Speaker 1: Second date of date. You know, when you say something
Speaker 1: trying to be cute and you're not sure if it
Speaker 1: came off actually funny or if it just sounded plain rude.
Speaker 1: That's my whole life. Yeah, this shows for you, but
Speaker 1: you play it back in your head over and over again,
Speaker 1: wondering like, oh, was that the right thing to say. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's where one of our listeners, Amanda, has been living
Speaker 1: for her life for the last week. That's playing back
Speaker 1: the date over and over again, wondering if she messed up.
Speaker 1: Let's find out what happened, Amanda. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Hi guys, that was a little weird the way you
Speaker 1: said that, Amanda. Oh yeah, awkward. While we're just messing
Speaker 1: around with you, Amanda, So thanks for emailing in tell
Speaker 1: us about the guy that you went out with. What's
Speaker 1: his name? Ah? So, I met Sean online and it's
Speaker 1: really cute. He lives in one of those pictures that
Speaker 1: the fighting his glasses. I was like, oh, I saw
Speaker 1: that wait waiting glasses like on the corner. Oh, like
Speaker 1: he was doing the sexy librarian and his profile photo.
Speaker 1: Yes he is that A that's an attractive thing to you, Nanda,
Speaker 1: Well you know. What had happened was is that I
Speaker 1: was working Sex in the City at the time, and
Speaker 1: apparently the response was like, guys, I do that are
Speaker 1: good and bad? So I was goodes them all the time.
Speaker 1: Just eat those glasses. Yeah, that was the old sex
Speaker 1: in the City, right, because the new one would just say,
Speaker 1: guys that do that just mean they need reading glasses.
Speaker 1: It's an elderly Yeah it wasn't. Okay, Okay, so he
Speaker 1: has glasses and he bites them. What else do we
Speaker 1: need to know about Sean? That's all we need to know.
Speaker 1: So we met up for dinner and we went through
Speaker 1: this like really nice Italian restaurant and immediately went up.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, we just hugged. Okay, hold on, though
Speaker 1: it was the Italian restaurant, your idea, his idea, it
Speaker 1: was my dear on sex in the City again. I
Speaker 1: just I was just hopeful it was his idea because
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's a great sign that he wanted
Speaker 1: to put in the effort for a fancy romantic dinners.
Speaker 1: That's a great song that you wanted to do. That
Speaker 1: sounds good. How did dinner go? Well, that's where I
Speaker 1: got a little weird. Because we were going to sit
Speaker 1: down and he went to take up my chair and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, thanks, but you know you don't
Speaker 1: have to do that. That's okay. You said you didn't
Speaker 1: like that. It's not that I didn't. I just felt,
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I felt weird about it. I
Speaker 1: guess like I feel that I feel so extra when
Speaker 1: someone tries to do that for me. Really why I
Speaker 1: feel like they're gonna treat me on a celebrity And
Speaker 1: I'm like, can you not? Like I was just gonna say,
Speaker 1: if I ever do that for girls, ninety nine percent
Speaker 1: of the time, they are shocks like oh, I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: let me, I'm capable of pulling a chair. Some sort
Speaker 1: of heroing for pulling my chair over here. Okay, I mean,
Speaker 1: I just I would assume he said, I know that
Speaker 1: I don't have to do it. I'm just trying to,
Speaker 1: you know, wine and dine you my friend. He's gonna
Speaker 1: look like a little bit. He wasn't upset. He was like, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, a little bit of awkwardness before you start dinner,
Speaker 1: But were you able to get things back on track?
Speaker 1: So we ordered our food and we didn't have appetation.
