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Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hi guys, welcome to another episode.

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Speaker 1: Of that was great?

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Speaker 2: How did we do that in unison sync? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we see b and Benidos welcome back. We had

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Speaker 1: a lot of trash to talk today, don't with my friend?

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Speaker 2: Oh per usual for her. I think we're pretty good

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Speaker 2: at it, and I know that you guys love listening

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Speaker 2: to us, and I guess we should just start by

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Speaker 2: playing a quick catchup, right, jump on in. By the way,

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Speaker 2: did you see? Us Weekly reported that many illustors avoided

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Speaker 2: taking pictures or asking to be taking pictures with Megan

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Speaker 2: Markle at the lavish Hampton's gathering.

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Speaker 1: I get Bana, Bana, Hannah. I just I don't.

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Speaker 2: Why does she still just good anyway? We're so embarrassed

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Speaker 2: for her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we're embarrassed for her. Why does she go anywhere?

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Speaker 1: And anyway? Every time she goes out, everyone gets like

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Speaker 1: pissed off and nobody wants to be around her. It's

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Speaker 1: she's just like.

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Speaker 2: This, does she even realize it? I think that she

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Speaker 2: thinks she's like so above all that that she doesn't

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Speaker 2: even realize that people really don't like her, want to

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Speaker 2: take a picture with her. I yeah, So one source

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Speaker 2: said that they knew that if they're in a picture

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Speaker 2: with her, which means Megan, it is an approval of

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Speaker 2: her that she can't use to promote herself.

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Speaker 1: Oh right, So people don't want to take a picture

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Speaker 1: with her because they think that she's going to use

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Speaker 1: it to promote her thing, her projects, whatever it is,

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Speaker 1: whatever it may be, Like she wants people to believe her,

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Speaker 1: right right. But I thought it was funny that it's

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Speaker 1: Gweneth Paltrow. Yeah, that she's not very liked either. Nicol

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Speaker 1: wants a picture anyway, She's She's probably like, look, nobody

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Speaker 1: likes me. So I'm talking definitely not taking a picture.

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Speaker 1: I am Megan, get away from me.

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Speaker 2: I got enough troubles on my own exactly. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I just thought it was like a poor choice, Like,

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Speaker 2: if you want to take a picture, it's not going

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Speaker 2: to be with gwen because by the way, nobody likes

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Speaker 2: her and YouTube together, like, it's not going anywhere, are

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Speaker 2: they right? So the big question is, really, have you

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Speaker 2: ever avoided someone out a function?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Actually, I have a really good story and you

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Speaker 1: were there like usual okay, well I want to hear it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, remind me of that good story.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember this summer when we went to Madonna's

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Speaker 1: son's art Guy.

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Speaker 2: You already that one.

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Speaker 1: I knew it was that one.

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Speaker 2: Say it?

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Speaker 1: So we Alexi and I obviously are invited to an

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Speaker 1: art showing for rocker Richie. He was an amazing artist,

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Speaker 1: Madonna's son with Guy Ritchie and the people that were

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Speaker 1: throwing it on. The minute I walk in the door,

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Speaker 1: come running up to me and going, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: Adriana from your show showed up. She wasn't invited. I'm

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Speaker 1: so sorry we didn't invite her. We're so sorry. Please

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Speaker 1: don't leave. I mean, we know, you know, we want

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Speaker 1: you in Alexia here, but we don't want her here.

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Speaker 1: Right the way, Yeah, nobody even noticed her, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean I was trying not to know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: she's easy to miss. But anyway, fast forward with that

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Speaker 1: being said, uh huh. So then a photographer comes out

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Speaker 1: to me and says, hey, let's get a group picture,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, sure, And all of a sudden

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Speaker 1: I'm standing next to Adriana. I go, oh no, no,

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Speaker 1: wait wait, I'll be right back and I go grab

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Speaker 1: Alexia and I said, Adrianna wants a picture with us?

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Speaker 1: And Alexia's like, hell, no, of course.

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Speaker 2: Not so at that moment, I'm like, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Like Adriana wants a picture with us to validate or

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Speaker 2: to pretend they were in good terms and were in

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Speaker 2: speaking terms, and she's my friend, and guess what, I'm

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Speaker 2: not doing that. I'm not falling into that now. So

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Speaker 2: I know the photographer didn't like it, because of course

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Speaker 2: he wanted that picture of the three of us, and I,

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Speaker 2: you know, very quickly said absolutely not, pretty much like

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Speaker 2: in her face. And I was like, okay with it.

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Speaker 2: It's like I can't be a hypocrite that aya.

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Speaker 1: But then she called you out and when you were.

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Speaker 2: Leaving it so she you know, became who she is,

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Speaker 2: like a housewife. Moment the cameras weren't there, and she

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Speaker 2: you should have taken that picture with me. I don't

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Speaker 2: know where you want a picture with me? And I go,

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Speaker 2: why don't I want a picture with you? I know, like,

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Speaker 2: are you kidding me? You've been insulting me all season

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Speaker 2: and making up lies you know about my family and

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Speaker 2: you know, just going after me every season, and now

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Speaker 2: you want a picture with me, Like I'm not that

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Speaker 2: kind of friend. Yeah, Like I take pictures with my friends,

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Speaker 2: with people that I like and I admire or fra respect.

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Speaker 1: If you want to say you're our fan, then maybe

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Speaker 1: we'll let you know what.

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Speaker 2: Maybe no, no, my fans.

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Speaker 1: I love my family.

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Speaker 2: I mean her right, Well, maybe that's what she was

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Speaker 2: trying to do. Fan. I feel like a lot of

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Speaker 2: people are very strategic about that, and I feel like

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Speaker 2: Megan is one of those people. You know, she just

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Speaker 2: goes to events, you know, to get that picture and

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Speaker 2: you know, to have like, you know, a false narrative

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Speaker 2: her story and just to use it later on.

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Speaker 1: I Unfortunately, for her, there's just nothing she does seems

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Speaker 1: to feel authentic and right. It just always seems like

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Speaker 2: I agree, Well that's not why she's acting. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's why she's not acting, because like

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Speaker 2: she's not even a good actress. I've never been I've

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Speaker 2: never really cared for her.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know she wasn't until she did

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Speaker 1: at Megan, I mean, sorry, Harry. But yeah, but then

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Speaker 1: you know, when she was on the world stage, it's

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Speaker 1: been Wow. Yeah, she's like the world's worst actress.

