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Speaker 1: Talk talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion.

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Speaker 1: Who talks, bitch, That's not what we're about to do.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: Listen?

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Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode, and

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Speaker 3: we talked back a show dedicated to you, dreamers and chases,

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Speaker 3: niggas and holes all.

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Speaker 2: The bitches in between.

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Speaker 3: It's your co host, aj Holiday. What's up, tam Bam.

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all listen me tam Man.

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Speaker 3: I fucking love y'all. God damn, I love y'all. Lass

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Speaker 3: ive you trying to make them death?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: I love you, Tom.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited you're yelling at these people.

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Speaker 1: How was your weekend?

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Speaker 2: I had a good weekend. Child.

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Speaker 3: It was raining, real bad in Charleston, but we celebrated

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Speaker 3: my stepsister going away. She's going being deployed. She's in

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Speaker 3: the US Army. Who employed your booty, Africa? It is

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Speaker 3: not your booty, it's your beauty.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if they say who right. I don't

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Speaker 1: want other military branches to be that's not what the

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Speaker 1: fuck they say.

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Speaker 2: They's like weed or whatever they say. Don't they be

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Speaker 2: so territorial.

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Speaker 1: Up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, every branch in the military talked about the other light.

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Speaker 3: All branches say that the Air Force and the resilions.

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Speaker 2: No, they say they a bunch of civilions.

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Speaker 1: If I had to go with any branch, no shade

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Speaker 1: to the rest, but it would definitely be the Air

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Speaker 1: Force because when they deployed they had the Army and

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Speaker 1: the Marines in tents and then the Air Force being apartments.

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Speaker 1: The better, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: So we had a good old time in my dad's

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Speaker 3: backyard this weekend in the rain. Bitch I was on

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Speaker 3: the mic all night, cutting up, singing. It was so fun.

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Speaker 3: I was wet, sweat and sticking to me, but I

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Speaker 3: really enjoyed my family and.

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Speaker 2: I just told my steps is to stay safe out

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Speaker 2: their child.

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Speaker 1: Fine. Yeah, I think.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to research when she told me she

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Speaker 3: was going to Africa. I'm like, why what the fuck

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Speaker 3: is going on over there? Because she's not the only

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Speaker 3: person deploying to Jaibouti. So apparently Djaibouti is right near Iran.

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Speaker 3: And if y'all remember Biden, you know they got the

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Speaker 3: war over right, but then we left some Americans over there,

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Speaker 3: So I think that they're trying to extract the people

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Speaker 3: and maybe hopefully the ammunition and shit they left over there.

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Speaker 1: Well, good luck to her. I hope she stays safe

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Speaker 1: and comes back with some interesting stories to tell so

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Speaker 1: we could share it on we talked, Man, my weekend girl.

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Speaker 1: I had some weird shit going on with my clients

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Speaker 1: this weekend. Man. One of my clients is she had mud,

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Speaker 1: but she was.

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Speaker 2: Just ruined my day.

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Speaker 1: She kept having to get up and go shit. Man.

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Speaker 1: I was like, bal like you got this.

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Speaker 2: She's like my summing dum man, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: She was in Like she was in that bathroom equivalent

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Speaker 1: of probably thirty forty minutes of her appointment on and off,

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Speaker 1: like fifteen minutes here, five more minutes there, ten minutes there.

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Speaker 1: She's like, bro, I don't know what's going on with me.

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Speaker 2: She must have took a laxi of the night before.

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Speaker 1: I was like, do you mean DoD do it regularly?

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Speaker 1: She's like no, it's like you didn't add five or

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Speaker 1: to your dance so you can ship often so you

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Speaker 1: don't have to shut up like this. Yeah. So that

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Speaker 1: that she'd be eating her own pussy.

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Speaker 2: What what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: These are growing professional women like the well who shit up?

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Speaker 1: She like real successful with her Amazon like career. And

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Speaker 1: then the other one, this bitch be working for three

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Speaker 1: at the same h She know, black girl getting to

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Speaker 1: that bad, but she'd be eating her own pussy. I

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Speaker 1: was like, excuse me, say what? Excuse me? Say what?

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Speaker 1: She said, Yeah, like I taste my pussy once a week.

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Speaker 1: I was like, for what She's like. I was like, so,

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Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, I just make sure it tastes good,

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Speaker 1: and I like, when I'm eating different foods, I taste

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Speaker 1: it to see if it changed the taste. And she's like,

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Speaker 1: I don't eat bow Jangles French fries because it tastes

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Speaker 1: it tastes my pussy.

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Speaker 2: What Those French fries are very heavy with grease.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not the only way I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: taste my pussy is all off somebody's mouth, right.

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Speaker 2: That'sting your ship. Every Monday, right, del I.

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Speaker 1: Was like, I honestly, I think you just like eating

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Speaker 2: Does she eat pussy?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: She said she gonna get her just hers. But men

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Speaker 3: like the taste of it. I don't think it matters

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Speaker 1: It, right, it ain't about you liking it. It's about

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Speaker 1: whoever eating it liking it exactly?

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Speaker 2: Is that stupid internet news? What the fuck?

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't think nobody else do that.

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Speaker 1: She said, everybody don't do that. No, I don't know nobody.

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Speaker 3: Else that do that shit, aside from cats and dogs.

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Speaker 3: Like I be licking it on a pussy all day.

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Speaker 1: Y'all get in the comments after this episode and let

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Speaker 1: us know if y'all be eating y'all own pussy so

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Speaker 2: Hah shame. Let's get in the stupid internet news though.

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Speaker 3: So listen, I saw a video today now I think

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Speaker 3: I forwarded to you. But it's a fucking beer at

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Speaker 3: an at a excuse me, at a Chinese zoo. It's

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Speaker 3: clearly somebody in a fucking bear costume waving, standing on

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Speaker 2: So China is denying that suggestions.

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Speaker 1: How you know that these animals aren't evolving?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So bears do stand on their hind legs. There's

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Speaker 2: Bitch, this bear so slim.

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Speaker 1: They ain't feeding that bear. That bear waving like, somebody,

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Speaker 1: throwt me some of that chicken. Y'all up here looking

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Speaker 2: They got his elbow sitting up on the rocks.

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Speaker 1: He got his hand on his hand on his hip,

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Speaker 1: the other hand waving, Hey, throw me a piece of

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Speaker 2: Bitch staring down here at me, shut up, he's stupid.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so man, I'm like, wait a minute, man, but

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Speaker 3: China does not give a fuck. They will duplicate your

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Speaker 1: That that's what stupid, real stupid, that's stupid news. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a that's a real beer.

