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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 2: who talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all as a girl aj holiday, What's up? Tampam,

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Speaker 1: y'all is tam bam.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all so much, y'all came back. I'm so

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Speaker 2: happy y'all came back to see us and to sit

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Speaker 2: and chat with your girls.

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Speaker 3: How was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: My weekend was extravagant? Is that a word? Extraordinary?

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Speaker 3: Extraordinary? What you do?

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Speaker 1: I had a good weekend? So uh the local Charstonians, Uh,

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Speaker 1: the Princess Diaries. Chris Kalen had a live show this

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Speaker 1: weekend and she did a very very good job. I

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Speaker 1: was highly impressed. Exactly her second live show on Drawston.

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Speaker 1: I bought a ticket to the other one and didn't go.

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Speaker 1: This morn she actually had me do a segment on

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Speaker 1: the show and then we got like a proclamation, a

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Speaker 1: proclamation from the city of Charleston. Oh wow, I want

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Speaker 1: to I want to read all this right up and

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Speaker 1: y'all let me know. Okay, go ahead, because the whole

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Speaker 1: time I'm like, what the fuck they gonna write about

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Speaker 1: me like, so now I feel like I gotta do

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Speaker 1: for real some community work. Yeah, let me so it's

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Speaker 1: the up. It was me and Charlemagne and Cardia Brown.

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Speaker 1: She she's a chef. Yeah, she's a chef, and she

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Speaker 1: has a restaurant here in the airport. I haven't ate

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Speaker 1: it yet. I heard it was fire shit. Every time

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Speaker 1: I'm going to the airport, child, I'm going fifteen minutes

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Speaker 1: before I'm sped to be in the line trying to

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Speaker 1: get on the flight, So I never have time to

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Speaker 1: sit down and eat. But I have to make time

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Speaker 1: one day because I don't think she's planning on doing

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Speaker 1: like a restaurant outside airport anytime soon.

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Speaker 2: So you and you gotta be traveling from Charleston to

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Speaker 2: get food from her.

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Speaker 1: And it be back now because I've seen it. It

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Speaker 1: be packs and initially I didn't it was black owned. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So she was one of the guests for the live

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Speaker 1: show in Charlemagne also, and then we had a proclamation

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Speaker 1: from our hometown.

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Speaker 3: They're so dope, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Man, So check it out. It says the City of

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Speaker 1: Charleston recognizes individuals whose contributions strengthen our communities through service

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Speaker 1: advocacy and cultural education, and so they you know, they

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Speaker 1: they low read up Charlemagne read up and hers is like,

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Speaker 1: you know, kind of thick heick on mind though it

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Speaker 1: ain't thick, but it's good. I was so fucking geeky okay,

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Speaker 1: says it, says Ashley AJ James, co host of the

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Speaker 1: nationally recognized We Tak Back podcasts. As a media leader, okay,

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Speaker 1: you're the media leader whose work amplifies the voices of

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Speaker 1: African American women and promotes authentic dialogue about mental health, empowerment,

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Speaker 1: and social awareness. Her advocacy encourages women to embrace self knowledge, okay,

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Speaker 1: confidence and connection across communities in the Carolinas and beyond

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Speaker 1: clock that is more so, November twenty five is now

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Speaker 1: hereby the Community Service and Cultural Awareness Recognition Day.

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Speaker 2: So you got a day for us in Charleston, yes,

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Speaker 2: hear me, and as the fucking clap y'all day.

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Speaker 1: So now I gotta really do my nonprofit work right,

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Speaker 1: so I can have like a longer because charing lists,

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Speaker 1: of course, as long as shit right right and.

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Speaker 2: Not just they gave you the push to do what

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Speaker 2: you were already planning to do.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely so not to uh to not to not to

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Speaker 1: try to compete, but so I did establish my five

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Speaker 1: oh one c three for Mummy's House. Mummy's House, Yes,

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Speaker 1: it is going to be an alternative to abortion. And

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Speaker 1: Charleston they used to have places where young girls who

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Speaker 1: get pregnant can go mm hmm and instead of having

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Speaker 1: an abortion right, they can still go, have their children,

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Speaker 1: have their have their kids go to school, still finish

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Speaker 1: high school. And she's like that those type of places

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Speaker 1: aren't around anymore. They only push abortion to black women,

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Speaker 1: and it's not just black women. So what if there

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Speaker 1: was a place Because there's a there's another place here

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Speaker 1: called my Sister's House. So it's kind of kind of similar.

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Speaker 1: But Charleston does not fuck with the homeless in any way.

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Speaker 1: Everything is going to be like nonprofit like individual companies

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Speaker 1: and people actually trying to do things. The city does

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Speaker 1: nothing mm hmm for people in need as far as

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Speaker 1: I'm concerned. So it's up to is that to the

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Speaker 1: people man, So yeah, Mummy's House.

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Speaker 2: I think that's great. Congratulations on that too. I think

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Speaker 2: that's a great idea. They have a place to go

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Speaker 2: and like, so this is while they're pregnant and then

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Speaker 2: right after they're pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was fourteen and pregnant. Well, my mama

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Speaker 1: put me out of jail. I'm putting me out of jail,

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Speaker 1: putting me out the house, like unless I had an

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Speaker 1: abortion that happened to me in real life. So imagine

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Speaker 1: like you don't have to be faced with those circumstances.

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Speaker 1: You know, it might be tough, but you have other

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Speaker 1: options other than not having a kid.

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Speaker 3: Right, Okay, well I think that's you said.

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Speaker 1: How does it work? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: The only thing I'm concerned with is like.

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Speaker 2: Parents saying that their kid like, let's say they want

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Speaker 2: to their parents not putting them out. They want to leave.

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Speaker 2: Can they come and stay there under law as a minor?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. And those are the things I got

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Speaker 1: out of the kings. I guess I gotta work out.

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Speaker 1: Are you still a minor once you have a child

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Speaker 1: of your own at fifteen? You know, like kinda yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, are you still your mom's responsibility while also

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Speaker 1: being having like a little person that you were also

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Speaker 1: responsible for? I don't know, but I know I have

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Speaker 1: no fucking choice, And you know, listen, I want to

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Speaker 1: thank my mama from the bottom of my heart. Okay,

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Speaker 1: because the nigga that I was pregnant for, Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: don't change. Ooh no either not. You're still a fucking

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Speaker 1: stupid You gotta asked me for change. Like he drove

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Speaker 1: past my mama's house and then somebody's yelling down the street, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: come here. Mind, y'all. This is like seventeen years later

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Speaker 1: plus probably because I was fifteen. I was fifty actually

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Speaker 1: fifteen at the time, so now I'm like thirty five,

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Speaker 1: thirty three. I was thirty three actually, never seen him

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Speaker 1: kind of since that time in my life. So I'm

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Speaker 1: talking like I'm a child, right right, So I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm yelling back down the street like you in a car,

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Speaker 1: you come back, So the car pulls up in front

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Speaker 1: of my bitch. I almost threw up in my mouth

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Speaker 1: when I tell y'all, my mama saved my fucking life.

