Speaker 1: Second date up dated.
Speaker 2: When you have a first date with somebody you're extremely
Speaker 2: attracted to and you're going out to a restaurant where
Speaker 2: you know you only got one shot at this, how
Speaker 2: important is it to get a good waiter?
Speaker 3: I never actually even thought of that, you know, to
Speaker 3: be honest, Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: Because it could make or break the entire date.
Speaker 3: But it's not like you have a choice, like you're
Speaker 3: just given the person who's in your session.
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Like, imagine the waiter walks by, spills the soup. Oh,
Speaker 2: he offers to lick it off, then I pay him.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, well, date over?
Speaker 4: Wow, because you got a new date?
Speaker 1: Is that?
Speaker 5: Why?
Speaker 1: A whole new thing?
Speaker 4: How did I know that about you?
Speaker 2: But that's what happened with one of our listeners recently.
Speaker 2: The waiter was involved big time on a date apparently.
Speaker 2: So let's talk to Lucas about it.
Speaker 1: Lucas, how you doing, man?
Speaker 5: How's it going?
Speaker 4: You got soup licked?
Speaker 2: I'm hoping that she did tell us about this person
Speaker 2: that you met the other night. Who is he or she?
Speaker 5: Okay? So this girl Henley Okay, was I'm the waiter obviously,
Speaker 5: and I'm the waiter.
Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know that.
Speaker 4: Wait, did you meet her while you were at work?
Speaker 5: I did? She was in there with a guy in
Speaker 5: my restaurant.
Speaker 2: Oh, bold, sir, Oh you hit on a girl in
Speaker 2: the middle of another date.
Speaker 5: Well, yes, I don't do it.
Speaker 6: Often often, just twice a week.
Speaker 1: Often.
Speaker 4: I mean, okay, here's the thing. Were you her waiter?
Speaker 4: I guess is the first question.
Speaker 7: I was their waiter?
Speaker 1: Yes, okay.
Speaker 4: How did you get the signs that that was even? Okay?
Speaker 5: Well, I can kind of tell after a while they
Speaker 5: didn't seem to be having that grade of a time,
Speaker 5: Like I was thinking it was a first date and
Speaker 5: she was checking her phone a lot, and you know,
Speaker 5: it was. It was kind of obvious to me. I've
Speaker 5: seen it enough times. Okay, so I have a move
Speaker 5: that I don't very often.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've done.
Speaker 6: This, but this is the signature.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you have a label for it, must mean
Speaker 2: you do it often enough.
Speaker 1: What's your move?
Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I was like, you know, they
Speaker 5: weren't talking that much, but when I would come over there,
Speaker 5: I would. I was very personable and we were I
Speaker 5: was laughing with her and stuff. So we're kind of
Speaker 5: establishing a little rapport. But when he went up to
Speaker 5: go to the bathroom, like at the end, I went
Speaker 5: up to her and I was like, is this a
Speaker 5: first date? And she was kind of surprised when she
Speaker 5: was like, yeah, actually it is. And I was like,
Speaker 5: do you want to get out of it?
Speaker 4: It's the end, sir.
Speaker 5: So yeah, But like I didn't know if they were
Speaker 5: going you know, for all I know they were going
Speaker 5: to do something else. I was trying to get.
Speaker 6: Movie yeah, Netflix and Hill.
Speaker 1: So you offered a step in and save her. How
Speaker 1: do you do that?
Speaker 5: So I was like, give me your number and I'm
Speaker 5: going to call you in like two minutes from the
Speaker 5: back and just trust me. So she did okay, and you.
Speaker 6: Got her numbers.
Speaker 4: So she did want out of it.
Speaker 5: She did, she did. I would write about that.
Speaker 6: Now what happened?
Speaker 5: So I called. They were sitting there and like kind
Speaker 5: of getting ready to pay the bill, and I called
Speaker 5: out like, this is so and so from your aunt's
Speaker 5: assisted living facility. There's an emergency with her. We need
Speaker 5: you to come down here right away.
Speaker 6: Just volumes up and the guy can hear right.
Speaker 5: I made sure to tell her to put it on speaker.
Speaker 4: Oh so he could here.
Speaker 6: Sorry, I gotta take this. Hi, you're on speaker.
Speaker 1: Wait, it's an emergency with my aunt the whole restaurant. Yeah,
Speaker 1: say that again.
Speaker 4: Oh my god? Did he did he believe it?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah? It was like she was out of there like
Speaker 5: like a minute later. Yeah.
