Speaker 1: Second date of day, Brooke, have you ever been straight
Speaker 1: up rejected for a kiss before?
Speaker 2: Oh? I'm sure.
Speaker 1: I mean, besides what just happened in the breakroom two
Speaker 1: minutes ago when we reached for the same I'm talking
Speaker 1: about in a like a date or a shady dive
Speaker 1: bar scenario. Have you ever been shot down?
Speaker 2: I can't remember being shut down. I feel like men
Speaker 2: are always like, whether they like you or not, they're
Speaker 2: up for a makeout session.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's true. We have very low standing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's why one of our listeners, Brittany, is feeling
Speaker 1: very confused because, according to her email, her night out
Speaker 1: ended with her lipstick completely unsmeared by kissing. So let's
Speaker 1: talk to her. Brittany, welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hi, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: You're welcome.
Speaker 2: You know, I don't think it's a bad thing. I mean,
Speaker 2: my husband was pretty prude when we first met.
Speaker 1: And now he's i mean total free.
Speaker 4: Yeah we didn't we kiss right away, but we didn't
Speaker 4: do anything else for a long Yeah.
Speaker 1: Good for him. It's the way around for you. You
Speaker 1: do the good stuff right away and then you kiss
Speaker 1: a little bit down the road. Typically we'll get to
Speaker 1: the kiss eventually, but let's start at the very beginning.
Speaker 1: Who's the guy that you met?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 3: His name is Ryan.
Speaker 4: Ryan, okay, and I'm just guessing you met him on
Speaker 4: a nap Is that true?
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: The show?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What'd you like about him?
Speaker 3: Well, he wasn't holding a fish. That was a big
Speaker 3: green flag.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Also I noticed he volunteers with kids. That was one
Speaker 3: of his pictures and I do too, and so.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's great and you too, So you guys can
Speaker 1: bond over.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. What did you guys do for your date?
Speaker 3: So we ended up went to a bar? And so
Speaker 3: when we're at the bar, you know, we're trying to
Speaker 3: make conversations. And the cool thing about this bar is
Speaker 3: they've got a whole wall of board games that you
Speaker 3: can play.
Speaker 1: Because kids get to go to that bar, I think.
Speaker 2: It's because adults like to play board games as well.
Speaker 1: Oh really it was at bar last night.
Speaker 2: I connect four.
Speaker 1: These are adult places. So that's okay, that's interesting. So
Speaker 1: you played some board games with him?
Speaker 3: We did, and and my favorite is scrabble. That's probably controversial.
Speaker 4: People think it's I like it, you don't.
Speaker 1: I think it's a very romantic game to play with
Speaker 1: each other. Really, I mean, yeah, I guess it does
Speaker 1: depend on what you're spelling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 6: It's kind of funny you say that, because my idea
Speaker 6: was to kind of mix it up, and I came
Speaker 6: up with dirty scrabble.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I'm interested.
Speaker 2: What is dirty scrab What are the rules here or
Speaker 2: are there none?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 3: That's you're only allowed to say or spell kind of
Speaker 3: naughty words like nothing crazy but okay, like lick or slap.
Speaker 3: I think he played slap at once.
Speaker 1: Likees.
Speaker 3: Probably just daddy, Yeah, a lot of points.
Speaker 2: That sounds so fun.
Speaker 3: Honestly, it was so fun, like it totally set the mood.
Speaker 3: We were drinking, and we had great talks like it
Speaker 3: broke the ice. We talked about family life like it
Speaker 3: was I mean, laughed the whole time, Like it was
Speaker 3: honestly so fun.
Speaker 4: So, I mean, I get while you were confused you
Speaker 4: didn't get a kiss because like you're you're.
Speaker 2: Spelling naughty words, you are drinking.
Speaker 1: Can you tell us, like, can you bring us to
Speaker 1: that moment when you thought the kiss was gonna happen?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it.
Speaker 3: Was the end of our date, you know, when I
Speaker 3: was feeling very comfortable because we had obviously talked about
Speaker 3: all sorts of things and I'm a pretty confident person.
Speaker 3: And before I left, they said something along the lines
Speaker 3: of like, oh, are you really going to leave here
Speaker 3: without kissing me?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 4: Is that nice?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 2: I think it's really nice.
Speaker 1: Just opens the window. They do it, but the tone
Speaker 1: of it is like, oh, really, dummy, you're really going
Speaker 1: to leave here with not without making a move on me.
Speaker 2: Everything is an insult like you thing. So personally, she's
Speaker 2: just being flirty.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I mean it is
Speaker 1: just it is a little bit forward and some guys
Speaker 1: can be taken back by that. How did he react?