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Speaker 2: She is, and she's never been like somebody that's caught

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Speaker 2: my attention. You know, there's like certain like celebrities or

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Speaker 2: and you just you know, even though everybody may hate them,

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Speaker 2: you may still have like a liking for them, or

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Speaker 2: there's something but about her. I've just like never been interested.

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Speaker 2: So you know what, we're not taking a picture with you, Megan.

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Speaker 1: I feel bad for Harry. I'll take a picture of

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Speaker 1: Harry any day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not with me. He's a redhead. You know

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Speaker 1: how I feel about Gingi's.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's you. Yeah, I don't have that fetish. We'll

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Speaker 1: We're not gonna talk about this because my husband listens

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Speaker 1: to this.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well I didn't even want to talk about this,

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Speaker 2: but like you know, we have to start with something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why not start with bashing Megan?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, moving right along to people I love? Yes,

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Speaker 2: So this time is Ben Affleck of course really not

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Speaker 2: j Loo, So you can talk about it because it's Ben.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, listen, I mean, how could we not have

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Speaker 1: Ben or Jail. Of course.

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Speaker 2: Well, they're all over the place, you know, and unlike Megan,

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Speaker 2: Ben doesn't want a picture with anybody, right, he doesn't.

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Speaker 2: By the way, he doesn't want anybody to take a

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So he's like avoiding this but evoting. He can't get

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Speaker 2: away from it, you know, he can't get away from

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Speaker 2: the paparazzis, he can't get away from the media attention.

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Speaker 2: And now he can't get away with his horrible crew cut,

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Speaker 1: What is it? The foe hawk full hawk? Yeah? Can

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Speaker 1: you say that three times? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Hawk, full hack, full hock. Yeah, I know what you

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Speaker 2: want me to say, You're gonna have a slip, and

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Speaker 2: I'm going to say the other words.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it still sounded pretty nasty, Okay.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, so he can't even get a fu hawk

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Speaker 2: without the cameras, you know, chasing him and taking pictures

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Speaker 2: of him. And now he's like spotted embracing that rocker

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've seen him on a motorcycle before.

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Speaker 1: But listen, I don't know anything about him. He does

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Speaker 1: Now he made it electrical. Yeah, so yeah, and he

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Speaker 2: The skinny jeans. By the way, bro, skinny jeans are

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, he's like a simple guy from Boston.

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Speaker 2: That's not you know, Okay, So it's okay. I think

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Speaker 1: Bostonians, they're like they're super gringo, or they're they're very waspy,

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Speaker 2: Well, he's never had a sense of fashion.

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Speaker 1: He's like a simple dude. He likes his beer, he

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Speaker 2: He's just okay, you know what profile if he fits what?

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Speaker 2: Midlife crisis? Oh yeah, midlife crisis. You know, he's being

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Speaker 2: super impulsive. He's having poor judgment in my.

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Speaker 1: So tell me why you think he's having poor judgment.

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Speaker 2: I think his whole behavior in the last couple of

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Speaker 2: and she was in Europe, kind of like doing it

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Speaker 1: But maybe maybe she said I'm gonna if you're I

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Speaker 1: don't want to be there when you move out, and

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Speaker 1: she left, you know I would do that.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be I don't think it's like that,

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Speaker 2: but it's okay, you can go with that. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, we don't know. I mean, we don't know

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Speaker 2: about Megan either. We don't know about any of these

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Speaker 2: people were talking about me. I mean, we just can't

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Speaker 2: like assume or speculate like a lot of people are

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Speaker 2: doing and then go by what the sources are saying.

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Speaker 2: And you should eat the sources. We know who they are.

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Speaker 2: They're the people around you that are in your everyday lives,

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Speaker 2: that are listening, are watching and all these things. So

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Speaker 2: and I think he's being super And the last thing

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Speaker 2: he did was buy a twenty million dollar home on

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Speaker 2: the day of her birthday.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: So that's impulsive. You just don't go buy that's a

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Speaker 2: a super super impulsive act that you just go buy

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Speaker 2: a house for twenty million dollars.

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Speaker 1: Well maybe he needed a write off.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you could be funny and you can

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Speaker 2: say all the stuff that you want. He didn't need

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Speaker 2: a rite off. You know what. He still has a

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Speaker 2: sixty eight million dollar home that he and j Lowe

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Speaker 1: So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just think all of his behaviors and this kind

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Speaker 1: Well, I know, I definitely certainly think now in terms

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Speaker 2: But they have their own mother and men. I feel

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Speaker 1: If he asked me out and I was saying, oh,

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Speaker 2: Because you know, I don't like him. I think she's

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Speaker 1: But they're totally different. They should have never been together.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, she had to get her cocain, so

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Speaker 2: You know, I guess she's never been in love like

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Speaker 1: I think that he will always be the one that

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Speaker 2: Nobody would like that when you're super in love. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: Well, obviously we all know that it's not what you think.

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Speaker 2: They've said it before too, they said before that he

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Speaker 1: We're going to see those. I hope I never seen them,

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Speaker 1: because I don't wish her any bad. No, I don't

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Speaker 2: I want to.

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Speaker 2: you met Jalo being Jalo, she wasn't even the Jlo

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you know what, it's him.

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Speaker 2: It's he's the problem. He's the problem. He's going through

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Speaker 1: We've talked about this before. We know it was a

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Speaker 1: Believe it.

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Speaker 2: Nobody believes it. I've never read that. Again. Nobody is

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Speaker 1: And think he thought it was going to go so wrong.

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Speaker 2: Have you been with any men that have done mid life,

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Speaker 1: Yes, and you were there for it. Like most things

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I feel like I need more hair.

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Speaker 1: Why do you want to get more hair?

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Speaker 1: No, Well, there's this robotic arm thing and it puts

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Speaker 1: I talked, I talked, I drove him there, I babysatam my,

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Speaker 1: don't need that. I like you just the way you are. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Were making him looking for somebody else.

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Speaker 1: I need to be competitive at work, and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I can understand that. That's fine. Okay, fast forward everybody.

434
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:29,400
Speaker 1: Five months later, he's like, you know what, I think

435
00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:35,119
Speaker 1: I'm gonna move out with my new face and my

436
00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:37,760
Speaker 1: face and my hair and my new egg that I

437
00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 1: had surgically implant it and then you need and took

438
00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:44,960
Speaker 1: care of. Yeah that sucks, my friend, Yeah it sucks.

