WEBVTT - SECOND DATE UPDATE- The Venmo Meeting

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get to it. It's a second date update. I've

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<v Speaker 1>got David in Torrance who's reached out to us for this.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're dating, listen to this. So David says that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys met through Venmo. How'd you meet through Venmo? David? Uh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Well I was behind her in line at a food

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<v Speaker 1>truck that was cash only. She didn't realize that, so, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I told her I would pay for it

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<v Speaker 1>if she'd venmo me back. So she did, and I

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<v Speaker 1>replied with my phone number and she texted me right

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<v Speaker 1>away with high and it kind of went from there

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<v Speaker 1>and uh we went. We ended up going out for sushi,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh yeah, I thought it was really fun. But

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<v Speaker 1>now when I text her, I get nothing back. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just a lot of crickets. But you say it was

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<v Speaker 1>the best story, one you're hoping to tell your kids

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<v Speaker 1>one day. What do you mean by that. I just

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was kind of a cute story, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like the whole Venmo. It's just an interesting way to meet,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, doesn't happen too often. So, um, after the

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<v Speaker 1>day she blows you off, what kinds of things were

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<v Speaker 1>you doing to be blown off? Were you texting her?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you calling? What were you doing? No, there wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>any like over communication or anything. Um. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know why I got I got blown off, and

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<v Speaker 1>you want to know why, and that's why we're here, correct, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. You know, I thought the date was good.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a funny thing that happened, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>ordered too many salmon rolls. But I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of a funny story, you know, to tell

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<v Speaker 1>about her first date. But I can't think of anything

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<v Speaker 1>what's funny about that though. I mean, it was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, something kind of weird that happened. I

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<v Speaker 1>made a mistake and ordered like an abundance of salmon rolls,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's kind of random. I don't I don't find that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see the humor though, Like, yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>but what's her name? Her name? Yeah, Heather, Yeah, her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Heather. Okay, uh, we have Heather's number. Okay, Greg,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna try and get Heather on the line here

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<v Speaker 1>and see what we can find out. Did you kiss her? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we kissed at the end. Yeah, Okay, hold on one second.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean again, I give him credit because I

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<v Speaker 1>would not necessarily have skin thick enough to one know

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<v Speaker 1>what happened here? What's funny about the salmon role? But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to follow. I have no idea I missed it.

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<v Speaker 1>Two eyes are bigger than my stomach. Ha ha. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, or I don't. I don't know, I don't. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll try and track down Heather on air on air

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<v Speaker 1>with Ryan Seacrets On air with Ryan Seacrets. You gotta

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<v Speaker 1>jump in at this without we're in a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right now. David reaches out. He said, as to us,

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<v Speaker 1>he's struggling, right. He wants to know why he's being

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<v Speaker 1>blown off by Heather. They met, they went out, they

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<v Speaker 1>had sushi, but after the date she blows him off

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<v Speaker 1>all the time and she won't respond to him. She

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<v Speaker 1>wants to know what happened. I don't know, Like one date, sushi,

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<v Speaker 1>they kissed, right, he kissed, They kissed, and now she's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting back to him. So all right, here's the

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<v Speaker 1>way this is gonna work. David. You're on the line.

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<v Speaker 1>We have Heather stand by. Don't say anything. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her for a second. Find out why she's

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<v Speaker 1>blowing you off. Okay, Okay, Hi, Heather. Thank you so much,

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<v Speaker 1>Heaven for holding on. You're on the radio with Assistnee,

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<v Speaker 1>myself and Tanya. Appreciate you're coming on with us. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy to be here. So, David, you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with this guy? David, You guys went for sushi, understand,

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<v Speaker 1>is that right? Yeah? Yeah? And you went out one time? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just to one time? Okay, And can you tell me

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<v Speaker 1>how the date was? Like, what do you remember? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>So it was it was a funny date, but also

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<v Speaker 1>funny that Ryan Seacrest would call me an ask about him. Well, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that is kind of random. It is interesting

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<v Speaker 1>to me the world of dating. I've done it over

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<v Speaker 1>the years, and I find it to be sometimes an

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<v Speaker 1>abb and a flow retmes. It can be fun and

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it can be a little bit of a struggle.

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<v Speaker 1>But what what was it was funny about this date

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<v Speaker 1>with him? Well, it was more funny cringey, not funny

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<v Speaker 1>ha ha, you know funny cringey. Oh no, like you

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<v Speaker 1>got the ick? What happened? Oh my god? So he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to order baked handcrack roles. He wanted like eight

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<v Speaker 1>of them, eight but he ordered eight. But he ordered

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<v Speaker 1>baked salmon cut rolls. I don't know if that much

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<v Speaker 1>about sushi, so I didn't I didn't correct him, but

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<v Speaker 1>those words are now burned into my brain from that night.

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<v Speaker 1>The waitress even said to him, are you sure? This

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<v Speaker 1>was like a lot of food? You want eight orders

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<v Speaker 1>of baked salmon cut rolls. But he would not be denied.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, yep, that's exactly what I want. Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm missing something out. It was like food for twenty people.

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<v Speaker 1>It was insane. It was show embarrassing because she even

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<v Speaker 1>asked him, ware's the baked grab hand rolls. They're usually

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like these small, little like a couple bites.