Speaker 3: Uh, he got kind of weird. He said, I'm not
Speaker 3: sure if that's a good idea.
Speaker 4: Oh, that's not a good response.
Speaker 2: I mean, like, if you weren't going.
Speaker 4: To do it now, you would say like, well maybe later,
Speaker 4: you know, like you tease back or something, right, you'd
Speaker 4: be playful back. But that's not a good idea, doesn't
Speaker 4: like what was going through your head?
Speaker 3: I mean I I kind of brushed it off, like
Speaker 3: I tried to maintain my confidence and I wasn't going
Speaker 3: to press him that's not good.
Speaker 1: Is everybody else in the room thinking what I'm thinking?
Speaker 1: That he had some kind of disease or like some
Speaker 1: cold sore going on. They be covered up with makeup,
Speaker 1: didn't sorry, I'm that was my head immediately. Well, why
Speaker 1: else would he turn her down if they had such
Speaker 1: a great time.
Speaker 2: Because it wasn't attracted to her? I mean, is that the.
Speaker 4: Exactly you can be super beautiful and not be attractive
Speaker 4: to someone.
Speaker 2: How did you take it? How did you take it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the most important.
Speaker 3: I'm usually pretty positive. So I thought, okay, maybe he's
Speaker 3: we thought I was too tipsy and he wanted to respectful,
Speaker 3: you know, and he gave me a hug.
Speaker 2: Remember, I like that angle better. That's much kinder than mine.
Speaker 2: I apologize.
Speaker 1: But then now he's not calling you back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I'm here because I'm like, I don't
Speaker 3: I'm just confused.
Speaker 1: Now. That's what real gentlemen do.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, go for years and ye so much respect.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just waiting for you to sober up.
Speaker 3: Yeah I'm sober now.
Speaker 1: Took a while to respond there, So that's good.
Speaker 2: She thought about it, you did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a clear mind and that's what we need
Speaker 1: when we come back and we call Ryan for you
Speaker 1: and try and get you your second date. Update.
Speaker 3: All right, okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: We just learned a new twist on the board games
Speaker 1: Scrabble thanks to our listener Brittany and her game Oh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm playing later at home.
Speaker 1: Because because it's called dirty scrabble, where you only put
Speaker 1: down suggestive and flirtatious words to really set the mood moist,
Speaker 1: Mama's mancakes.
Speaker 2: Oh kay is a good letter to play.
Speaker 6: Score.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but if you can get a zaddy in there,
Speaker 4: that z is going to get you.
Speaker 1: Triple word score. Yeah. That one, one thousand and forty
Speaker 1: two points for Jeffy.
Speaker 2: I don't think you ever scored scrabble in your life.
Speaker 1: Don't play with me, bro, got too many naughty words
Speaker 1: up in this melon Melons. There's another one another forty points.
Speaker 2: But you've used all yours.
Speaker 1: Even though dirty Scrabble went great that night, the first
Speaker 1: kiss did not know, In fact, it didn't even happen
Speaker 1: because her date Ryan said, I don't know if this
Speaker 1: is a good idea.
Speaker 2: He said, it's not a good idea. There's no question about.
Speaker 1: It, which is weird. Because I think every single one
Speaker 1: of us in this room would have kissed you in
Speaker 1: that moment.
Speaker 3: That's right all the time.
Speaker 2: I think she also just turned us down. So yeah,
Speaker 2: which is fine.
Speaker 1: Fine, you don't think that's a very good idea.
Speaker 3: Listen, I'm kind of lonely, so all.
Speaker 1: Right, Well I'm not going to put that information out.
Speaker 1: When we call Ryan, I'm just going to ask him
Speaker 1: why he's not calling you back.
Speaker 3: All right, that's probably a good idea, and then.
Speaker 1: I'll offered a group kiss at the end. He says, yes,
Speaker 1: but let's do it. Here we go. Hell, hey, I'm
Speaker 1: looking for Ryan. Yeah, and sorry, not just me, an
Speaker 1: entire room of people is looking for you. Jeffrey Morning Showy,
Speaker 1: did I win something or home?
Speaker 7: Well?
Speaker 2: You made kind of yeah. I mean you're it's your
Speaker 2: lucky day. Somebody likes you. Anybody back, jeff.
Speaker 1: We're doing a segment on the show Ryan called second
Speaker 1: Date Update. You ever heard of that before?
Speaker 5: I think so? I don't know.
Speaker 1: Okay, to jog your memory. It's where we reach out
Speaker 1: to people who've gone on dates recently to try and
Speaker 1: figure out why there hasn't been a second date yet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because the person that is interested in them reached out.