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Speaker 2: That is not a bear.

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Speaker 1: That's a bear.

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Speaker 2: Look at the brown area underneath his fucking neck. That's

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Speaker 2: a suit. You know what.

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Speaker 3: Perception, that's the perception, bitch. If you're perceiving that as

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Speaker 2: It's something wrong with you.

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Speaker 1: Look like a bear to me, go down there and

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Speaker 1: don't take yours off.

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Speaker 2: That is a bear and drag that bear is just evolved. Girl,

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Speaker 2: That is not a bear.

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Speaker 3: Look at the booty, it's all sunken, be hungry. Well,

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Speaker 3: they need to go to jail because while y'all starving

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Speaker 3: that little ass beer, look at the head.

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Speaker 1: Their head don't look like no costume. Look at that mouth,

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Speaker 1: their mouth look real. Yeah, we're gonna have to post it.

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Speaker 1: because that looked like a real bear, a little hungry

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Speaker 2: The face do look kind of real. But you know,

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Speaker 2: they make everything over there.

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Speaker 3: They probably can make a a motorized head like that

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Speaker 3: from the mouth to open and all that. You okay,

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Speaker 3: show biz, remember show business. That motherfucker didn't look real.

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Speaker 2: That motherfucker, that's what this looked like.

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Speaker 1: My mouth moving, my sister, that mouth only moved on

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Speaker 1: like one setting.

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Speaker 2: It was never with the words of the motherfucking song, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I remember, showby is my older sister, my older big

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Speaker 1: grown sister, used to be so scared of that motherfucking

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Speaker 1: gorilla playing that motherfucking piano.

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Speaker 2: She said, girl, what's up with all the motherfuckers?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. It just kept coming out,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, that motherfucking piano. And she used to get

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Speaker 2: That is so petty, petty. So look y'all.

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Speaker 3: Someone Walker and Jada Wader kind of got and said

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Speaker 3: a little bit, some are shaded, Jada, did you see that? Yo?

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Speaker 3: Some of Walker basically tweeted or she put on an

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Speaker 3: Instagram story that she's done, you know, getting cheated or

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Speaker 3: she can't do the cheating shit. She tried to be

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Speaker 3: Jada Wada, but that she made for that shit, right.

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Speaker 3: So Jada responded back, was like, bitch, I learned my

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Speaker 3: lesson after one child, right, I know something work out

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Speaker 3: three babies now two baby daddies at this point. So

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Speaker 3: her her Instagram post says, tried my best to be

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Speaker 3: Jada Wada, but I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: It was cute, though I wish him the best.

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Speaker 3: I can't do that cheating stuff, And Jada responded, I

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Speaker 3: learned my lesson after one kid. Motherfucker's around here starting

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Speaker 3: their own trends and trying to insert me for laughs

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Speaker 3: on the shade room. No, why, I don't understand why she.

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Speaker 1: Did that, you know, I honestly, I don't think she

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Speaker 1: really thought about it. I don't think she really considered

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Speaker 1: like that. That was that woman's trauma. You know. I

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Speaker 1: think when she meant it, it was like I tried

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Speaker 1: to be like you. I don't think she meant it

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Speaker 2: That was definitely a jab. And I, you know, I.

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Speaker 3: Can't keep giving people benefit of adult like you're a

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Speaker 3: grown woman. Has somebody mentioned you like that, you'd feel

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Speaker 3: some type of way too, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 3: I'm not sucking that up to as to like, oh, well,

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Speaker 3: she didn't mean it that way. No, we gotta sometimes

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Speaker 3: go with exactly how people say things and what they say.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with how she said it and what

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Speaker 3: she said and face value she said what she said.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but what would be the point of starting beef

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Speaker 1: with Jada?

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Speaker 2: You know it's not really to start beef, but it

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Speaker 2: was shady because they're both public figures, right, and everybody

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Speaker 2: knows that baby, I mean, Jada had been going back

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Speaker 2: and forth with a low baby and he cheats and

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Speaker 2: he's been on shows saying how he doesn't really love

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Speaker 2: her even after having a child with her. Shit like that,

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Speaker 2: Like it's her ful.

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Speaker 3: So you know, from one woman to another, like we

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Speaker 1: Right? How you gonna make getting cheated on my name?

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Speaker 3: Where is the groceries? Though maybe there's a doorbell ringer

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Speaker 1: In, right, cherk, damn damn Meach, I was. We were

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Speaker 3: I think we entertain the wrong people oftentimes, and women

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Speaker 2: You study long, you study wrong.

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Speaker 3: more discernment. It's not that bad out here. I mean,

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Speaker 3: So Blueface has hit the internet. So he's sitting there

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Speaker 3: There's been rumors about blue Face, and y'all, I've probably

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Speaker 2: What's up with the the questioning for this little ass boy?

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Speaker 2: He's like seven years old.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's you know, I don't know because

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Speaker 3: Wants some light up shoes, video games, right, kid, Shit,

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Speaker 3: why are you talking to him about sexuality?

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Speaker 2: What is your problem?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: That is weird, and that's really where our society is

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Speaker 2: It's in the schools.

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Speaker 3: They're trying to teach sexual and it's not just about

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Speaker 1: It's some shit. It's the worst thing that ever happened

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Speaker 2: I don't think people consider the effects of technology.

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Speaker 2: At the fucking cell phone, right, they weren't thinking. But

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Speaker 2: now y'all got TVs in the car and dumb shit.

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Speaker 1: Like and young people who don't have any social skills, yeah, because.

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Speaker 2: They can't even have an actual conversation anymore.

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Speaker 1: Right, because all they do is have they head in

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Speaker 1: we're going back to Neanderthal.

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Speaker 2: Is not me, bitch, I'm always you sating it up straight.

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Speaker 2: I've been like this. Fuck, I already got hoping my

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Speaker 3: You know, every time every time that shit come across

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Speaker 1: You send me that ship, bitch talking about you want

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Speaker 1: to send it the fuck, I'm trying to un.

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Speaker 2: Couple of people. I be wanting to send that ship too.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to unhump and unbig my back.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know what it is.

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Speaker 3: It's like that little fatty little meat right there at

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Speaker 1: Yeah, at the top of where you're back of your

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Speaker 2: Stupid fuck is that.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. I know somebody like it.

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Speaker 3: No says no nigga ever, Baby, I like that little meatball.

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Speaker 3: It's a nigga right now, Lick all on that meatball

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Speaker 3: if I want them to. All right, y'all, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: We're talking monogamy. We'll be right.

