WEBVTT - RHOA EXCLUSIVE: Kelli Potter Tells ALL

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<v Speaker 1>Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey

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<v Speaker 1>and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and

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<v Speaker 1>Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the

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<v Speaker 1>Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in

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<v Speaker 1>addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or

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<v Speaker 1>scripted as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I went through a real life trauma situation. So

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<v Speaker 2>when when people try and use that against me as

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm creating this for a storyline, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't need to make a storyline. My life was already

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<v Speaker 2>a fucking shit show. I didn't have to pull this

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<v Speaker 2>person in, hire this person to come in and create

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<v Speaker 2>these narratives like that really was my life. If you

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<v Speaker 2>ask my friends, if you ask my family, if you

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<v Speaker 2>ask my people, they will tell you not. A girl

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<v Speaker 2>really went through hell and she was just strong enough

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<v Speaker 2>to show it where she said, I'm no longer going

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<v Speaker 2>to allow this person to put my back against the wall.

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly Potter, you have made it on Carlos King's College.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not Samiya's I love it. Yeah, listen, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Really do enjoy you on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>And I hope you know that I do feel that,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I really, you know, I love watching y'alla.

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<v Speaker 3>So do you watch Month and Alive?

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<v Speaker 2>I watch you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Watch so I watch. I love because I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to hear like what everyone thinks. You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's always good to hear from a different perspective. I

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<v Speaker 2>I love you because baby, you like me one week

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<v Speaker 2>and next week you've giving it to my ass. That's fair,

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<v Speaker 2>You're very fair. I can't be like, well, he shows favoritism,

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<v Speaker 2>like even with Claudia, right, Like, you know, I love

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<v Speaker 2>me some Claudia, Me and Claudia talk.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we were talking good kay.

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<v Speaker 2>Dustin love him that. I really do love Dustin. He's

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<v Speaker 2>such a fucking vibe. He's such a vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Blue, it's Blue tough on you.

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<v Speaker 2>Blue, I like Pink. I don't know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>If me and Blue went to school together and she

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<v Speaker 2>just be like having a moment, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>it is. I don't know if she just doesn't understand me,

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<v Speaker 2>or if she's just meant to not understand me. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't understand, but.

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<v Speaker 4>Blue shout out to Blue, Blue, Blue is good, Blue

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<v Speaker 4>loves you.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, Blue don't love me. No, no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 3>The the think is this.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, thank you for that, because when we

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<v Speaker 1>recap Atlanta Housewives number one, I appreciate when a reality

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<v Speaker 1>star can say, you know what, y'all call me out,

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<v Speaker 1>but then y'all also say give her a chance, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And it goes week to week and this season. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been recapping alant of housewives for the past four years

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<v Speaker 1>since the podcast started, but this season of Housewives of Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 1>it has divided the audience, and the audience seems to

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<v Speaker 1>be extremely opinionated.

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<v Speaker 3>Which I love.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad at it, but I do feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the one thing I never want. I never want the

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<v Speaker 1>reality star to feed off of the energy of their

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<v Speaker 1>fan base.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard. That is a very hard thing when I

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<v Speaker 2>came on this platform, and I'm so glad that you

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<v Speaker 2>said that, right, because so many people don't realize my

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<v Speaker 2>first season it isn't as bad as my second season.

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<v Speaker 2>So I had to realize, like the fans, they really

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<v Speaker 2>do start to connect with you. But when they're connecting

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<v Speaker 2>with you. They're only connecting with a clip of you.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not connecting with the full you. And that gets

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<v Speaker 2>hard in regards to us, right, because you know how

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<v Speaker 2>it is when you film, so many things get cut out,

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<v Speaker 2>so many things are not shown, so many things are

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<v Speaker 2>happening behind the scenes, and it gets to a point

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<v Speaker 2>where it's like, for me, I feel like it's harder

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<v Speaker 2>for a fans to connect with me because they don't

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<v Speaker 2>have a fuller they don't have a full understanding of

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<v Speaker 2>who I am. Right, So when I'm like when I'm

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<v Speaker 2>out outsee people and they be like, girl, we know

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<v Speaker 2>you know, da da da da, right, Like, we understand.

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<v Speaker 2>But then you're online and it's like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>that's when all of the hate and the hardship comes

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<v Speaker 2>from the fans, and that could be very challenging. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean that that could be a lot on a person's

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<v Speaker 2>mental when you're dealing with that, and I have to

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<v Speaker 2>laugh at it because a lot of it isn't true.

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<v Speaker 2>But then you know, I'm a mom and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want those things to like affect my children and my

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<v Speaker 2>business and my family, And that's when those things become difficult.

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<v Speaker 2>When fans are meant to have this misunderstanding and misinterpretation

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<v Speaker 2>about your true life and who you really are.

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<v Speaker 3>That becomes a very yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why one thing I do love about my

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<v Speaker 1>panelist is we only stick to the episode.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why I appreciate that. Yeah, that's why I

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate I appreciate the blogs and the people who actually

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<v Speaker 2>like recap and really not just have an opinion just

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<v Speaker 2>for clicks and views, but to really say, you know what, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you should actually give her a chance or

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<v Speaker 2>a hey, no, y'all didn't listen. Maybe y'all didn't watch

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<v Speaker 2>the episode. Maybe you're just taking clips from social media

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<v Speaker 2>and making an opinion based upon that, right, And that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I do appreciate about the blogs, you know, not

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<v Speaker 2>only yourself and Claudia and Destin and Blue right, the

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<v Speaker 2>other people as well, right, Because I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 2>so important when people have recaps to share their different perspectives.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you have the show that's a one perspective, but

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<v Speaker 2>then you have the blogs and the influencers who are

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<v Speaker 2>deep diving in on the real who are doing the

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<v Speaker 2>time and actually doing the work on our real lives.

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<v Speaker 2>And that is the part that I do appreciate, so

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<v Speaker 2>it helps me to navigate with the fans. So I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like they kind of share my story a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit deeper than the episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Has this been a tough season for you mental health wise?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me so.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, my first season, I went into the season

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<v Speaker 2>with no expectations, right because I didn't know what the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck I was doing. I mean, I knew what I

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<v Speaker 2>was doing, I knew what I signed up for, but

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know what to expect from the fans, from

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<v Speaker 2>the audience, and truly how reality TV works, because in

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<v Speaker 2>all reality, I did cooking shows. I didn't share my reality.

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<v Speaker 2>I just share recipes. So when I'm sharing a recipe

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<v Speaker 2>of my life, it looks different, right. I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>control over that. You have control over making spaghetti, don't

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<v Speaker 2>have control over making Kelly and her refiguring out what

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<v Speaker 2>her life truly looks like after this crazy ass divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>So for me, it was first season. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>go into it. I'm in the midst of finally finalizing

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<v Speaker 2>my divorce. I'm on the show. I'm still living a

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<v Speaker 2>pretty good, decent life.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>The second season really took a turn for me. It

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<v Speaker 2>took a turn in so many ways. It took a

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<v Speaker 2>turn financially. And when I say financially, it's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I invested all this money into this restaurant. I finally

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<v Speaker 2>finally got divorced. I'm still not receiving the money I

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<v Speaker 2>was to receive. It was, you know, I sent my

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<v Speaker 2>daughter off to college. I sent Chloe off to college,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was just it was a lot. It was

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<v Speaker 2>I had to move quickly because of my crazy neighbor.

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<v Speaker 2>It just became it was so many different things that

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<v Speaker 2>powered up on me that I had no control over

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<v Speaker 2>my life for a second season. That was the one

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<v Speaker 2>time probably in my life, even throughout my divorce, that

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<v Speaker 2>I had to I felt like I didn't have control

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<v Speaker 2>over what was happening. Right Like, for instance, when when

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<v Speaker 2>I first left my husband, I controlled that I left.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew financially what I looked like. I knew where

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<v Speaker 2>I would be, I knew where I would move, I knew,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, all of the things. This was the first

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<v Speaker 2>time in my life where I felt like, fuck, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't control it. I literally have to let God just

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<v Speaker 2>do what it is that he needs to do and

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<v Speaker 2>move me wherever it is that I need to move,

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<v Speaker 2>and I also have to do this and share it

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<v Speaker 2>with the world. Also have to do this and share

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<v Speaker 2>it with these women who some are so called my

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<v Speaker 2>friends and others like to use your downfalls as their storylines,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. So it was difficult for me.

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<v Speaker 2>The second season was really difficult, just trying to find myself,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to stay strong for my children and still mentally

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<v Speaker 2>be sane to stand up not only from my children,

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<v Speaker 2>from my business, for my family, but for me most

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<v Speaker 2>importantly for me, so I can walk out of it

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<v Speaker 2>and be okay. And I did have my moments where

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don't know if I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be here. I don't know if this is for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Yes, yeah, because I mean it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one thing to deal with the drama from your castmates,

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<v Speaker 2>but then when it airs and you have to deal

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<v Speaker 2>with it from the audience. That's why people don't realize.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like you have to relive this three times.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to actually relive it, right, you live it

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<v Speaker 2>as you're filming in real time, in real time, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>then you have to deal with it from you know,

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<v Speaker 2>your real life, and then you have to deal with

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<v Speaker 2>it from the audience perspective. That's a really difficult thing

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<v Speaker 2>to do because it's like, oh, fuck, now I got

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<v Speaker 2>different feelings because the audience feels different about how I

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<v Speaker 2>should have handled it. Did I handle it right? Then

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<v Speaker 2>you started questioning yourself like, well, should I've spoken up

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more? Did I handle it right? I

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<v Speaker 2>mean that that becomes a difficult task for people.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the thing for me when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>realogy sorrs, because I always try to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>the audience understands that they're only seeing forty two minutes

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<v Speaker 1>of an episode, and on top of that, have a

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<v Speaker 1>little grace, you know, like, listen, we are here to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it. Be opinionated. I refuse to ever allow

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<v Speaker 1>anybody on my stage or or be a part of

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation to where the vituol is so demeaning to

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<v Speaker 1>the point where you're making fun of a woman who's

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<v Speaker 1>going through a divorce, who is losing things in real time,

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<v Speaker 1>whose ex husband is preventing her from making money by

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<v Speaker 1>not allowing the children to be seen.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't I can't imagine how that makes you feel.

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<v Speaker 1>What I would like to talk to you about And

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<v Speaker 1>I know we can't talk much about the ex husband

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<v Speaker 1>because we're going through legally, but did you ever think

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<v Speaker 1>in a million years the man you married and who

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<v Speaker 1>fathered your girls would be the same man who will

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<v Speaker 1>sue you and do these things to.

