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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We got an emergency email

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Speaker 1: from a listener who says he just went out on

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Speaker 1: a great first date that was so good it actually

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Speaker 1: got him into a little bit of trouble.

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Speaker 2: Wait, that's a good thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, we're going to talk to him about it.

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Speaker 1: Here's we understand why. And this is probably gonna sound

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Speaker 1: kind of like a second date update, but remember it's not,

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Speaker 1: so just keep that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we are in charge of the rules here.

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Speaker 1: Let's get Charlie up in here to talk to him

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Speaker 1: about it. Charlie, how you doing?

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Speaker 3: Man? Not too well? Man, I'm in a real situation.

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Speaker 2: Did we call hammer? Did he call us? Collect from somewhere?

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Speaker 1: All the details, Charlie. Just tell us what happened, what

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Speaker 1: went on with this date?

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Speaker 4: I will say I would rather be locked up and

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Speaker 4: have to go through what I'm going through right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, we need the tea.

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Speaker 4: Now. I did go on a great date recently with

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Speaker 4: a woman and it was amazing. I mean, it was

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Speaker 4: just one of those dates where you don't want the

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Speaker 4: night to end.

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Speaker 2: What's his lady's name?

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 4: I would rather not tell you and it'll make sense

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Speaker 4: when I get.

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Speaker 1: To the end. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I feel like she stole something from you.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, she didn't.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's kind of my fault.

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Speaker 3: I'll explain. It was late in the date.

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Speaker 4: I mean, even though we both retired, we were just

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Speaker 4: walking around the city and it had to be past midnight.

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Speaker 4: We just kept talking and yeah, it was nice. I

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Speaker 4: mean we ended up at our place, like right outside.

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Speaker 4: It was an insight or anything like that. I gave

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Speaker 4: her a kiss good night, but I did not spend

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Speaker 4: the night.

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Speaker 2: Okay, why did you a gentleman?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 5: Because he's a gentleman.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't need to I'm surprised is supportive of this

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Speaker 1: would be like, come on, give it to her, scale

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Speaker 1: the side of the building and get in there.

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Speaker 2: He didn't say she wasn't waiting in his closet.

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Speaker 1: All right, it's a very gentlemanly moved.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that sounds amazing, and it sounds like you planned

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Speaker 2: unseen this woman.

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Speaker 4: Again, I do. I definitely like her, okay, okay, absolutely,

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Speaker 4: And speaking of being a gentleman, I don't know why

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Speaker 4: I said this, but as I was walking away, I

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Speaker 4: just turned around and I said, Hey, what's your favorite

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Speaker 4: kind of flower?

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Speaker 3: And she kind of looks at me and she's like, roses. Why?

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Speaker 4: And I tell her I'm going to send you the

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Speaker 4: biggest bouquet of roses next week. Her eyes got big

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Speaker 4: and she seemed really.

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Speaker 2: Excited, how romantic.

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Speaker 3: And I was happy about it too. I mean, come on,

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Speaker 3: I was trying to do something night for it's.

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Speaker 5: The best spoil.

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Speaker 2: So you actually followed through.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I went home immediately. I mean I got right

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Speaker 4: on my phone. It was like two o'clock in the

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Speaker 4: morning too, and I ordered a huge bouquet roses, like

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Speaker 4: thirty fifth roses.

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Speaker 1: Wasting time?

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Speaker 2: Okay to this girl, Okay, I.

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Speaker 3: Do, I do.

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Speaker 4: I can put a little sappy message on it. I said,

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Speaker 4: you have no idea how much I'm missing you right now.

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Speaker 4: I'm counting down the days until I can be with

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Speaker 4: you again.

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Speaker 2: Our first date after it was that good day.

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Speaker 1: None of us, miss room I have ever felt a

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Speaker 1: love connection quite like that, and we're all jealous.

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Speaker 2: I felt that way. I just did a lot with day.

