Speaker 1: It's ide Part two and I'm one of your celebrity mentors,
Speaker 1: Cheryl Brooke, and today I'm at the iHeartRadio Music Awards
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. You guys know, on the podcast we
Speaker 1: played a fun little dating game with fellow mentor Kelly
Speaker 1: ben Simone. So today we're going to talk about how
Speaker 1: she's feeling before her big date. There was also kind
Speaker 1: of a twist since this all went down. So let's
Speaker 1: just get right into it, shall we call?
Speaker 2: You?
Speaker 1: Never met in person?
Speaker 3: I've never met in person. I mean, can you believe this?
Speaker 3: You are so beautiful.
Speaker 1: Last year, I know, so tell me about I.
Speaker 4: Haven't spoken to you in so long. This is wild.
Speaker 4: And I know we were like December. I know that's crazy.
Speaker 4: It's crazy.
Speaker 3: Mister Tennis, So he's so great, He's so nice. He
Speaker 3: is such a stellar human. It's just like he lives
Speaker 3: in LA You knew that already, I know, And I
Speaker 3: just was like, I can't.
Speaker 1: Off do I influence you whatsoever?
Speaker 3: No, But I also like, you're such a girls girl,
Speaker 3: and I love that you like really were like this
Speaker 3: is how I felt. And I think he's a great guy.
Speaker 3: It's just I just am like I'm not in La
Speaker 3: and he's just not it.
Speaker 1: Wasn't worth it for you. No, as far as and
Speaker 1: you knew right away.
Speaker 4: I knew right away.
Speaker 3: I mean I spend time with him and he's just
Speaker 3: had so much funk and I'm just like, what am
Speaker 3: I doing?
Speaker 1: Right? So then you play the dating game.
Speaker 3: Then I played the dating game, which was so much,
Speaker 3: so much fun. Say, was the best time. By the way,
Speaker 3: I'm like, I feel like I'm dating, but no, no, no,
Speaker 3: please do because you're so gorgeous you have to eventually yes, yes,
Speaker 3: oh my god, tell me. The dating game, which was hilarious.
Speaker 3: I mean it was very authentic, asking these wild questions
Speaker 3: like what just like you know, if you were going
Speaker 3: to cook for me, what would you cook? Give me
Speaker 3: your famous you know, like can't call and here you're
Speaker 3: going to be like, you know, your primal like all
Speaker 3: these primal things. Like it was really fun, I mean
Speaker 3: really fun. So one of the guys I picked, he's
Speaker 3: a doctor. He's and I didn't you don't see them,
Speaker 3: you just you know, listening to their voices. And so
Speaker 3: I was like, he's a doctor and and he he
Speaker 3: said that, he was like, I'm a doctor, and this
Speaker 3: is what I do, and he was he seemed very
Speaker 3: like organized with his thoughts and his intention and I
Speaker 3: was like, you know what, that's what I need. I'm
Speaker 3: looking for solid I'm looking for the rock. I'm not
Speaker 3: looking for the rock actual rock. No, no, not that, okay.
Speaker 4: No not yes. So I picked guy from the Golden Bachelorette.
Speaker 3: And then he asked for my cell number and he
Speaker 3: starts texting me like these novellas.
Speaker 4: And I was like, Spanish, no, it was just doesn't joke,
Speaker 4: like no, no, no, it's just like there's just so long.
Speaker 1: They're just like so beautiful monologue, like just so long.
Speaker 4: And I was like, I usually people are like, hey,
Speaker 4: what's your vibe?
Speaker 3: How are you a text her like like crazy texts
Speaker 3: photos like I'm going.
Speaker 4: To show you.
Speaker 3: But anyway, I'm like and I'm just find like that's great.
Speaker 3: That's how I text, how I text back. I'm like,
Speaker 3: that's great, sounds fun, look forward to, can't wait whatever.
Speaker 3: And it was like buth and I and I like
Speaker 3: this and I like that, and I think you'd like this,
Speaker 3: and I think you'd like that, and going on and
Speaker 3: on and on and on, and here's a photo of
Speaker 3: me without a pocket square, and I was.
Speaker 4: Like, I was like, what is going on?
Speaker 3: Then, because he knew that we were coming here, He's like, oh,
Speaker 3: by the way, I have I'm going I'm dating someone.
