WEBVTT - The Levels of Monogamy

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<v Speaker 1>Talk talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>Who talks, bitch, That's not what we're about to do.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>Listen?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for tuning in for a new episode, and

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<v Speaker 3>we talked back a show dedicated to you, dreamers and chases,

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<v Speaker 3>niggas and holes all.

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<v Speaker 2>The bitches in between.

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<v Speaker 3>It's your co host, aj Holiday. What's up, tam Bam.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, y'all listen me tam Man.

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<v Speaker 3>I fucking love y'all. God damn, I love y'all. Lass

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<v Speaker 3>ive you trying to make them death?

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<v Speaker 1>Then?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, Tom.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited you're yelling at these people.

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<v Speaker 1>How was your weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>I had a good weekend. Child.

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<v Speaker 3>It was raining, real bad in Charleston, but we celebrated

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<v Speaker 3>my stepsister going away. She's going being deployed. She's in

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<v Speaker 3>the US Army. Who employed your booty, Africa? It is

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<v Speaker 3>not your booty, it's your beauty.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they say who right. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want other military branches to be that's not what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck they say.

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<v Speaker 2>They's like weed or whatever they say. Don't they be

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<v Speaker 2>so territorial.

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<v Speaker 1>Up?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, every branch in the military talked about the other light.

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<v Speaker 3>All branches say that the Air Force and the resilions.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they say they a bunch of civilions.

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<v Speaker 1>If I had to go with any branch, no shade

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<v Speaker 1>to the rest, but it would definitely be the Air

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<v Speaker 1>Force because when they deployed they had the Army and

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<v Speaker 1>the Marines in tents and then the Air Force being apartments.

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<v Speaker 1>The better, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>So we had a good old time in my dad's

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<v Speaker 3>backyard this weekend in the rain. Bitch I was on

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<v Speaker 3>the mic all night, cutting up, singing. It was so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I was wet, sweat and sticking to me, but I

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<v Speaker 3>really enjoyed my family and.

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<v Speaker 2>I just told my steps is to stay safe out

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<v Speaker 2>their child.

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<v Speaker 1>Fine. Yeah, I think.

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<v Speaker 3>I was trying to research when she told me she

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<v Speaker 3>was going to Africa. I'm like, why what the fuck

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<v Speaker 3>is going on over there? Because she's not the only

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<v Speaker 3>person deploying to Jaibouti. So apparently Djaibouti is right near Iran.

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<v Speaker 3>And if y'all remember Biden, you know they got the

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<v Speaker 3>war over right, but then we left some Americans over there,

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<v Speaker 3>So I think that they're trying to extract the people

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<v Speaker 3>and maybe hopefully the ammunition and shit they left over there.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, good luck to her. I hope she stays safe

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<v Speaker 1>and comes back with some interesting stories to tell so

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<v Speaker 1>we could share it on we talked, Man, my weekend girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I had some weird shit going on with my clients

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend. Man. One of my clients is she had mud,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was.

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<v Speaker 2>Just ruined my day.

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<v Speaker 1>She kept having to get up and go shit. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, bal like you got this.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like my summing dum man, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>She was in Like she was in that bathroom equivalent

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<v Speaker 1>of probably thirty forty minutes of her appointment on and off,

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<v Speaker 1>like fifteen minutes here, five more minutes there, ten minutes there.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, bro, I don't know what's going on with me.

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<v Speaker 2>She must have took a laxi of the night before.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, do you mean DoD do it regularly?

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<v Speaker 1>She's like no, it's like you didn't add five or

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<v Speaker 1>to your dance so you can ship often so you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to shut up like this. Yeah. So that

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<v Speaker 1>happened in then then one of my clients told me

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<v Speaker 1>that she'd be eating her own pussy.

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<v Speaker 2>What what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>These are growing professional women like the well who shit up?

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<v Speaker 1>She like real successful with her Amazon like career. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the other one, this bitch be working for three

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<v Speaker 1>laptops at the same time, working three full time jobs

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<v Speaker 1>at the same h She know, black girl getting to

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<v Speaker 1>that bad, but she'd be eating her own pussy. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, excuse me, say what? Excuse me? Say what?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, Yeah, like I taste my pussy once a week.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, for what She's like. I was like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>you just stick your finger in your pussy and taste it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, yeah, I just make sure it tastes good,

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<v Speaker 1>because if I don't like the way it tastes, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>my nigga ain't gonna like the way it tastes. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>and I like, when I'm eating different foods, I taste

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<v Speaker 1>it to see if it changed the taste. And she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't eat bow Jangles French fries because it tastes

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<v Speaker 1>it tastes my pussy.

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<v Speaker 2>What Those French fries are very heavy with grease.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm not the only way I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>taste my pussy is all off somebody's mouth, right.

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<v Speaker 2>That'sting your ship. Every Monday, right, del I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, I honestly, I think you just like eating

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<v Speaker 1>your own pussy, because that's weird to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Does she eat pussy?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>She said she gonna get her just hers. But men

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<v Speaker 3>like the taste of it. I don't think it matters

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<v Speaker 3>if she doesn't like.

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<v Speaker 1>It, right, it ain't about you liking it. It's about

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<v Speaker 1>whoever eating it liking it exactly?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that stupid internet news? What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't think nobody else do that.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, everybody don't do that. No, I don't know nobody.

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<v Speaker 3>Else that do that shit, aside from cats and dogs.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I be licking it on a pussy all day.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all get in the comments after this episode and let

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<v Speaker 1>us know if y'all be eating y'all own pussy so

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<v Speaker 1>I can point at you and laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>Hah shame. Let's get in the stupid internet news though.

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<v Speaker 3>So listen, I saw a video today now I think

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<v Speaker 3>I forwarded to you. But it's a fucking beer at

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<v Speaker 3>an at a excuse me, at a Chinese zoo. It's

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<v Speaker 3>clearly somebody in a fucking bear costume waving, standing on

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<v Speaker 3>its hind legs, waving at the crowd child.

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<v Speaker 2>So China is denying that suggestions.

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<v Speaker 1>How you know that these animals aren't evolving?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So bears do stand on their hind legs. There's

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<v Speaker 3>actual videos of actual bears doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch, this bear so slim.

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<v Speaker 1>They ain't feeding that bear. That bear waving like, somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>throwt me some of that chicken. Y'all up here looking

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<v Speaker 1>at me, Throw a piece of meat down here. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what he waving about. That.

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<v Speaker 2>They got his elbow sitting up on the rocks.

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<v Speaker 1>He got his hand on his hand on his hip,

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<v Speaker 1>the other hand waving, Hey, throw me a piece of

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<v Speaker 1>that fucking chicken.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch staring down here at me, shut up, he's stupid.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so man, I'm like, wait a minute, man, but

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<v Speaker 3>China does not give a fuck. They will duplicate your

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<v Speaker 3>ass if they want to say over there making bears

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<v Speaker 3>and lying about it.

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<v Speaker 1>That that's what stupid, real stupid, that's stupid news. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a that's a real beer.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not a bear.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a bear.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at the brown area underneath his fucking neck. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a suit. You know what.

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<v Speaker 3>Perception, that's the perception, bitch. If you're perceiving that as

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<v Speaker 3>a real bear.

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<v Speaker 2>It's something wrong with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Look like a bear to me, go down there and

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<v Speaker 1>try to take his head off and see if he

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<v Speaker 1>don't take yours off.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a bear and drag that bear is just evolved. Girl,

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<v Speaker 2>That is not a bear.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at the booty, it's all sunken, be hungry. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>they need to go to jail because while y'all starving

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<v Speaker 3>that little ass beer, look at the head.

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<v Speaker 1>Their head don't look like no costume. Look at that mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>their mouth look real. Yeah, we're gonna have to post it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna have to post it, so y'all just see it,

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<v Speaker 1>because that looked like a real bear, a little hungry

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<v Speaker 1>bear waving he wants something met.

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<v Speaker 2>The face do look kind of real. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they make everything over there.

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<v Speaker 3>They probably can make a a motorized head like that

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<v Speaker 3>from the mouth to open and all that. You okay,

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<v Speaker 3>show biz, remember show business. That motherfucker didn't look real.

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<v Speaker 2>That motherfucker, that's what this looked like.

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<v Speaker 1>My mouth moving, my sister, that mouth only moved on

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<v Speaker 1>like one setting.

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<v Speaker 2>It was never with the words of the motherfucking song, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, showby is my older sister, my older big

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<v Speaker 1>grown sister, used to be so scared of that motherfucking

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<v Speaker 1>gorilla playing that motherfucking piano.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, girl, what's up with all the motherfuckers?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know. It just kept coming out,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, that motherfucking piano. And she used to get

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<v Speaker 1>under the table and like trying to grab her pizza

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<v Speaker 1>from on top of the table, and I used to

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<v Speaker 1>pinch her finger so she couldn't eat her food.

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<v Speaker 2>That is so petty, petty. So look y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone Walker and Jada Wader kind of got and said

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit, some are shaded, Jada, did you see that? Yo?

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<v Speaker 3>Some of Walker basically tweeted or she put on an

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram story that she's done, you know, getting cheated or

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<v Speaker 3>she can't do the cheating shit. She tried to be

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<v Speaker 3>Jada Wada, but that she made for that shit, right.

