1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:01,720 Speaker 1: What I want to know about U Kiki. This is 2 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: what I gotta understand. So I saw pictures from you 3 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: over the weekend at Chicago Theater, at the jaw Rule 4 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 1: on a Shanty show. I would like everyone to know. 5 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 1: I did reach out to a Shanty's people myself personally, yeah, 6 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: and said, I, you know, would love to have you 7 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: on the show when you're in town or on the phone, 8 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: you know, ahead of time, which we don't normally do. 9 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: I hate phone interviews, so I would have done it 10 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: with a Shanty And I did not say why, because 11 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 1: that I would have understood if they didn't respond for 12 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: this reason, but I didn't tell them that. It was 13 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: to confront her about the fact that she has blocked 14 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: Jason Browne, who considers her a queen. She literally is, 15 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: especially after seeing cliffs from this weekend. She is a queen. 16 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 1: She is there, but out there on the stage a 17 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: whole thing. Yeah. I asked her, um, you know, can 18 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: she I'm black you and she just looked at me 19 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: and said no. Well, then I said really, I said 20 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: why and she said you know what you did? No. 21 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: I saw, Jason, you need to whenever you're ready to 22 00:00:55,880 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: say about Shanty maybe you'll get out blocked. I didn't 23 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: do what they do with Shanty except love her. She 24 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: didn't her people didn't even respond to me for an interview. Wow, 25 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: So maybe they already know. Maybe they knew. Maybe they 26 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: knew that they knew when they were walking into because 27 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: you're so prolific in the in the Shanti camp as 28 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: being that offensive. They're like, oh, I'm not responding to 29 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: this friend guy because Jason Brown's on his show. Yeah. 30 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: I don't think I've had anyone hate me in life 31 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: more than the Shanty almost got me thrown out. The concert, 32 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: you know, is kicking. I were backstaging and the we 33 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: were like, what's that crazy? We were both there. I 34 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: was there briefly and yeah, and I was like, what's 35 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: up with Jason Brown? And then she was like if 36 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: you say, do you guys know him? If you say 37 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: one more word? And I was like, oh no, no, no no, no, no, 38 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: we don't. We don't know him. Yeah, we just we 39 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: heard that there's beef. Yeah, you know, we're just trying 40 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: to keep the peace here. But yeah, yeah, oh I 41 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: just love her. And then Rule came over and was like, 42 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: you know Jason Brow, he jo Rule. He was looking good, yes, rule, 43 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I give it credit. And the only 44 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: exposure ahead of that concert was your instant stories or 45 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: TikTok or whatever it was. And I have to say 46 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that guy's age pretty well, yes, 47 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: forty seven years old. Oh he's so by. Yes, But 48 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: this is what I want to know. This is where 49 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: I'm getting at. There was a picture of a man's 50 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: arm over your shoulder at the Chicago Theater at the 51 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: Jaw Rules Shanty show. I'm assuming that was Big Tim's arm. Yes, 52 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: And you're intentionally trolling all of us and him for 53 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: that matter, by never including him in anything. How long 54 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: do you intend to keep this man a secret? And 55 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: why I told you this? Until I get Mary, You 56 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 1: guys will meet him at the wedding. You guys insane? 57 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: Why is that insane? So if you guys get engaged, 58 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: you're not gonna put him in the pictures like this. Yeah, 59 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: once I got to ring you guys, we'll see pictures, 60 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 1: but you'll probably meet him at the wedding. I mean, 61 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: but like, this is us. I mean, these guys have 62 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 1: met people I've dated briefly. We've met people Rufio screwed 63 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: up their namebody you dated, and I never brought anybody 64 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: around ever. No, I don't know if that's true. I 65 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: meant both of the last two you dated, yeah, how 66 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: do you meet? The one was on Instagram live. We 67 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: were OK, that's not meeting, meeting, and then the other 68 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: one was dming you might whereabouts all the time? That 69 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: is true? Yeah, I know that was a little strange. 70 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: It's like, I bet I know where he is asleep, everything, 71 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: everything I have on that. But this is my thing. 72 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: So you really are going to keep him from us 73 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 1: and everybody else until you guys, you may meet him before. 74 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: I'll tell you that, like at a part like a 75 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: house party, or you don't have a brunch coming up. 76 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: The guys will probably meet him there. However, he will 77 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: never be on my social media until there's a ring involved. 