Speaker 1: Yea, yet get no boys. It's back and reoded all
Speaker 1: in your mind. Yeah, and a deep throating. This is
Speaker 1: for the streets, the reel, the railroading, the distant franchise,
Speaker 1: the truth, the scapegoating. And they ain't know wing. We
Speaker 1: speak the truth, so they ain't quoted because we wrote it.
Speaker 1: The North South East coat is the gv my keeping
Speaker 1: your head bobbing. It ain't no stopping. It wants to
Speaker 1: be trips head by and then the system is so
Speaker 1: corrupt they throw the rock out of their heads and
Speaker 1: then blame it on us. Don't get it twisted on
Speaker 1: code and me and dancing for no buttlement biscuits. It's
Speaker 1: Willie d you'll scar face in the building. Collectively, we
Speaker 1: are to get old boys reloaded with in the old
Speaker 1: episode of information and instructions to help you navigate through
Speaker 1: this wild, crazy, beautiful world. In the studio, welcome and
Speaker 1: all of her splinter and everybody, you know, everybody starts
Speaker 1: you're something else, man like, like how do you do it?
Speaker 1: Like you've got so many things going on. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're talking about fashion, beauty, fitness, film, music, How do
Speaker 1: you do it? I just try to do what I'm
Speaker 1: feeling right now. I'm on my fitness journey. I've been
Speaker 1: on my finished journey for years, but now I'm actually
Speaker 1: disciplined and trying to focus getting better at that um entrepreneurship.
Speaker 1: I have a cosmetic lines, but you know, focusing on
Speaker 1: stand up comedy. I've been doing it for about three years. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would absolutely like to come out and see that,
Speaker 1: because I never seen you do stand up. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: would enjoy it. I've never seen your routine. Like are
Speaker 1: you seeing you on wild and I and stuff? And
Speaker 1: I see you wild and out on it on the internet?
Speaker 1: You know really? Well I do on internet anymore. I'm good. Now.
Speaker 1: You talk a lot with some old videos, videos on
Speaker 1: well what videos I am I not talking about I mean,
Speaker 1: but talk about the ship. I just say my opinions
Speaker 1: on things. I talk about myself. I don't talk about
Speaker 1: other people. That's my comedy. Have some very strong opinions.
Speaker 1: I do, like what give me an example for example,
Speaker 1: like when when you a while back you had mentioned that, uh,
Speaker 1: you know, on the Nick Cannon Morning Show that you
Speaker 1: don't date nine man. You got a lot of flap.
Speaker 1: I did, I did. Do you still feel the same word? Absolutely? Well,
Speaker 1: I say, this is my stand up and I explain
Speaker 1: because most of the people that support me, actually you
Speaker 1: know they they're hard working citizens. They had yes and um,
Speaker 1: I do this. At the end of my stand up set,
Speaker 1: I say, clap if you have a nine five right,
Speaker 1: because I had a nine of five less than two years.
Speaker 1: About two years ago, I was waiting tables, I was working. Clap.
Speaker 1: If you have a whole room claps, Clap if you
Speaker 1: would love to be at that job for the next
Speaker 1: thirty to fifty years. No one claps. That's my point.
Speaker 1: I can't date a man that's not following his dreams,
Speaker 1: following his heart. Um, it's happy that you're sitting at
Speaker 1: a desk. You're mad at me because I'm out on tour,
Speaker 1: living my life and you still cannot following your purpose.
Speaker 1: Most people that have aren't. I'm not saying that is bad,
Speaker 1: but if you are not driven, you're not following your heart,
Speaker 1: you're not living your dreams. You've got a million dollar
Speaker 1: ideas in your mind and you're too scared to do it.
Speaker 1: I can't date no man like that. Fellas I'm coming up.
Speaker 1: I got you, I got your covered, and I'm not
Speaker 1: saying everybody needs to be an entrepre I'm not saying
Speaker 1: everybody needs to be an entrepreneur, but what I am
Speaker 1: saying is a lot of men that I have dated
Speaker 1: that are in that workspace. It's not even what they
Speaker 1: want to do. I want to date a man that
Speaker 1: is living in his purpose and doing what he wants
Speaker 1: to do and can live my lifestyle. I travel a lot,
Speaker 1: I do this, I do that. I'm always gonna I
Speaker 1: need you with me. But see, I think for you,
Speaker 1: I guess that's the operative word you because you're on
Speaker 1: a different level now like when and you you have
Speaker 1: to have a man that can match your energy, your
Speaker 1: drive you have. You have to have a man that
Speaker 1: really that's on that type of your financial level, you know,
Speaker 1: because you're on a total different level. But I think
Speaker 1: it's important that the message don't get mixed up for
Speaker 1: the young ladies out there who are on their on
Speaker 1: their way up, who aren't on the level of a
Speaker 1: be simone who may see that guy that that may
Speaker 1: have an action that this guy that's that has a
Speaker 1: nine to five, This guy has a lot of potential.
Speaker 1: Because all most millionaires wasn't born millionaires. Most of these
Speaker 1: guys were broke, dead ass broke, and if a woman
Speaker 1: hadn't been able to see many of these when many
Speaker 1: women that came into their lives, girls, they came into
Speaker 1: their lives before they got money. They didn't see the vision.
Speaker 1: They couldn't see it, so they missed out. But somewhere
Speaker 1: along the line, either a woman did see it or
Speaker 1: they they got with these women later. You know, they
Speaker 1: don't want to be a subway forever. Sometimes like a
Speaker 1: lot of well not sometimes, but a lot of times.
Speaker 1: You know, guys when they get money. The reason why
Speaker 1: a lot of guys when they do get money, they
Speaker 1: do feel like they have their pick up the letter
Speaker 1: and they do they advantage of it is because women
Speaker 1: oftentimes will not ride with them when they're on their
Speaker 1: way up, when they're struggling that there are women think
Speaker 1: the potential I'm gonna At what point does weeks ago?
Speaker 1: At what point does a woman At what point does
Speaker 1: a woman say, okay, we out of training. Uh, you
Speaker 1: gotta have your ship together if you want to with me,
Speaker 1: like you know, when you're young, you know, I think
Speaker 1: you can take chances. But at some point, in defensive
Speaker 1: a woman and in defensive women at some point, a
Speaker 1: man gotta have a ship together like I can't, or
Speaker 1: have a desire to do that. Nobody's perfect. There's never
Speaker 1: an end goal. I'm gonna constantly, always evolve. But if
Speaker 1: I see that you have a desire to be not
Speaker 1: just oh I want okay, you want that. I want
Speaker 1: to be a billionaire. But what am I doing to
Speaker 1: get there? You want internal piece? You want to stop
Speaker 1: being toxic? What are you doing to get there? Are
Speaker 1: you in therapy? Are you doing all the steps and
Speaker 1: things that are gonna make you a better man? If
Speaker 1: I are you applying that, I can funk with that,
Speaker 1: but most of it I want to do this. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're not doing anything to obtain those goals. If I
Speaker 1: see you trying to obtain those goals, we can rock.
Speaker 1: So if you see some it has to be more
Speaker 1: than talk for you. Everybody want a million dollars everybody?
Speaker 1: What are you doing that? You know everybody wants success,
Speaker 1: whatever your definition of success is, But what are you
Speaker 1: doing to obtain that? That shows in character and that
Speaker 1: shows in actions. If you're doing that, great, we both
Speaker 1: got shipped to work on. I'm not perfect, We're all human,
Speaker 1: but I'm doing the proper steps to fix my flaws.
Speaker 1: I think I like you, Yeah, me too, But the
Speaker 1: only thing, Yeah, you tell me what's in there? Did
Speaker 1: you be real quiet? Yeah? Because I'm thinking, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's it's like she's not married. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I may want to be something in life, but it's
Speaker 1: it's difficult for me to get there. And I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want her to hold that against me because the mothercker
Speaker 1: won't give me no action. You know, it's a difference
Speaker 1: between somebody getting some action and somebody what do you
Speaker 1: mean somebody giving you action? You take action that don't
Speaker 1: work like that. That's bullshit. I don't let me tell
Speaker 1: you something, man. This is this is. This is why
Speaker 1: it don't matter to me who the President of the
Speaker 1: United States is. I mean, it does in a way
Speaker 1: that I don't wanna deal with certain people or whatever.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, whether the president
Speaker 1: is a Republican or a Democrat, white, black, whatever, it
Speaker 1: don't matter. I'm gonna get mine and okay, and that's fine.