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<v Speaker 2>You never you're Goetna told me in a million years,

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<v Speaker 2>And I mean I put that on that. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that is the most hurtful thing that you go through

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<v Speaker 2>when you go through divorce, because the person you marry

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<v Speaker 2>is not the person you divorced, right, And you don't

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<v Speaker 2>believe that until you actually go through it. You got

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<v Speaker 2>to think about I was married to this man for

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<v Speaker 2>eleven years. Okay, this wasn't a one and done, let

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<v Speaker 2>me marry you for what I can get type of situation.

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<v Speaker 2>This was a you know, no matter how he looks,

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<v Speaker 2>no matter his position that he's in now, I really

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<v Speaker 2>did love that man. I had children with him, I

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<v Speaker 2>married him, we started businesses, and we lived a very

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<v Speaker 2>good life. Right. Was it perfect? Absolutely not? Did we

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<v Speaker 2>have our issues? Absolutely? Did it get ugly, absolute fucking lutely,

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<v Speaker 2>But when it comes to where it led us, I

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<v Speaker 2>would have never thought we would have went down that road.

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<v Speaker 2>You couldn't that was a person that it scared me.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to think about it. I went through so

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<v Speaker 2>many moments, Carlos that I've never talked about. Where I

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<v Speaker 2>me and my children went to hotels while I were married,

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<v Speaker 2>you why we were going through our separation, where and

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<v Speaker 2>car after I took my kids carpool, Like I went

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<v Speaker 2>through a real life trauma situation. So when when people

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<v Speaker 2>try and use that against me as if I'm creating

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<v Speaker 2>this for a storyline, I don't. I didn't need to

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<v Speaker 2>make a storyline. My life was already a fucking shit show.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't have to pull this person in, hire this

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<v Speaker 2>person to come in and create these narratives like that

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<v Speaker 2>really was my life. If you ask my friends, if

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<v Speaker 2>you ask my family, if you ask my people, they

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<v Speaker 2>will tell you not. That girl really went through hell

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<v Speaker 2>and she was just strong enough to show it where

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<v Speaker 2>she said, I'm no longer gonna allow this person to

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<v Speaker 2>put my back against the wall. If I got to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with this, I'm shared with the world. And see

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<v Speaker 2>that's where it went left. He never thought that I

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<v Speaker 2>would be in a position to share what he's done

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<v Speaker 2>to me to the world. That creates a monster. You

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<v Speaker 2>were able to get away with those things for so long.

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<v Speaker 2>You can get away with you know, making the threats

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<v Speaker 2>and taking things away and all of the things right,

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<v Speaker 2>You could get away with it because I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>the platform to share it. Who would share their trauma

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<v Speaker 2>on social media when they're a business owner and they're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to just get customers and patrons in. You wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>share that. I would never share. I wouldn't share that

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<v Speaker 2>with my employees. My employees didn't even know what I

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<v Speaker 2>was going through. They had no clue, They had no

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<v Speaker 2>clue whatsoever. So when I shared it finally, it was

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<v Speaker 2>like triggering to him clearly right, it was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>she's getting me back. Now I have to go for

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<v Speaker 2>it and not stop. And the only thing that I

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<v Speaker 2>could see in my mind was my children. That was

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<v Speaker 2>the only that was the only thing I cared about.

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<v Speaker 2>When you are a mother and you you bear children,

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<v Speaker 2>and you have children, it's no man, woman or person

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<v Speaker 2>that can come in between you of them. My main

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<v Speaker 2>goal was to protect them. My main goal was to

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<v Speaker 2>protect them at all costs, no matter what. And I

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<v Speaker 2>never wanted them to feel the heaviness of what I

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<v Speaker 2>have went through. And they did at times. My kids

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<v Speaker 2>came and found me crying on the bathroom floor many

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<v Speaker 2>days literally, and I don't want to cry about it,

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<v Speaker 2>but to be a mother of daughters and to have

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<v Speaker 2>them see me fight, they know, they are very well aware.

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<v Speaker 2>They seen police at our house, They seen police at

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<v Speaker 2>our house, They seen the fighting, They seen like the

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<v Speaker 2>things that were were happening and transpiring, like I never

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<v Speaker 2>wanted them to see that and witness that and feel that.

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<v Speaker 2>I always wanted them to have this perfect, happy home,

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<v Speaker 2>right because in our community and our culture, that's rare.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted them to have a two parent household. I

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<v Speaker 2>never wanted to be in this position. But I also

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<v Speaker 2>knew that I didn't want to be in that position either.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's one thing to fight with that, and then

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like at the same time, simultaneously you're

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<v Speaker 1>fighting with the audience.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fighting with the audience and it comes too much.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fighting with the audience to share my truth when

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking that me sharing my truth will help the

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<v Speaker 2>next person, right, because I'm fighting with the I'm fighting

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<v Speaker 2>with my cast members who are thinking that I'm using

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<v Speaker 2>this as a storyline.

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<v Speaker 3>The cast members think that some of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when we were at when I was at my

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<v Speaker 2>first reunion, I think it was Portia and Phedra who

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<v Speaker 2>basically said, like I had security as a storyline, like Kenny.

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<v Speaker 2>Kenny has been with me when I was married. That

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<v Speaker 2>has always been my security, when I had my cookbook,

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<v Speaker 2>when I was doing book tours. Kenny is not a prop.

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<v Speaker 2>Kenny is a real life person who protects people at

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<v Speaker 2>all costs. He protects Martin Luther King's daughter. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>He's not i' wanna hear it for a prop. This

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<v Speaker 2>is that's his real job. That's who he really is.

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<v Speaker 2>I had him prior to me even filing for divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>Kenny has been there with me when I was literally

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<v Speaker 2>in the midst of tears. Kenny was there with me

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<v Speaker 2>when I was threatened in court. Kenny knows exactly what

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<v Speaker 2>has happened. So when Kenny comes to protect me, he's

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<v Speaker 2>not there to impress these ladies. He don't give a

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<v Speaker 2>damn about these ladies. He could care less. He's there

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure that I can go back home to

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<v Speaker 2>my children and I can show up to graduations and weddings.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why he's there, because he knows what I'm dealing

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<v Speaker 2>with in real life, not show life, in my real life.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's the part that frustrates me with some of

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<v Speaker 2>these ladies because they think that I'm here to create

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<v Speaker 2>this narrative. No, this is just my life. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>hate that this is my life. Sometimes I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to share this. You think I want to

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<v Speaker 2>share this. I want to want to be a fucking housewife.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to come over here and be fat.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's why I find this so interesting, because listen,

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<v Speaker 1>as somebody who started the show in two thousand and

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<v Speaker 1>eight and did ended up until season nine. When I

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<v Speaker 1>see you, I think you are super authentic and the

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<v Speaker 1>rain drops can go back to my first ever recap

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<v Speaker 1>of season sixteen, I recap the premiere solo because I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that everybody wanted to know my thoughts on the

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<v Speaker 1>soft reboot of Atlanta, and I said, let me do

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<v Speaker 1>it by myself so that I'm able to get my

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<v Speaker 1>message out there lot and clear. So as I'm watching

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<v Speaker 1>the first episode last season, I remember saying I love Kelly.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, she gives you a little oohs and the odds, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So I never thought even now, I have never thought

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<v Speaker 1>for a second as a producer that you are inauthentic.

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<v Speaker 1>I think what has been what has been happening now

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm seeing that I don't like. I think when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to some of these Housewives fans, I think

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<v Speaker 1>they love their housewife so much that they are going

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<v Speaker 1>against their opponents so hard that it's allowing the show

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<v Speaker 1>to enter dark space.

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<v Speaker 3>And it doesn't have to be that.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I always encourage my stars on my

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<v Speaker 1>shows to you either don't engage with the fans who

0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:26.240
<v Speaker 1>are talking about your fellow cast members, or if they are,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of it saying okay, guys, stop like say guys,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a show.

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<v Speaker 3>I know they're not.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm disappointed in those who don't even say I

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<v Speaker 1>don't mess with her, but threatening her and doing all

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<v Speaker 1>these things. She doesn't deserve that. And I'll go even

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<v Speaker 1>further saying, this season with you. The second episode of

0:19:53.760 --> 0:19:58.080
<v Speaker 1>this season, which I thought was amazing, and it's where

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<v Speaker 1>you portion and Kelly have to sit down and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry you, porschek Michelle, sorry k k uh you Porsche

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<v Speaker 1>and Ky Michelle have to sit down and look, Porcha was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, you know, I heard some of the married men

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<v Speaker 3>to beat and all those things.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm crying, uh huh, and you're still.

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<v Speaker 3>There, goofed the gag and Kate Michelle was looking at

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<v Speaker 3>camera like.

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<v Speaker 1>They say, they say't look no, Kate Michelle said, they

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<v Speaker 1>say love and hip hop numb girls.

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<v Speaker 3>Carlo's in back here saying Shooter, Carly Red.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch okay, because I'm okay, case like, yes, Carlos.

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<v Speaker 3>This is real. This be watching it. Yeah, bitch, clock

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<v Speaker 3>in right. So my point though, is.

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<v Speaker 1>I can look at that scene, yeah, and and recognize

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<v Speaker 1>Porsche was doing her job absolutely getting you activated. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you got her back at Phadri's house, when you said,

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<v Speaker 1>well we is Porius with all the everyone's African, right,

0:21:04.800 --> 0:21:10.679
<v Speaker 1>I literally said, she's getting her back and she's activating Porsche.

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<v Speaker 3>But I ended it by saying, Porscha appreciates.

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<v Speaker 1>A Kelly absolutely, you know what I mean, Because because

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<v Speaker 1>Porsche does not want to be on a show that's

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<v Speaker 1>boring that can get paused again. Yes, so although she

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<v Speaker 1>may not like what you said, she's she's able to recognize. Okay, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>you did that, and the thing that I want the

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<v Speaker 1>audience to recognize and I try to do this every

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<v Speaker 1>Monday is appreciate your villains.

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<v Speaker 3>Appreciate the villain.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so let me hold on because I didn't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Kelly Potter.

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<v Speaker 3>Hes gonna be listen, listen, listen, you're okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say there's another word because I'm really.

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<v Speaker 3>Not okay when I say villain, because I don't take that.

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<v Speaker 3>I said this.

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<v Speaker 1>Kenya Moore is one of my closest friends, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have gone on looking to that too.

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<v Speaker 3>She loves you, by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I have gone on record saying Kenya Moore is

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<v Speaker 1>the best villain the Housewives brand ever seen. She is,

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<v Speaker 1>and Kinga said, okay, I'll take it. So when I

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<v Speaker 1>say it, I'm not saying it's a bad thing. What

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying is what Kenya Moore has. Because let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you something, I don't know too many brons.

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<v Speaker 2>Who is four foot nine, I'm four I'm five feet even.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're gonna round into the next digit now, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know too many chicks that consent. That's to Portia

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<v Speaker 1>and make that comment and toast to the Girl's Weekend

0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:56.200
<v Speaker 1>why she did it, whether she's four nine or.