78 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: Please free my boy. No, what do you mean? No, 79 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: I hear you can't. You know, at any moment, I 80 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: might have to come back to the streets, and I can't. 81 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: I can't be explaining. It's different, you know, guys, So 82 00:03:55,080 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: you know if I go back to the street, I'm 83 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: going to the street. Let us go back. Oh god, 84 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: you know, but the goal is not to go back right, however, 85 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: what I want to know? And I don't have a 86 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: ton of time, but eight five five, Not that that's 87 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: ever stopped me, but eight five five nine one h 88 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: three five. And I don't know if anyone is it 89 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: early for this? Maybe I don't know who applies, But 90 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: has anybody successfully or unsuccessfully tried to hide someone that 91 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: they were dating? And for how long? And how did 92 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: that go? Because here's what happened. You your family and 93 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 1: friends know this guy already, right, like close family and friends, 94 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 1: so it won't be like a total surprise. But can 95 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: you imagine keeping a relationship on the down low, like 96 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: really on the down low, and then you dave you 97 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 1: the relationship because you're married or getting married, only to 98 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: find out that everybody hates this person, you know what 99 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: I mean? Like like you, because you've kept it quiet 100 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: for so long. I mean, I would think the only 101 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: reason you would keep it quiet is because you think 102 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: someone's gonna object. No, no, that's not the king. But 103 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 1: why else would you keep it quiet? You keep it 104 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: quiet because you are not there's no real I mean 105 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: like it's it's not real until your mary. You know 106 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: how I feel about that? Or engage, So it's just 107 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: not It's like we're dating and at any moment I 108 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 1: may switch out and have a whole another Big Tim. 109 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: It'll he'll still be called big Tim, but you guys 110 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: will not have a face to put with. We just 111 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: don't even know if he's real in the first place. Man, 112 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: I think we could confirm that. I mean you guys, yeah, yeah, 113 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: he's I'm just gonna put this out there. What if 114 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: you're not showing him because you're up to something I 115 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 1: don't know, I mean, you're not. I'm just gonna put 116 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 1: a random theory out there that you're not showing us 117 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: him because because you don't want us to see him, 118 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 1: because there's more than one him. That could very well 119 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: be true. You know how I feel. It's I'm single, 120 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: ass I married, but that's not the case. And social 121 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: at all? No gods that because I have a breaking 122 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: news here. But what what were gonna say? Oh, man, 123 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 1: without social like I would panty dropper or a phone 124 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: the streams phone. Yes, I would love someone with no 125 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 1: social and no ability to hear the radio. I'm not 126 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: on social Miko. Good morning, Miko, Nico, good Morning the 127 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 1: morning Miko would go ahead what you gotta tell us? 128 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 1: Go ahead, tell us everything. So I love you guys. 129 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: Then if you guys want a video of big I 130 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: have a video because I was on a Comet kick. 131 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: So you there's just a big name, a good looking guys. 132 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: You were at the shanty show. You were there? Yeah, 133 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: I was there. It was like I was like like 134 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: a two six next to kick it on the left 135 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 1: group of friends. You were feeling Miko video, Nico, how 136 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: you get that video? You send that video right on 137 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: over to us and will post that for all to see. 138 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: Don't you're famous now? You can be doing this stuff. 139 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: What you're gonna get caught up? You're famous now. You 140 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: can't look at his Nico's got the footage. That's just 141 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: one person. One night, you remember, I went, oh my god, 142 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: can you I can't even begin to tell you the 143 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: number of dates I've been on where we got feedback 144 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: from people that listen to us. What ashy feed girls. 145 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: People were taking pictures of her ankles and sending us 146 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: pictures real time, tweeting my date A can't you get ready? Nico? 147 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:41,679 Speaker 1: My boy, get that video? Don't do it? Thank you Nico? 148 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: You sending that right over? Yah, I got said, we'll 149 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: give you, We'll bribe you with something. Hey Esther, all right, 150 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: good morning. As this is all I gotta do. If 151 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: I need information about anything, I just gotta put it 152 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: out there. And the thirteen have got it. The thirteen 153 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: you everything. You guys are on top of everything. What 154 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 1: did you hit a relationship? Who is it? How did 155 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: it all go down? Why? Yeah, So, my now husband 156 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: and I hit our relationship for the first six months 157 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: we were together. And we did that because we've actually 158 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: known each other since we were in high school. We 159 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: were in the same group of friends now that we 160 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: are adults who were still the same group of friends, 161 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: and we had looked too much fun one night and 162 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: ended up hooking us and it just kind of progressed 163 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,239 Speaker 1: from there and we weren't sure if it was anything 164 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: or not, so we kept it from our friends, our family, 165 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: everyone until we were sure it was worth while telling people. 166 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,079 Speaker 1: We would be at parties with our friends and we 167 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 1: would take separate ubers back to the same place. At 168 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 1: one point a friend of mine drove me home and 169 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: he was in an uber behind us, so that's it 170 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: worked out, which was great, But our friends were shocked 171 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: when they found out. I see. So the plan was 172 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: you weren't going to disrupt the friend group if things 173 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: got weird. You were somehow just gonna pretend like it 174 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: never happened that, which would have been hard to do, 175 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm sure. Yeah, but it did work out and you're married, 176 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,679 Speaker 1: and were people like super elated or was it? Was 177 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 1: there anybody in the friend group who was like, no way, 178 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: like maybe not happy about it? Yeah, there was one 179 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: person and our group of friends who had a long 180 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: time crush on me and we are no longer friends. 181 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because he thought maybe there was a chance, 182 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,719 Speaker 1: only to find out that, you know, you met with 183 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: a homeboy for six months, like it was over done 184 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: for exactly. Wow, Well good for you. That's that's probably 185 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: what's probably hard to do. What would you guys do? 186 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: You'd all go out together as a group and then 187 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: you'd go your separate ways, but really not exactly. Yeah, 188 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: we would take separate us. If we got a ride 189 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 1: from someone, we would someone would get a ride, someone 190 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 1: would take an uber, we'd walk around the corner and 191 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: things like that. Sneak off, sneak off from your friends 192 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: and you know, yeah you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, Esther, 193 00:09:56,760 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, well they're married, so that you know, 194 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: they probably do that kind of stuff when a man 195 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 1: loves a woman, you know, yes, esther, Thank you so much, 196 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: have a great day. I have some friends in the 197 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: industry that work for competitors, and I remember one day, 198 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 1: this was actually a pretty high level person worked for 199 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: a competition, and we went to lunch. We're supposed to 200 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 1: go to lunch at a place, and I show up 201 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: for lunch and as I'm walking up to the speaking 202 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 1: of hiding things the friendships, as I walk up to 203 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: the restaurant, I see like half of her staff. They're 204 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 1: going to launch like a bunch of people that work 205 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: for that company and that person, and they're like, Fred, 206 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: hey man, you want to come have lunch with us? 207 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I know who I'm meeting, and I'm thinking, 208 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: and I don't know how to like tip this person off, 209 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: like don't come now. Is it ain't gonna look good, 210 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 1: you know. And it turns out the person was hiding 211 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 1: behind a pillar because that person had seen, you know, 212 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: the train wreck that was going to happen beforehand, and 213 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:56,839 Speaker 1: so they were like, well you here, I'm like, ah, 214 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 1: I was just walking by. I was just walking by, 215 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: and I'm going going to keep now I used to 216 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: see you good because that would have been really weird if, 217 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: like I, you know, those people had not been included 218 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: in whatever we were doing, which they weren't, so that 219 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: I had to keep that relationship secret for a while. 