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Speaker 1: You can get a new girlfriend. Oh that's true, or

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Speaker 1: you could discipline your daughter, your other daughter. Anyway, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna be talking about how strict is too strict when parenting?

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Speaker 1: And this comes from horror Professor five to four four zero,

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Speaker 1: And they say, I, thirties male with three kids. Next girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: thirties female with one kid, recently broke up. We had

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Speaker 1: dated for almost three years. We had been learning to

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Speaker 1: function as a blended family. So cute. I own my

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Speaker 1: own home and she rents from you. I'm her landlord,

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Speaker 1: I make How are you gonna make up that rent?

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Speaker 1: But she'd stay over every weekend and the entire summer.

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Speaker 1: I thought everything had been solid, but looking back at

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Speaker 1: it all, it wasn't. Hindsight's always twenty twenty, that's true.

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Speaker 1: Her belief in parenting is opposite to mine. She believes

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Speaker 1: kids shouldn't be punished as you got to look at

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Speaker 1: their heart. As you got to look at their heart,

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Speaker 1: What does that mean my belief that my belief is

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Speaker 1: if the child does something bad, they should be punished.

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Speaker 1: Would you how do you punish your kids, John, We've

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Speaker 2: I'm definitely more what is it, carrot than stick or whatever,

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Speaker 2: more honey than.

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Speaker 1: What the other? Wait?

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Speaker 3: Wait wait wait, more carrot than stick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you give the carrot or you beat

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Speaker 2: them with the stick. Right, that's the analogy.

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Speaker 1: It's a stick. Isn't that a Southern No? No, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't care. You're beating your kids with a carrot. No,

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Speaker 1: you're giving them a carrot because there's such a delicious treat. Everyone.

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Speaker 3: I'll say, waalsits, But I don't know what John's talking about.

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Speaker 1: Oh, wal sits is a good one, actually physical exercise. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: my exis child is completely out of control. She spits

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Speaker 1: her mother buys her what she wants. For the latter,

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Speaker 1: towards the end of the relationship, I would take my

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Speaker 1: My ex girlfriend's punishment giving her daughter a hug while

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Speaker 1: know how to calm herself down. Her heart is good

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Speaker 1: because she wants the item, or it's not her faults.

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Speaker 1: I spoiled her as she buys what her daughter demanded.

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Speaker 1: This annoyed me so literally, you're taking blame for it.

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Speaker 1: They're like, I caused this terror child. This is absolutely

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Speaker 1: in I created this monstrosity. I mean you you did,

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Speaker 1: already created the monstrosity. It's like what they did with Godzilla.

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Speaker 1: They just shot it with more like lasers and nuclear

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Speaker 1: her on a reality TV show. I just true.

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Speaker 2: I just finished watching a reality TV show. Uh, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, wow, the villains just like make this

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Speaker 1: She could be in the reality TV funnel. And you

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Speaker 3: Miley cyrus Well. That was in reality she was a

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Speaker 1: See around? Yeah? Anyway, her child is five and mine

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Speaker 1: You win, Yeah, you win, You've won. Please stop drinking

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Speaker 1: if you stolelid in pete at the same time, you

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Speaker 3: Right, I'll give it to John today most handsome looking

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Speaker 1: It's unnecessary. Literally, Uncle Batty Jesse said, we all look good,

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Speaker 1: I'll take it. Thanks to the Academy. Then Mad Hatter Gal,

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Speaker 1: Oh, let's freaking go get those memberships, baby huge. So

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Speaker 1: I found them and told her how dangerous it was

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think you just let it go. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Maybe. Yeah, it feels out of the blue. It feels

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Speaker 1: Uh but yeah, I feel like that is a terrible thing. No, that'

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Speaker 2: Definitely don't call it okay dad daddy, but the clicks.

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Speaker 1: Teddy has a good point. Oh, gentle parenting works on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I could see, because some kids are just straight

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so wait, how were you disciplined? Sam? Growing up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was never what about you, John, Like what

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Speaker 2: remember for life, like like very like like no drugs,

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Speaker 1: You'd never get grounded or anything like that. I'm not

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Speaker 2: Basically that's a whole of some of you, Okay, storytime

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. And I think it's also like you kind

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Speaker 3: I I would love to, dude. It can be great

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Speaker 2: The problem and like, I don't know if we're going

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Speaker 2: Or do you do you let like for me literally,

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Speaker 1: Anymore on my own vote. That's crazy And I feel

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Speaker 1: we're being pretty trash. I played I remember you played

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Speaker 2: This is gonna be one small side story and then

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Speaker 2: we're gonna go back into the story because we need to.

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Speaker 1: But during during COVID, I remember going to Sam's house for.

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Speaker 1: So loud, so ridiculously loud. And I remember my cousin

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Speaker 1: who was like maybe close to two hundred pounds or

433
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Speaker 1: playing indoor spike ball, and he dives into one of

434
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Speaker 1: the things, smacks it and then lands on the couch

435
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Speaker 1: and the couch just goes holy, just completely breaks all

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Speaker 1: the legs of the couch. This is the Shanani kids

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Speaker 1: that would pull up the Sam's apartment and there was

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Speaker 1: like a thin layer of Remember have you seen Interstellar? Yes, okay,

439
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Speaker 1: remember the water World an Interstellar where it was like

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Speaker 1: a thin layer of water throughout the whole planet. Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was my apartment, but with alcohol. Yes. But guys,

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Speaker 1: we're still talking about parenting today, ladies and gentlemen, And

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Speaker 1: we have one more story I believe on five fifty one, Rley,

444
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Speaker 1: we have a bunch more actually a bunch of small ones.

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Speaker 1: Heck yeah, what's the episode? I've fifty five fifty by

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Speaker 1: fifty fifty s two. Let's freaking go, boys and girls.

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Speaker 1: I am excited. Also, we got a lot of packages today.

448
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: Oh oh yo, you guys know what to do. Look

449
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: behind John real quick. Those are big bands lot. So guys,

450
00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:01,879
Speaker 1: what do you have to do? Like the freaking stream?

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00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, please like to stream. Have a fun thing that

452
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 3: we can do. Please please please do it like.

453
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: Do it stream? Do it for Riley. Let's get into it,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Am I the a hole for being

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Speaker 1: rude to my stepdaughter and banning her from eating with

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Speaker 1: the family. Banning from eating that's a little outrageous forest

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Speaker 1: hunger strike, that's kind of pretty a lot that feels

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Speaker 1: like child abused. It feels like it. But is it?

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Speaker 1: This comes from? Am I a hole?

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Speaker 2: Loud singing, he says, I have two step daughters, Scarlett

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00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 2: eighteen and Ava sixteen, so obviously Opie doesn't care about

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Speaker 2: them their stepdaughters.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, really quick. If you have anything to do

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Speaker 1: with child development or the best ways to raise a

465
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:47,919
Speaker 1: child slash discipline a child, please message Riley on discord

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Speaker 1: right now. The link to the discord is in the

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Speaker 1: description Bend it in and we'll bring you up on stage.

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Speaker 2: So I have two step daughters, Scarla eighteen and Ava sixteen.

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Speaker 2: Scarlett is an amazing singer. She's been in some kind

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Speaker 2: of voice lesson since she was ten, just graduated from

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Speaker 2: one of the best performing art schools in the States,

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Speaker 2: where she went on a full scholarship since sixth grade.

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Speaker 1: Wow. She has a YouTube channel where she sings and

474
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Speaker 1: she's starting to make money from it, and Anna is

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00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: accepted into some very prestigious music schools. Additionally, she has

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Speaker 1: been working paid gigs for the last two years and

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Speaker 1: makes at least five hundred to one thousand dollars per week.

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Speaker 1: How old is this in sixth grade? She's no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: this is Scarlett, who is currently eighteen. She started everything

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Speaker 1: in six Oh, that's good, that's good YouTube money, that's crazy. Crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's the gig money. But she's also I'm guessing she's

482
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Speaker 1: making like a little sprinkling Oh, she's playing good great.

483
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Speaker 1: It's like, hey, would you like to join Okay studios? Okay, Okay,

484
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Speaker 1: Frank Sinatra, Okay, Frank Sinatra. Oh Sam, I love that one.

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Speaker 2: She's even been opening artists at a few CONFI I'm

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Speaker 2: not even trying to brag. I'm just saying she's an

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00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 2: objectively good singer. I mean, that's the results speak for himself. Ava,

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Speaker 2: on the other hand, well, it's not a good singer.

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Speaker 1: Oh the disappointment. She likes to believe that she is

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00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: and might become one if she actually stuck with voice

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Speaker 1: lessons or choir classes, but she always quits after one

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Speaker 1: to two weeks because they are quote unquote bullying her

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00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: giving constructive feedback. I've seen the notes her classmates and

494
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: teachers have given her. You suck, you suck. Ava also

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00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: likes to sing very loudly and or at bad times.

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Speaker 1: For example, if she feels that we're too quiet at

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Speaker 1: the dinner table, she starts to loudly sing, dude, She's

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Speaker 1: just trying to provide some entertainment. Sorry for being interesting. Right,

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00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 1: everyone just like kidding. She's like, what is swag from

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00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 1: the shit d that is entertaining? I would watch that

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00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 1: while I eat my food. This is honestly what you

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Speaker 1: do in a TV less house. You're just saying, that's

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Speaker 1: top your lungs at dinner. That's what my sister did.

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00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: You literally just sung show tunes throughout dinner. Good point.

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Speaker 1: Not a fan of TV at very big anti fan

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Speaker 1: of TV at the dinner TV at the dinner table. Yeah, anti,

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00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,199
Speaker 1: I am anti. That is what's right?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Did you do?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 2: If you ask her to stop, she just keeps going.

512
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 2: And if you're blunt and say stop, uh that doesn't

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00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 2: sound good, slash, we don't want to hear it, she

514
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,439
Speaker 2: keeps going and gets even louder just.

515
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: To annoy you. Wow, sick. When the haters tell you

516
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: to stop, what does she do? She keeps going?

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00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: Double down, double down, We double down on chat? See

518
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 2: where they're at? Oh like what would do pull? Uh

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00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: do uh get the chat back?

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00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, yeah, I got you. Oh yeah, we'll get

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Speaker 1: your chat. You're on the way. Also, we just got

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Speaker 1: another thirty minutes. Ye with thirty minutes to go, another

523
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Speaker 1: thirty minutes or we're gonna read those donations in a

524
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Speaker 1: little bit. But yes, victorious ab John does have the

525
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Speaker 1: voice of an angel and into the hair of an angel.

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00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: Look at that and angelic hair. I see why Riley

527
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: was creaming earlier. Say anything, I'm gonna keep reading so

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00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: sounds like flower this room. If we're in the car.

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Speaker 2: If we're in the car and we don't let her

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Speaker 2: choose the songs, she'll loudly sing whatever she wants, not

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Speaker 2: what's playing, to annoy us and respond the same way

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Speaker 2: to us telling her to stop.

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Speaker 1: The only person that she listens to is her dad,

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Speaker 1: her biodad. For context, a few weeks ago, we were

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Speaker 1: trying to eat and she was singing again. I told

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Speaker 1: her to stop, and she refused, so I took her

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Speaker 1: plate and told her from now on, she's no longer

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Speaker 1: allowed to eat at my table. Dude, it's so rough,

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00:29:54,160 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: I mean, but dude, she is being really annoying, Like

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00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: this is pretty bad. You can eat outside. She can

541
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Speaker 1: eat in her room, the backyard, her car, the garage.

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00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: Say outside, as an option, you have a menu of places.

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00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: You can eat outside wherever she wants, as long as

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Speaker 1: we can't hear her from the dining room, and this

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Speaker 1: will continue until she will behave appropriately at the dinner table.

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Speaker 2: My husband and I argued, argued about it, but he's

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Speaker 2: not home for dinner, so there isn't much he can do. Today,

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00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 2: she was eating lunch with us and started singing again.

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00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 2: I told her to stop. She didn't listen, so I

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00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 2: took her plate and told her to eat somewhere we

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00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 2: can't hear her if she doesn't want to act appropriately.

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Speaker 2: Ava argued that she's a better singer than Scarlet, and

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Speaker 2: that Scarlet sings all the time. I was done with

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00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 2: her bs, so I asked her how many times someone

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Speaker 2: other than her dad has actually asked her to sing,

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Speaker 2: not even paying her to be there, just ask her

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Speaker 2: to sing, Or or how any performing art schools she's

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00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 2: been accepted to she's applied to many.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that might be too low a blow, She started

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00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: to cry. Oh that's oh, that's I think that might

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00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: be a little too far. You're crushing a young child's dreams,

562
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: sixteen year old girl. Yeah, that's that. That's a fragile time.

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00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: That's a fragile You're happy. This is pretty stream, that's

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00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: pretty Yeah, it's too far, Paul, too far, or not far.

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00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: Now I know I already know what y'all are going

566
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: to say, never let her sing again. My husband wants

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00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: me to apologize for being rude to her and is

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00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 1: insisting I allow her to eat with the family again.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? I think the a hole

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00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: for sure? That is at that's way too far. But

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00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: what do you do when like someone just keeps singing

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00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: all the time. Well, so let me ask you this.

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Speaker 2: When op said, Hey, you're gonna have to just like

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00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 2: eat some like it can be anywhere, but where we're

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Speaker 2: in hearing range, was that an a whole move or

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00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 2: over the line?

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Speaker 1: I think not singing at the dinner table is a

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00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: fine thing, just ask for Yeah, because like specifically with

579
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: the context she's doing it to be annoying.

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Speaker 2: She's just like no, no, not just like singing super loud.

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00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 2: And Opie knows what she's doing, so she's like, hey,

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Speaker 2: you're welcome to eat with us, but you can't just

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00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 2: it would be the same as like just like banging

584
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 2: on the table doing some other like annoying obnoxious act. Yeah,

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00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: I feel I feel the obnoxiousness of it is. And

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00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 2: it's also like there's like some people that I see

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Speaker 2: on like Instagram that just like sing to hear the

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00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 2: sound of their own voice, you know, And I'm just

589
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 2: like allowing people out, and I'm just like, I mean, like,

590
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 2: do we need this, let them express themselves? We need

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00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 2: Actually that is a completely different scenario because I feel

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00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: like that's just someone you can you can hit next,

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00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: you can swipe out.

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00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: You cannot swipe out your daughter. I guess you can

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00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: point out, but not to self indulgent. I don't know

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00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: if I like it anyway, the story. No, I guess

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00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: that's fine. All right, I'll take it back. I'll take

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00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: it back. I'll take it back. But I all right,

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00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: here we go, Here we go. If there's a place

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Speaker 1: that she should do it, it should be a place

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00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: like Instagram instead of the dinner table. Yeah, you can.

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00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: You can.

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00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 2: You can always unfollow, you can always mute it, swipe away,

604
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Speaker 2: go to the next live.

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Speaker 1: That's true. You know what, Some of my friends have

606
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: voices of the angels, so I do listen to those.

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00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: That's that's that's not fair of me. We start guessing

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Speaker 1: who Sam is talking about. Some people that have Yeah,

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00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: there was there's only one there, all right. I was

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00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: thinking of one person who does like thirst traps with singing,

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00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 1: and whenever I see it, it's just a little bit

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00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: too cringey, and I'm just like, you're thirst trapping so

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00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: hard right now or trying to thirst trap. That is

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00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: good context because a thirst trap is very different than

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00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: just yeah, yeah, it's it's it's it's not John. John

616
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:19,879
Speaker 1: is not thirst trapping on purpose. But yeah, I think

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00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: I think maybe what it is is it's like, hey,

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00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: don't do this at the table, but give another outlet

619
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 1: that you do want it to happen, because it's like

620
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: if you just suppress it totally, it's gonna pop out

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00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 1: another weird way. So it's like, hey, don't sing here,

622
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: but I would love to see you sing on Instagram.

623
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 1: Maybe that's it going a level deeper.

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Speaker 2: Why is she being annoying, obnoxious and acting out? Probably

625
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 2: because she is insecure about her voice compared to her

626
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 2: sister who's so successful. So she's probably like making a

627
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 2: joke out of it because it's like like laugh when

628
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 2: you're uncomfortable. She's insecure, and she's maybe frustrated seeing.

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Speaker 1: I could I could.

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Speaker 2: That's totally understandable. I think openings actually sit down with

631
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Speaker 2: her and be and address that and really trying to

632
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Speaker 2: bump up.

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00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 1: Her Yeah, so like what what do you want to Yeah?

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00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: And I think I think instead of just shutting this down,

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00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 1: she obviously has a big interest in this, Like how

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00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: can you foster that? Yeah?

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00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: Or is or is it she's trying so hard and

638
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 2: like flopping and maybe she has another interest that she

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Speaker 2: has because this is really her sister's interest.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Is she just trying to go on the bandwagon of

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00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: what is lauded in her family. Yes, I think what

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Speaker 1: that means is I think what Opie should do really

644
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Speaker 1: is just trying to understand where this is coming from,

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Speaker 1: rather than just shut it down in the way that

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Speaker 1: she did, because I don't think that is Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: a gableizer has a good point, even if she's saying

648
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Speaker 1: like an angel would drive me nuts if someone was

649
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Speaker 1: singing all the time. Yeah. So it has nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with the quality of the sound as to do

651
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Speaker 1: with the appropriateness of where it's being expressed. But my

652
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Speaker 1: parents let me hit my drum set and my drums

653
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Speaker 1: as long and as low as I wanted to. Is

654
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 1: that true? Yes, they did, so did my dad's parents.

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Speaker 1: For him. My dad was also a drummer, and they

656
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 1: you would you would drum during dinner, not during dinner. Yeah,

657
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 1: exactly at the Piggie layer, at the dinner table, though, John,

658
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: it's different kind of I think we I think what

659
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: needs to happen is there needs to be an outlet

660
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 1: that is given and there needs to be more understanding

661
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: for this person. And yeah, it's just a little outlet.

662
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: Poort through the outlet like energy exactly. Also, Chat, look

663
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: at you, wow, says seventy said it was too far. Finally,

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Speaker 1: Chat not being a little demon trying to destroy all

665
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Speaker 1: goodness in the world. But that those twenty four votes, though,

666
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Speaker 1: those twenty four votes, it makes sense. What do you

667
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: what do you want to happen? The worst has happened? Uh,

668
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 1: Piggy the slayers is stop blaming us for being petty.

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Speaker 1: I will not stop unfair. No, no, we will continue

670
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: to do so. That's right. But yeah, I feel like, uh,

671
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: I feel I feel Chat is right. I'm I'm on

672
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: the side of Chat. I think it is a little

673
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: bit too far. You know, who else deserves some support? Sam?

674
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: What are incredible donators? Oh? Do you need support for

675
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:20,919
Speaker 1: supporting us? That's right?

676
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 2: And who do we got here we go, Katip, thanks

677
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Speaker 2: for a ten buck tip on the donor link not

678
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Speaker 2: the a hole. Why would you want to be with

679
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Speaker 2: somebody who's going to teach your kids to be a

680
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Speaker 2: teacher kids that it's okay to be crappy. Wouldn't want

681
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 2: to be with someone raising my kids as entitled as adults.

682
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

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00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 2: That for the first story with the entitled kids was crazy.

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Speaker 2: Uh Kayleie love you guys, love you back. Thanks at

685
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Speaker 2: a ten buck tip Matt had or down with the

686
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Speaker 2: ten bucks on YouTube chat. If I ever did any

687
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: of these things what the ex girlfriend's daughter is doing,

688
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 2: I would not be here. Corporate punishment is a corporate

689
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 2: or maybe corporate whatever punishment is necessary when it is needed.

690
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: I also like corporate punishment, like put them in the

691
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: most annoying corporate company possible and make them just do

692
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: bureaucratic tasks, send them to hr corporate punishment. That's what

693
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Speaker 1: we need. Yeah, Empress of Nevermore. Thanks out of five

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Speaker 1: buck tips. All my love guys.

695
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Speaker 2: I love the streams. Just wish I could lock my

696
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Speaker 2: screen at the time. Y'all be safe this summer. I

697
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 2: might have a crazy story to call in. Just need

698
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Speaker 2: to hear the right theme.

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Speaker 1: I think YouTube Premium has that ability. Empress of nevermore, oh,

700
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Speaker 1: locks of screen and keep listening. Yeah, I think maybe

701
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Speaker 1: the Ioways update two. Check it out. Who else we got,

702
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Speaker 1: Joseph Fime Madala Burnquest, thanks for the two fifty five.

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Speaker 1: Riley stropped, Riley stopped trying to turn me straight? Too

704
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Speaker 1: cute Riley during Pride Month, Riley, I'm not existing? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, look uglier this Your existence is homophobic. There

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Speaker 1: we go, Good job, Riley. Next, what's the next one?

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Speaker 1: Lossanzo Rivenda, thanks out a twenty five dollar tip. Let's

708
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Speaker 1: go on the dunnel link. My kids knew not to

709
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Speaker 1: misbehave because they didn't want to be They didn't want

710
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: to disappoint me. My nieces called me the drill sergeant.

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00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 1: Hmmm interesting, Matt Hatter Gal thanks to the ten dollars

712
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 1: super chat. I understand the whole electronics like no phones,

713
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: that the dining table can't play video games until homework

714
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: is done. There is nothing wrong with limiting your child

715
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: to electronics. Yeah, I mean, I feel like limiting the

716
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 1: electronic stuff is good. That's fine, but it's like maybe

717
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: also what they're saying like there's nothing wrong with having

718
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 1: electronics in your life as long as it's limited. DVD player,

719
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: DVD player, what you give your kids a DVD player

720
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Speaker 1: and that's it. They're so limited? You know what I had?

721
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Speaker 1: But actually I actually I didn't. We did have a TV.

722
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 1: We had one small TV, and we had a VHS player,

723
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 1: and I had three National Geographic VHS tapes that I

724
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,959
Speaker 1: watched on repeat. And you can only watch a wild

725
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 1: Tobe's get attacked by a crocodile so many times. Yeah,

726
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: And the other thing I had. I had those three

727
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 1: National Geographic VHS tapes. And then I had an old

728
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 1: cartoon that was completely in French. They at least throw

729
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 1: like a rug. Yeah, I actually know it might have

730
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 1: been in Russian. I think it was like old Soviet

731
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Speaker 1: cartoons or something. I don't know what was going on there,

732
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Speaker 1: but Linda, thanks for the ten gifted membership. Kylie Graves

733
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Speaker 1: four ninety nine tip like the stream, what are you

734
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Speaker 1: even doing? We have over six hundred people in this

735
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: stream and only three hundred and sixty eight likes. That

736
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Speaker 1: is disgusting, disgusting, disgust.

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Speaker 5: And then.

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Speaker 1: Key Kai thanks for the five buck tip. Love you guys,

739
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: listen to you all day while working, so fun to

740
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Speaker 1: hear all the stories and all the response is from

741
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Speaker 1: the okay op fam excuse me, okay op, Yeah, I

742
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: don't know what that is. Yeah kid, let us know

743
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: who I mean about? Okay story time? Yeah, because that's

744
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: what you should be talking about. Also, speaking of we

745
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 1: should we do it a little that little pre announcement

746
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: for the announcement, well we can pre announce pronounce. Also

747
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 1: we're gonna make a video about it. But we got

748
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: banned on our suburb. They well they did, they did

749
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: shut it down, but we are not gonna stand idle.

750
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: If you want to submit stories, you should go to

751
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: our slash Okay story Time. That's the new suburb we

752
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: created that is not banned. Also, if anyone here has

753
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 1: any experience with being a subreddit moderator, please help us.

754
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 1: D m riley and uh uh if you if you

755
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 1: have any we don't know what we're doing. We got

756
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: banned because we were unmoderated, so we're trying to fix it.

757
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: They might shut us down again. Join us before we

758
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 1: get banned, to get honest, get it, get in while

759
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 1: the getting is good, because who knows how long it's

760
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: gonna last exactly, so go to our slash okay story time.

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00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 1: Riley will put a link to it in the chat

762
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 1: so you can go swarm it all right, Chris Tinfoil Hat,

763
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: thank you for the five gifted memberships. We appreciate you

764
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: giving back to the community. That's what we love. Empress

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00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: have never more. Thanks for the two bucks as choir

766
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 1: kids or chorus kids. Chorus kids, chorus kids. This would

767
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 1: have crushed me. Yeah yeah, saying like you're not as

768
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Speaker 1: good and this is why your other person is better.

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Speaker 1: And Adeline gutierras, hi, guys, love you all. I want

770
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 1: to do a call in soon. Olivia Gray says, oh

771
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 1: we we guys all got to moderate there we go okay, please, yes,

772
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: please help us anyway. I think that is the end

773
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: of our donations. So should we go into this next story?

774
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 1: Let's do it or we call someone? What are we at?

775
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 1: Time wise? Forty six minutes? I think we probably another story?

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00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,879
Speaker 1: Oh wait, this is this is this is fully loud,

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00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: which doesn't matter, h person call which person held them?

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Speaker 1: Let's do it maybe after the third one. All right,

779
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: we'll get chill in the next one. Yeah, okay, so

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Speaker 1: am I the a hole for canceling my kids sleepover

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Speaker 1: because he got upset over the new rules. And this

782
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Speaker 1: comes from Discount Easy eight nine A zero one And

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Speaker 1: they say, I male forty two and my wife Maggie

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Speaker 1: female thirty nine, have two kids, Dave male fifteen and

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Speaker 1: Emily female seventeen, all fake names. About eight months ago,

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Speaker 1: my son came out to Maggie and Emily as gay

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Speaker 1: and specifically asked them not to tell me. Maggie and

788
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Speaker 1: I don't keep secrets, and she told me privately Maggie

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Speaker 1: be snitching. I don't care whatsoever that he's gay, and

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00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 1: have not brought this up to him as of yet.

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Speaker 1: If and when he's ready to tell me, he'll tell me.

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Speaker 1: The issue is he has a friend, Clark. Clark's a

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Speaker 1: good kid, his parents are friends of ours, and Clark

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00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 1: is open about being gay. He and Dave are definitely

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Speaker 1: a couple by how they act, but are keeping up

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Speaker 1: the story that they're just friends. Every couple weeks, Bark

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Speaker 1: stays the weekend. The rule in our house are boys

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Speaker 1: and girls sleep in separate rooms for obvious reasons. We

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Speaker 1: did the same with Emily and her boyfriend. Since I'm

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Speaker 1: not supposed to know and change the rule out of

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00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: nowhere would be strange. It stayed that way for a while.

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00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: Just this last weekend, while cleaning the hallway, I did

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Speaker 1: find several used and disposed of items that very much

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Speaker 1: suggested Dave and Clark are active. Oh man, really quick

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Speaker 1: pausing here, Yes, in your home, John, of your future children?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, would you make your underag children sleep with

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Speaker 1: uh separately from their love interests? Yeah, it's interesting.

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Speaker 2: I mean I would definitely have a condom cannon for sure,

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Speaker 2: But what shower the rooms the streets with condoms with protection?

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, I think, Uh, I think I could get

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Speaker 1: down with that. I don't know, I haven't thought about that.

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Speaker 2: I think I think it could be good because it's

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Speaker 2: it's a it's again encroaching on that thing of you know,

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Speaker 2: you don't want to ban or too much. But I

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Speaker 2: feel like it kind of sits in a real nice

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Speaker 2: sweet spot in the middle where you're like, hey, look

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Speaker 2: you can have them over. Like I guess, it's like

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Speaker 2: there's there's a big element of like hanging out and stuff,

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Speaker 2: but staying in sepper rooms.

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Speaker 1: I mean, even I think them not sleeping over is

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Speaker 1: also probably okay too. I don't have to think about

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Speaker 1: that one a little bit more. I feel like, what

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Speaker 1: am I? I think my parents let me have sleep over?

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Speaker 1: I don't know when they had had sleepovers. Didn't they

825
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Speaker 1: not like have sleepovers like with yeah, anyone. They didn't

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Speaker 1: let me have sleepovers with my friends. Yeah, but I

827
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Speaker 1: was allowed to go on like trips with the girlfriend

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Speaker 1: that I had, so like she would let me go

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Speaker 1: to like the Bahamas or like wherever this girl would

830
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: find me getting flown out. Yeah, it was pretty nice.

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Speaker 1: But like I was able to like stay with her wherever. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And that was at seventeen, So I guess I guess

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Speaker 1: I would be fine with like weekend trips but not

834
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Speaker 1: fine with sleeping over. But I think when you have

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Speaker 1: a car, maybe yeah.

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Speaker 2: And it's almost like inconsistent a little bit right of

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Speaker 2: like okay, well you can go. That's like even more

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Speaker 2: like Okay, you're in Fiji and you're telling me you're

839
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Speaker 2: not trying.

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Speaker 1: They're not trying to. But I was with their parents too,

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Speaker 1: and my parents were parents and their parents were family friends. True.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Oh, dude, kids be that's very Can

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Speaker 1: you guys tell me? Wait, what's the question here, the

844
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: question is would you let your kids sleep would you

845
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Speaker 1: let your kids have sleepovers with their boyfriends and girlfriends? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Right above sixteen? Right sixteen to eighteen.

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Speaker 2: I mean, dude, I think if anything, it's like any

848
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Speaker 2: boyfriend girlfriend up to like seventeen or eighteen is when

849
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Speaker 2: I might start allowing it because at that point it's

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Speaker 2: like if they're going to leave and so.

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Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, I don't know if I would allow it

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Speaker 1: below because kids would be going like, you know, even

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Speaker 1: like middle school, high school. I don't. Yeah, it's like

854
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: kids be crazy. Yeah, but I'm like, would I rather?

855
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Speaker 1: Would I rather these kids do do things to each

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Speaker 1: other in the house or like out in the world.

857
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:53,480
Speaker 7: I know.

858
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 1: That's why I'm like torn on it. I would like

859
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 1: I would love to see a poll. Actually. The main

860
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: thing though, is I think you should be concer distant

861
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 1: with like same sex partners and opposite sex partners. Thousand. Yeah,

862
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: those kids are just going to the barn Sah. Yeah,

863
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: I'm I I would love to know from y'all what

864
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 1: you think. Celtic Kit says, yeah, probably sixteen plus if

865
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 1: they've been dating for a while. Jesse says, I really

866
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 1: don't want it. Happening in my house, but I want

867
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: to make sure I teach my son about safe, spicy sleep.

868
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: Lily x Pilly says I loved my boyfriend at fourteen. Bogan,

869
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: Australia is something different. Easy says my mom walked in

870
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: on me when I was seventeen. In the act, I

871
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: was seventeen. I knew a girl who was pregnant in

872
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: the sixth grade. Alan Foster Cheese Maria Aguilar says, not

873
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: under eighteen, so it seems but it seems like most

874
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: of it's like sixteen plus long term girlfriend probably fine,

875
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:59,479
Speaker 1: but like random hookup no, oh for sure?

876
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 6: Or not?

877
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, okay, so long term girlfriend fine.

878
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 2: I think the big thing is yet, like in the

879
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 2: real world, what are the constant It's not like, oh,

880
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 2: don't sleep together. It's like, okay, what is let's talk

881
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:15,760
Speaker 2: about reality. What are the consequences? Uh STIs and pregnancy.

882
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 2: So it's like, okay, in the real world, we do

883
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 2: things like like oh, don't don't drink. Okay, we go out,

884
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 2: we have like a glass of wine and dinner or whatever, right,

885
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 2: but you don't want to get wasted and you know

886
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 2: then then do stuff.

887
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 1: So for me, I'm more.

888
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 2: I'm more focused on like the real world like consequences

889
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 2: of theactions and preparing for that.