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<v Speaker 2>Five feet Okay, it's never been a scary bone in

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<v Speaker 2>my body, and you will know that I don't give

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<v Speaker 2>a fuck. I'm gonna say exactly what I want to

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<v Speaker 2>say and say exactly how the fuck I feel at

0:23:09.280 --> 0:23:12.000
<v Speaker 2>all costs with anybody. That's just where I am. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care. Yes, we'll fight, I'll pick up a chair

0:23:14.640 --> 0:23:16.680
<v Speaker 2>if I need to, But that's just what it is.

0:23:17.000 --> 0:23:19.520
<v Speaker 2>And I'm you can't think that you can say what

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<v Speaker 2>you want to say to me, and I'm not gonna

0:23:21.240 --> 0:23:23.760
<v Speaker 2>say something back to you. That's just what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not don't ever don't play in my face. Don't

0:23:27.640 --> 0:23:29.639
<v Speaker 2>ever play in my face. So the moment that you

0:23:29.680 --> 0:23:31.639
<v Speaker 2>play in my face, expect for me to play back

0:23:32.440 --> 0:23:41.280
<v Speaker 2>ten times. We're gonna double dutch and I'm gonna hop

0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:46.159
<v Speaker 2>one one leg it can get to the X.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to me about pre Housewives? Yes, who was Kelly Potter?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you always like fabulous?

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch? I have been fabulous my whole life. I was

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<v Speaker 2>the fucking in kindergarten. Okay, I was maying Manola Bonis

0:24:04.160 --> 0:24:08.240
<v Speaker 2>in high school, Dosha and Goabana in high school, best

0:24:08.280 --> 0:24:10.879
<v Speaker 2>dressed in high school. That I went to college with

0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:14.119
<v Speaker 2>Sergio Hudson. I have always been that fucking bitch. So

0:24:14.280 --> 0:24:17.080
<v Speaker 2>the fact that these people I had reindeers at Christmas.

0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:19.719
<v Speaker 2>None of these bitch have reindeers at Christmas, None of them.

0:24:19.760 --> 0:24:24.000
<v Speaker 2>I have reindeers of slag if it had snow. Like listen,

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<v Speaker 2>this has always been my life. I'm just now starting

0:24:29.440 --> 0:24:31.840
<v Speaker 2>to film it and show the world. And y'all coming

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<v Speaker 2>down on the fucking roofing of my life. Don't let

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<v Speaker 2>me get now. Don't let me wait till I get

0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:39.920
<v Speaker 2>back up and see how fabulous it gets for me.

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<v Speaker 2>But when it comes to my life, you better scroll

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<v Speaker 2>back on Instagram and see. I'm not doing this for cameras.

0:24:46.280 --> 0:24:49.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm not Bama. You think Bama let me film there

0:24:49.560 --> 0:24:52.119
<v Speaker 2>for this show. Bama let me film there because I

0:24:52.200 --> 0:24:55.520
<v Speaker 2>spent enough money to be there. Bama let me film

0:24:55.520 --> 0:24:58.600
<v Speaker 2>there because I had a relationship with them. It wasn't

0:24:58.640 --> 0:25:03.160
<v Speaker 2>for show. You think they care about hustle? Absolutely not. No,

0:25:04.119 --> 0:25:06.240
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't buying it from norserooms and taking a bath

0:25:07.400 --> 0:25:10.720
<v Speaker 2>like these other ladies. Okay, I went to a fashion

0:25:10.760 --> 0:25:12.720
<v Speaker 2>show in Paris. I didn't see any of them there,

0:25:13.240 --> 0:25:15.800
<v Speaker 2>not one mm hmm. That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get back into the show.

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<v Speaker 2>So in regards to my life, I've always been that

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<v Speaker 2>fucking girl. Yes, I've always driven nice cars. I've always

0:25:33.320 --> 0:25:37.280
<v Speaker 2>had a nice home. I've always had a successful person

0:25:37.359 --> 0:25:42.080
<v Speaker 2>next to me. My children were living well. We've always

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:45.480
<v Speaker 2>traveled vacation yachts. I just posted me being on a

0:25:45.520 --> 0:25:47.600
<v Speaker 2>yacht in Miami and they're like, you need to pay

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:50.919
<v Speaker 2>your bills. I've always been on yachts in Miami. What

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:54.080
<v Speaker 2>do y'all think this is? I got married for the

0:25:54.200 --> 0:25:56.560
<v Speaker 2>second time. I'm on the biggest shot in Miami with

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<v Speaker 2>fireworks Like, y'all gotta stop. I've always said I had

0:26:01.440 --> 0:26:03.919
<v Speaker 2>a helicopters land in my front yard, seg me out

0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:08.000
<v Speaker 2>to dinner. This is nothing new for me. I'm just showing, y'all.

0:26:09.240 --> 0:26:12.320
<v Speaker 2>And if you think that I'm always supposed to be

0:26:12.400 --> 0:26:15.080
<v Speaker 2>in a space of lack, no, y'all got me fucked

0:26:15.119 --> 0:26:17.200
<v Speaker 2>up with that too, because.

0:26:16.920 --> 0:26:17.360
<v Speaker 3>This is the thing.

0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:20.040
<v Speaker 1>One thing I do appreciate about you is the fact

0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:23.680
<v Speaker 1>that you have allowed us to see you at your

0:26:23.840 --> 0:26:25.560
<v Speaker 1>lowest and listen.

0:26:26.000 --> 0:26:28.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm extremely spiritual, yes, and.

0:26:28.280 --> 0:26:32.000
<v Speaker 1>I know that God makes no mistakes and that everything

0:26:32.040 --> 0:26:35.040
<v Speaker 1>happens in God's timing. So with that being said, do

0:26:35.119 --> 0:26:39.040
<v Speaker 1>you think that the moment you were offered this job

0:26:39.320 --> 0:26:43.919
<v Speaker 1>of being a housewife at a point in your life where,

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:46.119
<v Speaker 1>like you said, prior to joining the show, you have

0:26:46.280 --> 0:26:51.240
<v Speaker 1>all this fabulous things that represents an Atlanta housewife, But

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:56.159
<v Speaker 1>the moment God aligned your position was when you was

0:26:56.200 --> 0:27:00.880
<v Speaker 1>going through your worst. I hope you recognize, I really

0:27:00.880 --> 0:27:07.159
<v Speaker 1>hope you recognize this that God really wanted you to

0:27:07.280 --> 0:27:12.040
<v Speaker 1>show the world this side of the story. How you

0:27:12.119 --> 0:27:16.320
<v Speaker 1>can't go from richest to rags in a heartbeat?

0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:17.200
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>Well, when I say rags, listen, I'm not listen. I'm

0:27:21.320 --> 0:27:26.159
<v Speaker 1>not saying you are in a destitute situation. But to

0:27:26.200 --> 0:27:29.920
<v Speaker 1>be able to showcase that, because I think it's easier

0:27:31.000 --> 0:27:31.400
<v Speaker 1>when you.

0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:32.920
<v Speaker 3>Are on top to show it.

0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, it's more difficult when you're not anymore. And there's

0:27:37.119 --> 0:27:41.199
<v Speaker 1>a sense of humility that has to happen for you

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:43.320
<v Speaker 1>to know that the Lord giveth and.

0:27:43.240 --> 0:27:44.399
<v Speaker 3>Take it away.

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:48.159
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and I do believe that God wants you to

0:27:48.160 --> 0:27:50.720
<v Speaker 1>show the world that so that you can also show

0:27:50.760 --> 0:27:51.960
<v Speaker 1>the rebuilding of.

0:27:51.880 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 2>It was purposelos ye, honestly, and that was a very

0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:59.240
<v Speaker 2>difficult place for me to be in now warranted. I't

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:02.160
<v Speaker 2>think I was gonna go know, Okay, when I came

0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 2>in on sixteen God, I said, oh no, we about

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:06.639
<v Speaker 2>to show you so we can just get you everywhere

0:28:06.680 --> 0:28:08.439
<v Speaker 2>you need to be. I opened a restaurant, I had

0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:10.960
<v Speaker 2>to close it. I've never done that before my whole

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:14.800
<v Speaker 2>ten years of business. Right, So I know that God

0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 2>doesn't make mistakes. I know that I'm where I'm supposed

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:21.439
<v Speaker 2>to be. I know that at this point of my

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:24.879
<v Speaker 2>life where I am, I can't do anything but go

0:28:24.960 --> 0:28:28.880
<v Speaker 2>up higher. And I know that I'm in a position

0:28:28.920 --> 0:28:32.000
<v Speaker 2>to win. That's just where I am. And I've been

0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:36.720
<v Speaker 2>here before. Life happens in cycles. And when you think

0:28:36.760 --> 0:28:38.960
<v Speaker 2>about it and you look and I'm like, let me

0:28:39.080 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 2>just think about right, Because I never really compared myself

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 2>to Atlanta Housewives. I'm just be honest, and now I'll

0:28:46.040 --> 0:28:48.600
<v Speaker 2>tell you that it's not one person on a show

0:28:48.640 --> 0:28:52.000
<v Speaker 2>where I wanted to have their life. I loved to

0:28:52.000 --> 0:28:55.520
<v Speaker 2>You Buy Housewives. I think they're fabulous. That's the life

0:28:55.520 --> 0:28:55.840
<v Speaker 2>I want.

0:28:57.760 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 3>So living in Atlanta, you didn't desire to be.

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:04.239
<v Speaker 2>It's nothing that that they had that I wanted I've

0:29:04.320 --> 0:29:09.240
<v Speaker 2>already had it all. I've had the life. I don't

0:29:09.240 --> 0:29:13.560
<v Speaker 2>I didn't need their lives. It was nothing and from

0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:18.480
<v Speaker 2>Atlanta house lives that I wanted, right. It was no person,

0:29:18.880 --> 0:29:23.840
<v Speaker 2>it was no thing. It was no relationship that I

0:29:24.240 --> 0:29:27.360
<v Speaker 2>was that I had fantasized about that. I would want

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:30.400
<v Speaker 2>my life to look like that's that's not my thing.

0:29:30.480 --> 0:29:33.920
<v Speaker 2>I've I've had all of those things. I really, I've

0:29:33.960 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 2>really had all of those things. The homes, the cars,

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:41.840
<v Speaker 2>the money, all of that. I've had all of it.

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:44.320
<v Speaker 2>Like it was nothing that anyone on the show could

0:29:44.320 --> 0:29:47.440
<v Speaker 2>do that would impress me. I mean, if you look

0:29:47.480 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 2>at it, I came in my first season and really

0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 2>set the standard for a lot of these ladies.

