WEBVTT - Feeling Nostalgic with Bob Saget

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<v Speaker 1>Flyind Down with Janey Kramer and Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>Coffin and I'm her radio podcast Another Monday.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm actually in a really good mood.

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<v Speaker 2>You are in a good mood, and I keep.

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<v Speaker 3>Asking you, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 2>You just keep kind of just because I'm not matching

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<v Speaker 2>your energy.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, hey, there's something to be said about that, though,

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<v Speaker 4>because there's times when you know I'm not matching the

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<v Speaker 4>energy and anything something's wrong with me.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think it is something.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, sometimes I think it was because the

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<v Speaker 4>other day you were like, I'm just like so blah,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, Okay, is there anything surrounding that, because

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<v Speaker 4>if there is.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd love to hear. If not, go be blah dude,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm grab my glass of wine. I'm gonna go watch

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<v Speaker 3>Dancing with the Stars. See you later.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think it's in any relationship. It's one of

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<v Speaker 2>those things where it depends on the degree of passiveness

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<v Speaker 2>that has existed in a relationship. So at times I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I'm more I question maybe your blindness.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I'm usually not blah, because usually.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not blah, and when you are, there's usually a

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<v Speaker 2>reason behind it, Like there's some passiveness behind it, so.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, and it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Ninety eight percent of the time, something eventually comes out.

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<v Speaker 2>I keep chipping away at it, but I will say

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<v Speaker 2>that I wrote something down to bring up about that

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<v Speaker 2>was I haven't said, you know, the other day when

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<v Speaker 2>I was blah or whatever and you kept asking me,

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't like.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't like, I wasn't harping. I just was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I was giving you moments of.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, bab I as well checking are you sure you're okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you gave me opportunities. Yeah, but you weren't pessed

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<v Speaker 2>about it. And I even affirmed you that night because

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<v Speaker 2>to me, it felt so good to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>just be blah for no reason, like melancholy, blah, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>word you want to use to describe it, and not

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<v Speaker 2>feel guilty about it, because you you know, my partner

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<v Speaker 2>isn't like, what's wrong? What's wrong? Tell me what's wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>I know something's wrong. I'm like, no, I'm just bla.

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<v Speaker 2>So I appreciated that a lot, and it meant a

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<v Speaker 2>lot to me. And it's one of those things that

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like should exist in a relationship where as

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<v Speaker 2>long as we articulate it right, and you say Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just in a blah mude. I'm just kind of cool,

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<v Speaker 2>chilling by myself right now. Then, I think it's huge

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<v Speaker 2>for your partner to respect that.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so hard though, because we're so codependent, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's when you were sitting you know, I had

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<v Speaker 4>just gotten home from something, and you went straight got

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<v Speaker 4>your food and went into the game room. I was

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<v Speaker 4>just like, and you had just kind of hardy told

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<v Speaker 4>me that you were a blah But you know, I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I just came home from like getting a

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<v Speaker 4>fresh new cut in color and so, you know, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I saw you grab you're Jimmy Johnson, go sit

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<v Speaker 4>in the game room, and I was just like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I know he said he was blah. He said it

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't for anything, but I'm just going to check in

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<v Speaker 4>with him again. So but you know, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>sit at the game room. I wanted to sit there

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<v Speaker 4>with you and be like, Okay, what's wrong? Tell me everything?

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<v Speaker 4>Why are you black?

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<v Speaker 2>And you're just like waiting by the barn doors and

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<v Speaker 2>waving at.

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<v Speaker 3>Me sha around the corner. So instead I went in

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<v Speaker 3>and was just like, all right, babe, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>He's like you're like, I'm just watching football. I'm like, okay, well, if.

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<v Speaker 4>Anything comes up for you, we just know that I'm

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<v Speaker 4>here and I love you, and yeah, that's it. And

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<v Speaker 4>so it was just so hard for me to just

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<v Speaker 4>leave it at that, but I did, and I've poured

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<v Speaker 4>my glass of wine and I went in bed, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was, I think the very first time I was

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<v Speaker 4>ever like, you know what, I have my mood and

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<v Speaker 4>I can't control his mood and I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 4>happy and not let him like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>be blob because he's so it was the first time

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<v Speaker 4>I actually noticed not being codependent. I was just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>this is nice. I like to not be codependent and

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<v Speaker 4>match his mood.

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<v Speaker 3>It was.

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<v Speaker 4>It was very because I've never seen it on the outside.

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<v Speaker 4>I've always been I've always either matched your energy or

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<v Speaker 4>you'll do the same thing and you'll be like, I'd

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<v Speaker 4>be like, why are you upsecited? Like, well, you haven't been,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, very happy this morning, So I'm like.

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<v Speaker 3>Why do you gotta match my energy?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like but that's just what we do.

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<v Speaker 2>What we do, and it is I've had those moments too.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just maybe you're kind of in a grouchy mood

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever, and.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like, grouchy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like a respectful way to say it's unpleasant. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that too, And so times are being grouchy. And when

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<v Speaker 2>I have those moments where I'm not being codependent, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just like, you know what, you know, my codependency isn't

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<v Speaker 2>saying what did I do wrong? What is she mad at?

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<v Speaker 2>I just know I I'm yeah, not grouchy. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>do anything to cause this, So, you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna let her be that way. And it's such

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<v Speaker 2>a relieving feeling to do that. But why can't we

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<v Speaker 2>just be normal people and do that all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, we have the exact opposite problem and

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<v Speaker 5>our really Yeah, because actually my wife and I got

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<v Speaker 5>into a tip the other night because I self married

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<v Speaker 5>too much. Well, like we're hanging out and I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna fold my laundry and then I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 5>take the dog on a walk and then I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>finish up some work.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 3>Do what you do serious?

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, also, I would get along great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Wait, she says, she said she didn't care.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, She's like, she's like, Eastern drive me crazy by

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<v Speaker 5>just like announcing everything you're saying you're gonna do, like

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<v Speaker 5>your Superman or something like I do not care, just

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<v Speaker 5>go do it. And I'm like, well, I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>what if you wanted to, like if you had other plans.

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<v Speaker 6>I just want to make sure.

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<v Speaker 3>And what did she say?

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<v Speaker 6>She's like, I'll let you know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's Jana's that's Jana's dream. She wishes I did that.

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<v Speaker 4>But how did you guys end the tiff? Was it

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<v Speaker 4>an actual TIF or was that like your guys' way

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<v Speaker 4>of fighting?

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<v Speaker 6>And you mean, well, I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't fight very much like I thought was the

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<v Speaker 5>most aggressive. I just said, okay, I'll stop doing it

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<v Speaker 5>then fine, And that in itself is an announcement of

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm going to do. It's like I already broke

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<v Speaker 5>my own rule.

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<v Speaker 1>But is Wife Swap still on TV? Because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like these two couples should maybe mix it match and

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<v Speaker 1>be very happy.

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<v Speaker 2>To get you know what.

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<v Speaker 4>I would love Wife Stop to come back on because

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's like you you want something else, but

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<v Speaker 4>at the same time, I think you would miss can.

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<v Speaker 2>We do celebrity wife swap?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I think it's done. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>If they have those.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring it back for a short it'd be kind of.

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<v Speaker 4>Probably dangerous because then we'd be like, oh, I like

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<v Speaker 4>this better.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like, see how he treats her, see how

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<v Speaker 3>she did treats him. It wouldn't be good for us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been twenty thirteen, so sadly not to be Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do think an issue is that wives with

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<v Speaker 1>children don't really have the luxury of disappearing for an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's part of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Great point, Mark, what a beautiful point.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean wives with children? What about husbands

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<v Speaker 2>with children?

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<v Speaker 4>But you guys don't take like the main priority of

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<v Speaker 4>here we go like Mike's poops are at least thirty

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<v Speaker 4>minutes song, And then I go in there and he's

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<v Speaker 4>playing a game on his phone, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>do you know how much I would love to sit

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<v Speaker 4>down for a poop and have it last thirty minutes?

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<v Speaker 2>Look, you have a gall brider, so you just falls out.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying true, But still like I would love

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<v Speaker 4>to close the door for thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>We used to joke about my dad taking forever. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>why is he in there so long? And then as

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<v Speaker 2>soon as I have kids, I'm like, well, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's when you become a dad.