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Speaker 1: Listen to your mama, Okay, But I tell y'all, my

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Speaker 1: mama saved my life because guess what if I was

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Speaker 1: if I had a kid by that Doude today, like

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Speaker 1: nobody would know who my kid's dad is. I promise

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Speaker 1: his dad would be dead, Like you know, figuratively speaking, right,

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Speaker 1: Like she told y'all to tell the nigga yeah, because

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Speaker 1: when he got out that car. I was so disgusted

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Speaker 1: with myself. Y'all, he was so fine when I was

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Speaker 1: a kid, because you don't know no fucking better. This

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Speaker 1: then as a teenage boy is disgusting. He got paying

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Speaker 1: stuck let's side, baby mama girl. I like, the fucking

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Speaker 1: you'll stop, baby mama. He was like, I can't get

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Speaker 1: your number. I said, no, I have a family plan,

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Speaker 1: mind you. My nigga just got arrested, him in jail,

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Speaker 1: Like this is why I'm at my mama house putting

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Speaker 1: a fucking suitcase at the back of my trunk.

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Speaker 3: I still got a family, playing.

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Speaker 1: Got a family, playing nigga no yeah, and trying to

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Speaker 1: tell me he don't got no kids. I'm like, my

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Speaker 1: sister saw you, like at the gorehouse for child support. Shit,

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Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Has plenty kids and you

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Speaker 1: know this guy was retarded. I don't want to get

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Speaker 1: on my soapbox about this, but I mean, like actually retarded,

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Speaker 1: Like I think he come from like a long line

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Speaker 1: more like, you know, maybe he had like some some

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Speaker 1: zelshal de lais or just bad. Just the full fucking

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Speaker 1: family was just bad behavioral issues, yes, just bad, just

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Speaker 1: doing shit and him I stupid, smart as pregnant for

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Speaker 1: is dumb. We're tired of nigga and in love and

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Speaker 1: thank you mama.

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Speaker 3: So let me ask you this.

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Speaker 2: If you had your business, if a business existed like

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Speaker 2: the one that you wanted to create, and you went there,

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Speaker 2: then you.

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Speaker 3: Know you wouldn't have taken your mama's advice.

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Speaker 1: No, I would not, right, But as now, as a

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Speaker 1: woman forty one years old with no children, that decision

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Speaker 1: wasn't my mom's. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 1: that's the one part that people don't talk about during

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Speaker 1: you know, when it's election season, like all the people

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Speaker 1: come out, the world works, they pushing all these different

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Speaker 1: agendas and all this stuff. It's a lot of single

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Speaker 1: they have never had kids themselves. Examples Kamala Harris, Mary J. Blige,

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Speaker 1: all these people like you see pushing these agendas they

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Speaker 1: both spectrums. I see it from both sides, right, So

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Speaker 1: nobody tells those young girls, this might be your only

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Speaker 1: You were supposed to have your baby. I started crying, like, imagine,

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Speaker 1: Like this is just a real profit pulling up on me,

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Speaker 1: telling me I was supposed to have my baby. Damn,

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Speaker 1: and what if that's the only kid I might get.

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Speaker 1: So those are the conversations that older women should be

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Speaker 1: having with young girls. Because your body is telling you

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Speaker 1: to reproduce. Ain't nothing you're gonna be able to do

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Speaker 1: about that. You know, it's gonna be millions of years

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Speaker 1: Now start having a cycle. Like it's really like a

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Speaker 1: cat dog. Keep them at keep them kids' asses in

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Speaker 1: the house because they're going to be on the run.

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Speaker 1: It's nothing you could do but God give guidance. And

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Speaker 1: my mom was at work all day long. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: so I hope that helps somebody. If you're pregnant right now,

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Speaker 1: have your baby, girl'll be all right. I got five

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Speaker 1: dollars for you, see, and I might hold on, I

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Speaker 1: might get more. Don't listen, this is nonprofits. Were gonna

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Speaker 1: get donations, right, so there are organizations out there that

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Speaker 1: can help you. Like, having an abortion is a sacrifice,

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Speaker 1: and people may.

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Speaker 2: Not it's a huge it's a huge sacrifice. And I

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Speaker 2: think you know people we made light of it. We've

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Speaker 2: made joke we on this show, We've made jokes about it.

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Speaker 1: They don't wait it on walk that type of shit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But essentially, it is a huge sacrifice you make

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Speaker 2: when you do that.

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Speaker 1: It's literally a sacrifice though, right A lot of women

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Speaker 1: have abortions because they sacrifice the baby for their future.

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Speaker 1: It's an actual sacrifice. And this is why people really

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Speaker 1: be pushing for the abortion laws, right, because what are

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Speaker 1: y'all doing with these fetuses? Neil, y'all sacrificed and these

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Speaker 1: fetuses too, because it may just be like a little

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Speaker 1: regular little thing. You got black girls working outside the

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Speaker 1: abortion clinic. That shit ain't cute. You sacrificed something.

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Speaker 3: Black girls tworking outside the abortion clinic.

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Speaker 1: super raunchy, nasty, but you know, I can stomach all

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Speaker 1: that shit. But when she did a girl.

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Speaker 3: That's too much. What did I do this weekend?

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Speaker 1: I'm oh, sorry, y'all?

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Speaker 3: What did I do this weekend?

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Speaker 2: I won? I engorged myself with food from Thanksgiving Thursday

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Speaker 3: I quit after Saturday.

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Speaker 2: I could not eat no more of that shit and

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Speaker 2: then and just kicked it with family.

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Speaker 3: Then on Sunday, I made soup.

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Speaker 2: I mean, my weekend was like just very I don't

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Speaker 3: I showered and brushed my weekend and that was about it.

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Speaker 1: Yep. That's most of my weekends, yep.

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Speaker 3: But it was nice. I needed that.

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Speaker 2: And then last night, I it was like raining, it

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Speaker 2: was icy, and I went to my little yeah yeah

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Speaker 2: The Conjuring four with him, and we were watching that shit,

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Speaker 2: and at one of the scariest moments, like this thing

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Speaker 2: out in the house. Baby, you tall watching the Conjuring four?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I watched that recon you know, that spaced

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Speaker 1: off true story that goes that husband and wife are real.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and that's why I was. I almost do doo

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Speaker 2: doo on that man couch, y'all. I was so scared,

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Speaker 2: even I don't even know what happens at the end.