0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:54.960
<v Speaker 3>In one way.

0:29:57.160 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 2>Talk about it.

0:29:58.000 --> 0:29:58.920
<v Speaker 3>Let's talk about it.

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:03.760
<v Speaker 2>I mean when it comes to fashion, when it comes

0:30:03.800 --> 0:30:08.920
<v Speaker 2>to content, they weren't doing content in season sixteen. Nobody

0:30:08.960 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 2>had their own videographer and photographer. Elliott and I have

0:30:12.200 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 2>been working together for eight years prior to me even filming.

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:21.080
<v Speaker 2>When it came to events, I always did event So

0:30:21.120 --> 0:30:23.600
<v Speaker 2>you can look back on my page. I didn't get

0:30:23.640 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 2>on I didn't host an event at William's Sonoma because

0:30:27.000 --> 0:30:30.320
<v Speaker 2>of being on the show. No, I've hosted several events

0:30:30.360 --> 0:30:34.600
<v Speaker 2>with William Sonoma prior to be on the show. When

0:30:34.600 --> 0:30:37.280
<v Speaker 2>it comes to Balmont, I hosted a birthday party in

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:42.360
<v Speaker 2>Baumont shut down the store. These women can do that

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:44.520
<v Speaker 2>because they really don't shop in the stores.

0:30:44.960 --> 0:30:45.920
<v Speaker 3>What did they shop at?

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:48.520
<v Speaker 2>I got to ask them. I don't know wherever they

0:30:48.520 --> 0:30:58.680
<v Speaker 2>can return? Okay, police escorts. When they came to police escorts,

0:30:58.720 --> 0:31:02.960
<v Speaker 2>I've always had a police asc like security. I mean,

0:31:03.080 --> 0:31:07.120
<v Speaker 2>these things for me, it's just like, this is a joke.

0:31:07.200 --> 0:31:09.880
<v Speaker 2>For me. I just feel like maybe they don't want

0:31:09.880 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 2>to give me my flowers. But I set a lot

0:31:12.360 --> 0:31:18.800
<v Speaker 2>of standards for these ladies. What or they're dead. Oh

0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:21.560
<v Speaker 2>they're using the stylust now, which is all I mean,

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:24.840
<v Speaker 2>it's all good, you know, like they're all using the stylence.

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:26.240
<v Speaker 2>They all look like his protegee.

0:31:26.280 --> 0:31:30.640
<v Speaker 5>Okay, so I'm gonna get Okay, it's cute. No, No, okay,

0:31:30.680 --> 0:31:35.160
<v Speaker 5>they're cute. They needed it, did they not? They needed it,

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:37.400
<v Speaker 5>and you know that they did, and I love that

0:31:37.440 --> 0:31:39.280
<v Speaker 5>for them. They should You should be spending the money.

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:42.640
<v Speaker 2>Y'all make enough. You should be You should be reinvesting

0:31:42.720 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 2>in yourselves. In your careers. Absolutely, I just got here.

0:31:47.480 --> 0:31:50.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm not making nowhere near what y'all making. But been

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:53.560
<v Speaker 2>doing this even with the stilace. I was with him

0:31:53.560 --> 0:31:57.200
<v Speaker 2>for years prior to being on the show. He can't

0:31:57.280 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 2>knock that, he can't deny that. Hello, I'm just telling

0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 2>them here, okay. I'm just making sure you're tuned in.

0:32:05.920 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 3>I answered the door, okay, Okay. So the thing is

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:14.040
<v Speaker 3>this one. I do believe in being fair. I'm a

0:32:14.120 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 3>fair man.

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:15.880
<v Speaker 2>Let's be fair.

0:32:15.960 --> 0:32:16.320
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:32:16.440 --> 0:32:21.080
<v Speaker 1>I will say parashee, I'm no parashe. For years, he's

0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 1>an icon in the gay streets. Baby Parashak is the

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 1>flies white bitch in Atlanta.

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 3>Honey, you know what I'm saying.

0:32:28.120 --> 0:32:29.760
<v Speaker 2>We can call him whatever it is that you want

0:32:29.800 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 2>to call him.

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:33.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay, let me give him that, give him okay, because

0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:35.080
<v Speaker 1>he's always been that girl.

0:32:35.160 --> 0:32:36.720
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you, let me no.

0:32:36.840 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm gonna give you a prop stof Okay, I

0:32:38.760 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 3>will say.

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:40.600
<v Speaker 2>Nobody wanted to put it.

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:46.080
<v Speaker 1>No. No. I do believe in being fair, despite who

0:32:46.080 --> 0:32:48.840
<v Speaker 1>gets mad at me, I do. I will always say

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:52.640
<v Speaker 1>to these girls, I'm fair. I will say no fairness,

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:56.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm no parashee. For years working on land the Housewise,

0:32:56.240 --> 0:33:00.520
<v Speaker 1>that's produc sir. I will say you are the first

0:33:00.560 --> 0:33:07.640
<v Speaker 1>person to introduce him to the show courtesy of a retained.

0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:11.760
<v Speaker 3>A stylist or retainer. I will give you that.

0:33:11.880 --> 0:33:15.040
<v Speaker 1>And what I will give you is after you and

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:17.920
<v Speaker 1>him and I don't care to know the reason. Yeah,

0:33:17.960 --> 0:33:22.880
<v Speaker 1>but after you and him departed. Yeah, I do understand

0:33:22.920 --> 0:33:25.840
<v Speaker 1>you're saying there's been more girls who have used him.

0:33:25.720 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 2>Since they didn't even want him on set. Let's be

0:33:28.320 --> 0:33:28.800
<v Speaker 2>very clear.

0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:30.880
<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know that.

0:33:31.080 --> 0:33:33.200
<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm telling you that, and he knows that too.

0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:35.480
<v Speaker 2>They didn't want him on set. It was moments where

0:33:35.640 --> 0:33:37.920
<v Speaker 2>he could not even be on set because they no

0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:39.960
<v Speaker 2>longer wanted him there. They felt like he was too messy.

0:33:39.960 --> 0:33:42.280
<v Speaker 2>It was some things going on neither here or there right.

0:33:42.960 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 2>One thing I will never deny from parashet is he's

0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 2>a great stylist. Yes, okay, when it comes to mess

0:33:48.680 --> 0:33:51.720
<v Speaker 2>is too messy for me? We departed ways I wish him, Well,

0:33:52.280 --> 0:33:54.000
<v Speaker 2>that's just what it is. He wants to prove a point,

0:33:54.040 --> 0:33:56.680
<v Speaker 2>proven point. That's fine. The girls needed give it to him.

0:33:57.360 --> 0:33:59.120
<v Speaker 2>They're looking great, better than ever.

0:34:00.240 --> 0:34:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Hmm.

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:07.239
<v Speaker 2>Hello, So I'm okay. So I'm okay with that, Like,

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:10.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm not no hating as bitch, Like that's one thing

0:34:10.880 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna do. They was coming on set with

0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:19.240
<v Speaker 2>Slavs and soak pants on hello, So I'm not here

0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:22.479
<v Speaker 2>to argue with that. I think he's great. I think

0:34:22.520 --> 0:34:26.920
<v Speaker 2>he does a phenomenal job within his work. Is he

0:34:27.480 --> 0:34:28.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna just leave it at that.

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:32.320
<v Speaker 3>Please leave it at that. You're improving your point. Good, Okay,

0:34:32.360 --> 0:34:33.319
<v Speaker 3>So I will give you that.

0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:33.759
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:34:33.840 --> 0:34:37.200
<v Speaker 3>Look, I will say the girls were doing events before

0:34:37.239 --> 0:34:37.640
<v Speaker 3>you though.

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:40.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, the girls don't even know, but what type of

0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:47.760
<v Speaker 2>events were they doing? Did they shut down phips Slaza?

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:49.880
<v Speaker 2>M I'll wait.

0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:53.040
<v Speaker 3>Season one two?

0:34:55.480 --> 0:35:03.400
<v Speaker 2>Or I said phipps, Oh okay, did you say something?

0:35:03.480 --> 0:35:07.040
<v Speaker 3>Or what are you looking at? If they ask them

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:07.600
<v Speaker 3>behind you.

0:35:09.440 --> 0:35:12.320
<v Speaker 2>Listen, I have to taking over at Lennox.

0:35:14.320 --> 0:35:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Marlo Hampton, Oh she's that girl Marlon Hampton did?

0:35:18.280 --> 0:35:21.600
<v Speaker 3>What did she shut down fitz Plaza season four? Where

0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 3>I forgot what store was? When we shigning this Plaza

0:35:25.200 --> 0:35:25.759
<v Speaker 3>season four?

0:35:25.840 --> 0:35:29.120
<v Speaker 2>What she makes sense? Marlow makes sense?

0:35:29.880 --> 0:35:30.520
<v Speaker 3>You like Marlow?

0:35:30.760 --> 0:35:31.280
<v Speaker 2>Love Marlow?

0:35:31.480 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 3>Do you think Marlow deserves to be back on the show.

0:35:33.440 --> 0:35:34.920
<v Speaker 2>I would love for Marlo to come back on the show.

0:35:35.040 --> 0:35:37.839
<v Speaker 2>Tell me why she's I think she's fabulous. I think

0:35:37.880 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 2>she's real. I think she's raw. I think she's fun.

0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:42.440
<v Speaker 2>And when me and her get together, we have a

0:35:42.480 --> 0:35:42.799
<v Speaker 2>good time.

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:45.200
<v Speaker 3>You two are friends in real life.

0:35:45.680 --> 0:35:45.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:48.719
<v Speaker 2>When I when I see marlow we talk, we drank,

0:35:48.760 --> 0:35:51.560
<v Speaker 2>we have a good time. She's good energy. I like

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:56.120
<v Speaker 2>marlow and she'd be with the shits. So I like it,

0:35:56.400 --> 0:35:58.600
<v Speaker 2>you know. But I think she's a great person. I

0:35:58.640 --> 0:36:00.920
<v Speaker 2>think what she stands for. I think it's great. I

0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:03.279
<v Speaker 2>love the way she and her Let me tell you something,

0:36:03.440 --> 0:36:06.880
<v Speaker 2>her nephews that she takes care of. They are the

0:36:07.239 --> 0:36:14.680
<v Speaker 2>most respectful, humble, amazing boys. When I tell you she's

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:17.680
<v Speaker 2>doing a phenomenal job with those children, she does a

0:36:17.760 --> 0:36:21.400
<v Speaker 2>great job. I mean she she's Yeah. So when it

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:25.800
<v Speaker 2>comes to someone like, what I admire about Marlowe is

0:36:26.200 --> 0:36:27.680
<v Speaker 2>she keeps it real and raw.

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:28.279
<v Speaker 4>Right.

