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Speaker 3: Welcome to I said, no gifts, I'm Pritchard Wineger. We're

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Speaker 3: here in the studio. I've had a surprisingly efficient morning.

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Speaker 3: I went to Costco, got in, got out, got exactly

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Speaker 3: guy who did the restaurant Impossible, has now started making

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Speaker 3: I had to go to Costco. And then I put

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Speaker 3: I didn't say anything to him, and he had grazed

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Speaker 3: it all just to talk about on the podcast rather

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Speaker 3: What else is going on? I've been watching The Mortician.

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Speaker 3: This is a documentary on HBO. If you haven't heard

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Speaker 3: coming back and I will make your lives a living hell.

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Speaker 3: What else Patreon continues to exist. I think by the

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Speaker 3: season two of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. It's been

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Speaker 3: get on there, join us for bonus episodes, whatever, let's

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Speaker 3: get into the show. I adore today's guest. He's fantastic.

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Speaker 3: It's Beck Bennett.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, it's so nice to be here.

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Speaker 3: I'm so happy you could be here.

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Speaker 4: I really, it's really a pleasure to be in your

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Speaker 4: you know, in your what's the word, I don't have

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Speaker 4: Like we talked a little bit before, we said we

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Speaker 3: There will be no judgments. I'm only asking questions.

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Speaker 4: It's great to be here in a judgment for his own,

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Speaker 4: you know, because most places these days, you're gonna you

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Speaker 3: You can't be funny anymore.

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Speaker 4: First of all, the bar. What's your bar?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not. I'm not surprised that the bars.

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Speaker 4: Oh not not in that, you know. To the guy,

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Speaker 3: But usually these people are like if you do say something,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like really like kind of like like he was

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that feels like a second permission needs to be asked.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like I'm gonna touch you, and now I'm

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Speaker 4: Right? Is that? Okay? You did ask me if I

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Speaker 4: and then like you bring some other people in and

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no. Well then everyone's looking at you

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Speaker 3: and they're like now you like even after you leave

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah yeah, And I come out like totally white,

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Speaker 3: People looking at you at the airport. In that situation,

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Speaker 3: you have to kind of explain. It's like, yeah, this

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Speaker 3: I'm standing there for a while. The amount of explaining

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Speaker 3: the way I.

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Speaker 4: Was standing there, the way it was, it was a

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Speaker 3: Who I should take a card of video of me

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Speaker 4: That's a good idea.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just be like if you're all wondering.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah you could. You could almost like, well I

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Speaker 4: was gonna say, live live, go.

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Speaker 3: To twitch, go to twitch my twitch channel.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then invite your friends at the table to

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Speaker 3: So queens are watching me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it could be a whole channel called bridger Waiting

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Speaker 3: Truly only needed to be.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, truly only needed to be.

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Speaker 3: But that happens almost any time at a restaurant because

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Speaker 4: Now, how do you feel about there's a there's a

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Speaker 3: Oh and there's nobody else that needs them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you're waiting for the men's. You've been waiting forever.

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Speaker 4: This person you can, you amos, You could almost getarantee

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Speaker 4: it's somebody that works at the restaurant just taking a

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Speaker 4: I mean, of course you're going to go for.

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Speaker 3: It, right, it's just absolutely always there.

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Speaker 4: Yes, And I think it's totally I think it's totally fine.

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Speaker 3: I've always prepared in my mind. You say, get over it,

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Speaker 3: don't take it so seriously, come on, this is all

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Speaker 4: Get over your This is all bullshit. This is just

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Speaker 4: an idea, This is a suggestion. Maybe split it up

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Speaker 4: based on whatever.

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Speaker 3: Yes, come on, it was two minutes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. It drives me nuts when I get a look

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Speaker 4: after coming out of the women's bathroom, and they should

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't need to sign on events anymore.

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Speaker 4: It's just one or the other two up.

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Speaker 3: On the bathrooms. Yeah, especially, I mean the one thing

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Speaker 3: I'll say is the women's bathroom, the line does tend

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Speaker 3: to pile up more, that's true, And so I'm like,

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: But sometimes you need it, and sometimes you're worried your

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I was thinking maybe anything you could do

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Speaker 4: like like you know, a little card that's like pre

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Speaker 4: I'll be right out.

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Speaker 3: Please find it in your heart.

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Speaker 4: Don't look at me weird when I come out. Everything's

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Speaker 3: Everything I'm doing in here is legal.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I think, yeah on the doorknob. And then somebody

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Speaker 4: be like what the hell.

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Speaker 3: And while you're in there, maybe you call a friend

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, have them come and check on you. Have

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Speaker 3: You wouldn't mind telling everybody in the restaurant that things

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Speaker 4: They are fine.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but they do. I've heard people talk

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Speaker 3: Very loudly, specifically industry rumors. Oh yeah, the industry is

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, what is he doing in there? What

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Speaker 3: If there's somebody in the bathroom, come back to the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's ridiculous. Its ridiculous. Yeah, I you know, I'm yeah,

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Speaker 3: I've just stood being okay with the weight.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm okay. Like if people come back and they're like,

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Speaker 4: there's nothing wrong with me. There's something wrong with your

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Speaker 4: I don't want to shoot it out there, but but somebody,

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Speaker 4: somebody very funny, Okay. A woman went to the bathroom.

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Speaker 4: She was there for a while, and then another woman

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Speaker 4: that doesn't matter, It doesn't matter. Two women, two women.

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Speaker 4: One goes to the bathroom. She's funny, the other one

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Speaker 4: Two women, and she goes in front of everybody, Oh

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Speaker 4: wo And the funny woman goes, I was taking a

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Speaker 4: for her. Yeah, yeah, that's how I feel. That's how

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Speaker 4: I'm just like, I don't need the little thing to

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's confidence you need to get to that.

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Speaker 4: Lit's you know, it's it's not the best kind of confidence.

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Speaker 4: I would definitely rather have other kinds of confidence, but

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Speaker 4: I'll take it. I'll take what I can get.

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Speaker 3: And I think, actually, I'm going to defend myself a

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's considered. So you're considering a little more considerate

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm like, I don't want them sick to their stomachs,

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Speaker 4: Right, yeah, so look, yeah, that's that's what you're on

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Speaker 4: the right side. And for me, I'm kind of like,

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Speaker 4: you don't give a ship. I'm like, let me put

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00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,040
Speaker 4: it in your head. If it's right there at the edge,

440
00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:24,720
Speaker 4: I'm gonna I'm gonna push it all the way in.

441
00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:30,320
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna how dare you? Or I'll describe my

442
00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:33,080
Speaker 4: ship in detail. Right when you're taking your first bite

443
00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:37,840
Speaker 4: of your beef stroging off, you picked the wrong meal,

444
00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:40,080
Speaker 4: the wrong meal today, buster.

445
00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,640
Speaker 3: And yet you still haven't mend to Costco.

446
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,240
Speaker 4: That's really yeah, not as a member with other people.

447
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,480
Speaker 4: As a member, still haven't gone in yet.

448
00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,919
Speaker 3: It's a weird experience. As a non member, I always

449
00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 3: feel like, what should I be doing?

450
00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. I don't know the way in, really

451
00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:57,560
Speaker 4: I don't, because I feel like there are certain things

452
00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,679
Speaker 4: like we got like a big thing of macaroni and

453
00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 4: cheese son, which I would imagine is like the smallest

454
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 4: thing you can get right and and I'm like, I

455
00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 4: see this thing in our pantry and it's like, I

456
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 4: don't know, it's like forty things.

457
00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:14,639
Speaker 3: Not going to eat all of that, and it's.

458
00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,359
Speaker 4: All the same type. I like to go to the

459
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:19,000
Speaker 4: grocery store and maybe try a different waxed up, try

460
00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:22,119
Speaker 4: a different brand, try a different noodle, different cheese, sauce.

461
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,640
Speaker 3: Of course, you know, it's another thing where I think

462
00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 3: they think bar kind of encompasses it, where that's small

463
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:30,600
Speaker 3: enough that you can kind of just get used to

464
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,000
Speaker 3: it being I don't care for this flavor, but who cares? Yes,

465
00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 3: but a meal of artificial.

466
00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:37,040
Speaker 4: Official cheese and noodles.

467
00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:42,880
Speaker 3: You Yeah, Oh, it's upsetting.

468
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 4: It's really upsetting, really upsetting. Yeah, I'm not I'm not

469
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 4: quite there yet with Costco. You'll get there at some point,

470
00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:51,120
Speaker 4: maybe when I'm having more parties, birthday parties for my son.

471
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:54,320
Speaker 3: You know, but did you how did your Costco card

472
00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:57,200
Speaker 3: photo turnout? Mine? Not a good situation.

473
00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,160
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I don't even know. I don't even

474
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 4: know if I feel like I don't even know if

475
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:01,600
Speaker 4: I have it.

476
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm never going to get back into this place.

477
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,959
Speaker 4: I in my in my memory I took a photo

478
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 4: and it was like a temporary thing.

479
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,119
Speaker 3: They oh, yeah, like a paper license idea.

480
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,239
Speaker 4: It was yeah, or like I was going to pick

481
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,119
Speaker 4: it up later or something. I don't know, maybe because

482
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 4: I was so.

483
00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:21,119
Speaker 3: You're never getting back I'm.

484
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:21,880
Speaker 4: Never getting back in there.

485
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 3: Let me. I'm actually going to show you my Costco

486
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 3: card because I think it's worth seeing the image they

487
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 3: picked for me.

488
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:28,719
Speaker 4: I would love to and I'm going to look at

489
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 4: my wallet to see if I happen to have one.

490
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 4: But look at uh this, Oh my god.

491
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 3: There's not a single distinguishable feature on this What I

492
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 3: look like a ghost? That is it's like a white silhouette,

493
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,160
Speaker 3: almost not there. It's like you only have the features

494
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 3: that could be anybody. Tip of the nose, mouth that

495
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:53,200
Speaker 3: is wild.

496
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 4: Yeah did you get that in the moment? Were you like, oh,

497
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:57,400
Speaker 4: thank you?

498
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,359
Speaker 3: Yes? This was Yeah. I looked at it. I was like,

499
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,639
Speaker 3: I think it was right before closing, so I couldn't

500
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 3: demand a reshoot.

501
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, you weren't like, can we play with the lighting here?

502
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,199
Speaker 4: This is a little harsh, but.

503
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, you see nostrils and eyes. That's all so Costco?

504
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 4: Could they did you dirty?

505
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 3: I don't think that they didn't even need to take

506
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 3: a photo.

507
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 4: No, they're not taking serious when it's washing it out.

508
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 3: Like ooh, get some nice lighting on me.

509
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 4: There's no way.

510
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 3: No, oh oh, have you got it?

511
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, let's see this. A little washed out too.

512
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 3: Oh, a little washed out. But you look deeply unhappy.

513
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 4: They very unhappy. I've already told stories of being unhappy

514
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 4: at Costco getting my my license my and then what else?

515
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 4: What was the other one with the farmer's market. Yeah,

516
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,719
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm going nuts crazy. I'm going crazy over

517
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 4: I'm fully well.

518
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,439
Speaker 3: I feel like I should redirect the conversation until you

519
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 3: get before you get in some sort of trouble.

520
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,159
Speaker 4: Okay, sure, yeah, yeah, redirect.

521
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 3: I mean this could just lead to more problems on

522
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 3: the podcast. And but I don't know where to go

523
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:56,360
Speaker 3: from here.

524
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 4: I mean, problems are fund you know, it's it's marketable,

525
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:00,159
Speaker 4: it's viral.

526
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 3: It's conflict. Their sparks, sparks fly. People love to see these.

527
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 3: It's essentially one of these debates. Yeah, and so we'll

528
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 3: see what happens, see what happens. I was excited to

529
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 3: have you here on the podcast today. I thought, certainly

530
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 3: Beck has manners he's been in the industry for a minute,

531
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 3: knows how these things work. Absolutely has some sort of decency.

532
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 3: The podcast is called I said no gifts, and I

533
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 3: imagine you received the famous phone call phone calls. We

534
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,159
Speaker 3: have an Allie's kind of call and leave messages, just

535
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 3: making sure sending letters emails with the name of the podcast.

536
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 3: So I was a little surprised. I was a little

537
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 3: floored when you walked into the studio today holding an

538
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 3: absolutely gorgeous gift.

539
00:23:52,800 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 4: You You're so welcome, Thank you so much. I appreciate you. Yeah, well,

540
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 4: you know, I I, of course I wasn't going to

541
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 4: bring a gift because that was the name of the show,

542
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 4: and I know I don't want the gifts, but I

543
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 4: just I really couldn't help myself because I was I

544
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 4: just I was like, maybe this is the gift that

545
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 4: changes the podcast, maybe changes the name of the podcast,

546
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 4: changes your attitude, you know. And and so I brought

547
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 4: a gift. I'm not somebody. I'm usually somebody to be like,

548
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 4: we don't need to bring a gift, Like somebody's having

549
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 4: you over for dinner and like, oh you got to

550
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 4: bring some wine or something. It's like like a kid's

551
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 4: birthday party. They don't want another thing.

