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Speaker 1: date started.
Speaker 3: The Second Date update, Brooke, your husband is a collector
Speaker 3: of sports cards.
Speaker 1: He loves them. Are you kidding me?
Speaker 3: Does that make you more attracted to him or super.
Speaker 1: More attracted when he pulls out that Michael Jordan Rookie card. Gosh,
Speaker 1: if only it wasn't rated a three.
Speaker 4: I don't even know what that is.
Speaker 1: Actually, I think it's a one because he wrote his
Speaker 1: initials on it when he was seven years old.
Speaker 4: That you just rubbed that card.
Speaker 1: All over, because it doesn't matter as much as.
Speaker 3: I bring it up because one of our listeners says
Speaker 3: that the guy that she went out with mentioned that
Speaker 3: he is a collector of items and it stopped her.
Speaker 4: In her track.
Speaker 1: Collection.
Speaker 3: We'll find out more about that in just a second,
Speaker 3: but first let's talk to Carly here. Carly, you said
Speaker 3: in your email that the guy's name is Ethan.
Speaker 4: How did you meet him?
Speaker 5: Yeah, we met on a dating app.
Speaker 1: Okay, and Liz whatever he collects part of his profile. No, oh,
Speaker 1: it wasn't listed.
Speaker 5: Okay, nope, A nice little.
Speaker 4: Surprise for you.
Speaker 1: You don't say it with a smile on your face
Speaker 1: that it was revealed like midway to the date.
Speaker 4: Oh okay.
Speaker 3: Well let's go chronologically then before we get to the
Speaker 3: collecting of stuff, tell us more about Ethan and what
Speaker 3: attracted you to him.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so initially his one liner joke to me about
Speaker 5: he was the world's okayist cook and he had a
Speaker 5: picture of bart grilled cheese.
Speaker 1: That's really cute.
Speaker 3: The fact that he could cook at all, even if
Speaker 3: it is just okay, he's impressive.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, it's a cute line, and it's an
Speaker 1: easy way to then transition to let me cook you
Speaker 1: something mid.
Speaker 2: Setting a standard.
Speaker 1: Ta.
Speaker 4: So did your date involve cooking?
Speaker 5: It did not?
Speaker 3: No, okay, all right, So tell us about what happened.
Speaker 5: So, I mean, you know, we've been dating for like
Speaker 5: ten eleven days, like not super long, talking, right, Yeah,
Speaker 5: we were talking texting, you know, ten eleven.
Speaker 3: Days in the in the build up to the actual
Speaker 3: first meeting. So what did you guys actually do when
Speaker 3: you went out?
Speaker 5: Well, we decided to meet up for dinner and we
Speaker 5: went to Steak and Shake.
Speaker 2: I love.
Speaker 4: Is that a fast food?
Speaker 3: It is?
Speaker 1: Ok? Yeah, shake shavers over there and shakes because it's
Speaker 1: like fast food. Was that cool with you or was
Speaker 1: that a disappointment?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 5: I was okay with it. I mean he burnt grilled cheese,
Speaker 5: so you know, low standards.
Speaker 3: Sure, all right, And how was the chemistry between you
Speaker 3: and Ethan?
Speaker 5: It was really good? He was super fun, super sweet.
Speaker 5: He held a door. He was like pulling out my
Speaker 5: chair like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: No, I'm old school, like I think.
Speaker 1: People being polite is probably is pretty well received.
Speaker 4: Well I slam the door in their face. We all
Speaker 4: have different styles of Okay, so he.
Speaker 1: Does that to me the studio honestly, like, learn to
Speaker 1: open the door for somewhere.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't want to like get in the way
Speaker 3: of your womanhood and do.
Speaker 4: Anything like that.
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to equal. We're equal in the work,
Speaker 3: I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So okay.
Speaker 3: So, but you you thought that he was being a
Speaker 3: real gentleman on this date with you, Carly, I did
Speaker 3: for sure.
