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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 3: Alicia is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 3: She's been married to her husband Edward for three years,

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Speaker 3: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 3: we'll see if we can help her out. Sorry about that, Alicia,

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Speaker 3: what's going on? Why do you think that your husband

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Speaker 3: Edward's cheating?

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Speaker 4: Hi, Well, I mean it's kind of a it's kind

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Speaker 4: of a bit of a story.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Well, we work for the same company, but we work

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Speaker 4: in at different departments, so we've never really had to

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Speaker 4: interact that much. I have a different boss in my

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Speaker 4: department and my husband, Edward is the boss in his department,

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Speaker 4: And you know, we're both very professional at work, and

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Speaker 4: we're very by the book. So when we come home,

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Speaker 4: we don't really talk very much about work, and it's

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Speaker 4: been good for us in the relationship, but sometimes it

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Speaker 4: can be a little boring.

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Speaker 2: But you know, we just don't.

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Speaker 4: Really talk about our days, I guess when we get

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Speaker 4: home until about until about a month ago, some things

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Speaker 4: have just gotten sort of rocky in the past month,

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Speaker 4: and my husband and I have been going to therapy

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Speaker 4: trying to work with a therapist and trying to talk things,

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Speaker 4: but it doesn't really feel like things are getting better.

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Speaker 4: It just feels like everything is sort of plateaued and

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Speaker 4: they've not gotten worse. And I just feel like Edward,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, he seems very detached. He feels he

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Speaker 4: seems like he's bored, like he just wants to not

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Speaker 4: come home or not really like talk to me. And

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Speaker 4: I feel like I've tried everything I could think of

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Speaker 4: to like spice things up and keep him interested.

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Speaker 5: Are you bored?

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Speaker 4: No, you know, I mean I've been leave been married

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Speaker 4: for a while, you know, well not a while, but

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Speaker 4: three years, so it's a long time to be married.

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Speaker 4: And you know, it's comfortable now, so I'm not really bored.

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Speaker 4: But I mean there are times when things have gotten

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Speaker 4: sort of complacent, but that I think that's just life.

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Speaker 5: Sure, do you think that he's actually cheating on you

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Speaker 5: or do you think that because he's bored that he might.

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Speaker 4: Well, here's the thing is we you know, we both

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Speaker 4: take separate cars to work, even though we're going to

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Speaker 4: the same place, but we both get home. He usually

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Speaker 4: gets home a little later, but now he's been getting

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Speaker 4: home like a few hours later, than he usually does.

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Speaker 4: And he's also been getting text from his secretary Lizzy

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Speaker 4: right before we go to bed at ten eleven, which

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Speaker 4: is pretty late for us. And I've asked him, like,

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Speaker 4: why does your secretary keep texting you?

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Speaker 2: What does she need to talk to you about.

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Speaker 3: Like eleven o'clock at night?

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Speaker 4: And he says, oh, it's just work, and he's right,

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Speaker 4: you know, I'll say, just stop talking, like, stop being

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Speaker 4: like that, like you're being creaky right now.

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Speaker 2: I don't like that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, it's very like he just has like

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Speaker 4: these prepared answers to kind of shoot me down whenever

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Speaker 4: I ask him anything about Lizzy to where I don't

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Speaker 4: feel comfortable talking about it. But I don't think that's

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Speaker 4: appropriate or that she probably needs to text him that late.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I think you think you're right. Does

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Speaker 2: Lizzie know you? Yeah, she knows me, Okay.

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Speaker 5: I mean, coworkers don't need to be texting that late

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Speaker 5: unless you're working on a special project and it's like

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Speaker 5: a one time thing, but that's like not an everyday thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I mean, could he be working on a special project.

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Speaker 4: I don't think so, But it's I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: I think work is just normal as it's always been.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I have anything special going on right now.

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Speaker 2: But it's also just like the way he responds in his.

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Speaker 4: Tone whenever I ask him about it. He gets very defensive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, not a good defensive and this is usually not

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Speaker 3: a good sign when it comes to that.

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Speaker 2: Well, we'll see if we can help you out.

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Speaker 3: You already told us grocery store, you guys are Rewards

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Speaker 3: card members at, So we'll call pretend to be from

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Speaker 3: the grocery store and say that every single month, we

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Speaker 3: choose one lucky Rewards member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 3: to anybody that they want, and we'll see if he sends.

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Speaker 2: Us to here to somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, play a song, come back and get your

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Speaker 3: to catch theater next right in the middle of you

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Speaker 3: to catch a teater if you're just joining us. Alicia

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Speaker 3: is on the phone and she thinks that her husband

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Speaker 3: of three years, Edward, might be cheating. So we're about

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Speaker 3: to call him and pretend to be from the grocery

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Speaker 3: store that he's a rewards member at, and tell him

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Speaker 3: that every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards member

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Speaker 3: who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department, and

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Speaker 3: we'll see if he sends those to his wife, Alicia

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Speaker 3: or to somebody else. But first, Alicia, why don't you

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Speaker 3: refresh our memory of your situation?

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Speaker 4: My husband and I have been having lately, has been

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Speaker 4: going to therapy and thanks of gotten worse that they

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Speaker 4: haven't really gotten better. And lately he hasn't been coming

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Speaker 4: home from work right away, and he's been getting text

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Speaker 4: from his secretary pretty late at night and won't tell

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Speaker 4: me what they're about, and gets pretty defensive when I

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Speaker 4: ask him. So, just wondering what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, see if we can find out for you.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, this is corrible calling from SO. I was

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Speaker 3: looking for a Rewards card member named Edward.