Speaker 1: Ain't waiting to give to Willie. But what I'm saying
Speaker 1: is this, okay, So all right, I want to be
Speaker 1: a rapper for example. For example, I want to be
Speaker 1: a rapper. Example, and I'm a badass rapper. Dude, I
Speaker 1: can be anybody rapping, right, if it was a rapper,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be good for examples, not alright not? I
Speaker 1: mean listen, So I want to be a rapper, right,
Speaker 1: I'm sucking you know, thirty eight years old. But I
Speaker 1: can't be anybody in the world rapping. I'm that fucking good.
Speaker 1: Everybody's saying this. But because I don't have the right
Speaker 1: amount of Internet followers or I don't have ship, Basically,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna make it because the powers that be
Speaker 1: are not gonna let me in because I'm not saying
Speaker 1: shit stupid enough to get me in. See what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So that's the action that I'm talking about. But I'm
Speaker 1: bad as fuck, you know what. I'm everything said. Everybody's
Speaker 1: saying to God, say, you need to be able to
Speaker 1: hear the voice of God. Now is God telling you
Speaker 1: let it go? Man? God didn't told me a whole
Speaker 1: lot of and you're still trucking in the studio. I
Speaker 1: don't think you let it go at thirty I say
Speaker 1: that pushing whatever it is that you want to do,
Speaker 1: you keep on pushing it, but have enough sense to
Speaker 1: know that you need to trying. But how long have
Speaker 1: I been? How long have I've been trying with you
Speaker 1: handing out flyers? Just here? I just got here, baby.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't he no action. I wouldn't have a man
Speaker 1: no action like what you're trying to But she, but
Speaker 1: she wo old. But her trial periods over broke. The
Speaker 1: men that early on have already had an opportunity to
Speaker 1: take those risks and take chances. When you get to
Speaker 1: be a certain age and you get on a certain level, man,
Speaker 1: he man ain't no more chancing and ship. It's happening
Speaker 1: to take chances. You take chances for example. Okay, give
Speaker 1: me example. Where's he going with you? Is it true
Speaker 1: that you're the preacher's daughter? Yeah, my dad's a pastor.
Speaker 1: Hey daddy, is that right? Did you get in a
Speaker 1: line of trouble when you was absolutely not scared? Real?
Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't do ship. I didn't like
Speaker 1: to get whoopmans. I didn't get in trouble. I got
Speaker 1: one whooping after that. I never did end again. What
Speaker 1: did your daddy say when he found out that you
Speaker 1: were When he found out and he was making six tapes.
Speaker 1: What do you say when your dad found out that
Speaker 1: you were doing? What did you find out you were rapping? First?
Speaker 1: So you gotta was it wild and out? Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: he everything. Yeah, just as the first time you heard me,
Speaker 1: because he was cussing in the house. To really do
Speaker 1: as I say, not as I do. That's the old school,
Speaker 1: probably on the internet. Cool cool old school. Yeah. Is
Speaker 1: he one of the preachers that like smoke weed and
Speaker 1: drink and talk in the parking lot of the church
Speaker 1: and slapt box? If he was like that, I would
Speaker 1: not tell people My dad was a preachers, a good guy.
Speaker 1: I know preachers who fight, like actually fight people in
Speaker 1: the congregation. Like what church do you got to all go?
Speaker 1: That's a preacher? Well, actually I got cousins, and I
Speaker 1: got all the preachers and everybody. Everybody all the church
Speaker 1: is next door to each other too. Ain't nobody to
Speaker 1: get no money? Like maybe be funny nobody to get
Speaker 1: no money? Why did you take on the family church?
Speaker 1: Why didn't you get it past? Now you become a preacher? Um? Okay,
Speaker 1: So I didn't see the truth. I didn't see the truth.
Speaker 1: I just could not us. Now here's a thing like
Speaker 1: violent if I if I I kind of lived my
Speaker 1: life like uh, put myself out there and I just
Speaker 1: kind of like, uh go, I kind of go. I'm
Speaker 1: like you in a way, like you know, you're always
Speaker 1: taking on different challenges and you never really know exactly
Speaker 1: what that next challenge is going to be, but you're
Speaker 1: already ready to embrace it. You're always ready to embrace it.
Speaker 1: So that's kind of like how I am. So I'm
Speaker 1: not ruling out that one day I might step up
Speaker 1: there on that podium and God said, but I wouldn't
Speaker 1: be one of those types of I wouldn't be now.
Speaker 1: I would just be straight up like yeah, so y'all
Speaker 1: think I'm playing something. I had to get real Like, look,
Speaker 1: I probably would have like eight members or something. Because
Speaker 1: people talk about they want to be real and they
Speaker 1: like realness, but they don't really want to. They want
Speaker 1: you to lie to they want you to make why not.
Speaker 1: I don't think why. I don't think it's it's not appropriate.
Speaker 1: I don't come on, dog, what about that might be
Speaker 1: kind of cool? You want about the coin don't make
Speaker 1: you authentic? It might just slip out sometimes. If it
Speaker 1: slipped the Lord forgive me for things that I cannot control.
Speaker 1: If it slips wory of God, like fuck, you can't
Speaker 1: say that you know it was, it was, It's been
Speaker 1: on my mind. Opened up at church absolutely not. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's a good business. And and and I
Speaker 1: was going to go into business as a preacher, you know,
Speaker 1: one that had not been ordained. That's not funny. It's
Speaker 1: not funny. And I'm not having he'd have a lot
Speaker 1: of company, you know. I haven't been our damn not
Speaker 1: ordained minister. But I can't go in there and talk
Speaker 1: Bible with the best stuff him and then put that,
Speaker 1: you know, your words put that, Yeah, I don't know that.
Speaker 1: When I'm not that good, that's the easiest. So what
Speaker 1: I'm what I'm saying, I'm just what I'm saying is this,
Speaker 1: I can I can read the word and understand what
Speaker 1: those thousand dip in art and all that ship me
Speaker 1: and just break it down and say, hey, yeah, do
Speaker 1: that ship get the easy version? What's the easy version?
Speaker 1: King James, I don't know. You don't need to open
Speaker 1: up no church. I don't know d d the preacher
Speaker 1: year So they say I love you daddy, Pass pass around,
Speaker 1: No it's in Columbus, Ohio, from Dallas, Texas. But I
Speaker 1: live in Atlanta, Dallas. Did you grow up in uh
Speaker 1: lets and grow let's and grow Why? Why are you
Speaker 1: frowning on Oakliff? It's not my hood in a greed grove,
Speaker 1: butin ain't Augustine from If you need none out of
Speaker 1: tend people from Dallas, they're gonna say I'm from Oakland. No,
Speaker 1: they're not. Because the sound Dallas Cliff. No Dallas out Well,
Speaker 1: I guess they're claiming oak Cliff then probably why why
Speaker 1: why why would somebody not from oak Cliffe claim oak Cliffe?
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know. That's because your brother hoods ain't
Speaker 1: really ain't really popping, got the people that really really
Speaker 1: driven Huh, who who are you talking about? I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: don't do that. It's like it's like if you if
Speaker 1: when you go to these different cities and stuff, it's
Speaker 1: like the parts of town, like the areas of the
Speaker 1: towns where it's often most like poverty stricken, bring out
Speaker 1: the best people. He's like to create the best politicians,
Speaker 1: the football players, the rappers trying to get out, you know,
Speaker 1: the lawyers, the doctors. It seemed like it's a high
Speaker 1: concentration coming from those poverties stricting areas well. I can't.
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not even gonna have the pitty story
Speaker 1: like I grew up in poverty. My granny still live
Speaker 1: in the middle of the hood. Don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: We heard gun shots and ship and like whatever. It
Speaker 1: ain't that my business. But I didn't feel like I
Speaker 1: grew up in poverty. Like I had a great trail
Speaker 1: to the golf course and the neighbor what's the name
Speaker 1: of that golf course. It's the golf course over there,
Speaker 1: the golf course in the hood. I can't remember the name.
Speaker 1: Nobody here playing golf. That's not true. A lot of
Speaker 1: people in the neighborhood playing golf where I was from. Remember,
Speaker 1: they're not getting you know, you're not gonna go and run.
Speaker 1: Who wasn't playing golf? They got another word for that too.
Speaker 1: I heard it about a year ago. They don't. Did
Speaker 1: you did that? Huh? She didn't do that. Her daddy
Speaker 1: was a preacher. That was just harmless fun. I wasn't
Speaker 1: like doing bad stuff like hiding your seeks. Yeah, did
Speaker 1: daddy allow you to say? Uh? I didn't really date
Speaker 1: till I graduated, I had like yeah, I didn't have
Speaker 1: like boyfriends. I had one boy. Dad talked too, but no,
Speaker 1: I don't think he was against it, but he wasn't
Speaker 1: like your dad had a deep as voice. Hello? Who? Who? Who? Did?
