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Speaker 1: It's ide Part two and I'm one of your celebrity mentors,

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Speaker 1: Cheryl Brooke, and today I'm at the iHeartRadio Music Awards

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Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. You guys know, on the podcast we

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Speaker 1: played a fun little dating game with fellow mentor Kelly

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Speaker 1: ben Simone. So today we're going to talk about how

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Speaker 1: she's feeling before her big date. There was also kind

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Speaker 1: of a twist since this all went down. So let's

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Speaker 1: just get right into it, shall we call?

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 1: Never met in person?

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Speaker 3: I've never met in person. I mean, can you believe this?

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Speaker 3: You are so beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Last year, I know, so tell me about I.

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Speaker 4: Haven't spoken to you in so long. This is wild.

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Speaker 4: And I know we were like December. I know that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: It's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Mister Tennis, So he's so great, He's so nice. He

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Speaker 3: is such a stellar human. It's just like he lives

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Speaker 3: in LA You knew that already, I know, And I

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Speaker 3: just was like, I can't.

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Speaker 1: Off do I influence you whatsoever?

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Speaker 3: No, But I also like, you're such a girls girl,

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Speaker 3: and I love that you like really were like this

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Speaker 3: is how I felt. And I think he's a great guy.

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Speaker 3: It's just I just am like I'm not in La

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Speaker 3: and he's just not it.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't worth it for you. No, as far as and

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Speaker 1: you knew right away.

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Speaker 4: I knew right away.

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Speaker 3: I mean I spend time with him and he's just

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Speaker 3: I doing?

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Speaker 1: Right? So then you play the dating game.

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Speaker 3: Then I played the dating game, which was so much,

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Speaker 3: so much fun. Say, was the best time. By the way,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I feel like I'm dating, but no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: please do because you're so gorgeous you have to eventually yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, tell me. The dating game, which was hilarious.

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Speaker 3: I mean it was very authentic, asking these wild questions

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Speaker 3: like what just like you know, if you were going

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Speaker 3: to cook for me, what would you cook? Give me

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Speaker 3: your famous you know, like can't call and here you're

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Speaker 3: going to be like, you know, your primal like all

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Speaker 3: these primal things. Like it was really fun, I mean

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Speaker 3: really fun. So one of the guys I picked, he's

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Speaker 3: a doctor. He's and I didn't you don't see them,

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Speaker 3: you just you know, listening to their voices. And so

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Speaker 3: I was like, he's a doctor and and he he

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Speaker 3: said that, he was like, I'm a doctor, and this

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Speaker 3: like organized with his thoughts and his intention and I

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Speaker 3: was like, you know what, that's what I need. I'm

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Speaker 3: looking for solid I'm looking for the rock. I'm not

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Speaker 3: looking for the rock actual rock. No, no, not that, okay.

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Speaker 4: No not yes. So I picked guy from the Golden Bachelorette.

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Speaker 3: And then he asked for my cell number and he

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Speaker 3: starts texting me like these novellas.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, Spanish, no, it was just doesn't joke,

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Speaker 4: like no, no, no, it's just like there's just so long.

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Speaker 1: They're just like so beautiful monologue, like just so long.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, I usually people are like, hey,

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Speaker 4: what's your vibe?

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Speaker 3: How are you a text her like like crazy texts

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Speaker 3: photos like I'm going.

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Speaker 4: To show you.

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Speaker 3: But anyway, I'm like and I'm just find like that's great.

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Speaker 3: That's how I text, how I text back. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: that's great, sounds fun, look forward to, can't wait whatever.

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Speaker 3: And it was like buth and I and I like

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Speaker 3: and I think you'd like that, and going on and

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Speaker 3: on and on and on, and here's a photo of

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Speaker 3: me without a pocket square, and I was.

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Speaker 4: Like, I was like, what is going on?

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Speaker 3: Then, because he knew that we were coming here, He's like, oh,

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Speaker 3: by the way, I have I'm going I'm dating someone.

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Speaker 3: Here's her name. And I was like, wait, I'm sorry what.

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Speaker 3: Then he's like, by the way, here's her name, and

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Speaker 3: then sends me more images and then I'm just like

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Speaker 1: So he's a narcissist.

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Speaker 3: And then I'm like, look, i'm not I'm blue.

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Speaker 4: Then he shows me like how is an actor? I'm like,

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Speaker 4: that's the yeah, no, not good.

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Speaker 1: Red flag. Red flag.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm only into the green flags.