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<v Speaker 4>I used to have my showers, like showers are my thing,

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<v Speaker 4>but now I have to shower with Jolie. So it's

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<v Speaker 4>like I don't even get my showers anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. But I think. But the thing is, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>like I. For me, I don't just disappear if we

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<v Speaker 2>have the kids. I'm not just I just don't like

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<v Speaker 2>leave the room if no, if we're both kids, I

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<v Speaker 2>never do that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you're a great dad.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's when we're it's just Jan and I or

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it's just Jollie and it's nighttime, so you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>we just have a TV on for Jolie for an

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<v Speaker 2>hour and so we can get a few things done

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<v Speaker 2>before bedtime. So it's it's never like that. But still,

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<v Speaker 2>I just I don't know the announcing it.

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<v Speaker 4>Feels like you're asking for permission. And that's one of

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<v Speaker 4>your biggest things is you hate having to feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you're asking for permission.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's just like when you say, uh, like hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in the office, like, hey, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>If I just say work, Jana, he drive her nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, but no, no, no, like what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Like what kind of works?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm getting some work done? What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Mike?

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, okay, like you're saying like Jana was

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<v Speaker 2>kind of saying that women do, or like Easton like

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<v Speaker 2>you were doing. I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna email this person.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna email that person. I gotta ca hold this person.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta, you know, write this up. I gotta do this.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm just like, well, just why can't we just

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<v Speaker 2>all fall under the umbrella of work, because we.

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<v Speaker 4>Want to make sure that you're checking off the proper

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<v Speaker 4>process to make sure you're calling Matt the long guy

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<v Speaker 4>because we have like ten trees dead in the backyard

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, following up with a few other people

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<v Speaker 4>for our work stuff. You know, just just just that

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<v Speaker 4>goes back to the good old times.

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<v Speaker 2>So email us our listeners out there about any situation

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<v Speaker 2>like this and how you and your partner handle when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to uh time apart? Is it? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>con side yourself disappearing? You have to announce your plan

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<v Speaker 2>like Easton and just to make sure it's okay or

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<v Speaker 2>it fits their schedule or whatever it is. I would

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<v Speaker 2>love to hear some stories around this so we can

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<v Speaker 2>talk about that.

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<v Speaker 1>It is wind down at iHeartRadio dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>I kicked ass yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's so good. He did laundry, he folded, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean put it away.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids, laundry I put away and it starts to finish

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<v Speaker 2>hair appointment. I just I crushed it yesterday. Crush as

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<v Speaker 2>a dad and husband left you in a little card

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, I mean just ten out of ten across

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<v Speaker 2>the board yesterday. Yeah, okay from husband and dad duties.

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<v Speaker 2>So literally yesterday you couldn't have I can't. It seemed

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<v Speaker 2>that I couldn't have done anything better. That's the best

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<v Speaker 2>I got, Honting. That's it. That's me. So now it's

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<v Speaker 2>all downhill. But yesterday when I did, you know, when

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<v Speaker 2>I did just want to like watch some football for

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<v Speaker 2>a few minutes, I was like, I have no guilt

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<v Speaker 2>in the world right now because I owned today and

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<v Speaker 2>there's nothing that Janna could say with any validation or

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<v Speaker 2>legitimacy behind it that would cause me to feel guilty.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hm. At all. Yeah, because I did. But also

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<v Speaker 2>because I know how Gianna works and she's constantly doing something,

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<v Speaker 2>I have to have like that kind of day in

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<v Speaker 2>order to not feel guilty.

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<v Speaker 3>No, because there's.

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<v Speaker 4>Been times where you'll say like, hey, I know there's

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<v Speaker 4>something I'm just like, I'm so tired, Like I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>sure achnowlogy. But it's the how I then reciprocate with him,

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<v Speaker 4>because if I'm crappy about it, so I try to

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<v Speaker 4>make sure to be like absolutely babe, because if.

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<v Speaker 3>Not, then he gets that.

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<v Speaker 4>I want him to feel comfortable, to be able to

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<v Speaker 4>just like have a lazy day or and if I'm

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<v Speaker 4>on him, then he won't. So I have to be

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<v Speaker 4>like very mindful of that, which I think I've gotten

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<v Speaker 4>a lot better with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you have, and I think it's we have gotten

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<v Speaker 2>a lot better because if I didn't have the perfect

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<v Speaker 2>day like I did yesterday, I need to articulate it

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<v Speaker 2>because then it then you're not sitting there thinking, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>he's just sitting around being lazy, But did he take

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<v Speaker 2>care of the things and get frustrated? So if I

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<v Speaker 2>articulate it to you and acknowledge that, that helps you,

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<v Speaker 2>so that that's a good way of compromising.

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<v Speaker 4>I think, yeah, for sure, without having to feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you're right, without having to feel guilty and or asking

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<v Speaker 4>for premissure or being you know, or.

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<v Speaker 2>You come in and be like did you get this

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<v Speaker 2>done yet? Why are you watching football? Why are you

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<v Speaker 2>doing that?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it was it was so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>I came home from something the other day and he's like,

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<v Speaker 4>the things were folded in my head. I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>there's kids laundry in the dryer. I'm like, there's no

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<v Speaker 4>way it's going to be done, so I won't even

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<v Speaker 4>And I come home and it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>My laundry's folded, kid's laundry, and I go, jas, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna grab you really slowly, and we're gonna walk away.

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<v Speaker 3>Somebody has broken into our house. I don't know who

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<v Speaker 3>this man is. It's very scary.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a shifter.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, uh no, I think that's a good topic for

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<v Speaker 2>people to chime in on.

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<v Speaker 3>Time time Chime.

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<v Speaker 2>Time chimes wound up.

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<v Speaker 4>He's such a good friend of us. We actually just

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<v Speaker 4>had dinner, so I cannot wait to see him again.

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<v Speaker 3>So extre shoot. I just I jumped the gun.

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<v Speaker 4>I was so excited, so happy to have our friend

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<v Speaker 4>Bob Sagat back in studio.

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<v Speaker 6>Yay, I owe you a meal that was so good.

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<v Speaker 3>Last time we had the best dinner ever with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>It was really relaxing and it was like, really nice.

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<v Speaker 3>It was nice, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Bob is referring to a dinner that we all went

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<v Speaker 4>to in Nashville with h with Bob and his wife Kelly,

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<v Speaker 4>and Kristen and Preston, and we had a little couples night.

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<v Speaker 3>It was really fun.

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<v Speaker 6>It was really sweet. Nothing happened weird. It was cool.

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<v Speaker 6>There was no swinging. We didn't swing.

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<v Speaker 4>No, you did get us to go out another night.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, you got us to hang out like long

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<v Speaker 4>that night. And I was just like, we didn't get home.

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<v Speaker 4>His car had was left at valet.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, I thought I had to boot or something.

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<v Speaker 6>I got scared.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, I we had to go get it. The

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<v Speaker 2>next day. I felt like I was in my twenties again,

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<v Speaker 2>I know. I was just like, wow, this is you

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<v Speaker 2>also popped Jana's cheerry in a sense of that was

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<v Speaker 2>the first time she ever heard last call at a bar. Ever,

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<v Speaker 2>she was like, what is that?

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<v Speaker 6>They don't say that to me. That's a problem. That's why.

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<v Speaker 6>That's why I definitely have to I slowed down my

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<v Speaker 6>drinking because they locked me in.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was just texting with Kelly a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>days ago. Is your house okay?

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<v Speaker 6>House is okay to my knowledge? Yeah, I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>if it's got like a lot of ash all over

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<v Speaker 6>it and a lot of smoking, you know, damage, but

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<v Speaker 6>it's evacuated. We can't get there. So it was pretty weird.

