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Speaker 1: What are you working on?

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Speaker 3: K another tour? I feel like there's so many good

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Speaker 3: about her outfit from the Grammys and it might be

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Speaker 3: more shocking than the outfit itself.

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Speaker 4: Cam Newton has uh.

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Speaker 1: He has a take on on men and women being

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Speaker 1: friends and having platonic friendships meaning no shenanigans. He of

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Speaker 1: course doesn't understand. He thinks the words something else. I

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Speaker 1: believe you think it's platonic. I believe now. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: play this clip. I'm gonna cross my fingers. I listened

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Speaker 1: to it once, but I hmm. But here he is

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Speaker 1: on a podcast. This is Cam Newton talking about how

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Speaker 1: it is impossible to have platonic friendships with women without

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Speaker 1: wanting more impossible.

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Speaker 5: He says, you have any platonic relationships in your life

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Speaker 5: now with the woman?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, is that is that about choice? It's very

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Speaker 1: hard for me to take him seriously, by the way,

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Speaker 1: because he's wearing like a fedora thing with like and

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Speaker 1: as you know, I mean, I'm thinking about I want

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Speaker 1: to hat like that kind of but I'm not like

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Speaker 1: not like that one.

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Speaker 4: No, and it has buttons on it.

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Speaker 6: And then he's like.

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Speaker 1: He's wearing a top pad, and then he's wearing like

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Speaker 1: a shirt and tie and then like a flank. I

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Speaker 1: know it's very hard for me to take him seriously

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Speaker 1: right now. But anyway, Uh well, no, it starts with

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Speaker 1: this man in this outfit saying this thing here. I'm

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Speaker 1: not about to be around no woman platonically No platonically either.

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Speaker 1: You heard that many listening? I unpactic?

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Speaker 2: Can why because I'm not about to play the type

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Speaker 2: of games.

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Speaker 1: Is it? Is it self control? Call it what you

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Speaker 1: want to ask you call it? It may be self control.

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Speaker 2: If she fine, I'm not about to have her around

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Speaker 2: playing like I don't think that she's attractive.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so I mean we can keep going.

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Speaker 1: I believe what the key quote here was, I don't

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Speaker 1: have women around me that I'm cool with that. I

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Speaker 1: don't have plans on stabbing.

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Speaker 3: Yes, stabbing was the word he used multiple times, and

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Speaker 3: like shout out.

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Speaker 6: To whoever who was interviewing him.

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Speaker 3: He was great because he kept trying like unpacked, be

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Speaker 3: like let's let's get further, and he was just like no.

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Speaker 6: Basically he said he only has ugly women around him.

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Speaker 1: Like Friday podcast.

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Speaker 6: I don't know that's Cam Newton's podcast. Oh it's his own.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh all right, So I'm I'm curious though, eight

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Speaker 1: five five five. I'm curious, curious, curious, He's curious, curious. Well,

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Speaker 1: I just watched that video this morning of the pe

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Speaker 1: private equity guy. I thought there was one about Arizona.

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Speaker 1: Have you seen this guy I'm talking about that has

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Speaker 1: like the scrunched up face that pretends like he's in

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Speaker 1: private equity. I'm curious. It's curious.

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Speaker 6: Is that the guy you sent me that different rich places.

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Speaker 1: And he like scrunches his face. He has like a

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Speaker 1: My role, my role is substantial because I know I

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Speaker 1: my dad's role substantial anyway, eight five five five nine

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Speaker 1: do you say, genuinely, do you think that a man

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Speaker 1: that some form of attraction is a component of friendship.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that I think that that there can't

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Speaker 1: be a genuine friendship, But I mean, I guess I

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Speaker 1: can see how at one point her another, someone in

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Speaker 1: any less legitimate or impossible.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you, I mean, if you develop those feelings or

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Speaker 3: think someone's attractive, you just if you care about the

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Speaker 3: friendship or no, the other person isn't interested, you just

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Speaker 3: don't say anything, like you don't need to tell them.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, no you don't, I mean you know, no. No,

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you think doesn't matter if you're married,

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter if you're in a relationship, does it matter

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Speaker 1: if you're gay? I mean, okay, so you two are friends,

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Speaker 1: but you don't have any interest in her part, So

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 6: That's normally No, that's very rude.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm sure, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Sorry you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeahat his sexualities surpasses you're insatiability, you're irresistibility. Well, I

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Speaker 1: mean yabos. You know, anyone can appreciate a good jabo.

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Speaker 6: Too, I know, but I can't be friends with her.

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Speaker 6: It's hard for me, right, it's just my see you

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Speaker 6: know what I put out there. You know, no, I think.

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Speaker 6: I think that it is possible.

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Speaker 3: But I have been bummed out in the past when

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Speaker 3: like guys have tried something or made it known because

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Speaker 3: I'm like, well, there it goes the friendship.

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Speaker 4: You know, you think what you quite over your what?

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Speaker 2: I have plenty of male friends, you know, I love,

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Speaker 2: I love y'all, but not like that, so I do

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Speaker 2: every you know, I don't even look at my male

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Speaker 6: A lot of y'all. Lie.

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Speaker 2: God, bless the women in you.

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Speaker 7: We know too much like what you're looking at me

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Speaker 7: for because you're my male friend, so there are there

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Speaker 7: are no women dealing with me right now correctly, so

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Speaker 7: you must not be talking about me.

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Speaker 4: Impossible.

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Speaker 6: I don't know how you guys do.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna. I know a lot about you guys too, right, So.

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Speaker 6: You know, are you in love?

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Speaker 8: God?

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Speaker 1: Bless God? Bless the men at home, Alex. How you doing, dude?

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Speaker 9: How are you?

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Speaker 4: Alex?

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Speaker 1: Do you think that men and women can be friends?

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Speaker 1: Despite what Cam Newton is saying? Well, who is the authority?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I I look to Cam Newton to sort

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Speaker 1: of guide my life. So I'm going but.

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Speaker 10: Well, you know, to me, I have a lot of

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Speaker 10: friends that are are women, pretty ugly, whatever the case

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Speaker 10: I be.

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Speaker 1: To me, He's like, you know, wait, he's got some

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Speaker 1: ugly female friends.

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Speaker 10: But that's what you guys are saying. You know, if

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Speaker 10: he keeps ugly women around, I mean regardless.

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Speaker 11: You know, with women.

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Speaker 10: Having women's up friend, it brings a different perspective into

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Speaker 10: your life. So having different perspective and someone's life is

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Speaker 10: what is important. And if he does understand that having

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Speaker 10: different perspectives in one life, then that's on him. He

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Speaker 1: So that's me stuff like if I have a if

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Speaker 1: I have a female for starting to rup to you, Alex,

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Speaker 1: if I have a female friend that I'm not attracted to, like,

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Speaker 1: I could be friends with you because you're not a

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Speaker 1: good looking, but I would admit, I mean, if you're

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Speaker 1: not attracted to someone then I suppose it's easier to

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Speaker 1: reflect on the qualities that are not physical, right, like

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Speaker 1: this isn't this isn't just men. Well, I think men

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Speaker 1: tend to be we tend to be the ones who

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Speaker 1: focus on the visual, what we can see. And then

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Speaker 1: you know, I hate to generalize, but women oftentimes lean

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Speaker 1: into the more uh that, I don't even want to

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Speaker 1: say emotional, but maybe non physical qualities in addition to.

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Speaker 4: Like a dude, like a dude, we'll get with it.

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Speaker 1: We'll get with a hot girl that has like nose

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Speaker 1: three words like it's from Mars and says like, okay,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 6: You also get with ones you don't find attracted. You'll

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Speaker 6: get with them.

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Speaker 1: All that's true. Got him? All right, Alex? Thank you,

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Speaker 1: have a good day. I'm glad you.

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Speaker 6: I love Alex shout out to my ugly friends. His

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Speaker 6: friend and I'm like driving to work, friend, Alex, which one, am,

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Speaker 6: I I'm calling you right now?

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Speaker 1: Alex?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Am, I tell me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So if you're not, if you have ugly friends

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Speaker 1: of the opposite sex, I supposed to teach you to

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Speaker 1: be their friend?

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Speaker 12: Is what?

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Speaker 9: Hey?

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Speaker 1: No stabbing at all. Hey Charlotte, Hi, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Can you be friends with just friends with a dude?

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Speaker 13: I think so yes, but you both have to be

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Speaker 13: in relationships, like outside of it, and if if you are,

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Speaker 13: then it's so much easier to be friends. Even if

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Speaker 13: you go into a friendship and you haven't already met

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Speaker 13: this guy and you're already in a relationship, entering it

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Speaker 13: into as a friendship, it becomes so much easier. There's

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Speaker 13: no flirting from the very beginning. I have lots of

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Speaker 13: any issues because they know I'm in a committed relationship.

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Speaker 1: But as it pertains to a new friendship, like just

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Speaker 1: because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean that the other

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Speaker 1: person won't have attraction to you. Like that doesn't just qualify.

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Speaker 1: It's not like as soon as I get into a relationship,

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Speaker 1: no one finds me attractive anymore. So I guess I

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Speaker 1: don't know that. I think that's like an actual barrier,

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Speaker 1: maybe for you, but not for everybody.

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Speaker 13: But you set I think I think you set the boundaries,

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Speaker 13: so like if you just realize I think, if they

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Speaker 13: still acting in certain ways, then that's where you can

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Speaker 13: decide not to be friends with them. But I think

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Speaker 13: you set those boundaries and if it's clear to them

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Speaker 13: and they won't make any move on you, then I

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Speaker 13: think you can be friends with them. And if they

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Speaker 13: secretly have feelings for you, like that's I guess their problem.

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Speaker 13: And once you're single, then I guess they can go

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Speaker 13: for you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, fair enough, Thank you, Charlotte, Thank you. I have

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would argue, like the relationship thing might make

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Speaker 1: So you don't think that he could like he couldn't

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Speaker 3: I mean he could, but I just I'm just saying

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Speaker 1: I don't think that people having partners precludes them from

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Speaker 6: I love that for her.

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Speaker 4: But no, I mean I'm glad. I'm glad it works

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Speaker 1: But no, I wouldn't say in general, I wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: that stops everybody from doing things that they shouldn't be doing. Hey, Ashley,

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Speaker 14: Yes, absolutely, absolutely, consolutely absolutely what posolutely.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, there's nothing to be nervous about it. Actually, Okay, Now,

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Speaker 1: do you think it's a male female thing? Like, do

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Speaker 1: you think you can be friends with men but men

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Speaker 4: Or do you think we get a bad rap on that.

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Speaker 11: No, I think it just depends on the person, honestly,

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Speaker 14: So it just depends on the guys, I guess, or

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Speaker 14: the girls or whoever. But yeah, you can absolutely be friends.

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Speaker 14: It just depends on the character of the person. All right,

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Speaker 1: Gil, you gotta turn your radio down. We're doing a

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Speaker 1: really bad. Honestly, that's more likely. But but Gil, can

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Speaker 4: Because Cam Newton says no, and I you know.

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Speaker 1: I got I gotta hear, I gotta hear everybody out.

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Speaker 16: I think it's absolutely possible. But to make a point here,

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Speaker 16: But I mean, if it's a close friend, I would

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Speaker 16: never suggest trying it. But again, if it's if it's

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Speaker 1: You're friends and then you do it, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you're I don't know if you're just friends anymore.

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Speaker 6: Be able to get drunk with you and you're not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if a girl initiates, I think the guy's going

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Speaker 5: From the rooftops, I hear you, thank you have a

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Speaker 1: I think I think men get a bad they get

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Speaker 1: And it's and and I've been on both sides of this,

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Speaker 1: And so I'm at a point in my life where

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Speaker 4: So I don't know, after a couple.

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Speaker 3: Of Tito's and soda at Boss Bar, if she seduces you.

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Speaker 6: Well, what are you gonna do? I just think her lingerie.

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Speaker 1: I think where it gets complicated, it's like that there's

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Speaker 1: He can't keep it in his pants at all, which

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Speaker 4: Fact it is true. Actually, but he can't keep it

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Speaker 1: A man has many children, does he have? Are they

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Speaker 1: I'm coming at it more from the place of like, no,

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Speaker 4: But I can see it.

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Speaker 1: You know, over time, there's always a possibility that things

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Speaker 3: Remember I told you guys, like on New Year's a

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Speaker 6: I was like, oh, what are we doing? I mean,

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Speaker 6: the friendship is kind of ruined. Yes, I don't want

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Speaker 1: But that's like that's a big swim shot, right, and

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Speaker 4: But I mean, like, you do that, and it's gonna

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Speaker 1: It's gonna go great or it's gonna go it's probably

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Speaker 6: I was giving like I burp in front of this guy,

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Speaker 1: No the fact that you had just farted before you

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Speaker 1: It was like, really, that was really a weird time

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Speaker 1: to do it. But yeah, let's do headlines next friend

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Speaker 1: show shows. Wait, Paula, you have a theory that you

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Speaker 1: we talked about it for ten minutes.

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Speaker 17: I was trying to get in the game, like dump

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Speaker 4: We're trying to jump on the ball and come through.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to get it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't need the suits to yell at me.

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Speaker 6: I'm fragile. These days.

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Speaker 1: The suits are constantly yelling at you, Paulina, which the

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Speaker 1: last time suit even addressed you a great question. They

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Speaker 5: They here, come in, they still call me Paula.

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Speaker 6: It's fine, okay.

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Speaker 4: So what's the theory though.

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Speaker 17: My theory is I believe that every woman, Okay, if

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Speaker 17: never try to think like no hooking up nothing, platonic

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Speaker 17: who here would like to sleep or go with whoever?

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Speaker 17: Right name female, name woman? They eight out of them

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Speaker 6: Two or not. You can't prove me wrong on them.

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Speaker 1: Eighty percent of men will get with a female friend.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no questions asked, you're saying yeah, sadly.

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Speaker 17: I mean seventy maybe seventy percent, but we're really online there,

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Speaker 6: Two will not, like they're like, no, we're friends. This

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Speaker 4: Like I think it's high.

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Speaker 1: I think it's tight, but I will say that I do.

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Speaker 1: And again I hate general's a I really do like

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Speaker 1: to say, and you guys can tell me if I'm wrong.

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Speaker 1: I think it's fair to say that there are a

440
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Speaker 1: number of men out there that can value you as

441
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Speaker 1: a friend but can disassociate that from the physical in

442
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Speaker 1: ways that many women can't. Some women can. And so

443
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Speaker 1: again this is a generalization, but I think there are

444
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Speaker 1: probably a few guys in this group of ten that

445
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Speaker 1: you're talking about who could be like, hey, yeah, yeah,

446
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Speaker 1: let's do it, because then they can just go back

447
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Speaker 1: to being friends and it's like they don't. They don't

448
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Speaker 1: necessarily blend the emotion and the physicality in it the

449
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Speaker 1: same way that some people do. But I don't.

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Speaker 4: Eight out of ten.

451
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Speaker 17: But you're still even if it's not emotional or there's

452
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Speaker 17: no next step for you in your in your head

453
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Speaker 17: with this imaginary scenario, I still feel like they're going

454
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Speaker 17: to do it. That's the point is eight out of ten.

455
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Speaker 17: I think that's high, but I don't. I'm not like,

456
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Speaker 17: that's not shocking toon.

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Speaker 6: I don't think it's high. I agree with you, girl.

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Speaker 1: But you're assuming, you're assuming that every guy would stick

459
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Speaker 1: it everywhere.

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Speaker 6: No, I said, eight out of ten.

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Speaker 1: Well that's almost all of them, Okay.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, text eight guys right now.

463
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Speaker 1: Yeah, A lot of show is don't get your suit.

464
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Speaker 1: The biggest stories of the day. I don't know who

465
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Speaker 1: else is here. I don't even know if they work

466
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Speaker 1: here anymore. We do line them up, Well, which ones

467
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Speaker 1: would you get with them? Hello? We don't have that.

468
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Speaker 6: Looking people in this company. We're a good looking company.

469
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Speaker 11: We are.

470
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Speaker 1: We love a good sparting down with jeans and a

471
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Speaker 1: power Yeah, because that's still the uniform, the uniform for

472
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Speaker 1: the suits used to because our chairman, anything he does,

473
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Speaker 1: all his minions will do afterwards. So it used to

474
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Speaker 1: be like a loafer and a jean, a dark washed jean,

475
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Speaker 1: and then a white button down and a blazer. That

476
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Speaker 1: used to be and that was the uniform. The problem

477
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Speaker 1: is that many of the suits didn't realize that they

478
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Speaker 1: don't know how to do that, so they'd go grab

479
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Speaker 1: a suit jacket from their closet that went with the

480
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Speaker 1: suit and then put that on with the pair of

481
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Speaker 1: jeans that look ridiculous because because his are custom made

482
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Speaker 1: to go with the gene.

