: and complaint states was a burrito of less value than

1870
01:36:50,920 --> 01:36:55,639
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars. Also, who the fuck is jacking people

1871
01:36:55,680 --> 01:36:56,600
Speaker 1: for burritos?

1872
01:36:57,000 --> 01:36:59,439
Speaker 4: And how the fuck is the burrito over one thousand dollars?

1873
01:36:59,680 --> 01:37:00,760
Speaker 1: Under one thousand? Oh?

1874
01:37:00,840 --> 01:37:01,400
Speaker 3: Under thousand?

1875
01:37:01,520 --> 01:37:01,800
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1876
01:37:01,840 --> 01:37:03,320
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, they're gonna undous.

1877
01:37:03,400 --> 01:37:05,360
Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, is that brito over a thousand?

1878
01:37:05,400 --> 01:37:05,639
Speaker 2: Shit?

1879
01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:09,679
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of course not. After having this burrito stolen,

1880
01:37:09,720 --> 01:37:11,760
Speaker 1: the victim called nine one one and follow up Bell

1881
01:37:11,800 --> 01:37:13,800
Speaker 1: until police located the ex count of the rest of

1882
01:37:13,880 --> 01:37:17,200
Speaker 1: him on downtown Phoenix Street around eight forty pm. He's

1883
01:37:17,240 --> 01:37:19,880
Speaker 1: listed as a transient and court records he was found

1884
01:37:19,920 --> 01:37:22,080
Speaker 1: the possession of a rapper for the barrito he stole.

1885
01:37:22,160 --> 01:37:25,280
Speaker 1: So he ate that barrito? Uh huh, He's like, good,

1886
01:37:25,320 --> 01:37:27,640
Speaker 1: got rid of the evidence. Oh no, they got the

1887
01:37:27,720 --> 01:37:31,440
Speaker 1: rapper uh seen above. He was booked in the Americopa

1888
01:37:31,479 --> 01:37:33,840
Speaker 1: County Jail on a felony robbery charge, for which no

1889
01:37:33,920 --> 01:37:36,200
Speaker 1: bond has been said. I wonder if he just wanted

1890
01:37:36,240 --> 01:37:39,040
Speaker 1: to go to jail, if he was on the streets,

1891
01:37:39,600 --> 01:37:41,519
Speaker 1: like maybe it's just like good now they can put

1892
01:37:41,520 --> 01:37:43,960
Speaker 1: me back in jail. At least is you know, warm,

1893
01:37:43,960 --> 01:37:47,160
Speaker 1: and they got food. Bell's rap sheet includes two separate

1894
01:37:47,160 --> 01:37:50,280
Speaker 1: state prison turns, conviction for weapon possession, disorder contact, trespassing,

1895
01:37:50,280 --> 01:37:53,880
Speaker 1: and the cottage possession. He is currently on probation and

1896
01:37:53,920 --> 01:37:58,440
Speaker 1: connection with the twenty fifteen conviction for misdemeanors and misconduct

1897
01:37:58,439 --> 01:38:00,000
Speaker 1: of all the weapons of felony for what she He's

1898
01:38:00,040 --> 01:38:05,200
Speaker 1: served nearly three years in custody. Man, well, it sounds

1899
01:38:05,240 --> 01:38:18,760
Speaker 1: like it's a rap for our burrito thief, Karen, guess

1900
01:38:18,800 --> 01:38:19,200
Speaker 1: the race.

1901
01:38:19,960 --> 01:38:21,040
Speaker 3: What was his name again?

1902
01:38:21,360 --> 01:38:26,639
Speaker 1: His name is Timothy Bell. Maybe he's related to Taco Bell.

1903
01:38:26,840 --> 01:38:29,120
Speaker 1: And he was like, that's my burrito. I don't know.

1904
01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:30,360
Speaker 1: Timothy Bell is his name.

1905
01:38:30,840 --> 01:38:32,920
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say Timothy Bell was black.

