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Speaker 1: Peace of the planet. Charlamagnea god. Here.

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Speaker 2: Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate

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Speaker 2: the Black Effect Podcast Network. It's turning five years old, man,

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Speaker 2: five years of powerful voices, unforgettable moments in the community

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Speaker 2: that keeps growing. This is the power of the platform.

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Speaker 2: Now let's get into it.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 3: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 1: Talk Talk.

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Speaker 4: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl a j holiday Am.

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Speaker 4: Hey, y'all is Tam Bam. I love y'all so very much.

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Speaker 4: How you doing, aj, I'm doing girl.

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Speaker 3: It's been a long short, a long weekend, long short

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Speaker 3: couple of weeks. Yeah, man, I've been mourning. Man. I

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Speaker 3: lost my first best friend last week before last. Actually

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Speaker 3: in her funeral was yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, sorry to hear that, girl. Life be life

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Speaker 1: in y'all. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, and I don't think. I might be

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Speaker 3: nosy and I might foul. Let me not say that

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Speaker 3: on here. Yeah, but I'm gonna find out what happened

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Speaker 3: to my friend. But she passed away. She was staying

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Speaker 3: with her mom. She passed away at her mom's house,

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Speaker 3: and you know, she just she was struggling a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what else, but check on y'all people.

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Speaker 3: People might say okay and just not. And she text

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Speaker 3: me the day before she passed and I didn't respond

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Speaker 3: because I was super busy. And it's not that I

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Speaker 3: regret not responding, because people be exactly how I'm supposed to.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so a lot of unanswered questions. But it's weird, man.

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Speaker 1: That is always weird.

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Speaker 3: But it's expected because, like the preacher was saying at

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Speaker 3: church yesterday, nighttime will come welcome. We just don't win, right,

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Speaker 3: So you got to make sure you executing on all

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Speaker 3: the things that you're supposed to be doing his lifetime.

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Speaker 3: Don't waste no gifts, do all the things every day

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Speaker 3: to the max and take.

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Speaker 1: Us and grat right.

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Speaker 3: That'll kind of take us into day into today's topic

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Speaker 3: a little bit when we get.

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Speaker 4: Into absolutely, I was in Paris following drink around.

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Speaker 1: Did you get his number?

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Speaker 4: And no, I did not get his number, Unfortunately I

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Speaker 4: did not, But we we had a great time. You know.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Zobah.

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Speaker 4: She always makes sure we're good, and me and my

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Speaker 4: best friend went so hung out in Paris. But now

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Speaker 4: I came back and now I just don't feel the

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Speaker 4: world's greatest. It's just being on those flights, those nine

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Speaker 4: hour flights. It's hard to come back healthy and healthy

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Speaker 4: as you left. So I'm a bit under the weather.

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Speaker 4: And I think I may have even ruptured my ear

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Speaker 4: drum because I was a little congested on the flight

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Speaker 4: and I blew my nose and I felt something that

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Speaker 4: felt weird in my right ear after I blew my nose,

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Speaker 4: and it's still you know that feeling that you feel

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Speaker 4: when it's just like you need your ear pop. It

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Speaker 4: just it still feels like that. And this is days

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I be hella congestant and just regular day,

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Speaker 3: but on a plane it be even worse. I know

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Speaker 3: exactly what you talk about. You're trying to blow that

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Speaker 3: air to pop your ear out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it just won't pop. So yeah, shames that.

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Speaker 4: So that's what I've been doing, just trying to heal.

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Speaker 4: When I landed, So we stayed out every night until

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Speaker 1: Morning, because that's why I stick to you.

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Speaker 3: Immune sister, probably down as well, just from drinking, not sleeping.

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Speaker 1: Bruh. When I tell you, like.

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Speaker 4: Thursday, Friday, Saturday, My I felt like my liver hurt.

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Speaker 4: Like I was just like drinking nothing but water because

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Speaker 1: Maybe I was hurting.

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Speaker 3: Sixteen Your body got to catch up.

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Speaker 1: I can't do it like that.

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Speaker 3: You lead that ship to them young, and I know

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Speaker 4: They adn't drink no water the whole trip, the whole No,

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Speaker 4: I had no water. Yeah, but that was my week.

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Speaker 4: I think God might have been Yeah, I need let

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Speaker 4: me let me see if I can get your booth

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Speaker 4: thay moem flight passes because he needed that shit.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, bitch, we both bought that Frontier shit. Did

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Speaker 3: y'all see that? He actually paid more for his because

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Speaker 3: reason why he bought the little package. I purchased the

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Speaker 3: paid like five hundred dollars for it. Then he had

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Speaker 3: So like say, for instance, if I fly from here

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Speaker 3: a good bit of places I could.

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Speaker 1: Fly to using it.

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Speaker 3: Vegas, Miami, placed out, New York. Yeah, okay, mm hmm

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Speaker 3: You gotta really plan and you got to backpack it. Basically,

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Speaker 1: That's where they charge you those fees. With these cheap.

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Speaker 3: if you if you're a conservative girly, and I think

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Speaker 3: they still have it, it's called a go wild pass

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Speaker 3: on Frontier.

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Speaker 1: Can we get a check Frontier? Thank you? Wild?

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, I'm gonna see I might get one just

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Speaker 4: to have a backup plan.

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Speaker 3: For my Oh no, exactly, Yeah, you might want to

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get a man, Charlie Kirk.

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Speaker 3: So, Charlie Kirk is a politician and he was murdered last.

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Speaker 1: Politician or was he just a commentator or I.

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Speaker 3: Guess well, I'll say politician, right, because I know a

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Speaker 3: lot of our listeners probably don't tune into Candas Owens.

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Speaker 3: Last year, sometime when Candabe Owens first started her series

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Speaker 3: on the President of France and his first Nigga, somebody

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Speaker 3: the President of France flew over here supposedly on official business,

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Speaker 3: was Cannis Owens disclosed last week it was actually Charlie

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Speaker 3: Kirk that Trump had called her initially, and then Trump

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Speaker 3: wife on some like ship like that influence. So yeah,

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Speaker 3: and show did Charlie Kirk obviously right, He closely connected

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Speaker 3: I would say that he is a politician podcaster.

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Speaker 4: Oh, sorry to interrupt, but speaking of the Prime Minister

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Speaker 4: of Frank Me. We left a day early because they

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Speaker 1: No yes, France, the shit is falling right, yeah, and.

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Speaker 4: Baby, we had to get the fuck up out of there.

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Speaker 4: Like I was like, I ain't get this, Ain't got

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Speaker 1: So we got up out of there.

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Speaker 3: And you know, cannon Zones is being sued by them, right,

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Speaker 3: which is this unprecedented? Basically, you have a foreign nation

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Speaker 3: suing a podcaster because of the influence that she has

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Speaker 3: and because she do real life research. She's not telling you, Hey,

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Speaker 1: Whole family tree.

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Speaker 3: So you can get a clear understanding and it's up

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Speaker 1: She definitely gives.

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Speaker 3: You all information and that's the problem. She got a

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Speaker 3: make too much sense. So now they're trying to silence her.

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Speaker 3: So now they have now murdered somebody very close to

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Speaker 3: her because the reason why Trump had her call, had

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Speaker 3: It's similar and influence, you know exactly. So you know,

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Speaker 3: so Charlie Kirk was murdered. He was shot and killed

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Speaker 3: while speaking at a TPUSA public debate even in Utah

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Speaker 3: that led to the condemnation, condemned, condemnation, condemnation of political

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Speaker 3: the thing. It's like that is a part of American culture.