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Speaker 3: Back, Okay, y'all listen. I feel like, you know, Sam,

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Speaker 3: is it normal for you to be with one person?

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Speaker 2: It's more pros for being with one person.

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Speaker 3: Being in a monogamous relationship as opposed to open non

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Speaker 2: I want somebody else. You should be able to do that.

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Speaker 3: Not saying that's what I want, but I think, no,

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Speaker 3: I don't want that. I decided I've decided that is

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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's explain what modern day monogamy is versus

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Speaker 3: So, based on what I've read and how I feel, right,

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna start sleeping with somebody

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Speaker 3: It's not gonna be no overlapping type shit. And traditional

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Speaker 3: I obviously we past that point because I'm not a virgin.

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Speaker 3: You're not a virgin whose women are virgins. Ripped me out,

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Speaker 3: the plastic virgin. That's a new pussy in my ears.

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Speaker 3: What my ears haven't been plug yet.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I just always be saying some shit. Okay,

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Speaker 1: there goes that word again, ready to kill him, and

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Speaker 1: or like after five years, makouchie, don't even get wet

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Speaker 3: But I feel like that's because they probably didn't actually

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Speaker 3: You gotta find a way for y'all to keep falling

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Speaker 3: they'll tell you that they didn't always like they meet,

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00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 3: They didn't like There were times. One of my friends,

439
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 3: she's been married for a while, but she was like,

440
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 3: you know, her and her husband, they didn't physically divorce,

441
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 3: but they left each other multiple times within the marriage.

442
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 3: Yeah right, but they always came back.

443
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,679
Speaker 1: I know somebody that did. They left each other for

444
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:13,159
Speaker 1: four years and came back together.

445
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

446
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 3: So I feel like it just has to be somebody

447
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 3: who's bullshit you willing to deal with for an extended

448
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 3: period of time, right, because we are None of us

449
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 3: are fucking perfect. None of us are perfect, man, I think.

450
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 1: I I don't think what's the difference between. I know

451
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 1: this is going a little bit off, but polyamory in

452
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: open relationship probably is like in the same house. It

453
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 1: gotta be.

454
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 3: I think sometimes people are in polygamist relationships. Polygamy is

455
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 3: for the men, isn't polyamory is for women?

456
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: Oh thought?

457
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 2: Multiple partners.

458
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,640
Speaker 3: Open relationship is for both partners, both people do anything.

459
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 3: Polygamy oftentimes is just the man with multiple women.

460
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, no me neither. If I can't have

461
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: ain't no fun. If the homies can't get nothing like,

462
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 1: what the fuck I'm not doing that? You can't have

463
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 1: a side person if.

464
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 3: I can't exactly and you got us all in the

465
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 3: same house I ain't with that bullshit.

466
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 2: I had seen a video. You remember this video a

467
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 2: while back.

468
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 3: It was a heaprew issuer, Like I could tell based

469
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 3: on the names of these women and how many kids

470
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 3: he had, like four bitches powered up in one little

471
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 3: ass kitchen table full of fucking kids.

472
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 2: That's abuse.

473
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 3: You can't take care of all these women. If you're

474
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 3: going to be in a polygamist relationship, you have to

475
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 3: be able to take care of the women. Yes, I'm

476
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 3: not with that shit. I'm not with that shit, but

477
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 3: I oftentimes think about like you're saying. Like you said,

478
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 3: like just years on the line, if I'm starting to

479
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 3: fall out of love with this person and I want

480
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 3: to explore somebody else, I should be able to at

481
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 3: least talk to my partner about that. I might not

482
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 3: actually do it, but I should be able to talk

483
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 3: to you about it. Right, I agree, But at this

484
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 3: point I do just want one partner. Let me tell you,

485
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 3: I don't want to be outside like I'm outside, and

486
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 3: my pussy ain't saying.

487
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: I don't even feel like I'm outside no more, I

488
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,400
Speaker 1: don't even be wolding that shit. Them Sundays, y'all them

489
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: sundays catching over the bitch im tie them.

490
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 3: Sundays is National Old Lady Day. If you ain't with

491
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 3: a nigga on Sunday, man you super single?

492
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll be outside. I'll be outside on Sunday and

493
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 1: then in the house hungover on Monday. I'm tired of that.

494
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that no more.

495
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 2: You want to be cooking Sunday dinner.

496
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to be cooking Sunday dinner, waiting for

497
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: like our favorite show to come on Sunday night. I

498
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: want to be rubbing my nigga feet. You like you

499
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: like rubbing feet.

500
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 2: No, I don't really be touching niggas feet now.

501
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 3: I'll do it like a little body rub, booty, rub

502
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 3: all that shit, thigh rubs, I'll rub the hell out

503
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 3: your ass. But the feet, I'm not rubbing on nigga

504
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 3: feet for real. What but I don't like it.

505
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 2: I like to I'd be like some submissive in that way. Bitch.

506
00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 1: I thought you was about to say you like the

507
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 1: suck toe. Oh hell no, I ain't putting nobody foot

508
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: in my mouth. Hell no, that's equivalent that body hold

509
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: of me. They're walking on that shit.

510
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,160
Speaker 3: Anytime a nigga suck my toes. I'd be like, dog,

511
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 3: I was just walking on this floor. I don't care

512
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 3: that I just got a shower. I'm still always looking

513
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 3: at you like you kind of ask two steps.

514
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 2: It's a foot two steps is an asshole?

515
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: Same shit, not.

516
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 2: Same shit, the same shit, same.

517
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: Shit, Get somebody else to do it. I ain't not

518
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 1: putting nobody foot in my mouth.

519
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,920
Speaker 3: I think we gotta also go into situations with better

520
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 3: mindsets and stop speaking on man.

521
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: What if I don't like him after such just.

522
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 3: I'm going I am going to be in love with

523
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 3: my partner whenever I find him, for the rest of

524
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 3: our lives.

525
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 2: You gotta be more positive.

526
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 1: About this stuff.

527
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 2: But here's the manifest a healthy relationship. I agree.

528
00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,200
Speaker 1: But here's the thing I do too. I I don't

529
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: meet a nigga and marry him in my head instantly

530
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: writ all women do that right away. We married in

531
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 1: my head already, put like, how does my name sound

532
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 1: with his last name on the end? Like that sounds nice?

533
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 1: That has a ring hit, doesn't it?

534
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 3: No, bitch, I'll be putting my shit in jamontrea, I

535
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 3: swear to God, bitch, because it's certain numbers I'm looking

536
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 3: for and If that shit don't match up with my

537
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 3: with my first name and his last name numerically, I'm like,

538
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:26,120
Speaker 3: this ain't gonna work.