0:36:29.320 --> 0:36:32.320
<v Speaker 2>It's not like TV shit, It's just like real. Like

0:36:33.719 --> 0:36:35.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I'll get along with Florida people. For

0:36:35.560 --> 0:36:37.520
<v Speaker 2>some reason, people from be More and Florida get get

0:36:37.560 --> 0:36:42.239
<v Speaker 2>along to well. I like Marlowe. I think I like

0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:44.880
<v Speaker 2>what she does. I think that you know, She's been

0:36:45.080 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 2>consistently her. That's the thing. I like people who have

0:36:49.719 --> 0:36:54.359
<v Speaker 2>been consistently them, And I like that she's consistently her

0:36:54.480 --> 0:36:55.320
<v Speaker 2>on and off camera.

0:36:56.440 --> 0:36:58.320
<v Speaker 3>That is Marlowe and that's what Marlow. I know.

0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:01.920
<v Speaker 2>She's consistently her Marlow off camera.

0:37:02.560 --> 0:37:04.600
<v Speaker 1>You will never get an argument from me on that.

0:37:04.840 --> 0:37:07.719
<v Speaker 1>Who marlow presents to be on camera. She's that off

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:10.800
<v Speaker 1>camera too. Like she she wears what she wears, She

0:37:11.320 --> 0:37:14.080
<v Speaker 1>shops where she shops, she dies where she dies. I

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:16.520
<v Speaker 1>spoke to marl a three weeks ago and she said,

0:37:16.520 --> 0:37:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm on a diet and I said okay, and then I.

0:37:18.960 --> 0:37:21.719
<v Speaker 3>Heard some rummaging packaging. I'm like, what are you doing?

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:26.399
<v Speaker 3>She said, you know the Hawaiian rolls? I said yeah.

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:28.160
<v Speaker 3>She said, I put a steak in and made a

0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 3>steak soundwich.

0:37:29.120 --> 0:37:31.480
<v Speaker 1>I said, bit you on a diet, she said, but

0:37:31.600 --> 0:37:33.360
<v Speaker 1>I feel like if the steaks on top of the

0:37:33.440 --> 0:37:39.399
<v Speaker 1>roll Carlos And I said, marlow who is steak from

0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:42.240
<v Speaker 1>the fine restaurant on a Hawaiian roll from public?

0:37:43.200 --> 0:37:44.680
<v Speaker 2>May I like her?

0:37:44.800 --> 0:37:46.120
<v Speaker 3>And then we have a shottle of rock.

0:37:48.680 --> 0:37:49.520
<v Speaker 2>We had a good time.

0:37:50.080 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 3>No.

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:52.239
<v Speaker 2>Me and Malo hung out not too long ago at

0:37:53.040 --> 0:37:57.560
<v Speaker 2>what's that place? A lot showdown, shutdown, Alreto. We had

0:37:57.600 --> 0:37:59.319
<v Speaker 2>a good time. We played card games and just talked

0:37:59.360 --> 0:37:59.960
<v Speaker 2>ship and drink.

0:38:00.239 --> 0:38:02.759
<v Speaker 3>She's a clue girl. I do want to ask you

0:38:02.840 --> 0:38:06.440
<v Speaker 3>about Kenya. Yes, do you miss her? I do?

0:38:07.640 --> 0:38:09.000
<v Speaker 2>And let me just tell you this because I know

0:38:09.080 --> 0:38:12.680
<v Speaker 2>everybody's like, oh, you're a friends with britt Listen at

0:38:12.719 --> 0:38:15.480
<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, Yes, I was friends with her,

0:38:16.200 --> 0:38:19.920
<v Speaker 2>but I was truly creating a friendship with Kenya, and

0:38:20.080 --> 0:38:23.480
<v Speaker 2>me and Kenya had a real connection and regards to

0:38:23.719 --> 0:38:26.319
<v Speaker 2>truly getting to know each other and having so many

0:38:26.400 --> 0:38:29.719
<v Speaker 2>things in common. I look at Kingya as a big sister.

0:38:30.719 --> 0:38:34.360
<v Speaker 2>I think that she is smart. I think that she

0:38:34.520 --> 0:38:37.680
<v Speaker 2>is talented. I think that she's an amazing mom, and

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:40.560
<v Speaker 2>I think she's a great entrepreneur no matter where she is. Now,

0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:44.200
<v Speaker 2>what I love about her is she did what she

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:47.520
<v Speaker 2>wanted to do and nothing beat to failure but to

0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:50.400
<v Speaker 2>try right. And that's one thing that I am I

0:38:50.520 --> 0:38:56.720
<v Speaker 2>about her. She was never she was never a negative

0:38:56.800 --> 0:38:59.560
<v Speaker 2>person in regards to me, just coming in and just

0:38:59.800 --> 0:39:02.640
<v Speaker 2>like being you know, putting that big wing out and saying, hey,

0:39:02.719 --> 0:39:04.080
<v Speaker 2>you might want to do this, you might want to

0:39:04.160 --> 0:39:06.359
<v Speaker 2>do that, you might want to keep it real, keep

0:39:06.400 --> 0:39:10.040
<v Speaker 2>it honest, you know, like just truly being genuine and

0:39:10.120 --> 0:39:13.000
<v Speaker 2>being a genuine person. And that's what I like about Kenya.

0:39:13.080 --> 0:39:14.839
<v Speaker 2>I would love for her to be back. I think

0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:17.960
<v Speaker 2>we would have a great time, you know what I mean.

0:39:18.200 --> 0:39:24.560
<v Speaker 2>I think sharing her story and motherhood and excuse me.

0:39:24.960 --> 0:39:27.600
<v Speaker 2>And even when I was on that season sixteen, it

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:30.279
<v Speaker 2>wasn't any really entrepreneurs on that season for me to

0:39:30.320 --> 0:39:33.120
<v Speaker 2>connect with. And that's what I really truly. What are

0:39:33.160 --> 0:39:37.480
<v Speaker 2>you saying, well, brick and mortars? Okay, fine, all right,

0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:39.720
<v Speaker 2>so nobody had a brick and mortar on season sixteen.

0:39:40.800 --> 0:39:43.719
<v Speaker 2>So our conversations are just different when it comes to

0:39:44.000 --> 0:39:48.400
<v Speaker 2>certain things. Okay, I wasn't selling anything online, okay, or

0:39:48.800 --> 0:39:53.600
<v Speaker 2>on Craigslist, So when it comes to that, I just

0:39:53.719 --> 0:39:57.840
<v Speaker 2>think that it was a different conversation.

0:39:59.000 --> 0:40:04.239
<v Speaker 3>Hello, I'll want to go to U U. Hello, he's

0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:05.200
<v Speaker 3>trying to convince me or.

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:12.120
<v Speaker 1>So.

0:40:12.400 --> 0:40:15.399
<v Speaker 2>I enjoyed, like really talking to her about our ups

0:40:15.440 --> 0:40:18.600
<v Speaker 2>and our downs. And I wish her well. I think

0:40:18.640 --> 0:40:21.600
<v Speaker 2>she's amazing and I would love for her to come back.

0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:23.799
<v Speaker 2>I think she definitely be my friend.

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:27.120
<v Speaker 1>I do want to get into a lot of criticism

0:40:27.680 --> 0:40:31.279
<v Speaker 1>that this season has been facing. And I've shared this

0:40:31.440 --> 0:40:36.480
<v Speaker 1>as well on Monday Night Live in addition to my panelist, where.

0:40:36.400 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 3>We do feel like there's there's a divide it is

0:40:45.520 --> 0:40:49.759
<v Speaker 3>amongst the girls, and that the division is.

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:52.120
<v Speaker 1>And I've said this and I'll say it again. And

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:53.920
<v Speaker 1>when I say this, I'm not trying to offend you,

0:40:54.080 --> 0:40:55.000
<v Speaker 1>so don't take offense to it.

0:40:55.080 --> 0:40:55.840
<v Speaker 2>I won't be offended.

0:40:56.680 --> 0:40:59.200
<v Speaker 1>The show is pours us in terms of she's the marquee.

0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 1>In terms of marquee, I mean, if that's what.

0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:06.400
<v Speaker 2>You want to sell yourself, Okay, I don't sell myself that.

0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:08.680
<v Speaker 1>I guess what, and guess what, that's why you're a

0:41:08.680 --> 0:41:11.160
<v Speaker 1>good housewife, because a good housewife will.

0:41:11.120 --> 0:41:17.520
<v Speaker 3>Never get the next chick. So I respect respect that.

0:41:17.840 --> 0:41:21.560
<v Speaker 1>So from from my matches point, in addition to the audience,

0:41:21.680 --> 0:41:24.520
<v Speaker 1>we look at Porsche as the as the premier face

0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:33.279
<v Speaker 1>of the show courtesy of her tenure and what.

0:41:34.880 --> 0:41:35.919
<v Speaker 2>She's not a line leader.

0:41:36.920 --> 0:41:39.920
<v Speaker 3>Well, look, I do want to get into that.

0:41:43.640 --> 0:41:46.480
<v Speaker 1>We all feel like when it comes to some of

0:41:46.520 --> 0:41:54.279
<v Speaker 1>these girls, they desire to be on Porsia's team m hm.

0:41:55.320 --> 0:41:59.759
<v Speaker 1>And it's becoming a little bit more apparent now than.

0:41:59.680 --> 0:42:01.240
<v Speaker 3>They has been last season.

0:42:01.400 --> 0:42:01.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad.

0:42:03.719 --> 0:42:05.200
<v Speaker 3>Do you agree with that sentiment?

0:42:06.120 --> 0:42:09.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I've you gotta think about it. I've

0:42:09.200 --> 0:42:13.080
<v Speaker 2>watched this in real time right to the point where

0:42:13.080 --> 0:42:16.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm questioning, like, well, damn you forgave it that fast

0:42:17.040 --> 0:42:19.640
<v Speaker 2>and you you know, And I think it's really just

0:42:19.840 --> 0:42:22.680
<v Speaker 2>little miss Pop like little Miss Popular. I think that's

0:42:22.760 --> 0:42:26.600
<v Speaker 2>just what it is. I think it's maybe that's their leader.

0:42:26.719 --> 0:42:28.680
<v Speaker 2>It's not my leader, you know. At the end of

0:42:28.719 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 2>the day, I just think that I'm a fair person.

