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Speaker 1: with us for a second date update right now, Tory,

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Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you guys doing good?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for your email. Now I'm going to ask

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Speaker 1: Because he sounds like a weirdo to me. I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna get that out of the way. The guy that

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Speaker 1: reading your email. I don't even know why you want

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Speaker 1: to call him back. Oh no, no, it's not weird.

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Speaker 1: He's not. You're sure about that, because the way that

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Speaker 1: to me. Before we get into what I think is weird,

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Speaker 1: why don't you just tell us about your date a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Where'd you meet this guy? And then I'm

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Speaker 1: online there's a dating website and we were talking for

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Speaker 1: a while. What about his dating profile? Are like, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this guy, I don't know, you seem cute and me

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Speaker 1: and he hit these ice blue eyes. So so what

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Speaker 1: do you guys do for your date. We went out

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Speaker 1: I just it was going well. You know, I had

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Speaker 1: not so much during your date, at least the way

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Speaker 1: else that I don't know about, but you said that

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Speaker 1: your roommate. No, my roommate was gone, so he just

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Speaker 1: which is fine. I mean I would have I would

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Speaker 1: was an option. There were other options from to sleep,

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Speaker 1: up dated? You ready? Yeah? All right, here we gollo

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Speaker 1: all I was looking for Luke. Yeah, this is Luke.

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Speaker 1: Luke how are you. This is Jebil from Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jubil in the Morning. What this is Jebil from Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. I think

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Speaker 1: you might have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 1: her dog, okay? Me? Oh the dog bit you? What

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Speaker 1: So she didn't apologize for it or punish the dog.

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Speaker 1: She didn't do anything. She just sat there. God, you

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Speaker 1: You were breeding. No, I know that, are you? This

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Speaker 1: it one more chance. All right, there you go, Luke. Hey, Tori, Wow, Tori,

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Speaker 1: you got your answer. Apparently Luke thought you were the

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Speaker 1: rudest person on the planet. I feel like he was

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Speaker 1: extremely pushy and I was just being courteous. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: at the beginning of this phone call to Guy, ever,

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Speaker 1: I love him. No, I mean this is totally different.

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Speaker 1: I had a good time with him. But now, I

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Speaker 1: mean talking about my dog like this, I mean, don't

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Speaker 1: then he's now You still kind of want to calm

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Speaker 1: him though, don't you, Dory, No, no, no, no, let

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Speaker 1: my dog meet him again. Broken uoble in the morning,