Speaker 3: But it's not I mean, like, at no point are
Speaker 3: you ever hitting on her during this?
Speaker 5: The thing is like I just kind of knew there
Speaker 5: was a connection there from every interaction I had with her,
Speaker 5: like as her waiter were laughing like okay, the guy
Speaker 5: like in the bathroom and I'm like getting her number. Like,
Speaker 5: it was definitely a vibe there.
Speaker 2: Every time you went over to the table, one of
Speaker 2: her buttons just happened to be undone his buttons.
Speaker 1: Ye.
Speaker 3: I imagined him modeling to the table with his pants.
Speaker 4: Sorry.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you got her out of that other date
Speaker 2: with the other guy.
Speaker 1: What's happened since then?
Speaker 5: Well, that's the thing. So we texted a little bit
Speaker 5: later that night. She was like thank you so much,
Speaker 5: and I was like, no problem. We kind of left
Speaker 5: it like we were going to talk again, and I,
Speaker 5: I don't know, it kind of cooled down like after
Speaker 5: that so I want to ramp it back up. I
Speaker 5: want to get in touch with her like and let
Speaker 5: her know that I'm interested, which is what I was
Speaker 5: calling you guys.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I mean, it's a nice thing that you
Speaker 2: did to save this girl Henley from her bad date,
Speaker 2: but personally, I don't know if I'm ever going to
Speaker 2: trust a waiter ever again when.
Speaker 1: I'm out of the restaurant.
Speaker 2: I mean, I just thought they were being nice to
Speaker 2: me for tips, but really clearly they want more.
Speaker 5: Well you never know.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, that's a higher tip I think from.
Speaker 6: Tell us your restaurant so we can make resis.
Speaker 1: I don't even want it to work out with this, Well,
Speaker 1: at least give it a try. We're gonna come back,
Speaker 1: holler and try and get you your second.
Speaker 2: Date update right after this awesome All right, man, hold
Speaker 2: on second date update. When you're at a restaurant, some
Speaker 2: waiters are kind of checked out.
Speaker 1: Never even come by to refill your water glass.
Speaker 4: It sounds like a complaint right now.
Speaker 2: It's some are more attentive, and then some have a
Speaker 2: signature move to steal your date.
Speaker 1: Away from you.
Speaker 4: They said very often. Yeah, they didn't say never that's.
Speaker 1: What Lucas says. He quote doesn't do this often. Do
Speaker 1: you hear that? World, I don't do.
Speaker 2: My signature move very often, but it is my signature
Speaker 2: the old sick aunt in the rest home trick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And that's what he did.
Speaker 2: He noticed a cute girl out on a bad date
Speaker 2: at his restaurant, So when the guy got up to
Speaker 2: go to the restroom, he swooped in and told her
Speaker 2: the plan that was he was going to call her
Speaker 2: from the back and let her know that her sick
Speaker 2: aunt needs her immediately over at the assisted living facility.
Speaker 2: Oh so it worked, and according to him, she was thankful.
Speaker 2: But now this girl Henley is not answering his text
Speaker 2: ask for a date.
Speaker 4: Do you think Derek is Derek?
Speaker 2: Right, it's Lucas, But that's okay, not.
Speaker 1: Remember one, Lucas.
Speaker 3: I mean, do you think it was like a maybe
Speaker 3: by comparison thing, like she was flirting with you because
Speaker 3: by comparison to her crappy date, you were awesome.
Speaker 2: But g.
Speaker 4: D, it's just reality, right, Like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean maybe if she gets on the phone
Speaker 3: with us, by comparison, you're gonna look like an angel.
Speaker 2: Again, what do you think Lucas, were you one step
Speaker 2: above a crap sandwich?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: Man, I hope not. I thought we had a real
Speaker 5: connection honestly talking about the menu.
Speaker 6: Well, you know when you can feel a connection with so.
Speaker 4: I mean that was rude to me. That was rude, Lucase,
Speaker 4: and I apologize.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's all legit. I mean I know when someone's
Speaker 5: just like being friendly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: You sense the real vibe going on whenever you were
Speaker 2: over at the table with Henley. So let's see if
Speaker 2: we can get that going for you one more time.
Speaker 2: About to dial her number.
Speaker 6: Hopefully she answers here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Henley.
Speaker 4: That's me.
Speaker 2: You're you're on the radio right now with a show
Speaker 2: called Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Actually, yeah, for real, real's excited.
Speaker 2: Well, hopefully you're this excited when I tell you why
Speaker 2: we're calling, because yeah, that's what I mean.
