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Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 1: Welcome everybody to the pre game program. Pre program, Aaron,

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Speaker 1: are you still had the pre game from last night?

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Speaker 1: This girl straight off of playing from New Orleans. That's funny.

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Speaker 1: I am in Seattle. We will get into all that later.

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Speaker 1: Right now, what's important is the questions you guys submit,

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Speaker 1: and we love you for it. Yeah. So first things first,

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Speaker 1: this one's for you, sister. Watch Me Tata, which first

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Speaker 1: of all, is adorable, a playoff Watch Me Naine. The

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Speaker 1: first time I've ever actually understood someone's name. I mean

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Speaker 1: I thought Tata was Taylor Swift. That's adorable, very cute. Aaron,

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Speaker 1: how were the tunes? Quote? I need the tunes in

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Speaker 1: Nola amazing And I feel like one of my best

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Speaker 1: friends wrote this. I know you didn't. Maybe Jillian did,

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Speaker 1: or maybe mark Ingram or Cam Jordan where we sat

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Speaker 1: there and talked about tunes last night after the game.

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Speaker 1: Tunes for Fire, Naughty by Nature. I mean, it's always

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Speaker 1: good New Orleans. Really, they have a DJ so to

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Speaker 1: set this up for you guys. Each stadium I get

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Speaker 1: excited for, especially Aaron, having been on the road much

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Speaker 1: longer than I've been. You get excited because like Carolina,

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Speaker 1: Aaron warn Me has a great like the DJ, there's fire,

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Speaker 1: you get so excited. And that was in Philly. They

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Speaker 1: were playing so much Taylor Swift when I was there

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Speaker 1: for that pregame. So you get excited to go to

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Speaker 1: different cities for various different reasons. Of course, teams, hotels

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Speaker 1: and the quote tunes in the stadium. So do they

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Speaker 1: have a DJ or is it just somebody in the

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Speaker 1: good old press spot doing I don't know if they do,

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Speaker 1: And forgive me if you are the DJ there and

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Speaker 1: ri a calm down fan because it sounds like I

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Speaker 1: need to calm down and pay attention. But it's always

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Speaker 1: so loud. It was different, right doing a preseason game there,

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Speaker 1: not as as crazy as it always is in the

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Speaker 1: Caesar's Palace, super Dom, Welcome Back. Yeah, but the tunes

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Speaker 1: are fire. Kevin was on one last night. He was amazing.

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Speaker 1: He said, a couple ones that you love. They showed

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Speaker 1: Willie Anderson Junior's mom dance and he goes, she loves

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Speaker 1: the naughty by Nature and I loved him for that,

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Speaker 1: and then another great one that I died for. I

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Speaker 1: love a good play by play guy that gets a

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Speaker 1: little like, you know, subtle. Yeah, we were showing highlights

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Speaker 1: of Dimico. Ryan's talking about why he was so pumped

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Speaker 1: to come to Houston, and he said excited a ton

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Speaker 1: of times, which I do a lot, and Kevin goes

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Speaker 1: Demiko Ryan's with the old Jesse Spano from Saved by

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Speaker 1: the Bell where she's like, I'm so excited, I'm so

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Speaker 1: I'm so scared. So good, Kevin. Those are the reference

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Speaker 1: and we're ready. Yeah. One time Joe Buck did one

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Speaker 1: I'll never forget. It was a one o'clock kick in Philly,

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Speaker 1: and it just gets like, it's why he's so good.

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Speaker 1: It came out of nowhere. He said, all right, and

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Speaker 1: we are back, and to quote Ton Loke, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: And they kicked the ball. It was awesome. I missed

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Speaker 1: myself amazing. You know who was like that? Not in

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Speaker 1: Center was unbelievable. He would throw in these singers that

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Speaker 1: you're just like, if you get so Brian McKnight, Okay,

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Speaker 1: we all know R and B singer like back at one,

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Speaker 1: don't know where this cat had been in hiding. He

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Speaker 1: came out with a song that was very inappropriate, very inappropriate,

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Speaker 1: Brian McKnight song. It was so great and you know,

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Speaker 1: we know the ESPN brass was not happy to ask.

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Speaker 1: He got called into the principal's office real quick after

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Speaker 1: that one, so so fun watch me Ta ta thank

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Speaker 1: you for your submission, so cute. We're all out of

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Speaker 1: time after that answer. Next, now we have an anonymous submission.