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Speaker 2: I don't care what happens at the end. That was

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Speaker 2: enough for me. I ain't never had that happen. It

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Speaker 1: That's not about to say that it's not that scary,

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Speaker 3: It'n't imagine like the shock factor.

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Speaker 2: The something is so quiet and then something you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that took me out of the game, and he

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Speaker 3: was talking about just go to sleep. How I'm sitting

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Speaker 3: here with my phone to do that. That's here with my.

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Speaker 1: Lad You look the flashlight on my phone. Fun are

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Speaker 1: you talking about, y'all? I used to be so scared

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Speaker 1: like the fear of dying. I sleep so like I

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 2: I start on my back, but I always end up

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Speaker 2: on my stomach with my arms up like this.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'd be on my back like this, my arm

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you what I don't like when, like

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Speaker 2: when you're getting your lashes done or anything done where

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Speaker 2: you have to lay like you're laid back. I always

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Speaker 2: and then I snatch them back because it just looks

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Speaker 2: like how they have you in the casket. But that's

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Speaker 2: like the most comfortable place to rest your hands.

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Speaker 1: I'd be right there, child, because I'm not afraid to die.

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Speaker 1: But boy, I used to be scared of the dark. Now,

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Speaker 1: if I see some shit, I'd be like, hey, tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: not tonight, my nigga, you get out my room, don't

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Speaker 3: Man, Let's get in the sands.

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Speaker 1: We got going on. I updated Instagram recently. Now is

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah. I try to stay away from the updates

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Speaker 3: as long as possible.

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Speaker 1: So y'all remember a couple of months ago, shit, damn it.

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Speaker 1: Nine months ago at this point, Nikki baby, right, she

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Speaker 1: that his name? One of them balls, one of them

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Speaker 1: was pregnant. Now, this woman has pinned a heartfelt message online,

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Speaker 1: a lengthy transparency post, they're calling it, depicting what she's

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Speaker 1: going through right now, right, So this is that me

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Speaker 1: through essentially. Yeah, And you know, when I did Chris's

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Speaker 1: themselves in relationships. And I literally said, women lie and

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Speaker 1: tell themselves that they're better than the next woman.

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Speaker 3: They're bigger than the program.

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Speaker 1: You're not never bigger in the program. And that man

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Speaker 1: choices have nothing to do with you. So if you

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Speaker 1: think you're better than him, and you think you're better

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Speaker 1: while you're comparing yourself to them. I got a homegirl

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Speaker 1: who do that. She's always saying how her ass fatten

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Speaker 1: and she cuted it, and not like none of that

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Speaker 1: shit fucking matters because he's still playing in your face

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Speaker 1: with a bird. Obviously that's his type and he's happy

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Speaker 1: to have access to you. So really, what you're saying

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Speaker 1: is you're also a bird, right, get out that coop?

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Speaker 1: Okay if it ain't for you, Okay. So her name

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Speaker 1: is Rashida Nicole. So she apologies a nikki baby after

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Speaker 1: admitting she's now dealing with the same issues she once

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Speaker 1: mocked her for. So, I don't know why we always

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Speaker 1: think we're gonna get a better treatment from these dudes.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even fucking with you. If I see you

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Speaker 3: Because doing pregnant when she got with his pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was pregnant. So this girl is not married

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Speaker 1: to him, right? Do we want to read the whole post? No? Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 1: so I'll read it in my own time. You realize,

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Speaker 1: spent most of her pregnancy alone. She says her child's

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Speaker 1: father missed every milestone, pressured her into changing her daughter's

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Speaker 1: eight and a half months. See, I might be a

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Speaker 1: than my damn smiled something something happening anyway and continue

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Speaker 1: lying throughout their relationship. Read it. Rashida says she she

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Speaker 1: on creating a positive future for her child. That's unfortunate.

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is a whole book with the same story,

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Speaker 2: very old. Yeah, so there, I'm you know, I hate

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Speaker 2: that she's experiencing that. I hate when any woman becomes

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Speaker 3: You know, that's sad, But I mean kind of had

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she I guess he took it a step

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Speaker 1: the next woman child. Please, that just don't mean nothing.

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Speaker 1: It don't mean nothing. It's just so many single women

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Speaker 1: just because he gave you a little promise, ring a lie, ring,

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Speaker 1: don't mean nothing. Yeah, got a damn thing. Y'all choose

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Speaker 1: different self awareness. That's where it starts, because niggas cannot

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Speaker 2: So I saw him the Jasmine brand Funky don Neva

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Speaker 2: sneaking around a legend witnessing them making out, and he

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna read all this shit, but he definitely

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Speaker 2: and I didn't want to come in that house because

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Speaker 2: you in Men DC's was kissing before y'all went in,

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Speaker 2: and I thought y'all wanted some privacy, So that's why

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Speaker 2: I didn't come. And he was just like really laying

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Speaker 2: just because now what Tamar and Men DC's were doing allegedly,

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Speaker 2: that's not okay because he's married, and I'm sure she

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Speaker 2: knows Yan you know, maybe not well, but she knows

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Speaker 1: But if he was just in her video here he

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Speaker 2: Video video or and we don't know what relationship Men

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Speaker 2: it seems like Funky Dineva. It's someone Tamar trust or

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Speaker 2: just don't like, if we fall out, that's fine, But

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Speaker 2: hearing all my dirty laundry out for the public, that's

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Speaker 1: I just feel like that's nasty. I was just saying

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Speaker 1: that shit this weekend. I have a hard time losing friends.

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Speaker 1: You know. Part of it is is because like you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like a death kind of right, even the loss

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Speaker 1: But the part that fucks me at the most I

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Speaker 1: all my secrets and you're just out here in the

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Speaker 1: world with my shit to do this type of shit.

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Speaker 1: When a bitch really get on you know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't like friends because you're not a friend. You

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Speaker 3: Right ready, you know, really need to air your dirty

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Speaker 1: No, I definitely talk shit to mutual friends about a

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Speaker 3: Right and how we talk back and be like and

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Speaker 3: so and so you.

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Speaker 1: Did this if exactly, if anything were gonna be on

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Speaker 1: here doing it to each other in front of y'all. Right,

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Speaker 1: ain't no motherfucking behind the back, wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: But you still wouldn't even know that we talk about

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Speaker 2: just being hurt.

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Speaker 1: E never no video. Look, y'all know we doing right now.

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Speaker 1: If ain't no video, we'd be doing like this.

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Speaker 2: Like y'all should give it me like I like we

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not a good friend, and I'll be honest, man,

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Speaker 1: I have a few guys guy friends who are gay

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Speaker 1: But this is why I don't just hang out with

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Speaker 1: a bunch of punks, Okay. I feel like they're an

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Speaker 1: this dude and somebody else's best friend gay best friend

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00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 1: was just out in the ass on the internet recently,

434
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 1: like they do this, they me having all the tea, right,

435
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 1: That is not man, Listen, you gotta be careful with

436
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: the women and the men. I don't know why, y'all

437
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: thought it's gonna be different. Men actually talk more shit

438
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: than women, and now you got a man with more

439
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 1: feminine energy than an actual man. Oh honey, it's about

440
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: to be a whole ship show. I don't know what

441
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: you thought.