Speaker 1: It kind of us to do with that.
Speaker 2: We're we're doing a second date update. That's where we
Speaker 2: try and help one of our listeners that has been
Speaker 2: on a date with somebody. But this is a little
Speaker 2: different because you didn't necessarily go on a date with
Speaker 2: this guy.
Speaker 1: He was your waiter the date, so there's no.
Speaker 4: Strict rules to our segment, Henley.
Speaker 2: So do you know who I'm talking about? You were
Speaker 2: on a date and like a waiter kind of helped
Speaker 2: you get out of it.
Speaker 1: His name was Lucas.
Speaker 4: Oh god, wait, oh God to the bad date you
Speaker 4: were on? Or oh God to Lucas.
Speaker 7: Is Lucas the waiter?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yes, it's okay.
Speaker 2: She couldn't remember his actual name, so remember, but it's
Speaker 2: kind of interesting that you don't remember his name either,
Speaker 2: because he should just changed.
Speaker 7: Why this act?
Speaker 2: Well, he said that you guys basically exchanged phone numbers,
Speaker 2: So I thought you would save his name in the phone.
Speaker 1: I guess he'd just be waiter, hero waiter.
Speaker 7: I didn't save his number.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you didn't have any intention of calling him back?
Speaker 4: Is that why?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, I was on the date, but from what we heard,
Speaker 2: that date wasn't going very well, and that's why Lucas
Speaker 2: felt like he had to Well Lucas did.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you said that he wanted out of the date.
Speaker 1: That's why I agreed to like do the emergency call
Speaker 1: with the ant right.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, so he told you all that.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, he felt like he really rescued you
Speaker 3: from a bad date by pretending to call from the
Speaker 3: nursing home.
Speaker 7: Okay, I don't know how to say this, but the
Speaker 7: whole point of that was so we could get away
Speaker 7: from him.
Speaker 3: Oh wait, why wouldn't to get away from the waiter
Speaker 3: usually just pay and then leave.
Speaker 7: No, we just we needed to get out. I guess
Speaker 7: in the moment, I was like, Okay, if he thinks
Speaker 7: I'm gonna call him later, but we're leaving now, the like,
Speaker 7: maybe I'll call him sometimes and that's fine. I just
Speaker 7: want to leave now.
Speaker 1: Why why did you want to get away from him?
Speaker 7: Because he was annoying?
Speaker 6: He was annoying.
Speaker 4: What's the whole thing a lie? Were you on a
Speaker 4: first date?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 4: Did you like the guy you were out with?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okays, like I knew she liked me, so Lucas thought
Speaker 3: you liked him, and that's where the lie is.
Speaker 4: You did not. It's not a lie. You didn't like him.
Speaker 7: You hitting on me the whole night. No, it wasn't
Speaker 7: even just me and my gay to notice there were
Speaker 7: literally there was someone at the other table looking at
Speaker 7: us the whole time. And like making eye contact with me.
Speaker 6: They were like, oh, sympathizing.
Speaker 4: They were still in the cringe.
Speaker 2: You don't think it's possible that it was just really
Speaker 2: good customer service.
Speaker 7: It kind of passed that after the first five seconds.
Speaker 4: Why what did I say to make you think he
Speaker 4: was hitting on you? In the first five seconds.
Speaker 7: He was like just he came towards table way more
Speaker 7: than he needed to. Obviously, he came every two minutes,
Speaker 7: and every single time he was just looking at me,
Speaker 7: fully positioned, facing me, towards me.
Speaker 5: At all.
Speaker 7: Ye.
Speaker 6: Rude, Yeah, it.
Speaker 7: Is rude, exactly.
Speaker 4: This is awkward.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, but you got to admit you
Speaker 2: and Luke has had a little bit of a connection
Speaker 2: going right, No, that's the whole point.
Speaker 4: When did you hear that in her story?
Speaker 2: The whole point when she gave him a number or
Speaker 2: the eye contact just to get must something happening between
Speaker 2: you two to make him think that.
Speaker 3: I think that's pretty common with men, they think that
Speaker 3: there's a connection.
Speaker 1: Please stop hitting on me right now. I know you're
Speaker 1: trying to.
Speaker 2: Let's just get Lucas on the phone, because he's actually
Speaker 2: on the.
Speaker 1: Other line listening right now. One actually actually, oh.
Speaker 7: My god, than so much. Thanks for that.
Speaker 1: Well, it's worse for him than you, and now I
Speaker 1: kind of feel bad.