220 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: That was awkward. It was very awkward anyway. What, No, 221 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: some stuff that has got to keep on the low. 222 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: Just keep it on the low. Everyone's safety. I know 223 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: I can from everybody else, not from us. Yeah, I 224 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: was gonna say, from us, you want to you want 225 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,199 Speaker 1: to keep it, you want to keep it private from 226 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: the world. Yeah, I understand that. Yeah, I do it 227 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: with my mom. If I'm seeing somebody, it's got it. 228 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: We gotta go a long way before I'm gonna I'm 229 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: gonna roll somebody out on the air their identity to 230 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: my mom because everyone gets excited about it, and then, 231 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to have to back out. 232 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: Fred Show is okay, So Vanderpump rules, Okay, I'm gonna 233 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: try to explain this to you guys in a way 234 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: that you understand, like the severity of them take notes here, Okay. 235 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: So Tom Sandoval and Ariana Max, they've been dating for forever, 236 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: years and years and years. They're not married, but they 237 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: live together. They have animals, like they were very much dating. Okay, 238 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: but what is the point of this show? What is 239 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: vander Pump? What is it? It's actually a great premise. 240 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 1: So Lisa vander Pump, as you know, owns a bar 241 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: or I'm sorry, a restaurant, a couple restaurants, and the 242 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 1: wait stuff is all really hot and they bang each other. Okay, yes, god, 243 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: employees of the restaurant, they all started as that. Now 244 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:28,959 Speaker 1: they're like, you know, it's getting a little big. But yeah, 245 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: if you go to one of her restaurants, like you 246 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: will see them like waiting the tables. It's actually pretty funny. 247 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: So then these two people, yep, Tom and Arianna, Okay, 248 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 1: they're doing they're doing each other, yes, for years and 249 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: years and years. Okay, you got it. Yeah, okay. So 250 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:49,840 Speaker 1: there's another couple, James and Raquel. They were engaged. Okay. 251 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: There's a third couple another Tom and Katie. They were married. Okay, okay, okay, 252 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: got it. Tom and Katie got divorced, right, James and 253 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: kell broke off their engagement. Okay. Tom and Arianna still 254 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: very much dating right, okay, very much, very much dating 255 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: this Roquel Bach. Rumors started flying that they were making 256 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 1: out at Coachella and the Tom who was married to 257 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: the Tom married married time Tom number two as we 258 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 1: call him, Okay, coach Coachella. But Tom number two wasn't 259 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: at Coachella, not there. But you forget that Tom number 260 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: one was at Coachella, but he's very much still in 261 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,199 Speaker 1: a relationship. We find out that best friend Tom Tom 262 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: number two is just going with the rumors to cover 263 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: up the fact that from them, Tom number one a 264 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:45,959 Speaker 1: seven month affair with his girlfriend's best friend or one 265 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: of her friends. Number one. They were wearing necklaces to 266 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:53,839 Speaker 1: signal that they were telling each other I love you 267 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 1: necklaces to tell each other all the people and and 268 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: she's wearing merch from their bar. Seven or a month 269 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: affair with one of yours. He smashed her in the 270 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,559 Speaker 1: house with his girlfriend. Sorry, yes, Arianaa's upstairs, and they 271 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: would hook up all the time because Arianna's thought they're 272 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 1: just friends. They were friends, right, right, they're just friends. 273 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: Are just drunken the kitchen. No, they're banging while serious 274 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: as she was asleep. This is crazy if though it's 275 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: very disrespectful. Yeah, and respect seven seven month affair up. 276 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: That's two time woman, sand the ball, you dirty dog? 277 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: Serious though unbelievable. Wow, Jess and I were having a 278 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: seven month air with merchant signaling in a crowded room. Hey, 279 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: that's the moral of the story right there. And it 280 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: was all on camera, playoff. I'm gonna need you guys 281 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 1: to start watching unbelievable. Her name, she's getting cheated on 282 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: in public. It's gonna be on the shows. I'm gonna 283 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: need a minute to be honest with you in my house, 284 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 1: in the house and the best friends covering it up, 285 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: like no, no, no, no, no, anyways, Ruvio, if you 286 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: of course, I'm not in a relationship and I've actually 287 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: never cheated. I'm not a cheater. But if you knew 288 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: that I was cheating actively, would you tell anybody? Oh? Yes, okay, 289 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: you have to think about this, what I tell if 290 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 1: you have to think about whether you'd cover from it 291 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: or not. Well, depends on who you're cheating with. Why 292 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: would that matter? Like if I was friends with the 293 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 1: person you were cheating on, you know what I'm saying. 