Speaker 1: Are you talking about my? Well? We want to know
Speaker 1: like it's important us. Fatherhood is the bestood A minister's fatherhood.
Speaker 1: And you got I met your one son? You got
Speaker 1: any more kids? I got a few. He's been leaving
Speaker 1: all my boys alone. What's the hell does the oldest?
Speaker 1: We only have one? I told you you really Willie alone?
Speaker 1: That's this perfect age. Why you know he won't? You
Speaker 1: haven't been through all the holes. We're not all of him,
Speaker 1: but most of them got a nice now not even most.
Speaker 1: Excuse me. Hello, let's let's talk about you. Let's let's
Speaker 1: talk about you. Yeah, we know Willie. Let's yeah, let's
Speaker 1: let's go ahead, baby Willy Willie. I'm telling you, man,
Speaker 1: man with the name Willie? Okay, what's your household? Know?
Speaker 1: The name Willie is why you're not mature? Your mature
Speaker 1: and is willing to ask your question? Is Willie? Old man? Name?
Speaker 1: My dad? And ain't Willie? My name was with name Willie,
Speaker 1: but it's but it's also an old lady name. Take
Speaker 1: this out this out. I was, I was at I
Speaker 1: was at the doctor. I was at the doctor's office,
Speaker 1: like maybe it's just before my son was born, right,
Speaker 1: And the receptionists you know, got on speaking said Willie,
Speaker 1: and I thinking it's me, and she's and then she
Speaker 1: said Willie Sutton and this old black ladies stood up
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm damn sure not naming my
Speaker 1: son Willie. That's that's what made me not name my
Speaker 1: son Willie. Yeah, I was like, yeah, two years old,
Speaker 1: the name Willie old. It wasn't old at the time.
Speaker 1: At the time, you know, at the time it was hip,
Speaker 1: you know. But here's the thing about he was two
Speaker 1: years old, Willie called Willie to So where did they
Speaker 1: called me in there when you're younger? Yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 1: big dub du that's what you thinking. Like my granny Shirley,
Speaker 1: Like he was two years old with the name Shirley. Man,
Speaker 1: that's an older person name, yo, I might have to
Speaker 1: go to that fucking shoulder, Like, bro, say, man, yeah,
Speaker 1: how did you get brad Man? Anyway? Bro, don't do
Speaker 1: my mom want to make sure you didn't know if
Speaker 1: I was black or why she wanted if all else
Speaker 1: I had a job will right, Yeah, with a name
Speaker 1: like Willie, we knew you was black in the like
Speaker 1: so alsa on applicated, like yeah, yeah, that is so funny.
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, though, if I had my options, I
Speaker 1: would want you to know because I'll be like, I
Speaker 1: don't give a I'm abuck the system, like I get it.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it no matter. I'm not gonna buck
Speaker 1: the system to the extent that I would want my
Speaker 1: name to be Willie d just d Oh. I thought
Speaker 1: this did for something. Your last name is just D
Speaker 1: Willie last name D. What Willie last name d? D?
Speaker 1: The liturgy? Yeah, yeah, ac, why are you playing here?
Speaker 1: I'm telling you all right? So yeah, yeah, don't do
Speaker 1: the last named Dennis? Yeah, Dennis the menace? Yeah? How long?
Speaker 1: How long was it that you stayed in Dallas? So
Speaker 1: my childhood, I moved to Columbus, Ohio. My dad was
Speaker 1: from there, and I came back to Dallas my senior year,
Speaker 1: and then I just moved to Atlanta when I was like,
Speaker 1: so I've been in Atlanta, like, oh six years. It's
Speaker 1: fun at what point. Do you get the comedy buzz
Speaker 1: um on social media? I think my first video went
Speaker 1: I didn't even want to do comedy. I wanted to
Speaker 1: do music and acting. I always knew I want to
Speaker 1: do entertainment, but social media I went viral two thousand
Speaker 1: and sixteen and then started making videos, and around then
Speaker 1: they were like, okay, you know, y'all, you can do
Speaker 1: a show here in to college. What clip was that nice? What?
Speaker 1: What clip contributed to the um? It was a boy
Speaker 1: video video about f boys. It's not, but um it was.
Speaker 1: I had my heart broke in and I just made
Speaker 1: a rant like, you know what, you'll f boys if
Speaker 1: you don't want to treat us women right, just stay
Speaker 1: away from us, blahlah blah blah. And it was just
Speaker 1: too relatable so it went all over the nothing. No
Speaker 1: he saw it. He follows me on Instagram. I'm an adult. Okay,
Speaker 1: you tweeted recently, what what I A doing? Go find
Speaker 1: yourself before you start FFing up other people's lives. L
Speaker 1: O L If you're not walking in your truth, don't
Speaker 1: bring your weird task over here. Male or female. Now
Speaker 1: that's an under rated statement by that and true as hell,
Speaker 1: very important, you know, I feel like people don't walk
Speaker 1: in who they truly truly are. Like you're in a
Speaker 1: monogamous relationship and you have no desire to be faithful,
Speaker 1: then don't be in a monogamous relationship, or you believe
Speaker 1: in polygamy, but you're dating a woman who wants to
Speaker 1: be married, Like, I just think you should just walk
Speaker 1: in your truth, whatever you truly desire, not what society
Speaker 1: wants for you, not what your mom and dad want
Speaker 1: for you, not what your cousin. What do you want
Speaker 1: for you? And you should walk in that as long
Speaker 1: as you're not being an evil person, like be who
Speaker 1: you want to be, don't you know? I think that's
Speaker 1: what messes people up, mess up relationship friendships. Like you're
Speaker 1: trying to make everybody around you happy, make yourself happy
Speaker 1: and walk in your truth, and people who are down
Speaker 1: with it can be in your life, and people who
Speaker 1: aren't can choose to move on. And what is walking
Speaker 1: in your truth looks like? Well, finding yourself. I'm still
Speaker 1: finding myself and I'm thirty one. I learned something new
Speaker 1: about myself all the time. But I'm on a journey
Speaker 1: with you know, self healing, growing, figuring, out who Braidley
Speaker 1: Greenfield is not just who be Simone is who is
Speaker 1: a partial character, you know, and being myself. If I
Speaker 1: feel something, I am that person. Who I am on
Speaker 1: the internet is pretty much who I am in real life.
Speaker 1: Like I'm very vulnerable and open, and I think just
Speaker 1: being honest with your flaws and the ship you need
Speaker 1: to work on. People know they're fucked up, but they
Speaker 1: have no desire to fix it. That's a problem. But
Speaker 1: don't you have to save something for yourself? And it's
Speaker 1: really like a personal give me Like what do you mean,
Speaker 1: Like for instance, like, um, on the internet, I can
Speaker 1: come off and oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: people say, well Willie d real Man, Yeah, but that's
Speaker 1: so much more to me, yeah yeah yeah. I don't
Speaker 1: think everything needs to be on the internet. I'm talking
Speaker 1: more about intimate relationships, whether it's a friend and whether
Speaker 1: it's a partner, Like I feel like that person should
Speaker 1: know you. They should know your demons so they don't
Speaker 1: have to dig them up five years from now, like
Speaker 1: you know, put it on the table. These are my problems.
Speaker 1: This is what I have to work on, and I'm
Speaker 1: not perfect. I love you, but this is who I am.
Speaker 1: I think too many people try to hide who they are,
Speaker 1: and it sucks up other people's lives, you know. You know,
Speaker 1: so toxic relationships are a thing. Yeah, like I know,
Speaker 1: it's it's it's that's always been toxic relationships, but I
Speaker 1: think today people have normalized. Yeah yeah, they pointing guns
Speaker 1: at their it's crazy and what you're doing and the
Speaker 1: next thing you know, they're kissing. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's crazy. Yeah, nobody does that. Well, you have to
Speaker 1: grow out of that. It's your environments, the people around you. Like,
Speaker 1: I've been in toxic not even relationships, situation ships before
Speaker 1: the men wouldn't Yeah, like, I'm not your girlfriend. I
Speaker 1: think I am in mind, but you ain't committed to me.
Speaker 1: You know, I've been there. I was young, I'm still young.
Speaker 1: But you know, you have to have people around you.
Speaker 1: You have to grow, you have to want better. Like
Speaker 1: it's a mindset shift. It's your circle to like people
Speaker 1: around you will keep you in that toxic environment. True story.
Speaker 1: And I think the reason why a lot of times
Speaker 1: people do that is because they don't know any better.
Speaker 1: They don't know any better. You don't know any better,
Speaker 1: or you think this is as good as it gets
Speaker 1: or do you think this is normal? Every relationship is
Speaker 1: like this normal? Absolutely not true exactly, you know, because
Speaker 1: I've been in those type of relationships in the past
Speaker 1: where you get into these arguments and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: and you you have you have these moments where you
Speaker 1: find yourself saying, damn, you know, I'm grateful that we
Speaker 1: didn't have an argument to that we got through the
Speaker 1: whole day, we didn't even we didn't even have an argument.
Speaker 1: And for me now it's like, man, if if if
Speaker 1: I got to go through something like that, like I'm
Speaker 1: not doing it like I want to say. People say
Speaker 1: all the time, you have to work on a relationship. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't want to work on a relationship. I'll invest
Speaker 1: in a relationship, but I'm not gonna work on a relationship.
Speaker 1: Already got a job, you know. Sometimes, like when you
Speaker 1: have a job, sometimes you don't feel like working. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: Sometimes as much as you love what you do, sometimes
Speaker 1: you just don't feel like getting up doing it. Well,
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship, you don't have an off button.
Speaker 1: That person I wants you to do what they want
Speaker 1: you to do and be how they want you to
Speaker 1: be at all times like you, at all times you're
Speaker 1: on call, and so you don't get a break. You
Speaker 1: don't get that break. So I don't want to work
Speaker 1: on a relationship set we get on should be a
Speaker 1: hundred hundred. Everybody can't. You can't, we can't give. We
Speaker 1: gotta of a hundred to make that ship work, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And and and it shouldn't be
Speaker 1: a fight. If she want to go to if she
Speaker 1: want to go to the grocery store, and will you
Speaker 1: got to get up and go to the grocery store too,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, it's not a fight. And
Speaker 1: it shouldn't be a fight. And and and you know,
Speaker 1: I looked. I saw that Willie where they where they
Speaker 1: get up there and they talk ship to each other.
Speaker 1: They she breaked the windows on his car. He slapped
Speaker 1: the ship out of her. You know that ship don't
Speaker 1: work for me? Man, Like that's not cool. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: think that people oftentimes get into these relationships and and
Speaker 1: it's like, well I'll do this if you do this,
Speaker 1: I do this, if you do that, you want me
Speaker 1: to do this, but you didn't do this for me.
Speaker 1: And and I just think that people that keep scoring
Speaker 1: relationships are part of a losing tradition, and so I
Speaker 1: would not. I'm just not relationship donna be that type
Speaker 1: to like, yeah we we we we either it either
Speaker 1: works or it doesn't work. Just like you know, I'm
Speaker 1: sure that you had. You got friends that you disagree with,
Speaker 1: your debate with from time to chip, but you don't
Speaker 1: damn arguing. You don't walk around on eggshells and they
Speaker 1: don't speak to each other for days and all that
Speaker 1: kind of stuff. That's weird. Have you ever been in
Speaker 1: a relationship like that before? When I was younger, I
Speaker 1: feel like I dealt with a lot of things that
Speaker 1: lacked self love and I let a lot of things slide. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I'm just not like that anymore. Like I compromise,
Speaker 1: and you know, like you shouldn't have to compromise. I
Speaker 1: compromise on a lot of things. Like a lot of
Speaker 1: men I they have children like you have baggage. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't have kids like now I have to, you know.
Speaker 1: Or a lot of men outdated you know, could make
Speaker 1: less money than me, which is not an issue at all,
Speaker 1: as long as you could keep up the lifestyle I
Speaker 1: want to keep up like cool, I can compromise on
Speaker 1: a lot of things. I just have to non negotiables.
Speaker 1: And when that happens, I have to walk away. That
Speaker 1: is self love to me. I have my boundaries. I
Speaker 1: set them in. When you break my boundaries, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: I have to walk I'm not married, I don't have
Speaker 1: a house with you. We don't have drink bank accounts,
Speaker 1: I don't have anything invested, you know, but time, of course.
Speaker 1: But I walk away when my non negotiables are happened.
Speaker 1: And what are those two non negotiables? Um, physical abuse
Speaker 1: in cheating? Those are my too. So okay, let's let's
Speaker 1: go to cheating. Okay. Do you think that men are
Speaker 1: inherently teeters? No? Yes, inheritedly do you think so? Why
Speaker 1: do you think man? Willie? Listen, No, I don't think that.
Speaker 1: Check this out. So every male species on this earth
Speaker 1: has a partner. It's called a pillar and a post. Right,
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm ready, like like you got a bull
Speaker 1: in the yard. Okay, I don't terminal. He's like when
Speaker 1: the grass is green, up, snakes a slippery clothes And
Speaker 1: my grandma used to say, if it's too much sugar
Speaker 1: in the pot, I'm like, what the are you talking
Speaker 1: about You gotta start a pot with a spoon, not
Speaker 1: like man, we're listening like I'll understand. I don't want
Speaker 1: to ask you. I don't understand. You got a bull
Speaker 1: in the yard. You got all these helpers around this bull,
Speaker 1: like a bull of one bull a cow one day
Speaker 1: and then two days later he'll be on the back
Speaker 1: of another cow, and then another car you just hit
Speaker 1: the day before, be watching him hit that one. Feelings? Okay?
Speaker 1: Are you a human being or man? Rotten animal or
Speaker 1: human being? What's the difference? I ain't walking around working
Speaker 1: like like like I like like an animal. Got gotta
Speaker 1: set a nuts, right. Okay, well here's nothing, vagina. Right
Speaker 1: back to the tweet. Listen, No, brandy, man, let's go
Speaker 1: back to the tweet. Walk in your truth. If you
Speaker 1: if we made an agreement to be in a monogamous relationship,
Speaker 1: you make an agreement to being in the money because
Speaker 1: relationship in the first place, that's my point. Just say it.
Speaker 1: If you don't, Yes, we're committed to each other. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying right now. No, I'm just saying like, like,
Speaker 1: the man makes that decision. The man makes the decision
Speaker 1: to get married. The man makes the decision to be monogamous.
Speaker 1: When I mean when he says, will you be my girlfriend?
Speaker 1: That's not how that ship go. It is how I
Speaker 1: want for me. You know, I've never asked. I don't
Speaker 1: even require that. You know. What I'm saying is that
Speaker 1: it's kind of just we just kind of that's how
Speaker 1: hearts get broken in that. But you're the right. I
Speaker 1: like your way of thinking. Letter. Are we together about
Speaker 1: your your wants? And if you need not believe you
Speaker 1: could be monogamous, then don't be with me. I'm so
Speaker 1: in a monogamous relationship. But yeah, that I guess, I
Speaker 1: guess it's possible. Yeah, that goes back to the tweet.
Speaker 1: Just walk in your truth. If you don't believe men
Speaker 1: deserve to have one woman, then don't be in a
Speaker 1: monogamous relationship. Find somebody that believes in that, and find
Speaker 1: somebody that believes in the same truth. Okay, I think
Speaker 1: relationships are so simple. Date people with the same moral
Speaker 1: same core value, same standards, and same beliefs. Men are
Speaker 1: dating women that want to be in monogamous marriages and
Speaker 1: you have no desire to get married, what then are
Speaker 1: you all together? That'll make sense to me. You believe
Speaker 1: in polygamy and she believes in monogamy. Why are y'all dating?
Speaker 1: Go find a bit I believe in polygamy. Like, if
Speaker 1: you have said out of your mouth, I am going
Speaker 1: to be in a committed relationship, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: step out on you. I know that. If you're not negotiable,
Speaker 1: then I require you to live in that. If you don't,
Speaker 1: if that's not your truth, then we don't have too
Speaker 1: Nobody says that, well, yes, absolutely, they say that. That's like,
Speaker 1: that's like junior high school. It's absolutely not the last
Speaker 1: relationship I was in. It asked, Yes, he had these conversations.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, So what do you say you're my girlfriend? Relationship? Yes,
Speaker 1: that was right there, But you have to ask him.
Speaker 1: Did you ask him what are we doing? No? I
Speaker 1: said whenever whatever, And until you asked me to be
Speaker 1: in a relationship with you, we're not together. Soon after
Speaker 1: you made that statement, did he ask to be? And
Speaker 1: that ship was? You knew that she was together year?
Speaker 1: Then he cheated and I was out. Uh, you never
Speaker 1: cheated on the man before. I've only had two boyfriends
Speaker 1: in your life, and they all cheated on me. Yes,
Speaker 1: what are you doing that's making the man runoff and cheat? Well,
Speaker 1: she's only had two boyfriends. I mean odds are you know? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I had two boyfriends. Okay, Well you may be missing
Speaker 1: the point. What is the point? Something you have to
Speaker 1: this point is that he don't believe that a man
Speaker 1: can be faithful, and he shouldn't say he's going to
Speaker 1: be I don't say that. Ship you don't. You don't see.