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<v Speaker 6>We had to evacuate the other night, and I always

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<v Speaker 6>do after a big meal. But I didn't know. I

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<v Speaker 6>didn't know we were gonna have this problem. And it's

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<v Speaker 6>really sad. And about ten people lost their homes in

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<v Speaker 6>the area, or eleven people, but our street was so

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<v Speaker 6>far pretty protected. So the firefighters, they're just amazing. They

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<v Speaker 6>are truly, it's unbelievable what heroes they are. It is

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<v Speaker 6>they're my favorite people. They they're you know, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>they're the heroes, they're the superheroes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you guys living up in the hills like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it pretty common to have fire insurance?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Yeah, I've had fire I have. I would have

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<v Speaker 6>it anyway, because even if I lived, you know, in

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<v Speaker 6>a condo and a high rise, you never know and

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<v Speaker 6>somebody leaves the gas on and next thing you know,

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<v Speaker 6>your windows got blown out, and you know, that's the

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<v Speaker 6>end of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure if in a place like Southern California, if

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<v Speaker 2>that was like an i know, like home insurance cover

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<v Speaker 2>would probably cover that. But still I feel like that

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<v Speaker 2>would be a way for insurance companies to get a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit more from Southern California, right, like earthquake insurance,

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<v Speaker 2>fire insurance or something.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I don't have earthquake insurance because it's so expensive.

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<v Speaker 6>It's so silly, because the money you're going to spend

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<v Speaker 6>on the insurance is probably what you're going to spend

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<v Speaker 6>on your house, and if it comes off the foundation,

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<v Speaker 6>you got to rebuild the house anyway, and they don't

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<v Speaker 6>give you enough money to rebuild your house. So it's

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<v Speaker 6>kind of a sham earthquake insurance for sure. So maybe

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<v Speaker 6>I'll make up. But maybe I'll make up my own

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<v Speaker 6>company and that'll be successful.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, perfect sounds legit.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you're on the whole Dog and Pony Show

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<v Speaker 4>right now doing the Nashville Square.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, in the middle of all this, I stole at

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<v Speaker 6>three am, I stole two outfits to do pressing. So

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, Kelly's like, I just need underwork. Let's

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<v Speaker 6>get out of here. And we took two cars out

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<v Speaker 6>and went to a hotel. But I'm getting closed for press.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, well, wait, so you found a hotel, but

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<v Speaker 4>Lebron James did not find a hotel.

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<v Speaker 6>Correct. I left immediately and I just called a hotel

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<v Speaker 6>ahead of time, which I had a relationship with and

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<v Speaker 6>not a relationship. I mean, Kelly's my relationship. But the

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<v Speaker 6>hotel I knew the people, I didn't have a hook

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<v Speaker 6>up with them. But well, there was one person behind

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<v Speaker 6>the front desk.

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<v Speaker 3>Right we text friend, I don't want to hear.

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<v Speaker 6>No, Kelly's the best. Kelly's at the hotel right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Just sending your love to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys. You're about to celebrate or just did celebrate one.

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<v Speaker 6>Year last night. Yeah, it's our ash anniversary because of

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<v Speaker 6>the fire.

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<v Speaker 2>What'd you guys do anything special?

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<v Speaker 6>We had dinner. We had dinner and just chilled and

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<v Speaker 6>it was really nice. And then you know, I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>a gentleman, doesn't talk about romance and stuff. Let's just

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<v Speaker 6>say it was a very reminiscent beautiful anniversary.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Nashville Squares, we have to do it because we

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<v Speaker 4>on the show too. You also promote the show as well,

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<v Speaker 4>but for Bob because I couldn't. I couldn't think of

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<v Speaker 4>a better host.

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<v Speaker 3>For that show.

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<v Speaker 6>It's so silly, right, you wouldn't think it would be

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<v Speaker 6>me naturally until we became friends, you wouldn't know that, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>Bobb would be good at that, right.

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<v Speaker 4>But it made sense though once once, once you were there,

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<v Speaker 4>and once we were there, I'm like, there's nobody better

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<v Speaker 4>for this, for this job, like you were. That's so funny,

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<v Speaker 4>and it was, it was it was just cool.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you couldn't count your music. In general, country artists

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<v Speaker 6>have a certain happiness about them, Monk, except for the

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<v Speaker 6>ones that are singing about their dog and their wife

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<v Speaker 6>up and left them and they're drinking. But but you know,

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<v Speaker 6>my dog died, but I write songs about that. But

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<v Speaker 6>I've been writing country comedy songs for years, so it

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<v Speaker 6>was kind of a serendipitous thing that they would ask

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<v Speaker 6>me to host it, and I knew how to do

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<v Speaker 6>it because I've hosted so much. But it's just a

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<v Speaker 6>free for all. It's not like I was offered original

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<v Speaker 6>Hollywood Squares, but Tom Bergeron did that and and and

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't want to do it because it was so scripted.

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<v Speaker 6>But as you know from being there, this thing is

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<v Speaker 6>not scripted at all.

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<v Speaker 4>And they were telling all the you know, the artists

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<v Speaker 4>to just talk over each other, and I'm like, what,

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<v Speaker 4>we're allowed to do that, because usually when someone talks,

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<v Speaker 4>are not allowed to talk.

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<v Speaker 6>And if you want to drink the bars right there,

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<v Speaker 6>oh yeah, half the people have been through rehabit are

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<v Speaker 6>cleaned up or never went and they're fine. They have

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<v Speaker 6>their sparkling water or diet coke. And then the every

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<v Speaker 6>I disd a commercial and then the other people are

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<v Speaker 6>just you know, Tanya Tucker's laying sideways holding Dennis Quaid's

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<v Speaker 6>dog in the middle square and I think.

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<v Speaker 3>She fell asleep too, didn't she?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she did.

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<v Speaker 2>She did.

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<v Speaker 6>I think the Dallas Cabalt too many. You guys woke

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<v Speaker 6>everybody up. You guys were wonderful on the show.

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<v Speaker 4>It was fun, but it was again it was it

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<v Speaker 4>was to you because you you drove the show and

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<v Speaker 4>you you made it. You made it fun for us

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<v Speaker 4>to sit there and we got to play against ech

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<v Speaker 4>other too and also be up on the in the squares.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was just great having you be the man

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<v Speaker 4>that ran the show. So National Squares is out now

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<v Speaker 4>you can watch it.

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<v Speaker 3>It aired. It just aired on Friday, the first episode,

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<v Speaker 3>the first episode.

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<v Speaker 6>But they ran two episodes on November first. But now

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<v Speaker 6>it's on every Friday at eight o'clock sent No at

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<v Speaker 6>eight o'clock I know my television terminology at eight o'clock Eastern.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 6>And then of course you got to go seven o'clock

0:20:20.400 --> 0:20:23.880
<v Speaker 6>Central and then six o'clock Mountain. Mountain. People are gonna

0:20:23.880 --> 0:20:26.520
<v Speaker 6>watch this show. I have a feeling. And it runs

0:20:26.520 --> 0:20:31.200
<v Speaker 6>in my house at one am every night all night long. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>and it's but it's it's really fun and it's that

0:20:33.680 --> 0:20:36.560
<v Speaker 6>old TGIF spot. I used to have a full house.

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<v Speaker 6>So's it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>A warm blanket. You're just you love it. That's where

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<v Speaker 2>you live.

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<v Speaker 3>That's home.

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<v Speaker 6>That's home. I can't go there. Right, What is.

0:20:46.400 --> 0:20:48.359
<v Speaker 2>It you've done all this hosting stuff. What is it

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<v Speaker 2>when you go into something like that. What's the difference

0:20:50.400 --> 0:20:53.560
<v Speaker 2>between that and obviously acting? You have everything scripted? You

0:20:53.600 --> 0:20:55.320
<v Speaker 2>have kind of a script in your head when you

0:20:55.320 --> 0:20:56.920
<v Speaker 2>go out to do hosting or is it just like

0:20:56.960 --> 0:20:59.439
<v Speaker 2>all right, I'm gonna take whatever presents itself. Now.

