WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dragon Thumbs and Aroma Chumbs 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.360 Okay, we hear you, hey hands Briock and Jeffrey in 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:04.160 the morning, and you found the Second Day and we've 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:06.880 got a brand new one for you in just a second. 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:09.920 But first we need to address up in. We have 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:14.520 made Bevin Weber four four seven to one very jealous. 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:16.400 Out. 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:21.079 Yeah, because of course the podcast is everywhere. It's on Spotify, 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:24.040 it's on Apple Podcasts, it's on iHeartRadio, and it's also 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:27.760 on YouTube. Yes, and Bevan wrote, it looks like the 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:31.240 Spotify viewers are more important than the YouTube viewers. Oh, 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:37.760 because we don't as often read our YouTube comments out loud. 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:40.800 We read them though every day on YouTube. I would 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:42.879 like to say that you are all like my children, 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:47.199 and I love you just the same differently and she 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:53.519 focuses on all right, all right, hey, thank you wherever 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:57.640 you're listening, please like, subscribe and share. It is so 0:00:57.640 --> 0:01:01.320 so wonderful to see. We really truly appreciate it. And Bevin, hey, 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:03.560 shout out to you. All right, let's get the second 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:04.160 date started. 0:01:05.000 --> 0:01:09.840 The Second Date update, Brooke, your husband is a collector 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:10.959 of sports cards. 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:12.840 He loves them. Are you kidding me? 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:17.679 Does that make you more attracted to him or super. 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:24.120 More attracted when he pulls out that Michael Jordan Rookie card. Gosh, 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:26.200 if only it wasn't rated a three. 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:30.800 I don't even know what that is. 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:32.720 Actually, I think it's a one because he wrote his 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:34.480 initials on it when he was seven years old. 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:39.280 That you just rubbed that card. 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:43.839 All over, because it doesn't matter as much as. 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:47.840 I bring it up because one of our listeners says 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:50.440 that the guy that she went out with mentioned that 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:54.760 he is a collector of items and it stopped her. 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:55.880 In her track. 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:57.680 Collection. 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:00.000 We'll find out more about that in just a second, 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:03.680 but first let's talk to Carly here. Carly, you said 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:05.920 in your email that the guy's name is Ethan. 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:06.920 How did you meet him? 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:09.280 Yeah, we met on a dating app. 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:15.200 Okay, and Liz whatever he collects part of his profile. No, oh, 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:15.960 it wasn't listed. 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:18.799 Okay, nope, A nice little. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.000 Surprise for you. 0:02:19.320 --> 0:02:21.919 You don't say it with a smile on your face 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:26.079 that it was revealed like midway to the date. 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:27.640 Oh okay. 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:31.040 Well let's go chronologically then before we get to the 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:34.000 collecting of stuff, tell us more about Ethan and what 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:35.119 attracted you to him. 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:38.880 Yeah, so initially his one liner joke to me about 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:43.080 he was the world's okayist cook and he had a 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:46.720 picture of bart grilled cheese. 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:47.640 That's really cute. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:49.760 The fact that he could cook at all, even if 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:51.520 it is just okay, he's impressive. 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:53.760 Well, I mean, it's a cute line, and it's an 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:56.360 easy way to then transition to let me cook you 0:02:56.400 --> 0:02:57.160 something mid. 0:02:58.720 --> 0:02:59.679 Setting a standard. 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:00.200 Ta. 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:02.160 So did your date involve cooking? 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:03.200 It did not? 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:06.760 No, okay, all right, So tell us about what happened. 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:09.320 So, I mean, you know, we've been dating for like 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:13.399 ten eleven days, like not super long, talking, right, Yeah, 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:15.919 we were talking texting, you know, ten eleven. 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:19.520 Days in the in the build up to the actual 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:23.079 first meeting. So what did you guys actually do when 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:23.880 you went out? 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:27.640 Well, we decided to meet up for dinner and we 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:28.640 went to Steak and Shake. 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:29.920 I love. 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:32.680 Is that a fast food? 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:33.919 It is? 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:42.720 Ok? Yeah, shake shavers over there and shakes because it's 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:45.640 like fast food. Was that cool with you or was 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:46.520 that a disappointment? 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:47.080 No? 