1906
01:38:33,200 --> 01:38:37,280
Speaker 1: Okay, someone spilled the beans on him, all right, I

1907
01:38:37,320 --> 01:38:39,920
Speaker 1: won't play it for that, all right, Let's go to

1908
01:38:40,040 --> 01:38:42,519
Speaker 1: chatter and see what they believe. Timothy Bell's right says,

1909
01:38:42,960 --> 01:38:45,880
Speaker 1: this is a white all those convictions and still was

1910
01:38:45,880 --> 01:38:49,280
Speaker 1: out of jail. Plus black folks still chicken. We didn't

1911
01:38:49,280 --> 01:38:52,200
Speaker 1: say what was in the buria though, black. I need

1912
01:38:52,240 --> 01:38:54,920
Speaker 1: more clues. Fucking white white boy waisted hot sauce on

1913
01:38:54,960 --> 01:38:57,880
Speaker 1: his burrito, black white cousin. If he was hispanic, they

1914
01:38:57,880 --> 01:39:01,360
Speaker 1: would have been deported him. Taco to Tuesday, tim white,

1915
01:39:01,840 --> 01:39:06,360
Speaker 1: black white. Very divided over there. It's very divided chat

1916
01:39:06,400 --> 01:39:10,160
Speaker 1: rooms all over the place. Karen went with black. Karen

1917
01:39:10,240 --> 01:39:22,880
Speaker 1: is right. How'd you even get that?

1918
01:39:24,680 --> 01:39:26,879
Speaker 2: Listen to the rep sheet saying this is the logan's

1919
01:39:26,920 --> 01:39:30,519
Speaker 2: rep sheet, okay, And of course many of you guys

1920
01:39:30,600 --> 01:39:32,639
Speaker 2: went with something other than black, and y'all wrong.

1921
01:39:42,080 --> 01:39:44,000
Speaker 4: And he ate the burrito and didn't like, smushed it

1922
01:39:44,000 --> 01:39:44,720
Speaker 4: in the face and nothing.

1923
01:39:44,720 --> 01:39:45,559
Speaker 3: The nigga was hungry.

1924
01:39:46,800 --> 01:39:48,880
Speaker 1: I don't know how that's a black thing, but sure

1925
01:39:50,200 --> 01:39:52,080
Speaker 1: maybe it was a chicken burrit though I don't know

1926
01:39:52,200 --> 01:39:56,280
Speaker 1: it may be. All right, let's go to the bonus

1927
01:39:56,360 --> 01:40:12,519
Speaker 1: round and the race, saying the race, that's right, double

1928
01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:14,720
Speaker 1: the points, double the race. Karen is two for two.

1929
01:40:14,800 --> 01:40:16,040
Speaker 1: She's been on fire this week.

1930
01:40:16,240 --> 01:40:16,639
Speaker 2: I know.

1931
01:40:16,960 --> 01:40:17,880
Speaker 3: Can y'all believe it?

1932
01:40:17,920 --> 01:40:21,280
Speaker 2: And just like real racism, your logic, my LOGI ain't

1933
01:40:21,280 --> 01:40:21,960
Speaker 2: gotta make sense.

1934
01:40:22,200 --> 01:40:25,080
Speaker 1: That's true. That's true. All right, let's see if you

1935
01:40:25,200 --> 01:40:29,360
Speaker 1: go three and three over there, Uh the race whisperer,

1936
01:40:29,600 --> 01:40:35,160
Speaker 1: I know right. Nashville, Tennessee, a sixty six year old

1937
01:40:35,320 --> 01:40:38,920
Speaker 1: repeat offender is accused of getting naked and scaring tourists

1938
01:40:38,920 --> 01:40:42,400
Speaker 1: in a restroom Friday morning at the Bosentennial Capitol Mall

1939
01:40:42,560 --> 01:40:46,240
Speaker 1: State Park, oh sh According to an arrest warner, custodian

1940
01:40:46,320 --> 01:40:48,519
Speaker 1: call police to report a man creating a disturbance in

1941
01:40:48,520 --> 01:40:51,920
Speaker 1: a park bathroom. The paperwork stations. She told officers the

1942
01:40:51,960 --> 01:40:55,080
Speaker 1: man was naked and speaking gibberish while also swinging a

1943
01:40:55,160 --> 01:40:57,840
Speaker 1: belt and throwing objects, scaring tourist who are attempting to

1944
01:40:57,920 --> 01:41:02,160
Speaker 1: use a bathroom. Police arrived to the restroom, it was

1945
01:41:02,200 --> 01:41:04,879
Speaker 1: cleared as officers tried to convince suspect to get dressed.

1946
01:41:05,160 --> 01:41:07,840
Speaker 1: A tour bus arrived forty minutes later, and police said

1947
01:41:07,840 --> 01:41:10,160
Speaker 1: they forcefully removed him from the restroom and took him

1948
01:41:10,160 --> 01:41:14,360
Speaker 1: into custody. The suspect, identified by police says Odell Crump,

1949
01:41:17,680 --> 01:41:19,680
Speaker 1: was booked into the Metro jail on the charge of

1950
01:41:19,720 --> 01:41:22,679
Speaker 1: this only conduct. Tis bonm was said that fifteen hundred dollars.

