WEBVTT - I Know You Lying - 8.5.26

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<v Speaker 1>Let up, all right, nephew, thank you subject. I know you, lion.

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<v Speaker 1>Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband is a whole fool. I

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<v Speaker 1>have been with him for thirteen years total, and we've

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<v Speaker 1>been married for eight years.

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<v Speaker 2>He has been.

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<v Speaker 1>Cheating on me the entire time, and I recently found

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<v Speaker 1>out about his infidelity and I met his side chick

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<v Speaker 1>that he's been having sex with since we got married.

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<v Speaker 1>She called me the other day and said I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to know about her. My response was, I know you, lion.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that my husband has given her money for

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<v Speaker 1>years and they have a great arrangement. I know you, lion,

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<v Speaker 1>because my husband has never had extra money or free time.

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<v Speaker 1>I told the chick to come over to the house

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<v Speaker 1>so we could surprise my husband and I could get

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<v Speaker 1>some answers. Well, the surprise was on me because she

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<v Speaker 1>already knew exactly where we live. When my husband came

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<v Speaker 1>in from work, he kissed me on the lips and

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<v Speaker 1>then leaned over to kiss the woman on the forehead.

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<v Speaker 1>I stopped him and said, I know you, lion. He

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<v Speaker 1>pulled yeah. He pulled away from me and said he

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<v Speaker 1>really cares about the woman, but he's committed to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Then he gave me an ultimatum to go along with

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<v Speaker 1>how things will be from now on, or we should

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<v Speaker 1>go our separate ways. He said that he married me

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<v Speaker 1>because we had a lot of history and he figured

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be a good mother for his children, but my

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<v Speaker 1>cunning and conniving ways drove him to cheat on me.

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<v Speaker 1>If I was crazy, it's because he stopped showing me

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<v Speaker 1>any affection. He admitted to having several women on the

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<v Speaker 1>side over the years, but then pointed to the woman

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<v Speaker 1>in our kitchen and said, she is special. I know you, lion.

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<v Speaker 1>This is way too much for me to process. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so defeated. Why did he have to tell me

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<v Speaker 1>all of that in front of her? Well, what difference

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<v Speaker 1>does that make Because he told you, and he said it,

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<v Speaker 1>she is special to him. He tried to kiss her

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<v Speaker 1>right in front of you. Don't you get it. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>miss what he's really saying, and that is he has

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<v Speaker 1>no plans on letting his side piece go, especially this one,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's special and he's relieved that it's finally out

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<v Speaker 1>in the open. Now, you do know there's a series

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<v Speaker 1>on Netflix called The Polygamist and in the show, that

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<v Speaker 1>wife agreed to her husband having another woman. Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't agreed to that with your husband, but he sure

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<v Speaker 1>is pushing it. He wants the side piece and he

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<v Speaker 1>wants you to be okay with it, and he's blaming

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<v Speaker 1>you for his cheating, not just with her, but with

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<v Speaker 1>everyone and all. This is a lot to process, and

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to. He wants to separate if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't agree with his terms. So what you need to

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<v Speaker 1>do is to decide whether you're going to stay married

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<v Speaker 1>to this man who's disrespectful, who stopped giving you attention,

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<v Speaker 1>who's unapologetically cheating, giving this woman money, and a man

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<v Speaker 1>who wants a sister wife situation with the two of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that everything is out you don't want that, do you?

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<v Speaker 1>So you got to tell him no, absolutely not, Steve.

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<v Speaker 2>This letter is crazy. Yeah, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>It's when I get to the park that's the craziest.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll let you know.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know.

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<v Speaker 3>The subject of the letter is I know you line,

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<v Speaker 3>and neither have to say this in the tone of

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<v Speaker 3>I know you line. You gotta go let it like that,

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<v Speaker 3>I know you lying. Well, lady, this really ain't fun

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<v Speaker 3>of me.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>You say your husband is a whole fool, but I

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<v Speaker 3>really think it's you that's the whole. You've been married

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<v Speaker 3>for thirteen years, but you known him for thirteen years,

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<v Speaker 3>married for eight and he's been cheating on you the

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<v Speaker 3>entire time. But you say you recently found out about

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<v Speaker 3>his infidelity because you made his side chick that he's

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<v Speaker 3>been having sex with since we got married.

