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Speaker 1: My brother dished a funeral and a wedding, so I

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Speaker 1: want to ban him from any future events too.

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Speaker 2: He deserves it.

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Speaker 3: Maybe the move Hi.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry for the long post, but there's a lot

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Speaker 1: of background information necessary. I thirty seven female, am taking

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Speaker 1: and I host. I'm upset because I feel like I

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Speaker 1: shouldn't invite people who clearly don't care or want to

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Speaker 1: be there anyways, But Little Blue Sky eighty seven wanted

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Speaker 1: this story to be here because it was set in

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Speaker 1: on our sluss Okay, storry Times, subred ads.

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Speaker 3: How did your stories there?

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Speaker 1: We read them like this, whoo whoooo Now these are

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Speaker 1: all fake names out of respect for my mother, who

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Speaker 1: asked for some anonymity. Firstly, I would like to give

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Speaker 1: some context on the dynamics of my family. I come

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Speaker 1: from a huge family. My mom is the oldest of

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Speaker 1: six siblings who all have three plus kids.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's a lot of kids.

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Speaker 4: I know it could be bigger.

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Speaker 3: Could that is true?

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Speaker 2: Any things you don't want to hear.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say it. I can't. I can't.

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Speaker 1: And my dad is the youngest son of ten siblings.

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Speaker 1: Ten is bigger, That is bigger. Who all also have

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Speaker 1: between two and six kids themselves. My god, right, you

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Speaker 4: I can see.

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Speaker 1: I have one set of living grandparents on dad's side,

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Speaker 1: and we are approximately ten to eighteen months apart in age.

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Speaker 1: Oh I am of the oldest of nine siblings.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh, A giant family.

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Speaker 2: That is giant.

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Speaker 1: I have five sisters, three brothers. I am close with them.

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Speaker 1: I get along with all of them for the most part,

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Speaker 1: outside of normal sibling squabbles, with the exception of one sister, Sarah,

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Speaker 1: who has chosen a life of substances over her own children.

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Speaker 1: That'll never get Devin of my siblings. Devin and my

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Speaker 1: siblings have children and families of their own, and we

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Speaker 1: get together frequently, taking turns on who's hosting events for

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Speaker 3: So they have a big family. That's basically what that means. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Too big, too big?

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Speaker 3: Big?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, yes, and they do. It's kind of a lot,

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Speaker 1: kind of a lot. The last year was both incredible

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Speaker 1: suddenly under some tragic and horrible circumstances that left our

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I was my dad's power of attorney while he was hospitalized,

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Speaker 1: paperwork to take him off of life support. My paternal

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Speaker 1: grandparents both watched me down the aisle on my wedding

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Speaker 1: day in my dad's place. The day was bittersweet, but

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Speaker 1: overall lovely. The issue is about my brother, Troy thirty

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Speaker 1: showers or birth birthdays, et cetera, et cetera. This is fine,

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Speaker 1: and we don't usually make a fuss over this because

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Speaker 1: upset by it. When our dad passed away, Troy left

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Speaker 2: The viewing of the body.

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Speaker 5: Right, yes, so yeah, I think it seems like once

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which is like it's like he just viewed it.

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Speaker 2: The part that's it. I haven't I haven't seen an

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Speaker 3: I haven't seen po Caska ever. Dude. My mommy shielded me. Really,

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Speaker 3: I don't think I've ever been to. Yeah. It was

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Speaker 4: An open I was not conscious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you were, You were not. I don't think you

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. I don't think so. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I remember seeing him like, oh that's cool. How old

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Speaker 2: I was like four?

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Speaker 4: He would have had to be four because.

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Speaker 2: Of ye damn, guy's not moving.

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Speaker 3: And your parents. Dude. Yeah, dude.

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Speaker 1: But when our dad passed, Troy left the service immediately

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Speaker 2: That's gotta have live updates.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, that's that's her live stream. That's her live stream. Dude,

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Speaker 1: Chat chat, what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Chat? Beat my eyes? Chat? I'm dead? Is it a

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Speaker 4: What he refused to put his phone on.

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Speaker 1: Silent on silent, Yeah, yeah, not even do to deserve

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Speaker 1: of shrugged his shoulders, hugged our mother, and then he left.

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Speaker 1: Literally he went home. And he was supposed to be

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Speaker 1: the pall bearer with our other brothers, uncle grandpa and

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Speaker 1: He just like sat there for like a little bit, and.

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Speaker 2: You need four pall bearers, then it's just the guy

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, if you're really strong. That's true.

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Speaker 2: I guess you could have two.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have three in a line.

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Speaker 2: Like have you seen that one meme where it's like

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 5: But like, dude, I can't believe this is his father's funerals.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, his father, he probably didn't like him that much.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess there's beef. I guess there's beef.

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Speaker 2: But back there was what like eight or seven or

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Speaker 2: eight other siblings. None of them did that. Well, maybe

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Speaker 2: he was the ugly duckling of the family.

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 2: He's lowest on the totem.

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Speaker 3: He might just be crazy.

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Speaker 1: Actually, my conspiracy theory is it's the wife, and the

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Speaker 1: wife is like poisone, Why would we go to your

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Speaker 3: He sucks?

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Speaker 2: I don't Yoko Ono and Yoko and my thing is

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: The Beatles, what yo do? What did she do? She

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Speaker 4: Sorry, I thought you meant like something happened with his dad.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I out the beat I actually don't

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Speaker 4: I feel like I don't know, but that there's a

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Speaker 2: What people say, or at least that's what I think

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Speaker 2: people say. It seems like none of us really no,

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Speaker 2: really no, but Yoko Ona is getting some flak right now.

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Speaker 3: She's taking the heat. She's taking heat. Let me know

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Speaker 3: if you.

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Speaker 1: Do we like yo chat will desire. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: Actually a pole, Let's do a pole. Yoko no question

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Speaker 1: w or L?

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Speaker 4: You don't want to see We don't know our history.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean? This is my present right now.

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Speaker 1: We're at that point, guy, you Here we go. We're

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Speaker 1: getting it up for you guys. It's being pulled up.

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Speaker 1: Just Yoko no like question mark w or L?