0:42:31.680 --> 0:42:33.279
<v Speaker 2>What's right is right and what's wrong is wrong. And

0:42:33.360 --> 0:42:36.080
<v Speaker 2>I think what people don't realize is even with my

0:42:36.200 --> 0:42:38.160
<v Speaker 2>relationships that I have with these ladies on the show,

0:42:38.239 --> 0:42:43.400
<v Speaker 2>whether it be Shamiah or Pedro or Ka or whatever

0:42:43.440 --> 0:42:45.719
<v Speaker 2>the case may be, I still say when y'all right

0:42:45.760 --> 0:42:48.480
<v Speaker 2>and still say when y'all wrong. I don't I don't

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:51.759
<v Speaker 2>just pick aside like whether it's on television or not

0:42:51.920 --> 0:42:54.680
<v Speaker 2>on television. I still tell them like, oh, you might

0:42:54.719 --> 0:42:57.200
<v Speaker 2>have been wrong in that situation. You might have handled No,

0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:59.640
<v Speaker 2>you might have not handled it right right. And I

0:42:59.719 --> 0:43:02.799
<v Speaker 2>think think that is what makes me different from everybody else,

0:43:02.840 --> 0:43:05.640
<v Speaker 2>because I think some of the ladies are so focused

0:43:05.680 --> 0:43:09.120
<v Speaker 2>on the likes of the fans versus the likes of

0:43:09.360 --> 0:43:12.319
<v Speaker 2>real life, and I think that's where it goes left

0:43:12.360 --> 0:43:15.960
<v Speaker 2>with them, right, You're so connected, You're trying to get

0:43:16.239 --> 0:43:19.920
<v Speaker 2>liked by the fans and the people versus just standing

0:43:20.000 --> 0:43:22.879
<v Speaker 2>for what's right. And I was always raised to stand

0:43:22.920 --> 0:43:24.719
<v Speaker 2>for what's right. You know, Mama, I don't play with

0:43:24.800 --> 0:43:26.680
<v Speaker 2>me when it comes to I'm forty one years old,

0:43:26.680 --> 0:43:29.279
<v Speaker 2>but she still don't play with me. And one thing

0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:32.280
<v Speaker 2>I was raised by is do what's right right, because

0:43:32.360 --> 0:43:34.040
<v Speaker 2>karma is real and it will come back on you

0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:37.760
<v Speaker 2>in regards to how you handle things anything. In my life,

0:43:37.960 --> 0:43:40.800
<v Speaker 2>I try and treat people how I want to be treated,

0:43:40.880 --> 0:43:43.239
<v Speaker 2>and I do the things that are right, good, bad,

0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:45.560
<v Speaker 2>are and different. That's just how I That's what I

0:43:45.640 --> 0:43:47.400
<v Speaker 2>live by, and that's what I teach my daughters, and

0:43:47.920 --> 0:43:50.640
<v Speaker 2>that's just how I move and my relationships and my friendships.

0:43:51.280 --> 0:43:53.160
<v Speaker 1>Which housewife on the show that you work with, do

0:43:53.280 --> 0:43:56.080
<v Speaker 1>you think falls in line when it comes to porshow

0:43:56.320 --> 0:43:58.239
<v Speaker 1>that she can't do nothing wrong with their eyes.

0:43:58.560 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 3>And that you seen Drew, I have seen Drew. Oh okay,

0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:03.640
<v Speaker 3>is it just her?

0:44:04.560 --> 0:44:05.480
<v Speaker 2>What I mean? She works for.

0:44:06.600 --> 0:44:09.160
<v Speaker 3>She's a go Naked ambassador, she works.

0:44:08.960 --> 0:44:09.680
<v Speaker 2>For a baby daddy.

0:44:16.640 --> 0:44:17.400
<v Speaker 3>What about Phaedra?

0:44:20.120 --> 0:44:24.080
<v Speaker 2>I love Pedra, am that if Pedra wants to talk

0:44:24.120 --> 0:44:25.479
<v Speaker 2>about me, she's still my friend.

0:44:26.160 --> 0:44:30.480
<v Speaker 1>Were you offended when she got an interview? Okay, because

0:44:30.560 --> 0:44:32.960
<v Speaker 1>the audience may not know. So.

0:44:33.080 --> 0:44:34.759
<v Speaker 3>She did an interview recently and.

0:44:36.680 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 1>She said that pretty much you and Himiya were complaining

0:44:40.520 --> 0:44:43.239
<v Speaker 1>about the dirty room in Dallas, while some of y'all

0:44:43.280 --> 0:44:46.320
<v Speaker 1>are losing houses and should be more concerned with that,

0:44:46.719 --> 0:44:49.360
<v Speaker 1>and made a comment about her house never being a foreclosure.

0:44:49.760 --> 0:44:51.479
<v Speaker 3>Did you take that as a dig too.

0:44:51.440 --> 0:44:54.799
<v Speaker 2>Well, my house wasn't in foreclosure. I didn't lose a house.

0:44:54.840 --> 0:44:58.799
<v Speaker 2>I left a house. In regards to the dirty room,

0:44:58.880 --> 0:45:01.719
<v Speaker 2>she wouldn't stayed in it. But she knows that. And

0:45:01.800 --> 0:45:03.360
<v Speaker 2>at the end of the day, I still love her

0:45:03.400 --> 0:45:05.839
<v Speaker 2>and I like her. I think Faedra's an amazing woman.

0:45:06.040 --> 0:45:09.640
<v Speaker 2>I think she's an amazing mother. Think she's an excellent attorney.

0:45:10.160 --> 0:45:14.719
<v Speaker 2>I think that she is very smart. She's probably one

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:17.840
<v Speaker 2>of the smartest women on the cast. Okay, And I

0:45:17.920 --> 0:45:20.279
<v Speaker 2>will forever say that one thing that I will never

0:45:20.360 --> 0:45:23.200
<v Speaker 2>deny from Faedra is when I came on this season.

0:45:23.880 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 1>She was.

0:45:25.719 --> 0:45:27.879
<v Speaker 2>She was the big sister that I needed. She came

0:45:27.960 --> 0:45:29.840
<v Speaker 2>in with open arms. She told me who to work with,

0:45:30.000 --> 0:45:33.160
<v Speaker 2>not to work with. And I will never deny that

0:45:33.440 --> 0:45:37.359
<v Speaker 2>of her. So whether we talk about or we don't,

0:45:38.239 --> 0:45:40.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm still not gonna talk bad about her. We might

0:45:40.200 --> 0:45:43.879
<v Speaker 2>have our differences, that's what a sisterhood. Sisterhood is about, right.

0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:47.320
<v Speaker 2>We have your your moments where you're like, I don't agree,

0:45:47.520 --> 0:45:50.640
<v Speaker 2>or I might agree. That's fine. If she says about

0:45:50.640 --> 0:45:52.239
<v Speaker 2>a house in the foreclosure, I didn't have a house

0:45:52.320 --> 0:45:55.680
<v Speaker 2>in the full closure, Okay, So I'm okay with that.

0:45:56.000 --> 0:45:59.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't think it was a dig and necessarily everyone

0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:03.040
<v Speaker 2>on the cast. But I mean, if I fall under

0:46:03.080 --> 0:46:04.920
<v Speaker 2>that umbrella, it wasn't me.

0:46:05.239 --> 0:46:08.719
<v Speaker 1>Like Shaggy said, when you and Portion made up in Scotland,

0:46:10.000 --> 0:46:13.480
<v Speaker 1>do you think that was a genuine makeup for the

0:46:13.520 --> 0:46:16.160
<v Speaker 1>two of you or a lot of people were saying

0:46:16.200 --> 0:46:20.399
<v Speaker 1>that Porsche was playing a strategy because you are best

0:46:20.480 --> 0:46:24.840
<v Speaker 1>friends with her former best friend and she wanted to

0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:28.640
<v Speaker 1>show Shemiah that I can make up with her quicker

0:46:28.760 --> 0:46:29.880
<v Speaker 1>than I would ever make up with you.

0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:32.239
<v Speaker 2>I think it lasted as long as her marriage is.

0:46:32.239 --> 0:46:40.840
<v Speaker 3>Too Kelly Carlos. Hello, let be hanged up.

0:46:42.360 --> 0:46:43.080
<v Speaker 2>Call me back.

0:46:44.440 --> 0:46:45.520
<v Speaker 3>My voice, Bella's fall.

0:46:47.880 --> 0:46:54.120
<v Speaker 2>Call me at a black number. Wow, your nails are good.

0:46:54.760 --> 0:46:55.080
<v Speaker 3>Thank you?

0:46:55.440 --> 0:46:58.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you get jail? I do. Yeah, it looks nice.

0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:01.759
<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Let's see it began.

0:47:04.840 --> 0:47:10.440
<v Speaker 3>What you don't It wasn't genuine I said this.

0:47:10.600 --> 0:47:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I we all.

0:47:12.120 --> 0:47:14.000
<v Speaker 3>I love the moment because I.

0:47:14.120 --> 0:47:16.320
<v Speaker 2>Was like, yes, it's not so, let me just say this.

0:47:16.600 --> 0:47:18.600
<v Speaker 2>And I went in that room. I did not know

0:47:18.640 --> 0:47:21.279
<v Speaker 2>all those people were gonna be there. I was going

0:47:21.280 --> 0:47:24.200
<v Speaker 2>in a room talk to I was not going to

0:47:24.239 --> 0:47:28.920
<v Speaker 2>talk to the most Okay, But what I do appreciate

0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:33.320
<v Speaker 2>is was it real moments? Yes, I do think it

0:47:33.440 --> 0:47:39.399
<v Speaker 2>was real moments. I think Cynthia always gives me really

0:47:39.640 --> 0:47:43.880
<v Speaker 2>good words of encouragement of advice Phedra, no matter what

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:46.000
<v Speaker 2>we go through, I really do look at her for

0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:50.640
<v Speaker 2>sincere advice when it comes to legal Okay, that's one

0:47:50.640 --> 0:47:53.480
<v Speaker 2>thing she don't play about. That is her job. Either

0:47:53.520 --> 0:47:57.160
<v Speaker 2>gonna be in jail or dead and might not cook

0:47:57.200 --> 0:47:59.520
<v Speaker 2>call her when I'm dead, but I'll call her when

0:47:59.520 --> 0:48:04.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm going through something. Right even with p in that moment,

0:48:04.640 --> 0:48:06.600
<v Speaker 2>I do think that we had a moment of like,

0:48:06.719 --> 0:48:08.520
<v Speaker 2>hey girl, I don't want to argue with you right now,

0:48:08.760 --> 0:48:10.719
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. And that was really my

0:48:11.600 --> 0:48:15.520
<v Speaker 2>sincere feeling because I was overwhelmed with emotions. So in

0:48:15.640 --> 0:48:18.600
<v Speaker 2>regards to me being vulnerable in that space with these women,

0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:21.960
<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to argue with her. I really just

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:24.200
<v Speaker 2>wanted to be in a space where I felt supported.