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<v Speaker 3>So Jada responded back, was like, bitch, I learned my

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<v Speaker 3>lesson after one child, right, I know something work out

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<v Speaker 3>three babies now two baby daddies at this point. So

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<v Speaker 3>her her Instagram post says, tried my best to be

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<v Speaker 3>Jada Wada, but I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It was cute, though I wish him the best.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't do that cheating stuff, And Jada responded, I

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<v Speaker 3>learned my lesson after one kid. Motherfucker's around here starting

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<v Speaker 3>their own trends and trying to insert me for laughs

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<v Speaker 3>on the shade room. No, why, I don't understand why she.

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<v Speaker 1>Did that, you know, I honestly, I don't think she

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<v Speaker 1>really thought about it. I don't think she really considered

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<v Speaker 1>like that. That was that woman's trauma. You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>think when she meant it, it was like I tried

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<v Speaker 1>to be like you. I don't think she meant it

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<v Speaker 1>as a jab, but it was.

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<v Speaker 2>That was definitely a jab. And I, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't keep giving people benefit of adult like you're a

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<v Speaker 3>grown woman. Has somebody mentioned you like that, you'd feel

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<v Speaker 3>some type of way too, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sucking that up to as to like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 3>she didn't mean it that way. No, we gotta sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>go with exactly how people say things and what they say.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna go with how she said it and what

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<v Speaker 3>she said and face value she said what she said.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but what would be the point of starting beef

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<v Speaker 1>with Jada?

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<v Speaker 2>You know it's not really to start beef, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was shady because they're both public figures, right, and everybody

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<v Speaker 2>knows that baby, I mean, Jada had been going back

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<v Speaker 2>and forth with a low baby and he cheats and

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<v Speaker 2>he's been on shows saying how he doesn't really love

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<v Speaker 2>her even after having a child with her. Shit like that,

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's her ful.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, from one woman to another, like we

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<v Speaker 3>all been through our dumb bitch shit. Why are you

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<v Speaker 3>using me to like make a dumb bitch category? Right,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm at the top of the dumb bitch can example?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? How you gonna make getting cheated on my name?

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<v Speaker 1>Try to be Jada Waiter.

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<v Speaker 2>First?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I get it, that's what I get what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was missy. I always be feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like she meant it that way. I

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<v Speaker 1>always be meant she ain't mean it.

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<v Speaker 3>Benefit of the doubt had asked, girl, don't listen, people

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<v Speaker 3>said she said exactly. She was trying to be She

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<v Speaker 3>may not have been trying to be disrespectful, but it

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<v Speaker 3>was highly disrespectful, Like girl, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>And we don't know what the hell going on with

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<v Speaker 3>Jada right now, the internet keeps speculating that she's pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>If she is, she might not be pregnant for the

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<v Speaker 3>baby or excuse me, low baby put that up. She

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't look pregnant to me. Yeah, I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's like the comments in her on her I.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope, I hope they spoke in the DMS and she

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<v Speaker 1>apologized and they let go.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know kind of stuff going on. And then

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<v Speaker 3>look little meech he he posted a damn video. So

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<v Speaker 3>apparently an onlooker caught him going into a women's apartment

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<v Speaker 3>and he actually got on live and said, damn, a

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<v Speaker 3>nigga can't help his cousin bring in groceries. When I

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<v Speaker 3>tell you, the girl who he was following asked, was

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<v Speaker 3>so fat and his nigga had no groceries in his hand.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm assuming the groceries. Was that ass right, because what

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<v Speaker 3>are you talking about? And he bought that munch on

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<v Speaker 3>some lunch. He's out here playing in her face.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if it is his cousin, Listen, a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to play all over me.

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<v Speaker 2>I just be benefiting it down to everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>No, what if he was his cousin, because like once

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<v Speaker 1>mm hmm, because he can't help his cousin, got a

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<v Speaker 1>fat ass.

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<v Speaker 3>Where is the groceries? Though maybe there's a doorbell ringer

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<v Speaker 3>video of him. There's nothing in his hands like a towel,

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<v Speaker 3>and she don't have no groceries, but that ass, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>where's the groceries? And I think he was trying to

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<v Speaker 3>be funny. Damn, I can't help my cousin bring the groceries.

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<v Speaker 1>In, right, cherk, damn damn Meach, I was. We were

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<v Speaker 1>all rooting for y'all. It's hard out here. Dating is

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<v Speaker 1>so hard in twenty twenty three. I just don't know, girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it that hard?

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<v Speaker 3>I think we entertain the wrong people oftentimes, and women

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to talk about that shit. Because I can

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<v Speaker 3>tell you the relationships I've been in. I had a

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<v Speaker 3>choice before I got into that relationship, Like I probably

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<v Speaker 3>had a choice between and I chose wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>You study long, you study wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I definitely don't chose wrong a million times.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So we just got to have a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>more discernment. It's not that bad out here. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>Meach got a little cute face. They say musty, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's face cute. You know, I can understand why Summer

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to hop on that, especially after seeing that.

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<v Speaker 2>On that episode.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't think so that was a.

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<v Speaker 2>Stunt, big low meach goodness.

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<v Speaker 3>So Blueface has hit the internet. So he's sitting there

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<v Speaker 3>talking with his kids, and you know, he has this

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<v Speaker 3>little boy. He's always trying to get him to say things,

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<v Speaker 3>and the little boy has more sense than blue Face,

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<v Speaker 3>and blue Face was like, you know, are you gay?

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<v Speaker 3>If you were gay, i'll support you, and the little

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<v Speaker 3>boy is like, I'm not that, Like, why are.

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<v Speaker 2>You grooming him? Now?

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<v Speaker 3>There's been rumors about blue Face, and y'all, I've probably

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<v Speaker 3>said this before. Any man that like is just blatantly

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<v Speaker 3>disrespectful or even hits women. I feel like putting your

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<v Speaker 3>hands on a woman or just being disrespectful is the

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<v Speaker 3>last thing you could do to prove to a woman

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<v Speaker 3>that you a man. Oftentimes, I feel like these niggas

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<v Speaker 3>is fighting these sexuality and they really don't like women, so.

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<v Speaker 1>They being mean to him.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up with the the questioning for this little ass boy?

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<v Speaker 2>He's like seven years old.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it's you know, I don't know because

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I'd be like, it's too early to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>sexuality with kids. But then also the world, the world is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a very sexual place, and it's displayed around

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<v Speaker 1>your children. So what's the right age to have these

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<v Speaker 1>conversations with them about their sexuality. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>If I were a parent, and when I become a parent,

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<v Speaker 3>I would always leave space for these conversations so the

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<v Speaker 3>kid can come to me when he's ready. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>about to be egging that type of stuff on. I

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<v Speaker 3>do want my child to be able to talk to me,

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<v Speaker 3>so you know, you just create the safe space and when.

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<v Speaker 2>They are Because this little boy probably just.

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<v Speaker 3>Wants some light up shoes, video games, right, kid, Shit,

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<v Speaker 3>why are you talking to him about sexuality?

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<v Speaker 2>What is your problem?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>That is weird, and that's really where our society is

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<v Speaker 3>at right now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's in the schools.

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<v Speaker 3>They're trying to teach sexual and it's not just about

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<v Speaker 3>like male and female anatomy. They trying to teach kids

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<v Speaker 3>this internet that this ship right is so black box,

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<v Speaker 3>the cell phone.

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<v Speaker 1>It's some shit. It's the worst thing that ever happened

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<v Speaker 1>to humanity. It's not the worst thing. Lie, I was

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<v Speaker 1>wild with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think people consider the effects of technology.

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<v Speaker 3>We need technology, right, but we don't consider the effects

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<v Speaker 3>of because then when they created the phone, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>thinking about people driving and getting into car accidents because

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<v Speaker 3>they're looking.

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<v Speaker 2>At the fucking cell phone, right, they weren't thinking. But

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<v Speaker 2>now y'all got TVs in the car and dumb shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Like and young people who don't have any social skills, yeah, because.

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<v Speaker 2>They can't even have an actual conversation anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, because all they do is have they head in

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<v Speaker 1>their phone. By the time twenty twenty one ninety nine,

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<v Speaker 1>bitch is gonna be humped over and thingers gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>balled up because they spent their whole life looking down

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<v Speaker 1>at a cell phone. Watch, we're gonna look like some

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<v Speaker 1>we're going back to Neanderthal.

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<v Speaker 2>Is not me, bitch, I'm always you sating it up straight.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been like this. Fuck, I already got hoping my

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<v Speaker 2>shit lifetimes.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, every time every time that shit come across

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<v Speaker 3>to my timeline, I want to send it to you, like,

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<v Speaker 3>because they have like different ways you can try to

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<v Speaker 3>get it out there.

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<v Speaker 1>You send me that ship, bitch talking about you want

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<v Speaker 1>to send it the fuck, I'm trying to un.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple of people. I be wanting to send that ship too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to unhump and unbig my back.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all know what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like that little fatty little meat right there at

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<v Speaker 3>the top of your neck back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, at the top of where you're back of your

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<v Speaker 1>neck meats. It's like a little meatball.

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<v Speaker 2>Stupid fuck is that.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't worry about it. I know somebody like it.