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Speaker 3: We kill politicians.

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Speaker 1: Now. I don't know who the WI is because we

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Speaker 1: aren't the Wei.

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Speaker 3: Right, I don't know if it's one of them alphabets

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Speaker 3: it's seeming like. So who really runs America?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: And they can just murder our presidents when they don't

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Speaker 4: It's not even just politicians. If you look at anybody,

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Speaker 1: They get murdered young a lot of times.

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Speaker 3: They're gonna take them up before they can actually make

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Speaker 3: huge yea even more impact. Right, we're talking to like

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Speaker 3: Martin Luther King, Like, we don't realize how young these

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Speaker 4: It's crazy, Like Martin Luther King was a young ass nigga.

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Speaker 1: He just hell p Newton, Yeah, like just young young.

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Speaker 4: What happened to Charlie Kirk awful? You know, his family,

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Speaker 3: And I put on my story stop sending me death?

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Speaker 1: Know, it's above it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, they can take any one of us out.

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Speaker 3: Lot of a lot of fig ship. People ain't going

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Speaker 4: Right, This don't really have nothing to do with us. Absolutely,

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Speaker 3: The man is identified as reading his next akin was

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Speaker 4: Nancy Grace was like bringing back the death, un does

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Speaker 3: And you have some politicians wanting to wanting to take

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Speaker 4: White men are our domestic terrorists. When you hear of

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Speaker 3: And you know, black women gave blames for everything that's

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Speaker 3: I feel like you should go to jail, white lady,

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Speaker 4: If we could just do away with guns altogether, nah,

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Speaker 3: That'll never happen in America because it's too many guns, right,

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Speaker 3: That's really what the Second Amendment is about. And so

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Speaker 4: That was a military police in the city's running around

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Speaker 1: Police with shisky's on is crazy? Right? Are y'all not.

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Speaker 3: No, this ship is about to start all over, and

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Speaker 3: that's why we've seen all this chaos. Right, we're getting

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Speaker 3: And so please get yourself mentally prepared. Whatever you think

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Speaker 3: If you can't, if you don't transcend, you're gonna be

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00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 3: left behind. Amen, let's talk about hold on before we

440
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: before we get off of since dam Dash obviously wants

441
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 3: to fight, because y'all, I don't know if y'all knowing not,

442
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 3: but I'll fight anybody about Charlamagne period in a real way. Okay,

443
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:35,360
Speaker 3: the stoicism that he displayed on this interview with Dame Dash,

444
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 3: and he like didn't strangle this nigga on live TV.

445
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 3: I don't know how he could do it. I am

446
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 3: still a working progress.

447
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not impressed with how he handled that, because yes,

448
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 4: Dane was saying some real disrespectful shit to him.

449
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: I don't know.

450
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 4: So Dame Dash or death Dash, as Charlemagne called him,

451
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 4: he did the Breakfast Club in he was interviewed and

452
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 4: he said some real disparaging things to Charlamagne. He called him,

453
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 4: I mean not saying that being called gay is disparaging,

454
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 4: but if you're not, you're not a man that you're not.

455
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 4: You know, he was trying to insinuate that Charlemagne was gay.

456
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 4: Even Charlamagne said I'm not gay. He said, yes, you are.

457
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 4: He said he would fuck Charlamagne up. You know, he

458
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 4: literally said.

459
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 1: That to him. You know, he just was angry. I

460
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 1: don't know why people think Charlamagne pussy.

461
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 3: I don't know why because he's non confrontational, right, well,

462
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 3: I know for a fact Charlomagne would fucked dam dash

463
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:39,479
Speaker 3: ass up.

464
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's and that's the crazy part. Like he just

465
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 4: practiced is restraight. And then he's mentioned.

466
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 3: That he's fighting for a fifty damn there.

467
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 4: This age and you're still talking about fighting.

468
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 1: It's crazy. Yes.

469
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 3: So he was like, you know, we're just different because

470
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 3: I would get my ass beat by thirty niggas I

471
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 3: ain't running or whatever. And he was like, you ran

472
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 3: when niggas ran up on you at the station. Selling

473
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 3: me was like, you're right, it was four men.

474
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: I didn't run.

475
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 3: So I'm at work like and you're trying to get

476
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 3: one up on me for the internet.

477
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: Right. You know what I'm saying.

478
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 3: I got a family out of get I gotta get

479
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 3: back to. That's the difference between men and boys. See

480
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 3: Dame dash onely thinks about himself. You have a black

481
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 3: man who gave you a platform to come in front

482
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 3: of your people and tell him why they should fuck

483
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 3: with you. And what you did, you you wasted the

484
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 3: opportunity and you just showed people exactly why you're not

485
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 3: where you want to be. Because you are You're not

486
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 3: fucking humble. And I don't even like the definition of humble. Okay,

487
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 3: but he needs he's somebody who was a humble dam day. Absolutely,

488
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 3: you're not where you are because you self destruct. You

489
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 3: not where you want to be. Yeah, because he self destructs.

490
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 3: Everybody else is the fucking problem. Your children don't fuck

491
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 3: with you. The people you've done business with don't fuck

492
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 3: with you. You know you're in debt. You owe all these

493
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 3: people money. You don't do good business. You're not a

494
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 3: good business man. Right while you sho on somebody who

495
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 3: who had to come up and work underneath someone else, Right,

496
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 3: you're good person. There's that good person. And nigga, your

497
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 3: name is Dash. I mean, excuse me, nigga, your name

498
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 3: is dame. Even Dash Dash sounds sashy as fuck. Your

499
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 3: name is dame, Like that is like a mature woman?

500
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:31,239
Speaker 1: Is what ademe? Like the definition of a deme. I

501
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: don't give a damn. It's so damed Dash.

502
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 4: So so you're.

503
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 3: The lady, You're the lady of the race. Damn, Dash

504
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 3: is fucking nuts. Man, Sharla Man, shout out to you.

505
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: Brother. She handled that so well.

506
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 4: I don't think I could, Like if somebody came on

507
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 4: we talked back, talking that much shit to me, I

508
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 4: definitely would tell them they got to go. At least

509
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:02,719
Speaker 4: he still let him stay on on the platform and speak.

510
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 4: And that's just impressive to me. Are you if you

511
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 4: don't get the fuck this is my This is my show, bitch?

512
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: You know?

513
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 3: So AA is on site and I might go as

514
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 3: far as having somebody hack your IP address so I

515
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 3: can get your home address, because who you talking to.

516
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: It's just the level of petty I'm trying to take you.

517
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of times people never got

518
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 3: their ass work.

519
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: That's all he said.

520
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 4: He got his ass by thirty men and then and

521
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 4: you probably had a concussion.

522
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: And that's why your mental health is not right. That

523
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: he was in a slight kerfuffle. It wasn't no damned

524
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: Ashn't you.

525
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 4: Rather know when the fight or flee? You know, fighting

526
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 4: four niggas by yourself? I don't see the point.

527
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, why right?

528
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 3: That doesn't make you a man. So he was challenging.

529
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 3: He was essentially challenging Charlemagne's masculinity. He just reminded me

530
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 3: of a brat in school who nobody's laughing with you,

531
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 3: Nobody agrees with what you're saying, but you think because

532
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 3: you're talking the loudest that you're winning the argument.