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Speaker 1: That's right, girl.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I did meet one guy on the dating game, this

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Speaker 3: guy Gary, who I'm super excited, so they're going to

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Speaker 4: He came and he was he's my runner.

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Speaker 1: Und and he agreed to you.

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Speaker 4: He's here, he's here, he's here, so we're going to

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Speaker 4: see him tonight. We have so much fun.

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Speaker 1: Have you met him yet?

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Speaker 4: I didn't meet him.

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Speaker 3: We literally ran into each other yesterday when I got

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Speaker 3: off the plane, and he's so polite, so well mannered.

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Speaker 3: I was like whoa like very very elegant, very chic.

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Speaker 3: That's like, yeah, I'm telling you rock, Like we don't

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Speaker 1: Are you walking the carpet tonight?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm walking carpet with him.

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Speaker 1: Yes, photos, that's official.

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Speaker 4: He won the dating game. He deserves it. We're gonna

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Speaker 4: have so much eaten.

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Speaker 1: Great, Like I'm just saying it's a red carpet, like

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Speaker 1: that's official. People are gonna like your faces are going

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Speaker 1: to be on the cover of some magazine or some

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Speaker 1: blog about like oh this is it's official, okay, And

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Speaker 1: you don't care no, like you don't think that's gonna

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Speaker 1: like cocklok, like because that is official, Like I normally

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Speaker 1: like I don't know, don't don't ever take advice from

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Speaker 3: I always take advice from me, like sounding board. You're

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Speaker 3: like my You're like my north star for dating. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: that's the problem.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you right now, that is the problem.

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Speaker 5: That is not you have amazing advice and you've done

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Speaker 5: the work. Everyone else is like this is what I

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Speaker 5: should do. I'm like, you've never done the work. You

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Speaker 5: don't know what you're doing the work.

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Speaker 1: Has he done the work? This guy, I don't haven't

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Speaker 1: aske him yet. Well, you don't need to ask him.

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Speaker 1: You can tell, you know, I just met him. You

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Speaker 1: can feel it.

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Speaker 4: All I did is just I watched him, like, are

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Speaker 4: you excited? I am excited. He's so nice.

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Speaker 1: Are you nervous?

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Speaker 4: I know if I'm nervous.

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Speaker 1: Are you nervous now that I'm telling you that it's official?

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Speaker 1: Like it's official, you know, I'm just saying yes.

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Speaker 4: But look at all these He was like.

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Speaker 1: No, we're not. We're done with this guy.

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Speaker 4: This is wild.

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Speaker 1: That's that guy's now in the past.

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Speaker 4: But why are men like that? Why?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I mean honestly, but right away.

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Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, you shouldn't have engaged.

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Speaker 4: I try to be nice. No, because I met him

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to be time is valued.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't like to be rude, don't wan people

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Speaker 4: to be alone.

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Speaker 1: But this is rude, like that the monologues and the

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Speaker 1: telenovelas like that is first of all, this guy has

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Speaker 1: zero sense of any type of like awareness obviously zero,

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Speaker 1: like the fact that he's sending you this and you're

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Speaker 1: not responding for most of it, and then if you are,

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Speaker 1: it's one sentence. The guy has to literally check himself.

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Speaker 1: That I mean, he has no self awareness, right, That's

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Speaker 1: what this tells me without even reading it.

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Speaker 4: Maybe because he's an er doctor in.

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Speaker 1: Doctor should not should be selfless. I'm about to interview Gary.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you are to get everything. You have

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Speaker 3: to get quality. We need to know everything.

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Speaker 1: What is one question that you want me to ask him?

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Speaker 4: Why is he married?

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Speaker 1: He was?

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Speaker 4: But he's not now well either?

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Speaker 1: Are you so?

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Speaker 4: So you want to get why do I like literally

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Speaker 4: broke it off? You want to get whatever?

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Speaker 1: He wants to get married again?

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Speaker 4: How about that's great?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to get married again?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Of course yes, I want to get married, but I

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Speaker 3: don't want to have to That's why.

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Speaker 4: Of course I want to get married, but I want.

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Speaker 1: Real, well as supposed to fake. We're not doing fake anymore.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thank you too. No no, no.

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Speaker 1: It's the real deal. We're sealing it and you're really

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Speaker 1: ceiling it by walking the carpet. But I can't wait

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Speaker 1: to see you guys and hang out with you tonight.

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Speaker 4: Wait.

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Speaker 3: I'm just like literally thinking when I get when I

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Speaker 3: get married, Cheryl's gonna be like's gonna be like think

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Speaker 3: ding ding.