539
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: I don't even know what Jamntria is. Every time you

540
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 1: say that ship, I think about Robin Williams and Jumanji

541
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,919
Speaker 1: the game, and I start and that's where my head goes,

542
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: and I have nothing to do with that shit. Then

543
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 1: I started thinking about, what's his name? Was it Edgar

544
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: Allan Payne? What's that nigga name? No? I don't that's

545
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: Edgar Allan Poe and Alan Payne put together. Bitch, I

546
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,360
Speaker 1: don't know what's the whake up?

547
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 2: Taddy? Hell are you talking about?

548
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm just saying so I don't. I'm saying all of

549
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: that to say, I don't know what g Mantria is.

550
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 1: You always talk about it. What the fuck is that?

551
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: That's some numbers? Shit?

552
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, every every number represents ever excuse me, every letter

553
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 3: represents a number.

554
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 2: So you basically decoding words essentially, that's all it is.

555
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 3: And it's a whole database out there of different things

556
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 3: that reference a particular phrase, a particular number. I believe

557
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 3: that you know nine is your master number. Most numbers

558
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 3: equal nine. All numbers equal nine for the most part, right,

559
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 3: So that's your mass numbers. It's a couple other mass

560
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 3: numbers like eleven thirty three. These are you have to

561
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 3: study the occult, that's what it is. Maybe I'll send

562
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 3: you some fucking books, bitch of you Opra for it, okay,

563
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 3: Because I'm saying one.

564
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: Don't equal nine, one equal one, two equal two, three

565
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: equal three, and nine equal nine. I don't know what

566
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 1: you mean when you say all numbers equal nine.

567
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 3: I'll sing you some mass math equations that, okay.

568
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,919
Speaker 1: Anyway back to it, I marry a nigga off in

569
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: my head, and then I be so disappointed when that

570
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: shit don't word.

571
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 3: I think all women fantasized by every single man named

572
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 3: meet niggas just be trying to fuck and we all

573
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 3: here like for real, married and had kids with this nigga.

574
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 3: Women gotta enjoy like the dating stage a little bit better,

575
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So just go in with

576
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 3: no expectations at all. Like you know what I'm saying.

577
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 3: You aren't disappointed when shit don't work out so hard

578
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 3: and you've speeding shit up by doing that, you know

579
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,880
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Just chill out relax like now, now

580
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 3: you're putting pressure on this nigga in your mind, and

581
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 3: you may not say anything to him verbally, but your

582
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 3: action's gonna start looking like that, you know what I'm saying.

583
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: And that runs men off.

584
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, moving too.

585
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 2: Fucking fast, relaxed, bitch, and get you a couple of them.

586
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: I don't have that kind of time left.

587
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 3: Well that's our fault, okay. And there's plenty women in

588
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 3: our in our position. And remember I was talking about

589
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 3: my damn seventy year old cousin. This bitch said her

590
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 3: and her homegirls is out here still looking for love

591
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 3: at seventy. And I'm not about to be that extreme now,

592
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 3: but I'm a definitely had me a hole grown ass

593
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 3: man soon.

594
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: Mm hm. Y'all don't waste y'all thirties, get y'all nigga in.

595
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: I say, twenties for playing. Thirties early thirties is for

596
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 1: finding a husband. You don't. You don't want to be

597
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: out out here. You know what, It's just hard for everybody.

598
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: Because if it's hard for seventy year old bitches, it

599
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: ain't nobody for y'all. I guess all they nigga's gone.

600
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 2: Ain't it dead.

601
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: Dead?

602
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 3: But nominogamy is a thing. It's becoming a bigger thing.

603
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 3: I think our generation in particular are kind of kind

604
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 3: of getting away from traditional monogamous relationships.

605
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 2: So I found this.

606
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 3: Article on Well and Good dot com and it says

607
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: ten questions to ask yourself to see if a noomen

608
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 3: monogamous relationship is or isn't for you.

609
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 2: So we're gonna run through those right quicks.

610
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 3: So, look, do I want sexual exclusivity with my partner?

611
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 3: Is that number one priority for you? Do you want

612
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 3: community dick.

613
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 2: At this point?

614
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 3: And think about the things that come with community dick?

615
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 3: Baby Mama's STDs, right, fucking std bv Okay, yeast infections,

616
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 3: those type of those type of things, just swapping out.

617
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 1: COUCHI cuchie, bacon biscuits. I did.

618
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 3: So that that's like the number one thing you had

619
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 3: to ask yourself. Are you okay with your partner having

620
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 3: sex with other people?

621
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: Right?

622
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 3: We've been dealing with it, right because I think more

623
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 3: people cheat, not just men, women cheat too. Right, there's

624
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 3: a lot of niggas out here who baby ain't fears

625
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 3: explain that shit, bitches. So if you're not Okay with that,

626
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 3: I mean, that's the first thing you need to ask yourself.

627
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: Number two, it says, do I feel sexual, romantic, and

628
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 3: emotional desires toward people other than my partner?

629
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: Yes?

630
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, And it might be a fleeting thought, but

631
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 3: I think is natural. It's natural to see somebody like them.

632
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 3: You may not say that shit out loud, but you'd

633
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 3: be thinking it right for sure. So I answer yes

634
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 3: toda too. Does it just feel natural to pursue friendships

635
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 3: and romantic relationships can currently with more than one person?

636
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 1: I'm not answering none of these questions because my future

637
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: he's gonna be like, it's a whole I'm not a

638
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 1: whole baby, I'm not answering these questions. These questions are

639
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: dumb girl. Stop yelling and the damn Mike. I'm sorry,

640
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: I can't help it. I'm excited. Okay, So what is

641
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 1: the question again?

642
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, let's run it, let's run it back.

643
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 3: Does it just feel natural to pursue friendships and romantic

644
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 3: relationships concurrently with more than one person? Now this is yeah,

645
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 3: what's wrong with having a friendship though romantically?

646
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 2: Also that word is in there.

647
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's said friendships and or to pursue friendships

648
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 3: and romantic relationships.

649
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 2: So friendships, yes, But.

650
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 3: It's basically saying, like, do you does it feel natural

651
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 3: to you to be fucking on more than one person?

652
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: Oh?

653
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: No, I don't like more than one dick at a time,

654
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: I really don't. But I will date more than one

655
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: person at the time. Like I'll go to dinner with

656
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: John on Tuesday and Michael on Wednesday and be just

657
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: fine with that and it's not a problem. But I

658
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: might only fuck Michael, you know, right?

659
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 2: And see what was the other nigga? Name is Michael?