Speaker 1: But I disagree with you, Brad. And here's why I
Speaker 1: have experience and being faithful. I don't think outside my
Speaker 1: house as long as I was, but it was only
Speaker 1: it was twice. How long were the relationships? Like a year?
Speaker 1: I was faith for the whole time. That was Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I think that's a long that's I think.
Speaker 1: I think that's a good run for a man. That
Speaker 1: is not good. No, it wasn't. It wasn't that I
Speaker 1: called a cheating or anything. It's it's like both of
Speaker 1: these women were like, uh, this is when I was broke.
Speaker 1: They was like, you ain't making no money, you ain't
Speaker 1: got no money? Yeah, straight up. Look when this this
Speaker 1: girl that I was dating, uh, this is like maybe
Speaker 1: like one year before we broke out, this woman came
Speaker 1: to me, man, and and and said, you know, I
Speaker 1: want to talk to you. So she said, look, I
Speaker 1: think we need to start seeing other people because you
Speaker 1: ain't never got no money. Every time we go somewhere,
Speaker 1: I have to pay. I said, you ain't bother number
Speaker 1: some goddamn Popeye's chicken and some damn McDonald's. What do
Speaker 1: you mean like every time? Yeah, but I got the
Speaker 1: pen and then I have to drive all the way
Speaker 1: on this side of town and use my own gas money.
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, see you. And she was
Speaker 1: that's it. You ain't got nothing nothing south saying now
Speaker 1: because you've already made up your mind that you can
Speaker 1: do without men. And I say, once you crossed that line,
Speaker 1: I'm good and and look, and I was actually in
Speaker 1: love with this girl. So so after that she went
Speaker 1: her way. I went my way. And like one year later, man,
Speaker 1: one year later, we were actually we played we played
Speaker 1: Gucci's nightclub, right, Remember when we played Gucci's and it
Speaker 1: was wall it was wall to wall, I mean people everywhere.
Speaker 1: And at first concert in Houston, right, it was it
Speaker 1: was it was no no, this is in the fifties.
Speaker 1: I wasn't around it just keep waking up. You're gonna
Speaker 1: eat those words, keep waking up. Yeah, So we had guccies.
Speaker 1: It's jamping girls all up in front of grabbing for
Speaker 1: my leg and all this is stuff, and yeah, we
Speaker 1: performed on stage. Is killing it right and kicking in
Speaker 1: the head. And then and then I look out into
Speaker 1: the audience and the bar is like maybe a third
Speaker 1: of the way into the club, so I can see
Speaker 1: her at the bar, the girl that left you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can see that at the bar, and she's standing
Speaker 1: next to this Puerto Rican dude. They stand out because
Speaker 1: you know, this chick was really light skinned and he
Speaker 1: was he was a Puerto Rican due, so they stand
Speaker 1: they kind of stood out, you know, in the audience.
Speaker 1: And I could see this look on her face. She
Speaker 1: had this sad look on her face. And I had
Speaker 1: heard the dude was putting hands on so she left
Speaker 1: me to go with him because this dude was you know,
Speaker 1: buying her the purses and and the shoes and all
Speaker 1: this stuff. So you know, end up, you know, her
Speaker 1: life with that dude. The dude end up getting killed.
Speaker 1: And you know, she had the baby by herself, and
Speaker 1: she went from that dude to another dude, and she
Speaker 1: finally caught a snap because she actually was raised in
Speaker 1: a good household. Her mom and dad were really good people.
Speaker 1: But she wanted to run. She wanted to get out
Speaker 1: there and and and get the purses. And she was
Speaker 1: a tennis tennis shoe chaser, tennis shoot that yeah, chicken
Speaker 1: that chase athletes and rap the boys, you know, like
Speaker 1: we were so yeah, so that's what happened with that,
Speaker 1: and and you know, but but but but it was
Speaker 1: but it was a good it was a good learning
Speaker 1: experience for me. And so I know what I'm capable
Speaker 1: of doing. And I think and even now, like I
Speaker 1: know that I can be faithful today even more because
Speaker 1: I don't have time for the bullshit. Yeah, like I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to go to the other side of town,
Speaker 1: you know, to to movies and catching and walking into
Speaker 1: walking to the rest and trying to make sure you
Speaker 1: don't a body recognize me and all questions. So it's cheating,
Speaker 1: Like it's cheating going out with somebody else that cheating
Speaker 1: or is it just the act with somebody else? Like yeah,
Speaker 1: I think like being seen with somebody else's cheat. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think, I think, I think cheating is defined by intention.
Speaker 1: That's bullshit, man. And then and then it's it's because
Speaker 1: different people have different levels of Some people say, you know,
Speaker 1: some people will go and like like pictures and stuff
Speaker 1: on on Instagram, and some people think that's a problem.
Speaker 1: It may not be cheating to some people. But it's
Speaker 1: like it's like, what's making you click? Like, you know
Speaker 1: what's making you click. You didn't click on the picture
Speaker 1: where she had where she was that would with a
Speaker 1: with a friends she was that exactly. Yeah, you didn't
Speaker 1: click on that picture. But now she she busting it
Speaker 1: wide open and she's working, and now you're clicking on it.
Speaker 1: So it's like it's a matter of intentions. What's inappropriate. Well,
Speaker 1: what's inappropriate one person may not be inappropriate to the
Speaker 1: to the other. You have open conversations with your spouse,
Speaker 1: go ahead, keep on keeping. Maybe you're true. You're killing
Speaker 1: it on on the comedy scene, like when are we
Speaker 1: gonna get some more music? I don't know if I'm
Speaker 1: ever in music. I'm not either, but but you you
Speaker 1: you are extremely Nope, my girl, man, I'm not my
Speaker 1: girl be smone the microphone. I'm not laughing at that.
Speaker 1: I need to get back in the studio with y'all.
Speaker 1: Ask are we getting it? Is the only way I
Speaker 1: come out of the time. Man, if I can do something,
Speaker 1: you think we that old? I don't know. You were
Speaker 1: talking about bulls and I was like, lall, oh, man,
Speaker 1: how in the hell a person hang out with you
Speaker 1: on the phone? Are you do? You do? You? Do
Speaker 1: you find any type of moment? While I had a
Speaker 1: like a memorial, Yes, I have serious moments. If you went,
Speaker 1: if you ever laughed at the funeral, I don't. I've
Speaker 1: only been to a funeral when I was younger. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry you never you don't go to funeral, la, I
Speaker 1: haven't never had to go to one. You haven't had
Speaker 1: anybody close to you? To god, No, that's that's good man.
Speaker 1: That's since I was younger. I was that's good. That's
Speaker 1: a good run to not have anybody close to you.
Speaker 1: So all of your grandparents are still My dad's father
Speaker 1: actually passed away, but we were close. But I was
Speaker 1: on tour, I was I was out the country or
Speaker 1: out I couldn't make it. It It was last minute funeral,
Speaker 1: but that was yeah, yeah, but no, I haven't had
Speaker 1: to go in for funeral scoy be to God. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I had serious moments. I'm not always goofy. I'm
Speaker 1: really actually serious a lot of the time. Well I'm sure. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sure because I know a lot of comedians, because
Speaker 1: I noticed that it's not always, you know, funny and
Speaker 1: I'm really true. It used to be like when you
Speaker 1: when you do get serious, how do you let people
Speaker 1: around you know that, Hey, I ain't working around right now,
Speaker 1: I'm serious. Like do you have to do as a
Speaker 1: comedian you have to take an extra step to convey
Speaker 1: your serious I mean I just I get quiet. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll just be I'm really chill. I'm not like wild
Speaker 1: all the time I used to be. And when was
Speaker 1: this a couple of years ago? Just getting a robe
Speaker 1: and watching Netflix? You know, no, I never did that.
Speaker 1: I did not do that. Let's get into your business business.
Speaker 1: We got a new personal stuff. Let's get into a
Speaker 1: business species. How do you juggle so many different enterprises? Um?
Speaker 1: I think you know having a team. I have a
Speaker 1: great team. I have a lot of people that help me.