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<v Speaker 6>Hosting something that I don't give a lot of thought too,

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<v Speaker 6>because all the prep's been done. Acting is new every

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<v Speaker 6>time you do it. You got to learn your dialogue

0:21:07.560 --> 0:21:09.480
<v Speaker 6>and you got it, but you have to know what

0:21:09.520 --> 0:21:13.200
<v Speaker 6>it's about. Like, I love acting a lot. I host

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<v Speaker 6>because it's another facility that I have. I did this

0:21:15.760 --> 0:21:18.480
<v Speaker 6>show one Versus one hundred and it was on NBC

0:21:18.640 --> 0:21:21.600
<v Speaker 6>and it was on before a Deal or No Deal

0:21:21.880 --> 0:21:24.640
<v Speaker 6>and Millionaires on and then they decided to take all

0:21:24.640 --> 0:21:26.960
<v Speaker 6>the game shows off. They said, oh, game shows are done,

0:21:27.119 --> 0:21:29.080
<v Speaker 6>and then look at the past two years. I've already

0:21:29.119 --> 0:21:31.520
<v Speaker 6>done Alec Balbyn's Match Game. I've done to Tell the

0:21:31.560 --> 0:21:35.480
<v Speaker 6>Truth with Anthony Anderson because they text me personally, so

0:21:35.600 --> 0:21:38.080
<v Speaker 6>I'm like, oh, no, I gotta do it, I'm screwed.

0:21:38.200 --> 0:21:42.640
<v Speaker 3>So but but like if not, they'd say, you changed.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, Bob is so changed. But what's great is with

0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:49.399
<v Speaker 6>Nashville Squares there was no script. I mean, I just

0:21:49.480 --> 0:21:52.560
<v Speaker 6>do stuff like you win this or she just said this.

0:21:52.840 --> 0:21:55.280
<v Speaker 6>Now what do you say? You know? But that's the script.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 6>The rest is it's a free for all and it's

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<v Speaker 6>just like hanging with friends and acting crazy and there's

0:22:02.440 --> 0:22:04.520
<v Speaker 6>some games involved. You know, put your hand in this

0:22:04.640 --> 0:22:06.560
<v Speaker 6>box and touch this, and you hope it's not poop,

0:22:06.640 --> 0:22:10.680
<v Speaker 6>you know. But but I mean, it's just it's it's

0:22:10.680 --> 0:22:13.240
<v Speaker 6>a fun, fun gig. But I'm also doing the finishing

0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:17.959
<v Speaker 6>of Fuller House, which ends this year. It's the fifth season,

0:22:18.119 --> 0:22:21.639
<v Speaker 6>and we have the first nine episodes air before the

0:22:21.760 --> 0:22:23.399
<v Speaker 6>end of the year, and then in the beginning of

0:22:23.400 --> 0:22:26.000
<v Speaker 6>the new year or the last nine episodes, and we

0:22:26.040 --> 0:22:28.800
<v Speaker 6>shoot the next the very last episode in like two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>I do it. Did you think Fuller House was going

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<v Speaker 2>to be that successful to get five seasons?

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<v Speaker 6>I thought it would get a little more. But Netflix

0:22:38.440 --> 0:22:40.840
<v Speaker 6>is also smart about what they do, and sometimes all

0:22:40.880 --> 0:22:43.760
<v Speaker 6>they need is five seasons, and sometimes ratings slip. I

0:22:43.760 --> 0:22:45.920
<v Speaker 6>mean they pretend sometimes they don't have, but they do.

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<v Speaker 6>And you know, I don't know how long you know,

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<v Speaker 6>The Upside Down will be on? You know, Uh, what's

0:22:54.880 --> 0:22:58.439
<v Speaker 6>that wonderful show called you Guys? Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been watching Dead to Me and The Politician are

0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:03.440
<v Speaker 4>my two favorites that are on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 6>I want to see that. Is the Paul Rudd show Netflix?

0:23:06.160 --> 0:23:06.640
<v Speaker 6>A new one?

0:23:06.960 --> 0:23:08.439
<v Speaker 2>Yeah it is. I haven't started that yet.

0:23:08.480 --> 0:23:09.160
<v Speaker 3>He has a new show.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and I hear it's fantastic. I hear it's unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 6>Kelly said, you got to watch it, and it's only

0:23:15.080 --> 0:23:17.600
<v Speaker 6>twenty minutes long, and apparently she thinks that's all I

0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:21.520
<v Speaker 6>can last. But that's not right. But then I've got

0:23:21.640 --> 0:23:23.800
<v Speaker 6>then I got the dirty video show that I did,

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<v Speaker 6>which is scripted after dark, right, yeah, after the videos

0:23:27.080 --> 0:23:29.840
<v Speaker 6>after Deck will come on. ABC's been saying in the

0:23:29.880 --> 0:23:34.359
<v Speaker 6>Winter Spring, which sounds like sounds like a Game of Thrones,

0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:36.760
<v Speaker 6>the Winter Spring is coming the Wildlings.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because I know we talked about that last time,

0:23:38.600 --> 0:23:40.080
<v Speaker 4>and I didn't want to bring it up last time

0:23:40.119 --> 0:23:42.119
<v Speaker 4>I saw you because I didn't know what happened with it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was just like, oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>That's sweet, thank you. No, they're going to run it

0:23:45.800 --> 0:23:49.200
<v Speaker 6>for sure because it's uh, you know, they love it

0:23:49.280 --> 0:23:53.359
<v Speaker 6>and it's money, so they so they want to make money.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything with all the hosting stuff? Is there

0:23:56.160 --> 0:23:58.159
<v Speaker 2>anything like on your bucket list? It's like, oh, I

0:23:58.160 --> 0:23:59.760
<v Speaker 2>want to be able to host this one day or

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<v Speaker 2>is it just whatever opportunity presents itself.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, the Oscars are always something. But I got to

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<v Speaker 6>do some movie work and I also have to do

0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:08.720
<v Speaker 6>some directing work. And there's a movie I'm directing, a

0:24:08.760 --> 0:24:11.840
<v Speaker 6>documentary about Martin mull right now. But that's just something

0:24:11.840 --> 0:24:13.880
<v Speaker 6>because I love him and he's a great artist and

0:24:14.240 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 6>he was one of the first person people that I

0:24:16.080 --> 0:24:18.600
<v Speaker 6>ever saw. They did comedy music and he did a

0:24:18.600 --> 0:24:20.840
<v Speaker 6>lot of country music too. He's very very smart. He

0:24:20.840 --> 0:24:24.640
<v Speaker 6>played with Glenn Campbell and he's very talented guy. And

0:24:24.680 --> 0:24:27.800
<v Speaker 6>you know him from like Sabrina and stuff. You know,

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:36.560
<v Speaker 6>gen X Millennials, you and But I'm also working on

0:24:36.600 --> 0:24:39.440
<v Speaker 6>another feature thing. And as I get older and I'm

0:24:39.440 --> 0:24:42.640
<v Speaker 6>in my seventies and eighties, I want to direct. Then

0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:45.080
<v Speaker 6>that's so much fun. And then I want to make

0:24:45.200 --> 0:24:46.800
<v Speaker 6>I want to make some really good movies. Is what

0:24:46.840 --> 0:24:49.760
<v Speaker 6>I want to do, and that would be I guess

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:54.080
<v Speaker 6>I could be a seventy year old man hosting the Oscars. Absolutely,

0:24:54.640 --> 0:24:58.520
<v Speaker 6>I mean otherwise, I don't really care about hosting too much.

0:24:58.640 --> 0:25:01.240
<v Speaker 6>It's just something I do, just another thing I do.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you're putting it out there, and that's that's the

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:04.560
<v Speaker 4>best thing you can do is put it out there

0:25:04.560 --> 0:25:05.720
<v Speaker 4>and keep working towards.

0:25:05.520 --> 0:25:08.560
<v Speaker 6>It and entertain people. And entertain people whether you get

0:25:08.560 --> 0:25:11.000
<v Speaker 6>them involved in their lives like you guys do You

0:25:11.040 --> 0:25:13.520
<v Speaker 6>get people involved in their lives by you getting involved

0:25:13.520 --> 0:25:16.040
<v Speaker 6>in your lives and sharing yourselves with people, and then

0:25:16.080 --> 0:25:18.920
<v Speaker 6>you're entertaining because you know, sometimes when you bicker, it's

0:25:18.960 --> 0:25:20.320
<v Speaker 6>like the funniest thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>It's good batter People are like, it's so cringe, so cringey.