660
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: And who who knows? He? What's Tuesday? He's gone?

661
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 3: And see that's why these niggas be mad taking your

662
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 3: ass out to dinner knowing you fucking Michael at the

663
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 3: end of the night.

664
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. They don't know who I'm fucking.

665
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 2: They know you fucking somebody and ain't them.

666
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: I ain't fucking Honestly, I don't have nothing going on

667
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: right now. It's a drop. I didn't even get no birthday, Penis.

668
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 3: I'm not really talking about you in particular. I'm talking

669
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 3: about women and dating men. You know what I'm saying.

670
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 3: That's why men be mad at Helle because they ain't

671
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 3: getting that pussy at the end of the night, and

672
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 3: they know you fucking somebody you.

673
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: Just or they assume you're fucking somebody.

674
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,719
Speaker 3: Right, assume right. Let's see number four says, do I

675
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 3: feel capable of managing my time and energy to meet

676
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 3: the needs of more than one relationship. You're most likely

677
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 3: already doing this with your platonic relationships aka your friendships,

678
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 3: So think of it through a non monogamy lens. So

679
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 3: that's the part that fucks me up. Oh God, time,

680
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 3: I don't have mental time, mental capacity to entertain more

681
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 3: than one person. You gotta give all these people conversation,

682
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 3: especially if y'all ain't in the same household somewhere, you

683
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta talk to them

684
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 3: on the phone, facetiming, pulling up.

685
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 2: All this shit.

686
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 3: I really don't have the time to juggle more than

687
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 3: one person with that type of shit. What you got, Tammy,

688
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 3: because you're looking like I can we talk back over here?

689
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: So good morning, good morning, j'all, good morning, my go,

690
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: good morning Joe, So good morning, Dady, good morning, Like.

691
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:10,240
Speaker 3: Nigga, you got the text messages scheduled the night before,

692
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 3: like as in Instagram posted hit sin when you wake

693
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 3: up and smile.

694
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 2: Like you did your deed for the day.

695
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,760
Speaker 1: Well, listen, you're supposed to date. How am I gonna

696
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: find my person if I'm not getting to know more

697
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: than one person at a time.

698
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 3: So we had an episode about dating with intention right now,

699
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 3: this is just another part of that. I don't feel

700
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 3: like you can date with intention if you're dating multiple people, Well,

701
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 3: you need to find one person and focus on them.

702
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 3: I'm intentionally dating multiple people until I find one person

703
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 3: that's dated exclusively. I mean you have to date multiple

704
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:48,479
Speaker 3: people and then pick one to date exclusively. First of all,

705
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 3: So we're talking about exclusivity and then you have non monogamous.

706
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 3: You know, those are actual antonyms, right, say they're not

707
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 3: the same thing. So if you're trying to exclusively date somebody,

708
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 3: you you basically can't be non monogamous. Excuse me, say,

709
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 3: what if you're trying to date one person exclusively, right,

710
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 3: how you can't be non monogamous simultaneously?

711
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,280
Speaker 1: No? No, no, yeah, you're right, you're right.

712
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 2: Right, So that's what I'm saying.

713
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 3: Like, if you then just say you want to be

714
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:22,280
Speaker 3: in an non monogamous relationship.

715
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: You're okay with that basically? Right?

716
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I'm not saying that I want

717
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 1: monogamy once we get there, all right, So where I'm

718
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,919
Speaker 1: at right now is I'm dating multiple people to see

719
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: which one I like, and then I'll be exclusive with

720
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 1: that one person, dating exclusively but were not still like together,

721
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: and then if that we can move past that stage

722
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: to monogamy.

723
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 3: You don't even sound like you fucking sure, bitch. Let's

724
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 3: go to go off to numbers.

725
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: You date people, you meet people, then you pick one

726
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 1: that you like, you date them exclusively, just dating them,

727
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: but y'all still not in admitted relationship. Then you commit.

728
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 3: We got to write down like an actual steps for

729
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 3: dating to see if we even understand we're dating acts.

730
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: I feel like we did that shit? Did we? Yeah?

731
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 2: Did you follow the steps?

732
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 4: No?

733
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 2: Number seven? Have I practiced?

734
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 3: Have I practiced serial monogamy where I'm exclusive with one

735
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 3: person for a while, but I end each relationship to

736
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 3: pursue a new one.

737
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 2: That's me.

738
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 1: Yes. And when y'all remember when I asked this bitch,

739
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: was she a serial monogamous? And she was like serial monogamous? No?

740
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: What episode this was a few episodes back.

741
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 2: You are.

742
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 3: I literally said that at the beginning of this episode,

743
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 3: at the beginning of this topic of discussion, I said

744
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 3: that I am a modern I am I identify as

745
00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 3: someone who's a modern day monogamous, like I date. What

746
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 3: is it called, like, yeah, mardern monogamy. I practiced modern monogamy.

747
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 3: I said that, did I not?

748
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 2: Y'all?

749
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 1: But remember when I said you were a serial monogamous

750
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks back.

751
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm a Gemini bitch. That's my answer

752
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 2: for everything I might have might have not not me.

753
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 1: Like me, you will like be locked in with a

754
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: nigga and then not locked in no more, and then

755
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: get a new nigga and be locked in with him too.

756
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like it like that.

757
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: I like it like that.

758
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 3: Let me want to tell you it's because I got

759
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 3: high tolerance or bullshits. I'll just stick around because this

760
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 3: is what I'm doing for the moment. But if nothing

761
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 3: ever changes, I will literally wake up and be like, nah,

762
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 3: I'm good and I just stopped talking to you.

763
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: You Common, That's what Common be doing. The bitches. Common

764
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 1: will sell you a text message like yeah, I don't

765
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: think this is gonna work out, my queen.

766
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 3: It's ran its course. I wonder if he's a Gemini. Yeah, Like,

767
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 3: it's ran its course. Why I'm gonna keep playing like

768
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 3: we have, women have a timeline. We are on the

769
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 3: time crunch at this at this moment. So if you're

770
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 3: not considering me like I consider you, if you're not

771
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 3: fucking with me at the same capacity, what are we doing?

772
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like a nigga be walking

773
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 3: around here five to two balding, fucked up all type

774
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 3: of ways. I'm still choosing you, right, and you acting

775
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 3: like you don't know you, like you're unsure about me

776
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 3: or something. Yeah, I don't have no time for you

777
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:40,280
Speaker 3: to be unsure.

778
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 2: That's all it is.

779
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: There was this guy that I really really really liked,

780
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 1: and he really I could tell he really liked me too,

781
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: but he was just like and I was like, what

782
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: are we doing? Are we gonna do something for real?

