WEBVTT - Kelly's on a Date with a "guy" From Golden Bachelorette

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<v Speaker 1>It's ide Part two and I'm one of your celebrity mentors,

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<v Speaker 1>Cheryl Brooke, and today I'm at the iHeartRadio Music Awards

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<v Speaker 1>in Los Angeles. You guys know, on the podcast we

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<v Speaker 1>played a fun little dating game with fellow mentor Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>ben Simone. So today we're going to talk about how

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<v Speaker 1>she's feeling before her big date. There was also kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a twist since this all went down. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>just get right into it, shall we call?

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<v Speaker 2>You?

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<v Speaker 1>Never met in person?

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<v Speaker 3>I've never met in person. I mean, can you believe this?

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<v Speaker 3>You are so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Last year, I know, so tell me about I.

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<v Speaker 4>Haven't spoken to you in so long. This is wild.

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<v Speaker 4>And I know we were like December. I know that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Mister Tennis, So he's so great, He's so nice. He

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<v Speaker 3>is such a stellar human. It's just like he lives

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<v Speaker 3>in LA You knew that already, I know, And I

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<v Speaker 3>just was like, I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Off do I influence you whatsoever?

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<v Speaker 3>No, But I also like, you're such a girls girl,

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<v Speaker 3>and I love that you like really were like this

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<v Speaker 3>is how I felt. And I think he's a great guy.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just I just am like I'm not in La

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<v Speaker 3>and he's just not it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wasn't worth it for you. No, as far as and

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<v Speaker 1>you knew right away.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew right away.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I spend time with him and he's just

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<v Speaker 3>had so much funk and I'm just like, what am

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<v Speaker 3>I doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? So then you play the dating game.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I played the dating game, which was so much,

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<v Speaker 3>so much fun. Say, was the best time. By the way,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I feel like I'm dating, but no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 3>please do because you're so gorgeous you have to eventually yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, tell me. The dating game, which was hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it was very authentic, asking these wild questions

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<v Speaker 3>like what just like you know, if you were going

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<v Speaker 3>to cook for me, what would you cook? Give me

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<v Speaker 3>your famous you know, like can't call and here you're

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<v Speaker 3>going to be like, you know, your primal like all

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<v Speaker 3>these primal things. Like it was really fun, I mean

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<v Speaker 3>really fun. So one of the guys I picked, he's

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<v Speaker 3>a doctor. He's and I didn't you don't see them,

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<v Speaker 3>you just you know, listening to their voices. And so

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, he's a doctor and and he he

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<v Speaker 3>said that, he was like, I'm a doctor, and this

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<v Speaker 3>is what I do, and he was he seemed very

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<v Speaker 3>like organized with his thoughts and his intention and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, you know what, that's what I need. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>looking for solid I'm looking for the rock. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>looking for the rock actual rock. No, no, not that, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>No not yes. So I picked guy from the Golden Bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he asked for my cell number and he

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<v Speaker 3>starts texting me like these novellas.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, Spanish, no, it was just doesn't joke,

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<v Speaker 4>like no, no, no, it's just like there's just so long.

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<v Speaker 1>They're just like so beautiful monologue, like just so long.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, I usually people are like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>what's your vibe?

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<v Speaker 3>How are you a text her like like crazy texts

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<v Speaker 3>photos like I'm going.

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<v Speaker 4>To show you.

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<v Speaker 3>But anyway, I'm like and I'm just find like that's great.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how I text, how I text back. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's great, sounds fun, look forward to, can't wait whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was like buth and I and I like

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<v Speaker 3>this and I like that, and I think you'd like this,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think you'd like that, and going on and

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<v Speaker 3>on and on and on, and here's a photo of

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<v Speaker 3>me without a pocket square, and I was.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I was like, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Then, because he knew that we were coming here, He's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>by the way, I have I'm going I'm dating someone.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's her name. And I was like, wait, I'm sorry what.

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<v Speaker 3>Then he's like, by the way, here's her name, and

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<v Speaker 3>then sends me more images and then I'm just like

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<v Speaker 3>himself and I'm just I'm gonna show you.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's a narcissist.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I'm like, look, i'm not I'm blue.