Speaker 3: Here's her name. And I was like, wait, I'm sorry what.
Speaker 3: Then he's like, by the way, here's her name, and
Speaker 3: then sends me more images and then I'm just like
Speaker 3: himself and I'm just I'm gonna show you.
Speaker 1: So he's a narcissist.
Speaker 3: And then I'm like, look, i'm not I'm blue.
Speaker 4: Then he shows me like how is an actor? I'm like,
Speaker 4: that's the yeah, no, not good.
Speaker 1: Red flag. Red flag.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm only into the green flags.
Speaker 1: That's right, girl.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I did meet one guy on the dating game, this
Speaker 3: guy Gary, who I'm super excited, so they're going to
Speaker 3: be run up.
Speaker 4: He came and he was he's my runner.
Speaker 1: Und and he agreed to you.
Speaker 4: He's here, he's here, he's here, so we're going to
Speaker 4: see him tonight. We have so much fun.
Speaker 1: Have you met him yet?
Speaker 4: I didn't meet him.
Speaker 3: We literally ran into each other yesterday when I got
Speaker 3: off the plane, and he's so polite, so well mannered.
Speaker 3: I was like whoa like very very elegant, very chic.
Speaker 3: That's like, yeah, I'm telling you rock, Like we don't
Speaker 3: want the rod, we want the rock.
Speaker 1: Are you walking the carpet tonight?
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm walking carpet with him.
Speaker 1: Yes, photos, that's official.
Speaker 4: He won the dating game. He deserves it. We're gonna
Speaker 4: have so much eaten.
Speaker 1: Great, Like I'm just saying it's a red carpet, like
Speaker 1: that's official. People are gonna like your faces are going
Speaker 1: to be on the cover of some magazine or some
Speaker 1: blog about like oh this is it's official, okay, And
Speaker 1: you don't care no, like you don't think that's gonna
Speaker 1: like cocklok, like because that is official, Like I normally
Speaker 1: like I don't know, don't don't ever take advice from
Speaker 1: somebody who is me right now who obviously.
Speaker 3: I always take advice from me, like sounding board. You're
Speaker 3: like my You're like my north star for dating. I'm like,
Speaker 3: that's the problem.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you right now, that is the problem.
Speaker 5: That is not you have amazing advice and you've done
Speaker 5: the work. Everyone else is like this is what I
Speaker 5: should do. I'm like, you've never done the work. You
Speaker 5: don't know what you're doing the work.
Speaker 1: Has he done the work? This guy, I don't haven't
Speaker 1: aske him yet. Well, you don't need to ask him.
Speaker 1: You can tell, you know, I just met him. You
Speaker 1: can feel it.
Speaker 4: All I did is just I watched him, like, are
Speaker 4: you excited? I am excited. He's so nice.
Speaker 1: Are you nervous?
Speaker 4: I know if I'm nervous.
Speaker 1: Are you nervous now that I'm telling you that it's official?
Speaker 1: Like it's official, you know, I'm just saying yes.
Speaker 4: But look at all these He was like.
Speaker 1: No, we're not. We're done with this guy.
Speaker 4: This is wild.
Speaker 1: That's that guy's now in the past.
Speaker 4: But why are men like that? Why?
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I mean honestly, but right away.
Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, you shouldn't have engaged.
Speaker 4: I try to be nice. No, because I met him
Speaker 4: on the pod.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be time is valued.
Speaker 4: No, I don't like to be rude, don't wan people
Speaker 4: to be alone.
Speaker 1: But this is rude, like that the monologues and the
Speaker 1: telenovelas like that is first of all, this guy has
Speaker 1: zero sense of any type of like awareness obviously zero,
Speaker 1: like the fact that he's sending you this and you're
Speaker 1: not responding for most of it, and then if you are,
Speaker 1: it's one sentence. The guy has to literally check himself.
Speaker 1: That I mean, he has no self awareness, right, That's
Speaker 1: what this tells me without even reading it.
Speaker 4: Maybe because he's an er doctor in.
Speaker 1: Doctor should not should be selfless. I'm about to interview Gary.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you are to get everything. You have
Speaker 3: to get quality. We need to know everything.
Speaker 1: What is one question that you want me to ask him?
