WEBVTT - Clearing the Air 0:00:01.720 --> 0:00:15.200 Find Down and radio podcast. What Up, Sarah? What? I 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:22.200 just showed Mike the video? What video of Justin? And 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:24.080 I was about to talk about it and he should? 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:25.959 He goes, stop save it. I feel like we have 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:29.200 to make shirts that say save it because we save everything. 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.640 So real time is this? Is this like big news 0:00:32.680 --> 0:00:34.720 right in the social media world right now? I feel 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:36.920 like they're trying to downplay it. Where is he at? 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:40.680 He was on location filming, sorry to catch everyone up, 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:44.440 justin Timberlake. There was a video of him and his 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:46.800 co star and some other random lady who dragged him out. 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:53.680 He was hammered. And I get and I've learned this 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:57.160 from Sarah because Sarah, you texted me and you're like, 0:00:57.680 --> 0:01:03.720 did you see this Justin? Yeah? Okay, so continue what 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:07.000 what happened? It's just a video of him on the 0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:13.720 balcony in New Orleans and he's like visibly visibly um 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:20.240 been overserved and he's getting a little comfy with not 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:25.479 his wife. My thing too, is like for what I'm 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.759 like watching it and he's you know, he's sitting back. 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:31.520 But if I were to have my hand like not 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.200 just on the tip of his kneecap or not my 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:36.840 husband's kneecap, not just it wasn't on the tip here, 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:39.800 it was like right past the kneecap, were getting close 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:43.000 of the hand, like if my hand was just chilling, 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:44.399 let's just bless his come up with the name, what 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:47.080 guy do we know? That's okay? Kevin McGarry, who we 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:50.440 love He's been my husband in a few movies. If 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.080 I was if you saw a video of me saying, 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.040 who we love Kevin, he's amazing, You're like, if you 0:01:56.080 --> 0:01:59.080 saw me having a whole like holding his leg like that, 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:02.760 would you be okay with that video? I didn't see 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:07.560 her like have her No, video was just a snippet. 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:10.080 There are pictures of them holding hands under the table, 0:02:10.200 --> 0:02:13.079 like there are pictures of them like interlocked hands like 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:16.320 um like this, you know, like a And here's the 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:18.680 thing that I'll say that I I hold hands, and 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:20.880 I've learned my lesson with that. But I have held 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:25.240 hands with people that weren't my partner, not what I'm 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:27.800 with you, not since you. But that's a lesson that 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:32.440 I've learned from me. I love to hold hands. Catherine, 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:33.880 who's listening to this, she knows I'm always trying to 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:36.040 hold her hands. I love holding hands. I think it's 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:39.000 fun and I would hold like I would I I 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:42.200 held Kevin's hand, I think, not like lan Set never mind, 0:02:42.600 --> 0:02:45.120 let me trying to think. Um, I would hold like 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:49.680 my guitar players hands like maybe, but again it was wrong. 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:53.040 I'm saying it's wrong because it's just it's just wrong. 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:55.440 It's just weird, and like it's because of them are odd, 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:58.160 Like it's just odd. Well, and it's just because again 0:02:58.200 --> 0:03:02.280 you're you're putting yourself in a situation of basically like, hey, 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:05.120 you're inviting the next step if there's a next step, 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:10.760 and listen. Yeah. The only thing I'll say, just from 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:12.480 watching the video again, I didn't see like the pictures 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:17.560 you're talking about, Sarah. Just from watching the video, I 0:03:17.600 --> 0:03:22.000 can see it would holding my hand like that on 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:26.160 someone's leg. No. But what I'm saying is we've all 0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:28.680 been not we all because Jane has never been drunk. 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:32.720 But like for example of this, look at right there 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:37.640 hanging like that, Okay, Janna showing me the picture right now, 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:41.560 I mean her forearms on his leg like her hands, 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:46.360 not like I'm not saying, I'm not saying I think. 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.480 I definitely think it's a little fishy. All I'm saying 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:52.480 is the fact that you can see him as physically impearance. 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:56.960 That's what. But just listen to me for a second. 