890
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I wouldn't. I wouldn't let my kids do coke,

891
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: but I would let them drink, like probably a little

892
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 1: alcohol before they were eight, Like yeah, just to normalize

893
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:50,919
Speaker 1: it so they don't go crazy once like they feel

894
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: like it's banned and they have access. We have friends

895
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: that were like, yeah, I did. My first line of

896
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 1: coke was with my parents. But I guess it depends

897
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 1: like if you doing that respect first with your parents. Yeah,

898
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 1: not not me, but okay, I thought it was you. No, No,

899
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: we have friends people, well, we have friends. We have friends.

900
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 1: We have friends. We have friends that have done that. Yes,

901
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 1: I have a friend that's done that. You got a

902
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: friend that's done that. We have friends. You have all

903
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: all of us collectively. It's someone we all know, someone

904
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 1: we all know. Baldly friends.

905
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, wow, wow, okay, yep, we have friends.

906
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: The list in my head. Yeah, I don't. I don't. Huh,

907
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think so. Uh It's okay. You

908
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 1: don't have to tell anyway, but I feel x ex

909
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 1: gloomy said my first coke was with my mom. Yeah, see,

910
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: I like, but I see I've never done coke. I

911
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: think it's like, I feel like it's a a I

912
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 1: think it's damaging potentially because of the risk of addiction. Yeah,

913
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 1: I seen. It is hard. Yeah, but let's get back

914
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: into the story. So but Okay, by this point, I

915
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: thought it would be unfair to Emily to not hold

916
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,840
Speaker 1: her brother to the same standard. So Maggie and I

917
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: agreed to change the rule. Everyone sleeps separate. There's plenty

918
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 1: of room on the fold out, no one would be uncomfortable.

919
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,399
Speaker 1: Dave is very angry about this. Maggie has deferred him

920
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: to me, saying it was my call, and he has

921
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:39,919
Speaker 1: used quite a bit of colorful language, calling me a homophobe.

922
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,399
Speaker 1: So I've canceled the sleepover. I earnestly did not care

923
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: if Dave is gay, but teens are teens. They'll get

924
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 1: busy regardless. I just wanted our house rules to be

925
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: equal or both my kids. And there is an update.

926
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 1: So what do we think about that? Is it homophobic

927
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 1: to do that? No? I think it was good. Like

928
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: If anything, it's low key the opposite. Yeah, I think

929
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: like homa friendly, homo friendly, just like guess, yeah, I

930
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:09,760
Speaker 1: think that it's good to keep it consistent, happy pride. Yeah.

931
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: Who what's the opposite of homophobic? Homo friendly? Dude? If

932
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: it is like a word anyway, homo friendly. So there

933
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: is an update. I am still getting notifications. Dave and

934
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: I have talked. We're all feeling better. Davis told me

935
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: he did not want me to know because he believed

936
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 1: I did not care about gay people. I've commented before

937
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 1: on the subject, but has taken But it was taken

938
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: as that rather than not minding what a gender someone loves. Oh,

939
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: but it was taken as as that rather than not

940
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: minding what gender someone loves. I can be blunt and

941
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: I did not mean for him to feel like I

942
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 1: would not care about him. Some people like apples, some

943
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:56,719
Speaker 1: people like oranges. I don't have a frick. I appreciate

944
00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 1: the concern about my wife. I assure you mag is

945
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,840
Speaker 1: not a master manipulator, and my family is not at

946
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 1: the brink of collapse. She had panicked when she was

947
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: asked and what she said was misinterpreted. We've discussed it

948
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: and she has apologized. We are all having dinner with

949
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: Clark's parents in a couple of weeks Dave had texted

950
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: Clark in his interpretation events, and they have been under

951
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: the impression that I dislike Gaze for a while. Now.

952
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,719
Speaker 1: I can't say I am not somewhat offended. I do

953
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 1: not fly a pride for I do not fly a

954
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: pride flag. But I also don't disparage Gaze and have

955
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: not said anything I consider insulting. I am hoping this

956
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:37,720
Speaker 1: dinner will clear the air. The sleepover is still canceled.

957
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 1: For him cursing at me, He's agreed to he has

958
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 1: agreed to the rule going forward. I admit I am

959
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:47,240
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with the idea of my children having spicy sleep.

960
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: These are my children, but from what Dave has told me,

961
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:54,399
Speaker 1: he has been safe doing it. I do not want

962
00:53:54,440 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: to elaborate on the discussion. Also, are they using our

963
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 1: spicy sleep thing. I think that's Sofia, Sophia is changing it. Ah, okay,

964
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: nice tout out, Sophia, But yeah, I do not want

965
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: to elaborate on that discussion. So I guess not elaborate

966
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: on the spicy sleep discussion. I get it like it's yeah,

967
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 1: that's not fun. Yeah, I mean, but it's like I

968
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: think it's something that you have to confront at some point. Oh.

969
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 2: Sorry, it's good to talk to your kid about it.

970
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 2: I could see him not wanting to elaborate more in

971
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: like a public forum like this, But yeah, you definitely

972
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 2: should sit down with your kids and and.

973
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,240
Speaker 1: Talk about yeah, and talk about the safe sex stuff.

974
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: What can happen? Horror stories? You don't do it, you know,

975
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,359
Speaker 1: like I know this person. My parents would always tell

976
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:51,320
Speaker 1: me horror stories about people who like would climb the

977
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: climb things and fall off because they knew I was

978
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:59,720
Speaker 1: a climber. And here we are today. Yeah, exactly, still climbing.

979
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 1: Be Like one time, why I saw this guy dive

980
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 1: into a lake and then he hit his head, broke

981
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 1: his neck, paralyzed for life. Tough nuts, dude. My mom

982
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 1: would do that with.

983
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 3: I'll tell you about the briefcase of like the sex

984
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,239
Speaker 3: pamphlets that she gave me.

985
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Oh.

986
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 3: So, my mom worked at the pregnancy center and she

987
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 3: had a lot of like sex pamphlets of like sex

988
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 3: and all the different diseases and whatnot, and she put

989
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 3: it into a briefcase whenever my brother and I were

990
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 3: coming of age, and she gave it to us and

991
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 3: one of the pamphlets had the Game of Sex on it,

992
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 3: So what you're doing the Game of sex? And I

993
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 3: wish I had it. Me and my brother had a

994
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 3: time with it. But basically you had to die. You'd

995
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 3: roll it and if you rolled on like three, it's

996
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 3: like you just had sex, go go up too. And

997
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 3: then it's like you go up to and it's like

998
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 3: you go to the hospital you have gone a rhea,

999
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 3: or if it's like it's like, oh, you didn't have sex,

1000
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 3: you're saving it till marriage. And then you like get

1001
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 3: to go down the right path. But then at one

1002
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 3: path it's like two different forks. It's like the spiraling

1003
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 3: sex path where you go down and you eventually die,

1004
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 3: or like the good path, and it was really crazy.

1005
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and find it, but I would if

1006
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,839
Speaker 1: you have sex, you die, I would love to play

1007
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 1: that game. That's funny. You're playing that game right now, John.

1008
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 3: And then in high school we were given the talk

1009
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 3: and I wanted to get rid of it, so I

1010
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 3: brought their briefcase to high school and gave it to

1011
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 3: all my friends.

1012
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,800
Speaker 1: Nice. Yeah, the stars fall up says that's the worst

1013
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: campaign ever. You mean the past that would be a

1014
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: great game to play on stream if they don't take

1015
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 1: Are we gonna play? Oh? Wait, because this is public?

1016
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 1: Are do we do? We have everything? I do have

1017
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: something for us?

1018
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 3: We do?

1019
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 1: Uh? Huh on? Should we go into that call in?

1020
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to find the game of sex pamflet

1021
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,320
Speaker 3: I'm getting some very interesting Okay.

1022
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: Careful what we share. We don't want to monetize ourselves again,

1023
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: all right, but should be reading some donuts while you're

1024
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: pulling up the next the caller? So the cats damn

1025
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 1: meaw thanks for the two months of membership. Ooh, better

1026
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: late than ever. Thanks for being a member. Let's go,

1027
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: Shelby van Kirkoff. Thanks for the ten bucks. Hello from Australia.

1028
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 1: I live in a small town called Tanga Balanga. Thanks

1029
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: for keeping me entertained at work. What state of Australia

1030
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 1: is that? Queensland? I'm gonna guess em. Prince of Nevermore.

1031
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:41,440
Speaker 1: Thanks for the five bucks. My dad found out I

1032
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: was active by finding a used condom. There's been a

1033
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 1: silent rule that he never goes in my room since.

1034
00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 1: Thank god, that's all he found. What else do you

1035
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 1: have in there? Oh? Dumpster fire? Thanks for the five bucks.

1036
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: Punishing your kid for having protected sex in a safe place,

1037
00:57:56,280 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 1: we'll push them. They have sex on the streets. You're

1038
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: not wrong, You're not wrong. Yeah, they'll find anywhere they can.

1039
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I think, I mean, I exclusively. It was

1040
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: all cars, all cars.

1041
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 4: And.

1042
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: Could de sacs get in the sack? Mind was nowhere?

1043
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: I see. I played that game and I your game

1044
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 1: you're talking about, and I won. Good job, John, I'm

1045
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: proud of you. The straight and narrow, Lily Expilly, thanks

1046
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 1: for the five bucks. I meant to say, I live

1047
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 1: with a boyfriend and his mom at fourteen Bogan, Australia

1048
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: is something different. How could you call out my auto correctly? Sorry,

1049
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 1: we just read things. We read them as we see

1050
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 1: just read them as we see them. Sleepless nights, sleepless

1051
00:58:53,640 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: see ye twenty sixty one tip. We appreciate you. Via Grace,

1052
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: says I Riley. I message you on discord on how

1053
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: to get the bredit back. Is it possible? I I

1054
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: did message the peeps, but they haven't messaged me back.

1055
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 1: We'll see, Okay, let us know. Yeah, we got we

1056
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 1: got a person here, we got a person. We'll do

1057
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: a package, package person person than package. Let's do it.

1058
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 1: H oh little sneak peek there, I like that, Lilith,

1059
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 1: can you hear us?

1060
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 4: What?

1061
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: Wait? Wait wait, hold on with hold we're on the

1062
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: phone called Lilith. So you said that you've worked with

1063
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 1: kids before and have a friend doing a PhD in

1064
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: child development, so you can give your official friend of

1065
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: doctor opinion on what how to discipline children. Yeah.

1066
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 4: So I've worked with kids for like a while, and

1067
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Speaker 4: I have like several friends who work with kids. I

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Speaker 4: have a friend doing a PhD in it.

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Speaker 1: So could you mute the stream of the background? Could

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Speaker 1: you mute the stream of the background? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I got you. Appreciate you done?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay. So, yeah, so you've worked with kids, you

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Speaker 1: have experience. What is the best way to like make

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Speaker 1: sure kids do what you want them to do?

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Speaker 4: So with kids, it really comes down to treating them

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Speaker 4: as people. With kids, you got to remember that they

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Speaker 4: are people who just came into the world. They have

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Speaker 4: a lot of big feelings and they don't really know

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Speaker 4: how to manage them. They're not like adults where they

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Speaker 4: can understand logic and you know, move forward with that.

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Speaker 4: And when you come to disciplining kids, It really you

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Speaker 4: got let's try an error of course certain things, but

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Speaker 4: it's always important to make the punishment match the crime.

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Speaker 4: So for example, uh, like you know, you don't make chores.

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Speaker 4: You don't make a kid go do chores when they've

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Speaker 4: gone and done something bad. Uh, it's really about making

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Speaker 4: sure that it directly correlates to what they've done.

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Speaker 1: Can you give some examples in your experience of working

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Speaker 1: with children whereas like, right, you had a like child

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Speaker 1: that was off the rails and they did like like

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Speaker 1: I want specific examples, all right, this child blew up

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Speaker 1: my refrigerator, so I took away their refrigerator like privileges

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Speaker 1: like like like what like what?

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Speaker 4: So basically yeah, no, So I mean I can give

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Speaker 4: an example when I was like pain in the ass

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Speaker 4: as a child. I remember this one time I actually

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Speaker 4: stole like a pack of prayons from this girl in

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Speaker 4: my school, and they were like, expect they want crayolas.

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Speaker 6: They were like a gigapack of like rainbow crayons.

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Speaker 5: So not only did I have to.

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Speaker 6: Give them back all of my like pretty stationary that

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Speaker 6: I had to like glitter pens and stuff like that.

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Speaker 6: I had them taken away.

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Speaker 1: So it's like, let me make you feel the damage

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Speaker 1: that you've done. So all right, yes, let's say your

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Speaker 1: kid punches another kid in the face.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, so when it comes to physical violence, this

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Speaker 4: one is a bit more so. Really, what you would

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Speaker 4: trying to do is you try to sit down and

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Speaker 4: understand the situation, what led.

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Speaker 6: To you punching this kid in the face.

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Speaker 4: And I think I think this is one where it

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Speaker 4: really does depend on the situation, because you know, this

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Speaker 4: kid could have just been someone who was just acting

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Speaker 4: up and really had no actual reason for doing it,

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Speaker 4: in which case, yeah, you would probably uh not allow

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Speaker 4: them to have certain privileges where okay, you punch them

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Speaker 4: in the face, you incite an actual harm on someone,

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Speaker 4: so you know, say goodbye to I don't know the

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Speaker 4: TV things that you enjoy. So that's one of the

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Speaker 4: exceptions where I think you actually can't come up with

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Speaker 4: a direct correlate of pronishment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so like basically, anything physical you can't you can

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Speaker 1: no longer put or should you. Yeah, we're getting really

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Speaker 1: kid punch a kid in that's true. Could you hire

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Speaker 1: another kid to punch that kid? Hire another kid let

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Speaker 1: the other kid punch, We're going to give.

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Speaker 6: Him extra lunch money, being like, hey, my son acted

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Speaker 6: up and you a punch in the face.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, question, well, would you ever if if

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Speaker 1: a there's like this, there's two guiding philosophies where it's like,

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Speaker 1: all right, violence is never the answer, right, dumb, And

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Speaker 1: then and then there's there's oh, if a bully like

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Speaker 1: is beating up on you, one like all that, you

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Speaker 1: defend yourself once and then they realize you're not a

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Speaker 1: big target like a target, and then I'm actually of

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Speaker 1: the lot.

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Speaker 6: I actually agree with that logic for bullief. So if

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Speaker 6: there's a kid.

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Speaker 4: Who is just like, no, violently hitting and ragging on

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Speaker 4: another kid, I'm not going to punish the victim for

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Speaker 4: like bullying back or punching them back. I feel if

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Speaker 4: a kid goes up and slaps up another kid and

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Speaker 4: that kid decides to fight.

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Speaker 6: Back, that's fair game. At that point, I will break

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Speaker 6: it up.

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01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 4: Obviously, I will be like, hey, that's enough, but I'm

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Speaker 4: not going to punish the victim who fought back in

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01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 4: self defense.

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Speaker 6: Does that make sense?

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01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 1: Because as an adult, if if someone just starts beating

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01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 1: the crap at of me, I'm like, well, no, like

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01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 1: that would be treating them as as as like I.

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Speaker 4: As an adult who has the higher ground in this situation,

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Speaker 4: wh who isn't the one being attacked, who is of

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01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:03,640
Speaker 4: sound mind?

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01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 6: I can't go and attack that child.

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01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:07,280
Speaker 4: The best I can do is I can break up

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01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 4: what's going on, and I can inform the parent your

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Speaker 4: child was violent. You need to Honestly, I see there

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Speaker 4: are two There are two theories that I have and

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01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 4: two things that I've noticed when it comes to kids

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Speaker 4: who tend to be violent. One, they either have that

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01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 4: behavior displayed to them at home, and there are other

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Speaker 4: multiple warning signs where I would then, as a mandated reporter,

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Speaker 4: go and report that.

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Speaker 6: Two this is something I have seen a lot.

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Speaker 4: It's you sometimes the opposite where the kid is so

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01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 4: used to getting away with everything that you kind of

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01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 4: have to step in the school environment, kid environment and

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Speaker 4: kind of almost be that third parent because the parents

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Speaker 4: are not stepping up. You're right, No, you can't do this.

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01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 4: You're not allowed to think and get away you can want,

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01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 4: and honestly, with kids who are generally more difficult, it's

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Speaker 4: more like a gradual correction.

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01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 6: You're not going to fix them one time.

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Speaker 1: With one. But it's like, you know, a couple's attentions

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Speaker 1: and a couple like taking away privileges giving them.

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Speaker 6: You're not going to let them get away with everything.

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Speaker 4: It's a gradual correction over time of I'm going to

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01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 4: hold you accountable for everything you do that and they

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01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:29,360
Speaker 4: they start to learn that not everyone out in the real.

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01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:31,280
Speaker 6: World is going to allow them to get away with

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01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 6: what they want to get with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Smart, Well, Lili, thank you so much for giving

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01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 1: your professional opinion. We now know do not punch a

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01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:43,640
Speaker 1: child in the face, please don't. We appreciate you. Have

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01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 1: a great rest of your day and we'll see you

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01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 1: in the chair by good stuff. Yeah, so, don't punch kids,

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01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: but let them punch each other. Dude. Heck, what is it?

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01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 1: A fight club for kids? Fight club for dude? Fight

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01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 1: club for kids? You want to discipline your kids, but

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01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 1: you don't want to do any corporal punishment because you'll

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01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 1: get child protective services called on you. Well, allow your

1195
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:10,040
Speaker 1: kid to get the crap beaten out of them in

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01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 1: krav Maga or something, and then for children, and then

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01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:15,360
Speaker 1: your kids can be security guards for yourself. There we go.

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01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 1: You should be walking around to be like, uh uh

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Speaker 1: I got a little kramagaun minion's right back pocket. Yeah,

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01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:28,479
Speaker 1: speaking of uh busting things open, should we uh open

1201
01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 1: a baggage? Let's do it? I love packages also, Matt

1202
01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:37,840
Speaker 1: Haddigal thanks to the ten bucks. Oh Sam, check your

1203
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 1: Discord channel. I made you something that I'm gonna be

1204
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 1: sending you guys very soon. I'm checking it right now.

1205
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:47,960
Speaker 1: Let's see, I'm going to open this giant one because

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01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 1: it's big and grand. Okay, storytime ticket, that's cool. Oh

1207
01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 1: a ticket baalid for one person. That's awesome. I love

1208
01:07:56,600 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: that graphic. That's so cool. Definitely send that over. We've

1209
01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 1: been getting great graph fixed lately. The the playing cards

1210
01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 1: and shout out to just Chin. All right, let's see

1211
01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 1: we got boys and girls trying to give you a

1212
01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 1: grand reveal. Another box box so anti climactic. Do the

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01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 1: kids these days know about Inception? I mean it's a movie,

1214
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 1: the movie. It's an old movie. Now, no, they don't

1215
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:33,000
Speaker 1: know about the movie. Wow. I mean that came out

1216
01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:35,720
Speaker 1: when like we were in like freaking middle school. I know,

1217
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 1: but it's like like anytime you have a thing within

1218
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 1: a thing, everyone says inception. That's true. Maybe the kids

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01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:44,400
Speaker 1: aren't saying that anymore. Package number three heavy d Who

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01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:54,760
Speaker 1: is in there? Whoa goblets goblets off? That's cool. Look

1221
01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: at this, this is pretty sick. We've actually made it,

1222
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 1: we did. We do need more glasses? Yes, this is great,

1223
01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 1: this is amazing. I am going to put this somewhere.

1224
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:08,400
Speaker 1: We're safe, Can I can? I can? I I want

1225
01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: to fuck the old one. Dude like it? Yeah, just

1226
01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:17,599
Speaker 1: so you can see it is many a fine clod. Yeah,

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01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 1: these are actually good great, great for house dinners, really

1228
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:26,799
Speaker 1: good for house dinners. If I can, it doesn't it doesn't.

1229
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 1: It doesn't do the thing, It doesn't do the thing. Yeah,

1230
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 1: loop it up. I am moving it up. Thank you

1231
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 1: very Oh did we see who this is?

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01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 6: Problem?

1233
01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't work, guys, like the stream. Like the stream

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01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:45,719
Speaker 1: real quick. Yeah, like the stream. There's seven over seven

1235
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:49,280
Speaker 1: hundred people in this stream, and you're saying we can't

1236
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:51,080
Speaker 1: get the five hundred likes. So Riley can do a

1237
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 1: special thing.

1238
01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:52,600
Speaker 4: Do it.

1239
01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 1: And a quick little note, enjoy your gift from the

1240
01:09:56,800 --> 01:10:00,560
Speaker 1: Loving Moonnight. We are not savages that drink out of

1241
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:04,439
Speaker 1: the MUDs, So here are some lovely wine glasses from Banzia.

1242
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 1: We don't have any wineglasses, so this is amazing. Also,

1243
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 1: it feels very like round table, kind of nightly in

1244
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: a way. The Zobe is gonna love these. Can you

1245
01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: put that one in there too? We appreciate you, Thank

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01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: you so much. Also, like the stream, John's going to

1247
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:29,799
Speaker 1: start this next story and we will have totally missed

1248
01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 1: the opportunity to do whatever Riley wants to do. Also,

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01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:38,519
Speaker 1: did you put the new r slash okay storytime link

1250
01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 1: in the chat and then it went away? Should we

1251
01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:47,200
Speaker 1: like link it for a Oh? That's the will Oh

1252
01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 1: let's spin that whell look at you guys. Here you

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01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 1: guys go, we did it? Wait, wait, we can't see

1254
01:10:56,960 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 1: you do it again? He landed on Jeopardy. It did

1255
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 1: land on It did land on Jeopardy Nights for the

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01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,639
Speaker 1: time back tip, it's deadly. Cat six six seven's birthday.

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01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 1: Please wish her a birthday. Happy birthday, sleeplesses is not

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01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:16,799
Speaker 1: not not happy birthday. Just wish her a birth birthday, birthday,

1259
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:23,679
Speaker 1: wish You're welcome. All right, here we go, let's do it, nicee.

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01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:27,680
Speaker 3: Dude, I worked so hard today doing Okay, so we

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01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:32,639
Speaker 3: got Jeopardy, but you can't chip pick your own, okay,

1262
01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:36,560
Speaker 3: but you can pick other people's and get points from that.

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01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 1: That's great. They all kind of have a theme. Sophia

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01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 1: for three hundred. Wait, how do we decide who starts

1265
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 1: rock paper scissors? Red, rock paper scissor? Shoot? Damn? Sofia

1266
01:11:48,479 --> 01:11:50,200
Speaker 1: for three hundred for three hundred?

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Speaker 3: This no neurodivergent disorders claimed by Okay, ADHD?

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01:11:55,479 --> 01:12:02,519
Speaker 1: What is ADHD? What is adh Let's go? I got

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01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 1: to read it? All right, John? What do you want?

1270
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:05,040
Speaker 4: Uh?

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01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:08,800
Speaker 1: Dude, let's do Sam for four hondo, dude? Can I

1272
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:09,200
Speaker 1: guess this?

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01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:09,760
Speaker 7: No?

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01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 3: This girl is one of Sam's exes and is has

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01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 3: a relatively similar name to his sister buzz.

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01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 1: This girls one of some relative similar name to his sister.

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01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:26,640
Speaker 1: Ah what?

1278
01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:27,559
Speaker 3: Uh?

1279
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:34,920
Speaker 1: Come on? Come on? What is Oh? Got it? Carolin?

1280
01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 4: Chat? Chat?

1281
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:42,240
Speaker 1: Here we go? Chat g at Carolina Sosa? What is Sophie? Nice? Wait?

1282
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 1: Does that mean I can't do it?

1283
01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:43,600
Speaker 5: No?

1284
01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 1: You didn't get it.

1285
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 3: They buzzed him.

1286
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 1: We should play with the chat though. Really they just

1287
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 1: got three. Therefore they got it before you. They're in

1288
01:12:56,560 --> 01:13:02,639
Speaker 1: the lead. Yeah, shout outa yep? Okay, all right, cool,

1289
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:07,040
Speaker 1: I guess and can I on? Sam? Can we buzz

1290
01:13:07,080 --> 01:13:09,840
Speaker 1: on each other each other as long as it's not? Okay?

1291
01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 1: Uh buzz John for two hundred? This small town is

1292
01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:19,519
Speaker 1: where John grew up? How do you not know what

1293
01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:26,559
Speaker 1: this is? Heck? Yeah, like it? Go h dude?

1294
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 6: That is.

1295
01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 1: It is so sad.

1296
01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:31,799
Speaker 3: We even had his neighbor on the show recently.

1297
01:13:32,200 --> 01:13:34,880
Speaker 1: I didn't talk about where he is is. I did

1298
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 1: say the name of the town. It's like, but I

1299
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: said it once. I know Riley's small town, Taylor's bille.

1300
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:47,400
Speaker 1: Because he's talking about a billion times. It's like, it's

1301
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:52,760
Speaker 1: I don't even not come on chat. See if Chat

1302
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 1: doesn't know, then there's no anyone from Chat. No, that's

1303
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:00,560
Speaker 1: actually a good point. I honestly haven't talked about it

1304
01:14:01,320 --> 01:14:05,599
Speaker 1: much in a while. That's what is it? Something pleasant? Pleasant?

1305
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 1: What's the first letter? Oh, that's cheating. That is cheating

1306
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 1: because I didn't get the first letter of the Let's

1307
01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 1: go nice were Christen Florida. Dang?

1308
01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:27,759
Speaker 7: Okay, John, let's do Let's do Riley for three hundred?

1309
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:33,679
Speaker 7: So fun when Riley's bladder? Dude, that was so quick.

1310
01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:41,840
Speaker 1: I think it's damn what is outside in the backyard? Side? Nice? Nice? Nice?

1311
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 1: Let's go rightam. Uh, we only haven't done. Okay o

1312
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:54,560
Speaker 1: p ok op for two hundred. Okay, this was a

1313
01:14:55,840 --> 01:14:57,280
Speaker 1: pool boys? What is pool boys?

1314
01:14:57,479 --> 01:14:57,679
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1315
01:14:57,920 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 1: I'm so bad at reading it first. Let's go all right. Oh,

1316
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:09,040
Speaker 1: they got it too very quick. Let's do ok op

1317
01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:10,840
Speaker 1: for four hundred.

1318
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,799
Speaker 3: During a traumatizing story. This name will always be remembered

1319
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:17,440
Speaker 3: when referring to the species of go ahead.

1320
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:20,120
Speaker 1: M a species of beetle?

1321
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:21,880
Speaker 4: Uh? What is that?

1322
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 1: But I already buzzed? I literally buzzed thirty seconds ago.

1323
01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:33,439
Speaker 1: What is Agatha the cockroach? Wrong? Wrong? What is Ogta?

1324
01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 1: I was so close? Let's go. Let's go all right, Sam? Uh,

1325
01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 1: Let's do Sophia for five hundred? This phenomenon happened? Go ahead?

1326
01:15:51,160 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 4: Uh?

1327
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:56,720
Speaker 1: What is Sophia's unfinished thoughts? Yep? What is an unfinished dude?

1328
01:15:56,800 --> 01:16:03,880
Speaker 1: Crushing the game over here? Let's go right? Uh? Big

1329
01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:07,240
Speaker 1: Sam's and he can't do it? Oh? True, You're totally right.

1330
01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:10,559
Speaker 1: Let's do keep going big, Let's go. Let's do Sam

1331
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 1: for three hundred three.

1332
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:12,760
Speaker 7: Uh.

1333
01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 3: This is one of Sam's ex girlfriends that invited him

1334
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 3: to a party recently, but he decided not to go

1335
01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:21,599
Speaker 3: because it would not have been a good idea totally.

1336
01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:24,080
Speaker 1: I R S E P. Two and didn't say. We

1337
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:26,840
Speaker 1: literally talked about this, and I and I and I

1338
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:33,840
Speaker 1: this was a tough one as a buzz mm hmm.

1339
01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 1: And we talked about this. We did talk about it.

1340
01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 1: I could give clues, I give more information. Oh, let me,

1341
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:41,320
Speaker 1: I should, I should? I should be fair? I should.

1342
01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:46,120
Speaker 1: We haven't given you any clues. M I know it's

1343
01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:56,640
Speaker 1: not that one. Uh that one? Sarah? No, not that one. No,

1344
01:16:56,960 --> 01:17:01,400
Speaker 1: not that one. Tingle mingles mouth not what what is?

1345
01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:01,680
Speaker 4: What is?

1346
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 1: What is? Patience? No?

1347
01:17:03,280 --> 01:17:03,320
Speaker 4: No?

1348
01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:08,640
Speaker 1: God, I was dude, I was struggling. Uh what is

1349
01:17:08,800 --> 01:17:13,160
Speaker 1: what is? Uh Sophie? Nope, No, not that one. She's

1350
01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:17,240
Speaker 1: in New York. Maybe it's the thing I'm actually is

1351
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:22,640
Speaker 1: in Australia. Arianna is in London. Oh so have her

1352
01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:28,760
Speaker 1: know about well? I talked to her last week. I'll

1353
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:31,000
Speaker 1: give you, I'll give you, I'll give you a hint.

1354
01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:34,639
Speaker 1: It was. It was the only bumble date that I've

1355
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:40,919
Speaker 1: ever gone on. And it was right after uh patients

1356
01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:53,920
Speaker 1: and it and it is her name starts with an end. Mmm,

1357
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:58,720
Speaker 1: she's the same. I don't even know. Samantha is one

1358
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:04,200
Speaker 1: of them I don't don't even know an n whoa

1359
01:18:05,560 --> 01:18:11,800
Speaker 1: let's go, let's for the wind, Yes, Natalie, yep, yeah, dude, tough?

1360
01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:14,439
Speaker 1: All right, Sam? But did I pick Sam one hundred

1361
01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:23,760
Speaker 1: zero points? Such an idiot? Uh? John for five when

1362
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:28,479
Speaker 1: rapping or performing drugs? John? Who is John the rapper? Yep?

1363
01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:30,599
Speaker 1: Oh no? That for five hundred?

1364
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 2: That is horrendous. There's one, there's a really good one

1365
01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 2: you could use. Well, that's that is so obvious.

1366
01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:38,040
Speaker 1: Just wait, there is a really good one in here

1367
01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: that should have been five hundred.

1368
01:18:39,360 --> 01:18:45,360
Speaker 2: Then well, anyways, I'm just taltic because I'm Sam is

1369
01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:46,200
Speaker 2: twenty two hundred.

1370
01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 1: All right, Sam for one hundred. Let's get let's.

1371
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:53,880
Speaker 3: Get some first person who Sam first seriously dated in college.

1372
01:18:57,280 --> 01:19:00,439
Speaker 2: I don't have the names of his girlfriend's men rise.

1373
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:03,919
Speaker 2: This is like the This is like the worst possible

1374
01:19:04,040 --> 01:19:07,000
Speaker 2: category of Sam lore. You could possibly quiz me about.

1375
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:09,519
Speaker 1: Well, he talks about them all the time, but I

1376
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 1: don't do the names. The names though, Like, but uh,

1377
01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:21,320
Speaker 1: in college, I know what is? So? What is who

1378
01:19:21,400 --> 01:19:23,880
Speaker 1: is Sophie? Nope? No, I know it's not that. It's

1379
01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 1: right after that it's spider bites, but it is Spider

1380
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 1: bites and it was before it was before her. Oh dude, nope,

1381
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:38,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what is who is patients? Yeah? Nope, yeah,

1382
01:19:39,120 --> 01:19:41,960
Speaker 1: that's what. No, that's wrong, it's wrong. I know the

1383
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:44,680
Speaker 1: right one. Then that's wrong. I thought this was it. No,

1384
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:47,240
Speaker 1: did you know they hear in high school or college?

1385
01:19:47,400 --> 01:19:48,920
Speaker 1: I did date hear in college. That's what I was

1386
01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:52,400
Speaker 1: the first person in college. But I the first person.

1387
01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:55,360
Speaker 1: It was from. It was from high school to college.

1388
01:19:55,400 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 1: So my freshman year. Oh, dang it, dang it, Okay,

1389
01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:03,880
Speaker 1: I do this. One's ours of the m an m Yep, sorry, guys,

1390
01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:08,320
Speaker 1: I got this. God, Yep, there we go. Who is Yep?

1391
01:20:08,360 --> 01:20:11,720
Speaker 1: There we go. Let's go to spalatter bones. All right?

1392
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:19,599
Speaker 1: Are they all dating related? Go ahead? Uh, let's see

1393
01:20:20,520 --> 01:20:22,799
Speaker 1: John for one hundred.

1394
01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:25,720
Speaker 3: This person means a lot to John and he met

1395
01:20:25,760 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 3: her in.

1396
01:20:26,080 --> 01:20:30,800
Speaker 1: The Buzz Niva, do it? Do it? Who is Na?

1397
01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1398
01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:36,200
Speaker 1: That's a good, that's a great one hundred. All right,

1399
01:20:36,320 --> 01:20:38,839
Speaker 1: Sam for two hundred, Let's get some points.

1400
01:20:39,280 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 3: This is his most recent real ex girlfriend that Sam

1401
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:43,200
Speaker 3: dated Buzz.

1402
01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 1: Who is Arianna? Yeah? Let go, there we go. There

1403
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:52,439
Speaker 1: we go, very well versed there points on the board.

1404
01:20:54,040 --> 01:21:00,320
Speaker 3: Go ahead, uh, John for four hundred, this is the

1405
01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:00,760
Speaker 3: age that.

1406
01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:07,120
Speaker 1: Four years old? Five years old?

1407
01:21:07,280 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 4: Ye?

1408
01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:10,600
Speaker 1: What is the age five? I'm gonna be honest with you.

1409
01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:14,360
Speaker 1: I think that's incorrect. But that's four. I got it

1410
01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:16,680
Speaker 1: confirmed by your neighbors. So that's what you feel me.

1411
01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 1: I think even he might be wrong. I think it's

1412
01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 1: John told me. John. John told me. I think John

1413
01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:25,720
Speaker 1: said four.

1414
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 2: I jokingly have said that because my mom jokes about that. Actually,

1415
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:30,479
Speaker 2: why don't I text her?

1416
01:21:30,520 --> 01:21:32,040
Speaker 1: I think it's I think it was four.

1417
01:21:32,640 --> 01:21:34,400
Speaker 3: I will, I will give you right points of your

1418
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:37,360
Speaker 3: mom if it's older than five, if my mom can.

1419
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:41,760
Speaker 1: Get if my mom guesses correctly, all right, all right,

1420
01:21:42,640 --> 01:21:45,640
Speaker 1: damn dude, I got some points on the board. Let's go.

1421
01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:50,840
Speaker 1: I'm asking her podcast When was I a potty trained

1422
01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 1: question mark? That's the check? E cheese? Was so about

1423
01:21:56,840 --> 01:22:00,960
Speaker 1: Sam for five hundred? All right? This amazing Australian buzz?

1424
01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:05,519
Speaker 1: Go ahead? Who is Ashley? That's right? That's so funny,

1425
01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 1: Thank god.

1426
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:13,599
Speaker 3: When singing autographs for his peers, John first threw his nickname.

1427
01:22:15,960 --> 01:22:24,880
Speaker 1: Oh is it squaw? Is squaw? This is a great one.

1428
01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:28,479
Speaker 1: This is really good, Seanny. I don't know if I

1429
01:22:28,520 --> 01:22:36,280
Speaker 1: know what Johnny's signature. I have no idea. I have

1430
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 1: no idea. Come on, I don't think. I don't think.

1431
01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:44,240
Speaker 1: I ever when signing autographs for his peers, John refers

1432
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 1: to this nickname. I think we could give him more.

1433
01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:49,040
Speaker 1: I'd be I'd be be. I don't have trouble giving

1434
01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:56,120
Speaker 1: more context. Uh what did I sign on my basketball

1435
01:22:56,160 --> 01:23:01,680
Speaker 1: cards as a kid? I'm not going not Jesus? Who

1436
01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 1: is Jesus? Does that anyone? I don't know. There's no

1437
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:10,760
Speaker 1: way the chat knows that. I've told the story on

1438
01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:15,519
Speaker 1: the pod once, maybe twice, once maybe twice? Its old?

1439
01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:19,880
Speaker 1: Is that Johnny Rovo? I don't remember. I don't remember.

1440
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:22,120
Speaker 1: Come on, let's give it a little time for chat.

1441
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:26,799
Speaker 1: Who is Jimmy? They were okay? They were basketball cards

1442
01:23:28,080 --> 01:23:28,920
Speaker 1: in fourth grade?

1443
01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:29,280
Speaker 4: Ye?

1444
01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 1: Uh? Is it Johnny? So close? Who is it? You

1445
01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:48,840
Speaker 1: were close? Who is Big Jay? Big d big Dude?

1446
01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:56,000
Speaker 1: I forgot? That's a good one. I think it's this John. Yeah.

1447
01:23:56,080 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's do let's do Riley for four hundred.

1448
01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:03,599
Speaker 4: Uh.

1449
01:24:03,960 --> 01:24:08,040
Speaker 1: This is the day that was born September twenty third,

1450
01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 1: uh to thousand, yep, twenty third, two thousand. Let's go.

1451
01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:24,360
Speaker 1: I earned that I earned that, all right, Sam, Riley

1452
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:25,040
Speaker 1: five hundred?

1453
01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:28,160
Speaker 3: Uh if his life life, would you completely go and

1454
01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:28,600
Speaker 3: smoke this?

1455
01:24:29,240 --> 01:24:33,680
Speaker 1: Where what is sawmill Craft? I was totally out of

1456
01:24:33,720 --> 01:24:42,000
Speaker 1: the game on me. Let's do ok op Oh no,

1457
01:24:42,400 --> 01:24:46,600
Speaker 1: let's do yeah, I'll see okp three hundred in the

1458
01:24:46,760 --> 01:24:52,320
Speaker 1: heat of COVID this who is Tiffany? Yep? Nice? There

1459
01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:58,559
Speaker 1: would go all right? Okap five hundred. Anytime a rule

1460
01:24:58,600 --> 01:25:02,040
Speaker 1: of marriage comes up, what are the rules of golden

1461
01:25:02,520 --> 01:25:07,719
Speaker 1: Sam's Golden rules? What anytime? Sam John? Buzz?

1462
01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 3: Uh?

1463
01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 1: What is Sam's golden rules? Sam John? Anytime a rule

1464
01:25:14,479 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 1: of marriage comes out? Sam and John referred to them

1465
01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:22,120
Speaker 1: as this a rule of marriage, rule of marriage, the

1466
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:22,760
Speaker 1: golden rules?

1467
01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:23,080
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1468
01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:33,200
Speaker 1: Okay U? What is Sam? And Johnson? John?

1469
01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:34,559
Speaker 3: Uh?

1470
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:40,920
Speaker 1: Let's do Riley two hundred. This is my buzz? What

1471
01:25:41,160 --> 01:25:45,519
Speaker 1: is Taylor still? Damn? I said that earlier giving it away, right?

1472
01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:47,439
Speaker 7: Uh?

1473
01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:56,120
Speaker 1: Riley one d this is the buzz Tate h calm down?

1474
01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:03,080
Speaker 1: Uh sofia for four hundred? Oh wait, yeah, I check

1475
01:26:03,120 --> 01:26:10,360
Speaker 1: that one. Yeah, let's do okay P one hundred. This

1476
01:26:10,520 --> 01:26:17,360
Speaker 1: is Blu September nineteenth, twenty twenty one day. I'm impressed.

1477
01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:20,400
Speaker 1: You know that I'm good with dates, right, Sophia for

1478
01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:26,880
Speaker 1: four hundred? This isn't a crazy summer the what is

1479
01:26:28,400 --> 01:26:30,400
Speaker 1: dry ice in a bottle explosion?

1480
01:26:30,520 --> 01:26:33,120
Speaker 8: Okay, yes, I'll give it to that. The bottle instance. Yeah,

1481
01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:40,800
Speaker 8: that's the hard one to define. Yeah, john what is

1482
01:26:41,360 --> 01:26:42,559
Speaker 8: uh Sofia?

1483
01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:43,080
Speaker 1: Two hundred?

1484
01:26:43,600 --> 01:26:45,759
Speaker 3: Right outside of work? This is her real passion?

1485
01:26:47,560 --> 01:26:51,840
Speaker 1: What is improv Yep? All right, the last one.

1486
01:26:52,280 --> 01:26:54,679
Speaker 3: Anytime this subject comes up, she will get excited. Didn't

1487
01:26:54,680 --> 01:26:57,280
Speaker 3: proclaim she does not know much about this, but certainly

1488
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Speaker 3: enjoys this topic.

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Speaker 1: Buzz, go ahead, buzz, you're reading it. Buzz buzz. It

1490
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Speaker 1: was what is spicy sleep?

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Speaker 4: No?

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01:27:09,360 --> 01:27:12,040
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought, there we go? There we go chat one?

1493
01:27:13,120 --> 01:27:16,360
Speaker 1: Oh that she does always say that? All right? That

1494
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:18,400
Speaker 1: was jeopardy? What did you guys think of that? Did

1495
01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:20,840
Speaker 1: you guys like that? That was that was fun? Yep?

1496
01:27:21,000 --> 01:27:22,760
Speaker 1: That was great. That was great. That was a good question.

1497
01:27:23,240 --> 01:27:27,280
Speaker 1: Shout out, shout out you, Johnny. When I hit this

1498
01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:29,760
Speaker 1: next story, only three minutes left, so maybe we read

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01:27:30,360 --> 01:27:33,639
Speaker 1: read the tips first. Let's do it. Where's the bottom?

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01:27:33,680 --> 01:27:33,800
Speaker 4: Oh?

1501
01:27:33,840 --> 01:27:37,519
Speaker 1: There we go, easy s. Thanks for the five bucks tip.

1502
01:27:37,720 --> 01:27:40,120
Speaker 2: Today is my fourth anniversary of my divorce from my

1503
01:27:40,240 --> 01:27:44,960
Speaker 2: first marriage ingrats uh love got a love. I was

1504
01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:47,560
Speaker 2: given the divorce from the man that lied to the

1505
01:27:47,760 --> 01:27:51,600
Speaker 2: entire hometown I was gay so he could cheat. What No,

1506
01:27:52,920 --> 01:27:57,599
Speaker 2: now to celebrate with some broccly uh and my amazing girlfriend.

1507
01:27:57,680 --> 01:27:58,599
Speaker 2: Happy Pride month.

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01:27:59,720 --> 01:28:03,240
Speaker 1: Oh well, there you go. Have a good day. Schmid's

1509
01:28:03,280 --> 01:28:05,280
Speaker 1: thanks for the thirty dollars tip on the donor leak.

1510
01:28:05,360 --> 01:28:05,840
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go.

1511
01:28:06,479 --> 01:28:10,080
Speaker 2: It's my oldest b day today, So yay for birthdays.

1512
01:28:10,320 --> 01:28:13,360
Speaker 2: Here's to keeping the stream going. Shout out to Schmidz

1513
01:28:13,400 --> 01:28:15,560
Speaker 2: and shout out to the lord.

1514
01:28:15,520 --> 01:28:20,560
Speaker 1: Of madness mad hattel Gal with the ten gifted donations

1515
01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:24,240
Speaker 1: which got bumped us way closer, way closer. I'm not

1516
01:28:24,360 --> 01:28:27,400
Speaker 1: there but not there. Well we got we got another story.

1517
01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:28,800
Speaker 1: We got another story. I'm gonna get right into a

1518
01:28:30,200 --> 01:28:36,280
Speaker 1: do do do do uh, thank you you, and here

1519
01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 1: it is. Let's do it, am I. They hold for

1520
01:28:39,400 --> 01:28:41,840
Speaker 1: ignoring my injured mom after she cut me out of

1521
01:28:41,920 --> 01:28:45,599
Speaker 1: her will oh ignore her, let her suffer and die

1522
01:28:45,760 --> 01:28:48,920
Speaker 1: like that guy in like one hundred and twenty seven hours. Ouch.

1523
01:28:49,320 --> 01:28:49,880
Speaker 1: That sucks.

1524
01:28:50,560 --> 01:28:53,719
Speaker 2: This comes from Poles Butler, who says, I fifty female,

1525
01:28:53,760 --> 01:28:57,920
Speaker 2: I'm the eldest of divorced parents. My father's happily remarried.

1526
01:28:58,120 --> 01:29:01,040
Speaker 2: How old is your dad with kids? But my mother

1527
01:29:01,120 --> 01:29:02,520
Speaker 2: stayed single and relies.

1528
01:29:02,280 --> 01:29:05,200
Speaker 1: On me and my younger brother forty five to come

1529
01:29:05,320 --> 01:29:08,960
Speaker 1: help her out in her retirement village regularly Christin Foile

1530
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 1: Hot giving us another thirty minutes. Thank you for the

1531
01:29:14,439 --> 01:29:18,240
Speaker 1: twenty gifted membership, shout out you and Moonnight eighteen A

1532
01:29:18,280 --> 01:29:21,439
Speaker 1: little bird told me you like your gift, Moonnight. We

1533
01:29:21,640 --> 01:29:25,919
Speaker 1: did love your gift. Thank you for the chalices, great chalices.

1534
01:29:26,000 --> 01:29:29,920
Speaker 1: We shall drink from them next for tonight. I'm trying

1535
01:29:29,960 --> 01:29:34,320
Speaker 1: to think of an old term. So but but up.

1536
01:29:35,080 --> 01:29:37,240
Speaker 1: It's a fight. It's a flight and a rental car

1537
01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:40,400
Speaker 1: to get to her Opie's mom, So it's kind of

1538
01:29:40,479 --> 01:29:43,040
Speaker 1: a pain. What makes it worse is that my younger brother,

1539
01:29:43,120 --> 01:29:45,479
Speaker 1: who is single with no kids, will never go down

1540
01:29:45,520 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 1: when she needs something, only when it aligns with the schedule.

1541
01:29:48,840 --> 01:29:51,840
Speaker 1: So he'll go down during his summer vacation and then

1542
01:29:52,080 --> 01:29:54,720
Speaker 1: help with things like moving furniture or taking her car

1543
01:29:54,800 --> 01:29:58,880
Speaker 1: to be serviced. However, if it's an emergency of any kind,

1544
01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:01,880
Speaker 1: it's all on me. I'm married, with kids in school

1545
01:30:02,040 --> 01:30:05,759
Speaker 1: and a decent career and a sidekick. All hell breaks

1546
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:09,759
Speaker 1: loose if I don't go passive aggressive texts, relatives, pestering,

1547
01:30:09,840 --> 01:30:12,439
Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. When I ask if anyone else

1548
01:30:12,479 --> 01:30:15,360
Speaker 1: could step in, the answer is always, But you're the

1549
01:30:15,479 --> 01:30:18,000
Speaker 1: one she wants, she wants to see.

1550
01:30:18,040 --> 01:30:20,599
Speaker 5: You're the one that I want, the one I want.

1551
01:30:20,840 --> 01:30:24,800
Speaker 1: Ooh, ooh, honey, how big of a deal can this be?

1552
01:30:25,320 --> 01:30:28,280
Speaker 1: This woman is the most accident and illness prone human

1553
01:30:28,520 --> 01:30:33,800
Speaker 1: you'll meet, and to him to that sucks and it's

1554
01:30:34,000 --> 01:30:36,880
Speaker 1: uh and it's all for real. In the last few years,

1555
01:30:37,000 --> 01:30:41,240
Speaker 1: it's been a head on car collision, cancer twice, another

1556
01:30:41,360 --> 01:30:45,040
Speaker 1: car accident, t boned, and pneumonia. She wasn't like this

1557
01:30:45,160 --> 01:30:48,439
Speaker 1: growing up. Just since retiring, I mean, that just sounds

1558
01:30:48,560 --> 01:30:51,200
Speaker 1: like bad luck. Also, yeah, it sounds like she's like

1559
01:30:51,320 --> 01:30:54,920
Speaker 1: blaming her forgetting cancer. It's like twice geez, I get

1560
01:30:55,320 --> 01:31:00,960
Speaker 1: over it. A survivor though, yeah, exactly. The world is

1561
01:31:01,040 --> 01:31:05,519
Speaker 1: trying to kill this person and she lives despite the odds.

1562
01:31:06,320 --> 01:31:10,800
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so even staying the least amount of

1563
01:31:10,880 --> 01:31:13,360
Speaker 1: days to the point of having to go back once

1564
01:31:13,439 --> 01:31:18,600
Speaker 1: the care giver I found flaked. Whoa the cats damn me.

1565
01:31:18,760 --> 01:31:22,800
Speaker 1: How when a hundred dollars tip, I demand more time,

1566
01:31:23,479 --> 01:31:26,320
Speaker 1: You're getting it. You're getting it, You're getting it righten

1567
01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:31,680
Speaker 1: the eyeball and earl. Oh wait, wait what they want?

1568
01:31:33,840 --> 01:31:36,120
Speaker 2: So even staying the least amount of days to the

1569
01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:38,040
Speaker 2: point of having to go back when the caregiver I

1570
01:31:38,120 --> 01:31:42,320
Speaker 2: found flaked, I've burned through, uh, paid time off, crashed

1571
01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:45,160
Speaker 2: in savings, left the kids to have milestones without me.

1572
01:31:45,680 --> 01:31:47,840
Speaker 2: And usually when I'm with her, she talks on and

1573
01:31:47,960 --> 01:31:51,000
Speaker 2: on about my golden brother. See how he hung that

1574
01:31:51,080 --> 01:31:54,759
Speaker 2: new picture when he was here. He's so handy, annoying

1575
01:31:54,800 --> 01:31:56,760
Speaker 2: as heck, but I've had a lifetime to get used

1576
01:31:56,800 --> 01:31:56,960
Speaker 2: to it.

1577
01:31:57,160 --> 01:32:00,800
Speaker 1: See my hung brother? When I read it, did I

1578
01:32:00,880 --> 01:32:04,160
Speaker 1: say hung? No, yeah you did? You did say hung,

1579
01:32:04,280 --> 01:32:06,679
Speaker 1: but I'd say hung. You didn't say, like say golden

1580
01:32:07,400 --> 01:32:10,519
Speaker 1: Now you said hung? Hung that picture? Friends anyway, gaslighting me,

1581
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:14,240
Speaker 1: gaslighting me. Some months ago I found out by accident

1582
01:32:14,360 --> 01:32:16,920
Speaker 1: that except for some small amounts for my kids, she's

1583
01:32:17,000 --> 01:32:20,200
Speaker 1: leaving everything to my brother. It will be a decent

1584
01:32:20,280 --> 01:32:27,639
Speaker 1: amount two hundred and fifty thousand dollars. Who plus plus Wow.

1585
01:32:28,680 --> 01:32:31,920
Speaker 1: I was so perplexed and admind what oh, plus Like,

1586
01:32:33,960 --> 01:32:38,519
Speaker 1: it's like plus what but in fair I can totally

1587
01:32:38,560 --> 01:32:40,880
Speaker 1: see the confusion there. There's probably a ton of people

1588
01:32:40,960 --> 01:32:42,640
Speaker 1: in chat right now that we're like to say, like,

1589
01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:48,880
Speaker 1: man plus a house plus a vote. Oh man, that's funny. Uh.

1590
01:32:49,120 --> 01:32:51,240
Speaker 1: She refused to talk. She refused to.

1591
01:32:51,280 --> 01:32:54,200
Speaker 2: Talk about it to me, hung up on me, and

1592
01:32:54,400 --> 01:32:57,479
Speaker 2: ignored texts. So I was struck trying to figure out

1593
01:32:57,520 --> 01:32:59,599
Speaker 2: what I did to make her decide to do this. Eventually,

1594
01:32:59,640 --> 01:33:03,920
Speaker 2: one of her siblings told me it was it was

1595
01:33:04,000 --> 01:33:07,360
Speaker 2: to ensure that my brother can retire comfortably. He's always

1596
01:33:07,400 --> 01:33:10,479
Speaker 2: worked low wage jobs. However, he has few expenses because

1597
01:33:10,479 --> 01:33:13,559
Speaker 2: he lives completely free with a wealthy relative who owns

1598
01:33:13,560 --> 01:33:16,080
Speaker 2: a large home that he will also be inheriting.

1599
01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:21,639
Speaker 1: This dude is up. He is winning the inheritance lottery.

1600
01:33:21,880 --> 01:33:24,679
Speaker 1: He's winning a large home and two hundred and fifty

1601
01:33:24,760 --> 01:33:28,880
Speaker 1: grand plus is great. I mean also like, maybe he's

1602
01:33:28,960 --> 01:33:31,479
Speaker 1: just a really great guy. He does. He is hung

1603
01:33:32,439 --> 01:33:35,360
Speaker 1: and golden and golden. He's a golden hung man. Wow,

1604
01:33:37,160 --> 01:33:40,120
Speaker 1: my fellows like that, you're looking at yourself, big boy.

1605
01:33:40,320 --> 01:33:42,439
Speaker 1: I'm looking at you, boy, I'm looking at you Mommy's

1606
01:33:42,479 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 1: favorite little boy. But recently let's shay Sean's golden hair,

1607
01:33:48,600 --> 01:33:57,120
Speaker 1: that just his golden do the the carpet drapes who

1608
01:33:57,120 --> 01:34:01,479
Speaker 1: are moving on? So recently she had another accident. They

1609
01:34:01,560 --> 01:34:03,840
Speaker 1: called me to help. I got the call from the

1610
01:34:03,920 --> 01:34:06,320
Speaker 1: hospital and then a rehab said her. Because even though

1611
01:34:06,400 --> 01:34:10,000
Speaker 1: my brother is her medical point of contact, I'm always

1612
01:34:10,080 --> 01:34:13,160
Speaker 1: a name and number she gives out. When when I

1613
01:34:13,240 --> 01:34:15,920
Speaker 1: didn't say I'd be coming, she sent text complaining of

1614
01:34:16,000 --> 01:34:18,519
Speaker 1: how hard it is not to be able to dude

1615
01:34:20,040 --> 01:34:30,040
Speaker 1: things John kids This girlfriend text complaining how hard this

1616
01:34:30,200 --> 01:34:37,320
Speaker 1: is a comment I might not be just read the

1617
01:34:37,439 --> 01:34:41,040
Speaker 1: last which sentence I did? Okay, there's a few sentences

1618
01:34:41,080 --> 01:34:44,800
Speaker 1: I think we wouldn't that says coming in hard? What

1619
01:34:46,360 --> 01:34:50,719
Speaker 1: no sentences that it does? When I when I didn't

1620
01:34:50,800 --> 01:34:55,439
Speaker 1: say that I would be going coming, she sent text

1621
01:34:55,520 --> 01:35:00,639
Speaker 1: complaining about heard this. I see not to be tribe

1622
01:35:01,120 --> 01:35:04,479
Speaker 1: or do many things pushed for my travels. I think

1623
01:35:04,520 --> 01:35:06,160
Speaker 1: this is my new favorite letter jokes.

1624
01:35:08,720 --> 01:35:10,559
Speaker 2: My love for her and care for her was never

1625
01:35:10,640 --> 01:35:13,439
Speaker 2: based on money. She's my mom, but I ended up

1626
01:35:13,479 --> 01:35:16,240
Speaker 2: telling her I could not go down.

1627
01:35:16,720 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 1: It still didn't work. Rich baby, That's how you get

1628
01:35:21,360 --> 01:35:32,559
Speaker 1: that inheritance that you know my Mom's not going down.

1629
01:35:34,320 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 1: Just eat. That's literally what you said. You said, that's

1630
01:35:37,200 --> 01:35:40,720
Speaker 1: how you get your inheritance. I'm just saying the rich

1631
01:35:40,840 --> 01:35:45,479
Speaker 1: in general, are you getting your inheritance from? It could

1632
01:35:45,520 --> 01:35:51,519
Speaker 1: be anyone. It could be a stepfather. That's that, dude.

1633
01:35:52,160 --> 01:35:59,439
Speaker 1: This is jinks. Jinks. My love for and care for her,

1634
01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:01,200
Speaker 1: It was never based on money. She's my mom.

1635
01:36:01,560 --> 01:36:04,000
Speaker 2: But I ended up telling her that I'm not going

1636
01:36:04,080 --> 01:36:07,640
Speaker 2: to do that. I couldn't bring myself to do it.

1637
01:36:07,720 --> 01:36:10,840
Speaker 2: I saved myself there. I know she's in pain and struggling.

1638
01:36:11,120 --> 01:36:13,600
Speaker 1: I know that her siblings and friends the way you

1639
01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:17,000
Speaker 1: can help. I know that her siblings and friends are

1640
01:36:17,040 --> 01:36:19,840
Speaker 1: too old and too far to be much help. But

1641
01:36:19,960 --> 01:36:22,200
Speaker 1: in a moment of spite, I told her to get

1642
01:36:22,240 --> 01:36:28,320
Speaker 1: my brother to do it, and of course she defended him. Dude,

1643
01:36:29,720 --> 01:36:33,840
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, that is at his curse. Someone said we

1644
01:36:33,920 --> 01:36:39,800
Speaker 1: need Fia. Oh my god, dude, where Sophia? He says,

1645
01:36:39,960 --> 01:36:46,320
Speaker 1: uncle stepdaddy, uncle stepdaddy. Oh my god, it's their last.

1646
01:36:53,120 --> 01:37:02,600
Speaker 1: So of course she defended him and added that he

1647
01:37:02,720 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 1: couldn't as a guy help with some things. You know,

1648
01:37:06,080 --> 01:37:08,600
Speaker 1: guys are just not as good as it is this,

1649
01:37:09,200 --> 01:37:11,600
Speaker 1: this story, what's happening? My spouse says, I'm in the

1650
01:37:11,680 --> 01:37:14,280
Speaker 1: right that I've prioritized her needs all my life, and

1651
01:37:14,400 --> 01:37:16,679
Speaker 1: even if it's because of the will, it was pastime

1652
01:37:16,760 --> 01:37:28,120
Speaker 1: for me to stop doing everything but others, God, especially family. Dude,

1653
01:37:28,160 --> 01:37:31,479
Speaker 1: I'm wailing over here. I cannot understand why I'm down.

1654
01:37:36,439 --> 01:37:39,920
Speaker 1: My mom says woe is me, texts about how she

1655
01:37:39,960 --> 01:37:42,799
Speaker 1: will manage without me, even though she's struggling with everything.

1656
01:37:42,960 --> 01:37:48,439
Speaker 1: Thees are legitimately difficult, honestly ridiculous that Opie isn't going down.

1657
01:37:49,960 --> 01:37:53,920
Speaker 1: It's the most insane thing ever. His mom. Now she's

1658
01:37:53,920 --> 01:37:56,439
Speaker 1: sending texts about how she understands that I'm too busy,

1659
01:37:56,560 --> 01:37:59,400
Speaker 1: and she calls the youngest of the siblings sixty seven.

1660
01:37:59,439 --> 01:38:01,880
Speaker 1: Females have an attention for that kind of thing. Can't

1661
01:38:01,880 --> 01:38:04,439
Speaker 1: be a rush job. You cannot do it. So am

1662
01:38:04,520 --> 01:38:06,439
Speaker 1: I the a hole for leaving my injured mom on

1663
01:38:06,560 --> 01:38:09,599
Speaker 1: her own because she cut me out of her will? Sam,

1664
01:38:09,680 --> 01:38:12,639
Speaker 1: what do you think break break down? All the points

1665
01:38:14,120 --> 01:38:24,280
Speaker 1: there was zero COSI. So basically OPI has to care

1666
01:38:24,439 --> 01:38:29,639
Speaker 1: for her sick mom all the time and her brother

1667
01:38:30,400 --> 01:38:33,240
Speaker 1: only when it's convenient. Her brother will fly over and

1668
01:38:33,400 --> 01:38:35,519
Speaker 1: like help her with different things. And the brother is

1669
01:38:35,640 --> 01:38:38,760
Speaker 1: inheriting everything, and the brother is inheriting everything and he's

1670
01:38:38,840 --> 01:38:41,560
Speaker 1: not even going down to the mother. The brother is

1671
01:38:41,720 --> 01:38:48,360
Speaker 1: not assisting with any of the medical issues. And also

1672
01:38:49,880 --> 01:38:53,400
Speaker 1: Opie said, I'm literally like not going to come down anymore.

1673
01:38:53,840 --> 01:38:59,840
Speaker 1: Like I literally cannot win. There's literally there's literally no

1674
01:39:00,120 --> 01:39:02,080
Speaker 1: words I could use the describe and could be not

1675
01:39:02,240 --> 01:39:06,400
Speaker 1: taken any better words. You can do this so hard,

1676
01:39:06,560 --> 01:39:09,360
Speaker 1: as she says, not the a whole I think what

1677
01:39:09,760 --> 01:39:13,599
Speaker 1: is so like the Tyraine says, I have no idea

1678
01:39:13,680 --> 01:39:17,160
Speaker 1: what this story is about. So to teal DR for

1679
01:39:17,280 --> 01:39:24,160
Speaker 1: everyone who is new here, basically op is not inheriting

1680
01:39:24,240 --> 01:39:26,760
Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty K, and their brother is inheriting

1681
01:39:26,840 --> 01:39:29,920
Speaker 1: that money. And op has been the one that's been

1682
01:39:30,000 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 1: taking care of their mother the entire time. And op

1683
01:39:34,600 --> 01:39:37,160
Speaker 1: is like, if my if you're giving everything away to

1684
01:39:37,240 --> 01:39:39,320
Speaker 1: my brother who is not helping at all, you know what,

1685
01:39:39,520 --> 01:39:42,479
Speaker 1: I'm done helping. I'm done, straight up. How's that for

1686
01:39:42,520 --> 01:39:47,160
Speaker 1: a freaking comprehension After my TLDR of me literally just

1687
01:39:47,360 --> 01:39:50,200
Speaker 1: breaking it down for you, I literally just said that

1688
01:39:50,560 --> 01:39:55,760
Speaker 1: you just like basically they said they didn't understand. Maybe

1689
01:39:56,160 --> 01:39:59,120
Speaker 1: they're new in the stream, but yeah, that is the

1690
01:39:59,200 --> 01:40:03,920
Speaker 1: TLDR have the deald. That is so, I think Opie

1691
01:40:04,439 --> 01:40:06,479
Speaker 1: is not the A hole. If op is not going

1692
01:40:06,560 --> 01:40:09,280
Speaker 1: to be appreciated for the work that they've done, then

1693
01:40:09,400 --> 01:40:15,560
Speaker 1: I don't think OPI needs to keep going down to

1694
01:40:15,680 --> 01:40:19,400
Speaker 1: help I agree, I agree, yeah, But what do y'all think?

1695
01:40:19,439 --> 01:40:21,280
Speaker 1: Do you think Opie is the a hole for stopping

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Speaker 1: helping the mom? Or go down or na put it

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Speaker 1: in a bole go down? Or nah? Uh yeah? Let

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Speaker 1: us do put your answers in the poll below. But uh, John,

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Speaker 1: you want to hit some donos while I let's get

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Speaker 1: out all too the b room.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it, Katie P three, thanks for twenty bucks

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01:40:43,560 --> 01:40:47,000
Speaker 2: on a donor like let's freaking go That Jeopardy was fun.

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01:40:47,400 --> 01:40:52,200
Speaker 1: W for Riley's creativity. Listen up, ladies and gentlemen, mister

1704
01:40:52,600 --> 01:40:56,240
Speaker 1: Wilson is the greatest podcast producer living on the face

1705
01:40:56,280 --> 01:40:59,240
Speaker 1: of the earth. And anyone who says anyone else is

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01:40:59,360 --> 01:41:02,760
Speaker 1: anything else anything close to that, I will personally go

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01:41:02,880 --> 01:41:05,320
Speaker 1: to their address and beat the ever living crap out

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Speaker 1: of them. That's right, Wow, that's right? Wow, Okay, thank

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Speaker 1: you so there's that. Yes, give him his flowers, mo

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01:41:13,800 --> 01:41:16,439
Speaker 1: and mo o, thanks for the five bucks. Love the

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01:41:16,560 --> 01:41:19,400
Speaker 1: Jeopardy next time at a category fan questions and we

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01:41:19,439 --> 01:41:23,280
Speaker 1: can submit questions before the stream. Actually, yeah, of our

1713
01:41:23,439 --> 01:41:27,679
Speaker 1: like okay fam maybe of like you know, Sleepless Nights

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01:41:27,800 --> 01:41:30,160
Speaker 1: and all of our all of our cast of characters,

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01:41:30,800 --> 01:41:34,000
Speaker 1: Matt Hattergall and all that jazz h And we can

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01:41:34,040 --> 01:41:35,320
Speaker 1: submit the answers before the stream.

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01:41:35,960 --> 01:41:38,559
Speaker 2: I'll try to catch all the lives. Love you all,

1718
01:41:38,800 --> 01:41:41,519
Speaker 2: Loving the Worm Queen even in her absence.

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01:41:42,320 --> 01:41:42,360
Speaker 3: Mo.

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01:41:42,560 --> 01:41:44,880
Speaker 1: That was a great suggestion. Yeah, we can do that.

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01:41:45,640 --> 01:41:47,120
Speaker 3: I mean, if you guys have any questions right now,

1722
01:41:47,160 --> 01:41:51,080
Speaker 3: we can try to answer a few as Sam Boyage

1723
01:41:51,200 --> 01:41:51,720
Speaker 3: just taking a.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's fun. Also a hundred I don't know

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01:41:56,040 --> 01:41:58,720
Speaker 1: if they were like if this is because of the

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01:41:58,840 --> 01:42:02,400
Speaker 1: innuendo or because of the actual story, but one hundred

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01:42:02,479 --> 01:42:06,599
Speaker 1: percent of people said, nah, what don't They said, don't

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01:42:06,640 --> 01:42:11,280
Speaker 1: go down? And I'm I'm wondering if that is more

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01:42:11,360 --> 01:42:13,240
Speaker 1: to do with the innuendo than it is to do

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01:42:13,360 --> 01:42:16,960
Speaker 1: with the actual story itself, because it's like one hundred percent.

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01:42:17,680 --> 01:42:19,800
Speaker 1: I feel like that's our first hundred percent that we've

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01:42:19,920 --> 01:42:22,920
Speaker 1: like yeah, almost ever gotten, which leads me to believe

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01:42:23,000 --> 01:42:26,000
Speaker 1: that's yeah, Ashley wrote, it provided some nice context, not

1734
01:42:26,200 --> 01:42:29,479
Speaker 1: the a hole, not the A hole, but she may

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01:42:29,520 --> 01:42:31,560
Speaker 1: feel some guilt about it. It's more like, is it

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01:42:31,760 --> 01:42:34,360
Speaker 1: worth it to have a relationship with your mother with

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01:42:34,520 --> 01:42:37,759
Speaker 1: the time she has, because if she's that accident approne,

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01:42:37,800 --> 01:42:41,560
Speaker 1: she's probably going to die. Oh my god. Yeah, this

1739
01:42:41,720 --> 01:42:43,800
Speaker 1: is a real rock and a hard play situation because

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01:42:43,880 --> 01:42:45,920
Speaker 1: op should absolutely not be the one to have to

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01:42:46,000 --> 01:42:48,640
Speaker 1: care for her. But if she doesn't, who else is

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01:42:48,680 --> 01:42:50,200
Speaker 1: going to do it? Yeah? I think it's a rock

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01:42:50,280 --> 01:42:59,479
Speaker 1: hard place for tour walk into that one. Let's get

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01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:06,280
Speaker 1: into the next story, all right? Even before I ask?

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01:43:07,080 --> 01:43:13,240
Speaker 1: All right? Five thing?

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01:43:13,320 --> 01:43:13,479
Speaker 4: Nut?

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01:43:14,040 --> 01:43:16,920
Speaker 1: Ah? Okay? So am I the A hole for telling

1748
01:43:16,960 --> 01:43:19,920
Speaker 1: my wife I didn't enjoy the birthday surprise she planned

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01:43:19,960 --> 01:43:30,040
Speaker 1: for me? Oh? S one? What would John just read? Oh? Okay?

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01:43:31,720 --> 01:43:35,519
Speaker 1: Then five fifty two S one? Would I be the

1751
01:43:35,600 --> 01:43:38,720
Speaker 1: A hole if I were to dump my boyfriend for

1752
01:43:38,880 --> 01:43:44,719
Speaker 1: being a snobby movie critic? I don't know. Movie critics

1753
01:43:44,760 --> 01:43:47,400
Speaker 1: are annoying because some people don't watch movies. That's true,

1754
01:43:47,479 --> 01:43:50,519
Speaker 1: that's true, and would criticize you for not watching those movies?

1755
01:43:50,600 --> 01:43:54,080
Speaker 1: And this story is related to the question what should

1756
01:43:54,120 --> 01:43:59,360
Speaker 1: you do when a partner won't listen? And this first

1757
01:43:59,400 --> 01:44:04,679
Speaker 1: story comes from Peemi and they say, my boyfriend hosts

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01:44:04,720 --> 01:44:07,240
Speaker 1: his own podcast dedicated to movies, and he even has

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01:44:07,280 --> 01:44:09,559
Speaker 1: his own studio that he's renting out that he can

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01:44:09,640 --> 01:44:12,599
Speaker 1: record there. He has some co host legit recording equipment,

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01:44:12,640 --> 01:44:15,479
Speaker 1: and he has decent following. I always go to the

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01:44:15,520 --> 01:44:17,719
Speaker 1: studio to just sit in on the side and watch

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01:44:17,760 --> 01:44:20,439
Speaker 1: as he records. But I've noticed that he started to

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01:44:20,479 --> 01:44:23,320
Speaker 1: become a bit different ever since the start of the podcast.

1765
01:44:23,840 --> 01:44:25,720
Speaker 1: On a podcast a few weeks ago, the topic was

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01:44:25,800 --> 01:44:28,559
Speaker 1: twenty sixteen movies, as my boyfriend and his co host

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01:44:28,600 --> 01:44:31,920
Speaker 1: revisited some of their favorite and least favorite films of

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Speaker 1: twenty sixteen. One of the co hosts brought up Arrival

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Speaker 1: as their favorite as their favorite film of twenty sixteen,

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01:44:39,479 --> 01:44:45,760
Speaker 1: and while he was talking, my boyfriend loudly says, ya, really,

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01:44:46,400 --> 01:44:49,120
Speaker 1: I agree with that, okay, and he explains that he

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01:44:49,200 --> 01:44:53,160
Speaker 1: thought Arrival was borings. No, dude, Arrival was great. You're wrong.

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01:44:53,600 --> 01:44:57,520
Speaker 1: What Arrival? This podcast right now? Solid Arrival was incredible.

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01:44:57,680 --> 01:44:59,599
Speaker 3: The action build up though we thought we were gonna

1775
01:44:59,600 --> 01:45:01,360
Speaker 3: get more the Yeah, and the message was cool, but

1776
01:45:01,479 --> 01:45:03,679
Speaker 3: like the action and the people they put in this thing.

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01:45:03,720 --> 01:45:05,800
Speaker 1: It's all about action, dude.

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01:45:06,200 --> 01:45:07,760
Speaker 3: The trailers made it feel like it was about to

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01:45:07,760 --> 01:45:10,280
Speaker 3: be Wait is a rival of the one where the

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01:45:10,479 --> 01:45:13,599
Speaker 3: universal language? Yeah, yeah, dude, that was great, great concept,

1781
01:45:13,680 --> 01:45:16,719
Speaker 3: but there's not that much action that the action happened

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01:45:16,760 --> 01:45:19,120
Speaker 3: in the last twenty It wasn't an action movie, but

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01:45:19,240 --> 01:45:21,160
Speaker 3: they made it feel like an action movie.

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01:45:21,360 --> 01:45:25,439
Speaker 1: They made it feel like a like a thriller. Here's

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01:45:25,479 --> 01:45:25,800
Speaker 1: the thing.

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01:45:25,920 --> 01:45:28,080
Speaker 3: You guys are both all right, all right, all right,

1787
01:45:28,200 --> 01:45:31,280
Speaker 3: that's it's nothing about that podcast was probably about anyway.

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01:45:31,800 --> 01:45:34,120
Speaker 1: So, and he explains he thought Arrival was boring. My

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01:45:34,240 --> 01:45:38,080
Speaker 1: boyfriend those My boyfriend then goes into this giant rant

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01:45:38,200 --> 01:45:41,000
Speaker 1: about how he hated Arrival, calling it one of the

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01:45:41,160 --> 01:45:44,640
Speaker 1: most overrated movies of all time. He says that he

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01:45:44,800 --> 01:45:47,600
Speaker 1: looks down on people who liked the movie because he

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01:45:47,680 --> 01:45:50,160
Speaker 1: claims that they think they're smart and it said that

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01:45:50,320 --> 01:45:55,880
Speaker 1: he's proud of He said, he's proud of himself for

1795
01:45:55,960 --> 01:45:59,759
Speaker 1: seeing past that movie. And it's fox attempts at intelligence?

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01:45:59,760 --> 01:46:02,639
Speaker 1: Is it faux or faux attempts at it? Faux attempts

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01:46:02,640 --> 01:46:05,639
Speaker 1: at intelligence, and whenever someone would try to change the subject,

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01:46:05,800 --> 01:46:08,320
Speaker 1: he'd just interrupt them and go right back to talking

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01:46:08,360 --> 01:46:14,479
Speaker 1: about how much he hates arrival. Also annoying. Yes, but

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01:46:14,640 --> 01:46:18,400
Speaker 1: to be fair, it's a podcast, like people play up

1801
01:46:18,560 --> 01:46:22,960
Speaker 1: character traits on podcasts. You got a yeah, yes, it's

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01:46:23,280 --> 01:46:27,120
Speaker 1: it's this is normal pod behavior. Yeah, yeah, there's a

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01:46:27,160 --> 01:46:29,559
Speaker 1: space for it exactly on the podcast.

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01:46:29,640 --> 01:46:32,439
Speaker 3: I could see where she's annoyed that she that he

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01:46:32,479 --> 01:46:34,200
Speaker 3: would not let other people talk though.

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01:46:34,520 --> 01:46:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Kelly is saying, oh, he's dumping all of you. Yeah,

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01:46:42,200 --> 01:46:44,639
Speaker 1: I think it. I think it's like it's like saying

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01:46:45,760 --> 01:46:49,519
Speaker 1: I'm mad at how you take zoom calls on your

1809
01:46:49,680 --> 01:46:52,800
Speaker 1: job because you're all about business. Who said that to you?

1810
01:46:53,240 --> 01:46:55,000
Speaker 1: No one said that, But I'm just saying it would

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01:46:55,040 --> 01:46:58,080
Speaker 1: be like that. It would be like that. It's like, well,

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01:46:58,120 --> 01:47:00,240
Speaker 1: it's my job, I'm not doing it all the time. Yeah.

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01:47:01,400 --> 01:47:03,799
Speaker 1: I think it's a very fair point. Someone doesn't understand

1814
01:47:04,080 --> 01:47:08,080
Speaker 1: understand pods. Yeah, they don't understand the podcast game. Yeah.

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01:47:08,479 --> 01:47:10,360
Speaker 1: Then just a few days ago, he was recording another

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01:47:10,400 --> 01:47:13,479
Speaker 1: show and the topic was MCU movies. My boyfriend brought

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01:47:13,560 --> 01:47:16,599
Speaker 1: up that he thinks Age of Ultron is a hidden gem,

1818
01:47:16,960 --> 01:47:22,360
Speaker 1: a massively overlooked masterpiece who I haven't seen age Voltron.

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01:47:23,080 --> 01:47:25,760
Speaker 1: One of his co hosts scoffed when he said those things,

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01:47:25,880 --> 01:47:29,320
Speaker 1: and that set my boyfriend off. He started attacking the

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01:47:29,400 --> 01:47:32,000
Speaker 1: co host for his taste of movies and started saying, like,

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01:47:32,479 --> 01:47:34,559
Speaker 1: just because I have a better understanding of the art

1823
01:47:34,680 --> 01:47:37,240
Speaker 1: of filmmaking, it doesn't mean you have to be jealous

1824
01:47:37,280 --> 01:47:39,840
Speaker 1: of me. That was actually enough for the co host

1825
01:47:39,920 --> 01:47:42,040
Speaker 1: to just walk out in the middle of the show,

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01:47:42,200 --> 01:47:45,080
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend said, that's fine. I only want to

1827
01:47:45,120 --> 01:47:49,880
Speaker 1: talk to true auteurs of film on this show, and

1828
01:47:50,080 --> 01:47:52,160
Speaker 1: just yesterday, I wonder if that's all just for the

1829
01:47:52,240 --> 01:47:55,800
Speaker 1: bit I don't know, or are they actually I mean,

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01:47:56,240 --> 01:48:01,320
Speaker 1: I'm picking up that if the co hosts like walked

1831
01:48:01,320 --> 01:48:02,880
Speaker 1: out and she I feel like she would be aware

1832
01:48:02,920 --> 01:48:06,040
Speaker 1: of it. Maybe she's Sarcastle tell her, I don't I

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01:48:06,080 --> 01:48:06,320
Speaker 1: don't know.

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01:48:06,880 --> 01:48:08,559
Speaker 3: I mean we play out being friends for a bit,

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01:48:11,080 --> 01:48:13,240
Speaker 3: you know, I mean it's probably playing a.

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01:48:13,360 --> 01:48:20,439
Speaker 1: Bit, yes, Riley. Also, Sophia, that's a that's a good.

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01:48:20,520 --> 01:48:22,680
Speaker 1: That's a bit. Not even my sister yeap, who's that?

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01:48:23,000 --> 01:48:25,000
Speaker 1: Who is that? I don't even know? Yeah, it's crazy

1839
01:48:25,000 --> 01:48:27,040
Speaker 1: that we got paid an actor to look exactly like

1840
01:48:27,160 --> 01:48:31,600
Speaker 1: me too. That's true reconstruction surgery. Mm hmm. Anyway, so

1841
01:48:32,080 --> 01:48:34,400
Speaker 1: uh that was actually enough for the coast walk out.

1842
01:48:34,400 --> 01:48:36,080
Speaker 1: That's my only want to talk to her tours And

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01:48:36,479 --> 01:48:38,679
Speaker 1: just yesterday I asked him if we get Shazam together,

1844
01:48:38,720 --> 01:48:42,120
Speaker 1: but he simply responded with I deserve better than those

1845
01:48:42,280 --> 01:48:45,160
Speaker 1: DC movies. I confronted him and told him that he

1846
01:48:45,200 --> 01:48:47,920
Speaker 1: needs to stop acting like he's smarter than everyone over

1847
01:48:48,040 --> 01:48:51,560
Speaker 1: his taste in film, and he said, truth hurts, doesn't it?

1848
01:48:52,040 --> 01:48:54,360
Speaker 1: And it's like this is a lot, and it's like

1849
01:48:54,479 --> 01:48:56,920
Speaker 1: this a lot whenever I'm watching a movie, doesn't like

1850
01:48:57,000 --> 01:49:00,800
Speaker 1: he'll just scoff and say, I'm thinking of breaking up

1851
01:49:00,800 --> 01:49:03,320
Speaker 1: with him, But I also feel weird about dumping him

1852
01:49:03,439 --> 01:49:08,680
Speaker 1: over having differing over having differing views on film? What

1853
01:49:08,880 --> 01:49:11,559
Speaker 1: do you think? There is an update and there are

1854
01:49:11,720 --> 01:49:16,400
Speaker 1: some relevant comments, but is op the a hole? Go ahead?

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01:49:16,720 --> 01:49:19,439
Speaker 3: I think she's not upset about the different views on film.

1856
01:49:19,479 --> 01:49:21,840
Speaker 3: I think it's his communication skills.

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01:49:21,640 --> 01:49:25,640
Speaker 1: And and the respect like he's belittling her. It's like,

1858
01:49:25,720 --> 01:49:29,479
Speaker 1: oh you want to watch Sazam? Oh my god? Yeah.

1859
01:49:29,560 --> 01:49:31,840
Speaker 1: I think I think it's less about that it's not.

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01:49:32,000 --> 01:49:34,519
Speaker 1: It's not like, oh, I think this movie is great,

1861
01:49:34,600 --> 01:49:36,160
Speaker 1: that's that's not what she has a problem that she

1862
01:49:36,240 --> 01:49:39,040
Speaker 1: has a problem with the rude tone in which she's

1863
01:49:39,080 --> 01:49:41,599
Speaker 1: interacting with everyone, including her. And I think the big

1864
01:49:41,680 --> 01:49:45,599
Speaker 1: indicator here is he's doing this off podcast to her. Yeah,

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01:49:46,320 --> 01:49:48,880
Speaker 1: and yeah, I think there's a way to communicate that.

1866
01:49:48,920 --> 01:49:51,799
Speaker 1: You know, like me and my girlfriend sometimes, like honestly,

1867
01:49:51,880 --> 01:49:56,160
Speaker 1: our shows and watching behavior overlap a lot, but there's

1868
01:49:56,200 --> 01:49:58,000
Speaker 1: some things that she watches that I just don't want

1869
01:49:58,000 --> 01:50:00,880
Speaker 1: to watch, and vice versa, and where you're like, oh

1870
01:50:00,960 --> 01:50:02,599
Speaker 1: my gosh, I don't know if I can handle another

1871
01:50:02,640 --> 01:50:05,040
Speaker 1: episode of of blah blah blah. But in like in

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01:50:05,120 --> 01:50:09,240
Speaker 1: a funny way, you know, yeah, he seems a little

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01:50:09,240 --> 01:50:12,920
Speaker 1: bit disrespectful. I feel like it. I mean, I think

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01:50:13,000 --> 01:50:16,840
Speaker 1: communicate that even on the even on the podcast, because

1875
01:50:17,200 --> 01:50:20,080
Speaker 1: I think I think like a podcast conversation could be like, oh,

1876
01:50:20,200 --> 01:50:25,040
Speaker 1: that that's trash. You're you're trashing the the thing, the movie,

1877
01:50:25,160 --> 01:50:28,160
Speaker 1: the music to whatever, the topic is not a person.

1878
01:50:28,400 --> 01:50:30,479
Speaker 1: But even I mean like there's like like in uh

1879
01:50:31,240 --> 01:50:34,040
Speaker 1: an other podcast, they'll like trash each other and like

1880
01:50:34,120 --> 01:50:35,840
Speaker 1: make fun of each other. So like, yeah, it could

1881
01:50:35,920 --> 01:50:38,000
Speaker 1: like like, it could be just in the context of

1882
01:50:38,040 --> 01:50:42,240
Speaker 1: the podcast, but the big tell here is it transfers

1883
01:50:42,600 --> 01:50:45,200
Speaker 1: into real life too. Yeah. I think that's the issue.

1884
01:50:45,520 --> 01:50:48,040
Speaker 1: When it's when it's more than just a persona and

1885
01:50:48,160 --> 01:50:50,599
Speaker 1: it's actually in real life, then it's like which also

1886
01:50:50,720 --> 01:50:52,640
Speaker 1: leads me to believe that this is more just his

1887
01:50:52,840 --> 01:50:58,920
Speaker 1: like personality than like a bit or an on screen bit. Yeah. Yeah,

1888
01:50:58,920 --> 01:51:01,160
Speaker 1: I don't think op's the hole. I think this guy

1889
01:51:01,280 --> 01:51:03,360
Speaker 1: is definitely the a hole. Yes, well, look at this

1890
01:51:03,920 --> 01:51:08,760
Speaker 1: what Anna Bananer says, No, girl, do it. I overlooked

1891
01:51:08,760 --> 01:51:11,439
Speaker 1: it exact same thing. My X went to film school.

1892
01:51:11,479 --> 01:51:17,639
Speaker 1: They're huge narcissists, most most art, but some can be. Yeah. Yeah,

1893
01:51:17,960 --> 01:51:19,479
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess you could kind of like take

1894
01:51:19,520 --> 01:51:23,000
Speaker 1: anything and just be like a snob about it, and yeah,

1895
01:51:23,400 --> 01:51:26,320
Speaker 1: to enable your superior sense of self. I think. I think.

1896
01:51:26,640 --> 01:51:31,479
Speaker 1: I think snobbish behavior is kind of a dick move

1897
01:51:31,680 --> 01:51:36,320
Speaker 1: in general. Yes, but let's go to the top comments.

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01:51:36,360 --> 01:51:40,200
Speaker 1: So Banaros eight six ninety three says, not the a hole.

1899
01:51:40,360 --> 01:51:43,120
Speaker 1: Don't think you are breaking up over your differing views

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01:51:43,160 --> 01:51:46,960
Speaker 1: on film, but rather his crappy attitude an actual disaster

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01:51:47,080 --> 01:51:48,960
Speaker 1: bias says not the a hole. Your boyfriend sounds like

1902
01:51:49,000 --> 01:51:51,960
Speaker 1: a true douche canoe who has a foe. I'm smarter

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Speaker 1: than you and deeper intellectual than you bullshit about him.

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01:51:55,520 --> 01:51:57,760
Speaker 1: I don't know you, but I can safely say that

1905
01:51:57,840 --> 01:52:00,360
Speaker 1: you're better off without people like that and your life

1906
01:52:00,479 --> 01:52:04,080
Speaker 1: and there is a huge update. But John, Oh, but John,

1907
01:52:04,439 --> 01:52:08,400
Speaker 1: I have a question for you. Talk to me marketing

1908
01:52:09,120 --> 01:52:19,640
Speaker 1: marketing ooh for this film podcast. They haven't mentioned the

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01:52:19,720 --> 01:52:22,519
Speaker 1: name yet. They haven't mentioned the name. Does given other

1910
01:52:22,640 --> 01:52:26,080
Speaker 1: comments where it's like I bet you are someone saying

1911
01:52:27,120 --> 01:52:30,360
Speaker 1: what's the podcast and how many? How many up votes?

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Speaker 1: And what's the user name? Also, can y'all write some

1913
01:52:37,640 --> 01:52:43,320
Speaker 1: stories about us and your story, like write your right story,

1914
01:52:43,600 --> 01:52:46,959
Speaker 1: ideally true, write true stories about you listening to this podcast?

1915
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Speaker 1: And oh spended. Actually, yeah, we have a mission for you.

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01:52:55,160 --> 01:52:57,759
Speaker 1: Write true stories about you guys listening to this podcast

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Speaker 1: on other subreddits. Yes, to help grow the show. That's right,

1918
01:53:02,760 --> 01:53:05,720
Speaker 1: that'll be sick. So it's like, like, for instance, my

1919
01:53:06,280 --> 01:53:09,080
Speaker 1: I thought my girlfriend was in a relationship with this

1920
01:53:09,160 --> 01:53:11,439
Speaker 1: guy on this podcast because she was listening to its

1921
01:53:11,479 --> 01:53:15,000
Speaker 1: own Yeah, what was the podcast? Oh? Okay, storytime?

1922
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Speaker 3: I have a good one I could do for us

1923
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Speaker 3: would get okay, you want me tell.

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Speaker 1: You it or just do it? Just do it, put

1925
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Speaker 1: it in, okay, put it everywhere.

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Speaker 3: It was gonna be like, I am a podcast producer

1927
01:53:28,280 --> 01:53:31,840
Speaker 3: and my one of my hosts won't stop talking about

1928
01:53:31,840 --> 01:53:33,640
Speaker 3: how he likes forty five year olds and my mom

1929
01:53:33,760 --> 01:53:35,479
Speaker 3: is forty five and she's coming over next week.

1930
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Speaker 1: What should I do? And then just go into it

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Speaker 1: and be.

1932
01:53:38,760 --> 01:53:40,840
Speaker 3: Like, he's also my boss, but you know is he

1933
01:53:40,880 --> 01:53:42,400
Speaker 3: probably is, probably just a bit, but I don't know

1934
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Speaker 3: how to talk to him.

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01:53:44,640 --> 01:53:51,799
Speaker 1: WHOA another hundred bucks? What the world? WHOA? That's crazy?

1936
01:53:52,360 --> 01:53:58,559
Speaker 1: Holy cow? We had one. I had it was one

1937
01:53:58,680 --> 01:54:02,160
Speaker 1: date says what it could be that that would get viewed.

1938
01:54:02,200 --> 01:54:04,400
Speaker 1: I made a rule for myself plus or minus three.

1939
01:54:05,040 --> 01:54:07,280
Speaker 3: Well, then that could be the update update he had.

1940
01:54:07,479 --> 01:54:08,960
Speaker 3: He has a new rule because he's told that I

1941
01:54:09,040 --> 01:54:12,680
Speaker 3: was uncomfortable by it. That's a great update, dude, Come on,

1942
01:54:13,000 --> 01:54:14,680
Speaker 3: come on, and they won't know who it is.

1943
01:54:16,400 --> 01:54:19,280
Speaker 1: Anyway. Carolyn C. Thanks on the hundred dollars stip. Hope

1944
01:54:19,360 --> 01:54:23,439
Speaker 1: you don't have plans more time? Please? You're getting it.

1945
01:54:23,960 --> 01:54:27,160
Speaker 1: You are freaking getting it. You want it. Anyway, you

1946
01:54:27,200 --> 01:54:30,080
Speaker 1: should totally do that. That would be funny. That would

1947
01:54:30,080 --> 01:54:31,840
Speaker 1: be pretty funny. Oh, I can't wait. I'm gonna do

1948
01:54:31,880 --> 01:54:33,800
Speaker 1: it all right, but you just want to make sure

1949
01:54:33,800 --> 01:54:35,800
Speaker 1: you're not gonna get like I got you, I got

1950
01:54:35,840 --> 01:54:38,240
Speaker 1: you roughed up. But because Reddit can be pretty if

1951
01:54:38,280 --> 01:54:42,200
Speaker 1: they ready, if marketing, they'll be which is maybe why

1952
01:54:42,280 --> 01:54:44,760
Speaker 1: this person got suspended. I'm okay with you and suspended.

1953
01:54:44,880 --> 01:54:46,400
Speaker 1: Just make it do do it for an account that's

1954
01:54:46,440 --> 01:54:50,920
Speaker 1: not like throw away okay story. Tom Brittany John says,

1955
01:54:50,960 --> 01:54:52,840
Speaker 1: my husband thought I was talking on the phone with

1956
01:54:53,000 --> 01:54:57,640
Speaker 1: John when I was cleaning when I was cleaning the

1957
01:54:57,680 --> 01:54:59,920
Speaker 1: bathroom once because I was talking back to the podcast

1958
01:55:00,040 --> 01:55:02,760
Speaker 1: as one does and laugh because he realized it's just

1959
01:55:02,840 --> 01:55:06,280
Speaker 1: a podcast that is hilarious that probably happens like fairly often.

1960
01:55:06,520 --> 01:55:09,720
Speaker 1: Please do your stories about that, yes, those and put

1961
01:55:09,760 --> 01:55:12,120
Speaker 1: it in like am I the a hole? And blah

1962
01:55:12,160 --> 01:55:12,560
Speaker 1: blah blah.

1963
01:55:12,640 --> 01:55:15,360
Speaker 3: Whoever did the Sam one? Like I thought Sam was

1964
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Speaker 3: getting dated on or my my girlfriend was dating Sam.

1965
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Speaker 1: I think that was fair. I don't know, but that

1966
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Speaker 1: would be a good one to put on. Another one. Yeah, yeah,

1967
01:55:24,000 --> 01:55:27,080
Speaker 1: show that one around. Get an update, show do we

1968
01:55:27,120 --> 01:55:29,440
Speaker 1: have an update on the one. H We have an

1969
01:55:29,520 --> 01:55:33,680
Speaker 1: update on this story. Yeah, okay, so updates last night.

1970
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Speaker 1: Last night was another podcast between my boyfriend and his

1971
01:55:37,240 --> 01:55:39,640
Speaker 1: remaining co host, so I guess the other co host left.

1972
01:55:41,040 --> 01:55:44,560
Speaker 1: Before Before every actual recording of a show, they always

1973
01:55:44,560 --> 01:55:46,560
Speaker 1: get together in another room briefly to go over what

1974
01:55:46,600 --> 01:55:48,320
Speaker 1: they're going to discuss in the show, and the topic

1975
01:55:48,400 --> 01:55:51,640
Speaker 1: this time was Star Wars. They were going to talk

1976
01:55:51,680 --> 01:55:54,400
Speaker 1: about the new trailer for episode nine, as well as

1977
01:55:54,600 --> 01:55:57,800
Speaker 1: rank their favorite and least favorite Star Wars films. During

1978
01:55:57,840 --> 01:56:01,120
Speaker 1: the pre show meeting, I I was thinking about how

1979
01:56:01,160 --> 01:56:03,200
Speaker 1: it was most likely going to break up with him

1980
01:56:03,600 --> 01:56:07,400
Speaker 1: after the show has been recorded, but another opportunity presented itself.

1981
01:56:07,960 --> 01:56:10,800
Speaker 1: During the meeting, my boyfriend and the co host were

1982
01:56:10,840 --> 01:56:13,400
Speaker 1: talking about Star Wars movies and my boyfriend brought up

1983
01:56:13,440 --> 01:56:16,800
Speaker 1: that his favorite movie is Revenge of the Sith and

1984
01:56:16,960 --> 01:56:20,360
Speaker 1: his least favorite is a New Hope. He said that

1985
01:56:20,920 --> 01:56:23,360
Speaker 1: the Revenge of the Sith is the most is the

1986
01:56:23,440 --> 01:56:26,880
Speaker 1: most epic, an action packed, whereas the original movie is

1987
01:56:26,960 --> 01:56:29,840
Speaker 1: too dated. His co host disagreed and they started talking

1988
01:56:29,880 --> 01:56:32,200
Speaker 1: about their opinions, which led them to talking about the

1989
01:56:32,280 --> 01:56:36,000
Speaker 1: Last Jedi. But then my boyfriend turns the conversation into

1990
01:56:36,520 --> 01:56:41,480
Speaker 1: about into one about another highly divisive twenty seventeen movie, Mother,

1991
01:56:41,720 --> 01:56:45,280
Speaker 1: st starring Jennifer Lawrence. My boyfriend hailed it as one

1992
01:56:45,320 --> 01:56:48,840
Speaker 1: of the top five films of all time and the

1993
01:56:49,040 --> 01:56:53,240
Speaker 1: most artistic film he's ever seen. His co host wanted

1994
01:56:53,240 --> 01:56:55,120
Speaker 1: to get back on track to Star Wars, but my

1995
01:56:55,200 --> 01:56:57,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend kept wanting to talk about Mother. The co host

1996
01:56:57,720 --> 01:57:02,080
Speaker 1: responded with Mother is an edgy high schooler's version of artistic,

1997
01:57:02,440 --> 01:57:04,120
Speaker 1: and that was enough for my boyfriend to go red

1998
01:57:04,160 --> 01:57:07,000
Speaker 1: in the face and say, well, at least I try

1999
01:57:07,080 --> 01:57:14,200
Speaker 1: to have actual taste, unlike you. Maybe it's there. They're

2000
01:57:14,360 --> 01:57:18,560
Speaker 1: like hating dynamic, that is, they're just like going viral

2001
01:57:18,600 --> 01:57:22,160
Speaker 1: because they're just like crapping all over it. It probably works, honestly. Yeah,

2002
01:57:22,320 --> 01:57:26,560
Speaker 1: it sounds somewhat entertaining. Yeah, there's a hip hop podcast

2003
01:57:26,640 --> 01:57:29,120
Speaker 1: that kind of had that that energy. Yeah, and it

2004
01:57:29,240 --> 01:57:32,800
Speaker 1: was huge. Yeah, I imagine it's just not like, probably

2005
01:57:32,840 --> 01:57:35,920
Speaker 1: not fun to be in though it's not it's not

2006
01:57:36,720 --> 01:57:40,200
Speaker 1: not good for your mental out. The coe simply said

2007
01:57:40,520 --> 01:57:42,600
Speaker 1: I'm done and got up and walked out of the room.

2008
01:57:42,920 --> 01:57:45,880
Speaker 1: My boyfriend just stood there and then turned on me.

2009
01:57:46,000 --> 01:57:48,920
Speaker 1: He said to me, what the eff are you looking at.

2010
01:57:49,600 --> 01:57:51,440
Speaker 1: I just stood up and told him that we're done

2011
01:57:51,640 --> 01:57:54,920
Speaker 1: as a couple. I explained that I can't stand his

2012
01:57:55,080 --> 01:57:58,280
Speaker 1: crappy way of talking to people and constantly acting like

2013
01:57:58,360 --> 01:58:00,800
Speaker 1: he's so much better than everyone. He starts telling me

2014
01:58:00,920 --> 01:58:03,839
Speaker 1: that he needs me, and he was planning on asking

2015
01:58:04,000 --> 01:58:06,240
Speaker 1: me to join the podcast, but I just told him

2016
01:58:06,280 --> 01:58:08,520
Speaker 1: no and walked out of the room. While I was

2017
01:58:08,600 --> 01:58:11,080
Speaker 1: leaving the building and getting an uber, my boyfriend sticks

2018
01:58:11,160 --> 01:58:15,440
Speaker 1: his head out of the front door and screams, effing punt.

2019
01:58:16,360 --> 01:58:19,880
Speaker 1: I just ignored him and went home and now here

2020
01:58:19,920 --> 01:58:22,680
Speaker 1: I am update. I just want to let you know

2021
01:58:22,800 --> 01:58:24,560
Speaker 1: that I will no longer be giving out the link

2022
01:58:24,600 --> 01:58:27,680
Speaker 1: to the podcast in any more pms. I've done that

2023
01:58:27,760 --> 01:58:29,920
Speaker 1: in a couple of pms already. And my extra just

2024
01:58:29,960 --> 01:58:32,200
Speaker 1: texting me telling me that the comment section in his

2025
01:58:32,320 --> 01:58:36,640
Speaker 1: podcast is being bombarded with trolls and harassment comments, one

2026
01:58:36,680 --> 01:58:40,760
Speaker 1: of which was a on a living threat that he's

2027
01:58:40,880 --> 01:58:44,400
Speaker 1: now reporting okay, good to know, good and known and

2028
01:58:44,920 --> 01:58:47,880
Speaker 1: top comment a Zeo Altaire twelve says, looks like you

2029
01:58:47,920 --> 01:58:50,240
Speaker 1: went down the path you just couldn't follow. But man,

2030
01:58:50,400 --> 01:58:52,760
Speaker 1: driving away your co host and the give another in

2031
01:58:52,840 --> 01:58:56,160
Speaker 1: the space of five minutes really enforces that you did

2032
01:58:56,360 --> 01:59:00,800
Speaker 1: the right thing. Op. Okay, still think it could have

2033
01:59:00,840 --> 01:59:05,120
Speaker 1: been marketing because the end bit was almost like, oh,

2034
01:59:05,280 --> 01:59:09,560
Speaker 1: the drugs. It's like the drug is soude so dangerous,

2035
01:59:09,720 --> 01:59:11,680
Speaker 1: Like I want to I want to get on the edge.

2036
01:59:11,760 --> 01:59:14,240
Speaker 1: I mean, but but it would kind of be pretty

2037
01:59:14,600 --> 01:59:18,200
Speaker 1: pretty bad to get that many negative reviews. It would be.

2038
01:59:18,520 --> 01:59:22,840
Speaker 1: But some people are like views reviews, user reviews. That's

2039
01:59:22,840 --> 01:59:24,840
Speaker 1: what some people think. That's what some that some people

2040
01:59:24,960 --> 01:59:28,280
Speaker 1: do think that some people don't build an incredible community

2041
01:59:28,360 --> 01:59:31,280
Speaker 1: of people that love each other. Yeah, shout out, shout

2042
01:59:31,320 --> 01:59:34,240
Speaker 1: out y'all. Yeah, honestly, shout out y'all that this is great.

2043
01:59:34,400 --> 01:59:37,160
Speaker 1: The most supportive people. The supportive also shout out to

2044
01:59:37,240 --> 01:59:40,520
Speaker 1: the growing Facebook audience. Dude, we see you, Yeah, we

2045
01:59:40,640 --> 01:59:44,400
Speaker 1: see Facebook be growing. Like hecked all you moms out there,

2046
01:59:44,600 --> 01:59:48,520
Speaker 1: we just hit sixty k followers on Facebook. What yeah, big, big,

2047
01:59:48,920 --> 01:59:50,880
Speaker 1: put a W in the chat if you're on Facebook. Honestly,

2048
01:59:50,960 --> 01:59:54,840
Speaker 1: at this rate, Facebook will be bigger than YouTube. I

2049
01:59:54,880 --> 01:59:59,680
Speaker 1: mean it already is our bigger than ours. That is true.

2050
02:00:00,040 --> 02:00:02,160
Speaker 1: That is true. I think it's probably the biggest on

2051
02:00:02,280 --> 02:00:05,560
Speaker 1: views right now. Yes, yeah, even bigger than TikTok. TikTok.

2052
02:00:05,640 --> 02:00:09,080
Speaker 1: Once was our main squeeze, but now now it's a

2053
02:00:09,160 --> 02:00:09,640
Speaker 1: meat drop.

2054
02:00:09,760 --> 02:00:12,760
Speaker 3: They've just been edging us so much by like not giving.

2055
02:00:12,960 --> 02:00:14,280
Speaker 3: We've been at a million, I.

2056
02:00:14,360 --> 02:00:18,320
Speaker 1: Know, nine, we've been at nine hundred, nine hundred ninety

2057
02:00:18,760 --> 02:00:21,320
Speaker 1: literally nine hundred ninety thousand for the last year and

2058
02:00:21,360 --> 02:00:24,080
Speaker 1: a half. Oh yeah, I want goon already. I want

2059
02:00:24,080 --> 02:00:28,480
Speaker 1: to Well we are goody, they're edging, they're edging us. Yeah,

2060
02:00:28,760 --> 02:00:33,440
Speaker 1: it's a gooning session for sure, the world's longest gooning exactly,

2061
02:00:33,600 --> 02:00:37,040
Speaker 1: it is. It is heartbreaking. Oh my god, it is heartbreaking.

2062
02:00:37,240 --> 02:00:39,960
Speaker 3: This is but my level ten yacht get in there

2063
02:00:40,000 --> 02:00:41,360
Speaker 3: so I can rise up more accounts.

2064
02:00:42,080 --> 02:00:47,280
Speaker 1: Shut a baby kronk. But you know what we have?

2065
02:00:48,320 --> 02:00:50,840
Speaker 1: Do we have a donut that we haven't read? Yep,

2066
02:00:51,040 --> 02:00:53,960
Speaker 1: that one? Yeah? Yeah, Matt Hatter, go thanks about a

2067
02:00:54,040 --> 02:00:56,200
Speaker 1: twenty bucks, let's go. Me and my boyfriend have different

2068
02:00:56,240 --> 02:00:58,480
Speaker 1: taste in films, but we learned that as okay to

2069
02:00:58,600 --> 02:01:01,280
Speaker 1: like different things. If you're a going to critique every movie,

2070
02:01:01,400 --> 02:01:05,760
Speaker 1: some people, uh, some people watch you are the a hole. Yeah,

2071
02:01:05,800 --> 02:01:07,480
Speaker 1: did we do we answer that question? Do we think

2072
02:01:07,720 --> 02:01:11,080
Speaker 1: that the boyfriend was in the Yeah, boyfriend was totally

2073
02:01:11,120 --> 02:01:13,320
Speaker 1: a hole for sure, agreed, yelled at her while she

2074
02:01:13,480 --> 02:01:16,440
Speaker 1: was leaving. Also, really wait, wait, I want to dwell

2075
02:01:16,480 --> 02:01:18,760
Speaker 1: on this for a second. Everyone is saying that they

2076
02:01:18,880 --> 02:01:20,640
Speaker 1: found us on or a lot of people are saying

2077
02:01:20,680 --> 02:01:22,839
Speaker 1: that they found us on Facebook but went to YouTube

2078
02:01:22,920 --> 02:01:28,560
Speaker 1: for the membership. That is so interesting. That is so interesting.

2079
02:01:29,160 --> 02:01:31,240
Speaker 1: Something that we're going to be doing is because I

2080
02:01:31,480 --> 02:01:33,560
Speaker 1: feel like we could get more people in these live

2081
02:01:33,640 --> 02:01:37,200
Speaker 1: streams if we start telling like actually saying, oh, there's

2082
02:01:37,200 --> 02:01:40,560
Speaker 1: a live stream on Facebook, which I don't think we like,

2083
02:01:41,280 --> 02:01:47,120
Speaker 1: like legitimately, do ye ortream on YouTube? Everything W is

2084
02:01:47,200 --> 02:01:51,320
Speaker 1: from Facebook? That is cow every way? Way do we

2085
02:01:51,360 --> 02:01:54,880
Speaker 1: say w's in the chat from if you're on Facebook? Wow,

2086
02:01:55,680 --> 02:01:59,160
Speaker 1: that's crazy? Yeah, because it used to be all it

2087
02:01:59,320 --> 02:02:02,840
Speaker 1: used to be all TikTok first channel I ever subscribed to.

2088
02:02:04,280 --> 02:02:06,240
Speaker 1: I started watching on Facebook, but I know YouTube is

2089
02:02:06,680 --> 02:02:11,320
Speaker 1: better money, so I moved over here watching. Oh I

2090
02:02:11,400 --> 02:02:16,120
Speaker 1: think what's cool? Like, I think YouTube is better. It's

2091
02:02:16,160 --> 02:02:21,360
Speaker 1: like like the community feels a little bit tighter. Yeah, Oh,

2092
02:02:21,480 --> 02:02:24,200
Speaker 1: Jesse found out awesome A podcast will save the relationship.

2093
02:02:24,240 --> 02:02:29,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, dude, shout out sleepless, sleepless here, got

2094
02:02:30,120 --> 02:02:35,000
Speaker 1: to have two accounts to help the stream. Yeah, appreciate you. Yeah,

2095
02:02:35,040 --> 02:02:37,240
Speaker 1: that's awesome. That's awesome. I love that.

2096
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

2097
02:02:37,560 --> 02:02:39,880
Speaker 1: I think, I mean, our community is just dope in general,

2098
02:02:41,120 --> 02:02:44,560
Speaker 1: and we're about to do some like really crazy stuff

2099
02:02:44,720 --> 02:02:50,360
Speaker 1: with Oh dude, I kind of. I can't wait for

2100
02:02:50,480 --> 02:02:53,880
Speaker 1: the new format to come out. I can't wait. It's

2101
02:02:53,920 --> 02:02:56,480
Speaker 1: gonna be so sick. I think you guys are gonna

2102
02:02:56,480 --> 02:03:02,760
Speaker 1: love it. It's gonna be so sad. It's you. I'm

2103
02:03:02,920 --> 02:03:08,760
Speaker 1: edging right now, straight straight gooning. What should we get

2104
02:03:08,840 --> 02:03:12,160
Speaker 1: on this next story? Let's do it? Does it mean

2105
02:03:12,440 --> 02:03:18,520
Speaker 1: it is? Oh? No, yeah, do that thing Riley. Oh

2106
02:03:18,760 --> 02:03:21,800
Speaker 1: uh also, real quick, my mom did respond to the

2107
02:03:22,200 --> 02:03:23,720
Speaker 1: training when we read that. Real quick?

2108
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Speaker 4: All right?

2109
02:03:24,040 --> 02:03:29,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so uh, omg, you don't want to air that

2110
02:03:30,560 --> 02:03:31,960
Speaker 1: discussion in that question. Lol.

2111
02:03:32,880 --> 02:03:34,480
Speaker 2: I don't know if you remember, but we tried to

2112
02:03:34,520 --> 02:03:37,040
Speaker 2: potty train you. We tried months to potty training, but

2113
02:03:37,040 --> 02:03:39,600
Speaker 2: you wouldn't do anything on the potty. You were months

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Speaker 2: past your third birthday. Uh, they wouldn't let you out

2115
02:03:42,960 --> 02:03:45,280
Speaker 2: of the two year old class in preschool until you

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02:03:45,360 --> 02:03:48,760
Speaker 2: were potty trained, by the way, months after your third birthday.

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Speaker 1: So the answer was wrong. So I finally decided to stop.

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02:03:54,040 --> 02:04:03,000
Speaker 1: But so so I finally decided to stop bugging you

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Speaker 1: about using the potty. But I told you that Chuck

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02:04:05,320 --> 02:04:09,120
Speaker 1: E Cheese had a new rule that that old. I

2121
02:04:09,240 --> 02:04:12,320
Speaker 1: told this other bod that only big boys who used

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02:04:12,360 --> 02:04:18,440
Speaker 1: the potty, uh uh could go there you were. You

2123
02:04:18,560 --> 02:04:22,160
Speaker 1: were three and a half by this point. A couple

2124
02:04:22,280 --> 02:04:24,400
Speaker 1: of weeks later, you told me you were going to

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02:04:24,520 --> 02:04:27,120
Speaker 1: use the potty and went one hundred percent train to

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02:04:27,240 --> 02:04:33,240
Speaker 1: that day. It was like it was like someone flipped

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02:04:33,280 --> 02:04:37,600
Speaker 1: a switch. You never wore another diaper, never had an accident,

2128
02:04:37,880 --> 02:04:40,880
Speaker 1: not even at night. Not sure how much of that

2129
02:04:41,040 --> 02:04:44,360
Speaker 1: you want to go into detail, laughing of Boji. I

2130
02:04:44,520 --> 02:04:46,800
Speaker 1: told a few other bombs the story, and I think

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02:04:46,920 --> 02:04:49,120
Speaker 1: a couple of them actually used the same trick on

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Speaker 1: their kids. Honestly, my wow, the motivation you had when

2133
02:04:54,440 --> 02:04:58,440
Speaker 1: you when John has the profit motivation, anything is possible.

2134
02:04:58,520 --> 02:05:02,040
Speaker 1: Literally from a if you just give me the right,

2135
02:05:02,320 --> 02:05:06,080
Speaker 1: the right thing to move towards, I will barrel towards success.

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02:05:06,960 --> 02:05:08,960
Speaker 1: It is a proven I'm gonna tell her, I read

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02:05:09,000 --> 02:05:16,160
Speaker 1: this entire text on the podcast. Oh my god, Oh

2138
02:05:16,320 --> 02:05:20,480
Speaker 1: my god. Yeah, do you remember that story? But I

2139
02:05:20,760 --> 02:05:24,040
Speaker 1: never heard it in that detail. Yeah, that is the

2140
02:05:24,400 --> 02:05:32,440
Speaker 1: best text I had. Can we dude? Wait the editors Rayhon,

2141
02:05:32,880 --> 02:05:37,480
Speaker 1: can you please put this as a short on Facebook.

2142
02:05:38,040 --> 02:05:40,440
Speaker 1: I'll add it to the notion it's so that is

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02:05:40,640 --> 02:05:43,960
Speaker 1: so good? Maybe yeah, add that? Add that? Uh? Add

2144
02:05:44,040 --> 02:05:49,520
Speaker 1: that text, or like, screenshot the text jump for your mom, dude, dude,

2145
02:05:49,560 --> 02:05:51,920
Speaker 1: My mom is a w mom. By the way, it

2146
02:05:52,000 --> 02:05:55,040
Speaker 1: was her birthday yesterday. Yeah, shout out your mom. Happy

2147
02:05:55,080 --> 02:06:01,040
Speaker 1: birthday to my mama. Please clip that. Oh we just good?

2148
02:06:01,240 --> 02:06:04,800
Speaker 1: What episode of this again? Oh my goodness, I'm dying.

2149
02:06:05,040 --> 02:06:12,520
Speaker 1: That was incredible. It's just kept getting better too. Oh yeah,

2150
02:06:12,600 --> 02:06:15,600
Speaker 1: screenshot that text and put it in frame for the studio.

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02:06:18,920 --> 02:06:25,360
Speaker 1: That's actually so funny. That is so funny. Oh oh man,

2152
02:06:25,600 --> 02:06:28,240
Speaker 1: what story did you just read? I just read s

2153
02:06:28,360 --> 02:06:33,240
Speaker 1: one of five fifty two or sorry, yeah, s one

2154
02:06:33,280 --> 02:06:39,240
Speaker 1: of fight. Also, we got some doonos the toes. Thanks

2155
02:06:39,320 --> 02:06:41,680
Speaker 1: for the two months of membership. Love the okay, fam.

2156
02:06:41,960 --> 02:06:45,560
Speaker 1: I can't believe I remember that John deep cut or

2157
02:06:45,720 --> 02:06:49,360
Speaker 1: DIRP cut. Also, is there an update on mom who

2158
02:06:49,440 --> 02:06:52,480
Speaker 1: wanted to raise her kids as twins. Oh yeah, that

2159
02:06:52,600 --> 02:06:54,120
Speaker 1: was crazy one. Yeah, that was a crazy one. We

2160
02:06:54,240 --> 02:06:56,880
Speaker 1: just released that today. I think as a full story.

2161
02:06:57,680 --> 02:07:00,200
Speaker 1: Stars fall up. I started watching on Facebook. I know

2162
02:07:00,240 --> 02:07:02,680
Speaker 1: YouTube is better money, so I moved over there. Shout

2163
02:07:02,720 --> 02:07:05,240
Speaker 1: out to you. Also, I feel like, I mean, both

2164
02:07:05,320 --> 02:07:07,720
Speaker 1: Facebook and YouTube have good community, but I feel like

2165
02:07:07,920 --> 02:07:11,560
Speaker 1: the conversation is definitely a little stronger. Yeah, YouTube, they

2166
02:07:11,600 --> 02:07:14,600
Speaker 1: do community, I think a lot better. Yeah, YouTube, But also,

2167
02:07:14,720 --> 02:07:17,000
Speaker 1: I mean, Discord is the best place for community stuff.

2168
02:07:18,720 --> 02:07:22,040
Speaker 1: And then Linda, I have multi accounts because I love

2169
02:07:22,200 --> 02:07:26,120
Speaker 1: y'all like my kids. Oh, I appreciate you and April

2170
02:07:26,200 --> 02:07:29,680
Speaker 1: a master three months of membership. You guys have said

2171
02:07:29,760 --> 02:07:31,560
Speaker 1: my last name a couple of times, but fy, it's

2172
02:07:31,600 --> 02:07:35,400
Speaker 1: called Lee Master. Thanks for being my favorite place to

2173
02:07:35,520 --> 02:07:38,600
Speaker 1: hear rama. We got you, dude.

2174
02:07:39,080 --> 02:07:42,800
Speaker 3: Having love from a mama on Facebook is like that.

2175
02:07:43,240 --> 02:07:45,560
Speaker 3: It's like, that's high to your mama.

2176
02:07:45,640 --> 02:07:48,920
Speaker 1: That's different. I tr mama love. Yeah, right, we love that.

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02:07:49,600 --> 02:07:51,360
Speaker 1: We do love that. Oh man, There's so many things

2178
02:07:51,400 --> 02:07:53,480
Speaker 1: to be excited about. We have so many things going on.

2179
02:07:53,720 --> 02:07:56,840
Speaker 1: That's true. This is we got it going on for y'all.

2180
02:07:56,880 --> 02:08:02,280
Speaker 1: Wheels on the bus going around and owned. Matt Hatter Gal,

2181
02:08:02,400 --> 02:08:04,680
Speaker 1: Sam made you a haul pass. Check your discord channel

2182
02:08:04,680 --> 02:08:06,440
Speaker 1: and you get a chance. You are not getting another

2183
02:08:06,520 --> 02:08:10,320
Speaker 1: one until the four year mark. Let's go member John

2184
02:08:10,440 --> 02:08:13,440
Speaker 1: Jon's getting there, Josh get Yeah, you're actually all's there, dude.

2185
02:08:14,640 --> 02:08:17,880
Speaker 1: Have you had the conversation? Yeah, and I never will.

2186
02:08:17,960 --> 02:08:21,000
Speaker 2: We actually watched this show called The Ultimatum, and the

2187
02:08:21,120 --> 02:08:25,400
Speaker 2: premise is all of one person in the relationship made

2188
02:08:25,440 --> 02:08:27,760
Speaker 2: an ultimatum to get married. So they're going to the

2189
02:08:27,840 --> 02:08:31,200
Speaker 2: show and they'll meet and have a trial marriage with

2190
02:08:31,400 --> 02:08:35,720
Speaker 2: another person's partner for three weeks. They live, they're basically

2191
02:08:35,800 --> 02:08:38,640
Speaker 2: living with them, and they're they're like temporary husband slash wife.

2192
02:08:38,720 --> 02:08:42,680
Speaker 1: I don't like that. It was crazy, dude. Y'all are

2193
02:08:42,800 --> 02:08:49,080
Speaker 1: watching the Dirty Issue, dude, Honestly it was. It was great.

2194
02:08:49,160 --> 02:08:52,080
Speaker 1: We did TV is crazy, dude. It is the people

2195
02:08:52,120 --> 02:08:55,680
Speaker 1: want a package. Oh, we can do package. We do

2196
02:08:55,800 --> 02:08:57,600
Speaker 1: a p also, Matt Hatter Gal, I just I just

2197
02:08:57,680 --> 02:09:00,440
Speaker 1: checked out terms and conditions. Minimum four years are relationship.

2198
02:09:00,560 --> 02:09:03,200
Speaker 1: One receipt is equivalent to one entry only, can only

2199
02:09:03,280 --> 02:09:06,560
Speaker 1: use one ticket every four years. That's brilliant. I love that.

2200
02:09:06,960 --> 02:09:13,160
Speaker 2: Thank you, Mad hatteral and this has been going freaking

2201
02:09:13,240 --> 02:09:17,000
Speaker 2: bananas and has been like a top tier community member lately.

2202
02:09:17,040 --> 02:09:19,720
Speaker 1: So for Moonnight eighteen, thanks to the five bucks, did

2203
02:09:19,760 --> 02:09:22,080
Speaker 1: y'all open the box I sent with the worm Queen

2204
02:09:22,120 --> 02:09:28,120
Speaker 1: and John, Honey, you but butcher? My name? How you butcher?

2205
02:09:29,000 --> 02:09:34,080
Speaker 1: Is it moon? Is it moonlight? Moonnight? Moonnight, moonnight? Maybe

2206
02:09:34,160 --> 02:09:37,800
Speaker 1: it's moonnight? Oh? When we did huh that was the

2207
02:09:37,920 --> 02:09:39,680
Speaker 1: That was the one that we opened. Yeah, yeah, we

2208
02:09:41,920 --> 02:09:43,560
Speaker 1: opened the bottle box. I don't know if we did

2209
02:09:43,600 --> 02:09:45,920
Speaker 1: the other one. And Matt had our goal. Thanks again

2210
02:09:46,040 --> 02:09:52,520
Speaker 1: for the pass. What we got over there? There's a

2211
02:09:52,600 --> 02:09:56,839
Speaker 1: little notes. Here's a little note dive card for Sophia.

2212
02:09:57,080 --> 02:10:03,680
Speaker 1: Package for everybody. Well, I feel bad, have her come

2213
02:10:03,720 --> 02:10:11,640
Speaker 1: in real quick. Sofia, Sofia, there's a card for you.

2214
02:10:11,720 --> 02:10:15,920
Speaker 1: You want to open it. It's oh, it's even got

2215
02:10:16,960 --> 02:10:20,480
Speaker 1: a stamp on it. You can see.

2216
02:10:22,520 --> 02:10:26,160
Speaker 2: It's on the King's throne. You're gonna have to step

2217
02:10:26,240 --> 02:10:32,560
Speaker 2: over some boxes. This is for you and I will

2218
02:10:32,680 --> 02:10:36,800
Speaker 2: open the package. I still can't. I still can't even tell.

2219
02:10:39,080 --> 02:10:39,760
Speaker 5: Jack what is this?

2220
02:10:40,640 --> 02:10:44,840
Speaker 1: See it looks like it looks like an electric well

2221
02:10:44,880 --> 02:10:45,880
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, oh?

2222
02:10:48,000 --> 02:10:49,320
Speaker 5: Is is this is this.

2223
02:10:51,200 --> 02:10:54,800
Speaker 1: For everyone? But it looks like ancient armor.

2224
02:10:55,240 --> 02:11:00,080
Speaker 5: Like okay, okay, okay, our.

2225
02:11:01,640 --> 02:11:05,080
Speaker 1: Thing is John is opening one part of the package,

2226
02:11:05,120 --> 02:11:14,760
Speaker 1: Sofia is opening the other. Yoh my god, that is

2227
02:11:15,760 --> 02:11:23,400
Speaker 1: sick amazing. They they this is perfect. I mean this

2228
02:11:23,640 --> 02:11:28,920
Speaker 1: is this is like, this is perfect. That is dope. Wow.

2229
02:11:29,000 --> 02:11:32,280
Speaker 1: We need a place to put all of our stuff. Yeah,

2230
02:11:32,320 --> 02:11:36,760
Speaker 1: we do. We need shelves. James is coming over on Sunday.

2231
02:11:36,840 --> 02:11:38,880
Speaker 1: I was just about that's great. Wow.

2232
02:11:39,840 --> 02:11:43,839
Speaker 5: Oh it's a birthday a birthday car because my birthday

2233
02:11:43,880 --> 02:11:48,000
Speaker 5: is this month. That's so sweet. It says Sophia, happy birthday.

2234
02:11:48,280 --> 02:11:50,080
Speaker 5: We're a wonderful person and we hope you have a

2235
02:11:50,160 --> 02:11:53,720
Speaker 5: wonderful day Belton and husband. That's so nice.

2236
02:11:54,320 --> 02:11:59,160
Speaker 1: Wow, that's so sweet, so nice. India's birthday is coming

2237
02:11:59,240 --> 02:12:04,520
Speaker 1: up June twenty nine. Get ready, get ready, You're gonna

2238
02:12:04,560 --> 02:12:08,520
Speaker 1: be crazy. Wall a bird.

2239
02:12:08,880 --> 02:12:11,640
Speaker 5: Ps. I mailed this on June fourth, so I'm hoping

2240
02:12:11,760 --> 02:12:15,360
Speaker 5: that's enough time to be read on stream near your birthday.

2241
02:12:15,760 --> 02:12:17,720
Speaker 1: It's on time. Yes, you got.

2242
02:12:19,360 --> 02:12:20,520
Speaker 5: Again on my birthday.

2243
02:12:20,720 --> 02:12:24,400
Speaker 1: That's true. Oh is there more on the back? Wow?

2244
02:12:25,160 --> 02:12:28,000
Speaker 1: That is amazing. I'm just blown away. This literally looks

2245
02:12:28,080 --> 02:12:31,200
Speaker 1: like it was printed out. That's so sick. But it's

2246
02:12:31,280 --> 02:12:36,040
Speaker 1: hand Belton and fam. Wow, we appreciate you. But this

2247
02:12:36,720 --> 02:12:42,080
Speaker 1: somewhere Belton and husband. Yeah, hearts hearts in the chat

2248
02:12:42,240 --> 02:12:47,680
Speaker 1: for Belton and husband. Oh we need things, we do

2249
02:12:48,040 --> 02:12:51,160
Speaker 1: we need a place to put We have so much

2250
02:12:51,240 --> 02:12:54,800
Speaker 1: good stuff. I know, so much great stuff. A giant

2251
02:12:55,160 --> 02:12:58,880
Speaker 1: container full of sophia. Do you want to jump in

2252
02:12:59,080 --> 02:13:01,360
Speaker 1: so I can eat something? And then John, do you

2253
02:13:01,400 --> 02:13:10,640
Speaker 1: want to jump in? Then? Yeah? Swapper we mean water?

2254
02:13:10,680 --> 02:13:11,640
Speaker 1: All right? Uh? Is it me?

2255
02:13:12,200 --> 02:13:12,320
Speaker 3: Am?

2256
02:13:12,360 --> 02:13:16,280
Speaker 1: I reading this one, I'll read, I'll read this next

2257
02:13:16,280 --> 02:13:18,480
Speaker 1: one and them so if you can jump in after okay?

2258
02:13:18,680 --> 02:13:26,120
Speaker 1: So what oh uh oh wow? Radish ten hour stream,

2259
02:13:26,240 --> 02:13:27,200
Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks.

2260
02:13:27,320 --> 02:13:29,040
Speaker 3: Why why are you guys coming to the stream thinking

2261
02:13:29,040 --> 02:13:30,640
Speaker 3: it's gonna be hours?

2262
02:13:30,720 --> 02:13:34,920
Speaker 1: Is crazy? Can Tuna? Thanks for the five bucks. First stream.

2263
02:13:35,040 --> 02:13:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm able to be here for longer than five minutes

2264
02:13:37,520 --> 02:13:43,120
Speaker 1: and I get a pea story. How funny? Happy? Yeah,

2265
02:13:43,760 --> 02:13:48,960
Speaker 1: and Moonnights eighteen. My real name was on the gift note.

2266
02:13:49,360 --> 02:13:57,280
Speaker 1: I guess it is Banaza Banaza Bonanza but spelled Boneza

2267
02:13:58,080 --> 02:14:03,040
Speaker 1: so Banaza Nasa but Nasa moonnight. I appreciate you. Thank

2268
02:14:03,080 --> 02:14:06,400
Speaker 1: you for bearing with us with our mispronunciations and MJ

2269
02:14:06,560 --> 02:14:09,840
Speaker 1: grow warm Queen silver or gold. Well, she'll be back

2270
02:14:09,880 --> 02:14:13,400
Speaker 1: with that answer. Oh and Sammy, thanks for the five bucks.

2271
02:14:13,640 --> 02:14:15,240
Speaker 1: Love listening to you guys. Can I get a shout

2272
02:14:15,280 --> 02:14:19,360
Speaker 1: out saying happy retirement for my coworker She likes to

2273
02:14:19,440 --> 02:14:21,240
Speaker 1: listen to you guys. When I put you guys on

2274
02:14:21,280 --> 02:14:23,360
Speaker 1: in the morning, I'll play it for her in the morning.

2275
02:14:23,680 --> 02:14:28,080
Speaker 1: He's been at the post office thirty years. Wow, shout

2276
02:14:28,120 --> 02:14:31,040
Speaker 1: out to her. Shout out the years. Get out of there,

2277
02:14:31,160 --> 02:14:36,880
Speaker 1: happy retirement, Yeah, enjoy enjoy somewhere watching some okay storytime?

2278
02:14:37,640 --> 02:14:41,920
Speaker 1: Ye all right, so let's get into this next story.

2279
02:14:42,320 --> 02:14:44,000
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my boyfriend that

2280
02:14:44,040 --> 02:14:46,560
Speaker 1: I don't want him? Am I the a hole for

2281
02:14:46,640 --> 02:14:48,360
Speaker 1: telling my boyfriend that I don't want him to be?

2282
02:14:48,920 --> 02:14:48,960
Speaker 3: What?

2283
02:14:49,880 --> 02:14:53,760
Speaker 1: Oh Berlin Nabby? Maybe if it's a ten hour stream,

2284
02:14:53,880 --> 02:14:56,520
Speaker 1: I can catch the end of it after my errands,

2285
02:14:57,120 --> 02:15:00,960
Speaker 1: why do you want a ten hour We haven't had

2286
02:15:00,960 --> 02:15:02,240
Speaker 1: a ten hour stream in a while.

2287
02:15:02,360 --> 02:15:02,560
Speaker 3: I know.

2288
02:15:03,600 --> 02:15:05,760
Speaker 1: Are they going to just keep our butts in these

2289
02:15:05,840 --> 02:15:08,840
Speaker 1: seats today? In the seats no sleep? Also the sea.

2290
02:15:09,000 --> 02:15:13,400
Speaker 1: I think it's the difference. Oh, I'm an S. I'm

2291
02:15:13,440 --> 02:15:17,240
Speaker 1: an S three five fifty two S three we're ones too.

2292
02:15:17,280 --> 02:15:20,000
Speaker 1: I thought you just whoa, what the heck?

2293
02:15:20,320 --> 02:15:20,360
Speaker 3: What?

2294
02:15:21,200 --> 02:15:23,440
Speaker 1: Oh is it? It is S two? Wait? But then

2295
02:15:23,520 --> 02:15:27,800
Speaker 1: I just read so it's John's turn. Ye oh hn

2296
02:15:27,880 --> 02:15:31,400
Speaker 1: Fields almost here if we keep up. Tier Rovetti, thank

2297
02:15:31,440 --> 02:15:36,000
Speaker 1: you for the hundred dollars tip for a ten hour stream.

2298
02:15:36,080 --> 02:15:42,280
Speaker 1: Whoa Tia Rovetti going ham ten hour stream? I don't

2299
02:15:42,320 --> 02:15:45,000
Speaker 1: know like this battle cry that's going on? Yeah, you've

2300
02:15:45,000 --> 02:15:51,680
Speaker 1: got the soldiers are rallying very hard right now. Yeah,

2301
02:15:52,280 --> 02:15:54,120
Speaker 1: Cas says it is a Tuesday stream.

2302
02:15:54,640 --> 02:15:55,080
Speaker 4: You are right.

2303
02:15:55,160 --> 02:15:57,960
Speaker 1: Tuesday streams do go the craziest for some reason. That

2304
02:15:58,160 --> 02:16:02,240
Speaker 1: is true. And Belton celebrating to memberships. I forgot to

2305
02:16:02,280 --> 02:16:04,080
Speaker 1: take a picture of the chain mail logo before I

2306
02:16:04,160 --> 02:16:07,040
Speaker 1: mailed that. I would be forever in your debts if

2307
02:16:07,080 --> 02:16:08,400
Speaker 1: you took a good picture. I'm putting it on the

2308
02:16:08,440 --> 02:16:14,320
Speaker 1: discord right now. What channel? Okay, chat, okay, chat. We

2309
02:16:14,520 --> 02:16:21,080
Speaker 1: are going to be reformatting the uh the discord very soon.

2310
02:16:21,800 --> 02:16:25,840
Speaker 1: It will be picture. Where are the here we go?

2311
02:16:26,680 --> 02:16:28,800
Speaker 1: All right? Oh wait? Wait, where should I'm gonna tell?

2312
02:16:28,800 --> 02:16:32,480
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna take it gone there he is. Okay, bam,

2313
02:16:32,920 --> 02:16:40,200
Speaker 1: they're so cute. Look how cute he is that I

2314
02:16:40,240 --> 02:16:43,360
Speaker 1: sent another random picture. Yeah, don't send the one I

2315
02:16:43,440 --> 02:16:47,600
Speaker 1: sent you. WHOA, what the heck was the one you said?

2316
02:16:47,680 --> 02:16:48,119
Speaker 4: What the hell?

2317
02:16:48,560 --> 02:16:49,000
Speaker 1: What the what?

2318
02:16:49,800 --> 02:16:49,840
Speaker 4: What?

2319
02:16:50,240 --> 02:16:50,720
Speaker 1: What? What?

2320
02:16:51,200 --> 02:16:51,240
Speaker 9: What?

2321
02:16:51,440 --> 02:16:53,600
Speaker 1: What just happened? Okay? I just I just sent it

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Speaker 1: an okay chat. Also, if you want to join the discord,

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Speaker 1: go to the description right now and join the discord.

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Speaker 1: What the heck just happened? Wow? Wait, Teddy just celebrated

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Speaker 1: one month of membership. Oh Sam John Riley from our

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Speaker 1: chat on Friday. Oh wait, gir down Teddy from our

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Speaker 1: chat on Friday. During recording, I got to mention that

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Speaker 1: my parents called me a psycho slash addict. WHOA forgot

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Speaker 1: to mention? Oh, forgot to mention, well, your parents are

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Speaker 1: a lame also, Teddy to you. Teddy is going to

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Speaker 1: be in the special video that is coming out very soon.

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Speaker 1: Teddy's freaking awesome. I Am. You don't know how I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: I like, I'm so excited because I want this to

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Speaker 1: release so we could make more of them, like asap

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be. I'm like, this is the most excited

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Speaker 1: that I've been for. Actually, there's been a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 1: I've been very excited for an okay story, the new

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Speaker 1: excitement of the month. It's new exciting. This could change everything.

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Speaker 1: But Moon Night's Moon Nights, Moonnights with love A hundred dollars,

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Speaker 1: t Y my goodness, Britney, I see you Lynn, five bucks.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for uh where we go, Brittany, I see you

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02:18:09,160 --> 02:18:14,120
Speaker 1: Lynn ten hours. The battle cry is starting, Caddie L.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the five bucks. Late to the show, but

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02:18:16,800 --> 02:18:20,520
Speaker 1: enjoying with my newborn at three twenty am. Greetings from Estodia. Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess like if your newborn wakes you up, well

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Speaker 1: you want to what you want to, you're already wake Also,

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02:18:29,440 --> 02:18:31,119
Speaker 1: is anyone going to be in New York from July

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02:18:31,280 --> 02:18:33,160
Speaker 1: first to July eighth? Because I could do a meetup

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02:18:33,200 --> 02:18:36,640
Speaker 1: in Washington Square Park. That would be super dope. We

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02:18:36,760 --> 02:18:38,600
Speaker 1: could just hang. That'd be super I don't know, that's

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Speaker 1: the thing. He's a good hang. I think it's a

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02:18:40,120 --> 02:18:43,720
Speaker 1: great idea. Yeah, you could do something because people have

2353
02:18:43,800 --> 02:18:46,200
Speaker 1: been asking to do a meetup. You could do one

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02:18:46,240 --> 02:18:47,879
Speaker 1: in La too, that would be great. We should totally

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Speaker 1: do that. Carolyn C. Thanks for one hundred bucks one

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02:18:51,320 --> 02:18:55,720
Speaker 1: hundred bucks. My contribution making sure these boys butts stay

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02:18:55,840 --> 02:19:01,160
Speaker 1: in those chairs. John big Cheeks lovely that he can't

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02:19:01,200 --> 02:19:05,360
Speaker 1: get out because they're so thick. Matt Hattergal thanks for

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02:19:05,360 --> 02:19:08,440
Speaker 1: the twenty bucks. Apologies gentlemen, but this hatter needs another

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02:19:08,520 --> 02:19:12,600
Speaker 1: hour of your beautiful stories and beautiful butts. I added

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02:19:12,600 --> 02:19:15,720
Speaker 1: to that, working on projects for an upcoming convention and

2362
02:19:15,879 --> 02:19:20,320
Speaker 1: need the entertainment we got. You and Jody Woodruff, thanks

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02:19:20,360 --> 02:19:22,600
Speaker 1: for the two months of gifted membership. Are two months

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Speaker 1: of membership. So excited for the game should to come out.

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02:19:25,200 --> 02:19:29,240
Speaker 1: Can't wait to see what I sounded like. Loll on

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02:19:29,320 --> 02:19:31,960
Speaker 1: there too. It's gonna be great. It's gonna be great.

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02:19:34,080 --> 02:19:35,840
Speaker 1: But with that, I'm gonna let so if you sub

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Speaker 1: in's do do we miss any We just missed this

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Speaker 1: on uh chronic k thanks for the five bucks. Not

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Speaker 1: much here, but here for the ten hour stream. Hey y'all,

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02:19:48,200 --> 02:19:52,600
Speaker 1: you're making it happenet. This is getting concerned. I hit

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02:19:52,680 --> 02:19:55,240
Speaker 1: the thirty minute thing. I hit the I believe so

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Speaker 1: rather you passed the thirty minutes but didn't add thirty

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Speaker 1: I think he did, I did? I did? Yeah. Forty

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Speaker 1: minutes left, Yeah, I'll.

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Speaker 3: Double joke, a double check, I'll double jack.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think they're trying to I think yeah, red

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Speaker 1: flag flag on. I think they're red flag on the

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Speaker 1: play yeah yeah, oh cha hold on, Chad just trying

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Speaker 1: to gas lamp. They're probably on discord right now with

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Speaker 1: like a group chat, just trying to like, how do

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02:20:16,920 --> 02:20:20,240
Speaker 1: we get to the ten hour time mark? Oh, that

2383
02:20:20,360 --> 02:20:23,199
Speaker 1: actually would be crazy where it was like Battle cries.

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02:20:23,160 --> 02:20:26,599
Speaker 2: It's it's it's it's their own like little infiltration conspiracy

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Speaker 2: militia group.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if we could put the different militias against

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Speaker 1: each other in some way and have them like like

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02:20:32,879 --> 02:20:36,000
Speaker 1: battle I mean honestly the armies, and then we do

2389
02:20:36,200 --> 02:20:39,920
Speaker 1: kind of like like you know the Minecraft stories. Honestly,

2390
02:20:41,360 --> 02:20:43,760
Speaker 1: that would go crazy, like Tommy in It and stuff.

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02:20:43,800 --> 02:20:46,720
Speaker 1: How they do the the dreamscape in it?

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02:20:47,440 --> 02:20:50,920
Speaker 2: Oh oh, where everyone comes into the except it's the

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02:20:51,120 --> 02:20:53,160
Speaker 2: lore of the Pigeon Army Orange Army.

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Speaker 1: For we did want. So. Sophia and Riley are actually

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02:20:55,560 --> 02:21:01,240
Speaker 1: working on a on a stream again gaming stream where

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Speaker 1: everyone kind of participates together. Also, I'm gonna let John

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02:21:07,360 --> 02:21:11,360
Speaker 1: take over and Sophia witness this stream donation because we

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02:21:11,480 --> 02:21:14,520
Speaker 1: just got another thirty bit. It is getting a little

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02:21:15,120 --> 02:21:22,240
Speaker 1: crazy if you can scroll. Oh it's the worm Queen

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Speaker 1: hell a hundred dollars Yo, Yo, Tia Rovetti, Tia, mother

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Speaker 1: freaking Rovetti, amazing, You're amazing, Tia know that you've been

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02:21:39,320 --> 02:21:42,880
Speaker 1: going bananas lately. And then Uncle Daddy Jesse with the

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02:21:43,080 --> 02:21:48,280
Speaker 1: five gifted freaking memberships. Let's go, and then we have

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02:21:49,240 --> 02:21:54,280
Speaker 1: uh Kira Rose uh he us five bucks first time

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02:21:54,320 --> 02:21:55,879
Speaker 1: on the stream. But I've been listening to you guys

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02:21:55,959 --> 02:21:58,920
Speaker 1: for a hot minute while I groomed dogs. Uh. You

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02:21:59,080 --> 02:22:01,680
Speaker 1: make me and my so happy. Thank you all. Glad

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02:22:01,680 --> 02:22:05,440
Speaker 1: we can make the pups happy. MJ. Gros says Worm

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Speaker 1: Queen silver gold. Thanks for ten bucks gold. I'm doing

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02:22:09,680 --> 02:22:15,240
Speaker 1: the math the like she decrees it to be gold gold.

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Speaker 1: That's right, ladies and gentlemen. That is all the donations

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Speaker 1: for now, unless the war happens, which could easily happen. Riley,

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02:22:25,760 --> 02:22:29,840
Speaker 1: where are we at again? Oh? What's going on? Five?

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Speaker 1: Two s two? And I'm doing the math. Sam's doing

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02:22:32,200 --> 02:22:33,720
Speaker 1: the math for me, So there we go. Double check.

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02:22:33,920 --> 02:22:38,879
Speaker 1: We are double checking the stats on the play. There'll

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Speaker 1: be no red flags, big dropping, many worms in the chat,

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Speaker 1: so very many worms.

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Speaker 5: Give me all your worms.

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02:22:51,400 --> 02:22:56,000
Speaker 1: The worm Queen is here to save help me wiggling subjects.

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02:22:56,440 --> 02:22:59,320
Speaker 5: Also, if you know any good jazz bars in La,

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02:22:59,440 --> 02:23:02,360
Speaker 5: I'll take those two. You're looking for jazz, barking for

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02:23:02,560 --> 02:23:04,240
Speaker 5: jazz bar. I bought one.

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02:23:05,160 --> 02:23:08,040
Speaker 1: No, we can't talk about that.

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02:23:09,280 --> 02:23:11,039
Speaker 5: I'm just looking for jazz.

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02:23:11,160 --> 02:23:15,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god, the studio's breaking. All the things are happening.

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02:23:17,160 --> 02:23:20,960
Speaker 5: No, I'm just I just like jazz, like you like jazz.

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02:23:21,840 --> 02:23:22,720
Speaker 1: You like jazz.

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02:23:23,000 --> 02:23:25,880
Speaker 5: But I've heard the baked potato, so I'm looking for

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02:23:26,080 --> 02:23:26,480
Speaker 5: other ones.

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Speaker 3: They had bake Winfair. Uh what baked potatoes?

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02:23:33,720 --> 02:23:38,240
Speaker 5: Potatoes is so true? Valad ballad.

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02:23:38,959 --> 02:23:40,680
Speaker 1: My mom makes baked potatoes.

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02:23:42,080 --> 02:23:44,880
Speaker 5: We have make potatoes at home, I think, and sometimes

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02:23:44,920 --> 02:23:47,039
Speaker 5: Sam kind of like just like scats. So I guess

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02:23:47,080 --> 02:23:48,160
Speaker 5: we also have jazz at home.

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02:23:48,640 --> 02:23:53,040
Speaker 1: That's true. I like jazz. Anyway. Let's create a story.

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02:23:53,680 --> 02:23:56,520
Speaker 1: Aussy girl in an art shop ten bucks. Let's make

2439
02:23:56,560 --> 02:23:59,320
Speaker 1: it a ten hour stream. Where did this come from?

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02:24:00,080 --> 02:24:00,800
Speaker 5: Who decided?

2441
02:24:00,920 --> 02:24:02,400
Speaker 1: Who started this? She said?

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02:24:03,280 --> 02:24:06,560
Speaker 5: Who said a stream and then followed through.

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02:24:07,520 --> 02:24:11,240
Speaker 2: Everyone is just yeah, trying to make this happen. This

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02:24:11,400 --> 02:24:13,680
Speaker 2: is a lot, but okay, let's let's get to the story.

2445
02:24:13,760 --> 02:24:16,080
Speaker 2: Let's let's give the people what they came here for.

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02:24:17,040 --> 02:24:20,400
Speaker 1: It's your turn. Whoa because.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Sarah B says, who the beautiful hair duo? Dap

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02:24:29,840 --> 02:24:32,119
Speaker 5: me up, dap me up?

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02:24:33,080 --> 02:24:36,600
Speaker 1: Oh you crush that. You crushed that, by the way,

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02:24:37,560 --> 02:24:39,840
Speaker 1: may or may not be a thing. But there is

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02:24:40,520 --> 02:24:42,960
Speaker 1: a fire alarms.

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02:24:43,480 --> 02:24:44,480
Speaker 5: There is a fire alarm.

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02:24:45,000 --> 02:24:51,920
Speaker 2: It smells great though. There is a hair care line

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02:24:52,120 --> 02:24:56,720
Speaker 2: that we might possibly work what and me and Sophia?

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02:24:58,400 --> 02:25:03,080
Speaker 2: Yeah wait, I didn't know about this. Yes, yes, it

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02:25:03,240 --> 02:25:04,800
Speaker 2: is free hair care products.

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02:25:05,160 --> 02:25:08,520
Speaker 1: Oh yes, oh yes, and we could be the spokespeople.

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02:25:08,600 --> 02:25:10,360
Speaker 1: So anyways, just just so you know, you might you

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02:25:10,440 --> 02:25:13,240
Speaker 1: might get some some hair care tips coming soon.

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Speaker 5: Okay, ladies, I feel like the only reason my hair

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02:25:16,720 --> 02:25:19,720
Speaker 5: is somewhat okay is because I don't dyet, but I

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02:25:19,800 --> 02:25:22,320
Speaker 5: don't take it like I don't take good care of it.

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02:25:22,600 --> 02:25:24,840
Speaker 1: Your hair looks super healthy?

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02:25:25,240 --> 02:25:25,480
Speaker 5: Really?

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02:25:25,840 --> 02:25:33,440
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, thank you. It's been a journey led to.

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02:25:33,520 --> 02:25:34,720
Speaker 5: A successful reward.

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02:25:35,000 --> 02:25:44,160
Speaker 1: That's right, hair. Yeah, Sophia, couldnt stop hurting yourself care.

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02:25:44,600 --> 02:25:46,480
Speaker 1: Let's read a story is nice?

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02:25:46,520 --> 02:25:49,640
Speaker 5: Thank you for gifting it one. Okay, storytime membership, we

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02:25:49,800 --> 02:25:50,440
Speaker 5: appreciate it.

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02:25:50,680 --> 02:25:51,200
Speaker 1: We're gonna read.

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Speaker 3: We'll get to these donors, get the sorry, all right, nice,

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02:25:54,959 --> 02:25:55,840
Speaker 3: thanks for another donut.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Thank you, thank you, freaking let's go

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Speaker 1: freaking go.

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02:25:59,480 --> 02:26:01,600
Speaker 5: Am I the a whole for telling my wife I

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Speaker 5: didn't enjoy the birthday surprise she planned for me.

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02:26:05,720 --> 02:26:09,359
Speaker 1: I mean, what was it? What did it suck? Exactly

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02:26:09,520 --> 02:26:11,840
Speaker 1: were you sucking? Wow?

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02:26:12,000 --> 02:26:16,400
Speaker 5: Riley Kiley, Really you've set women's rights back maybe forty years.

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02:26:16,560 --> 02:26:18,640
Speaker 1: Wow. We don't know if it's a woman or not.

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02:26:19,040 --> 02:26:23,240
Speaker 5: You've set the queer woman back, dude, maybe fifty years

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02:26:23,400 --> 02:26:23,760
Speaker 5: you did?

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02:26:23,840 --> 02:26:24,120
Speaker 4: You did?

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02:26:25,120 --> 02:26:25,160
Speaker 7: No?

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02:26:27,320 --> 02:26:28,800
Speaker 5: Oh, switched it.

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02:26:29,040 --> 02:26:30,000
Speaker 1: It's a spectrum.

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02:26:31,080 --> 02:26:36,480
Speaker 5: So maleficent. Pause. Thirty six, thirty six, says my thirty

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02:26:36,520 --> 02:26:38,720
Speaker 5: six male wife. Thirty seven female.

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02:26:40,160 --> 02:26:41,880
Speaker 1: Wait, just going going sorry sorry sorry?

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02:26:41,959 --> 02:26:45,000
Speaker 5: Said she would plan something for my birthday. She asked

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02:26:45,040 --> 02:26:46,800
Speaker 5: if there was anything I wanted to do, and I

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02:26:46,879 --> 02:26:49,480
Speaker 5: told her no. At thirty six, I don't have any

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02:26:49,560 --> 02:26:53,200
Speaker 5: expectations for my birthday. We've been together for ten years,

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02:26:53,400 --> 02:26:56,200
Speaker 5: married for seven, we have three kids under six, so

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02:26:56,360 --> 02:26:57,879
Speaker 5: planning activities could be tricky.

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Speaker 1: It's so sad of thirty I don't expect anything.

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Speaker 5: Thirty six. You're like, that's it. My birthday's over come on.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there we go.

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02:27:15,160 --> 02:27:17,400
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm being bossed around.

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02:27:17,480 --> 02:27:23,600
Speaker 1: There we go. You know where was?

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02:27:23,680 --> 02:27:25,280
Speaker 3: I Uh?

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02:27:25,640 --> 02:27:28,640
Speaker 5: Traveling is tough and staying in uncomfortable places with kids

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02:27:28,840 --> 02:27:32,240
Speaker 5: is stressful. So my wife plans something, packs an overnight

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02:27:32,320 --> 02:27:35,560
Speaker 5: suitcase for everyone, and loads up our van. We drive

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02:27:35,600 --> 02:27:37,720
Speaker 5: an hour and forty five minutes to a small town

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02:27:37,840 --> 02:27:40,320
Speaker 5: and then take a long, rocky, narrow road to a

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02:27:40,440 --> 02:27:45,280
Speaker 5: tiny cabin airbnb in a remote, heavily wooded area. It's

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02:27:45,320 --> 02:27:47,920
Speaker 5: a single room with a galley kitchen, one bed, and

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02:27:48,000 --> 02:27:51,320
Speaker 5: a pullout couch. It's cramped with three kids. There's not

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02:27:51,440 --> 02:27:54,360
Speaker 5: much to do, no walking trails, and nowhere to drive

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02:27:54,560 --> 02:27:58,520
Speaker 5: except back on that awful road. I'm asked to drive

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02:27:58,600 --> 02:28:01,760
Speaker 5: back to get dinner from a nearby bar. I'm surprised,

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02:28:02,680 --> 02:28:05,320
Speaker 5: and not in a good way. I don't say anything

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02:28:05,400 --> 02:28:07,840
Speaker 5: bad about the property, but I can't hide my feelings

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02:28:08,280 --> 02:28:11,279
Speaker 5: and she can tell I'm not a fan. We unpack,

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02:28:11,440 --> 02:28:13,840
Speaker 5: walk around. She has some gifts for me to open

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02:28:13,920 --> 02:28:16,080
Speaker 5: in front of the kids. We have cake, and then

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02:28:16,120 --> 02:28:18,680
Speaker 5: spend four to five hours trying to pass the time.

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02:28:19,280 --> 02:28:22,280
Speaker 5: The highlight is sneaking in the highlight, is sneaking in

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02:28:22,360 --> 02:28:25,840
Speaker 5: a quickie in the outdoor bathtub. After that, we go

2523
02:28:26,040 --> 02:28:29,600
Speaker 5: through the tiresome routine of getting all three kids to sleep,

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02:28:30,000 --> 02:28:33,000
Speaker 5: which is extra hard in a tiny cabin, Big Dub

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02:28:33,240 --> 02:28:36,160
Speaker 5: I sleep on an air mattress because our younger, our

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02:28:36,240 --> 02:28:39,880
Speaker 5: youngest close sleeps and needs mom at night. We wake

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02:28:40,000 --> 02:28:42,640
Speaker 5: up early because the cabin has no curtains. My wife

2528
02:28:42,720 --> 02:28:45,760
Speaker 5: tells me we're going to do a five k bubbling

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02:28:45,879 --> 02:28:50,840
Speaker 5: color run. I smile and say, yukay, let's do it,

2530
02:28:52,800 --> 02:28:56,120
Speaker 5: not wanting to sound disappointed, but probably failing to hide it.

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02:28:56,920 --> 02:28:59,680
Speaker 5: I'm not a runner. I've never said I wanted to run,

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02:29:00,480 --> 02:29:04,120
Speaker 5: but whatever, let's try it. We pack up and head

2533
02:29:04,160 --> 02:29:09,640
Speaker 5: to the Event's it this non real quick? Oh Carolyn CE,

2534
02:29:10,000 --> 02:29:10,520
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

2535
02:29:10,640 --> 02:29:15,520
Speaker 1: Carlyn ran to the bank and gave us a one

2536
02:29:15,760 --> 02:29:24,760
Speaker 1: Carolyn Karen C. Carolyn C. See one hundred nineteen dollar

2537
02:29:25,800 --> 02:29:28,560
Speaker 1: donation my last one. But I hope we can get

2538
02:29:28,560 --> 02:29:30,480
Speaker 1: a ten hour stream. You guys are the best, and

2539
02:29:30,959 --> 02:29:35,680
Speaker 1: thank you for making the Iowa work trip bearable last week. Uh,

2540
02:29:36,280 --> 02:29:42,680
Speaker 1: Carolyn C. Thank you. This is crazy. This is bananas.

2541
02:29:43,760 --> 02:29:47,640
Speaker 1: Y A N A N S yes, I'm I'm glad

2542
02:29:47,680 --> 02:29:50,800
Speaker 1: that they helped your Iowa work trip, and I hope

2543
02:29:50,840 --> 02:29:52,080
Speaker 1: you did all the business.

2544
02:29:54,000 --> 02:29:55,640
Speaker 5: Thank you for doing this.

2545
02:29:56,959 --> 02:29:59,920
Speaker 1: Pleasure doing business as you're doing business.

2546
02:30:01,360 --> 02:30:03,160
Speaker 5: I don't know why. I'm like, oh my god, it's

2547
02:30:03,200 --> 02:30:06,560
Speaker 5: so long. I just got here. I have no sense

2548
02:30:06,600 --> 02:30:07,359
Speaker 5: of time yet.

2549
02:30:07,480 --> 02:30:09,640
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, I'm like, oh, we just started for me,

2550
02:30:09,920 --> 02:30:12,760
Speaker 1: floating in the space time continuum, Like, what's happening? Where

2551
02:30:12,800 --> 02:30:15,400
Speaker 1: am I? What timestamp am I at? I don't even

2552
02:30:15,440 --> 02:30:18,360
Speaker 1: freaking know. But all I do know is we have

2553
02:30:18,440 --> 02:30:18,840
Speaker 1: a story.

2554
02:30:19,120 --> 02:30:22,560
Speaker 5: We do and while we're on this little pause, yes,

2555
02:30:23,280 --> 02:30:26,199
Speaker 5: what's your take on that? But what's your immediate thought?

2556
02:30:26,959 --> 02:30:31,680
Speaker 1: I especially considering that OP didn't have any like specific

2557
02:30:31,840 --> 02:30:35,959
Speaker 1: like once or expectation, it's not great, but I think

2558
02:30:36,040 --> 02:30:40,280
Speaker 1: you have to be appreciative, yeah, of the effort, and

2559
02:30:40,440 --> 02:30:43,400
Speaker 1: maybe maybe it's like I think, and I also think

2560
02:30:43,440 --> 02:30:47,720
Speaker 1: again specifically because OP didn't express they wanted anything, and

2561
02:30:47,800 --> 02:30:51,680
Speaker 1: it doesn't seem like they do want anything in actuality,

2562
02:30:52,160 --> 02:30:55,120
Speaker 1: so it's like, okay, it's not really it's I don't know.

2563
02:30:55,440 --> 02:30:57,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think I think there's kind of two issues

2564
02:30:57,920 --> 02:31:02,080
Speaker 5: going on here. One, oh, P you know, didn't really specify,

2565
02:31:02,600 --> 02:31:04,560
Speaker 5: so it'd be like, okay, well anything should be fine

2566
02:31:04,560 --> 02:31:07,800
Speaker 5: because you didn't specify. And then on the other hand,

2567
02:31:08,680 --> 02:31:12,000
Speaker 5: the wife doesn't seem to really know him. If it's

2568
02:31:12,120 --> 02:31:16,400
Speaker 5: like like okay, for example, if someone for my birthday

2569
02:31:16,560 --> 02:31:20,000
Speaker 5: was like, surprise, we're going on a four day camping.

2570
02:31:19,760 --> 02:31:24,000
Speaker 1: Trip to buy and we hate that and we bought

2571
02:31:24,040 --> 02:31:25,200
Speaker 1: you grappling hooks.

2572
02:31:25,360 --> 02:31:30,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'd be like, do you are we even friends?

2573
02:31:31,160 --> 02:31:31,840
Speaker 1: Do you hate me?

2574
02:31:34,520 --> 02:31:34,680
Speaker 7: I know?

2575
02:31:34,760 --> 02:31:36,840
Speaker 5: I feel like maybe that's the energy he's like like

2576
02:31:37,000 --> 02:31:39,160
Speaker 5: I'm just imagining hid be like, I'm not a runner.

2577
02:31:39,240 --> 02:31:42,120
Speaker 5: Why are we doing a five k with.

2578
02:31:42,160 --> 02:31:44,080
Speaker 1: A family of three small children?

2579
02:31:44,120 --> 02:31:46,280
Speaker 5: Three small children? And he used to sleep on an

2580
02:31:46,320 --> 02:31:47,120
Speaker 5: air mattress.

2581
02:31:47,959 --> 02:31:53,240
Speaker 1: That's that's pretty So that sucks. Yeah, like like kind

2582
02:31:53,280 --> 02:31:55,520
Speaker 1: of a suckey person. Yeah, I love I love how

2583
02:31:55,600 --> 02:31:58,520
Speaker 1: he got like the worst bed. Yeah, it's like, dude,

2584
02:31:58,600 --> 02:32:01,080
Speaker 1: you couldn't sleep with the kids on the air? I

2585
02:32:01,280 --> 02:32:03,959
Speaker 1: like you. I mean maybe that is like disturbing the streep.

2586
02:32:03,959 --> 02:32:07,400
Speaker 5: I don't really know, but it like like I see,

2587
02:32:07,520 --> 02:32:09,840
Speaker 5: I like there's issues on both sides, but I'd like

2588
02:32:10,280 --> 02:32:12,360
Speaker 5: I totally kind of feel for him because that's such

2589
02:32:12,400 --> 02:32:13,400
Speaker 5: a bad birthday?

2590
02:32:13,560 --> 02:32:17,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, is it? Is it okay to say you're not

2591
02:32:17,080 --> 02:32:17,360
Speaker 1: a fan?

2592
02:32:19,480 --> 02:32:20,560
Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know if I would.

2593
02:32:20,640 --> 02:32:21,039
Speaker 1: It's tough.

2594
02:32:21,240 --> 02:32:22,440
Speaker 5: I don't know if I would say anything.

2595
02:32:22,600 --> 02:32:25,200
Speaker 3: Let's let's see, let's let's see more. Maybe there's I

2596
02:32:25,280 --> 02:32:27,840
Speaker 3: have a quick, okay story on my brother. I surprised

2597
02:32:27,879 --> 02:32:29,840
Speaker 3: him for his birthday. I went to go see him

2598
02:32:29,879 --> 02:32:31,920
Speaker 3: and he didn't expect it, and he made me feel

2599
02:32:31,959 --> 02:32:35,039
Speaker 3: really bad about it. But he just doesn't like surprises.

2600
02:32:35,160 --> 02:32:38,520
Speaker 3: And I cried in the bathroom the Mexican restaurant because

2601
02:32:38,520 --> 02:32:40,200
Speaker 3: I felt really bad because I didn't let him know.

2602
02:32:40,280 --> 02:32:42,440
Speaker 3: But it ended up being a good time after we

2603
02:32:42,520 --> 02:32:43,080
Speaker 3: got past that.

2604
02:32:43,440 --> 02:32:46,840
Speaker 1: That's good. Oh, I'm sorry, Riley, Okay, we worked it out.

2605
02:32:48,400 --> 02:32:51,240
Speaker 5: Sometimes that happens. You have miscommunication and like things you

2606
02:32:51,320 --> 02:32:55,040
Speaker 5: know that you're well meaning intentions don't always read to

2607
02:32:55,200 --> 02:32:55,400
Speaker 5: the other.

2608
02:32:55,760 --> 02:32:57,000
Speaker 3: He said, if I knew you were going to be here,

2609
02:32:57,040 --> 02:32:58,720
Speaker 3: I would have planned something different. But I was like, no,

2610
02:32:58,800 --> 02:33:00,680
Speaker 3: I just want to do what you're doing. He was like,

2611
02:33:00,760 --> 02:33:02,720
Speaker 3: I would have made better use of this time. That's

2612
02:33:02,720 --> 02:33:06,039
Speaker 3: why he's said. Right, Yeah, it's all good, all good,

2613
02:33:06,080 --> 02:33:08,520
Speaker 3: you live and learn. Sorry, that was very depressing.

2614
02:33:09,480 --> 02:33:13,320
Speaker 1: Just get back. Yeah, I'm crying.

2615
02:33:17,879 --> 02:33:21,360
Speaker 5: It's a small, cheap event on a hot day. Our

2616
02:33:21,400 --> 02:33:23,480
Speaker 5: two youngest don't want to do this, but we start

2617
02:33:23,520 --> 02:33:24,160
Speaker 5: the race. Anyway.

2618
02:33:25,160 --> 02:33:29,720
Speaker 1: They're running race. That's insane with a six year old.

2619
02:33:29,840 --> 02:33:32,160
Speaker 1: You're making a six year old run of five k

2620
02:33:32,360 --> 02:33:34,960
Speaker 1: I mean not that that's like insane, but also that's

2621
02:33:35,040 --> 02:33:38,840
Speaker 1: kind of insane. It is out of nowhere. Like maybe

2622
02:33:38,879 --> 02:33:41,959
Speaker 1: if they're like, oh, they're doing their little you know, gym.

2623
02:33:41,920 --> 02:33:44,640
Speaker 5: Class p it's like, oh, presumably this isn't a thing

2624
02:33:44,720 --> 02:33:47,840
Speaker 5: they do a lot because he doesn't like to run.

2625
02:33:48,280 --> 02:33:53,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yes, yes, this is this is a little wild. Anyways,

2626
02:33:53,200 --> 02:33:53,480
Speaker 1: keep going.

2627
02:33:54,879 --> 02:33:57,880
Speaker 5: Our oldest takes off, causing us to lose him twice.

2628
02:34:00,120 --> 02:34:02,879
Speaker 5: Oh my, I frantically try to catch up, ended up,

2629
02:34:02,959 --> 02:34:07,080
Speaker 5: sweaty winded and with aching knees. Not fun. After my

2630
02:34:07,160 --> 02:34:09,600
Speaker 5: wife finishes with their other two kids, we walk around

2631
02:34:09,640 --> 02:34:12,320
Speaker 5: a small street fair and let the kids play. It's fine,

2632
02:34:12,440 --> 02:34:14,840
Speaker 5: but I'm ready to rest. My wife tells me we're

2633
02:34:14,879 --> 02:34:17,000
Speaker 5: supposed to meet friends at the beach later, so we

2634
02:34:17,080 --> 02:34:19,720
Speaker 5: have a two hour drive back, hoping the kid's nap

2635
02:34:19,800 --> 02:34:22,600
Speaker 5: in the car. I take a nap, feeling quiet, quiet,

2636
02:34:22,680 --> 02:34:24,680
Speaker 5: and not in a good mood. We get to the

2637
02:34:24,720 --> 02:34:27,480
Speaker 5: beach and two of our kids start melting down. I'm

2638
02:34:27,560 --> 02:34:30,439
Speaker 5: done with the day and would prefer to be home. Eventually,

2639
02:34:30,560 --> 02:34:33,720
Speaker 5: they chill, We find some shade and it's fine. When

2640
02:34:33,760 --> 02:34:36,160
Speaker 5: we get home, it's a mad dash to get the

2641
02:34:36,240 --> 02:34:39,000
Speaker 5: kids showered and in bed while I unpack, clean the

2642
02:34:39,080 --> 02:34:42,760
Speaker 5: car and house. My wife asks what's wrong, and I

2643
02:34:42,920 --> 02:34:47,000
Speaker 5: tell her I appreciate her effort, but it didn't feel

2644
02:34:47,080 --> 02:34:49,640
Speaker 5: like she planned it with me in mind. I don't

2645
02:34:49,720 --> 02:34:52,520
Speaker 5: like running. I want comfort when traveling with the kids,

2646
02:34:52,600 --> 02:34:55,240
Speaker 5: and it was exhausting. It was a lot of effort

2647
02:34:55,320 --> 02:35:00,040
Speaker 5: for something not enjoyable. She flips out, devastated that I

2648
02:35:00,080 --> 02:35:02,240
Speaker 5: didn't enjoy it, and angry at me for not just

2649
02:35:02,320 --> 02:35:04,360
Speaker 5: being grateful someone plans something for me.

2650
02:35:06,440 --> 02:35:08,000
Speaker 3: I think she's just defensive right now.

2651
02:35:08,640 --> 02:35:08,879
Speaker 6: Yeah.

2652
02:35:09,160 --> 02:35:11,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think he put a lot into that

2653
02:35:11,959 --> 02:35:16,040
Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, but you do you do you think

2654
02:35:16,440 --> 02:35:19,480
Speaker 1: uh Op made the right comment.

2655
02:35:23,600 --> 02:35:26,080
Speaker 5: I don't think he's wrong for feeling the way he did.

2656
02:35:26,320 --> 02:35:29,800
Speaker 5: He does because I mean, it's his birthday and he

2657
02:35:29,840 --> 02:35:31,640
Speaker 5: should be able to do something that he wants to

2658
02:35:31,760 --> 02:35:36,200
Speaker 5: and this sounds like a really stressful thing. No, like

2659
02:35:36,280 --> 02:35:37,560
Speaker 5: I'm trying to think if there was a way that

2660
02:35:37,640 --> 02:35:38,520
Speaker 5: he could bring it up.

2661
02:35:39,600 --> 02:35:42,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think maybe he could have said, could you

2662
02:35:42,520 --> 02:35:43,080
Speaker 1: pull back up?

2663
02:35:43,760 --> 02:35:48,560
Speaker 5: Uh the quote Riley, I don't feel I feel like

2664
02:35:48,600 --> 02:35:50,560
Speaker 5: he didn't say it that like it.

2665
02:35:50,640 --> 02:35:52,920
Speaker 1: Wasn't that bad. Honestly, I thought it was pretty good. Uh,

2666
02:35:54,120 --> 02:35:58,680
Speaker 1: we should go to the bottom of the study a

2667
02:35:58,840 --> 02:36:03,760
Speaker 1: little more. Sure, There we go. Yeah, I want to

2668
02:36:03,800 --> 02:36:07,440
Speaker 1: cover shobbing. There we go. Yeah. I appreciate effort, but

2669
02:36:07,440 --> 02:36:08,520
Speaker 1: it didn't feel like she you play it with me

2670
02:36:08,600 --> 02:36:11,240
Speaker 1: in mind. May be the only different thing is like, hey,

2671
02:36:11,280 --> 02:36:15,160
Speaker 1: I appreciate your effort so much, but I will admit

2672
02:36:15,280 --> 02:36:19,360
Speaker 1: it's not like personally like the most fun activities for me,

2673
02:36:19,520 --> 02:36:23,000
Speaker 1: even though I am so grateful that you like thought

2674
02:36:23,040 --> 02:36:25,920
Speaker 1: of me and were like trying to do something nice.

2675
02:36:26,000 --> 02:36:27,760
Speaker 1: But also I don't I don't know if a reaction

2676
02:36:27,879 --> 02:36:30,120
Speaker 1: necessarily would have if he said that post.

2677
02:36:30,200 --> 02:36:32,560
Speaker 3: Like the timing he said it, he was like done

2678
02:36:32,600 --> 02:36:34,039
Speaker 3: with the day, dealing with the kids.

2679
02:36:36,040 --> 02:36:40,640
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, I think Jade, wait, we're Jade says not

2680
02:36:40,760 --> 02:36:42,400
Speaker 5: the right comment, but a fair comment.

2681
02:36:43,280 --> 02:36:45,600
Speaker 3: It's hard to like be graceful in those moments.

2682
02:36:45,840 --> 02:36:48,119
Speaker 1: And I think, honestly I think it's not far off

2683
02:36:48,320 --> 02:36:51,320
Speaker 1: because I was debating and I'm like, I feel like

2684
02:36:51,400 --> 02:36:53,720
Speaker 1: it's yeah, I don't know how else it's best to

2685
02:36:53,800 --> 02:36:57,120
Speaker 1: be honest and like you don't you don't want to

2686
02:36:57,160 --> 02:36:59,960
Speaker 1: like rub their face in it, or I think he's

2687
02:37:00,240 --> 02:37:03,560
Speaker 1: be vindictive. No, I think he's like maybe a little

2688
02:37:03,680 --> 02:37:07,120
Speaker 1: tiny bit exasperated, but really, honestly, I really think he

2689
02:37:07,200 --> 02:37:11,039
Speaker 1: handled it pretty well, especially considering he's she's probably asking

2690
02:37:11,160 --> 02:37:12,720
Speaker 1: him at his most like exhausted.

2691
02:37:12,840 --> 02:37:14,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, She's like at the at the end of the day,

2692
02:37:14,480 --> 02:37:16,960
Speaker 5: he's like, uh, She's like it, did you like it?

2693
02:37:17,040 --> 02:37:21,160
Speaker 5: And he's like, well, not really, not really, which is also,

2694
02:37:21,280 --> 02:37:24,520
Speaker 5: I mean, is a part of like communicating in a

2695
02:37:24,560 --> 02:37:28,520
Speaker 5: relationship totally is like hey, I know that you were trying,

2696
02:37:28,560 --> 02:37:30,320
Speaker 5: but it didn't really feel like you had me in mind.

2697
02:37:30,640 --> 02:37:35,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I that I mean, I could do without

2698
02:37:35,520 --> 02:37:38,040
Speaker 1: that and just say like, honestly, I'll be honest.

2699
02:37:38,080 --> 02:37:41,240
Speaker 5: It wasn't like yeah, yeah, actually that might be better.

2700
02:37:41,400 --> 02:37:43,080
Speaker 5: Whatnot like not even saying.

2701
02:37:42,959 --> 02:37:45,520
Speaker 1: Like her yeah, like because that's kind of attacking her

2702
02:37:45,920 --> 02:37:48,040
Speaker 1: almost more like putting it on the activity.

2703
02:37:48,280 --> 02:37:51,000
Speaker 5: Yes, Yeah, it's it's true. You know, I'm not huge

2704
02:37:51,040 --> 02:37:52,119
Speaker 5: into runnings.

2705
02:37:51,840 --> 02:37:53,400
Speaker 1: Like, you know, it would be great. He could be all.

2706
02:37:53,600 --> 02:37:54,840
Speaker 1: He could also be like, you know what would be

2707
02:37:54,879 --> 02:37:58,680
Speaker 1: great is X and Y it'd be nice to go

2708
02:37:58,840 --> 02:37:59,440
Speaker 1: to a bakery.

2709
02:37:59,720 --> 02:38:02,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, which I mean she might have the same reaction

2710
02:38:02,080 --> 02:38:02,560
Speaker 5: as you said.

2711
02:38:02,680 --> 02:38:04,840
Speaker 1: But like at that point, he you know, what can

2712
02:38:04,920 --> 02:38:06,920
Speaker 1: you do? What can you do? What can you freaking do?

2713
02:38:07,200 --> 02:38:09,360
Speaker 5: You have to be honest, you have to communicate with

2714
02:38:09,440 --> 02:38:09,920
Speaker 5: your family.

2715
02:38:10,840 --> 02:38:11,080
Speaker 1: Stay.

2716
02:38:12,000 --> 02:38:13,360
Speaker 5: I don't think I would be very happy on that

2717
02:38:13,480 --> 02:38:18,400
Speaker 5: day either, if that was my birthday. But that was

2718
02:38:18,440 --> 02:38:19,199
Speaker 5: the end of the story.

2719
02:38:19,760 --> 02:38:21,400
Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, that's all we got.

2720
02:38:21,560 --> 02:38:22,120
Speaker 5: All we get.

2721
02:38:22,760 --> 02:38:24,520
Speaker 1: I looked. There was just a few comments. There's not

2722
02:38:24,640 --> 02:38:27,320
Speaker 1: any Yes, well there you go. Well maybe that means

2723
02:38:27,360 --> 02:38:33,080
Speaker 1: we should get into another story. Donots they didn't show.

2724
02:38:34,480 --> 02:38:37,280
Speaker 5: I'm thank you for the five buck tip. Warm queen.

2725
02:38:37,600 --> 02:38:43,320
Speaker 5: You will be receiving a birthday gift expecting anything. I

2726
02:38:43,360 --> 02:38:46,440
Speaker 5: already got a birthday card and I got a birthday gift.

2727
02:38:47,360 --> 02:38:47,880
Speaker 1: Is this sweet?

2728
02:38:49,120 --> 02:38:49,640
Speaker 5: Is this any?

2729
02:38:50,360 --> 02:38:50,400
Speaker 7: This?

2730
02:38:50,959 --> 02:38:53,720
Speaker 5: This is so sick, It's so cool. I'm so impressed.

2731
02:38:55,240 --> 02:38:57,960
Speaker 5: Slyly slyly toes, thank you for the five bucks. This

2732
02:38:58,120 --> 02:39:01,800
Speaker 5: is what happens when you're late, battle cries. Ten hour

2733
02:39:01,920 --> 02:39:05,680
Speaker 5: stream we were ten minutes lay, yeah, ten minutes. I

2734
02:39:05,879 --> 02:39:07,520
Speaker 5: like looked at the time to see when they started.

2735
02:39:07,560 --> 02:39:10,120
Speaker 5: It was ten minutes. That's honestly the best you guys.

2736
02:39:10,320 --> 02:39:12,520
Speaker 1: Yes, one of the earliest times we've ever been on.

2737
02:39:13,160 --> 02:39:16,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, Mad Hatter, Gal, thank you for the ten bucks,

2738
02:39:16,720 --> 02:39:17,160
Speaker 5: my queen.

2739
02:39:17,280 --> 02:39:18,360
Speaker 1: I have a bar for you.

2740
02:39:18,959 --> 02:39:21,760
Speaker 5: It is a place that Hatta has gone to many times.

2741
02:39:21,920 --> 02:39:27,039
Speaker 5: It is called, uh the stowe wohwei stow all right?

2742
02:39:27,040 --> 02:39:30,600
Speaker 5: It was split up, yes, stowaway bar near the Fashion district.

2743
02:39:30,959 --> 02:39:32,640
Speaker 5: Hatter hopes this pleases the Queen.

2744
02:39:32,800 --> 02:39:33,160
Speaker 1: It does.

2745
02:39:33,240 --> 02:39:33,959
Speaker 5: Thank you very much.

2746
02:39:34,280 --> 02:39:35,959
Speaker 1: I will check it out wreck.

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02:39:35,920 --> 02:39:40,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, and Empress Sleepless Nights Press. Thank you so very

2748
02:39:40,959 --> 02:39:44,000
Speaker 5: much for the twenty I appreciate you. Appreciate you.

2749
02:39:44,200 --> 02:39:47,879
Speaker 1: And with that, let's get into this next story. Riley, Oh,

2750
02:39:47,959 --> 02:39:49,080
Speaker 1: there's one more, Corby.

2751
02:39:48,879 --> 02:39:52,160
Speaker 5: Thank you for celebrating three months of membership. Ten hours stream.

2752
02:39:52,760 --> 02:39:57,600
Speaker 1: I'm here for it. Evil Catamoji, Evil Catamoji. When it

2753
02:39:57,680 --> 02:40:02,280
Speaker 1: goes the evil Catamoji, That's that's when I know it's serious.

2754
02:40:02,720 --> 02:40:08,240
Speaker 1: That's when it's game on. Godzilla just updated her membership.

2755
02:40:08,920 --> 02:40:11,080
Speaker 1: Maybe baby gee, let's go.

2756
02:40:12,120 --> 02:40:14,720
Speaker 5: Have we had a worm general before. I haven't seen

2757
02:40:14,840 --> 02:40:19,560
Speaker 5: one baby Baby Godzilla might be the very first worm.

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02:40:19,720 --> 02:40:20,080
Speaker 1: General.

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02:40:20,760 --> 02:40:24,040
Speaker 5: Welcome to the army. We appreciate your service.

2760
02:40:24,240 --> 02:40:26,760
Speaker 1: Congratulations. Where are we at right?

2761
02:40:27,920 --> 02:40:28,040
Speaker 4: Uh?

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02:40:28,879 --> 02:40:38,800
Speaker 1: I think S three three boom? Oh my god, I

2763
02:40:38,920 --> 02:40:41,400
Speaker 1: need some drink that starts with a C. All right,

2764
02:40:41,440 --> 02:40:43,160
Speaker 1: boys and girls, So.

2765
02:40:47,040 --> 02:40:49,080
Speaker 5: Sorry. I thought Riley was going to say something else,

2766
02:40:49,120 --> 02:40:52,200
Speaker 5: and I was so worried for a second. But then

2767
02:40:52,240 --> 02:40:53,920
Speaker 5: you just like the cock.

2768
02:40:54,360 --> 02:40:55,680
Speaker 1: Oh oh okay.

2769
02:40:55,720 --> 02:40:57,000
Speaker 5: I thought you were going to say the other one.

2770
02:40:58,840 --> 02:41:00,360
Speaker 1: I want to know the other one. Yeah.

2771
02:41:00,440 --> 02:41:03,480
Speaker 5: No, I was like, don't do it, okay, all right?

2772
02:41:05,080 --> 02:41:08,640
Speaker 1: So am I the a hole for telling my boyfriend

2773
02:41:08,800 --> 02:41:11,120
Speaker 1: that I don't want to be the designated driver if

2774
02:41:11,160 --> 02:41:12,039
Speaker 1: he is going to drink?

2775
02:41:13,320 --> 02:41:13,360
Speaker 4: No?

2776
02:41:14,400 --> 02:41:16,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a This is a good one. This

2777
02:41:16,600 --> 02:41:18,360
Speaker 1: comes from just throw away one to three four five,

2778
02:41:18,400 --> 02:41:21,880
Speaker 1: he says. Edit, everyone seems really split on this. No,

2779
02:41:22,200 --> 02:41:24,080
Speaker 1: that means we're gonna have to do a poll. To

2780
02:41:24,200 --> 02:41:26,520
Speaker 1: be clear. I'm not trying to demonize my boyfriend. I

2781
02:41:26,879 --> 02:41:29,760
Speaker 1: kind of want to be wrong. That's why I posted.

2782
02:41:30,560 --> 02:41:33,320
Speaker 1: In my mind, I am right, That's why I fought

2783
02:41:33,360 --> 02:41:35,760
Speaker 1: with him about it. Posting here is more to gain

2784
02:41:35,920 --> 02:41:38,800
Speaker 1: different perspectives. We all went the other night. We all

2785
02:41:38,840 --> 02:41:40,880
Speaker 1: went out the other night, spending all day at a

2786
02:41:40,920 --> 02:41:43,480
Speaker 1: family event. He and my boyfriend was driving. Me and

2787
02:41:43,560 --> 02:41:46,240
Speaker 1: his sister and the others were in the car, and

2788
02:41:46,320 --> 02:41:48,879
Speaker 1: the others were in the other cars. We had ended

2789
02:41:48,959 --> 02:41:51,879
Speaker 1: up at a bar forty five minutes away at around

2790
02:41:52,040 --> 02:41:55,400
Speaker 1: twelve am. When we got there, we all ordered drinks,

2791
02:41:55,440 --> 02:41:58,360
Speaker 1: including him. I'm not super comfortable with that, but I

2792
02:41:58,520 --> 02:42:00,800
Speaker 1: thought it would be fine because we still had time.

2793
02:42:01,240 --> 02:42:03,160
Speaker 1: The bar was set to close around three am at

2794
02:42:03,160 --> 02:42:07,680
Speaker 1: the latest. I am always a designated driver because I

2795
02:42:07,760 --> 02:42:10,880
Speaker 1: don't really drink, and this was fine, And this was

2796
02:42:10,920 --> 02:42:13,480
Speaker 1: the first time in two years that I decided to

2797
02:42:13,600 --> 02:42:17,040
Speaker 1: relax a bit. I have a drink. At one point,

2798
02:42:17,400 --> 02:42:20,080
Speaker 1: everyone wants to take a shot. My boyfriend says to

2799
02:42:20,160 --> 02:42:21,880
Speaker 1: me that he is going to take a shot, and

2800
02:42:22,000 --> 02:42:24,760
Speaker 1: it's one thirty am. I lean to him and say

2801
02:42:24,920 --> 02:42:28,720
Speaker 1: that I'm uncomfortable with that. We didn't actually know when

2802
02:42:28,760 --> 02:42:30,520
Speaker 1: we were going to leave. We ended up leaving at

2803
02:42:30,560 --> 02:42:33,680
Speaker 1: two thirty. He had been up since nine am. The

2804
02:42:33,800 --> 02:42:37,640
Speaker 1: last time he ate was at four pm, and the

2805
02:42:37,760 --> 02:42:41,199
Speaker 1: whole thing made me uncomfortable. He gets upset and starts

2806
02:42:41,240 --> 02:42:44,160
Speaker 1: insisting that he's fine and can handle himself. I insist

2807
02:42:44,240 --> 02:42:46,600
Speaker 1: that it makes me uncomfortable. He kept repeating in my

2808
02:42:46,680 --> 02:42:49,480
Speaker 1: ear that it's fine. I just started ignoring him and

2809
02:42:49,600 --> 02:42:56,840
Speaker 1: stopped drinking and dancing immediately. Oh I don't like this, yeah, Opie,

2810
02:42:57,320 --> 02:42:59,480
Speaker 1: like straight up the bat from this. Ope, he's not

2811
02:42:59,560 --> 02:43:00,359
Speaker 1: the a hooley.

2812
02:43:00,600 --> 02:43:04,800
Speaker 5: And this is very disrespectful of your boyfriend as a

2813
02:43:04,840 --> 02:43:08,240
Speaker 5: person who's been like who is almost always the designated driver.

2814
02:43:10,440 --> 02:43:12,560
Speaker 5: I have friends who are always like, if you ever

2815
02:43:12,640 --> 02:43:14,120
Speaker 5: want to drink, let us know and we will be

2816
02:43:14,160 --> 02:43:15,960
Speaker 5: the DD and we won't drink. Yes, but this is

2817
02:43:16,160 --> 02:43:20,360
Speaker 5: it's so disrespectful to like say to the person who's

2818
02:43:20,360 --> 02:43:22,480
Speaker 5: always the designated driver, like, oh, yeah, you can have

2819
02:43:22,520 --> 02:43:24,440
Speaker 5: that one night to drink, Like, yeah, totally, I'll do

2820
02:43:24,560 --> 02:43:27,600
Speaker 5: it and then and then drink and not make it

2821
02:43:27,640 --> 02:43:29,160
Speaker 5: a safe experience for that person.

2822
02:43:29,320 --> 02:43:33,240
Speaker 1: And to me, it's it's just the I'm uncomfortable. As

2823
02:43:33,320 --> 02:43:36,160
Speaker 1: soon as those words are said to you, you should

2824
02:43:36,320 --> 02:43:40,000
Speaker 1: pause and be like in your behavior, let me let

2825
02:43:40,080 --> 02:43:42,440
Speaker 1: me like see what I need to like really sit

2826
02:43:42,520 --> 02:43:45,560
Speaker 1: down and listen and you know, see what's going on,

2827
02:43:45,640 --> 02:43:47,800
Speaker 1: and see what I can do to make her comfortable.

2828
02:43:47,840 --> 02:43:49,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, for your partner comfortable exactly.

2829
02:43:49,560 --> 02:43:49,600
Speaker 1: No.

2830
02:43:49,680 --> 02:43:52,480
Speaker 5: It's one thing to you know, have a few drinks

2831
02:43:52,680 --> 02:43:54,840
Speaker 5: and then be like, okay, you know, I think I'm

2832
02:43:54,879 --> 02:43:58,199
Speaker 5: fine and drive yourself. Yeah, but to be the designated

2833
02:43:58,320 --> 02:44:03,840
Speaker 5: driver is it very specific title and specific responsibility that

2834
02:44:03,959 --> 02:44:06,480
Speaker 5: involves I am not going to drink tonight because I

2835
02:44:06,560 --> 02:44:11,160
Speaker 5: am responsible for multiple, you know, one or multiple people's

2836
02:44:11,240 --> 02:44:14,920
Speaker 5: lives and they are relying on you to not drink

2837
02:44:15,200 --> 02:44:16,760
Speaker 5: because you told them that you weren't going to that

2838
02:44:16,879 --> 02:44:19,279
Speaker 5: is true. Oh yeah, so I think this is really disrespectful.

2839
02:44:19,320 --> 02:44:27,480
Speaker 1: Honestly, Sophia dropping gems on you, that's freakin' right, gems gems.

2840
02:44:28,320 --> 02:44:31,000
Speaker 1: So I went into survival mode and just couldn't have

2841
02:44:31,080 --> 02:44:31,640
Speaker 1: fun anymore.

2842
02:44:31,800 --> 02:44:32,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2843
02:44:32,120 --> 02:44:34,560
Speaker 1: He eventually relented and said that he wouldn't take the

2844
02:44:34,640 --> 02:44:37,600
Speaker 1: shot and was mad at me. He powdered for the

2845
02:44:37,680 --> 02:44:39,480
Speaker 1: rest of the night and gave me the silent treatment

2846
02:44:39,520 --> 02:44:41,840
Speaker 1: all the way home. I drove to my family home.

2847
02:44:41,920 --> 02:44:43,760
Speaker 1: We both love our family, we both live with our

2848
02:44:43,800 --> 02:44:46,600
Speaker 1: families for different reasons. The next day he calls and

2849
02:44:46,680 --> 02:44:48,880
Speaker 1: we get into an argument about it, one that I

2850
02:44:49,000 --> 02:44:51,000
Speaker 1: didn't want to have, and he kept insisting that he

2851
02:44:51,200 --> 02:44:54,720
Speaker 1: was right, and I insisted that I was right. He

2852
02:44:54,879 --> 02:44:57,320
Speaker 1: said that if you ask anyone about the situation, they

2853
02:44:57,360 --> 02:45:00,800
Speaker 1: would take his side. I said, so you're saying, uh,

2854
02:45:01,040 --> 02:45:03,360
Speaker 1: if you went to your mother and asked if what

2855
02:45:03,520 --> 02:45:05,960
Speaker 1: you did was okay, she would agree. He said yes.

2856
02:45:06,600 --> 02:45:10,720
Speaker 1: I said no, Well, this is a classic argument on

2857
02:45:10,800 --> 02:45:13,760
Speaker 1: our hands situation.

2858
02:45:14,160 --> 02:45:16,360
Speaker 5: You say no, they start doing that thing and like

2859
02:45:16,959 --> 02:45:19,840
Speaker 5: Looney Tunes were like, they're like, you did it, I

2860
02:45:19,920 --> 02:45:21,440
Speaker 5: did it, and then they try to switch it up.

2861
02:45:21,440 --> 02:45:23,360
Speaker 5: You know what I'm talking about, like.

2862
02:45:24,400 --> 02:45:28,400
Speaker 1: Yes you do, and then yes I do at the

2863
02:45:28,520 --> 02:45:31,200
Speaker 1: end because they're so exasperated.

2864
02:45:31,000 --> 02:45:33,240
Speaker 5: No, no, like the one I'm not explaining this, Well,

2865
02:45:33,320 --> 02:45:34,760
Speaker 5: I think I know what you're talking like where the

2866
02:45:34,800 --> 02:45:37,800
Speaker 5: one person says like, uh, I want it, I want

2867
02:45:37,840 --> 02:45:39,120
Speaker 5: you want it? I want it, you want it, and

2868
02:45:39,160 --> 02:45:40,160
Speaker 5: then they switch up.

2869
02:45:40,240 --> 02:45:44,080
Speaker 1: It's like no, no, you want it, you I want it. Yeah,

2870
02:45:44,120 --> 02:45:45,920
Speaker 1: so I want to know you know I want it.

2871
02:45:48,320 --> 02:45:53,200
Speaker 5: Okay, glad, we've we did it. That's what they're doing here. Yes,

2872
02:45:53,680 --> 02:45:55,199
Speaker 5: that's really relevant.

2873
02:45:55,520 --> 02:45:59,040
Speaker 1: I egged. I egged him on, admittedly saying, fine, go

2874
02:45:59,200 --> 02:46:01,120
Speaker 1: ask her. So he proceeded to walk over to his

2875
02:46:01,240 --> 02:46:05,040
Speaker 1: mother angrily and asked, hey, what sorry.

2876
02:46:05,160 --> 02:46:07,879
Speaker 5: They everyone was saying rabbit season, duck season, That's exactly

2877
02:46:07,959 --> 02:46:08,640
Speaker 5: what I was referring to.

2878
02:46:08,760 --> 02:46:15,200
Speaker 1: Thanks, thank you. I egged him on, admittedly, saying fine,

2879
02:46:15,240 --> 02:46:17,440
Speaker 1: go ask her. So he proceeded to walk over to

2880
02:46:17,520 --> 02:46:21,240
Speaker 1: his mother and angrily ask, Hey, when I'm drinking and out,

2881
02:46:21,320 --> 02:46:23,760
Speaker 1: am I responsible? Do I make sure I'm okay?

2882
02:46:24,040 --> 02:46:26,880
Speaker 5: Well that's so misleading.

2883
02:46:27,120 --> 02:46:28,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so misleading.

2884
02:46:29,200 --> 02:46:34,039
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, this is just totally like changing the circumstances. Yeah,

2885
02:46:34,280 --> 02:46:35,680
Speaker 5: I don't like this guy, break up?

2886
02:46:36,560 --> 02:46:39,400
Speaker 1: Devorse? Do you yours? And I can hear over the

2887
02:46:39,480 --> 02:46:42,959
Speaker 1: phone saying yes. This hurt for two reasons. Number one,

2888
02:46:43,280 --> 02:46:46,360
Speaker 1: he conveniently excluded my side of the argument when asking

2889
02:46:46,400 --> 02:46:49,320
Speaker 1: a third party. I didn't say that he couldn't handle himself.

2890
02:46:49,400 --> 02:46:52,000
Speaker 1: I just said I was uncomfortable. And number two, he

2891
02:46:52,080 --> 02:46:54,480
Speaker 1: went to his mother to win an argument. Again. I

2892
02:46:54,640 --> 02:46:56,480
Speaker 1: know I egged him on to do it, but this

2893
02:46:56,600 --> 02:46:59,480
Speaker 1: showed me that he is totally comfortable straying the relationship

2894
02:46:59,600 --> 02:47:02,040
Speaker 1: between me and his mother to win an argument. Yeah,

2895
02:47:02,360 --> 02:47:04,680
Speaker 1: he didn't want to protect me and my reputation. And

2896
02:47:04,760 --> 02:47:06,680
Speaker 1: it feels like at some point in a relationship it

2897
02:47:06,720 --> 02:47:09,080
Speaker 1: will be me versus him and his mother, which that

2898
02:47:09,280 --> 02:47:11,520
Speaker 1: is such a delicate thing. Like I feel like you're

2899
02:47:11,560 --> 02:47:14,480
Speaker 1: meeting your significant other's parents and you're just like trying

2900
02:47:14,560 --> 02:47:16,760
Speaker 1: to like make sure you win them over, like not

2901
02:47:16,920 --> 02:47:17,920
Speaker 1: do anything wrong.

2902
02:47:18,200 --> 02:47:20,800
Speaker 5: And if your partner's actively working against.

2903
02:47:20,520 --> 02:47:23,160
Speaker 1: You, and yeah, it's one thing if it's like, oh,

2904
02:47:23,440 --> 02:47:26,160
Speaker 1: the like, let's say you don't see eye to eye

2905
02:47:26,200 --> 02:47:28,240
Speaker 1: with the parents on something and you're like, oh, like

2906
02:47:28,560 --> 02:47:30,600
Speaker 1: this is honestly how I feel, and then maybe there's

2907
02:47:30,640 --> 02:47:32,640
Speaker 1: some tension about that. But this is literally not the

2908
02:47:32,760 --> 02:47:34,440
Speaker 1: case at all, Like he didn't have to go to

2909
02:47:34,520 --> 02:47:36,280
Speaker 1: the mom about this at all. This was something that

2910
02:47:36,320 --> 02:47:40,320
Speaker 1: they could be adults and discuss and work on themselves.

2911
02:47:40,560 --> 02:47:42,920
Speaker 5: He's literally going and telling on his telling on her

2912
02:47:43,000 --> 02:47:44,800
Speaker 5: to his mommy's.

2913
02:47:44,320 --> 02:47:52,280
Speaker 9: Mommy, wait, shut up, shut up. Okay, oh mommy, I

2914
02:47:52,360 --> 02:47:54,400
Speaker 9: want my bottle, shut up?

2915
02:47:54,600 --> 02:47:54,720
Speaker 4: Up?

2916
02:47:55,440 --> 02:47:58,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Anyways, you don't.

2917
02:47:58,440 --> 02:48:01,120
Speaker 5: Get your bottle because you're the designated drive.

2918
02:48:01,320 --> 02:48:04,760
Speaker 1: That's right. You will be driving home with a pacifier

2919
02:48:04,920 --> 02:48:08,160
Speaker 1: in your frickin' mouth for the rest of your life.

2920
02:48:09,080 --> 02:48:12,920
Speaker 1: You lose her. Anyways, she had zero context of what

2921
02:48:13,080 --> 02:48:16,040
Speaker 1: was happening when she answered the question. But now I

2922
02:48:16,120 --> 02:48:20,520
Speaker 1: don't want to build a relationship with his mother anymore, period,

2923
02:48:20,959 --> 02:48:23,879
Speaker 1: point blank. I don't like. I don't like to build

2924
02:48:23,920 --> 02:48:26,680
Speaker 1: relationships made out of sand. And that's now what it

2925
02:48:26,720 --> 02:48:30,400
Speaker 1: feels like his ego a single shot was more important

2926
02:48:30,840 --> 02:48:32,760
Speaker 1: than my yeah verged no.

2927
02:48:32,879 --> 02:48:34,600
Speaker 5: At the end of the day, it was like, what

2928
02:48:34,920 --> 02:48:38,280
Speaker 5: he wants to do is above anything like anyone else's

2929
02:48:39,240 --> 02:48:40,840
Speaker 5: you know, worries or comfortable.

2930
02:48:41,040 --> 02:48:43,960
Speaker 1: Yeah to me, like even if like, obviously there are

2931
02:48:44,760 --> 02:48:50,960
Speaker 1: some some scenarios where someone could could uh like try

2932
02:48:51,080 --> 02:48:56,120
Speaker 1: to get someone to do something that is annoying and

2933
02:48:56,320 --> 02:48:59,320
Speaker 1: is justifiable, but this is not that at all. And

2934
02:48:59,600 --> 02:49:03,640
Speaker 1: be again, if your partner says I'm uncomfortable, why wouldn't

2935
02:49:03,640 --> 02:49:06,360
Speaker 1: you just stop and like listen and like see okay,

2936
02:49:06,480 --> 02:49:08,240
Speaker 1: let me let me see what's wrong with them and

2937
02:49:08,280 --> 02:49:09,920
Speaker 1: see how I can help, or see see what is

2938
02:49:10,040 --> 02:49:11,960
Speaker 1: wrong and how I can help. I don't know.

2939
02:49:12,040 --> 02:49:15,480
Speaker 5: I just it's just like, these are the standard rules.

2940
02:49:15,240 --> 02:49:18,680
Speaker 1: For D D, right, I feel when you said D D,

2941
02:49:18,879 --> 02:49:19,920
Speaker 1: I was thinking D and D.

2942
02:49:20,600 --> 02:49:22,600
Speaker 5: These are the standard rules for D and D. You

2943
02:49:22,680 --> 02:49:23,880
Speaker 5: don't leave your party behind.

2944
02:49:24,080 --> 02:49:26,640
Speaker 1: I also always get so confused because of do not

2945
02:49:26,720 --> 02:49:29,279
Speaker 1: disturb and yeah the dragons see.

2946
02:49:29,640 --> 02:49:31,959
Speaker 5: Well my thing. Whenever I see D and d even

2947
02:49:31,959 --> 02:49:34,200
Speaker 5: if it's do not deserve I always think like dungeons

2948
02:49:34,240 --> 02:49:36,080
Speaker 5: and dragons. I never think do not disturb.

2949
02:49:36,480 --> 02:49:38,879
Speaker 1: See I don't see it often, but I usually think,

2950
02:49:38,920 --> 02:49:39,440
Speaker 1: do not disturb.

2951
02:49:39,560 --> 02:49:43,880
Speaker 5: Yeah that's funny. A yea well that was the end

2952
02:49:43,879 --> 02:49:44,360
Speaker 5: of the story.

2953
02:49:44,480 --> 02:49:49,800
Speaker 1: That is literally all we have. No no, no, We

2954
02:49:49,920 --> 02:49:53,040
Speaker 1: said it and we meant it. But shout to Bruno R.

2955
02:49:53,240 --> 02:49:56,760
Speaker 1: Silva for the five twenty seven donation. Watching you guys

2956
02:49:56,800 --> 02:50:01,320
Speaker 1: from Australia. Mate, here's some many for the ten hour stream.

2957
02:50:01,480 --> 02:50:04,039
Speaker 1: Thanks for being a part of my every day. Uh Bruno,

2958
02:50:04,200 --> 02:50:06,600
Speaker 1: thank you for being awesome every day.

2959
02:50:06,840 --> 02:50:07,279
Speaker 5: So awesome.

2960
02:50:07,400 --> 02:50:08,359
Speaker 1: Congratulations.

2961
02:50:08,480 --> 02:50:10,520
Speaker 5: I bet you put all the other people around you

2962
02:50:10,640 --> 02:50:12,560
Speaker 5: to shame by being so awesome.

2963
02:50:12,680 --> 02:50:14,680
Speaker 1: That's true. I thought you were gonna be like I thought.

2964
02:50:14,760 --> 02:50:17,640
Speaker 1: I bet you put him the shame because you crap

2965
02:50:17,760 --> 02:50:24,560
Speaker 1: on them every chance you getiness. Just kidding, I'm gold

2966
02:50:24,680 --> 02:50:28,119
Speaker 1: Daddy Jesse, thanks for the five bucks. I believe Sleepness.

2967
02:50:28,280 --> 02:50:31,760
Speaker 1: Myself and a couple others updated our memberships to Worm

2968
02:50:31,840 --> 02:50:33,320
Speaker 1: General last week or so.

2969
02:50:34,800 --> 02:50:35,359
Speaker 5: Generals.

2970
02:50:35,800 --> 02:50:41,199
Speaker 1: The generals have entered the chata Huzza to the worm Generals.

2971
02:50:41,240 --> 02:50:42,520
Speaker 1: Will they lead a revolt?

2972
02:50:43,640 --> 02:50:48,280
Speaker 5: Daniel Papercrane. I'm so jealous, Daniel Papercrane, says Sophia. Do

2973
02:50:48,320 --> 02:50:50,280
Speaker 5: you know what's funny? My initials are D and D

2974
02:50:51,280 --> 02:50:56,279
Speaker 5: so sick. My initials are sad and so are Sam's.

2975
02:50:58,640 --> 02:51:01,800
Speaker 5: Whoa fun fact? I don't know if anyone like put

2976
02:51:01,840 --> 02:51:04,920
Speaker 5: that together? Alan Alan, Yeah, and then mine is Alik's

2977
02:51:05,680 --> 02:51:07,480
Speaker 5: felled Alex but pronounced.

2978
02:51:09,280 --> 02:51:13,400
Speaker 1: Randolph and park Hill Randolph and John Randolph park hilfry

2979
02:51:13,800 --> 02:51:16,240
Speaker 1: that to kill. Yeah, like I'm parking on a hill.

2980
02:51:16,840 --> 02:51:22,680
Speaker 1: That is a great five hundred for okay, I like, yeah,

2981
02:51:23,520 --> 02:51:26,400
Speaker 1: that was so great. Anyways, ladies and gentlemen, let's get

2982
02:51:26,440 --> 02:51:28,520
Speaker 1: into the next door, into this next do it taking

2983
02:51:28,520 --> 02:51:29,320
Speaker 1: away worm queen?

2984
02:51:29,959 --> 02:51:33,240
Speaker 5: Am I the a hole for distrusting my boyfriend's travel

2985
02:51:33,320 --> 02:51:37,160
Speaker 5: plans after his poor budgeting left us in debt last time?

2986
02:51:37,440 --> 02:51:39,360
Speaker 1: No let him drain your bank accounts.

2987
02:51:40,840 --> 02:51:46,400
Speaker 5: You live and so crafty Market forty nine ninety three,

2988
02:51:46,520 --> 02:51:50,520
Speaker 5: says I, female twenty six, and my boyfriend, male twenty five,

2989
02:51:51,080 --> 02:51:53,840
Speaker 5: switched to remote jobs at the same company three years ago.

2990
02:51:54,879 --> 02:51:57,840
Speaker 5: Around that time, he proposed we used our new found

2991
02:51:57,879 --> 02:52:02,280
Speaker 5: freedom to travel the world since we had no local responsibilities.

2992
02:52:03,000 --> 02:52:06,120
Speaker 5: He was incredibly passionate about it and planned everything. So

2993
02:52:06,240 --> 02:52:09,240
Speaker 5: I followed his lead for six months. We had an

2994
02:52:09,280 --> 02:52:13,840
Speaker 5: amazing experience. Wow six months. For context, even though he's

2995
02:52:13,840 --> 02:52:16,480
Speaker 5: a year younger, he has been living independently for six

2996
02:52:16,640 --> 02:52:19,240
Speaker 5: years while I was still with my family. This trip

2997
02:52:19,360 --> 02:52:21,680
Speaker 5: was my first time so far from home, so far

2998
02:52:21,760 --> 02:52:24,560
Speaker 5: from home, and I had experiences I never would have

2999
02:52:24,640 --> 02:52:28,840
Speaker 5: had without his initiative. However, the joy didn't last long

3000
02:52:29,000 --> 02:52:34,520
Speaker 5: because we returned home about sixteen hundred in debt after

3001
02:52:34,600 --> 02:52:39,440
Speaker 5: six months. After six months, I mean, that's honestly, could

3002
02:52:39,560 --> 02:52:45,560
Speaker 5: be worse. Honestly, I could be worse. Fine I having Yeah,

3003
02:52:45,640 --> 02:52:48,960
Speaker 5: I think I spent about like I'm you know, I

3004
02:52:49,320 --> 02:52:51,560
Speaker 5: saved up and then I think I spent about seven

3005
02:52:51,640 --> 02:52:54,680
Speaker 5: thousand living like frugally yea for three months.

3006
02:52:55,280 --> 02:52:58,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's it. Like I kind of worked

3007
02:52:58,400 --> 02:53:02,320
Speaker 1: teen thousand dollars versus fourteen thousand, and they probably.

3008
02:53:02,040 --> 02:53:03,680
Speaker 5: Spent around fourteen thousand dollars.

3009
02:53:03,920 --> 02:53:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And I think like I view it, I

3010
02:53:07,040 --> 02:53:09,280
Speaker 2: view stuff like this kind of like college, Like people

3011
02:53:09,280 --> 02:53:11,560
Speaker 2: are willing to get into one hundred thousand dollars of debt,

3012
02:53:11,600 --> 02:53:13,800
Speaker 2: but not willing to have a life changing experience and

3013
02:53:13,840 --> 02:53:14,680
Speaker 2: get into a little debt.

3014
02:53:14,720 --> 02:53:17,199
Speaker 1: I think that's that's okay. Yeah, although I'm generally.

3015
02:53:17,160 --> 02:53:21,160
Speaker 5: Honestly yeah, I don't think the sixteen hundred is two too.

3016
02:53:21,400 --> 02:53:23,560
Speaker 5: I mean, obviously it's concerning when you get back and

3017
02:53:23,600 --> 02:53:25,560
Speaker 5: you're like, ah, like that was me. I got back

3018
02:53:25,600 --> 02:53:28,080
Speaker 5: and I was like, there's nothing in my bank account. Yeah,

3019
02:53:28,560 --> 02:53:31,039
Speaker 5: but yeah, I no, like for a trip that would

3020
02:53:31,200 --> 02:53:34,600
Speaker 5: like minimum thirteen thousand, maybe fourteen thousand.

3021
02:53:34,760 --> 02:53:38,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's that's lifelong. That's worth the debt for

3022
02:53:38,640 --> 02:53:40,720
Speaker 1: the lifelong member you get. I believe.

3023
02:53:42,040 --> 02:53:45,120
Speaker 5: He assured me our salaries would roughly cover the trip,

3024
02:53:45,280 --> 02:53:47,920
Speaker 5: but we ended up short every month, and a spontaneous

3025
02:53:47,959 --> 02:53:50,920
Speaker 5: booking of our return flight added several hundred euros to

3026
02:53:50,959 --> 02:53:54,000
Speaker 5: the cost. That's a little bit annoying. It took months

3027
02:53:54,040 --> 02:53:56,240
Speaker 5: to repay the debt, and since then my trust in

3028
02:53:56,320 --> 02:53:59,840
Speaker 5: his travel planning has been shattered. I was shocked. And

3029
02:54:00,200 --> 02:54:02,120
Speaker 5: when he said, in a few years, we won't think

3030
02:54:02,160 --> 02:54:04,560
Speaker 5: about the money anymore, but the experiences will stay with

3031
02:54:04,680 --> 02:54:05,160
Speaker 5: us forever.

3032
02:54:05,680 --> 02:54:07,960
Speaker 1: Oops, that's what I said.

3033
02:54:09,560 --> 02:54:13,400
Speaker 5: John. He has a different background, having looked after himself

3034
02:54:13,440 --> 02:54:17,040
Speaker 5: since he was sixteen and experienced bigger financial lows and highs.

3035
02:54:17,600 --> 02:54:19,520
Speaker 5: For me, it was my first job and being in

3036
02:54:19,600 --> 02:54:22,160
Speaker 5: debt for the first time really affected me mentally and

3037
02:54:22,320 --> 02:54:28,480
Speaker 5: scared me a lot. Yeah, I will say, you do

3038
02:54:28,680 --> 02:54:30,720
Speaker 5: kind of have to look after your own expenses a

3039
02:54:30,760 --> 02:54:36,360
Speaker 5: little bit. Like presumably she was involved in the buying

3040
02:54:36,480 --> 02:54:39,480
Speaker 5: of these things and she had I mean, unless you

3041
02:54:39,560 --> 02:54:42,120
Speaker 5: have no say so, in which case like that's on him,

3042
02:54:42,640 --> 02:54:47,120
Speaker 5: and that's where like there's an issue. But I mean

3043
02:54:47,120 --> 02:54:48,680
Speaker 5: there were a lot of times when I was traveling

3044
02:54:48,680 --> 02:54:50,280
Speaker 5: when I was like, I'm not going to do this

3045
02:54:50,400 --> 02:54:52,280
Speaker 5: thing because that's a lot of extra money that I

3046
02:54:52,320 --> 02:54:54,920
Speaker 5: don't need to spend that. Yeah, sometimes you do have

3047
02:54:55,000 --> 02:54:56,720
Speaker 5: to kind of be mindful of the amount that you

3048
02:54:56,800 --> 02:54:59,440
Speaker 5: were spending when you're traveling.

3049
02:54:59,520 --> 02:55:01,520
Speaker 1: And also, I think op made a great point of

3050
02:55:02,080 --> 02:55:04,520
Speaker 1: She's like, Hey, this is my first time like living

3051
02:55:04,520 --> 02:55:06,040
Speaker 1: on my own in my first job, so I'm kind

3052
02:55:06,080 --> 02:55:08,960
Speaker 1: of like nervous about it, and I feel like, I

3053
02:55:09,000 --> 02:55:12,440
Speaker 1: don't know, like from from my like honestly, Riley, probably

3054
02:55:12,440 --> 02:55:15,720
Speaker 1: you were pretty nervous about like the Bali experience, right, Yeah,

3055
02:55:15,879 --> 02:55:17,720
Speaker 1: but then like after going through that, now if we

3056
02:55:17,800 --> 02:55:20,440
Speaker 1: plan one, you're like, oh, like yeah, piece of cake, right,

3057
02:55:20,800 --> 02:55:22,880
Speaker 1: Like I think I think there is something to be

3058
02:55:22,959 --> 02:55:25,200
Speaker 1: said of like it can be scary the first time,

3059
02:55:25,320 --> 02:55:27,280
Speaker 1: but like, yeah, if you kind of go through these,

3060
02:55:27,320 --> 02:55:29,920
Speaker 1: like you know, big grand adventures and like life changes

3061
02:55:29,920 --> 02:55:33,120
Speaker 1: and stuff, you do get a lot more comfortable with

3062
02:55:33,200 --> 02:55:36,400
Speaker 1: it over time. And I think op might possibly look

3063
02:55:36,480 --> 02:55:39,680
Speaker 1: back and be more comfortable in the future than she today.

3064
02:55:40,160 --> 02:55:42,120
Speaker 5: Darlene says, sounds like they should have had to talk

3065
02:55:42,120 --> 02:55:42,959
Speaker 5: about the budget.

3066
02:55:43,360 --> 02:55:44,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that would.

3067
02:55:44,480 --> 02:55:47,080
Speaker 5: Probably have helped and just been like this is I

3068
02:55:47,160 --> 02:55:50,840
Speaker 5: think you really like. Having a conversation about your traveling

3069
02:55:50,959 --> 02:55:54,560
Speaker 5: style is super important because some people want to go

3070
02:55:54,879 --> 02:55:58,280
Speaker 5: and like stay in hotels and eat out every night,

3071
02:55:58,560 --> 02:56:02,320
Speaker 5: and you know, you like fun adventure stuff that you

3072
02:56:02,400 --> 02:56:05,080
Speaker 5: have to pay for, whereas you know other people are like, well,

3073
02:56:05,080 --> 02:56:08,039
Speaker 5: I want to stay in hostels, I want to cook

3074
02:56:08,160 --> 02:56:10,600
Speaker 5: dinner if we can, if we have access to a kitchen,

3075
02:56:10,680 --> 02:56:11,800
Speaker 5: and I just want to walk around.

3076
02:56:11,879 --> 02:56:14,440
Speaker 1: And some people are doing road trips and sleeping on

3077
02:56:14,560 --> 02:56:16,720
Speaker 1: the side of the road in a tent.

3078
02:56:17,320 --> 02:56:22,360
Speaker 3: But when I came from Tennessee, I drove all the

3079
02:56:22,400 --> 02:56:22,720
Speaker 3: way here.

3080
02:56:22,959 --> 02:56:26,640
Speaker 5: That's so funny. But yeah, I think talking about your

3081
02:56:26,680 --> 02:56:30,879
Speaker 5: travel style is a really important step in planning.

3082
02:56:30,600 --> 02:56:35,120
Speaker 1: For can we get a pull up aisle seat or

3083
02:56:35,160 --> 02:56:35,760
Speaker 1: window seat.

3084
02:56:38,200 --> 02:56:41,240
Speaker 5: Oh I know my answer? What's your answer?

3085
02:56:42,560 --> 02:56:43,519
Speaker 1: I'm bisectional.

3086
02:56:44,840 --> 02:56:54,400
Speaker 5: That's I'm a window person through and through. I A

3087
02:56:54,680 --> 02:56:58,520
Speaker 5: I S E l A I S S l E.

3088
02:56:58,680 --> 02:57:00,720
Speaker 1: Sorry. I was about was like why I said that

3089
02:57:01,360 --> 02:57:02,240
Speaker 1: I should have corrected.

3090
02:57:02,320 --> 02:57:05,760
Speaker 5: I was like, I said it too quick, And then

3091
02:57:05,800 --> 02:57:07,840
Speaker 5: I was like, what am I saying I should have

3092
02:57:07,920 --> 02:57:08,840
Speaker 5: you should have capitalized?

3093
02:57:08,920 --> 02:57:11,240
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but I was so worried that

3094
02:57:11,360 --> 02:57:12,440
Speaker 1: I was going to be wrong.

3095
02:57:12,800 --> 02:57:18,200
Speaker 5: I'd like, but it's wrong, and then I went, wait, no, yeah, Ellie,

3096
02:57:19,000 --> 02:57:21,120
Speaker 5: there we go. I would have failed my spell. I'm

3097
02:57:21,120 --> 02:57:23,680
Speaker 5: actually very bad at spelling. I do know how to

3098
02:57:23,680 --> 02:57:26,760
Speaker 5: spell i'le. I just said it too quickly, but generally

3099
02:57:26,840 --> 02:57:27,960
Speaker 5: I'm terrible at spelling.

3100
02:57:28,000 --> 02:57:30,680
Speaker 1: I also love how we got all right, but Riley

3101
02:57:30,760 --> 02:57:40,440
Speaker 1: the window a second, it's so perfect. Anyways, let's get

3102
02:57:40,440 --> 02:57:42,360
Speaker 1: back to the story. Great great side, great side.

3103
02:57:43,160 --> 02:57:43,840
Speaker 5: It was important.

3104
02:57:44,160 --> 02:57:44,360
Speaker 1: Yes.

3105
02:57:47,920 --> 02:57:51,560
Speaker 5: Since then, I've rejected all his suggestions for longer trips

3106
02:57:51,760 --> 02:57:55,400
Speaker 5: or traveling outside Europe. Today, he approached me again, explaining

3107
02:57:55,640 --> 02:57:58,480
Speaker 5: he now understands how much debt affects me and has

3108
02:57:58,520 --> 02:58:01,480
Speaker 5: a new one month trip outide Europe in mind. He

3109
02:58:01,600 --> 02:58:04,360
Speaker 5: claimed he would insure this trip stayed within our budget

3110
02:58:04,720 --> 02:58:06,840
Speaker 5: and emphasized that he wanted me to focus on our

3111
02:58:06,840 --> 02:58:09,840
Speaker 5: fond memories rather than the debt. He listened to my

3112
02:58:09,920 --> 02:58:12,920
Speaker 5: concerns and even reviewed our past finances to find ways

3113
02:58:13,000 --> 02:58:16,200
Speaker 5: to save money. This time, he admitted his mistake with

3114
02:58:16,280 --> 02:58:19,680
Speaker 5: the spontaneous return flight booking and promised to book both

3115
02:58:19,760 --> 02:58:24,000
Speaker 5: flights together this time. Despite his efforts, I didn't want

3116
02:58:24,040 --> 02:58:26,560
Speaker 5: to approve the trip because I am still disappointed by

3117
02:58:26,600 --> 02:58:30,200
Speaker 5: his previous wrecks. He also seemed to expect gratitude for

3118
02:58:30,240 --> 02:58:32,960
Speaker 5: planning everything during the first trip, which he never received

3119
02:58:32,959 --> 02:58:36,040
Speaker 5: because I was too angry about the aftermath. He appeared

3120
02:58:36,160 --> 02:58:39,480
Speaker 5: very disappointed by my rejection and lack of thanks. He

3121
02:58:39,600 --> 02:58:42,560
Speaker 5: reminded me were both young, and that he had learned

3122
02:58:42,560 --> 02:58:45,760
Speaker 5: a lot about travel planning and my needs, acknowledging how

3123
02:58:45,840 --> 02:58:49,320
Speaker 5: important financial stability is to me compared to him. His

3124
02:58:49,440 --> 02:58:52,000
Speaker 5: attitude made me angry, and I told him I wasn't

3125
02:58:52,080 --> 02:58:55,280
Speaker 5: just young, I was also stupid stupid to blindly trust you.

3126
02:58:56,080 --> 02:58:58,600
Speaker 5: This hurt him deeply and he was speechless for a while.

3127
02:58:59,240 --> 02:59:01,120
Speaker 5: I believe my could his serns are valid as his

3128
02:59:01,240 --> 02:59:06,120
Speaker 5: prioritization of adventure over stable finances still worries me. However,

3129
02:59:06,320 --> 02:59:09,120
Speaker 5: his reaction makes me question if I might be the

3130
02:59:09,240 --> 02:59:12,240
Speaker 5: a hole here. And there are some relevant comments to

3131
02:59:12,320 --> 02:59:17,080
Speaker 5: finish this off. Gotsh it okay Misov says, at the

3132
02:59:17,120 --> 02:59:18,840
Speaker 5: age of twenty two, he took care of all the

3133
02:59:18,879 --> 02:59:21,560
Speaker 5: planning and budgeting of your international trip for all six

3134
02:59:21,720 --> 02:59:24,480
Speaker 5: whole months, and at the end of all of that,

3135
02:59:24,680 --> 02:59:28,119
Speaker 5: you only exceeded your budget by six hundred sixteen hundred

3136
02:59:28,200 --> 02:59:30,400
Speaker 5: year olds each, a lot of it being due to

3137
02:59:30,560 --> 02:59:35,039
Speaker 5: last minute flies back home. That lad did miracles. Generally,

3138
02:59:35,120 --> 02:59:37,680
Speaker 5: not the a hole for having different preferences and priorities

3139
02:59:37,720 --> 02:59:39,840
Speaker 5: in life, but you're the a hole for lashing out him.

3140
02:59:40,360 --> 02:59:42,600
Speaker 5: Bin Zoma says this, And if you can't trust your

3141
02:59:42,640 --> 02:59:45,360
Speaker 5: partner to planification, why are you with them? How are

3142
02:59:45,440 --> 02:59:47,960
Speaker 5: you supposed to solve actual problems?

3143
02:59:48,160 --> 02:59:48,480
Speaker 1: Lol?

3144
02:59:49,040 --> 02:59:52,279
Speaker 5: Agog Qwi says, more importantly, why are you not participating

3145
02:59:52,320 --> 02:59:54,640
Speaker 5: in the planning? He said he heard you and planned differently.

3146
02:59:55,000 --> 02:59:57,200
Speaker 5: Why don't you check the math? There's nothing keeping you

3147
02:59:57,320 --> 02:59:59,959
Speaker 5: from being a full partner in the planning. I agree,

3148
03:00:00,760 --> 03:00:03,000
Speaker 5: I agree with it. Yeah, I don't understand why she's not.

3149
03:00:03,400 --> 03:00:07,480
Speaker 1: I didn't realize how she was completely uninvolved.

3150
03:00:07,560 --> 03:00:10,720
Speaker 5: She's she seems completely uninvolved, and I don't understand why

3151
03:00:10,760 --> 03:00:15,320
Speaker 5: she's putting all of this seemingly on him. Again, as

3152
03:00:15,360 --> 03:00:18,600
Speaker 5: a person who planned a trip, Yeah, you have to

3153
03:00:18,680 --> 03:00:20,600
Speaker 5: plan it if you if you want things to go

3154
03:00:20,720 --> 03:00:22,520
Speaker 5: your way, and if you want your budget to not

3155
03:00:22,720 --> 03:00:25,800
Speaker 5: be over exceeded, you have to check your budget and

3156
03:00:25,959 --> 03:00:27,080
Speaker 5: help in the planning.

3157
03:00:26,840 --> 03:00:30,600
Speaker 2: And read your mind. Like, how is he supposed to

3158
03:00:30,680 --> 03:00:33,840
Speaker 2: know exactly what? Obviously, you know, you know your partner

3159
03:00:33,840 --> 03:00:35,520
Speaker 2: and kind of maybe have a general sense of what

3160
03:00:35,600 --> 03:00:37,360
Speaker 2: they like for sure, but like you can never know

3161
03:00:37,400 --> 03:00:39,720
Speaker 2: one hundred percent unless you literally ask. If that's the

3162
03:00:39,760 --> 03:00:43,119
Speaker 2: point of communication, to know what the other person wants.

3163
03:00:43,400 --> 03:00:45,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I mean it's different if she on the

3164
03:00:45,720 --> 03:00:48,320
Speaker 5: trip was like this seems like a little bit out

3165
03:00:48,360 --> 03:00:49,959
Speaker 5: of my budget and he was like, no, let's Jules

3166
03:00:50,000 --> 03:00:52,120
Speaker 5: do it. Yeah, then you would be a little bit

3167
03:00:52,160 --> 03:00:55,480
Speaker 5: the ale and she would have had communicated her things.

3168
03:00:55,520 --> 03:00:59,040
Speaker 5: But it doesn't seem like that happened until afterwards she

3169
03:00:59,200 --> 03:01:02,520
Speaker 5: realized she was sixteen hundred euros in debt.

3170
03:01:03,120 --> 03:01:05,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and again like I'm just like it was it

3171
03:01:05,320 --> 03:01:08,000
Speaker 1: was why were you sixteen hundred ye trip, Yeah, sixteen

3172
03:01:08,040 --> 03:01:11,040
Speaker 1: hundred years after three months, it six six months. I

3173
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Speaker 1: don't want to like, uh belittle or or or attacker

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Speaker 1: feelings or anything like that with like an I get

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Speaker 1: financial anxiety, but a lot, oh absolutely, but like I

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Speaker 1: will truly say, in the grand scheme of things, again,

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Speaker 1: not for not for everyone. But I think I think

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Speaker 1: that is a pretty reasonable place to end up. And

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Speaker 1: I do think he probably did a pretty good job.

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Speaker 5: Like, I think it is less like the issue is

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Speaker 5: not that she is feeling anxious about the amount of

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Speaker 5: debt that she's in. I think that's completely valid. I

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Speaker 5: think it's just a little bit weird for her to

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Speaker 5: put it all on her partner. Yeah, I think that's

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Speaker 5: the issue here, when.

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Speaker 1: And the kind of lash out at him like that,

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Speaker 1: to lash out at.

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Speaker 5: Him when she kind of expected him to do all

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Speaker 5: the planning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I think I think when you're when your budget comes

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Speaker 5: into thea it's your budget, is my point, and you

3193
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Speaker 5: have to kind of keep track of it. Like throughout

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Speaker 5: the whole trip, I was looking at my budget and

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Speaker 5: see how I like, I have a note app notes

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Speaker 5: literally keeping track of everything I paid every day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, you just gotta communication just so that I could.

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Speaker 5: I was in my within my.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so easy to get outside of itself. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: is OP the a hole?

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Speaker 5: I think a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I think so.

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Speaker 5: I think yeah, I think so. I agree, Yeah, I think.

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Speaker 5: I think that's a little bit unfair to put it

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Speaker 5: all on her partner.