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Speaker 4: Y y o k o o n O.

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Speaker 2: I believe I think it's Yoko oh no oh no

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Speaker 3: He said for your says.

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Speaker 5: She's been blamed for breaking them up. But in my opinion,

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Speaker 5: that's just woman blaming. That's what I would.

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Speaker 4: Think the.

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Speaker 3: Chat.

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Speaker 5: But I literally don't know. I like love the Beatles.

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Speaker 5: I don't know anything about.

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Speaker 3: Here we go, There we go. Now we're going to

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Speaker 3: find out. Jordy woman, audience, we will we will see

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Speaker 3: the verdict. All right, let's get back to the story.

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Speaker 2: So where's the poll.

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Speaker 4: It's something YouTube would see.

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Speaker 1: So I understood this and so running back. So he

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Speaker 3: Now onto the wedding.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to note that the only reason why my

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Speaker 3: On his account.

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Speaker 1: We actually took an anonymous vote with my family on

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Speaker 1: this exact subject.

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Speaker 1: So we went ahead and honored my dad by having

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Speaker 1: have my chosen sister aka my.

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Speaker 3: Bestie, to be my maid of honor.

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Speaker 1: I then asked Jennifer and Troy if their daughter, Cindy

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Speaker 1: for female, could be my flower girl. Everyone gladly accepted.

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Speaker 1: all was well.

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Speaker 2: Or so it seemed, or so it seems.

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Speaker 1: Oh rogue yokoh noh to break out, challenges.

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Speaker 3: You to an objected wedding, do do so? Or so

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Speaker 1: About three months before the wedding, during our second first

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Speaker 1: dress fitting, Troy suddenly texted me and said that Jennifer

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Speaker 4: Oh, my freaking god, Jennifer.

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Speaker 1: This Jennifer that I think my conspiracy theory is I

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Speaker 1: think Jennifer.

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Speaker 4: Broke up the Beatles quite frankly.

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Speaker 1: I think everyone should put an icy in the chat

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Speaker 1: if they if they say what's coming, if they see

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Speaker 1: what I see. That she never wanted to be in one,

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Speaker 1: that she never wanted to be a bridesmaid in the

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Speaker 1: she really hated the idea of doing this bridesmaids crape

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Speaker 2: That chap unless you get it off Amazon. You can

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Speaker 1: Here's the beautiful thing. He literally just sent the link.

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Speaker 4: I knew what he was.

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Speaker 2: What was I saying?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, put in the backyard, new studio, new studio, two stories,

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Speaker 3: Can you catch me up? Yeah, okay, so quick deal.

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Speaker 1: The are basically there's this like stinky, stinky brother and

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Speaker 3: They were big a holes there.

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Speaker 1: we're getting this like the Dark origin story, the Batman

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Speaker 2: Of why the brother was texting during the funeral.

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Speaker 3: Of why they suck. Yeah, there we go.

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Speaker 1: See, Honestly, five dollars, five dollars, that's all.

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Speaker 2: It does not look very different than other wedding dresses.

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Speaker 3: The maroon one.

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Speaker 2: It's interesting, right, I mean, it's not white.

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Speaker 1: Look at that top one top way way wait, top left,

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Speaker 3: Am I wrong? Am I wrong? Kind of fire?

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Speaker 5: I think this is going to be the cheapest wedding

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Speaker 3: It is it is. But does the picture look nice?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but the picture is a different dress. I'm not

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Speaker 2: That dress it's look exactly like it does right there?

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 2: Also, I don't know if you saw the description, but

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Speaker 5: There we go, the paux rap dress, fabric type teen girl, sexy,

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Speaker 2: That's that's that is a crazy fabric type. I heard

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Speaker 1: So thankfully my parents convinced them, actually bribed them with

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Speaker 3: Is there chat broken? Why old chatty chat? What do

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Speaker 3: you mean chat Chat's broken? What the YouTube comments aren't

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Speaker 2: Facebook or Facebook or yeah, or face it's broken. Where

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Speaker 2: we do You've got to refresh?

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Speaker 3: Okay, thee refresh.

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Speaker 2: We're getting it myan Well, I don't know if it's

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Speaker 5: This will come back, guys chat in the chat, I

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Speaker 3: How do we YEA?

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Speaker 2: How do we how do we refresh that? I'm refreshed,

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Speaker 2: but I feel like I feel like is there? I

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Speaker 3: Indeed, Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 1: So as soon as Cindy's part was finished, as in,

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Speaker 1: basically she literally like Cindy the flower Girl, walked up

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Speaker 2: That's literally very inconsiderate.

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Speaker 3: They're allergic to staying at events.

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Speaker 2: You know, at least it runs in the family.

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Speaker 1: At least they runs in the family. Well it's only them,

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Speaker 2: It's a recessive gene.

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Speaker 3: I guess there we go.

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Speaker 4: Also, Yoko Ono sixty l.

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Speaker 2: Forty, damn SI get wrecked. Yoko rip she is she

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm just saying it's.

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Speaker 2: Definitely ripped, for sure. She's she's been open cast it.

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Speaker 3: There's I think the other people are Paul McGarty and it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, that's true. Still, I'm gonna look up if

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Speaker 2: Yoko Onna is still alive.

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Speaker 3: We will find out she is not. But do you know,

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Speaker 3: I just don't think.

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Speaker 1: I didn't notice until after the ceremony and it was

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Speaker 1: I was absolutely crushed, but I didn't want that to

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Speaker 3: For the time being.

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Speaker 2: Yoko Ono is still alive.

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Speaker 3: Yoko hooray.

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Speaker 1: Now. Ever, since then, I have tried inviting them to

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Speaker 3: And they don't attend.

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Speaker 1: So to be fair, they also don't attend some of

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Speaker 3: This past June.

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Speaker 1: So they will literally travel across a state for a

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Speaker 3: For more than three minutes. Disgusting.

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Speaker 1: So now I've decided to stop expecting them to come

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Speaker 1: Jennifer recently saw my pictures on Facebook and Instagram and

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Speaker 3: Being malicious spike excluding them.