0:03:57.240 --> 0:04:00.320 We've had those moments, Sarah, myself in the US of 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.440 the world except for Jana, have at this moment where 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:05.600 you just a little too lushy, right, You're just kind 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:08.400 of like, hey, I love you, you know, like you 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:10.400 kind of put your hand on a on a girlfriend 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:12.400 or a guy friend. You just like he was the 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.720 best You're my best friend. I love you so much, 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:19.080 and just like a little overly affectionate. So I'm not 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:22.400 saying that that was happening in that video, but just 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:25.520 seeing how drunk he was. Who knows what was being said, 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:27.760 who knows the story, And all I'm saying is there's 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.560 a little bit of a room somewhere in there for 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:33.760 that that was most compta Kevin's hand at a bar. 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:37.479 Would you be upset, Well, that's just weird. But if 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:39.400 you think it's crossing a line. But if I saw, 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:41.400 if I came in, and I would be upset if 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:44.240 you were holding Sarah's hand and bar when I wasn't there, 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:51.120 I would holding my hand Okay, let me phrase this though. 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.000 If I watched him a bar and I saw you 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:54.880 and Kevin, and I saw Kevin like with his arm 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:57.440 around you, that's different. But I don't think that we're 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:00.800 not confirming if Jessica um his wife, even knows who 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:03.840 this girl is. So like you're you're you're saying like 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:05.840 I was one of my friends. I don't think this 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:08.160 woman is their friend. Let's just say it's a random 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:11.279 actor that i'm I'm acting with, and mostly pictures of 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.400 me holding his hand, you're not a chance. I'm mostly 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:15.560 I would mostly be concerned at how drunk he was 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:18.039 because that just did not look right. And that was 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.840 not assuming that Jessica doesn't know who she is. That's 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:24.720 all I'm saying. Okay, so I think, okay, So if 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:27.200 it was someone that you didn't know, you'd be upset. 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:29.400 If I was holding his hand or if I was 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:32.400 touching his leg like that, you'd be upset. But if 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:35.760 it's someone that we know, I'm allowed to do that 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:39.280 not that allowed to But again, I can understand how 0:05:39.400 --> 0:05:41.719 how people are, just like like if you walked in 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:43.960 and I had my like, my arm around Sarah for 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:45.680 a second, like and I was like town or something 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.159 funny or whatever, and like that was it not like 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:50.240 we're sitting there and I like I have my arm 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:54.120 like around her back forge they said they they came 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:56.039 out today and said, oh they're like brother and sister. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:57.760 I promise you Tay and a sister are not touching 0:05:57.800 --> 0:05:59.719 each other like that. So that's it's just all odd, 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:05.320 Like it's just odd. Well, Jessica Bill has an air 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:09.719 tight Uh yeah, basically because I think there might have 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:14.400 been some cheating before, because I know in her marital stuff. 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:18.080 It's if if basically he cheats like she gets everything. Well, 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:20.320 let's not forget let's go back a couple of years. 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:23.520 I'm I could be wrong. I'll let me pull it 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:27.320 up on us weekly, but I'm pretty sure's I'm pretty 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.320 sure he cheated on Brittany and she cheated on him 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:31.160 as well, but she really got the brunt of it 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:34.000 because you know, that's just more fun to blame her. 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:36.520 And I'm pretty sure he cheated on Jessica before they 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:40.200 were married. So well, yeah, that was yeah, that's all 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.480 because they broke up I think because of it. I think, 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.800 and which adds again, you're putting yourself in a position, 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.160 and I think that's so like things that I've learned, 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:51.239 Like I know, I cannot read lines with an acting 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:54.080 person in the hotel room or go out one on. 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:58.480 It's just it's not healthy. It's not it doesn't it's 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:03.200 gonna end up bad in most certain most most. You know, 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.440 if Kevin came over again, it's different because I know him. 