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<v Speaker 3>No says no nigga ever, Baby, I like that little meatball.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a nigga right now, Lick all on that meatball

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<v Speaker 3>if I want them to. All right, y'all, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>get into our main topic as soon as this commercial

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<v Speaker 3>break is over.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking monogamy. We'll be right.

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<v Speaker 3>Back, Okay, y'all listen. I feel like, you know, Sam,

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<v Speaker 3>we talk about this a lot. I feel like we've

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<v Speaker 3>had so many episodes talking about monogamy, non monogamy, polyamory, polyamorous,

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<v Speaker 3>what all these terms, right, because we're still trying to

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<v Speaker 3>figure some shit out. And I think a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>it stems from just having a realization that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>is it normal for you to be with one person?

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<v Speaker 2>It's more pros for being with one person.

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<v Speaker 3>Being in a monogamous relationship as opposed to open non

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<v Speaker 3>monogamous relationship, you don't have to worry about as many

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<v Speaker 3>STDs look as many, but you still gotta worry, right

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<v Speaker 3>if somebody's cheating and going outside the relationship. But more so,

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<v Speaker 3>it's about open communications. So whatever y'all want to talk about,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all should be able to And you know, maybe it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Something you feel like you want to do.

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<v Speaker 3>You might not actually go in experience it, but I

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<v Speaker 3>want to have somebody I can talk to about about

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm feeling or hey, I don't feel like you

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<v Speaker 3>this week.

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<v Speaker 2>I want somebody else. You should be able to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Not saying that's what I want, but I think, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want that. I decided I've decided that is

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<v Speaker 3>not what I want. I think I am though a

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<v Speaker 3>modern excuse me, I think I do practice modern day monogamy, though,

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<v Speaker 3>what's a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so let's explain what modern day monogamy is versus

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<v Speaker 1>past monogamy.

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<v Speaker 3>So, based on what I've read and how I feel, right,

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<v Speaker 3>modern day monogamy is just one person at a time,

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<v Speaker 3>one dick at a time like I'm gonna replace you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna I'm not gonna start sleeping with somebody

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<v Speaker 3>else while I'm fucking with you. I'm gonna just stop

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<v Speaker 3>fucking with you and then move on to the next person.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not gonna be no overlapping type shit. And traditional

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<v Speaker 3>monogamy was more so you a whole version until you

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<v Speaker 3>get married, and you with this person until you fucking

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<v Speaker 3>die basically, And I'm definitely not with that shit, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not with getting married, living with one person for

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<v Speaker 3>the rest of your life, and y'all dying together. Like

0:20:13.080 --> 0:20:16.520
<v Speaker 3>I obviously we past that point because I'm not a virgin.

0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:20.679
<v Speaker 3>You're not a virgin whose women are virgins. Ripped me out,

0:20:20.680 --> 0:20:25.800
<v Speaker 3>the plastic virgin. That's a new pussy in my ears.

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<v Speaker 3>What my ears haven't been plug yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I just always be saying some shit. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I want a monogamous relationship like I want one man

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<v Speaker 1>and like forever, But I'm also afraid that I'll pick

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<v Speaker 1>one man and I love him and then I look

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<v Speaker 1>up in ten years and then I'm looking at him

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<v Speaker 1>while he's sleeping ready to kill his motherfucking ass. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>there goes that word again, ready to kill him, and

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<v Speaker 1>or like after five years, makouchie, don't even get wet

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<v Speaker 1>for him no more because it's just the same old stroke.

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<v Speaker 1>You see what these women be going through after five

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<v Speaker 1>and ten years, not just the women, the men too.

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<v Speaker 1>Once they've been committed for so long, they become like

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<v Speaker 1>brother and sister.

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel like that's because they probably didn't actually

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<v Speaker 3>find a person they were supposed to be what they

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<v Speaker 3>might have settled right, And a lot of those people

0:21:27.920 --> 0:21:30.479
<v Speaker 3>are unhappy and they go outside the relationship to complete

0:21:30.480 --> 0:21:33.800
<v Speaker 3>the happiness as opposed as opposed to like trying to

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<v Speaker 3>find ways to keep falling in love with your meat.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying, because it is a state

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<v Speaker 3>of mind, and I don't think that you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>be in love for twenty years with this one person.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta find a way for y'all to keep falling

0:21:44.600 --> 0:21:46.520
<v Speaker 3>in love, so y'all might be out of love for

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<v Speaker 3>a year and fall back in love another year. I

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<v Speaker 3>think people who have been married for a long time,

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<v Speaker 3>they'll tell you that they didn't always like they meet,

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<v Speaker 3>They didn't like There were times. One of my friends,

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<v Speaker 3>she's been married for a while, but she was like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, her and her husband, they didn't physically divorce,

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<v Speaker 3>but they left each other multiple times within the marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah right, but they always came back.

0:22:09.080 --> 0:22:11.679
<v Speaker 1>I know somebody that did. They left each other for

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<v Speaker 1>four years and came back together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So I feel like it just has to be somebody

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<v Speaker 3>who's bullshit you willing to deal with for an extended

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<v Speaker 3>period of time, right, because we are None of us

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<v Speaker 3>are fucking perfect. None of us are perfect, man, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't think what's the difference between. I know

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<v Speaker 1>this is going a little bit off, but polyamory in

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<v Speaker 1>open relationship probably is like in the same house. It

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be.

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<v Speaker 3>I think sometimes people are in polygamist relationships. Polygamy is

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<v Speaker 3>for the men, isn't polyamory is for women?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh thought?

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<v Speaker 2>Multiple partners.

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<v Speaker 3>Open relationship is for both partners, both people do anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Polygamy oftentimes is just the man with multiple women.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, no me neither. If I can't have

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<v Speaker 1>ain't no fun. If the homies can't get nothing like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the fuck I'm not doing that? You can't have

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<v Speaker 1>a side person if.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't exactly and you got us all in the

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<v Speaker 3>same house I ain't with that bullshit.

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<v Speaker 2>I had seen a video. You remember this video a

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<v Speaker 2>while back.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a heaprew issuer, Like I could tell based

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<v Speaker 3>on the names of these women and how many kids

0:23:23.320 --> 0:23:25.320
<v Speaker 3>he had, like four bitches powered up in one little

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<v Speaker 3>ass kitchen table full of fucking kids.

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<v Speaker 2>That's abuse.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't take care of all these women. If you're

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<v Speaker 3>going to be in a polygamist relationship, you have to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to take care of the women. Yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not with that shit. I'm not with that shit, but

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<v Speaker 3>I oftentimes think about like you're saying. Like you said,

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<v Speaker 3>like just years on the line, if I'm starting to

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<v Speaker 3>fall out of love with this person and I want

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<v Speaker 3>to explore somebody else, I should be able to at

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<v Speaker 3>least talk to my partner about that. I might not

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<v Speaker 3>actually do it, but I should be able to talk

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<v Speaker 3>to you about it. Right, I agree, But at this

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<v Speaker 3>point I do just want one partner. Let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to be outside like I'm outside, and

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<v Speaker 3>my pussy ain't saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even feel like I'm outside no more, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even be wolding that shit. Them Sundays, y'all them

0:24:11.400 --> 0:24:15.080
<v Speaker 1>sundays catching over the bitch im tie them.

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<v Speaker 3>Sundays is National Old Lady Day. If you ain't with

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<v Speaker 3>a nigga on Sunday, man you super single?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll be outside. I'll be outside on Sunday and

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<v Speaker 1>then in the house hungover on Monday. I'm tired of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that no more.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to be cooking Sunday dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I want to be cooking Sunday dinner, waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>like our favorite show to come on Sunday night. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be rubbing my nigga feet. You like you

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<v Speaker 1>like rubbing feet.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't really be touching niggas feet now.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll do it like a little body rub, booty, rub

0:24:47.080 --> 0:24:49.119
<v Speaker 3>all that shit, thigh rubs, I'll rub the hell out

0:24:49.160 --> 0:24:51.160
<v Speaker 3>your ass. But the feet, I'm not rubbing on nigga

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<v Speaker 3>feet for real. What but I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to I'd be like some submissive in that way. Bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you was about to say you like the

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<v Speaker 1>suck toe. Oh hell no, I ain't putting nobody foot

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<v Speaker 1>in my mouth. Hell no, that's equivalent that body hold

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<v Speaker 1>of me. They're walking on that shit.

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:13.160
<v Speaker 3>Anytime a nigga suck my toes. I'd be like, dog,

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<v Speaker 3>I was just walking on this floor. I don't care

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<v Speaker 3>that I just got a shower. I'm still always looking

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<v Speaker 3>at you like you kind of ask two steps.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a foot two steps is an asshole?

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<v Speaker 1>Same shit, not.

0:25:26.119 --> 0:25:29.560
<v Speaker 2>Same shit, the same shit, same.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit, Get somebody else to do it. I ain't not

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<v Speaker 1>putting nobody foot in my mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we gotta also go into situations with better

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<v Speaker 3>mindsets and stop speaking on man.

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<v Speaker 2>What if I don't like him after such just.

0:25:42.880 --> 0:25:45.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm going I am going to be in love with

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<v Speaker 3>my partner whenever I find him, for the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>our lives.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta be more positive.