483
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Speaker 6: Adamore is like a squared toed cowboy boot.

484
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Speaker 3: Have you ever noticed that, like like a fry boot

485
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Speaker 3: or something.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, I.

487
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Speaker 4: Don't think the squared toad. I think it's just got promoted.

488
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Speaker 1: Those had to go because I don't think that's that's

489
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Speaker 1: some part of the uniform, not part of the western

490
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Speaker 1: It is not.

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Speaker 4: In right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I always like was like, good for you for being different.

494
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Speaker 6: You're not wearing the corporate uniform. You got your little

495
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Speaker 6: you know dingos on.

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Speaker 1: Yes, no, that's the court, that's the thing. And then

497
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Speaker 1: you know they're little you know, I've gone on this

498
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Speaker 1: rand one hundred times. But their little corporate lingo which

499
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Speaker 1: I swear the guys at the top make the e

500
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Speaker 1: girls the guy's angerls at the top. I think they

501
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Speaker 1: make this stuff up just to see how many idiots

502
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Speaker 1: will repeat them. I think they just make it up.

503
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Speaker 1: It's like, guys, we got to squeeze you. We gotta

504
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Speaker 1: squeeze orange in the glass. We got a squeeze orange

505
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Speaker 1: in the glass right now, you know. And then later

506
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Speaker 1: on to day and some meeting somewhere in some city,

507
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Speaker 1: you know, it's gonna be guys, squeeze the organ to

508
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Speaker 1: the glass. It's like, what so that isn't one of them.

509
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Speaker 1: That isn't one of the things to say, But they

510
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Speaker 1: just make it up and then everyone repeats him. It

511
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Speaker 1: would drive me crazy. I would not I would not

512
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Speaker 1: do okay in a corporate environment, like it's better, it's

513
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Speaker 1: better that I don't that they don't let me talk

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Speaker 1: to the grown ups, Like it's just better because I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't know that I.

516
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Speaker 1: Would, at least in meetings. Yeah. Different, you know, it's

517
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Speaker 1: why we have you, Jason, because he is Jason. You

518
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Speaker 1: go deal with the grown ups. Like I don't know

519
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Speaker 1: what's really good. It's smiling and nodding on a zoom call.

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Speaker 11: You know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, patients, why, like you have the most patients of anyone.

522
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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I just tell people what I just tell

523
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Speaker 1: them what I think. And it's like then everyone stares

524
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Speaker 1: at me, like you weren't supposed to say that.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Then why do you invite me? Don't

527
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Speaker 1: invite me anymore to these things. So ice hockey looks

528
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Speaker 1: said to be the main draw at the upcoming Milan

529
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Speaker 1: Winter Game, would start in a few days. Organizers are

530
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Speaker 1: reporting nearly one point two million tickets sales sold so

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Speaker 1: far for the Olympics and Paralympics combined. This, according to Routers,

532
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: that total represents about three quarters of all available seats.

533
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Speaker 1: Now there's just one little stafoo. They haven't finished building

534
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Speaker 1: the arena yet. And the puck drops in five days

535
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Speaker 1: on Saturday, just five This was actually on Saturday, So

536
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Speaker 1: the puck drops like in two days, just five days

537
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Speaker 1: before the first Olympic hockey matches scheduled. The BBC report

538
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Speaker 1: of the venue would not be completely ready in time,

539
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Speaker 1: but that all games are scheduled to be played they'd

540
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Speaker 1: still be played there. I'll tell you what, though, I'll

541
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Speaker 1: tell you what, I don't think it. I think it

542
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Speaker 1: has everything to do with heat and rivalry. I think

543
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Speaker 1: heated rivalry is the reason why everyone wants to go

544
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Speaker 1: watch hockey up because they want to go watch some

545
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Speaker 1: dudes make up.

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Speaker 6: I could not agree with you, man.

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Speaker 4: I mean, they were there with the torches, so I

548
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Speaker 4: think it's all heated rivalry.

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Speaker 1: You can thank heated rivalry for the popularity of the

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Speaker 1: Winter Games. Also, I don't know if you guys saw this,

551
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Speaker 1: if you watch Heated Rivalry, but in one scene, one

552
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Speaker 1: of the dudes, the Canadian dude, whichever character he was,

553
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Speaker 1: Shane Hollander, he wore like a like a a Canadian

554
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Speaker 1: US and Canadian US. I almost said, Canadian team USA.

555
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Speaker 1: We are not one team.

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Speaker 6: I love it.

557
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Speaker 1: We are not in fag one team, the Canadian Olympic team.

558
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Speaker 1: He wore like a fleece and now they're producing it

559
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Speaker 1: and selling it because so many people wanted one. The

560
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Speaker 1: Prime Minister of Canada wanted one, and they gave him

561
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Speaker 1: the actual one that he wore in the show.

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Speaker 6: Did you see him with his leg? He asked? He

563
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Speaker 6: was first of all, he binged the whole show.

564
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Speaker 3: Then he asked Shane, the dude who plays him, if

565
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Speaker 3: he could put his leg around him when they took

566
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Speaker 3: a photo and like a gay pose for lack of

567
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Speaker 3: a better word, like him and the Prime Minister.

568
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Speaker 6: I love it.

569
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Speaker 1: And by the way, being corrected, Western is apparently in

570
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Speaker 1: square two, boats of the square toe, boots of the best. No,

571
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Speaker 1: I'm saying it's not in the corporate dress, bad guys.

572
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Speaker 1: Come on. I'm more in aboy head right now. Yeah,

573
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Speaker 1: I'm more in aboy head and boots and a belt

574
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Speaker 1: buckle right this second, like, guys, come on. The NFL

575
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: will play its first regular season game ever in France

576
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: next season. The Saints are set to travel to Paris.

577
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Speaker 1: They have extended They have extended their relationship with Spain,

578
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Speaker 1: playing at the Real Madrid Stadium. That's going to continue

579
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 1: happening for a few more years. They also have announced

580
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: their first game in Australia next season, with the Rams

581
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: hosting that game also in Rio Munich, and then three

582
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Speaker 1: games in London, and the league may also return to

583
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Speaker 1: Mexico City next season as well. We're playing a lot

584
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Speaker 1: of games all over the place. Yeah, for the NFL.

585
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Speaker 1: There's a I told you last week about the NASA

586
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Speaker 1: Artemis two moon rocket that's supposed to take off and

587
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 1: fly around the Moon, not going to land on the moon. Again,

588
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Speaker 1: don't tell me no one in here believes it. You

589
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Speaker 1: guys all believe that we actually walked in the moon, right, Yes,

590
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Speaker 1: because I know we have some conspiracy theorists.

591
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Speaker 6: Yes, why you look at me? You don't believe that.

592
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Speaker 1: I don't believe it.

593
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Speaker 6: I don't believe.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I don't believe no one, said Kitty Perry watching

595
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Speaker 1: from the moon.

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Speaker 6: I didn't say a word. She looked at me. I

597
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Speaker 6: just said, hey, last week, you didn't believe we landed

598
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Speaker 6: on the moon.

599
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Speaker 2: I don't believe Jale King and Kerry Perry went anywhere.

600
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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I believe that might be fair.

601
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Speaker 1: Well, there was a hydrogen leak yesterday during a crucial

602
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:06,719
Speaker 1: fueling test at Kennedy Space Center. Engineers continued filling despite

603
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: the problem, later so that hydrogen levels remain within acceptable limits. However,

604
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,159
Speaker 1: these four astronauts will have to wait. They will not

605
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: be taking off by February eleventh. They now are moving

606
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Speaker 1: the mission to March. Let's make sure we got all

607
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 1: our leaks. Sort of, Let's get mic from the gayaraje

608
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: out there. Let's get everything tightened up. We don't need

609
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 1: hydrogen going all over the place. Please to make sure

610
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Speaker 1: everything is good. Shout out to Florida, where it's very

611
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: cold and frozen iguanas are being scooped up. This is

612
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: a real thing that happens in Florida. If you live there,

613
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Speaker 1: then you already knew this. I feel like I do

614
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 1: this story once a year. It's been a rough winter

615
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: for iguanas in Florida because frigid attempts have seen the

616
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Speaker 1: lizards drop from trees by the dozens, and apparently this

617
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Speaker 1: is a big issue.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to see if.

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Speaker 1: If it is so, iguanas are an invasive species, they're

620
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Speaker 1: going to have to transfer them to somewhere.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to see. It doesn't explain the science behind it.

622
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Speaker 1: Ianas.

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Speaker 3: Remember we talked about this when we were talking about

624
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Speaker 3: exploding trees.

625
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a reason why they fall from trees during

626
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Speaker 1: cold snaps due to their oh god ectothermic physiology. I

627
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Speaker 1: think that's how you say it. When temperature drop below

628
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Speaker 1: fifty fahrenheit, iguanas can enter a state called cold stunning,

629
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Speaker 1: where they're muscles stiffened and they become immobile. The state

630
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Speaker 1: is a survival mechanism to can serve energy and prevent

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Speaker 1: cardiac arrests. During recovery, the sudden drop in temperature can

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Speaker 1: cause iguanas to lose their grip on branches, leading to

633
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Speaker 1: their fall. They'll typically regain movement and can and then

634
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Speaker 1: can continue their normal activities. It's important to know that

635
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Speaker 1: while they appear lifeless, they are not dead. They're just

636
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,479
Speaker 1: trying to conserve energy apparently. But then they're just all

637
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Speaker 1: laying around because it's cold. No one knows what to

638
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Speaker 1: do with them. How about this, Paulina, I know you've

639
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: you know, you've been very honest about your journey, your

640
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: plastic surgery, your body alteration, if you want to call

641
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Speaker 1: it that.

642
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Speaker 4: I'm not sure.

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00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 6: Oh yeah yeah, why not my body alteration?

644
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: Because you had a BBL, very public bb You hat

645
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: a very public BBL.

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00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 6: From page six cover like, yeah, you had a very.

647
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Speaker 1: Public Yes, you came in here. You know your dressings

648
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: were changed by Kaylin and Jason. Oh yeah, you sat

649
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: on the floor for a while after Yes, yeah, we

650
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: put the microphone on the floor for you because but

651
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Speaker 1: there's a new cosmetic trend popping up in New York

652
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: City and people are split between curious and creeped out.

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Speaker 1: It's called alo clay a l l O C l

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Speaker 1: A E and it's a filler made from donating human

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Speaker 1: fat that's injected into the body to add curves like

656
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Speaker 1: fuller hips, butts or breasts. But this is like deceasedtoners,

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Speaker 1: so people who have died they take the fat from

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Speaker 1: deceased donors. And some are staying it cross as a line,

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Speaker 1: calling it unsettling, in a sign of how extreme cosmetic

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Speaker 1: trends are getting. But they're saying that it's a faster,

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Speaker 1: less invasive option, especially for people who have lost weight

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Speaker 1: don't have enough of their own fat.

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Speaker 4: Transfers like I got you so you'll be a donor?

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Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, But do you want someone else's fat in

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Speaker 1: your body?

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Speaker 15: No?

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Speaker 6: But they like all of it. I would, I don't

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Speaker 6: give it, we don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't care about dead person fat.

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Speaker 6: Are you literally about to try the salmon sperm thing

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Speaker 6: in my face? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we need a little more context than and what

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Speaker 1: does that? What is that that means? You can't just

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Speaker 1: say that sentence and then just move on. You told

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Speaker 1: us about this. It was like a new I know.

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Speaker 1: But for the people that don't hear that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I'm going to get it injected in

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Speaker 3: my face to look glowier and younger. Okay, so I'll

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Speaker 3: take your fat. I'd like to rearrange some of mine.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean, people wear real human hair on

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Speaker 3: their wigs.

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Speaker 6: What's the difference.

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Speaker 4: Well, those people are still alive, I think, aren't they?

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Speaker 6: I hope so they're dead.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, I you suck the fat out of

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Speaker 1: my dad bod and then and then someone else walks

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Speaker 1: around with it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, if it would give me a butt on just.

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Speaker 4: To look better, I mean, it's one thing.

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Speaker 1: If it saves my life, Like, it's one thing if

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Speaker 1: i'm you know, you're putting a heart in me because

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Speaker 1: it's the only way I'm gonna live. From someone who

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Speaker 1: tragically passed away, that's a that's amazing medical technology. I

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Speaker 1: know people whose lives have been safe. We we know

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Speaker 1: people whose lives have been saying that way. But like

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Speaker 1: for me to walk around and look a little plumper,

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Speaker 1: come get them on these streets. You're putting ted fat

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Speaker 1: in me.

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Speaker 6: Come get live action fat. I leave the people alone.

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Speaker 4: You know you're over this cleans already.

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Speaker 2: Aren't you already in heaven? Bro, They've already crossed over,

702
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Speaker 2: you know this woman. Let them be fat in peace.

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Speaker 2: Come get me.

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Speaker 6: I will give you whatever you need. Kaylin.

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Speaker 1: She's on day two of her clan. She's on vegetable

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Speaker 1: day and she's already like, just suck it out forget about.

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Speaker 3: Did you say they sign and consent to their fat being.

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Speaker 2: I would really hope that's what I was thinking.

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Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, yell on the back of

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Speaker 6: your license.

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Speaker 1: Like I want I want my fat to go to

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Speaker 1: someone else with great summer summertime glow up. You know.

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Speaker 6: I mean this is getting a little weird.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I love surgeries, yeah now.

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Speaker 1: And I love search, says no one ever the hair

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Speaker 1: I'm were, Well, you'll think about that and in a

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Speaker 1: tug in cheek. Valentine's Day, So, McDonald's is offering limited

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Speaker 1: edition McNugget Caviar kits, pairing its iconic chicken McNuggets with

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Speaker 1: real caviar. February tenth and eleven Eastern. You can do this.

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Speaker 1: The kits include caviar, a caviar spoon, crem Fresh, and

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Speaker 1: a McDonald's gift card for nuggets. They're available online only

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Speaker 1: and not sold in the restaurants.

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Speaker 4: I guess that's a delicious combination. I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: It's Four Chaplains Day, honors four military chaplains from World

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Speaker 1: War Two who sacrificed their lives for fellow service members.

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Speaker 1: It's National Missing Persons Day, It's National Women's Physicians Day,

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Speaker 1: and National The Day the Music Died Day. It's a

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Speaker 1: very serious day, the anniversary of the day Buddy Holly

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Speaker 1: Rich you balance and the Big Is it the Big

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Speaker 1: Hopper or the Big Bopper? Is it the Big Hopper?

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Speaker 1: The Big hop was the Big Hopper? Then it's the Bobber? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was Hopper, the Big Bopper.

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Speaker 6: Well, rip to the Bopper and the Hopper.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we got to get the Bobber and the Hopper right.

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Speaker 1: But the day they all passed away, which is it's

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Speaker 1: a strange coincidence, all on the same day plane crash.

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Speaker 6: All of them were together.

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Speaker 4: They were all together at the same time.

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Speaker 1: I thought, so yeah, I thought, oh I thought they

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Speaker 1: were separate days. Oh wow, they were all they were

742
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Speaker 1: all flying together. Yeah, at the exact same time. That's terrible. Wait, yeah,

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Speaker 1: before I know that they died in plane crashes, I

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Speaker 1: didn't know they were all on the same plane though.

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Speaker 1: That's awful.

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Speaker 6: Three rock stars killed.

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Speaker 18: Hold on, wow yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, we're killed in

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Speaker 18: a plane crash near Clear Lake, Iowa.

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Speaker 19: Wow.

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Speaker 6: That's awful.

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Speaker 2: Big.

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Speaker 1: People are like, you haven't seen the movie in the bomba.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, first of all, I don't really watch

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Speaker 1: the plane crash movies, and second of all, it came

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Speaker 1: out of nineteen eighty seven, so no, it's been a minute.

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure it has a five or six year old.

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure that I was.

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Speaker 1: You know, hey, let's go watch that.

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Speaker 6: That is a pilot.

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Speaker 1: You should No, No, I don't like this. But I

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Speaker 1: knew that they had died in a plane crash. I

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Speaker 1: did not realize they were all together. That is really

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Speaker 1: really Shawe.

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Speaker 12: Aaron's entertainer report is on the Bread Show.

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Speaker 1: But that's why the day exists, guys to remember.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, the Big Bopper A very serious day. Yeah, very

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Speaker 6: much so.

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Speaker 3: A new Netflix documentary called The Rise of the Red

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Speaker 3: Hot Chili Peppers drops in March and will trace the

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Speaker 3: band's early history and influence of the og guitarist Hillel Slavic.

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Speaker 6: He was the founding member if you didn't know. But

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Speaker 6: here's the deal. The band itself is pushing back on

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Speaker 6: how the.