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<v Speaker 1>You eat them and they're you're done, So you could

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<v Speaker 1>probably eat two to three, So him ordering eight for

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<v Speaker 1>the two of you, it's still kind of a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>But he thought he was being as a funny joke. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he was trying to be like he was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to order for the two of you. Essentially correct, correct, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but he didn't know what he was doing. Take charge,

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<v Speaker 1>like take charge, but he orders the incorrect thing on

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<v Speaker 1>the on the menu, and when it came out, it

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the cut rolls. Like a huge, big crab,

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<v Speaker 1>like a baked salmon roll that's like the chopped ones

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<v Speaker 1>that's like a meal in itself, And it was eight

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<v Speaker 1>of those. Why are we here? Yeah? Like why, I'm Heather,

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to go out this guy again? Ever? No,

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<v Speaker 1>not after that. No, he embarrassed me. It was so embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the waitress was even like she even asked are

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<v Speaker 1>you sure? Like she kept, you know, saying are you sure?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like eight orders of the baked salmon cut role,

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<v Speaker 1>Like how can you not listen? Okay, David is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone here, David, you want to respond to any

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<v Speaker 1>of this? I mean, that's pretty much what happened. But

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<v Speaker 1>in my mind, it was just the funny, cute first

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<v Speaker 1>date story. And I mean, I guess, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I did panic. You know, it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot of food. I'm not going to pretend

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<v Speaker 1>I handled it perfectly, But I mean, you know, i'd say,

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<v Speaker 1>like I would love to take you out again. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you got the ick, And I'm sorry. If

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<v Speaker 1>that's the case, I understand, but I know I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to make it up to you. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a busy time on any seating apps. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not looking for anything right now, but I'm a saying

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<v Speaker 1>it was cute, so I went with it. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really cute, and I think it's a sign for whatever reason,

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<v Speaker 1>we were meant to meet that night, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think we should see where it goes. Like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing, but maybe it's amazing. And it's in the

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<v Speaker 1>headline here he ordered too much food? I mean, is

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<v Speaker 1>that cringey? Was it the way he handled it? Hither

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm confused, Yeah, okay, it was cringey, and like

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<v Speaker 1>I just I wouldn't go out with them. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>that's just not it's it's really the way that he

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<v Speaker 1>handled it. He went to the waitress and he begged

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<v Speaker 1>to take it off the bill, because that's the other thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like eighty fucks. And honestly, I think the

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<v Speaker 1>fact what bothers me the most, Like he messed up. God, guys, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that there is not a real spark here.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we can hear it. I think we have that.

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<v Speaker 1>So Heather and David, I'm glad we met like this

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<v Speaker 1>so we could work through it. David, you now know

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<v Speaker 1>and Heather. Mike goes on right, and thank you guys

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<v Speaker 1>very much for chatting with us. Good luck to both

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<v Speaker 1>of you. All right, thanks anyways, guys, Okay, bye bye bye,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. I just don't know, like what was so

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<v Speaker 1>cringing and so cute. She just it was the way

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<v Speaker 1>he handled it. She just I think if it would

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<v Speaker 1>have happened and he would have been like, oops, oh well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like he's like a first date, funny cute

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<v Speaker 1>first date. I'd take a funny cute first date story. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>let's hear it. Go on, let me get my I

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<v Speaker 1>pick someone up. I put on tight pants. What's the year?

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<v Speaker 1>What car you driving? I actually done one another year too,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, oh thirteen, fourteen, okay, I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>Runs together maybe less than that. Anyway, it picked up

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<v Speaker 1>up my date. I had tight pants on, and I

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<v Speaker 1>got to put her shut the door for her, and

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<v Speaker 1>I went around. I got into car and my car

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<v Speaker 1>was low, and as I got down, my pants split ramping. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to make a joke of it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, but can you do me a favor. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go to this restaurant. I didn't really have pants nearby.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna pull over in this neighborhood and I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>put the lights on and stand in front of the lights.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell me if you can see me with

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<v Speaker 1>a hole standing looking from behind? Or can I go

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant like this? And so I walked in

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<v Speaker 1>front of the spotlights of the of the front lights

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<v Speaker 1>and stood there and then I sort of bent a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit to see how bad the hole was, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, no, it's not that bad, but but can

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<v Speaker 1>you see it? It's like wall, you can see it.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you walk straight up and you keep your

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<v Speaker 1>legs here, I'll be fine. And that was what I went,

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<v Speaker 1>like to dinner with this date. Now that's a funny first, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty cute. Yeah, because well I wouldn't go into

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<v Speaker 1>a place unless she spotted me and told me that

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<v Speaker 1>it was like not that bad standing up with the

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<v Speaker 1>car spotlight on my rear at how do you hear

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<v Speaker 1>the split? Or is there a world okay here you

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<v Speaker 1>feel it? Yeah? A world where you could have just

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<v Speaker 1>pretended like it didn't happen. No, no, because it's like

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<v Speaker 1>if you like, if I passed gas, like it was

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<v Speaker 1>that intimate of a quiet car, all right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to think it was that, So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>that was my pants? Can you just give me. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to pull over and take a look and tell

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<v Speaker 1>me how bad it is. That's cute. That was there

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<v Speaker 1>a second date? Sounds like there was. It didn't turn

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<v Speaker 1>into a relationship. Oh it didn't ship. Yeah, but a bummer,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I really like that girl. I liked her too.

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<v Speaker 1>I liked her. She'll see what she's doing. H