Speaker 4: Why is he married?
Speaker 1: He was?
Speaker 4: But he's not now well either?
Speaker 1: Are you so?
Speaker 4: So you want to get why do I like literally
Speaker 4: broke it off? You want to get whatever?
Speaker 1: He wants to get married again?
Speaker 4: How about that's great?
Speaker 1: Do you want to get married again?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 3: Of course yes, I want to get married, but I
Speaker 3: don't want to have to That's why.
Speaker 4: Of course I want to get married, but I want.
Speaker 1: Real, well as supposed to fake. We're not doing fake anymore.
Speaker 4: Yes, thank you too. No no, no.
Speaker 1: It's the real deal. We're sealing it and you're really
Speaker 1: ceiling it by walking the carpet. But I can't wait
Speaker 1: to see you guys and hang out with you tonight.
Speaker 4: Wait.
Speaker 3: I'm just like literally thinking when I get when I
Speaker 3: get married, Cheryl's gonna be like's gonna be like think
Speaker 3: ding ding.
Speaker 4: I have a question, my detective test.
Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go. I got you.
Speaker 4: I love you the night.
Speaker 1: Are you gonna I think you're gonna have to move
Speaker 1: here because all your you know, dates have been definitely
Speaker 1: from California.
Speaker 4: Definitely, I mean I should move here.
Speaker 1: This is yeah, I mean first of thinks forever. So
Speaker 1: you know what, We're fine. I'm going to check in
Speaker 1: with you right after the concert, okay, and we're going
Speaker 1: to just have a little pow wow, the three of us.
Speaker 1: But first let me interview Gary. Get the tea and.
Speaker 4: I'll report back.
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, love you girl, more more, go get sexy.
Speaker 1: You are sexy. Actually, Hi Gary, my name is Cheryl Burke.
Speaker 1: Welcome to I Do Part two.
Speaker 2: Cheryl, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: Thank you of course. Well I know this is not
Speaker 1: your first rodeo. You did just finish playing a dating
Speaker 1: game with my girl Kelly.
Speaker 2: So much fun.
Speaker 1: What type of questions did she ask you? And did
Speaker 1: that make you nervous?
Speaker 2: No, it just kept it fun and exciting. One of
Speaker 2: them was to sing a song to her. Oh, and
Speaker 2: I came up with this amazing song and lyrics that
Speaker 2: I thought fit for the moment. And then another one
Speaker 2: was like.
Speaker 1: Just on the cuff, like it was just a song,
Speaker 1: you mad a.
Speaker 2: Cuff on a cuff, And then she asked us to
Speaker 2: do a cockle doo to do.
Speaker 1: That's kinky?
Speaker 2: Oh myself, that was just can.
Speaker 1: I hear your cock a doodle? Don't?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 4: Cock?
Speaker 2: Do you do? When you do what you do?
Speaker 4: I love it.
Speaker 1: You should be a voiceover for the next KFC commercial.
Speaker 2: Okay, I hope you're out there listening first.
Speaker 1: So tonight is your first date?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: Are you nervous?
Speaker 2: No, I'm more excited, I think than anything. This is
Speaker 2: such a humbling experience and more than that, just blessed
Speaker 2: to be a blessing and I'm receiving all of this
Speaker 2: in such a great way.
Speaker 1: So that's beautiful. I feel like you're very is actually
Speaker 1: really refreshing. When I walked in here, I was like,
Speaker 1: came in, as you know, all flustered, and I was like, hi,
Speaker 1: I see me. You like trying to put lipline around
Speaker 1: my face and you were just zen. So I actually
Speaker 1: will take that and I will First of all, that
Speaker 1: is a green arrow like that's a green flag for
Speaker 1: sure and an arrow. So you were runner up? Yes,
Speaker 1: now not so much, but you were. And so when
Speaker 1: she asked you to go on a date, right to
Speaker 1: go and do this tonight with her and go on
Speaker 1: your official date? Was that hard for you to accept?
Speaker 2: Or it wasn't hard at all? No, not at all.
Speaker 2: Runner up, first place, second place. I'm the guy that's
Speaker 2: you know, that gets to to go and have fun, so.
Speaker 1: Exactly not see a man with no ego is the
Speaker 1: sexiest thing in the world. Would you say ego?