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.920 I was okay with it. I mean he burnt grilled cheese, 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:51.280 so you know, low standards. 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:56.920 Sure, all right, And how was the chemistry between you 0:03:56.960 --> 0:03:57.360 and Ethan? 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:01.240 It was really good? He was super fun, super sweet. 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:04.480 He held a door. He was like pulling out my 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:06.400 chair like that. 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:07.480 Yeah. 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:09.520 No, I'm old school, like I think. 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:12.400 People being polite is probably is pretty well received. 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:15.080 Well I slam the door in their face. We all 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:17.760 have different styles of Okay, so he. 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.880 Does that to me the studio honestly, like, learn to 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:21.919 open the door for somewhere. 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:23.680 Well, I don't want to like get in the way 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:24.720 of your womanhood and do. 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:25.359 Anything like that. 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:29.159 I'm just trying to equal. We're equal in the work, 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:30.279 I'm saying. 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:31.400 So okay. 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:33.400 So, but you you thought that he was being a 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:36.480 real gentleman on this date with you, Carly, I did 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:37.159 for sure. 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:40.040 Okay, so this is all sounding great. Was there something 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:42.479 like you said, the collection thing? When did that come 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:43.080 into play? 0:04:43.640 --> 0:04:49.160 Well, he just randomly was like I collect rubber duck. 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:51.560 Okay, that's the item that he collected. 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:55.839 The deep owners, the one of those people idea rubber 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:58.160 ducks are huge right now, there is every type of 0:04:58.200 --> 0:04:59.039 rubber duck ever. 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.800 Okay, how did you feel about. 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:02.120 It, Carly? 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:04.600 I was kind of like weirded out. I was like what, 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:07.240 And then he said he keeps them for emotional support, 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:08.799 which makes. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:09.359 It less weird. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:11.600 I didn't know that you could do that. 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:12.919 Was that a joke? 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:13.640 Yeah? 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:15.040 He was like it was a joke. 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:16.159 He was just kidding. 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:21.520 Everyone. Everyone's trying not to judge. 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:24.320 All blood A big sigh of relief. 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:27.080 All right, okay, although just to be clear, there's nothing 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:29.200 wrong with having emotional support ducks. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:30.480 If anybody out there. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:35.320 Ducks, yes, it is totally support. 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:37.919 Okay, but that was a joke. 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.080 But the rubber ducks were real. 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:43.560 Yeah, no, he has rubber ducks, all right, And. 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:45.719 So why is this a big part of the date, 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:46.880 like you mentioned it? 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:48.240 Is it? 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:49.119 Yeah? 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:51.760 He had some like super funny one liners like that one, 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:56.440 and I laughed so hard that I snored in okay, 0:05:57.320 --> 0:05:59.880 and he kind of looked at me like really crazy 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:01.120 and I did and I was like. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:03.560 But you can't control it. 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.599 Yeah, it's just like a what do you think you 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:08.800 think it's too unattractive that it's a deal breaker. 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:12.520 I don't know. Listen. He still walked me to my 0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:16.200 car and like kissing and everything. That's like the texting 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:18.760 is just not the same, Like I'm just getting those 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:21.280 like little texts here and there, and he's just kind 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:23.799 of putting no effort to little effort into things. 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:27.719 I am obviously biased, but I think storting is quite endearing. 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:30.880 But I'm alto a weird last. 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:33.640 So you're thinking that at the end of the night 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:37.720 the kiss was a pity kiss. Oh no, even though 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:40.200 like he didn't approve of your snort, he was like, okay, fine, 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:41.160 I still just you know. 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:42.359 I hope not. 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:46.800 You know, people have weird things. So I have a 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:50.880 guy friend who won't date women depending on their thumb size, 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.039 and like he thinks thumbs are really weird. They like 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:53.720 creep him out. 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:57.840 For I think I know that that is very very 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:00.000 personal information about something. 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:01.840 Buddy on the radio like this dragon thum. 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:07.280 Okay, okay, we're not trying to body shame anybody. 