0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:27.160
<v Speaker 2>And I'm grateful that she did support me at that time,

0:48:27.800 --> 0:48:31.480
<v Speaker 2>whether that be for two minutes or two seconds. Okay,

0:48:31.760 --> 0:48:36.280
<v Speaker 2>it happened, and we did have some similarities in regards

0:48:36.360 --> 0:48:41.640
<v Speaker 2>to what we were going through, you know, so no

0:48:41.760 --> 0:48:46.399
<v Speaker 2>matter what with the men, Okay, I appreciated her being

0:48:47.400 --> 0:48:51.680
<v Speaker 2>genuine during that time in that space. I can say

0:48:51.719 --> 0:48:55.440
<v Speaker 2>that I'm not even gonna throw shade on I'm not

0:48:55.480 --> 0:48:58.719
<v Speaker 2>gonna throw salt on it. Okay. I think that at

0:48:58.800 --> 0:49:03.400
<v Speaker 2>that moment she was a genuine person and really wanted

0:49:03.480 --> 0:49:05.960
<v Speaker 2>to support me at that time, and I am appreciative

0:49:06.000 --> 0:49:07.839
<v Speaker 2>of that. I will never take that away from her.

0:49:07.880 --> 0:49:09.760
<v Speaker 2>I will never take that away from any of the ladies,

0:49:10.000 --> 0:49:13.520
<v Speaker 2>because you never know what will happen in the future.

0:49:13.840 --> 0:49:15.919
<v Speaker 2>You know, none of us are perfect. We're all living

0:49:15.960 --> 0:49:18.560
<v Speaker 2>in glass houses right now, Okay, you just never know

0:49:18.640 --> 0:49:20.719
<v Speaker 2>when somebody can come and throw a rock, and that's

0:49:20.800 --> 0:49:24.400
<v Speaker 2>just what it is. So I appreciate the support and

0:49:24.480 --> 0:49:26.440
<v Speaker 2>that time and that moment of when I really needed it,

0:49:26.480 --> 0:49:29.760
<v Speaker 2>because I really was. I was tired. I was tired.

0:49:29.800 --> 0:49:33.080
<v Speaker 2>When I had to find out that the lawsuit and

0:49:33.080 --> 0:49:37.520
<v Speaker 2>all that crazy stuff, I was like, oh, enough is enough, right,

0:49:37.880 --> 0:49:40.600
<v Speaker 2>And when I had to go and talk to Phaedra

0:49:40.680 --> 0:49:44.919
<v Speaker 2>about it because she was my attorney at the time

0:49:45.000 --> 0:49:47.440
<v Speaker 2>when she was helping me, I didn't expect for all

0:49:47.480 --> 0:49:49.879
<v Speaker 2>those women to be there. But am I grateful? Yeah,

0:49:50.040 --> 0:49:55.279
<v Speaker 2>And I'll never take that away. One thing I feel

0:49:55.320 --> 0:49:59.120
<v Speaker 2>like when it comes to those moments, people still have

0:49:59.200 --> 0:50:01.640
<v Speaker 2>to realize it is a sisterhood. We still should show

0:50:01.719 --> 0:50:05.960
<v Speaker 2>up for one another. We really still should show up

0:50:06.000 --> 0:50:08.520
<v Speaker 2>for one another. And what people don't realize is I

0:50:08.640 --> 0:50:11.640
<v Speaker 2>show up for these women off camera. When Portia was

0:50:11.680 --> 0:50:13.640
<v Speaker 2>getting beat up by that woman on that airline, I

0:50:13.800 --> 0:50:18.920
<v Speaker 2>still text her that crazy lady and I'm just joking.

0:50:22.880 --> 0:50:25.319
<v Speaker 5>What that crazy lady was doing the phone and all

0:50:26.320 --> 0:50:27.440
<v Speaker 5>I still text We.

0:50:27.480 --> 0:50:29.680
<v Speaker 2>Were at Brava. I think we're Bravo con and I

0:50:29.760 --> 0:50:33.759
<v Speaker 2>said text her like, girl, you're okay, you know what

0:50:33.800 --> 0:50:34.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying, like.

0:50:34.520 --> 0:50:34.879
<v Speaker 1>I don't.

0:50:35.320 --> 0:50:39.840
<v Speaker 2>I never want to see any of these ladies in

0:50:39.960 --> 0:50:42.480
<v Speaker 2>a dark space. I don't know if I can say

0:50:42.520 --> 0:50:46.120
<v Speaker 2>the same for them, but for me genuinely and knowing

0:50:46.239 --> 0:50:48.440
<v Speaker 2>everything that I went through, Girl, I wish you all

0:50:48.480 --> 0:50:50.000
<v Speaker 2>the best, and whatever I can do to help you,

0:50:50.040 --> 0:50:52.200
<v Speaker 2>I help you. I've seen you some chicken and woffles,

0:50:52.320 --> 0:50:54.799
<v Speaker 2>or send the kids to my house, whatever the case

0:50:54.880 --> 0:50:56.880
<v Speaker 2>may be. That's me, you know what I mean. Like,

0:50:57.000 --> 0:51:01.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm not that. I'm not a dark speed. You say

0:51:01.360 --> 0:51:03.719
<v Speaker 2>I carry my christal around, I am a I'm a

0:51:03.800 --> 0:51:06.320
<v Speaker 2>positive light. I'm not. I don't be with all that honestly,

0:51:06.440 --> 0:51:10.120
<v Speaker 2>if you if you know me on a regular basis,

0:51:10.200 --> 0:51:14.360
<v Speaker 2>I am home meditating, praying, or somewhere with my children

0:51:14.480 --> 0:51:18.160
<v Speaker 2>and spending quality time or working my business or you know, like,

0:51:18.239 --> 0:51:21.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't be with all that negative nonsense off when

0:51:21.520 --> 0:51:23.680
<v Speaker 2>we don't, I don't talk about them. I don't care

0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:26.719
<v Speaker 2>about who they doing, sleeping with, what they got going on.

0:51:26.880 --> 0:51:29.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't care. Let me just enjoy my moment, enjoy

0:51:29.600 --> 0:51:33.279
<v Speaker 2>my family. I'm very family oriented when it comes to that.

0:51:33.520 --> 0:51:36.440
<v Speaker 2>When I was just in Miami, yeah, I posted by myself,

0:51:36.480 --> 0:51:38.000
<v Speaker 2>but maybe I was with the kid. I was with

0:51:38.200 --> 0:51:41.360
<v Speaker 2>Chance and her friends. That was her birthday trip. It

0:51:41.480 --> 0:51:43.040
<v Speaker 2>was Mammy and me. I wasn't turned up. Me and

0:51:43.120 --> 0:51:45.640
<v Speaker 2>Lamanck turned up for two seconds all I got and

0:51:45.760 --> 0:51:48.880
<v Speaker 2>then it was back home to you know one hotel.

0:51:50.000 --> 0:51:52.480
<v Speaker 3>Financially, how are you doing? I'm here?

0:51:54.320 --> 0:51:57.759
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I have been very vulnerable and transparent with

0:51:57.880 --> 0:52:00.719
<v Speaker 2>my finances. I never can on the show and told

0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:05.759
<v Speaker 2>anybody that I was a billionaire that one time. Run

0:52:05.840 --> 0:52:08.120
<v Speaker 2>it back. Tell me when I'm I mean, I will be.

0:52:08.560 --> 0:52:11.320
<v Speaker 2>But I never came on this show and told anybody

0:52:11.400 --> 0:52:14.480
<v Speaker 2>that I was worth billions of dollars. I think that

0:52:15.040 --> 0:52:18.400
<v Speaker 2>I have been very open and honest about what my

0:52:18.560 --> 0:52:21.360
<v Speaker 2>life looks like after divorce, and that's what it is.

0:52:22.080 --> 0:52:24.440
<v Speaker 2>You know, No, I did not have a prenup. No,

0:52:24.640 --> 0:52:27.360
<v Speaker 2>I was in a position where you know, money was

0:52:27.400 --> 0:52:30.520
<v Speaker 2>stolen and taken and so many things had transpired. Yes,

0:52:30.760 --> 0:52:34.480
<v Speaker 2>I have been paying attorneys for three years. Can you

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:40.160
<v Speaker 2>imagine paying attorneys for three years? Over six figures? I've

0:52:40.200 --> 0:52:44.839
<v Speaker 2>paid attorneys and I'm still paying attorneys. Okay, So when

0:52:44.880 --> 0:52:48.920
<v Speaker 2>it comes to that, you know, I just put myself

0:52:49.000 --> 0:52:51.799
<v Speaker 2>in a position where I just I have to restructure

0:52:52.000 --> 0:52:55.440
<v Speaker 2>and refigure some things out. I never fouled bankruptcy. I

0:52:55.440 --> 0:52:58.160
<v Speaker 2>haven't fouled bankruptcy yet. I talked about it with Pinky,

0:52:59.160 --> 0:53:01.480
<v Speaker 2>but I haven't done it yet. So I'm in a

0:53:01.760 --> 0:53:04.520
<v Speaker 2>place where I'm still just trying to figure out what's

0:53:04.560 --> 0:53:08.120
<v Speaker 2>the best situation for me and where that goes. I

0:53:08.200 --> 0:53:11.440
<v Speaker 2>send my daughter off to Spelman Spellman is fifty thousand

0:53:11.480 --> 0:53:12.160
<v Speaker 2>dollars a year.

0:53:12.480 --> 0:53:13.760
<v Speaker 3>And you're paying for that out of pocket.

0:53:14.040 --> 0:53:18.800
<v Speaker 2>Hello, Kelly Carlos should start to go fund me.

0:53:20.560 --> 0:53:20.600
<v Speaker 5>No.

0:53:20.880 --> 0:53:24.400
<v Speaker 2>But one thing I can say is Chloe's dad is amazing.