Speaker 2: No ego here? I mean, you know, there's a difference
Speaker 2: in ego and confidence. I am very confident being the
Speaker 2: man that I am, and it feels good. It feels good.
Speaker 1: Tell me about yourself. Have you been married before?
Speaker 2: I have been married before. I've got two beautiful children,
Speaker 2: they're adults. I have a grandsons, and so yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I've been down that road.
Speaker 1: Would you want to get married again?
Speaker 2: I do believe in the institution of marriage. I do.
Speaker 2: In fact, I know she's right around the corner. I
Speaker 2: want to see her face, I want to hear her voice.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think it would be a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: You're talking about Kelly. So when you go into this,
Speaker 1: are you thinking about the future.
Speaker 2: I'm just in the moment. I didn't want to, but hey,
Speaker 2: stay close, sweet, we need you and I need you
Speaker 2: to all right, you stay absolutely love it.
Speaker 1: So were you just dodging a question or.
Speaker 2: I'm not really sure how to answer that. Ask me again,
Speaker 2: Ask me again.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what I just asked. You're off
Speaker 1: to a great start. Well, yeah, you are ready for
Speaker 1: the future. Yes.
Speaker 2: I like to stay in the moment. Okay, in the present,
Speaker 2: in the moment, in the present, the here, the now.
Speaker 2: This is all we have is right now. Do I
Speaker 2: look forward to the future, Absolutely, But I enjoy where
Speaker 2: I'm at right now. And what's coming is going to
Speaker 2: be a fabulous evening. I can't wait.
Speaker 1: That's right. And are you dating other people right now?
Speaker 2: The infamous dating?
Speaker 1: Because you know it's it's it's.
Speaker 2: How are we quantifying dating? Right? Dating as in going
Speaker 2: on dates? Dating is in there is one special person.
Speaker 1: What's your definition of dating?
Speaker 2: I think my definition of dating is oh my should.
Speaker 1: Anymore?
Speaker 2: You're keeping this fun in Lewis. I like that. I
Speaker 2: think of dating as taking someone out to eat on
Speaker 2: a regular basis. Just this is your date, not just
Speaker 2: for the evening, but someone that you're with and spending
Speaker 2: time with.
Speaker 1: And so when you do when you're there with somebody,
Speaker 1: are you allowed to do that with somebody else?
Speaker 2: I don't think that would be a good idea to
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 1: You're a loyal man. Yeah, yeah, what's your sign?
Speaker 2: I'm aries the ram.
Speaker 1: Oh you're in retrograde right now? My friend?
Speaker 2: Baby, what's your I don't know all that.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're on fire tonight, Yeah, going to be.
Speaker 2: On fire, outstanding. Yeah, I love it. I love you.
Speaker 1: You're great.
Speaker 2: Keep smiling. I do need you. Keep smiling.
Speaker 1: Person next to you guys all night. I'll be that.
Speaker 1: And then I'm going to interview the both of you.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I kind of get and then we're going to.
Speaker 1: Get engaged and then, like you guys, we're just gonna
Speaker 1: do it. We're gonna make it quick. We're going to
Speaker 1: go to Vegas.
Speaker 2: You know, let's do it and do it fast and
Speaker 2: then just don't look back.
Speaker 1: Correct, We're in the now.
Speaker 2: That's what's important.
Speaker 1: I love it. So what are you hoping to learn
Speaker 1: about Kelly? Are you do you have a type? Like
Speaker 1: is your type?
Speaker 2: Well, I would answer that I think all women are
Speaker 2: your type, and character is very important that comes with that,
Speaker 2: and then there are a host of other things for me.
Speaker 2: Just seeing her h in her fun moment, you know,
Speaker 2: I like, again, this is probably a third time I've
Speaker 2: mentioned this. When we stay in the moment and have
Speaker 2: as much fun as we can, and that's what I
Speaker 2: want to see in her. How much fun are you having?
Speaker 2: How much fun can I bring to your world right now?
Speaker 2: Because this only is going to be for the moment.
Speaker 2: Right now, this is all we have, So I'm looking
Speaker 2: forward to her funny out how much fun she likes
Speaker 2: to have.
Speaker 1: Do you meditate?