533
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: You aren't. You actually looked like an idiot. So there's that.

534
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 3: There's that anyway, And you know, one part which leads

535
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 3: us into today's cussion, into today's discussion Jesus Christ tongue twisting.

536
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 3: Charlemagne said that Dame dash was real materialistic, right like that,

537
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 3: And that's part of the conversation I want to have today.

538
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 3: Do y'all feel black excellence, burnout a little bit or fatigue?

539
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 3: We don't get into what exactly that is and how

540
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 3: can you survive from it. All right, let's talk about it.

541
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 3: We'll be back after the commercial.

542
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: All right, y'all.

543
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 3: So today we wanted to chat a little bit about, uh,

544
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 3: you know, black excellence burnout. So y'all know we talk

545
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,479
Speaker 3: a lot of mess. When we talked back, we unpack

546
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 3: a lot of stress as well. So today, are we

547
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 3: tired of always having to be great?

548
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: Are trying? Always trying to be great? Yes? So a

549
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: drop exhaustion of.

550
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 4: Go ahead, I was about to say, always trying to

551
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 4: look it, be good, feel good, show up perfect, be

552
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 4: the best parent, be the best daughter, be the best friend,

553
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 4: be the best sister.

554
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 1: Be the best wife, girlfriend is. And then and that's

555
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: why I practice a lot of solitude. I'd be by

556
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: my damn self.

557
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 4: And then have to do it ten times better. You

558
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 4: gotta come ten times harder.

559
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 3: The exhaustion, so exhaustion of black excellence or black excellence fatigue,

560
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 3: is the phenomenon of black individuals experiencing extreme mental, emotional,

561
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 3: and physical burnout from the constant pressure to overperform, outshine expectations,

562
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 3: and succeed despite systematic barriers like racism and anti blackness,

563
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 3: and sometimes that act anti blackness come from our own people,

564
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 3: you know.

565
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: So it's just it's just super exhausting.

566
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 3: And really, you know, I was listening to I thought

567
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 3: about this topic because I still listened to four for four.

568
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all do.

569
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 3: Jay z album for his last studio album, four for four,

570
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 3: and he has a song on their legacy, Legacy, Legacy,

571
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 3: and part of it he says, it takes my it

572
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 3: takes my hurt and help wait wait, he said, it

573
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 3: takes my hurt and help me find more of myself.

574
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 3: It's a gift and a curse. That's that's called the

575
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 3: red Queen's Race. You run this hard just to stay

576
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 3: in place. Keep up the pace, baby, keep up the pace.

577
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 3: You run this hard just to stay in place. Legacy, Legacy, Legacy.

578
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 3: So the Queen's Race is basically, you do you're doing

579
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 3: all these things right, but you have all of these

580
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 3: mechanisms put in place right, so you you going as hard,

581
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: you're being two times better just to.

582
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 1: Stay in the same spot.

583
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 3: But yesterday I had a conversation with my sister and

584
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 3: I was asking her, like, did you really learn anything

585
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 3: from mom and Daddy? Like you did our parents really

586
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 3: teach us anything? Because they I ain't learned nothing from

587
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 3: my parents for real, not like no, no, some like cooking, cleaning,

588
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 3: but like life things. My mama always had an eight

589
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 3: hundred plus credit score. She ain't teach me shit about

590
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 3: credit because she didn't understand it. She just knew you

591
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 3: get money, you buy shit, you pay for it.

592
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: Right.

593
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 3: So the way that I understand credit and how you

594
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 3: use credit, you know, you leverage credit to build wealth

595
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 3: is just wasn't ever her understanding. So that's something she

596
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 3: could have never ever taught me. But that is something

597
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 3: I can then pass to my kid.

598
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: Right.

599
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 3: So when I'm asking my sister this, I was like,

600
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 3: you know, mom made sure we had like some someplace

601
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 3: nice to live. We had what we needed, not necessarily

602
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 3: what we wanted. And I think that that's also what

603
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 3: you know, differentiate differentiating my mom's household from a lot

604
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 3: of other people's. Like we lived in a house, but

605
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 3: you you got the ship that you fucking need in

606
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 3: here ain't gonna be all in And we probably had

607
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 3: a little extra the shit you need and a little extra, right,

608
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 3: So she afforded us not to have to live without

609
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 3: lights and shit like that, which a lot of people

610
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 3: didn't grow up like that, right, So I realize now

611
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 3: from talking to my oldest sister that now our generation

612
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 3: got to take it to the next level. It's not

613
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 3: going to all happen within one generation.

614
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: They're right.

615
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 3: So you feeling this burnout in this one generation. What

616
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 3: you're doing is just so the next generation because it's

617
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 3: a marathon, so the next generation can take the torch

618
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 3: and keep running. So maybe we are we not doing

619
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 3: enough because you know, older generations might think we're lazy.

620
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:30,240
Speaker 3: The baby boomers might think our generation is actually lazy.

621
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 4: How how can we how?

622
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: I don't know?

623
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,399
Speaker 3: Because they had like five six kids in the house,

624
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 3: they work two jobs apiece.

625
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: They did a lot that we just be like, nah, man,

626
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:47,800
Speaker 1: I need a soft life.

627
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 3: Like we are leaning more towards like less work making

628
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 3: maximum money. Yeah right, we're trying to figure out ways

629
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 3: where we can have a life of leisure versus work,

630
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 3: work work hard, like my house?

631
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: What am I?

632
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 4: How sorry to interrupew but with how it is now,

633
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 4: you can't even afford five kids. You can't afford to

634
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 4: feed five kids?

635
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 1: Where did it go? Where?

636
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 3: I mean they really they really couldn't afford to feed

637
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 3: five kids back then? But that is how you build legacy.

638
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 3: That is how you build generational wealth through family and

639
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 3: it and it starts with that big family and then

640
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 3: they branch off and everybody.

641
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: Do their thing. But food.

642
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 3: We not even have enough kids or family to even

643
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,439
Speaker 3: we're trying to build black We're trying to do black

644
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 3: excellence and build black generation as single people. Yeah, that's

645
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 3: why you feel burnout. You're supposed to have a partner.

646
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: I agree that part.

647
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 4: So it's not that they didn't have the money. Follows kids.

648
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 4: Either my grandmother or my my daddy's side had eleven kids.

649
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 4: My mom and my mom's side has seven.

650
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: A lot of people.

651
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 4: Your grandma had eleven kids. Yes, they was fucking out

652
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 4: of both pains.

653
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 1: And.

654
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 3: One basically adopted from within the family. She raised somebody

655
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 3: another family member's kid.

656
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 4: Well, just think about how much it costs how much

657
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 4: it costs to feed that many people versus how much

658
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 4: it costs today to feed that many people. I mean,

659
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 4: I always talk to my dad, and my dad would

660
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 4: always say he did a little bit of everything to

661
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 4: help feed his family.

662
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Because it then starts falling

663
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 3: on the children. That's another part why we can't just

664
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 3: be having a whole bunch of kids, because yeah, you

665
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 3: can't take care of take care of all these children,

666
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 3: and it causes trauma for these people when they become adults.

667
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 1: And these kids don't want to help. These kids today

668
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: don't want to help. Hell don't know.