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:09.120 Like some people have weird it. 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:11.480 I don't call it weird, it's. 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:14.600 Maybe. Yes. 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:16.640 Well, and if it's that, then he's not the guy 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:16.960 for you. 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:19.560 Is it possible that he's not calling you back because 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:23.720 you've got dragon thumbs anything Brooks theory? 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:26.880 Are you holding the phone with just your thumb look 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:31.200 like it kind of looks like a big toe, Yeah. 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:34.600 Long claw coming off. Let's just okay, enough about the 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:35.720 dragon body parts. 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:37.240 Let's call this ethan guy. 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:39.520 We'll see if he picks up, and we will ask 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:41.320 him all the questions to figure out why he's not 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:43.240 going out with you one more time. Carly, we're going 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:46.800 to get your second date update right after this second 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:47.679 date update. 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:51.280 You're the one. 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:52.840 If you're. 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:56.440 A minute story, yeah, if you're just joining us. I'm 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:59.240 playing this song because our listener Carly went out with 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:01.640 a guy named Thing who told her that he collects 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:05.520 rubber ducks. He made the joke that he keeps them 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:09.560 as emotional support pets. Again just a joke, but he 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:13.760 does collect them, which begs the question, how bad do 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.600 you feel when even the rubber duck guy won't call 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:17.080 you back? 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:20.640 Say it like that, she's a door up. 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:24.560 Do you consider this your rock bottom, Carly? 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:26.200 I mean, if you're on this show, I think most 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:28.280 people would say that that's the case. 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:30.560 I feel pretty low, but not as low as you 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:30.960 think I do. 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:33.560 Yeah, that's true. There is more phone call to come 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:35.400 so we can as you. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:38.319 Are supposed to hype our listeners up. Carly, you're amazing 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:40.800 and you deserve a second date. 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:43.080 We see how much she struggled to get that sentence. 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:44.640 That was really inspired. 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:49.360 I was going to bring up the snort, and maybe 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:51.000 that's the reason he's not calling back. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.000 It is a good point. 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:54.240 She did mention that she laughed so hard during the 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.560 date that she snorted, and that could have been a 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:57.560 turn off to Ethan. 0:08:57.880 --> 0:08:58.520 But we don't know. 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:00.920 Which reminds me nobody too funny during this If she 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:03.319 starts snorting and then Brooks starts snorting. 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:07.560 Oh yeah, so you guys are funny, but as funny 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:07.920 as him. 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.640 All right, well, that's really motivated me to try super 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:15.880 hard for you. It's going to I can get one 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:18.680 hundred percent effort into this. I'm dialing his number right now. 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:19.760 Let's see if he picks up. 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:20.200 Here we go. 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:21.920 Thank you, guys. I really hope you can get another 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:22.400 date for me. 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:34.080 All right, let's see here we go. Hello, Hey, we're 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:35.199 looking to talk with Ethan. 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:38.320 Okay, this is Ethan. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:43.240 Hey, Ethan, there's a bunch of us here. 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:45.160 Who's this. Hello. 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.720 Yeah, there's a radio show called brook and Jeffrey in 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:51.920 the Morning. We're like a team, very dysfunctional team, and 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:55.400 we're doing Yeah, we are together, and we're here doing 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:57.120 a segment called a second date Update. 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:02.760 Okay, why are you calling me? What this is? 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:07.080 Love when people ask that. Yeah, just such a natural transition. 0:10:08.600 --> 0:10:08.880 Yeah. 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:11.240 So it's a segment where we help out listeners who've 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:13.640 gone out on a date with somebody but the second 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:15.439 date hasn't materialized yet. 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:16.280 We try and. 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:20.200 Figure out why if there's a reason. So we're doing 0:10:20.240 --> 0:10:22.000 that for one of our listeners that you went out with, 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:22.640 named Carly. 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:27.960 Yeah, Carly, I know, Carly, what does this mean? 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.720 She mentioned you were a funny guy. It's coming across dude. 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:35.160 No, I mean, honestly, from your response, it sounds like 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.800 maybe you were planning on calling Carly back and going 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:38.560 out with her again. 