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<v Speaker 1>About this stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>But here's the manifest a healthy relationship. I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing I do too. I I don't

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<v Speaker 1>meet a nigga and marry him in my head instantly

0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:05.600
<v Speaker 1>writ all women do that right away. We married in

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<v Speaker 1>my head already, put like, how does my name sound

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<v Speaker 1>with his last name on the end? Like that sounds nice?

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<v Speaker 1>That has a ring hit, doesn't it?

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<v Speaker 3>No, bitch, I'll be putting my shit in jamontrea, I

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<v Speaker 3>swear to God, bitch, because it's certain numbers I'm looking

0:26:19.080 --> 0:26:21.679
<v Speaker 3>for and If that shit don't match up with my

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<v Speaker 3>with my first name and his last name numerically, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>this ain't gonna work.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what Jamntria is. Every time you

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<v Speaker 1>say that ship, I think about Robin Williams and Jumanji

0:26:32.680 --> 0:26:34.919
<v Speaker 1>the game, and I start and that's where my head goes,

0:26:35.320 --> 0:26:37.520
<v Speaker 1>and I have nothing to do with that shit. Then

0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I started thinking about, what's his name? Was it Edgar

0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:43.000
<v Speaker 1>Allan Payne? What's that nigga name? No? I don't that's

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<v Speaker 1>Edgar Allan Poe and Alan Payne put together. Bitch, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what's the whake up?

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<v Speaker 2>Taddy? Hell are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying so I don't. I'm saying all of

0:26:53.320 --> 0:26:55.600
<v Speaker 1>that to say, I don't know what g Mantria is.

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<v Speaker 1>You always talk about it. What the fuck is that?

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<v Speaker 1>That's some numbers? Shit?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, every every number represents ever excuse me, every letter

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:06.480
<v Speaker 3>represents a number.

0:27:06.840 --> 0:27:10.400
<v Speaker 2>So you basically decoding words essentially, that's all it is.

0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:13.240
<v Speaker 3>And it's a whole database out there of different things

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<v Speaker 3>that reference a particular phrase, a particular number. I believe

0:27:18.359 --> 0:27:21.879
<v Speaker 3>that you know nine is your master number. Most numbers

0:27:22.320 --> 0:27:26.320
<v Speaker 3>equal nine. All numbers equal nine for the most part, right,

0:27:26.359 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 3>So that's your mass numbers. It's a couple other mass

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 3>numbers like eleven thirty three. These are you have to

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<v Speaker 3>study the occult, that's what it is. Maybe I'll send

0:27:34.520 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 3>you some fucking books, bitch of you Opra for it, okay,

0:27:36.800 --> 0:27:39.080
<v Speaker 3>Because I'm saying one.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't equal nine, one equal one, two equal two, three

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:44.439
<v Speaker 1>equal three, and nine equal nine. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you mean when you say all numbers equal nine.

0:27:46.440 --> 0:27:51.360
<v Speaker 3>I'll sing you some mass math equations that, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway back to it, I marry a nigga off in

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<v Speaker 1>my head, and then I be so disappointed when that

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<v Speaker 1>shit don't word.

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<v Speaker 3>I think all women fantasized by every single man named

0:28:02.800 --> 0:28:04.439
<v Speaker 3>meet niggas just be trying to fuck and we all

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<v Speaker 3>here like for real, married and had kids with this nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>Women gotta enjoy like the dating stage a little bit better,

0:28:12.280 --> 0:28:14.399
<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying. So just go in with

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:18.359
<v Speaker 3>no expectations at all. Like you know what I'm saying.

0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 3>You aren't disappointed when shit don't work out so hard

0:28:22.160 --> 0:28:24.879
<v Speaker 3>and you've speeding shit up by doing that, you know

0:28:24.880 --> 0:28:27.880
<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying. Just chill out relax like now, now

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:29.720
<v Speaker 3>you're putting pressure on this nigga in your mind, and

0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:32.040
<v Speaker 3>you may not say anything to him verbally, but your

0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:35.399
<v Speaker 3>action's gonna start looking like that, you know what I'm saying.

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:36.720
<v Speaker 2>And that runs men off.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, moving too.

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<v Speaker 2>Fucking fast, relaxed, bitch, and get you a couple of them.

0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't have that kind of time left.

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<v Speaker 3>Well that's our fault, okay. And there's plenty women in

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<v Speaker 3>our in our position. And remember I was talking about

0:28:51.000 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 3>my damn seventy year old cousin. This bitch said her

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:56.120
<v Speaker 3>and her homegirls is out here still looking for love

0:28:56.160 --> 0:28:58.680
<v Speaker 3>at seventy. And I'm not about to be that extreme now,

0:28:58.720 --> 0:29:01.480
<v Speaker 3>but I'm a definitely had me a hole grown ass

0:29:01.560 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 3>man soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hm. Y'all don't waste y'all thirties, get y'all nigga in.

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:10.560
<v Speaker 1>I say, twenties for playing. Thirties early thirties is for

0:29:10.600 --> 0:29:14.360
<v Speaker 1>finding a husband. You don't. You don't want to be

0:29:14.440 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 1>out out here. You know what, It's just hard for everybody.

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:20.120
<v Speaker 1>Because if it's hard for seventy year old bitches, it

0:29:20.120 --> 0:29:22.360
<v Speaker 1>ain't nobody for y'all. I guess all they nigga's gone.

0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Ain't it dead.

0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:26.320
<v Speaker 1>Dead?

0:29:27.240 --> 0:29:30.840
<v Speaker 3>But nominogamy is a thing. It's becoming a bigger thing.

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:33.720
<v Speaker 3>I think our generation in particular are kind of kind

0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:37.840
<v Speaker 3>of getting away from traditional monogamous relationships.

0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 2>So I found this.

0:29:39.000 --> 0:29:42.720
<v Speaker 3>Article on Well and Good dot com and it says

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 3>ten questions to ask yourself to see if a noomen

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 3>monogamous relationship is or isn't for you.

0:29:49.440 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 2>So we're gonna run through those right quicks.

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<v Speaker 3>So, look, do I want sexual exclusivity with my partner?

0:29:56.760 --> 0:30:00.480
<v Speaker 3>Is that number one priority for you? Do you want

0:30:00.640 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 3>community dick.

0:30:01.640 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 2>At this point?

0:30:02.600 --> 0:30:05.160
<v Speaker 3>And think about the things that come with community dick?

0:30:06.280 --> 0:30:14.200
<v Speaker 3>Baby Mama's STDs, right, fucking std bv Okay, yeast infections,

0:30:14.280 --> 0:30:16.400
<v Speaker 3>those type of those type of things, just swapping out.

0:30:16.360 --> 0:30:20.640
<v Speaker 1>COUCHI cuchie, bacon biscuits. I did.

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<v Speaker 3>So that that's like the number one thing you had

0:30:24.280 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 3>to ask yourself. Are you okay with your partner having

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:27.160
<v Speaker 3>sex with other people?

0:30:27.920 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>We've been dealing with it, right because I think more

0:30:33.280 --> 0:30:37.120
<v Speaker 3>people cheat, not just men, women cheat too. Right, there's

0:30:37.120 --> 0:30:39.000
<v Speaker 3>a lot of niggas out here who baby ain't fears

0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 3>explain that shit, bitches. So if you're not Okay with that,

0:30:44.240 --> 0:30:45.960
<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's the first thing you need to ask yourself.

0:30:46.400 --> 0:30:49.520
<v Speaker 3>Number two, it says, do I feel sexual, romantic, and

0:30:49.640 --> 0:30:52.360
<v Speaker 3>emotional desires toward people other than my partner?

0:30:54.120 --> 0:30:54.360
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:30:54.480 --> 0:30:59.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yes, And it might be a fleeting thought, but

0:30:59.840 --> 0:31:03.200
<v Speaker 3>I think is natural. It's natural to see somebody like them.

0:31:03.520 --> 0:31:05.480
<v Speaker 3>You may not say that shit out loud, but you'd

0:31:05.520 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 3>be thinking it right for sure. So I answer yes

0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:13.880
<v Speaker 3>toda too. Does it just feel natural to pursue friendships

0:31:13.880 --> 0:31:18.040
<v Speaker 3>and romantic relationships can currently with more than one person?

0:31:21.680 --> 0:31:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not answering none of these questions because my future

0:31:25.280 --> 0:31:30.440
<v Speaker 1>he's gonna be like, it's a whole I'm not a

0:31:30.440 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 1>whole baby, I'm not answering these questions. These questions are

0:31:33.960 --> 0:31:38.120
<v Speaker 1>dumb girl. Stop yelling and the damn Mike. I'm sorry,

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:42.160
<v Speaker 1>I can't help it. I'm excited. Okay, So what is

0:31:42.200 --> 0:31:42.960
<v Speaker 1>the question again?

0:31:43.040 --> 0:31:45.160
<v Speaker 2>I feel like, yeah, let's run it, let's run it back.

0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:49.800
<v Speaker 3>Does it just feel natural to pursue friendships and romantic

0:31:49.880 --> 0:31:54.880
<v Speaker 3>relationships concurrently with more than one person? Now this is yeah,

0:31:54.960 --> 0:31:58.680
<v Speaker 3>what's wrong with having a friendship though romantically?

0:31:59.520 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 2>Also that word is in there.

