WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Don't Be A Negative Nanny 

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to it. Hope you had a lovely weekend

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<v Speaker 1>if you had a long one. We're back here with

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<v Speaker 1>brand new episodes. It's the Brig and Jeffrey Podcast. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for being here, and it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was short and normal.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope it was lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>Still like Brook true true.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so comments before we get into this brand

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<v Speaker 1>new episode.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys have tought me smile through the tough years.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you get me through my ten hour shift at

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<v Speaker 4>Keep up the great work, Adam from San Antonio, Texas.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did I picture him with a group of people

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<v Speaker 1>on his motorcycle and that's the group.

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<v Speaker 2>Motorcycle ride like a circus?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna fall. Be safe out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for listening, and your brand new episode starts

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to read a headline for you, Okay. Suburban

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<v Speaker 2>mother of two refuses to pay gen Z babysitter after

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<v Speaker 2>she watched her kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's going to trigger people.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not a laser story. It's an actual situation one

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<v Speaker 2>of our listeners is dealing with, and it's not a

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<v Speaker 2>ton of money. But the reason why this woman won't

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<v Speaker 2>pay her is so ridiculous. She asked for our help. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to hear it. Now she's gonna have to

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<v Speaker 2>call and confront this lady. Oh, you know this is

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<v Speaker 2>going to be uncomfortable. It's the case of the bitter

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<v Speaker 2>babysitter and the penny pinching parent in your brandline, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we should write for the news brand new awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 2>phone call?

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<v Speaker 3>Next, it's awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>If you listen to our show regularly, you know that

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<v Speaker 2>our own Brook Fox is a proud value shopper. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>very proud aka Cheatskate. Jeff, you got that insulted me?

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<v Speaker 2>You thought wrong? No, I know she will take every

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity to pay less money than she probably should. With

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<v Speaker 2>cubea rewards.

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<v Speaker 1>Car, yes, whatever app and loyalty program I need to

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<v Speaker 1>sign up for.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatt a email account?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Oh got it?

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<v Speaker 1>I have three just dedicated to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook will even tip the weight staff and then once

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<v Speaker 2>they turn around, secretly exchange that twenty dollars note with

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<v Speaker 2>a one dollar bill and sneak out the back door.

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<v Speaker 3>She ran out of her counterfeit.

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<v Speaker 4>You saw that.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody saw it, Brooke, And I know Brooke will agree

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<v Speaker 2>with me on this. Okay, but the price of child's care,

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<v Speaker 2>not just daycare, but babysitting is higher now than ever before.

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<v Speaker 3>Even I've heard about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you that's why you need to find

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<v Speaker 1>someone between the age of thirteen and fifteen to watch

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<v Speaker 1>your kids. Oh sure, they may not be super responsible,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're not that into boys.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet, so it helps. And they don't know how to

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<v Speaker 2>sue you when you undertake it. That's kind of nice.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing is, Brook, we do have a babysitter on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone right now. Wait needs our help, Missy. Welcome

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<v Speaker 2>to the show. First of all, how long have you

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<v Speaker 2>been babysitting for? Like, are you a professional nanny or

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<v Speaker 2>is it more of a side gig thing.

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<v Speaker 7>I am actually a nursing student, so this isn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Your professional job. You're just doing it on the side

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<v Speaker 2>to pay for your bills and books and stuff.

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<v Speaker 7>That's correct.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you with the same family as it always just

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<v Speaker 1>the one family?

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<v Speaker 8>So I based it for like four to five families

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<v Speaker 8>here and there, okay, and there's one like I don't

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<v Speaker 8>know if I should even say their name, the Fox House.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, like, if you're going to find a good babysitter,

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<v Speaker 1>it's worth the money. But is that the problem? The money?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it is sort of the money.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 8>So this family that I watch, I watched they're seven

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<v Speaker 8>and their five year old. They're really great kids.

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<v Speaker 5>The dad is super nice that the mom.