0:25:24.480 --> 0:25:26.679
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, well, it's one of the other one or

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<v Speaker 3>the other.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, no, it's but it's honest, and it's not like

0:25:30.359 --> 0:25:33.160
<v Speaker 6>you're on the Bachelor or anything, you know. I mean,

0:25:33.200 --> 0:25:35.959
<v Speaker 6>those people, it could be worse, You're right, No, it

0:25:36.000 --> 0:25:39.439
<v Speaker 6>could try to make you feel better. No, I'm just

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:42.440
<v Speaker 6>saying those people they come on there and they unveil

0:25:42.560 --> 0:25:45.080
<v Speaker 6>things that that's it for the rest of their life.

0:25:45.480 --> 0:25:47.600
<v Speaker 6>That moment will be remembered.

0:25:47.280 --> 0:25:50.720
<v Speaker 2>And their stories are produced, so they can't even control that.

0:25:51.040 --> 0:25:54.040
<v Speaker 6>No, it's not even them, it's not even what they think, right,

0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 6>except for when this this this cold guy, this really

0:25:57.880 --> 0:26:00.800
<v Speaker 6>nice guy, he went and screw the pooch. He told

0:26:00.840 --> 0:26:03.040
<v Speaker 6>it ahead of time. He blew the couch. I don't

0:26:03.080 --> 0:26:05.479
<v Speaker 6>know what he did. No, you don't want to do that.

0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:11.040
<v Speaker 6>That guy that was the last Batchelor. Yeah, Wellton, Colton sorry,

0:26:11.640 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 6>and Colton Underwood. He said ahead of time that I've

0:26:16.560 --> 0:26:18.760
<v Speaker 6>been seeing her and I love her and I've already

0:26:18.760 --> 0:26:21.119
<v Speaker 6>been with her, and that caused a whole ruckus and

0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:23.040
<v Speaker 6>then they had to put on the Batsorette all of

0:26:23.040 --> 0:26:25.480
<v Speaker 6>a sudden. At the end of that episode, it was

0:26:25.560 --> 0:26:27.240
<v Speaker 6>it was quite troubling.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, watch since you know all this information.

0:26:30.680 --> 0:26:32.840
<v Speaker 6>I watched it because they did a stink preview of

0:26:32.920 --> 0:26:37.400
<v Speaker 6>videos after dark afterwards, so it.

0:26:37.320 --> 0:26:42.800
<v Speaker 3>Wasn't like required viewing caps. Bob Sagan, the real.

0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:44.879
<v Speaker 6>Truth, the man that can't go home.

0:26:46.680 --> 0:26:48.600
<v Speaker 4>You know, you have a million other places you've got

0:26:48.600 --> 0:26:50.200
<v Speaker 4>to go. So thanks for stopping in to say hey

0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:51.240
<v Speaker 4>to us, and well.

0:26:51.119 --> 0:26:53.719
<v Speaker 6>I love you guys, and yeah, I'm going to come

0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:57.000
<v Speaker 6>back to Nashville because the show CMT is really excited

0:26:57.000 --> 0:26:58.480
<v Speaker 6>about it and they think we're going to be shooting

0:26:58.520 --> 0:26:59.160
<v Speaker 6>in Nashville.

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<v Speaker 3>So that be amazing.

0:27:00.880 --> 0:27:02.520
<v Speaker 6>That would be amazing, and you'll be on it all

0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:04.360
<v Speaker 6>the time, and then we can go to dinner and we'll.

0:27:04.160 --> 0:27:05.720
<v Speaker 3>Do dinner all the time and it'll be great.

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<v Speaker 6>And we'll leave cars at ballet.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll be great.

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<v Speaker 3>That we love you, Bob, thanks for.

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<v Speaker 6>Having me, love you back, love you, love you, miss

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<v Speaker 6>your already.

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<v Speaker 2>You know What's It's actually a perfect segue into what

0:29:20.160 --> 0:29:22.360
<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about because with Bob, it's just

0:29:22.640 --> 0:29:25.440
<v Speaker 2>his name. Just when it's said or spoken, it just

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:30.280
<v Speaker 2>registers so much nostalgia right for everybody. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>from from fifty to ten. You know, he covers that

0:29:34.080 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 2>like such a wide gap of generations, which is pretty

0:29:37.800 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 2>impressive when you like think about it that so many

0:29:40.520 --> 0:29:44.560
<v Speaker 2>people of so many ages know his name and what

0:29:44.640 --> 0:29:48.840
<v Speaker 2>he's done. But you know, I was thinking of nostalgia recently,

0:29:49.040 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 2>and do you ever have those things? It could be

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:54.760
<v Speaker 2>a song, it could be a movie. This may sound

0:29:54.800 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 2>really stupid, nothing stupid to a lot of people, but

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 2>I felt it when I was playing my little handheld

0:30:00.800 --> 0:30:03.680
<v Speaker 2>video game thing the other night. Just do you ever

0:30:03.720 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 2>have something that's so much so nostalgic, it's it's almost,

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:11.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it's almost uncomfortable, or like you hear

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<v Speaker 2>a song or watch a movie and you're just like,

0:30:13.240 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 2>this reminds me almost takes me back too much to

0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:18.360
<v Speaker 2>that moment where I just don't even want to like

0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:20.640
<v Speaker 2>listen to it or.

0:30:20.960 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 3>Or what was what was your thing?

0:30:24.040 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 2>Well, no, no, it was this legend of Zelda linked

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<v Speaker 2>to the past from Super Nintendo when it seems.

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<v Speaker 3>Like nodding as sad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, when I was a kid, and it just

0:30:39.000 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 2>every time, like this opening sequence came on and all

0:30:41.960 --> 0:30:43.840
<v Speaker 2>this stuff, it just brought me back to being a

0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:47.160
<v Speaker 2>kid so much that it was I just felt like

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<v Speaker 2>the the my brain waves just kind of like the

0:30:50.920 --> 0:30:54.520
<v Speaker 2>sparks flying, and that just super nostalgic feeling. It was

0:30:54.560 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 2>a good feeling, but it was almost I could just

0:30:56.880 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 2>feel it so much. I was like, God, this is

0:30:58.360 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 2>kind of uncomfortable because it just I feel like I'm

0:31:00.600 --> 0:31:03.240
<v Speaker 2>ten again. But then on the other hand, there's things

0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:08.640
<v Speaker 2>like there's this song you'd heard it if you played it. No,

0:31:08.840 --> 0:31:14.640
<v Speaker 2>it's what it's like by Everlast Classic song. So that

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:19.000
<v Speaker 2>song I haven't listened to since. This friend of mine

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:20.880
<v Speaker 2>that I grew up with from the time we were

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:24.360
<v Speaker 2>in third grade through high school. He died in a

0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:27.280
<v Speaker 2>car accident our senior year of high school, a month

0:31:27.320 --> 0:31:30.360
<v Speaker 2>before his eighteenth birthday. And that was like our jam

0:31:30.440 --> 0:31:33.360
<v Speaker 2>when we were in elementary school, Like, we just listened

0:31:33.400 --> 0:31:35.000
<v Speaker 2>to the hell out of that song. So it's one

0:31:35.040 --> 0:31:38.600
<v Speaker 2>of those things that Adam foot and you know, we

0:31:38.640 --> 0:31:40.440
<v Speaker 2>grew up together and even in high school we didn't

0:31:40.480 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 2>run with the same crowd, but we're always good buddies.

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:43.760
<v Speaker 2>It was one of those you know what I mean,

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:48.520
<v Speaker 2>Like we always had our childhood and it's just one

0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 2>of those things where it's so painful, the nostalgia. I

0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:55.240
<v Speaker 2>just can't have any part of it. I can't sit

0:31:55.280 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 2>through it. Do you have anything like that?

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:03.640
<v Speaker 3>I mean, well, thank you for sharing yell that was.

0:32:03.720 --> 0:32:04.440
<v Speaker 3>That must be hard.

0:32:04.440 --> 0:32:08.600
<v Speaker 4>I can't imagine losing a friend that young, like just

0:32:08.600 --> 0:32:11.800
<v Speaker 4>thinking back, like how because it death scares me, not

0:32:11.840 --> 0:32:14.240
<v Speaker 4>to get like deep into death talk, but that death

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:17.800
<v Speaker 4>scares me in general just thinking about it, especially now

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:20.479
<v Speaker 4>that we have kids too. But I can't imagine, like

0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:24.440
<v Speaker 4>I remember obviously when we lost my grandpa, but to

0:32:24.520 --> 0:32:26.440
<v Speaker 4>lose a friend, I don't know. I just like, at

0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:30.280
<v Speaker 4>that such a young age, how was that to deal with?