1951
01:41:23,160 --> 01:41:25,599
Speaker 1: Online court record show he has been arrested more than

1952
01:41:25,640 --> 01:41:28,599
Speaker 1: twenty times for more than twenty charges in twenty nineteen.

1953
01:41:30,960 --> 01:41:34,519
Speaker 1: Most of those charges have been dropped though. So guess

1954
01:41:34,520 --> 01:41:36,920
Speaker 1: the race of Odell Crump.

1955
01:41:37,720 --> 01:41:40,920
Speaker 2: Odale Crump is out here crumping black?

1956
01:41:41,200 --> 01:41:45,080
Speaker 1: All right, let's take the chat room negro. That's that's

1957
01:41:45,120 --> 01:41:46,400
Speaker 1: a black ass name.

1958
01:41:47,360 --> 01:41:47,519
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1959
01:41:47,520 --> 01:41:50,320
Speaker 4: If he white, dove, I will be shocked.

1960
01:41:50,520 --> 01:41:51,799
Speaker 1: You never heard of white? O'Dell?

1961
01:41:51,920 --> 01:41:55,000
Speaker 2: Huh when the Crump is the last name?

1962
01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:56,720
Speaker 3: Well, how many white Crumps you know around here?

1963
01:41:57,760 --> 01:42:03,760
Speaker 1: K act right? Black? That says old man, old black man,

1964
01:42:03,800 --> 01:42:08,040
Speaker 1: fed over everybody shit, tickle me. Odell got kicked off,

1965
01:42:08,080 --> 01:42:13,280
Speaker 1: sesame street black. That nigga black black. Odell was trying

1966
01:42:13,320 --> 01:42:16,599
Speaker 1: to show his crumpet. That is a nigga. Come on, Odell,

1967
01:42:16,840 --> 01:42:19,640
Speaker 1: just a black ass name. Everybody went with black on

1968
01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:23,760
Speaker 1: this one. Everyone, you guys got it correct. He's a

1969
01:42:23,760 --> 01:42:35,960
Speaker 1: black man. Uh, yeah, Odell's black. That's him. Man, that'd

1970
01:42:35,960 --> 01:42:37,760
Speaker 1: be scary. You walk in the bathroom a nigga got

1971
01:42:37,760 --> 01:42:40,400
Speaker 1: a felt swinging around, no clothes on, talking gibberish.

1972
01:42:40,880 --> 01:42:42,719
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's yeah. I about to say that sounded

1973
01:42:42,760 --> 01:42:44,160
Speaker 2: like an old ass man's name.

1974
01:42:44,760 --> 01:42:47,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, he is old and black man sad to see

1975
01:42:47,400 --> 01:42:49,479
Speaker 1: whatever happened to him to get him to that point. Man,

1976
01:42:50,920 --> 01:42:54,160
Speaker 1: oh man, oh damn, put your dick away. Goddamn, that's

1977
01:42:54,160 --> 01:42:55,840
Speaker 1: what sound like. You do that all the time. He

1978
01:42:55,840 --> 01:42:57,400
Speaker 1: got the rest of you more than twenty times.

1979
01:42:57,920 --> 01:42:59,439
Speaker 4: Oh, they're like that acting the food again.

1980
01:42:59,600 --> 01:43:02,439
Speaker 1: The call go on to the bathroom and get the

1981
01:43:02,479 --> 01:43:05,200
Speaker 1: hole even get O'Dell out of there, shaking his dick around,

1982
01:43:05,800 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 1: scaring out the tourists. I just came down here to

1983
01:43:09,360 --> 01:43:12,360
Speaker 1: see where the Home of Blues was building and sing.

1984
01:43:12,400 --> 01:43:14,240
Speaker 1: He's like, you're gonna see this dick first.

1985
01:43:15,040 --> 01:43:17,720
Speaker 3: Hey bitch, do you see this right?

1986
01:43:17,800 --> 01:43:19,000
Speaker 1: Where do you see my dick?

1987
01:43:19,960 --> 01:43:21,040
Speaker 4: What does pa come from?

1988
01:43:21,520 --> 01:43:25,800
Speaker 1: You walking the bathroom? Walk in the bathroom, this old

1989
01:43:25,840 --> 01:43:27,200
Speaker 1: assing in the corner.