439
00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:48,680
Speaker 1: And then on top of that, a girlfriend of mine

440
00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,440
Speaker 1: calls me. She's like, you know, so and so is

441
00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:54,240
Speaker 1: on bumble and he went out with someone that works

442
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,480
Speaker 1: for me. And I said, what why would he be

443
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,320
Speaker 1: on an app? He's a good looking dude, he doesn't

444
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,320
Speaker 1: need to like you know, and he works in a

445
00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:05,160
Speaker 1: business race meeting single people all the time. That makes

446
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:05,840
Speaker 1: no sense.

447
00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,639
Speaker 2: He just wanted somebody to feed his ego. That's what

448
00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:12,200
Speaker 2: happens in the mad life crisis. That's they go looking

449
00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,680
Speaker 2: for that. They go needing for adventure, something to talk

450
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:15,520
Speaker 2: to exactly.

451
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:16,480
Speaker 1: He's a new.

452
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,119
Speaker 2: Supply, he needed new new people.

453
00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 1: Well, he was also a narcissist, so he liked people

454
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 1: to listen to his story and they tell him he

455
00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 1: was right and how horrible everybody in his life has

456
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:30,920
Speaker 1: been to him and blah blah blah. Yeah, and to

457
00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,600
Speaker 1: this day, how long has it been six years? Yeah,

458
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,800
Speaker 1: he still has never had a girlfriend. It's become the

459
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Speaker 1: town fluy.

460
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Speaker 2: But that's what I mean about poor judgment, because you know,

461
00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,400
Speaker 2: sometimes these men that go through these crisis, mid life crisis,

462
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:48,359
Speaker 2: they leave and you blame everything that their unhappiness on

463
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 2: the woman or on their marriage. When they are unhappy themselves,

464
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 2: they need to fix themselves. It's a lot your partner

465
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,840
Speaker 2: that's making you unhappy. It's not you know, the fame,

466
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 2: it's not this, it's not the other, it's it's themselves.

467
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,440
Speaker 2: So they need to go work on themselves.

468
00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 1: That's true. That's true. That's true. Listen. Maybe Ben's the

469
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,679
Speaker 1: kind of guy that you shouldn't even have a partner,

470
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,439
Speaker 1: you know, Listen, he should maybe be alone.

471
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 2: The first time when he divorced Jennifer Gardner, he went

472
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Speaker 2: and he got this huge tattoo of a phoenix on

473
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Speaker 2: his back. Oh really yeah, so that was he was

474
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,479
Speaker 2: going through his mid life crisis, and he as soon

475
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,119
Speaker 2: as they got divorced, he got this big tattoo. And

476
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:27,879
Speaker 2: now I have a new love for tattoos because they

477
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 2: do have a lot of symbolism. I love tattoos and

478
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 2: thing that. Well, when it's something like that, I totally

479
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 2: support it. Not just for fun, just getting like something

480
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 2: stupid on your body. But in that case, it meant

481
00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:39,399
Speaker 2: a lot for him, So I you know.

482
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Speaker 1: He's probably gonna get one right across his forehead. That's

483
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 1: his freedom, just saying.

484
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 2: She should get that. Oh yeah, this guy is hard

485
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 2: to live with, can't you see me? He always looks

486
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 2: like angry, he always looks unhappy. He really needs to

487
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 2: go fix himself.

488
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just a dude.

489
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 2: You know. Well, your dude isn't like that. I mean,

490
00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 2: that's not Yeah, but.

491
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 1: Steve's more europe He's very European, and he's more like

492
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,919
Speaker 1: Jean de Vive and you know, he's a totally different personality.

493
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,200
Speaker 1: What happens, It feeds my soul.

494
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 2: When they're going through this that they get frustrated, frustrated,

495
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 2: it gets very irritable, and then they just blame everything

496
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 2: and their own happiness, you know, on their curtain situation.

497
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: So what do they do. They go looking for a

498
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 2: new situation, and by the way, they get themselves in

499
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 2: more trouble because how can somebody like that be ready

500
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 2: to move on either into another relationship or to do

501
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 2: like crazy stuff. And that's what I meant about poor judgment.

502
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Speaker 1: People do it all the time. We always think that,

503
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 1: you know, maybe if I'm with somebody else, I'll feel

504
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 1: better and put a band aid on it. And it's

505
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 1: usually the worst move you can do. You really do

506
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 1: need to heal, and we've talked about that. The time

507
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 1: you spend healing yourself makes you better and open to

508
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 1: attract the right person and have a healthy relationship. I agree.

509
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, find my final thoughts on that because tell

510
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 2: me so well. The odd thing about a mid life

511
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:09,199
Speaker 2: crisis is that is so painfully predictable. It's you can

512
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: see it right, you can see it, and sometimes we

513
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 2: just rather not see it and say kind of like

514
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 2: brush it off and say, well, you know, all the

515
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 2: signs are there, but you kind of don't want to

516
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:20,400
Speaker 2: see it, and you make excuses until you're actually going

517
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 2: through it. And all the confusion, lamenting and fear of

518
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 2: regrets were going to happen either way. Think about that,

519
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 2: All those things were going to happen either way. Regardless

520
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 2: of what paths we choose in life. There will always

521
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 2: be regrets for some of us because we can't simultaneous

522
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 2: live every life. You know, it's kind of like you

523
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,919
Speaker 2: want to live other people's life everybody, and you are

524
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 2: want to live your life. You have to choose your path.

525
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and everybody expresses themselves differently. Some people have to

526
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: vent to a million people and then they do whatever

527
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: they want anyway. Some people have to have, you know,

528
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 1: one hundred hours of therapy every week. Some people have

529
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 1: to get take pills and drink alcohol.

530
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Speaker 2: You know.

531
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,880
Speaker 1: Everybody has a different way of dealing with these situations.

532
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: And I guess Ben's well, that's a lot.

533
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:04,919
Speaker 2: That's a lot too, because a lot of the men

534
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 2: that are going through middle life crisis also turned to

535
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 2: like alcohol and partying ways and all that. And I

536
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 2: pray that Ben doesn't that doesn't happen to Ben. Oh God, yeah,

537
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 2: you know, because I only wish him, you know, the best,

538
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 2: and of course I would never want that, you know,

539
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 2: to happen again. So hopefully he'll keep on focusing on

540
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,200
Speaker 2: being a good father and on his movie roles and producing,

541
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 2: and he'll find peace within himself, because I believe that

542
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 2: men lose their peace.