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<v Speaker 2>That's eight years.

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<v Speaker 3>She called you the other day and said that you

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<v Speaker 3>need to know about her. She said, I need you

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<v Speaker 3>to know about her. My response was, I know you lying.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, my husband is giving up money for years

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<v Speaker 3>and they have a great arrangement. I know you lying

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<v Speaker 3>because my husband never has extra money, all free time.

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<v Speaker 2>But you don't see why if your husband. I never

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<v Speaker 2>got no extra money because he gave it to her.

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<v Speaker 2>So she spot on with what she said.

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<v Speaker 3>And he ain't got no free time because when he

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<v Speaker 3>ain't working on her, he at home with you. So

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<v Speaker 3>he go to work, he go to work on her,

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<v Speaker 3>and then he come home to you. You thinking the

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<v Speaker 3>whole time he'll work. I told the chick to come

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<v Speaker 3>over to the house so we could surprise my husband

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<v Speaker 3>and I could get some answers. This is where it

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<v Speaker 3>gets stupid. The surprise was on me because she already

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<v Speaker 3>knew exactly where we live. When my husband came in

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<v Speaker 3>from work, he kissed me on the lips and then

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<v Speaker 3>leaned over to kiss the woman on the forehead. I

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<v Speaker 3>stopped him and said, I know you lying.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, this wasn't let it just take a

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<v Speaker 2>hard left turn for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I walk in my house, my wife's sitting there, and

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<v Speaker 3>the side piece is sitting there.

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<v Speaker 2>I lean over and.

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<v Speaker 3>Kiss my wife on the lip, and then lean over

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<v Speaker 3>to kiss the woman on the forehead. That'll never happen.

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<v Speaker 3>That'll never happen. When I pull up and I see

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<v Speaker 3>that extra car, is no way I'm going that. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not going in that. It ain't gonna be No.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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<v Speaker 1>twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you lying. We'll get back into it right

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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<v Speaker 1>The subject is I know you lyon.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen to recap is very simple. Let me just expedite this.

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<v Speaker 3>This woman has been married to this man for eight years.

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<v Speaker 3>They've been together thirteen married eight. She said he's he's

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<v Speaker 3>been cheating on her the entire time, and the way

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<v Speaker 3>she found out was his side check that he's been

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<v Speaker 3>having sex with since they got married. Called her the

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<v Speaker 3>other day and said that I need you to know

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<v Speaker 3>about me. My response was, I know you lying because

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<v Speaker 3>she said her husband was giving up money and they

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<v Speaker 3>had a great arrangement. And the reason I know, she lined,

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<v Speaker 3>because my husband never has extra money or free time.

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<v Speaker 2>But she just told you why he ain't got none

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<v Speaker 2>of you.

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<v Speaker 3>She just told you that because he given it to her,

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<v Speaker 3>and he ain't got no free time because after he

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<v Speaker 3>go to work, he got to go work on her.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you got the rest of that time. So you've

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<v Speaker 3>been hoodwink this whole time. I told the chick to

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<v Speaker 3>come over now this is right here, this way. Keeee lady,

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<v Speaker 3>she gotta be careful with stuff like this. I told

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<v Speaker 3>the chick to come over to the house so we

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<v Speaker 3>could surprise my husband and I could get some answer. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>the surprise was on me because she already knew exactly

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<v Speaker 3>where we lived. And when my husband came in from work,

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<v Speaker 3>he kissed me on the lips and then leaned over

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<v Speaker 3>to kiss the woman on the forehead.

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<v Speaker 2>I stopped him and said, I know you lying.

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<v Speaker 3>He pulled away from me, and he said, he really

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<v Speaker 3>cares about the woman, but he's committed to me. God,

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<v Speaker 3>let me go back to the park where he came

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<v Speaker 3>in the house. All right, let me I have a theory.

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<v Speaker 2>I know exactly what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>See, because first of all, if his initial reaction would

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<v Speaker 3>be you pull up at your house, you see your

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<v Speaker 3>side chicks car in the driveway, your first thing is

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<v Speaker 3>to not to go in that house, because you got

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<v Speaker 3>to go and get yourself together. You got to get

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<v Speaker 3>some thought of planning. You got to figure out how

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<v Speaker 3>long she been over there, what she over there for.