1990
01:43:30,760 --> 01:43:36,160
Speaker 6: Something that you was like, hell, like, what's happening in

1991
01:43:36,240 --> 01:43:41,040
Speaker 6: the here? You're like, what, no.

1992
01:43:41,040 --> 01:43:43,599
Speaker 3: I think? I think I want to leave your island.

1993
01:43:43,800 --> 01:43:45,479
Speaker 1: Where did you see this old dick?

1994
01:43:46,320 --> 01:43:46,400
Speaker 2: Like?

1995
01:43:48,520 --> 01:43:49,000
Speaker 3: Time to go?

1996
01:43:50,720 --> 01:43:53,280
Speaker 1: You had to belt I'm o beat that puts it up?

1997
01:43:56,520 --> 01:43:57,479
Speaker 1: Oh hell.

1998
01:44:12,520 --> 01:44:12,640
Speaker 2: Uh?

1999
01:44:13,479 --> 01:44:18,719
Speaker 1: A man carrying a sword on Vine Street prompts calls

2000
01:44:18,760 --> 01:44:29,080
Speaker 1: to emergency dispatch. Okay, I mean, this isn't the feudal era,

2001
01:44:29,280 --> 01:44:33,000
Speaker 1: so why man would feel the need to carry a

2002
01:44:33,040 --> 01:44:38,559
Speaker 1: sword seems kind of ridiculous. Uh. The Genie County emergency

2003
01:44:38,560 --> 01:44:41,719
Speaker 1: dispander was to see multiple calls about a white male

2004
01:44:41,840 --> 01:44:44,880
Speaker 1: wearing a camouflage jacket carrying a sword walking on Vine

2005
01:44:44,880 --> 01:44:49,200
Speaker 1: Street toward Main Street, and Batavia police have been dispatched. Wait,

2006
01:44:49,280 --> 01:44:53,280
Speaker 1: that's the whole article. Okay, I guess the Batavia dot

2007
01:44:53,280 --> 01:44:56,120
Speaker 1: com they like to keep it short, straight.

2008
01:44:55,920 --> 01:44:58,120
Speaker 3: To the fact, straight to the fact. Number of facts here.

2009
01:44:58,320 --> 01:45:00,920
Speaker 1: What happened? Did you catch them? That's in the next article.

2010
01:45:02,400 --> 01:45:06,320
Speaker 1: The next article, we caught them? They in like, Okay,

2011
01:45:06,360 --> 01:45:11,320
Speaker 1: then all right, that's it. We'll be back. Hopefully we

2012
01:45:11,360 --> 01:45:13,680
Speaker 1: can come back tomorrow, depending on if Karen gets our

2013
01:45:13,680 --> 01:45:16,960
Speaker 1: work earlier, because we have a basketball game yes to

2014
01:45:17,000 --> 01:45:21,160
Speaker 1: go to. We got to see the Hornets play. So

2015
01:45:21,240 --> 01:45:23,240
Speaker 1: if Karen gets our work early enough, we'll probably do

2016
01:45:23,280 --> 01:45:25,920
Speaker 1: an early show so we can recap The Walking Dead

2017
01:45:26,720 --> 01:45:29,719
Speaker 1: mid season finale and then we'll be done with recaps

2018
01:45:29,760 --> 01:45:34,559
Speaker 1: for a few weeks. And if not, then hey, y'all,

2019
01:45:34,600 --> 01:45:38,639
Speaker 1: look at that ship whenever.

2020
01:45:38,040 --> 01:45:39,639
Speaker 3: Sunday and then we come back.

2021
01:45:39,760 --> 01:45:43,759
Speaker 1: Also, this too much should well, it's possible to happen

2022
01:45:44,600 --> 01:45:47,640
Speaker 1: Friday morning, but it's tentative. Well, guys'll let you know

2023
01:45:47,720 --> 01:45:50,160
Speaker 1: on that too. That also is on the fall break

2024
01:45:50,200 --> 01:45:53,800
Speaker 1: after this, so uh, you know, lots of rest of relaxation,

2025
01:45:53,920 --> 01:45:58,360
Speaker 1: and then after that, one of the early weeks of December,

2026
01:45:58,479 --> 01:46:01,280
Speaker 1: I'm definitely taking off. Okay, just letting you guys know.

2027
01:46:02,040 --> 01:46:04,680
Speaker 1: So all right, until then, I love you.

2028
01:46:04,800 --> 01:46:05,320
Speaker 4: I love you too.

2029
01:46:05,560 --> 01:46:05,800
Speaker 1: Fine,