0:32:31.640 --> 0:32:35.080
<v Speaker 2>You know? It was uh, And I've been very fortunate

0:32:35.120 --> 0:32:39.480
<v Speaker 2>where I haven't had a deal with much loss My

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:41.360
<v Speaker 2>grandma when I was young, but I was too young

0:32:41.400 --> 0:32:44.000
<v Speaker 2>to really process. I was like fourth grade.

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:46.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, when I feel like in grandparents like it's sad

0:32:46.080 --> 0:32:48.000
<v Speaker 4>as it was my grandpa Dad, Like you know they're older,

0:32:48.320 --> 0:32:49.200
<v Speaker 4>right right right.

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 2>I haven't had many sudden deaths, only really my friend

0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:55.640
<v Speaker 2>and my aunt a few years back. But uh, it

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:58.600
<v Speaker 2>was it was really difficult. It was hard to comprehend.

0:32:58.640 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 2>It's hard to understand. It's one of the things.

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 6>You know.

0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:07.800
<v Speaker 2>It's interesting at his at his funeral, there's this other

0:33:07.840 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 2>friend of ours, Eric, that it was like the three

0:33:09.920 --> 0:33:12.400
<v Speaker 2>of us in elementary school, Like we just rode our

0:33:12.400 --> 0:33:15.720
<v Speaker 2>bikes together, like we did everything together, and same kind

0:33:15.760 --> 0:33:18.080
<v Speaker 2>of deal. Eric was like in a different crowd. Still

0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:20.840
<v Speaker 2>hung with Adham a lot more in high school. But

0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:22.840
<v Speaker 2>it's like when Eric and I saw each other at

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:25.920
<v Speaker 2>the funeral, like we had this hug and this embrace

0:33:27.240 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 2>of that was just like unmatched because of just like

0:33:30.400 --> 0:33:35.479
<v Speaker 2>everything behind it and growing up together, and I don't know,

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:37.760
<v Speaker 2>it was hard, man, It's just one of those things,

0:33:37.800 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 2>you know. And he was an only child, so I

0:33:40.920 --> 0:33:44.760
<v Speaker 2>have so much empathy for his parents and and everything.

0:33:44.840 --> 0:33:47.320
<v Speaker 2>But you know, I know there's a lot of people

0:33:47.360 --> 0:33:49.719
<v Speaker 2>out there that have had to suffer way more loss.

0:33:51.320 --> 0:33:53.600
<v Speaker 3>You can't measure someone's pain, No, you can't.

0:33:53.640 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 2>You can't. It's all about what you're exposed to and everything.

0:33:56.640 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 2>But no, yeah, it sucked well.

0:33:58.400 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 1>And that song came on and you had to turn it.

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:02.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, anytime I hear that song, have to turn it

0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 2>off ever since, ever since then, ever since I was

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:09.560
<v Speaker 2>eighteen years old. You know. It's funny. My mom had

0:34:09.560 --> 0:34:12.719
<v Speaker 2>a similar thing where the house I grew up in.

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:14.400
<v Speaker 2>I lived in the same house from the time I

0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:21.400
<v Speaker 2>was four until I was sixteen seventeen, and so it's

0:34:21.400 --> 0:34:23.720
<v Speaker 2>the house I grew up in, and it's near it's

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:25.560
<v Speaker 2>in a different neighborhood, but near the one that my

0:34:25.560 --> 0:34:28.440
<v Speaker 2>parents live in now. And my mom same thing. She

0:34:28.520 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 2>was kind of like driving by, She's outside looking at it,

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:32.640
<v Speaker 2>and I think the people that lived there had just

0:34:32.680 --> 0:34:34.600
<v Speaker 2>gotten home, and she was like, I'm so sorry. I

0:34:34.600 --> 0:34:36.959
<v Speaker 2>don't mean to be creepy. I just, you know, raised

0:34:36.960 --> 0:34:38.759
<v Speaker 2>my kids in this house and we're just you know,

0:34:38.760 --> 0:34:40.440
<v Speaker 2>I was just you guys did a lot of changes.

0:34:40.480 --> 0:34:41.879
<v Speaker 2>So I was just looking at it, and they're like, oh,

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:44.360
<v Speaker 2>you want to come on in, And they let my

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 2>mom in and they let her take pictures and she

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:49.640
<v Speaker 2>was saying the dream. Yeah. She sent it pictures to

0:34:49.719 --> 0:34:52.880
<v Speaker 2>me and my dad and my brother and my sister.

0:34:54.440 --> 0:34:56.319
<v Speaker 2>My brother doesn't remember it, but my sister and I

0:34:56.360 --> 0:34:59.560
<v Speaker 2>were like, that's so crazy, it's so weird, that's nuts.

0:34:59.640 --> 0:35:03.600
<v Speaker 4>I my aunt Susan and uncle Roy live across the

0:35:03.600 --> 0:35:05.239
<v Speaker 4>street from the house that I grew up in from

0:35:05.360 --> 0:35:09.920
<v Speaker 4>three to whenever my parents got divorced after that since seventeen,

0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:14.799
<v Speaker 4>and I want to go in so bad, but no

0:35:14.840 --> 0:35:16.120
<v Speaker 4>one lives there anymore.

0:35:17.200 --> 0:35:17.799
<v Speaker 2>No one at all.

0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:21.080
<v Speaker 4>Well, apparently it ended up being like I think they

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:26.400
<v Speaker 4>were doing like meth or something in the house. But

0:35:27.400 --> 0:35:28.840
<v Speaker 4>my brother and I talked about because it went on

0:35:28.840 --> 0:35:31.400
<v Speaker 4>the market, and so I wanted to buy it because

0:35:31.440 --> 0:35:36.840
<v Speaker 4>it's you know, or deal. Yeah, you know, but I

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:38.879
<v Speaker 4>think someone bought it and then they just run it out.

0:35:38.880 --> 0:35:40.680
<v Speaker 4>But gosh, I I.

0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:41.239
<v Speaker 3>Would love to.

0:35:42.040 --> 0:35:43.960
<v Speaker 4>I don't know it's just I would love to go

0:35:44.000 --> 0:35:46.120
<v Speaker 4>in the house because we had this little gremlin room

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:48.880
<v Speaker 4>that it was called the Gremlin Room and it was

0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:52.080
<v Speaker 4>but in the gremlin room as we had you know

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:54.160
<v Speaker 4>into the wood where you see how tall you were,

0:35:54.280 --> 0:35:56.160
<v Speaker 4>So we did that in my closet. So I just

0:35:56.160 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 4>would love to see if that was that's still there. Yeah,

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:00.239
<v Speaker 4>and like bring Joel there.

0:36:00.480 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 3>I was like crazy, crazy, interesting.

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:07.439
<v Speaker 1>And we try to be like objective about these things,

0:36:07.480 --> 0:36:10.680
<v Speaker 1>like it's just a house, it's just four walls. It's just.

0:36:12.680 --> 0:36:14.719
<v Speaker 4>That Miranda Lambert song, the house that built me. There's

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:17.319
<v Speaker 4>something about going back to that house that it's that

0:36:17.440 --> 0:36:19.879
<v Speaker 4>built you. And the memory is from you know, maybe

0:36:19.880 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 4>your parents fighting. I mean for me, I mean some

0:36:21.719 --> 0:36:25.879
<v Speaker 4>of the my nostalgias, unfortunately, are all pretty negative. And

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:28.960
<v Speaker 4>that's what kind of bums me out when I think

0:36:28.960 --> 0:36:32.000
<v Speaker 4>about certain things and it's you know, for my house,

0:36:32.000 --> 0:36:34.400
<v Speaker 4>it's like my parents fighting or arguing or there's I

0:36:35.400 --> 0:36:37.600
<v Speaker 4>hate I hate that, but it's there's still something that

0:36:37.600 --> 0:36:38.360
<v Speaker 4>that house built you.