552
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 3: Birthday is not happening.

553
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 4: As a parent of a child. Too many gifts.

554
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 3: It's just if the child's related to me.

555
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 4: Yeah sure.

556
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 3: Otherwise, how many kids birthdays am I going to?

557
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 4: I don't know, I mean only you know, I could

558
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:51,880
Speaker 4: see a lot.

559
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 3: I'm a magician. I'm a magician.

560
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 4: Well but yeah, I brought a gift. You know.

561
00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 3: It kind of comes down to a lack of control.

562
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I am out of control, as we've found out

563
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 4: from the first start of this pod.

564
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 3: Yes, right, so should we open it here on the podcast?

565
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 4: I would love to. I cannot wait.

566
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 3: Okay, sure, are you ready?

567
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 4: Well?

568
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 3: Why not?

569
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 4: There it is.

570
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 3: Oh and it's in the sleek black bag.

571
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 4: I found the sexiest bag.

572
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, this was really this was a night time bagh. Huh,

573
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 3: this is we're out on the town.

574
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 4: It might have you know, it might have come with

575
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 4: a bottle of champagne, you know. Now it's in my

576
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 4: my gift wrap.

577
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 3: And it's got kind of a gold tissue.

578
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, some brown and a little gold or yeah, look

579
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 4: at that that's been used before.

580
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 3: That one was fresh, but this one was fresh.

581
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 4: Got it? But so the crinkle is fresh. That other

582
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 4: one was was already used. Yeah, look at that. That's

583
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 4: a nice sound.

584
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 3: I know it's nice. Yeah, Okay, then we're reaching you

585
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 3: guys will take out all the tissue.

586
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 4: Why not get the stick, get it all out. Let's

587
00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 4: see the tip of it poking out.

588
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 3: Okay, now I'm reaching in.

589
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 4: Oh there it is, Yay, a wooden spoon for Bridger,

590
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 4: A huge, huge This is actually a walk spoon. Oh walk,

591
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 4: do you have a walk?

592
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 3: I don't have a walk.

593
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, you can use it for anything. You could. Honestly,

594
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 4: I immediately think of this gift, and you could use it

595
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 4: for the same purpose. Probably you could leave it in

596
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 4: the bathroom and use the scoop out the toilet.

597
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're pointing to if the listeners want now seeing this,

598
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 3: he's pointing to the Redneck plunger that we received from

599
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 3: Rob Hubel at one point, which is a gun or

600
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 3: a toilet plunger shaped like a gun.

601
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, like a big old shotgun that Beck was.

602
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 3: Kind of threatening to use before the episode.

603
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

604
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, I was gonna.

605
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, destroy the studio bathroom.

606
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 4: And then use the shotgun plunger. But I didn't do

607
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 4: that yet. It's tempting. It's there, but this is this

608
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 4: is a wooden uh walk spoon, right, created by Kenji J.

609
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 4: Lopez Alt.

610
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 3: Do you know who he is.

611
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 4: He's a chef. He's like an internet chef personality or guy.

612
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 4: He's created two James Beard Award winning cookbooks. One's called

613
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 4: The Food Lab. I may have seen it. It's like

614
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 4: a big It's like an encyclopedia book of cooking, like

615
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 4: basically all the principles that one could.

616
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 3: Want to just lay it all out, Yeah.

617
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 4: Like chopping, so like vegetables, meat, like every different major

618
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 4: category of sharing food. I mean, there's some specific recipes,

619
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 4: but it's all the basics. And then this other book

620
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 4: he came out with is called It's basically about only

621
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 4: recipes to be cooked.

622
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 3: With a Walk And do you have both of these books?

623
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 4: I have both of these books, and I follow him

624
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 4: online and anytime I'm going to cook something, I will

625
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 4: look up the thing I want to cook and his name,

626
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 4: and so The Food Lab his book. What he kind

627
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 4: of became famous for is it breaks down everything to

628
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 4: the science of the cooking, so you can under stand.

629
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 4: He'll be like, this is what's happening with the oil

630
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 4: and how it's interacting with this pan or this meat,

631
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 4: or this is why you let it sit or this

632
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 4: is He'll do experiments like salting a piece of meat,

633
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 4: like sure, ten minutes before, thirty minutes before a day before,

634
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 4: like I'm seeing how it like breaks things down, and

635
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 4: so you like you really it becomes a sort of

636
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 4: like science experiment. Like I've only gotten a little bit

637
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 4: into he has so many things online, but like it

638
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 4: has been it's I love him and he's The way

639
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:35,679
Speaker 4: he talks about food is just so interesting and exciting,

640
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 4: and it's like the stuff he makes. So this he

641
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 4: made he made this specific spoon because it's like the

642
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 4: perfect shape or cooking.

643
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 3: You kind of invented this spoon.

644
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, because a lot of spoons are more like rounded

645
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 4: and so this this is basically go right down. Yeah.

646
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 4: Can I see this?

647
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

648
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 4: And it's mine. It's right handed.

649
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is so be careful.

650
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 4: I do I do want it. I would like to

651
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 4: take it back. This Also it's like where the bowl

652
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 4: is rounded, like it gets a lot of surface area,

653
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 4: like it's perfect. Oh right, But it's also I find

654
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 4: it to be just a good cooking utensil. And it

655
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 4: is large.

656
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 3: Are you using it to like with regular pans?

657
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 4: Yes? Yeah, And I'm doing like some some fried rice

658
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 4: with this. I just got my own. So and I

659
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 4: got my own and I thought of you, so were you?

660
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 3: Did he get you into cooking?

661
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 4: Or I was already into cooking? But he was really

662
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:36,719
Speaker 4: like he he really helped just make it all accessible,

663
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 4: because you know, your typical cookbook. I mean like there

664
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 4: was the an Alison Roman phase and then she kind of,

665
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,719
Speaker 4: you know, fell apart completely emotionally.

666
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 3: The career got the career, got this gonna come back.

667
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 4: I mean, she's got her own thing going, I think,

668
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 4: and she's fine, but she's not the household name anymore.

669
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 3: And we wish her luck do we wish.

670
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 4: Her all the best here? But it was it was

671
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 4: like people like the two of them, like making things

672
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 4: accessible and like breaking down like fun, interesting sort of

673
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 4: complex things and just breaking them down in easy ways.

674
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 3: So what sort of stuff have you made from him?

675
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 3: What does he tell you to make?

676
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 4: I have made a let's see, a reverse seared tender loin.

677
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 4: I got to make every Christmas.

678
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 3: Oh what does that even mean? Reverse seared?

679
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 4: It means that you put it in the oven first

680
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 4: at about two hundred and twenty degrees for about depending

681
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,959
Speaker 4: on the size of the piece of meat, like two hours,

682
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,719
Speaker 4: and you get it to a certain temperature and then

683
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 4: you take it out and then you you what's it called?

684
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 4: You see it afterwards in like butter and rosemary and stuff,

685
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 4: and the slow cooking it at first it to get

686
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 4: to be the perfect perfect temperature from edge tadj So

687
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 4: it's like if you want medium rare, it's perfectly medium

688
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 4: rare all the way through, as opposed to just in

689
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 4: the middle and sort of well done on the outside.

690
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 4: It's sort of like a what is that when you

691
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 4: put when you put when you put something in a

692
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 4: single water souv.

693
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 3: Yes, it's kind of like it's just like suviede without

694
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 3: the suvide machine.

695
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't need a big tangish. Yeah, I've never

696
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 4: done that. But the idea of putting the meat in

697
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 4: a bag and then putting it in some water, and.

698
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 3: It's very odd odd.

699
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 4: It's just kind of doesn't really feel like the cooking

700
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 4: that I you know, right.

701
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 3: Like there's not like the it's not like you want

702
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 3: some level of tactile or like, yeah, just a thing

703
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 3: floating around in water. Slowly getting hot is kind of gross. Yeah,

704
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 3: it's no, I mean outside of like a noodle.

705
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, noodles.

706
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 3: Fine, that's for noodles.

707
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 4: That's for noodles, not meat. I don't want my meat

708
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 4: floating around in water kind.

709
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 3: Of swimming through a hot slow cooker essentially.

710
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 4: Yeah. No, I've also done some very nice oven like

711
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 4: crispy potatoes. You know, you kind of gotta like get

712
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 4: it into a little bath of baking soda and a

713
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 4: lot of salt when you boil it to I don't know,

714
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 4: he breaks his headten it to extract all the moisture

715
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 4: so that one you put him in the oven, they're

716
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 4: like really crunching right right.

717
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of chrispy potatoes. People don't cook the

718
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 3: potato long enough and then it's like crispy or you.

719
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,479
Speaker 4: Go like you try to chart too much and then

720
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 4: it's all dried.

721
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 3: Out, disgusting.

722
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 4: It's disgusting. You have to we have to figure out.

723
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 4: We have to make it normal. We all have to

724
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 4: learn how to do it.

725
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 3: Enough is enough?

726
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 4: Enough is enough. He also got me really into uh

727
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 4: like a what you might call it like a BLT,

728
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 4: just like talking about how to.

729
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 3: Do was he doing new with the BLT.

730
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 4: He's just talking about He's talking about the bread that

731
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 4: toasts best bread. It's like a potato Okay, I love

732
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 4: a potato potato bread. And then like the type of

733
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 4: bacon or like, you know, make your own mayonnaise tomorrow

734
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 4: is like, yeah, that's a little too, but it's because

735
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,239
Speaker 4: I've done it, and it's I don't know if it's

736
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 4: worth it. QP mayonnaise is fantastic, right, That's that's the

737
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 4: little the cornerstone.

738
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 3: Some things you just find a good one.

739
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 4: And you don't need to make it yourself, right.

740
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 3: Belt you can. I mean every one of those things

741
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 3: can go wrong in a big way. Bad tomato, uncooked bacon.

742
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 4: Uh huh yeah, I couldn't agree.

743
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 3: More crummy bread, yeah, I will say with BLT, I've

744
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 3: kind of gotten to a point where it doesn't feel

745
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 3: like a full sandwich to me. I feel like I

746
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 3: need a club. You have bacon and.

747
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 4: Turkey, and you need some turkey in there.

748
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 3: I need some or avocado in there. You have to

749
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 3: there has to be a second thing that's substantial.

750
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 4: I understand that, But what about just having to Blt's

751
00:33:56,480 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 4: and just like going back, going back to well, it's not.

752
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 3: It feels like an incomplete sandwich.

753
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I understand.

754
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 3: And I feel like if you put enough bacon in

755
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 3: it to be complete, then it becomes a health concern.

756
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, And then you're like, this is not a

757
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 4: light summer sandwich that this is.

758
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 3: Now some thing's gone wrong in my life. I'm going

759
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 3: through something difficult.

760
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 4: See I hear that. But I feel like the turkey

761
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 4: just messes with about the crunch, salt balance, creaminess thing

762
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 4: that's happening. Let me ask you this, have you do

763
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 4: you ever? Do you ever have a tomato toast?

764
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 3: I've never had a tomato toast.

765
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 4: Okay, so all the listeners, tomato toast is something very simple,

766
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 4: but it's incredible. So you just take a piece of

767
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 4: really any bread. But I would say sour dough. This

768
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 4: is kind of my saying, like I would say my

769
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,879
Speaker 4: light lunch of the summer. Okay, this is okay, this

770
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 4: is summertime.

771
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 3: Tomatoes, summer.

772
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you put some you could even you could.

773
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 4: I'll even do a platter, okay, big platter, tomatoes, bacon,

774
00:34:56,480 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 4: some lettuce, some cheese, some excuse me, a little indigestion here,

775
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 4: something was coming up. But nothing popped that for a clip.

776
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 3: Cut it out.

777
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 4: That's going on there, that's gonna be viral, and so

778
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 4: I'll put it all out on a board. But so

779
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 4: the tomato toast is like a toasted piece of sour dough.

780
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 4: So something's a little crunchy, it's spongy. And you take

781
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 4: some some mayonnaise, hopefully Qpy mayonnaise, a little lemon, salt

782
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 4: and pepper, and just whip that all up together and

783
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 4: then put that on the bread and some tomatoes with

784
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,240
Speaker 4: some salt and pepper. You need the salt and pepper

785
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 4: on the tomato to bring out the flavor. Otherwise you're

786
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 4: just you're absolutely blowing and you're totally fucked.

787
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 3: Why did you bother?

788
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, why did you bother? You might as well not

789
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 4: have the tomato la And it's that it's simple and

790
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 4: you put it on there and the mayonnaise combination, you know,

791
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 4: with a little lemon salt. Incredible, It's incredible. It's honestly,

792
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 4: it's honestly better than a belt.