669
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 3: Like we got a black owned restaurant. We got a

670
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 3: family restaurant in Charleston, soul for restaurant, and my cousins

671
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 3: and these are not these are our old accounts.

672
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:56,399
Speaker 1: Cousins.

673
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 3: They like in a sixties now lay fifties sixties. They

674
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 3: are so broke up in there. Everybody got a back

675
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 3: brace on their kids. Do not want to work in there.

676
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 3: I worked in there two days last year and I

677
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 3: had to go to the fucking chiropractor afterwards. Walking on

678
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 3: that concrete hard floor trying not to slip in a

679
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 3: restaurant all day long for two days killed my back.

680
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: So imagine I'm now having doing that shit. That restaurant

681
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:25,439
Speaker 3: has been opened basically since I've been alive so forty

682
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 3: years plus, and.

683
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: They're like, I see your back, and you want me

684
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: to come in here? And when so like my little

685
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: cousin's like they figuring out.

686
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 3: I think one of them working there like and she

687
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 3: kind of kind of is the only one keeping things going.

688
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 3: But they don't want to do it. They don't want

689
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 3: to they don't want to work that hard. It's hard work.

690
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,360
Speaker 3: So I kind of understand how the older generation. I

691
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 3: know for a fact, like some of the problems that

692
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 3: my mom was having is because I'd be happy even

693
00:37:56,040 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 3: when shit fucked up. I'm happy and I don't want

694
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 3: to do the most every day. I don't want to

695
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 3: work hard.

696
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is not like.

697
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 3: Where I find joy and fucking working real hard and

698
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 3: then period once it is like.

699
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 1: Who wants to work? You know, I don't want to work.

700
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: I work because I have to. I want to do

701
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: this so that like, if I can't have it my way,

702
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: I would marry rich, start a.

703
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 4: Some type of charity, build a charity where I give

704
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 4: back to my community and do pilates and then do

705
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 4: my podcast because I enjoy doing this.

706
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 3: But do you see Nourra, you know Nora on social media,

707
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 3: that's real pretty model. Yeah, so she'd be cooking her

708
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 3: food in her family. She's pregnant right now with a

709
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 3: fifth or sixth child. All since twenty twenty, Yes, since

710
00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 3: twenty twenty she fucking these babies out, okay, and she

711
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 3: cooks on the internet for a living and then she models.

712
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 3: You know, so you gotta find your niche. If you

713
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 3: don't want to do you don't have to go too

714
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 3: hard in life.

715
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 1: That's what we're gonna do. Hey.

716
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 3: So you know, black women are always saying how we

717
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,800
Speaker 3: got like all these degrees, but we also then carry

718
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 3: a lot of debt that we are single in trying

719
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 3: to pay off by ourselves. And this is striving for

720
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 3: black excellence and greatness. A lot of people got degrees

721
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 3: that they're not using. You are not working in the

722
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,359
Speaker 3: in the field that you acquired this degree for, right,

723
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 3: But your mama didn't go to college, your daddy didn't

724
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 3: go to college. So now you've become a professional student

725
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 3: with hell of student loans and you working have Horizon.

726
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 3: Oh you could be a manager up there, you know,

727
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 3: because they be busting them checks at Horizon. You know,

728
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 3: you might have you might've hit the little sick figure threshold,

729
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 3: but it's still not enough. So now you got to

730
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 3: do a side hustle, and you got to do social media.

731
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,280
Speaker 3: If you're own a business, you got to do social

732
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 3: media too.

733
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 4: You know, like it is content creator. Now you' door

734
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 4: dashing food and you work a full time job and

735
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 4: you a mom.

736
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 3: To keep up with all the things. So the other

737
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 3: part of black excellence is materialism. So this is why

738
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 3: I was talking about Dan Dashing what Charlemagne said to him,

739
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 3: because I know Charlemagne is not a materialistic person. Yeah,

740
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 3: that nigga still got that old ass. Is it an

741
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 3: aviator or a navigator? Like I don't know if it

742
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 3: just keeps him humble or whatever, because he obviously got

743
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 3: other vehicles, right, and maybe he's gotten rid of it,

744
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:45,399
Speaker 3: but I know I've seen that shit in the last

745
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 3: few years, his old ass navigator. Okay, they're still run fine, right,

746
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 3: But you got Damn Dash who I remember. I don't

747
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 3: know who it was talking about him, but how when

748
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 3: Damed was at the height of his career and how

749
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 3: they went to his Manhattan. I think it was Cameron

750
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 3: was saying, like the lavish shit that deemed Dash had

751
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 3: in his home, right, So you were living outside your

752
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 3: means at that time. Yeah, so you're you're talking to

753
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 3: black people.

754
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 4: We are flashy people in general, Like we love nice things,

755
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 4: we like to look good, we like to clean up.

756
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 1: You know.

757
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 4: I mean, I think that's something that's just rooted in

758
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 4: us since before we came over here, if we did

759
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 4: come over here, you know, m hm.

760
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 3: Over this weekend, I was in a restaurant here in Charleston,

761
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 3: and I saw one of the guys came from the

762
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 3: back of the kitchen, because y'all here, and it's probably

763
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 3: in most places, the niggas is always in the kitchen, okay,

764
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 3: and then all the white folks as waiters and greeters

765
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 3: and all that stuff. So this guy came from the

766
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,919
Speaker 3: back of the kitchen, and he has so many gold

767
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 3: teeth in his mouth, and I'm like, you working in

768
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 3: the kitchen in a restaurant with gold teeth in your.

769
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 4: Mouths screams insecurity to me, what do you mean?

770
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Just holding on to that thing.

771
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 3: I think a lot of black people are more insecure

772
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 3: than anything, mh. Right, So you hold onto all this

773
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 3: stuff because you aren't. You're not financially secure. A lot

774
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 3: of black folks, a lot of us are not financially secure, right.

775
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 3: So you pack on the labels and all these things

776
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 3: to make you look like you're wearing you're trying to

777
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 3: wear your money essentially, right, as opposed to just fucking

778
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 3: buckling down and hustling. And you don't don't, don't buy

779
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 3: none of this bullshit. Don't spend twelve hundred dollars on

780
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 3: a bag, right, You could have done something completely different

781
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 3: with that money. But not only you do, you have

782
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 3: to do it to look good for other black people.

783
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 3: You got to make sure everybody on Instagram know you

784
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 3: got this ship too, and you're putting this shit on.

785
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 3: So materialism is also keeping us in a constant state

786
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 3: of having a.

787
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:54,919
Speaker 1: Keep keep up with the jones.

788
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 3: That is a part of black excellence, right, looking looking

789
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 3: like money when you don't have any You don't have

790
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 3: no life insurance, y'all, I'll got life insurance. I ain't

791
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 3: talking about nobody. I just recently, after going to my

792
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 3: friend's funeral, literally yesterday, I'm like, And this is not

793
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 3: because I always think about I need to get life insurance.

794
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 3: I want a whole life insurance policy because I understand

795
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 3: how you can also use that to build wealth. Well, yeah, yeah,

796
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 3: I gotta give me a policy before the year out.

797
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, you don't have life insurance, but you got

798
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 3: this bag. You know, healthcare party lapse, but you got

799
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 3: this bag. Insurance laps got this bag.

800
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 1: Your back tooth need to come out, but you got it. Oag.

801
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 1: You don't have a side tooth, but you got this bag.