442
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 2: But Tamar I have you know, I like Tamar sometimes,

443
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 2: but oftentimes she'd be giving mean girl energy too, so

444
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,119
Speaker 2: it seems like they would be friends.

445
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, when she was all.

446
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 2: On there like big bad Cadillac, big bad Cadillac, I

447
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 2: just thought that was Cadillac.

448
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,679
Speaker 3: One of her co hosts, friend of view, the black

449
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 3: what's her name.

450
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 1: Ronnie Love, Lonnie Love, she was kind of her big back,

451
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: big big black Cadillac.

452
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 3: Big bat or big bat cadillact.

453
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's mean. That was so mean, So I just

454
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: he jokes for her.

455
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not my favorite when they come to ship

456
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 2: like that. So I can see how they could be friends,

457
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 2: you know. But I mean, I can't wait to hear

458
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 2: her response to this or what you got?

459
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: She don't say shit?

460
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it just blow over.

461
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: We're in a sleepy to just stop addressing ship.

462
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 3: Do we really care?

463
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: No, not really, I don't.

464
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,640
Speaker 2: We just gotta talk about shit, Yeah, we gotta five

465
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: three things to talk about with y'all.

466
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Speaker 1: Every Now I care about this one a little bit,

467
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 1: all right. So Megan's Stallion, her defamation case against Milargo,

468
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 1: was tossed out at the judge rules Malago is a

469
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: media defendant and says Megan's team failed to properly notify her.

470
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 1: So apparently, in the state of Florida, if somebody is

471
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Speaker 1: a media defendant, there's like some special per se way

472
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: in which you're supposed to notify that person if they

473
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: are in the media. You know what I'm saying, because

474
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 1: people get ship fucked up all the time in the media,

475
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: right right, And we definitely lived in a world where

476
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: should believe of believe nothing a year and have what

477
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 1: the fuck you see, so you just never know what's what.

478
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: But it says the federal judge. Federal jury found Milargo

479
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: Elizabeth Cooper libel to Megan P. MEGANE. Stallion for intentional

480
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: infliction of emotional distress and for promoting an unaltered excuse

481
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Speaker 1: me promoting an altered sexual image of Megan in violation

482
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Speaker 1: of Florida law. The jury also originally found Cooper libel

483
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 1: for defamation per se, but the judge could not enter

484
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Speaker 1: judgment on that claim because Florid law requires special pre

485
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 1: suit notice to media defendants, and Megan is Stallion did

486
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 1: not notify did not provide this notice. Since the jury

487
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: ruled Cooper is considered a media defendant, the defamation per

488
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Speaker 1: se claim could not move four. So all in all,

489
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: she's gonna be having to pay fifty nine thousand dollars

490
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: in compensatory and punitive damages. The court would decide any

491
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 1: requests for legal fees after appeals or post trial motions

492
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 1: a lot. But did you'll see on megazallion she had

493
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 1: like a twenty carousel post on her page showing all

494
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: her cork outfits. It was like suits fly ship bags.

495
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 3: That many times.

496
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: I guess she was preparing for it. But I guess

497
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 1: it just I think it only took a day.

498
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 3: Oh, it happened fast.

499
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it wasn't like drawing out like CARDI B

500
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: had like what two weeks to put clothes on every

501
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: day bitches and looking. Yes, so I guess Mega Sallion

502
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: was trying to get in her CARDI B bag and

503
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: put that shit on for us. We appreciate it. Yeah, close,

504
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: close case. I think this case is important, right because

505
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 1: it's just like Tasha K and Cardi B. And we

506
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: are in media, right you just I don't feel like

507
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 1: talking shit and lying on a person should come with celebrity,

508
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: like just because this person is a celebrity, like they

509
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: should not they should not be like you shouldn't expect

510
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: them to be like okay with you just lying on them,

511
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 1: just making out stories and then posting you know, nuds. Yeah,

512
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 1: like I think the shit with Tasha K car it

513
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: got Cardi B. When Tasha K was saying Cardi B

514
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 1: had her and was kissing her kid, that could easily yeah, like,

515
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: what the fuck is that?

516
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 3: Man?

517
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: That could easily be you know, proven true or false?

518
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 1: Ugly it's just ugly and a lot of people have

519
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: that shit both kinds. Okay, let's be very clear. If

520
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: you have never been tested for you don't know if

521
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: you got it or not until you get a low

522
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 1: outbreaking break.

523
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 3: I thought you was talking about ugly. How about to

524
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 3: say how many kinds or ugly?

525
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:57,239
Speaker 2: Is there?

526
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: Shit? About four to eleven times? Because I want to

527
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: know what picture she posted a Cardi B. What's the

528
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: altered image because of my big gass foot. That's what

529
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: I meant, Mega Stallion if somebody post a picture on

530
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: my big long foot and made it longer in the

531
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: image of me sucking dick, I'm mad.

532
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 3: Because your foot long? Are you sucking dick?

533
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: Foot long?

534
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 3: Like damn biggest foot?

535
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 1: I'm mad because why a y'all playing with me?

536
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair. Like what are we doing today?

537
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: Man? We're gonna do a whole episode of would you Rather?

538
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: Why Not? It's our favorite segment. I like it. I

539
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: like it. You have guess what deal? Would you rather?

540
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 1: So we're gonna do what You're rather? Between us?

541
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we'll be right back.

542
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:56,719
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, So we are back in today's episode

543
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 1: Would you Rather a Thorn? With little commentary conversation in between?

544
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 3: Okay?

545
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: So I want to start with some like toxic relationship

546
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: type shit, all right, See, I can get to get

547
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: to know us. We lie though we do be lying,

548
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: m okay a little bit.

549
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 3: But I'm not just lying when I lie.

550
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 2: Just know I'm not just lying to you. I'm also

551
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 2: lying to myself. Okay, I be believing in my own

552
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 2: lies sometimes.

553
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 3: So there's say it right, all right?

554
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: So this is the would you Rather? Toxicity? Edition? Okay?

555
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: For grown women? Let's see, would you rather date a

556
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: man who post you, who won't post you sorry, who

557
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: won't post you, or a man who posts everything, including

558
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: y'all arguments.

559
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:47,479
Speaker 3: I won't.

560
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to be posted, Honestly, I don't want

561
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 2: people in my relationship like that. I don't think I

562
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 2: want to post each other until our wedding day or

563
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 2: something like that. Like we didn't know she had a

564
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 2: man till she had done.

565
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: Me exactly pop out. Yeah, that's really how it's supposed

566
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,719
Speaker 1: to be. I think social media we put too much

567
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: shit on there, And right now I'm trying to figure

568
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: out what type of niche page I can create because

569
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: it's still not going to be based off my personal life.

570
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: And I don't let that much shit going on, you

571
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I just people could find out

572
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: too much about you just by going on to your

573
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: Instagram page. And I'm not one of the people who

574
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: believe in Like even before we talked back, I never

575
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: had a private page before. Like people be weird in

576
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: me out who got like two hundred people following them

577
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: and they got a private page, Like, bitch, what I

578
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: think your CIA following me? I'm not following you back.

579
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 2: You know what, I think a good niche for you

580
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 2: is like conspiracy theories and like the bunk and stuff.

581
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: I want to do fun shit. Okay, I wanted to

582
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: make it he shit, it's going that might be a

583
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: second page, but like I know, i'd be like I

584
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: could post some really really good ass fucking means bitch

585
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: and create them, so I might do me like a

586
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: little fucking mean page. Okay, I got this other page,

587
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: y'all follow this other page. It's called Corporate Job Stripper Bod. Okay,

588
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 1: and if you listen to this episode, then this is

589
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: gonna be the only day you know it's me behind

590
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: that page. Corporate Job Stripper Bod. I've had that page

591
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: for ten years or some shit.

592
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 3: It's an IG page. Yep, Corporate Job Stripper Bod. It's crazy,

593
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 3: all right.

594
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: Would you rather have unlimited money for bills or unlimited

595
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 2: money for vacations?

596
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: I got unlimited money for vacation right now and my

597
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: doses due, so it's always going to be we live

598
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: in fucking shit, so wait, unlimited money for well, so

599
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: which one are you saying? Bills are vacation unlimited money

600
00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: for a vacation?

601
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm gonna pick that one, I

602
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 2: feel like I would pick the unlimited bill money.

603
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 3: That way, I can use my money for vacations.

604
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

605
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 2: Now my bills, I don't have nothing to worry about. Ever,

606
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 2: My bills are always paid.

607
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: But imagine if you had unlimited vacation money, how luxurious

608
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: those trips are going to be. Like you got that

609
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: basic ass rent and shit at the house, but I

610
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't have.

611
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 2: If I had unlimited money for bills, the bills would

612
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 2: be different.

613
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 1: Okay, so the house will probably be looking like a

614
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: vacation spot. Yes, everything, I get it. I agree.

615
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 3: Every day is now a vacation.

616
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 1: I agree. Uh okay, So I guess you're gonna do

617
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: the regular life shit. I'll do the toxic shit all right.

618
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: Would you rather a man who texts bag fast but lies,

619
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: or text slow and tells the truth.

620
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,959
Speaker 3: Take me slow. I guess I don't need like I'm not.

621
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 2: I don't need no urgent texts unless it's like an emergency.

622
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 2: You ain't got to because listen, loose.

623
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 1: The time limit.

624
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 2: It depends because with me, like we're doing hair, I

625
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 2: can't just stop and text you. I can't be checking

626
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 2: my phone every five minutes. So sometimes you might not

627
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 2: hear back from me for hours.

628
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: So what is for hours? Right? So what if you

629
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: text somebody and then hours I'm passed by? You just

630
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: know he done text you back, and you look at

631
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 1: your phone and he ain't respond to this long text?

632
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 2: Yet?

633
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 3: Who died? What happened? Nothing happened, right, Something had to

634
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 3: have happened.

635
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 2: But I'm open to hear what happened before I spass,

636
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: you know, but it just depends on what kind of

637
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 2: work they did, right. You know, you can't assume that

638
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 2: someone can just be available because you want to talk

639
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 2: in that moment.

640
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: Right. I got a homegirl who I'd be like, she'd

641
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: be telling me should I'd be like, girl relaxed, like

642
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 1: because I really don't be putting pressure on people. If

643
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:02,359
Speaker 1: a motherfucking never is fond you that that day did? Right?

644
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 1: So I'm never like sitting around anticipating a response from somebody,

645
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: even in relationships. You know what I'm saying, Like, set

646
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 1: it and forget it. If you don't text back, we

647
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 1: really that broke up essentially, Like because what the fuck

648
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: was you doing? I don't want to hear nothing else? Really,

649
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: you obviously died okay, but she'd be like really, like,

650
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: do you think that you're called?

651
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 2: And now your mind is taking control. Now you've come

652
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 2: up with all these different scenarios in your head and you're.

653
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: Trying to control. Right, You cannot control another grown person.

654
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,760
Speaker 1: So what if the person is dead, they can't answer anyway.

655
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 1: If he's alive and fucking on another bitch, he can't

656
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 1: answer anyway. How can you control any of these outcomes?

657
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: You can't, so relax, so fuck it?

658
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree. Would you rather wash a sink

659
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 3: full of dishes or full five lows of laundry?

660
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 1: A sink full of dishes? They hate both?

661
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 3: Give me the laundry.

662
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 2: I fucking this, listen. I spent all my childhood I

663
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 2: just was washed, washing dishes, washing like rotate.

664
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 3: Yes, we did, but it just felt like it was

665
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 3: always my parent.

666
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: I felt like that my sister fucked around and had

667
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: a baby when she was twenty and so living in

668
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 1: the house, and my mom told her she don't have

669
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 1: to wash dishes no more because she excuse me, how

670
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: the fuck you get out of the rotation because you

671
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 1: got a kid now, so now here I am. And

672
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 1: you're also adding bottles and ship to the rotation exactly.

673
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: I'm fourteen, so now and then I'm at the end,

674
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: at the very end, I'm still in the rotation between

675
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: me and my other sister. Now you're big, guys, You're

676
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: gonna get the d shit because you you you was

677
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 1: fucking and got pregnant. What if I do that? Guess

678
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 1: what happened when I did it and ab at the

679
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: motherfuckering clinic.

680
00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:59,959
Speaker 3: Damn, it's still washing dish.

681
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 1: Why is she already get out the rotation?

682
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 3: Wash your dish?

683
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 2: Listen washing This a lot of spies and just because

684
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 2: of childhood. Well there's more than two, but two specifically

685
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 2: that pertains to this. And there's washing dishes and a

686
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: pack of Ramen noodles.

687
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 3: Fuck books for them. I ain't so much.

688
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 2: Ramen noodles as a teen, like a teenager or young

689
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 2: college too.

690
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: Oh god, you gotta get the good ones from an

691
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 1: Asian grocery store with all them get an egg and

692
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 1: they're on a dry freeze egg.

693
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 3: I don't want no more that.

694
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 2: I like real ramen though, like from a Roman restaurant.

