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Speaker 1: Welcome everybody to the pre game program. Pre program, Aaron,
Speaker 1: are you still had the pre game from last night?
Speaker 1: This girl straight off of playing from New Orleans. That's funny.
Speaker 1: I am in Seattle. We will get into all that later.
Speaker 1: Right now, what's important is the questions you guys submit,
Speaker 1: and we love you for it. Yeah. So first things first,
Speaker 1: this one's for you, sister. Watch Me Tata, which first
Speaker 1: of all, is adorable, a playoff Watch Me Naine. The
Speaker 1: first time I've ever actually understood someone's name. I mean
Speaker 1: I thought Tata was Taylor Swift. That's adorable, very cute. Aaron,
Speaker 1: how were the tunes? Quote? I need the tunes in
Speaker 1: Nola amazing And I feel like one of my best
Speaker 1: friends wrote this. I know you didn't. Maybe Jillian did,
Speaker 1: or maybe mark Ingram or Cam Jordan where we sat
Speaker 1: there and talked about tunes last night after the game.
Speaker 1: Tunes for Fire, Naughty by Nature. I mean, it's always
Speaker 1: good New Orleans. Really, they have a DJ so to
Speaker 1: set this up for you guys. Each stadium I get
Speaker 1: excited for, especially Aaron, having been on the road much
Speaker 1: longer than I've been. You get excited because like Carolina,
Speaker 1: Aaron warn Me has a great like the DJ, there's fire,
Speaker 1: you get so excited. And that was in Philly. They
Speaker 1: were playing so much Taylor Swift when I was there
Speaker 1: for that pregame. So you get excited to go to
Speaker 1: different cities for various different reasons. Of course, teams, hotels
Speaker 1: and the quote tunes in the stadium. So do they
Speaker 1: have a DJ or is it just somebody in the
Speaker 1: good old press spot doing I don't know if they do,
Speaker 1: And forgive me if you are the DJ there and
Speaker 1: ri a calm down fan because it sounds like I
Speaker 1: need to calm down and pay attention. But it's always
Speaker 1: so loud. It was different, right doing a preseason game there,
Speaker 1: not as as crazy as it always is in the
Speaker 1: Caesar's Palace, super Dom, Welcome Back. Yeah, but the tunes
Speaker 1: are fire. Kevin was on one last night. He was amazing.
Speaker 1: He said, a couple ones that you love. They showed
Speaker 1: Willie Anderson Junior's mom dance and he goes, she loves
Speaker 1: the naughty by Nature and I loved him for that,
Speaker 1: and then another great one that I died for. I
Speaker 1: love a good play by play guy that gets a
Speaker 1: little like, you know, subtle. Yeah, we were showing highlights
Speaker 1: of Dimico. Ryan's talking about why he was so pumped
Speaker 1: to come to Houston, and he said excited a ton
Speaker 1: of times, which I do a lot, and Kevin goes
Speaker 1: Demiko Ryan's with the old Jesse Spano from Saved by
Speaker 1: the Bell where she's like, I'm so excited, I'm so
Speaker 1: I'm so scared. So good, Kevin. Those are the reference
Speaker 1: because it's if you get it, then you get it
Speaker 1: and we're ready. Yeah. One time Joe Buck did one
Speaker 1: I'll never forget. It was a one o'clock kick in Philly,
Speaker 1: and it just gets like, it's why he's so good.
Speaker 1: It came out of nowhere. He said, all right, and
Speaker 1: we are back, and to quote Ton Loke, let's do it.
Speaker 1: And they kicked the ball. It was awesome. I missed
Speaker 1: myself amazing. You know who was like that? Not in
Speaker 1: a play by play fashion, but Robert Flores on Sports
Speaker 1: Center was unbelievable. He would throw in these singers that
Speaker 1: you're just like, if you get so Brian McKnight, Okay,
Speaker 1: we all know R and B singer like back at one,
Speaker 1: like the whole thing whatever. He came out and I
Speaker 1: don't know where this cat had been in hiding. He
Speaker 1: came out with a song that was very inappropriate, very inappropriate,
Speaker 1: like I don't even know how it got clearance to
Speaker 1: like make it on the radio. Out of nowhere, Flores
Speaker 1: is doing a highlight. He's like, you know, three to
Speaker 1: two count, bottom of the ninth, anyone heard that new
Speaker 1: Brian McKnight song. It was so great and you know,
Speaker 1: we know the ESPN brass was not happy to ask.
Speaker 1: He got called into the principal's office real quick after
Speaker 1: that one, so so fun watch me Ta ta thank
Speaker 1: you for your submission, so cute. We're all out of
Speaker 1: time after that answer. Next, now we have an anonymous submission.