783
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: Or no? I put it out there to him like that,

784
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 1: and he was just like, I don't want to be

785
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: in a committed relationship for another two years and I

786
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: don't want to do long day Okay, well, all right,

787
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: So then I was still talking to him and still

788
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: planning to go travel to see him and do all

789
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: these things. And then I had to look at myself.

790
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,320
Speaker 1: Why am I investing time in a person who don't

791
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: want what I want? Let me just stop, Let me

792
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: just stop.

793
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, get out of there, you know, because what happens

794
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 3: when whenever shit gets fucked up, men love to put

795
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 3: the onus on women.

796
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: Oh why I told you what I wanted?

797
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 3: Okay, well guess what the onus is on both of

798
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 3: us because while you were telling me what you wanted,

799
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 3: I also told you I wanted exclusivity.

800
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 2: I also told you I want to be married. I

801
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 2: also told you I wanted kids.

802
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 3: So you had an opportunity to walk the fuck away too,

803
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 3: but you didn't. So when shit hit the fan, it's

804
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 3: not just on me the woman who at the relationship right,

805
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 3: because they loved to say what they told you.

806
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 2: Bitch, I don't care what you told me. I told

807
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 2: you I.

808
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:53,280
Speaker 3: Wanted a relationship, right, and you kept sucking me raw?

809
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 1: That'd be the thing.

810
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 3: Whatever, bit anyway, number like that's really why I got

811
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 3: to cut one nigg off.

812
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 4: Like that's really wise, one nigg at a time. Man,

813
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 4: you better sorry, Go ahead, move on. Don't say it, bitch,

814
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 4: cut it out.

815
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 2: Okay.

816
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 3: Now he says, do I want more emotional intimacy than

817
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 3: what my partner can provide? I think sometimes that might

818
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 3: not be your partner then if he's not providing you

819
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 3: with the type of intimacy that you think you want

820
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 3: or deserve, right, So maybe just just get scratched that

821
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 3: one to get a whole.

822
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 2: Nother nigga, not a supplemental nigga.

823
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 1: Or maybe you could teach him, because sometimes they need

824
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: just a little guidance. Sometimes it ain't like the man

825
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: don't cares, just that he don't know how to be

826
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: what you need. So maybe it's just a you know,

827
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 1: opportunity to get that man sit down in the classroom.

828
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but if you find yourself always given the benefit

829
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 3: of the doubt, right, always compromising your happiness because this

830
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 3: person seems content with whatever y'all got going on, but

831
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 3: you really ultimately is not what you want.

832
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 2: You know.

833
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 3: I don't think you should just go get a second dude.

834
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 3: It's still not going to be right, you know what

835
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 3: I'm saying. Like it's funny when we say, oh, I

836
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 3: got a nigga for this, and I got a nigga

837
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 3: for that, and I got a.

838
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 2: Nigga for this girl. You spreading yourself then with all

839
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 2: these fucking.

840
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: Energies, Yeah, I don't care. I don't have the capacity,

841
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: just because I feel like, once you have a nigga

842
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: for all these different things that they're providing, you gotta

843
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: have sex with all of them. Like they're gonna be

844
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 1: looking for physical intimacy. Men. I ain't never asked a

845
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 1: man what they love language was, and the first one

846
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 1: wasn't physical intimacy. I have not seen one yet. It's

847
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: always physical and then acts of service or words or

848
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 1: whatever the confirmation. Yeah, but physical always first. So I

849
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 1: just ain't trying to share my body with that many people.

850
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: So I just can't do it.

851
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

852
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 3: Number nine says do I feel or think there is

853
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 3: a critical component missing from my relationship?

854
00:41:58,040 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 2: But overall am happy?

855
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 3: So again most people. Yeah, I think it's all mental. Man,

856
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 3: It's all mental. All of this shit is like you

857
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 3: gotta work it out in the mind first. And number

858
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 3: ten says, I do feel intrigued by the idea of

859
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 3: multiple partners. I won't say I'm intrigued by it, but

860
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 3: I've said before I like first dates.

861
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I like meeting somebody new.

862
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 3: I like meeting new people period, men and women to

863
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 3: deal with men, but I like meeting new people.

864
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Oh, new people get you

865
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 2: places old people can't.

866
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

867
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 3: I don't ever want to be restricted in that way,

868
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 3: Like because I'm fucking with you. I can't even talk

869
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 3: to another man because he's a man, right, you know

870
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. But do I want to just be

871
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 3: out here smashing, dating, talking, conversating with multiple people.

872
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:47,839
Speaker 2: I don't have the capacity for that shit. No one

873
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:49,399
Speaker 2: this time is fucking winding down.

874
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:53,240
Speaker 1: I would definitely conversate with multiple people, but the smashing, no.

875
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: Lies being told.

876
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't can't handle it. I just want

877
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 1: one day. And right now I'm just saving myself up

878
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: my next boyfriend. I don't even I don't even know

879
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna puts the end of the freezer without out Dan.

880
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

881
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 2: I think I'm in a good place. I know exactly

882
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 2: what I want.

883
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 3: That's the one good thing about I could take away

884
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 3: from these relationships that I've been in. I don't want

885
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:31,399
Speaker 3: to say I regret anything. I just I've learned. I've

886
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 3: learned what I want, what I don't want, my likes,

887
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 3: my dislikes, what I'm looking for, so that when I

888
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 3: do meet the person, I can have all information to

889
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 3: make a nice informed decision on what I want to

890
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 3: fuck with, and hopefully that person's honest with themselves first, right,

891
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 3: because it takes a lot of self awareness to be

892
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 3: honest with yourself and to some new person you're meeting.

893
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 3: I had a whole little back and forth, a little

894
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:55,240
Speaker 3: spat one of my friends.

895
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 2: He with my friend.

896
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 3: Let me not say, one of my little friends just

897
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 3: keeps that nigga listening, cause niggas be listening.

898
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 2: But he made a.

899
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 3: Comment that it is hard women make it hard for

900
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 3: men to be honest. I'm like, no, like a woman

901
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 3: could say the same thing, Oh, men make it hard

902
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 3: for us to be honest. But really, if you don't

903
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 3: give a fuck and you showing up as your true,

904
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 3: authentic self, I'm sorry if my truth makes you feel

905
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 3: however type of way. But I'm not gonna say, oh,

906
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 3: he made it hard for me to be honest, Tell

907
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 3: the fucking truth.

908
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 2: And if they're not fucking way to.