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Speaker 3: Project is being presented, because I think it's really being

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Speaker 3: presented as like a full on red Hot Chili Peppers documentary.

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Speaker 3: But in a statement, the band said that they agreed

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Speaker 3: to sit for interviews out of love and respect for

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Speaker 3: this guitarist who died of a heroin overdose in nineteen

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Speaker 3: eighty eight, but said that the documentary is being sold

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Speaker 3: in a misleading.

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Speaker 6: Way to fans.

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Speaker 3: The group phasides that they have no creative control or

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Speaker 3: involvement in this documentary and that it isn't an official

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Speaker 3: band documentary. Instead, they explained, Netflix special primarily focuses on

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Speaker 3: his story, the guitarist story, and hopes that it will

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Speaker 3: help introduce his contributions to new audiences who did not know.

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Speaker 6: They noted that they.

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Speaker 3: Have not made a documentary yet, but I mean, I'm

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Speaker 3: sure they will at some point, and I know that

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Speaker 3: it'll be interesting.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I love Anthony Quatus. His book. If you

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Speaker 6: guys have not read it is really good.

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Speaker 3: After a blockbuster twenty twenty five run, post Malone and

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Speaker 3: jelly Roll are teaming up Ugain for the Big Ass

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Speaker 3: Stadium Tour Part two, rolling out a new slate of

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Speaker 3: before moving into full stadium shows, stopped in a lot

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Speaker 3: Salt Lake City. By late July, Rising country artist Carter

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Speaker 3: Faith will be opening on most states, adding another layer

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Speaker 15: Take It.

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Speaker 3: mean Jellyroll had that super emotional moment with post Malone

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Speaker 3: after the ending of the last tour, just thanking him

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Speaker 3: and telling him, like, you know, I've never traveled out

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Speaker 3: of the country because of my past as a felon,

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Speaker 3: and like this has just been such a beautiful situation.

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Speaker 3: So their buddies and they're going on tour again. If

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Speaker 3: you didn't get to see them. Speaking of music, at

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Speaker 3: the Grammys, Chapelerone went viral for a really bold sheer

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Speaker 3: or topless. I guess we could say red carpet outfit

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Speaker 3: that sent social media like talking very much so, and

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Speaker 3: she had her little boobies peers and basically the outfit

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Speaker 3: was like attached through the piercings.

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Speaker 6: Well, people were really shocked.

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Speaker 3: Others praised it, but Chapel's reaction, she laughed off the reaction,

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Speaker 3: saying that she couldn't stop giggling, and she said the

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Speaker 3: outfit wasn't that extreme, didn't didn't garner or didn't deserve

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Speaker 3: that much talk.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know why people look because I like,

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Speaker 1: I always attached my outfit to my nipple piercing, like

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Speaker 1: there's always a change just because I don't want my

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Speaker 1: shirt to just fly off, you know, so it's like

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Speaker 1: attached there just in case.

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Speaker 4: Like I thought that was normal. She's like, everyone doesn't

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Speaker 4: do that.

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Speaker 3: Fun of people who think that that was wild, I

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Speaker 3: just think that's wild.

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Speaker 6: It was the kid in heel for me. That's a

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Speaker 6: real guy. That's what made me mad.

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Speaker 2: You know, Like, if you're going to show your nipples,

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Speaker 2: then girl, give me the put a heel.

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Speaker 6: Right, And yeah, I don't kitten heels is wild.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even see the shoes like I couldn't wow,

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Speaker 1: she was wed shoes.

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Speaker 6: So she thinks it's funny that we were blushing that

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Speaker 6: we saw her books.

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Speaker 5: I guess fun of anyone, I'm sure bully.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, every day I think about the fact that I

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Speaker 3: interviewed her, and I think the Lord that it went well,

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Speaker 3: because I'm very terrified of her and I cannot believe it.

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Speaker 6: Kiki and I were in a small room with her,

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Speaker 6: so I was like, what is this?

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Speaker 4: Got caught her nipplechain.

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Speaker 6: Very confused and neither of us honestly knew who she

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Speaker 6: was at the time. Jason was like, can you do this?

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Speaker 3: And she walked in in her own like outfit and

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Speaker 3: it was me, Keeky and her in a room and.

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Speaker 1: We're paying bills, thirteen chances to win one thousand bucks.

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Speaker 1: You first just after eight and then every hour all

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Speaker 1: day to day, one thousand bucks in frey and dashboard

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Speaker 1: confessional tickets to seven fifty five. We've got toes and

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00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: big news. Jason Brown is interviewing David. The David Archieletta

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Speaker 1: says the David Archiletta. Because he has a memoir.

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Speaker 20: He has a memoir. He's telling his story. He's a

883
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Speaker 20: memoir coming out. This is so exciting. So that's going

884
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Speaker 20: to go up in the highlights section. Yeah, we can't

885
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Speaker 20: put it up for a couple of weeks, but yes,

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Speaker 20: I'm doing it today.

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Speaker 1: Oh there is a secret in it. It's an interview

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Speaker 1: that has an embargo on it. I'm on a gag order.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all the tea we're gonna get. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 4: you even come true for you?

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Speaker 6: You love him? I know, I know, I know.

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Speaker 20: I'm a little nervous because like, yes, like I actually

893
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Speaker 20: have like a real life crush on him.

894
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Speaker 4: And yeah, wow, be weird.

895
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Speaker 1: Well he tries to hit, I'm gonna have to let

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Speaker 1: him stab. Look at you, okay, Cam Newton friends many

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Speaker 1: Jason is the him every time, and in typical Jason

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Speaker 1: Brown selfless fashion, he offered it to me first because

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Speaker 1: he knows what a what a David ARCHILLTT A fan

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Speaker 1: I am.

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Speaker 20: I would love for him.

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Speaker 6: He'll have a shared line.

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Speaker 4: But no, Jason, I want you to do that.

904
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Speaker 1: I want you to have it, and I can't wait

905
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Speaker 1: to find out what you what you're able to discover

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Speaker 1: about the David Archill.

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Speaker 20: He's got I guess he's got a lot to say,

908
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Speaker 20: so I'm here for it.

909
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Speaker 1: And see if he'll give us a deal to come

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Speaker 1: play uh, you know, all of his song for us.

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Speaker 4: Several times.

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Speaker 1: I would pay. I would pay hundreds of dollars if

913
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Speaker 1: he would come and play just Crush. If you play

914
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Speaker 1: Crush three or four times in a row, I'd be

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Speaker 1: fine with that. We can carry on with our evening.

916
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Speaker 20: You know, I discovered last night he's got like seven albums,

917
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Speaker 20: so we don't need all that, you know, it's you

918
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Speaker 20: can keep that. You have to work too hard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just one. Yeah, just if you could just do

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Speaker 1: that one again and again and again, then it'll be fine.

921
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Speaker 1: So that will be going up on the iHeart app

922
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Speaker 1: with a bunch of other stuff that's there right now,

923
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Speaker 1: the highlights tab. It's the Frend Show on demand on

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Speaker 1: the iHeart app, YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, all the places. The

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Speaker 1: Frend Show is not kissing Hey, wake up.

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Speaker 6: I mean the night like a ligament I do, yeah,

927
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Speaker 6: I mean the.

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Speaker 1: Idea Fred Show is. It's Tuesday, February third. The French

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Speaker 1: Show is not high kal Hi Jason Brown one thousand,

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Speaker 1: six hundred and fifty bucks in the showdown in about

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Speaker 1: todd twenty minutes, you could win, stay or go, will

932
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Speaker 1: debate some relationship drama, the Entertainment Report and blogs this hour.

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Speaker 1: What are you working on?

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Speaker 3: K Tom Brady? He may be one of the finest

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Speaker 3: men in the world, most sought after, but he's trying

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Speaker 3: to get across his crushes attention and it's very awkward.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, guess coming up commercial free the next forty five minutes.

939
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Speaker 1: I saw that one of the suits out there in

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Speaker 1: his button. Now what does he want? You want to

941
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Speaker 1: start to Pauline?

942
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Speaker 6: Uh oh, remember what I just said.

943
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Speaker 11: I get me.

944
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Speaker 1: You better be careful what you wish for all of

945
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Speaker 1: a sudden, you don't want to be addressed by these people.

946
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Speaker 12: Yeah. Than these are the radio blogs on the Thread

947
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Speaker 12: show care.

948
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Speaker 1: We what do you wait for?

949
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Speaker 6: See what happens? I was like, oh, yeah, this suits?

950
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Speaker 6: You know where are they AT's?

951
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Speaker 4: Don't he's waiting outside for you.

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Speaker 9: Wow.

953
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Speaker 1: I like writing in our diaries, except we say him aloud.

954
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Speaker 1: We call him blogs.

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Speaker 6: Yes, thank you so much, dear blog.

956
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Speaker 17: So yesterday was a big day for for my girly,

957
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Speaker 17: who is almost two years old. My daughter gig and myself,

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Speaker 17: and I guess all of us everyone here collectively.

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Speaker 6: It's a big day. My daughter started school yesterday. Yes,

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Speaker 6: my two year olds in squad Tota is a genius.

961
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Speaker 6: Keep playing with me.

962
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Speaker 1: I was gonna stay freshman in college already, it's impressive. Yeah.

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Speaker 17: Yeah, we didn't really get into Harvard, so we're gonna

964
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Speaker 17: do Yale. She'll be visiting your alma matter. And where'd

965
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Speaker 17: you go on alma mater?

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Speaker 4: Alma mana alma mater.

967
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Speaker 17: Yeah, Almond Butter, come on, no, no, the one in London,

968
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Speaker 17: Oxford alma mater Oxford.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we're gonna be studying abroad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what, I don't think I can claim

971
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Speaker 1: it as all I did one semester. I don't think

972
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Speaker 1: I can claim it as it can't be my Almond Butter.

973
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Speaker 6: Yes, I claim none of it.

974
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Speaker 1: Wow. I don't know what Harvard was thinking, but glad

975
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Speaker 1: that Yale was forward thinking enough to just take her

976
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Speaker 1: right away exactly.

977
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Speaker 17: So yesterday it was our first day of school. It

978
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Speaker 17: was really a cool experience to see Gigi just fully

979
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Speaker 17: immersed in like a structured program, because like she is

980
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Speaker 17: such a good kid like my and I know everybody

981
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Speaker 17: says that, but like my daughter is a good girl,

982
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Speaker 17: like she is, so I don't know she's sweet. She's also,

983
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Speaker 17: like I could tell, not taking any crap from anybody.

984
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Speaker 17: So I kind of love it. It's like best of

985
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Speaker 17: both worlds, Like she does want you to be sweet,

986
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Speaker 17: I want to be like stern and stuff. And I'm like, okay, girl,

987
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Speaker 17: She's very talkative, chalks a lot, she understands Polish, Spanish

988
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Speaker 17: and English, so I love that.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, you're like a litt little superstar over

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Speaker 6: here traveling coin. Right, let's do this, girl, can you

992
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Speaker 6: hear me? Alma matter? Like barely?

993
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Speaker 17: So I feel like this was a good choice for

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Speaker 17: us because I wanted her to get exposure. She's almost

995
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Speaker 17: two years old, but I wanted her to be around

996
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Speaker 17: children and babies, and like this is why I do say,

997
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Speaker 17: like being at home all day with your baby is

998
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Speaker 17: really hard and tough work because only is it just

999
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Speaker 17: always you're always very stimulated. Right, we got to move around,

1000
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Speaker 17: do different things, and I don't want her to lose

1001
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Speaker 17: to the TV all day because that does happen if

1002
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Speaker 17: we're not doing anything, we're just watching TV, which some

1003
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Speaker 17: days we just are. But I just wanted her to

1004
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Speaker 17: be around kids, like I'm not a two year old.

1005
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Speaker 17: Like at the end of the day, i could play barbies

1006
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Speaker 17: and get down and you know, and sit and play

1007
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 17: dress up and color. But I'm not a two year old,

1008
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Speaker 17: and she's not gonna get that interaction with me that

1009
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Speaker 17: she would with a child.

1010
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Speaker 6: So I found a spot that I like.

1011
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 17: And what I like about this place is that it's

1012
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Speaker 17: a school, so it's for two and three year olds.

1013
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 17: I think you can go there younger too. You're just

1014
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Speaker 17: get a different classroom. I think they separated by like

1015
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Speaker 17: baby babies and then like the walkers, crawlers whatever they're

1016
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Speaker 17: calling them. But also it's a coworking space for parents.

1017
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Speaker 1: That's so great.

1018
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 6: I wanted to kiss the owner in the mouth. I said,

1019
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Speaker 6: I love you yea guys because they cool.

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Speaker 17: I was the eight out of ten right there, because

1021
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Speaker 17: I didn't have to leave her. No, I'm like, I

1022
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Speaker 17: get to stay here and get work done. I think

1023
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Speaker 17: I us have been talking to Jason about something. I

1024
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Speaker 17: was like, just boom boom, boom, run this. I had

1025
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Speaker 17: a doctor's appointment on zoom did that in a little office.

1026
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Speaker 17: You get to just reserve the space, so if you

1027
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Speaker 17: want privacy, you get to go in little office rooms

1028
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 17: or they it's like a coworking space. So we're all

1029
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Speaker 17: kind of just out and you know, working, and there's

1030
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Speaker 17: other parents there. They have a little gym in the corner,

1031
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 17: so you know, I'll be sneaking into their Yes, they're

1032
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 17: so smart.

1033
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Speaker 6: I'm like, this is what the mod count. Its like

1034
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Speaker 6: one and.

1035
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Speaker 17: She gets to go to school and have her little

1036
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Speaker 17: friends and her teachers.

1037
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Speaker 6: That's just a cute thing.

1038
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Speaker 3: Did she look like when you walked away, did she

1039
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 3: look back or did she not look back?

1040
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Speaker 17: She looked back and she gave me a wave and said,

1041
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Speaker 17: by my mey, I get.

1042
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Speaker 6: I go with babies.

1043
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

1044
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, she's so good. That's why I'm like, that's a

1045
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 6: good choice for us. We're at a good place.

1046
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 3: So excited for the handfoot and mouth that you're going

1047
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:41,839
Speaker 3: to bring to work.

1048
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Speaker 6: I can't wait to be sick all the time.

1049
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 4: I can't wait. It's all good every time I'm around

1050
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:47,919
Speaker 4: these little kids.

1051
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, my nieces, I just specify those little every time,

1052
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 1: my nieces. Right, mister Rogers over here. I always wonder

1053
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 1: like the immune system of the parents that was amazing

1054
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: that show is on. It's stay or go all right, Lucy, Hi, Lucy,

1055
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 1: good morning, Hey, good morning, Lucy. Let's solve your problem now,

1056
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: just every week, every day, just solving everybody's life problems.

1057
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: You know, just come to a bunch of radio DJs.

1058
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 1: We'll fix everything. Don't you worry. This is about your husband,

1059
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: and your husband is not sticking up for you.

1060
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 6: It's correct.

1061
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 15: Yeah, I love my husband, but he is not sticking

1062
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 15: up for me when it comes to his mother, and

1063
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 15: it is causing a major issue in our relationship currently.

1064
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 15: My mother in law is just relentless on the comments

1065
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 15: that she makes about my parenting and like what I wear,

1066
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 15: how I color my hair, like anything you could possibly

1067
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 15: think of, and my husband refuses to say anything to

1068
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 15: her and to like stick up for me, and so

1069
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Speaker 15: I'm really struggling here.

1070
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Speaker 1: So you go to him and you say like, hey,

1071
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: your mom said this to me today, your mom did this,

1072
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: your mom's critical of this, And then what does he.

1073
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 4: Say to you.

1074
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 15: He'll just say like, you know, oh, like that's just

1075
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:28,320
Speaker 15: how she is, or you know, it's not a big deal,

1076
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 15: or like hear you and be like, well, you know,

1077
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 15: that's my mom and I can't control her, and he

1078
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 15: won't say anything to her at all, And so I

1079
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 15: just feel like you should stand up for me as

1080
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 15: your wife and the mother of your children, and like

1081
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 15: say something to your mom and tell her to knock

1082
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 15: it off.

1083
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: He's afraid of his mom.

1084
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 4: He's afraid of his Mommy.

1085
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 1: I dated one of these, this guy, all right, So

1086
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,319
Speaker 1: then you guys wind up finding about it because he

1087
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: doesn't want to get involved. And I mean, have you

1088
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 1: said something to her? And not that I think that

1089
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: that I think he should be saying something on your behalf,

1090
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 1: But I mean, have you said to her like hey man,

1091
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 1: like maybe not like that, maybe hey man, like hey lady, yeah, Rosty,

1092
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Speaker 1: Like why you know what's up with it? Like do

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00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 1: you have do you ever like clap back at her

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00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 1: or sort of like respond in a in a more healthy.