0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:42.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and the bad it's I can't remember what I

0:36:42.680 --> 0:36:46.920
<v Speaker 2>did two days ago, but I can remember twenty years ago.

0:36:47.640 --> 0:36:49.720
<v Speaker 2>And you know what I mean when I was playing

0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 2>catch with my dad in the front yard on our street.

0:36:52.960 --> 0:36:55.400
<v Speaker 2>And our street we're like flat, but then it gradually

0:36:55.480 --> 0:36:58.960
<v Speaker 2>goes downhill. I overthrew my dad and he had to

0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:01.160
<v Speaker 2>go running down after ball. He's kind of pissed, but

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:03.239
<v Speaker 2>then he chucked the ball from I don't know, felt

0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:06.279
<v Speaker 2>like a football field away, like a pop fire. I

0:37:06.320 --> 0:37:08.560
<v Speaker 2>go up to catch it. It's off the tip of

0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:11.879
<v Speaker 2>my glove and hits me right in the right eye,

0:37:12.280 --> 0:37:15.440
<v Speaker 2>and I had this huge shiner and I go in.

0:37:15.520 --> 0:37:17.319
<v Speaker 2>I mean it was old fashioned, like I put a

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:21.280
<v Speaker 2>steak on it, like straight up, had a sand lot

0:37:21.760 --> 0:37:23.400
<v Speaker 2>like it was. It was unreal.

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:29.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there's a smell that I don't I cannot and

0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:30.920
<v Speaker 4>have not been able to place. But it was the

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:33.200
<v Speaker 4>same smell that I smelled in the Romanian hospital when

0:37:33.200 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 4>I was sick I had surgery. So every time I

0:37:35.640 --> 0:37:38.719
<v Speaker 4>smell that now it brings me. I get like a

0:37:38.760 --> 0:37:42.680
<v Speaker 4>pit in my stomach thinking about that experience. Terrifying, I know,

0:37:42.800 --> 0:37:44.799
<v Speaker 4>but I'm like, I can't figure it's some kind of

0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:49.000
<v Speaker 4>cleaning solution. If I walk into any other bathroom or

0:37:49.800 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 4>I can smell it and I'm like Romania.

0:37:52.480 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 1>They say the smells are the most effective at bringing

0:37:54.560 --> 0:37:55.320
<v Speaker 1>it back to a memory.

0:37:55.360 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, that makes total sense.

0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:00.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah for sure, because it's.

0:37:59.880 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 4>Just wolf crazy. Well, way to walk down memory lane, guys.

0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:09.759
<v Speaker 2>Also, with the emails, I want to hear some of

0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:11.600
<v Speaker 2>those two take emails.

0:38:11.640 --> 0:38:13.759
<v Speaker 1>We have some really nice ones this week. Do it.

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:16.560
<v Speaker 1>This is from Sarah, she said. First of all, let

0:38:16.600 --> 0:38:19.280
<v Speaker 1>me just give you Danielle's she saw on your Instagram story,

0:38:19.280 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 1>the Jolie and Jace cupps that you reposted from someone else.

0:38:21.840 --> 0:38:23.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh, yes, you can get them at Dollar General.

0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:25.960
<v Speaker 2>There you go. Where do you get them?

0:38:25.960 --> 0:38:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I'd love to purchase them. And I love your show

0:38:27.600 --> 0:38:29.360
<v Speaker 1>and I hope you get the People's Choice Award. You

0:38:29.400 --> 0:38:31.759
<v Speaker 1>guys deserve it. Sorry, Beca and Tanya, I love you

0:38:31.760 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 1>guys too, Love you too.

0:38:34.120 --> 0:38:37.520
<v Speaker 3>Back on Antonia. That's very sweet, Thank you.

0:38:38.200 --> 0:38:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Sarah says. My husband Brian and I are both thirty one.

0:38:41.160 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 1>We've been married for five years and we've had her

0:38:43.040 --> 0:38:45.640
<v Speaker 1>ups and downs. Until last May, I was really happy

0:38:45.680 --> 0:38:47.640
<v Speaker 1>in my marriage till my husband expressed to me in

0:38:47.640 --> 0:38:50.919
<v Speaker 1>a counseling session that he was unfaithful five times within

0:38:50.920 --> 0:38:52.760
<v Speaker 1>the first year of our marriage. While I was pregnant

0:38:52.760 --> 0:38:55.440
<v Speaker 1>with our first child. He also admitted he was he

0:38:55.480 --> 0:38:57.640
<v Speaker 1>had attempted to act out while we were pregnant with

0:38:57.680 --> 0:39:00.759
<v Speaker 1>our second baby in the periods in between, compensated with

0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:04.760
<v Speaker 1>pornography and almost ninety thousand dollars in online shopping. This summar,

0:39:04.760 --> 0:39:07.279
<v Speaker 1>he filed for bankruptcy and we filed for separation. He

0:39:07.440 --> 0:39:10.040
<v Speaker 1>then left for an inpatient treatment center for sex addiction.

0:39:10.640 --> 0:39:13.480
<v Speaker 1>He comes home November ninth, after completing seventy five days.

0:39:13.480 --> 0:39:15.879
<v Speaker 1>By all accounts, he's doing well, he's progressing, he's giving

0:39:15.920 --> 0:39:17.839
<v Speaker 1>it as all. But I am so scared to come

0:39:17.880 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 1>home and to find out what that new normal will

0:39:20.640 --> 0:39:23.360
<v Speaker 1>look like, and I'm so scared of being hurt again.

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:26.480
<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to say I appreciate your courage. It

0:39:26.520 --> 0:39:28.839
<v Speaker 1>is a daily kind of courage to share openly all

0:39:28.880 --> 0:39:31.880
<v Speaker 1>the things we didn't choose for everyone to find out either.

0:39:32.000 --> 0:39:34.839
<v Speaker 1>My husband was our church worship leader. If you're ever

0:39:34.960 --> 0:39:38.560
<v Speaker 1>near Asheville, North Carolina, let's grab dinner. Otherwise, keep doing y'all,

0:39:38.600 --> 0:39:41.120
<v Speaker 1>praying for your family, your marriage, and continued to recovery.

0:39:41.480 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 4>I mean would love to sit down with you guys. Yeah, love,

0:39:45.760 --> 0:39:50.799
<v Speaker 4>Thank you for your email that's beyond sweet Sarah, thank you,

0:39:52.960 --> 0:39:55.839
<v Speaker 4>But I will say it's pretty amazing he did tell you.

0:39:56.200 --> 0:40:01.120
<v Speaker 2>That's very Yeah, that's something to when you're having a

0:40:01.160 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 2>hard time hanging on to hope and having those fears.

0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:09.040
<v Speaker 2>The fact that he got to the point where he

0:40:09.160 --> 0:40:12.040
<v Speaker 2>had just couldn't live with that double life anymore and

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:17.160
<v Speaker 2>he told you without you discovering, I mean, that's that

0:40:17.280 --> 0:40:18.040
<v Speaker 2>goes a long way.

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:19.880
<v Speaker 1>Is that a sign that he doesn't want to be

0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:20.640
<v Speaker 1>that guy anymore?

0:40:20.960 --> 0:40:24.160
<v Speaker 2>For sure? For sure, that's it's a sign of it's

0:40:24.680 --> 0:40:28.520
<v Speaker 2>taking contrary action, which is why you know all the

0:40:28.520 --> 0:40:30.359
<v Speaker 2>stuff that Jane and I were dealing with, you know,

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:34.200
<v Speaker 2>with me deleting and not telling. It's all about taking

0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:36.960
<v Speaker 2>contrary action, doing something that you wouldn't have done in

0:40:36.960 --> 0:40:41.640
<v Speaker 2>the past. So that's something that's we know. It's tough,

0:40:41.680 --> 0:40:44.320
<v Speaker 2>and it is, as Sarah said, is a daily battle.

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:48.239
<v Speaker 2>You have your ups and downs, but hang your head

0:40:48.239 --> 0:40:49.920
<v Speaker 2>on that at least, and all you can do is,

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:54.400
<v Speaker 2>like Jana says, she trusts me today until I give

0:40:54.400 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 2>her a.