793
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 3: Wow.

794
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, And like like to go back to Kenji,

795
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 4: he'll do something like here's a tomatoes sandwich, two pieces

796
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 4: of I don't know exactly what it's called but it's

797
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 4: like Japanese milk toast.

798
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 3: I think, yes, delicious bread.

799
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 4: And he's like, he'll do something where he like takes

800
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 4: the two of them sawtaise, the two pieces right, takes

801
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,879
Speaker 4: the sautee side, puts some mayonnaise and tomato and puts

802
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 4: them on the inside. So the outside is fluffy, but

803
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,479
Speaker 4: the inside you have a seared buttery crunch that goes

804
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:27,439
Speaker 4: along with the tomato. And it's like, so simple, right,

805
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 4: he does these. He does a lot of things that

806
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 4: are just very simple, but like, my so good.

807
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,879
Speaker 3: It feels like it's just reversing a lot of things.

808
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 3: Yeahs stuff around, things around.

809
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 4: Yeah. So that's why, you know. And I didn't want

810
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 4: to bring you the cookbook as well because I didn't

811
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 4: want it to look like product placement. I wanted to

812
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 4: be natural. I wanted to set you on your journey

813
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 4: and wherever it can go. You know. I didn't want

814
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 4: to like, I didn't want you to have the pressure

815
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 4: of like, oh now I have to cook all these

816
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 4: the worst. You don't want to give somebody a job.

817
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 3: As a gift, no, no, no, no no no no.

818
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 4: So that could be displayed, that can be used in

819
00:36:58,840 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 4: any fashion you want.

820
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 3: But you I mean last night I needed a I

821
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 3: mean a baked a pie and I didn't. I kind

822
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 3: of revealed myself as someone who didn't have a pie.

823
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 3: What is this thing? The piper? A pie serving tool?

824
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 4: Yeah? Is it the same for cake? Because I have

825
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 4: one and.

826
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 3: We got the same for cake. It's kind of a

827
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,280
Speaker 3: triangle to get in the slice.

828
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:23,720
Speaker 4: There a pie server.

829
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 3: And I learned my lesson in the worst way.

830
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 4: What did you have? Did you have like a just

831
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 4: a big just a chopping You.

832
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 3: Want to know what I used as a cheese slicer,

833
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 3: You know the thing that's like, what are you talking about?

834
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 3: A handheld cheese slicer. That's that kind of a big

835
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 3: spoon humiliate.

836
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 4: With the little shamy device on it. When you said

837
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 4: a cheese slicer, I thought of the old school like

838
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 4: piece of marble with the wire thing on the hinge.

839
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 3: Was like, what were you doing you your hand?

840
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 4: That seems so problematic, so challenging.

841
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 3: No, I don't know. I guess that cheese slicer has

842
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,399
Speaker 3: its place, But no serving pie.

843
00:37:58,520 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 4: No, No, it's too rounded.

844
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 3: It's like it's half the size of a slice of pie. Yeah, yeah,

845
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,959
Speaker 3: so now you're just I should have just use my hand.

846
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would use a chef's chef's knife.

847
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 3: Chef's Oh that's very stylish and it's very kind of

848
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:13,800
Speaker 3: edgy and dangerous.

849
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it may not bend as well get into

850
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:16,800
Speaker 4: the pan as well, right.

851
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 3: But at least it's covering the whole bottom thing.

852
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 4: What kind of pie was it?

853
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 3: It was a smore pie.

854
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 4: Wow.

855
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 3: About once a year around this time, I start thinking,

856
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 3: I need a s'more, but I'm not going to build a.

857
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 4: Fire, and it's not it's not right.

858
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 3: So I made this small pie that was delicious, but

859
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 3: it was a reminder that like amore is about two

860
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 3: by two of those ingredients, and a small pie is

861
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 3: like a half pound of chocolate, a lot you're eating.

862
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 3: So by the time you're done with it, you're like, oh,

863
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 3: I've done something wrong.

864
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 4: Well, the whole pie, Yeah, I done something wrong. Is

865
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 4: a natural feeling.

866
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 3: I should reveal that I was alone.

867
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 4: I was alone.

868
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 3: I was crying the whole time, and.

869
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 4: Well that sounds about right, that sounds like the right.

870
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 3: Just one small slice was oh what's this? But it

871
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 3: was it was delicious. I made him meringue for the

872
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 3: first time, also realized, oh I don't own a blow torch,

873
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 3: which is a nice kitchen thing to have.

874
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 4: I have a blow torch.

875
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 3: That's you know, you don't use it often, but when

876
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 3: it comes time i've never used it, you're going to

877
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 3: and when you do, you're going to be like, thank

878
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 3: god I have this around.

879
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 4: Thank god I have this torch.

880
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 3: Because last night I had to use I had to

881
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 3: broil in the oven. That's dangerous and the dish was glass.

882
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 3: The fear I had because as a kid, we had

883
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 3: a we had a glass thing left on the stovetop

884
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 3: and an explode in the kitchen. It felt like a

885
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 3: pipe Bombit blown.

886
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's so dangerous and glass everywhere. So it was

887
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 4: sitting on a burner and it was it was heating on.

888
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 3: My mom really screwed up that day.

889
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:51,280
Speaker 4: My mom really fucking blew it. What was your mom thinking?

890
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 4: She just put it on.

891
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 3: A burner like he was a mess?

892
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 4: What's wrong with your mother?

893
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 3: It's time that somebody says the truth about dead. Yeah,

894
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 3: she was a disaster as a parent.

895
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 4: Thank god somebody finally said.

896
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 3: Putting your children in danger every morning?

897
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:07,399
Speaker 4: Yeah?

898
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 3: Wild, But it was genuinely it was like a traumatic

899
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 3: experience with glass blowing up. So last night I put

900
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 3: this thing in the broiler, absolute panic the entire time,

901
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 3: but then a perfectly toasted marat that's amazing.

902
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 4: I mean the broiler, you leave it in there thirty

903
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 4: seconds too long, and you're dumb.

904
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 3: You cannot take your eye off of it.

905
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 4: You cannot any so you can look through you can

906
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 4: you look looking.

907
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 3: Through the oven, which is I closed the oven and

908
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 3: so we're looking through the glass with the which is

909
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,760
Speaker 3: not an efficient. Why has the oven industry not figured

910
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,919
Speaker 3: out how to make that glass perfect to look through?

911
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 4: Clear?

912
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 3: Why? Yeah? Why does it? I know, I don't know

913
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 3: what privacy are we protecting.

914
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 4: I mean I don't even I don't even have a

915
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 4: window because I moved into a house that had a

916
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 4: fancy stove. Oh no fancy.

917
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 3: You have no way of looking into the no way.

918
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:53,879
Speaker 4: Of knowing what temperature the oven. I have to get

919
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 4: a little thing to hang. This is like a fancy

920
00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 4: French stove. I don't want this. This is nobody. Like

921
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 4: the burners are on the stove are so hot. If

922
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 4: you leave the pan on for too long without the

923
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 4: proper oil or whatever, it's like it's torched. Oh it's

924
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 4: such a delicate thing. It's like I'm like Julia Child's

925
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 4: yeah yeah, and it's like, oh, look how rustic and

926
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 4: cool it is.

927
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 3: That was my first oven in La you know. I

928
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 3: was like, I'm putting this thing in the oven. I

929
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 3: have no idea what the temperature.

930
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 4: Is, and I can't see it.

931
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 3: Good luck to everybody.

932
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, no way, I'm We moved into this house two

933
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 4: years ago and it was like wow, cool and I

934
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 4: had I've had to get just tuned into it, you know,

935
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 4: to know it. And now that I know it, I'm

936
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 4: ready to let it go.

937
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 3: It's going to tear your family apart.

938
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 4: It might it really might life ruin it. Yeah.

939
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 3: I need to be able to at least get a peak.

940
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I needed a peak. Just give me. I just

941
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 4: want to know, you know, especially you want to know

942
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 4: if something's in there. Yeah, especially we get Yeah, this

943
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,879
Speaker 4: oven is below the ways.

944
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 3: Oh it's absolutely it's accessible to children.

945
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,879
Speaker 4: My child could come by. He can't get a peek.

946
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 4: He doesn't know that something's in there. He's going to

947
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 4: open that thing, but yeah, he's gonna climb right in

948
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 4: and he doesn't know it's four hundred degrees in there.

949
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 4: He's toast. Literally, it's it's a safety concern, it's a

950
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 4: real hazard. Wow.

951
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,839
Speaker 3: That really for me. First thing, first appliance, I'd get

952
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 3: rid of. You're gonna get rid of that thing. At

953
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 3: some point, you're gonna say enough, exactly what I was thinking.

954
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 3: Who do you think you are?

955
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 4: Beck?

956
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, get the oven that you can see that you're

957
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 3: not Ken J Lopez No, no, no, no, no no. I

958
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 3: think J Lopez alt would he wouldn't want this. No,

959
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 3: if he'll get in touch with you, can you reach out?

960
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 4: Can you reach out? I'm giving your spoons away on podcasts.

961
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 4: Little a little support would be nice.

962
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 3: Just let Beck know that it's okay to have glass

963
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:53,720
Speaker 3: to see in for the baked products.

964
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 4: Thank you, Kenjy, Thank you, Kenjy, thank you Kenji.

965
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but ultimately I had to close the thing because

966
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 3: I was afraid of having glass blown into my face.

967
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 3: And it all worked out.

968
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 4: It all worked out, and you it all worked out.

969
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 4: You ate the pie crying by yourself and got a

970
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 4: stomach egg and everything was perfect. I like that you

971
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 4: cooked a s'mores pie. I've never cooked. I've only made

972
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 4: a strawberry rubar pie. Which my family did growing up

973
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 4: because my grandma would make it right. And I love

974
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 4: a fruit pie, but I mean more than a fruit pie.

975
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 4: I love like a French silk.

976
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 3: Oh, I love a chocolate poe.

977
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 4: Have you never heard of this? You see him at

978
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 4: you see him at the stores. I've never I've never

979
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,359
Speaker 4: heard of anybody. I've never heard the of the idea

980
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 4: of somebody making one of these at home. Nobody. I

981
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 4: feel like they can't be homemade, but you see them

982
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 4: at bakeries, certain restaurants. They'll they'll have a Snicker's pie.

983
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 3: It'll be like a chocolate with caramel and peanuts.

984
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, some nugae. I don't know. I don't.

985
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a lot of ingredients you're making. I need to, like,

986
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 3: I need to make one pie filling. Yeah, essentially, absolutely.

987
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 3: Then I can maybe make a topping, the meringue.

988
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 4: I could maybe do a peanut butter thing. I think

989
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 4: a salty, Oh, sort of whipped cream top.

990
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 3: Oh salty.

991
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 4: My mom my mom used to make ice cream pies

992
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 4: for our birthday. Oh with an oreo crust. Delicious, incredible.

993
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 3: I love a I won't do a regular pastry crust.

994
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 3: It's too much stress for.

995
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:24,800
Speaker 4: Me, it's too much stress. Is it too hard to

996
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 4: get it right?

997
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 3: Yeah? Like the bar is so high. The every recipe

998
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,720
Speaker 3: is always like fifty steps, you have to have ice cubes,

999
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,240
Speaker 3: blah blah blah.

1000
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 4: I haven't done the pie crust a lot, but from

1001
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 4: being around the pie maker's Thanksgiving et cetera, it always

1002
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 4: the marker is the crust. I feel, of course, never

1003
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 4: the filling. It's like, did we get the crust right?

1004
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 3: And if you screw up the crust then you just

1005
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 3: have a bland like paste.

1006
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's floppy on the bottom. To crust is crumbling apart.

1007
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 3: It's very much like a sandwich if you use bad

1008
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 3: bread for a sandwich. Yeah, it's half the thing.

1009
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 4: It's half the thing about the bread.

1010
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:01,919
Speaker 3: It's all about the bread.

1011
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 4: That's a famous a restaurant, great meatball, sup. Yeah, but

1012
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 4: it's not about the meatballs. It's about the bread. At

1013
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 4: that place, it's all about the bread. All about the

1014
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 4: bread bakes fresh daily. Yeah, it's really important. I just

1015
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 4: want it's important for more people to know that too.

1016
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 4: You want to make a good sandwich, get some good bread.

1017
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 3: Truly. I really feel like this is something that like

1018
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 3: just as a society. In the last ten to fifteen years,

1019
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 3: we've realized, oh right, that ingredient needs to be good too. Yes,

1020
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 3: when you're making a burrito, the tortilla should be good

1021
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 3: because that's something you're still eating.