Speaker 1: This is new here on the pregame. Yah, you're allowed
Speaker 1: to submit anonymously, and we're getting some real good ones
Speaker 1: on that Filmore, we are caught a close friend cheating
Speaker 1: on their husband. Come front or stay quiet? I say,
Speaker 1: confront it, confront it all day because I have to.
Speaker 1: I think about if I'm on the other side of
Speaker 1: that and I find out later that my if you
Speaker 1: knew something, and this is I mean, I don't think
Speaker 1: there's anything specific, but like, if you know something that
Speaker 1: I should know, I would be so mad at you
Speaker 1: that you didn't tell me, even if it hurts my feelings,
Speaker 1: even if it's something that's going to like disrupt my life,
Speaker 1: I'll be more upset and question, Okay, so you're not
Speaker 1: a real friend if you don't tell me. So, yes,
Speaker 1: you need to tell because it's not your fault that
Speaker 1: this is happening. It'll be your fault if you don't
Speaker 1: say something right. Also, anonymous subission, I need more information.
Speaker 1: How did you find out what's going on? Here's the
Speaker 1: we need to follow up segment on all anonymous submissions
Speaker 1: because we still need a follow up on what happened
Speaker 1: with our last one. I know, Can you guys just
Speaker 1: get back to us. We want a relationship exactly exactly
Speaker 1: next one we have got again, I'm gonna screw this up.
Speaker 1: Change chanage chamazl. Have you two ever had a disagreement?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh pretty heat? I think yeah.
Speaker 1: We got fired up one time with each other, and
Speaker 1: the best part about it was the next night I
Speaker 1: had to host an event for the Aaron was the
Speaker 1: recipient for this Saint Jude's Incredible Person of the Year Award.
Speaker 1: She was the first female to ever receive this honor.
Speaker 1: For the past Summer All Award for Saint Jude. The
Speaker 1: night before there was a mother fucking each other, very
Speaker 1: prestigious honor, and we were going to town on each
Speaker 1: other the night before and basically unloading every thought we
Speaker 1: had on one another. And then the next night I
Speaker 1: get up and I was like, everyone puts your hands
Speaker 1: together for this very inspirational gal. But it was actually
Speaker 1: a great way to get over it because it made
Speaker 1: me realize that our friendship was strong enough to have
Speaker 1: that conversation. And then conversely, the next night truly like
Speaker 1: say everything that I love about Erin as well. So
Speaker 1: I think any good friendship or any good relationship should
Speaker 1: be able to have those kind of blow ups and
Speaker 1: then find resolution in it. So, yeah, we've had him.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Carol, Yeah, Carol Baldwin. Tips for skin breaking
Speaker 1: out with so much plane travel. I travel a lot
Speaker 1: for work too, and it kills me. Girl, I feel you,
Speaker 1: it's hard for me. Chrissa really makes an effort at
Speaker 1: the airport. I just try to wear a minimal makeup
Speaker 1: on a plane because it's just like you got to
Speaker 1: give your skin a break. Now, if you have to
Speaker 1: go to a meeting, maybe you could just do a
Speaker 1: little bit and then add it in the car. I
Speaker 1: know that's a pain in the ass, but I know
Speaker 1: I look like a nightmare for my crew, especially at
Speaker 1: five am this morning in the New Orleans airport. WHOA Hey,
Speaker 1: God concealer does a lot, but I just think you
Speaker 1: need to give your skin a break. Also, to Chris
Speaker 1: is great about taking showers seven times a day, Maybe
Speaker 1: try to wash your face when you get to the
Speaker 1: hotel or wherever you're traveling. To also keep your hands
Speaker 1: away from your face when you're traveling. Look, so couple
Speaker 1: things on this. It's well documented and spoken about on
Speaker 1: my end about my belts with acne. Twenty years of it,
Speaker 1: ten decades, ten decades, two decades worth of acne. Divide
Speaker 1: by white numbers. Never everyone see that show. No, the
Speaker 1: numbers didn't lie. No one watched that show. Where's Michael Smith?
Speaker 1: Get off your laptop? I think this. I used to everyone,
Speaker 1: grab a mit because the balls are flying. I don't
Speaker 1: need balls flying at my face. What was that, froud
Speaker 1: she s from? What was that from? Clueless? Yeah? That
Speaker 1: one's balls flying. It's a very expensive good good good.
Speaker 1: So back to the originally scheduled program and answer to
Speaker 1: the question. I used to want to be cute all
Speaker 1: the time, Like I'm gonna put on heels and walk
Speaker 1: through the airport and be adorable, and like I just
Speaker 1: did an interview, so I have a full face and makeup.