909
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 3: Get on through, right, But you're not gonna use me

910
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 3: as a scapegoat because you can't be first honest with yourself.

911
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 3: So you're showing up in the world like somebody fucking

912
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 3: else sending your representative. Now, you can't put that on

913
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 3: someone else. You're just not an honest person. It's not

914
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:44,720
Speaker 3: that I'm not making it easy for you to be honest.

915
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, these niggas do be listening. Because one of my

916
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,720
Speaker 1: little friends in California, I mean not my little friend,

917
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: my big friend in California. He was like, yeah, you

918
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: be cheating on your man for California. You said you

919
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: cheat on your man for California. I was like, that

920
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: was a long time ago. Like why are you back there?

921
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,439
Speaker 1: Why are you bringing up od shit?

922
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 3: I wish you could block certain people from listening, Like

923
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 3: can I block this IP address?

924
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: Right?

925
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 3: Shit, if you feeling a little censored, but fuck them,

926
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 3: listen this is me.

927
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: No. I just tell niggas like this is entertainment purposes

928
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 1: only everything else. Don't take nothing I say for fact.

929
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm on there telling jokes. AJ is the world with

930
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 1: all the real information, and I just come and tell jokes.

931
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: That's it, that's it, that's all baby.

932
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 2: I just can't a joke. That's it, y'all.

933
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 3: So the moral of this conversation is to me, for me,

934
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 3: self awareness, Right, you have to know yourself to know

935
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 3: what type of relationships you want to be in, what

936
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 3: type of relationship you want to gage you, what's the

937
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 3: person you want, and what type of person you want

938
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 3: to be in a relationship.

939
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 2: That's the gist of.

940
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: It, all right, And for me, the moral of the

941
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 1: story is, use condoms. These niggas be cheating, y'all. Use condoms.

942
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: You might be in a monogamous relationship and he's still outside.

943
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 2: You might be.

944
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 1: Monogamous, and this nigga might be polyamorous or whatever the

945
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 1: fuck it's called. That's my fucking borel. Yeah, I'm sorry.

946
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 1: I'm on my cycle, so I'm kind of like not

947
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 1: as positive today. I'm a little negative, a little tainted.

948
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 4: Y'all.

949
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 3: Listen, we'll be right back with a dumb bitch story.

950
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 3: Stay tuned.

951
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 1: Dumb bitch stories, so du because we've all been a

952
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 1: dumb bitch at least once or twice. Okay, y'all. This

953
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 1: dumbitch story, a woman from Brazil reveals that she fell

954
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: in love with a man who mugged previously, she reveals

955
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: this story and she got over two hundred thousand views

956
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: on Twitter. And this woman, I think her name is Emmanuela.

957
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 1: She said she was walking down the street where she

958
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: lives and she got mugged and the muggers took her phone.

959
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: The thief later had to change your heart. The mugger said,

960
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 1: I was going through a difficult situation because I didn't

961
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: have a woman, you know. The man said, reminiscent on

962
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: the odd How we first met story. When I saw

963
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: her photo on the phone, I said to myself, what

964
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: a beautiful brunette. You don't see a brunette like that

965
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 1: every day. And I regretted stealing her phone. So you

966
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,840
Speaker 1: stole her phone and then her heart, is what the

967
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 1: interviewer said. Man, wait a minute, that pair have been

968
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:43,240
Speaker 1: together for two years.

969
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 3: Man, hell no, First of all, I'm not fucking with

970
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 3: no nigga. Whould just be out here stealing petty thief? Right,

971
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 3: whatever he done with you, whenever he falls out of

972
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:54,839
Speaker 3: love with your ass, he gonna really rob you and

973
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 3: going on to the next person.

974
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 1: How you like, it's right, Like the the bar is real, real,

975
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 1: real low.

976
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 2: There's no bar. There's no bar.

977
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,479
Speaker 1: This nigga's like, hey, hey, I know I took your shit,

978
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: but here go back. Can I take you to dinner?

979
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: Some I just stole another bitch person around the corner.

980
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 1: I got about two hundred dollars. That is kind of attractive.

981
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: Now you're stealing from another bitch to give me? No,

982
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:31,360
Speaker 1: that was like that was like I was at that

983
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,240
Speaker 1: gas station and it was this very good looking homeless

984
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: man right like you look like he could clean him

985
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: up and he'd be like fine as fuck though, right,

986
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: but he asked me for some money. And because he

987
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: was so handsome, it was so hot outside, and he

988
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: just asked me some money for some water. I was like, okay,

989
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: you cute, I give it to you. I ain't say

990
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 1: you cute, but I was thinking it right. And then

991
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: when I got close to giving him that money, he

992
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: was like, damn you fine? Can I take you to dinner? How?

993
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 1: How are you gonna take me to dinner?

994
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 3: How?

995
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 2: Said?

996
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:06,359
Speaker 1: How?

997
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 2: Lou?

998
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 1: No get? I was almost almost offended then, But what yeah,

999
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: what if he wasn't homeless?

1000
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 2: He just looked like that. But you said you were

1001
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 2: giving him water? Did he ask?

1002
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: He asked for money for some water?

1003
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 2: Oh?

1004
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,320
Speaker 3: Then he probably he may have not he may not

1005
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 3: have been homeless per se, but he didn't have money

1006
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 3: for water.

1007
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: So in a date, yeah, you know, way, he didn't

1008
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: say can I take you on the day, He said

1009
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:42,240
Speaker 1: can I have your phone number?

1010
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 2: No? No for me?

1011
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: And if I was this bitch when he was like

1012
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 1: bringing the phone back, I was like, yeah, meet me here,

1013
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: and I would have had the police with.

1014
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 2: Me arrest him. Absolutely. Y'all.

1015
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 3: We gotta random sex fact this week. Okay, so I

1016
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:05,959
Speaker 3: know right, we got all the things. This man Los

1017
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 3: Angeles born. Uh, he has two penises. Okay, it's a

1018
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to say a disease, it's a defect.

1019
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 3: Write some sort of defect, a genetic defect called dipophilia,

1020
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:24,319
Speaker 3: where people are born with too genitalian. So he basically said,

1021
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 3: bitches was hypnotized by these two dicks.

1022
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: He even had one person that.

1023
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 3: Couldn not stop fucking two people like she couldn't just

1024
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 3: have regular sex anymore, she had to do double penetration,

1025
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,280
Speaker 3: so she was having a lot of threesomes after fucking

1026
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 3: with him.

1027
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 2: They go crazy for the two dicks.

1028
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 3: I googled what it looked like, and I don't know

1029
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 3: what this person dick in particularly looks like. But the

1030
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 3: images on Google are horrific with these two penises.