695
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 2: But in that pack for twenty seven cent or how

696
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 2: much of it that shit costs, don't get me a.

697
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: You gotta dress it up the noodles.

698
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 3: Fuck that.

699
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: Would you rather a man who this is kind of

700
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,280
Speaker 1: Would you rather a man who buys gifts instead of apologizing,

701
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: or one who apologizes but keeps doing the same shit.

702
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 1: It's like it's a gift missing somewhere, right.

703
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:11,239
Speaker 2: So he buys me gifts, but he don't change the behavior, right,

704
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 2: or he and his other one it still don't change

705
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:15,240
Speaker 2: the behavior.

706
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,399
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly. I sound like it's still a gift missing, right.

707
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 3: Just give me the gifts. I out you sorry nigger

708
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 3: every time. Then I just take stuff if I have

709
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 3: to choose, if I have.

710
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 1: To choose, right right, crying in at maybox.

711
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 3: All right, huh?

712
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 2: Would you rather have your knees back from your age

713
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 2: twenty or your metabolism from eighteen?

714
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: I should have been fucked out my whole life going on.

715
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 1: I never had no good knees, metabolism, Ben Sloan's fuck,

716
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,720
Speaker 1: never could do a pull up on the monkey balls

717
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: and elementary like these are stole my goals in life

718
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: to twerk, like really twork. How people be on they

719
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: fucking the ball at their feet. I want to do that,

720
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 1: don't look like how y'all's be looking.

721
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 2: I can't dance no more either. I used to be

722
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 2: a dancer, but just somewhere along the line I lost.

723
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: It's the fucking for a long time now. I can

724
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: help with a dick, but dancing like by myself, No,

725
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,879
Speaker 1: I can't dance like that.

726
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 3: But even on the dick, you ain't gotta do all

727
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 3: of that. They do too much on the dance floor.

728
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: The girls who be dance like I can't do it

729
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 1: on a dick.

730
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 3: Yep, exactly, That's what I think.

731
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: All that's working, be right, Give me back my metabolism.

732
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 3: Fucking these I don't need them.

733
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm trying to when was my metabolism. I'm literally like

734
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: right now, y'all, I am doing it every other day fast,

735
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: trying to reset my metabolism at forty one. Yeah, my

736
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: metabolism has been slow my whole fucking life, as far

737
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: as it concerned. I don't even eat that much. I

738
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 1: don't eat that much meat. I don't. I mean, I

739
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 1: don't eat meat. I think it's sugar, right, I don't, though,

740
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:57,959
Speaker 1: that's it's just so weird, you know what I'm saying.

741
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 1: But then I recognize the other day eating now that

742
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: my partner he had protein, like he had an egg

743
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: benedict salmon, the salmon egg benedict. And here here I

744
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: am with a sweet potato pancakes and a biscuit, you

745
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, the egg on the side and

746
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: a piece of his salmon. No, I didn't have a biscuit.

747
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: I have Beignet's, That's what it was. So just straight carbs.

748
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: That's my problem. So it is the food selection.

749
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:29,399
Speaker 3: Mm hm. Would you already know the answer for this one?

750
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: For you?

751
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 2: Would you rather have permanent flawless skin or permanent thick,

752
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 2: long healthy hair.

753
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: I already got a good skin, bitch, so yes, let

754
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: me get the permanent long healthy hair right to the tudor. Okay, yeah,

755
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 1: I always be feeling like if all black women had

756
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: like long curly hair, niggas win date outside. They race

757
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: men are so obsessed with hair. Yeah, and they want

758
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: to be able to rub their fingers through our shit.

759
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 1: And oftentimes when they cuff the back of our necks

760
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 1: to kiss us, there's something back there. Okay, there's something

761
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: back there stopping them. Maybe a little ripple of some

762
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: naps or a lace closure stop. Yeah, they just want

763
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: to be able to fingers to your eeah and they

764
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 1: can't let me see would you rather a man who

765
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:33,240
Speaker 1: has three baby mamas or a man with no baby mamas?

766
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: At forty seven and questionable and questionable reasons?

767
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:43,240
Speaker 3: Why no baby mamas? Easy? What do you mean? Questionable?

768
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 3: He might be gay?

769
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: Well, questionable reasons why. I don't know what those questionable

770
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: reasons could be, but forty seven, I feel like a

771
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: forty seven year old man with no kids is just

772
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: more sketchy than a forty seven forty seven year old

773
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: woman with no kids. It just got at you.

774
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 2: Why I want three baby mamas when I could have

775
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 2: no baby mamas?

776
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: Right? I agree? This dude I used to date and

777
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: he was older now. The other day I was like

778
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: trying to calculate because he sent me some shit on Instagram,

779
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: like the nigga be talking to himself really, but I

780
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,720
Speaker 1: was calculating, like this nigga, he gotta be like fifty

781
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: years old now, and I was talking to him like

782
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,879
Speaker 1: when I lived in Saint Louis. I was twenty eight

783
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 1: at the time when I moved to Saint Louis, and

784
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: he was like in his late thirties, and I remember

785
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: I stopped talking to him because he ain't had no kids.

786
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 1: Find as hell. I used to be like, boy, you

787
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: oh God, like the way his body was just naturally.

788
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: He ain't have no kids, but he ain't had no headboard.

789
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 1: He had a blow up mattress. He was trying to

790
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: smash me on the first time. When the nigga got

791
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 1: a head boy, he couldn't wait to show me. Girl.

792
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 1: I said, the standard for these niggas. I did not

793
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 1: give him no pussy and that blow up mattress. So

794
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: the money he got a fucking bed. I was the

795
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: first to know, Yeah, somebody was allowing that shit. So

796
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: he wanted to know that. Hey, baby, I got me

797
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: a shellac, a black shalac cilling size, then some bunks

798
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: on this.

799
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 3: Lay your head up against this.

800
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: But I stopped talking to him because the nigga had

801
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: He was like hanging out at my house like a

802
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: couple of days. And I always worked from home. So

803
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: one day I I think I might have went to

804
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: the gym. I left somehow. I left the house and

805
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: left him near and he went and got food without me.

806
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 1: He had recently got laid off from his job, so

807
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:41,919
Speaker 1: I think his money was funny. I could have paid

808
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: for both of our food. Why the fuck would you

809
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: wait till leave the house to go get food without me,

810
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: so you would have to buy me nothing eat.

811
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 3: You don't have to pay for my food.

812
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: And I went and tell him why I coles exactly,

813
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: come back to my house and I haven't ate and

814
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: I've been feeding you in here.

815
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, you selfish, get out.

816
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was laid off at the time. Just have

817
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:08,319
Speaker 1: the conversation, grown ass man, this is somebody ten years

818
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: my senior. Have a conversation. I would have paid for

819
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: both of our fools. And that's that's not even pride.