1022
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a foundation. Yes, I mean I kind of

1023
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 4: felt this way. Well. Kenji helped me with this as well,

1024
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:43,720
Speaker 4: and not to just talk about meat products with Kenji

1025
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 4: and whatever, but like I got into burgers because I

1026
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,879
Speaker 4: wash and I make a smash burger, which is very

1027
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 4: popular now. But I was way ahead of the curve

1028
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 4: and I was like very I was like, what are

1029
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 4: these burgers that we're eating at home, like at people's houses,

1030
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 4: These hockey pucks, these dried out hockey pucks with a

1031
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 4: big like half melted piece of cheddar on it. Flavorless,

1032
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 4: it's flavorless, and it's just like it's like a big

1033
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 4: dry meatball. I was like, this is enough, Like we

1034
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 4: can do. It's not that far.

1035
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 3: It's one of the most simple foods.

1036
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:24,240
Speaker 4: It's really easy and all you need is some good meat. Sure,

1037
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 4: may I like some onions, pickles, a sauce, some sort

1038
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 4: of salt, some sort of salt. I think for me,

1039
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,760
Speaker 4: a melty American cheese doesn't have to be a craft single,

1040
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,240
Speaker 4: but they have sure all different variations now, and a

1041
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 4: Martin's potato roll delicious, and it's just the good, simple ingredients.

1042
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 4: And people have come over to my house and had

1043
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 4: these burgers, been like, oh my god, how did you

1044
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 4: do this?

1045
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 3: Did it take you a minute to figure out how

1046
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 3: to make them properly? Did you have to buy an

1047
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 3: iron dispatch?

1048
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 4: I got the iron, I got the right spatula and everything,

1049
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 4: the right tools. Yeah, you need the right tools, yes,

1050
00:46:58,239 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 4: but you know, I think that's one of the things

1051
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 4: that got me into cooking, was like, you can make

1052
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 4: like these nostalgic amaze, whether it's a grilled cheese, cheeseburger,

1053
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 4: like just a good salad, like some good vegetable, like

1054
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 4: a good just roasted chicken, these basic things, and you

1055
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 4: can make at home very simply and have it tastes

1056
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 4: better than anything you've ever happened. Right. I was like,

1057
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 4: we need to know how to do these things.

1058
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 3: And yet I've never cooked a single thing in my home.

1059
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 4: Really.

1060
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,919
Speaker 3: I scrambled eggs, I bake, you bake, but I really don't.

1061
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 3: I guess during the pandemic, I made meatballs a few.

1062
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 3: This is going to change rice. I'm making pad tie.

1063
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 4: Absolutely, I'm gonna be all over the place. You're going

1064
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 4: to be scooping it all around. I mean, yeah, that's

1065
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 4: They're going to find a lot of a lot of

1066
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 4: good uses for that big old spin. Ye it's a

1067
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 4: right hand just so you know, they come left end right.

1068
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, Oh, because yeah, I guess the curve of

1069
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 3: this thing requires. I mean, a left handed person would

1070
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,439
Speaker 3: be absolutely right that what you're doing there.

1071
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:57,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's it's very cute.

1072
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,359
Speaker 3: It's almost like it's like a kind of car tune

1073
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 3: paint brush or something.

1074
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 4: And you know, and there's actually something else in the back. Oh,

1075
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 4: there is just a little bit, just a little bit

1076
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 4: of something that is some oil. Yeah, I don't know

1077
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 4: that I've ever heard of it. I didn't want to

1078
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 4: leave you with that. And and now I'm giving you

1079
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 4: a job, which is what And I thought about that

1080
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 4: when I was putting it in here. I was like, no,

1081
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 4: I'm giving them a whole job.

1082
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,760
Speaker 3: And I did that changing a lifestyle.

1083
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you don't have to use the oil, but

1084
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 4: if you use the spoon, you might want to put

1085
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 4: some oil on it and rub it the spoon for the.

1086
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 3: Spoon before you even use it the first time.

1087
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 4: You don't know, No, you can. You can use this

1088
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 4: for a while. Okay, you know you don't want to

1089
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 4: put it in the dishwasher. You don't want to soak

1090
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 4: in water. This the wooden spoon, right of course. But

1091
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 4: when it starts to drow it a little bit, you

1092
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 4: take the scratchy side of your little uh, your little

1093
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 4: sponge there and you, uh, you rub some of that

1094
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 4: in there.

1095
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 3: And how do I wash this properly? Just with a

1096
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,840
Speaker 3: little bit of light soap and water. Absolutely, yeah, just

1097
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 3: put this in the dishwasher. No, Bridger, No, you would

1098
00:48:56,520 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 3: put wood in the dishwasher. Put whatever I want the dishware.

1099
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 4: You'll ruin your woods.

1100
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 3: My wedding dress in the dishwak.

1101
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 4: Well, that of course, that actually does work.

1102
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 3: That's a little secret people don't know about I do.

1103
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 4: I do all my dresses in the in the dishwasher,

1104
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 4: not my not my shorts and shirts.

1105
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, that would be ridiculous. But you

1106
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 3: drag a big dress out of the dishwasher, hot and wet.

1107
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 4: It's perfect, It fits perfectly.

1108
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I've never cleaned something or used wood oil

1109
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 3: on anything.

1110
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 4: And I don't expect you to.

1111
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 3: This is a gift.

1112
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 4: This I'm giving you this being like he'll never use it.

1113
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 4: But I couldn't responsibly give you this beautifully crafted wooden

1114
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 4: spoon without the proper right.

1115
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe I throw some of this on a

1116
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,280
Speaker 3: lather up and lay out in the backyard.

1117
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:43,919
Speaker 4: That's kind of what I was thinking a little bit.

1118
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,799
Speaker 3: I feel like my body, my skin could take that.

1119
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 4: Like it works for the wood, why not? Why not

1120
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 4: bridge it?

1121
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 3: This is in the same territory as a What is

1122
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 3: the other thing that's like a nightmare? You have to

1123
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 3: season u iron?

1124
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 4: Yes, a cast iron, cast iron. I have a cast

1125
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 4: iron pan and it's it is very frustrating. I kind

1126
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 4: of I kind of hate it. There are a lot

1127
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 4: of recipes that are like you need a cast iron

1128
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 4: for this.

1129
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 3: Right, and it is in pet territory where it's like

1130
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 3: you have to take care.

1131
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 4: Of it, yes, and it can it can rust and.

1132
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 3: H and you have to season it. What does that

1133
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 3: even mean?

1134
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 4: I don't I don't really know. It's misleading because I

1135
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 4: thought when I was given my first cast iron pan,

1136
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 4: they were like, you have to season it and like

1137
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 4: and you also don't want to wash it because I

1138
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 4: thought like seasoning it was like keeping the flavors in

1139
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 4: it from the previous meals. You know, that's what it

1140
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 4: seasons it, It flavors it or something. But I don't

1141
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 4: think that's what it is. Isn't like you're like, you're

1142
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:48,760
Speaker 4: just creating a coating. So it's like oil, oh oil

1143
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 4: that you're like kind of honestly, that's not a good explanation,

1144
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 4: but it's like after you clean it, you're supposed to

1145
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 4: put some oil in it and then put it in

1146
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 4: the oven and it like bakes into it think and

1147
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 4: like like fills in the pores or I don't really believe.

1148
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 3: It any I'm not doing that at my house now.

1149
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:14,280
Speaker 4: I have just straight up what are they called metal pants,

1150
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 4: the basic ones. All Clad is the brand, and it's

1151
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 4: it's not easy, but it's it's not as challenging as

1152
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 4: cast iron. And it's also, uh, it doesn't have the

1153
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 4: anxiety of the the what you might call it the scratch,

1154
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 4: the which did.

1155
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 3: The scorcher rings?

1156
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 4: NONI you never know what though, because you put one

1157
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 4: of those in the oven above four hundred degrees, you

1158
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:40,759
Speaker 4: don't know what kind of chemicals you release.

1159
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 3: I don't, right, it's a very like potential cancer issue, right.

1160
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, it is, but it's like that's something. It's like

1161
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 4: you see that, you read about it online, and I'm like,

1162
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 4: is it real?

1163
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:51,720
Speaker 3: Then I ignore ignoring.

1164
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 4: I think, well, we're doing fine cancer all the things.

1165
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 4: There's everything gives you cancer, and but also so many

1166
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 4: more things used to give you cancer.

1167
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 3: I think, oh, yeah, cut out some of those fumes.

1168
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 4: At the factories we're putting out in the streets, you know,

1169
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 4: and what the factories we're putting in the water, right,

1170
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 4: all that stuff.

1171
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 3: And maybe non sick pans are my smoking Yeah, it's

1172
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 3: my dirty little habits.

1173
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 4: And that's nothing compared to smoker.

1174
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:20,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's mommy's trees something.

1175
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 4: Are nonstick. I'm so I'm just gonna burn that on

1176
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 4: the stove and just smell it up.

1177
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:34,919
Speaker 3: Well, I'm very excited about potentially using the oil at

1178
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 3: some point and then using the woodspoon for something.

1179
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 4: For something. Who knows, Well, it's it's a I love.

1180
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 3: A fried rice. Maybe it's time I tried it.

1181
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:43,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so.

1182
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,839
Speaker 3: I love because good fried rice. The gap between good

1183
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 3: and bad fried rice is massive. There really is if

1184
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 3: you get a good one, unlike anything what you put

1185
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 3: in yours leftovers.

1186
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 4: It's like, honestly, my fried rice is like rappy, not

1187
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 4: to be served to guests. It's often for my son,

1188
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 4: for me, my wife, just kind of leftovers some like

1189
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 4: some chopped up cabbage, some what else. We got some carrots,

1190
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 4: maybe some peas. I don't I don't do that. I

1191
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 4: don't do the piece. I don't know. I said that

1192
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 4: some people don't many leftover piece to you, I know,

1193
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 4: leftover piece. I don't like peas, don't need them. I'll

1194
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 4: do some some cucumbers on top, and a little cilantro

1195
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 4: with oh, absolutely, and maybe some avocado if we have it.

1196
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 3: Avocado is wrong.

1197
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 4: Avocado is wrong.

1198
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 3: I feel like, where are you putting the avocado and

1199
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 3: just kind of like on.

1200
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,799
Speaker 4: Top you kind of take a little scoop. This is

1201
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 4: not this is not again, this is not how I

1202
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:43,280
Speaker 4: would serve it to guests.

1203
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 3: You would serve it to a dog.

1204
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 4: But yeah, but three and a half year old child dog.

1205
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 4: That's a lot of the stuff I do cook at home.

1206
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,760
Speaker 4: I'm like, this is disgusting. This is not for other people,

1207
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. It's survival. Russ is healthy ish,

1208
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 4: keeping things interesting for me and my family. It's different.

1209
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 4: Oh my god, cooking cooking for a fam as a whole,

1210
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 4: that's a lot. I do a lot of the cooking.

1211
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,360
Speaker 3: Are you cooking daily?

1212
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 4: Eh? I try to. I try to every other.

1213
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 3: Day, every other day. And is it like a plan

1214
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 3: ahead or is it like this is what I'll make tonight?

1215
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 4: A little bit of both. I try to keep it interesting,

1216
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 4: do new stuff, but often it'll just be like a

1217
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 4: go to like some pasta, a canned sauce or a

1218
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 4: you know, jarred sauce. Sure, maybe some some turkey or

1219
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 4: some spinach that I'm adding to it. Okay, okay, that

1220
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 4: sort of thing.

1221
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 3: Do you get complaints?

1222
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah no not complaints, just you know, well,

1223
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 4: of course for my son, he'll be like, ah, yucky

1224
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 4: like or whatever, and then my wife will Jesse, will

1225
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:53,359
Speaker 4: be kind of more like it's good. No, I mean

1226
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 4: it's good. What do you want? Like, yeah, this is

1227
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,399
Speaker 4: like one of these classic things we have like once

1228
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,359
Speaker 4: a week, and like, but.

1229
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 3: Do you have a big winner that you can count on?

1230
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 4: It's really just the pasta. That's what's gonna make everybody

1231
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 4: happy every single time. It's gonna be on the table

1232
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 4: on time, you know, because it's not new, it's easy.

1233
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 3: So yeah, the thing that will really set me off

1234
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 3: and I met. I control myself, of course, but when

1235
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:20,799
Speaker 3: I bake something and my boyfriend says it was good,

1236
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 3: you should do this with the next time.

1237
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:24,840
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and it's like, well.

1238
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 3: Just so you didn't like it, yeah, don't don't talk

1239
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 3: to me.

1240
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, just I know. That's something that I've had to

1241
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 4: adjust as an adult. It's like, you don't need to

1242
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 4: give notes to your partner, you know. You can just

1243
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 4: be like amazing and like you know, they'll figure it

1244
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 4: out or they won't, doesn't matter. Like it's not worth it.

1245
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 4: It's not worth the note.

1246
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 3: If you have your little baking idea, why don't you

1247
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 3: try to Yeah.