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:56.160
<v Speaker 4>Reason not to well, and he needs to be like

0:40:56.200 --> 0:40:58.800
<v Speaker 4>showing up and stuff too. Because the hardest, the hardest

0:40:58.840 --> 0:41:02.280
<v Speaker 4>recovery we've had was when he was gone in treatment.

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:05.240
<v Speaker 4>It was the two years he got home from treatment.

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:09.319
<v Speaker 4>That's been the hardest adjustment and it just takes time.

0:41:10.040 --> 0:41:14.719
<v Speaker 4>And it's but again, if two people are willing to work,

0:41:14.760 --> 0:41:16.040
<v Speaker 4>I know I say that all the time, but if

0:41:16.360 --> 0:41:18.719
<v Speaker 4>you know, you just got to keep fighting it out.

0:41:18.800 --> 0:41:21.200
<v Speaker 4>But we will also be praying for y'all's marriage. And

0:41:21.239 --> 0:41:22.400
<v Speaker 4>thank you for sharing your story.

0:41:22.480 --> 0:41:23.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank you.

0:41:23.280 --> 0:41:25.719
<v Speaker 1>And well, so she's she's it's okay, she's scared, but

0:41:25.960 --> 0:41:27.759
<v Speaker 1>it's okay to be optimistic.

0:41:27.239 --> 0:41:33.759
<v Speaker 4>To absolutely, but it's both are totally fine and normal. Yeah,

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:37.799
<v Speaker 4>I'm still scared. You know, he's still scared. You know,

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:43.560
<v Speaker 4>you're right. Yeah, it's just those Yeah.

0:41:43.600 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 1>But it's been great listening to you on this podcast

0:41:45.560 --> 0:41:48.400
<v Speaker 1>honestly today specifically, like you guys just see seem you're

0:41:48.440 --> 0:41:51.000
<v Speaker 1>in good moods, you're happy, you're interacting in a sweet way,

0:41:51.040 --> 0:41:52.680
<v Speaker 1>and you see it just seems like a very solid

0:41:52.719 --> 0:41:54.680
<v Speaker 1>relationship today. The way you're talking to each other about

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<v Speaker 1>each other's feelings and respecting each other's thoughts. I think

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<v Speaker 1>this is I'm very encouraged by today's podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks Mark, thank you. I think we're good, right, now

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<v Speaker 3>we agree?

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<v Speaker 6>Right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, ive been yes especially coming off a perfect day yesterday,

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<v Speaker 2>a no hitter, a perfect game, whatever you're gonna call it.

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<v Speaker 2>I had one of those yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>A little goes a long way. That's right, right?

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<v Speaker 2>We have any more emails?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Sabrina. I was involved in a four year relationship

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<v Speaker 1>that ended when I discovered my now ex boyfriend was

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<v Speaker 1>cheating on me by soliciting sex from other women on Craigslist.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been five years since then. I've moved on. My

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<v Speaker 1>ex is now married to someone else. I'm with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy who's honest, caring, and sweet. He's given me no

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<v Speaker 1>reason to worry about him being on faithful. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you can see where this is going. I've been with

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<v Speaker 1>him for a little over a year, but it's extremely

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<v Speaker 1>hard for me to shake those feelings that I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>good enough and that history will repeat itself With my

0:42:47.560 --> 0:42:50.959
<v Speaker 1>new boyfriend. It has started so many unnecessary arguments because

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<v Speaker 1>he does not understand how easily triggered I am. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you shake those thoughts in the back of your mind?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you explain to someone who has never been

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<v Speaker 1>through huge earth shattering infidelity that what you need is

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<v Speaker 1>time and reassurance.

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<v Speaker 4>That's hard because the other person probably is like, I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't do that, though, so stop putting me in that

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<v Speaker 4>person's position, right, But at the same time, I think

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<v Speaker 4>that person needs to be gentle and have empathy for

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<v Speaker 4>the person that you know is having trouble with it.

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<v Speaker 4>But at the same time, it's how Sabrina you're delivering

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<v Speaker 4>it to him because you have to come from a

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<v Speaker 4>vulnerable place to be like, Hey, I'm so sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>getting triggered. I know it has nothing to do with you,

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<v Speaker 4>it's just my past. Because if you're communicating from a

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<v Speaker 4>vulnerable place, he's going to be able to be more.

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<v Speaker 4>He's going to lean into empathy and not be on

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<v Speaker 4>the attack or the defense of Well that's not me though,

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<v Speaker 4>because if you're leaning in vulnerable, he'll lean in with empathy,

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<v Speaker 4>is my opinion.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean that's very well said, Honey. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that was really well said.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks Mark.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't really know what to say after that,

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<v Speaker 2>because it was pretty spot on.

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<v Speaker 1>Give it to us again.

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<v Speaker 4>Lean in with vulnerability and well, no, you know, be

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<v Speaker 4>vulnerable and then hopefully then your partner will lean in

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<v Speaker 4>with empathy. So you guys both need to lean into

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<v Speaker 4>each other, but just one with vulnerability and one with empathy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's all about validating that this has nothing to

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<v Speaker 2>do with him, that you do not accuse him of anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Because if you start if Sabrina started saying, well where

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<v Speaker 2>were you? Or let me see your phone? If I

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<v Speaker 2>was in new relationship, I'd yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But I could also see how like in her situation,

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<v Speaker 4>the same we didn't work out, I would be like, man,

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<v Speaker 4>this is I don't trust anybody for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just I was going to say that when

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<v Speaker 2>Marcus Rena, I was like, could you imagine if you it'd.

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<v Speaker 4>Be really tough, right and I would need I would,

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<v Speaker 4>but I would be very I was thinking, I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>what would I say to a new guy. I would say, look,

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<v Speaker 4>I've this is what I've been through, and I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to I of course I know you, that's not you,

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<v Speaker 4>but I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, just if you be vulnerable, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Jana said, be vulnerable. Guys want to be your

0:44:56.920 --> 0:45:01.040
<v Speaker 2>night and shining armor. So if you lead with that vulnerability,

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<v Speaker 2>like especially with her saying how caring and honest and

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:08.279
<v Speaker 2>sweet he's been. I optimistic that he'll lean into that

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<v Speaker 2>challenge and be that you know night and shining armor

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<v Speaker 2>and be like I got you, like there's nothing to

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<v Speaker 2>worry about, and reassure you in any way that you need.

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<v Speaker 4>And at the end of the day too, he might

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<v Speaker 4>who knows anybody has the capability of doing it, And

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<v Speaker 4>that just means that, Okay, it wasn't the right one

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<v Speaker 4>and if that's not what you want, and then move on.

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<v Speaker 4>Just because people get their heartbroken. I think that's what

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<v Speaker 4>bothers me that I want to get my heart broken again.

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<v Speaker 4>Well then you're gonna be lonely forever. Then because you're

0:45:33.800 --> 0:45:35.640
<v Speaker 4>gonna get your heartbroken, you're gonna get your heart broken

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<v Speaker 4>ten more times probably, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Also maybe not.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe not.

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<v Speaker 2>Great emails, that great show.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah then okay, next up is people's choice towards. So

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just excited to go. It'll be a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>This a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm pumped to have a date night with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, good.

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<v Speaker 1>Luck you guys. When the I heard a word last.

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<v Speaker 3>Year, no chance, but it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on now, you don't know, it's fine.

0:46:07.680 --> 0:46:09.800
<v Speaker 2>So I just you know, do something to go viral.

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<v Speaker 2>And no matter who they announced, I just go up

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<v Speaker 2>to accept the award.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, see, you guys are doing well, like going

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<v Speaker 1>viral the past month or so, so good job on.

0:46:19.320 --> 0:46:21.080
<v Speaker 2>That you've been going.

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<v Speaker 3>It's off for the votes, right, I told yeah, all

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<v Speaker 3>it with.

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<v Speaker 2>This Kanye thing. I told Jane, I was like, you

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<v Speaker 2>got it like a devil's triangle between me, Kanye and

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<v Speaker 2>Olivia Copo. They're probably both like, who is this guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Saying his name is Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on their radar. You are now public enemy number one.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, guys, daily challenge lean in.

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<v Speaker 2>You're so inspiring