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:41.720 Uh yeah, I mean are you serious? Am I really 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:42.880 on the air talking about this? 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:44.679 Yeah? 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:47.720 Yeah, segment we have based around dating it you were 0:10:47.760 --> 0:10:51.160 just gonna say, yeah, trust us. 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:54.040 I know this is a weird situation to be in. 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:57.560 But Carly is seriously confused because she says she had 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:59.400 a great time with you, but she's not seeing the 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:02.560 same amount of effort from you as she was before 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:02.960 the date. 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:04.760 Kind of like an energy shift. We're not sure if 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:05.640 anything's changed. 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:09.000 Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off. 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:12.640 We have a great time. Okay, that is. 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:15.000 So cute to hear. So you really liked her? 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:18.240 Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:20.080 laugh and we had a great time out. 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:24.000 She was actually worried about that. 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:26.040 Yeah, so it sounds like you do want to go 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:26.800 out with her again. 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:30.160 Well, we were texting about when we were going to 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:33.040 try to get together again. I mean, I'm really just 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:35.240 surprised right now that she saw it that way that 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:36.400 I was blowing her off. 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:39.240 Oh you know, how give me and Daty like God 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:43.640 to like actually be positive and read everything in that way. 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:44.439 As far, she. 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:45.439 Doesn't know you well enough yet. 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:47.040 She doesn't know if you're going to hit her up 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.640 immediately or if a full day of not hearing from. 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:50.800 You is going to be a horrible thing. 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:51.200 I don't know. 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.640 Yeah, but everything that we're hearing right now sounds like 0:11:54.080 --> 0:11:54.920 you're into her. 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:55.960 You want to see her. 0:11:57.240 --> 0:12:03.880 Yeah, yeah, I think so. Okay, Actually, uh, you know, 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:07.400 maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't don't tell her this, 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:09.600 it's maybe too early. 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:10.120 Uh. 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.040 I kind of bought her perfume. 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.840 You bought that's interesting. 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:17.840 That's cute. 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:19.800 Like a travel size or full size bottle. 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:24.920 You have a price tag that you can attach to 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:28.040 it like this needs to know you know that's interested? 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:28.199 Why? 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:28.800 Yeah? 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:30.800 What made you do that? Is it like a birthday 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:31.960 coming up for her? Something? 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:34.800 To be honest, my ex used to wear it and 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:36.120 it kind of drove me crazy. 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:41.720 Wild who God, you bought it because it's the same 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:42.360 as your exes. 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:49.840 For bro I'm on the phone, I'm on I heard that. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:53.480 Yeah, that's Carly that's on the other line listening to this. Uh, 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:55.319 that's how this works. We usually call her in. 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:56.320 That is so weird. 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:59.640 He didn't know even the same as your ex? Are 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:00.360 you for wheel? 0:13:00.760 --> 0:13:02.960 I didn't know you were on, Carley, I didn't know 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:03.640 you were on. 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:10.240 Yeah, yeah, well I am. And that's disturbing, Like why, like, okay, seriously, 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:11.960 Brooke Alexis, can you guys help me out on that? 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:13.480 I mean, it could be worse. He could have bought 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:15.200 it because it's what his mom's spells. 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:17.920 Like that wouldeeter my mind. 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:18.760 Did not even do that? 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:23.520 Okay, I think it's a good question. Why why do 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:26.280 you want Carly to be wearing that same perfume? 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:27.680 Yeuld remind you of your ex? 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:31.240 I'd like the sense I thought she would smell grate. 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:35.480 It with it on her Okay, okay, okay, maybe maybe 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:39.400 there could be a different set though for Carly. You know, like, yes, 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:42.240 like my guy, my husband is a sent guy. He 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:44.880 loves sense like you just maybe need to explore a 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:46.160 different set trumps. 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:49.960 Stop trying to change men with every sentence. Say that 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:50.800 is disturbing. 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:52.679 You do not want to remind it. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:55.240 Okay, I'm trying to read this and help you out here. Ethan, 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:59.120 you're saying you didn't buy it because it reminds you 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.720 of your ex. You buying it just because you like 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:02.880 the scent itself. 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:05.959 That's right, And this is not about my ex at all. 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:08.480 She doesn't own the sense, she doesn't own the perfume. 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:10.640 Anyone could buy it. I love the scent, and I 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:12.760 thought Carley would smell great with an honor. That was 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:13.760 a nice gesture, Carly. 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.400 Are you hearing him? 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:17.839 I'm trying. I'm really trying to be open about this. 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:20.880 But like I also, I feel like when you smell 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:24.000 a smell, you associate it with whoever was wearing it. 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:26.960 Yeah, but maybe you're a more powerful woman and he'll 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:29.560 start associating it with you instead of her. Did the 0:14:29.600 --> 0:14:31.240 sense on your body have different effects too? 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:35.160 Literally? It could have been anybody. 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:38.000 If his male man had been wearing the perfume, it 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.080 would have driven him mad. I mean, and I say 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:42.520 back to here that like the scent is the number 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:44.160 one connection to memories. 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:46.680 Like okay, but but listen, he was never going to 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.640 tell her that it was the ex's scent. 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:51.440 Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you, guys. 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:53.640 I mean, so technically we set him up for this. 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:55.520 Ye know what I mean, Carly, like you got to 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:56.600 give him a little bit. 0:14:56.400 --> 0:15:00.440 Of I feel like you're not wrong. I agree with you, guys, 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:02.080 I do think. And when you put a cent on 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:06.720 it does change like different body chemistries so fair enough. 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:10.200 So you wear it then? Because I really like it? 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:13.400 Oh why don't I shouldn't have heard that question. 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.440 Is that very very important to you if you're going 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:19.440 to go out with her again? 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:28.360 Like I said, guys, I really like it. 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:30.880 You had me up until there. I don't know. Now 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:32.360 I'm getting like creepy. 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:38.640 Again. That's our fault. We're piling not Yes, okay. 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:41.880 We are the weirdos in this conversation. He is totally normal. 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:45.400 I would spray another before he sprays that. 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:47.120 That's a great point. I could wear it so you 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:48.240 could know it on me first. 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:54.840 Wait, I don't think men with women is real hot. 0:15:57.360 --> 0:15:58.680 I'm starting to like this even more. 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:04.320 Yeah, I'm very curious, just as an experiment to see 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:07.880 how the second interaction would go between Carly and Ethan 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:09.320 both wearing the same scent. 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:15.360 She's gonna wear a cologne now yet some Georgia harmany, but. 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:19.000 Really were my ex boyfriend's cologne. 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:25.160 I'll wear it sure, okay. 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:25.520 All fair in love and sense. 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:28.640 And the whole reason that we called you is to 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:31.200 ask if you would see Carly one more time for 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:33.000 a date and we would pay for it. 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:34.760 Yeah, you need to ask a different set. 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:36.360 I would love to see her again. 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:37.320 You are okay? 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:40.600 And Carly, are you still up for this even despite 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:41.160 what you've heard? 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:43.920 I guess so I'll give it all. 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:50.320 I'm a little bit surprised. 0:16:50.440 --> 0:16:52.480 Yeah, I think we did a good job. 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:53.480 Yeah, I'm thrilled for. 0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:56.160 You here on this one, way better than if he 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:59.520 had said she had dragon thumbs. So that's this was 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:01.240 actually a big win for everyone. 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:03.320 Can't come back from that, No, you can't. 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:07.480 Jeffrey in the morning, man, I'm just really happy that 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:10.600 she didn't overreact when she jumped in kind of loud. 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.160 At first, I thought like, oh no, this is it. 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:15.040 It's over. We're not going to come back. 0:17:15.240 --> 0:17:18.199 You don't say that part out loud, man, Like you 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:20.360 buy the perfume and then you just leave it there 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:23.199 like hell yeah. And I understand he didn't know that 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:25.200 she was on the phone, but even to us, But 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:26.760 let's just keep it to myself. 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:29.240 It was, like you said, like it was kind of 0:17:29.280 --> 0:17:32.159 our felt because he confessed that he liked her and 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:35.840 he felt comfortable enough with us to confide that the 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:38.160