294 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: This is a friend group, right, Like if if you're 295 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: in a relationship and you're cheating on your woman with 296 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: whoever else, And I'm friends with that woman. I have 297 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 1: a right to they have a right to know. You 298 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, But don't you. Isn't your loyalty 299 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: to me stronger than for anyone? But it was someone 300 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: in this group though, Yeah, like if but if we 301 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: were closed, like my job, I'm not sleeping with it. 302 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 1: That's why kick he won't bring Big tim around, because 303 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: what big got to do with dinner. I'm just say like, 304 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship with somebody and and we're 305 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: all close, and I'm close with your your significant other, 306 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: and you're cheating on them, I don't know, friend, that 307 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 1: that's gonna be tough to keep you. Thank you. You 308 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: just have to pay me, thank you. It might be 309 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: worth it for me to pay you. Wow, I'm surprised. 310 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 1: I thought. I mean, you have admitted on the ear 311 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: that you'd wipe my butt for me. Yeah, it's different, 312 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: that's different. Yeah, but you out here, I'm not gonna 313 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 1: a dirty I'm not gonna clean your dirty laundry. You 314 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's you out Wow. I want 315 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: you to know I want you to know, because I 316 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: consider myself friends with Jess, I would not do you 317 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: like that. I might say, so, if you know if 318 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: Jess is cheating on me, you're not gonna tell me. No, 319 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: I would tell you because I my loyalty. No no, no, listen, 320 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: my loyalty to you comes. I love Jess, but I 321 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: knew you first, and the only reason I know Jess 322 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 1: is because of you, and so my loyalty to you 323 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: comes before my loyalty to anybody any I don't like 324 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 1: to use Jess as an example one because what you're saying, 325 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: what you're saying. So what I'm saying is I would 326 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: expect the same from you. Now, I might come to 327 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: you and say, dude, you need to clean up your 328 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:26,679 Speaker 1: ish because you're making us all, You're putting us all 329 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 1: in a precarious situation. I've actually been in this situation 330 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:33,199 Speaker 1: before where somebody I know in a group and I 331 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 1: know everybody involved, and this this person, I'm not gonna 332 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 1: say it may have been the woman was up to 333 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 1: some stuff and I'm like, hey dude or hey lady, 334 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: you need to feel this is weird, Like you need 335 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 1: to fix your business because this involves me now and 336 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,679 Speaker 1: I feel culpable. Yeah, so you got to do a 337 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 1: better job keeping your you know, your side of the 338 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: of the law and mode. No pun intendon people, Shelley, 339 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: would you telling me? Yes? Honestly, my brain's not working. 340 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: So you're saying if you're cheating, if you knew that 341 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 1: I was cheating, if you knew seven months and I 342 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: don't work in a restaurant now, and so yeah, so 343 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: you knew I was cheating. Okay, I just like, don't 344 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: really know. You know her. Let's let's say you know 345 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,120 Speaker 1: her your friend. Let's you know her. I know she's 346 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: part of the circle because she's dating friend, she's part 347 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 1: of a circle cheating. Yes, you're gonna you would go, 348 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: you'd pick up the I wouldn't. I wouldn't do that 349 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: to you if you were cheating on Mike. I keep 350 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: my I keep it quiet. I don't say anything. You 351 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 1: wouldn't none of Why is that my business to call 352 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 1: Mike and tell on you because he's a part of 353 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: the group. Yeah, but it's not my business to your business. 354 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 1: Here's another thing. I don't know. You don't have an arrangement. 355 00:18:53,520 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: How do I know that? I mind my own mind. 356 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 1: My own business. Actually, yes, I'm the only one gonna 357 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: hold you down. Thank you. It's good to know that. 358 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: Because I'm not a cheater, I have nothing to worry about. 359 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:15,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I have other things to worry about. He's 360 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 1: going be like, well, he's saying, oh, there's no ring 361 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 1: on it. That's where I'm not cheating. I'm just telling 362 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: you that my loyalty comes to you guys in this 363 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: room first before anybody else. And so it's not up 364 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 1: to me to go run into other people and getting 365 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 1: involved in your business. It's not now if it's something 366 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: where like it's blatant and and I don't know, like 367 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. So you would take the fall though 368 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: for your friend, Like you'd be like, yeah, I'm the 369 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 1: one hooking up with Raquel, not Tom number two. I 370 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: don't know that I'd go that far. But I'm not 371 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 1: going to actively pursue one of your spouses to tell 372 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 1: on you. I don't know when. Actually I probably woldn't 373 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 1: want to get involved, not exactly exactly. I don't want 374 00:19:55,119 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 1: to be involved in exactly. That's exactly where I'm coming from. You, Yes, apology. 375 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: He didn't even say he didn't do it. He just said, 376 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 1: leave Tom number two alone and stop attacking him. What