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Speaker 4: I have a question, my detective test.

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Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go. I got you.

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Speaker 4: I love you the night.

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna I think you're gonna have to move

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Speaker 1: here because all your you know, dates have been definitely

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Speaker 4: Definitely, I mean I should move here.

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Speaker 1: This is yeah, I mean first of thinks forever. So

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Speaker 1: you know what, We're fine. I'm going to check in

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Speaker 1: with you right after the concert, okay, and we're going

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Speaker 1: to just have a little pow wow, the three of us.

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Speaker 1: But first let me interview Gary. Get the tea and.

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Speaker 4: I'll report back.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, love you girl, more more, go get sexy.

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Speaker 1: You are sexy. Actually, Hi Gary, my name is Cheryl Burke.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to I Do Part two.

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Speaker 2: Cheryl, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Thank you of course. Well I know this is not

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Speaker 1: your first rodeo. You did just finish playing a dating

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Speaker 1: game with my girl Kelly.

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Speaker 2: So much fun.

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Speaker 1: What type of questions did she ask you? And did

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Speaker 1: that make you nervous?

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Speaker 2: No, it just kept it fun and exciting. One of

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Speaker 2: them was to sing a song to her. Oh, and

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Speaker 2: I came up with this amazing song and lyrics that

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Speaker 2: I thought fit for the moment. And then another one

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Speaker 2: was like.

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Speaker 1: Just on the cuff, like it was just a song,

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Speaker 1: you mad a.

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Speaker 2: Cuff on a cuff, And then she asked us to

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Speaker 2: do a cockle doo to do.

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Speaker 1: That's kinky?

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Speaker 2: Oh myself, that was just can.

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Speaker 1: I hear your cock a doodle? Don't?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: Cock?

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Speaker 2: Do you do? When you do what you do?

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 1: You should be a voiceover for the next KFC commercial.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I hope you're out there listening first.

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Speaker 1: So tonight is your first date?

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Speaker 1: That's right. And are you dating other people right now?

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Speaker 2: You're keeping this fun in Lewis. I like that. I

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Speaker 1: And so when you do when you're there with somebody,

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Speaker 1: You're a loyal man. Yeah, yeah, what's your sign?

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Speaker 2: I'm aries the ram.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're in retrograde right now? My friend?

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Speaker 2: Baby, what's your I don't know all that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're on fire tonight, Yeah, going to be.

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Speaker 2: Keep smiling. I do need you. Keep smiling.

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Speaker 1: Person next to you guys all night. I'll be that.

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Speaker 1: And then I'm going to interview the both of you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I kind of get and then we're going to.

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Speaker 2: You know, let's do it and do it fast and

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Speaker 2: then just don't look back.

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Speaker 1: Correct, We're in the now.

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Speaker 2: That's what's important.

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Speaker 1: I love it. So what are you hoping to learn

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Speaker 2: Well, I would answer that I think all women are

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Speaker 2: How much fun can I bring to your world right now?

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Speaker 1: Do you meditate?

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Speaker 2: I don't meditate. No, I pray. I pray. I'm Christian

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Speaker 2: Why is that?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know either, I mean, but I can guess

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Speaker 2: over the past six years, I have really grown to

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Speaker 1: So I feel it. Yeah, thank you so much. I

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Speaker 2: You have to be nice to me.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: Is religion one more question? Is religion important and spirituality

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Speaker 2: I think it is. I think that you have to

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Speaker 2: and can go a long way. Yeah, thank you, until

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Speaker 2: next time until we meet again.

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Speaker 1: Seeing a bit, see you in a bite a bit.

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Speaker 4: Four hours later, after the iHeartRadio Music Awards, Kelly and

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Speaker 1: So, first of all, I do I'm going to speak

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Speaker 1: of you in third person. I love him. I think

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Speaker 2: Let me warm that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I just love how his his philosophy on life?

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Speaker 4: What is this philosophy? And him tell me what is

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Speaker 1: Gary?

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Speaker 2: Have fun, Enjoy the moment, stay in the moment. Today.

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Speaker 2: This is all we have.

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Speaker 4: Love that right.

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Speaker 2: Now here we are. There's no tomorrow, right now here,

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Speaker 1: Right now, and I am don't get too comfy.

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Speaker 4: Cheryl's like, that's my friend. Don't get too comfy.