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Speaker 1: I argued back that it seems like they don't want

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Speaker 1: Mom is on my side, as are six of my

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Speaker 3: That I host.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if they're always gonna leave, then yeah, I like.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't seem like they're even coming. Really, Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 1: Your it is your god given duty to do absolutely

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, but like, do you do you have

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Speaker 2: just silence your cell phones.

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Speaker 1: So so, uh, sticks of the eight siblings are on

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Speaker 3: So like that's a majority of the factions.

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Speaker 2: I think if majority, the majority wins, majority wins, I think,

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Speaker 2: don't invite them.

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Speaker 3: Don't invite them.

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Speaker 2: I don't think. I think for sure not the a hole.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, very very very much so.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, actually everyone who's calling them to a hole is

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Speaker 1: you invite them?

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Speaker 3: They're like they just never show up.

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Speaker 2: I think it's, uh, you know the age old saying.

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Speaker 2: I'm like rubber, you're like lolu whatever you say bounces

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Speaker 2: off me and sticks on you. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, does glue really not stick to rubber? No, that

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Speaker 3: what the saying is.

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Speaker 2: I'm like rubber, yep, your like glue. I am whatever

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Speaker 2: I say or no, whatever you say bounces off me

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Speaker 2: because I'm rubber and sticks on you because you're glue.

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Speaker 3: I see. So there's a third object is being cast.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's this thing you say whatever you say objects,

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Speaker 2: it's the object.

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Speaker 3: I never knew there we go can't stick.

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Speaker 1: It all makes sense, but that is literally the end

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Speaker 1: of a story that we don't get any updates.

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Speaker 3: We don't get we don't get nothing. We literally get

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Speaker 3: nothing else.

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Speaker 4: You know what we do have? Yoko ono?

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Speaker 3: Oh wait?

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Speaker 2: Can we play a video of Yoko onwn a screament?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Put a video?

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Speaker 2: Also, Heidi Browning, thanks for the four months of membership.

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Speaker 3: Let's go.

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Speaker 2: I've got to make a post on the subreddit about

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Speaker 2: reporting someone to the management for using her battery operated

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Speaker 3: Oh man?

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Speaker 1: Also, what a way to just battery operate a spicy

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Speaker 3: Everyone knows what that is? Right?

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Speaker 2: But uh but except Facebook modernization.

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Speaker 1: New dictionary definition from Heighti Browning, let's freaking go.

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Speaker 2: Would you report someone for using a a spicy sleep

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Speaker 2: object in the bathroom?

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Speaker 3: No? I don't think that would. I would just keep

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Speaker 2: I would just walk back to unless it was like

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Speaker 3: It's like it's like not my problem.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I would make it my problem.

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Speaker 1: Like like someone that works in like HR or something,

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Speaker 1: it's like, okay, maybe you need that to not be

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Speaker 1: a I don't know what action or yeah, like if

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Speaker 1: you do at least share you know.

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Speaker 3: Oh sorry, can't use that?

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Speaker 4: Is this what you was talking about?

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Speaker 3: Uh? I don't know. I have to turn on the

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Speaker 3: thing day.

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Speaker 2: I just do an art.

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Speaker 4: That's her whole thing, an artist?

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Speaker 3: What what kind of art she do this? We can't

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Speaker 3: hear you?

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Speaker 1: Go?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wait, turn on your speaker. It looks like you

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Speaker 3: just can you guys hear it? Oh yeah, can they

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Speaker 3: hear it?

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Speaker 2: We're trying, I got I got the gest.

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Speaker 3: Yeah we can. Yeah, but I actually like the visual.

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Speaker 2: Fixed chat or what happened there. It is not fixed,

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Speaker 2: but you know what is fixed.

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Speaker 3: These other donations are their donations.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, stroll down Sophia and reveal the power inside.

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Speaker 3: There we go, Molly Thornton. I don't know what that means.

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Speaker 2: I think I I think there's something about Pluto. I

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Speaker 2: haven't gotten full context. I saw some chat thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was doing trivia.

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Speaker 2: It was it was a trivia thing.

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Speaker 5: I think someone I didn't ask it, but someone asked

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Speaker 5: a question about ludo.

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Speaker 2: Okay, heck yeah, JARMAKINTI, thanks for the five gifted memberships.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you Asian persuasion. Blaming Yoko was definitely rooted

483
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Speaker 2: in misogyny and racism, especially during that time.

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Speaker 1: I believe you we're getting the trus we're getting. We're

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Speaker 1: getting the untold story of Yokono.

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Speaker 2: Heidi Browning, we already read that.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: Make sure no one is having too good of a

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Speaker 2: time in that bathroom.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, you gotta gotta keep it a keep

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Speaker 3: it chill.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, keep it, keep it chill. Although there's this one

493
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Speaker 2: scene in this movie where apparently that they go into

494
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Speaker 2: the bathroom to relieve themselves in other ways so they

495
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Speaker 2: can sell sell things faster. You know the scene okay,

496
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Speaker 2: next to pump those numbers up, Matthew McConaughey, leaner on

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Speaker 2: a DiCaprio.

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Speaker 3: Wol from Wall Street. Anyways, no free sponsors. I thought

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Speaker 3: it was a quiz uh what what what s?

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Speaker 4: Two?

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Speaker 3: S three?

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Speaker 4: S three?

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Speaker 3: Okay, because you read this?

504
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Speaker 2: Yes, boom, boom baby boom? All right? Are you ready?

505
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Speaker 2: Are we ready? Are we ready? I did get my

506
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Speaker 2: haircut without Riley again, how do you guys notice the haircut?

507
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Speaker 2: You guys are so perceptive, so so perceptive. These these

508
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Speaker 2: guys don't even know.

509
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Speaker 3: I got a haircut.

510
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Speaker 4: That's because I didn't look at you.

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Speaker 2: I did, but I didn't say, yeah, what the heck,

512
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Speaker 2: what the heck like an asshole like that. To be fair,

513
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Speaker 2: I did not notice when John got a haircut. But

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Speaker 2: it also is like like it.

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Speaker 3: Was a lot.

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Speaker 1: It was a lot, but like it like.