Speaker 2: I don't meditate. No, I pray. I pray. I'm Christian
Speaker 2: and I'm a good christ Like man. And I again,
Speaker 2: you know, I used to be afraid to say that.
Speaker 2: Why is that?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know either, I mean, but I can guess
Speaker 2: over the past six years, I have really grown to
Speaker 2: be an amazing light, if you will that I like
Speaker 2: to carry and inspire and motivate and all of those things.
Speaker 1: So I feel it. Yeah, thank you so much. I
Speaker 1: can't wait to grill you. Came no goodness, I will
Speaker 1: have my one eye.
Speaker 2: You have to be nice to me.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: Is religion one more question? Is religion important and spirituality
Speaker 1: important for you and whoever your partner will be.
Speaker 2: I think it is. I think that you have to
Speaker 2: be equally yolked in that way. I think if you
Speaker 2: have some of the same beliefs that it's very important
Speaker 2: and can go a long way. Yeah, thank you, until
Speaker 2: next time until we meet again.
Speaker 1: Seeing a bit, see you in a bite a bit.
Speaker 4: Four hours later, after the iHeartRadio Music Awards, Kelly and
Speaker 4: Gary are back from their first date.
Speaker 1: So, first of all, I do I'm going to speak
Speaker 1: of you in third person. I love him. I think
Speaker 1: he's a great guy, the best he really is.
Speaker 2: Let me warm that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I just love how his his philosophy on life?
Speaker 4: What is this philosophy? And him tell me what is
Speaker 4: your philosophy on life?
Speaker 1: Gary?
Speaker 2: Have fun, Enjoy the moment, stay in the moment. Today.
Speaker 2: This is all we have.
Speaker 4: Love that right.
Speaker 2: Now here we are. There's no tomorrow, right now here,
Speaker 2: we are.
Speaker 1: Right now, and I am don't get too comfy.
Speaker 4: Cheryl's like, that's my friend. Don't get too comfy.
Speaker 2: Philosophy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't have tomorrow. It's true. What's your philosophy
Speaker 1: of life?
Speaker 3: It's actually interesting because mine is very much the same.
Speaker 3: And you know, I always tell all my friends, I'm like,
Speaker 3: you're never going to have this conversation this way ever again.
Speaker 3: This is this is, this day is never going to
Speaker 3: come again, and so we have to really really be
Speaker 3: mindful and grateful for what we have and who we
Speaker 3: are and where we're going. So I I have the
Speaker 3: exact same philosophy.
Speaker 4: Some people are like, I mean, it's funny the boxes
Speaker 4: in my head.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I liked it. I'm keeping score. Don't worry. Now,
Speaker 1: what did you guys?
Speaker 4: What did you guys talk about? Because you were like,
Speaker 4: I'm going to talk to Gary.
Speaker 1: When we play makeup. I'll tell you. I mean, you
Speaker 1: are just like I had asked a couple of questions
Speaker 1: that you probably would be interested in hearing. Okay, do
Speaker 1: you remember how many use all of or not all
Speaker 1: of olives? The Gray Groost? Did you have? Is that
Speaker 1: the drink that was?
Speaker 2: That's my drink?
Speaker 1: Three?
Speaker 2: You got it?
Speaker 1: That's right. You could be a bartender is a listener?
Speaker 1: That is my memory?
Speaker 4: So that consider a cheese drink.
Speaker 1: Yet, so you walked the carpet. You made it kind
Speaker 1: of official. It was a crazy carpet tonight, Like it
Speaker 1: was nuts.
Speaker 4: It was wild.
Speaker 3: Yeah, to be with a bachelor and Gary on the
Speaker 3: carpet like in.
Speaker 1: Se Yeah, I can't imagine.
Speaker 4: You're like Gary Gary over here.
Speaker 1: So did you get asked? Like were people asking you?
Speaker 4: They were like, what is girl? Was shot on?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Now the teaser was? The teaser was And I said,
Speaker 2: there's so much more to come. You have to keep watching,
Speaker 2: keep watching?
Speaker 1: What exactly that part?
Speaker 4: That part?
Speaker 2: That part right there?
Speaker 1: You are so funny. Are you active on social media?
Speaker 1: You're going to have to watch.