Speaker 1: You can't do everything on your own. I'll try to
Speaker 1: do that at the beginning. You want to do the graphic,
Speaker 1: you want to do that. You want to save money,
Speaker 1: you don't want to pay people to do other stuff,
Speaker 1: and you run yourself ragged. Like delegating work helps a lot,
Speaker 1: finding a team you trust, and um, yeah, I have
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff I want to do, Like I
Speaker 1: have a cosmetic line. Beam beauty. Some my lips right now,
Speaker 1: be someone beauty. It's a cosmetic line. So I see cosmetic.
Speaker 1: Let us see what it looks. Yeah, I gotta get
Speaker 1: you all my blog. You know what vogging is? What
Speaker 1: is it? It's a millennial thing. Hang, be sm beauty,
Speaker 1: get it for your girl. You old lady. I'm just playing.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'll give you all some but yeah, cosmetics
Speaker 1: make up? Hey that old? Yeah, but you know what
Speaker 1: for real, all jokes aside, all levity aside. Y'all look
Speaker 1: really good. Y'all look healthy. That is important when you are.
Speaker 1: Y'all gotta keep that ship up. Your skin look good,
Speaker 1: nice smile. You've got glasses. But I'm sure that's all
Speaker 1: that's wrong? Are we doing? The diamond is helping to
Speaker 1: let's keeping you young, gen good, good, edge up. You
Speaker 1: got a hairline? B So yeah, beat someone beauty, beat
Speaker 1: someone fits. And I'm on YouTube, so I'm vogging showing
Speaker 1: my life. I would love to do a documentary one day.
Speaker 1: That would be easy, because that would be easy. You know,
Speaker 1: earlier it came to be, you said you're gonna be
Speaker 1: a millionaire, and what is it? Two years or two months?
Speaker 1: I wanted to be a millionaire? Was the manifest question?
Speaker 1: Explain that. I just think, you know, I grew up Christian.
Speaker 1: We talked about my dad being a pastor. I'm very spiritual.
Speaker 1: I'm not too stern on religion, but I do believe
Speaker 1: in power of the tongue that's in the word, and
Speaker 1: that's all manifestation is to me, having faith and speaking
Speaker 1: the things you wanted to existence and working towards that.
Speaker 1: You know, faith, what that works is dead, so you
Speaker 1: do have to work towards your goals. And that's what
Speaker 1: I did on my million dollar journey. I had I
Speaker 1: think it was like fifty days. I was like close
Speaker 1: to me and I was like, I'm not a millionaire yet.
Speaker 1: So I did hella ship to not raise the money
Speaker 1: I worked toward. I did stuff on Instagram. I sold
Speaker 1: my car. I think they gave me like nine hundred
Speaker 1: dollars for that little Toyota. It was a Toyota like
Speaker 1: the last car, and uh what, I sold my car
Speaker 1: a million dollar journey, So I had fifty days to
Speaker 1: get like three hundred thousand dollars and then that made
Speaker 1: me a mill in there. What what you on some
Speaker 1: type of show or something. No, I did it. I
Speaker 1: showed my journey on YouTube for my fans and stuff
Speaker 1: because I wanted to be a millionaire. Way yeah, but
Speaker 1: I had thirty days to my thirtieth birthday and I
Speaker 1: want to pay a millionaire about my thirties birthday, right,
Speaker 1: So I just did you know? I was just winning
Speaker 1: the overdrive. But we made happen. It was really cool.
Speaker 1: It was really cool to watch it. It's on YouTube
Speaker 1: if you want to watch it. I did it last year.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I hit it on my birthday, a week
Speaker 1: before my birthday, seven days before I turned thirty. That's cool.
Speaker 1: Come out with a buck. Yeah, dream didn't seen it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I made that ship happen. Cool, It was cool. That's big. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you came to town for that first of all. It's like,
Speaker 1: that's hats off. Been doing it for a long time
Speaker 1: and it's my second one. I came, well, not last year.
Speaker 1: Because I COVID the one before that. Yeah, Trey is
Speaker 1: an amazing person. His heart is so great. I just
Speaker 1: had to show here in Houston a couple of months ago.
Speaker 1: He came out supported. He's just a great guy. He's
Speaker 1: he's gonna show up. He's gonna he's gonna show up
Speaker 1: and show up. Yeah, and so yeah, we we really
Speaker 1: do appreciate having him, uh, you know, and represent the
Speaker 1: city so well. Yeah, do you have your own charity? No.
Speaker 1: I actually it's crazy that you brought this up, because
Speaker 1: I was talking to my accountant and financial advisor about
Speaker 1: starting a nonprofit that is a long not a well
Speaker 1: not long term, but I would love to do that
Speaker 1: in the next year or two, start a nonprofit for
Speaker 1: young girls, because I believe, like the things I know now,
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff I wasn't raised this way, and
Speaker 1: I feel like if you instill that into young girls
Speaker 1: at an earlier age, they don't have to go through
Speaker 1: a lot of that I went through, like, you know,
Speaker 1: like just the self love aspect and your feelings, the
Speaker 1: word anxiety and depression. And I didn't even start having
Speaker 1: those conversations until I was an adult. And I feel
Speaker 1: like that's important for kids. You know, kids are out
Speaker 1: here getting bullied, they're committing suicide eight years old. How
Speaker 1: are you eight years old and you want to take
Speaker 1: your life? Yeah? You know so, and so I just
Speaker 1: think instealing what I've learned about self love and manifestation
Speaker 1: and being positive and changing your mindset as an adult,
Speaker 1: instealing that into children at a younger age. So I
Speaker 1: would love to do something like that. Absolutely. Yeah. Do
Speaker 1: you have a therapist? I do? I do. I actually
Speaker 1: went through I have more of a relationship coach. Now
Speaker 1: I'm on. She's not. She doesn't like being called a therapist.
Speaker 1: But I had a therapist. I went through three therapists
Speaker 1: and I fired all three of them. It didn't They
Speaker 1: didn't work for me as well. But now I'm in
Speaker 1: relationship coaching, like self healing stuff, trying to get you know,
Speaker 1: myself right. Why do you think they didn't work for you? Um?
Speaker 1: I think there's a million therapists out there, and you
Speaker 1: keep trying until you find the one that feels right
Speaker 1: in your spirit. You know, I think you it wasn't
Speaker 1: just about trying to find one that would agree with you. No, no,
Speaker 1: and that's not really like at therapy, don't even do that. Really,
Speaker 1: they just let you talk event to talk to dig
Speaker 1: up unhealed trauma, wounds, things you haven't dealt with that
Speaker 1: you just brush under the rug. So you don't want
Speaker 1: to do that. That's good. It's the worst thing you
Speaker 1: can do is tell somebody what you're thinking. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think therapy is so healthy. Is there like one of
Speaker 1: those traumatic experiences? Go home and tell everybody about that
Speaker 1: you will share with our audience. I'm like trying to think.
Speaker 1: I mean, I went through ship with my step mom.
Speaker 1: Me and my mom aren't that close. Like I've talked
Speaker 1: about this publicly. It's not a secret. But I don't
Speaker 1: have any like huge, huge like trauma. But I think
Speaker 1: little things like that happens to you when you're young
Speaker 1: and you just look over it. You don't even know
Speaker 1: what affects you as an adult. Like certain ways that
Speaker 1: you have are certain things that you do. You're like, damn, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm actually like this because of my dad. I'm actually
Speaker 1: like this because of you know. I think it's good
Speaker 1: to be self aware and acknowledge those things and figure
Speaker 1: out why you are the way you are in hell
Speaker 1: from things that you dealt with as a child. So
Speaker 1: what do we just didn't get along like she just
Speaker 1: wasn't you know she was just a mean stepmother. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I was a kid, she was an adult,
Speaker 1: you know, so we just we didn't see eye. Did
Speaker 1: she have other kids, Yeah, she had two children and
Speaker 1: they lived with y'all y and so she treated them special,
Speaker 1: treated them better than let me be your therapist. And
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy. Therapists don't even they don't even
Speaker 1: really talk. You do want to talk in you know that? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: have you ever been a therapy? No, I went. I
Speaker 1: went early, but let me back up, you could probably
Speaker 1: enjoy it. I didn't go to a therapist, but I
Speaker 1: did go to a psychologist when I was like first grade,
Speaker 1: first grade? I wouldn't you remember that fighting? And yeah,
Speaker 1: it was it was. They tried to put me on
Speaker 1: prozac and my mom was like, prozac back then, we'll
Speaker 1: come on whatever whatever the hell was it was, they
Speaker 1: should try to put me on that. Yeah, they tried to.