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is all sounding great. Was there something
Speaker 1: like you said, the collection thing? When did that come
Speaker 1: into play?
Speaker 5: Well, he just randomly was like I collect rubber duck.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's the item that he collected.
Speaker 1: The deep owners, the one of those people idea rubber
Speaker 1: ducks are huge right now, there is every type of
Speaker 1: rubber duck ever.
Speaker 3: Okay, how did you feel about.
Speaker 4: It, Carly?
Speaker 5: I was kind of like weirded out. I was like what,
Speaker 5: And then he said he keeps them for emotional support,
Speaker 5: which makes.
Speaker 1: It less weird.
Speaker 4: I didn't know that you could do that.
Speaker 1: Was that a joke?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: He was like it was a joke.
Speaker 2: He was just kidding.
Speaker 1: Everyone. Everyone's trying not to judge.
Speaker 4: All blood A big sigh of relief.
Speaker 3: All right, okay, although just to be clear, there's nothing
Speaker 3: wrong with having emotional support ducks.
Speaker 4: If anybody out there.
Speaker 3: Ducks, yes, it is totally support.
Speaker 4: Okay, but that was a joke.
Speaker 1: But the rubber ducks were real.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, he has rubber ducks, all right, And.
Speaker 1: So why is this a big part of the date,
Speaker 1: like you mentioned it?
Speaker 4: Is it?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: He had some like super funny one liners like that one,
Speaker 5: and I laughed so hard that I snored in okay,
Speaker 5: and he kind of looked at me like really crazy
Speaker 5: and I did and I was like.
Speaker 1: But you can't control it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like a what do you think you
Speaker 3: think it's too unattractive that it's a deal breaker.
Speaker 5: I don't know. Listen. He still walked me to my
Speaker 5: car and like kissing and everything. That's like the texting
Speaker 5: is just not the same, Like I'm just getting those
Speaker 5: like little texts here and there, and he's just kind
Speaker 5: of putting no effort to little effort into things.
Speaker 1: I am obviously biased, but I think storting is quite endearing.
Speaker 4: But I'm alto a weird last.
Speaker 3: So you're thinking that at the end of the night
Speaker 3: the kiss was a pity kiss. Oh no, even though
Speaker 3: like he didn't approve of your snort, he was like, okay, fine,
Speaker 3: I still just you know.
Speaker 5: I hope not.
Speaker 1: You know, people have weird things. So I have a
Speaker 1: guy friend who won't date women depending on their thumb size,
Speaker 1: and like he thinks thumbs are really weird. They like
Speaker 1: creep him out.
Speaker 3: For I think I know that that is very very
Speaker 3: personal information about something.
Speaker 4: Buddy on the radio like this dragon thum.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we're not trying to body shame anybody.
Speaker 1: Like some people have weird it.
Speaker 4: I don't call it weird, it's.
Speaker 3: Maybe. Yes.
Speaker 1: Well, and if it's that, then he's not the guy
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 3: Is it possible that he's not calling you back because
Speaker 3: you've got dragon thumbs anything Brooks theory?
Speaker 1: Are you holding the phone with just your thumb look
Speaker 1: like it kind of looks like a big toe, Yeah.
Speaker 3: Long claw coming off. Let's just okay, enough about the
Speaker 3: dragon body parts.
Speaker 4: Let's call this ethan guy.
Speaker 3: We'll see if he picks up, and we will ask
Speaker 3: him all the questions to figure out why he's not
Speaker 3: going out with you one more time. Carly, we're going
Speaker 3: to get your second date update right after this second
Speaker 3: date update.
Speaker 4: You're the one.
Speaker 2: If you're.
Speaker 3: A minute story, yeah, if you're just joining us. I'm
Speaker 3: playing this song because our listener Carly went out with
Speaker 3: a guy named Thing who told her that he collects
Speaker 3: rubber ducks. He made the joke that he keeps them
Speaker 3: as emotional support pets. Again just a joke, but he
Speaker 3: does collect them, which begs the question, how bad do
Speaker 3: you feel when even the rubber duck guy won't call
Speaker 3: you back?
Speaker 1: Say it like that, she's a door up.
Speaker 3: Do you consider this your rock bottom, Carly?
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're on this show, I think most
Speaker 1: people would say that that's the case.
Speaker 5: I feel pretty low, but not as low as you
Speaker 5: think I do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. There is more phone call to come
Speaker 4: so we can as you.
Speaker 1: Are supposed to hype our listeners up. Carly, you're amazing
Speaker 1: and you deserve a second date.
Speaker 3: We see how much she struggled to get that sentence.
Speaker 3: That was really inspired.
Speaker 1: I was going to bring up the snort, and maybe
Speaker 1: that's the reason he's not calling back.
Speaker 4: It is a good point.
Speaker 3: She did mention that she laughed so hard during the
Speaker 3: date that she snorted, and that could have been a
Speaker 3: turn off to Ethan.
Speaker 4: But we don't know.
Speaker 3: Which reminds me nobody too funny during this If she
Speaker 3: starts snorting and then Brooks starts snorting.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, so you guys are funny, but as funny
Speaker 5: as him.
Speaker 3: All right, well, that's really motivated me to try super
Speaker 3: hard for you. It's going to I can get one
Speaker 3: hundred percent effort into this. I'm dialing his number right now.
Speaker 3: Let's see if he picks up.
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 5: Thank you, guys. I really hope you can get another
Speaker 5: date for me.
Speaker 4: All right, let's see here we go. Hello, Hey, we're
Speaker 4: looking to talk with Ethan.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is Ethan.
Speaker 1: Hey, Ethan, there's a bunch of us here.
Speaker 2: Who's this. Hello.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a radio show called brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the Morning. We're like a team, very dysfunctional team, and
Speaker 3: we're doing Yeah, we are together, and we're here doing
Speaker 3: a segment called a second date Update.
Speaker 2: Okay, why are you calling me? What this is?
Speaker 1: Love when people ask that. Yeah, just such a natural transition.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So it's a segment where we help out listeners who've
Speaker 3: gone out on a date with somebody but the second
Speaker 3: date hasn't materialized yet.
Speaker 4: We try and.
Speaker 3: Figure out why if there's a reason. So we're doing
Speaker 3: that for one of our listeners that you went out with,
Speaker 3: named Carly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Carly, I know, Carly, what does this mean?
Speaker 3: She mentioned you were a funny guy. It's coming across dude.
Speaker 1: No, I mean, honestly, from your response, it sounds like
Speaker 1: maybe you were planning on calling Carly back and going
Speaker 1: out with her again.
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I mean are you serious? Am I really
Speaker 2: on the air talking about this?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, segment we have based around dating it you were
Speaker 1: just gonna say, yeah, trust us.
Speaker 3: I know this is a weird situation to be in.
Speaker 3: But Carly is seriously confused because she says she had
Speaker 3: a great time with you, but she's not seeing the
Speaker 3: same amount of effort from you as she was before
Speaker 3: the date.
Speaker 4: Kind of like an energy shift. We're not sure if
Speaker 4: anything's changed.
Speaker 2: Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off.
Speaker 2: We have a great time. Okay, that is.
Speaker 1: So cute to hear. So you really liked her?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great
Speaker 2: laugh and we had a great time out.
Speaker 1: She was actually worried about that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it sounds like you do want to go
Speaker 4: out with her again.
Speaker 2: Well, we were texting about when we were going to
Speaker 2: try to get together again. I mean, I'm really just
Speaker 2: surprised right now that she saw it that way that
Speaker 2: I was blowing her off.
Speaker 1: Oh you know, how give me and Daty like God
Speaker 1: to like actually be positive and read everything in that way.
Speaker 1: As far, she.