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Speaker 1: This is new here on the pregame. Yah, you're allowed

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Speaker 1: to submit anonymously, and we're getting some real good ones

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Speaker 1: on that Filmore, we are caught a close friend cheating

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Speaker 1: on their husband. Come front or stay quiet? I say,

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Speaker 1: confront it, confront it all day because I have to.

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Speaker 1: I should know, I would be so mad at you

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Speaker 1: even if it's something that's going to like disrupt my life,

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Speaker 1: I'll be more upset and question, Okay, so you're not

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Speaker 1: say something right. Also, anonymous subission, I need more information.

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Speaker 1: How did you find out what's going on? Here's the

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Speaker 1: we need to follow up segment on all anonymous submissions

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Speaker 1: because we still need a follow up on what happened

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Speaker 1: with our last one. I know, Can you guys just

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Speaker 1: get back to us. We want a relationship exactly exactly

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Speaker 1: next one we have got again, I'm gonna screw this up.

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Speaker 1: Change chanage chamazl. Have you two ever had a disagreement?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh pretty heat? I think yeah.

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Speaker 1: We got fired up one time with each other, and

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Speaker 1: the best part about it was the next night I

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Speaker 1: had to host an event for the Aaron was the

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Speaker 1: recipient for this Saint Jude's Incredible Person of the Year Award.

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Speaker 1: She was the first female to ever receive this honor.

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Speaker 1: For the past Summer All Award for Saint Jude. The

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Speaker 1: night before there was a mother fucking each other, very

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Speaker 1: prestigious honor, and we were going to town on each

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Speaker 1: other the night before and basically unloading every thought we

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Speaker 1: get up and I was like, everyone puts your hands

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Speaker 1: together for this very inspirational gal. But it was actually

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Speaker 1: a great way to get over it because it made

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Speaker 1: me realize that our friendship was strong enough to have

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Speaker 1: that conversation. And then conversely, the next night truly like

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Speaker 1: say everything that I love about Erin as well. So

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Speaker 1: I think any good friendship or any good relationship should

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Speaker 1: be able to have those kind of blow ups and

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Speaker 1: then find resolution in it. So, yeah, we've had him.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Carol, Yeah, Carol Baldwin. Tips for skin breaking

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Speaker 1: it's hard for me. Chrissa really makes an effort at

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Speaker 1: the airport. I just try to wear a minimal makeup

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Speaker 1: give your skin a break. Now, if you have to

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Speaker 1: know that's a pain in the ass, but I know

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Speaker 1: I look like a nightmare for my crew, especially at

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Speaker 1: five am this morning in the New Orleans airport. WHOA Hey,

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Speaker 1: God concealer does a lot, but I just think you

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Speaker 1: need to give your skin a break. Also, to Chris

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Speaker 1: away from your face when you're traveling. Look, so couple

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Speaker 1: things on this. It's well documented and spoken about on

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Speaker 1: my end about my belts with acne. Twenty years of it,

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Speaker 1: ten decades, ten decades, two decades worth of acne. Divide

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Speaker 1: by white numbers. Never everyone see that show. No, the

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Speaker 1: numbers didn't lie. No one watched that show. Where's Michael Smith?

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Speaker 1: Get off your laptop? I think this. I used to everyone,

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Speaker 1: grab a mit because the balls are flying. I don't

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Speaker 1: did an interview, so I have a full face and makeup.

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Speaker 1: This face would have went to the airport in this

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Speaker 1: because I was trying to be adorable and look for

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Speaker 1: my soulmate. Now this gets scrubbed off as soon as

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Speaker 1: this podcast is over. Full on serum serum, serum serum

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Speaker 1: So I'm getting into the lessons more and probably should

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Speaker 1: On our full length podcast that is released on Thursdays

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Speaker 1: for those of you that need a schedule album drop,

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Speaker 1: I want to discuss shorts on a plane, not to

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Speaker 1: be confused with snakes on a plane. Writing it down,

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Speaker 1: Shorts on a plane, I Q because you've got that voice.

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Speaker 1: Note I left you when we were talking about it.

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Speaker 1: Put some clothes on. Put some clothes on, right now,

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Speaker 1: put some clothes on, Carol Paul twin tips. Oh, sorry,

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Speaker 1: that's fine. That's I'm following along, Jill hand. What is

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Speaker 1: the hardest part of your job? Go forty? This is it?

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Speaker 1: and you feel like shit all day. Well, I only

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Speaker 1: You're tired, You take a nap, You don't move to napa?

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Speaker 1: Is Mac taking an app right now? I missed a book.

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Speaker 1: this morning. Where what a crazy journey of like the

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Speaker 1: Are you fans of Miley Cyrus? I am a fan.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say like I'm not not a

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Speaker 1: fan of Miley Cyrus. I don't know a ton of

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Speaker 1: her music. I know when Aaron starts singing it, or

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Speaker 1: the one from the photo shoot that you were like

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Speaker 1: a DK Metcalf interview oh a years ago, and it

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Speaker 1: the feature and the whole thing. I like anyone that's authentic,

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Speaker 1: be changed. That's so long ago. I like her. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's good. I can't imagine not having a relationship with

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Speaker 1: Liam Hemsworth not work out I would have done anything

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Speaker 1: but I would do anything me love. But I won't

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Speaker 1: say Shoots and Ladders, but I have a question. In Clue,

423
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Speaker 1: there's a character named Colonel Mustard. Yes he is, as

424
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Speaker 1: you can assume the Mustard year of the Little Piece. Yes, yes,

425
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Speaker 1: Colonel Mustard in the Conservatory with the wrench classic character.

426
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Speaker 1: What's a conservatory? Okay, she's not playing. Conservatory is one

427
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Speaker 1: of the rooms where you can do you know what

428
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Speaker 1: a wrench is, I'm gonna yeah, And I don't know

429
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Speaker 1: what a conservatory is. Is that where nuns are? No,

430
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Speaker 1: that's a convent. Oh yeah, oh yeah, okay, I'm fresh

431
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Speaker 1: off of light from Philadelphia. She is, and we will

432
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Speaker 1: talk about that on our folding podcast. This one had

433
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Speaker 1: the game of the year last year and there were

434
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Speaker 1: a fight and all sorts of things figuring it out

435
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Speaker 1: in my face get your eat with a slick pony.

436
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: Well it's slipped back because it still looks like crap

437
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 1: from yesterday where it was raining and missing the whole time.

438
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Speaker 1: And I just clearly said, you know what, the fact

439
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: we don't have hair out on the road, this is

440
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: exactly why, because this hair looks crazy. Well, I'm going

441
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 1: to save this for the full length podcast because you

442
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: also don't realize that the second that your camera goes up,

443
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 1: we hear everything and and see everything you do. So

444
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,880
Speaker 1: would you were like, I look like a wet talk

445
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Speaker 1: this is crazy. There was like my things, I wanted

446
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 1: to text you, but you were going to go into

447
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 1: your hit. So I was like, I'm just going to

448
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 1: lay out on this one. I said, crazy. The comedy

449
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: is in the ship that you say before sometimes during yesterday,

450
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: which by the way, Cherry's like, oh, you've got jokes.

451
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: I like the theatrics, and I'm like, no, that's just

452
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,640
Speaker 1: Aaron doing a report like a normal person and having

453
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Speaker 1: person not politary. Okay, I digress. Yeah, we'll talk about

454
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Speaker 1: this on the full at the game seven hours before

455
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Speaker 1: I needed to. We'll talk about that. I'm writing it

456
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 1: down being at the game seven hours before I need to. Okay. Anonymous,

457
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 1: we love Anonymous, keep coming. We won't say who you

458
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 1: are because we don't know it's anonymous. My best friends

459
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:15,360
Speaker 1: and I hate one of our friend's boyfriends. Ooh, he

460
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 1: can't hold a job, very negative and picky, and even

461
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: got them to spend thousands on a dog that he

462
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: takes no part of. We've noticed he influenced her, influences

463
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: her to make bad financial decisions, even though she used

464
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 1: to be very financially smart. They've been dating for about

465
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 1: five years. Should we talk to her? Yes? Was this

466
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: commission by you from previous boyfriends of mine? Because there's

467
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: a lot of boxes that were checked off here of

468
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: various people in my past. Why was it taking you

469
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 1: five years to talk to her. That's crazy and I'm

470
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,120
Speaker 1: sure she probably knows you don't like him anyways. What's

471
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 1: wrong with her? Doesn't she want to save her money

