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Speaker 1: I accidentally revealed that my boyfriend's mom is an actually

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Speaker 1: Israel mom, and then it gets worse. How does it

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Speaker 1: get worse? Obligatory? This story actually happened about a year ago.

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Speaker 1: I eighteen female at the time, was dating a boy

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Speaker 1: named Jacob eighteen male at the time. His father early

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Speaker 1: sixties was a mechanic and his mom mid fifties was

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Speaker 1: a stay at home mom. They're your typical white suburban

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Speaker 1: family in the South, and I asked Jacob if they

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Speaker 1: could meet me, even though we had only been dating

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Speaker 1: a month. Hey parents At the dinner. I met his mom, dad,

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Speaker 1: and older brother, older sister, and her newborn daughter. The

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Speaker 1: dinner went well, and I was chatting about my volunteer

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Speaker 1: work at my college's blood drive, to which his father

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Speaker 1: explains that his doctor told him he was OH negative

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Speaker 1: and a universal blood donor. My boyfriend mentions he is

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Speaker 1: also OH, but his siblings casually mentioned they are both AB.

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Speaker 1: I don't think anything of it because my boyfriend had

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Speaker 1: mentioned that his mom was married once before and was widowed.

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Speaker 1: The following conversation went like this, me, Oh, that's really cool.

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Speaker 1: You're a really rare blood type. If you don't mind

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Speaker 1: me asking, is your mom mom's blood type A and

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Speaker 1: your dad's B. Or is your dad's A and your

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Speaker 1: mom's older sister? Uh? What do you mean he's oh,

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Speaker 1: gesturing to my boyfriend's father. Me. Oh, I know, I

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Speaker 1: was just asking about your biological father. But of course

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Speaker 1: you don't have to answer if you don't want to. Ah,

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Speaker 1: you just walked into some family drama that you can't

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Speaker 1: back out of. Right here, I noticed his mom get

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Speaker 1: really pale, and in that moment, I knew I fucked up.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, older brother, what do you mean biological father?

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Speaker 2: Me?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't mean anything by it. Jacob's dad

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Speaker 1: got real quiet and was looking directly into his wife's face.

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Speaker 1: He knew instantly. I look over to Jacob, who I

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Speaker 1: think was starting to put the full picture of what

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Speaker 1: was happening together. Jacob's dad, Are you saying that they're

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Speaker 1: not my biological kids because my wife swore up and

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Speaker 1: down in marriage counseling. By marriage counseling, they mean the

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Speaker 1: pastor that they were my kids and that she would

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Speaker 1: never cheat on me. Yeah, turns out she never had

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Speaker 1: any kids from a previous marriage. Ah, Jacob's mom, I

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Speaker 1: would never cheat on you. Older sister and older brother

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Speaker 1: are your kids, Jacob's dad, Opie, why do you think

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Speaker 1: they're not my kids? And honestly, blood is one way,

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Speaker 1: but the other way he should have just used public

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Speaker 1: data check.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, like you can see people's real name, court wreckords

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Speaker 2: and even other family members.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and so if you want to look someone up

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Speaker 1: that's a little suspicious, go to public data check dot

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Speaker 1: com stay safe, or check our Lincoln bio. So what

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Speaker 1: happened next? So is what Opie says. I tried to

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Speaker 1: excuse myself because it was very clear that the cat

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Speaker 1: was out of the bag joints and with a quick

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Speaker 1: Google search for my boyfriend, he starts cussing out his mom. Dude,

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Speaker 1: this dinner is like nice little family dinner as unraveled.

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine you're you're like an eighteen year old kid,

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Speaker 2: Like it's already nerve wracking meeting the.

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Speaker 1: Parents and then you cause this the divorce? Literally yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh my, so you know how like it's like the

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Speaker 1: parents like, hey, like, child, you're not the reason for

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Speaker 1: our divorce, you know, mommy and daddy just has some issues.

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Speaker 1: Oh he's the reason.

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Speaker 2: You're the reason.

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Speaker 1: I tried to excuse myself because it was very clear

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Speaker 1: that the cot was out a bag, and with a

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Speaker 1: quick Google search from my boyfriend, he starts cussing out

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Speaker 1: his mom. She starts to sob and apologize over and

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Speaker 1: over again, and I am forced to explain ninth grade

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Speaker 1: biology to his father about the fact that the only

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Speaker 1: kids he could have produced were with the blood type

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Speaker 1: O A or B but absolutely not Abe. Jacob was

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Speaker 1: the only one with the possibility of being his son,

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Speaker 1: and the possibility I know only you're sad. They all

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Speaker 1: start screaming at one another. Older sister eventually leaves because

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Speaker 1: her newborn is screaming too as his kid. Oh, copuley,

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Speaker 1: it's hers. His mom goes and locks herself in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: His older brother follows her, screaming asking who is the

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Speaker 1: real father. My boyfriend is trying to figure out if

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Speaker 1: his dad still wants to be their father. I eventually

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Speaker 1: have a friend come pick me up. We broke up

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Speaker 1: shortly after, but not after figuring out that none of

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Speaker 1: the kids produced from the marriage were his Oh. They

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Speaker 1: found out VI opportunity tests for sure, just kids, and

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Speaker 1: they were divorced happily. Ever after, Wow, I guess.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to think from the perspective of the boyfriend,

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Speaker 2: because I mean, that's just so upsetting. I could see

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Speaker 2: your eighteen year old kid, you realize your mom is

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Speaker 2: not your mom and all of your.

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Speaker 1: His mom is still his mom. His dad's not his dad.

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Speaker 1: Oh I thought they said all the kids, all the

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Speaker 1: kids are from the mom. The mom was like, so

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Speaker 1: the mom was the one being it was the one cheating, right,

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Speaker 1: but she birthed all her kids. She was cheating different guys,

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Speaker 1: right right right? Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah yeah, wow yeah that your dad was

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Speaker 2: not your real dad.

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Speaker 1: I guess. So, I mean, would you would you break

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Speaker 1: up with with someone for causing my parents divorce?

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Speaker 2: Like like this, like she didn't intentionally cause it, but

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Speaker 2: like what what do you think you would do?

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Speaker 1: How do you react? You think it's not her fault,

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Speaker 1: it's not her fault if she's great, Like I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I would. I don't think I would.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, right, like she didn't truly

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Speaker 2: cause it. But also I also I don't think they

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Speaker 2: broke up because of this, oh, because they like broke

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Speaker 2: up shortly after. I mean, also this puts stress on

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Speaker 2: a relationship for sure. Oh yeah, he's he's probably like,

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Speaker 2: I'm just trying to like figure out my life right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I can't imagine, like, uh, the girlfriend would

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Speaker 1: have a great relationship with a mom after like you

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Speaker 1: literally cate like like fucked up my whole life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, imagine imagine I get married. Yeah Okay, Yeah that's

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Speaker 2: bull and dodged, honestly.

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Speaker 1: If you like this story, check out this one where

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Speaker 1: another mom might be lying about cheating.

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Speaker 2: Oh