WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Serving Up Rizz

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated.

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<v Speaker 2>When you have a first date with somebody you're extremely

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<v Speaker 2>attracted to and you're going out to a restaurant where

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<v Speaker 2>you know you only got one shot at this, how

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<v Speaker 2>important is it to get a good waiter?

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<v Speaker 3>I never actually even thought of that, you know, to

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<v Speaker 3>be honest, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it could make or break the entire date.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's not like you have a choice, like you're

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<v Speaker 3>just given the person who's in your session.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, imagine the waiter walks by, spills the soup. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>he offers to lick it off, then I pay him.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh, well, date over?

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, because you got a new date?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that?

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<v Speaker 5>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>A whole new thing?

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<v Speaker 4>How did I know that about you?

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<v Speaker 2>But that's what happened with one of our listeners recently.

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<v Speaker 2>The waiter was involved big time on a date apparently.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's talk to Lucas about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Lucas, how you doing, man?

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<v Speaker 5>How's it going?

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<v Speaker 4>You got soup licked?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hoping that she did tell us about this person

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<v Speaker 2>that you met the other night. Who is he or she?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? So this girl Henley Okay, was I'm the waiter obviously,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm the waiter.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, did you meet her while you were at work?

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<v Speaker 5>I did? She was in there with a guy in

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<v Speaker 5>my restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, bold, sir, Oh you hit on a girl in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle of another date.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yes, I don't do it.

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<v Speaker 6>Often often, just twice a week.

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<v Speaker 1>Often.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, okay, here's the thing. Were you her waiter?

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<v Speaker 4>I guess is the first question.

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<v Speaker 7>I was their waiter?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>How did you get the signs that that was even? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I can kind of tell after a while they

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<v Speaker 5>didn't seem to be having that grade of a time,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I was thinking it was a first date and

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<v Speaker 5>she was checking her phone a lot, and you know,

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<v Speaker 5>it was. It was kind of obvious to me. I've

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<v Speaker 5>seen it enough times. Okay, so I have a move

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<v Speaker 5>that I don't very often.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've done.

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<v Speaker 6>This, but this is the signature.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you have a label for it, must mean

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<v Speaker 2>you do it often enough.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your move?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, first of all, I was like, you know, they

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<v Speaker 5>weren't talking that much, but when I would come over there,

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<v Speaker 5>I would. I was very personable and we were I

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<v Speaker 5>was laughing with her and stuff. So we're kind of

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<v Speaker 5>establishing a little rapport. But when he went up to

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<v Speaker 5>go to the bathroom, like at the end, I went

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<v Speaker 5>up to her and I was like, is this a

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<v Speaker 5>first date? And she was kind of surprised when she

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<v Speaker 5>was like, yeah, actually it is. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>do you want to get out of it?

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<v Speaker 4>It's the end, sir.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, But like I didn't know if they were

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<v Speaker 5>going you know, for all I know they were going

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<v Speaker 5>to do something else. I was trying to get.

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<v Speaker 6>Movie yeah, Netflix and Hill.

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<v Speaker 1>So you offered a step in and save her. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you do that?

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<v Speaker 5>So I was like, give me your number and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to call you in like two minutes from the

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<v Speaker 5>back and just trust me. So she did okay, and you.

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<v Speaker 6>Got her numbers.

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<v Speaker 4>So she did want out of it.

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<v Speaker 5>She did, she did. I would write about that.

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<v Speaker 6>Now what happened?

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<v Speaker 5>So I called. They were sitting there and like kind

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<v Speaker 5>of getting ready to pay the bill, and I called

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<v Speaker 5>out like, this is so and so from your aunt's

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<v Speaker 5>assisted living facility. There's an emergency with her. We need

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<v Speaker 5>you to come down here right away.

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<v Speaker 6>Just volumes up and the guy can hear right.

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<v Speaker 5>I made sure to tell her to put it on speaker.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so he could here.

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry, I gotta take this. Hi, you're on speaker.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, it's an emergency with my aunt the whole restaurant. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>say that again.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god? Did he did he believe it?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? It was like she was out of there like

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<v Speaker 5>like a minute later. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's not I mean, like, at no point are

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<v Speaker 3>you ever hitting on her during this?

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<v Speaker 5>The thing is like I just kind of knew there

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<v Speaker 5>was a connection there from every interaction I had with her,

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<v Speaker 5>like as her waiter were laughing like okay, the guy

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<v Speaker 5>like in the bathroom and I'm like getting her number. Like,

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<v Speaker 5>it was definitely a vibe there.

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<v Speaker 2>Every time you went over to the table, one of

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<v Speaker 2>her buttons just happened to be undone his buttons.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye.

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<v Speaker 3>I imagined him modeling to the table with his pants.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you got her out of that other date

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<v Speaker 2>with the other guy.

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<v Speaker 1>What's happened since then?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, that's the thing. So we texted a little bit

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<v Speaker 5>later that night. She was like thank you so much,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, no problem. We kind of left

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<v Speaker 5>it like we were going to talk again, and I,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, it kind of cooled down like after

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<v Speaker 5>that so I want to ramp it back up. I

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<v Speaker 5>want to get in touch with her like and let

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<v Speaker 5>her know that I'm interested, which is what I was

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<v Speaker 5>calling you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, I mean, it's a nice thing that you

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<v Speaker 2>did to save this girl Henley from her bad date,

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<v Speaker 2>but personally, I don't know if I'm ever going to

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<v Speaker 2>trust a waiter ever again when.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out of the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I just thought they were being nice to

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<v Speaker 2>me for tips, but really clearly they want more.

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<v Speaker 5>Well you never know.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, that's a higher tip I think from.

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<v Speaker 6>Tell us your restaurant so we can make resis.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want it to work out with this, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>at least give it a try. We're gonna come back,

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<v Speaker 1>holler and try and get you your second.

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<v Speaker 2>Date update right after this awesome All right, man, hold

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<v Speaker 2>on second date update. When you're at a restaurant, some

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<v Speaker 2>waiters are kind of checked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Never even come by to refill your water glass.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like a complaint right now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's some are more attentive, and then some have a

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<v Speaker 2>signature move to steal your date.

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<v Speaker 1>Away from you.

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<v Speaker 4>They said very often. Yeah, they didn't say never that's.

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<v Speaker 1>What Lucas says. He quote doesn't do this often. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you hear that? World, I don't do.

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<v Speaker 2>My signature move very often, but it is my signature

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<v Speaker 2>the old sick aunt in the rest home trick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, And that's what he did.

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<v Speaker 2>He noticed a cute girl out on a bad date

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<v Speaker 2>at his restaurant, So when the guy got up to

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<v Speaker 2>go to the restroom, he swooped in and told her

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<v Speaker 2>the plan that was he was going to call her

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<v Speaker 2>from the back and let her know that her sick

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<v Speaker 2>aunt needs her immediately over at the assisted living facility.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so it worked, and according to him, she was thankful.

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<v Speaker 2>But now this girl Henley is not answering his text

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<v Speaker 2>ask for a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you think Derek is Derek?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, it's Lucas, But that's okay, not.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember one, Lucas.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, do you think it was like a maybe

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<v Speaker 3>by comparison thing, like she was flirting with you because

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<v Speaker 3>by comparison to her crappy date, you were awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>But g.

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<v Speaker 4>D, it's just reality, right, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean maybe if she gets on the phone

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<v Speaker 3>with us, by comparison, you're gonna look like an angel.

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<v Speaker 2>Again, what do you think Lucas, were you one step

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<v Speaker 2>above a crap sandwich?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Man, I hope not. I thought we had a real

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<v Speaker 5>connection honestly talking about the menu.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you know when you can feel a connection with so.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that was rude to me. That was rude, Lucase,

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<v Speaker 4>and I apologize.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's all legit. I mean I know when someone's

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<v Speaker 5>just like being friendly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>You sense the real vibe going on whenever you were

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<v Speaker 2>over at the table with Henley. So let's see if

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<v Speaker 2>we can get that going for you one more time.

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<v Speaker 2>About to dial her number.

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<v Speaker 6>Hopefully she answers here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Henley.

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<v Speaker 4>That's me.

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<v Speaker 2>You're you're on the radio right now with a show

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<v Speaker 2>called Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Actually, yeah, for real, real's excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, hopefully you're this excited when I tell you why

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<v Speaker 2>we're calling, because yeah, that's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It kind of us to do with that.