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Speaker 1: So you went online and ordered her roses at two

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Speaker 1: in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 1: I'm not seeing what the problem is though.

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Speaker 3: Well after I ordered the roses. It was late.

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Speaker 4: I just went to bed, but I do remember that

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Speaker 4: it said when I ordered them that it'd be delivered

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Speaker 4: in two days. So of course on the second day,

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Speaker 4: I wake up waiting for a text, you know, to say,

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Speaker 4: then I start wondering if she had work and maybe

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Speaker 4: she didn't see him. And then finally, at around six

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Speaker 4: o'clock in the evening, I get a text, not from her,

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Speaker 4: oh from my ex, saying, Charlie, you never cease to

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Speaker 4: amaze and surprise me. Oh, you're the sweetest person ever.

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Speaker 2: You sent them to your ex on accident?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I must have auto filled it.

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Speaker 1: Oh a go to move.

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Speaker 2: For Charlie, which is a sweet go to move.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think.

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Speaker 5: Girls would be honored to be auto saved.

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Speaker 2: In the now, your ex thinks you want to hook

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Speaker 4: Her the note you're the sweetest person ever.

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Speaker 3: I've been missing you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. She thinks you're putting the vibe out.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and then she put on there can we see

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Speaker 4: each other Friday or if not sooner?

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Back and you don't want to be with your ax?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: Not at all, just making sure it's not an option,

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Speaker 2: because maybe it's.

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Speaker 1: The only do you feel like maybe fate intervened and

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Speaker 1: that's the reason that her address went in there.

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Speaker 3: Not one bit.

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Speaker 4: I got nothing against her. We were still on the terms.

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Speaker 4: But I know I like this new girl. I just

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Speaker 4: don't know what to do because when I got to text,

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Speaker 4: all I could do is just heart it and say hey,

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Speaker 4: I'll text you later and let you know you.

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Speaker 1: Still may her day.

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Speaker 2: Why did you give it a thumbs up at.

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Speaker 1: Least or the eyes wide emoji? Like no, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I panicked. I didn't know what to do.

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Speaker 5: To have an Android phone, you know you can't even

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Speaker 5: heart anything.

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Speaker 3: I wish you.

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Speaker 2: Don't have a woman problem if you're using an Android.

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Speaker 1: How long ago did this happen? When was this?

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Speaker 3: It was just the other day.

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Speaker 4: And when it happened, I emailed you guys right away

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Speaker 4: because I don't know what to do. It's going to

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Speaker 4: be the most awkward conversation I've ever been in in

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Speaker 4: my life.

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Speaker 3: The flowers wasn't for her, and.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna have to tell her, and I know

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Speaker 4: she's going to be hurt, and I don't know what

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Speaker 3: I don't know how to do this.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, so you want us to call

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Speaker 1: your ex here and let her know the truth of

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Speaker 1: what happened that night.

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Speaker 2: He has to tell her.

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Speaker 1: All right, well this is this is yikes. That's all

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Speaker 1: I can.

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Speaker 2: Say, standing the jail time thing.

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Speaker 1: Now, yeah, I understand why you don't want to make this.

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Speaker 1: I do have to ask the what about that girl

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Speaker 1: that you went on the great date with?

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, good news of that. I did re order

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Speaker 4: her thirty six roses. I even text her and let

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Speaker 4: her know there's a problem with the delivery, but these

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Speaker 4: will be there, so good.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you didn't say what the problem was.

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Speaker 1: It's a smart man, all right. Well, we're going to

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Speaker 1: try and come back and give you some smart advice

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Speaker 1: when we let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 1: to your ex girlfriend saying I didn't really mean to

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Speaker 1: send a bouquet of romantic flowers to you. Those were

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Speaker 1: for my new girl. I ad to do it coming

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Speaker 1: up right after this. Hold on, now, it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We got a text that's

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Speaker 1: seven eight five nine two from a listener named Sam,

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Speaker 1: who says, man, this guy's completely screwed. I wouldn't know

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Speaker 1: what to do either. I'd probably just go out with

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Speaker 1: her for a few weeks and then break up again.