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<v Speaker 4>Then he shows me like how is an actor? I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>that's the yeah, no, not good.

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<v Speaker 1>Red flag. Red flag.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I'm only into the green flags.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I did meet one guy on the dating game, this

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<v Speaker 3>guy Gary, who I'm super excited, so they're going to

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<v Speaker 3>be run up.

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<v Speaker 4>He came and he was he's my runner.

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<v Speaker 1>Und and he agreed to you.

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<v Speaker 4>He's here, he's here, he's here, so we're going to

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<v Speaker 4>see him tonight. We have so much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you met him yet?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't meet him.

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<v Speaker 3>We literally ran into each other yesterday when I got

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<v Speaker 3>off the plane, and he's so polite, so well mannered.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like whoa like very very elegant, very chic.

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<v Speaker 3>That's like, yeah, I'm telling you rock, Like we don't

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<v Speaker 3>want the rod, we want the rock.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you walking the carpet tonight?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I'm walking carpet with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, photos, that's official.

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<v Speaker 4>He won the dating game. He deserves it. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>have so much eaten.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, Like I'm just saying it's a red carpet, like

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<v Speaker 1>that's official. People are gonna like your faces are going

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the cover of some magazine or some

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<v Speaker 1>blog about like oh this is it's official, okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>you don't care no, like you don't think that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>like cocklok, like because that is official, Like I normally

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, don't don't ever take advice from

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who is me right now who obviously.

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<v Speaker 3>I always take advice from me, like sounding board. You're

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<v Speaker 3>like my You're like my north star for dating. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna tell you right now, that is the problem.

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<v Speaker 5>That is not you have amazing advice and you've done

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<v Speaker 5>the work. Everyone else is like this is what I

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<v Speaker 5>should do. I'm like, you've never done the work. You

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<v Speaker 5>don't know what you're doing the work.

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<v Speaker 1>Has he done the work? This guy, I don't haven't

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<v Speaker 1>aske him yet. Well, you don't need to ask him.

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<v Speaker 1>You can tell, you know, I just met him. You

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<v Speaker 1>can feel it.

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<v Speaker 4>All I did is just I watched him, like, are

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<v Speaker 4>you excited? I am excited. He's so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you nervous?

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<v Speaker 4>I know if I'm nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you nervous now that I'm telling you that it's official?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's official, you know, I'm just saying yes.

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<v Speaker 4>But look at all these He was like.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we're not. We're done with this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>This is wild.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that guy's now in the past.

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<v Speaker 4>But why are men like that? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know, I mean honestly, but right away.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, first of all, you shouldn't have engaged.

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<v Speaker 4>I try to be nice. No, because I met him

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<v Speaker 4>on the pod.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be time is valued.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't like to be rude, don't wan people

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<v Speaker 4>to be alone.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is rude, like that the monologues and the

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<v Speaker 1>telenovelas like that is first of all, this guy has

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<v Speaker 1>zero sense of any type of like awareness obviously zero,

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<v Speaker 1>like the fact that he's sending you this and you're

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<v Speaker 1>not responding for most of it, and then if you are,

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<v Speaker 1>it's one sentence. The guy has to literally check himself.

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<v Speaker 1>That I mean, he has no self awareness, right, That's

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<v Speaker 1>what this tells me without even reading it.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe because he's an er doctor in.

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<v Speaker 1>Doctor should not should be selfless. I'm about to interview Gary.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, you are to get everything. You have

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<v Speaker 3>to get quality. We need to know everything.

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<v Speaker 1>What is one question that you want me to ask him?

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<v Speaker 4>Why is he married?

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<v Speaker 1>He was?

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<v Speaker 4>But he's not now well either?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you so?

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<v Speaker 4>So you want to get why do I like literally

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<v Speaker 4>broke it off? You want to get whatever?

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to get married again?

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<v Speaker 4>How about that's great?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to get married again?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Of course yes, I want to get married, but I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to have to That's why.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course I want to get married, but I want.