Speaker 1: I was hungry, and then it ended up happening that
Speaker 1: we had reservations for like six but then we had
Speaker 1: to move it down a little bit because of traffic
Speaker 1: and stuff. He sounds like really important details. Well, she's hungry,
Speaker 1: That's what she's saying at that point, because it was
Speaker 1: like later and then like I was hungry, and you're
Speaker 1: telling me they didn't have a free bread bowl on
Speaker 1: the table. Oh my gosh, they did. And now I
Speaker 1: was trying to like Matt looking at it because you know,
Speaker 1: like one, I like the bread with the sauce. I mean,
Speaker 1: do you think, y'all? I love hearing about you know,
Speaker 1: what your appetite was like and why you were hungry
Speaker 1: and what you were hungry for. I'm just saying, can
Speaker 1: we talk more about your actual day, like what was
Speaker 1: Sean doing while you were eyeing the bread? While just saying,
Speaker 1: first of all, food is important in my life. Okay,
Speaker 1: I understand. Now. So he ordered his food and I
Speaker 1: see him starting to eat, and he's just like picking
Speaker 1: up like a little bit of food at a time
Speaker 1: and just like putting it in his mouth and chewing. Okay,
Speaker 1: it sounds like a polite way to eat. No, it
Speaker 1: was like silence of the lamps, slow eating, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, oh, is that why he's a
Speaker 1: villain in that movie because he's a slow eater. Are
Speaker 1: you guys? Are you guys talking through this? Are you
Speaker 1: having a good conversation or are you just silently slow
Speaker 1: eating in front of each other. I'm definitely like talking,
Speaker 1: I'm eating, I'm drinking my wound, so I'm like having
Speaker 1: a good time. But he's like just very solemn, just
Speaker 1: like giving me and then I just kind of slowed down.
Speaker 1: But then I slow down because he was just staring
Speaker 1: at me. At this point, I was like I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm not okay with it. I need the person to easter. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was Apparently I was eating way too fast, so
Speaker 1: I was like, um, what's going on? And he's like, no,
Speaker 1: I had a big lunch, and I'm like, well, dude,
Speaker 1: do you know if we were coming to this? But
Speaker 1: like okay, and then I just you know when you
Speaker 1: just stop eating and then you just get upset about
Speaker 1: something and you're like I don't want to touch it
Speaker 1: anymore because it's like it's gone. Yeah, VI is gone.
Speaker 1: So I was like, do you want to talk about
Speaker 1: something like it's something bothering you. Awkward, so dramatic. Now
Speaker 1: it sounds like you're pouting because he's not. I am.
Speaker 1: I was hungry. We talked about how much I love food,
Speaker 1: and he's like, you know what, I don't want to
Speaker 1: eat anything. I'm like, you know what? I want to dessert? Like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're still hungry. You want to make the date long.
Speaker 1: Now I'm emotionally eating. Now I'm like this, I might
Speaker 1: have a brownie, So okay. So then you ate a
Speaker 1: brownie in front of him? Is there anything? Is there
Speaker 1: any part of the date that you enjoy something that
Speaker 1: you liked? The brownie? So why are we calling him?
Speaker 1: What do you what do you want us to do?
Speaker 1: You actually want to go out with him again? Are
Speaker 1: you just calling for the free gift? No, it's just
Speaker 1: you know what it was like, we had we had
Speaker 1: good conversations beforehand. I think it's like change. When I
Speaker 1: sat down, I was like, you know, I'm not needy,
Speaker 1: like I don't need you to pull out my chair.
Speaker 1: Like I kind of saw his personal and not change
Speaker 1: a little bit. So I was like, I think it
Speaker 1: kind of went downhill very quickly afterwards so you think
Speaker 1: it is that moment, you know, Yeah, there are maybe
Speaker 1: he had an idea of like a slow service, chill meal,
Speaker 1: and when he got there, you stopped his whole thought
Speaker 1: of that happening. You're you're, you're, you know, you're not
Speaker 1: doing what he was hoping would happen. There's also some
Speaker 1: dudes who are like, if you don't reciprocate the chair,
Speaker 1: pull out of the door open, like what, you don't
Speaker 1: need a man? What are you? Some independent lady like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I let see that. Well, let's call him. We're gonna
Speaker 1: play a song. We'll come back, we'll reach out to Sean,
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get you your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you. All right, hold on second date if you
Speaker 1: miss the first part of a second date update. It
Speaker 1: was mostly just talking about food, about what types of
Speaker 1: food Amanda likes, why she likes them, what time of
Speaker 1: day she prefers to eat them. Ended with the brownie. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: ended the whole day with the brownie. After conversation kind
Speaker 1: of deteriorated and the eating stopped. And I do feel
Speaker 1: like he was like a spit brownie too, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: he wasn't eating right and the awkwardness all started because
Speaker 1: he was trying to be a nice guy and pulled
Speaker 1: the chair out for her when they first got to
Speaker 1: the restaurant, which Amanda thought was a little bit over
Speaker 1: the top. Yeah, is that right, Amanda? That is correct.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you were both just pouting throughout the day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like he was like, fun, I'm not gonna do anything
Speaker 1: for you, including talk, and you're like, fine, I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna eat a lot exactly. That's why I want to
Speaker 1: know the date, was Sean, I don't want to do
Speaker 1: it in like that. Okay, Well that's what we're gonna
Speaker 1: try and do here for you right now. But hopefully
Speaker 1: whatever the next day you have doesn't involve any food whatsoever.