Speaker 1: This face would have went to the airport in this
Speaker 1: because I was trying to be adorable and look for
Speaker 1: my soulmate. Now this gets scrubbed off as soon as
Speaker 1: this podcast is over. Full on serum serum, serum serum
Speaker 1: slathered on the face, and comfortable clothes. So to Aaron's point,
Speaker 1: it's time. It's time to relinquish. And also I feel
Speaker 1: like I look older with a lot of makeup on,
Speaker 1: So I'm getting into the lessons more and probably should
Speaker 1: have done it like ten years ago. So oh my god.
Speaker 1: On our full length podcast that is released on Thursdays
Speaker 1: for those of you that need a schedule album drop,
Speaker 1: I want to discuss shorts on a plane, not to
Speaker 1: be confused with snakes on a plane. Writing it down,
Speaker 1: Shorts on a plane, I Q because you've got that voice.
Speaker 1: Note I left you when we were talking about it.
Speaker 1: Put some clothes on. Put some clothes on, right now,
Speaker 1: put some clothes on, Carol Paul twin tips. Oh, sorry,
Speaker 1: that's fine. That's I'm following along, Jill hand. What is
Speaker 1: the hardest part of your job? Go forty? This is it?
Speaker 1: The next day? Four thirty, wake up, six thirty, flight home. Yeah,
Speaker 1: slept three and a half hours on the plane with
Speaker 1: my neck all jacked up. But now trying to function
Speaker 1: and you feel like shit all day. Well, I only
Speaker 1: have two days at home. Well, I really have a
Speaker 1: day and a half before I have to go back
Speaker 1: on the road. So this is kind of it. You know.
Speaker 1: Somebody asked me, are you going to take a nap? Nap? Nap?
Speaker 1: You're tired, You take a nap, You don't move to napa?
Speaker 1: Is Mac taking an app right now? I missed a book.
Speaker 1: He is taking a nap. It was nice to come
Speaker 1: home and see him. This was my first time away.
Speaker 1: We can talk about that on the full length writing
Speaker 1: it down We're going to because that was one of
Speaker 1: my questions to you that I was thinking about you
Speaker 1: this morning. Where what a crazy journey of like the
Speaker 1: twenty years you've worked in the industry, twenty five years,
Speaker 1: whatever number we're at that this is the first time
Speaker 1: you were going to come home to a smash. So
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear your thoughts on that and
Speaker 1: everything else in between. Okay, last question is uh, yay kay.
Speaker 1: Are you fans of Miley Cyrus? I am a fan.
Speaker 1: I don't want to say like I'm not not a
Speaker 1: fan of Miley Cyrus. I don't know a ton of
Speaker 1: her music. I know when Aaron starts singing it, or
Speaker 1: the one from the photo shoot that you were like
Speaker 1: really into. Remember, I remember you were sitting down for
Speaker 1: a DK Metcalf interview oh a years ago, and it
Speaker 1: was like this hot song and she was like listening
Speaker 1: to it on repeat and ended up using it in
Speaker 1: the feature and the whole thing. I like anyone that's authentic,
Speaker 1: and so she falls under that category. She's unapologetic. She's
Speaker 1: had a lot of different versions of herself, and I
Speaker 1: like someone that can also write a song that gets
Speaker 1: back at their X so flowers to you. I can't
Speaker 1: be changed. That's so long ago. I like her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's good. I can't imagine not having a relationship with
Speaker 1: Liam Hemsworth not work out I would have done anything
Speaker 1: for that to work out, Not to be with him,
Speaker 1: but I would do anything me love. But I won't
Speaker 1: do what won't do? That video? What won't he do?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but that video was unbelievable on the motors.
Speaker 1: But what will he not do? I'll tell you what
Speaker 1: we're not gonna do. Keep going on on this prey
Speaker 1: game because we've got a lot more material where this
Speaker 1: is coming from. Grab your coffee cocktails, Stay with us.
Speaker 1: The Fall Length podcast is this Thursday, and air is
Speaker 1: straight off the road and has stories already. I am
Speaker 1: on the road and flight's been canceled, makeup and tack
Speaker 1: and I did something in an interview that I've never
Speaker 1: done before. That's a tease in the biz. Stay with
Speaker 1: and she's on one right now and she is nasy
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Speaker 1: is our pregame. Welcome to the pregame. Guys, will calm down.
Speaker 1: We were just discussing when we came on air. You
Speaker 1: heard me were live when we came on air. What
Speaker 1: our mothers would call for ninety eight point seven sports
Speaker 1: talk radio would be live on air. We take callers
Speaker 1: all day, every day Pin ninety five is jammed. We
Speaker 1: suggest you look into I seventy five. What was I
Speaker 1: gonna say? We were talking about what our mothers would
Speaker 1: call it when our dads would excuse themselves and go
Speaker 1: use the restroom. My dad, Avid, Boston Red Sox fan,
Speaker 1: would call it dad's gone to go think about the
Speaker 1: Red Sox. Would your mom say anything or your dad's
Speaker 1: just in the bathroom? No? Neia is. This conversation was
Speaker 1: because last week Aaron said, when I was reading the paper,
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're not reading the paper. You're reading your
Speaker 1: phone or your iPad is what you're reading. But I said,
Speaker 1: what was it back in the day that dads would
Speaker 1: always grab the sports pages and be in the bathroom
Speaker 1: for hours on end. It's like blowing out the place,
Speaker 1: and it's like light a candle doesn't happen anymore. Those
Speaker 1: were the good old days, you know. Uh, Welcome to
Speaker 1: the podcast. The pregame that is for those of you
Speaker 1: new to this segment because you saw our critically acclaimed
Speaker 1: five top rookies and decided to tune in for the
Speaker 1: first time. Hey, this is where we answer your guys's
Speaker 1: questions and we appreciate all of you that submit. Remember
Speaker 1: you can submit anonymously if you don't want to be
Speaker 1: linked to us or this podcast. Boop Go girl. I
Speaker 1: actually want to send one in anonymously. Have we talked
Speaker 1: about that. It's for something that's going on in our
Speaker 1: friend group, but it's oh, for one of my friends.
Speaker 1: Now you're getting it away. I want to send it in,
Speaker 1: I asked jar me. He goes, don't do it. You're ridiculous.
Speaker 1: You want to send it in anonymously, but you just
Speaker 1: told on yourself. Can't wait to read that anonymous question? God,
Speaker 1: do you want to also include her name? Starts with
Speaker 1: a C and ends with an A. Anyways, it's not
Speaker 1: this friend group, it's another friend group. I don't have
Speaker 1: any other friends, so this is the only group I got,
Speaker 1: which means you wouldn't know how to answer this question
Speaker 1: from anonymous. Tips to meet friends in a new city,
Speaker 1: we don't have to. I do need the well, I
Speaker 1: need the new I need the answer to this question here.
Speaker 1: I'll say this, I've moved a lot. Tips to me.
Speaker 1: I would always always I'm a gal that loves does
Speaker 1: saddle up and eat dinner at a bar, so I
Speaker 1: think that's always a good way to meet people and
Speaker 1: talk to people because usually people that sit at a
Speaker 1: bar aren't sitting or usually sitting alone, or there's only
Speaker 1: a couple of them. That's why you're not sitting at
Speaker 1: a table. So I think going to the alone, like
Speaker 1: especially on the road, if I have to get work done,
Speaker 1: I like it me too. I got no problem with that.
Speaker 1: But it's a very social place, a water cooler with
Speaker 1: a stool or a counters whatever stool if you will.
Speaker 1: So what else to meet friends in a new city.
Speaker 1: I think it's cool to I've never done this, but
Speaker 1: I've heard about people that do this, like joining a
Speaker 1: softball team or soccer team or different things like that.
Speaker 1: And I think New York has a pretty good like
Speaker 1: older you know, like crowd kind of vibe in that way.
Speaker 1: Sometimes too, you catch somebody's eye and classes maybe she
Speaker 1: thinks I'm really good at doing this like whole like
Speaker 1: set or this whole I do. I want people around
Speaker 1: me to think I'm good and not bad. So I
Speaker 1: feel like there's a lot of pressure. Sometimes that's good
Speaker 1: motivation that you're doing it for the gals or guys
Speaker 1: in class, to catch their eye, you know what I mean. Oh,
Speaker 1: go ahead, jesus, what was that Tourette's Anna Marie Gamy,
Speaker 1: do y'all wish you could switch places? You're horrible with
Speaker 1: the y'all's. This is I say, y'all, and I have
Speaker 1: no business saying y'all. I never lived in the South. Hey,
Speaker 1: I lived in Tennessee for about five seconds, and that's
Speaker 1: not even like the real self. Probably offended everyone in Tennessee.
Speaker 1: But you know what I mean. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You say y'all, You have every right to say that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but our four day stafford say y'all, so we got
Speaker 1: it from them, so it's fine. I just love when
Speaker 1: those girls say yes, ma'am. Four are so sweet, No, sir,
Speaker 1: switching places places. I want to talk about this on
Speaker 1: the Big Show because I got to visit you guys
Speaker 1: in the studio again this week. It was so much fun.
Speaker 1: There's so many stories to tell about it. Yes, certain
Speaker 1: things I wish I could do in studio. You never
Speaker 1: affected like this week in Cleveland. It's supposed to be
Speaker 1: fifty to sixty chance of rain like shit like that
Speaker 1: just ruins a whole like fucking four hours for me.
Speaker 1: But I can't walk around in those heels as you
Speaker 1: saw me. I was totally barefoot in the studio yesterday
Speaker 1: because they can't do it. But the camaraderie is so
Speaker 1: much fun. It's a great scene. Like it's just I
Speaker 1: but it's just so. You want me to correct you
Speaker 1: on the camaraderie or is it to go ahead and
Speaker 1: say do you say? How do you say it? No?
Speaker 1: Try it? Camaraderie, camaraderie. Oh but that's okay. We'll get
Speaker 1: a chakrederie board later. How did the Jets players say it? Now?
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's well, that's yeah. Anyways, it was
Speaker 1: so bad, but it was so great at the same time. Camaraderie, camaraderie, camaraderie.
Speaker 1: Alvin Camara Kamara. And that's what I got to get
Speaker 1: Alvin Kamara online one because now I'm all messed up.
Speaker 1: I've been saying Alvin Kamara for the last few years,
Speaker 1: but now I heard It'smara. And then it's like, is
Speaker 1: it Devon, a Chane or a Chan. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of things. Is it Rihanna or Rihanna? I want to know.
Speaker 1: I want to get to the bottom of all of this,
Speaker 1: but we only have so much fun here. In the game.
Speaker 1: What's my name? There? You go, push you off? That's good,
Speaker 1: good camaraderie. Hey, okay, Tyler Millett, do you see yourself
Speaker 1: ever coaching your child sports teams? Well, I'm never having children,
Speaker 1: so let's direct this question to mac Roger Stole's mother
Speaker 1: coach no attend Yes, probably daddy will coach his sports teams.
Speaker 1: But that's so cute. Yeah, I can't wait. Really good?
Speaker 1: Can you imagine you as the coach out there? You
Speaker 1: can start yelling at the kid and then be in
Speaker 1: trouble from like one of the twelve parents, like, well,
Speaker 1: your kid's a loser, so he shouldn't be he has
Speaker 1: no camaraderie. He wouldn't no camaraderie if it bit him
Speaker 1: in the face. Next, go, You're up book and French
Speaker 1: best book you've ever read, Babysitters Club, you forgot the
Speaker 1: r Brooke and French best book You've ever read? Best
Speaker 1: book you No, we haven't been drinking, but it feels
Speaker 1: like I'm we're gonna be drinking later. Pet Cemetery or
Speaker 1: Salem's Lot. So good. You want to include James and
Speaker 1: the Giant Peach. What reading lists are you on? Third grade? No, Hey,
Speaker 1: that's actually King. Oh my god, John Grisham was sold out.
Speaker 1: You had to go Stephen King. Oh my god. I'll
Speaker 1: tell you how I got the job at ESPN. It
Speaker 1: was because of the last book I read, and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell that story. Whoa no it is, Anna karinanav
Speaker 1: big Tolstoy fan. I read a book that was way
Speaker 1: above my pay grade and intellect, and I don't know
Speaker 1: why I read it, probably to try to sound smarter,
Speaker 1: and it had just so happened that I finished reading it.
Speaker 1: So I walked into the one of the patriarchs of
Speaker 1: the ESPN establishment, John Walsh, and he was an avid reader.
Speaker 1: And one of his questions, unbeknownst to me, what was
Speaker 1: the last book you read? And I had an answer
Speaker 1: that got me the job. So I'll tell that story
Speaker 1: on the Big Show because it's actually a good lesson
Speaker 1: for all you kids out there, all of you that
Speaker 1: are listening, not my kids. Last question, girl, what do
Speaker 1: we got mac with this? Kay Morgan? Thirty eight? How
Speaker 1: many dates before going exclusive is discussed? Oh? I like
Speaker 1: this one. I like this guy. Second, you think that
Speaker 1: exclusive means you're gonna have no more dates? Because they're
Speaker 1: gonna run for the hills. That's true, that's true. But
Speaker 1: this is so interesting. I'm someone that clearly uh track
Speaker 1: record would support falls in love and very quickly because
Speaker 1: I love love. But I don't know. I think that
Speaker 1: it's tough. It's if you guys both are feeling it
Speaker 1: like be exclusive. But that's a tough conversation to have
Speaker 1: because it depends on the age, it depends on the circumstances.
Speaker 1: I don't have a definitive answer for that, but I
Speaker 1: would say go off of feeling. And if he I
Speaker 1: don't know, what's a good way to throw it out there.
Speaker 1: You can't be like, what are we doing? I mean,
Speaker 1: that's just yeah, what do we do? Where's the where's
Speaker 1: the white flag? A port mission? Port mission? On that one,
Speaker 1: you can't ask those questions. I say, it's a feeling.
Speaker 1: Oh what a feeling? Yeah? All right. We have a
Speaker 1: lot to discuss on the Big Show. For those of
Speaker 1: you guys that are new to the program. Aaron referred
Speaker 1: to it one week and it has stuck. So Thursday,
Speaker 1: our Big Show episode will come out. We got to
Speaker 1: talk about week five, We got to talk about Aaron's
Speaker 1: home game, all the things that happened in studio, the
Speaker 1: fun that was had having dinner with Big Copy and
Speaker 1: Derek Jeter. Come on a dinner a maid not to
Speaker 1: be confused with the Last Supper, but lots to discuss.