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<v Speaker 1>Real, well as supposed to fake. We're not doing fake anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, thank you too. No no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the real deal. We're sealing it and you're really

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<v Speaker 1>ceiling it by walking the carpet. But I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to see you guys and hang out with you tonight.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like literally thinking when I get when I

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<v Speaker 3>get married, Cheryl's gonna be like's gonna be like think

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<v Speaker 3>ding ding.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a question, my detective test.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go, let's go. I got you.

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<v Speaker 4>I love you the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you gonna I think you're gonna have to move

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<v Speaker 1>here because all your you know, dates have been definitely

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<v Speaker 1>from California.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely, I mean I should move here.

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<v Speaker 1>This is yeah, I mean first of thinks forever. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, We're fine. I'm going to check in

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<v Speaker 1>with you right after the concert, okay, and we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to just have a little pow wow, the three of us.

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<v Speaker 1>But first let me interview Gary. Get the tea and.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll report back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, love you girl, more more, go get sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>You are sexy. Actually, Hi Gary, my name is Cheryl Burke.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to I Do Part two.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheryl, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you of course. Well I know this is not

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<v Speaker 1>your first rodeo. You did just finish playing a dating

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<v Speaker 1>game with my girl Kelly.

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<v Speaker 2>So much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>What type of questions did she ask you? And did

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<v Speaker 1>that make you nervous?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it just kept it fun and exciting. One of

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<v Speaker 2>them was to sing a song to her. Oh, and

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<v Speaker 2>I came up with this amazing song and lyrics that

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<v Speaker 2>I thought fit for the moment. And then another one

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<v Speaker 2>was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Just on the cuff, like it was just a song,

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<v Speaker 1>you mad a.

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<v Speaker 2>Cuff on a cuff, And then she asked us to

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<v Speaker 2>do a cockle doo to do.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kinky?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh myself, that was just can.

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<v Speaker 1>I hear your cock a doodle? Don't?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Cock?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you do? When you do what you do?

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<v Speaker 4>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>You should be a voiceover for the next KFC commercial.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I hope you're out there listening first.

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<v Speaker 1>So tonight is your first date?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you nervous?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm more excited, I think than anything. This is

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<v Speaker 2>such a humbling experience and more than that, just blessed

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<v Speaker 2>to be a blessing and I'm receiving all of this

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<v Speaker 2>in such a great way.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's beautiful. I feel like you're very is actually

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<v Speaker 1>really refreshing. When I walked in here, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>came in, as you know, all flustered, and I was like, hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I see me. You like trying to put lipline around

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<v Speaker 1>my face and you were just zen. So I actually

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<v Speaker 1>will take that and I will First of all, that

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<v Speaker 1>is a green arrow like that's a green flag for

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<v Speaker 1>sure and an arrow. So you were runner up? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>now not so much, but you were. And so when

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<v Speaker 1>she asked you to go on a date, right to

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<v Speaker 1>go and do this tonight with her and go on

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<v Speaker 1>your official date? Was that hard for you to accept?

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<v Speaker 2>Or it wasn't hard at all? No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Runner up, first place, second place. I'm the guy that's

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<v Speaker 2>you know, that gets to to go and have fun, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly not see a man with no ego is the

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<v Speaker 1>sexiest thing in the world. Would you say ego?

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<v Speaker 2>No ego here? I mean, you know, there's a difference

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<v Speaker 2>in ego and confidence. I am very confident being the

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<v Speaker 2>man that I am, and it feels good. It feels good.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me about yourself. Have you been married before?

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<v Speaker 2>I have been married before. I've got two beautiful children,

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<v Speaker 2>they're adults. I have a grandsons, and so yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been down that road.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you want to get married again?

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<v Speaker 2>I do believe in the institution of marriage. I do.

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<v Speaker 2>In fact, I know she's right around the corner. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to see her face, I want to hear her voice.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I think it would be a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking about Kelly. So when you go into this,

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<v Speaker 1>are you thinking about the future.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just in the moment. I didn't want to, but hey,

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<v Speaker 2>stay close, sweet, we need you and I need you

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<v Speaker 2>to all right, you stay absolutely love it.