802
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 4: Listen, I'll kill somebody excellence side to missing. I'll do

803
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 4: whatever it takes to get that tooth bad. Whatever it

804
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 4: take gets donate blood plasma. I'm selling bags cheese. I'm

805
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 4: not walking around without my tooth.

806
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 3: Black excellence is having a side tooth. I'm set in

807
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 3: the standard today. Okay, nothing else.

808
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 4: Don't forget the side too. Go to the Dennist, y'all.

809
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 4: Go that yellow stuff on the bottom.

810
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: Look in the mirror right now. If you got yellow

811
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: shit caked up on the bottom of your teeth, go

812
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,320
Speaker 1: get that cleaned off. Callus.

813
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 4: Will it make you feel better? But that shit can

814
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 4: also cause health issues. You can die future, yeah, and

815
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 4: it can kill you. Get that shit out your mouth

816
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:38,919
Speaker 4: right now, and it don't cost that much. That makes

817
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 4: me so mad when I see people, beautiful black people

818
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 4: walking around with calcified plaque on their teeth.

819
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: Go get that cleaned. You literally can go on groupon.

820
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 3: Because before I didn't have insurance, I would always get

821
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 3: my cleanings off groupon I'll go to a different dentist

822
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 3: every six months. Fifty dollars, sixty dollars. I don't even

823
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 3: know x Ray, I'm good. Just clean my tee, clean

824
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,240
Speaker 3: my teeth fifty.

825
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 4: If you're at that place where it's like Calcifi, you

826
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 4: need to get a deep cleaning because they need to

827
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 4: go beneath your gun line at this point, because the

828
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,439
Speaker 4: shit living under there to at this point.

829
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 3: So well, while y'all getting care credit for some ass,

830
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 3: get some care credit about them gums. Yeah, and then

831
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:25,879
Speaker 3: stop putting the veneers on top of unhealed gum disease.

832
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 4: Because listen, they'll take your money and do that to you,

833
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 4: but that's not gonna be healthy down the line. And

834
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 4: then once your your gums are all eroded and now

835
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 4: the Veneer's not staying on. Now you got fucking vampire

836
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:43,280
Speaker 4: teeth because they don't file your teeth down the nubs.

837
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: That shit just ooh, it pissed me off.

838
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 3: You know, coming from a like a working in a

839
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 3: corporate world, you always almost always end up being the

840
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 3: only black person. A lot of times, I think the

841
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 3: company I used to work for feel like I was

842
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 3: the only person who got laid off because I was young,

843
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 3: black with no kids. Okay, I'm I'm trying to get

844
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 3: in positions to where I can afford some fucking kids,

845
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:14,760
Speaker 3: and y'all fire me because y'all got kids. Basically, everybody

846
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,720
Speaker 3: else has more at stake, right if they lose their jobs.

847
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 3: So you just figure I can just go and start

848
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 3: to fuck over someplace else. But I don't think I

849
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 3: ever walk into a place or room. I'm always myself.

850
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 3: I never feel like I don't belong someplace. I never

851
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: have what it's the little syndrome. They call it imposter syndrome,

852
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 3: imposter I don't ever have impostership syndrome. I think a

853
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 3: lot of black people also suffer from imposter syndrome. They

854
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 3: don't think that they belong in these spaces. You absolutely do.

855
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 3: That's why you're there, right, So fuck even just a

856
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 3: company have trying to have like diversity. Whatever we put

857
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 3: our minds to, oftentimes we excel, right, And that's why

858
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 3: they always change the game once we learn it, right,

859
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 3: They got a change in because we're gonna take we

860
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 3: gonna we're gonna shoot that ship through the roof every time.

861
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: I agree.

862
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 3: But that's that thing about running in place, though, So

863
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 3: we strive to achieve all these things and literally still

864
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,840
Speaker 3: running in place. And I think if we are having

865
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 3: like black excellence burnout, it goes back to my initial

866
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 3: point was that you're not gonna achieve all the things

867
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 3: in this for this in this generation, right, so maybe

868
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 3: try doing the least. Let's talk of a let's talk

869
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 3: of an eight hour sleep challenge.

870
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 4: Now that's now you. Now you're talking my language, bitch.

871
00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 4: An eight hour sleep challenge sounds good because sometimes, excuse me, y' all,

872
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 4: sometimes you can't get your mind to stop. M Like

873
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 4: you're laying in the bed and all you want to

874
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 4: do is go to sleep, but your mind just keep

875
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 4: thinking about it, I gotta do this, I gotta do that,

876
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 4: or I gotta do this, or what did she say?

877
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 1: Or what time was that?

878
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 4: Or just always something and your mind just don't ever

879
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 4: want to shut down. And sometimes you have to like

880
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 4: even medicate just to go to sleep.

881
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 1: Mhm m.

882
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 3: So it's that's all chronic anxiety, that's all Black striving

883
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 3: for Black excellence will lead you to chronic anxiety. Thinking

884
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 3: that you're not enough, think you gotta do this, thinking

885
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 3: this person is just comparison is the dream killer. For sure,

886
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 3: this person is doing more. You're not doing enough, man.

887
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:39,319
Speaker 4: And nothing all that nothing aided in that more than

888
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:44,360
Speaker 4: social media. Social media will have you comparing yourself to

889
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 4: other people that you should You're the only person that

890
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 4: you should be comparing yourself to is yesterday's version of you.

891
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 1: That's it. That's it.

892
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 3: And like the small wins, you got to celebrate them

893
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 3: small wins every day, right, So like, like I procrastinate

894
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 3: a lot. If I write down a list of five

895
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 3: things and I get two things down on that list, bitch,

896
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,879
Speaker 3: I won the day. Out give that when nobody says.

897
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: I won the day.

898
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 3: And that's really got how you got to look at it,

899
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 3: because it's not about the instant gratification. It is the

900
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,760
Speaker 3: build up to the thing, right as day, small daily

901
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 3: doses of improvement.

902
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: That will always get you to the goal.

903
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 3: Right, so you don't have to do all the things

904
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 3: like people like man, everybody you got the same twenty

905
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 3: four I got.

906
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 1: Fuck sleep.

907
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 3: You sleep when you're dead. You're gonna die from lack

908
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 3: of sleep. One thing I'm gonna do is get my

909
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 3: rest And even I don't really get RESTful night's sleep

910
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 3: because again, the brain do be going, but I get

911
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 3: into bed and I rest my body. So even if

912
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 3: I don't actually go to sleep so really late, I'm

913
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 3: comfortable in the evenings, I'm laying the fuck down.

914
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: Try it sometimes.

915
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 4: And another thing is the space that you're sleeping in

916
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 4: at the very least, make it cozy, Make it cozy,

917
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 4: Bring clean that shit up, get rid of that clutter

918
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 4: in your space, because nothing is better than sleeping in

919
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 4: some freshly clean sheets in a room that feels like

920
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 4: a sanctuary to you. So whatever it takes to make

921
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 4: your space. You can let the whole house be chaos,

922
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 4: but where you lay your head, make that space a sanctuary.

923
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 3: My problem is I will leave dishes in the sink,

924
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 3: and I'll be laying in that sanctuary, like you think

925
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 3: about that dish that sink.

926
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 1: Yes, clutter.

