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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: a special guest, a very special guest joining us. He's

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Speaker 1: a best selling author and the senior pastor of the

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Speaker 1: Lighthouse Church in Houston and Henderson Pastor key On Henderson.

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Speaker 1: Pastor Kean's new book is called Lazy Love. It is

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Speaker 1: available now and we've invited him on the show to

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Speaker 1: tell us all about it.

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Speaker 2: Lazy Love. That's at the top of the hour. Right now,

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Speaker 2: I'm leading.

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Speaker 1: Right now, it's time to ask the clo our chief

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Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: This is from Cammy and Lexington.

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Speaker 1: Cammy writes, I almost had sex with my coworker's man,

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Speaker 1: but something was off, so I didn't do it. I

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Speaker 1: just found out that they're dating and he did some

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Speaker 1: things that he shouldn't have done. If he's got a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Should I warn my coworker about her boyfriend?

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Speaker 3: What you're going to tell him that you almost had

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Speaker 3: sex with it? What is this warn in fitness sound like?

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Speaker 3: Because the warning because she ain't gonna take it as

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Speaker 3: a warning about him, She gonna take it as a

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Speaker 3: warning about you. Hey, I don't know if you know

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Speaker 3: this him, but I almost slept with him and let

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Speaker 3: me tell you what he said. Excuse me back. I

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Speaker 3: don't know if you've ever told a woman something before.

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Speaker 3: I have, but usually when you tell a woman something,

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Speaker 3: they usually pick up on something else in the tale

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Speaker 3: that you wasn't trying to tell. The experts at that.

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Speaker 3: So if I was you, now you give you another

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Speaker 3: woman you ought to know this. But I'm just telling

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Speaker 3: you as a man. You know how many times I

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Speaker 3: tried to tell my wife something, But what I was

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Speaker 3: trying to tell her she picked up something else in

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Speaker 3: the tale. I ended up end up telling on my

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Speaker 3: damn self. Uh uh. So if I was, you shut

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Speaker 3: your damn mouth. He did wasn't something he wasn't supposed

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Speaker 3: to do, and you was about to do something you

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Speaker 3: wasn't supposed to do. That you can go over there

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Speaker 3: and tell if you want to go ahead, go ahead.

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Speaker 3: You ain't gonna believe it, though, Please write us back

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Speaker 3: and let us know how it went.

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Speaker 2: All right? All right, this is from Hannah and Norcross.

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Speaker 3: Hannah, she's gonna set my cubicle on fire. And all

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Speaker 3: I did was Uncle, I told you go.

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Speaker 2: Ahead, Hannah says.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I moved in together, and I had

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Speaker 1: planned to buy new beddings for us, but his mama

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Speaker 1: took it upon herself and bought a bunch of stuff

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Speaker 1: for us. I don't like her style at all. How

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Speaker 1: do I set boundaries with her so this won't happen again?

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Speaker 3: First of all, say mama, thank you so much. It

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Speaker 3: was so kind. It was just a kind gesture, that's

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Speaker 3: all it was. Now, you know, old people ain't got

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Speaker 3: good taste. She done went down there though. Just look,

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Speaker 3: Just say hey, thank you, ma'am, really appreciate it, and

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Speaker 3: then put it away and go on and buy what

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Speaker 3: you wanted buy. She ain't gonna come over there checking

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Speaker 3: your bed and and all that. Just go on and

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Speaker 3: thank her for it, you know, But don't mess it

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Speaker 3: up by saying that ain't my style, that ain't what

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Speaker 3: I want. So just say thank you for the nice gesture.

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Speaker 3: And now, toll, keep the relationship cool between you and

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Speaker 3: her and you and him. Don't go over that front

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Speaker 3: of this man's mama talking about your mama picking out

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Speaker 3: all this pole mess. Don't say that, please don't.

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Speaker 2: Hannah and Northcross all right.

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Speaker 1: Chandria in the DMV says, my husband's new job gave

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Speaker 1: him another phone that he claims is strictly for work,

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Speaker 1: but I caught him texting on it and looking at TikTok.