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:08.440 You you trust him, we know him together. But if 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:11.320 it's someone you know, I booked a movie with some 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:13.040 guy that we don't we both don't know, and all 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:15.200 of a sudden, I'm like, yeah, he's he's over. And 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:17.560 then you see photos of us that come out and 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:19.680 we're holding hands and I'm on my hand is on 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.600 his leg. For one second that you would be fine 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:27.040 with that all I was like, not one bit, because 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:30.440 I mean, what would you do, Sarah. Let me just 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:32.440 make it clear. They said, oh, they're friends, they were 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:34.520 just having fun. If that's what having friends and fun is, 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:36.640 T will be having none of it because that's not happening. 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.680 But I mean, yeah, oh yeah, I know. So I 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:44.680 just we had to bring that up first, because Mark, 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:48.280 what is your thoughts? Since you're you know, older and 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:53.000 wiser than all, I'm blown away by all this stuff. Honestly, 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:55.000 because when I first heard about it and I heard this, 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:56.760 I heard the I guess I heard it on the 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:58.480 radio because I heard about it, and then I heard 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:00.520 the statement that was given, and I thought, that's the 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:03.960 worst statement I can imagine them giving. I needed to 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:08.000 get more creative, Like they're running lines, they're in character. Character. 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:10.800 Would you didn't see they can't like something a little 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:12.960 bit more creative? But then you look at the video 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:15.160 and he's so hammered that I realized none of those 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:17.360 excuses would have felt like I was watching a movie 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:20.600 when I was watching him, how how um not well 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:23.160 he was? Because I was like, is he like, damn 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:28.800 joking to be drunk? If that's he was, he was 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:31.680 nearly coma to us. So married people need to have 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:35.600 a limit when they're drinking without their spouse. They just 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:37.560 have to. I know it's too far to say they 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:39.920 shouldn't drink without their spouse. That's a little bit too 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:42.520 out there, a little too Mike Pens for everybody, But 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:44.800 I think you do need to have a cap because 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:47.280 you should never be in that condition. Because he could 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:50.280 have done anything, he wouldn't remember it. The next day exactly. 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:52.559 And also I looked up her the prenup, but it's 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:54.720 not exactly what we thought it was. It says here 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:57.240 that in the prenup, if he cheats on her, he 0:08:57.320 --> 0:09:00.720 needs to pay her five hundred thousand dollars. He's worth 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:04.679 two thirty million dollars. That seems like not a great 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:11.360 deal for Jessica Bee. Interesting. Yeah, yeah, I would have 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:15.559 asked for a lot more than that. I also think 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:20.960 this is the first um indication and a year and 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:23.360 a half from now when they announced their split, well, 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:27.040 I'll remember this moment. I couldn't agree with you more. Well, 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:30.640 let's hope that they don't, because let's hope that this 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:32.520 is you know, they can work through this. I just 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:35.040 want to know who the lady dragging his drunk but 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:39.600 out of the bar was the other lady? Yeah, they 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:46.080 said it was with her that looked like like a handler. Yeah, 0:09:46.520 --> 0:09:50.360 like a PR person or someone on his team. If 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:52.439 you watch the video, there's certain parts where there's like 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.600 a security looking type guy blocking them, so like you 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:59.520 can't really quite see him. So like, well, bottom line 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.000 is as we like to go full circle, right sure, 0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:05.600 Like Mark said, if you're married, you shouldn't be having 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:07.800 that much at a bar, especially without your spouse present, 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:11.520 and probably best not to be holding Yeah, not your 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:14.800 spouse's hand and have someone else be grabbing you in touch. 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:17.840 And that's on her, right because he's so blitz he 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:19.679 doesn't know whose hand he was holding. That's on her. 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:23.960 She needs in the Yeah, I wouldn't put the blat 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:27.959 because maybe something else happened before. So it's that's the thing. 