0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but it's said friendships and or to pursue friendships

0:32:05.680 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 3>and romantic relationships.

0:32:07.840 --> 0:32:09.520
<v Speaker 2>So friendships, yes, But.

0:32:09.520 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 3>It's basically saying, like, do you does it feel natural

0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:14.160
<v Speaker 3>to you to be fucking on more than one person?

0:32:14.560 --> 0:32:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:32:14.840 --> 0:32:17.720
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't like more than one dick at a time,

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 1>I really don't. But I will date more than one

0:32:20.120 --> 0:32:22.840
<v Speaker 1>person at the time. Like I'll go to dinner with

0:32:22.960 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 1>John on Tuesday and Michael on Wednesday and be just

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 1>fine with that and it's not a problem. But I

0:32:28.080 --> 0:32:31.560
<v Speaker 1>might only fuck Michael, you know, right?

0:32:32.240 --> 0:32:34.640
<v Speaker 2>And see what was the other nigga? Name is Michael?

0:32:34.680 --> 0:32:38.080
<v Speaker 1>And who who knows? He? What's Tuesday? He's gone?

0:32:41.000 --> 0:32:43.040
<v Speaker 3>And see that's why these niggas be mad taking your

0:32:43.080 --> 0:32:45.840
<v Speaker 3>ass out to dinner knowing you fucking Michael at the

0:32:45.920 --> 0:32:46.400
<v Speaker 3>end of the night.

0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. They don't know who I'm fucking.

0:32:49.360 --> 0:32:51.320
<v Speaker 2>They know you fucking somebody and ain't them.

0:32:51.480 --> 0:32:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I ain't fucking Honestly, I don't have nothing going on

0:32:53.720 --> 0:32:56.320
<v Speaker 1>right now. It's a drop. I didn't even get no birthday, Penis.

0:32:56.680 --> 0:32:58.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm not really talking about you in particular. I'm talking

0:32:58.680 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 3>about women and dating men. You know what I'm saying.

0:33:00.680 --> 0:33:02.480
<v Speaker 3>That's why men be mad at Helle because they ain't

0:33:02.480 --> 0:33:03.720
<v Speaker 3>getting that pussy at the end of the night, and

0:33:03.720 --> 0:33:05.080
<v Speaker 3>they know you fucking somebody you.

0:33:05.120 --> 0:33:07.840
<v Speaker 1>Just or they assume you're fucking somebody.

0:33:07.880 --> 0:33:11.719
<v Speaker 3>Right, assume right. Let's see number four says, do I

0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:15.440
<v Speaker 3>feel capable of managing my time and energy to meet

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 3>the needs of more than one relationship. You're most likely

0:33:18.720 --> 0:33:23.480
<v Speaker 3>already doing this with your platonic relationships aka your friendships,

0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 3>So think of it through a non monogamy lens. So

0:33:29.160 --> 0:33:31.760
<v Speaker 3>that's the part that fucks me up. Oh God, time,

0:33:31.840 --> 0:33:35.320
<v Speaker 3>I don't have mental time, mental capacity to entertain more

0:33:35.320 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 3>than one person. You gotta give all these people conversation,

0:33:38.800 --> 0:33:41.560
<v Speaker 3>especially if y'all ain't in the same household somewhere, you

0:33:41.560 --> 0:33:43.200
<v Speaker 3>know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta talk to them

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:46.600
<v Speaker 3>on the phone, facetiming, pulling up.

0:33:46.760 --> 0:33:47.360
<v Speaker 2>All this shit.

0:33:47.480 --> 0:33:50.040
<v Speaker 3>I really don't have the time to juggle more than

0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 3>one person with that type of shit. What you got, Tammy,

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.880
<v Speaker 3>because you're looking like I can we talk back over here?

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<v Speaker 1>So good morning, good morning, j'all, good morning, my go,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning Joe, So good morning, Dady, good morning, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>Nigga, you got the text messages scheduled the night before,

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<v Speaker 3>like as in Instagram posted hit sin when you wake

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<v Speaker 3>up and smile.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you did your deed for the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, listen, you're supposed to date. How am I gonna

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<v Speaker 1>find my person if I'm not getting to know more

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<v Speaker 1>than one person at a time.

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<v Speaker 3>So we had an episode about dating with intention right now,

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<v Speaker 3>this is just another part of that. I don't feel

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<v Speaker 3>like you can date with intention if you're dating multiple people, Well,

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<v Speaker 3>you need to find one person and focus on them.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm intentionally dating multiple people until I find one person

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<v Speaker 3>that's dated exclusively. I mean you have to date multiple

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<v Speaker 3>people and then pick one to date exclusively. First of all,

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<v Speaker 3>So we're talking about exclusivity and then you have non monogamous.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, those are actual antonyms, right, say they're not

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<v Speaker 3>the same thing. So if you're trying to exclusively date somebody,

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<v Speaker 3>you you basically can't be non monogamous. Excuse me, say,

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<v Speaker 3>what if you're trying to date one person exclusively, right,

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<v Speaker 3>how you can't be non monogamous simultaneously?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, no, yeah, you're right, you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, if you then just say you want to be

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<v Speaker 3>in an non monogamous relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>You're okay with that basically? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, I'm not saying that I want

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<v Speaker 1>monogamy once we get there, all right, So where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at right now is I'm dating multiple people to see

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<v Speaker 1>which one I like, and then I'll be exclusive with

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<v Speaker 1>that one person, dating exclusively but were not still like together,

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<v Speaker 1>and then if that we can move past that stage

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<v Speaker 1>to monogamy.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't even sound like you fucking sure, bitch. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>go to go off to numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>You date people, you meet people, then you pick one

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<v Speaker 1>that you like, you date them exclusively, just dating them,

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<v Speaker 1>but y'all still not in admitted relationship. Then you commit.

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<v Speaker 3>We got to write down like an actual steps for

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<v Speaker 3>dating to see if we even understand we're dating acts.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we did that shit? Did we? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you follow the steps?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Number seven? Have I practiced?

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<v Speaker 3>Have I practiced serial monogamy where I'm exclusive with one

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<v Speaker 3>person for a while, but I end each relationship to

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<v Speaker 3>pursue a new one.

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<v Speaker 2>That's me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes. And when y'all remember when I asked this bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>was she a serial monogamous? And she was like serial monogamous? No?

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<v Speaker 1>What episode this was a few episodes back.

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<v Speaker 2>You are.

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<v Speaker 3>I literally said that at the beginning of this episode,

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<v Speaker 3>at the beginning of this topic of discussion, I said

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<v Speaker 3>that I am a modern I am I identify as

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<v Speaker 3>someone who's a modern day monogamous, like I date. What

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<v Speaker 3>is it called, like, yeah, mardern monogamy. I practiced modern monogamy.

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<v Speaker 3>I said that, did I not?

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>But remember when I said you were a serial monogamous

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks back.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm a Gemini bitch. That's my answer

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<v Speaker 2>for everything I might have might have not not me.

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<v Speaker 1>Like me, you will like be locked in with a

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<v Speaker 1>nigga and then not locked in no more, and then

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<v Speaker 1>get a new nigga and be locked in with him too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like it like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me want to tell you it's because I got

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<v Speaker 3>high tolerance or bullshits. I'll just stick around because this

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<v Speaker 3>is what I'm doing for the moment. But if nothing

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<v Speaker 3>ever changes, I will literally wake up and be like, nah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good and I just stopped talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You Common, That's what Common be doing. The bitches. Common

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<v Speaker 1>will sell you a text message like yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think this is gonna work out, my queen.

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<v Speaker 3>It's ran its course. I wonder if he's a Gemini. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's ran its course. Why I'm gonna keep playing like

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<v Speaker 3>we have, women have a timeline. We are on the

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<v Speaker 3>time crunch at this at this moment. So if you're

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<v Speaker 3>not considering me like I consider you, if you're not

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<v Speaker 3>fucking with me at the same capacity, what are we doing?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying, Like a nigga be walking

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<v Speaker 3>around here five to two balding, fucked up all type

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<v Speaker 3>of ways. I'm still choosing you, right, and you acting

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<v Speaker 3>like you don't know you, like you're unsure about me

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<v Speaker 3>or something. Yeah, I don't have no time for you

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<v Speaker 3>to be unsure.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all it is.

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<v Speaker 1>There was this guy that I really really really liked,

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<v Speaker 1>and he really I could tell he really liked me too,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was just like and I was like, what

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<v Speaker 1>are we doing? Are we gonna do something for real?

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<v Speaker 1>Or no? I put it out there to him like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was just like, I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>in a committed relationship for another two years and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do long day Okay, well, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So then I was still talking to him and still

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<v Speaker 1>planning to go travel to see him and do all

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<v Speaker 1>these things. And then I had to look at myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Why am I investing time in a person who don't

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<v Speaker 1>want what I want? Let me just stop, Let me

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<v Speaker 1>just stop.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, get out of there, you know, because what happens

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<v Speaker 3>when whenever shit gets fucked up, men love to put

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<v Speaker 3>the onus on women.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh why I told you what I wanted?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well guess what the onus is on both of

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<v Speaker 3>us because while you were telling me what you wanted,

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<v Speaker 3>I also told you I wanted exclusivity.

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<v Speaker 2>I also told you I want to be married. I

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<v Speaker 2>also told you I wanted kids.