Speaker 1: That way you will. That way you won't get distracted
Speaker 1: by the meals and who's eating how fast and what
Speaker 1: they're eating. You could just talk to each other and bond. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the next date. It's not even about food. Don't
Speaker 1: even bother, don't follow them And what are we going
Speaker 1: to do? Jeff give a gift certificate for talking and
Speaker 1: sure we could have like a museum tour or something.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, we'll just we'll just do it.
Speaker 1: We'll get it. Let's just dial Sean's number and we'll
Speaker 1: see what he asked to say. Here we go, just
Speaker 1: grow Hey is this Seano? I? Yeah, who's calling? Hey Sean?
Speaker 1: My name is Jeff from the radio show Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing, man? Yeah? Why
Speaker 1: are you calling me? It's a great question, Sean. You're
Speaker 1: you're to the point and I like that about you.
Speaker 1: Already we're doing something called a second date update, and
Speaker 1: we're calling on behalf of one of our listeners named Amanda,
Speaker 1: who went out with you recently. Remember Amanda? Um? Not really,
Speaker 1: that's fine, that makes sense. You guys like actually went
Speaker 1: to dinner Like it wasn't just like, oh, kind of
Speaker 1: talking online like you you physically met up with her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I mean I go on a lot of dates,
Speaker 1: you know, So I'm not I'm not. I hopefully we
Speaker 1: can jog your memory about her. Um, you met her
Speaker 1: online and you went out to Italian You went out
Speaker 1: to an Italian restaurant and you tried to pull her
Speaker 1: chair out for her, and she made a comment like
Speaker 1: you don't have to do that any Okay. I mean
Speaker 1: you probably weren't that into the dinner because it sounds
Speaker 1: like you weren't very hungry. Yeah, but she's a little
Speaker 1: bit confused on what the specific reason was that your
Speaker 1: date kind of ended a little awkwardly. I mean, maybe
Speaker 1: you had other things planned, or there's some something else
Speaker 1: that we don't know that happened during the date. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I want to say, but I mean
Speaker 1: I think I think she'd be okay, Like she just
Speaker 1: wants to know, you know. She She also admitted that
Speaker 1: it was a pretty i mean bad date from her description,
Speaker 1: and she actually wants to redo because it sucks. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I just have bad vibes
Speaker 1: from her during the date, and it might it might
Speaker 1: sound superficial, but you know, her dinner order like freaked
Speaker 1: me out. Her order? What do you mean? Yeah? What
Speaker 1: was her order? You'd like a girl that only eats
Speaker 1: a salad or something. Is that what you're saying? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's not just a salad. She ordered a
Speaker 1: salad with sliced up hot dogs in it and a
Speaker 1: strawberry nigret side wait dog salad. Is that was that
Speaker 1: one of the items on the menu. They go to
Speaker 1: dinner in your hometown? What is no? She ordered herself
Speaker 1: like she just basically was like, okay, putting hot dogs
Speaker 1: in there. That's on. The waitstaff were just like what
Speaker 1: they were like huh. She's like, yeah, yeah, this is
Speaker 1: a whole thing. Can you do that? Like this show
Speaker 1: an you're saying that she got a green salad with
Speaker 1: like leafy greens and maybe some other vegetables in it
Speaker 1: and then added hot dogs to the mix. Strawberry, What
Speaker 1: did it look like when it came out? If you
Speaker 1: want to imagine what gopher puke looked like? That was it?
Speaker 1: I mean, okay that we could talk about this for
Speaker 1: a while because it is really strange. But is it?
Speaker 1: It's probably from the kids menu they pulled. But is
Speaker 1: that what? You weren't talking much during dinner because she
Speaker 1: said the conversation kind of stopped. I was grossed out.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry, it was just gross. Oh. I know,
Speaker 1: like right there, when I saw that, it told me
Speaker 1: everything I need to know about her that one she's
Speaker 1: high maintenance and two weird. Oh my god, are you
Speaker 1: serious right now? You're not? You don't want to talk
Speaker 1: to me because of a hot dog and a sad Yeah?