472
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 1: financial decisions? Does he have a job? Oh? No, he

473
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: can't hold a job. Yes, I think you bring it

474
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Speaker 1: up to her. This is I'm going to talk to

475
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: you missus or missus anonymous, miss anonymous and from mix

476
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 1: and grab some hummus because this is going to be

477
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Speaker 1: a minute. I have been on this side of it,

478
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Speaker 1: and my lovely co hosts and girlfriend Aaron on the

479
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: side told me a lot of things about my current

480
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: or not current, my previous situations and brought to light

481
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 1: things that I did not want to see I chose

482
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 1: to ignore even if I knew they were there. She

483
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 1: put a spotlight on them all. And as hard as

484
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: it is to hear it, especially from the people that

485
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: you love, they are saying it because they love you

486
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 1: and they want the best for you. So I think

487
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 1: you're doing your friend a complete disservice by not being

488
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 1: totally honest with her about this, and especially if she

489
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: keeps complaining about the same thing over and over again.

490
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm going through this with some friends right now where

491
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Speaker 1: it's like I hear the same thing over and over again,

492
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 1: and finally I'm like, change it. Because I'm someone who

493
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 1: if there's a problem you are you told me this,

494
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 1: I know because you've been busy. That's an anonymous submission.

495
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm having a mid life crisis. We'll talk

496
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Speaker 1: about that in the big show. We got to we'll

497
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: talk about all really yeah, because it's like I can't.

498
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: I'm someone who will have I'll give you a lot

499
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: of runway, but then once we're off that runway, it's

500
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: the end of a cliff and I can't keep endorsing

501
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: or supporting the same narrative. I've read the same chapter

502
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 1: of your book over and over and over again, and

503
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 1: I'm bored. I'm putting the book down and you come

504
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 1: back to me when you want to write the next chapter,

505
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: because this is boring and I just want my friends

506
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: to be happy. So unless you want to make a change,

507
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: and I'm saying this to the anonymous friend or the

508
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 1: friends that I have, unless you want to make a change,

509
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: like then it's going to be the same shit over

510
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: and over again. So I will say this long, winted answer,

511
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 1: but I'm not sticking up for your anonymous friend, which

512
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 1: I can't wait till your anonymous friend submits a question

513
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: to ask about you. I had this friend and she

514
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 1: hosts a podcast, and now she just talks about me publicly.

515
00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: Oh so you anonymous. I want to bring up one

516
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 1: thing that you said to me about when I, you know,

517
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:06,479
Speaker 1: approached you about what was happening in your life. I

518
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 1: thought it was really interesting, you said. I always knew it,

519
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: but I just didn't want to put that attention that

520
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: kind of I didn't want to face it because I

521
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:20,439
Speaker 1: had failed before in another marriage. And as simple as

522
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: that sounds, I just I fucking got it. And I

523
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: felt bad that I didn't see it that way. But

524
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: then I was like, all right, come on, we got

525
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 1: to get out of this, like this is so unhealthy. No,

526
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: you were my harshest critic, and I say this because

527
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 1: in life you are my harshest friend. And you have

528
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: also and that's a good thing, because you will tell

529
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: me truths that a lot of people are probably afraid

530
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 1: to say or don't want to hurt my feelings or

531
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: don't want to you know whatever. Put that on me.

532
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: But you have also pushed me to make the best

533
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: decisions in my life because of your honesty. So it'll

534
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:55,959
Speaker 1: make me emotional thinking about it. But like, if I

535
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 1: don't get that from you, then I really don't get

536
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,679
Speaker 1: it from a lot of people because it's you just

537
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: put you know some of our friends that do that. Yeah,

538
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: you and you are and so it's it's the best

539
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: and the worst thing in the moment because you're like puck,

540
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 1: She's right, But a really good friend will say things

541
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,360
Speaker 1: that you don't always want to hear, but you need

542
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,959
Speaker 1: to hear. So to miss anonymy, I need to hear

543
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: who you're talking about, but we won't because that person's anonymous.

544
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: Oh god, probably lessame, probably not anyways, Okay, but yes,

545
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: go ahead and tell your friend if you're a real friend.

546
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 1: And by the way, and I will say this too,

547
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: because this is the last part on this and I

548
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: could do a whole podcast just on friends and this

549
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 1: very top topic. Oh, time's up. I would say, be

550
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: prepared for her to get mad. And if if it

551
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: hurts your friendship, then you had probably didn't have the

552
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: friendship that you thought that you had, and that's where

553
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: you kind of need to be like, all right, I'm

554
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: willing to like lose this person as a friend, or

555
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 1: lose the like you know, closeness of the friend if

556
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: she can't handle it, because that's just what comes with

557
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: the territory. Oh coh, my girl comes for all your

558
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: so a really light calm down today, you know, Okay Morefielder,

559
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: Oh this is great. This is for you, sister. Expecting

560
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: my first baby in eight weeks and freaking out tips

561
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 1: for newborn live my mommy, you should have, you should be.

562
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: This is the wrong week to ask me. I'll preview

563
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: it for the big show. I had my first big

564
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: like panic anxiety, chest pains like week and just tough. Oh,

565
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: so must be good for you. Yeah, enjoy these next

566
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: eight weeks because after your kid comes, it's never going

567
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 1: to be the same. Make sure you've got everything done

568
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: on your checklist. Make sure you have everybody in order

569
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: that you want coming and helping you out, because I'm

570
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: I obviously didn't physically have my baby, but once your

571
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: baby comes there your world is upside down. So just

572
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: make sure you get your plans in order now and

573
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: enjoy the qt time with your partner because it's over.

574
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: It must have been love, but it's Jared. That's a

575
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: dedication to you. No, we're not getting divorced. God, Oh gosh, Jesus,

576
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: this is the time, and you have got on a

577
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: calm down sweatshirt. Okay, next question? Oh yeah, okay. Knitter

578
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Speaker 1: Bath five oh nine. Travis and Taylor is still loving

579
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Speaker 1: it or over it? I love it? I still love it,

580
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: to be honest, I am really into this song right now,

581
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: Like I think about it when I'm trying to go

582
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: to sleep. Let's be June, three hundred days ago. Is

583
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: it over now? Julian Gregory, our resident makeup artist, had

584
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 1: a great song. Hey, why didn't that song slap when

585
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: she first released it? Like it slaps? Now? Why is

586
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: that so popular? Nalaps? Yeah? I don't know, but I'm

587
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: into them. Still do your thing, guys, I will tell

588
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: you this right now. Here's a fun fact. And no

589
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: this isn't a plug for the podcast, but probably about

590
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: the last three weeks I have listened to You Need

591
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: to Calm Down on my way into work in the

592
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: morning at four thirty am because it just puts me

593
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 1: in the right headspace where she's like, it's seven am,

594
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: Like you're being so loud. I'm like, this is how

595
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: I felt about everyone in life. And I'm like, it

596
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: is too early, it is too much. If you don't

597
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: like it, just leave me alone and calm the fuck down.

598
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 1: So yeah, I blast that thing going down Pico Boulevard

599
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: with my coffee, and he starts my day off right,

600
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: and I whip on into that Fox lot and I

601
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: am just as happy as can be knowing that she

602
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: has set the Littles backtrack background and soundtrack to my

603
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: life and listen, I know we're going over. But I

604
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: got a little intel this weekend from some wags out

605
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 1: in Philly. Not ego, I'm not saying they're forty nine

606
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: ers wags, I'm not going to tell you who they are,

607
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: but saw some NFL wags. Yeah, no, they're NFL. And

608
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 1: I somebody asked in front of me if what the

609
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: gals on their team thought, and they were like, love it,

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00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: adorable and they were like, you know why, because that's

611
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: a man. And she's oh, here's a good one. Here's

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00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: a good take from an NFL wag, which I loved.

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Speaker 1: She said this for the first time publicly. It seems

614
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Speaker 1: like she's with a guy that's not like, oh yeah,

615
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 1: I'm with Taylor, don't take my picture. I'm at the concert.

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Speaker 1: She's with a guy that's wall Street. You oh h

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Speaker 1: oh oh oh. Yeah, I'm into it all. I'm into

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00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: it all. Yeah, into it all. Mention it all. And

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Speaker 1: speaking of mentioning, we've got a lot to mention, discuss,

620
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Speaker 1: and break down on the full length podcast. I have

621
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Speaker 1: a feeling and I get a good feeling about something.

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Speaker 1: You're not going to want to miss this one. A

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Speaker 1: lot to discuss Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is

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