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<v Speaker 3>So you had an opportunity to walk the fuck away too,

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<v Speaker 3>but you didn't. So when shit hit the fan, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not just on me the woman who at the relationship right,

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<v Speaker 3>because they loved to say what they told you.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch, I don't care what you told me. I told

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<v Speaker 2>you I.

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<v Speaker 3>Wanted a relationship, right, and you kept sucking me raw?

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<v Speaker 1>That'd be the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever, bit anyway, number like that's really why I got

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<v Speaker 3>to cut one nigg off.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's really wise, one nigg at a time. Man,

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<v Speaker 4>you better sorry, Go ahead, move on. Don't say it, bitch,

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<v Speaker 4>cut it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Now he says, do I want more emotional intimacy than

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<v Speaker 3>what my partner can provide? I think sometimes that might

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<v Speaker 3>not be your partner then if he's not providing you

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<v Speaker 3>with the type of intimacy that you think you want

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<v Speaker 3>or deserve, right, So maybe just just get scratched that

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<v Speaker 3>one to get a whole.

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<v Speaker 2>Nother nigga, not a supplemental nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe you could teach him, because sometimes they need

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<v Speaker 1>just a little guidance. Sometimes it ain't like the man

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<v Speaker 1>don't cares, just that he don't know how to be

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<v Speaker 1>what you need. So maybe it's just a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to get that man sit down in the classroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but if you find yourself always given the benefit

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<v Speaker 3>of the doubt, right, always compromising your happiness because this

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<v Speaker 3>person seems content with whatever y'all got going on, but

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<v Speaker 3>you really ultimately is not what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you should just go get a second dude.

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<v Speaker 3>It's still not going to be right, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying. Like it's funny when we say, oh, I

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<v Speaker 3>got a nigga for this, and I got a nigga

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<v Speaker 3>for that, and I got a.

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<v Speaker 2>Nigga for this girl. You spreading yourself then with all

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<v Speaker 2>these fucking.

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<v Speaker 1>Energies, Yeah, I don't care. I don't have the capacity,

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<v Speaker 1>just because I feel like, once you have a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>for all these different things that they're providing, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>have sex with all of them. Like they're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>looking for physical intimacy. Men. I ain't never asked a

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<v Speaker 1>man what they love language was, and the first one

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't physical intimacy. I have not seen one yet. It's

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<v Speaker 1>always physical and then acts of service or words or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever the confirmation. Yeah, but physical always first. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just ain't trying to share my body with that many people.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just can't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Number nine says do I feel or think there is

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<v Speaker 3>a critical component missing from my relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>But overall am happy?

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<v Speaker 3>So again most people. Yeah, I think it's all mental. Man,

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<v Speaker 3>It's all mental. All of this shit is like you

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<v Speaker 3>gotta work it out in the mind first. And number

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<v Speaker 3>ten says, I do feel intrigued by the idea of

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<v Speaker 3>multiple partners. I won't say I'm intrigued by it, but

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<v Speaker 3>I've said before I like first dates.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. I like meeting somebody new.

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<v Speaker 3>I like meeting new people period, men and women to

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<v Speaker 3>deal with men, but I like meeting new people.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. Oh, new people get you

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<v Speaker 2>places old people can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't ever want to be restricted in that way,

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<v Speaker 3>Like because I'm fucking with you. I can't even talk

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<v Speaker 3>to another man because he's a man, right, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying. But do I want to just be

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<v Speaker 3>out here smashing, dating, talking, conversating with multiple people.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have the capacity for that shit. No one

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<v Speaker 2>this time is fucking winding down.

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<v Speaker 1>I would definitely conversate with multiple people, but the smashing, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Lies being told.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I can't can't handle it. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>one day. And right now I'm just saving myself up

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<v Speaker 1>my next boyfriend. I don't even I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna puts the end of the freezer without out Dan.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm in a good place. I know exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what I want.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the one good thing about I could take away

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<v Speaker 3>from these relationships that I've been in. I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to say I regret anything. I just I've learned. I've

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<v Speaker 3>learned what I want, what I don't want, my likes,

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<v Speaker 3>my dislikes, what I'm looking for, so that when I

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<v Speaker 3>do meet the person, I can have all information to

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<v Speaker 3>make a nice informed decision on what I want to

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<v Speaker 3>fuck with, and hopefully that person's honest with themselves first, right,

0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:48.840
<v Speaker 3>because it takes a lot of self awareness to be

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<v Speaker 3>honest with yourself and to some new person you're meeting.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a whole little back and forth, a little

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<v Speaker 3>spat one of my friends.

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<v Speaker 2>He with my friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me not say, one of my little friends just

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<v Speaker 3>keeps that nigga listening, cause niggas be listening.

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<v Speaker 2>But he made a.

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<v Speaker 3>Comment that it is hard women make it hard for

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<v Speaker 3>men to be honest. I'm like, no, like a woman

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<v Speaker 3>could say the same thing, Oh, men make it hard

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<v Speaker 3>for us to be honest. But really, if you don't

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<v Speaker 3>give a fuck and you showing up as your true,

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<v Speaker 3>authentic self, I'm sorry if my truth makes you feel

0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:23.400
<v Speaker 3>however type of way. But I'm not gonna say, oh,

0:44:23.440 --> 0:44:25.359
<v Speaker 3>he made it hard for me to be honest, Tell

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<v Speaker 3>the fucking truth.

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<v Speaker 2>And if they're not fucking way to.

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<v Speaker 3>Get on through, right, But you're not gonna use me

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<v Speaker 3>as a scapegoat because you can't be first honest with yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're showing up in the world like somebody fucking

0:44:35.560 --> 0:44:38.680
<v Speaker 3>else sending your representative. Now, you can't put that on

0:44:38.719 --> 0:44:42.080
<v Speaker 3>someone else. You're just not an honest person. It's not

0:44:42.120 --> 0:44:44.720
<v Speaker 3>that I'm not making it easy for you to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, these niggas do be listening. Because one of my

0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:50.720
<v Speaker 1>little friends in California, I mean not my little friend,

0:44:50.920 --> 0:44:54.120
<v Speaker 1>my big friend in California. He was like, yeah, you

0:44:54.239 --> 0:44:57.200
<v Speaker 1>be cheating on your man for California. You said you

0:44:57.280 --> 0:45:00.640
<v Speaker 1>cheat on your man for California. I was like, that

0:45:00.800 --> 0:45:04.560
<v Speaker 1>was a long time ago. Like why are you back there?

0:45:05.160 --> 0:45:06.439
<v Speaker 1>Why are you bringing up od shit?

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<v Speaker 3>I wish you could block certain people from listening, Like

0:45:15.360 --> 0:45:17.440
<v Speaker 3>can I block this IP address?

0:45:17.520 --> 0:45:17.719
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:45:20.560 --> 0:45:23.040
<v Speaker 3>Shit, if you feeling a little censored, but fuck them,

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:24.000
<v Speaker 3>listen this is me.

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<v Speaker 1>No. I just tell niggas like this is entertainment purposes

0:45:27.800 --> 0:45:30.280
<v Speaker 1>only everything else. Don't take nothing I say for fact.

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm on there telling jokes. AJ is the world with

0:45:33.960 --> 0:45:37.560
<v Speaker 1>all the real information, and I just come and tell jokes.

0:45:37.600 --> 0:45:41.080
<v Speaker 1>That's it, that's it, that's all baby.

0:45:42.320 --> 0:45:47.279
<v Speaker 2>I just can't a joke. That's it, y'all.

0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:50.560
<v Speaker 3>So the moral of this conversation is to me, for me,

0:45:51.000 --> 0:45:55.960
<v Speaker 3>self awareness, Right, you have to know yourself to know

0:45:56.040 --> 0:45:58.440
<v Speaker 3>what type of relationships you want to be in, what

0:45:58.480 --> 0:46:00.160
<v Speaker 3>type of relationship you want to gage you, what's the

0:46:00.200 --> 0:46:04.160
<v Speaker 3>person you want, and what type of person you want

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<v Speaker 3>to be in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the gist of.

0:46:06.719 --> 0:46:10.719
<v Speaker 1>It, all right, And for me, the moral of the

0:46:10.800 --> 0:46:16.480
<v Speaker 1>story is, use condoms. These niggas be cheating, y'all. Use condoms.

0:46:16.800 --> 0:46:19.960
<v Speaker 1>You might be in a monogamous relationship and he's still outside.

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:21.080
<v Speaker 2>You might be.

0:46:21.080 --> 0:46:24.160
<v Speaker 1>Monogamous, and this nigga might be polyamorous or whatever the

0:46:24.200 --> 0:46:32.279
<v Speaker 1>fuck it's called. That's my fucking borel. Yeah, I'm sorry.

0:46:32.280 --> 0:46:33.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm on my cycle, so I'm kind of like not

0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:38.360
<v Speaker 1>as positive today. I'm a little negative, a little tainted.

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, we'll be right back with a dumb bitch story.

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<v Speaker 3>Stay tuned.