Speaker 1: To us, right, and the person who reached out to
Speaker 1: us is Brittany.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it sounds like you guys had such a
Speaker 5: fun night from.
Speaker 2: What she said.
Speaker 5: M yeah, I mean it was it was it was, yeah,
Speaker 5: she was the date.
Speaker 2: It was a day day.
Speaker 1: We heard you played board games. Some people love them,
Speaker 1: some people don't, see Ryan, That's how it works. She
Speaker 1: calls and tells us about the date that you went on,
Speaker 1: so that we get a little bit of the background information,
Speaker 1: and then we go to you to see if you
Speaker 1: can fill in some of the blanks for us.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, Well what did she say about the date?
Speaker 1: She mentioned going to a bar playing scrabble with a
Speaker 1: little little bit of twist on it.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, forgot, I forgot about that.
Speaker 2: Was that fun?
Speaker 5: Yeah? That was that was great? What else did she say?
Speaker 2: That was kind of just you guys laughed a lot.
Speaker 1: She said that a lot of laughing, a lot of
Speaker 1: joking around and sharing happy memories. I think a lot
Speaker 1: of flirting, but not sharing lips. That was the big
Speaker 1: question mark for her was that at the end of
Speaker 1: the night there was no kiss. I'n that.
Speaker 5: Uh huh? Well did she say anything like about me,
Speaker 5: like about what i'd like look like or whatever, like
Speaker 5: what you look like?
Speaker 2: She said. She actually didn't mention anything at all.
Speaker 4: We just kind of assumed that she was attracted to
Speaker 4: since she wanted to kiss you.
Speaker 1: Yeah you handsome.
Speaker 5: No, no, dude, I'm.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to call her back. What's going on, man,
Speaker 1: We're trying to help Brittany out to get some answers here.
Speaker 5: Well there were dude, that's weird.
Speaker 1: We like weird.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, well this is different.
Speaker 1: Okay, try us.
Speaker 5: When we were like we're playing that game the yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: you know, it takes a while like come up with
Speaker 5: words or whatever, so you have to. You know, We're
Speaker 5: just like talking and stuff, and she keeps like looking
Speaker 5: at me and like smiling, you know on dates and
Speaker 5: people do that, they like stop and they just like
Speaker 5: smiling and they like let you see them smile or whatever.
Speaker 2: It sounds kind of sweet.
Speaker 5: No, yeah, except then I like I was, I swam
Speaker 5: back and she was like, it's crazy, you just looked
Speaker 5: so much like my brother.
Speaker 7: Oh that's not what I thought was gonna have.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, did.
Speaker 2: She like my bro like friend?
Speaker 1: Even that's not good.
Speaker 5: I don't know, I try to give her the benefit
Speaker 5: of the doubt, like she was making a joke, you know.
Speaker 4: Oh I could see that, Yeah, like trying to be funny.
Speaker 5: Sure, so I laughed and kind of went back to
Speaker 5: the game, and she was just like, no, like you
Speaker 5: you have his eyes, Like you just look so much
Speaker 5: like my brother.
Speaker 1: Oh no, she didn't take the hand.
Speaker 2: I mean, at least it was eyes, right, they don't
Speaker 2: tell me.
Speaker 1: That's when she was like, kiss me, you fool.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no. She had about the kiss at
Speaker 5: the end of the day. But I just could not
Speaker 5: get that out of my head. Like I was literally like,
Speaker 5: what do you want to kisch your brother right now?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Like, oh man, maybe you're just like a generic looking dude.
Speaker 4: You know, I'm just trying to give her any benefit
Speaker 4: of the doubt.
Speaker 2: And I'm not tried.
Speaker 1: I she just guys at the store, and now you
Speaker 1: everyone looks like it. Look Ryan, We we hadn't heard
Speaker 1: that part of the story obviously, Yeah, of course, And
Speaker 1: uh yeah we should be asking though, Brittany about it.
Speaker 1: He is on the other line right now, and she
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you, Brittany, talk to your brother
Speaker 1: look alike.
Speaker 3: No, oh, my gosh, she's on the phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how the segment works.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, okay, I totally forgot that that happened,
Speaker 3: Like that wasn't even on my radar, Like that was
Speaker 3: just some random comment, like I remember it now.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So you're saying, you admit he does look
Speaker 1: like your brother.
Speaker 2: Oh, or you were trying to be funny.
Speaker 3: No, he no, and it is funny. It's just a
Speaker 3: compliment because my brother's very good looking.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, you're saying your brother is good looking, brother's hot,
Speaker 5: and I do look like him.