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Speaker 2: Philosophy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't have tomorrow. It's true. What's your philosophy

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Speaker 3: It's actually interesting because mine is very much the same.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I always tell all my friends, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: This is this is, this day is never going to

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Speaker 4: Some people are like, I mean, it's funny the boxes

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I liked it. I'm keeping score. Don't worry. Now,

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Speaker 4: What did you guys talk about? Because you were like,

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Speaker 4: I'm going to talk to Gary.

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Speaker 1: When we play makeup. I'll tell you. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: you remember how many use all of or not all

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Speaker 2: That's my drink?

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Speaker 1: Three?

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Speaker 2: You got it?

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Speaker 1: That's right. You could be a bartender is a listener?

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Speaker 1: That is my memory?

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Speaker 4: So that consider a cheese drink.

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Speaker 1: Yet, so you walked the carpet. You made it kind

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Speaker 4: It was wild.

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Speaker 4: You're like Gary Gary over here.

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Speaker 1: So did you get asked? Like were people asking you?

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Speaker 4: They were like, what is girl? Was shot on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Now the teaser was? The teaser was And I said,

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Speaker 2: keep watching?

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Speaker 1: What exactly that part?

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Speaker 4: That part?

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Speaker 2: That part right there?

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Speaker 1: You are so funny. Are you active on social media?

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Speaker 1: You're going to have to watch.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, social is going to go wi people like what's

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Speaker 1: So how does that feel for you?

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Speaker 4: It was really fun. We had such a great time.

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Speaker 4: It just feels good. It feels I mean, it's fun. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But I am in such a good place. But you know,

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Speaker 4: Appreciate being with you and we're having so much fun.

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Speaker 3: And because guy, you know said that he couldn't walk

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Speaker 4: So I was like, that's great, and then he kept

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Speaker 3: Was im, I don't know talking about like we haven't

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Speaker 1: Did she hold up to your fun standards?

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Speaker 2: She totally, she exceeded it because just being her and

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, you're a good time. Yeah, you have really great

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Speaker 4: That, I appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: Just took someone's place. I'm like no, no, no no, because

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Speaker 4: which I do? Whichuld I do? And I was like fine.

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Speaker 1: It was the song that ultimately obviously it was meant

449
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Speaker 1: to be.

450
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 4: Yes, let's not talk about the past right.

451
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:43,119
Speaker 3: Right, the talk about where you are right now, what's

452
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 3: in front of what is unfolding in front of us

453
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 3: right now?

454
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 4: And what is that just we're having such a good time.

455
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 4: We had so much fun.

456
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:51,919
Speaker 1: It really was okay.

457
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 2: What I really liked was how we were playing off

458
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 2: of each other. The batchero meets the housewife.

459
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. That's show itself.

460
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 2: That is he does the cooking and the singing and

461
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 2: she does nothing.

462
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:10,959
Speaker 4: Nothing.

463
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:15,680
Speaker 2: Well, I wanted her to I wasn't gonna say nothing.

464
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 2: I want her to say that.

465
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 4: I know what I was saying.

466
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 3: I was like, house would I say these jobs our

467
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 3: husbands they lose their lives bachelors like they get a wife,

468
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,160
Speaker 3: they get a family, get.

469
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 4: We get nothing.

470
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 1: But we're going to change that narrative.

471
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 2: Yes, totally, totally. Yeah, she is still deserving of something

472
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 2: so much more and bigger and grander.

473
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: Cheryl is a big reason that I'm actually I'm here today.

474
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 4: I want so much together. And Cheryl was like, you

475
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,400
Speaker 4: have to do the work, and the work is the work. Yeah,

476
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 4: and it's like not just.

477
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 3: Like sitting at the therapist and having them say like,

478
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 3: you know, you're so great.

479
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 1: That's the wrong work, that's the wrong therapist. She must

480
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 1: be fired.

481
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 3: I mean, there's certain things that Cheryl says sometimes and

482
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know what she's talking about, but

483
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 3: you do. But then I googled it and I was like,

484
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 3: oh my god, I just ask me google It means.

485
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:19,439
Speaker 2: I love you.

486
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: That's so cute.

487
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 3: Like what she was like, are your attachment, I'm like like.

488
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 4: A super glue or.

489
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: Correct.

490
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 3: I'm more like double tape, like I can get away.

491
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's actually more.

492
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 4: But since learned, are you valc No, I'm not valcal.

493
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 4: I have been valco though I have been.

494
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank good Thank goodness. I don't think she is.

495
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: Has any Have you ever been ghosted before?

496
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 2: Me?

497
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:01,880
Speaker 4: Personally?

498
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 1: Just like never, never.