543
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: Real is she the best band? Somebody else may or

544
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 1: may not be joining only fans because Tory Spelling has

545
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 1: been joking about joining only fans because god, it's only

546
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:54,479
Speaker 1: a joke, right, She's got to pay for a children's college.

547
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: But listen, it's no joke. People are making a lot

548
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 1: of money doing it.

549
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 2: I mean, it's no joke that we're talking about this.

550
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,880
Speaker 2: I think it's pretty embarrassing for a mother of five,

551
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 2: five kids to be saying that she's gonna join only

552
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 2: fans to pay for her children's her tuition.

553
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 1: Her husband is a dead beat. Okay, he's a dead beat.

554
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: Well what about her? And her mother cut her off completely?

555
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: She and her mother was the one that told her,

556
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: don't marry that dude and then don't have children. But

557
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: she had one, not two, and not three, and not four,

558
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: but five kids with him, and he cheated on her

559
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: and kept cheating on her, and she kept having kids

560
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 1: with him.

561
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 2: See would I have her problem? Okay, I get it

562
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,239
Speaker 2: that Tory's mom doesn't have a good relationship with her,

563
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 2: and that's her daughter, but these are her grandchildren. And

564
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 2: you know what, maybe you don't want to give them, like,

565
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 2: you know, a big house and cars and luxury items,

566
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 2: but an education is something basic. And if I had

567
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 2: the money they did and the kids really wanted to

568
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 2: go to school, I mean, because there's some kids that

569
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 2: just go to college for fun and you know, not

570
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 2: to do anything else. But if I was their grandma

571
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 2: in that position, I will say, you know what, I'm

572
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 2: going to take care of the kids that really take

573
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 2: school serious and want a career. I'm going to support that,

574
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 2: and I'm going to pay for that, and you don't

575
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 2: have to worry about that. But you know, I'm not

576
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 2: in their situation. I don't know exactly I mean it.

577
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 2: I'll go because it's very weird that a grandmother doesn't

578
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 2: want to pay for.

579
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: Well, Tory historically it's just done absolutely everything that her

580
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 1: mother didn't want her to agree.

581
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 2: With that, but these are their grandchildren, you know, so

582
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:31,959
Speaker 2: you shouldn't take it out on your grandchildren.

583
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, the old lady stubborn. What can I

584
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 1: tell you? She is and so is Tory, and she's

585
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,959
Speaker 1: punishing and I guess she wants her I guess her

586
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: dying breath will be you should have listened to me,

587
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 1: and you should have done what I said, because this

588
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 1: all could have been yours.

589
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 2: Well, it'll be interesting to see if she does change

590
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 2: things around when she's in that situation of her passing.

591
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, and I don't know much

592
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 2: about them, but I know that she'll do. You know,

593
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 2: she's saying and teasing that she'll do anything to pay

594
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: for her her kid's tuition, And it's just very embarrassing

595
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 2: that that's the kind of example that you're trying to,

596
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: you know, show your kids, like, you know what, take

597
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 2: the easy way out there. Kids are going to go like, wait,

598
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 2: I don't even want to go to college, and I'll

599
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,959
Speaker 2: just go up. I'll do my own only fans, right,

600
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 2: you take the shortcut, honestly, So I just think everything's

601
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 2: wrong about it. I wouldn't even joke about it. I

602
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 2: think it's embarrassing. I think it's shameful.

603
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it depends on what you're doing, because

604
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 1: I don't know. So we have a list here of

605
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 1: celebrities that is huge, the amount of money that people

606
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 1: are making, so it's quite tempting. I mean, I'm looking

607
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: at this list thinking, why am I going back on

608
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: a house while show? Why don't I just put on

609
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 1: some lingerie for OnlyFans? But but then, ill, you don't

610
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 1: even want to show your boops. That's what I was

611
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 1: gonna say, I don't even show your hooops. Well, what

612
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: am I gonna do? Run around a turtleneck and a

613
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 1: g string?

614
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that might be a look, that's market, that's

615
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: a market. Well, let's try you want to try it.

616
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 1: What are you gonna video me?

617
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: I can be your content creator.

618
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: I was thinking of maybe just washing fruit with my

619
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: feet because there's like a whole footy but is very delicious,

620
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, that we can do. But no, I

621
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: mean I don't know how much of it is true.

622
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: But again, I even what about the money, So you're

623
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,199
Speaker 1: really teaching your kids just like no morals or values.

624
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: It's just like it's just easier to go on OnlyFans

625
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: and show your papaya and show your you know, whatever

626
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: it is you need to show you Like, for me,

627
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: that's a prostitution.

628
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 2: Honestly, you know how I've always felt about OnlyFans, right right,

629
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Speaker 2: And I'm.

630
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: Just like okay with it.

631
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 2: You know, I would do anything possible, any any other

632
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 2: job besides like selling myself, you know, and like to me,

633
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 2: that's you may selling your body, like you're trying to

634
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: sell your naked your naked body or anything sexual. Like

635
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 2: I want to show you my boob if I want

636
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 2: to show you my boob, like look at my boob,

637
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 2: but I don't expect you to pay me to show

638
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 2: you my boob.

639
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 1: Okay, so you would show your boob, but you don't

640
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 1: want to be.

641
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 2: But not on only fans. I'm just saying it's not

642
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: like I'm so so prude. I'm not saying like, oh

643
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 2: my god, no, like I would never be on lingerie.

644
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 2: I'm in front of lingerie whoever I want to be.

645
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 2: You want, there's a transaction. That's okay, Okay. I'm just

646
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: trying to clear it up for the listeners. But then

647
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: people will say, well, it's different because you know on Instagram,

648
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 2: you know all the girls like pos and bikinis, and

649
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: you know it's like the same thing. I'm not. I

650
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 2: have never gone on only fans or been on so

651
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 2: I don't know how much they show. I mean, I

652
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 2: do know there's some celebrities that are on it, like

653
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 2: Cardi B that this shows no nudity, Ziggy and and

654
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 2: Bella Thorne, so I know that Cardi really uses this platform.

655
00:29:56,120 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: Bella Thorne has racy content okay, but not nudity. There

656
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: is uh a girl Miya Khalifa that one shows nudes. Yes,

657
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,959
Speaker 1: she is an adult film starng she had six million

658
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: dollars a month. That's porn.

659
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 2: We have only fans is porn listen in that case,

660
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 2: she's getting six million dollars.

661
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Speaker 1: What do you think for sa toes, I don't know.

662
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Speaker 2: I mean, are you kidding me? I don't know.

663
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Speaker 1: Alexia for six million dollars a month, I might put

664
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Speaker 1: on a brazier and even show a nipple.

665
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,239
Speaker 2: No, I won't. You might.

666
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: We have to rethink this. I don't how many kids

667
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: I can do that.

668
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: You can do it? Listen, I don't know if anybody

669
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 2: wants to listen. That's why God gave me kids to

670
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 2: keep from making mistakes like that. No from no for real,

671
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 2: because I always put myself in that situation. Your life

672
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 2: is a lot different when you don't have children. But

673
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Speaker 2: what example is Tory spelling, you know, setting for five children?

674
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 2: She's boys and girls. Yeah, that's right, So it changes everything.

675
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Speaker 1: So you know, if she does that, Candy's not not

676
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Speaker 1: only not going to give her money, She's never even.

677
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Speaker 2: Gonna talk to her again. Forget it, right? Yeah, I

678
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 2: mean but not even not. I like, I wouldn't even

679
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: care so much about mom. It's kind of like what

680
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 2: makes you feel good and bad? And her mom's got

681
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 2: the money. See. I like how Cardi uses it. By

682
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 2: the way, besides that, I'm a Cardi b fan. I

683
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 2: like how Cardi uses it, because it's pretty much she

684
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 2: communicates them more with her audience, with her fans. You know,

685
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 2: she clears things up because they talk a lot of

686
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 2: shit about Cardi. So she uses it to say whatever

687
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 2: she wants, to clear up the rumors and just to

688
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,719
Speaker 2: have like that connection. And people love her. People are

689
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: obsessed with her.

690
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: I mean they must love her because she's making nine

691
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: point five million dollars a month clearing up gossip. Good

692
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: for her, that's what we can do.

693
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, that's probably my niche because I

694
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 2: need to clear a lot of shit up that I can't.

695
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: Waited to anyway, we take gossip for ourselves and then

696
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: go clear up.

697
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 2: Hey, Cardi, do you need a co host?

698
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: See everybody's host? Oh my god?

699
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, so you see. I like how Cardi uses it,

700
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 2: and then tell me Ki Musk.

701
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 1: Coco Austin makes a nine million dollars a month. That's ice,

702
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: the one that's ice. I see, bro. She goes to

703
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: everywhere cover with her boobies. It's true.

704
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so for her changes nothing, just making nine million

705
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 2: a month. Wow.

706
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: Wow. I want to know how much the owners of

707
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: OnlyFans have make because that's the money I want to

708
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: be talking about. I mean, it's kind of like, think

709
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: about it, it's kind of like soft porn. And even

710
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: like there's i mean, Instagram is getting.

711
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 2: Really like racy, like uh huh sexy, like a little

712
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 2: bit too much as well, So it's kind of like

713
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: soft porn. Like these guys talk about midlife crisis. Do

714
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: you blame them they're going through middle life crisis because

715
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 2: I mean they go on their Instagram and they're like,

716
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 2: by the way, I have midlife crisis.

717
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: Well, somebody's paying these girls. It must be all those guys.

718
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: Of course.

719
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: It's like they want another life because they're like exposed

720
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 2: to it on the phone all day long seeing this.

721
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 2: Oh wait I can have this?

722
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: Yeah god, this is really good money. Bella Thorne eleven

723
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: million a month.

724
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 2: Isn't Bella Thorne like a very renown actress? She is.

725
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: She's like kind a bunch of shows.

726
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but she's got racy contact.

727
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: The owner's worth two billion.

728
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: That's just so poor than Jo doesn't make sense if

729
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: people are making nine to eleven million off of him.

730
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: You know those numbers are incorrect, They're all manipulated. Yeah, yeah,

731
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: I feel like these numbers are inflated. It doesn't make

732
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: any sense. No, I mean for some.

733
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 2: People, you know, it could, But I think you have

734
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 2: to have something different right than everybody else because how

735
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 2: many asses and how many tips, Like, at the end

736
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 2: of the day, they're all the same.

737
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,959
Speaker 1: Okay, So wait, I want to know, has there ever

738
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Speaker 1: been a time in your life that you took a

739
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: job probably something you wouldn't have normally taken to sport

740
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: you or your children. No, me either.

741
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 2: You know, I was a school teacher. I was a

742
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 2: single mom. I got to do all that. What I

743
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 2: would do to make extra money on the side, I

744
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 2: would tutor. I would tutor, I would work in the summers,

745
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 2: summer school. You know, I got my masters, I would

746
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 2: get paid more because I was in a curtical shortage

747
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 2: area of exceptional education. So you know, I did all

748
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 2: those things, you know, And I was looking into like pharmaceutical.

749
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: Sales, you know. Yeah, that was the jam back in

750
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: the day.

751
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 2: And I had just gotten hired, you know, so it

752
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: was like and I also was looking to get certified

753
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 2: in leadership so I can be an administrator and be

754
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 2: a principal. So there's so many options. You know that

755
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 2: you can do. So nothing like like this ever came. Well,

756
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 2: first of all, I didn't exist. I can't imagine got it,

757
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 2: did it?

758
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,879
Speaker 1: It was a principle? Why not so good?

759
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 2: Well, I know I'm a leader, you know, I like

760
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 2: un that school.

761
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, actually I can, but like it's it. I don't know.

762
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I never saw a principle that looked like you,

763
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,879
Speaker 1: so that would be weird. First, everyone would be in love.

764
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: I love my principle, which by the way, nobody ever says, yeah,

765
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: my principle.

766
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 2: So but I really do like love students, like I mean,

767
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, I like, there were so many things

768
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 2: that I would that you could do, you know, and

769
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 2: not this. This is the easy way out. This is

770
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 2: the wrong message that they're showing young girls and boys.

771
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 2: It's just like easy money and it just goes against

772
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 2: all my morals and principles.

773
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: And that's just me.

774
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, but listen, I respect that for people

775
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 2: that it works for.

776
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: And I feel like now that there's so many celebrities

777
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 1: on the site that it doesn't feel the celebrities. Can

778
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: you name them, Denise Richards, Well, we just named a bunch. Okay,

779
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 1: they're making a lot of money when it was just

780
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 1: regular people and it was a lot of Marisol. How

781
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 1: many people are in this world? Okay, you named five celebrities. Okay,

782
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: that's nothing. Okay, is Jennifer Aison on that?

783
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 2: No?

784
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: Isn't it?

785
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 2: Cole Kidman there?

786
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 1: No, is Blake Lively there?

787
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 2: No? I mean, who are the people you're mentioning?

788
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 1: A lot of money?

789
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter, solved and you know what they can

790
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 2: do another TV roles.

791
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: It's starting to get a little more normalized now that

792
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: a lot of For me.

793
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: It's never going to be. You know, there's a lot

794
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 2: of things that are normalized in throughout the world right now,

795
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 2: society that are not knowing my life.

796
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: Saying that doing porn on there and being naked is cool, but.

797
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 2: They're getting paid that bait. So they're gett paid that

798
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 2: million dollars or less.

799
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: Other things people do on there and they make money

800
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: and it doesn't mean they make it a million a month.

801
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: But it's getting a little more, you know, engrowth ingratiated

802
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: in our culture. More people are.

803
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 2: Doing this and they know what sells shocking. Nobody cares

804
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 2: about a cookie show and OnlyFans. You know, what people

805
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 2: care about tits, ass and sex. That's what people care about.

806
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: I don't know.

807
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 2: It's just like a big note for me. It's getting you,

808
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 2: on the other hand, seems to be really intrigued by

809
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 2: it and.

810
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: Really talk about those kind of numbers.

811
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'd rather have less money and just

812
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 2: you know, feel good about myself.

813
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: I would never do anything that didn't make me feel good,

814
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: that's for sure. I'd have to be able to lay

815
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: my head down.

816
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 2: I can tell you that if a turtleneck is what

817
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 2: makes you feel good and not showing your boobs, I

818
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:58,319
Speaker 2: don't think you would be like a candidate.

819
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: For this month. Maybe like a turtleneck and like tights,

820
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: nobody's going to pay you that million dollars. And I

821
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 1: do like stretching. Stretching your life. Not flexible, did you?

822
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: I'm super flexible. I'm not athletic, but you could be flexible.

823
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: Not athletic, extremely flexible. I'm I don't just splits, but yeah,

824
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: I don't just splits. But do you not remember fran

825
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: Carlton from the seventies that she's very funny. No, she

826
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 1: wasn't funny. She was like she did. She wore a

827
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: unitard and tights with the flower background and did stretching

828
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 1: on television Channel two.

829
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 2: Well maybe you can do that.

830
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, your own can listen. There's a market for everything,

831
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 1: my friend, there really is. Yeah, you know, I wish

832
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 1: you well, Thank you.

833
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 2: I help you give me a percent marketing from your

834
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:51,320
Speaker 2: encouragement my career. I actually liked that idea because, you

835
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 2: know what, everybody loves a comeback, So I feel like

836
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 2: that could work. Eighties inspired you know, you're very disco.

837
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 2: Seventies you're very disco.

838
00:37:58,960 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: I love all that show.

839
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 2: You know, you can have your yeah, working out with

840
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 2: working out with you doing the stretching, don't wear a

841
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 2: pany the want of the tights without that panny, no, yeah,

842
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 2: but you have to give them something. If you want

843
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 2: to make a nine million you want to go tights.

844
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: Oh maybe I can get some of those Bianca and

845
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 1: Sorry outfits Kanye's Beyonce girlfriend wife.

846
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's more twenty twenty four, right, take the

847
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 2: nineteen seventies, the tights and like a see through turnal

848
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 2: neckt Yeah, and the headband. Don't forget the head band.

849
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: You gotta wear the head the glitter headband.

850
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 2: It's all about that. There was a Telegram ceo sperm

851
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 2: donor that has over one hundred kids.

852
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:54,959
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah he beat Tory. Think maybe Tory

853
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: should talk to him? Yeah maybe, yeah, Tory, we need

854
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: to make this introduction. You need to meet the Russian

855
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 1: origin CEO of Telegram. He's claimed that he has over

856
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: one hundred biological kids. He can thank his lucky star

857
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: as he doesn't need Candy Spellings money because she'd be

858
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 1: giving him a penny.

859
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 2: His name is Pavel d. He's the co founder and

860
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 2: CEO of Telegram. He claimed that he has over one

861
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:24,439
Speaker 2: hundred biological kids in twelve countries. Wo assassinatings. Not about

862
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 2: spreading your seed, he says, I was just told that

863
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 2: I have over one hundred biological kids. How is this

864
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: possible for a guy who has never been married and

865
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 2: prefers to live alone. He then added how it all

866
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 2: started so fifteen years ago a friend of mine approached

867
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 2: me with a weird request. He said that he and

868
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 2: his wife couldn't have kids due to a fertility issue

869
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 2: and asked me to donate sperm at a clinic for

870
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 2: them to have a baby. I laughed my ass off

871
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 2: before realizing that he was dead serious. When he visited

872
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 2: the clinic to donate sperm, he was informed that he

873
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 2: was high quality donor material that his donation can help

874
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 2: couples across the world. That sounded crazy enough to get

875
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: me to sign up for that sperm donation. Yea god complex.

876
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 2: So the raw intends to open source his DNA so

877
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 2: that his kids can find each other easily. Of course

878
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: they're a risk, but I don't regret having been a donor.

879
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 2: This shortage of healthy sperm has become an increasingly serious

880
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 2: issue worldwide, and I am proud that I can be

881
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 2: part of it to help alleviate it. So one of

882
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 2: the questions is this isn't narcissistic to donate this much

883
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: because he was told that he has high quality sperm.

884
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: Well, the fact that he believed that he had high

885
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: quality sperm and he decided to make a hundred babies,

886
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: I think he's a bit of a narcissist and as

887
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: a god complex.

888
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and what he thinks he has like the super

889
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 2: sperm that the whole world I think, you know what

890
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,720
Speaker 2: I mean, what's high quality sperm?

891
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: Well, they probably needed sperm and they make a lot

892
00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: of money off of it, and they're like yours is

893
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: really fabulous. I saw him from a mile away. And

894
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 1: then now there's one hundred babies out there. Well, I

895
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 1: know that it's a business, and I know, yeah, people

896
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: do it because they do get paid for this. But

897
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 1: in this case, this guy's a billionaire. So he just

898
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 1: says that he's just doing it to like alleviate, you know,

899
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: the families, and he wants to the stigmatized sperm donation.

900
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 1: But hadniky overdid it a hundred is a lot?

901
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 2: Well, I think he's doing the opposite.

902
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I mean maybe fifteen, but once you

903
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: passed fifteen, even fifteen's a lot, but once you passed fifteen,

904
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: I mean.

905
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 2: There should be a lot. I mean there should be

906
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 2: a law that you can only give so many babies. Yeah,

907
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's kind of scary.

908
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 1: Do you remember that gynecologist that was no he was

909
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 1: a fertility doctor and all of the women that were

910
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 1: going to the clinic thought they were getting their husband's sperm,

911
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: and he was impregnating them with his sperm. He ended

912
00:41:58,160 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: up with a lot of kids too.

913
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 2: I don't you know, this is like a crazy thing.

914
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, and then I think he's the same one

915
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: I could be wrong. That was carving his initials on

916
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 1: people's tummies too. Yeah, there's some weird people out there.

917
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 2: What would you do if you found out that your

918
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 2: partner was donating sperm.

919
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: Or that okay, so that he was actively doing it,

920
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 1: or that he had donated and now there's a child

921
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: that we have to.

922
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 2: Incorporate questions. I mean, just him actively doing Like if

923
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 2: you knew that he had high quality sperm count and

924
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 2: he just wanted like this guy, you know, he wanted

925
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 2: to just you know, I make tribute to society and

926
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 2: to the family's college.

927
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: Mayriso would have been like, okay, whatever, I don't know

928
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: off about it. But right now Steve said to me,

929
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: I have like my kids are so awesome, which they are,

930
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: and why not have more out there? I'd be like, yeah,

931
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good idea. And you're staying home,

932
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 1: you're not going anywhere. Yeah.

933
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be okay with it at any time in

934
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 2: my life. I just believe it.

935
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: But if I found out after meeting him that he

936
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: had donated sperm and there was a few children out there, I.

937
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: Would I just don't know. I don't have enough information

938
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 2: and maybe I should have read about this before. I

939
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 2: don't know what responsibility or how much is it is there.

940
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 2: It's like once you donated, I thought my understanding it

941
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 2: was just over. It was just like, okay, you you donated,

942
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 2: there was a transaction. You give me your sperm, I

943
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 2: pay you for it, and then you never follow through.

944
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 2: You don't know who which family was the one that

945
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 2: got the sperm. I think that's the way it came

946
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 2: to life, right, So then how does this this? I

947
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 2: think sounds like a crazy story to me. I think

948
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 2: he wants to see his work, you know what I mean, like,

949
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 2: show me what.

950
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: He doesn't have any rights. He did not know, he

951
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: doesn't know where. I guess since he's opening up this

952
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 1: DNA thing, maybe it's more for him to for them

953
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: to find him than each other. And as far as

954
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 1: money and responsibility goes, I think that if you if

955
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: you you want to do any of that, you do

956
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: it because it's a moral responsibility, not because you have to.

957
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 2: But no, that's not his kid. He gave the sperm.

958
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it, you know what I mean.

959
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 2: You can't go to the families and say now I'm

960
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 2: responsible for your child.

961
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 1: No, no, I'm not saying that. I'm saying so he's

962
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: opening up this DNA testing and I think, oh my.

963
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 2: God, why are we living such crazy time? Because there's

964
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:22,959
Speaker 2: so many crazy people. I can't.

965
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 1: I think he's just doing that so that they will

966
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 1: find him, and they will find each other and then he.

967
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 2: Can I think he just wants attention. This is another case,

968
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,879
Speaker 2: like nobody knows him. He's another billionaire with a lot

969
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 2: of money, a lot of time in his hands, and

970
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 2: a lot of craziness in his head.

971
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: And he wants to see those hundred kids.

972
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, they're just fine without you. Yeah,

973
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:43,760
Speaker 2: just let them be with their families and whoever.

974
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: You know, would you want to know about the kids if,

975
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 1: like say tomorrow, you meet someone love of your life now,

976
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 1: then afterwards he's like, I did this.

977
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:57,280
Speaker 2: I just found out about it. But you're already together.

978
00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: You're in it. This is your guy.

979
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 2: No, No, I mean it doesn't. It wouldn't make a

980
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 2: difference because, like I said, I think just being a

981
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 2: sperm donor, you don't have any right unless it's together,

982
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 2: like for example, like you know, maybe like the same

983
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 2: sex marriage, you know, or if your eggs aren't good

984
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 2: or there's sperm isn't good. You know, as long as

985
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 2: you're involved and there's communication and you're in it together. Yes,

986
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 2: of course it's your baby and you would want to know.

987
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 2: But this guy just went to different sperm banks donating

988
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 2: or donated one and then they've made all these donations.

989
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 2: But like, I mean, why did you donate your Why

990
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,720
Speaker 2: did you donate your money instead of your storms?

991
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: Can you please do me that favorite donate your money.

992
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: You're not your sperm kill us some we like money.

993
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: We might get on OnlyFans give us some harmula. Yeah,

994
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 1: it's it's complicated, my friend, it's a lot. Listen, it

995
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 1: was too much.

996
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 2: Also were growing up, my friend.

997
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh, listen, when there was no internet, we didn't

998
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: know holf the things that were actually going on.

999
00:45:58,400 --> 00:45:59,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, what, I like the Internet.

1000
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: It's good to know.

1001
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 2: I don't like social media, but the Internet up to

1002
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 2: a certain point, and obviously feel different about it, you

1003
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 2: know when the kids are younger. But I think it's

1004
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 2: you know, I think it's a good source.

1005
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 1: So well, let me rephrase that question to you one

1006
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 1: more time, because I feel like you have a different answer.

1007
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:22,879
Speaker 1: And you meet somebody you'll get married with. Him. Then

1008
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 1: years later somebody shows up in his life and says, oh,

1009
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: I was the product of a sperm donation you did.

1010
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: Wouldn't you want to get to know that child? Because

1011
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 1: but whose sperm isn't the man.

1012
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 2: I don't have sperm?

1013
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not yours, Okay. I mean.

1014
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 2: For him, obviously, if it's going to be important for him, absolutely,

1015
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 2: I would totally support that. And if you would want

1016
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 2: to know, you know, who his child is if he

1017
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 2: donated that sperm. But that's what I'm saying, like, I

1018
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 2: don't know at that point when you donate, I don't

1019
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 2: know what their involvement is. If they just donated and

1020
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 2: the terms and conditions are like, okay, this was a transaction.

1021
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 1: You're never going to know.

1022
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 2: Where if this baby was even conceived. I mean, you know,

1023
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 2: God forbid, a lot of things happened, right.

1024
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 1: I think that's how it is at a sperm bank,

1025
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 1: unless a friend says, hey.

1026
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 2: I need your help, right, That's what I'm saying. If

1027
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 2: it's like an agreement like that, you know, I totally

1028
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 2: support that because you know, unfortunately there's a lot of

1029
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 2: you know, couples that can have children naturally. So I

1030
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 2: totally support whatever makes you happy and works for your family.

1031
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: I totally support it, But I think this is a

1032
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 2: little crazy for me.

1033
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, well it was excessive Hillis. But I know for

1034
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 1: sure if Steve said to me, hey, you know I

1035
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 1: was in college. Any little extra money, I went to

1036
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: a sperm bank, and now you know this child has

1037
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:48,800
Speaker 1: come looking for me, I'm like, oh my god, I

1038
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 1: gotta see this. I gotta, I gotta.

1039
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 2: I would want no amount of minute. Would that make

1040
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 2: this just lead to right another conversation? So would that

1041
00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 2: really make Steve the dad maybe biological half away, but

1042
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,760
Speaker 2: I mean, whatever, father. Imagine that happening to a family.

1043
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 2: You know that then the kid wants to know who

1044
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 2: the sperm donator was. But the father is really the father,

1045
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 2: not Steep. It wasn't the donor, like you know, it's

1046
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 2: the father that had the baby with the mom and

1047
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 2: brought up this child and was in the child's life always.

1048
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 2: And now the child that say, turns eighteen and he

1049
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: wants to know who the donor was because he has

1050
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 2: obviously the DNA of the donor. It's very confusing and

1051
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 2: it's very complicated, is the question. No, But I'm just

1052
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: saying that that makes it weird. I mean, don't you

1053
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I feel like that's so

1054
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 2: offensive and has had for the father.

1055
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: It has a lot of dynamics, just like adoption. I mean,

1056
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 1: it's someone's always, you know, getting hurt. But I mean,

1057
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: when when you know that you come from something that

1058
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 1: you don't know, you want to know about it.

1059
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 2: I would, right, I don't blame the child, but I

1060
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 2: feel like as long as is there's like some kind

1061
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 2: of understanding and an educational talk where everybody, you know,

1062
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 2: can be in the same page and kind of like

1063
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 2: understand each other. Yeah, okay, so we couldn't have children,

1064
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 2: so we went to a sperm bank and we got

1065
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 2: the sperm. So this is the donor. That's all he did.

1066
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,439
Speaker 2: But I was the one that brought you into this world. Okay,

1067
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,359
Speaker 2: you know I have another question for you. And I'm

1068
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 2: the one that's taking care of you and raised you.

1069
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 2: You know, father isn't the one that only has you know,

1070
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 2: biological it's the one who raises you and is there

1071
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 2: in your life every single day.

1072
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: Right, So, say you had to get a sperm donor.

1073
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're really into this, my friend.

1074
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 1: Well, I'm just I you know, there's a lot of

1075
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 1: different angles.

1076
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 2: To there is. It's a very there's very complex.

1077
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 1: Agree. So if you had to get a sperm donor

1078
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Speaker 1: and you raise, would you tell your child that they

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Speaker 1: came from a sperm donor you and your partner had

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Speaker 1: to do that?

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Speaker 2: That's a good question.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I would, unless obviously if they got

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Speaker 1: critically ill and you know you needed to because you

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Speaker 1: need there you know, you wouldn't be a blood match

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Speaker 1: or anything because your DNA is different. Well, mother, you know,

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Speaker 1: mother would father would?

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Speaker 2: I mean back in the day, So back in the day,

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Speaker 2: I know we wouldn't because you know, we're raised different,

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Speaker 2: you know, to keep these things away from our children

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Speaker 2: because we think it was going to cause them pain.

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Speaker 2: So the reason why a lot of our parents didn't

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Speaker 2: discuss certain things with us was really to protect us

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Speaker 2: because they didn't want us And first of all, also

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Speaker 2: you have to have an understanding. So it's very complex.

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Speaker 2: It depends would I share this with my kids, maybe,

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Speaker 2: knowing what I know today, I probably would because children

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Speaker 2: have access to all this information, so I would want

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Speaker 2: them to know for me versus somebody else, or versus

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Speaker 2: them doing some kind of research. Or them having some doubt.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like it's a conversation I would have

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Speaker 2: with my husband and the family and maybe try to

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Speaker 2: explain it to them as best as we could. And so, yes,

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Speaker 2: I would probably have that conversation with them because I

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Speaker 2: feel like there's no secrets today. Yeah, kids find everything out,

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Speaker 2: and I wanted them to hear from me, and I

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Speaker 2: don't think that would change anything. I think they would

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Speaker 2: understand that.

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Speaker 1: I agree with you. I think if it was twenty

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Speaker 1: thirty years ago, I probably wouldn't have said anything. But now, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: things are so different now, and it's another thing that's

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Speaker 1: become so normalized.

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Speaker 2: And then you don't want them to like resent you

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Speaker 2: for that or say why didn't you tell us? You know,

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Speaker 2: and it's part of life, you know. Not everybody can

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Speaker 2: you know, has good sperm to have a baby. Not

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Speaker 2: everybody has the eggs. So I think it's just part

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Speaker 2: of like educating and communicating, just sitting down and having

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Speaker 2: like a real talk.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Okay, I don't think I have another question

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Speaker 1: about that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what do you want? You want a spirm donation?

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Speaker 2: I think you want to go to one of those

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Speaker 2: sperm banks.

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Speaker 1: Oh, my days. It's never too late my day, It's

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Speaker 1: never too late. I can't help.

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Speaker 2: You can have somebody, you can have somebody.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, you think I'm gonna have a baby now,

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Speaker 1: when when I'm starting to have some real fun.

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Speaker 2: I want you to be the baby.

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Speaker 1: I want you. Yeah, yeah, you gotta take care of me.

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Speaker 1: I will, ma'am may I was fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been so much fun. I love being at

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Speaker 2: your house. Thank you having I think we're so much better.

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Speaker 2: We're together. Yes, next week we'll be doing it at

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Speaker 2: my house.

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Speaker 1: Yes, next week we're going to do the podcast together

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Speaker 1: at your house. I can't wait to say it. I

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Speaker 1: haven't been to your new home yet. Bro, it's got

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Speaker 1: some new digs. Maybe you should take us on a

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Speaker 1: little mini tour.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing not no, now, welcome to my house.

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Speaker 2: Not doing that. I want to keep that private. I

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Speaker 2: want to keep that private. Just the background. Okay, thank yours,

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Speaker 2: But anyways, until next time, guys, have a great weekend.

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