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Speaker 4: I didn't notice it. Yeah you notice, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It was like inches, like, but it's still long.

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Speaker 2: It's still long on here. It's just still long though,

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Speaker 2: but look.

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Speaker 4: You know what else is long?

522
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Speaker 2: This next story is so My cousin was extremely rude,

523
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Speaker 2: so I called him out for having an illegitimate daughter.

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Speaker 2: Booh fat, Well guess what you have a daughter that

525
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Speaker 2: you had out of wedlock? There it is gotam I

526
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Speaker 2: twenty four female just bought a house. Was it on Amazon?

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Speaker 2: Did it cost thirty six ky? You could buy a

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Speaker 2: house on Amazon?

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Speaker 4: Did you know that sponsoring?

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Speaker 2: Sorry no free sponsors. I'm super excit and wanted to

531
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Speaker 2: celebrate by having a backyard barbecue. I involted all my

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Speaker 2: friends and my entire family. I also invited my boyfriend

533
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Speaker 2: twenty five male, since he hasn't met my extended family yet.

534
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Speaker 2: We've only been dating about three months. By the way.

535
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Speaker 2: This comes from our suburn at our slash story Time

536
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Speaker 2: and from user Jenny Francis. So it's the day of

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Speaker 2: the party. Everything is great. My boyfriend is me, my cousins, aunts, uncles,

538
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Speaker 2: and everybody in between. Man, there's people in between. Those

539
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Speaker 2: people close party. Y'all are packed like sausages over there,

540
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Speaker 2: like a like a like a club in Miami. I finally,

541
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Speaker 2: I finally take him over to my cousin on my

542
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 2: dad's side of the family. Forty's male who's a pastor.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why that's in quotes him is. His

544
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Speaker 2: five children and granddaughter were there as well. For context,

545
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Speaker 2: His oldest daughar we'll call her Maple. She ain't sweet,

546
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Speaker 2: has a different mom from the rest of her siblings

547
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Speaker 2: because Fastor had her with one of his past girlfriend

548
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Speaker 2: past girlfriends when he was young. His granddaughter belongs to Maple,

549
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Speaker 2: and Maple wasn't married when she had her baby either.

550
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Speaker 2: So wait, his granddaughter belongs to Maple and Maple wasn't married. Okay,

551
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Speaker 2: so it's a double out of wedlock, kid, whoa to

552
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Speaker 2: double out of Like I know, out of wedlock is

553
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Speaker 2: a whole old term, but I'm using it for sake

554
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Speaker 2: of the story. Anyway, double illegitimate children.

555
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Speaker 3: John Snow's child.

556
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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you have one more, you win. Bingo. Back

557
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Speaker 2: to the story. I introduced my boyfriend to the group,

558
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Speaker 2: and we're all chatting with each other. For some reason,

559
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Speaker 2: my pastor cousin feels the need to say, well, I

560
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Speaker 2: hope you too aren't having spicy sleep before marriage. Having

561
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Speaker 2: kids out of wedlock would be a sin. What it now, Pastor?

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Speaker 2: How about you looking your past your tard?

563
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Speaker 3: Ever heard of a mirror my guy? Yeah, look at it,

564
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Speaker 3: you dude. Hypocrasy.

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Speaker 2: He said it in front of everyone. My whole family

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Speaker 2: got real quiet on JINGLEMI.

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Speaker 3: You know the song, ye John?

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Speaker 2: If you his name is my name, dude, whenever I

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Speaker 2: go out people the jingle Hammers Anyway, they were singing

570
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Speaker 2: it a lot, like really soft, like when they sing

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Speaker 2: John ingle Hammersmith.

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Speaker 3: John, Jacob jingle Heimersmith John. It's okay.

573
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Speaker 2: My whole family got quiet. Then went on to talk

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Speaker 2: about how I needed to keep my legs closed and

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend would never marry me because I was already

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Speaker 2: putting out. Uh that was mean. I think you deserve

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Speaker 2: whatever is coming to you. Pastor Yep. It was extremely awkward.

578
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 2: It's of course, caught my boyfriend off guard. So I say, well,

579
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Speaker 2: were you thinking about any of this when you had

580
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Speaker 2: your illegitimate daughter? You honestly didn't share these ideal was

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Speaker 2: with her either, because now you have an illegitimate granddaughter.

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Speaker 3: For the pastor great for.

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Speaker 2: The Mabel just got some strays.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, she was. She was shooting, you know, she

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Speaker 1: she was just going for it. And you know, spicy maple, Chris, Yeah, spy.

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00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Maple got some maple smoked bacon and put

587
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Speaker 2: it on the griddle, left it on too long and

588
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 2: then it just got crispy. And they were like, I

589
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 2: don't really like crispy bacon, but I'll eat it. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel bad for I feel bad for Maples.

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Speaker 3: That is exactly that's.

592
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Speaker 2: How I feel about Mapole. I had no intention, how

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Speaker 2: do you like your bacon? Let us know the comments

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Speaker 2: I had of embarrassing good children because I love them

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Speaker 2: and we're friends. I was so angry at this grown

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Speaker 2: man making an attempt to try to shame me for

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Speaker 2: something he doesn't even know if I am or am

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Speaker 2: not doing, in front of almost everyone I know. He

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Speaker 2: was pretty pissed. Before he could say anything else, I said,

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Speaker 2: I'm bored of this conversation and went into the house.

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Speaker 2: Nice My uncle, in drunk fashion, died laughing, adding insult

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Speaker 2: to injury.

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Speaker 3: I guess.

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Speaker 2: My cousin and his family left shortly afterwards were exchanged.

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Speaker 2: My mom found me in the house after walking them

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Speaker 2: out and asked me I was okay. She reminded me

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Speaker 2: that we know my cousin has always been holier than

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Speaker 2: now and feels the need to show out in front

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Speaker 2: of an audience. Maybe you should stop putting out that bullshit.

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Speaker 3: Oh got him? She raps himself up.