927
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 3: When you have a lot of clutter in your home,

928
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 3: that is how your mind is. My second room is

929
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 3: full of so much shit, Okay, things I want to

930
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 3: get rid of, and I'm like, i'ma just go in

931
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 3: there and I'm gonna just throw all that shit in

932
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 3: the trash. Fuck it right, And that is how I'm

933
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,879
Speaker 3: gonna start a new brain, a new way of thinking.

934
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 3: Because it's like those things are in my way. They're

935
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,839
Speaker 3: in my way mentally, not physically in my way because

936
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 3: I can close the door, right, but they're in my

937
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 3: way because they live rent free in my brain. Yeah right,

938
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 3: So I feel like I can't get to the next

939
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 3: thing until I do this thing.

940
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: But just chip away at it. Every day. I'm obviously

941
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:17,959
Speaker 1: shitting way today.

942
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 4: I hoard the clothes I closed so bad. And the

943
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,240
Speaker 4: only time I really throw away shit is when I'm moving.

944
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 4: And then I'll be like, I ain't order this shit

945
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 4: in sixteen years.

946
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 1: Let me throw it out. Let me get ready to

947
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:33,760
Speaker 1: get tired and just start throwing all that in the trash.

948
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:37,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, but until then, my mind gives me a reason

949
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 4: why I need this skirt from.

950
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 3: I'm gonna lose ten pounds and I'm gonna get back

951
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 3: into this.

952
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,240
Speaker 4: I got so many jeans, bitch, I don't wear jeans

953
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 4: because I'm tied in my eye. I'd be so uncomfortable

954
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 4: in jeans, walking around jeans with no stretch. I still

955
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 4: have some Listen, I've been My shit right now is

956
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:57,359
Speaker 4: baggy jeans. And let me tell y'all where to go get.

957
00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 4: I know this off topic a little bit. But y'all

958
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 4: go to air Apostle.

959
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they got the good jeens.

960
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:08,959
Speaker 4: Girl, I got me some baggae jeans. Now, you gotta

961
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 4: probably go up two sizes to get them to be

962
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 4: baggy how you want it? American evil too, Yeah, I

963
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 4: was about to say American neighborhood.

964
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 1: Yeah h but yeah, okay, okay.

965
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but yeah, I think definitely materialism, and in

966
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:33,279
Speaker 3: comparison with social media, is making people strive more and

967
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 3: more for these unrealistic uh goals. And I'm not saying

968
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:41,400
Speaker 3: everybody can't listen. Everybody's told strive to do the best

969
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 3: they can do. But if your best is a house,

970
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 3: a car, and a job and your family, like, that's

971
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 3: your best. And it's okay because guess what. Those people

972
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 3: on the internet, a lot of them are in super

973
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 3: duper debt, which causes restless nights. You know, so it

974
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 3: looks good online, but you really don't know how these

975
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 3: people are living in real life. A lot of these

976
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 3: content creators are living together.

977
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: Let's be clear.

978
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 3: They live in the content creator house created in California

979
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,040
Speaker 3: and Calabasas, where they're not even paying no damn rent,

980
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:17,240
Speaker 3: and they are selling you a lifestyle.

981
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: They really don't have.

982
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 3: Just be careful what you consuming man physically, emotionally.

983
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 4: Mentally, and I all think all the things social media definitely,

984
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 4: what have you thinking? You're not good enough if you allow.

985
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 3: And that you're not doing enough. Yeah, and you are

986
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 3: doing enough. You are doing enough, right.

987
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: You know. I'm about to make some macha. That is good.

988
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 3: It's some days I don't got time to eat. At

989
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:45,959
Speaker 3: least I can make me some macha today.

990
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: That is a win.

991
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,240
Speaker 4: But you gotta prioritize eating, Ashley.

992
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 1: I gotta prioritize eating more protein.

993
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:54,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

994
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 3: Also, like that's the main thing right A lot of

995
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 3: my I don't begin enough protein.

996
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: I really don't like.

997
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 3: What if I should be like super skinny right now, bitch,

998
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 3: because but I don't get enough nutrients right now. I

999
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 3: haven't been for a few months now, and it's just hard.

1000
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,360
Speaker 3: It's hard to get the meals in right now. I

1001
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,360
Speaker 3: might need to do me some meal preps on Sunday.

1002
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 1: Why don't you do protein shakes?

1003
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 3: I do protein bars sometimes, and I do I do

1004
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 3: do protein shakes, not consistent enough, especially if I don't

1005
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,240
Speaker 3: work out. I usually don't drink a protein shake.

1006
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 4: And listen, y'all, because people think they're getting enough protein.

1007
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 4: You need a grammar protein per pound of your body.

1008
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 4: So if you're one hundred and fifty pounds, you need

1009
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 4: one hundred and fifty grams of protein.

1010
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: Every day. We get a fraction of that.

1011
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:43,440
Speaker 4: We think we eat some chicken at lunch and a

1012
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 4: little tuna at dinner and we've gotten enough protein for

1013
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 4: the day.

1014
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:48,319
Speaker 1: And it's just a fraction of what you need.

1015
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 3: So yep, look, this thing says. Back in the day,

1016
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 3: excellence was a Cadillac in the driveway. Now it's a

1017
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 3: Tesla and a TikTok of you plugging it in.

1018
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 4: Not only do you have to have the Tesla, the

1019
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 4: niggas got to see you plug it up, okay, because

1020
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 4: if nobody.

1021
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 1: Sees you do it, it's not real. You don't have

1022
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: it for real.

1023
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 3: I'm glad. I'm so glad that I am me, and

1024
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 3: I don't care about none of that shit. I don't

1025
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 3: be trying to impress people in that way. Never did,

1026
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 3: never have I make the clothes. The clothes don't make me.

1027
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 3: I don't need none of the stuff, you know what

1028
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 3: I'm saying. I like experiences. I want to be able

1029
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,240
Speaker 3: to take all my friends and family on vacation.

1030
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 1: That is goals for me. I ain't gonna lie.

1031
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 4: I like me some stuff, but I love an experience too.

1032
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 4: I'll prioritize the experience over stuff. But if I can

1033
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 4: have both simultaneously, I will. I ain't gonna hold.

1034
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 1: It, but I am period. But I ain't gonna kill

1035
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: myself to get it though. That's the thing.

1036
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna make myself sick to get it. And

1037
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,359
Speaker 4: I just think I'll find if I'm finding fashion over

1038
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:03,320
Speaker 4: or channel, it don't matter, you know, period.

1039
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 3: So to the elders, excellence meant like sacrifice forty years

1040
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:16,280
Speaker 3: at one job, minimal vacations, work ethic was their identity essentially,

1041
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,760
Speaker 3: And you don't rest because you didn't you didn't earn rest.

1042
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: Like now we be going on vacation, like you need

1043
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: a vacation.

1044
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 3: Even if I never feel like I don't deserve a vacation,

1045
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:31,400
Speaker 3: even if I don't work nowhere, I always deserve a vacation.

1046
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:35,799
Speaker 3: And it's fucking hard walking around being a human. If

1047
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 3: I can go someplace and like just lay down and

1048
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 3: I have to think about what I'm gonna eat, what

1049
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do just chill, relaxed, like I don't want

1050
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:43,360
Speaker 3: to go on vacation with.

1051
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: People who got an itinerary.

1052
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:46,800
Speaker 4: Or I'm just about to say, some people be ruling

1053
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:50,959
Speaker 4: a vacation because they want you to stick to this itinerary. Okay,

1054
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:53,279
Speaker 4: by six we're gonna get up at six am to

1055
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:54,720
Speaker 4: go to an excursion.