Speaker 1: Join us then remember submit all questions, comments and concern
Speaker 1: to the Calm Down Podcast. We appreciate you guys caring
Speaker 1: and I can't wait for Aaron's not anonymous question next week.
Speaker 1: I can't wait for your concern to be how I
Speaker 1: pronounce words, camaraderie line, We're wait God, I never give
Speaker 1: it a whirl, see how it goes. Welcome everybody to
Speaker 1: the Calm Down Podcast. This is the pregame of your program.
Speaker 1: As I initial these things, you guys writing questions, comments
Speaker 1: and concerns. Remember you can do them anonymously, which I like.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll start submitting questions anonymously. You won't know it's me.
Speaker 1: I don't know. See what happens you start from me.
Speaker 1: I told you I had a question I wanted answered.
Speaker 1: I'll never heal anything from you. And now I was
Speaker 1: gonna say you never submitted that because there was definitely
Speaker 1: more questions than answers in that situation. Offline, terrible all right,
Speaker 1: you guys. First things first, Oh, this is cute ak
Speaker 1: eight to oh. One favorite board game. My favorite board
Speaker 1: game is Clue. It always has been. I still have
Speaker 1: a dream. Oh okay, well, then you won't be coming
Speaker 1: to the Clue party that I want. I want, I'm
Speaker 1: not good at it. Okay, Well, what I've always wanted
Speaker 1: to do is have a Clue party and real life
Speaker 1: and everyone dresses up. Is one of the characters Colonel Mustard,
Speaker 1: Missus Plumb, Missus Scarlett, missus why whatever, and then you
Speaker 1: have a murder mystery party. I think it would be
Speaker 1: so fun. I love this game, although I was always
Speaker 1: perturbed that you had to have at least three players
Speaker 1: because no one ever wanted to play. Clearly, you won't
Speaker 1: be playing with me, so three players loved it. Second
Speaker 1: runner up is Shoots and Ladders. Go. I was gonna
Speaker 1: say Shoots and Ladders, but I have a question. In Clue,
Speaker 1: there's a character named Colonel Mustard. Yes he is, as
Speaker 1: you can assume the Mustard year of the Little Piece. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: Colonel Mustard in the Conservatory with the wrench classic character.
Speaker 1: What's a conservatory? Okay, she's not playing. Conservatory is one
Speaker 1: of the rooms where you can do you know what
Speaker 1: a wrench is, I'm gonna yeah, And I don't know
Speaker 1: what a conservatory is. Is that where nuns are? No,
Speaker 1: that's a convent. Oh yeah, oh yeah, okay, I'm fresh
Speaker 1: off of light from Philadelphia. She is, and we will
Speaker 1: talk about that on our folding podcast. This one had
Speaker 1: the game of the year last year and there were
Speaker 1: a fight and all sorts of things figuring it out
Speaker 1: in my face get your eat with a slick pony.
Speaker 1: Well it's slipped back because it still looks like crap
Speaker 1: from yesterday where it was raining and missing the whole time.
Speaker 1: And I just clearly said, you know what, the fact
Speaker 1: we don't have hair out on the road, this is
Speaker 1: exactly why, because this hair looks crazy. Well, I'm going
Speaker 1: to save this for the full length podcast because you
Speaker 1: also don't realize that the second that your camera goes up,
Speaker 1: we hear everything and and see everything you do. So
Speaker 1: would you were like, I look like a wet talk
Speaker 1: this is crazy. There was like my things, I wanted
Speaker 1: to text you, but you were going to go into
Speaker 1: your hit. So I was like, I'm just going to
Speaker 1: lay out on this one. I said, crazy. The comedy
Speaker 1: is in the ship that you say before sometimes during yesterday,
Speaker 1: which by the way, Cherry's like, oh, you've got jokes.
Speaker 1: I like the theatrics, and I'm like, no, that's just
Speaker 1: Aaron doing a report like a normal person and having
Speaker 1: person not politary. Okay, I digress. Yeah, we'll talk about
Speaker 1: this on the full at the game seven hours before
Speaker 1: I needed to. We'll talk about that. I'm writing it
Speaker 1: down being at the game seven hours before I need to. Okay. Anonymous,
Speaker 1: we love Anonymous, keep coming. We won't say who you
Speaker 1: are because we don't know it's anonymous. My best friends
Speaker 1: and I hate one of our friend's boyfriends. Ooh, he
Speaker 1: can't hold a job, very negative and picky, and even
Speaker 1: got them to spend thousands on a dog that he
Speaker 1: takes no part of. We've noticed he influenced her, influences
Speaker 1: her to make bad financial decisions, even though she used
Speaker 1: to be very financially smart. They've been dating for about
Speaker 1: five years. Should we talk to her? Yes? Was this
Speaker 1: commission by you from previous boyfriends of mine? Because there's
Speaker 1: a lot of boxes that were checked off here of
Speaker 1: various people in my past. Why was it taking you
Speaker 1: five years to talk to her. That's crazy and I'm
Speaker 1: sure she probably knows you don't like him anyways. What's
Speaker 1: wrong with her? Doesn't she want to save her money
Speaker 1: financial decisions? Does he have a job? Oh? No, he
Speaker 1: can't hold a job. Yes, I think you bring it
Speaker 1: up to her. This is I'm going to talk to
Speaker 1: you missus or missus anonymous, miss anonymous and from mix
Speaker 1: and grab some hummus because this is going to be
Speaker 1: a minute. I have been on this side of it,
Speaker 1: and my lovely co hosts and girlfriend Aaron on the
Speaker 1: side told me a lot of things about my current
Speaker 1: or not current, my previous situations and brought to light
Speaker 1: things that I did not want to see I chose
Speaker 1: to ignore even if I knew they were there. She
Speaker 1: put a spotlight on them all. And as hard as
Speaker 1: it is to hear it, especially from the people that
Speaker 1: you love, they are saying it because they love you
Speaker 1: and they want the best for you. So I think
Speaker 1: you're doing your friend a complete disservice by not being
Speaker 1: totally honest with her about this, and especially if she
Speaker 1: keeps complaining about the same thing over and over again.
Speaker 1: I'm going through this with some friends right now where
Speaker 1: it's like I hear the same thing over and over again,
Speaker 1: and finally I'm like, change it. Because I'm someone who
Speaker 1: if there's a problem you are you told me this,
Speaker 1: I know because you've been busy. That's an anonymous submission.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm having a mid life crisis. We'll talk
Speaker 1: about that in the big show. We got to we'll
Speaker 1: talk about all really yeah, because it's like I can't.
Speaker 1: I'm someone who will have I'll give you a lot
Speaker 1: of runway, but then once we're off that runway, it's
Speaker 1: the end of a cliff and I can't keep endorsing
Speaker 1: or supporting the same narrative. I've read the same chapter
Speaker 1: of your book over and over and over again, and
Speaker 1: I'm bored. I'm putting the book down and you come
Speaker 1: back to me when you want to write the next chapter,
Speaker 1: because this is boring and I just want my friends
Speaker 1: to be happy. So unless you want to make a change,
Speaker 1: and I'm saying this to the anonymous friend or the
Speaker 1: friends that I have, unless you want to make a change,
Speaker 1: like then it's going to be the same shit over
Speaker 1: and over again. So I will say this long, winted answer,
Speaker 1: but I'm not sticking up for your anonymous friend, which
Speaker 1: I can't wait till your anonymous friend submits a question
Speaker 1: to ask about you. I had this friend and she
Speaker 1: hosts a podcast, and now she just talks about me publicly.
Speaker 1: Oh so you anonymous. I want to bring up one
Speaker 1: thing that you said to me about when I, you know,
Speaker 1: approached you about what was happening in your life. I
Speaker 1: thought it was really interesting, you said. I always knew it,
Speaker 1: but I just didn't want to put that attention that
Speaker 1: kind of I didn't want to face it because I
Speaker 1: had failed before in another marriage. And as simple as
Speaker 1: that sounds, I just I fucking got it. And I
Speaker 1: felt bad that I didn't see it that way. But
Speaker 1: then I was like, all right, come on, we got
Speaker 1: to get out of this, like this is so unhealthy. No,
Speaker 1: you were my harshest critic, and I say this because
Speaker 1: in life you are my harshest friend. And you have
Speaker 1: also and that's a good thing, because you will tell
Speaker 1: me truths that a lot of people are probably afraid
Speaker 1: to say or don't want to hurt my feelings or
Speaker 1: don't want to you know whatever. Put that on me.
Speaker 1: But you have also pushed me to make the best
Speaker 1: decisions in my life because of your honesty. So it'll
Speaker 1: make me emotional thinking about it. But like, if I
Speaker 1: don't get that from you, then I really don't get
Speaker 1: it from a lot of people because it's you just
Speaker 1: put you know some of our friends that do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you and you are and so it's it's the best
Speaker 1: and the worst thing in the moment because you're like puck,
Speaker 1: She's right, But a really good friend will say things
Speaker 1: that you don't always want to hear, but you need
Speaker 1: to hear. So to miss anonymy, I need to hear
Speaker 1: who you're talking about, but we won't because that person's anonymous.
Speaker 1: Oh god, probably lessame, probably not anyways, Okay, but yes,
Speaker 1: go ahead and tell your friend if you're a real friend.