Speaker 1: They try to put me on an antidepressant and my
Speaker 1: mom was like, nah, you're not getting you're not you're
Speaker 1: not taking it. Yeah, And I'm glad. I'm glad she
Speaker 1: stood up for me. Yeah, because because I don't I
Speaker 1: believe that stuff, that that stuff should be a last
Speaker 1: reason of absolute Yeah. Yeah, I think I think therapy
Speaker 1: for the black community and mental health should be talking
Speaker 1: about more. I have only been talking about this for
Speaker 1: a couple of years. If that, there's no reason I
Speaker 1: shouldn't have known depression, anxiety, mental health. They're all these things.
Speaker 1: At a younger age, it is taboo. I don't need
Speaker 1: to talk to nobody. Okay, you know, cool, but you do. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think it's healthy for the black community, and I
Speaker 1: think it's important that we talk about it more and
Speaker 1: make it normal. Well, some people use that's that mental
Speaker 1: health as a crutch though, you know, like some people
Speaker 1: will will say, well you know that's because I diagnosed this. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know that you have it. No. Never, not that
Speaker 1: I can remember precisely, not that you can remember remember.
Speaker 1: Let me hear youse the win when Willie? So, I
Speaker 1: do I have permission? You're not friends at all each other?
Speaker 1: Do I have on to be candid? Go ahead? Candid? Okay? Never,
Speaker 1: that's the question again, exactly like I never used we
Speaker 1: don't know each other? I used I never used my
Speaker 1: mental health as a crutch, Willie, I think that I've
Speaker 1: been diagnosed for sure. What have you been diagnosed with?
Speaker 1: Mental health issue? Okay, so different? You know what I
Speaker 1: give you that you never use it as a crutch.
Speaker 1: You just fucking used it. Come on, Willie, that's not true. Thing, Willie. Well,
Speaker 1: here's the thing. I think people don't know what's wrong
Speaker 1: with them because they're not doing the work to figure
Speaker 1: it out. I know exactly what you do. Do you
Speaker 1: think people need to do the worst? Come get him? Man,
Speaker 1: you know what's wrong with you, but you don't know
Speaker 1: what's wrong with him. Yeah, you ain't seen nobody since six.
Speaker 1: You are eighty five. You need to see somebody. I'm
Speaker 1: not close close hopefully, but get that. But I do
Speaker 1: want to get that. No, I think it's healthy. Why
Speaker 1: do you think it is? It's healthy? Why do you
Speaker 1: think it is? Like when I when I let me
Speaker 1: just say this, when I was growing up, we I
Speaker 1: don't remember young people like in droves, like making comments
Speaker 1: about older people being old, like making jokes about it
Speaker 1: about people. And I said like like like now not
Speaker 1: like today, Like it's very pervasive today. Like it's like
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's out there it's everywhere. It's it's
Speaker 1: like people talk about uh today, like everybody's young this
Speaker 1: young this young this young this, and you know, I
Speaker 1: remember my son one day. Nobody's old that I remember
Speaker 1: my son. I remember my son being uh like uh
Speaker 1: when he was four fourteen and his sister was eighteen,
Speaker 1: and he was talking about one of his sister's friends
Speaker 1: and he said, yeah, I mean, dad, she's she's really old.
Speaker 1: I mean she's like twenty one. I was like, what
Speaker 1: the hell if she's old? I am a Methuselah, you know,
Speaker 1: like damn. But but a lot of the youngsters many
Speaker 1: they just be like just riding on. Older people even
Speaker 1: have to be old. You know, you could be like
Speaker 1: right now, right now, I can guarantee you probably have
Speaker 1: said that you were, Oh you're thirty years old. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you thirty one. I can guarantee you that's somebody that's
Speaker 1: forty one or sixty one that will swap places with
Speaker 1: herb and never complain. Yeah, y'all got to stop riding on?
Speaker 1: Where were you trying to get to? Old? Will you
Speaker 1: always say when we like like brand you the oldest,
Speaker 1: what you'd be saying about me behind your back in
Speaker 1: my face. He's the oldest one, like he's man, you
Speaker 1: like you you're getting old? Like you know you Damn Man,
Speaker 1: we was at the restaurant and you said, um, it's
Speaker 1: the same he's saying you you you're the oldest young person.
Speaker 1: I know? Are you always? Are you acting like you older?
Speaker 1: What did you say? Man? It's probably something like that,
Speaker 1: probably both because I have said that before too. It's
Speaker 1: like your oldest youngest person. I know. He said, like
Speaker 1: I know how to get older. I'm getting old. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that particular point I was saying, like Brad, I think
Speaker 1: I said something along the lines of you got that
Speaker 1: old old ship down, Pat, you know, like you know,
Speaker 1: like he got the old man. He's ready to be
Speaker 1: an old man because he got he got all the
Speaker 1: stands down, Pat. How old is old? How do you
Speaker 1: think you find Google? But do you think it was sixty?
Speaker 1: Probably sixty five And that's old. That's not old ship,
Speaker 1: that's old. Yeah. Well old is the mindset if you're healthy.
Speaker 1: The older people that be healthy and lit and stuff.
Speaker 1: You know, people be lit like healthy lit as in
Speaker 1: like lively happy. And I think I think that's true
Speaker 1: because a lot of times when people say I'm old,
Speaker 1: it's they're usually slump that ye yeah, yeah, yeah, something's
Speaker 1: aching or something like that. Yourself. I've never heard an
Speaker 1: active person say I'm old. Yeah, facts don't know how
Speaker 1: old they are. I've never heard an active person said, well,
Speaker 1: you know, i'm old. I'm old, lively and healthy and happy.
Speaker 1: It's a mindset, that's a body set. I'm old. You
Speaker 1: got When young girls come up to you and try
Speaker 1: to solicit advice from you, how how do you respond
Speaker 1: to that without like basically giving a million dollar consultation
Speaker 1: for free? Yeah no I don't. I just literally say
Speaker 1: to yourself. And it sounds so cliche, but the older
Speaker 1: you get, the more you realize the cliches are the truth.
Speaker 1: Be yourself, never give up, like all that stuff is real.
Speaker 1: To be yourself thing is what got me to this point.
Speaker 1: Be yourself, like, don't try to follow the crowd, don't
Speaker 1: try to do what everybody else is doing. Stay true
Speaker 1: to you and really, you know, dig deep and find
Speaker 1: who you are and walking that Like I'm so big
Speaker 1: on that. Yeah, just really really be yourself. That's what
Speaker 1: these young girls, neither trying to be all the stuff
Speaker 1: they see on the Internet and even me, Like I'm
Speaker 1: scrolling and I see certain things. I'm like, I don't
Speaker 1: even want that. Like, it's just, you know, you're seeing
Speaker 1: stuff every day and you gotta really stay true to
Speaker 1: who you are, not what everybody else is doing. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: How do you feel about the Instagram models? Like? And what?
Speaker 1: And what? I feel like? I'm I was a part
Speaker 1: of or still you know, I still model clothes, I
Speaker 1: get paid. You had to deal with Savage, Finti and
Speaker 1: fashion Ova. Technically I was an Instagram model. How do
Speaker 1: you feel about the models that where next to nothing? Um,
Speaker 1: I think that's their prerogative if they're you know, I
Speaker 1: don't really have an opinion on that. If you go
Speaker 1: through my page, just some pictures I have on next
Speaker 1: to nothing, Like, I think it's a time and a
Speaker 1: place and just do what you want to do. Do
Speaker 1: you think you have any responsibility to the young girls
Speaker 1: who look up to you? Um? I have a responsibility
Speaker 1: to be myself and as long as I'm not hurting
Speaker 1: anybody and doing anything wrong intent into my core, if
Speaker 1: my core is pure, I think I have a responsibility
Speaker 1: to tell the truth. But some people will argue that
Speaker 1: if a young girl sees you have naked that it
Speaker 1: does harm. It does hurt her because she she's taken
Speaker 1: on a certain perception of what a woman is supposed
Speaker 1: to be. Absolutely, but if that is who I am
Speaker 1: in that moment, I'm walking in my truth. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not covering up. I'm not wearing turtlenecks. Be simone
Speaker 1: walking in her truth does not always have one long sleeve.
Speaker 1: So that that's who I am in that moment. It
Speaker 1: doesn't make it right or wrong. It makes it truthful.
Speaker 1: M that's some good ship. You just said, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's good. Did you practice that? I didn't. I didn't
Speaker 1: know what you're gonna ask. I just I think even
Speaker 1: in my stand up, I talk a lot about my spirituality,
Speaker 1: and I talk a lot about how I'm living. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm not a nun. I'm not a prophet. I'm not Buddha.
Speaker 1: I'm not you know, I'm just here too. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maneuver through life the best way I can and beat
Speaker 1: myself along the way, and I'll constantly grow, I'll constantly evolved.