0:46:47.120 --> 0:46:50.960
<v Speaker 1>Dumb bitch stories, so du because we've all been a

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:55.319
<v Speaker 1>dumb bitch at least once or twice. Okay, y'all. This

0:46:55.400 --> 0:46:58.520
<v Speaker 1>dumbitch story, a woman from Brazil reveals that she fell

0:46:58.560 --> 0:47:03.160
<v Speaker 1>in love with a man who mugged previously, she reveals

0:47:03.160 --> 0:47:06.000
<v Speaker 1>this story and she got over two hundred thousand views

0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:09.200
<v Speaker 1>on Twitter. And this woman, I think her name is Emmanuela.

0:47:09.560 --> 0:47:11.360
<v Speaker 1>She said she was walking down the street where she

0:47:11.400 --> 0:47:14.600
<v Speaker 1>lives and she got mugged and the muggers took her phone.

0:47:14.880 --> 0:47:17.640
<v Speaker 1>The thief later had to change your heart. The mugger said,

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:20.440
<v Speaker 1>I was going through a difficult situation because I didn't

0:47:20.440 --> 0:47:23.920
<v Speaker 1>have a woman, you know. The man said, reminiscent on

0:47:23.960 --> 0:47:26.640
<v Speaker 1>the odd How we first met story. When I saw

0:47:26.680 --> 0:47:28.640
<v Speaker 1>her photo on the phone, I said to myself, what

0:47:28.760 --> 0:47:31.799
<v Speaker 1>a beautiful brunette. You don't see a brunette like that

0:47:31.920 --> 0:47:35.400
<v Speaker 1>every day. And I regretted stealing her phone. So you

0:47:35.480 --> 0:47:37.840
<v Speaker 1>stole her phone and then her heart, is what the

0:47:37.880 --> 0:47:41.880
<v Speaker 1>interviewer said. Man, wait a minute, that pair have been

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<v Speaker 1>together for two years.

0:47:44.080 --> 0:47:46.279
<v Speaker 3>Man, hell no, First of all, I'm not fucking with

0:47:46.280 --> 0:47:49.680
<v Speaker 3>no nigga. Whould just be out here stealing petty thief? Right,

0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:52.239
<v Speaker 3>whatever he done with you, whenever he falls out of

0:47:52.239 --> 0:47:54.839
<v Speaker 3>love with your ass, he gonna really rob you and

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<v Speaker 3>going on to the next person.

0:47:57.440 --> 0:48:03.600
<v Speaker 1>How you like, it's right, Like the the bar is real, real,

0:48:03.760 --> 0:48:04.359
<v Speaker 1>real low.

0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:08.040
<v Speaker 2>There's no bar. There's no bar.

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<v Speaker 1>This nigga's like, hey, hey, I know I took your shit,

0:48:11.560 --> 0:48:13.520
<v Speaker 1>but here go back. Can I take you to dinner?

0:48:13.680 --> 0:48:17.040
<v Speaker 1>Some I just stole another bitch person around the corner.

0:48:17.080 --> 0:48:22.799
<v Speaker 1>I got about two hundred dollars. That is kind of attractive.

0:48:22.800 --> 0:48:25.759
<v Speaker 1>Now you're stealing from another bitch to give me? No,

0:48:28.280 --> 0:48:31.360
<v Speaker 1>that was like that was like I was at that

0:48:31.480 --> 0:48:34.240
<v Speaker 1>gas station and it was this very good looking homeless

0:48:34.280 --> 0:48:37.279
<v Speaker 1>man right like you look like he could clean him

0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:39.640
<v Speaker 1>up and he'd be like fine as fuck though, right,

0:48:40.200 --> 0:48:42.200
<v Speaker 1>but he asked me for some money. And because he

0:48:42.280 --> 0:48:44.600
<v Speaker 1>was so handsome, it was so hot outside, and he

0:48:44.719 --> 0:48:46.960
<v Speaker 1>just asked me some money for some water. I was like, okay,

0:48:47.040 --> 0:48:48.960
<v Speaker 1>you cute, I give it to you. I ain't say

0:48:49.000 --> 0:48:51.319
<v Speaker 1>you cute, but I was thinking it right. And then

0:48:51.440 --> 0:48:53.600
<v Speaker 1>when I got close to giving him that money, he

0:48:53.760 --> 0:48:58.600
<v Speaker 1>was like, damn you fine? Can I take you to dinner? How?

0:49:00.320 --> 0:49:01.560
<v Speaker 1>How are you gonna take me to dinner?

0:49:03.520 --> 0:49:03.719
<v Speaker 3>How?

0:49:05.480 --> 0:49:06.000
<v Speaker 2>Said?

0:49:06.120 --> 0:49:06.359
<v Speaker 1>How?

0:49:06.520 --> 0:49:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Lou?

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<v Speaker 1>No get? I was almost almost offended then, But what yeah,

0:49:17.640 --> 0:49:18.960
<v Speaker 1>what if he wasn't homeless?

0:49:20.400 --> 0:49:23.160
<v Speaker 2>He just looked like that. But you said you were

0:49:23.200 --> 0:49:24.680
<v Speaker 2>giving him water? Did he ask?

0:49:24.920 --> 0:49:27.000
<v Speaker 1>He asked for money for some water?

0:49:27.880 --> 0:49:28.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:30.320
<v Speaker 3>Then he probably he may have not he may not

0:49:30.360 --> 0:49:33.879
<v Speaker 3>have been homeless per se, but he didn't have money

0:49:33.960 --> 0:49:34.440
<v Speaker 3>for water.

0:49:34.920 --> 0:49:39.600
<v Speaker 1>So in a date, yeah, you know, way, he didn't

0:49:39.600 --> 0:49:41.000
<v Speaker 1>say can I take you on the day, He said

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<v Speaker 1>can I have your phone number?

0:49:43.960 --> 0:49:45.920
<v Speaker 2>No? No for me?

0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:49.040
<v Speaker 1>And if I was this bitch when he was like

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<v Speaker 1>bringing the phone back, I was like, yeah, meet me here,

0:49:51.120 --> 0:49:52.239
<v Speaker 1>and I would have had the police with.

0:49:52.320 --> 0:49:57.400
<v Speaker 2>Me arrest him. Absolutely. Y'all.

0:49:57.840 --> 0:50:02.840
<v Speaker 3>We gotta random sex fact this week. Okay, so I

0:50:02.920 --> 0:50:05.959
<v Speaker 3>know right, we got all the things. This man Los

0:50:06.000 --> 0:50:11.000
<v Speaker 3>Angeles born. Uh, he has two penises. Okay, it's a

0:50:12.520 --> 0:50:15.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to say a disease, it's a defect.

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<v Speaker 3>Write some sort of defect, a genetic defect called dipophilia,

0:50:19.760 --> 0:50:24.319
<v Speaker 3>where people are born with too genitalian. So he basically said,

0:50:24.400 --> 0:50:26.680
<v Speaker 3>bitches was hypnotized by these two dicks.

0:50:26.680 --> 0:50:28.000
<v Speaker 2>He even had one person that.

0:50:29.719 --> 0:50:32.640
<v Speaker 3>Couldn not stop fucking two people like she couldn't just

0:50:32.680 --> 0:50:35.560
<v Speaker 3>have regular sex anymore, she had to do double penetration,

0:50:35.719 --> 0:50:38.280
<v Speaker 3>so she was having a lot of threesomes after fucking

0:50:38.320 --> 0:50:38.680
<v Speaker 3>with him.

0:50:38.880 --> 0:50:40.680
<v Speaker 2>They go crazy for the two dicks.

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<v Speaker 3>I googled what it looked like, and I don't know

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:47.440
<v Speaker 3>what this person dick in particularly looks like. But the

0:50:47.600 --> 0:50:51.840
<v Speaker 3>images on Google are horrific with these two penises.

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<v Speaker 2>So what is you shut up? Is dipophilia affiliate?

0:51:01.080 --> 0:51:01.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>See, if you can pull up those Google images.

0:51:03.680 --> 0:51:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Hippophilia is that pH mm hm.

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<v Speaker 3>Dc And the images are actually like blurred out, so

0:51:13.040 --> 0:51:13.759
<v Speaker 3>you gotta click them.

0:51:16.440 --> 0:51:17.400
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't want that.

0:51:18.080 --> 0:51:20.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so he said his was like kind of off

0:51:20.120 --> 0:51:21.120
<v Speaker 2>to the side. So it's Tank.

0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:21.600
<v Speaker 1>Uh.

0:51:21.640 --> 0:51:24.400
<v Speaker 3>This guy, his name is Tank, and he was actually

0:51:24.400 --> 0:51:28.880
<v Speaker 3>on this YouTube channel called Soft White Underbelly.

0:51:28.960 --> 0:51:30.200
<v Speaker 2>I used to watch that shit a lot.

0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:34.400
<v Speaker 3>They usually be having like prostitutes and hymns drug addicts

0:51:34.440 --> 0:51:34.719
<v Speaker 3>on there.

0:51:35.680 --> 0:51:37.520
<v Speaker 2>I used to watch the videos a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>So he's a Los Angeles truck driver, real that he

0:51:41.360 --> 0:51:44.600
<v Speaker 3>has two penises, and was pretty cannon about his sex life.

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<v Speaker 2>His name's Tank. Tank reportedly suffered from dipophilia.