1248
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:49,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that would be worse. The next days he's

1249
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 4: baking the same thing. See it's a little different, you know.

1250
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:54,720
Speaker 4: So it's a little different. I see, it's a little

1251
00:55:54,800 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 4: not a song in the bottom. Yeah, relationship of relationship.

1252
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 4: I was thinking the same thing my Jesse will she

1253
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 4: won't give I mean, if anything would be like less salt,

1254
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 4: which I have. That was an old note which I

1255
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 4: really drawn back on it'll be Oh, it was so good.

1256
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,840
Speaker 4: You don't have to use every dish in the kitchen

1257
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 4: and that or or another react to be like, I'm

1258
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 4: only doing half of these dishes and I'm like, okay,

1259
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 4: you know what you don't have. I mean, g that's

1260
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 4: a constant, you know, dishes in the household're figuring out

1261
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 4: the balance and everything. I would never expect her to

1262
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 4: have to do all the dishes. Sometimes I use more

1263
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 4: than I want, right, And.

1264
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 3: It's a horrible job.

1265
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 4: It's a horrible job. And like just and you know,

1266
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 4: it's not as fulfilling as making something. And I like, yes,

1267
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 4: this is delicious. You fed us, but the whole the

1268
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 4: criticism of use. It was great, but you didn't do

1269
00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 4: it right. You didn't do it how I would like

1270
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 4: for you to do it, or like can you clean

1271
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 4: as you go? Oh? And I'm like yeah, I cannot.

1272
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 4: I'm like I'm I'm full of just survival mode.

1273
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I let's see. I am as clean as I go.

1274
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:11,399
Speaker 3: And it's very satisfying. It's uh, you know, by the end,

1275
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,880
Speaker 3: everything is done and you feel like, wow, look at me.

1276
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 4: I just afterwards there's food is on the table, but

1277
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 4: the kitchen is fucked.

1278
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 3: It's totally It's just like to me, now, I'm like, oh,

1279
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 3: I'm a psychopath, am I? Soone's going to get away

1280
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 3: with murder because I cover my tracks. Oh yeah, that's

1281
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 3: what's now clicking for me, And.

1282
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 4: What's clicking for you now is you could get away

1283
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 4: with it.

1284
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm now capable of the perfect crime just through

1285
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 3: learning to bake and clean up after my Yeah.

1286
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:43,840
Speaker 4: That's a really good that's a nice It's kind of

1287
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 4: like I'm thinking like Dexter style TV show baker or something.

1288
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 3: And yeah, the cleaner upper after himself.

1289
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's like and it's like a cherry pie

1290
00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 4: but it's blood and you've got the big knife and

1291
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 4: you're like like eating the knife and you're like it's

1292
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 4: yummy and it's blood. Is something that's a real cool show.

1293
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 3: That's This is an ideas podcast first and foremost. Of course,

1294
00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:08,919
Speaker 3: of course, you didn't see the movie Bring Her Back?

1295
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 4: Did you? No? What movie is that?

1296
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 3: It's a tough movie to watch?

1297
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 4: Is it a new movie?

1298
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 3: That's a horror movie? Bring Her Back about a woman

1299
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 3: who's trying to bring her daughter back from the dead

1300
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 3: using her foster children and it. Oh, it's a tough one.

1301
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 4: That sounds complicated, but I.

1302
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 3: Bring it up because of the putting a knife in

1303
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 3: your mouth. There's a scene where you watch somebody essentially

1304
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 3: eat a knife.

1305
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm so sorry to everyone I wanted to

1306
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 4: see that. That's not a good idea. Bring her back?

1307
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 4: And was it bad? Was it rough? Because it was

1308
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 4: not good?

1309
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 3: Oh, it's a very good it's a very well effective movie.

1310
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 4: Okay, it got you. Yeah, it's like tough in that way.

1311
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not like a crummy horror movie. It's like artful, yeah,

1312
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 3: but also potentially the most disturbing thing I've ever watched.

1313
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 3: But watching somebody essentially try to consume my butcher knife is.

1314
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 4: I don't need it. I don't need it. Like the

1315
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 4: what's the ariaster?

1316
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 3: Oh yes, it's in that category.

1317
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 4: That the with the the one, the one where you

1318
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 4: know the the guys are yes. Yeah, yeah, so I

1319
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 4: was being very articulate. They're all the jump on off

1320
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 4: the cliff, the head smash.

1321
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 3: The head smashing like a watermelon.

1322
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Then it's still there, it's still fresh

1323
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 4: in my my eyes.

1324
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they almost It's almost like a fair style

1325
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 3: where you hit the bell, the thing to shoot up

1326
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,480
Speaker 3: to the bell, but instead we're hitting someone's head on

1327
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 3: a rock.

1328
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 4: Yeah. That movie. I could just feel the they can

1329
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,919
Speaker 4: just feel the flies buzzing around the carcasses that.

1330
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:52,919
Speaker 3: They're Yeah, I mean, I mean speaking of the first

1331
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 3: one was Hereditary, where the head can hang off, stick

1332
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 3: your head out the window.

1333
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 4: Pop right off. What the hell?

1334
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 3: And that's like in the first fifteen minutes, and then

1335
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 3: you just have to live with that feeling.

1336
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 4: You see. I'm more of a I love a like

1337
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 4: a get Out Oh sure, of course it doesn't love

1338
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 4: a get Out classic. And then like Drag Me to Hell.

1339
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 3: Oh, I love dragging in the woods.

1340
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 4: Fun.

1341
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 3: Drag Me to Hell has a tough, I believe stapler scene.

1342
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, somebody put in like in the head. It's

1343
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 4: like funny, it's the it's the witch lady, right, yes,

1344
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 4: and she's she's in her car or something, and.

1345
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 3: She's a mad hag.

1346
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 4: She's a mad hag putting curses on people, blood shooting

1347
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 4: out of her nose or whatever it happens.

1348
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 3: She's like, it's mad that somebody like doesn't buy something

1349
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 3: from her.

1350
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 4: Didn't get alone, she didn't get at the bank.

1351
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 3: The girls wanted to open her small business.

1352
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I just wanted to open a little business.

1353
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 4: And our protagonist is like, no, I guess she no.

1354
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 4: I think her bosses like, just tell her no. If

1355
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 4: you want to keep your job, you tough en up.

1356
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 4: And she has to tell this side.

1357
01:00:57,640 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 3: Of small business owners. Ultimately, that's what.

1358
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,640
Speaker 4: It really is. Yeah, and that's why it works because

1359
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 4: it's about something. Yes, that's just it about. Yeah, what's it?

1360
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 4: What's it about?

1361
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 3: It's about opening a small business. Yeah, about getting a

1362
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 3: small business.

1363
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 4: Loan exactly, and if not, what it actually feels like

1364
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 4: to try to get one of them?

1365
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 3: Yes? Yeah, And ultimately you kind of have to drag

1366
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 3: someone to hell and become something you didn't feel like doing.

1367
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, a little demon, a little demon, a little yeah.

1368
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:28,439
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like we should play a game. Great,

1369
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 3: we're gonna play a game called Gift or a Curse.

1370
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 3: But I need a number between one and ten from you. Okay,

1371
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 3: I need to do some light calculating with the number.

1372
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 3: So right now, you can promote, recommend, do whatever you

1373
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 3: want while I leave.

1374
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 4: Okay, great, and I'm going to promote and do this

1375
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 4: by myself.

1376
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 3: You're doing it all alone.

1377
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 4: Wow. Okay, So just a reminder, I'm I'm Beck Bennett,

1378
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 4: and let's see what's coming up. I'm in this this

1379
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:58,000
Speaker 4: movie Superman that's coming out on July eleventh. It's a

1380
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 4: fantastic movie. I play Steve Lombard. He's a sports writer

1381
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 4: at the Daily Planet. He's in the comic books. He

1382
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 4: can go check him out. Check out as we get

1383
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 4: pedia page if you want to learn more about him.

1384
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 4: Funny guy, kind of an obnoxious dude, makes fun of

1385
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 4: Clark Kent, hits on the ladies. Really fun guy. Incredible movie.

1386
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 4: Uh if you want to believe in the world and

1387
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 4: people again, go see Superman. Can I keep going? Of course? Yeah? Okay, great?

1388
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:27,240
Speaker 4: And I have a podcast coming, my own podcast.

1389
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 3: All of this out, of course?

1390
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 4: Would you say?

1391
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 3: Everything you say from for the next thirty seconds will

1392
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 3: be beep because now I didn't realize I had a competitor.

1393
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 4: Sneaky competitor. I'm pulling viewers. Yes, it's called what's our

1394
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 4: Podcast with Kyle Mooney? Oh my god, on the head gum, Sorry,

1395
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 4: another competitor. I didn't even know. I've never promoted a podcast,

1396
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 4: my own podcast before. I don't know the rules. Maybe

1397
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,919
Speaker 4: I'm breaking all of them. But it's a podcast where

1398
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 4: we don't know what our podcast is about, and we

1399
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 4: have guests on to recommend something and then we give

1400
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 4: it a shot with them in the moment.

1401
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 3: Oh I love that, Thank you. Can you say give

1402
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 3: us an example?

1403
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's see. We had Claudio Doordia.

1404
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 3: I love Claudia the old time.

1405
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 4: She's the best, and she was like, your podcast should

1406
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 4: be about jeans. And then so we switched studios. We

1407
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 4: went to another studio across the hall, and we did

1408
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 4: our podcast about jeans where we just talked about jeans

1409
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 4: and our association with jeans and how we feel about jeans.

1410
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 4: And we had these like segments like sexiest jeans, like

1411
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 4: coolest jeans, and we talk about those things and then

1412
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 4: we kind of incredible, Yeah, we give it a shot

1413
01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 4: for like twenty minutes and we and then we kind

1414
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 4: of afterwards go, how did that go? I think we

1415
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,600
Speaker 4: keep looking and keep looking for our podcast.

1416
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 3: I really liked that idea.

1417
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1418
01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 3: Okay, but that will be beeped. So yeah, the listeners like, well,

1419
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 3: what were they talking about? What was so racist that

1420
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 3: Beck said, yeah that we had to just essent.

1421
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 4: We cut it you know, I try to go viral

1422
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 4: and sometimes I miss the mark.

1423
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, you push the envelope. That's what you have to do. Okay,

1424
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,440
Speaker 3: everybody do whatever Beck just told you.

1425
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, just Superman, Superman.

1426
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 3: The other thing. Ignore. This is how we're gonna play

1427
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,800
Speaker 3: gift or a curse. I'm gonna name three things and

1428
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 3: you're going to tell me if they're a gift or

1429
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 3: a curse and why. Then I'll tell you if you're

1430
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 3: right or wrong, because there are correct answers. Yes, okay.

1431
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 3: Number one and these are all from our Patreon listeners today.

1432
01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 3: This is from Aaron Gift or a curse, John Cougar

1433
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 3: Mellencamp Gift.

1434
01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 4: Why you know the name alone Cougar Melon Camp. I

1435
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 4: mean that's like three things, a cougar, a melon, and

1436
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 4: a camp. It's Cougar Melon Camp. I mean, can you

1437
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 4: just like think of the place, like welcome to Cougar

1438
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 4: Melon Camp. Like that name alone has not even been

1439
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 4: unpacked enough. It's fantastic. It's such a rock and roll name.

1440
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 4: It's almost like it's kind of like makes me think

1441
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 4: of Finn Wolfhart, like Wolfhart.

1442
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 3: That feels calculated.

1443
01:04:56,960 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, it really does. His parents. It's tough, and but

1444
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 4: John Cougar Mellencamp the name alone, I think is a gift.

1445
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 4: And you know, I'm somebody who loves music.

1446
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 3: An interesting quality.

1447
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:11,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I also love food.

1448
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:15,600
Speaker 3: We got stock from very interesting.

1449
01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 4: I like clothes, what else? I like sleeping TV? Very interesting.

1450
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 4: But I honestly couldn't name a song. But I know

1451
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,760
Speaker 4: I've rocked out to his music and it's kind of

1452
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 4: like kind of makes him like it's it almost kind

1453
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:35,439
Speaker 4: of feels like a little old school Van Morrison, kind

1454
01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 4: of like something my parents would put on while they're

1455
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 4: having a barbecue. But I really don't know. But I

1456
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 4: feel like I like his music and it's more of

1457
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 4: a gift. What is the right answer?

1458
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:48,959
Speaker 3: Unfortunately wrong curse, and I have to.

1459
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 4: I think I don't know much about him as a

1460
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 4: person though either, so.

1461
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 3: Well, yes, this is why it's a curse. I've been

1462
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 3: very public about how much I hate the song Jack

1463
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:55,880
Speaker 3: and Diane.

1464
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 4: Oh see, I think I'm okay with it.