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Speaker 15: Way how to keep the peace with her? I know

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00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:30,280
Speaker 15: how she is, and I feel like that's his job

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00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 15: to do that. Like I feel like it's his mom.

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00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 15: And if it were my mom, I would, you know,

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00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 15: totally say something to my mom to the same him.

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Speaker 4: Has it been this way forever? Has she always treated

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Speaker 4: you this way?

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00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: Yes?

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00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:48,760
Speaker 15: But it's definitely gotten worse since we had kids, because

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00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 15: now she's you know, around more and constantly commenting on

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00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 15: my parenting, and like, you know, she'll even say stuff

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00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 15: about what the kids have on and I'm like, come on, lady,

1107
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 15: like this is ridiculous.

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00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, right, I don't you guess Paulina could comment

1109
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 1: on this having in laws. But I know your in

1110
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: laws are really involved and supportive and helpful. But eight

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00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: five five five nine three five. I'd love to know

1112
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Speaker 1: from the perspective of anyone who's been through something like this,

1113
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,359
Speaker 1: like how do you deal with your mother in law

1114
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: or father in law or whomever on the other side

1115
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 1: of the family when they're saying things to you. I mean,

1116
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: you got to expect the person whose family it is

1117
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 1: to get involved, right because that unless, of course, he

1118
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: agrees with her, which is a whole different issue altogether,

1119
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: Like which is a conversation that you might need to have,

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00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 1: which like wait a minute, so like you won't go

1121
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 1: to her, Is that because you think she's right? I mean,

1122
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 1: I guess we got to get to the bottom of

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00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: why he won't stand up for you first and foremost, I.

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Speaker 15: Think, right, yeah, I mean, you just feel like we

1125
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 15: should just respective mom and like she won't be around forever,

1126
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 15: and like you know, their backhanded comments, and it's not

1127
00:50:59,160 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 15: a big.

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Speaker 8: Deal for her to die.

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00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:02,919
Speaker 1: It's not a solution. So that's not that's not gonna

1130
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: she only got a couple of decades left to live.

1131
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 1: I guess that does not do whatever. You shouldn't have

1132
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: to put up with that, I mean, And also if

1133
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: it's happening in your house and your kids and your life,

1134
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely think there needs to be some

1135
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 1: form of moderation. He needs to go to her and

1136
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: figure out where she's coming from, what her viewpoint is,

1137
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: and why on your behalf. I mean, I don't think

1138
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 1: he has he doesn't have to condemn his mother, but

1139
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: I definitely think he has an obligation to stand up

1140
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:28,280
Speaker 1: for you.

1141
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 4: You're you're the mother of.

1142
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 1: His kids, you're his wife, and I think that puts

1143
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: you first in a lot of ways, which I know

1144
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 1: can be hard with overbearing moms and overprotective and mom's

1145
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: son relationships that are close. But now you're the primary

1146
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:41,879
Speaker 1: lady in.

1147
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:46,320
Speaker 15: His life, right yeah, I mean, that's that's the problem,

1148
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 15: and so it's causing huge fights in our marriage. And

1149
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:55,840
Speaker 15: like I don't know how to navigate this, and I'm like,

1150
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 15: I can't put up with this much longer. You're life,

1151
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:00,479
Speaker 15: Like I can't wait around to his mom to die

1152
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,399
Speaker 15: like this has been saying, all.

1153
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: Right, well, let me take some phone calls on this, Lucy.

1154
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 1: I wish you the best. Thank you for sharing and

1155
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 1: good luck.

1156
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 15: Thank you so much. I appreciate you.

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00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: Yes, thank you eight five five five one three five Sarah, Hi,

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00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning, Sarah. So stayir go. You know,

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00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:20,399
Speaker 1: we call it stairgo Like, I don't know if she's

1160
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: going to divorce the guy, but she might. I mean,

1161
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 1: it sounds like she's kind of at her wits end

1162
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,760
Speaker 1: with his mother in law, who's got something to say

1163
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: about everything.

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Speaker 21: Uh huh.

1165
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 22: I agree. I think she should go. I mean, she

1166
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:37,879
Speaker 22: married him, she married into the family, and she's scared.

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Speaker 1: Of a mom.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like, now are you married?

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Speaker 22: I am not married, okay.

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Speaker 1: I was just curious.

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Speaker 19: You have a.

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Speaker 22: Boyfriend, though, and I love his family and I haven't

1173
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:49,760
Speaker 22: seen any problem.

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Speaker 1: So would your expectation be that he solves the problem,

1175
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: Like if there's an issue that he it's if it's

1176
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: his family, he needs to manage that or is it

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00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: ever something where you can get involved and say something,

1178
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,280
Speaker 1: because I feel like it's only going to further alienate

1179
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:04,479
Speaker 1: you if you did.

1180
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Speaker 22: But maybe Yeah, I mean I would address a problem

1181
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 22: to him, but I think he should ultimately solve it.

1182
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 22: If I wanted to try counseling, I hope you would,

1183
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 22: you know, stand by my side and everything like that.

1184
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, thank you, Sarah, Thanks for listening.

1185
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Speaker 22: Have a good day, of course, love you guys.

1186
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 1: I love you too. Got your cause it verg how

1187
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 1: you say it? Yeah?

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Speaker 16: Guy, listener?

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Speaker 15: What uh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 1: We only have thirteen and so thanks for reminding us.

1192
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 1: I'm always reminded when people are like I'm playing the

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00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 1: show vich Shelley game for the seventy fourth time. I'm like, oh, okay, cool,

1194
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:40,759
Speaker 1: we really truly only have thirteen listeners. It's great. What

1195
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 1: do you do in this situation? Lucy's upset because her

1196
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:47,760
Speaker 1: husband's mom is very critical of her and her parenting,

1197
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:49,879
Speaker 1: and he doesn't want to get involved. He just sort

1198
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: of blows it off, like, well that's how she is.

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Speaker 1: I can't control that.

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Speaker 23: What do you think, Well, she's given him the opportunity

1201
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 23: to fix it, and it sounds like just ask that mind.

1202
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 23: So you've got a lot of options in my opinion,

1203
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 23: I mean, there's you have to advocate for oneself, you

1204
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 23: know what I'm saying, And you can be assertive without

1205
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 23: being aggressive. And if you can't be assertive, then be aggressive.

1206
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 23: I mean you can be passive, aggressive, aggressive, aggressive, but

1207
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 23: try assertive. I know, for me, when I have a

1208
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 23: family members that say like just crazy stuff to me,

1209
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 23: my first gut response, and I've had to train myself,

1210
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 23: is I just look at them, swear in the eye,

1211
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 23: and I say, that's crazy, right, that is wild.

1212
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 6: I can't believe you said that.

1213
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, but my problem, my issue is if he's not,

1214
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:56,800
Speaker 1: if you don't, if you know he didn't have your back,

1215
00:54:57,360 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 1: then you're finding a battle with his family and he's

1216
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: you know, he's not going to support you. So it's like,

1217
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Speaker 1: I guess it would be one thing if he's like, yeah,

1218
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: I totally agree, Like let's go together and have a

1219
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: conversation about this, and then you knew that he had

1220
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:11,800
Speaker 1: your back, But like, if you're going to be combative

1221
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 1: with his mom and he's going to justify her behavior,

1222
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: then I don't think I wouldn't feel very confident.

1223
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 4: You know that that anyone's supporting me.

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00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 23: So I get that, and in that case, aggression is

1225
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Speaker 23: off the table.

1226
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 8: But assertiveness can.

1227
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:31,799
Speaker 6: Be calm and kind and non combative.

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Speaker 1: Okay, when I hear his same is punch in the

1229
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 1: face like her take her to the to go down

1230
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 1: and threaten her.

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Speaker 23: The word no can be a complete sentence, you know.

1232
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Speaker 23: So if she just looks at her and says no

1233
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 23: and walks away like there's no argument, Yeah, you're going

1234
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 23: to say. If she comes back and gets aggressive the

1235
00:55:56,000 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 23: mother in law, then Lucy can say no the husband.

1236
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 6: While they're like fist fighting, you know, like.

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Speaker 23: Well that's the thing, and her husband's not going to

1238
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 23: stand up to his mom. Clearly he's proven that, so

1239
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 23: that leaves the ball in Lucy's court. Lucy can either

1240
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 23: choose to be treated poorly in a toxic not ahealthy

1241
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 23: relationship with a power dynamic, or she can take back

1242
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 23: her power.

1243
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 6: And you can do that by.

1244
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,399
Speaker 23: Just standing still and standing up.

1245
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 6: You don't have to swing, you.

1246
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: Know, all right, I'm not virg saying no swinging. Okay,

1247
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:36,879
Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. I'm glad you called.

1248
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, give.

1249
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 6: Him an ultimatum.

1250
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 2: Either you are going to no, either you are going

1251
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:47,840
Speaker 2: to man up and support your wife and your children,

1252
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 2: or you're going to be with your mother because there's

1253
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 2: no way she can win this.

1254
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Speaker 6: Like, I'm your.

1255
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 4: Wife, I kind of agree with you.

1256
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, you either support me or you don't.

1257
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: Hate an ultimatum, but it's like yeah, yeah, I guess what. Sorry,

1258
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 1: but I'm I'm at another level now. You know, we

1259
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: made kids together, we're together for life.

1260
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 6: Like i'manting on her hair color, like that's crazy.

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00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:12,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. Hey Jose, yes, jose where you lived?

1262
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Speaker 1: Who was criticizing whom? If you live this?

1263
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Speaker 24: So my mother got on my wife for so many years.

1264
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 24: I think with my wife for twenty years. We have

1265
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 24: two boys now there are fifteen and nineteen. But my

1266
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 24: mother would always be very rude to my wife. So

1267
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 24: I would always tell my wife, listen, I will find

1268
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 24: a way to tell her something. And my wife, she

1269
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 24: she literally put up with a lot of crap from her,

1270
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 24: and she was even at some point offered all the

1271
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 24: money for her to walk away from the relationship just

1272
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 24: as long as she was not with me. Wow, So

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Speaker 24: it was it was pretty drastic. But I can tell

1274
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 24: her is listen, you need to talk to your partner,

1275
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 24: and you have to give him two choices, because that's

1276
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:07,960
Speaker 24: exactly what I was given.

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Speaker 9: One.

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Speaker 19: He needs to respect the fact that you don't want

1279
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 19: to be.

1280
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 24: Part of his mother's life and he doesn't need you

1281
00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 24: to be around for him to go see his mother.

1282
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 24: So he wants to go see his mother, he goes along.

1283
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 24: He needs to at least respect that, and he does

1284
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 24: not agree with that. Then he'd want to have to

1285
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 24: tell his mother the reason why you don't want to

1286
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 24: be there, and she's going to have to put u

1287
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 24: stuff to his mother.

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Speaker 4: How did you resolve it, Jose? Are you still married

1289
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 4: or to your wife leave?

1290
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 1: We are still married.

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Speaker 24: My wife's still with me, and we just don't see

1292
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 24: my mother anymore. It's being nah if I see my

1293
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 24: mother once a year.

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Speaker 1: He's so sad because now the kids are are and

1295
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: who knows, maybe that's a healthy thing if they're watching

1296
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 1: their mom be mistreated, But that's very sad that there

1297
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 1: can't be any kind of middle ground and then your

1298
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: kids don't get to see their grandmother because she can't

1299
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Speaker 1: play nice.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's a shame.

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Speaker 24: Yeah, it is a shame. But to be honest with you,

1302
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 24: now that my kids are older and they understand and

1303
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 24: they see how she is a personally that never going

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00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 24: to change.

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00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 24: Yeah, person is going to have to realize that she's

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Speaker 24: never going to change. And it's about how much do

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Speaker 24: you love your partner to one give him the chance

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Speaker 24: to put up with it and try to take action

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Speaker 24: with his mother. Or two give him the chance to

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Speaker 24: let you be a part Yeah, make you give you

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Speaker 24: the chance not to be.

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Speaker 8: Part of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, jose I'm glad you called. Thanks for sharing. Man,

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Speaker 1: you did do the right thing. Have a good day.

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Speaker 24: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I would love to hear from a perspective of a

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Speaker 1: mother in this, because I'm sure it's hard, especially moms

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Speaker 1: and sons. I'm sure it's hard to watch another woman

1320
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: sort of not replace you, but sort of take that

1321
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 1: primary role that you're used to having. But like I

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00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 1: put this on the mother solely, Like the mom has

1323
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 1: got to accept the change. That's what I'm thinking she has,

1324
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 1: you know, and I don't know that this person has

1325
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: the self awareness to understand that, but like she's alienating herself,

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01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: Like this is a losing proposition. Now. The problem is

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01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 1: if the sun doesn't see it that way, then I

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01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 1: don't know is his wife ever going to be the priority?

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Speaker 1: I mean literally, his response is waiting for her to die,

1330
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: right Like, that's not that's not a real response when

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Speaker 1: you have a wife and children. Maddie, Good morning, Maddie. Okay, Hi,

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Speaker 1: what did you want to say about this day or ago?

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01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: Just recap her quickly. Lucy's upset because her mother in

1334
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 1: law is very critical of her and her husband is

1335
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: not really willing to get involved in this.

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Speaker 19: I married this guy, my kids with this guy, and

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01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 19: we got divorced basically because the mother in law. And

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01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 19: let me tell you that mother in law right now

1339
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 19: is wearing that she is filtering some of what she

1340
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 19: says and does believe me. And then when you get

1341
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 19: to it becomes way worse because she drops up hills

1342
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 19: and you still have to put up with him because

1343
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Speaker 19: of the kids.

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Speaker 4: Oh I see, so now the gloves are off.

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01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 1: Like if you think it's bad now, then wait till

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01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 1: you leave her son, and then it's But I guess

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01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 1: your exposure to her is limited because that means that

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Speaker 1: you don't have to see him.

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Speaker 19: You would think so, and it was limited some, but

1350
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 19: you still have to deal with them, and it's way worse,

1351
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 19: find a way to make it work. You need to

1352
01:01:27,600 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 19: stand up for yourself now, girl, sets the boundaries now,

1353
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 19: because it's lose lose lose for everyone. If you get

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01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,959
Speaker 19: a divorce, it does not make it better.

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Speaker 1: That's too bad, Maddie, Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Have a great day, you two. Yeah, this is why

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01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 1: you got to do a full FBI Forensic CIA background

1358
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: on everybody in the family you're about to enter into,

1359
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 1: because you're not just marrying one. You're not just marrying

1360
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: the guy or the girl. Now we're now I'm marrying

1361
01:01:56,880 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 1: all these psychos. Okay, So I need to know exactly

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01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:03,280
Speaker 1: who I am dealing with. I need we need to

1363
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: sit down lit detective tests. I need I need you

1364
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 1: a room that's patted with the one light bulb hanging

1365
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: down from the ceiling and the table, like I need

1366
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 1: to understand full psychological background because apparently you can't escape

1367
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 1: it once once you're and you have kids, and you can't,

1368
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: you're never getting out of it.

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01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 4: We gotta know a we gotta know exactly who we're

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Speaker 4: working with.

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Speaker 12: Kiki Karen's entertainment report is on The Bread Show.

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Speaker 3: Jason Bateman and his podcast is going viral right now,

1373
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:33,439
Speaker 3: and not for.

1374
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Speaker 6: Such great reasons.

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01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 3: There was a very awkward interview with Charlie XCX on SmartLess,

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01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 3: So essentially he and his co host were pressing Charlie

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01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 3: on why she doesn't want children.

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01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 6: So they got.

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Speaker 3: Into this conversation because Charlie was talking about being an

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Speaker 3: only child, and Jason asked her if that influences how

1381
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 3: many kids she wants to have, so already we're assuming.

1382
01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 6: When she told them that she doesn't.

1383
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 3: Want kids very clearly, hard stuff, Sean Hayes jumped in

1384
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:03,800
Speaker 3: and was like, you don't wait, why and then he

1385
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 3: went it's none of my business, okay, But Jason Jason

1386
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 3: made it worse. He told a story then about how

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Speaker 3: his wife didn't want kids at first before having two kids,

1388
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 3: suggesting that Charlie quote might find somebody who will change

1389
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 3: her mind too. This is worse because my girl, Charlie

1390
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 3: is married and she just got married. And he was like,

1391
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 3: I need to read a newspaper. Okay, this is why

1392
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 3: not everyone needs a podcast, right, And what'd you say? Literally,

1393
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 3: and you have someone as big as Charlie XCX on there,

1394
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 3: a quick Google search will show you that she just

1395
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 3: got married in Italy with like, you know, tables of

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01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 3: cigarettes for her guests at the.

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Speaker 6: Wedding, Like, I don't it was bad.

1398
01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 3: A lot of people said it was gross, tone deaf,

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01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:52,800
Speaker 3: and things were very very awkward.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I feel bad for her, and they really.

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01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 1: Want to tell to people's decisions about children, like it's

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01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:02,439
Speaker 1: I don't know unless you have permission to talk about

1403
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: that or you have like that that level, you're on

1404
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: that level with someone like that's a very sensitive topic

1405
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: because there could be a lot of reasons why. Yeah,

1406
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: maybe she's unable, maybe he's unable. Maybe they just don't

1407
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 1: want it, yeah, which is so hard for some people

1408
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 1: to imagine, like, oh, really you don't want to have children,

1409
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 1: Like what's wrong with you?

1410
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:20,880
Speaker 9: Yeah?

1411
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 4: Because I don't want to have children?

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01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: How about that?

1413
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 3: Maybe the question about like how her own childhood, like

1414
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 3: does that influence her choices?

1415
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 1: Now?

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01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 6: Like I'm not so mad at that one.

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01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 3: But when she says hardstop, I don't want kids, and

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01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 3: then they say why and then he's like, well, maybe

1419
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 3: you'll change your mind and maybe you'll need someone like

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01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:38,919
Speaker 3: I literally just got married, buddy, we don't want kids.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:41,760
Speaker 1: Change is crazy for yeah, it's like that. You know,

1423
01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 1: when it's you'll find someone someday, you know there's someone

1424
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 1: out there for you. You know, when it comes to relationships

1425
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 1: and people who are single, it's like, well, what if,

1426
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:51,919
Speaker 1: what if I'm not looking? Like, imagine a world where

1427
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 1: I don't I don't need another person to complete me.

1428
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 1: Like that's very triggering for me too. You know, it's

1429
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 1: none none of your business why I don't want to

1430
01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: have kids, And it's none of your business I'm not

1431
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: in a relationship. And you shouldn't assume that someone doesn't

1432
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 1: want kids because maybe they can't have them and that's

1433
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: really tragic and difficult for them, and you're just bringing

1434
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: it up, you know, flippantly. Or maybe someone doesn't want

1435
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship, and that's okay too, totally.

1436
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 3: As normalized asking people are you happy or like other things.

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01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 3: I don't know why that's like the barometer for how

1438
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 3: well you're doing in life is.

1439
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 1: Because it's like a pity thing. When someone's like, oh,

1440
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: you'll find someone someday, it's like.

1441
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have an ant that like holds my ring finger.

1442
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, I'm like.

1443
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 6: No, I'm a good girl.

1444
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:34,000
Speaker 3: I'm like kick an ass at work. I don't know whatever.

1445
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 3: Tom Brady one of the most eligible bachelors probably in

1446
01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 3: the world. You know, even he sometimes needs to try

1447
01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 3: and get attention though, so stars, they're just like us.

1448
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 3: Remember a while back, after ex wife Giselle announced she

1449
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 3: was having a baby, he posted that sunset with a

1450
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 3: sad song and a quote. Okay, so he's like at

1451
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 3: it again, but he's posting like he's a high school

1452
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 3: girl trying to get a CRUSH's attention.

1453
01:05:58,840 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 6: I don't know if you guys saw these.

1454
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 3: So the forty eight year old former QB posted a

1455
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 3: couple selfies seemingly try to make like a sexy face

1456
01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 3: to his stories.

1457
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 6: On Sunday, later deleting one of them, and fans.

1458
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:13,080
Speaker 3: Are speculating that he is hoping to get the attention

1459
01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 3: of a special someone. The first one he's like smising

1460
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 3: and he says, so this is what you do on

1461
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 3: a Sunday with a bunch of one hundred emojis with

1462
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:23,800
Speaker 3: mister Brightside the Killers playing. The second post, which he

1463
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 3: later deleted, it was him cuddled up in a hoodie

1464
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 3: lying on his side. Okay, major move from the couch

1465
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 3: back to the bed. This is what Sunday's all about.

1466
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 3: In the third post, he showed off a book that

1467
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 3: he's reading. It's Trillion Dollar Coach, the Leadership Playbook of

1468
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 3: Silicon Valley's Bill Campbell writing even get a chance to

1469
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 3: catch up on some other things. A lot of people

1470
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 3: are entering the chat. Yeah, like, you don't need to

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Speaker 3: do all this. Shout out to our friend Laguna Biach,

1472
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Speaker 3: who I saw a post about this first. She wrote

1473
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 3: on x he's posting like a girl who has a

1474
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 3: crush and that got like seventy three thousand LIFs last time.

1475
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 3: He's a goat, but also he's a divorced dad. Don't

1476
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:05,400
Speaker 3: forget that. This is how I posted in college after

1477
01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 3: I broke up with my boyfriend.

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01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:09,920
Speaker 6: So a lot of people are kind of ripping him

1479
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 6: for that.

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Speaker 2: But he was running around with Alex one of the

1481
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Speaker 2: earls or something.

1482
01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, the earl girls.

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01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 3: He was in sant Bart's and she was rubbing his back.

1484
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 3: But I think he's running around with a lot of girls.

1485
01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 3: I don't know, but this seemed targeted. You know how

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01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 3: if you have a crush, like and you want one

1487
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 3: person to see. I've heard of girls even doing like

1488
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:29,720
Speaker 3: on their private story, only adding their crush and so

1489
01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 3: they can post of just for them to see if

1490
01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 3: they watched it.

1491
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,640
Speaker 6: I know there's a little thing he's looking up to see.

1492
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:37,480
Speaker 6: Who's looking at a story that was issue here.

1493
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Speaker 3: That was for someone and really quick told you yesterday

1494
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 3: about the romance rumors between Kim Kardashian and Lewis Hamilton.

1495
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:46,080
Speaker 3: Right after we got off the air, we saw them

1496
01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 3: arriving together in Paris on a paj uh. They were

1497
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:52,840
Speaker 3: boarding a jet from the UK touching down in Paris

1498
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 3: for what people are calling a romantic made up though

1499
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Speaker 3: neither of them have of course addressed this.

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Speaker 6: They also had.

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Speaker 3: A quiet weekend get way in the English countryside before

1502
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 3: heading to France with stops at a luxury retreat where

1503
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 3: they spent time together out of the public eye. So

1504
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 3: she is dating for the first time in a really

1505
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 3: long time, and she's going f one this time. If

1506
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 3: you want to catch up on anything you missed from

1507
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 3: today or any day, it's all up on the free

1508
01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 3: iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 6: You can just search the Fred Show on demand.

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Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

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01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:25,920
Speaker 12: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Hi, Showbis Shelley. Hi, how you doing?

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01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:38,799
Speaker 6: Do I just fine? Thanks? How are you?

1514
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:41,719
Speaker 1: Do you feel more pressure when the money gets big

1515
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:43,920
Speaker 1: like this one thousand, six hundred and fifty by he's

1516
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 1: a big check.

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01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, it is a big check.

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Speaker 15: I do.

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I feel it probably pressure every day,

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Speaker 6: but yes, ok, a lot of pressure.

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Speaker 4: I mean you have a year you are show Bis Shelley.

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01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 1: You have a name? Do have fold? I do? And

1523
01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 1: a reputation? A Luca? Hi?

1524
01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 4: Luca?

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01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 8: Okay, Hey, how's it going guys?

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01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 1: Luca? Good morning, welcome, thanks for listening. Fun factor about

1527
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:01,680
Speaker 1: you would be what?

1528
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 8: Well? I just became an uncle yesterday.

1529
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:08,679
Speaker 1: Congratulations, congratulations boy or a girl?

1530
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 4: And and first name?

1531
01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 1: Please?

1532
01:09:12,280 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 8: It's a boy?

1533
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 1: Wait what you went away?

1534
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:15,719
Speaker 4: Luca?

1535
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:16,759
Speaker 1: And his name's what?

1536
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:16,680
Speaker 14: What?

1537
01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 8: Where?

1538
01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 1: Looka?

1539
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 4: Now you're back? You're back, Luca? What's his name?

1540
01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:24,759
Speaker 8: His name is Luca? Also?

1541
01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 1: Oh, look at that? You must be a legend if

1542
01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:31,920
Speaker 1: the child is named after you, or is everyone in

1543
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 1: your family named Luca? Is it like George Foreman where

1544
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:34,719
Speaker 1: they're all named George.

1545
01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:38,919
Speaker 8: It's actually me and my grandfather.

1546
01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:39,719
Speaker 4: Oh that's amazing.

1547
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations, let's se if you can win some money

1548
01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 1: five questions one thy six hundred and fifty bucks. Good luck, guys,

1549
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: all right, good luck, all right. Shelley's got to go

1550
01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:50,639
Speaker 1: off to the sound booth, foof she can I hear

1551
01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:53,439
Speaker 1: the questions? Luca? Question number one for you? Which iconic

1552
01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 1: actress known for things like Beetlejuice, Best in Show and

1553
01:09:56,760 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: Ship's Creek passed away at seventy one over the week end?

1554
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,599
Speaker 1: Who is going viral? After messing up the title of

1555
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:08,800
Speaker 1: the song Luther? While presenting an award to Sis and

1556
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 1: Kendrick Lamar at the Grammys?

1557
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 6: Two three two, Lutha Van.

1558
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 1: Gross, Kim Kardashian, and Lewis Hamilton were spotted together yesterday,

1559
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:22,599
Speaker 1: once again fueling dating rumors.

1560
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:24,120
Speaker 4: What is Lewis known for?

1561
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:33,080
Speaker 1: Wrestler Brivella made a surprise return at WWE's Royal Rumbo.

1562
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 1: What is the name of her twin sister who's also

1563
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 1: a wrestler? Than? Which Jurassic Park director reached egot status

1564
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 1: this week?

1565
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:45,839
Speaker 8: Steven Spielberg and.

1566
01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 1: We are officially less than a week out from Super

1567
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,360
Speaker 1: Bowl sixty in Santa Clara.

1568
01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 4: Where did the last Super Bowl take place?

1569
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 6: Three?

1570
01:10:57,160 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 1: Two? What actually forgot about this too? It's a three.

1571
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 1: You got a three. We got to bring Shelley back.

1572
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 11: Back.

1573
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 1: A three is the score to beat. That's not bad.

1574
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 1: These are not necessarily easy questions. Which iconic actress known

1575
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 1: for things like Beetlejuice, Best in Show and Shit's Creek

1576
01:11:15,240 --> 01:11:18,439
Speaker 1: passed away at seventy one over the weekend? Catherine O'Hara,

1577
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 1: I know so sad? Who is going viral? After messing

1578
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:24,000
Speaker 1: up the title of the song Luther While presenting an

1579
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:27,400
Speaker 1: award to Sis and Kendrick Lamar at the Grammys, chare

1580
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:30,719
Speaker 1: it was share? Kim Kardashian and Lewis Hamilton was spotted

1581
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:34,080
Speaker 1: together yesterday, once again fueling dating rumors. What is Lewis

1582
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:34,759
Speaker 1: known for.

1583
01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 6: A race car driver?

1584
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 1: Yeah? F one, We'll take it. Wrestler bre Bella made

1585
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 1: a surprise return at w w e's Royal Rumble. What

1586
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:47,440
Speaker 1: is the name of her twin sister who's also a wrestler?

1587
01:11:48,760 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 6: Nicky?

1588
01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:50,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, Nicky's correct.

1589
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:53,599
Speaker 1: Which Jurassic Park director reached egot status this week?

1590
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:54,959
Speaker 6: Steven Spielbert.

1591
01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 15: Yeah.

1592
01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:57,240
Speaker 1: And we're officially less than a week out from Super

1593
01:11:57,280 --> 01:11:59,719
Speaker 1: Bowl sixty in Santa Clara. Where did the last Super

1594
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:00,599
Speaker 1: Bowl take place?

1595
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 6: That is a great question.

1596
01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:05,559
Speaker 24: Three.

1597
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 6: I think it was shot.

1598
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:11,439
Speaker 1: It was New Orleans. But you got a form. So

1599
01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 1: when Luca new Uncle Luca, you gotta say it. My

1600
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: name is new Uncle Luca. I got showed up on

1601
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:18,160
Speaker 1: the showdown. And you can't hang with the gorilla.

1602
01:12:18,200 --> 01:12:18,240
Speaker 14: Go.

1603
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 24: My name is new Uncle Luca.

1604
01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:24,320
Speaker 8: I got up. I can't put the girl up.

1605
01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:31,639
Speaker 1: All right, Luca, you can't hang with the girl. Really can't.

1606
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 6: Cat cat cat cat cat can't cat.

1607
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:43,000
Speaker 2: If your name is Luca, you're a legend cat.

1608
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:49,760
Speaker 6: Legendary lucas all right, it's gray.

1609
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:53,599
Speaker 1: The world is gray. Okay, Colors coming, colors, colors back.

1610
01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:56,000
Speaker 1: All right, Luca, hang on a second. Congratulations, have a

1611
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:57,080
Speaker 1: great day. Thanks for listening.

1612
01:12:57,800 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 8: Thank you, thank you.

1613
01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:00,559
Speaker 4: Stay right there. He's Shelly.

1614
01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:04,200
Speaker 1: Yes, seventeen hundred bucks tomorrow win number one, thy one

1615
01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: hundred and fourteen twenty seven straight.

1616
01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 6: Okay, getting up there, I know all right, we'll.

1617
01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:12,960
Speaker 1: See you tomorrow. Have a good day, all right. YouTube

1618
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 1: by waiting by the phone, we'll do the entertainment Report,

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Speaker 4: To do Pauline his promise for the ring.

1633
01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:04,479
Speaker 1: No, I didn't know.

1634
01:14:04,800 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 6: Maybe that's why it took so long.

1635
01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 1: Fred's show is on Tuesday, February third. The French Show's

1636
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 1: not Hi Kaylin, Hi, Hi j Side, Hello, Hey Heiky

1637
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 1: morning Shob is Shelley seventeen hundred bucks tomorrow belahmins here

1638
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:21,599
Speaker 1: on the phone in the text eight five five, five

1639
01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:23,719
Speaker 1: nine one one oh three five. Yes, we did ask

1640
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 1: six questions in the show Ben Shelley Showdown. But once

1641
01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 1: I asked six to Luca, that I had to ask

1642
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:32,679
Speaker 1: six to Shelley, and I realized that I was asking

1643
01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 1: a lot of questions and I just went with it.

1644
01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:37,479
Speaker 1: But it doesn't change the end result, which is that

1645
01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:40,160
Speaker 1: Shelley still won. But thank you for all the text

1646
01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:43,080
Speaker 1: about it. I am. I'm sorry that people are paying

1647
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 1: more attention at home. Very grateful. You guys passed the test.

1648
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:49,719
Speaker 6: I was trying to trick you, and you guys are listening,

1649
01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 6: and so that's good.

1650
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:53,080
Speaker 1: Well, I'm Ron Burgundy, and I trust what Kayln does,

1651
01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:53,559
Speaker 1: and I.

1652
01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:54,960
Speaker 4: Just I just do what I'm told.

1653
01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 6: That one's on me either.

1654
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 1: Very rarely do I do what I'm told, But around

1655
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:00,760
Speaker 1: here in this one, Kaylyn tells to do it, damn it,

1656
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 1: I do it.

1657
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 3: Well, we need six, like I think sometimes we just

1658
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 3: need six questions because they were numbered, like I didn't

1659
01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 3: realize they remembered like one, two, two, two, two, two, three, four.

1660
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:13,320
Speaker 1: And then so I'm reading questions, I'm like, god, this

1661
01:15:13,400 --> 01:15:13,840
Speaker 1: is long.

1662
01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 6: They're running back like how many damn questions.

1663
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:17,720
Speaker 1: Did I asked, and I'm like, whoops.

1664
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 15: Yeah.

1665
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:20,479
Speaker 1: We were committed to the bit, man, We were committed

1666
01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:22,000
Speaker 1: to the bit. We kept it rolling.

1667
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 6: I enjoyed it.

1668
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm glad appreciate that headlines. Fun fact waiting

1669
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:29,640
Speaker 1: by the phone while died, somebody gave ghosted, and the

1670
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Speaker 6: K Freddie?

1673
01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:36,960
Speaker 3: I want to tell you about the beautiful woman who

1674
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:39,880
Speaker 3: says to my next boyfriend, I need you to know

1675
01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:41,839
Speaker 3: I never want to live together.

1676
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Speaker 1: Hello, I am paying attention, I will be you know what.

1677
01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 1: I was going to go home, but I'm going to

1678
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:52,840
Speaker 1: stay now. I've never been left waiting by the phone.

1679
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:54,639
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show.

1680
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:56,599
Speaker 8: Hey, Carly, Hey, how's it going?

1681
01:15:56,680 --> 01:16:01,360
Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Yes? Loud and clear loud and morning,

1682
01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 1: morning to Carly. What's going on with this guy Chris? Who?

1683
01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 1: I guess Why don't you tell us how you met?

1684
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:08,639
Speaker 1: About any dates you've been on and then where things

1685
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 1: are now?

1686
01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:10,040
Speaker 8: Or yeah?

1687
01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 6: I don't know, man.

1688
01:16:11,160 --> 01:16:13,439
Speaker 21: It was such It was interesting because we met on

1689
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 21: a dating app, and you know how those are, like

1690
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:20,639
Speaker 21: sometimes just you get some randos. But I met this guy, Chris,

1691
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:24,600
Speaker 21: and she was super hot, and he suggested.

1692
01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 8: That we go on a weekend trip for.

1693
01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:26,840
Speaker 15: Our first day.

1694
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:30,320
Speaker 6: Really, and I just, yeah, isn't that wild?

1695
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 4: That's kind of a bull.

1696
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 1: So you meet a guy in a dating app and

1697
01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:34,720
Speaker 1: he's like, let's go out of town immediately. I mean,

1698
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 1: that's that's how Dately episodes started ends. But yeah, that's

1699
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:40,280
Speaker 1: how you end up dead.

1700
01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:44,439
Speaker 6: But you were like okay, you know, I was like, he's.

1701
01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 21: Super hot, and I thought, you know what, I'm just

1702
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 21: going to take the risk. And I thought the worst

1703
01:16:49,479 --> 01:16:51,559
Speaker 21: that could happen is we meet at the airport, he's.

1704
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 8: Not who he said he was, and I leave.

1705
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:58,799
Speaker 21: And the wild thing is he ended up being totally

1706
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:02,559
Speaker 21: who he said he was, and you know, he had

1707
01:17:03,200 --> 01:17:05,479
Speaker 21: he had like howcomes must Parl Kyle. He looked like

1708
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:09,680
Speaker 21: he did some things, and we ended up going to

1709
01:17:09,760 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 21: New Orleans. We had a great weekend. He was a gentleman,

1710
01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:18,200
Speaker 21: he paid for everything. We had a great time. And

1711
01:17:18,240 --> 01:17:19,800
Speaker 21: then at the end of the trip, we hugged at

1712
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:22,559
Speaker 21: the airport and I never heard from him again.

1713
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 1: Really, this dude took you to New Orleans and you're

1714
01:17:26,560 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 1: saying that the trip went well and then he never

1715
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:32,040
Speaker 1: called you after the trip, Like that is that's a

1716
01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:34,519
Speaker 1: wild story. I mean, you met a random stranger and

1717
01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:36,759
Speaker 1: went on a trip. I will tell you this though, Carly,

1718
01:17:36,840 --> 01:17:38,840
Speaker 1: when I'm first dating someone, if I think it's going

1719
01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: to go somewhere, which just doesn't happen very often. But

1720
01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:43,280
Speaker 1: if I think it's going somewhere, I do kind of

1721
01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 1: rush the trip effort now, not like on the first date,

1722
01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:48,240
Speaker 1: but you know, within like the first month or two,

1723
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:50,160
Speaker 1: because I think you can tell a lot about somebody

1724
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 1: about how they travel and how you travel together. And

1725
01:17:53,280 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 1: you know, are they the people that show up after

1726
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:58,599
Speaker 1: the flight already left you people? You know what I mean?

1727
01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:01,320
Speaker 1: Like how much do they pass? You know, do they

1728
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:04,360
Speaker 1: have a TSA pre check or not? It's a huge

1729
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:04,760
Speaker 1: deal for.

1730
01:18:05,840 --> 01:18:08,880
Speaker 21: Well, no, I'm wondering. I agree, But now I am

1731
01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 21: thinking maybe there's a reason we did that after a

1732
01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 21: month or two and not the first time you've ever met.

1733
01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:16,800
Speaker 1: But okay, so I get it totally. Yeah, you go

1734
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:18,360
Speaker 1: on a trip with this man and you think it

1735
01:18:18,360 --> 01:18:20,200
Speaker 1: went well, and then he never calls you again, and

1736
01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 1: you're like, what what on earth? So we're gonna call

1737
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:24,840
Speaker 1: this guy, Chris. We're gonna ask these questions on your

1738
01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:26,599
Speaker 1: behalf and try and figure this out. And the hope,

1739
01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 1: of course, as always, is that we can straighten this out.

1740
01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:33,920
Speaker 1: Maybe there's some good reason why he hasn't called you and.

1741
01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 4: And maybe you guys can go out again.

1742
01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:35,760
Speaker 1: We're not paying for a trip, we don't have that

1743
01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:38,439
Speaker 1: kind of money, but we'll pay for a table locally

1744
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 1: and you can go on that if we can work

1745
01:18:40,880 --> 01:18:47,439
Speaker 1: it out. Sound good O. I Hey, Carly, all right,

1746
01:18:47,439 --> 01:18:49,000
Speaker 1: I always call this guy Chris. You met on the

1747
01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:51,639
Speaker 1: dating apps and and you just described to us something

1748
01:18:51,680 --> 01:18:54,599
Speaker 1: that I really haven't heard maybe ever in waiting by

1749
01:18:54,600 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 1: the phone. But you never met the guy. You just

1750
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 1: messaged with him. You thought the profile looked good. He

1751
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:01,759
Speaker 1: asked you if you wanted to go to New Orleans

1752
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:04,599
Speaker 1: and you said sure. And you met the guy at

1753
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:06,519
Speaker 1: the airport and you went on a trip for the

1754
01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:08,840
Speaker 1: weekend and you say it went really well, and he

1755
01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:11,120
Speaker 1: was and he says he was and the trip was

1756
01:19:11,120 --> 01:19:13,680
Speaker 1: a success. Accept Carly, you told us a minute ago.

1757
01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 1: You haven't heard from him since then.

1758
01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:18,559
Speaker 21: You guys exactly right the airport.

1759
01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:19,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is wild.

1760
01:19:19,840 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 1: Well let's call chrisye we can get him on the phone,

1761
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:24,000
Speaker 1: figure out why he's ghosting you now, all right, good luck,

1762
01:19:24,120 --> 01:19:24,439
Speaker 1: thank you?

1763
01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:31,800
Speaker 8: Hello?

1764
01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:33,400
Speaker 1: Hi is this Chris.

1765
01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:35,679
Speaker 4: Chris?

1766
01:19:35,760 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 11: Hi?

1767
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 1: Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

1768
01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:39,800
Speaker 1: Fred Show, the morning radio show. I have to tell

1769
01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:41,559
Speaker 1: you the whole crew is here, we are on the radio,

1770
01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with the call,

1771
01:19:43,680 --> 01:19:47,439
Speaker 1: which after just a second, would you mind? Do you

1772
01:19:47,479 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 1: have to do you?

1773
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:49,720
Speaker 8: I mean, do you have to use my last name?

1774
01:19:50,479 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to use your last name. I

1775
01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:54,360
Speaker 1: don't even know your last name. I'm only using your

1776
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 1: first name.

1777
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:58,400
Speaker 8: Sure, so that's fine, that's yeah, you're sure?

1778
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:03,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, so no last name, just Chris. But I'm

1779
01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:05,400
Speaker 1: calling out behalf of a woman named Carly, who I

1780
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 1: guess you just went to New Orleans with you met

1781
01:20:07,040 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 1: her on the dated NAP and you went to New Orleans.

1782
01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:09,040
Speaker 1: Do you remember this?

1783
01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:11,640
Speaker 8: I hope I do remember that?

1784
01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1785
01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, she reached out to us, had nice things

1786
01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:16,080
Speaker 1: to say about you, said that, you know, she took

1787
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:17,960
Speaker 1: a risk in meeting you with the airport and going

1788
01:20:17,960 --> 01:20:20,760
Speaker 1: to New Orleans and she came back alive, which is nice, right.

1789
01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:22,760
Speaker 1: But she said you were good looking, you were who

1790
01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:24,759
Speaker 1: you said you were. She said you were a gentleman

1791
01:20:25,320 --> 01:20:28,160
Speaker 1: on the trip, paid for everything. But what she's wondering

1792
01:20:28,439 --> 01:20:31,960
Speaker 1: is why you haven't reached out for another date, because,

1793
01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:34,160
Speaker 1: in her opinion, everything went really well that was kind

1794
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,639
Speaker 1: of a big risk, and everybody went for it. And

1795
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:38,519
Speaker 1: here we are. Why are you calling her?

1796
01:20:39,200 --> 01:20:39,759
Speaker 9: I mean.

1797
01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:44,160
Speaker 8: It's like this, Okay, she I like to go big,

1798
01:20:44,960 --> 01:20:47,840
Speaker 8: you know obviously. I mean it's not very common for

1799
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:49,719
Speaker 8: somebody asked somebody to go on a date in New Orleans.

1800
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:52,360
Speaker 8: That is, that is a big thing. And she said yes.

1801
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:56,080
Speaker 8: And for me, when somebody says that, that means something,

1802
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:58,160
Speaker 8: you know, So like, yeah, what I saw at the airport,

1803
01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:01,559
Speaker 8: everything was lining up hot just like you know, just

1804
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 8: like I expected. She was willing to take a risk,

1805
01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:08,760
Speaker 8: which is attractive, and everything looked like it was going

1806
01:21:08,840 --> 01:21:11,760
Speaker 8: to be a great weekend, so I was. But she,

1807
01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:14,360
Speaker 8: I mean, let me just lay it out here. She

1808
01:21:15,040 --> 01:21:18,200
Speaker 8: didn't want to stay in the same hotel room as me,

1809
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:21,800
Speaker 8: which is I mean, that's pretty common knowledge that that

1810
01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:24,800
Speaker 8: is like part of the deal of something like this.

1811
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:26,920
Speaker 1: Well, what do you hold on a second, let's stop

1812
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 1: right there. So when did you learn that she wasn't

1813
01:21:29,160 --> 01:21:31,040
Speaker 1: going to stay in the same hotel room as you? Like?

1814
01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:33,040
Speaker 1: Was that part of the Hey, I'll go with you

1815
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 1: on this trip, but here are the rules? Like, did

1816
01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:37,000
Speaker 1: you guys text about that ahead of time? Or how

1817
01:21:37,040 --> 01:21:39,680
Speaker 1: did you know that that's what she wanted. No, when

1818
01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:41,800
Speaker 1: we got to the hotel is when I found out.

1819
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:44,040
Speaker 1: And it's fine, you know, I'm like, like, you know,

1820
01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:45,759
Speaker 1: I'm willing to pay for everything.

1821
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:47,920
Speaker 8: But I mean, number one, it was inconvenient. I found

1822
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:49,920
Speaker 8: out right when I'm getting to the hotel. You know,

1823
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:52,960
Speaker 8: I could have gotten that information. I mean, it would

1824
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:54,400
Speaker 8: have screwed up the whole thing from the get go,

1825
01:21:54,600 --> 01:21:56,120
Speaker 8: but I mean it stillo had been better to get

1826
01:21:56,120 --> 01:21:58,880
Speaker 8: that information early. But yeah, right when we get the hotel,

1827
01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:00,599
Speaker 8: I find out, and you know, we kind of went

1828
01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:04,559
Speaker 8: back and forth on it and be compromised. That's what

1829
01:22:04,600 --> 01:22:07,519
Speaker 8: I would say. We got like two beds in the

1830
01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:11,679
Speaker 8: same room, which is weird, you know. And she didn't

1831
01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:17,519
Speaker 8: show any affection, you know, because I I flew her,

1832
01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:22,839
Speaker 8: I paid for everything, you know, and I just nothing happened,

1833
01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:27,400
Speaker 8: Like there was no reciprocal action at all.

1834
01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:29,559
Speaker 1: Okay, So you know, I mean, so you didn't there

1835
01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:33,960
Speaker 1: was nothing physical. You didn't you didn't have any adult

1836
01:22:34,920 --> 01:22:39,040
Speaker 1: interaction of the naked kite, uh is what you're saying.

1837
01:22:39,400 --> 01:22:42,080
Speaker 1: And you're and you so and and you suggested that

1838
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:44,120
Speaker 1: if you had known that, she wouldn't sleep in the

1839
01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:47,280
Speaker 1: same bed or room as you. You kind of alluded

1840
01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:49,720
Speaker 1: to how maybe this trip wouldn't have even happened if

1841
01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:52,840
Speaker 1: you had known from the beginning. Mm hm yes, okay,

1842
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:55,519
Speaker 1: we agree. We agree with that. So so basically, because

1843
01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 1: you paid for everything and she agreed to go that

1844
01:22:58,320 --> 01:23:00,880
Speaker 1: it was implied that there was supposed to be other

1845
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:02,439
Speaker 1: things that happened like that was.

1846
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:03,360
Speaker 4: Just implied by this.

1847
01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:05,080
Speaker 21: He never said that.

1848
01:23:05,840 --> 01:23:09,840
Speaker 1: Well, I got to mention Carly's here. I'm very forgetful Carly, Chris.

1849
01:23:09,920 --> 01:23:11,720
Speaker 1: You guys know each other. But I want to get

1850
01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:13,400
Speaker 1: to this part. So I just want to be clear.

1851
01:23:13,400 --> 01:23:17,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to mischaracterize here. You you said, hey,

1852
01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:19,120
Speaker 1: let's go on a trip. I'll pay for everything. But

1853
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:22,400
Speaker 1: it wasn't It had conditions, they were just unspoken.

1854
01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:27,040
Speaker 8: In my opinion, it's common knowledge. That is a common

1855
01:23:27,080 --> 01:23:29,280
Speaker 8: knowledge thing that you know. Otherwise I would have just

1856
01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:32,080
Speaker 8: taken my buddy. It's common knowledge.

1857
01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:42,599
Speaker 1: You go you okay, So back to you, Carly. It's

1858
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:45,240
Speaker 1: common knowledge, right, I mean you heard the man.

1859
01:23:45,400 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 8: U No way, I'm sorry, there's nothing we've just met.

1860
01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:52,439
Speaker 1: We go on a trip.

1861
01:23:52,680 --> 01:23:54,760
Speaker 21: There's no set precedent for that.

1862
01:23:55,040 --> 01:23:57,440
Speaker 6: I look on analogy.

1863
01:23:57,680 --> 01:24:00,160
Speaker 19: You have some drinks, you needed a bar, you and

1864
01:24:00,240 --> 01:24:00,479
Speaker 19: make it.

1865
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,439
Speaker 21: We literally get on a plane, we go straight to

1866
01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:05,479
Speaker 21: the hotel and I'm going I have to have some

1867
01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:07,759
Speaker 21: sort of contingency here.

1868
01:24:08,439 --> 01:24:09,800
Speaker 6: And we didn't talk about it.

1869
01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:12,519
Speaker 21: You sort of made a very boss minute choice like

1870
01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:16,320
Speaker 21: they're what. We didn't talk particulation. They just said we're

1871
01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:17,599
Speaker 21: gonna throw feel it out.

1872
01:24:18,479 --> 01:24:21,240
Speaker 8: I mean, that's what you say. If you didn't want

1873
01:24:21,280 --> 01:24:25,040
Speaker 8: to get you know, intimate, you shouldn't have agreed to

1874
01:24:25,080 --> 01:24:27,759
Speaker 8: the trip, like it's I would never would.

1875
01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:28,920
Speaker 1: Pressure you didn't.

1876
01:24:29,000 --> 01:24:29,439
Speaker 15: You didn't.

1877
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:31,400
Speaker 13: You didn't pressure me on a trip.

1878
01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:33,760
Speaker 21: You didn't say anything. You made it sound like you

1879
01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:37,519
Speaker 21: were totally having a good a good time, like I

1880
01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:39,160
Speaker 21: wasn't even aware that you were.

1881
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:42,040
Speaker 8: Upset until I didn't hear from you. You didn't say

1882
01:24:42,040 --> 01:24:42,759
Speaker 8: anything either.

1883
01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:45,160
Speaker 24: Nobody let you go you.

1884
01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:47,799
Speaker 6: I can promise you that nobody said that.

1885
01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:50,519
Speaker 8: It's like you want a free car and you went

1886
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:52,720
Speaker 8: to the lot and you didn't leave a car, Like

1887
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:53,840
Speaker 8: it didn't make sense.

1888
01:24:54,120 --> 01:24:54,920
Speaker 10: No want.

1889
01:24:57,400 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 11: Me?

1890
01:24:57,800 --> 01:25:01,000
Speaker 1: Who got a freak? What happened? Look, here's the thing.

1891
01:25:01,080 --> 01:25:03,400
Speaker 1: She owes you nothing, Chris. Let's just be really clear.

1892
01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 1: She doesn't owe you whether they travel or not.

1893
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:09,719
Speaker 17: Though, like even if there's their hometown and nobody owes

1894
01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:12,640
Speaker 17: you nothing, nobody owes you anything now now here, I

1895
01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:13,080
Speaker 17: will say this.

1896
01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:16,719
Speaker 4: I don't know. I will say this though.

1897
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:22,840
Speaker 1: I suppose that it might have been a good thing

1898
01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:25,559
Speaker 1: to maybe set out some ground rules before we go,

1899
01:25:26,040 --> 01:25:27,519
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because I will say if

1900
01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm if I'm staying in a hotel room with a stranger,

1901
01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:32,920
Speaker 1: I guess I in some ways in my mind, I

1902
01:25:32,960 --> 01:25:35,280
Speaker 1: think there's a possibility we're just throwing all the rules

1903
01:25:35,320 --> 01:25:38,439
Speaker 1: out the window. We're really just going for it here. Honestly,

1904
01:25:38,479 --> 01:25:41,559
Speaker 1: I don't think that's an unfair thing to consider that

1905
01:25:41,680 --> 01:25:44,360
Speaker 1: being said, she didn't owe you anything. This was not

1906
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:47,400
Speaker 1: an this is not this is not a you're not

1907
01:25:47,520 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 1: buying things so that she does other things. That's there's

1908
01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:53,599
Speaker 1: a there's a name for that. It's the world's oldest profession,

1909
01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:57,280
Speaker 1: and and and that's something that happens other places. But

1910
01:25:57,400 --> 01:25:59,240
Speaker 1: I don't know that maybe there couldn't have been some

1911
01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:03,719
Speaker 1: kind of converse station from one side or the other, like, hey,

1912
01:26:04,400 --> 01:26:06,400
Speaker 1: I will accept this trip for and this is just

1913
01:26:06,439 --> 01:26:09,080
Speaker 1: an example. I will accept this trip. I'm excited to go.

1914
01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:11,760
Speaker 1: I just want you to know, you know, nothing is

1915
01:26:11,800 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 1: happening here, like we're going to get to know each

1916
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:15,680
Speaker 1: other and have a good time. I don't want there

1917
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:17,960
Speaker 1: to be any expectations. And maybe I'll get my own

1918
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:21,400
Speaker 1: hotel room, just so we're clear about that. Because guess what, Chrisy,

1919
01:26:21,439 --> 01:26:23,519
Speaker 1: it sounds like you would have said no, I don't

1920
01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:25,599
Speaker 1: want to go anymore, and then we would have known

1921
01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:32,600
Speaker 1: exactly where everybody stood exactly. No, I'm not, I'm not

1922
01:26:32,720 --> 01:26:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm not defending you. I'm just trying to say that

1923
01:26:36,200 --> 01:26:39,839
Speaker 1: I understand why it would it might have been valuable

1924
01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:41,840
Speaker 1: to discuss these kind of things before we go on

1925
01:26:41,880 --> 01:26:44,760
Speaker 1: trip with strangers. But she doesn't owe you anything, man,

1926
01:26:45,080 --> 01:26:46,280
Speaker 1: She owes you nothing.

1927
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:49,679
Speaker 8: You know, I in my mind, like I said, there's

1928
01:26:49,720 --> 01:26:52,720
Speaker 8: an unspoken code and she broke it. And it just

1929
01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:54,639
Speaker 8: you know, I didn't put any pressure on her the pressure.

1930
01:26:54,680 --> 01:26:57,439
Speaker 8: I didn't put any pressure. She agreed to go. So

1931
01:26:57,760 --> 01:27:01,000
Speaker 8: there is that code and it is what is expected,

1932
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:03,439
Speaker 8: and I was missing.

1933
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:06,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I was misled. I don't think you

1934
01:27:06,280 --> 01:27:08,120
Speaker 1: were misled. I think you took a chance and I

1935
01:27:08,120 --> 01:27:09,920
Speaker 1: think it didn't work. And I think she has every

1936
01:27:09,960 --> 01:27:13,400
Speaker 1: right to not do anything with you and and you guys,

1937
01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:15,960
Speaker 1: it appears that you had a good time anyway, So

1938
01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:17,880
Speaker 1: why are we blowing it down? It sounds like maybe

1939
01:27:17,920 --> 01:27:19,880
Speaker 1: if you go on another date, like things could have happened.

1940
01:27:19,920 --> 01:27:21,640
Speaker 1: But now I don't know, Carly, what do you think

1941
01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:23,040
Speaker 1: you want to go out with him again? We'll pay

1942
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:23,400
Speaker 1: for it.

1943
01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:25,760
Speaker 21: I mean definitely not now.

1944
01:27:26,360 --> 01:27:31,639
Speaker 9: But that's all that was said before was no rules,

1945
01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:35,680
Speaker 9: So in my mind that means you go and you

1946
01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:40,080
Speaker 9: see and I feel like you're right, Like he didn't indicate.

1947
01:27:40,160 --> 01:27:42,439
Speaker 9: So for me, the fact that he asked is like

1948
01:27:42,479 --> 01:27:44,800
Speaker 9: he was having a good time and this is what

1949
01:27:44,840 --> 01:27:48,479
Speaker 9: he was thinking. Is really that's the part that you

1950
01:27:48,520 --> 01:27:50,360
Speaker 9: know makes me very turned off.

1951
01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:54,759
Speaker 8: So this is a blatant example of me being used,

1952
01:27:55,080 --> 01:27:55,840
Speaker 8: is what this is.

1953
01:27:58,720 --> 01:27:58,800
Speaker 3: Me?

1954
01:27:59,400 --> 01:28:00,000
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1955
01:28:00,080 --> 01:28:02,120
Speaker 2: You so you don't even know her name, You don't

1956
01:28:02,120 --> 01:28:05,240
Speaker 2: know her favorite color, You don't light like you did.

1957
01:28:07,080 --> 01:28:11,400
Speaker 8: I mean she knows I don't know her favorite color, right,

1958
01:28:12,920 --> 01:28:16,439
Speaker 8: she she knows if I fly first class or coach.

1959
01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:19,240
Speaker 8: You know, she knows a lot about maides.

1960
01:28:20,520 --> 01:28:23,400
Speaker 6: New Orleans. And I don't blame city girls are okay?

1961
01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:27,360
Speaker 1: You use swung being and I respect the move I

1962
01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:30,040
Speaker 1: see what you were doing. It didn't work. She doesn't

1963
01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:31,720
Speaker 1: know that. To you, you don't have a right to

1964
01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 1: be angry about it. Now, I'm not. I'm not angry.

1965
01:28:35,479 --> 01:28:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm not angry.

1966
01:28:36,240 --> 01:28:40,360
Speaker 8: I'm not angry. I'm I'm disappointed and I feel used,

1967
01:28:40,600 --> 01:28:41,519
Speaker 8: and I'm just not.

1968
01:28:44,400 --> 01:28:46,479
Speaker 6: That a first date is the first date.

1969
01:28:46,600 --> 01:28:48,559
Speaker 21: And if you were like you may not come on

1970
01:28:48,560 --> 01:28:51,160
Speaker 21: this trip unless you give me sex, you should have

1971
01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:51,599
Speaker 21: said that.

1972
01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:53,240
Speaker 8: You didn't say it, right.

1973
01:28:53,560 --> 01:28:54,479
Speaker 4: I agree, I didn't.

1974
01:28:54,840 --> 01:28:56,879
Speaker 8: You don't have to say it. You don't have to say.

1975
01:28:56,680 --> 01:29:00,559
Speaker 1: It if you read the you know what I'm saying.

1976
01:29:00,600 --> 01:29:02,200
Speaker 1: You know, one's ever read the fine print in the ticket,

1977
01:29:02,240 --> 01:29:03,720
Speaker 1: but it says it right there. You have to look

1978
01:29:03,760 --> 01:29:08,320
Speaker 1: a little more carefully, says Chris. It's implied we welew,

1979
01:29:08,479 --> 01:29:10,960
Speaker 1: we plewd to a different city together. We didn't go

1980
01:29:11,000 --> 01:29:13,559
Speaker 1: to done that on the first date.

1981
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:17,679
Speaker 21: You didn't present yourself that way. You never said anything

1982
01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:21,080
Speaker 21: and to me even implied that. That's like, there are

1983
01:29:21,200 --> 01:29:23,439
Speaker 21: dates that are very clearly we're gonna go on this

1984
01:29:23,520 --> 01:29:25,560
Speaker 21: date and there's no expectations we're going to get to

1985
01:29:25,600 --> 01:29:26,040
Speaker 21: know each other.

1986
01:29:26,080 --> 01:29:27,559
Speaker 8: And there's other dates where you.

1987
01:29:27,479 --> 01:29:28,800
Speaker 15: Know, if you show up to that date.

1988
01:29:29,240 --> 01:29:31,800
Speaker 21: The die is interested in one thing, and you show

1989
01:29:31,840 --> 01:29:33,639
Speaker 21: up to those dates knowing that that's the.

1990
01:29:33,520 --> 01:29:36,200
Speaker 8: Only thing on his mind, and you were very much

1991
01:29:36,280 --> 01:29:40,559
Speaker 8: the first. That's every date. That's every date you just

1992
01:29:41,080 --> 01:29:41,840
Speaker 8: that's every date.

1993
01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:44,160
Speaker 4: Okay, Because here's the thing.

1994
01:29:44,200 --> 01:29:46,360
Speaker 1: If Chris had been like, hey, so we're getting it on, well,

1995
01:29:46,400 --> 01:29:49,800
Speaker 1: then I suppose that that makes it very clear. But

1996
01:29:49,840 --> 01:29:52,000
Speaker 1: then you know, he didn't do that because he knows

1997
01:29:52,040 --> 01:29:54,280
Speaker 1: that runs the risk of her not going. And then

1998
01:29:54,320 --> 01:29:56,200
Speaker 1: she could have been like, hey, I'm not by just

1999
01:29:56,280 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 1: for the record, but nothing's happening. That also could have

2000
01:29:59,120 --> 01:30:01,240
Speaker 1: shut things down. I mean, so yeah, I guess there

2001
01:30:01,240 --> 01:30:04,120
Speaker 1: could have been a very unromantic conversation about ground rules

2002
01:30:04,160 --> 01:30:06,000
Speaker 1: to begin, or there just could have been you know,

2003
01:30:06,120 --> 01:30:10,120
Speaker 1: common human decency, which did happen. But all the while

2004
01:30:10,240 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 1: he's mad about it, and now he won't go out

2005
01:30:11,920 --> 01:30:13,479
Speaker 1: with her again. I think that's the risk you take.

2006
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:16,439
Speaker 1: But look, she doesn't want to go out with you again. Chris.

2007
01:30:16,479 --> 01:30:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't think you were used. He took a shot.

2008
01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:22,720
Speaker 1: It didn't work. I wish you the best day. I

2009
01:30:22,760 --> 01:30:23,800
Speaker 1: wish you the best as well.

2010
01:30:24,840 --> 01:30:25,160
Speaker 12: Thanks.

2011
01:30:28,360 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 1: Carolyn's entertainment report is on the fresh show.

2012
01:30:31,360 --> 01:30:32,760
Speaker 3: All right, not a whole lot of time, but we

2013
01:30:32,800 --> 01:30:35,920
Speaker 3: have another breathy voice note from Justin Baldoni amid this

2014
01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:38,719
Speaker 3: whole legal battle. I know between he and Blake Lively

2015
01:30:38,760 --> 01:30:40,320
Speaker 3: that's moving at a glacial speed.

2016
01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:42,280
Speaker 6: But if I had to hear it, so do.

2017
01:30:42,320 --> 01:30:43,240
Speaker 1: You, Gregwig.

2018
01:30:43,320 --> 01:30:46,920
Speaker 8: I hope the fitting that was super successful.

2019
01:30:46,960 --> 01:30:49,519
Speaker 1: Thank you for sending those pictures. That was really cool.

2020
01:30:50,120 --> 01:30:52,920
Speaker 8: I was in the department head meeting and they came

2021
01:30:52,960 --> 01:30:54,479
Speaker 8: through and I was like waiting for them to load,

2022
01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:56,680
Speaker 8: and I legit got the chills when I.

2023
01:30:56,640 --> 01:31:00,479
Speaker 1: Saw it, and you look beautiful. It's gonna kinna work

2024
01:31:00,560 --> 01:31:00,840
Speaker 1: so well.

2025
01:31:02,320 --> 01:31:07,040
Speaker 3: Okay, he got the chills when he saw her. He's married, right,

2026
01:31:07,280 --> 01:31:09,760
Speaker 3: they're both married. Yeah, so I don't I don't know

2027
01:31:09,840 --> 01:31:12,360
Speaker 3: who's to blame. I'm sick of it, both of them,

2028
01:31:12,439 --> 01:31:12,800
Speaker 3: sick of it.

2029
01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:13,400
Speaker 6: I'm sick.

2030
01:31:13,840 --> 01:31:16,880
Speaker 1: I'm sick and tired of voice I don't like voice notes.

2031
01:31:17,240 --> 01:31:21,960
Speaker 1: You voice answer triggering me this week. Voice notes trigger me.

2032
01:31:22,160 --> 01:31:22,719
Speaker 6: It's abuse.

2033
01:31:23,520 --> 01:31:24,439
Speaker 22: I don't like you.

2034
01:31:24,520 --> 01:31:28,360
Speaker 1: Either call me yes and speak with me, or send

2035
01:31:28,400 --> 01:31:31,640
Speaker 1: me a text message. It's middle ground is unnecessary.

2036
01:31:32,240 --> 01:31:35,120
Speaker 6: Yep, sorry, Caylin, I know you love a voice note. Yes,

2037
01:31:35,200 --> 01:31:37,120
Speaker 6: she does. You know, I accept them from you.

2038
01:31:37,520 --> 01:31:39,439
Speaker 1: It's almost like you like the sound. Not you, I'm

2039
01:31:39,479 --> 01:31:41,680
Speaker 1: not talking about you, but it's almost like you like

2040
01:31:41,800 --> 01:31:44,000
Speaker 1: the sound of your own voice enough that I need

2041
01:31:44,080 --> 01:31:46,320
Speaker 1: to hear it, because it's not good enough to just

2042
01:31:46,360 --> 01:31:48,280
Speaker 1: send me a text or have a conversation with me.

2043
01:31:48,400 --> 01:31:50,280
Speaker 1: I have to get like it's just that.

2044
01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:52,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, that's I mean, I don't I hope. I

2045
01:31:52,760 --> 01:31:54,439
Speaker 6: don't breathe like that when I sent him to you,

2046
01:31:57,920 --> 01:31:59,080
Speaker 6: like you're all in the phone.

2047
01:31:59,160 --> 01:32:00,920
Speaker 1: Yeah's exactly okay.

2048
01:32:01,360 --> 01:32:04,959
Speaker 6: Well for me, I didn't log onto it is a podcast.

2049
01:32:05,280 --> 01:32:06,439
Speaker 6: For this podcast, you did me.

2050
01:32:06,520 --> 01:32:06,640
Speaker 12: Well.

2051
01:32:06,680 --> 01:32:09,080
Speaker 3: I hate a phone call and I have arthritis because

2052
01:32:09,360 --> 01:32:11,120
Speaker 3: I freaking type all day for my job.

2053
01:32:11,240 --> 01:32:12,559
Speaker 6: So it's easier for me if I have a long

2054
01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:16,360
Speaker 6: story and all three of you we're gonna get Yeah.

2055
01:32:19,880 --> 01:32:20,840
Speaker 6: I don't want to ever.

2056
01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:22,960
Speaker 1: Talk on the phone, so I get to listen to

2057
01:32:23,040 --> 01:32:25,439
Speaker 1: you talk. I don't get to respond, and I'm back,

2058
01:32:26,439 --> 01:32:29,719
Speaker 1: that's a phone conversation, baby, But I got something in between.

2059
01:32:29,760 --> 01:32:31,160
Speaker 6: Oh my god, freend show radio.

2060
01:32:31,560 --> 01:32:33,880
Speaker 1: We are trading voice notes. They have a thing for that.

2061
01:32:33,960 --> 01:32:35,920
Speaker 1: It's called the phone right, but there can.

2062
01:32:35,840 --> 01:32:37,680
Speaker 6: Be hours in between the voice notes so that I

2063
01:32:37,720 --> 01:32:42,479
Speaker 6: can do other things. Never call me ever, I don't want.

2064
01:32:42,520 --> 01:32:44,479
Speaker 5: Don't send me a voice. I don't send me a voice.

2065
01:32:44,479 --> 01:32:45,760
Speaker 5: I don't tell me you guys don't love me.

2066
01:32:45,920 --> 01:32:47,280
Speaker 1: It. Don't send me a voice. Don't just send me

2067
01:32:47,320 --> 01:32:49,240
Speaker 1: a text or have a conversation with me. If we're

2068
01:32:49,280 --> 01:32:51,800
Speaker 1: trading voice notes back and forth, that is a conversation

2069
01:32:52,439 --> 01:32:54,040
Speaker 1: and we can do that on the telephone.

2070
01:32:55,080 --> 01:33:07,000
Speaker 12: Okay, Fred show is on Friend's fun fact Fred, so much.

2071
01:33:07,520 --> 01:33:12,639
Speaker 1: So much nice. Did you know that the world's oldest

2072
01:33:12,760 --> 01:33:17,080
Speaker 1: dog lived to be twenty nine and a half years old,

2073
01:33:17,960 --> 01:33:18,759
Speaker 1: almost thirty?

2074
01:33:19,120 --> 01:33:19,400
Speaker 8: Wow?

2075
01:33:19,560 --> 01:33:21,960
Speaker 1: Well, the median age of a dog reachi that the

2076
01:33:22,040 --> 01:33:23,840
Speaker 1: dog will live or the dog reaches tends to be

2077
01:33:23,880 --> 01:33:27,599
Speaker 1: about ten to fifteen years. One Australian cattle dog named

2078
01:33:27,640 --> 01:33:31,559
Speaker 1: Blue survived to the ripe old age of twenty nine

2079
01:33:31,640 --> 01:33:33,080
Speaker 1: and a half years old.

2080
01:33:33,600 --> 01:33:37,880
Speaker 6: Blue Blue the Australian dogs, she's an icon. I watch

2081
01:33:37,920 --> 01:33:41,639
Speaker 6: you every day, Loue. You've seen Blue. I need everything.

2082
01:33:41,920 --> 01:33:44,320
Speaker 4: I don't think it's is that the dog is Blue

2083
01:33:44,479 --> 01:33:45,439
Speaker 4: named after that dog.

2084
01:33:45,600 --> 01:33:47,600
Speaker 6: Well, she's Australian, so that's and a.

2085
01:33:47,600 --> 01:33:50,760
Speaker 1: Half year really, yeah, yeah, Louely is Australian. Uh huh,

2086
01:33:50,760 --> 01:33:53,560
Speaker 1: I don't know it said she was British and I

2087
01:33:53,640 --> 01:33:56,320
Speaker 1: thought it was a he was. I was corrected and

2088
01:33:56,400 --> 01:33:59,400
Speaker 1: we had you know, four year old. Yeah right, I

2089
01:33:59,520 --> 01:34:02,559
Speaker 1: learned a lot for four year old. More Fred Show

2090
01:34:02,720 --> 01:34:08,080
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Speaker 1: Live Nation Day Talking Touch Yeah, they talk better than

2101
01:34:38,280 --> 01:34:42,000
Speaker 1: they say tell me. These are the radio blogs on

2102
01:34:42,160 --> 01:34:45,080
Speaker 1: the Fred Show, a like writing in our diaries, except

2103
01:34:45,080 --> 01:34:47,040
Speaker 1: we say them aloud. We call him blogs Kiki.

2104
01:34:47,280 --> 01:34:50,240
Speaker 6: Hey go all right, dear blog.

2105
01:34:51,400 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 2: I would just like to take this opportunity to apologize

2106
01:34:56,040 --> 01:35:00,720
Speaker 2: to every person that I have given a nickname too

2107
01:35:01,160 --> 01:35:03,840
Speaker 2: that they did not ask for because I got a

2108
01:35:03,880 --> 01:35:07,639
Speaker 2: stern talking to yesterday from Jason and Bella.

2109
01:35:08,520 --> 01:35:09,120
Speaker 6: You worked there.

2110
01:35:10,880 --> 01:35:11,240
Speaker 1: Names?

2111
01:35:11,280 --> 01:35:11,720
Speaker 11: What do you call?

2112
01:35:12,360 --> 01:35:14,639
Speaker 2: So you know, we were in here and I don't

2113
01:35:14,680 --> 01:35:16,160
Speaker 2: even know how we got on the topic, but I

2114
01:35:16,240 --> 01:35:18,759
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, you know, I love to get people nicknames,

2115
01:35:18,840 --> 01:35:20,640
Speaker 2: like the moment I meet you, you know, I'm like,

2116
01:35:20,720 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 2: what up, Freddy? You you probably like donna call me that?

2117
01:35:23,400 --> 01:35:25,800
Speaker 2: But I did that to Bella. You know, I'd be like, hey,

2118
01:35:25,920 --> 01:35:28,040
Speaker 2: b and then I Pauline up, Pete.

2119
01:35:27,920 --> 01:35:30,439
Speaker 6: K Like I just do it, and so so you

2120
01:35:30,560 --> 01:35:31,960
Speaker 6: just take the first letter of their nick.

2121
01:35:35,880 --> 01:35:40,160
Speaker 1: A lot of time. A lot of time thought people.

2122
01:35:42,479 --> 01:35:45,120
Speaker 4: That, yeah, but what do you call him that he's

2123
01:35:45,120 --> 01:35:45,640
Speaker 4: offended by?

2124
01:35:45,840 --> 01:35:48,559
Speaker 2: Well it wasn't me, but someone else was calling him

2125
01:35:48,560 --> 01:35:50,920
Speaker 2: a different name that he didn't appreciate. And then Bella

2126
01:35:51,080 --> 01:35:53,559
Speaker 2: was like, well, my name is Isabella, but never call

2127
01:35:53,680 --> 01:35:58,439
Speaker 2: me that, only call me Bella. Yes, she was like, yeah,

2128
01:35:58,479 --> 01:36:02,439
Speaker 2: don't call me the call me this, And I'm just like, okay, girl,

2129
01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:05,519
Speaker 2: Like I'm so sorry. I did not know that people

2130
01:36:05,640 --> 01:36:08,280
Speaker 2: get offended by nicknames, like you know, okay, but I.

2131
01:36:08,360 --> 01:36:09,920
Speaker 4: Want to know what you were called. Jason, what were

2132
01:36:09,920 --> 01:36:11,320
Speaker 4: you being called that if someone said, you.

2133
01:36:11,400 --> 01:36:15,000
Speaker 20: Still work here called me Jace all the time, and

2134
01:36:15,400 --> 01:36:17,080
Speaker 20: I'm like, okay, it's kind of lazy because you're just

2135
01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:19,080
Speaker 20: missing one syllab out of my whole name. But also

2136
01:36:19,439 --> 01:36:22,560
Speaker 20: it was so tedious to say, like I just I

2137
01:36:22,680 --> 01:36:24,680
Speaker 20: hate it, Like I was someone that worked here at

2138
01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:27,120
Speaker 20: the same time whose name was Chase. So it was

2139
01:36:27,160 --> 01:36:29,240
Speaker 20: confusing because we didn't know who we were you were

2140
01:36:29,320 --> 01:36:31,280
Speaker 20: talking to. But that was the only person in my

2141
01:36:31,360 --> 01:36:32,719
Speaker 20: life that ever called me Jace.

2142
01:36:33,200 --> 01:36:34,400
Speaker 6: And see how angry he is.

2143
01:36:34,600 --> 01:36:37,519
Speaker 2: He goes that was lazy, like this lady's trying to just,

2144
01:36:37,680 --> 01:36:40,160
Speaker 2: you know, a term of endearment. I don't mean any

2145
01:36:40,240 --> 01:36:42,200
Speaker 2: harm when I'm saying fred or.

2146
01:36:42,320 --> 01:36:43,120
Speaker 19: You know, I don't.

2147
01:36:43,160 --> 01:36:46,240
Speaker 6: I just I'm just gonna call you like he's gonna

2148
01:36:46,240 --> 01:36:49,200
Speaker 6: get upset about this. And I didn't know how triggered

2149
01:36:49,200 --> 01:36:50,920
Speaker 6: people get about nicknames they do.

2150
01:36:51,240 --> 01:36:53,360
Speaker 3: I do this too, and I think it's like because

2151
01:36:53,400 --> 01:36:55,240
Speaker 3: you and I, like I don't know, want like to

2152
01:36:55,560 --> 01:36:57,720
Speaker 3: make it more comfortable or like closer with the person,

2153
01:36:57,800 --> 01:36:59,600
Speaker 3: but like I do it naturally too. My friend was

2154
01:36:59,600 --> 01:37:01,120
Speaker 3: trying to a lot of weight and was just only

2155
01:37:01,160 --> 01:37:03,640
Speaker 3: eating salads, and I started calling him salad Doug, and

2156
01:37:03,720 --> 01:37:04,519
Speaker 3: then it stuck and.

2157
01:37:07,160 --> 01:37:07,799
Speaker 4: It's awful.

2158
01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:11,400
Speaker 18: That's you really would get drunk and get mad about

2159
01:37:11,400 --> 01:37:16,639
Speaker 18: salad dog. But that's all he ate was salads, you know, salad.

2160
01:37:18,479 --> 01:37:21,000
Speaker 18: I don't know, man, Like, it's just I'm not calling

2161
01:37:21,080 --> 01:37:22,880
Speaker 18: you your real name. And I hate when people call

2162
01:37:22,960 --> 01:37:25,479
Speaker 18: me my full name. It makes me feel uncomfortable. But

2163
01:37:25,560 --> 01:37:26,320
Speaker 18: that's not a nickname.

2164
01:37:26,400 --> 01:37:26,920
Speaker 1: What can I do?

2165
01:37:27,320 --> 01:37:29,040
Speaker 6: You know, like, I can't call you your real name,

2166
01:37:29,080 --> 01:37:30,559
Speaker 6: I can't give you a fake name.

2167
01:37:30,640 --> 01:37:32,519
Speaker 1: To Freddy is the nickname he came up with for me.

2168
01:37:33,479 --> 01:37:35,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like Freddy, and I'm like I thought

2169
01:37:36,000 --> 01:37:38,120
Speaker 2: about it after, you know, I got a stern talking

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Speaker 2: to I was like, maybe I should stop doing that

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01:37:40,680 --> 01:37:43,000
Speaker 2: because people may not appreciate it. But I've been a

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01:37:43,120 --> 01:37:45,680
Speaker 2: nickname my entire life. Nobody can't pronounce my real name,

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01:37:45,720 --> 01:37:48,280
Speaker 2: so I'm always keiky. Shout out to my girl Debbie.

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01:37:48,320 --> 01:37:50,920
Speaker 2: She named me Kika Nator Like, I don't care call

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01:37:51,040 --> 01:37:51,479
Speaker 2: me whatever.

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01:37:51,960 --> 01:37:52,120
Speaker 12: You know.

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01:37:52,520 --> 01:37:54,360
Speaker 2: I thought it was a term of it. I thought

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01:37:54,360 --> 01:37:56,120
Speaker 2: it was like a form of endear. Yeah, like we're

2179
01:37:56,120 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 2: getting close and I want to be it is.

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01:38:00,040 --> 01:38:02,200
Speaker 1: My legal name is Christopher, And when people take it

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01:38:02,280 --> 01:38:05,200
Speaker 1: upon themselves to call me Chris. It's like I didn't

2182
01:38:06,439 --> 01:38:07,120
Speaker 1: that's not my name.

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01:38:07,320 --> 01:38:09,200
Speaker 6: See, I would do that if I didn't say about

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01:38:09,280 --> 01:38:10,240
Speaker 6: why do you Why.

2185
01:38:10,120 --> 01:38:11,160
Speaker 4: Do you get to just say that?

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01:38:11,439 --> 01:38:15,040
Speaker 1: And then so like you don't get like but you

2187
01:38:15,040 --> 01:38:18,280
Speaker 1: don't get to just shorten my name, like like you

2188
01:38:18,320 --> 01:38:21,320
Speaker 1: don't get to do that, like like Jace is not normal.

2189
01:38:21,439 --> 01:38:25,519
Speaker 1: That's but if you like, people will ask, so they'll

2190
01:38:25,560 --> 01:38:26,680
Speaker 1: be like, do you want to be called? And I

2191
01:38:26,760 --> 01:38:28,600
Speaker 1: guess because I've got the Fred thing going. So it's like,

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01:38:28,640 --> 01:38:30,960
Speaker 1: do you want to be Chris Christopher Fred? You know,

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01:38:31,160 --> 01:38:35,960
Speaker 1: Jack asked, what do you want to be? Ill? If

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01:38:36,000 --> 01:38:38,040
Speaker 1: you ask me that, I don't mind, but like if

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01:38:38,080 --> 01:38:41,120
Speaker 1: you just decide, like, okay, Chris, that's a whole name

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01:38:41,200 --> 01:38:44,479
Speaker 1: in itself. Some people their name is Chris. That's not

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01:38:44,600 --> 01:38:47,400
Speaker 1: my name. I was named Christopher and I never used

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01:38:47,439 --> 01:38:50,160
Speaker 1: to care, but my mom it really bothers her. It

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01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:53,240
Speaker 1: really bothers her, okay, because she's like, I didn't name

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01:38:53,320 --> 01:38:55,439
Speaker 1: you Chris. I named you Christopher. And like, I don't

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01:38:55,479 --> 01:38:57,600
Speaker 1: know where these people get off just deciding.

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01:38:57,560 --> 01:39:00,400
Speaker 5: Everyone named Chris, Like I feel like everyone there are

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01:39:00,479 --> 01:39:08,160
Speaker 5: people Chris is just Chris, Chris, here's my baby, Chris Christopher.

2204
01:39:08,240 --> 01:39:10,439
Speaker 1: That's just sort of like something that comes with the territory.

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01:39:10,520 --> 01:39:12,639
Speaker 6: It is like, yeah, you're gonna hear Chris.

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01:39:13,240 --> 01:39:14,639
Speaker 4: Am I I'm gonna.

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01:39:16,600 --> 01:39:20,360
Speaker 6: Tom when you called you Chris, I'm sorry, We'll call you.

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01:39:20,479 --> 01:39:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 6: Don't hear mister christ.

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01:39:24,200 --> 01:39:26,120
Speaker 1: When is Chris? None of you ever called.

2211
01:39:27,680 --> 01:39:29,479
Speaker 3: Chris to me to begin with your friend to me,

2212
01:39:29,600 --> 01:39:31,640
Speaker 3: but I never did because you told us that like

2213
01:39:31,760 --> 01:39:32,479
Speaker 3: up front, and you did.

2214
01:39:32,600 --> 01:39:32,960
Speaker 6: That's true.

2215
01:39:33,040 --> 01:39:34,800
Speaker 1: I just don't think people get to shorten your name

2216
01:39:34,840 --> 01:39:40,080
Speaker 1: without asking what's fair? Why you the right right?

2217
01:39:40,200 --> 01:39:42,040
Speaker 6: We gotta have consent for everything.

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01:39:42,520 --> 01:39:43,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying to love you.

2219
01:39:43,840 --> 01:39:44,720
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to.

2220
01:39:44,880 --> 01:39:49,120
Speaker 1: Like, but you're not. But you're not doing it though

2221
01:39:49,200 --> 01:39:50,760
Speaker 1: you haven't done it. You're fine, we're good.

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01:39:50,920 --> 01:39:52,599
Speaker 2: Well yeah, but I'm just saying, like even the people

2223
01:39:52,680 --> 01:39:54,519
Speaker 2: that say like Chris, like they're trying to just be

2224
01:39:54,760 --> 01:39:58,519
Speaker 2: you know, friends, but you guys get so upset, you know,

2225
01:39:58,680 --> 01:39:59,759
Speaker 2: don't call me Jaz.

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01:40:00,280 --> 01:40:02,600
Speaker 6: She was really trying to like love on Jason. It

2227
01:40:02,760 --> 01:40:03,639
Speaker 6: wasn't a mean thing.

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01:40:03,800 --> 01:40:07,479
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that one's just lazy. That's a stupid

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01:40:07,560 --> 01:40:08,439
Speaker 1: that's a stupid nick.

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01:40:08,600 --> 01:40:09,400
Speaker 19: I let her do it.

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01:40:09,560 --> 01:40:11,760
Speaker 1: I never said anything, so it's fun.

2232
01:40:11,960 --> 01:40:14,240
Speaker 3: You would have hated my grandpa Eddie. Lunch Meet was

2233
01:40:14,360 --> 01:40:16,840
Speaker 3: his friend's belly like. He gave everyone a nickname.

2234
01:40:16,840 --> 01:40:19,160
Speaker 6: He called me boy. I mean it was like literally

2235
01:40:19,360 --> 01:40:23,320
Speaker 6: like what boy? Literally like because I was a tomboy.

2236
01:40:23,360 --> 01:40:24,479
Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, what I'm.

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01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:27,280
Speaker 1: Going to take a little deeper into that one. I

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01:40:27,320 --> 01:40:29,360
Speaker 1: haven't seen it on the couch. I still talk about it.