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<v Speaker 8>Is really hit or miss. He's just a very strange woman. Yes,

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<v Speaker 8>So this time the parents go out. Everything's fine. They're

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<v Speaker 8>out for like four hours, and usually the mom then

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<v Speaker 8>love me after. But I've waited a few days and

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<v Speaker 8>I got nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, did you get her up? Because like sometimes what happens,

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<v Speaker 1>especially with Venmo, is like all of a sudden, the

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<v Speaker 1>kid needs you and then you get sidetracked and then

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<v Speaker 1>you just transfer, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just space it, right.

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<v Speaker 7>So I did text her.

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<v Speaker 8>I usually Venmo request her, but I followed up and

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<v Speaker 8>I said, Hey, if you don't mind, can you please

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<v Speaker 8>Venmo me the eighty dollars when you can cool?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 8>So she texts me back and she goes every I'm

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<v Speaker 8>literally going to read it to you, so it says, Missy,

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<v Speaker 8>every time you're here, I noticed you enjoy our food.

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<v Speaker 8>So if we're counting the ice cream you ate and

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<v Speaker 8>the deli sandwich you made.

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<v Speaker 7>With the chips, we're pretty even.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh, that so wild.

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<v Speaker 8>Also, like I'm pretty sure when I first started, both

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<v Speaker 8>her and the dad were like, whenever the kids eat, like,

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<v Speaker 8>you're welcome to make for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, Well, hold on, how much of the ice

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<v Speaker 2>cream did you go through? The entire pint of ven

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<v Speaker 2>and Jerry's and that you made?

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<v Speaker 8>Even if I did, it's not eighty dollars worth of

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<v Speaker 8>ice cream.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the amount that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're And that's so weird. Like, I'm sorry, when you

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<v Speaker 1>invite someone into your house, you give them your food.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's just what it.

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<v Speaker 2>Is, even if you're not working for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yours used to text you that you babysit a.

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<v Speaker 4>She asked me to eat before I come over because

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<v Speaker 4>I always go after practice and eat all their food,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's like, you just eat before you come over.

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<v Speaker 2>Food saved you.

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<v Speaker 3>For how much?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>But she told me she didn't a.

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<v Speaker 8>Duck out of my pay, so.

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<v Speaker 2>But is left with two grocery bags filled with items.

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<v Speaker 5>So she did chop the whole food. She had that

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<v Speaker 5>good stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I see, all right, that's how did you respond to

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<v Speaker 2>that text? That's a pretty aggressive text.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, So furthermore, she offers me twenty dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>What she's like, you ate sixty dollars worth of ice cream?

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<v Speaker 1>She must be tallying like all the other times things.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're thinking?

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<v Speaker 8>I've maybe, But even if that's true, that's kind of

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<v Speaker 8>crazy to be keeping tabs on me like that and

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<v Speaker 8>counting every item of food in your refrigerator, like you

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<v Speaker 8>can afford to have a babysitter, like you can afford

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<v Speaker 8>to give me a sandwich.

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<v Speaker 6>How I feel it's like a restaurant, Like if you

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<v Speaker 6>can't tamp and don't go out.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're going to invite someone to come over

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<v Speaker 1>to your house, especially at a meal time.

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<v Speaker 6>To take care of your children, you feed them.

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<v Speaker 2>You clearly feel slighted by this mother who's refusing to

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<v Speaker 2>pay you the full amount that you're owed. What what

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<v Speaker 2>are you looking to get out of doing this phone

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<v Speaker 2>call with us?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm confused as to what to do, basically because Furthermore,

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<v Speaker 8>she blocks me so that I can't ask her a

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<v Speaker 8>third time for it.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, and so I don't know if I'm out

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<v Speaker 7>of a job.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you're for sure out of a job.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want a job anymore anyway.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, agreed. But like I'm owed eighty dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you need your money.

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<v Speaker 2>So you want our advice on how to call this

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<v Speaker 2>mom and get the full eighty dollars.

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<v Speaker 8>That's you're owed, right, I just want what's oh it

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<v Speaker 8>to me.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't care what happens after that. I just I

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<v Speaker 7>need my money. Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's going to be hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sure Alexis will give grade advice. She

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<v Speaker 1>is so good demanding money.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to pay ten dollars an hour for two

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<v Speaker 4>kids for four years.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I should hire Alexis as my next baby.

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<v Speaker 2>And half of your pantry is going to be rated afterwards.