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Speaker 2: Yes speaking Hi Edward.

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Speaker 3: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 3: I'm actually calling to say congrats here this month's big winner.

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 4: Yeah I must be?

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Speaker 2: Uh must be my lucky day? Would I win the flowers?

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Speaker 3: Every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards Card member

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Speaker 3: at random to say thank you very much for being

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Speaker 3: a customer and shopping with us. You've won thirty six

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Speaker 3: long stin red roses, a box of candy or chocolate,

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Speaker 3: and a card to be delivered to anybody that you

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Speaker 3: want within the fifty United States the hundred and sixteen

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Speaker 3: dollars value.

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Speaker 1: Actually wow okay, yeah, no, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm in Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you who to make it up to?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 3: Let me get my form pulled up then, and okay,

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Speaker 3: first thing I'll need is the first and last name

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Speaker 3: of the person you want to send them to.

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Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, make it up to Lizzy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, I will do that.

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Speaker 3: And is there anything you would like to put on

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Speaker 3: a card before I get the address and stuff?

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Speaker 2: Sure? Yeah, put Alicia.

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Speaker 1: I listened to the show too, and Lizzy is my

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Speaker 1: free pass. Okay, whoa, what are you serious right now?

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Speaker 1: Putting me on the show? Putting me on black You

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Speaker 1: know I listened to the show. I know your voice, buddy.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for listening to the show. Yeah, thank

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Speaker 2: you for listening to the show. Obviously.

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Speaker 3: Then you know your wife is on the phone, Alicia

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Speaker 3: and suspects that you might be messing around, So you are, Ali?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm cheating on you with Lizzie. I'm

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Speaker 1: cheating on with you with Lizzia mean anything? All right, listen,

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Speaker 1: it's just musical. But guess what she is my past?

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Speaker 1: Because you cheated first, and you know this.

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Speaker 4: Did she tell you that? Did she tell you that

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Speaker 4: she's a cheater?

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Speaker 2: Did she tell you let him know?

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Speaker 1: Should you want to tell me Shou that Alicia had

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Speaker 1: sex with her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Two months ago.

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Speaker 1: Do you know how I found out? We drive separate?

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Speaker 1: So one day I came home, I found a condom

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Speaker 1: my bed.

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Speaker 2: All right, do you think we're use condoms?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So then I'm ashamed. I felt being being cuckled

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Speaker 2: by my my, your boss, her boss.

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Speaker 4: The way you deal with it is should cheat on

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Speaker 4: me with your secretary.

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Speaker 5: That's the way I deal with it.

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Speaker 4: Secretary. That's so cliche. Yeah, I told you that you

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Speaker 4: deal with it to get back at me.

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Speaker 1: Oh, give me a break, Like we haven't gone to therapy,

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Speaker 1: Like we haven't gone through this that you owe me.

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Speaker 1: You admitted that we talked about having a free past.

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Speaker 2: Guess what Lizzie is mine.

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Speaker 4: I tried to be a little bit doubled.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was kind of obvious, but for you to

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Speaker 1: get mad about it, let alone go on the radio

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Speaker 1: and call it out. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Alicia? You hypocrite, So you wried about it, and it

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Speaker 2: kind of doesn't make it better that you just didn't

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Speaker 2: see it. But Alicia, you don't know. I mean, it

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Speaker 3: You guys obviously have a lot to talk about or

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Speaker 3: to not talk about it anymore.

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Speaker 4: I don't think you should just try to make it

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Speaker 4: an eye for an eye and get back at me

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Speaker 4: sleeping with your secretary and then lying to me about it.

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Speaker 1: You were fine with an eye for an eye. You

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Speaker 1: said you'd owed me all right? Do I have a

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Speaker 1: free pass or not?

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Speaker 2: Well, that you should have just told her that you had,

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Speaker 2: that you were taking advantage of the past.

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Speaker 4: I mean, at that point, no, I'm sorry if I

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Speaker 4: made you feel humiliated or called you out.

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Speaker 2: That was not what I wanted to do.

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Speaker 4: I just felt like you weren't talking to me and

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Speaker 4: you couldn't tell me what was going on. If you

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Speaker 4: wanted a free pass, why didn't you have this conversation

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Speaker 4: with me?

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Speaker 2: Did you have a conversation with me before you cheated?

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Speaker 2: Do you think I wanted any of this. Okay, well, Alicia,

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Speaker 2: you know you got your answer.

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Speaker 4: I can talk about this off the year when we

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Speaker 4: go home. I mean, I love you, and I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to keep fighting with you.

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Speaker 2: Do you guys want to be together. I didn't enjoy

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Speaker 2: being with Lizzie.

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Speaker 1: It was a one time thing, and I'm i'm.

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Speaker 2: I'm, I'm calling it off. I don't want to do

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Speaker 2: it again.

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Speaker 1: I only did it because I felt like I had

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Speaker 1: to gain some kind of control all right.

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Speaker 2: Back in the relationship. But no, you're who I want

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Speaker 2: to be with and I hate it.

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Speaker 1: I hate everything about it.

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Speaker 4: I love you.

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Speaker 5: I love you too.

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Speaker 3: We didn't give up. Yeah, it's really good. It sounds

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Speaker 3: like you guys have something to talk about now in therapy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, okay, good luck. I hope you work it out.

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Speaker 2: I do me too. I'm glad you guys have love there.

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Speaker 4: Cool.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Locas, appreciate it. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I love you.

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Speaker 2: Edward The Jewel Shows to Catch a Cheater