1056
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 3: On vacation fuck you, I mean vacation after the vacation

1057
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 3: with them two much let's just flow.

1058
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1059
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 3: And so for millennials, we're like the pioneers of burnout

1060
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 3: and we ain't with that shit no more. So we

1061
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 3: are the first generation of people saying loudly, this is

1062
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 3: not sustainable. We do therapy, we do a lot of

1063
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 3: self care, and we about the motherfucking soft life. Also, right,

1064
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 3: we do do a lot of hustling because I mean,

1065
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 3: this life, you just have to have a lot of

1066
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 3: different things going on.

1067
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 1: To afford to actually breathe.

1068
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 3: And it's is just the basic necessities, right, what we

1069
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 3: see on social media a lot of times, it's like

1070
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 3: the extras, right that everybody also wants. You know, you

1071
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 3: don't just want the house, you want the big ass

1072
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 3: Mercedes in the driveway. Day one, you got to work

1073
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 3: up to those things. And it's not going to happen overnight,

1074
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 3: but it could happen in your generation. And then the

1075
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 3: gen zs now. I got a problem with gen Z's

1076
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 3: a little bit. Gen Zs are our nieces. Okay this,

1077
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 3: I got one gen Z niece and I'm not I can't.

1078
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 3: I don't know what the next two youngest under her,

1079
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 3: what generation they are, but something happened with them gen Zs.

1080
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 3: The millennials screw the gen zs up. And see this

1081
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 3: is where we got to take into consideration with the

1082
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 3: baby boomers. Our elders were saying, right, so now you

1083
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 3: you're working super hard, millennial, you're sending your kids to

1084
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 3: prom looking like they come from a home with two

1085
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 3: parents who are fucking doctors and lawyers and attorneys, right,

1086
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 3: everybody just looking like money, pulling up in a maserati

1087
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 3: and all this stuff. And now they're spoiled and they're slow.

1088
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Speaker 3: They don't have any life skills, right, they don't know

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Speaker 3: their password to their damn email, but they have sex,

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Speaker 3: and they just being just.

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Speaker 1: Slow and retarded. I remember one.

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Speaker 3: Day, I love you so much, niece. If you're listening,

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Speaker 3: I remember one day this girl came from outside. Right,

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Speaker 3: she had already been out the house that day.

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Speaker 1: I hadn't been.

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Speaker 3: She came in my room and said, what's the temperate job?

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Speaker 3: So I had to feel outside to day? I said,

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Speaker 3: weren't you out there? Weren't you out there? I haven't

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Speaker 3: been outside? Why are you don't remember what it felt like?

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Speaker 1: I gotta guide you to that too, right? And then

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Speaker 1: you have Google on your phone?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 1: Yes, Google it? Did you see that.

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00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 4: Video of the dad gave his son the end of

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Speaker 4: the measuring tape and then he started to dare and

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Speaker 4: walked with him and he followed him.

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Speaker 1: Baby.

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Speaker 4: I was like, and that's really a clear depiction of

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Speaker 4: what's going on with our gen zers, and it's our

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Speaker 4: fall because I just think that we wanted to give

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Speaker 4: them a soft life, a life that we didn't have

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Speaker 4: growing up, and in that we have weaken them.

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Speaker 3: They Okay, So the thing is that they're a little

1114
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 3: They have a lot of strengths that we don't have, right,

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Speaker 3: because I feel like they are more of the freelancers,

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Speaker 3: They are more a little bit more entrepreneurial. Yes, they

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Speaker 3: the social media shit, They're gonna take that to the max.

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Speaker 3: So they may have to do the least. I got

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Speaker 3: a couple homegirls who daughters are like the social media girlies,

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. They got there two hundred

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Speaker 3: thousand followers and stuff like that, like just making lifestyle content, right,

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Speaker 3: and they've been living on their own since they was

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Speaker 3: eighteen doing this shit right, you know, buying houses. So

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Speaker 3: it's it's just just different, right, So I don't think

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Speaker 3: that's lazy, though our our parents would call that lazy

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Speaker 3: because they're not working for someone else. Guess stupid period,

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Speaker 3: as long as they get money. So this actually says, uh,

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Speaker 3: gen Z's they boldly. They're boldly rejecting grind culture. They're

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Speaker 3: choosing joy, They're freelancing, and uh have unapologetic boundaries. Okay,

1130
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Speaker 3: they really about themselves. They are kind of selfish. I'll

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Speaker 3: say that gen Z kids are kind of selfish and

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Speaker 3: there no looks like rebellion, but it's really liberation. No,

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Speaker 3: it's a complete statement, all right. My mom calls me

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Speaker 3: selfish because I know how to tell people. No, I

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Speaker 3: just I'm not just I'm not into doing things I

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01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 3: don't feel like doing anymore. I have over extended myself

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Speaker 3: a lot in life and so now, yeah, I had

1138
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 3: to learn that Noah was a complete sentence. I had

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01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 3: to start talking myself because you'll overextend yourself to people

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Speaker 3: and there's no reward for it.

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Speaker 1: There's no extreme thank you. You just burnt in the

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Speaker 1: name of other people.

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Speaker 3: Right, So this says Grandma worked forty years straight with

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Speaker 3: one vacation to Atlantic City.

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Speaker 1: Meanwhile gen Z wants.

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Speaker 3: What a sabbatical? Sabbatical after a stressful zoom call, like

1147
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 3: you want to quit?

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01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: Yes, for sure?

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Speaker 3: And then the boomers take self care is like a

1150
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 3: self care is like a bubble bath, while gen Z

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Speaker 3: thinks it's quitting your job and moving to Costa Rica.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like that as a millennial. Great,

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Speaker 3: fuck these jobs. Let me tell y'all, these people will

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Speaker 3: replace you. You gonna go so hard for this corporation,

1155
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 3: climb this corporate ladder for them to either fire you

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Speaker 3: one or you die, and then they replace you the

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Speaker 3: next year. The next day they'll have somebody else you

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Speaker 3: in place. So I am more loyal to the people

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Speaker 3: I have to work with. I'm never loyal to a

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Speaker 3: company because they are not loyal to your ass whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: Oughts in prayers thoughts and prayers.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, so, yeah, I don't know. I think our generation

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Speaker 3: we definitely rest in a little bit more. We're trying

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Speaker 3: to figure out ways in which we can actually enjoy living,

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Speaker 3: not having to work forty years and die.

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Speaker 4: It was an old white on a boat in Pair,

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Speaker 4: Italy or something like that, and they was like sleep.

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Speaker 1: There was riding the.

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Speaker 4: I think it was in Paris to see in and

1170
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 4: they would sleep on the boat and they was like,

1171
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 4: don't wait this long to enjoy life.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy it now.

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Speaker 4: You can't even you know, you're not walking as well,

1174
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 4: you can't stay awake, you're not even really getting experienced

1175
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 4: because you've worked for years, so you could go do this, no,

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Speaker 4: do that shit now doing now? Fuck them bills. I

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Speaker 4: think that's what millennials are also good at. We're good

1178
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Speaker 4: at fuck them bills. Is people staying live though, That's

1179
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Speaker 4: what I wouldn't know. Somebody need to talk on I'm

1180
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 4: still alive. I don't know the bills. I don't know, man,

1181
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 4: I don't know how we're doing it.