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<v Speaker 2>Ten bucks an hour, that's so yeah. Okay, So we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to think of our best advice for what to

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<v Speaker 2>give you and what you should say to this mother

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<v Speaker 2>before you make your awkward Tuesday phone call and you

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<v Speaker 2>get sweet sweet financial justice.

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<v Speaker 1>As sweet as that ice cream.

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<v Speaker 2>Forward, we'll have our advice for you when we do

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<v Speaker 2>your awkward Tuesday right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on, it's awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just joining us, we've got quite the show

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<v Speaker 2>down on our hands. You've heard of the rumble in

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<v Speaker 2>the jungle. Well, this is the tussle in the toy room.

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<v Speaker 2>A babysitter versus the mom who refuses to pay her

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<v Speaker 2>the rate that they had agreed upon because after four

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<v Speaker 2>hours of child's care, our listener Missy was owed eighty

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<v Speaker 2>dollars for her babysitting work, and the mom texted her

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<v Speaker 2>back saying, well, you ate a bunch of our ice

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<v Speaker 2>cream and made yourself a sandwich while you were there,

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<v Speaker 2>so we're probably equal. And it is important to note

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<v Speaker 2>that the mom blocked her on text and on Venmo

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<v Speaker 2>after that never paid her. That's why we're here to

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<v Speaker 2>help Missy get her hard earned money before she never

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<v Speaker 2>has to work for this lady ever again. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>all we need to do is give her a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of advice for how to accomplish that. So, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 2>what are your thoughts? What do you think Missy should

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<v Speaker 2>do here?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, first, I think you should start reasonable and nice. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you say, listen, this is a pain. Let's just make

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<v Speaker 1>it all go away for the eighty bucks.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>If she doesn't agree with you, Missy, you let her

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<v Speaker 1>know that word is going to get around to all

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<v Speaker 1>the other babysitters in the area. And if she ever

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<v Speaker 1>wants to hire a babysitter again, she'd better pay up.

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<v Speaker 7>So play the blackmail car.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, a mother's greatest fear is not being able to

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<v Speaker 1>get away from her.

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<v Speaker 2>Children, Missy. Do you feel like you're strong enough to

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<v Speaker 2>blackmail a mother of two?

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<v Speaker 7>Honestly, I'm pretty confident myself. Yes, I think I think.

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<v Speaker 4>The other sitters.

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<v Speaker 2>All right. It's not very often we tell people to

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<v Speaker 2>blackmail mothers.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen, sometimes justice is dirty.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, that's one piece of advice for you, Jose.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think, Well, this lady.

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<v Speaker 6>Has already been mean to you and blocked you, and

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<v Speaker 6>if she ends up hanging up, just call the school

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<v Speaker 6>where her kids go, liquidate their lunch funds and then

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<v Speaker 6>go pick up the money from the front desk after school.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, yes, Jose, you can tell you how that works.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm Amanda's dad would like to cash out all her money.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll there in ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yes, but the babysitter, I don't know if they

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<v Speaker 2>would be able to get the school to agree to that.

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<v Speaker 1>A parent could agree to that box into my kids

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<v Speaker 1>lunch funds, and I don't think I'm ever going to

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<v Speaker 1>see it again.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't feed my children for a month? What do you

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<v Speaker 2>think about that? Missy?

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<v Speaker 8>So at their school, actually they have like a designated

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<v Speaker 8>pickup and it's me. Yeah, so I may be on

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<v Speaker 8>some sort of list.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't want to involve the kids.

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<v Speaker 2>So far, the advice we've given is to blackmail mothers

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<v Speaker 2>and not feed children, sleep with her husband? Is that

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<v Speaker 2>what you?

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<v Speaker 3>Just an option.

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<v Speaker 2>Always on the table, all right. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>we've helped at all. We may have actually hurt you.

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<v Speaker 7>Miss I think there's some stuff I could use in there, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're going to be on the phone in the background.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to jump in and tell this mother what's up?

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<v Speaker 9>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a mom and mom. Actually, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully all goes smoothly. She just agrees to pay the money,

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<v Speaker 2>big misunderstanding. Yeah, That's what I'm hoping for me here

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<v Speaker 2>we go. I'm down on it right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 7>Hello, Hi, Alice. Hello, who is this Hi? It's Missy.

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<v Speaker 5>How are you missing? How are you calling me? Why

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<v Speaker 5>are you calling me? I blocked you?

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, I'm aware you blocked me. That's why I'm calling

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<v Speaker 8>you because you owe me money.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't owe you running money, sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 8>We want you.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh please don't call me, sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 8>You owe me eighty dollars for babysitting your children. That

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<v Speaker 8>was the agreed upon rate, and I would just like

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<v Speaker 8>it so we can end this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, sure, no problem, as soon as you pay me

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<v Speaker 5>back for all the ice creaming. Ways. You know, I

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<v Speaker 5>have a camera in the house and I think that's

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<v Speaker 5>the food you put on your sandwich. I'm sure how

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<v Speaker 5>you took my son pay up the sandwich and you

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<v Speaker 5>ate it instead of saving it for him. But what's

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<v Speaker 5>the matter with you?

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<v Speaker 9>You know?

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<v Speaker 5>And the last time your baby stopt for me, it

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<v Speaker 5>was for four hours, but the kids were next door

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<v Speaker 5>for two and a half of those hours. You just

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<v Speaker 5>had to be sitting in the house. Meanwhile, you ate

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<v Speaker 5>everything I put out for their smoothies when I came back.

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<v Speaker 5>And what did you do? Nothing? You didn't do anything.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, eighty dollars, get a little break.

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<v Speaker 8>If you could just stop yelling at me for a second,

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<v Speaker 8>I can straighten that out for you. The kids actually

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<v Speaker 8>ate next door, which is why they didn't need to

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<v Speaker 8>have those smoothies at that point in time.

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<v Speaker 7>Also, your son didn't.

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<v Speaker 8>Want to finish his sandwich, so I finished it because

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<v Speaker 8>I hadn't had lunch that day. I didn't think it

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<v Speaker 8>was that big of a deal. Also, you and your

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<v Speaker 8>husband were very clear from the beginning that whatever the

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<v Speaker 8>kids ate and whatever I had prepared for them, I

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<v Speaker 8>was welcome to some too. I am not a glutton.

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<v Speaker 8>I am not eating you out.

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<v Speaker 5>Of house and home, and I sure myself.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm not robbing you. So I don't know what the

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<v Speaker 8>problem is or what are.

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<v Speaker 5>My female products aka tampons?

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<v Speaker 3>They're no.

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<v Speaker 7>Excuse me, Okay, I know.

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<v Speaker 5>What everything messed in my house, and I know what's

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<v Speaker 5>missing on it's missing okay, missy.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay. First of all, it's very strange to you count

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<v Speaker 8>your tampons. But second of all, next time I'll call

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<v Speaker 8>you an ask if I can have one, and if

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<v Speaker 8>you say oh, I'll just bleed all over your couch.

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<v Speaker 5>That's fine. No, your generation, you know, they're so spoiled.

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<v Speaker 5>They're twenty dollars an hour the afferent only fans. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>there's a bit.

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<v Speaker 7>We didn't agreed upon.

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<v Speaker 5>Four hours an hour in my day. What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>You're sitting on your booty button and you're and you're

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<v Speaker 5>on your phone talking to your little buddies and eating.

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<v Speaker 8>My pay our alley. I am entitled to the eighty

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<v Speaker 8>dollars that I earned by watching your children.

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<v Speaker 7>I will never watch them again if that makes you happy,

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<v Speaker 7>but that would be agreed upon.

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<v Speaker 5>Rad Oh my god, you know, Missy, you won't have

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<v Speaker 5>a contract. What are you gonna do ron take me

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<v Speaker 5>to all claims quarter or something that takes forever. And

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<v Speaker 5>you're not going to get a dawn for me? Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think you.

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<v Speaker 8>Can find a babysitter, to be honest with you, because

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<v Speaker 8>I'm going to tell every babysitter in the area of

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<v Speaker 8>every kid in your kids class that I know not

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<v Speaker 8>to work for you.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 2>Alice, Alice, are you there?

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<v Speaker 9>Who are you?

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<v Speaker 2>We're a radio show. God, your your babysitter. Missy reached

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<v Speaker 2>out for help with this thing.

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<v Speaker 8>Right right.

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<v Speaker 5>That generation does that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, A long time. Can't be that old.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a five and seven year old stuck like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>You know one, I don't have the answer to you.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know you. I was talking to Missy.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought Missy was doing a great job.

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<v Speaker 4>You'll handle yourself so advocating for herself.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, thank you, Alice. This is called an awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 2>phone call. And we're on missy side on this because

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<v Speaker 2>she told us about the situation that you're in. You.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you're trying to throw Missy in jail

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<v Speaker 2>just because she ate some food.

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<v Speaker 5>I never said she could eat the food, Okay, I never.

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<v Speaker 2>We heard the phone call. We heard you talking to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you said specifically, you ate the ice cream. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to pay you the money.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and the other half of the sandwich.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, So she ate my food. She didn't get

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<v Speaker 5>eighty dollars. You want me to give her to eighty

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<v Speaker 5>dollars so I could get rid of all of you.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, we will do that, Alice.

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<v Speaker 3>Alice is the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't afford.

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<v Speaker 5>It, Lady, looking at me, Lady, I'm talking to you.

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<v Speaker 5>I make more than you.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't need this. I make more than you.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh yeah, you want to prove it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Alice did know about OnlyFans, so maybe there is

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of it. So I was impressed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you want to use this time to promote

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<v Speaker 1>your channel?

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<v Speaker 2>Alice?

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<v Speaker 5>Don't you slander me. I'm not on that felthy site.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, somebody in your house is to.

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<v Speaker 3>Know the race.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not trying to slander you, were just asking that

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<v Speaker 2>you do the humane thing and pay your babysitter the

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<v Speaker 2>money that you said you would pay.

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<v Speaker 9>Shut up, I would pay her, Okay, okay, we will

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<v Speaker 9>pay her, just to get rid of you and to

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<v Speaker 9>get rid of that woman you're talking to there, and

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<v Speaker 9>you get rid of the other guy you're talking to there,

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<v Speaker 9>and get you the hell off the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>You are very very reasonable, Alice, and I appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 3>Missy.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to say thank you now to Alice

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<v Speaker 2>for agreeing to pay you the money? She's been so

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<v Speaker 2>nice about it.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, you are being extremely gracious. Thank you so much, Alice.

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<v Speaker 8>I really appreciate you paying me what you Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>We never have sarcasm on this show.

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<v Speaker 5>There, but you're going to get your eighty dollars and

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<v Speaker 5>don't worry about me. I'll get all the babysitters you.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, Oh, I'm not worried about you, Alice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I sound like a delight, Jeffine. I feel the

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<v Speaker 2>good vibes, happy, and I know this isn't a second

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<v Speaker 2>date update, but I would like to offer to send

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<v Speaker 2>the two of you out to grab some ice cream together.

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<v Speaker 8>I may eat all of it and she may get upset.

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<v Speaker 2>Screw you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm done.

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<v Speaker 3>I am done.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm done. I will talk to you. Never count your tampons.

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<v Speaker 7>We didn't bring that up.

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<v Speaker 3>That was weird, weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey in the morning so much.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't even get to really discuss in that call

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<v Speaker 2>because the woman hung up on us so quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>The dampon thing was wild.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Yeah, a lot of gangs.

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<v Speaker 6>Out of nowhere accusation that wasn't even true.

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<v Speaker 1>How could this woman sometimes be Okay, she's on the board,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes she's crazy, not like she.

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<v Speaker 6>Just always is always annoyed by the younger generation always.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I honestly, I don't even blame her for

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get away because every single sentence that she

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<v Speaker 2>said was just self and crim so I would have

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to get off the phone with us too. But

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<v Speaker 2>after the call was over, we did get an update

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<v Speaker 2>from Missy. She received the eighty dollars Venmo payment, did

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<v Speaker 2>a certain emoji attached to it? Our producer said, it

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<v Speaker 2>was just one finger. Okay, I guess I'm the phone

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<v Speaker 2>number one.

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<v Speaker 3>You're the best babysit.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you it's the thumbs up because she got

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<v Speaker 2>the money and everything's a okay, that's it, and you

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<v Speaker 2>do two of those at the peace side. Hey, look

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<v Speaker 2>at that. Look if you enjoy these calls, we just

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