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:31.080 It feels like she can do that. This is ongoing, 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:34.920 you know, So I wouldn't want to put the blame 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:38.080 just on her because she probably feels like she can 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:43.160 do that to him. Oh boy, that's true. Blame on her. 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:45.959 We're just saying that there takes two to tango. Yeah, 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:47.360 I know I even used the word blame, and I 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:49.240 shouldn't have. That was the wrong word to use. But 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:51.120 I feel like she should be more aware of the 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:54.800 public nature of what she was doing. Nobody's evening about them, 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:57.080 but time out though not to be This is just 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:01.560 me calling. You know, who is she? Oh, she's she's 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:04.080 a co star in the in the film he's doing right, 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:07.840 But is she very well known? I mean, is she 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:11.200 not to me? Not to me? I'm just saying, maybe 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.520 she was doing trying to advance her career too. I 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.200 was going to say, do you think people actually have 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:20.800 that one percent? Sucks? But if that's the case, it's just, 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:22.959 you know, with all the me too stuff, it just 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:28.199 makes you question, that's all. I'm confused. I kind of 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:31.720 got lost like two minutes ago. Basically, was she being 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:35.240 an opportunistic oh, because like her pictures are being taken 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:39.839 and this will gain her following. That's interesting. I mean 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:41.680 the movie that I'm just I just like to play 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:43.640 Devil's advocate. So here we go with the comments. But 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:46.319 I'm just saying, like, and I'm I'm actually on her side. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:50.640 I think she when I'm just saying, I think she's 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:52.880 you know, but she shouldn't have been touching him if 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:59.960 he's a veried man like that. Both parties are wrong anyways. Jessica, Jessica, 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:06.720 she's a bad bitch and I'm here for her lesson learns. 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:09.600 Don't get drunk and go to a bar, hold hands 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:13.760 and get hands in New Orleans. And I honestly I 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:16.600 don't want to wrap this up, but like Jessica Bielle, 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:20.400 like she could beat you up, like she's fit. Yeah, 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:24.960 she can mess you up. Like, I feel like she's 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:29.120 a strong. She seems like a real strong woman. I 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:32.120 think i'd be terrified of her if she seen her angry. 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:34.440 Why I don't know. Well, I mean she's just like 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:36.800 she's like, she's she's strong, she works out, she's built, 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:41.000 she's she's powerful, you know. I just I just feel 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:45.040 like she could get me. Oh a woman, watch out here, 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:50.560 like if Sara. If Sarah tried to get me, and 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:55.240 I'll kind of laugh, Oh no, you would not. You 0:12:55.280 --> 0:13:00.559 don't know her very well, come on to me, I would, Well, 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:02.720 what happens and I get me? Are you scared of me? 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:09.040 I'm ten years old. Yeah. Anyways, that's how we started 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:13.200 the show today. So next week on the pop Culture podcast. Sorry, 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:16.640 you know, I had just come home from getting my 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:20.160 lashes done. And by the way, guys, I drove on 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:23.960 the expressway today the entire way home, so thank you 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:32.839 massive panic. Only thought about pulling over once, you know, 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:34.559 I called. I was on the phone, was talking to 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:36.960 Leslie and we were just talking about life and stuff 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:39.800 and I was like, um mo, on my way back 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:42.199 to the podcast. It's gonna be fun. 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Actually I did, 0:16:59.760 --> 0:17:01.280 and that lot of people were like, oh my god, 0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:03.400 you're a song like, oh my god, remember high school? 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:10.200 And like, yeah, okay, let's not Did anyone gets through Janna, No, 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:13.679 that's a good question. No, but you told me that 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:15.959 people were texting you. I think one person, no one. 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:17.280 One of my friends is like, hey, is that who 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:19.000 you were talking about? And I said yeah, I had 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.159 like multiple d ms with like this man's name, and 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:24.479 I was like, what's happening like And then I was like, 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:28.640 oh do people now? People guessed it on my end. 