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's pictures that I post today at thirty one,
Speaker 1: and I might look back at seventy and be like,
Speaker 1: what was you doing? Young girl? But this is who
Speaker 1: I am right now, you know. So we're all on
Speaker 1: a journey to grow. I think everybody should find out
Speaker 1: who they are and you just have to be on
Speaker 1: a drone. Who am I? Who are you? I'm confused
Speaker 1: and listening to her, I'm kind of trying to start
Speaker 1: to get it, like, I'm I'm right now, I'm not
Speaker 1: walking in my truth. Bro. I'm over here, man, and
Speaker 1: my truth is there, and I need to get over
Speaker 1: I need to get back over in here in truth, bro,
Speaker 1: real man, Like I'm fucking confused, man, Like and then
Speaker 1: what else you was walking here? But when now she's here? Man,
Speaker 1: I'm catching it, like I'm starting to walk in my
Speaker 1: truth when I get up and I walk away from
Speaker 1: this fucking table and my head towards that door. Just
Speaker 1: no walking in my truth, Willie. I'm that's good man,
Speaker 1: That's life. I'd be confused, ship confused up until I
Speaker 1: got down and had a chance to sit down and
Speaker 1: listen to y'all talk. Bro. I'm walking into my fucking truth, Willie,
Speaker 1: And your truth can change. I'm not I was a
Speaker 1: year ago, like you're gonna evolve, You're gonna change. But
Speaker 1: people be like, well that's not what you said. Well, nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm not the same person I was last year. The
Speaker 1: same I'm not the same person I was fifteen minutes ago.
Speaker 1: Like I'm walking in my fucking truth. Bro. Have you
Speaker 1: had your COVID shot? No, I'm not getting that. Why
Speaker 1: not scared? Did me too? I almost died from COVID. No,
Speaker 1: mine wasn't that bad. To the hospital? Sorry was it?
Speaker 1: Did you get COVID during COVID announced? Did you catch it? Like?
Speaker 1: I got it before they knew what that ship was?
Speaker 1: Like Willie came to the hospital, man and the end
Speaker 1: on the space suit, But now they had they wasn't scared.
Speaker 1: He just walked. They just made him put on his
Speaker 1: space suit. Yeah, you couldn't play with him. It was
Speaker 1: like they had him like in this damn it's oversized
Speaker 1: incubator or something. It was like it was glass like
Speaker 1: all around and the doctors would walking by and they
Speaker 1: would look looking at them over like point like he
Speaker 1: was a project. Oh I'm glad you're okay. Yeah, me too.
Speaker 1: I just couldn't taste her smell. I wasn't sick. I
Speaker 1: was sick. I wanted to take before you got your
Speaker 1: tasting smells. I love food, Yeah, but I couldn't breathe
Speaker 1: for two weeks. I couldn't swallow for two weeks. I
Speaker 1: couldn't hold food down for two weeks. I'm glad you're okay.
Speaker 1: I lost my kidneys, did you Sorry? Yeah, I'm on
Speaker 1: dialysis four days a week. But is he telling the
Speaker 1: truth and my son is my donor are we going
Speaker 1: in and get that done? Yeah? You're not telling the truth, Chris.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you you Willie, don't lie for your friends.
Speaker 1: And I'm tello Chris. Yeah, Look, she's going to plugs
Speaker 1: right here. It's a beautiful story. Heave me and she's
Speaker 1: gonna love me as kidney. No, No, I don't want
Speaker 1: to have it. I don't want to have it. I
Speaker 1: don't want to have it. I don't want to have it.
Speaker 1: I want to I want to get it and I'm done.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get that ship to somebody else, or you
Speaker 1: can have it back, you know. And but I think
Speaker 1: since we're having this discussion, I think Chris reserves the
Speaker 1: right to not give you the kidney. Uh, if you
Speaker 1: don't want to give it to you based on how
Speaker 1: you treat him. So if I you know, I think
Speaker 1: that from Willie, you know really, you know you got
Speaker 1: the brand man get about hunting stacks or something, cup hundreds,
Speaker 1: you know, couple hundred. Turn this guy right here, he
Speaker 1: already got a couple of hundred stacks from me. Another
Speaker 1: couple of hundred for the kidney. We're kidney going for
Speaker 1: these days. Motherfucker's is expensive for you. They're gonna ask
Speaker 1: for five ship for kidney. Ain't trying to get me
Speaker 1: put This is why, this is why I'm proud to be.
Speaker 1: You need to let me tell you something. No, I
Speaker 1: don't think we'll match where a match, but let me
Speaker 1: tell you this. You never realize how much you need
Speaker 1: your kidneys until you don't have them, and they detoxified
Speaker 1: everything in your body. And if they're not working, then
Speaker 1: your your body is maintaining the toxins and fluids and
Speaker 1: ship that you can't uh survive with. It's cold blooded.
Speaker 1: But and the reason why I'm a strong advocate for
Speaker 1: people taking this COVID vaccine is because I don't want
Speaker 1: nobody to go through what I went through. And some
Speaker 1: people say it's mild. You know, some people say they've
Speaker 1: had mild symptoms of this, and other people died from
Speaker 1: died from it. So it goes from one extreme to
Speaker 1: the next. Yeah, you know what I mean, like like
Speaker 1: from zero to a hundred real things, and and to
Speaker 1: avoid to for someone to avoid getting that sick to
Speaker 1: me that could possibly die. Yeah, and I'm gone, So
Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna have to end up hitting it anyway.
Speaker 1: I would, and I would. I would definitely stay away
Speaker 1: from people and wear that mask, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like you said that don't wear it. You should wear
Speaker 1: that mask. Even if you are vaccinatey or have had that,
Speaker 1: you can still get it. You can still get that ship.
Speaker 1: But but it'll it will avoid you know, you're you're
Speaker 1: dying and having to be hospitalized or you know, losing
Speaker 1: an oregon like I made my heart failed up with fluid, Willie.
Speaker 1: I told you that, m Yeah, my heart feeled up
Speaker 1: with florida. Had to cut me open and drain drain
Speaker 1: the secondmart Bro. And I was been with that ship
Speaker 1: for maybe two years, you know, and my doctor said
Speaker 1: I was willing myself to live because it was a
Speaker 1: two to six month time period, you know, what the
Speaker 1: fluid on your heart? It's just it's just crazy. So
Speaker 1: that's the only reason why I was asking did you
Speaker 1: take that COVID vaccine? Because it's I would and I
Speaker 1: wouldn't be scared to take that ship. Did you get it? No,
Speaker 1: really didn't get it. No, not me. That's him with
Speaker 1: all these explanations and ship it. Yeah, I gonna let
Speaker 1: you know if they say you can't go overseas, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get it. Well I'm not. I wouldn't play with it.
Speaker 1: I mean like I mean, I don't know if you
Speaker 1: saw the story as a guy who who who? He tweeted.
Speaker 1: I think he tweeted a post on Instagram that he
Speaker 1: had problems but vaccination wasn't one and he died of COVID.
Speaker 1: He recently died of COVID. I don't think it's something
Speaker 1: that COVID is something to play with. But I'll tell
Speaker 1: you some funny ship though. Willie called me one night
Speaker 1: about one o'clock in the morning and he was asking
Speaker 1: me about the COVID and he was paring up because
Speaker 1: he thought he had the COVID. And I never heard
Speaker 1: panic and Willie's voice until that day. And I've been
Speaker 1: knowing Willie. I don't recall. Oh god damn Willie. Oh
Speaker 1: goddamn Willie. Don't. I don't recall, Willy, don't. Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't recall. What kind of I don't. I don't want
Speaker 1: no snaps. You like to eat from here? Absolutely? Okay?
Speaker 1: So what's the best place to eat? I bet it
Speaker 1: carry you though? Oh you eat fish shines popping the
Speaker 1: Sunshine video. Sunshines is vegan. Oh that's fire. They bring
Speaker 1: the snacks in here, don't bring no snacks. He's like,
Speaker 1: why can people get in contact with you? Not in
Speaker 1: contact with see you? Um My tour dates will be
Speaker 1: I'm going back on tour Martin you guys, they brought
Speaker 1: it back Martin Lawrence you. Yes, I was on tour
Speaker 1: with him before COVID, but probably did two dates and
Speaker 1: we had tons of dates. So going back on tour.
Speaker 1: Tours will be on my page. You can text me
Speaker 1: for a four six six. I do respond and yeah.
Speaker 1: Instagram ladies and gentlemen, thank you. This is fun. Thanks
Speaker 1: so much. Now bring the snacks in are hilarious, Willy?
Speaker 1: Can we have snacks now? Yeah? We can bring about
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