Speaker 4: Yeah, social is going to go wi people like what's
Speaker 4: going on? Did you get everything? Wait?
Speaker 1: So how does that feel for you?
Speaker 4: It was really fun. We had such a great time.
Speaker 4: It just feels good. It feels I mean, it's fun. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean I'm I'm in such a good place. And
Speaker 3: if this would have been like a year ago, I
Speaker 3: would have been like, no, I can't do that totally.
Speaker 3: But I am in such a good place. But you know,
Speaker 3: it's interesting because Gary was like I said, I really.
Speaker 4: Appreciate being with you and we're having so much fun.
Speaker 3: And because guy, you know said that he couldn't walk
Speaker 3: the carpet because he'd fallen in love and he was
Speaker 3: going on a TV show.
Speaker 4: So I was like, that's great, and then he kept
Speaker 4: texting me saying.
Speaker 3: Was im, I don't know talking about like we haven't
Speaker 3: even met yet, and so we had such a fun time.
Speaker 1: Did she hold up to your fun standards?
Speaker 2: She totally, she exceeded it because just being her and
Speaker 2: who she is, just her personality and her character made
Speaker 2: it easy for me. Yeah. So it was fun.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, you're a good time. Yeah, you have really great
Speaker 1: energy about you. Just in case no one heard.
Speaker 4: That, I appreciate you.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: It was really interesting is that Gary was like, well,
Speaker 3: I'm you know, I was kind of like the runner
Speaker 3: up on the dating game, and so I was kind
Speaker 3: of like I.
Speaker 4: Just took someone's place. I'm like no, no, no no, because
Speaker 4: I was going to choose you. I like that. I was, well, yeah,
Speaker 4: I was going to choose you. And then I was like, wait,
Speaker 4: which I do? Whichuld I do? And I was like fine.
Speaker 1: It was the song that ultimately obviously it was meant
Speaker 1: to be.
Speaker 4: Yes, let's not talk about the past right.
Speaker 3: Right, the talk about where you are right now, what's
Speaker 3: in front of what is unfolding in front of us
Speaker 3: right now?
Speaker 4: And what is that just we're having such a good time.
Speaker 4: We had so much fun.
Speaker 1: It really was okay.
Speaker 2: What I really liked was how we were playing off
Speaker 2: of each other. The batchero meets the housewife.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. That's show itself.
Speaker 2: That is he does the cooking and the singing and
Speaker 2: she does nothing.
Speaker 4: Nothing.
Speaker 2: Well, I wanted her to I wasn't gonna say nothing.
Speaker 2: I want her to say that.
Speaker 4: I know what I was saying.
Speaker 3: I was like, house would I say these jobs our
Speaker 3: husbands they lose their lives bachelors like they get a wife,
Speaker 3: they get a family, get.
Speaker 4: We get nothing.
Speaker 1: But we're going to change that narrative.
Speaker 2: Yes, totally, totally. Yeah, she is still deserving of something
Speaker 2: so much more and bigger and grander.
Speaker 3: Cheryl is a big reason that I'm actually I'm here today.
Speaker 4: I want so much together. And Cheryl was like, you
Speaker 4: have to do the work, and the work is the work. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and it's like not just.
Speaker 3: Like sitting at the therapist and having them say like,
Speaker 3: you know, you're so great.
Speaker 1: That's the wrong work, that's the wrong therapist. She must
Speaker 1: be fired.
Speaker 3: I mean, there's certain things that Cheryl says sometimes and
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know what she's talking about, but
Speaker 3: you do. But then I googled it and I was like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, I just ask me google It means.
Speaker 2: I love you.
Speaker 1: That's so cute.
Speaker 3: Like what she was like, are your attachment, I'm like like.
Speaker 4: A super glue or.
Speaker 1: Correct.
Speaker 3: I'm more like double tape, like I can get away.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's actually more.
Speaker 4: But since learned, are you valc No, I'm not valcal.
Speaker 4: I have been valco though I have been.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank good Thank goodness. I don't think she is.
Speaker 1: Has any Have you ever been ghosted before?
Speaker 2: Me?
Speaker 4: Personally?
Speaker 1: Just like never, never.
Speaker 2: I don't know what.
Speaker 1: They're a good man, Like you're a really good man.