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<v Speaker 1>So were you just dodging a question or.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not really sure how to answer that. Ask me again,

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<v Speaker 2>Ask me again.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what I just asked. You're off

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<v Speaker 1>to a great start. Well, yeah, you are ready for

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<v Speaker 1>the future. Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to stay in the moment. Okay, in the present,

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<v Speaker 2>in the moment, in the present, the here, the now.

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<v Speaker 2>This is all we have is right now. Do I

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<v Speaker 2>look forward to the future, Absolutely, But I enjoy where

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<v Speaker 2>I'm at right now. And what's coming is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be a fabulous evening. I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. And are you dating other people right now?

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<v Speaker 2>The infamous dating?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you know it's it's it's.

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<v Speaker 2>How are we quantifying dating? Right? Dating as in going

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<v Speaker 2>on dates? Dating is in there is one special person.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your definition of dating?

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<v Speaker 2>I think my definition of dating is oh my should.

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<v Speaker 1>Anymore?

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<v Speaker 2>You're keeping this fun in Lewis. I like that. I

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<v Speaker 2>think of dating as taking someone out to eat on

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<v Speaker 2>a regular basis. Just this is your date, not just

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<v Speaker 2>for the evening, but someone that you're with and spending

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<v Speaker 2>time with.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when you do when you're there with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>are you allowed to do that with somebody else?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that would be a good idea to

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<v Speaker 2>do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a loyal man. Yeah, yeah, what's your sign?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm aries the ram.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're in retrograde right now? My friend?

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, what's your I don't know all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're on fire tonight, Yeah, going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>On fire, outstanding. Yeah, I love it. I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're great.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep smiling. I do need you. Keep smiling.

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<v Speaker 1>Person next to you guys all night. I'll be that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm going to interview the both of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, I kind of get and then we're going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get engaged and then, like you guys, we're just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do it. We're gonna make it quick. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>go to Vegas.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, let's do it and do it fast and

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<v Speaker 2>then just don't look back.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct, We're in the now.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what's important.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. So what are you hoping to learn

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<v Speaker 1>about Kelly? Are you do you have a type? Like

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<v Speaker 1>is your type?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I would answer that I think all women are

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<v Speaker 2>your type, and character is very important that comes with that,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there are a host of other things for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Just seeing her h in her fun moment, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I like, again, this is probably a third time I've

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<v Speaker 2>mentioned this. When we stay in the moment and have

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<v Speaker 2>as much fun as we can, and that's what I

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<v Speaker 2>want to see in her. How much fun are you having?

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<v Speaker 2>How much fun can I bring to your world right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Because this only is going to be for the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, this is all we have, So I'm looking

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<v Speaker 2>forward to her funny out how much fun she likes

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<v Speaker 2>to have.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you meditate?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't meditate. No, I pray. I pray. I'm Christian

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm a good christ Like man. And I again,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I used to be afraid to say that.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know either, I mean, but I can guess

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<v Speaker 2>over the past six years, I have really grown to

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<v Speaker 2>be an amazing light, if you will that I like

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<v Speaker 2>to carry and inspire and motivate and all of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel it. Yeah, thank you so much. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to grill you. Came no goodness, I will

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<v Speaker 1>have my one eye.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be nice to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Is religion one more question? Is religion important and spirituality

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<v Speaker 1>important for you and whoever your partner will be.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it is. I think that you have to

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<v Speaker 2>be equally yolked in that way. I think if you

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<v Speaker 2>have some of the same beliefs that it's very important

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<v Speaker 2>and can go a long way. Yeah, thank you, until

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<v Speaker 2>next time until we meet again.

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<v Speaker 1>Seeing a bit, see you in a bite a bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Four hours later, after the iHeartRadio Music Awards, Kelly and

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<v Speaker 4>Gary are back from their first date.

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<v Speaker 1>So, first of all, I do I'm going to speak

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<v Speaker 1>of you in third person. I love him. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he's a great guy, the best he really is.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me warm that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, I just love how his his philosophy on life?

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<v Speaker 4>What is this philosophy? And him tell me what is

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<v Speaker 4>your philosophy on life?

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<v Speaker 1>Gary?

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<v Speaker 2>Have fun, Enjoy the moment, stay in the moment. Today.