Speaker 3: Yes, and that's a good thing because he's a good
Speaker 3: looking person. You're both good looking people. It's not like
Speaker 3: you said, oh, you remind me of my dad, or oh,
Speaker 3: you have the same hot body as my brother.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's what she means. You're not attracted
Speaker 2: to your brother.
Speaker 5: She just said he has a hot body, and he's hot.
Speaker 2: You don't think it's.
Speaker 1: I misunderstand it, literally any other man in the world.
Speaker 3: I just need to clear things up, okay, please, Yeah,
Speaker 3: my brother is very good looking. He has a very
Speaker 3: hot body. That's what I'm not is that so do you?
Speaker 3: And so it's a compliment. You know what I mean.
Speaker 5: I know you're saying I look like him, but you're
Speaker 5: saying your brother has a hot body. Is your brother's
Speaker 5: hotter than me? His body's hotterer than me.
Speaker 2: Competition? Wow, this is rough.
Speaker 3: I've only seen my brother in a swimsuit. I haven't
Speaker 3: seen you in one, so I can't say I don't know.
Speaker 1: Next day the flex off competition between you and Brittany's brother, and.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. She sounded too disappointed about only
Speaker 5: seeing him in a swim suit.
Speaker 2: No, she got to.
Speaker 1: Meet in the middle.
Speaker 7: Guys, I think you're too focused on the brother and
Speaker 7: she is like, clue, is how weird it sounds?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Me, I break you guys came out, you know what
Speaker 3: I mean? Yeah, never said I'm attracted to my brother,
Speaker 3: not once. I'm just saying he has good physical attributes,
Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, they've done all sorts of scientific research
Speaker 4: that say you end up like liking people that look
Speaker 4: kind of like you, and her and her brothers share
Speaker 4: the same genetics.
Speaker 1: And I bet her brother doesn't play dirty scrabble as
Speaker 1: good as you played.
Speaker 3: Oh god, that's gross. You guys, I've never played dirty
Speaker 3: grapple with my brother.
Speaker 1: There's something that you have that her brother doesn't. All right,
Speaker 1: I just told us before you guys got on the phone.
Speaker 1: She's playing with her family. But if you really want
Speaker 1: to stick it to Brittany's brother, then you should go
Speaker 1: out on a date with her.
Speaker 7: It sounds like she wants to stick it to her,
Speaker 7: and that way you can make Brittany's brother jealous.
Speaker 1: It's already been sold. What do you think, Ryan, We're
Speaker 1: gonna pay for that date if you go out with her.
Speaker 3: Okay, before you make up your mind, listen, I'm not
Speaker 3: attracted to my brother. Let's just be super clear about that.
Speaker 3: I thought that we had a great time together. I'm
Speaker 3: sorry there was a misunderstanding. And if you can just
Speaker 3: look past my hot body brother comments, she's.
Speaker 2: Been such a good sport about all of this too.
Speaker 8: Yeah, all right, I'll do it, but under one condition.
Speaker 8: We have to just pretend that this never happens. No
Speaker 8: jokes about it, no whatever, We're just moving past it.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm so glad he said that. I thought he
Speaker 1: was going to say three soomes, Ryan, You're my hero.
Speaker 1: Not a successful second date? Yeahs rookie Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm happy that guy didn't take it too seriously.
Speaker 2: I'm proud of us. I believe we got her another chair.
Speaker 1: We did We actually did it.
Speaker 2: I mean, even outside all of our jokes.
Speaker 1: Right, And I mean, if I'm putting myself in his shoes,
Speaker 1: I'd probably be freaked out by what she said to
Speaker 1: at least at the start. So it's good that we
Speaker 1: do these calls.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, help people understand each other a little
Speaker 2: bit better.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 7: And because it was like one comment turned into the
Speaker 7: entire reason.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I don't think she realized what she was
Speaker 1: doing and how she was saying it.
Speaker 4: But I think I took her about four minutes on
Speaker 4: the phone to realize.
Speaker 1: But once it finally clicked, she realized it was funny.
Speaker 1: It kind of helped us open the door to get
Speaker 1: another date. And yes, I know this was off the air,
Speaker 1: but Alexis, I do promise I will try and get
Speaker 1: you the number of that hot body brother open.
Speaker 2: Yeah you too, Yeah, dude, I'll take anything.
Speaker 1: Anyway. Remember you can catch all of our second date
Speaker 1: updates up on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey wherever you.
Speaker 2: Get Yours, Get
Speaker 6: Yours, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,