499
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 2: I don't know what.

500
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 1: They're a good man, Like you're a really good man.

501
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: I feel in my bones. Yeah, and my bones are

502
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: right most of the time, not for me but for

503
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: other people.

504
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 2: Well, but I get that. And you know, as I

505
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 2: told you earlier, I'm just comfortable in my own skin

506
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: being the man that I am. Yeah, and I'm not

507
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,479
Speaker 2: afraid of me. Before it was like I was afraid

508
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 2: to just be.

509
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: Me.

510
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 2: Right. You put up all these facades in these different things,

511
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 2: But now I don't really care what you think or say.

512
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable in saying why I am in the things

513
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 2: I like to do.

514
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 3: And here's a perfecticular waited a hold on, but I

515
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 3: need to give you a perfect example of him being

516
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 3: is that we're talking you, we're talking to the press

517
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 3: and they're like, we're talking. They're talking about Mariah Carry

518
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 3: at the iHeartRadio Music Awards, and they're like, sing a

519
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 3: song and Mariah has song.

520
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:04,880
Speaker 4: The song and instead of.

521
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 3: I'm saying like, I don't know the words or whatever,

522
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 3: he just starts singing a song with words.

523
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 4: Like me he's made up. But that was a tone

524
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 4: of Carry.

525
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:19,120
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, let me hear.

526
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know that song. It's okay.

527
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: I don't listen to the words.

528
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 4: A song had like the may Carry melody. And I'm

529
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 4: just like.

530
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 2: We're all.

531
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 4: Either like like song and faces like.

532
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 2: But the words I don't really and I'm looking at

533
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 2: kill it. She's like he just keep going.

534
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 4: Keep saying you're doing great, You're doing great.

535
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 1: I love that you are really comfortable in your own skin.

536
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 2: I love.

537
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 1: Makes them different though than your other dates.

538
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:05,239
Speaker 3: Just incredible confidence, just like really like yesterday, so we

539
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,880
Speaker 3: met yesterday. He's like, that's Kelly. I'm gonna say hi

540
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 3: and say hello to her, introduce myself.

541
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: So you knew what she looked like. You knew her.

542
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 2: Of course when we did our dating game, I got

543
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 2: a chance to see her and she didn't see us.

544
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 4: No, I didn't.

545
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: I get it.

546
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 2: It was a dating game, you know, you don't get

547
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 2: to see the contestant who you're you know, asking the questions.

548
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 1: I got it. Yeah, that makes sense.

549
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 4: I like it.

550
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 1: I like it.

551
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 2: The voice I'm hoping she remembered.

552
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 4: But the voice.

553
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: I was like, how can you not? I know?

554
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: Both? Thanks?

555
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 4: I was like nine nine am. Like he's just gonna

556
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 4: like lull me to the comments. He's like, Gary, the

557
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 4: cam out.

558
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: You get paid big bucks for that? Did you guys

559
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: get a little dirty dancing.

560
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 4: In total chair dancing? Gary? Gary, guys, what do you say,

561
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 4: like bump with me or something? No, not bump, no.

562
00:26:56,040 --> 00:27:03,479
Speaker 3: Bounce, bounce He's like bouncing, I mean and skinny Like

563
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 3: I'm like.

564
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 4: My shoulders are just touched in with just like I'm

565
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 4: no sure of her, believe.

566
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: Me, no, one, we're not compared.

567
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 4: I mean I don't even like I can't even move

568
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 4: my body at all. But Gary was like literally bounce

569
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 4: and we had we had a lot of fun. I'm like,

570
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 4: oh my god, we're cherry dancing. Look at us, I know.

571
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 4: And then Gary like put his arm up.

572
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,719
Speaker 1: Like dancing, Like, so, is there chemistry?

573
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 4: Yes?

574
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, she's yes, totally.

575
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm asking the both of you.

576
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 3: Absolutely absolutely, Okay, great, so fun the chemistry Like the

577
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 3: next time I talk to you, which I hope it isn't, like.

578
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 4: Yes, not like like five months, I was like, what happened?

579
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 4: Where's my shirt?

580
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I'm just a phone call me

581
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: and you both are not good to Texas. I suck

582
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: at that, but I hope this is something you guys

583
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: continue doing now the long distance? Does that bother you?

584
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 4: Or yeah?

585
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 3: But you know what, like I can go in wherever

586
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 3: I want. Yeah, there's a plane, there's a train, that's

587
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 3: an autumn being.

588
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 2: Like this is an international airport.