Speaker 4: Doesn't know you well enough yet.
Speaker 3: She doesn't know if you're going to hit her up
Speaker 3: immediately or if a full day of not hearing from.
Speaker 4: You is going to be a horrible thing.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but everything that we're hearing right now sounds like
Speaker 3: you're into her.
Speaker 4: You want to see her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think so. Okay, Actually, uh, you know,
Speaker 2: maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't don't tell her this,
Speaker 2: it's maybe too early.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 2: I kind of bought her perfume.
Speaker 4: You bought that's interesting.
Speaker 3: That's cute.
Speaker 1: Like a travel size or full size bottle.
Speaker 3: You have a price tag that you can attach to
Speaker 3: it like this needs to know you know that's interested?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: What made you do that? Is it like a birthday
Speaker 4: coming up for her? Something?
Speaker 2: To be honest, my ex used to wear it and
Speaker 2: it kind of drove me crazy.
Speaker 3: Wild who God, you bought it because it's the same
Speaker 3: as your exes.
Speaker 5: For bro I'm on the phone, I'm on I heard that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's Carly that's on the other line listening to this. Uh,
Speaker 3: that's how this works. We usually call her in.
Speaker 1: That is so weird.
Speaker 5: He didn't know even the same as your ex? Are
Speaker 5: you for wheel?
Speaker 2: I didn't know you were on, Carley, I didn't know
Speaker 2: you were on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, well I am. And that's disturbing, Like why, like, okay, seriously,
Speaker 5: Brooke Alexis, can you guys help me out on that?
Speaker 1: I mean, it could be worse. He could have bought
Speaker 1: it because it's what his mom's spells.
Speaker 3: Like that wouldeeter my mind.
Speaker 1: Did not even do that?
Speaker 3: Okay, I think it's a good question. Why why do
Speaker 3: you want Carly to be wearing that same perfume?
Speaker 4: Yeuld remind you of your ex?
Speaker 2: I'd like the sense I thought she would smell grate.
Speaker 1: It with it on her Okay, okay, okay, maybe maybe
Speaker 1: there could be a different set though for Carly. You know, like, yes,
Speaker 1: like my guy, my husband is a sent guy. He
Speaker 1: loves sense like you just maybe need to explore a
Speaker 1: different set trumps.
Speaker 4: Stop trying to change men with every sentence. Say that
Speaker 4: is disturbing.
Speaker 1: You do not want to remind it.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm trying to read this and help you out here. Ethan,
Speaker 3: you're saying you didn't buy it because it reminds you
Speaker 3: of your ex. You buying it just because you like
Speaker 3: the scent itself.
Speaker 2: That's right, And this is not about my ex at all.
Speaker 2: She doesn't own the sense, she doesn't own the perfume.
Speaker 2: Anyone could buy it. I love the scent, and I
Speaker 2: thought Carley would smell great with an honor. That was
Speaker 2: a nice gesture, Carly.
Speaker 4: Are you hearing him?
Speaker 5: I'm trying. I'm really trying to be open about this.
Speaker 5: But like I also, I feel like when you smell
Speaker 5: a smell, you associate it with whoever was wearing it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe you're a more powerful woman and he'll
Speaker 1: start associating it with you instead of her. Did the
Speaker 1: sense on your body have different effects too?
Speaker 4: Literally? It could have been anybody.
Speaker 3: If his male man had been wearing the perfume, it
Speaker 3: would have driven him mad. I mean, and I say
Speaker 3: back to here that like the scent is the number
Speaker 3: one connection to memories.
Speaker 1: Like okay, but but listen, he was never going to
Speaker 1: tell her that it was the ex's scent.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you, guys.
Speaker 1: I mean, so technically we set him up for this.
Speaker 1: Ye know what I mean, Carly, like you got to
Speaker 1: give him a little bit.