Speaker 1: I feel in my bones. Yeah, and my bones are
Speaker 1: right most of the time, not for me but for
Speaker 1: other people.
Speaker 2: Well, but I get that. And you know, as I
Speaker 2: told you earlier, I'm just comfortable in my own skin
Speaker 2: being the man that I am. Yeah, and I'm not
Speaker 2: afraid of me. Before it was like I was afraid
Speaker 2: to just be.
Speaker 1: Me.
Speaker 2: Right. You put up all these facades in these different things,
Speaker 2: But now I don't really care what you think or say.
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable in saying why I am in the things
Speaker 2: I like to do.
Speaker 3: And here's a perfecticular waited a hold on, but I
Speaker 3: need to give you a perfect example of him being
Speaker 3: is that we're talking you, we're talking to the press
Speaker 3: and they're like, we're talking. They're talking about Mariah Carry
Speaker 3: at the iHeartRadio Music Awards, and they're like, sing a
Speaker 3: song and Mariah has song.
Speaker 4: The song and instead of.
Speaker 3: I'm saying like, I don't know the words or whatever,
Speaker 3: he just starts singing a song with words.
Speaker 4: Like me he's made up. But that was a tone
Speaker 4: of Carry.
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, let me hear.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know that song. It's okay.
Speaker 1: I don't listen to the words.
Speaker 4: A song had like the may Carry melody. And I'm
Speaker 4: just like.
Speaker 2: We're all.
Speaker 4: Either like like song and faces like.
Speaker 2: But the words I don't really and I'm looking at
Speaker 2: kill it. She's like he just keep going.
Speaker 4: Keep saying you're doing great, You're doing great.
Speaker 1: I love that you are really comfortable in your own skin.
Speaker 2: I love.
Speaker 1: Makes them different though than your other dates.
Speaker 3: Just incredible confidence, just like really like yesterday, so we
Speaker 3: met yesterday. He's like, that's Kelly. I'm gonna say hi
Speaker 3: and say hello to her, introduce myself.
Speaker 1: So you knew what she looked like. You knew her.
Speaker 2: Of course when we did our dating game, I got
Speaker 2: a chance to see her and she didn't see us.
Speaker 4: No, I didn't.
Speaker 1: I get it.
Speaker 2: It was a dating game, you know, you don't get
Speaker 2: to see the contestant who you're you know, asking the questions.
Speaker 1: I got it. Yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 4: I like it.
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 2: The voice I'm hoping she remembered.
Speaker 4: But the voice.
Speaker 1: I was like, how can you not? I know?
Speaker 2: Both? Thanks?
Speaker 4: I was like nine nine am. Like he's just gonna
Speaker 4: like lull me to the comments. He's like, Gary, the
Speaker 4: cam out.
Speaker 1: You get paid big bucks for that? Did you guys
Speaker 1: get a little dirty dancing.
Speaker 4: In total chair dancing? Gary? Gary, guys, what do you say,
Speaker 4: like bump with me or something? No, not bump, no.
Speaker 3: Bounce, bounce He's like bouncing, I mean and skinny Like
Speaker 3: I'm like.
Speaker 4: My shoulders are just touched in with just like I'm
Speaker 4: no sure of her, believe.
Speaker 1: Me, no, one, we're not compared.
Speaker 4: I mean I don't even like I can't even move
Speaker 4: my body at all. But Gary was like literally bounce
Speaker 4: and we had we had a lot of fun. I'm like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, we're cherry dancing. Look at us, I know.
Speaker 4: And then Gary like put his arm up.
Speaker 1: Like dancing, Like, so, is there chemistry?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, she's yes, totally.
Speaker 1: I'm asking the both of you.
Speaker 3: Absolutely absolutely, Okay, great, so fun the chemistry Like the
Speaker 3: next time I talk to you, which I hope it isn't, like.
Speaker 4: Yes, not like like five months, I was like, what happened?
Speaker 4: Where's my shirt?
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I'm just a phone call me
Speaker 1: and you both are not good to Texas. I suck
Speaker 1: at that, but I hope this is something you guys
Speaker 1: continue doing now the long distance? Does that bother you?
Speaker 4: Or yeah?