1465
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 3: This may be my number one least favorite song of

1466
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 3: all time?

1467
01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 4: Is it because of the way it sounds or the

1468
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 4: lyrics both?

1469
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 3: I think it's kind of little ditty about Jack one

1470
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 3: of the all time worst pieces of music? Wow, maybe

1471
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 3: my number one. I think it's a tie between that

1472
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 3: and Red red Wine. They covered by ub forty.

1473
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 4: Oh my god. So this is this is a whole

1474
01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 4: category of my music that I listened to my parents

1475
01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 4: play growing up.

1476
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 3: Okay you for both of those songs.

1477
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 4: What do you How do you feel about I am yes,

1478
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 4: thank you for saying that. How do you feel about

1479
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:33,880
Speaker 4: Bruce Springsteen Love? Okay? Because I feel like a little

1480
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 4: like the Jack and Diane. It feels a little spring.

1481
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 3: Jack and Diane feels like a store brand version of

1482
01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 3: Bruce Springs. Yeah, where it's like, let's do that. Yeah,

1483
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 3: let's Americana Okay, yeah, chili dogs, let's go for it.

1484
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 3: And but this becomes a curse because maybe he's a

1485
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 3: nice guy. Maybe he's got other music that I wouldn't hate,

1486
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 3: but that you know, stop there, no, thank you, I'm

1487
01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:03,240
Speaker 3: not entering that haunted house. Yeah, and I hope he's

1488
01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 3: not a nice guy. But if he is, my apologies

1489
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 3: to And maybe it's an Oppenheimer situation where he's like,

1490
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:08,360
Speaker 3: what have I done?

1491
01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 4: Right? Right? Right? Right right? You know, he was a

1492
01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:13,200
Speaker 4: good guy, good intention, but then he right created something

1493
01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 4: that he didn't know it was going to be that big.

1494
01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:18,520
Speaker 3: Right open Pandora's Box and has now kind of ruined

1495
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 3: my life.

1496
01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, but on your to your point, I've never heard

1497
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 4: anybody say I love John Cougar Mellon like doesn't never

1498
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:30,760
Speaker 4: I know, I've never heard that when people talking about

1499
01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:33,600
Speaker 4: their favorite artists or albums. Cougar, Melon Camp.

1500
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 3: Do not know a single Mellon Camper. I don't know.

1501
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 4: Absolutely.

1502
01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 3: I can't imagine he's one that inspires a lot of

1503
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 3: that sort of hardcore fandom. But I could be wrong.

1504
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he's a copier. Yeah.

1505
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 3: Okay, so you've gotten one wrong so far. Good luck

1506
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 3: with the rest of the game.

1507
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 4: Hey, I'm okay with getting them wrong.

1508
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll see next. This is from a Heidi gift

1509
01:07:57,320 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 3: or a curse. Washing your hands next to someone in

1510
01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 3: a pub restroom and performatively lathering longer than usual. This

1511
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 3: kind of goes back to a little bit what we

1512
01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 3: were talking about earlier.

1513
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:14,919
Speaker 4: Okay, I mean that specifically, the feeling I'm gonna break

1514
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:18,799
Speaker 4: this down, the feeling of, you know, needing to impress

1515
01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 4: somebody next to you, I think is a curse. But

1516
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 4: the result of the actual washing your hands because of that,

1517
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 4: and fully cleaning them is a gift.

1518
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:30,680
Speaker 3: Okay, but you have to commit to one or the other.

1519
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say then it then, Neil, I'm gonna say

1520
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:37,040
Speaker 4: it's a curse.

1521
01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 3: Wrong, This is a gift, and you if you should

1522
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:42,799
Speaker 3: have you had the logic there.

1523
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:43,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, I had the logic.

1524
01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 3: You get to be on stage for a minute, you

1525
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:48,719
Speaker 3: get to perform, and what happens the social pressure leads

1526
01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 3: to you cleaning your hands.

1527
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:53,200
Speaker 4: Yes, however, okay, but here's my thing. The reason I

1528
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 4: switched to curse is because I don't think that you

1529
01:08:57,160 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 4: need to perform the washing to actually wash your hands.

1530
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 4: I bet if you're somebody who would succumb to the

1531
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:07,760
Speaker 4: pressures of you know, the virtue signaling of washing your

1532
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 4: hands for the whole birthday song twice or whatever it is,

1533
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 4: and really getting in all the crass. Isn't that what

1534
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 4: it was? Happy Birthday twice.

1535
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:17,000
Speaker 3: I haven't washed my hands five years ago.

1536
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 4: That was the whole thing. I don't want to wash

1537
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 4: my hands enough. But you know, I just I just

1538
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:24,840
Speaker 4: think that you're probably going to clean them well enough,

1539
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, And what you really need

1540
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:33,640
Speaker 4: to do is get down to why you're doing what

1541
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 4: you're doing and who you're doing it for. And if

1542
01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 4: you're doing it for some stranger next to you in

1543
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 4: a bathroom, then you have some things to look at.

1544
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 3: Well, you don't get the point. I don't care.

1545
01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I know that this is cutthroat. I know

1546
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,880
Speaker 4: that this is not a debate. No no, no, no,

1547
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 4: not a discussion. There's a right and wrong. We can

1548
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 4: talk about it.

1549
01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. Course, there's a very high standard and you have

1550
01:09:57,400 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 3: not met it yet.

1551
01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 4: Of course. Now that is that. That is that goes

1552
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 4: for the rest of my life. There's a there's a

1553
01:10:04,160 --> 01:10:06,360
Speaker 4: standard that I don't meet and that's okay, and that

1554
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:08,759
Speaker 4: feels That feels good. So let's see what happens.

1555
01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 3: Let's see what happens with the third one. This is

1556
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 3: from Candace Gift or a curse when they say the

1557
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:14,040
Speaker 3: movie title.

1558
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 4: In the movie, Oh my, that's a curse. Why because

1559
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 4: it's you're stuck, you know, it's like you're boiling this

1560
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:27,599
Speaker 4: whole movie down. It's like you have the you have

1561
01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 4: the title, you're watching the movie, and then they say

1562
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,600
Speaker 4: it and you're like, oh, God, like couldn't you just

1563
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 4: like So that's that's what I'm watching here is the

1564
01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 4: title drop? You know what I mean? Like, I can't

1565
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:43,040
Speaker 4: just be watching the movie and it's called something. You

1566
01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:47,040
Speaker 4: have to be like, you know, I can't think of

1567
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 4: a fake movie name and then say it. But or

1568
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:52,719
Speaker 4: like I guess, well, I guess Welcome to Jurassic Park

1569
01:10:52,840 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 4: was pretty cool.

1570
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 3: Oh, interesting, But that kind of isn't quite the title.

1571
01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 4: It's it's not.

1572
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 3: Which would be a great title of movie. Yeah, another

1573
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 3: movie it would be.

1574
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:05,280
Speaker 4: But yeah, can you think of an example where they

1575
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 4: dropped the title in a way that's like.

1576
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 3: Oh, do you know what I actually watched the other night?

1577
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 3: It was a Mike Lee movie, Secrets and Lies. Yeah,

1578
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:14,520
Speaker 3: And at one point somebody says secrets.

1579
01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:16,439
Speaker 4: And Lies And how did you feel when you heard that?

1580
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:21,479
Speaker 3: Well, are you done? Answering, Well you done? Do you

1581
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 3: want to talk through your thing anymore?

1582
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 4: No? No, no to curse, curse.

1583
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:31,480
Speaker 3: You failed the game. You failed the game. God absolutely

1584
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 3: totally struck out zero ow that's gotta sting ow OW.

1585
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:42,920
Speaker 4: I was just hoping for one, for one right answer,

1586
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:45,880
Speaker 4: just to like now I'm going to walk away being

1587
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:47,679
Speaker 4: like me and Bridger did not connect.

1588
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:50,599
Speaker 3: There was no clicking off balance like.

1589
01:11:50,520 --> 01:11:52,840
Speaker 4: There was, and that's what I came for, was just

1590
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:54,759
Speaker 4: a nice connected time.

1591
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 3: And it's been very cold, and it's.

1592
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 4: Been very cold. He doesn't cook. He's going to use

1593
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:03,599
Speaker 4: wood oil for his wood in his rock hard body

1594
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:08,120
Speaker 4: because wooden didn't quite work there. But he's gonna get

1595
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:10,559
Speaker 4: But that's okay as long as you use the oil. Right,

1596
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:11,600
Speaker 4: I'm happy.

1597
01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 3: This episode is gonna labeled a missfire, huge miss fire,

1598
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:20,719
Speaker 3: and that's it's hard to hear, but you tried. I tried.

1599
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I'm used to it. Like I said,

1600
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:29,040
Speaker 4: it's okay. You know, it's really just about having fun

1601
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:32,679
Speaker 4: and just kind of being yourself, trying your best, Yeah,

1602
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 4: trying your best, not trying too hard, not trying too

1603
01:12:36,360 --> 01:12:38,559
Speaker 4: hard for other people. Right. You know, now I'm not

1604
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:41,240
Speaker 4: sitting down here going like I'm just letting it out,

1605
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:44,400
Speaker 4: you know, I'm just being myself, and I hope that's okay.

1606
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:47,799
Speaker 4: I wasn't coming in here being like guns blazing or anything.

1607
01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 4: I was just just being the bee and.

1608
01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 3: You kind of fell on your face and you'll learn

1609
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:51,800
Speaker 3: from that.

1610
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 4: And that's part of the process, absolutely, And that's in

1611
01:12:54,200 --> 01:12:54,799
Speaker 4: this business.

1612
01:12:54,880 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 3: In this business, you've got to learn.

1613
01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:57,639
Speaker 4: You have to learn on camera. You have to learn

1614
01:12:57,720 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 4: on camera in front of in front of your audiences.

1615
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:01,960
Speaker 4: That's what people love to see.

1616
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 3: Somebody just kind of making their way through the process.

1617
01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:08,960
Speaker 4: Charlie Chaplin, Yes, left and right, coffy as hell, all

1618
01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:09,639
Speaker 4: over the place.

1619
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:13,680
Speaker 3: Well, it is a gift. Uh, you know, this is

1620
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:18,559
Speaker 3: a nice little it's a little wink to the observant viewer.

1621
01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 3: You know, somebody's gonna say, oh, I remember the title

1622
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 3: of the movie, and now they're oh, what an interesting

1623
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 3: easter egg. Yeah, I got to hear the title of

1624
01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:27,840
Speaker 3: the movie that I know. It also might be a

1625
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 3: nice like maybe you forgot the title of the movie

1626
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 3: and for the last hour and a half you've been

1627
01:13:32,040 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 3: kind of sweating trying to remember. You're like, this is

1628
01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:37,599
Speaker 3: ruining them a really good Yeah, I wish I could

1629
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:40,400
Speaker 3: enjoy this, And then you get it and you're like, Okay,

1630
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 3: at least the next twenty minutes or so will be

1631
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 3: if I can unpack and figure it out, and then

1632
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 3: when I see the movie again, hopefully I won't forget.

1633
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 4: Oh.

1634
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's a nice reminder. It's good riding of

1635
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:55,599
Speaker 3: what you're watching, Yes, bringing you in, Yes, what if

1636
01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:56,679
Speaker 3: it's the last thing.

1637
01:13:56,720 --> 01:13:57,880
Speaker 4: What if it's like the ending.

1638
01:13:58,200 --> 01:13:58,879
Speaker 3: Oh interesting.

1639
01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 4: I don't know why I'm thinking Gothica. I don't know

1640
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 4: if I've never seen that movie. At the end, at

1641
01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 4: the end, seeing is that halle Berry, I think.

1642
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 3: Hallie turns to camera and goes Gothica.

1643
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:13,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, now that's a Gothica. That was a big old Gothica.

1644
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:17,800
Speaker 3: Credits roll. Yeah, that was the one mistake they made

1645
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 3: with that movie.

1646
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:20,720
Speaker 4: I know, I know, it's like, it's just you got

1647
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:23,680
Speaker 4: everything's got to be just right. Make one mistake in

1648
01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 4: the movie's crap.

1649
01:14:25,200 --> 01:14:27,599
Speaker 3: But she kind of demanded in contract, I get to say.

1650
01:14:27,439 --> 01:14:28,640
Speaker 4: I get to say Gothica.

1651
01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:31,559
Speaker 3: At the end, she was thinking about the audience. Yeah,

1652
01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:32,639
Speaker 3: thinking I need.

1653
01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:35,360
Speaker 4: To kind of sounds like, well, it kind of sounds

1654
01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:39,240
Speaker 4: like Gotcha. It's a new prank show Gothica.

1655
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:45,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, kind of a god show. The hosts and black

1656
01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:47,760
Speaker 3: lipstick and platform boots and.

1657
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 4: They're like Gothica and they're right, that's what they say

1658
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:52,360
Speaker 4: at the end when they gotcha.