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<v Speaker 3>You got to go make a phone call. You got

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<v Speaker 3>to call her, hey, where are you at? You got

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<v Speaker 3>to make sure. But see, ain't no man gonna see

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<v Speaker 3>his side chicks car in the driveway and just go

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<v Speaker 3>in the house.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know why he did that, because.

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<v Speaker 3>The side chick called him and said, I spoke to

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<v Speaker 3>your wife and she wanted to surprise you.

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<v Speaker 2>She got me going over to the house.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why he said, let me go on up here.

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<v Speaker 3>Reverse psychology. Kissed my wife in the mouth, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna kiss her on the forehead.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's too big of a shock. Ladies, listen to me.

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<v Speaker 3>It's oh wait, you can walk in your house and

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<v Speaker 3>see your wife and your side chick and not it

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<v Speaker 3>don't work like this life, because if that's one of

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<v Speaker 3>the biggest, what the hell moments you can have yet?

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<v Speaker 2>So I already know that. The side chick.

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<v Speaker 3>Called him and told him she was gonna be over,

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<v Speaker 3>and so then he kissed the wife and then tried

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<v Speaker 3>to kiss the lady on the forehead.

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<v Speaker 2>She stopped him and said, I know you lying.

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<v Speaker 3>Then he pulled away and said he really cares about

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<v Speaker 3>the woman, but he's committed to me, and they work

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<v Speaker 3>this out because the side piece chicken, no, he's committed

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<v Speaker 3>to her and they likes their arrangement. Then he gave

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<v Speaker 3>me an ultimatum to go along with how things will

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<v Speaker 3>be from now on.

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<v Speaker 2>We should go our separate ways.

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<v Speaker 3>He said he married me because they had a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of history, and he figured you'd be a good mother

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<v Speaker 3>for children. But my cunning ain't conniving waves drove him

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<v Speaker 3>to cheat on me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, yeah, oh this is your fault.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh, so you've been mentally abused now, because now

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<v Speaker 3>it's your fault cunning and conniving ways. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what he's talking about. She's leaving out some information, something

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<v Speaker 3>to have. But anyway, if I was crazy, If I

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<v Speaker 3>was crazy, it's because he stopped showing me any attention.

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<v Speaker 3>He admitted to having several women on the side over

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<v Speaker 3>the years, but then pointed to the woman in our

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<v Speaker 3>kitchen and said she's special.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>After he kissed you in the mouth and tried to

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<v Speaker 3>kiss her on the head and you pushed him away

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<v Speaker 3>and said, no, you lying.

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<v Speaker 2>She went in there to make a saydwich.

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<v Speaker 3>She just got up and he said that the woman

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<v Speaker 3>in our kitchen and said she's special. What the hell

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<v Speaker 3>she doing in the kitchen? How you letting the woman

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<v Speaker 3>walk around your house? See how this letter It don't

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<v Speaker 3>make no sense. But you invited over there like she company.

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<v Speaker 3>Now she all in the kitchen making tea and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Roman you want anything, baby, No.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good sweetie, God Roman, this is way too much

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<v Speaker 2>for me to process.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel so defeated. Why did he have to tell

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<v Speaker 3>me all of this in front of her? Because you

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<v Speaker 3>invited her over and now she told her him she

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<v Speaker 3>was gonna be over there. That's why he wasn't stunned

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<v Speaker 3>and passing out to kissing, because he said, well, look,

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<v Speaker 3>this'd be a good time for me to just break

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<v Speaker 3>this office. And then he gave you an ultimatum either

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<v Speaker 3>go along with it or let's go our separate ways.

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<v Speaker 3>So you don't have an option that's beneficial to you.

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<v Speaker 2>How will you, lady? Why would you allow somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>To mistreat you and disrespect you in your own house?

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<v Speaker 3>Gonna kiss you an and try to kiss the other

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<v Speaker 3>woman in your house? The ultimate disrespect. I ain't no

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<v Speaker 3>sister sitting here letting this go down like this. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know how you doing it. You cannot allow this

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<v Speaker 3>continued disrespect in your life. You've been disrespecting. It's been

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<v Speaker 3>going on. I had several women. So what what you

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<v Speaker 3>gonna do about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Boy? Bye?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>All right?

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