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Speaker 6: That's sounds easier than making this phone callship. That's even

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Speaker 6: more me But if you missed it, this really is

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Speaker 6: one of the most awkward situations that we've had on

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Speaker 6: our show in a while. Our listener Charlie emailed us

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Speaker 6: for help because he had an amazing date with a

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Speaker 6: at two in the morning, while exhausted and still high

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Speaker 6: on love, ordered three dozen roses to send to her. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: only to find out a couple days later the website

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Speaker 6: darning The ex got the bouquet and was thrilled, thinking.

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Speaker 1: Oh my stars, he wants me back yes, which, needless

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Speaker 1: to say, puts Charlie in a tough spot. So now

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Speaker 1: we need to give him some advice on what to

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Speaker 1: say to let his ex down easy. In your awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call, Y and Brooke, I would love to

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Speaker 2: Here's my idea.

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Speaker 7: Does your ex have a button of yours that she

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Speaker 7: already hates.

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Speaker 4: She hates.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, every girlfriend has someone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Okay, we're gonna blame it on that guy.

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Speaker 7: What you're gonna do is you're gonna tell her that

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Speaker 7: your dumb buddy was drunk and thought it would be

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Speaker 7: a funny prank to send her flowers with your name, right,

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Speaker 7: and you're so embarrassed. It wasn't funny.

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Speaker 2: You're so sorry.

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Speaker 4: That's good.

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Speaker 1: What do you think make one of your buddies take

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Speaker 1: the mullet for you.

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Speaker 4: It kind of feels like I'm being slimy if I

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Speaker 4: do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're already being slimy.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: It was an honest mistake.

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Speaker 7: What's better than telling her that you meant to send

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Speaker 7: those to somebody else?

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Speaker 5: What do you think my advice is to tell her

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Speaker 5: you meant to send it to somebody else?

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Speaker 2: Think about it.

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Speaker 5: Look, nothing is worse than full and embarrassment.

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Speaker 1: So you want to be honest because she's your ex.

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Speaker 5: No, just say, look, bottom of my heart, I'm glad

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Speaker 5: I made your day, I'm glad I made you smile,

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Speaker 5: but those were honestly not for you, and I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: God that that hurts worse than the break up.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about brutal honesty? Charlie?

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Speaker 4: You know what, after hearing that, let's go back to

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Speaker 4: that first option.

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Speaker 1: I told you, no matter what way you decide to

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Speaker 1: go with this, we're going to be on the call

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Speaker 1: with you if you need a little bit of help,

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Speaker 1: a little bit of support. I'm going to die your

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Speaker 1: ex girlfriend though, Kendra, right now?

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Speaker 3: My god?

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Speaker 4: Luck?

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Speaker 2: Okay, got I never even think we've heard that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hey, Kendra.

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Speaker 8: Hey, wait, Charlie, Yeah, oh my god, you are so sweet.

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Speaker 8: I just got the second oque of flowers.

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Speaker 4: You said?

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Speaker 3: Wait, wait, wait, wait wait what what did you say?

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Speaker 3: Say that again? You're a persistent little sugar bears. I

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Speaker 1: Two bouquets of rosa.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe you're spoiling me like this.

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Speaker 8: Where is this coming from?

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Speaker 4: I really don't know, my heart, I guess.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't wait to see you and

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Speaker 8: I'm going to give you a special thank you for

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Speaker 3: Oh really? Can I see you on Friday?

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Speaker 4: Maybe Friday? Yeah?

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Speaker 8: I want to see you as soon as I can.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I want to see you too. But here's

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Speaker 4: My work is sending me away, Like I'm going to Ecuador.

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Speaker 8: Whoa, whoa, what what? Yeah, I'm going away for like

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Speaker 8: three maybe nine months. I mean what you worked at

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Speaker 3: I do, I do. But we're expanding. That's why I'm going.

