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Speaker 1: The Frend Show is on. It's stay or go. All right,

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Speaker 1: I've been here. Good morning, I even welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 2: Thank Good morning? I'm going all right?

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Speaker 3: I mean, what's going on with your girlfriend? Little group

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Speaker 3: therapy here, Let's let's hear about it, and then we're

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Speaker 3: gonna talk about you behind your back?

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Speaker 1: Great? Yeah, I know, exciting, right, aren't you glad you called?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Totally so all right, I'll be honest, nothing like crazy,

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Speaker 2: but I do think it's something that I just need

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Speaker 2: to get other people's advice on people that are like unbiased.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm biased.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm I'm I'm team Ive and I think

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Speaker 3: I haven't heard the story yet, but I feel like

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Speaker 3: I'm team Ivan.

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Speaker 1: But go ahead, please, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: Thanks. So, my girlfriend I have been dating for about

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Speaker 2: five years now. We both met out of college, and

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Speaker 2: we both did the bartending things until we met. So

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Speaker 2: we're both bartending at this just as you know, chet

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Speaker 2: little bar or whatever. But when we were, you know,

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Speaker 2: like I said, fresh out of college, and I always

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Speaker 2: kind of assumed that we would move on to these things.

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Speaker 2: So since then, I've got a new job in finance.

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Speaker 2: You know, started like building up the savings and everything else.

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Speaker 2: And she has been five years now and she's still

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Speaker 2: working for the same same bar. I guess my question

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Speaker 2: is is, like, I'm I've kind of felt that there's

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Speaker 2: separation because I always thought that like that was just

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Speaker 2: a stepping stone job for us both. I mean that's

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Speaker 2: when we first got together. That's just what I assumed.

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Speaker 2: And she's still still working there, and I, yeah, am

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Speaker 2: I crazy for feeling that way?

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Speaker 3: Like, Okay, so you five years ago you met in

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Speaker 3: a bar working there, and you're thinking, Okay, you know,

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Speaker 3: this is what we're doing now until we can get

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Speaker 3: to the next step in our lives, which you have.

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Speaker 1: What have you moved on to do? What are you

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Speaker 1: doing now?

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Speaker 2: So I'm I'm just working in you know, making significantly

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Speaker 2: more money now.

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Speaker 3: So all right, And she's still doing that thing and

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Speaker 3: so at the bar, that thing being serving people during

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Speaker 3: she's the bartender. So you've discussed this with her and

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Speaker 3: she's like, well, no, no, I'm happy, like it is what

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Speaker 3: it is. I make good money and I'm happy and

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Speaker 3: so be it exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like you know, but we want to save

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Speaker 2: for vacations and we want to go and do fun

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Speaker 2: things and you know, kind of like start the next

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Speaker 2: phase of our life. And she's just still kind of

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Speaker 2: just content with.

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Speaker 1: What she does. Okay, but is she making good money?

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Speaker 3: Is my question, because here's the thing I was actually

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Speaker 3: just having this conversation with a professional.

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Speaker 1: Observer.

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Speaker 3: She's worked at a high end restaurant and she makes

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Speaker 3: a fair amount of money doing this, and she's good

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Speaker 3: at it, and she has regular customers. She would be

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Speaker 3: doing it for a long time, and it's a coveted

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Speaker 3: spot in a big time restaurant. I realize it's not

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Speaker 3: necessarily what you're talking about here, but she is making

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Speaker 3: good money, good enough money that she really can't afford

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Speaker 3: to leave it. She would like to leave it, she

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Speaker 3: would like to do something else, but she's making six

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Speaker 3: figures and she can't make six figures necessarily doing whatever

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Speaker 3: it is that she went to college for, whatever she's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she's not. She's definitely not not making

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Speaker 2: more so she does like it, but it's just like

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Speaker 2: I said, I thought this was always kind of like

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Speaker 2: placeholder job for some like bigger aspiration. And that's the

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Speaker 2: thing is, like, really it's not even so much about

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Speaker 2: she's been doing all this time. Like I can't imagine,

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Speaker 3: So well, then I'm sure something similar to what my

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Speaker 3: my family went through with my sister and her husband

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Speaker 3: now is that they met in the ball It's basically

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Speaker 3: the same story, and it wasn't necessarily about the money,

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Speaker 3: a dive bar and he made good money and whatever paid,

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Speaker 3: you know, contributed and all the rest of it. But

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Speaker 3: like he went to work at five pm and came

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Speaker 3: he was up to anything, but that wasn't really sustainable

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Speaker 3: for them, you know, they didn't spend as much time

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Speaker 3: together unless they were working together. You know, that wasn't

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Speaker 3: really the life that she envisioned for them together, having

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Speaker 3: a family and whatever. So he went and got you know,

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Speaker 3: accredited in doing some computer programming stuff, and now he

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Speaker 3: has a nine to five. I think he loves and

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Speaker 3: he's excelling and doing great. But that was up to him,

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Speaker 3: that was his decision to make. It required a little coaxing,

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Speaker 3: but I think he's happy with what he decided to do.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think what it comes down to is,

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you do you love her any less?