589
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: Now, so it's a lot easier said than done, just

590
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: saying yeah, I'm not going to be the you know,

591
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: bearer of bad news. I could easily go down that

592
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: rabbit hole. But because that's if you do, I hope

593
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: you don't.

594
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 4: Right because I did in all transparency.

595
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 3: I did meet someone who was super nice, like it

596
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 3: was from California and he's so great, but I was

597
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 3: just like, there's no way.

598
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 4: I mean, I live in New York City, Like I

599
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 4: live in New York.

600
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: City, but it's different now.

601
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

602
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 4: Well also he had young, younger children too, so.

603
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 3: I also felt like you young No, no, no, like

604
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:47,959
Speaker 3: they're they're teens.

605
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 4: I mean, they're beautiful kids.

606
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 3: I never met them, but I just was also like,

607
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 3: that's like, okay, how is that.

608
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 4: Going to work?

609
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 3: And like we're going to have to take X amount

610
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 3: of time in order for me to meet the kids

611
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 3: and what's going to happen?

612
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 4: And like I get in my head too, I'm like,

613
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 4: you know, unfortunately I need to like shut the head of.

614
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: Figure what's next for us?

615
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 4: What is next for us? I don't know we're going

616
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 4: to I know we have to figure it out.

617
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,479
Speaker 1: Do you not like to talk too far in advance,

618
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: like especially you, because you.

619
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: Say some dudes, I think that it's good to have

620
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: a plan to look forward to something. But the gift

621
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 2: is right now, correct, this is the gift?

622
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: Yes, But you know you don't always live by that,

623
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: do you?

624
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 4: You always you'd.

625
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 2: Be surprised how important it is.

626
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 4: He also has a big meeting on my.

627
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: Actually, I have one more question. Are you religious?

628
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 4: I am?

629
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: I know that about you.

630
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 4: Catholic?

631
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: I love it well. I am technically Catholic. I was

632
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: baptized and everything. I mean, like my mom goes to church.

633
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,959
Speaker 1: I used to go to church every Sunday. But I

634
00:29:59,000 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: do believe in God.

635
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 4: I do too, and I mean I don't. I don't

636
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 4: tell anyone to do anything.

637
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 3: I just believe in spiritual integrity.

638
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 2: The beauty is that we can all have our spirituality

639
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 2: and the things that we believe in. I'm Christian, right,

640
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 2: I'm not going to thumple Bible in someone's face about faith.

641
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 2: That's great because that's what I believe in. You know,

642
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 2: youve got to respect people for the film because.

643
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: I did ask Gary today. I was like, is that

644
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: important to you? And I didn't know that about you,

645
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: so I didn't know.

646
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 4: What's important to me is when people have a moral

647
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 4: code and a moral compass. That's like really really, because.

648
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 3: I do you know, I always try to do the

649
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 3: right thing, even though it's not the right thing for me.

650
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: But can people do that without believing in the Higher power?

651
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 4: I don't really know.

652
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 3: I don't really think so, because they in order to

653
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 3: have a moral compass, you have to have respect for

654
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 3: something bigger than yourself.

655
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'll give you a short one with that.

656
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 2: If you're going to talk the talk, you got to

657
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 2: walk the walk. And if you just talk and you

658
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 2: don't walk, then people are looking at you saying, eh,

659
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 2: not real, for real, Yeah, faking all this. And so

660
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 2: if they're not true to themselves, how can they be

661
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 2: true to their partner or anything else. Yeah, so you

662
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: got to walk the walk.

663
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, just don't talk.

664
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: It's hard. Thank you Kelly and Gary for letting us

665
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,479
Speaker 1: play keep it here on the podcast. That was so

666
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 1: much fun and getting to hear all about your very

667
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: first date that I would say I was a little

668
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: bit responsible for a little bit, just a little bit.

669
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, your like weird step daughter, you know it's weird. Anyway, Listeners,

670
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Speaker 1: I'm talking to you. Are you struggling with dating like

671
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: I am? Clearly need some help in that area. Just

672
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: let us know, call us or email us, follow us

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Speaker 1: on socials. All the information will be in the show notes.

674
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Speaker 1: Make sure to rate and review this podcast. I do

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Speaker 1: Part two and I art radio podcast where falling in

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Speaker 1: love is the main objective. People, Okay, get with it.

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Speaker 1: Get with it my main objective, but maybe ours. I'm

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Speaker 1: not vain. I'm not vain. We're just like, we're just need.

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Speaker 2: You.

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Speaker 1: I'm strong, we're strong.