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Speaker 8: They're expanding to Ecuador.

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Speaker 4: And Argentina mat a dad Star and you know, all

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Speaker 3: Know, oh my.

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Speaker 4: God, Yeah, I'm so sorry. I mean, I'm not going

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Speaker 4: to be around for a while as you can. You know,

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Speaker 4: you could tell. I mean, and the flowers they were

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Speaker 4: kind of like a little farewell, you know, away for

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Speaker 4: me to say You'll always.

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Speaker 3: Be in my heart.

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Speaker 8: That breaks my heart.

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Speaker 4: What I know, I know, But hey, I don't know

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Speaker 1: Hi, Kendra, that noise is a whole radio show. Jumping

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Speaker 1: Charlie take the lead. Here Charlie, why don't you tell

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Speaker 1: Kendra what's happened?

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Speaker 2: Such a good job already I told.

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Speaker 4: Her I'm going away, and I just wanted to let

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Speaker 4: you know that you know, you're a good person, and

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Speaker 4: I just you'll always be in my heart.

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Speaker 1: And the reason that we're on the call is because

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Speaker 2: Happy for what was, it won't be anymore.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know if you can tell, he's in deep,

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Speaker 3: I mean, Charlie, Charlie, I would wait for you.

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Speaker 7: No, no, no, no, don't ever wait for a man, Kendra,

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Speaker 3: It would be selfish for me to ask you to

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Speaker 3: do that. I can't do that, right, Ye.

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Speaker 2: Yep, that's.

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Speaker 4: After all this?

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Speaker 8: Are you kidding?

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Speaker 3: People told me you'd never change and then you could

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Speaker 7: But I think the.

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Speaker 2: Other people were right. Kendra.

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Speaker 3: Yep, yep, I've changed. I mean what you've changed?

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Speaker 7: I have?

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Speaker 4: I mean there's no real way to stay in touch either,

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Speaker 4: They're taking my cell phone.

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Speaker 2: It's like if Survivor were to do grocery stores.

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Speaker 8: Taking your phone.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he do that.

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Speaker 4: I think, well, because it's it's this and they really

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Speaker 4: So it might look like I'm ignoring you or blocking you,

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Speaker 3: I'm just you know, working.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're really sorry about that, Ken Joe, we

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Speaker 1: all feel really bad about it.

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Speaker 2: So I think you said don't don't wait for him.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm more sorry than you know.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, can I can I write to you at least? Like,

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Speaker 8: are you gonna have an agress?

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Speaker 2: I think this is going to be too painful, Kender.

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Speaker 2: I think you should just move on. I think you

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Charlie would be okay with that, would

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Speaker 3: I want her to be happy. I want to fine happiness.

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Speaker 1: That's really big of you.

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Speaker 8: Okay, But he loves me and he misses me.

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe I don't say love. I don't know if

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Speaker 8: Charlie, you love me right?

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Speaker 3: There is love in my heart?

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Speaker 7: Answer, it's one of those Charlie, I love you too.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know, it feels kind of warm and.

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Speaker 2: You know, awful.

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Speaker 1: Well, this is the farewell, goodbye, anything that you want

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Speaker 1: changes the world. Charlie.

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Speaker 3: Just the flowers and you're doing this radio thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean like that.

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Speaker 8: That's so thoughtful and special.

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Speaker 1: I really do love He is a very very thoughtful man.

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Speaker 1: Very detail oriented, is he?

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Speaker 2: He said? And he's moving to a Spanish he's working

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Speaker 2: on detail oriented Charlie is he's going to.

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Speaker 1: Get one of those language apps and he's going to

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Speaker 1: come back in three to nine months a totally changed man.

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Speaker 2: Wow, maybe years. Don't wait for him.

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Speaker 1: We wish you all the best, Okay, Kendra, Okay, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he's dead to you. Just move on.

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Speaker 1: Ari is a ornographia brilliance yet three in the morning.