820
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: What is that? That's just whack.

821
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

822
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: I I cold turkey him and stop talking to him.

823
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 3: Yeah he was. He sounded like a loser from the beginning.

824
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:24,959
Speaker 1: These are mechanics now, like he gotta let me stop

825
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 1: talking about people in here. Jesus Christ, he got his

826
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: life together now, but he still doesn't have any kids

827
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: and he's still not married. Would you one other thing,

828
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna add this in there, that Dick was kind

829
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 1: of weak for a late thirty year old, late thirties

830
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: in the forties. So I'm thinking I wonder if maybe

831
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,399
Speaker 1: he had like some eaty shit happening around that time,

832
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: so he probably couldn't have kids, not that I'm thinking

833
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 1: about it.

834
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 3: Oh that's very possible.

835
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: I just liked him because he was cool, you know

836
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But probably was a loser. Let's go

837
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 1: and carry on.

838
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 2: Would you rather have have a job you love that

839
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 2: pays average money or a job you tolerate that pays

840
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 2: crazy money?

841
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: Story in my life. I mean, you know, I've always

842
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: uh wanted to be able to make a big living

843
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: being myself. So that's thus we talk back, right m hm,

844
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: But bitch, sometimes you still got to do all of

845
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: the other things. Yeah, I would prefer to make crazy money,

846
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: hating it, but that's not really how I want to live.

847
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 1: My money is not everything, not me, hear me? Enough

848
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 1: money to be miserable.

849
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I say I take a job that

850
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 2: I love to pay average versus a job that I

851
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 2: tolerate that pays crazy money, because then you all you

852
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 2: have is money, but no peace of mind and no time.

853
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

854
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: Would you rather a man who keeps his phone face

855
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: down or a man who answers every call even during sex? What?

856
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 1: What's that?

857
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,439
Speaker 2: Put your phone face down? I don't give a fuck,

858
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 2: don't answer with me, weird.

859
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 1: My phone stay faced down for no reason because I

860
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: got shit. I guess what, My notifications ain't coming up.

861
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so listen to this one. This is dumb.

862
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 2: Would you rather work for ten hour days or five

863
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 2: six hour days? I would not rather work, bitch, don't

864
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 2: ask me no questioning your pets.

865
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: I do not aspire to a life of goddamn labor labor.

866
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: Would you rather date a man who never lies but

867
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: omits the truth? Yes, I think that's most men, a

868
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 1: lot of men. Or a man who lies that's actually

869
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,280
Speaker 1: me the fuck. Or a man who lies but tells

870
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: the truth when I caught. Mmm, that's a good one.

871
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 2: I think I'd rather a person who never lies would

872
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 2: amiss the truth to me.

873
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: Omitting the truth is lying.

874
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 2: It's still But I don't want no nigga whoo just

875
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 2: always lying to me, and I got to be an

876
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:08,359
Speaker 2: investigator all the time. And then once I find out

877
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 2: the truth, now he's honest. No, just yes, that's too much.

878
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: I was having a conversation with somebody about accountability and this.

879
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 1: I told him we would probably do an episode on

880
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 1: it at some point, Right, So I think that I

881
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 1: don't have a problem with accountability. The problem I do

882
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: have with people is them trying to hold other people

883
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: accountable for shit, right, and you can only hold yourself accountable.

884
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 1: First of all, I think we talked about this, did

885
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: we not? M I was saying, how I think that

886
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: when people don't have the same story, or they don't think,

887
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 1: they don't have the same perspective, the other person or

888
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,839
Speaker 1: somebody automatically thinks that person isn't taking accountability because their

889
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: perspective is different on what transpired. You see what I'm saying,

890
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: why would I take accountability? Like when I don't agree

891
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: with what you're saying, how could I take accountabit? And

892
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: you have some people who know what the fuck the

893
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: person is saying they are intentionally because I like.

894
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 3: They don't know what the fuck going on, but misunderstanding yes.

895
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: To gaslight you essentially right, that's two different things. So

896
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 1: how do you take accountability because either is this person

897
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: doing this intentionally or they just I don't know, you

898
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: just don't know.

899
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 3: You can take accountability for something you don't agree.

900
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: With, right. I think that's when people be like, oh,

901
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 1: women don't take accountability. We don't agree with how the

902
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 1: ship y'all saying the fuck you being we do take

903
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,959
Speaker 1: accountability for the things that make sense, but the things

904
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: we don't agree with? How is and the same thing

905
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 1: go for men, like, how are they supposed to take

906
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 1: accountability for some shit they don't agree with? Now? Some

907
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 1: things that they know they lying about because our accident

908
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: all the time. So you don't know no homeboys like this.

909
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: You experienced the same shit with your homeboys because you

910
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: don't think that women are growing through this in a

911
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,760
Speaker 1: relationship with them. And y'all don't date men, So believe

912
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: us when we say they're different, because they're different, they're

913
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: not your It's a different relationship. Would you you there's

914
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: always signs that you're homeboying and shit and you be

915
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,240
Speaker 1: acting like it ain't happen. Ahead.

916
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 3: Would you rather fight one horse sized duck or fifty

917
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 3: duck sized horses?

918
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: One horse sized duck or fifty duck sized horse?

919
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 3: Wait, fifty little horses or one dance duck.

920
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 1: I want to fight the big duck.

921
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:39,800
Speaker 3: I'm fighting in fifty horses.

922
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: Fifty little horses, fifty little horses. Man, you have better

923
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 1: think about the walking day. You be good when it's

924
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:48,919
Speaker 1: just one or two of them. But when they start

925
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: like getting a herd.

926
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 2: But you think about how ducks act and their wingspin

927
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,360
Speaker 2: gonna be crazy on the horse sized duck.

928
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: Would be shitting on you better, big load.

929
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 2: But I feel like I kick over them. They're gonna

930
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 2: be fast too, though I don't know.

931
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 1: All right, would you rather date mama's boy or a

932
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: man who doesn't talk to his mama at all?

933
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:13,919
Speaker 3: A mama's boy?

934
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, why are you gonna talk to your mama?

935
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's gonna be some trauma associated with that. Typically,

936
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 2: men who don't like their mamas don't like you. The

937
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 2: man love his mama, they'd be nicer to you. I

938
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 2: feel like they treat you better.

939
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: I gotta sing you this post that I saw today

940
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend said he sent it. He said he

941
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 1: didn't agree with it, and I told her we're gonna

942
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: discuss it later because it was so profound to me.

943
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: I posted on my story. But I forgot this guy's name.

944
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: He's probably not even alive now, but he was like

945
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: a speaker from the Seventh from the eighties, nineties or whatever.