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01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 3: And you know, I always argue with the boomers, right,

1183
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 3: y'all ain't have the y'all don't have our bills. No,

1184
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 3: even if you have a home right now, you're still

1185
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 3: not paying We paying for a new house. Okay, So

1186
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 3: shot the fuck up talking to us about working hard.

1187
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 1: We are barely living. They are like lottery ticket.

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01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 3: We I don't know how we're doing it, but we

1189
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 3: make it look good, yeal media, We make it look

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Speaker 3: real good. But take care of y'allself.

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01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 1: Yes, please take care of yourself. Take care of y'allself.

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01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 4: Listen, man, I I'm about to I'm about to get

1193
01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:33,840
Speaker 4: heavy back on my uh my option trading. That is

1194
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 4: the highest paying job in the world, y'all is to

1195
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 4: learn the fucking stock market. So you got to get

1196
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 4: into that, man, So you don't have to work multiple jobs.

1197
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:46,959
Speaker 3: Plus have an Amazon storefront, plus have a TikTok plus

1198
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 3: plus plus plus plus. But that's really what AI is

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01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:53,640
Speaker 3: taking us though. It's taking us like computers and robots

1200
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 3: are going to take over.

1201
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: So you are the product.

1202
01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 3: You have to find a way to sell yourself to

1203
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 3: the masses to make money in the near future because

1204
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 3: these jobs, a lot of them, are coming to an end. Banking, financial,

1205
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 3: all that shit is changing. So we might need to

1206
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 3: get with the gen z's not even their generation. I

1207
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 3: feel like my niece don't know shit about no computer.

1208
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 3: What is the generation under gen Z?

1209
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 1: Who's that? They?

1210
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 4: Like?

1211
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 1: Early twenties right now? Oh? Is a generation gen Z?

1212
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 4: Is it?

1213
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 1: Not? Its gen Z?

1214
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 4: Like the last generation that's living. There's babies, they're not

1215
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:38,720
Speaker 4: gen Z. Still, No, the generations don't last that long,

1216
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 4: do they. Let's look at it right quick?

1217
01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 1: Forty years? Oh, let's see. Okay, So.

1218
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Speaker 3: So generation beta, Oh, beginning twenty twenty five is generation Beta?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Generation Alpha is born twenty thirteen to twenty fourteen. Gen

1221
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:05,600
Speaker 3: Z is nineteen ninety seven to twenty twelve. Then millennials

1222
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:13,960
Speaker 3: nineteen eighty one to nineteen ninety six. Two years, yeah, no, thirteen,

1223
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:18,680
Speaker 3: twenty thirteen to twenty twenty four Oh okay, yeah, and

1224
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 3: then this current generation is the beta?

1225
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:24,280
Speaker 1: Is that starting? Like? What does that mean? Beta?

1226
01:06:24,760 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 3: It's like a new beginning. So when we talk about

1227
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 3: a new earth, beta is like testing, right, So think

1228
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 3: about COVID and all the things that they did, these injections,

1229
01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 3: all this shit. What why are these babies called betas? Interesting?

1230
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 1: The beta generation? The betas they tested a new world

1231
01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 1: order on the ass exactly.

1232
01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 3: That's when that's exactly where I'm going at Anyway, y'all

1233
01:06:53,680 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 3: challenge eight hours of sleep? Piccka day, picka day, every day.

1234
01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 3: Everybody can't get it every single day.

1235
01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 1: I know.

1236
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 3: Let's we can for a challenge for a whole week,

1237
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 3: whole week eight hour I just think that's not feasible

1238
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 3: for a lot of people because a lot of people

1239
01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 3: are working two jobs doing a bunch of different things.

1240
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 3: So and we can do two days out the week.

1241
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 3: Can y'all get sixteen? Can y'all get eight hours.

1242
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 1: Two days this week? Right?

1243
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:25,440
Speaker 4: I'm gonna try hit us, Yeah, hit us up if

1244
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:28,280
Speaker 4: you were able to achieve a real RESTful like you

1245
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 4: go to sleep at eight at ten o'clock by ten,

1246
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 4: we want to sleep at ten o'clock and we waking

1247
01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 4: up at six.

1248
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 3: That's the millionaire's time, Okay, millionaires be up by five

1249
01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 3: five thirty. You really about this?

1250
01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 4: Black gets you a bottle of Saratoga water. I guess

1251
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 4: it's stick your face in it. If I buy that

1252
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:48,680
Speaker 4: expensive ass water, I'm drinking it. I ain't put my

1253
01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 4: face in it.

1254
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:51,040
Speaker 3: I buy that water all the time I shop at

1255
01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 3: restaurant depot. So it's twenty dollars for the glass bottles for.

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Speaker 1: Twelve of them. Yeah, that's a lot for water, is it?

1257
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 1: Twenty dollars for twelve?

1258
01:08:04,640 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 4: They bought it twelve bottles of aquafita for five dollars.

1259
01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 3: You're you goddamn liver and kidney gonna be so full

1260
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:16,639
Speaker 3: of bullshit and hard metals. Y'all may get them glass

1261
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 3: bottles and stop drinking out that plastic.

1262
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 1: We all going up out of here some way. God

1263
01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 1: damn it? All right, what's your last last that was? It? Gets? Sorry?

1264
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:33,400
Speaker 4: Don't mind protect your piece by setting boundaries, resting when needed,

1265
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 4: getting made hours you can, but if you can't get

1266
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:40,240
Speaker 4: it when you need it, baby, and refueling what truly

1267
01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:41,439
Speaker 4: restores you?

1268
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:47,040
Speaker 3: Because black black excellence is absolutely beautiful, but it should

1269
01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 3: never feel like punishment.

1270
01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 4: And you know who you are listening to the sound

1271
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 4: of my voice. Go get your teeth clean right now,

1272
01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:57,559
Speaker 4: Go make the appointment.

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01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:01,640
Speaker 3: We need to have an episode on that. Like, not

1274
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 3: only the teeth, y'all only be checking on them couchies.

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Speaker 1: What that heart look like right? What that living looking like?

1276
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,679
Speaker 3: When last year you had a full body scan, check

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01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:17,680
Speaker 3: your your vitamin D levels and all your Oh that's

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Speaker 3: another challenge.

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Speaker 1: Man your prostate. I really want to get this guy on. Andre.

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01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 1: Let's talk about the man that hit super close to home.

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Speaker 3: All Right, y'all, Black Excellence, this podcast is we on

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01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 3: Black Effect, which is Black excellence. Okay, this is the

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01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 3: only black own podcast network. Really, Black Effect is the

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01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:43,679
Speaker 3: only podcast network as far as I'm concerned, period. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So this is Black Excellence, and it's a lot of

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Speaker 3: black women that work a roun o'clock to keep this

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Speaker 3: thing going.

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Speaker 1: Okay, out to yeah, shout out to all the black

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Speaker 1: women at Black Effect.

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Speaker 4: And we five years strong, y'all. Five years. We just

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Speaker 4: celebrated five years absolutely.

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Speaker 3: All right, Y'allso if you enjoyed this episode of Black Excellence,

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Speaker 3: y'all tune in every Thursday on the Black Effect. iHeartRadio

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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening and celebrating five years of the Black

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Speaker 2: five years are about to be even