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<v Speaker 2>This is all we have.

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<v Speaker 4>Love that right.

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<v Speaker 2>Now here we are. There's no tomorrow, right now here,

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<v Speaker 2>we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, and I am don't get too comfy.

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<v Speaker 4>Cheryl's like, that's my friend. Don't get too comfy.

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<v Speaker 2>Philosophy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we don't have tomorrow. It's true. What's your philosophy

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<v Speaker 1>of life?

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually interesting because mine is very much the same.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, I always tell all my friends, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>you're never going to have this conversation this way ever again.

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<v Speaker 3>This is this is, this day is never going to

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<v Speaker 3>come again, and so we have to really really be

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<v Speaker 3>mindful and grateful for what we have and who we

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<v Speaker 3>are and where we're going. So I I have the

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<v Speaker 3>exact same philosophy.

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<v Speaker 4>Some people are like, I mean, it's funny the boxes

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<v Speaker 4>in my head.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I liked it. I'm keeping score. Don't worry. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you guys?

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<v Speaker 4>What did you guys talk about? Because you were like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to talk to Gary.

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<v Speaker 1>When we play makeup. I'll tell you. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>are just like I had asked a couple of questions

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<v Speaker 1>that you probably would be interested in hearing. Okay, do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember how many use all of or not all

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<v Speaker 1>of olives? The Gray Groost? Did you have? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the drink that was?

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<v Speaker 2>That's my drink?

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<v Speaker 1>Three?

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<v Speaker 2>You got it?

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. You could be a bartender is a listener?

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<v Speaker 1>That is my memory?

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<v Speaker 4>So that consider a cheese drink.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet, so you walked the carpet. You made it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of official. It was a crazy carpet tonight, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>was nuts.

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<v Speaker 4>It was wild.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, to be with a bachelor and Gary on the

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<v Speaker 3>carpet like in.

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<v Speaker 1>Se Yeah, I can't imagine.

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<v Speaker 4>You're like Gary Gary over here.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you get asked? Like were people asking you?

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<v Speaker 4>They were like, what is girl? Was shot on?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Now the teaser was? The teaser was And I said,

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<v Speaker 2>there's so much more to come. You have to keep watching,

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<v Speaker 2>keep watching?

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<v Speaker 1>What exactly that part?

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<v Speaker 4>That part?

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<v Speaker 2>That part right there?

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<v Speaker 1>You are so funny. Are you active on social media?

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to have to watch.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, social is going to go wi people like what's

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<v Speaker 4>going on? Did you get everything? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>So how does that feel for you?

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<v Speaker 4>It was really fun. We had such a great time.

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<v Speaker 4>It just feels good. It feels I mean, it's fun. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I'm I'm in such a good place. And

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<v Speaker 3>if this would have been like a year ago, I

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<v Speaker 3>would have been like, no, I can't do that totally.

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<v Speaker 3>But I am in such a good place. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's interesting because Gary was like I said, I really.

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<v Speaker 4>Appreciate being with you and we're having so much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>And because guy, you know said that he couldn't walk

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<v Speaker 3>the carpet because he'd fallen in love and he was

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<v Speaker 3>going on a TV show.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was like, that's great, and then he kept

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<v Speaker 4>texting me saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Was im, I don't know talking about like we haven't

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<v Speaker 3>even met yet, and so we had such a fun time.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she hold up to your fun standards?

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<v Speaker 2>She totally, she exceeded it because just being her and

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<v Speaker 2>who she is, just her personality and her character made

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<v Speaker 2>it easy for me. Yeah. So it was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, you're a good time. Yeah, you have really great

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<v Speaker 1>energy about you. Just in case no one heard.

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<v Speaker 4>That, I appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>It was really interesting is that Gary was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm you know, I was kind of like the runner

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<v Speaker 3>up on the dating game, and so I was kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like I.

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<v Speaker 4>Just took someone's place. I'm like no, no, no no, because

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to choose you. I like that. I was, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to choose you. And then I was like, wait,

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<v Speaker 4>which I do? Whichuld I do? And I was like fine.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the song that ultimately obviously it was meant

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<v Speaker 1>to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, let's not talk about the past right.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, the talk about where you are right now, what's

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<v Speaker 3>in front of what is unfolding in front of us

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<v Speaker 3>right now?