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Speaker 1: I don't even have the phone number. How do I

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Speaker 1: find out if it's really for work? Is he trying

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Speaker 1: to trick me?

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Speaker 3: Well, let me ask you. So, do you feel tricked?

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Speaker 2: Sounds like it, doesn't it.

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Speaker 3: You know he texting on it and he got TikTok.

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Speaker 3: You know, my job gave me a phone that's just

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Speaker 3: for work. Okay, alright, alrighty? You know you do know

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Speaker 3: you can get another line on your current phone, don't you?

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Speaker 3: You know you can have a business line and a

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Speaker 3: personal line on your same phone. You can get two

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Speaker 3: different numbers on one phone. I'm just you know you

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Speaker 3: don't need two phones, but you do. I don't know

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Speaker 3: what to tell you, ma'am. Is he trying to trick me?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Now? He ain't trying to trick you? The job gave

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Speaker 3: him a phone because you know, the job say hey,

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Speaker 3: look when you relax and you need to look on

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Speaker 3: TikTok and we won't be bigger to look on it

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Speaker 3: without using your battery up.

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Speaker 2: Yep, that's what the job had said.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what the job said?

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Speaker 2: All right, last One's Deep Last Ones. This is from

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Speaker 2: Caleb in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 1: Caleb writes, why does my wife need to know where

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Speaker 1: I am at all times? I'm fifty nine years old

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Speaker 1: and overweight, So I'm flattered that she thinks I can

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Speaker 1: still pull women, but I'm not. I would love to

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Speaker 1: leave the house without her calling to chit chat? How

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Speaker 1: do I get through to her?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what tell you, man, I don't know

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Speaker 3: what to tell you. She's trying to keep track of

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Speaker 3: your fat ass. That's all they had. None to it

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Speaker 3: it overweight.

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Speaker 2: Huh he said overweight.

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Speaker 3: That means fat ass. Yeah. If a man called hisself overweight,

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Speaker 3: the rest of us know his ass is fat. We

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Speaker 3: already already know that. Now women, we don't do that

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Speaker 3: to women. But if you a man and you say

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Speaker 3: I'm overweight, your ass is fat? Now you want to

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Speaker 3: use fat as the excuse for your wife not to

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Speaker 3: call you? And that's not letting them skinny me and

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Speaker 3: getting these calls don't ball hit me and getting these calls.

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Speaker 3: Whole men get these cars, rich men get these calls. Dog,

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Speaker 3: What do you want? How you thought you was gonna

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Speaker 3: be married? And ain't nobody gonna call you and see

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Speaker 3: where you at. Time is wanna go somewhere and don't

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Speaker 3: have to say where he at? Junior wanna go somewhere

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Speaker 3: and don't have to say where he at. I wanna

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Speaker 3: go somewhere and don't have to say where I'm at.

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Speaker 3: The good thing about me is my ass is at work,

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Speaker 3: so we know where you are. And then when I

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Speaker 3: ain't at work, I'm at the house trying to wrest

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Speaker 3: so I can tell my ass back to work. And

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Speaker 3: then why I'm going anyway? Why I'm going anyway? I

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Speaker 3: can't go no, damn well without somebody. Hey, let me

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Speaker 3: tell you something. I was in a store overseas, right, huh.

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Speaker 3: And as soon as I walked in, the guy recognized me,

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Speaker 3: took me to his back room, broke out the champagne,

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Speaker 3: bought it in, little pastries and everything nice. Somebody came

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Speaker 3: in there and said that I didn't know and didn't

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Speaker 3: work at the store. Are you Steve Harvey? I said no.

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Speaker 3: That guy came back in there took all that champagne

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Speaker 3: picking pastries up. I was sitting in that room by

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Speaker 3: my damn self. I ain't know what all right, Steve?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Colo coming up at the top of the hour, we

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Speaker 1: will hear from the pastor of the Lighthouse Church in Houston,

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Speaker 1: Pastor Kean Henderson. Right after this, you're listening Morning Show