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<v Speaker 2>We're we're doing a second date update. That's where we

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<v Speaker 2>try and help one of our listeners that has been

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<v Speaker 2>on a date with somebody. But this is a little

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<v Speaker 2>different because you didn't necessarily go on a date with

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<v Speaker 2>this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He was your waiter the date, so there's no.

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<v Speaker 4>Strict rules to our segment, Henley.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you know who I'm talking about? You were

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<v Speaker 2>on a date and like a waiter kind of helped

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<v Speaker 2>you get out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>His name was Lucas.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, wait, oh God to the bad date you

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<v Speaker 4>were on? Or oh God to Lucas.

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<v Speaker 7>Is Lucas the waiter?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean yes, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>She couldn't remember his actual name, so remember, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of interesting that you don't remember his name either,

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<v Speaker 2>because he should just changed.

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<v Speaker 7>Why this act?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he said that you guys basically exchanged phone numbers,

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<v Speaker 2>So I thought you would save his name in the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he'd just be waiter, hero waiter.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't save his number.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you didn't have any intention of calling him back?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that why?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I was on the date, but from what we heard,

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<v Speaker 2>that date wasn't going very well, and that's why Lucas

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<v Speaker 2>felt like he had to Well Lucas did.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you said that he wanted out of the date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I agreed to like do the emergency call

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<v Speaker 1>with the ant right.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Okay, so he told you all that.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, yeah, he felt like he really rescued you

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<v Speaker 3>from a bad date by pretending to call from the

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<v Speaker 3>nursing home.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I don't know how to say this, but the

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<v Speaker 7>whole point of that was so we could get away

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<v Speaker 7>from him.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, why wouldn't to get away from the waiter

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<v Speaker 3>usually just pay and then leave.

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<v Speaker 7>No, we just we needed to get out. I guess

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<v Speaker 7>in the moment, I was like, Okay, if he thinks

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<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna call him later, but we're leaving now, the like,

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<v Speaker 7>maybe I'll call him sometimes and that's fine. I just

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<v Speaker 7>want to leave now.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why did you want to get away from him?

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<v Speaker 7>Because he was annoying?

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<v Speaker 6>He was annoying.

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<v Speaker 4>What's the whole thing a lie? Were you on a

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<v Speaker 4>first date?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you like the guy you were out with?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okays, like I knew she liked me, so Lucas thought

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<v Speaker 3>you liked him, and that's where the lie is.

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<v Speaker 4>You did not. It's not a lie. You didn't like him.

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<v Speaker 7>You hitting on me the whole night. No, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 7>even just me and my gay to notice there were

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<v Speaker 7>literally there was someone at the other table looking at

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<v Speaker 7>us the whole time. And like making eye contact with me.

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<v Speaker 6>They were like, oh, sympathizing.

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<v Speaker 4>They were still in the cringe.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't think it's possible that it was just really

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<v Speaker 2>good customer service.

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<v Speaker 7>It kind of passed that after the first five seconds.

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<v Speaker 4>Why what did I say to make you think he

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<v Speaker 4>was hitting on you? In the first five seconds.

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<v Speaker 7>He was like just he came towards table way more

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<v Speaker 7>than he needed to. Obviously, he came every two minutes,

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<v Speaker 7>and every single time he was just looking at me,

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<v Speaker 7>fully positioned, facing me, towards me.

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<v Speaker 5>At all.

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<v Speaker 7>Ye.

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<v Speaker 6>Rude, Yeah, it.

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<v Speaker 7>Is rude, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>This is awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I mean, but you got to admit you

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<v Speaker 2>and Luke has had a little bit of a connection

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<v Speaker 2>going right, No, that's the whole point.

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<v Speaker 4>When did you hear that in her story?

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<v Speaker 2>The whole point when she gave him a number or

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<v Speaker 2>the eye contact just to get must something happening between

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<v Speaker 2>you two to make him think that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's pretty common with men, they think that

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<v Speaker 3>there's a connection.

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<v Speaker 1>Please stop hitting on me right now. I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just get Lucas on the phone, because he's actually

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<v Speaker 2>on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Other line listening right now. One actually actually, oh.

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<v Speaker 7>My god, than so much. Thanks for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's worse for him than you, and now I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of feel bad.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But Lucas, are you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear that?

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<v Speaker 5>I did? I just I mean, it was pretty obvious

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<v Speaker 5>that I saved you Henley.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, no, why did you feel like you were saving her?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that was like a bad first date if

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<v Speaker 5>I've ever seen one.

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<v Speaker 3>So from his angle, doubling down is what we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to do.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, Lucas, you said you didn't look good. Were you

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<v Speaker 6>having fun?

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<v Speaker 2>Henley?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's hard when the waiter servey too.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, seriously, it was just I was so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, as a waiter, I'm sure Lucas has seen like

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<v Speaker 2>hundreds and hundreds of first dates happen in front of him,

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<v Speaker 2>he said. Out of all of them, yours stuck out

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<v Speaker 2>as a particularly bad one.

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<v Speaker 7>That's convenient.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and don't to be embarrassed because you're on the

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<v Speaker 5>radio right now.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, No, it's okay, that's not what all

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<v Speaker 7>was happening. That is not what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I will prove it, Henley.

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<v Speaker 2>If it was such a good date with this other guy,

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<v Speaker 2>name five things that you liked about him off the

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<v Speaker 2>top of your head.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 4>Five. I can't even name five things about anybody in

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<v Speaker 4>this room.

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<v Speaker 1>Told you, I'm not that good of a date.

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<v Speaker 7>He was cute, he was smart, he paid, he was polite,

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<v Speaker 7>and he's not Lucas.

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<v Speaker 3>Lucas counses too because she only got the four.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, look at that.

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<v Speaker 2>She remembered his name and no one in this room

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<v Speaker 2>could do that, So there shows there must be a connection.

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<v Speaker 1>We're building the rapport right now, We're still trying. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the time to ask chemistry explode.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling the vibe happening over the phone lines right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love, seriously, I would love to send you

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<v Speaker 2>guys out on a second date that we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry first date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yea with a different waiter.

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<v Speaker 1>You're dating Lucas this time.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought we had such a strong connection. I definitely

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<v Speaker 5>think you have a much better time if.

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<v Speaker 7>We went out.

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<v Speaker 1>What would your sick aunt want you to do at

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<v Speaker 1>the think about what she wants.

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<v Speaker 3>At this point, we should just offer to send Henley

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<v Speaker 3>out with her first original.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, yes, I would love that.

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<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't like it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well we know that's clear.

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<v Speaker 6>You've made that very clear. Lucas.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So Henley, it's seeming like it's going to be

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<v Speaker 2>a no there for Lucas.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's good to be specific here.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, whatever, dude, I hope your real Anne doesn't get sick.

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<v Speaker 6>That was passive, A.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet thing to say. He doesn't want her to get sick.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really kind. Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I know we didn't really have time to discuss this,

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<v Speaker 2>but jose you were a waiter for a hot minute.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, did you ever swoop in on a customer

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<v Speaker 2>or on somebody else's date while you were working?

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<v Speaker 6>No, not on a date. I've had girls that would

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<v Speaker 6>leave numbers, or I would try to put a vibe

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<v Speaker 6>out like you could tell somethings flirting, but never in

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<v Speaker 6>a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I know you're still single.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it should have you know, that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>You just hooked up with the subway employees in the

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<v Speaker 2>meat freezer.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a gentleman.

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<v Speaker 6>A different thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean I feel like that call was unfortunately

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<v Speaker 2>doomed before we even made it.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe do you ever feel bad like I

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<v Speaker 3>know you're trying to do right?

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<v Speaker 4>By our listener who calls in for help, but at

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<v Speaker 4>some point you got to give up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel anything, Brook, but you know what I

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<v Speaker 1>will feel.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll feel for the listeners that email us in the

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<v Speaker 2>next week or so.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel for you and.

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<v Speaker 2>We will try our hardest to get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>Update email us. We'll call that person who's not calling

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<v Speaker 2>you back and go check out all of our second dates.

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<v Speaker 2>We have them up on our podcast on Spotify, Apple podcasts,

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<v Speaker 2>wherever you get yours, apt Brook and

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning