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Speaker 1: Jebels Second date Update. Today's second date update is a

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Speaker 1: little different than usual because normally when somebody emails us,

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Speaker 1: they're complaining like, oh, I've been blowing off or this

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Speaker 1: person won't talk to me. Well, apparently the dude on

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Speaker 1: the phone today named Andy has been trying to get

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Speaker 1: together with the girl that he went out on a

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Speaker 1: with him, but they can't seem to connect. And now

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Speaker 1: I guess he thinks he needs to do a second

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Speaker 1: date update about it? Andy, what's up? How are you? Hey? Good?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? Man? Wow? For that description, it

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Speaker 1: sounds pretty bored Andy, Like we're going to be your

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Speaker 1: personal assistants trying to get the calendar right for you too. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, all right, maybe it's me,

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Speaker 1: but we just can't seem to get on the same page. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: why'd you emails for a second date update? Then? If

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Speaker 1: you don't think she's blowing you off at first, I

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Speaker 1: didn't think she would blowing me off, but now I

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Speaker 1: think she might be. Okay, maybe it just got too

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Speaker 1: frustrating trying to plan something. Well, before we get into

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Speaker 1: all that, tell us a little bit about her. Where

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Speaker 1: did you meet her? Starbucks? Actually, oh, that's kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: Did you approach her? I did, which I usually don't do,

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Speaker 1: but she actually kept looking at me, and I just thought,

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Speaker 1: as she did, Andy, that's right. Yeah, he just standing

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Speaker 1: finally paid off. Yeah. I mean I didn't know what

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Speaker 1: What did you say to her? Did you have a

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Speaker 1: I was very upfront. I just said I just got

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Speaker 1: you walked up there, did Yeah? I didn't notice until afterwards. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: well when you said it again, did she seem like

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Speaker 1: she liked it? She did, she said thank you? So yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then what happened? I mean, did you like ask

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so you haven't been out on an official

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Speaker 1: that day. We actually ended up hanging out a little

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Speaker 1: I just leaned in to kiss her. Whoao, bold, sir,

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Speaker 1: and I felt horrible about it. What did she say?

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Speaker 1: She said, I don't kiss on first dates, right or

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Speaker 1: that's very judgmental of her. That's she should have totally

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Speaker 1: after that? Then? Actually? Yeah, at the end, I tried

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Speaker 1: able to like connect. It's really annoying. Well, but you said,

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Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, and then call her

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Speaker 1: with your second day update. All right, okay, great, all right,

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Speaker 1: hangs looking jubil in the Morning's right in the middle

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Speaker 1: of a second date update, and if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 1: Andy is on the phone, and today he wants to

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Speaker 1: call a girl named Arianna. They didn't even have a

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Speaker 1: real date. They met at a Starbucks and then ended

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Speaker 1: also part of the date. And Andy, I think most

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Speaker 1: all right, you already push it on the first day.

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Speaker 1: To Andy, I won't promise. And I would normally think

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Speaker 1: really does feel like someone just like is dead. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If someone doesn't respond to a text message within an hour,

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Speaker 1: that's like a week. Right back in the early nineteen hundreds,

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Speaker 1: that would be a week. All right, Andy, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: dial her phone of her right now, you're ready, let's

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Speaker 1: find out what's going on. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Ariana? Yeah, this is hurt. Hey,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Who is that? Who are you? Jewil?

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Speaker 1: I host a radio show. It's called Brooke and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Um. Okay, you've clearly been a fan

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Speaker 1: for a long time, and I thank you for that. Arianna. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: my point. I could understand that you hadn't heard it before.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling you today because one of our listeners actually

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Speaker 1: get to the point, because I'm love to His name

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Speaker 1: is Andy, and you guys met at a coffee shop recently.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, that's not happening. That was a quick no, Arianna. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what do you mean, I'm not interested in guys that

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Speaker 1: play games? You're not didn't guys that play games like

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Speaker 1: So I'm on your side there. Yeah. No, Um what

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Speaker 1: Bread crumbing What does that mean? Like he's you know,

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Speaker 1: When are you free? And he doesn't answer me. What Okay,

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Speaker 1: you're like scroll up in the text threat man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like he's in breadcuming me for a while, but now

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Speaker 1: he's zombiing me. So I'm just over it. Zombiing you?

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Speaker 1: But now he's zombiing you, and you guys, he's using

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Speaker 1: I don't know what, Like resurrecting. Maybe that's resurrecting. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: grade Yeah, no, he's on the other line listening and

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Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. And yes, our show is

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Speaker 1: actually more like sixth grade. But thanks for the Photocoffien.

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Speaker 1: Hey I'm here, Arianna. How you doing? Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: What is bread crumbing? By the way, I don't even

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Speaker 1: You know what, everyone gets that one. I want to

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Speaker 1: hang out with you, Arina. It sounds like you have

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Speaker 1: a term for everything. Yeah, benched me. What does that

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Speaker 1: even mean? I mean, it's pretty obvious. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: I'm playing well in the game, so like I gotta

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Speaker 1: What I've been playing good. I texted you, I called you.

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Speaker 1: I just we haven't been able to make a connection.

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Speaker 1: Why are you benching me. He sounds so sad, Arianna.

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Speaker 1: He shouldn't sound sad like he zombied me. I mean

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Speaker 1: zombing brad Crow. I had to write those rooms down before.

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Speaker 1: I never even heard of all. But I mean, can't

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Speaker 1: the thing. When you're using all those terms and you're

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Speaker 1: it almost sounds like you're the one playing the game,

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Speaker 1: So you know when somebody's playing a game on you, Andy,

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Speaker 1: why would you breadcrum her like that? I was not

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that means, but well whatever, Zombie Andy,

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Speaker 1: like to your defense, listen, An, he directly told you

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Speaker 1: that you're beautiful in a Starbucks. Like that's really direct.

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Speaker 1: He tried to kiss you thirty minutes into the day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, how much more can he say? Like

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Speaker 1: someone just please explained to her that I like her

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Speaker 1: would you go on a second date with Andy? We

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Speaker 1: will pay for it. He does want to go out

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Speaker 1: He'll name a time and place immediately, yes, and we'll

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Speaker 1: pay for it. Actually, I don't have an exact time

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Speaker 1: There you go, Arianna, what do you say? One more date?

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. Do you see what I'm dealing with? Okay? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Actually I mean this whole time, I've been against you,

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Speaker 1: but I kind of get it now, Arianna, Like, just

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Speaker 1: I know, I want it to be special. I have

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is all happening. You just shat it

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Speaker 1: And Andy, like, you're officially bench right now. If I'm

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Speaker 1: what's happening? I mean, sorry you didn't get a second

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Speaker 1: Alex wanted to call Arianna. She wasn't calling him back.

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Speaker 1: They're playing phone tag. She would go away then come

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Speaker 1: She said that Alex was breadcrumbing her. Yeah, like saying

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Speaker 1: Are we shale? What is that? That one sounds fun? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why not? Remember? If you want a second date update,

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Speaker 1: we will call the person who breadcrumbed you or zombie

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