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Speaker 2: She did, however, uh wait, hold up. She also apologized

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Speaker 2: to my boyfriend and promise that our entire family isn't

613
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Speaker 2: like that and that what we do as adults is

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00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 2: solely our business. She did, however, think I should be

615
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Speaker 2: the bigger person and apologize to my cousin. She said

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Speaker 2: he was really hurt and embarrassed. He was projecting because

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Speaker 2: he's ashamed of his pastor or. I told her I'd

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Speaker 2: think about it and tried to spend the rest of

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Speaker 2: the night having a good time. Later in the week,

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Speaker 2: I called Maple and asked her if I could come

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Speaker 2: over to talk. I went over to her house and

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Speaker 2: told her I wanted to apologize to her specifically, which

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Speaker 2: I think if we're being if we're being nice, nice people,

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Speaker 2: we gotta we gotta un crisp Maple. I think a

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Speaker 2: hydrated uncooked that bacon. Yeah, uncooked that baiton. Put them

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Speaker 2: in some water, you know, bring bring it back nice

627
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Speaker 2: and soggy and soggy bacon. Yeah, lotty bacon. Stop the

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Speaker 2: wet bacon. That's how I like my bacon. I like

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Speaker 2: to crisp it and then I just put it in

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Speaker 2: olive oil, drink it down.

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Speaker 3: Anyway.

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Speaker 2: Later in the week, I called Maple and asked her

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Speaker 2: if we come over to talk. Wanted to go to

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Speaker 2: her house and apologize to her specifically. I don't look

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Speaker 2: at her or her daughter differently for being born at

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Speaker 2: a wedlock. I frankly don't care how they were conceived.

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00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,720
Speaker 2: I was just mad at her dad for talking about

638
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Speaker 2: my ruder and my tutor and wanted to make a point.

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Speaker 2: She let me know that she wasn't mad at me,

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Speaker 2: and that she knows how her dad is. I never

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Speaker 2: intended on dragging her name or her daughter's name through

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Speaker 2: the mud and the blood and the bear, and I

643
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 2: went a little far. Mapel said it felt good to

644
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 2: see somebody put her dad in her place, in his place.

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00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 2: We went out for Margarita's business as usual, and our

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00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 2: relationship has been thriving and thriving ever since. In the end,

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Speaker 2: I still feel the only person who deserves the apology

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Speaker 2: was Maple. She had nothing to do with the conversation,

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Speaker 2: yet her name was mentioned. My dad is proud of

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Speaker 2: me for standing up for myself, but my mom is

651
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 2: still telling me I should apologize to Pastor, especially since

652
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Speaker 2: we have a family reunion coming up in August. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to apologize him, and I don't care about

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Speaker 2: it being awkward during the family reunion. He had no

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Speaker 2: right to ask me about my spicy sleep life in

656
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Speaker 2: the attempts to, I don't know, intimidate my boyfriend Gil

657
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Speaker 2: tests So am I the A hole? Should I really

658
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 2: consider apologizing to that man? And guess what, John what?

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Speaker 2: We got an update a date with the updates, so

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Speaker 2: we're gonna get into that. But really quick, do you

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Speaker 2: think Op needs to apologize to the Pastor.

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Speaker 1: I think there is something really important that Op should

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Speaker 1: say at the next gathering. Yeah, and that is have

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Speaker 1: a prayer to to help keep it in his pants, yep,

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Speaker 1: the pastor keep it in his pants. That hopefully his

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Speaker 1: his his sins of getting it in the past. Don't

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Speaker 1: don't don't harm him too well, Yeah, you know, let's

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Speaker 1: protect him, you know, let's get everyone holding hands and

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Speaker 1: chanting in unison to bless the goodness.

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Speaker 3: I want.

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Speaker 2: I want blood sacrifice though on top of it, I

672
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Speaker 2: think I think everyone needs to wear white blood sacrifice,

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Speaker 2: preferably like a virgin goat, and and really like make

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Speaker 2: sure like we like get the evil spirits out of

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Speaker 2: this this?

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Speaker 3: Do the goats have to be virgins?

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Speaker 2: I don't make the rules.

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Speaker 3: I just heard of the virgin thing. I've heard of

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Speaker 3: the goats, but never the virgin goats.

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Speaker 5: You know, it's like it originally virgin was just a

681
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,479
Speaker 5: person who was unmarried. So as long as the goats

682
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Speaker 5: aren't married, I think it's fine.

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Speaker 3: Is any goat married? Also?

684
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 2: You know what, I have a plan for the vegan activists.

685
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 2: Marry all the goats. Then they can't be used in sacrifices.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome, activist.

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Speaker 5: Is this like a common like goat sacrifice? Pretty common still.

688
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Speaker 2: I mean in some parts of the world.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: But I do have an updateight really quick? Do you

691
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 2: think ope, you should consider apologizing.

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Speaker 3: Not at all, dude.

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Speaker 1: I hate the type of person that the bastard Yeah

694
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: so so insanely hypocritical and publicly shaming.

695
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Speaker 3: Ridiculous.

696
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Speaker 2: Yeah, agree, ridiculous. But we got a little bit of

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Speaker 2: an update. So hi everyone, thanks for all the kindness.

698
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Speaker 2: Just to clear a few things up. My mom is

699
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 2: not defense. My mom is not in defense of my cousin.

700
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 2: She hasn't once made me feel like I did anything wrong.

701
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 2: There's been a lot of drama in my family as

702
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 2: of late, and because she herself isn't a messy person,

703
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 2: people have been bringing their problems to her. I think

704
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 2: she's just overwhelmed and figured this should be two less

705
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 2: people who are fighting. I reassured her there will be

706
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 2: no fighting on my end. He has been posting subliminal

707
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 2: messages on Facebook. What does that even mean?

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Speaker 3: Dude? We need we need a real rat beef bruin.

709
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 4: Those videos where we know someone in our family who's

710
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 4: posted those videos on Facebook?

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Speaker 3: Really, wait, what is the subliminal thing?

712
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Speaker 4: So it's just like these like really I don't upset.

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Speaker 5: It's like nonsensical videos with like I don't know, and

714
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 5: their animals instead of people, and there's this like weird

715
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 5: moral that they're trying to put but it doesn't really

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Speaker 5: make sense.

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Speaker 3: It's maybe kind of like Darman.