Speaker 1: So hold on, Amanda, Sean, Amanda's that's Amanda. Obviously she's
Speaker 1: been listening this entire time. She wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Oh boy, I'm sorry. I've never met the same person
Speaker 1: in my life. Who ever wanted that combo together? What's
Speaker 1: wrong with your taste? But that salad was delicious? Delicious
Speaker 1: are delicious? Just put them together? It was fine, dud. Dude, dude,
Speaker 1: it's not just me. Even the waiter gave you a look. Okay,
Speaker 1: it might have been looking at me, but it wasn't
Speaker 1: for the salad I ordered. Oh, he was like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I kind of want to try it because no one
Speaker 1: else like a little bit, but I wouldn't go to
Speaker 1: an Italian restaurant for it. I don't want to try it.
Speaker 1: Are you really like you that a hot dog in
Speaker 1: a salad honestly ruined your entire night? Sean? Like that
Speaker 1: just seems crazy to me. Appetite? What else are use
Speaker 1: that insect here that you can't see somebody eating a
Speaker 1: hot dog in a salad? Like? No, I love hot
Speaker 1: dogs actually, so it's not that okay, Sean? Are you
Speaker 1: just looking for someone who has the same taste as you?
Speaker 1: And everything I don't think you're going to find that.
Speaker 1: I mean, when you're when you're eating hot dogs with salad,
Speaker 1: which is like the antithesis of like why you're ordering salad.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's dead. That's just too much
Speaker 1: of a wild card for me, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So it seems like you were more embarrassed by her
Speaker 1: then No. I was scared when I thought it. Okay,
Speaker 1: fear came over you when you made that order. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, it seems like something you's ground together
Speaker 1: in a prison cafeteria exactly what. I don't know. My
Speaker 1: mom liked fried bologna a lot. We had a lot
Speaker 1: of that growing up. Anybody else still that he might
Speaker 1: start hating the people that eat spam too, But that's okay.
Speaker 1: He can never go to Hawaiia for that, Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1: I love soup. Yeah, but you know, like it could
Speaker 1: be like a Cobb salad. You know, what's the difference
Speaker 1: ham hot dog? They're pretty similar. I'm just saying, I mean,
Speaker 1: I feel like we're beating a dead hot dog at
Speaker 1: this point. So maybe it's just time to ask um Sean,
Speaker 1: we would like to send you out on another date
Speaker 1: with Amanda, and we'll pay for it if you're interested
Speaker 1: at all. Just burgers. I'm good, you're good, guys. He's
Speaker 1: not a Wiener. Oh he hung up? Okay, well, I
Speaker 1: think Sean hung up. Couldn't stand to be on the
Speaker 1: phone with us and talk about hot dogs in front
Speaker 1: of him anymore. But it's probably the ween are joke.
Speaker 1: He didn't appreciate that most men don't intimidated by a
Speaker 1: good winer the You know what, Amanda, I think, just
Speaker 1: to be safe, you need to put this on your
Speaker 1: dating profile, just so that guys know what they're getting
Speaker 1: into before they go out to dinner with you. Good idea,
Speaker 1: I like cleaner, noble, okay, salad. Yeah, we're gonna work
Speaker 1: on the frazen there, but we're getting closer. I don't know.
Speaker 1: We can't do this that's on logo hashtags. I'm open
Speaker 1: to suggestion. Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Was she
Speaker 1: joking with us about putting the Wiener stuff up on
Speaker 1: her profile, like she's definitely gonna get a lot more matches? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I hope she doesn't take it seriously. You
Speaker 1: get a lot of ideas on the top of her head.
Speaker 1: It will be. It'll be matches with people who don't
Speaker 1: want to pull her chair out. Ye, good point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's more in love with what she's looking for. I
Speaker 1: was curious if that hot dog salad thing was a
Speaker 1: real Dish're gonna say it was good? I have too,
Speaker 1: Like you put some blue keys on a hard boiled egg,
Speaker 1: some peppers. It's just weird, But I was the closest
Speaker 1: thing you had me. I was all almost there. I
Speaker 1: googled hot dog salad and my computer instantly got flagged
Speaker 1: by it. I can't say whether or not it's real,
Speaker 1: or whether or not it's good. Maybe some of our
Speaker 1: listeners can chime in tech Sorry, what's cute? Fit finish?
Speaker 1: I'll tell you, Okay, maybe some of our listeners can
Speaker 1: chime in and tell us whether or not it's any good? Yeah,
Speaker 1: text into seven eighty five nine to tell us, like,
Speaker 1: that was the first time you've flavored Google search hot
Speaker 1: dog salad? Yeah, blush stop. Remember, if you ever want
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