1031
00:50:51,920 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 2: So what is you shut up? Is dipophilia affiliate?

1032
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1033
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 2: See, if you can pull up those Google images.

1034
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 1: Hippophilia is that pH mm hm.

1035
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 3: Dc And the images are actually like blurred out, so

1036
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 3: you gotta click them.

1037
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: No, I don't want that.

1038
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he said his was like kind of off

1039
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 2: to the side. So it's Tank.

1040
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: Uh.

1041
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 3: This guy, his name is Tank, and he was actually

1042
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 3: on this YouTube channel called Soft White Underbelly.

1043
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 2: I used to watch that shit a lot.

1044
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 3: They usually be having like prostitutes and hymns drug addicts

1045
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 3: on there.

1046
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 2: I used to watch the videos a lot.

1047
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 3: So he's a Los Angeles truck driver, real that he

1048
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 3: has two penises, and was pretty cannon about his sex life.

1049
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 2: His name's Tank. Tank reportedly suffered from dipophilia.

1050
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 3: Which is d I p h A L l i

1051
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 3: A for anybody trying to google it, a genetic abnormality

1052
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 3: in which a male is born with two penises. The

1053
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 3: rare condition effects less than a thousand men and boys

1054
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 3: across the United States. Tank, who was in Too Juvenile

1055
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 3: Attention Center after being convicted of manslaughter at the age

1056
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 3: of twelve, admitted that he was a virgin until he

1057
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 3: was released from custody at the age of twenty four,

1058
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 3: and he says women didn't believe it when I told

1059
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 3: him I had two dicks, but then I took them

1060
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 3: to the room.

1061
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 2: And they'd see.

1062
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 3: According to Tank, he would ejaculate from both penises at

1063
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 3: the same time, even if only one was being stimulated.

1064
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 3: He'd sling when I was penetrating a woman, I would

1065
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 3: get a feeling, but one of my penises is like

1066
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 3: to the side and feels like it's gonna blow up.

1067
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 2: The truck driver said he.

1068
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 3: Even encountered women who wanted both penises inside them at

1069
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 3: the same time.

1070
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 2: One woman allegedly.

1071
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 3: Became so addicted she had threesomes after they broke up

1072
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 3: because a single penis was no longer sadus by he

1073
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 3: out here slinging dicks.

1074
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 2: Okay, damn, I don't want that.

1075
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 1: I was looking at the pictures. It looks very more

1076
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: common and non blacks. I haven't seen any black dipophilia.

1077
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 3: Either when I looked, so maybe this is like some

1078
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 3: alien shit like those spaceships you shot you saw.

1079
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I see some spaceship. Shall I bet you had

1080
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 1: some diperphilia on there.

1081
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 3: It might be nice an alien diphilia.

1082
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: You would, you would if you were like, met a

1083
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: man and you liked him, and he had all the things,

1084
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 1: and then finally y'all went to have sex and he

1085
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 1: pulled out two dicks.

1086
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:35,280
Speaker 2: If they looked good, I would it looks like those pictures.

1087
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 2: I'm not fucking with it. But if they looked like

1088
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,440
Speaker 2: two full.

1089
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:46,600
Speaker 1: Grown, beautiful dicks on one person's knickers Hamburgers, yes, I

1090
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: can see you now, both up gobbling one down and

1091
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:49,799
Speaker 1: stroking the.

1092
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Speaker 2: Other period.

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00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,399
Speaker 1: Period. I'll run out of the room.

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00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 2: I'm running screaming out of the room.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, I'm sorry, because that's I don't want to

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00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: offend anybody, because there's people out there who really have that.

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00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:10,359
Speaker 1: And if you're listening, your dick deserves love, both of them.

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00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: Don't be offended by what I'm saying. With the aliens

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00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: to pick me up for a while. Man, were all

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00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: at bitch. They was in Chester yesterday. You need to

1101
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,439
Speaker 1: go down to Chester County, South Carolina. They was there.

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Speaker 1: I promise you I seen them. It was three of them.

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00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 1: It was three crafts that I saw.

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Speaker 3: You know, this whole year, there's been a lot of

1105
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 3: videos out there with a bunch of uh, I don't know,

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00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 3: unusual identified unidentified objects in the sky and people's backyards.

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Speaker 3: Did you see that video in California? Yes, I think

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00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 3: it really was in Nevada of California.

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00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw that.

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Speaker 2: I definitely believe in aliens. I think I used to

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00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 2: get abducted.

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Speaker 3: Either I was being abducted by aliens when I was

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00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 3: a kid, or I just was having like out of

1114
00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 3: body shit happening, because I would be floating back to

1115
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 3: my damn body every Saturday morning.

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Speaker 2: So they was picking me up every Friday.

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Speaker 1: That was that melatonin your mama was giving you to night.

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Speaker 2: A damn lie. My mama definitely wasn't drugging her kids.

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Speaker 1: That's for y'all.

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Speaker 2: Modern day mama.

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Speaker 1: Drink your juice, baby, drink your juice. Baba gotta have

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Speaker 1: a life too.

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Speaker 3: Drive this Stam's Club one day and I told this,

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Speaker 3: I said, you might want to stop doing that. She

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Speaker 3: just had her little gummies for the kids. They in

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00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 3: the cart. It's six seven in the evening. She's like,

1127
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 3: hey y'all, hey, y'all, candy giving it out like the exactly.

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Speaker 3: But you know your kids want to become They say,

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00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,799
Speaker 3: you don't become dependent on it, but you can.

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Speaker 2: This stuff has other ship.

1131
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 3: In those gummies and then those pills not just straight

1132
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 3: natural melatonin like that is bad parenting anyway, y'all, y'all,

1133
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Speaker 3: if you enjoyed this episode, tune in every Thursday on

1134
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:57,399
Speaker 3: the iHeartRadio app where the fuck you get your podcast at.

1135
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Speaker 3: What I was trying to tell y'all is sit has

1136
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,919
Speaker 3: the dumb bit stories. Okay, we'd like to see that shit.

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Speaker 3: I know y'all need some help and check out our

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Speaker 3: website also and for real, for real, Okay, today is

1139
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Speaker 3: what whatever today is? I ain't telling y'all because we

1140
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Speaker 3: be pre recording shit, but T shirts are going to

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00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 3: be on the website. Okay, uh we talk back e

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Speaker 3: n T dot com kick it Sam.

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all is tamam. I love y'all. Once again,

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00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: Thank y'all for tuning in. Remember speak now and never

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Speaker 1: hold your peace.

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Speaker 4: Bye