946
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: But he basically was alluding to the fact that some

947
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 1: men hate their moms because their mom was a constant. Right,

948
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: You don't have a reason to hate your daddy because

949
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: he wasn't around, you hate your mama because she was around.

950
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 1: You know. It was basically talking about how if men

951
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: had less sex with women that there would be stronger love.

952
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: You're having sex for women for sport. Yeah, And it's like,

953
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: and I just had this conversation with somebody last night.

954
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: When somebody doesn't need anything from you, you like them

955
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 1: more versus somebody who's always asking you for some shit. Right,

956
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: And that is the relationship between men and women. Like

957
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: men require a lot from us, and when we get

958
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: burnt out, we get real nasty. So now you experience

959
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: in this nasty ass spirit after a while, Right, the

960
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: kid's gonna go through it. This is all the things

961
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:52,319
Speaker 1: he was saying. I was like, man, that is so profound. Yeah,

962
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 1: of course I'm not saying exactly how he was, but

963
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: that is that's the gist of it.

964
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 3: Oh that's a big topic.

965
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 2: Mm hm. Would you rather have a pause button for

966
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: life or a rewind button?

967
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: Oh? Rewind? I don't be regretted, ship, but I do

968
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 1: want to go back and like alter some shit, make

969
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 1: make a different decision because I do feel like all

970
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: the decisions you have, all these different decisions you could make, right.

971
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: So this is what quantum jumping is. Quantum jumping is

972
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 1: deciding in this reality what you want because that other

973
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 1: version of you already exists in another reality.

974
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm jumping Atlanta. When we went to

975
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 2: that restaurant, Remember, it felt like we went through like

976
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 2: a time war for something. Like we were trying to

977
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 2: stop at that restaurant, and it seemed like we passed

978
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 2: the same exit twice or three.

979
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yesh, it was weird. That would That was fucking weird.

980
00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: Did we not talk about it while it was happening?

981
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 3: Yeah? We did.

982
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:04,439
Speaker 1: We did, Like, how did we get here from there?

983
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 1: When it's the same highway?

984
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 3: Right?

985
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 1: Why did it take us longer from this way? It

986
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,320
Speaker 1: was some weird shit. And I feel like that about Atlanta,

987
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: Like Atlanta is a major energy source as far as

988
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: we're concerned. I do feel like they be doing some

989
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 1: some shit to black people in Atlanta. That's really not

990
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 1: a black city. And she really don't run shit, right,

991
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 1: you might have jumped in some ship. Let me see.

992
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: Damn did I run through you dumb?

993
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 3: I think so?

994
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: Oh wait, God, damn would you rather a man whose

995
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:48,240
Speaker 1: ex still wants him or a man nobody has ever wanted? Ever?

996
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:51,799
Speaker 3: I don't care about the eggs. She can still want you.

997
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:55,800
Speaker 1: Right, I cared. I don't want no nigga.

998
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 3: Didn't nobody want? Why I want his ass? Right? What

999
00:53:59,040 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 3: is the what?

1000
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: Why nobody else wanted him? If I catch my nigga

1001
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: holing at bitches in the DM and none of them

1002
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: bitches want him, I'm fucking livid. Yeah, I'm embarrassed, right

1003
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: because why my nigga getting curved?

1004
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 3: Why nobody want you with me? I don't like that.

1005
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 1: And then on the other hand, like they think they

1006
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,359
Speaker 1: want a woman that's popping at everybody wants, but they

1007
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:23,320
Speaker 1: really don't, so they end up marrying the safe, safe,

1008
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 1: fun and then they be trying to cheat with the

1009
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,800
Speaker 1: one that they just marry the whole.

1010
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:31,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they don't want to have kids with the whole.

1011
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 3: That's the thing.

1012
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 1: Yes, they have kids with coles. You cannot spell housewife

1013
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: without whole, Like we do this. Yeah, Okay, it's going

1014
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: to be a wonderful life. She's going to know exactly

1015
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: how to treat you, okay, because you're gonna end up

1016
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 1: turning the good girl into a whole anyway, because you're

1017
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: gonna be cheating with holes because holes be winning. You

1018
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 1: know that song You're gonna make Me be a hole?

1019
00:54:55,840 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 3: Mm hmm Jazz and Sullivan, Oh yeah, yeah, that's.

1020
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: Essentially what happens to good women get no fucking prize. Yeah,

1021
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: you're gonna make a whole out of me. You don't

1022
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:11,839
Speaker 1: get no prize for being good and talk them that's

1023
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: not true. Look at your fate, talg them. No, I'm

1024
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 1: not talking nobody them days over. That's something like that

1025
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 1: song take Me through that that ship I don't Nigga

1026
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 1: ain't taking me through shiit no more? Hear me that part.

1027
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 1: I don't like.

1028
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 3: That's what they were talking about, though. I think it

1029
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,320
Speaker 3: was sexual girl.

1030
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 1: I feel maybe we talked about this last week. I

1031
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 1: feel like, yeah, I saw this video.

1032
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 3: Where this grandma. He said, Grandma, what you think this

1033
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 3: all me?

1034
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 2: She said, I think it's about like when society and

1035
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 2: you're going through something, you have to go through it

1036
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,399
Speaker 2: and see it through to the other side, so God

1037
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 2: will take you through.

1038
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 3: There and see you through. I said, amen. I like

1039
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,879
Speaker 3: her interpretation. That's what I'm run away from now.

1040
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 2: On.

1041
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: But the knigga and a song said, we'll be going twins.

1042
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: So you don't even know where you're taking me. But

1043
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,839
Speaker 1: y'all want to be the fucking leader. See that. Listen,

1044
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 1: he's taking you through there, hell, taking you through hell. Okay,

1045
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:19,439
Speaker 1: and it starts with the dicking down. Okay, avoided that ship?

1046
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 3: Has y'all missed up? Trust me?

1047
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 2: I know?

1048
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

1049
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,399
Speaker 1: What I got for the last last thing?

1050
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1051
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 1: Is this something we can even do?

1052
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 2: It?

1053
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 1: Last last about it was fun? I guess. I don't know.

1054
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1055
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 3: I ain't got nothing choose wisely, that's all. I have

1056
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 3: nothing to offer.

1057
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:46,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all I got. Y'all like this, I'll sick, y'all. Shit, this,

1058
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:47,799
Speaker 1: this is what we're getting today. I need to go

1059
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,839
Speaker 1: get me a goddamn I ain't getting no flu shot.

1060
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 1: I need some herbs spices. See, I'll be healthy as

1061
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 1: long as I don't go around people. As soon as

1062
00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 1: I go outside a little bit too much. This what happened.

1063
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 3: It's everybody though.

1064
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: I'd rather stay in my house. I never call it

1065
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: call in my house.

1066
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:08,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, most people don't.

1067
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:12,560
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1069
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1071
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1073
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