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<v Speaker 4>And what is that just we're having such a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>We had so much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It really was okay.

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<v Speaker 2>What I really liked was how we were playing off

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<v Speaker 2>of each other. The batchero meets the housewife.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. That's show itself.

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<v Speaker 2>That is he does the cooking and the singing and

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<v Speaker 2>she does nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I wanted her to I wasn't gonna say nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>I want her to say that.

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<v Speaker 4>I know what I was saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, house would I say these jobs our

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<v Speaker 3>husbands they lose their lives bachelors like they get a wife,

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<v Speaker 3>they get a family, get.

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<v Speaker 4>We get nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're going to change that narrative.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, totally, totally. Yeah, she is still deserving of something

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<v Speaker 2>so much more and bigger and grander.

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<v Speaker 3>Cheryl is a big reason that I'm actually I'm here today.

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<v Speaker 4>I want so much together. And Cheryl was like, you

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<v Speaker 4>have to do the work, and the work is the work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's like not just.

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<v Speaker 3>Like sitting at the therapist and having them say like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you're so great.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the wrong work, that's the wrong therapist. She must

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<v Speaker 1>be fired.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, there's certain things that Cheryl says sometimes and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I don't know what she's talking about, but

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<v Speaker 3>you do. But then I googled it and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, I just ask me google It means.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Like what she was like, are your attachment, I'm like like.

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<v Speaker 4>A super glue or.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm more like double tape, like I can get away.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's actually more.

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<v Speaker 4>But since learned, are you valc No, I'm not valcal.

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<v Speaker 4>I have been valco though I have been.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank good Thank goodness. I don't think she is.

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<v Speaker 1>Has any Have you ever been ghosted before?

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<v Speaker 2>Me?

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<v Speaker 4>Personally?

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<v Speaker 1>Just like never, never.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 1>They're a good man, Like you're a really good man.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel in my bones. Yeah, and my bones are

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<v Speaker 1>right most of the time, not for me but for

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<v Speaker 1>other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, but I get that. And you know, as I

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<v Speaker 2>told you earlier, I'm just comfortable in my own skin

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<v Speaker 2>being the man that I am. Yeah, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>afraid of me. Before it was like I was afraid

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<v Speaker 2>to just be.

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<v Speaker 1>Me.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. You put up all these facades in these different things,

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<v Speaker 2>But now I don't really care what you think or say.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm comfortable in saying why I am in the things

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<v Speaker 2>I like to do.

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<v Speaker 3>And here's a perfecticular waited a hold on, but I

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<v Speaker 3>need to give you a perfect example of him being

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<v Speaker 3>is that we're talking you, we're talking to the press

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<v Speaker 3>and they're like, we're talking. They're talking about Mariah Carry

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<v Speaker 3>at the iHeartRadio Music Awards, and they're like, sing a

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<v Speaker 3>song and Mariah has song.

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<v Speaker 4>The song and instead of.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying like, I don't know the words or whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>he just starts singing a song with words.

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<v Speaker 4>Like me he's made up. But that was a tone

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<v Speaker 4>of Carry.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just like, let me hear.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I don't know that song. It's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't listen to the words.

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<v Speaker 4>A song had like the may Carry melody. And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just like.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all.

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<v Speaker 4>Either like like song and faces like.

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<v Speaker 2>But the words I don't really and I'm looking at

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<v Speaker 2>kill it. She's like he just keep going.

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<v Speaker 4>Keep saying you're doing great, You're doing great.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you are really comfortable in your own skin.

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<v Speaker 2>I love.

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<v Speaker 1>Makes them different though than your other dates.

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<v Speaker 3>Just incredible confidence, just like really like yesterday, so we

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<v Speaker 3>met yesterday. He's like, that's Kelly. I'm gonna say hi

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<v Speaker 3>and say hello to her, introduce myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So you knew what she looked like. You knew her.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course when we did our dating game, I got

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<v Speaker 2>a chance to see her and she didn't see us.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a dating game, you know, you don't get

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<v Speaker 2>to see the contestant who you're you know, asking the questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. Yeah, that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 4>I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>The voice I'm hoping she remembered.

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<v Speaker 4>But the voice.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, how can you not? I know?

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<v Speaker 2>Both? Thanks?

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<v Speaker 4>I was like nine nine am. Like he's just gonna

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<v Speaker 4>like lull me to the comments. He's like, Gary, the

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<v Speaker 4>cam out.

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<v Speaker 1>You get paid big bucks for that? Did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>get a little dirty dancing.

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<v Speaker 4>In total chair dancing? Gary? Gary, guys, what do you say,

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<v Speaker 4>like bump with me or something? No, not bump, no.

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<v Speaker 3>Bounce, bounce He's like bouncing, I mean and skinny Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like.

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<v Speaker 4>My shoulders are just touched in with just like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>no sure of her, believe.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, no, one, we're not compared.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I don't even like I can't even move

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<v Speaker 4>my body at all. But Gary was like literally bounce

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<v Speaker 4>and we had we had a lot of fun. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my god, we're cherry dancing. Look at us, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>And then Gary like put his arm up.

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<v Speaker 1>Like dancing, Like, so, is there chemistry?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, she's yes, totally.

0:27:36.680 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm asking the both of you.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely absolutely, Okay, great, so fun the chemistry Like the

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<v Speaker 3>next time I talk to you, which I hope it isn't, like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, not like like five months, I was like, what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Where's my shirt?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, first of all, I'm just a phone call me

0:27:52.440 --> 0:27:55.960
<v Speaker 1>and you both are not good to Texas. I suck

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<v Speaker 1>at that, but I hope this is something you guys

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<v Speaker 1>continue doing now the long distance? Does that bother you?

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<v Speaker 4>Or yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>But you know what, like I can go in wherever

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<v Speaker 3>I want. Yeah, there's a plane, there's a train, that's

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<v Speaker 3>an autumn being.

0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:12.240
<v Speaker 2>Like this is an international airport.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, so it's a lot easier said than done, just

0:28:14.520 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 1>saying yeah, I'm not going to be the you know,

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:21.280
<v Speaker 1>bearer of bad news. I could easily go down that

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:24.840
<v Speaker 1>rabbit hole. But because that's if you do, I hope

0:28:24.880 --> 0:28:25.440
<v Speaker 1>you don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Right because I did in all transparency.

0:28:27.200 --> 0:28:29.600
<v Speaker 3>I did meet someone who was super nice, like it

0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:33.800
<v Speaker 3>was from California and he's so great, but I was

0:28:33.840 --> 0:28:35.280
<v Speaker 3>just like, there's no way.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I live in New York City, Like I

0:28:37.480 --> 0:28:38.360
<v Speaker 4>live in New York.

0:28:38.200 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 1>City, but it's different now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well also he had young, younger children too, so.

0:28:43.720 --> 0:28:46.840
<v Speaker 3>I also felt like you young No, no, no, like

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:47.959
<v Speaker 3>they're they're teens.

0:28:47.960 --> 0:28:48.920
<v Speaker 4>I mean, they're beautiful kids.

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<v Speaker 3>I never met them, but I just was also like,

0:28:51.640 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 3>that's like, okay, how is that.

0:28:53.760 --> 0:28:54.320
<v Speaker 4>Going to work?

0:28:54.640 --> 0:28:56.360
<v Speaker 3>And like we're going to have to take X amount

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<v Speaker 3>of time in order for me to meet the kids

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<v Speaker 3>and what's going to happen?

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<v Speaker 4>And like I get in my head too, I'm like,

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:04.760
<v Speaker 4>you know, unfortunately I need to like shut the head of.

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<v Speaker 1>Figure what's next for us?

0:29:07.800 --> 0:29:09.480
<v Speaker 4>What is next for us? I don't know we're going

0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 4>to I know we have to figure it out.

0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:14.479
<v Speaker 1>Do you not like to talk too far in advance,

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:15.640
<v Speaker 1>like especially you, because you.

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<v Speaker 2>Say some dudes, I think that it's good to have

0:29:24.520 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 2>a plan to look forward to something. But the gift

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:31.280
<v Speaker 2>is right now, correct, this is the gift?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, But you know you don't always live by that,

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<v Speaker 1>do you?

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<v Speaker 4>You always you'd.

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<v Speaker 2>Be surprised how important it is.

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<v Speaker 4>He also has a big meeting on my.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, I have one more question. Are you religious?

0:29:47.240 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 4>I am?

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:48.920
<v Speaker 1>I know that about you.

0:29:49.400 --> 0:29:49.840
<v Speaker 4>Catholic?

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>I love it well. I am technically Catholic. I was

0:29:54.880 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 1>baptized and everything. I mean, like my mom goes to church.

0:29:56.760 --> 0:29:58.959
<v Speaker 1>I used to go to church every Sunday. But I

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<v Speaker 1>do believe in God.

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<v Speaker 4>I do too, and I mean I don't. I don't

0:30:04.040 --> 0:30:05.680
<v Speaker 4>tell anyone to do anything.

0:30:05.760 --> 0:30:13.320
<v Speaker 3>I just believe in spiritual integrity.

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<v Speaker 2>The beauty is that we can all have our spirituality

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 2>and the things that we believe in. I'm Christian, right,

0:30:20.560 --> 0:30:23.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to thumple Bible in someone's face about faith.

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 2>That's great because that's what I believe in. You know,

0:30:27.440 --> 0:30:29.520
<v Speaker 2>youve got to respect people for the film because.

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<v Speaker 1>I did ask Gary today. I was like, is that

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<v Speaker 1>important to you? And I didn't know that about you,

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<v Speaker 1>so I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 4>What's important to me is when people have a moral

0:30:35.960 --> 0:30:40.360
<v Speaker 4>code and a moral compass. That's like really really, because.

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<v Speaker 3>I do you know, I always try to do the

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<v Speaker 3>right thing, even though it's not the right thing for me.

0:30:46.440 --> 0:30:48.680
<v Speaker 1>But can people do that without believing in the Higher power?

0:30:49.160 --> 0:30:49.800
<v Speaker 4>I don't really know.

0:30:50.120 --> 0:30:52.280
<v Speaker 3>I don't really think so, because they in order to

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<v Speaker 3>have a moral compass, you have to have respect for

0:30:56.240 --> 0:30:57.760
<v Speaker 3>something bigger than yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I'll give you a short one with that.

0:31:00.400 --> 0:31:02.120
<v Speaker 2>If you're going to talk the talk, you got to

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<v Speaker 2>walk the walk. And if you just talk and you

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<v Speaker 2>don't walk, then people are looking at you saying, eh,

0:31:08.480 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 2>not real, for real, Yeah, faking all this. And so

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:16.600
<v Speaker 2>if they're not true to themselves, how can they be

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:20.360
<v Speaker 2>true to their partner or anything else. Yeah, so you

0:31:20.400 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 2>got to walk the walk.

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:22.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just don't talk.

0:31:24.440 --> 0:31:27.200
<v Speaker 1>It's hard. Thank you Kelly and Gary for letting us

0:31:27.240 --> 0:31:29.479
<v Speaker 1>play keep it here on the podcast. That was so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun and getting to hear all about your very

0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:35.080
<v Speaker 1>first date that I would say I was a little

0:31:35.080 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 1>bit responsible for a little bit, just a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, your like weird step daughter, you know it's weird. Anyway, Listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking to you. Are you struggling with dating like

0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I am? Clearly need some help in that area. Just

0:31:49.240 --> 0:31:52.120
<v Speaker 1>let us know, call us or email us, follow us

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<v Speaker 1>on socials. All the information will be in the show notes.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure to rate and review this podcast. I do

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<v Speaker 1>Part two and I art radio podcast where falling in

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<v Speaker 1>love is the main objective. People, Okay, get with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Get with it my main objective, but maybe ours. I'm

0:32:11.520 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 1>not vain. I'm not vain. We're just like, we're just need.

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<v Speaker 2>You.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm strong, we're strong.