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:31.960 So along with that time, I just had me thinking 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:36.120 along with that topic and is there and we don't 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:37.840 have to we don't have to go in depth about 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:40.800 just maybe something food for thought. Is there anyone out 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:42.439 there like in your life that basically you want to 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:46.760 make amends to, you know what I mean, like somebody 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:49.480 that sticks. No, just had me thinking about it. Yes 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:52.280 you go first, honey, No we don't. I'm not. I'm 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:54.240 not saying we don't have to say names. But it's 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:57.399 just one of those things that had me thinking and no, 0:17:57.520 --> 0:18:00.000 you can go first, because no, you can go first. 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:04.000 We made you want to go first last time. What's 0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:09.919 the appropriate um boundaries within that, like making amends to 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:12.920 somebody who do you want to make amends too? Well, 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:16.080 that's part of my step work anyway. Yes, that's a 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:20.280 nice step. So but I'm just saying I didn't. There's 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:22.560 sure there's people in my past in life. Are you saying, like, 0:18:22.840 --> 0:18:24.720 is there someone that we would want to make amends 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:27.640 to romantically that like now that we're all in other 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:31.399 partnerships that it's not like respectful to make amends or 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:34.480 just anyone in general. Anyone in general. It could be 0:18:34.480 --> 0:18:36.920 a past relationship, it could be a friend, it could 0:18:36.920 --> 0:18:40.199 be a family member, someone you have wronged in the past, 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:43.359 someone you have wronged, or someone that you've had a 0:18:43.480 --> 0:18:46.840 falling out with, or basically to own your part. You 0:18:46.840 --> 0:18:51.320 know what I mean, that's a good question. I know. 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:56.160 I'm like, well, how many people have wronged meat? No? Um, 0:18:56.240 --> 0:18:58.680 I feel like all the people that I felt I've 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:02.160 wronged or I don't really like wrong but the people 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:06.040 I've had falling out with, I feel like we've mm hmm. 0:19:08.000 --> 0:19:12.600 I feel like maybe I'm kind of our swept on it, 0:19:12.880 --> 0:19:14.879 not like swept under the rug, but maybe kind of 0:19:14.920 --> 0:19:17.399 dealt like I had. I'm trying to think. This is 0:19:17.480 --> 0:19:19.720 kind of hard, like do either of you have someone 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:21.639 in mine? Because I'm like kind of I'm like, I 0:19:21.640 --> 0:19:23.320 feel like Michael does. He just doesn't want to say 0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:27.000 because it might be a pass from mentor too sure. 0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:29.520 There's definitely people in my past that, like I think 0:19:29.520 --> 0:19:33.160 back and I wasn't the greatest person, and I who 0:19:33.200 --> 0:19:37.920 I am now would love to apologize for that. I mean, 0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:40.760 who doesn't have people like that that you know to 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:42.640 go back because no one owns their stuff when they're 0:19:42.640 --> 0:19:46.160 in those that kind of age age like early twenties, 0:19:46.240 --> 0:19:49.239 mid twenty I means all that no one owns it. 0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:52.160 But even for me, it's like I have a family member, 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:55.119 my uncle, that I had a falling out with that 0:19:55.280 --> 0:19:58.160 like there's a whole wedding backstory and all of that. 0:19:58.280 --> 0:20:01.000 But for me, you know, I held on and I'm 0:20:01.040 --> 0:20:02.760 not one to hold onto grudges, but I held onto 0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:05.320 it for a long time. I'm kind to the point 0:20:05.359 --> 0:20:08.480 now where I'm like, you know what, enough about focusing 0:20:08.480 --> 0:20:10.560 on what maybe he needs to own or what he 0:20:10.560 --> 0:20:14.320 should apologize for. Maybe I just addressed it and say like, hey, 0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:18.440 I miss you and I'm sorry for this situation. Can 0:20:18.480 --> 0:20:21.639 I just say something because it's I get so with 0:20:21.720 --> 0:20:24.000 that situation because I know how much that hurt you, 0:20:25.440 --> 0:20:27.520 and I get that, and I think that's really amazing 0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:29.240 that you want to do that. But at the same time, 0:20:31.080 --> 0:20:32.760 what if he doesn't own the fact that he's like, 0:20:32.800 --> 0:20:35.160 I should have showed up and that was ridiculous because 0:20:36.200 --> 0:20:38.280 you know those people they should not have been invited 0:20:38.320 --> 0:20:40.639 because of what your list was, and like that was 0:20:40.720 --> 0:20:43.800 that's just the fact that he didn't show up. We 0:20:43.880 --> 0:20:49.600 told the story that bad. No, I'm just wondering, basically, 0:20:49.720 --> 0:20:54.399 the gist of it, without going into long details, is Janna, 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:56.480 you know at your wedding you have to draw the 0:20:56.480 --> 0:20:59.520 line somewhere. Janna and I decided, based on the forces 0:20:59.520 --> 0:21:01.640 in our family on both sides and all this, we're 0:21:01.680 --> 0:21:05.920 not going to invite step cousins. Okay, so step cousins 0:21:05.960 --> 0:21:09.680 were not blood related to, but related to via marriage. 0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:13.040 And then we had a handful on both sides, like 0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:16.119 at least like probably a dozen between both sides of 0:21:16.160 --> 0:21:19.000 the family. So like, man, that's like at least one table, 0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:21.760 if not more. So, like all right, we're gonna stop 0:21:21.760 --> 0:21:27.200