1659
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:54,240
Speaker 3: They turned into a cloud of bats and fly away.

1660
01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:55,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, so many ideas.

1661
01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 3: We have a TV show, Yes, we got a TV show.

1662
01:14:58,280 --> 01:15:00,679
Speaker 3: Two TV shows, and I can't remember either of them.

1663
01:15:00,720 --> 01:15:04,200
Speaker 4: Well that was that was one and then there was

1664
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:06,880
Speaker 4: the baker. Oh yeah, of course they could be a

1665
01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 4: movie too.

1666
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 3: Yes, I feel like but let's you know, let's do

1667
01:15:09,560 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 3: at least three seasons.

1668
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 4: Yes, of course, let's make some money. Yeah, you've got

1669
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:15,679
Speaker 4: to make a little indication. Yes, make a little dough.

1670
01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 3: Okay, you failed the game. That's a gift.

1671
01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 4: Failed the game.

1672
01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:22,080
Speaker 3: Now Anals needs to atleast does a gift a curse

1673
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 3: which we both have to speak to. And this is

1674
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 3: probably Look, this is one chance for you to outdo me. Okay, correct,

1675
01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 3: you might finally get a foot up on me. This

1676
01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:34,320
Speaker 3: is the most important part, Analis. What are we doing?

1677
01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:37,639
Speaker 5: Gift or a curse? Watching a movie you've already seen

1678
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:39,639
Speaker 5: with someone who's never seen it?

1679
01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:41,599
Speaker 3: Do you want to speak to this or should I?

1680
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 4: Well, you know, there's we don't need an answer to this,

1681
01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:47,560
Speaker 4: but it's is it a movie you like?

1682
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 3: Oh?

1683
01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 4: And I'm gonna say it is because you're watching it

1684
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:58,080
Speaker 4: again with something right hasn't seen it. I do you

1685
01:15:58,080 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 4: have a thought? Do you have something?

1686
01:15:59,479 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 3: I have a thought?

1687
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:02,000
Speaker 4: You go ahead, I have a thought too.

1688
01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 3: I think that this is a gift. This is a

1689
01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:09,680
Speaker 3: little for the next one ninety minutes to three hours,

1690
01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:12,759
Speaker 3: you are going to be You're gonna be the smartest

1691
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:15,240
Speaker 3: person in the room. The person next to you has

1692
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:18,160
Speaker 3: no idea what's going on, and you're you're thinking yourself,

1693
01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:20,560
Speaker 3: this naive idiot.

1694
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 4: Gothica, I gotica there, I got to go there, And

1695
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 4: you're about the about the Gothica right here.

1696
01:16:28,040 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 3: And they're just dumb as rocks for at least the

1697
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 3: next few.

1698
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:37,280
Speaker 4: Minutes, and they're going and you're yep, yes, it's such.

1699
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 3: The power dynamics is so luxurious. You get to just

1700
01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:42,759
Speaker 3: bathe in that absolutely, and I think that's a gift.

1701
01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:44,760
Speaker 4: I completely agree. I was going to say a gift

1702
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:46,920
Speaker 4: as well. You know, if it was a curse, you

1703
01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 4: wouldn't be sitting down to watch the movie that you

1704
01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 4: watch and being like, I've seen this already. Yeah, it's fun.

1705
01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 4: You're in the driver's seat in a different way. You

1706
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:56,920
Speaker 4: get to feel it's almost like, you know, with the

1707
01:16:57,120 --> 01:16:59,719
Speaker 4: with the wrong person, I wouldn't be this person, of course,

1708
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 4: but it's almost like you made the.

1709
01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:03,160
Speaker 3: Movie part of the filmmaker.

1710
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:05,720
Speaker 4: You're like, I showed this to you and I've seen it,

1711
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:08,080
Speaker 4: and I'm I am the expert on it. You know,

1712
01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:10,479
Speaker 4: somebody could. I've definitely been in the position where people

1713
01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:13,040
Speaker 4: would basically go as far as to like take full

1714
01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:15,000
Speaker 4: control of the experience.

1715
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 3: It's a personality.

1716
01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:20,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good personality talking about the behind the

1717
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:23,600
Speaker 4: scenes of it and everything, how the shot was done,

1718
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:26,720
Speaker 4: whatever it may be. But yeah, I think that for

1719
01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:29,680
Speaker 4: the person who's already seen it. Yeah, it's definitely a

1720
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:31,000
Speaker 4: gift on a lease.

1721
01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:36,280
Speaker 5: You're right, it's a gift. Oh, thank god, it's a

1722
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:40,040
Speaker 5: gift getting to have that kind of power over anybody.

1723
01:17:40,160 --> 01:17:42,000
Speaker 5: Oh how delicious. Like you said, you get to see

1724
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:45,759
Speaker 5: into a future that they don't know exists yet. And also,

1725
01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:48,200
Speaker 5: this is to me a little insight. So if it

1726
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:51,240
Speaker 5: is a movie that you do like and you're with

1727
01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 5: somebody who doesn't like it, then well maybe you just

1728
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:55,960
Speaker 5: learn something about them that you need to kind of

1729
01:17:56,320 --> 01:17:57,719
Speaker 5: stow away for for later.

1730
01:17:58,000 --> 01:18:00,360
Speaker 3: Maybe the last movie you watch with them.

1731
01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:02,800
Speaker 4: This is maybe you're gonna break up with them now

1732
01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 4: if you're more aligned with the movie than the person.

1733
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:08,599
Speaker 3: That's right, Yes, exactly, And we always side with the movie.

1734
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:11,000
Speaker 4: Always side with the movies in this in this business.

1735
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:14,080
Speaker 3: Do you know, do you know what This is a

1736
01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 3: brief thing. But something that feels longer than watching a

1737
01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 3: movie with another person to me is showing another person

1738
01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:22,439
Speaker 3: a song. The agony of the three to four minutes

1739
01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:25,560
Speaker 3: of being like, oh, try this, and they're if they're

1740
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:26,400
Speaker 3: in the room.

1741
01:18:26,160 --> 01:18:29,400
Speaker 4: With you, especially if you're it's not if you're like

1742
01:18:29,439 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 4: maybe putting on a record and it's in the background,

1743
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:34,240
Speaker 4: but if you're like, here's listen to this song, it

1744
01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 4: is a lot, and you're looking at them and they're.

1745
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 3: Kind of like, you're getting closer and closer.

1746
01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:43,839
Speaker 4: I couldn't agree more. It is so much more intense.

1747
01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:48,240
Speaker 4: Oh and then because the the reaction is because I

1748
01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:50,599
Speaker 4: think with a with a song, you can after you

1749
01:18:50,640 --> 01:18:53,160
Speaker 4: listen to a song, like you like a song, you

1750
01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 4: listen to it five six times, you're like, it gets

1751
01:18:55,560 --> 01:18:58,720
Speaker 4: better every time in it you can feel it. But

1752
01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 4: if you listen to a great song first time with

1753
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:04,040
Speaker 4: somebody who's having that experience, you're like, yeah, it's good. Yeah,

1754
01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:05,720
Speaker 4: you can't get to that lee, Yeah, yeah, yeah you can.

1755
01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:07,680
Speaker 4: It's never going to be as gratifying as as the

1756
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:10,800
Speaker 4: movie Torture. Torture. Of course, that could be a curse.

1757
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:13,439
Speaker 3: You won the game of the second game. I want it,

1758
01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:15,000
Speaker 3: we all want, we all want.

1759
01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:16,240
Speaker 4: We're all winners, which is great.

1760
01:19:16,360 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 3: And on a lise, Now we need to answer a

1761
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:21,640
Speaker 3: question people are writing in or sending voice notes to.

1762
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 3: I said, no gifts Gmail dot com with some sort

1763
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:27,280
Speaker 3: of requirements for the voice note.

1764
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:30,720
Speaker 5: They should be under sixty seconds and please record them

1765
01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:31,639
Speaker 5: in a quiet room.

1766
01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:34,160
Speaker 3: Okay. So they should be an hour long, recorded in

1767
01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:37,760
Speaker 3: a busy grocery store okay, or on the back of

1768
01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:40,559
Speaker 3: your motorcycle. Should we do a voice note?

1769
01:19:41,160 --> 01:19:45,439
Speaker 6: Hi, Bridger, Onalise and guest, I have a question about

1770
01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:51,639
Speaker 6: how to respond to a friend who insists on referring

1771
01:19:51,800 --> 01:19:56,160
Speaker 6: to my normal life as a lifestyle. I'm in my

1772
01:19:56,320 --> 01:20:01,639
Speaker 6: mid thirties, single, no kids, and she married, has kids,

1773
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:06,360
Speaker 6: stay at home mom and will frequently say things like,

1774
01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:10,200
Speaker 6: well with your lifestyle, x y z am. I wrong

1775
01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:13,000
Speaker 6: to not like my normal life being referred to as

1776
01:20:13,000 --> 01:20:15,160
Speaker 6: a lifestyle. How should I respond to this?

1777
01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:16,160
Speaker 4: Thank you?

1778
01:20:17,160 --> 01:20:20,000
Speaker 3: Mm hmm okay. So I have at least one listener

1779
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:23,800
Speaker 3: whose life is a mess. They're out of control. Ah,

1780
01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:25,840
Speaker 3: and they have this lifestyle that I don't approve of,

1781
01:20:26,320 --> 01:20:28,880
Speaker 3: and now they're asking me for advice. Yeah, that's an

1782
01:20:28,920 --> 01:20:31,519
Speaker 3: interesting one. And she's got this friend who's trying to

1783
01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 3: kind of set her straight, right, And instead of you know,

1784
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:39,639
Speaker 3: conforming to whatever the friend wants, she's turning to a podcast. Yeah,

1785
01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:43,679
Speaker 3: how do you deal with that friend who has this lovely,

1786
01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:46,479
Speaker 3: gorgeous life. She's made all of the right choices.

1787
01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:51,320
Speaker 4: Absolutely, not she's in a hellhole.

1788
01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:55,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's in a hellhole, a downward spiral. Absolutely, And

1789
01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:58,160
Speaker 3: she obviously doesn't see anything wrong with him.

1790
01:20:58,320 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 4: No, No, she's stuck. When you're in hell, you don't

1791
01:21:00,800 --> 01:21:02,320
Speaker 4: know you're in hell. No, it's only when you get

1792
01:21:02,320 --> 01:21:03,880
Speaker 4: out of hell that you know you were in hell.

1793
01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 3: Yes, you all know that. And her friend is panicking,

1794
01:21:07,560 --> 01:21:09,479
Speaker 3: she's she's saying, how do I help?

1795
01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:10,280
Speaker 4: Right? Right?

1796
01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:14,719
Speaker 3: Why don't I just kind of subtly pass aggressive nature,

1797
01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:16,880
Speaker 3: call it a life stay. Maybe she'll pick up on

1798
01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:20,280
Speaker 3: this friend is so dense, This.

1799
01:21:20,280 --> 01:21:21,880
Speaker 4: Friend is so dense. Maybe I'll just have a little

1800
01:21:21,880 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 4: pause in between life and style. Well, you know, with

1801
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 4: your life style, say it in a different way, and

1802
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:29,639
Speaker 4: maybe I'll help her that way.

1803
01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:34,000
Speaker 3: This friend is approaching air quotes, you know, lifestyle.

1804
01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:41,720
Speaker 4: Lifestyle, A little handwave of your lifestyle. That's all a

1805
01:21:41,800 --> 01:21:44,400
Speaker 4: little dance, move your lifestyle.

1806
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 3: Purely in the service of trying to help her mess of.

1807
01:21:46,800 --> 01:21:50,160
Speaker 4: A light right, and she's turning to us. She doesn't

1808
01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:55,720
Speaker 4: even know who I am. I know too, it's very risky. Now,

1809
01:21:56,080 --> 01:21:57,880
Speaker 4: now do you what do you? What do you have

1810
01:21:57,920 --> 01:21:58,439
Speaker 4: to say to this?

1811
01:21:58,520 --> 01:22:00,280
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know that this person should continue

1812
01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:02,519
Speaker 3: listening to the podcast. I need to cut these people

1813
01:22:02,520 --> 01:22:04,680
Speaker 3: out of the podcast. We have a kind of you know,

1814
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:06,760
Speaker 3: everybody that listens to this podcast is on the straight

1815
01:22:06,800 --> 01:22:10,880
Speaker 3: and arrow has at least two children, a loving husband, god,

1816
01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:13,760
Speaker 3: and a gorgeous car and backyard.

1817
01:22:13,880 --> 01:22:15,479
Speaker 4: You got to have a backyard for the kids to

1818
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:17,760
Speaker 4: run around. Yeah, and maybe a driveway to wash that

1819
01:22:17,920 --> 01:22:20,000
Speaker 4: car on the weekends.