Speaker 1: And by the way, and I will say this too,
Speaker 1: because this is the last part on this and I
Speaker 1: could do a whole podcast just on friends and this
Speaker 1: very top topic. Oh, time's up. I would say, be
Speaker 1: prepared for her to get mad. And if if it
Speaker 1: hurts your friendship, then you had probably didn't have the
Speaker 1: friendship that you thought that you had, and that's where
Speaker 1: you kind of need to be like, all right, I'm
Speaker 1: willing to like lose this person as a friend, or
Speaker 1: lose the like you know, closeness of the friend if
Speaker 1: she can't handle it, because that's just what comes with
Speaker 1: the territory. Oh coh, my girl comes for all your
Speaker 1: so a really light calm down today, you know, Okay Morefielder,
Speaker 1: Oh this is great. This is for you, sister. Expecting
Speaker 1: my first baby in eight weeks and freaking out tips
Speaker 1: for newborn live my mommy, you should have, you should be.
Speaker 1: This is the wrong week to ask me. I'll preview
Speaker 1: it for the big show. I had my first big
Speaker 1: like panic anxiety, chest pains like week and just tough. Oh,
Speaker 1: so must be good for you. Yeah, enjoy these next
Speaker 1: eight weeks because after your kid comes, it's never going
Speaker 1: to be the same. Make sure you've got everything done
Speaker 1: on your checklist. Make sure you have everybody in order
Speaker 1: that you want coming and helping you out, because I'm
Speaker 1: I obviously didn't physically have my baby, but once your
Speaker 1: baby comes there your world is upside down. So just
Speaker 1: make sure you get your plans in order now and
Speaker 1: enjoy the qt time with your partner because it's over.
Speaker 1: It must have been love, but it's Jared. That's a
Speaker 1: dedication to you. No, we're not getting divorced. God, Oh gosh, Jesus,
Speaker 1: this is the time, and you have got on a
Speaker 1: calm down sweatshirt. Okay, next question? Oh yeah, okay. Knitter
Speaker 1: Bath five oh nine. Travis and Taylor is still loving
Speaker 1: it or over it? I love it? I still love it,
Speaker 1: to be honest, I am really into this song right now,
Speaker 1: Like I think about it when I'm trying to go
Speaker 1: to sleep. Let's be June, three hundred days ago. Is
Speaker 1: it over now? Julian Gregory, our resident makeup artist, had
Speaker 1: a great song. Hey, why didn't that song slap when
Speaker 1: she first released it? Like it slaps? Now? Why is
Speaker 1: that so popular? Nalaps? Yeah? I don't know, but I'm
Speaker 1: into them. Still do your thing, guys, I will tell
Speaker 1: you this right now. Here's a fun fact. And no
Speaker 1: this isn't a plug for the podcast, but probably about
Speaker 1: the last three weeks I have listened to You Need
Speaker 1: to Calm Down on my way into work in the
Speaker 1: morning at four thirty am because it just puts me
Speaker 1: in the right headspace where she's like, it's seven am,
Speaker 1: Like you're being so loud. I'm like, this is how
Speaker 1: I felt about everyone in life. And I'm like, it
Speaker 1: is too early, it is too much. If you don't
Speaker 1: like it, just leave me alone and calm the fuck down.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I blast that thing going down Pico Boulevard
Speaker 1: with my coffee, and he starts my day off right,
Speaker 1: and I whip on into that Fox lot and I
Speaker 1: am just as happy as can be knowing that she
Speaker 1: has set the Littles backtrack background and soundtrack to my
Speaker 1: life and listen, I know we're going over. But I
Speaker 1: got a little intel this weekend from some wags out
Speaker 1: in Philly. Not ego, I'm not saying they're forty nine
Speaker 1: ers wags, I'm not going to tell you who they are,
Speaker 1: but saw some NFL wags. Yeah, no, they're NFL. And
Speaker 1: I somebody asked in front of me if what the
Speaker 1: gals on their team thought, and they were like, love it,
Speaker 1: adorable and they were like, you know why, because that's
Speaker 1: a man. And she's oh, here's a good one. Here's
Speaker 1: a good take from an NFL wag, which I loved.
Speaker 1: She said this for the first time publicly. It seems
Speaker 1: like she's with a guy that's not like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm with Taylor, don't take my picture. I'm at the concert.
Speaker 1: She's with a guy that's wall Street. You oh h
Speaker 1: oh oh oh. Yeah, I'm into it all. I'm into
Speaker 1: it all. Yeah, into it all. Mention it all. And
Speaker 1: speaking of mentioning, we've got a lot to mention, discuss,
Speaker 1: and break down on the full length podcast. I have
Speaker 1: a feeling and I get a good feeling about something.
Speaker 1: You're not going to want to miss this one. A
Speaker 1: lot to discuss Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is
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