Speaker 5: Of I feel like you're not wrong. I agree with you, guys,
Speaker 5: I do think. And when you put a cent on
Speaker 5: it does change like different body chemistries so fair enough.
Speaker 2: So you wear it then? Because I really like it?
Speaker 4: Oh why don't I shouldn't have heard that question.
Speaker 3: Is that very very important to you if you're going
Speaker 3: to go out with her again?
Speaker 2: Like I said, guys, I really like it.
Speaker 5: You had me up until there. I don't know. Now
Speaker 5: I'm getting like creepy.
Speaker 1: Again. That's our fault. We're piling not Yes, okay.
Speaker 3: We are the weirdos in this conversation. He is totally normal.
Speaker 3: I would spray another before he sprays that.
Speaker 2: That's a great point. I could wear it so you
Speaker 2: could know it on me first.
Speaker 1: Wait, I don't think men with women is real hot.
Speaker 4: I'm starting to like this even more.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm very curious, just as an experiment to see
Speaker 3: how the second interaction would go between Carly and Ethan
Speaker 3: both wearing the same scent.
Speaker 1: She's gonna wear a cologne now yet some Georgia harmany, but.
Speaker 5: Really were my ex boyfriend's cologne.
Speaker 2: I'll wear it sure, okay.
Speaker 1: All fair in love and sense.
Speaker 3: And the whole reason that we called you is to
Speaker 3: ask if you would see Carly one more time for
Speaker 3: a date and we would pay for it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to ask a different set.
Speaker 2: I would love to see her again.
Speaker 4: You are okay?
Speaker 3: And Carly, are you still up for this even despite
Speaker 3: what you've heard?
Speaker 5: I guess so I'll give it all.
Speaker 4: I'm a little bit surprised.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we did a good job.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm thrilled for.
Speaker 3: You here on this one, way better than if he
Speaker 3: had said she had dragon thumbs. So that's this was
Speaker 3: actually a big win for everyone.
Speaker 1: Can't come back from that, No, you can't.
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning, man, I'm just really happy that
Speaker 3: she didn't overreact when she jumped in kind of loud.
Speaker 3: At first, I thought like, oh no, this is it.
Speaker 4: It's over. We're not going to come back.
Speaker 1: You don't say that part out loud, man, Like you
Speaker 1: buy the perfume and then you just leave it there
Speaker 1: like hell yeah. And I understand he didn't know that
Speaker 1: she was on the phone, but even to us, But
Speaker 1: let's just keep it to myself.
Speaker 3: It was, like you said, like it was kind of
Speaker 3: our felt because he confessed that he liked her and
Speaker 3: he felt comfortable enough with us to confide that the
Speaker 3: perfume thing was supposed to be a gift, and then
Speaker 3: the ex girlfriend also used to wear it.
Speaker 1: I will say I bet he would have told her
Speaker 1: just because in the sixty seconds you.
Speaker 3: Talk to him, he let it out.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Not like to think that.
Speaker 3: It's more about like how comfortable people are around us,
Speaker 3: that they were open up, not that he just has
Speaker 3: you know, a blabbermouth.
Speaker 4: And also he didn't.
Speaker 1: Think it was a problem. He's like, oh yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna get her the same semi.
Speaker 4: Extra refen always work. As I love it, then I'll
Speaker 4: call her.
Speaker 1: Let's be honest. The only reason any guy ever knows
Speaker 1: the smell of a perfume is because of some woman dated.
Speaker 4: Smell like Michelle.
Speaker 3: So then let's give credit to Carle who was able
Speaker 3: to hear him out and separate the X from the
Speaker 3: smell and agree to a very, very pungent second date.
Speaker 3: I'm worried about.
Speaker 1: How pungent it's gonna be. Are they both gonna show
Speaker 1: We're gonna Yeah, they're.
Speaker 3: Gonna be gas masks when they meet up. But text
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Speaker 3: If you ever feel like you need a little bit
Speaker 3: of help in your dating life, we can call that
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