0:51:47.520 --> 0:51:50.239
<v Speaker 3>Which is d I p h A L l i

0:51:50.320 --> 0:51:54.000
<v Speaker 3>A for anybody trying to google it, a genetic abnormality

0:51:54.040 --> 0:51:56.360
<v Speaker 3>in which a male is born with two penises. The

0:51:56.440 --> 0:51:58.759
<v Speaker 3>rare condition effects less than a thousand men and boys

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:02.160
<v Speaker 3>across the United States. Tank, who was in Too Juvenile

0:52:02.200 --> 0:52:04.960
<v Speaker 3>Attention Center after being convicted of manslaughter at the age

0:52:04.960 --> 0:52:07.960
<v Speaker 3>of twelve, admitted that he was a virgin until he

0:52:08.040 --> 0:52:10.120
<v Speaker 3>was released from custody at the age of twenty four,

0:52:10.680 --> 0:52:13.839
<v Speaker 3>and he says women didn't believe it when I told

0:52:13.880 --> 0:52:16.000
<v Speaker 3>him I had two dicks, but then I took them

0:52:16.000 --> 0:52:16.840
<v Speaker 3>to the room.

0:52:17.080 --> 0:52:18.040
<v Speaker 2>And they'd see.

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<v Speaker 3>According to Tank, he would ejaculate from both penises at

0:52:21.960 --> 0:52:25.040
<v Speaker 3>the same time, even if only one was being stimulated.

0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:28.040
<v Speaker 3>He'd sling when I was penetrating a woman, I would

0:52:28.080 --> 0:52:30.400
<v Speaker 3>get a feeling, but one of my penises is like

0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:34.399
<v Speaker 3>to the side and feels like it's gonna blow up.

0:52:37.040 --> 0:52:38.160
<v Speaker 2>The truck driver said he.

0:52:38.200 --> 0:52:41.279
<v Speaker 3>Even encountered women who wanted both penises inside them at

0:52:41.280 --> 0:52:42.160
<v Speaker 3>the same time.

0:52:42.600 --> 0:52:44.160
<v Speaker 2>One woman allegedly.

0:52:43.719 --> 0:52:47.600
<v Speaker 3>Became so addicted she had threesomes after they broke up

0:52:47.640 --> 0:52:51.600
<v Speaker 3>because a single penis was no longer sadus by he

0:52:51.719 --> 0:52:53.040
<v Speaker 3>out here slinging dicks.

0:52:54.160 --> 0:52:56.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, damn, I don't want that.

0:52:57.080 --> 0:52:59.359
<v Speaker 1>I was looking at the pictures. It looks very more

0:52:59.400 --> 0:53:04.440
<v Speaker 1>common and non blacks. I haven't seen any black dipophilia.

0:53:05.040 --> 0:53:07.640
<v Speaker 3>Either when I looked, so maybe this is like some

0:53:07.760 --> 0:53:11.040
<v Speaker 3>alien shit like those spaceships you shot you saw.

0:53:11.440 --> 0:53:14.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I see some spaceship. Shall I bet you had

0:53:14.200 --> 0:53:15.319
<v Speaker 1>some diperphilia on there.

0:53:17.960 --> 0:53:22.680
<v Speaker 3>It might be nice an alien diphilia.

0:53:23.040 --> 0:53:25.360
<v Speaker 1>You would, you would if you were like, met a

0:53:25.440 --> 0:53:27.560
<v Speaker 1>man and you liked him, and he had all the things,

0:53:27.560 --> 0:53:29.239
<v Speaker 1>and then finally y'all went to have sex and he

0:53:29.320 --> 0:53:30.360
<v Speaker 1>pulled out two dicks.

0:53:30.960 --> 0:53:35.280
<v Speaker 2>If they looked good, I would it looks like those pictures.

0:53:35.320 --> 0:53:37.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm not fucking with it. But if they looked like

0:53:37.760 --> 0:53:39.440
<v Speaker 2>two full.

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:46.600
<v Speaker 1>Grown, beautiful dicks on one person's knickers Hamburgers, yes, I

0:53:46.600 --> 0:53:49.239
<v Speaker 1>can see you now, both up gobbling one down and

0:53:49.280 --> 0:53:49.799
<v Speaker 1>stroking the.

0:53:49.800 --> 0:53:51.200
<v Speaker 2>Other period.

0:53:52.440 --> 0:53:55.399
<v Speaker 1>Period. I'll run out of the room.

0:53:55.640 --> 0:53:57.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm running screaming out of the room.

0:54:01.440 --> 0:54:03.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, I'm sorry, because that's I don't want to

0:54:03.600 --> 0:54:06.120
<v Speaker 1>offend anybody, because there's people out there who really have that.

0:54:06.400 --> 0:54:10.359
<v Speaker 1>And if you're listening, your dick deserves love, both of them.

0:54:10.640 --> 0:54:14.160
<v Speaker 1>Don't be offended by what I'm saying. With the aliens

0:54:14.160 --> 0:54:16.200
<v Speaker 1>to pick me up for a while. Man, were all

0:54:16.239 --> 0:54:20.000
<v Speaker 1>at bitch. They was in Chester yesterday. You need to

0:54:20.040 --> 0:54:22.439
<v Speaker 1>go down to Chester County, South Carolina. They was there.

0:54:22.560 --> 0:54:26.359
<v Speaker 1>I promise you I seen them. It was three of them.

0:54:26.760 --> 0:54:28.640
<v Speaker 1>It was three crafts that I saw.

0:54:29.320 --> 0:54:31.480
<v Speaker 3>You know, this whole year, there's been a lot of

0:54:31.560 --> 0:54:35.040
<v Speaker 3>videos out there with a bunch of uh, I don't know,

0:54:35.480 --> 0:54:41.360
<v Speaker 3>unusual identified unidentified objects in the sky and people's backyards.

0:54:41.400 --> 0:54:45.160
<v Speaker 3>Did you see that video in California? Yes, I think

0:54:45.160 --> 0:54:47.080
<v Speaker 3>it really was in Nevada of California.

0:54:48.160 --> 0:54:48.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I saw that.

0:54:49.480 --> 0:54:51.360
<v Speaker 2>I definitely believe in aliens. I think I used to

0:54:51.400 --> 0:54:52.000
<v Speaker 2>get abducted.

0:54:52.080 --> 0:54:54.520
<v Speaker 3>Either I was being abducted by aliens when I was

0:54:54.560 --> 0:54:57.200
<v Speaker 3>a kid, or I just was having like out of

0:54:57.239 --> 0:55:00.600
<v Speaker 3>body shit happening, because I would be floating back to

0:55:00.680 --> 0:55:03.200
<v Speaker 3>my damn body every Saturday morning.

0:55:03.800 --> 0:55:05.240
<v Speaker 2>So they was picking me up every Friday.

0:55:05.440 --> 0:55:08.360
<v Speaker 1>That was that melatonin your mama was giving you to night.

0:55:08.640 --> 0:55:12.440
<v Speaker 2>A damn lie. My mama definitely wasn't drugging her kids.

0:55:12.520 --> 0:55:13.160
<v Speaker 1>That's for y'all.

0:55:13.520 --> 0:55:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Modern day mama.

0:55:14.880 --> 0:55:19.080
<v Speaker 1>Drink your juice, baby, drink your juice. Baba gotta have

0:55:19.120 --> 0:55:19.799
<v Speaker 1>a life too.

0:55:20.320 --> 0:55:22.320
<v Speaker 3>Drive this Stam's Club one day and I told this,

0:55:22.560 --> 0:55:24.319
<v Speaker 3>I said, you might want to stop doing that. She

0:55:24.480 --> 0:55:26.279
<v Speaker 3>just had her little gummies for the kids. They in

0:55:26.320 --> 0:55:29.799
<v Speaker 3>the cart. It's six seven in the evening. She's like,

0:55:29.840 --> 0:55:36.480
<v Speaker 3>hey y'all, hey, y'all, candy giving it out like the exactly.

0:55:36.560 --> 0:55:38.600
<v Speaker 3>But you know your kids want to become They say,

0:55:38.760 --> 0:55:40.799
<v Speaker 3>you don't become dependent on it, but you can.

0:55:41.400 --> 0:55:43.279
<v Speaker 2>This stuff has other ship.

0:55:43.200 --> 0:55:46.160
<v Speaker 3>In those gummies and then those pills not just straight

0:55:46.239 --> 0:55:52.400
<v Speaker 3>natural melatonin like that is bad parenting anyway, y'all, y'all,

0:55:52.440 --> 0:55:54.640
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<v Speaker 3>What I was trying to tell y'all is sit has

0:56:00.200 --> 0:56:02.919
<v Speaker 3>the dumb bit stories. Okay, we'd like to see that shit.

0:56:03.000 --> 0:56:04.920
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0:56:04.960 --> 0:56:09.040
<v Speaker 3>website also and for real, for real, Okay, today is

0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:11.120
<v Speaker 3>what whatever today is? I ain't telling y'all because we

0:56:11.320 --> 0:56:13.680
<v Speaker 3>be pre recording shit, but T shirts are going to

0:56:13.719 --> 0:56:16.440
<v Speaker 3>be on the website. Okay, uh we talk back e

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<v Speaker 3>n T dot com kick it Sam.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all is tamam. I love y'all. Once again,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank y'all for tuning in. Remember speak now and never

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<v Speaker 1>hold your peace.

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<v Speaker 4>Bye