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Speaker 3: The Second Date update, Brooke, your husband is a collector

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Speaker 1: He loves them. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so initially his one liner joke to me about

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Speaker 3: Is it possible that he's not calling you back because

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Speaker 4: You're the one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is Ethan.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Ethan, there's a bunch of us here.

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Speaker 2: Who's this. Hello.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a radio show called brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 3: the Morning. We're like a team, very dysfunctional team, and

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Speaker 3: that for one of our listeners that you went out with,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Carly, I know, Carly, what does this mean?

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Speaker 3: She mentioned you were a funny guy. It's coming across dude.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, honestly, from your response, it sounds like

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I mean are you serious? Am I really

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, segment we have based around dating it you were

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Speaker 3: I know this is a weird situation to be in.

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Speaker 3: But Carly is seriously confused because she says she had

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Speaker 4: Kind of like an energy shift. We're not sure if

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Speaker 2: Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off.

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Speaker 2: We have a great time. Okay, that is.

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Speaker 1: So cute to hear. So you really liked her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great

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Speaker 1: She was actually worried about that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so it sounds like you do want to go

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Speaker 2: Well, we were texting about when we were going to

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Speaker 1: Oh you know, how give me and Daty like God

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Speaker 1: As far, she.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't know you well enough yet.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't know if you're going to hit her up

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Speaker 4: You is going to be a horrible thing.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but everything that we're hearing right now sounds like

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Speaker 4: You want to see her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think so. Okay, Actually, uh, you know,

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Speaker 2: maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't don't tell her this,

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 2: I kind of bought her perfume.

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Speaker 4: You bought that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: Like a travel size or full size bottle.

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Speaker 3: You have a price tag that you can attach to

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: What made you do that? Is it like a birthday

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Speaker 2: To be honest, my ex used to wear it and

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Speaker 3: Wild who God, you bought it because it's the same

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Speaker 5: For bro I'm on the phone, I'm on I heard that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's Carly that's on the other line listening to this. Uh,

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Speaker 3: that's how this works. We usually call her in.

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Speaker 1: That is so weird.

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Speaker 5: He didn't know even the same as your ex? Are

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Speaker 2: I didn't know you were on, Carley, I didn't know

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, well I am. And that's disturbing, Like why, like, okay, seriously,

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Speaker 5: Brooke Alexis, can you guys help me out on that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it could be worse. He could have bought

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Speaker 3: Like that wouldeeter my mind.

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Speaker 1: Did not even do that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think it's a good question. Why why do

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Speaker 4: Yeuld remind you of your ex?

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Speaker 2: I'd like the sense I thought she would smell grate.

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Speaker 1: It with it on her Okay, okay, okay, maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: there could be a different set though for Carly. You know, like, yes,

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Speaker 1: like my guy, my husband is a sent guy. He

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Speaker 4: Stop trying to change men with every sentence. Say that

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Speaker 4: is disturbing.

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Speaker 1: You do not want to remind it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm trying to read this and help you out here. Ethan,

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Speaker 3: you're saying you didn't buy it because it reminds you

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Speaker 2: That's right, And this is not about my ex at all.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't own the sense, she doesn't own the perfume.

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Speaker 2: Anyone could buy it. I love the scent, and I

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Speaker 2: thought Carley would smell great with an honor. That was

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Speaker 4: Are you hearing him?

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Speaker 5: I'm trying. I'm really trying to be open about this.

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Speaker 5: But like I also, I feel like when you smell

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe you're a more powerful woman and he'll

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Speaker 1: start associating it with you instead of her. Did the

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Speaker 4: Literally? It could have been anybody.

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Speaker 3: If his male man had been wearing the perfume, it

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Speaker 1: Like okay, but but listen, he was never going to

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you, guys.

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Speaker 1: I mean, so technically we set him up for this.

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Speaker 1: Ye know what I mean, Carly, like you got to

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Speaker 5: Of I feel like you're not wrong. I agree with you, guys,

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Speaker 2: So you wear it then? Because I really like it?

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Speaker 4: Oh why don't I shouldn't have heard that question.

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Speaker 3: Is that very very important to you if you're going

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Speaker 3: to go out with her again?

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Speaker 2: Like I said, guys, I really like it.

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Speaker 5: You had me up until there. I don't know. Now

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Speaker 5: I'm getting like creepy.

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Speaker 1: Again. That's our fault. We're piling not Yes, okay.

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Speaker 3: We are the weirdos in this conversation. He is totally normal.

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Speaker 3: I would spray another before he sprays that.

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Speaker 2: That's a great point. I could wear it so you

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Speaker 1: Wait, I don't think men with women is real hot.

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Speaker 4: I'm starting to like this even more.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm very curious, just as an experiment to see

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Speaker 3: how the second interaction would go between Carly and Ethan

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Speaker 1: She's gonna wear a cologne now yet some Georgia harmany, but.

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Speaker 5: Really were my ex boyfriend's cologne.

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Speaker 2: I'll wear it sure, okay.

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Speaker 1: All fair in love and sense.

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Speaker 3: And the whole reason that we called you is to

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Speaker 3: a date and we would pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to ask a different set.

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Speaker 2: I would love to see her again.

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Speaker 4: You are okay?

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Speaker 3: And Carly, are you still up for this even despite

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Speaker 5: I guess so I'll give it all.

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Speaker 4: I'm a little bit surprised.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we did a good job.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm thrilled for.

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Speaker 3: You here on this one, way better than if he

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Speaker 3: had said she had dragon thumbs. So that's this was

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Speaker 1: Can't come back from that, No, you can't.

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning, man, I'm just really happy that

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Speaker 3: At first, I thought like, oh no, this is it.

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Speaker 4: It's over. We're not going to come back.

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Speaker 1: You don't say that part out loud, man, Like you

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Speaker 1: buy the perfume and then you just leave it there

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Speaker 1: like hell yeah. And I understand he didn't know that

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Speaker 3: It was, like you said, like it was kind of

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Speaker 1: I will say I bet he would have told her

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Speaker 3: Talk to him, he let it out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Not like to think that.

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Speaker 3: It's more about like how comfortable people are around us,

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Speaker 4: And also he didn't.

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Speaker 1: Think it was a problem. He's like, oh yeah, I'm

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Speaker 4: Extra refen always work. As I love it, then I'll

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Speaker 1: Let's be honest. The only reason any guy ever knows

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Speaker 4: Smell like Michelle.

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Speaker 3: So then let's give credit to Carle who was able

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Speaker 3: smell and agree to a very, very pungent second date.

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Speaker 3: I'm worried about.

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Speaker 1: How pungent it's gonna be. Are they both gonna show

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Speaker 1: We're gonna Yeah, they're.

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Speaker 3: Gonna be gas masks when they meet up. But text

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