Speaker 4: I feel bad.
Speaker 1: But Lucas, are you there?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did you hear that?
Speaker 5: I did? I just I mean, it was pretty obvious
Speaker 5: that I saved you Henley.
Speaker 1: Okay, no, why did you feel like you were saving her?
Speaker 5: I mean that was like a bad first date if
Speaker 5: I've ever seen one.
Speaker 3: So from his angle, doubling down is what we're going
Speaker 3: to do.
Speaker 6: Now, Lucas, you said you didn't look good. Were you
Speaker 6: having fun?
Speaker 2: Henley?
Speaker 4: Well, it's hard when the waiter servey too.
Speaker 7: Yeah, seriously, it was just I was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Well, as a waiter, I'm sure Lucas has seen like
Speaker 2: hundreds and hundreds of first dates happen in front of him,
Speaker 2: he said. Out of all of them, yours stuck out
Speaker 2: as a particularly bad one.
Speaker 7: That's convenient.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and don't to be embarrassed because you're on the
Speaker 5: radio right now.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, No, it's okay, that's not what all
Speaker 7: was happening. That is not what happened.
Speaker 1: I will prove it, Henley.
Speaker 2: If it was such a good date with this other guy,
Speaker 2: name five things that you liked about him off the
Speaker 2: top of your head.
Speaker 1: Go ahead.
Speaker 4: Five. I can't even name five things about anybody in
Speaker 4: this room.
Speaker 1: Told you, I'm not that good of a date.
Speaker 7: He was cute, he was smart, he paid, he was polite,
Speaker 7: and he's not Lucas.
Speaker 3: Lucas counses too because she only got the four.
Speaker 4: Well, look at that.
Speaker 2: She remembered his name and no one in this room
Speaker 2: could do that, So there shows there must be a connection.
Speaker 1: We're building the rapport right now, We're still trying. This
Speaker 1: is the time to ask chemistry explode.
Speaker 2: I'm feeling the vibe happening over the phone lines right now.
Speaker 2: I would love, seriously, I would love to send you
Speaker 2: guys out on a second date that we would pay for.
Speaker 1: Sorry first date.
Speaker 6: Yea with a different waiter.
Speaker 1: You're dating Lucas this time.
Speaker 5: I thought we had such a strong connection. I definitely
Speaker 5: think you have a much better time if.
Speaker 7: We went out.
Speaker 1: What would your sick aunt want you to do at
Speaker 1: the think about what she wants.
Speaker 3: At this point, we should just offer to send Henley
Speaker 3: out with her first original.
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, I would love that.
Speaker 5: I wouldn't like it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well we know that's clear.
Speaker 6: You've made that very clear. Lucas.
Speaker 2: Okay, So Henley, it's seeming like it's going to be
Speaker 2: a no there for Lucas.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think it's good to be specific here.
Speaker 5: Yes, whatever, dude, I hope your real Anne doesn't get sick.
Speaker 6: That was passive, A.
Speaker 1: Sweet thing to say. He doesn't want her to get sick.
Speaker 1: That's really kind. Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Oh, I know we didn't really have time to discuss this,
Speaker 2: but jose you were a waiter for a hot minute.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did you ever swoop in on a customer
Speaker 2: or on somebody else's date while you were working?
Speaker 6: No, not on a date. I've had girls that would
Speaker 6: leave numbers, or I would try to put a vibe
Speaker 6: out like you could tell somethings flirting, but never in
Speaker 6: a date.
Speaker 4: Well, I know you're still single.
Speaker 1: Maybe it should have you know, that's right.
Speaker 2: You just hooked up with the subway employees in the
Speaker 2: meat freezer.
Speaker 1: Like a gentleman.
Speaker 6: A different thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean I feel like that call was unfortunately
Speaker 2: doomed before we even made it.
Speaker 3: I can't believe do you ever feel bad like I
Speaker 3: know you're trying to do right?
Speaker 4: By our listener who calls in for help, but at
Speaker 4: some point you got to give up.
Speaker 1: I don't feel anything, Brook, but you know what I
Speaker 1: will feel.
Speaker 2: I'll feel for the listeners that email us in the
Speaker 2: next week or so.
Speaker 1: I feel for you and.
Speaker 2: We will try our hardest to get you a second date.
Speaker 2: Update email us. We'll call that person who's not calling
Speaker 2: you back and go check out all of our second dates.
Speaker 2: We have them up on our podcast on Spotify, Apple podcasts,
Speaker 2: wherever you get yours, apt Brook and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning