WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Don’t Sleep There

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<v Speaker 1>Looking Jules second date up. Tori is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us for a second date update right now, Tory,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you good? How are you guys doing good?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your email. Now I'm going to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you to get into your date and tell us all

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<v Speaker 1>about that. But I also am going to ask you

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<v Speaker 1>why do you even want to call this guy back?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he sounds like a weirdo to me. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get that out of the way. The guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to call today sounds strange just by

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<v Speaker 1>reading your email. I don't even know why you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call him back. Oh no, no, it's not weird.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not. You're sure about that, because the way that

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<v Speaker 1>you describe the situation in your email sounds very odd

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Before we get into what I think is weird,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you just tell us about your date a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Where'd you meet this guy? And then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>online there's a dating website and we were talking for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. What about his dating profile? Are like, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, I don't know, you seem cute and me

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<v Speaker 1>chatted for a little bit and hit an amazing smile

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<v Speaker 1>and he hit these ice blue eyes. So so what

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys do for your date. We went out

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<v Speaker 1>for drinks, but the bar closed early, so I suggested

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<v Speaker 1>we go back to my place and chill, and we

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<v Speaker 1>bought some cheap wine and we need popcorn, and we

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<v Speaker 1>ended up watching YouTube videos on my couch. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>have a plan when you invited him back to your place? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just it was going well. You know, I had

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<v Speaker 1>good conversation and I just wanted to continue it and

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like the easy thing to do. This is where

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<v Speaker 1>the weird part comes in for me. Okay, Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not so much during your date, at least the way

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<v Speaker 1>you described it in your email. And maybe there's something

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<v Speaker 1>else that I don't know about, but you said that

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<v Speaker 1>you and him kind of got into an argument about

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<v Speaker 1>where he was going to sleep because it was drunk

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<v Speaker 1>and didn't want to go home, and he apparently wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep in your roommate's bed really bad. Yeah, with

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<v Speaker 1>your roommate. No, my roommate was gone, so he just

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted to sleep and it hurt bed. See that's

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<v Speaker 1>what's weird to me. Yeah, and I maybe you made

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<v Speaker 1>it clear that he wasn't going to sleep in your bed,

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<v Speaker 1>which is fine. I mean I would have I would

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<v Speaker 1>have left at that point, but I mean the couch

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<v Speaker 1>was an option. There were other options from to sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was insistent on wanting to sleep in your

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<v Speaker 1>roommate's bed. Yeah. I was so out of it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my roommate's room. I respect face. She is a

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<v Speaker 1>neat freak. She everything is spotless. And he said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm super clean and he is respectful, and he just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to he's not comfortable on the couch, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just said no. I mean, he said, why don't he

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<v Speaker 1>text her? And I was like, no, I can't not

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<v Speaker 1>even bringing this up to her. So I made him

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<v Speaker 1>sleep on the couch. I don't like to sleep in

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<v Speaker 1>any stranger's bed. Yeah, I don't know where their sheets,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know who they've had in their bed,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like, I would rather sleep

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<v Speaker 1>on your couch. I mean, she had been drinking. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he would have done the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>if he hadn't been drinking. Why didn't he just take

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<v Speaker 1>a cab home? You know, at that time, it's might

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<v Speaker 1>just be easier to crash, wake up refreshed, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he had more sleeps basically, you guys or drunk, and

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<v Speaker 1>it seemed like the best option instead of getting Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he was hoping that if he slept there, you would

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<v Speaker 1>come in and wake him up, you know what I mean? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So he slept on the couch and did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys talk? The next morning he has left. By

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<v Speaker 1>the time I woke up, he was gone. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>heard anything else from him since that night? No. I

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<v Speaker 1>try to call him once and it's been a week

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<v Speaker 1>and a half since I called him, and he never responded. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So and you only called that one time? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>only called that one time. Okay. From the way he

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<v Speaker 1>was acting at the end of your date, I'm surprised

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call this dude back. But no, But

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of the date was really, really fun, except

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<v Speaker 1>for the fact that he wanted to sleep in your

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<v Speaker 1>roommates bed really bad. Yeah, I know, it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an amazing date. I wouldn't have suggested he

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<v Speaker 1>come back, and I was excited. Well it's okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song, come back, see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get him on the phone and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date up date. Okay, okay, all right, hang on point

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<v Speaker 1>five looking jubil in the morning, Seate. We're talking to

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<v Speaker 1>Tor right now. She just told us about her first

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<v Speaker 1>date with a guy named Luke. They met online. They

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<v Speaker 1>had a good time. Nothing really crazy happened, except when

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<v Speaker 1>they were back at her place and it was time

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<v Speaker 1>for bed. He was insistent did he stay in her

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<v Speaker 1>roommate's bed. They had like a little bit of an

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<v Speaker 1>argument about it. He ended up sleeping on the couch

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<v Speaker 1>because she wouldn't let him sleep in the roommates bed.

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<v Speaker 1>The roommate was out of town, and I guess he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, it's fine, let me sleep in there.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to sleep in the roommates bed. I just

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<v Speaker 1>think it's really weird that a guy would insist and

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<v Speaker 1>argue with you to the point where you actually, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>had to be like, no, sleep on the couch, You're

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<v Speaker 1>not sleeping in my roommate's bed. I think a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of this was just him being drunk. Okay, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna doll the phone. We're right now. See if we

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<v Speaker 1>get him on the phone and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>up dated? You ready? Yeah? All right, here we gollo

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<v Speaker 1>all I was looking for Luke. Yeah, this is Luke.

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<v Speaker 1>Luke how are you. This is Jebil from Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jubil in the Morning. What this is Jebil from Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you might have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>I have the right number. My name is Jubil j B. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>ju B a L if you want to Google it

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<v Speaker 1>or follow me on Twitter, whatever you can. We're calling

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<v Speaker 1>from a radio show because you recently went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with on our listeners and they asked us

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<v Speaker 1>to call you. I know it's weird, Okay, I'm yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to feel like a joke here, Luke. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>explain to you. Okay, So you recently went out with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Tori who listens to our show, and

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<v Speaker 1>she emailed us and asked us to see if we

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<v Speaker 1>could get you on the phone and find out if

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<v Speaker 1>something went wrong on your date or if you just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like tor and you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with her again. Okay, what exactly did she tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>She just told us that you guys met online, went

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<v Speaker 1>out to the bars, ended up going back to her

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<v Speaker 1>house after drank a little bit and went to bed,

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<v Speaker 1>and she woke up the next morning and you were gone,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's tried to call you, but you haven't responded

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<v Speaker 1>to anything. I think it's been like a week and

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<v Speaker 1>a half. So and that's all she said. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>it is. There is there something else. She didn't talk

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<v Speaker 1>about her dog. She did not talk about her dog.

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<v Speaker 1>We just talked about her date with you. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even have any idea she had a dog. Yeah, yes, No,

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<v Speaker 1>she has a little piece of dog. You don't like

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<v Speaker 1>her dog, okay? Me? Oh the dog bit you? What

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<v Speaker 1>she has a little dog and the dog bit me

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<v Speaker 1>and I was bleeding and she didn't care and I went.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was gonna be my question. Did she see

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<v Speaker 1>the dog a by you? Yes, she thought she's just rude. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So she didn't apologize for it or punish the dog.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't do anything. She just sat there. God, you

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of drunk, right. Did you do anything to

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<v Speaker 1>the dog? Did you provoke it in any way? I

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<v Speaker 1>pet it, I touched it like you do with a dog,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it bit you. Okay, But Luke, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>blame her for her dog biting you. Hell no. But

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<v Speaker 1>if she's not training the dog properly, I should at

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<v Speaker 1>least say I'm sorry or yeah something. I would be

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<v Speaker 1>mortified if my dog bit someone. So that's why you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out with her again. Because her

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<v Speaker 1>dog bit you and she didn't apologize. Yeah, and on

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<v Speaker 1>top of that, she wouldn't let me sleep in her

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<v Speaker 1>roommate's bed. She made me sleep on the couch. And

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<v Speaker 1>she's a man, she's according to her, all right. According

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<v Speaker 1>to her, you guys had a great time, other than

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that you got into a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>an argument about sleeping in her roommate's bed, which, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I think is kind of strange. But other

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<v Speaker 1>than that, she says, anjama, what else am I gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Well, other than that, she says, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time, you obviously feel the opposite. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's rude. You can tell her. I said that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to see you again, all right? What

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<v Speaker 1>else you need? Um? Well, I do have one more thing, Luke,

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<v Speaker 1>before I let you go. I appreciate you being honest

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<v Speaker 1>with us. I'm sorry that you had to put up

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<v Speaker 1>with Tori's rudeness. Normally, I you know, I wouldn't take

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<v Speaker 1>that from a listener of ours being rude to somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I need to tell you that Tori is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line. Yeah him, this is I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go this. I don't want to do this. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on, Luke, Luke, at least talk to Tori. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her about how you feel that she's rude.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you know rude. You're rude, would teacup Pomeranians. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't apologize. Yeah, yeah, I warned you to not waive

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<v Speaker 1>the popcorn and see his face, but you did it,

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<v Speaker 1>so you got what you deserve. Whatever. It doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>doctor but me and you didn't apologize, and so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested. You need to get a muzzle for that thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You need a muffle. What kind of dog did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>It was, Tory? It's a he up hummering and it's

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<v Speaker 1>literally like five pounds. Not even that thing couldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>done that much damage. Really, I was bleeding. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what else to say. You've made it sound like

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<v Speaker 1>she had a Rottweiler. It's a tiny dog. And I

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<v Speaker 1>did not break the skin. I'm sorry. I did not

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<v Speaker 1>see bleeding all over my floor. I was bleeding. You're blind.

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<v Speaker 1>You were breeding. No, I know that, are you? This

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<v Speaker 1>is a tiny dog? How tall? Are you acting like

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<v Speaker 1>a bit? Your arm off? Don't be all right, I

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<v Speaker 1>have nothing to say to you. You're dog really wow

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<v Speaker 1>to toy if you think I'm rude, but then you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to sleep in my roommates said, I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>someone offering the bottom line, here is your rude. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a terrible night. Obviously you think we had a

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<v Speaker 1>good one, and I just don't want to see you again.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly I was wrong, and clearly you are as weird

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<v Speaker 1>as everyone thought you are. No idea. Everyone would be

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<v Speaker 1>asking me, why are you calling this guy? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you know what they were right, Hey, Luke, Luke,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it. Don't go anywhere yet. I still have

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<v Speaker 1>one more thing to ask you, and I will let

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<v Speaker 1>you go. Okay, fun, hurry up, all right. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask if you would go out with Tory

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<v Speaker 1>on a second day. We'll pay for it, Luke. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that a real question? Come on, man, I'll pay for

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<v Speaker 1>it one more chance. All right, there you go, Luke. Hey, Tori, Wow, Tori,

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<v Speaker 1>you got your answer. Apparently Luke thought you were the

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<v Speaker 1>rudest person on the planet. I feel like he was

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<v Speaker 1>extremely pushy and I was just being courteous. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at the beginning of this phone call to Guy, ever,

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<v Speaker 1>I love him. No, I mean this is totally different.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a good time with him. But now, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean talking about my dog like this, I mean, don't

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<v Speaker 1>then he's now You still kind of want to calm

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<v Speaker 1>him though, don't you, Dory, No, no, no, no, let

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<v Speaker 1>my dog meet him again. Broken uoble in the morning,