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Speaker 3: Do you see any less of a future with her

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Speaker 3: simply because that's the she wants to do.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's kind of yeah, it's kind of a dilemma

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Speaker 2: because you know, we're five years now, Like people are

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Speaker 2: definitely asking about proposal and everything else, and I gotta

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Speaker 2: say that, like, I don't know, I'm a little turned

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Speaker 2: anything else or like, you know, find the next phase

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Speaker 3: So Ivan, you would you would like her to have

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Speaker 3: a job like yours, like that you would think differently

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Speaker 3: of her if she went to sort of a more

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Speaker 2: And honestly, like it doesn't even have to be bad,

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Speaker 2: it just needs to be something new, so like, you know,

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Speaker 2: kind of break the mold. And I don't know, it

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Speaker 2: just feels like we're just like stuck in this like

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Speaker 2: mindless loop of the same thing every you know. So, yeah,

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Speaker 2: something something different, something.

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Speaker 3: Okay, All right, Well let me take some phone calls

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Speaker 3: But I wish you luck Ivan, Thanks eight five one

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Speaker 3: three five. So this dude's girlfriend is pretty contempt being

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Speaker 3: a bartender, and he thought that was just a phase,

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Speaker 3: and she doesn't seem to want to move on from that,

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Speaker 3: and he's wondering, look, is this something. Is this, you know,

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Speaker 3: does she want to challenge herself? I mean, I'm being

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Speaker 3: nice about it. It could also just be he doesn't

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Speaker 3: that has more to do with it than anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, someone takes that and they're basically asking is he

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Speaker 4: more concerned about the title of her job, which I

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Speaker 4: think some people for some reason think bartender is I

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Speaker 4: don't know, but beneath them or something, you know what

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Speaker 5: Is that service industry or a server. But yeah, those

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Speaker 5: people make a lot of money and we need bartender

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Speaker 5: and we need you, honey, We need you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I don't know. I guess I also

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Speaker 3: don't know about her background. I mean, how much is

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Speaker 3: she spent on college? Did she spend on college? As

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Speaker 3: that matter? Is she These are all things I probably

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Speaker 3: should have asked it, But you know, does she have ambition?

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Speaker 3: She's just afraid to take this step?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: But I think he's calling us because maybe a lot

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Speaker 3: of those things are unknown. It's like she just is

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Speaker 6: She got a job, she's got a job for five

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Speaker 6: years now, that's a solid job.

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Speaker 7: Why if she's happy there, if she's content, if she

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Speaker 7: likes a job, why would you make her leave just

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Speaker 7: because she's a bartender?

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Speaker 6: And that's not up to your standards anymore.

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Speaker 7: I mean, this guy's just assuming that she wants to

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Speaker 7: do something else with her life.

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Speaker 6: Why why would you do that.

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Speaker 3: If she does and she's not doing it because she's

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Speaker 3: just setting her ways. That's one thing. I don't know

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Speaker 3: if that's a reason to leave somebody, but I mean,

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 5: Think it's about the job.

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Speaker 8: But I could understand if someone doesn't have any other

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Speaker 8: they're like, I'm good, I'm gonna rock with the way

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Speaker 8: like Okay, I want to say the same job, but I,

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Speaker 8: you know, in ten years, want to take this trip,

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Speaker 8: I just feel like, okay, I'm just gonna leave everything

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Speaker 8: I don't care if you're a bartender, but you want

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well that was my issue too with my brother

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Speaker 3: in law. He knows this, I can say it, and

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Speaker 3: he has a different perspective now, but I believe at

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Speaker 3: one point he told my grandfather, hey man, I'm just

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Speaker 3: trying to get by, like that was his mentality. I

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Speaker 3: just want to get by, like I just want to

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Speaker 3: I want to go to work. I want to pay

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Speaker 3: my bills. I just want to get by. And I

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Speaker 3: think that that was concerning for my grandfather because it's like, well,

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Speaker 3: I wish that you had this higher aspiration that you

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Speaker 3: were chasing after, even if you don't accomplish it. I'd

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Speaker 3: rather see you working towards something larger than yourself, or

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Speaker 3: a goal that you have for yourself, or to challenge

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Speaker 3: yourself in some way. That was kind of his point.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't don't bartender. I don't like it, because I mean,

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Speaker 3: who cares? But I also think, you know, more than

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Speaker 3: likely that's a job that will be there forever, and

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Speaker 3: it might be a fulfilling job and a well paying job.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I agree with you you like, maybe be a bartender,

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Speaker 3: but then like you want to be the world's greatest

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Speaker 3: I don't know whatever, Like do you have any sort

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Speaker 3: of side aspiration or project or or interest or hobby

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Speaker 3: or anything. And I think if the answers no, then

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Speaker 3: I can see why that, you know, that's not that exciting,

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Speaker 3: especially if you're working towards something you know larger in

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Speaker 3: your life and career.

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Speaker 1: Julio, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 10: Hi, good morningswer.

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Speaker 3: Sir Jesus, very respectful, Julia, what do you think, Well, I.

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Speaker 11: Think the boyfriend's into finance and she loves that bartending.

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Speaker 1: Why not open their own bar.

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Speaker 11: That way, she's in the scene of the bar and

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Speaker 3: By the way I've heard, the opening a bar is

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Speaker 11: In my opinion, it is stressful. Don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm in the wrong business. Actually, yeah, I think.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going to job bartending. Julio, thank you man,

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Speaker 12: Hey guys, good morning.

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Speaker 3: So this dude's calling us because he's his girlfriend of

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Speaker 1: It's bothering him.

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Speaker 2: But kind of like what was said.

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Speaker 12: I know people who would rather bartend kind of have

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and this sounds like more of a status thing

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Speaker 3: He didn't call up here and say I never get

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Speaker 1: He made it sound like I.

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Speaker 3: Never you know, my girlfriend has no further aspiration than

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Speaker 1: That's basically what I heard him say.

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Speaker 12: I'll do it on the weekend and you know, well,

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: Well if you're bothered.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 12: I just kind of feel like there's there's so many

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Speaker 1: Of the world too.

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Speaker 12: I don't know. Well, you guys, she's making good money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I agree, Thank you, Jennifer. Have a

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Speaker 1: good day, you guys can And there could be more.

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Speaker 3: There could be more here too that he's not telling us.

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Speaker 3: But like if I don't know, maybe she is hesitant

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Speaker 3: is he offering to supplement? Is he saying, hey, take

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Speaker 3: to do, and I'll back you because I have a

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Speaker 3: I mean, there's a lot of things here that he

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Speaker 3: But then again, are you, as her partner encouraging her

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Speaker 3: or are you just complaining?

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Speaker 1: It would be my question.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't care about the job, but I want

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Speaker 3: I agree with that now that I agree with And

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Speaker 3: I don't, I don't I don't want to take that risk.

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Speaker 3: Then are you are you reaching your full potential? And

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Speaker 3: then how are you as her partner helping her to

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Speaker 1: The morning, Hey, good morning, stare Go. What do you think.

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Speaker 13: I think that he should say? But he's afraid because

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Speaker 2: He's like, he's seen.

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Speaker 13: All these people grow because he's a businessman now, you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess, I guess that's true. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: I mean maybe she has that stuff, but a lot

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Speaker 3: not doing it because it's like I don't want to

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Speaker 6: Let's do more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Adria, thank you. Have a good day, Tony. Tony,

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Speaker 1: you say stay, I.

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Speaker 14: Say stay, But it really depends. You know, life is short,

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Speaker 14: and you know you got to find your passion really quickly.

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Speaker 14: So my dad was an artist, a painter, but she

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I was running.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, are you? Are you running a marathon currently?

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Speaker 3: Or like what's going on?

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Speaker 3: But that's amazing because when I run, I can't speak.

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Speaker 3: So that's good that you're able to do both.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yes, you know he needs to find her passion.

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Speaker 1: He wishes with the other thing.

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Speaker 14: She said stay, And you know he needs to be

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Speaker 3: Okay, Tony man like deep breaths and it's like the fibulator,

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Speaker 14: It was it was that last sprint when you guys

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Speaker 3: So sorry you look at this guy. I'm just like,

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Speaker 11: Yes, Hi, how are you hey?

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: So you are a former bartender, so what's your perspective.

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Speaker 15: My perspective is I can honestly agree with him.

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Speaker 12: If they're sitting there.

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Speaker 15: Trying to make light plans right now. They want to

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Speaker 1: They want to go on.

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Speaker 2: Vacations and stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: It's supply and demand.

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Speaker 6: And doing these things.

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Speaker 15: Because if the money's not there, the money's not there

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Speaker 12: So it's really hard.

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Speaker 15: Freedom of your own schedule and everything. That's why I

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Speaker 14: Delivery share food to.

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Speaker 2: Be specific, not to be with people.

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Speaker 15: But I do delivery share on the side now instead

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Speaker 2: Not there sometimes and it's really hard to make those.

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, thank you, Chelsea, have a good day.

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Speaker 3: I will say for all the hard time that you know, Colin,

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Speaker 9: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 3: It's the Fred Show, Evan, good morning, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm doing all right? Okay, all right, No,

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Speaker 3: Evan as well, because the last one that we did,

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Speaker 1: So what do you have for me today? Man? Like,

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Speaker 1: what do you do? Yeah? What? Yeah?

442
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Speaker 6: Right?

443
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Speaker 1: What on earth could you have done?

444
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Speaker 3: And we've done this for long over a decade, and

445
00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:19,320
Speaker 3: we've heard some things about, you know, people doing favors

446
00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:22,520
Speaker 3: to get babysitters and target drug parking lot and deals

447
00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:26,040
Speaker 3: and and uh, you know, people lying about being famous

448
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,679
Speaker 3: and I mean all kinds of stuff. But Evan, I

449
00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,399
Speaker 3: don't know what happened with this woman. Jen tell us

450
00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:32,520
Speaker 3: kind of the backstory.

451
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Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean I definitely don't have any roadent mouth

452
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Speaker 16: to mouth or anything like that.

453
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Speaker 1: But okay, we're off to a great start. Yeah yeah, yeah,

454
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,640
Speaker 1: so at least got that. I.

455
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Speaker 16: Uh so, I met Jen on the apps and uh,

456
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Speaker 16: I invited her to progras some drinks and I thought

457
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Speaker 16: we hit it off. We're talking flirting a little bit,

458
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Speaker 16: you know, the rapport is there, like it's it's good,

459
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Speaker 16: and I thought we had a good time.

460
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Speaker 1: We had fun.

461
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Speaker 16: I tried reaching out to her and she was just

462
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Speaker 16: cold and then eventually go city. So I just want

463
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Speaker 16: to know what's up, Like, what's what's going on? I

464
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Speaker 16: hope it's not too boring, but you know, it's just

465
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Speaker 16: kind of.

466
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Speaker 3: No boy's okay, No boring's okay. If we walked past

467
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,199
Speaker 3: all the rats on the streets, we're off to a

468
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:23,520
Speaker 3: good start here. So let's uh, let's I'm gonna play

469
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Speaker 3: a song and come back in a couple of minutes.

470
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Speaker 1: We'll call it gen.

471
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Speaker 3: You'll be on the phone and we're gonna see if

472
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Speaker 3: we can reach her and ask some questions for you,

473
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Speaker 3: and at some point you're welcome to jump in on

474
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Speaker 3: the call after we get you some info. And the

475
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Speaker 3: hope here is that we can straighten this out and

476
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 3: set you guys up on another day, which we have done,

477
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 3: not very many times, but we have. We have managed

478
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Speaker 3: to do it. We'd love to do it for you

479
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 3: today and you know, hopefully things work out. So can

480
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Speaker 3: you hang on for a second, Yeah, of course, let's

481
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Speaker 3: see what's going on. Bonus brand new waiting metaphone next

482
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Speaker 3: st after Shaboozie back in two minutes on The Fred Show, Saboozie,

483
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Speaker 3: It's the French Show on the radio and the iHeart

484
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Speaker 3: app Andy Time search for a Fred's Show on demand. Hey, Eaven, Yeah,

485
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Speaker 3: let's call Jen. You guys met and went out. You

486
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,520
Speaker 3: thought you had a great date, except you have not

487
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 3: heard from Jen since then. I guess you did a

488
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,199
Speaker 3: little bit, you said, but then it faded away. So

489
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 3: she kind of breadcrumbed you and then faded away, and

490
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Speaker 3: now you.

491
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Speaker 1: Don't know what's going on. You haven't heard from her

492
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Speaker 1: at all. You want to know why?

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Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean, I mean, it'd be awesome if we

494
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Speaker 16: could go out again. But more than anything, I mean,

495
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Speaker 16: I just really want to know what's up.

496
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. Well, let's call her right now.

497
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Speaker 1: Good luck, Evan. Awesome, Thanks guys. Hello, Hi is this

498
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Speaker 1: Jen Ry? Yeah, hey Jane, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 3: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,

500
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Speaker 3: and I have to tell you that we are on

501
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 3: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

502
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Speaker 3: to continue with the call. Can which out for just

503
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 3: a minute, You can hang up.

504
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Speaker 1: Anytime, okay, Yeah, okay, by well, thank you very much.

505
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Speaker 3: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Evan who

506
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Speaker 3: reached out to us and told us that he had

507
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Speaker 3: met you on one of the abs and you he

508
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 3: thought you had a good date, going for drinks and stuff,

509
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 3: and he thought things were maybe going to go someplace,

510
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 3: but says, you've kind of faded away and now you're

511
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 3: You're Mia and he doesn't know what's going on. He

512
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 3: feels like he's being ghosted. What's going on? Jen?

513
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Speaker 17: Oh?

514
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Speaker 10: Yeah? So yeah, and then I went out and he

515
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 10: was great actually, and I liked him. I actually like

516
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Speaker 10: him now even still, but I just really can't get

517
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Speaker 10: over this one thing.

518
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Speaker 1: What is the one thing?

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Speaker 10: Well, I'm not sure if he told you, guys, but

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Speaker 10: so after our date, we went back to his place

521
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Speaker 10: to hang out, and when we got there, I saw

522
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Speaker 10: that he had a dog. It was actually a huge dog,

523
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 10: a Rottweiler, a huge Rotwiler. Okay, and yeah, Unfortunately, when

524
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Speaker 10: I was little, I got attacked by a dog and

525
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Speaker 10: ever since I have been absolutely just terrified dogs, Like

526
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Speaker 10: all dogs, I cannot be around them. I don't want

527
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Speaker 10: to be around them, and so this is just non

528
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Speaker 10: negotiable for me. And you know, during the date when

529
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Speaker 10: we were at his place, I tried to hide it

530
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Speaker 10: and be cool and everything, but I was really like

531
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Speaker 10: just absolutely terrified.

532
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Speaker 2: The whole time.

533
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Speaker 10: I was really terrified. And yeah, yeah, throughout the night,

534
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Speaker 10: the dog was like jumping on me and barking and

535
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Speaker 10: at one point even nipped at me. And when I

536
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Speaker 10: tried to walk to the bathroom, and it was yeah,

537
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Speaker 10: it was really really bad, really scary for me. And yeah,

538
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Speaker 10: I just wouldn't be able to do it again. I mean,

539
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Speaker 10: I didn't want to make a big scene about it,

540
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Speaker 10: but I really can absolutely never date someone who has

541
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Speaker 10: a dog, And I really can't ask someone to change

542
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 10: their life like that, you know, give up their pets.

543
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Speaker 3: Yeah, on a first date. Hey, that dogs, you gotta go.

544
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Speaker 3: I mean, that's not happening obviously exactly. And I'm sorry

545
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 3: that you had that experience. But let me bring Evan

546
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Speaker 3: in because I've had to mention that Evan is here.

547
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 3: And I feel bad about this, Evan because now you're

548
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Speaker 3: hearing that your dog scared her and you had no

549
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 3: way of knowing that. But Jen, why not just say

550
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Speaker 3: to him? Why not just tell him this, like you're

551
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,199
Speaker 3: not asking him to get rid of the dog. You

552
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 3: simply would just communicate with him like, hey, look, this

553
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Speaker 3: isn't going to work. Out because I'm definitely afraid of

554
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Speaker 3: big dogs and I don't think that's going to change.

555
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Speaker 10: Yeah, I just felt bad about saying something like that.

556
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Speaker 1: So, but you don't feel bad to me to shame you.

557
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Speaker 10: But it's fizzled out. I just I thought it'd be

558
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 10: better if things fizzled out way.

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Speaker 1: You don't feel bad about ghosting him though, And Evan,

560
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Speaker 1: what I mean do you want to say anything about this?

561
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, what's up?

562
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Speaker 2: Jen?

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Speaker 16: I well, look, I had no idea, and look I

564
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Speaker 16: would I would have I can put him away. I

565
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Speaker 16: would put him. I wouldn't put him away if I

566
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Speaker 16: knew if you would have just told me. Yeah, but

567
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 16: you're not gonna be able to put him away forever.

568
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 16: Like I mean, you obviously love your I hope you

569
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 16: love your dog. And your dog's not going anywhere. No,

570
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 16: my dog's not going anymore. I love him, but like

571
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Speaker 16: at the same time too, like you know, like that

572
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 16: would assume over time you could get to know he

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Speaker 16: He's a sweet dog. I mean, if you if you

574
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Speaker 16: get to know him, I mean, even if you don't

575
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Speaker 16: know me, he's never anyone or.

576
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Speaker 1: Anything like that. And I would just assume over time

577
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Speaker 1: you know well, and I know ja none of us

578
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Speaker 1: are professionals. I know that he's not. I'm not.

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Speaker 3: But like, would you can if you liked him, would

580
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,679
Speaker 3: you consider maybe like easing into it, like you know,

581
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 3: maybe go to a park and hang out with him

582
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Speaker 3: and hang out with the dog and see if you know,

583
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 3: in a more open space you feel comfortable and maybe

584
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Speaker 3: the dog becomes comfortable with you and it could help

585
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 3: you with your fear. I hate to see this if

586
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 3: you like him, I hate to see this go poorly

587
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 3: because of it.

588
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Speaker 10: No, I unfortunately, I really can't do that because, like

589
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Speaker 10: I said, I'm just absolutely terrified of dogs, have in

590
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Speaker 10: for pretty much my whole life ever since I was little,

591
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Speaker 10: and was it talked by.

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Speaker 2: One like it's so it's just there's just.

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Speaker 10: No way this is going to work. And even it's

594
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 10: like on the dates, Evan, if you if you put

595
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 10: him away, like it would not have made a difference.

596
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 10: I mean, just knowing that the dog was in the

597
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 10: house would have made me like really scared and really nervous. Anyway,

598
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 10: all right, well, I'm mortally there's just absolutely no way

599
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 10: that this can work.

600
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 3: That's too bad. I'm sure this is truly like I

601
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 3: couldn't date a woman who had a cat. I like cats,

602
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 3: I'm allergic to them. Like, and there's no you can

603
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 3: barely you can't like permanently decat a house like it,

604
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 3: you know, get all the hair and everything else.

605
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: You can't. It can't be done.

606
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 3: And I love them, but like, I don't know that

607
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 3: I could live with someone or stay in their house

608
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 3: all the time. So I understand what you're saying for you.

609
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 3: For me, it's like a health thing. For you, it's

610
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 3: a you know, it's fear. And hey, Ivan, I'm sorry, man,

611
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 3: it's not going to work out.

612
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 16: Yeah you went.

613
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: I guess, Yeah, I guess so, But I love you.

614
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: Get good.

615
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 3: You got a cool ass dog, so you know what. Cool,

616
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 3: It's all good. And Jen, I'm sorry.

617
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: Talking to work for you. And I'm sorry like your drama,

618
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: but I wish you the best of what. Thank you

619
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: for your time.

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00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 10: Oh, thank you.

621
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: The Entertainer Report with Caleb's up next in two minutes.

622
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 1: We'll do trending stories, headlines you start to Tuesday, and

623
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 1: the Superhero fun fact all next Fread Show. It's the

624
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: Fread Show. Do you have what it takes to battles?

625
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 5: You're definitely gonna be Callina's battle. Not today.

626
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,479
Speaker 1: People are throwing off, They're like, what day is here?

627
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: Kelly's out today? Helleena's filling in with her game. Sing

628
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: your song.

629
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 2: Now.

630
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 4: I'm thrown off cuz of all the days off, but

631
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 4: it's all good. I'm refreshed, Daddy weet, I get this bag,

632
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 4: you know it's and I'm gonna win this game two

633
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 4: days in a row. Hey, Hey, Hey, Hey, thanks Yi bday.

634
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: Kelly. Hi Kelly, how are you?

635
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 12: How are you?

636
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: Kelly? Welcome? Tell us about you.

637
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 12: I'm the first gay teacher on my way to work, and.

638
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,360
Speaker 15: I just found out that Bella and I are from

639
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 15: kind of the same hometownty area, so that's super.

640
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 1: Fast from the Bay. You guys are from the Bay area.

641
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 12: The area, and Jason, she knew my area, so we're

642
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 12: both from northern California.

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00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, Kelly.

644
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad you guys were able to connect, and

645
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 3: you know, maybe you guys can have a nice picnic

646
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 3: or something one day, or you know, get together over

647
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 3: drinks and talk about it.

648
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 1: But let's play the game.

649
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 3: It's five questions general knowledge Against Paulina. You're gonna have

650
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 3: to do it two days.

651
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 2: In a row.

652
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: But let's let's see how it goes.

653
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 5: Let's say that's good luck, Kelly.

654
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 3: Helena, Audiosmia Miga. All right, here we go. Question number one, Kelly,

655
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 3: which state isn't oh?

656
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 1: Come on? That is? Who could have known you were

657
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: gonna call? Which state is known as the Golden State?

658
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 1: Who is on though you asked one hundred dollars? Bill Benjamin?

659
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 3: How many collars are in a rainbow? In which state

660
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 3: is area fifty one located? And what are animals without backbones?

661
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 1: Known as? This should be good? I know, you know,

662
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: but yeah, I can't wait to see what pone.

663
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 3: Okay, you got a four, and you're very very close,

664
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 3: very very close to a five, but you got a four.

665
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, we can't get Polina any advantage here?

666
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: Are you ready?

667
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 5: I think?

668
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 16: So?

669
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.

670
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 2: Here we go.

671
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 3: Question number one, Polina, Which state is known as the

672
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 3: Golden State?

673
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 5: Golden state is California?

674
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: It is who is on the US one hundred dollars?

675
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: Bill Jefferson? That is wrong, Benjamin Franklin. By the way,

676
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, I really don't know.

677
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 3: Kelly is absolutely an elementary school teacher like from every

678
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 3: part of Kelly is element. She's hearing you on, she's

679
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 3: going yea in the tone and every.

680
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 5: I need this in my life.

681
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 3: How many colors are in a rainbow? You look at

682
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 3: the encouragement from the competition.

683
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: My god, Kelly, in which state is area fifty one located?

684
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 5: Oh, Nevada?

685
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: That is right.

686
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 6: We need this, We need this.

687
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 3: And you gotta get this because the tie goes to Paulina.

688
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 3: What are animals without backbones.

689
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 5: Known as reptiles?

690
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: Invertebrates? Us?

691
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, jemmy fish, amphibious, yeahs invertebrates.

692
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 10: Invertebrates give it?

693
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, jellyfish, jellyfish. I don't know if jellyfish have

694
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: a bad jolly fish they are, but they're not.

695
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's right.

696
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: Gotch Wow. Okay, well we've learned a lot here, yeah,

697
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: we have. But what we really learned is that Kelly

698
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: is the winner. I mean, this game is right up

699
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: your alley. By the way, The is are about first

700
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: grade level questions.

701
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 15: You know, I almost think you guys are rainbow song.

702
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 3: So oh yeah, oh yeah, let's ROYGBIV got bad memories?

703
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 3: Every signs class average.

704
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 6: Red and yellow.

705
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 7: Yeah exactly, I forgot as some things that all the time.

706
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 3: Okay, uh, Kelly, hang on one second, how you win,

707
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 3: have a great day, good.

708
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 15: Job, Thanks guys, I have a good one.

709
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 3: Good job, thank you, Thank you, have a good day

710
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 3: at school. Thank you for listening. I don't think that

711
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 3: one doesn't counted against you. That's a bonus one. So

712
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 3: well we'll go okay against it. Could it could or

713
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 3: it couldn't. It's up to you, guys. I don't really know. Yeah,

714
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 3: you know, it lives up to its name.

715
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: It counts.

716
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 5: Never mind, if I came back, I.

717
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 3: Changed my mind. It counts good news stories. A new

718
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 3: waiting metaphone. We were off yesterday, so a new waiting

719
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,959
Speaker 3: metaphone today will do fun fact trending stories. The entertainmer reported,

720
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 3: So more.

721
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: Fred show next right here, She's got to wait. Fred's

722
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 1: show is on now hot This morning show, guys, good morning,

723
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: and he she will say. September third, the French Show

724
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: is not Hi, Caitlin, Hello There, Rufie, Hello, Hi, Calleen, Hiki,

725
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: good morning. Chubis and Jason are out back tomorrow. Bellamine

726
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: is your big Sabrina Carpenter announcement is happening on this

727
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: show Friday seven, fifty five. She reached out to us.

728
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 3: She was like, I say, you dedicate yourself to me,

729
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 3: and we said, I've given myself to you, Sabrina I have.

730
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: I've given myself to Sabrina. I have. I have done that.

731
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 3: After I heard taste, I said, or bedcam, I said,

732
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 3: you know, let's do it. Bed cam sounds kind of

733
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 3: like something you don't want to get, like I got

734
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 3: that bedcam, you know what I mean.

735
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: But like bed cam, you do want the bed right.

736
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 3: But bed camp sounds like bedstores or bed you know,

737
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 3: I don't know. Yeah, somebody would need an ointment for yes,

738
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 3: right right, or some form of salve.

739
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: I agree. Also, Caitlin h, I guess Rufio too. You guys.

740
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 3: Involved yourself in a heated debate on the on the

741
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 3: interwebs about pizza.

742
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, because our.

743
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 3: Old friend aid with viral for saying that chicago Ins

744
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 3: don't refer to thin crust pizza as tavern style, even

745
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 3: though I think Chicagoans some Chicagoans do, because I wouldn't

746
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 3: know that it was called taverns style unless I learned

747
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 3: that here.

748
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: However, I don't call it that.

749
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 3: I also will point out to anyone who Wills because

750
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 3: I am officially after fourteen years, I am in Chicago,

751
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 3: and I will point out that when people talk about

752
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: Chicago pizza that people who live That's the one thing

753
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 3: I will say, people who live in Chicago do not

754
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 3: consistently eat Chicago style pizza.

755
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: I will. I will go down with the ship on

756
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: that one. Visitors and the families in town.

757
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 3: I'm not saying I won't eat it if it's there.

758
00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 3: I won't say that. I'm like, oh, you know, every

759
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 3: now to get maybe once or twice a year. I'm

760
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 3: not like because it's delicious. I like a cast role.

761
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 5: Yeah I do too.

762
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 3: But I think people think, like, oh, Chicago pizza, Like

763
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 3: you guys just roll up, you know, and just get

764
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 3: a slice of it. It's impossible. Weighs seven pounds. I

765
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 3: can't even carry it, so it's not like New York.

766
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 3: But you guys contend that Chicagoans do not call it

767
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 3: tavern style.

768
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: That's what you guys, That was your no.

769
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 8: I contend that they do the only time I've ever

770
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 8: heard it is here from Pauline and Rufia.

771
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 4: So when I saw Abe Cannon, who's almost as like

772
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 4: neighborhood as I am, say that.

773
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 5: I was like, bro, I.

774
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 1: Tag you, Oh, I thought you were disputing it.

775
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm saying that. I call it tavern style,

776
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 4: so my not yet. Okay that growing up?

777
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: Okay? Good?

778
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 5: I said it here, agreed. I think Caylen heard it

779
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 5: from us.

780
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 3: Okay, good, so we all agree to you. I didn't

781
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 3: want to get in on it because I just didn't

782
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 3: want to get it.

783
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 8: But Abe said, no one you know someone's not from

784
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 8: Chicago if you hear them say tete.

785
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 3: And I don't agree with that because of what I

786
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 3: said earlier. I wouldn't even know what's called that.

787
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 5: I've never heard that in my life.

788
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: You've never heard tavern stead.

789
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 5: I've never called it that, So I would agree with Ape.

790
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 17: Sorry, yeah, but you but you've heard it. I've heard

791
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 17: it from this room. Honestly, I've never heard that.

792
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 13: Wow.

793
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 8: See when I I have never heard it until I

794
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 8: got here. Yeah, because I don't, we don't say that.

795
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 3: And I love me some, Abe, I just I didn't

796
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 3: really want to smoke, you know, not from a ape really,

797
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 3: but like from you know, the like.

798
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: The plots, the slot whatever, the meat eating people that

799
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: He's got a whole fan club of people that sandwiches.

800
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 8: Also that I said, I don't have a dog in

801
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 8: this fight, but I know two people who do.

802
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 5: I tagged him in one and two.

803
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: It was nice of you, but I don't know.

804
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 5: There were the.

805
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 4: Comments to it, and like the meme, I think Chicago

806
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 4: History shout Out reposted it and everybody was agreeing with them.

807
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 5: But I was, like, I've been calling it tavern.

808
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 4: I'm from Chicago, I'm in the same neighborhood as Abe, Like,

809
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 4: it made no sense to me.

810
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 3: The only reason I would call it taversal is because

811
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 3: I thought that's what people who grew up here called it,

812
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 3: and it's a differentiate.

813
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,439
Speaker 17: But anyway, teammate, I'm sorry. I just I've never heard

814
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 17: I mean, yeah, we don't. I've never heard anybody, nobody

815
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 17: in my life calls it tavern style other.

816
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 5: Than you guys.

817
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 17: I didn't know that, okay, And even from childhood Rufel too,

818
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 17: you called the tavern style.

819
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 7: That's so how I knew it is, Okay, pizza, right,

820
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 7: it's a thin crushed with cutting squares, right, And.

821
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 3: I thought that the square thing was also a component'

822
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 3: a tavern style.

823
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, right, it's got to be square.

824
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, But someone's just not even veto and Knicks calls

825
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 3: it tavern style on their menu. And that's from West

826
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 3: Loop Tom, another guy that I don't really want to

827
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 3: smoke from.

828
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 9: They talk better than they find my house. He knows

829
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,439
Speaker 9: he's on the radio, blogs on the Fred Western. Tom

830
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,439
Speaker 9: knows where I live. Somehow he checked like, I don't

831
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 9: know a county record. Just I don't know what the

832
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 9: hell he did. The man's in my house right now.

833
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 9: I don't know he's taking pictures.

834
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: I don't know how.

835
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 3: I'm not sure how he does this like writing in

836
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 3: our diaries, except we say him aloud.

837
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: We call them blugs rufe. Yes, he almost had to

838
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: kick your kid out.

839
00:36:55,080 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 7: Oh yes, it almost happened. Yeah, So, dear blog. So

840
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 7: Acton's birthday is this Friday. He's gonna be five years old,

841
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 7: and we've been trying to plan his birthday party for him.

842
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 7: We're just like, you know, we're doing something not big,

843
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 7: just with family, and we're trying to.

844
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 1: Think of a theme.

845
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 7: He like, we're asking him, what's the theme of your birthday?

846
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 6: And it's been switching. He loves Space Jam. He's like,

847
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 6: I wanted a Space Jam party.

848
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 7: And then he loves these Disney shows or these Disney

849
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 7: movies called Descendants and Zombies. So he's like going back

850
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 7: and forth, and so over the weekend we asked him,

851
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 7: it's like, hey, your birthday is coming up. What's the theme.

852
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 7: And he's like, you know what, this is how he talks.

853
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 7: You know what, I think I want to stick with

854
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 7: Space Jam. And then Jess and I were like, oh god,

855
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 7: it's gonna be hard to find like Space Jams, yeah,

856
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 7: because he's like year old movie. And we both said

857
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 7: to each other, We're like, oh, we probably only find

858
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 7: the newer version of Space Jam. And he's just like,

859
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:54,439
Speaker 7: Ashton goes, yeah, the one with Lebron James, and I said,

860
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 7: oh no.

861
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, how do you know

862
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: Lebron James?

863
00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 7: And Aston said, dead in my face, said Lebron James

864
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 7: is the greatest basketball player ever.

865
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 6: And I said, get out of my house.

866
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Patrick mag get out of my house. They all

867
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: think that he said that. And I took that personally, right,

868
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: I said, I take this personally.

869
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 6: I was like, no, we do not talk like that

870
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 6: in his house.

871
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,720
Speaker 1: It's like Michael Jordan don't like that in this house, right.

872
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 6: Like Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player ever.

873
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 5: He sounds like one of the famous dads. Dude, right now.

874
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 7: I was like, I've never like, I've never shown him

875
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 7: this new legacy Space Jam.

876
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 6: He's never seen it, Like it's forbidden.

877
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 1: In my house.

878
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 7: But like he must have watched it because he watches

879
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 7: you know, YouTube, and these kids play with toys and

880
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 7: that's how he found out, because these kids played with

881
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 7: these Space Dam toys. So that's what he wants for

882
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 7: his birthday. It's like Lebron James toys. I'm like, bro,

883
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 7: this ain't happening.

884
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 1: You can't let me tell you something, Okay, Uncle Fred

885
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: has a message for you. You can't speak on this

886
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: debate because you aren't even alive for the greatest of

887
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 1: all time? Right The only person who can say who

888
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: the greatest of all time was was was the generation

889
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: that was alive for both. The truth of the matter

890
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 1: is Michael Jordan is the greatest of all time. End

891
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,720
Speaker 1: of story, dude. I was end of debate, my jaws

892
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 1: on the floor. I was like, this kid just said that.

893
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: In my house, this is a teachable moment. You should

894
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: have shown him the real Space Jam.

895
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 6: That's the only he's seen it one hundred times. So

896
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 6: where's with Michael Jordan?

897
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:22,879
Speaker 5: And he says, Lebron is bad?

898
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 10: Right?

899
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 6: And I went to his closet. I took out all

900
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 6: of these shoes. I said, Bro, you see all these shoes.

901
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,439
Speaker 7: You see that man jumping in the air all the time,

902
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 7: that's Michael Jordans man.

903
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: I'm getting fired.

904
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 5: Calmed down.

905
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 8: Have us buy space things like to decorate and then

906
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 8: basketball things and you can do an o G space.

907
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 5: Jam Fred will dress up as one of.

908
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 17: The he picked zombies, so we're doing it zombie.

909
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: Sorry, this is terrible.

910
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 3: I mean, growing up, my nanny used to tell me, like,

911
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 3: you know by Catholicism, like this is it's blind faith?

912
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 1: You just you just is. And I'd be like, banana,

913
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: what about it? Just is? But what about it?

914
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 3: Just is?

915
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 1: It's time that he and I had that same sit down.

916
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: What but what about it?

917
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 9: No?

918
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: It just is, kid, Michael Jordan, It's just is right.

919
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 10: It is.

920
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 5: Leron has passed him.

921
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 8: Numerically, numbers wise, it still doesn't count.

922
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: No, not any category has he No.

923
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 5: I'm not saying in every category, but there are some.

924
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 6: Scoring days about it.

925
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, so but that doesn't mean Lebron's also played

926
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 7: like ten more years than Jordan hass you.

927
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 8: Know, facturing in Okay, I'm just asking.

928
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 1: I was so old. It's just his kid, like, just

929
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: had to hold me back. This was almost the end.

930
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: We almost saw you in the news. You was shot too, Yeah,

931
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 1: the evening news. What was the cause of the incident

932
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: of at least I got I got Parker. Damn Kay