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Speaker 2: Video I've seen Darman I, although I've been seeing on

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Speaker 2: our Facebook. We joined a bunch of like random groups

720
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Speaker 2: to promote stuff, like in early days, and so we

721
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 2: get these whacking the crazy and it's like it's like

722
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Speaker 2: a like a like a like a woman with like

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Speaker 2: two sets of of of honkers and what's.

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Speaker 3: The age away or the.

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Speaker 2: And then and then uh and it's like it's like

726
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Speaker 2: an AI obviously AI generated and then it's like above it,

727
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 2: it's like comment amen if you believe that she is

728
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Speaker 2: beautiful or something, And there's all these thirsty dudes just

729
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Speaker 2: like commenting.

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Speaker 3: Today.

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Speaker 2: What is what is Facebook become? What is this that's crazy?

732
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Speaker 3: But shut out?

733
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 2: Shut out our Facebook community.

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Speaker 5: A couple of people are saying in the chat that

735
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Speaker 5: she meant passive aggressive. Who like instead of she didn't

736
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Speaker 5: mean subliminal, she meant passive aggressive.

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Speaker 2: Oh subliminal messages Angela Coconuts. There we go that's that's better. Yeah. Anyway, Uh,

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Speaker 2: there's a little bit more to this story. He's been

739
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 2: posting sublimineral messages on Facebook, but honestly, everyone just ignores him.

740
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Speaker 2: And for all the people saying this story is fake

741
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 2: or clickbait have obviously never come from religious families. For

742
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 2: the most part, my family is normal and accepting. However,

743
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 2: we do have a few extremists. Those people typically aren't

744
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 2: invited to anything. I originally just invited Maple, her siblings,

745
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 2: and her stepmom, but of course Pastor tagged along. The

746
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 2: Pastor has always been a little aggressive, saying outlanders things

747
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Speaker 2: for attend for attention. My family doesn't want to talk

748
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 2: about it. But Pastor struggled with drug usage back in

749
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 2: the day. My dad said that changed him and he

750
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,720
Speaker 2: used to not be so crass or mean. I also

751
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Speaker 2: have an English journalism degree, so I just right, well,

752
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Speaker 2: I don't really know what else to say. By the way,

753
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,399
Speaker 2: we go live every weekday three PMPSD, so check us out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe maybe did mean subliminal messages.

755
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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, journalism degree, journalism, journalism degree.

756
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Speaker 1: Also at the end of the story, I peeped like

757
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: he was like, oh he used to have like drug

758
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,240
Speaker 1: problems back in the day. So now he's more crass

759
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: than mean. Does that mean when he was using it

760
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,439
Speaker 1: he was just like the coolest time guy.

761
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Speaker 2: Maybe he should start doing.

762
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Speaker 3: Like, Hey, guys, what's up. It's Pastor G. We're we're

763
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 3: just hanging out. We're having a good time, we're having

764
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Speaker 3: illegitimate children. It's all good. Pulled up.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so jesus man, oh man, oh faster G.

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Speaker 2: Pastor G hit that spot, so, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: We are Me and Sam are actually allegedly apparently going

768
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Speaker 3: to some sort of women's empowerment.

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Speaker 2: We are an We do love to empower women.

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Speaker 3: That's right, Sophia decided to abandon Actually, yeah, want to

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Speaker 3: empower women.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she is against women empowerment. We we are the

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Speaker 1: only ones empowering.

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Speaker 3: Women, right. You know, someone's got to do the job.

775
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 3: Someone's got to do the work.

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00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 2: If we don't stand up, who will obviously not so

777
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 2: obviously sitting right now, obways not Sophia. He thinks all

778
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:05,919
Speaker 2: the work has been done. But you know what, John,

779
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 2: I say.

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Speaker 3: No more, Timmy done can.

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00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: But uh, one of us should leave eventually.

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00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 3: We were supposed to leave at five.

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Speaker 2: We got twenty more minutes in this stream. We we

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Speaker 2: do oh we should we pull? Should we pull ryles

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Speaker 2: in our boy?

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00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 3: Yeah?

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00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,879
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's pull ryles in because we we do

788
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 2: have to hit that. And also your boy is walking

789
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 2: into the fashion show tomorrow getting some and that your

790
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 2: boy is going to a red carpet event tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: That's okay, all right, sorry.

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Speaker 2: Asian, he said, Praise to the Most High thanks for

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Speaker 2: the two bucks Asian persuasion. Belle the man who just

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00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 2: said honkers while pretending to old groops, We empower women.

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00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 2: I was some people are visual learners, all right. I

796
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 2: was trying to show what I was talking.

797
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 1: Can we also tell people what you what you did earlier?

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Speaker 1: I do really, I know you did what You walked

799
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 1: up to me outside and you're like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you mean the pen depend We can't talk. That's

801
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 2: we can't talk about that. No, that's why I asked you. No,

802
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 2: we can't talk about that. Also, it's also unrelated to

803
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 2: the honkers.

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Speaker 1: It is, but it is very related to your your

805
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: very aloof nature.

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00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 4: So you know what's related to the stream. What this

807
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 4: next story?

808
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,439
Speaker 3: Whoa? You're so right?

809
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 4: We have to do one more story for this.

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00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 3: We do we added more time. It's not over.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, guys, it's not Briley's comment, and we're making it happen.

812
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 3: We're making ray every time we can.

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00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:09,799
Speaker 4: Ah, it's the s or in the same one.

814
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Speaker 3: Let's freaking do it? S four yes, four? Got you?

815
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Speaker 4: Sam did the s two?

816
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 3: Bell Collins says, where did the then go? But now

817
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 3: they're gonna be guessing about it.

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Speaker 1: I know you're the one that said I said the

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Speaker 1: thing that happened.

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Speaker 3: Well, but that sounds more. That sounds no, you add

821
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Speaker 3: way more supposed to be finish back to reality. So

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Speaker 3: my sister and her best friend keep excluding me. I'm

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Speaker 3: sick of it, as you should be, am I.

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Speaker 1: So my sister twenty eight female and my best friend

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Speaker 1: since we were five, twenty nine female moved in together

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Speaker 1: last year and I have been having a really hard

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Speaker 1: time with it ever since I twenty nine female, am

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Speaker 1: married and have lived with my husband, thirty male for

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Speaker 1: almost eight years now. So I never had a chance

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Speaker 1: to live with my best since she lived with her

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Speaker 1: parents until last year. Let's call my best friend Sonia

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Speaker 1: and my sister Brittany. And by the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from light temperature nine ninety five from our slash Okay

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Speaker 1: story Time thirty stores, and there we read them. Brittany

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Speaker 1: and I.

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Speaker 3: Again the sister are.

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Speaker 1: We're fairly close as kids, and things got more strained

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Speaker 1: as we became adults.

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Speaker 3: I moved out of our parents' house at twenty and

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Speaker 3: was in a.

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00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: Different city for three years in a different state or

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Speaker 1: two before moving close to the.

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Speaker 3: City that we grew up in.

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Speaker 1: When I moved back, my sister Brittany was not very

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Speaker 1: nice to me and would make snine comments and even

846
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: talk crap about me under her breath. To my friend Sonia,

847
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: it literally felt like a middle school bowlie. I was

848
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Speaker 1: just extremely hurt and wanted to talk to my sister

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Speaker 1: Brittany about what was going on, but she gets extremely

850
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Speaker 1: defensive anytime we talk and it turns into a huge fight.

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Speaker 3: The last fight we had was.

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Speaker 1: A few months ago and it ended with her saying

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Speaker 1: I treated her like crap in high school and abandoned

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00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: her when I moved out from my recollection, I was

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00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: in survival mode in high school and was dealing with

856
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:10,240
Speaker 1: daily thoughts of unliving due to extreme mental health issues

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00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: that would not be resolved until I left my parents' house.

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Speaker 1: I know I had my crappy sister moments, but every

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00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 1: sibling does. At my core, I only ever wanted to

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Speaker 1: protect her and our little brother.

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Speaker 3: My parents were.

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00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 1: Emotionally neglectful and had extremely high expectations for their children.

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Speaker 1: We always had to act perfect, go to church multiple

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Speaker 1: times a week, not react negatively to anything, basically not

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Speaker 1: be kids. I believe that as the oldest, as the

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Speaker 1: oldest child, my sister looked up to me emotionally to

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Speaker 1: give her what our parents couldn't, which I was enabled

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Speaker 1: to provide. Since I was a child myself, I did

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Speaker 1: receive higher expectations and more punishments for my parents than

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Speaker 1: my siblings did. Because quote unquote, I'm the oldest and

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Speaker 1: could know better. I was expected to grow up a

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Speaker 1: lot quicker than.

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Speaker 3: Her and our brother.

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Speaker 1: I believe my sister sees me in the villain as

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00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: the villain in her story, and our parents as perfect

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Speaker 1: angels who did nothing wrong. Because Brittany and I were

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00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: getting even more estranged, I was shocked to hear that

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Speaker 1: Sonia was going to live with her. At first I

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00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 1: told them it was okay, but the longer they lived together,

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00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: the more hurt I got. I could barely get a

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Speaker 1: text back from either of them, which would normally be fine,

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00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: but they started doing everything together and it hurts that

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00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: they saw each other every day and grocery shop together

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Speaker 1: and watch shows together, so they couldn't send me a text.

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Speaker 1: Every time we have family dinners, Brittany is constantly texting

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Speaker 1: Sonya and they call each other bestie.

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Speaker 3: Super quick question before we dive back in, Sophia, geees,

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00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 3: if you had.

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Speaker 1: A best friend and then that best friend just moves

890
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,919
Speaker 1: in with Sam and just starts hanging out with Sam

891
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: all the time, and it's like ah, and then and

892
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: then Sam and your bestie are like, you know, just

893
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 1: like getting back to you every once in a while,

894
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,280
Speaker 1: like not really chatting with you as.

895
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 5: That would be That would be pretty hard. Yeah, yeah,

896
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 5: I would be pretty weird to that.

897
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 3: I'd be like, what that, guys, can can we do anything?

898
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 5: I think you could talk to your your both of

899
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:25,399
Speaker 5: them if you think that. I mean, like, I'm kind

900
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,799
Speaker 5: of confused on whether or not op Hat still has

901
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 5: a close relationship with her sister.

902
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 4: It seems that like a little bit like.

903
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 1: It's grown more and more strange, and I think the

904
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: main thing is like now my bestie isn't talking.

905
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think.

906
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 5: It's maybe talking to your best and say hey, I'd

907
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,840
Speaker 5: love to do some one on one stuff.

908
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, try to reach out and kind of like rebuild

909
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: that connection. Yeah, in this scenario, you just dump stand

910
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,320
Speaker 1: on the side of the road like a yeah meat.

911
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 5: I in this scenario, I would talk to both of them.

912
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 3: Like a soggy piece of bacon.

913
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:05,800
Speaker 2: Olive oil crusted bacon.

914
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's a good point.

915
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 1: I think that there could be a conversation had here

916
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:13,320
Speaker 1: that could possible.

917
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 3: Dave.

918
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's so you say, let's say I stole your

919
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 4: best friend now.

920
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 3: Im op Yeah, M.

921
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:36,280
Speaker 2: I think I would be a little sad, but uh,

922
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 2: I would like try to communicate. Hey, I would love

923
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 2: to hang out with you all more. But I feel

924
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 2: like if you you can't like really force someone to

925
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 2: hang out with you, that's like the kind of part

926
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 2: the thing that kind of sucks, Like you can. I

927
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 2: think the thing that you could do is you can

928
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:54,439
Speaker 2: just like say yo, I'm throwing more, like you could

929
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 2: throw more events. You can invite them to things, but

930
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,720
Speaker 2: you can't really expect anyone to invite you to anything.

931
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 2: To potluck, post to potluck, invite all your friends. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

932
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 2: that's true.

933
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 3: That's why I ask. I feel like there's like a

934
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:07,919
Speaker 3: limited meter of things. Yeah.

935
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 2: I used to be upset when like friends would invite

936
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 2: me things, but then I think it's just like you're

937
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 2: just out of your control.

938
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 3: And so.