1820
01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:21,280
Speaker 3: When you're feeling like washing the car.

1821
01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:22,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, you don't have to.

1822
01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:24,479
Speaker 3: You don't have to. You could just go to the

1823
01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 3: place you know your detailer.

1824
01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 4: But to do it at home, it's it's when you,

1825
01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:30,439
Speaker 4: it's when you kind of it's an intimate action.

1826
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:33,679
Speaker 3: That's right. You throw your bikini on, you're.

1827
01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:37,360
Speaker 4: Really giving your car some tender, loving care. You're slipping

1828
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:42,000
Speaker 4: a spider loving car. Great car wash, yeah, yeah.

1829
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:43,919
Speaker 3: And ideas podcast, Yeah.

1830
01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:48,040
Speaker 4: An ideas podcast. Left and right, I mean, you know, do.

1831
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:50,400
Speaker 3: You wanna I mean, do you have any advice for

1832
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:51,840
Speaker 3: this person? The lifestyle?

1833
01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:58,280
Speaker 4: You know, she's saying lifestyle because she's she's jealous.

1834
01:22:58,560 --> 01:23:00,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, because her life sucks.

1835
01:23:00,479 --> 01:23:03,559
Speaker 4: She can't. She can't have a lifestyle when you have kids?

1836
01:23:03,600 --> 01:23:04,880
Speaker 4: She did she say two kids?

1837
01:23:04,880 --> 01:23:07,080
Speaker 3: Two kids who she's thinking to put up for adoption.

1838
01:23:07,240 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 3: Of course she is.

1839
01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 2: She can't.

1840
01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:10,840
Speaker 4: People, are you kidding me? Who wants a life when

1841
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:15,599
Speaker 4: you can have a lifestyle. I mean so, I think

1842
01:23:15,640 --> 01:23:18,680
Speaker 4: in a way it is actually a compliment. It's like, oh,

1843
01:23:18,720 --> 01:23:20,799
Speaker 4: you get to have a lifestyle. You get to choose

1844
01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:24,760
Speaker 4: what you do in the morning or at night or

1845
01:23:24,920 --> 01:23:29,200
Speaker 4: any time you are not like, fully, I only have

1846
01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:32,840
Speaker 4: one child, and like that was such a life style chance.

1847
01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 4: And then now you talk to I talked to parents

1848
01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:37,960
Speaker 4: who have two kids, and they're like, one is an accessory,

1849
01:23:38,360 --> 01:23:40,800
Speaker 4: that's what they say. Two is a lifestyle. I'm like,

1850
01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:45,240
Speaker 4: this is this is not a lifestyle change. So two kids,

1851
01:23:45,320 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 4: it's a lot, you know. That's she's probably not even

1852
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:48,200
Speaker 4: seeing her.

1853
01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:51,000
Speaker 3: Husband increasingly distant.

1854
01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:55,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, they partner off. Kid one takes the other kid.

1855
01:23:55,880 --> 01:24:00,200
Speaker 4: They're not seeing each other. So she is my advice

1856
01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:02,800
Speaker 4: for you to be able to handle it is she's

1857
01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:05,240
Speaker 4: she's jealous, she wishes she had a style.

1858
01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:06,320
Speaker 3: And you make her nervous.

1859
01:24:06,479 --> 01:24:09,439
Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, she she's like, oh, that must be nice

1860
01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:11,639
Speaker 4: with your lifestyle. You can just go have a glass

1861
01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:14,439
Speaker 4: of wine with a friend at five pm or whatever.

1862
01:24:14,880 --> 01:24:18,240
Speaker 4: You can just sit in just watch TV in bed

1863
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:21,920
Speaker 4: and go to a yoga class whenever or whatever. So

1864
01:24:22,520 --> 01:24:26,320
Speaker 4: you know, that's that's to our to the listener. That's

1865
01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:28,720
Speaker 4: how you do. That's deck might help you deal with that.

1866
01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:31,520
Speaker 3: Sure, Maybe start using the word yourself.

1867
01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 4: Yeah and mean yeah, I would say, start talking about

1868
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 4: her life as a lifestyle, right, because that was a

1869
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 4: lifestyle choice. She decided to have tea.

1870
01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:39,720
Speaker 3: She has a lifestyle as well.

1871
01:24:39,800 --> 01:24:41,720
Speaker 4: I would say, though, like having kids is kind of

1872
01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:45,280
Speaker 4: like reaching some level of fame through at least through acting.

1873
01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 4: Like people with acting people say, well, you chose this.

1874
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:49,479
Speaker 4: It's like I didn't want to be famous. I was like,

1875
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:50,439
Speaker 4: I wanted to do theater.

1876
01:24:50,760 --> 01:24:51,160
Speaker 3: You chose.

1877
01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:53,599
Speaker 4: It was like, I was, you chose it. You didn't

1878
01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:55,200
Speaker 4: want to be an actor. You wanted to be famous, and.

1879
01:24:55,160 --> 01:24:56,120
Speaker 3: I wanted to be bothered.

1880
01:24:56,200 --> 01:24:57,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wanted to be I didn't want to You

1881
01:24:57,600 --> 01:24:59,639
Speaker 4: wanted to walk down the street and have people scream

1882
01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:00,000
Speaker 4: at you.

1883
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:04,320
Speaker 3: That was ultimately your childhood's dream was how can I

1884
01:25:04,360 --> 01:25:05,240
Speaker 3: be bothered? Nonsense?

1885
01:25:05,360 --> 01:25:08,080
Speaker 4: Yes, and have people just like wanting to take photos

1886
01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:10,600
Speaker 4: with me with these phones that don't exist yet, and

1887
01:25:10,640 --> 01:25:15,080
Speaker 4: it's being like capturing my every move. Yeah, it's kind

1888
01:25:15,080 --> 01:25:16,400
Speaker 4: of like having a kid. It's like, oh, I want

1889
01:25:16,400 --> 01:25:17,719
Speaker 4: to have a family, and then you have a family

1890
01:25:17,760 --> 01:25:21,360
Speaker 4: and you're like, well I didn't want this. No, it's

1891
01:25:21,400 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 4: it is fantastic having a family, but it is like

1892
01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:26,000
Speaker 4: one of those things where you're like, oh, it's a

1893
01:25:26,080 --> 01:25:29,920
Speaker 4: lot zoom. But you should start calling her lifestyle.

1894
01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:31,960
Speaker 3: Start throwing it around about everybody in your life.

1895
01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:34,439
Speaker 4: Absolutely, Yeah, make it, just throw it around.

1896
01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:37,719
Speaker 3: Become somebody that they write in about you to the podcast.

1897
01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:40,240
Speaker 4: Absolutely, and let her have a problem with the lifestyle,

1898
01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:42,519
Speaker 4: right choice of words, and then you can be like, well,

1899
01:25:42,520 --> 01:25:43,920
Speaker 4: that's what you say about my life.

1900
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 3: And that's a big friendship ending fight.

1901
01:25:47,280 --> 01:25:48,840
Speaker 4: That's when you fight. That's when you grab your big

1902
01:25:48,880 --> 01:25:57,360
Speaker 4: spoon and yeah, finish her off, get the spoon, finish

1903
01:25:57,360 --> 01:25:59,360
Speaker 4: her off. God damn it.

1904
01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:01,479
Speaker 3: Well we answered the question perfect.

1905
01:26:01,560 --> 01:26:03,280
Speaker 4: I think it was perfect. I think we gave her

1906
01:26:03,360 --> 01:26:05,559
Speaker 4: some inner piece and also some action.

1907
01:26:06,200 --> 01:26:08,880
Speaker 3: You know, an actionable item item?

1908
01:26:10,040 --> 01:26:11,120
Speaker 4: Is that a thing that people say.

1909
01:26:11,200 --> 01:26:15,280
Speaker 3: I think an actual item is a thing, right, It's

1910
01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:17,839
Speaker 3: like a thing you can maybe is it a therapy

1911
01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:19,439
Speaker 3: thing where it's like, this is something that you can

1912
01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:21,200
Speaker 3: do to correct whatever's going on.

1913
01:26:21,240 --> 01:26:22,360
Speaker 4: It feels like a therapy thing.

1914
01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:24,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't feel like if a boss was like,

1915
01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:27,080
Speaker 3: here's an actionable item, here's something you can do, that's

1916
01:26:27,360 --> 01:26:30,280
Speaker 3: I'm leaving the office. Yeah, I don't want to be here.

1917
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:33,439
Speaker 3: But it is an actionable item, and hopefully this is

1918
01:26:33,479 --> 01:26:36,240
Speaker 3: the first step to getting out of her disgusting lifestyle.

1919
01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:40,519
Speaker 4: Absolutely good luck, good having some direction and purpose and

1920
01:26:40,600 --> 01:26:42,519
Speaker 4: then creating a person and something.

1921
01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:47,120
Speaker 3: Well, beck, I have my spoon, I have my oil.

1922
01:26:49,920 --> 01:26:50,879
Speaker 3: I'm so thrilled.

1923
01:26:51,200 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 4: What a what a given? Now I'm looking at the

1924
01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:55,040
Speaker 4: other ones and yeah, what a what? It's going to

1925
01:26:55,120 --> 01:26:57,360
Speaker 4: go perfectly if you want to put it here.

1926
01:26:57,920 --> 01:26:58,040
Speaker 2: You know.

1927
01:26:58,080 --> 01:27:00,160
Speaker 3: Occasionally an item comes to the podcast that I do

1928
01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:02,719
Speaker 3: just take home and it becomes part of my life style.

1929
01:27:03,680 --> 01:27:04,880
Speaker 3: And this is one that's going to go in a

1930
01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:08,640
Speaker 3: kitchen drawer. How could I not use this? Yeah, you know,

1931
01:27:09,400 --> 01:27:10,120
Speaker 3: a gorgeous spoon.

1932
01:27:10,200 --> 01:27:12,519
Speaker 4: Honestly, you could that could it could just be a

1933
01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:16,080
Speaker 4: decoration the wall. Nail it to the wall, ye, nail

1934
01:27:16,120 --> 01:27:18,000
Speaker 4: that just put a couple of nails in it, right

1935
01:27:18,040 --> 01:27:21,240
Speaker 4: into the wall, so you can't even take it off

1936
01:27:22,200 --> 01:27:25,240
Speaker 4: and just be like that. That's my cookings and it's

1937
01:27:25,320 --> 01:27:26,200
Speaker 4: locked into the wall.

1938
01:27:26,240 --> 01:27:27,799
Speaker 3: I'm saving it for a special occation.

1939
01:27:28,160 --> 01:27:31,320
Speaker 4: It's for Christmas. Take it down on Christmas.

1940
01:27:33,360 --> 01:27:34,680
Speaker 3: I've had a wonderful time with you.

1941
01:27:34,760 --> 01:27:37,160
Speaker 4: I have as well. Thank you so much. Thank you here.

1942
01:27:37,640 --> 01:27:40,040
Speaker 4: What a wonderful space you've created for guys to come

1943
01:27:40,040 --> 01:27:43,679
Speaker 4: in and just be themselves, judgment free, let.

1944
01:27:43,560 --> 01:27:46,320
Speaker 3: Loose, finally a place in podcast.

1945
01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:48,160
Speaker 4: It's wonderful. I don't know what you're going to say

1946
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Speaker 4: when I leave here.

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Speaker 3: You know that's going to get very critical. Yeah, of

1948
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Speaker 3: course it's gonna be like, take his name.

1949
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Speaker 4: Off the list, right, he's not coming back.

1950
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Speaker 3: Yes, block the email of course, as long as I

1951
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Speaker 3: got in one something fine hot, least throw away the burner,

1952
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Speaker 3: et cetera. But thank you, absolutely thank you for having

1953
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Speaker 3: me listener. The podcast is over. I don't want anything

1954
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Speaker 3: to do with you for the next week. Get on,

1955
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Speaker 3: I love you. Goodbye. I said, No Gifts is an

1956
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Speaker 3: exactly right production. Our senior producer is on Alisa Nelson,

1957
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Speaker 3: and our episodes are beautifully mixed by Ben Holliday. The

1958
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Speaker 3: theme song is by Miracle Worker Amy Mann, and we

1959
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Speaker 3: couldn't do it without our booker, Patrick Cottner. You must

1960
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Speaker 3: follow the show on Instagram. At I said No Gifts,

1961
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Speaker 3: that's where you're going to see pictures of all these

1962
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Speaker 3: wonderful gifts I'm getting. And don't you want to see

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Speaker 3: the gifts?

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Speaker 1: He lievt did you hear? Funa man myself perfectly clear?

1965
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Speaker 1: But you're I guess you gotta come to me empty?

1966
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Speaker 1: And I said, no guests. Presence is presents enough.

1967
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Speaker 2: I already had too much stuff, So how do you

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Speaker 2: dare to surbey me