Speaker 3: But you know what, like I can go in wherever
Speaker 3: I want. Yeah, there's a plane, there's a train, that's
Speaker 3: an autumn being.
Speaker 2: Like this is an international airport.
Speaker 1: Now, so it's a lot easier said than done, just
Speaker 1: saying yeah, I'm not going to be the you know,
Speaker 1: bearer of bad news. I could easily go down that
Speaker 1: rabbit hole. But because that's if you do, I hope
Speaker 1: you don't.
Speaker 4: Right because I did in all transparency.
Speaker 3: I did meet someone who was super nice, like it
Speaker 3: was from California and he's so great, but I was
Speaker 3: just like, there's no way.
Speaker 4: I mean, I live in New York City, Like I
Speaker 4: live in New York.
Speaker 1: City, but it's different now.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well also he had young, younger children too, so.
Speaker 3: I also felt like you young No, no, no, like
Speaker 3: they're they're teens.
Speaker 4: I mean, they're beautiful kids.
Speaker 3: I never met them, but I just was also like,
Speaker 3: that's like, okay, how is that.
Speaker 4: Going to work?
Speaker 3: And like we're going to have to take X amount
Speaker 3: of time in order for me to meet the kids
Speaker 3: and what's going to happen?
Speaker 4: And like I get in my head too, I'm like,
Speaker 4: you know, unfortunately I need to like shut the head of.
Speaker 1: Figure what's next for us?
Speaker 4: What is next for us? I don't know we're going
Speaker 4: to I know we have to figure it out.
Speaker 1: Do you not like to talk too far in advance,
Speaker 1: like especially you, because you.
Speaker 2: Say some dudes, I think that it's good to have
Speaker 2: a plan to look forward to something. But the gift
Speaker 2: is right now, correct, this is the gift?
Speaker 1: Yes, But you know you don't always live by that,
Speaker 1: do you?
Speaker 4: You always you'd.
Speaker 2: Be surprised how important it is.
Speaker 4: He also has a big meeting on my.
Speaker 1: Actually, I have one more question. Are you religious?
Speaker 4: I am?
Speaker 1: I know that about you.
Speaker 4: Catholic?
Speaker 1: I love it well. I am technically Catholic. I was
Speaker 1: baptized and everything. I mean, like my mom goes to church.
Speaker 1: I used to go to church every Sunday. But I
Speaker 1: do believe in God.
Speaker 4: I do too, and I mean I don't. I don't
Speaker 4: tell anyone to do anything.
Speaker 3: I just believe in spiritual integrity.
Speaker 2: The beauty is that we can all have our spirituality
Speaker 2: and the things that we believe in. I'm Christian, right,
Speaker 2: I'm not going to thumple Bible in someone's face about faith.
Speaker 2: That's great because that's what I believe in. You know,
Speaker 2: youve got to respect people for the film because.
Speaker 1: I did ask Gary today. I was like, is that
Speaker 1: important to you? And I didn't know that about you,
Speaker 1: so I didn't know.
Speaker 4: What's important to me is when people have a moral
Speaker 4: code and a moral compass. That's like really really, because.
Speaker 3: I do you know, I always try to do the
Speaker 3: right thing, even though it's not the right thing for me.
Speaker 1: But can people do that without believing in the Higher power?
Speaker 4: I don't really know.
Speaker 3: I don't really think so, because they in order to
Speaker 3: have a moral compass, you have to have respect for
Speaker 3: something bigger than yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'll give you a short one with that.
Speaker 2: If you're going to talk the talk, you got to
Speaker 2: walk the walk. And if you just talk and you
Speaker 2: don't walk, then people are looking at you saying, eh,
Speaker 2: not real, for real, Yeah, faking all this. And so
Speaker 2: if they're not true to themselves, how can they be
Speaker 2: true to their partner or anything else. Yeah, so you
Speaker 2: got to walk the walk.
Speaker 4: Yeah, just don't talk.
Speaker 1: It's hard. Thank you Kelly and Gary for letting us
Speaker 1: play keep it here on the podcast. That was so
Speaker 1: much fun and getting to hear all about your very
Speaker 1: first date that I would say I was a little
Speaker 1: bit responsible for a little bit, just a little bit.
Speaker 1: I'm like, your like weird step daughter, you know it's weird. Anyway, Listeners,
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