939
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 2: Now I'm just more like, if I want to be

940
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 2: invited to something, I'll just invite myself to the thing

941
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 2: that I invite them to.

942
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: Boo, invite yourself, build it, get locked out.

943
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 3: Build your own building, yeah.

944
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 2: Exactly, exactly, build your own buildings. We'll see what hope

945
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:34,919
Speaker 2: he does. But it does suck not saying he doesn't.

946
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 3: This is true. This is true.

947
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: So Sonia and I have been there for each other

948
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,760
Speaker 1: our entire lives. We talk to each other about everything,

949
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 1: and I now feel like I can't venture her about

950
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: my sister because they are getting so close. I feel

951
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: like I've lost my best friend to my sibling who

952
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:52,919
Speaker 1: doesn't even about six months ago, I had a talk

953
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 1: with each of them separately, okay, and my sister said,

954
00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: I figured you would be jealous, and it turned into

955
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 1: our last big fight. And Sonia said that I will

956
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: always be her best friend and nothing will change that.

957
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: But her actions have not made me feel that way.

958
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 1: It's gotten to the point where they have gone to

959
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: many events, including concerts, without me, and are currently in

960
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: another state for a huge music festival with just the

961
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: two of them, and they didn't invite me. I've never

962
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 1: been on a trip with just one of them before.

963
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: Does this really hurt? It's so upsetting and I feel

964
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,400
Speaker 1: like I can't talk to them anymore about uh. And

965
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't talk to them about it

966
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: anymore because they know how I feel and they clearly

967
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:37,439
Speaker 1: don't care.

968
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:39,240
Speaker 3: I think that's this point.

969
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: All I can do is except that I will never

970
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,320
Speaker 1: be close with either of them again.

971
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 3: I feel like both.

972
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:48,399
Speaker 1: Of them have replaced me, and I have a hard

973
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: time hoping. I know that this was insanely long, so

974
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,280
Speaker 1: thank you for reading, and I appreciate all the advice,

975
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: and there are some relevant comments to close this out.

976
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 3: But do we maybe chat we pull it as well?

977
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 2: UH?

978
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 3: Move on or keep fighting?

979
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 2: I don't think you like I think you. I think

980
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 2: you you have the conversations say like, hey, I would

981
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 2: love to I'm feeling a little left out. Yeah, I

982
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 2: would love to be included more. And then if they

983
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 2: don't do it like just you can. I think you

984
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 2: just start creating a friend group, you know, like just

985
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 2: start inviting people to to things that you want to do.

986
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 2: I know, that's literally I feel like that's the best

987
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 2: thing to do. If you feel uninvited, you just like

988
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 2: create your own circle.

989
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:47,280
Speaker 1: They're at a music festival, starts our own music festival. Damn,

990
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 1: doesn't invite them now we're even.

991
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 3: Now we're even now, or even.

992
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 2: Buys the music festival.

993
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 4: I feel like the best way to make friends is

994
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,720
Speaker 4: that just keep it inviting them.

995
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 2: Until until they have no choice. Also, you're out of focus, Sofia.

996
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 4: No, I'm not.

997
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 3: But get to the point where it's like almost right there.

998
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 1: Hey, you get to the point where it's like you've

999
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:20,879
Speaker 1: invited them, like let's say, let's say you've invited them

1000
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: to ten events, Sofia, yeah, and they've not gone to

1001
00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: any of them ten.

1002
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,760
Speaker 4: Events, then they're not your friend anymore.

1003
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 3: So move on, move on.

1004
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: You both said move on, yeah, and I said move

1005
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: on as well, And I think move on. But we'll see, Uh,

1006
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: we'll see what the poll see what happens.

1007
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:41,880
Speaker 3: Move on? You hit that pole, keep fighting.

1008
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 4: Oh the polls. Move on?

1009
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 3: Eight oh, they agree with us? Does a relevant comments

1010
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 3: close us out?

1011
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 1: Jack of Spade says, it sounds like you weren't as

1012
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: close to your friend as you thought. You left for

1013
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: college and lived with your husband for a year, so

1014
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 1: you were best for in high school. But didn't you

1015
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: grow up and bond as adults doing doing your own uh,

1016
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: doing your own stuff and going out together. You never

1017
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 1: took You never took trips and concerts and all that.

1018
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: So while you were off doing your own thing, she

1019
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 1: was off doing hers. She wasn't sitting there waiting around

1020
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,879
Speaker 1: for you to get back. While you were gone, new

1021
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,360
Speaker 1: friendships and connections performed that you aren't a part of

1022
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 1: maintaining a friendship as adults takes effort to make things work.

1023
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: And it sounds and it sounds like, rather than putting

1024
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 1: in the effort to sustain that rapport, you just assumed

1025
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:39,399
Speaker 1: it would always WHOA and I come and for pretty presumptuous?

1026
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 3: Or have they actually not hung out for eight years?

1027
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 3: You know? Well? Op response.

1028
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 1: When we were in our twenties, me and Sonia were

1029
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: win to concerts at least once a month. Set the

1030
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: record straight. I texted her multiple times a week and

1031
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 1: was often back in my hometown when I lived only

1032
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 1: an hour hour away. I'm constantly sending her tiktoks that

1033
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: remind me of her, and I'm always trying to get

1034
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: her to go out or just hang out.

1035
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:07,280
Speaker 3: In general, she's.

1036
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:08,839
Speaker 1: Very much a homebody and it's hard to get her

1037
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: to do anything. I've done what I can to keep

1038
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,720
Speaker 1: the friendship going, and it seems like for a while

1039
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: she has been.

1040
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 3: Half in, half out.

1041
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 1: I mean, going to a concert at least once a

1042
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 1: month with someone is a pretty decent cadence as far

1043
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 1: as far as the scale of friendships. I mean, I

1044
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 1: think we all have friends that, you know, we see

1045
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,840
Speaker 1: very rarely, like maybe every few months.

1046
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:35,800
Speaker 2: I have a friend that I haven't seen in five years,

1047
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:37,320
Speaker 2: but I talk to him.

1048
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 3: Every two weeks.

1049
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:39,800
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying, and he's awesome.