0:53:25.480 --> 0:53:29.800
<v Speaker 2>So Chloe's dad helps out tremendously with Chloe's college tuition,

0:53:31.000 --> 0:53:32.960
<v Speaker 2>and I shout out to Chloe's dad. I think he's

0:53:33.280 --> 0:53:37.560
<v Speaker 2>an amazing guy. Him and his wife, Okay, and you

0:53:37.640 --> 0:53:42.200
<v Speaker 2>know where I lack, he holds and when it comes to,

0:53:42.760 --> 0:53:44.880
<v Speaker 2>you know, my children. One thing I can say is

0:53:46.040 --> 0:53:48.520
<v Speaker 2>I asked my daughter a chance and said, hey, you know,

0:53:48.680 --> 0:53:50.960
<v Speaker 2>ever since you know me and your dad have separated,

0:53:51.480 --> 0:53:53.840
<v Speaker 2>do you see a difference in your lifestyle? And she

0:53:53.960 --> 0:53:56.759
<v Speaker 2>said no, In fact, maybe the only difference I see

0:53:56.840 --> 0:53:59.720
<v Speaker 2>is he's not here, and that is the only person,

0:54:00.080 --> 0:54:03.279
<v Speaker 2>the only people is Chance, is Chloe, Chance, Chassis and

0:54:03.360 --> 0:54:05.680
<v Speaker 2>Chelsea that I care about. I don't give a damn

0:54:05.719 --> 0:54:08.600
<v Speaker 2>about any of these other people. Y'all can't tell me

0:54:08.680 --> 0:54:10.719
<v Speaker 2>what to do, how to spend my money, where I'm

0:54:10.719 --> 0:54:13.120
<v Speaker 2>gonna spend it, and how I'm gonna do it. The

0:54:13.280 --> 0:54:15.840
<v Speaker 2>only people that I care about are those four people,

0:54:16.000 --> 0:54:20.360
<v Speaker 2>my four broke busties, my four broke besties. Those are

0:54:20.360 --> 0:54:24.560
<v Speaker 2>the only people that I care about, and I always

0:54:24.600 --> 0:54:26.960
<v Speaker 2>wanted to make sure that they did not feel the

0:54:27.080 --> 0:54:32.280
<v Speaker 2>downfall of my decision of leaving their dad and putting ourselves,

0:54:32.760 --> 0:54:35.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, eventually in a better space. And that's all

0:54:35.719 --> 0:54:38.560
<v Speaker 2>that matters. So when it comes to my finances, we're

0:54:38.600 --> 0:54:43.000
<v Speaker 2>working on it. I'm okay, I have I still have

0:54:43.120 --> 0:54:46.080
<v Speaker 2>some major decisions that I need to make, and when

0:54:46.120 --> 0:54:48.479
<v Speaker 2>it said time, I'll make them. But I don't feel

0:54:48.520 --> 0:54:52.160
<v Speaker 2>like I need to share that with the world. I

0:54:52.200 --> 0:54:55.480
<v Speaker 2>don't feel like I need to tell my man how

0:54:55.520 --> 0:54:58.560
<v Speaker 2>to disperse his money and his funds. If he wants

0:54:58.560 --> 0:55:01.160
<v Speaker 2>to spend seventy thousand dollars with my teeth, I will

0:55:01.280 --> 0:55:04.960
<v Speaker 2>let him. I don't need to tell y'all how to

0:55:05.239 --> 0:55:07.800
<v Speaker 2>manage my money with him that's what he wants to do.

0:55:08.239 --> 0:55:10.960
<v Speaker 1>But do you understand why people did feel if he's

0:55:11.000 --> 0:55:12.960
<v Speaker 1>going to spend seventy thousand on the teeth, why not

0:55:13.040 --> 0:55:13.880
<v Speaker 1>spending on a house?

0:55:14.600 --> 0:55:15.920
<v Speaker 2>Well, who said I didn't have one?

0:55:16.680 --> 0:55:19.440
<v Speaker 3>Well at that time, that is that is the problem.

0:55:19.640 --> 0:55:22.960
<v Speaker 2>So the problem, the issue that I have is because

0:55:23.120 --> 0:55:26.880
<v Speaker 2>I have an amazing friend and shout out to Shamiyah, right,

0:55:27.400 --> 0:55:30.880
<v Speaker 2>because I have this amazing friend who said, Hey, no,

0:55:31.120 --> 0:55:32.880
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to go to Jarvis's house because he

0:55:33.000 --> 0:55:34.440
<v Speaker 2>lives out far and I'm not going to tell y'all

0:55:34.440 --> 0:55:36.480
<v Speaker 2>where he lives. You don't have to go to your

0:55:36.520 --> 0:55:38.840
<v Speaker 2>mom's house because she lives out near my restaurant. You

0:55:39.000 --> 0:55:41.319
<v Speaker 2>don't have to go to Lamon's house because he only

0:55:41.360 --> 0:55:43.920
<v Speaker 2>has two bedrooms and technically is four of us?

0:55:44.200 --> 0:55:44.319
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:55:44.440 --> 0:55:47.399
<v Speaker 2>Can Lamont live right next door to me? Technically? Right?

0:55:48.320 --> 0:55:50.719
<v Speaker 2>You don't have to do any of that until your

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:54.800
<v Speaker 2>space is ready. And maybe that wasn't shared properly, but

0:55:55.040 --> 0:55:57.360
<v Speaker 2>it was never I'm going to a house because I

0:55:57.360 --> 0:56:01.640
<v Speaker 2>didn't have anywhere to go. Okay, it was I am leaving.

0:56:01.880 --> 0:56:04.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm no longer staying in this space. I'm getting the

0:56:04.440 --> 0:56:08.000
<v Speaker 2>fuck up out of here. And my space won't be

0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:10.640
<v Speaker 2>ready for two weeks. So am I gonna go to

0:56:10.719 --> 0:56:14.160
<v Speaker 2>a hotel? Or am I gonna go to my friend's house,

0:56:14.560 --> 0:56:19.560
<v Speaker 2>who literally is in the same school district that's where

0:56:19.640 --> 0:56:21.800
<v Speaker 2>I live. And I don't have to get on the

0:56:21.880 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 2>highway and take my children to school for the next

0:56:24.080 --> 0:56:27.520
<v Speaker 2>two weeks. So I don't play about being a carpool mom.

0:56:28.440 --> 0:56:31.520
<v Speaker 2>I take getting my kids to school very seriously. They

0:56:31.600 --> 0:56:32.160
<v Speaker 2>go to school.

0:56:34.920 --> 0:56:36.800
<v Speaker 3>Is it true your techs are getting garnished.

0:56:37.400 --> 0:56:39.080
<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen one garnished.

0:56:38.760 --> 0:56:40.080
<v Speaker 3>Yet, Or your bank accounts.

0:56:40.520 --> 0:56:41.759
<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen one garnished yet.

0:56:42.040 --> 0:56:44.000
<v Speaker 3>So the stuff that we've seen online, is there any

0:56:44.080 --> 0:56:44.600
<v Speaker 3>merit to it?

0:56:45.160 --> 0:56:50.600
<v Speaker 2>I think that someone sent that story in who crossed

0:56:50.600 --> 0:56:53.680
<v Speaker 2>their name out in the paperwork because they filed for bankruptcy.

0:56:55.120 --> 0:57:01.360
<v Speaker 2>I think that they probably accepted the paperwork because no

0:57:01.520 --> 0:57:05.719
<v Speaker 2>address on there is associated with myself. In regards to

0:57:06.000 --> 0:57:09.440
<v Speaker 2>checks being garnished, I haven't had one garnished yet, and

0:57:09.680 --> 0:57:12.920
<v Speaker 2>I'll just let the attorneys in law do what it

0:57:13.080 --> 0:57:15.280
<v Speaker 2>is that they need to do, and we'll handle handle

0:57:15.320 --> 0:57:20.560
<v Speaker 2>it accordingly. I've again, I've never stared away from my

0:57:20.760 --> 0:57:23.480
<v Speaker 2>legal issues. They have to be handled I've been handling

0:57:23.480 --> 0:57:26.240
<v Speaker 2>them for the last three years. That was a situation

0:57:27.920 --> 0:57:31.120
<v Speaker 2>that was from years prior to me, even beyond the show.

0:57:32.320 --> 0:57:34.680
<v Speaker 2>Monies were supposed to be used for a downtown location

0:57:34.840 --> 0:57:39.520
<v Speaker 2>and the monies were stolen. Okay, the moneies are stolen.

0:57:39.720 --> 0:57:44.160
<v Speaker 2>And that was in not only my divorce documents, but

0:57:44.320 --> 0:57:47.320
<v Speaker 2>a separate document of where I had a judgment for

0:57:48.520 --> 0:57:52.880
<v Speaker 2>eight hundred thousand dollars so the monies could be paid back.

0:57:52.960 --> 0:57:55.960
<v Speaker 2>And you know, unfortunately that person filed bankruptcy and all

0:57:56.040 --> 0:57:58.600
<v Speaker 2>of those things are done. So now everyone's after me.

0:58:00.760 --> 0:58:04.439
<v Speaker 3>I want to talk about you and Smia. You guys

0:58:04.520 --> 0:58:10.520
<v Speaker 3>are best friends in real life, real and because you watch.

0:58:10.400 --> 0:58:14.600
<v Speaker 1>My podcast, I have said I know for a fact

0:58:14.640 --> 0:58:16.240
<v Speaker 1>that that's a real friendship.

0:58:16.600 --> 0:58:19.560
<v Speaker 3>Yes, people are though confused by the timeline.

0:58:19.640 --> 0:58:19.760
<v Speaker 2>Now.

0:58:19.800 --> 0:58:25.280
<v Speaker 1>When we saw Shemiya and you debut last season, Samiah appeared.

0:58:24.880 --> 0:58:26.760
<v Speaker 3>From what we saw in the first episode.

0:58:26.440 --> 0:58:28.960
<v Speaker 1>As the doc connector because she knew you and your

0:58:29.000 --> 0:58:31.440
<v Speaker 1>former friend at the time, and she was saying how

0:58:31.640 --> 0:58:33.400
<v Speaker 1>you you guys were like a trio.

0:58:34.280 --> 0:58:37.720
<v Speaker 3>You know, So when did you meet Shemia officially and

0:58:37.840 --> 0:58:39.800
<v Speaker 3>when did you guys become best friends?

0:58:40.120 --> 0:58:42.920
<v Speaker 2>I met smid at the radio station when she was

0:58:43.040 --> 0:58:46.240
<v Speaker 2>at V one all three. So me being on the

0:58:46.280 --> 0:58:48.440
<v Speaker 2>show was not the first time of me meeting Shamiyah.

0:58:49.520 --> 0:58:53.400
<v Speaker 2>Did we connect further after being on the show. Absolutely.

0:58:53.720 --> 0:58:56.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, when you're filming with somebody or you're in

0:58:56.520 --> 0:58:58.680
<v Speaker 2>this girl group and y'all have five days out the

0:58:58.680 --> 0:59:00.520
<v Speaker 2>week when you have to connect and feel with each other,

0:59:00.800 --> 0:59:05.240
<v Speaker 2>of course you get to know a person you know differently. Honestly,

0:59:05.480 --> 0:59:07.120
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know if me and Shamia were gonna be

0:59:07.200 --> 0:59:10.160
<v Speaker 2>one on court or not, because when you look at

0:59:10.320 --> 0:59:12.840
<v Speaker 2>my first season of filming, you know I had a

0:59:12.960 --> 0:59:15.360
<v Speaker 2>question about p shami was like, oh you know she

0:59:15.560 --> 0:59:17.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean, she had peace back completely. It was like,

0:59:17.960 --> 0:59:19.680
<v Speaker 2>you need to figure out be on your own, dude, No,

0:59:19.960 --> 0:59:23.960
<v Speaker 2>you need to ask her cool right. In regards to

0:59:24.120 --> 0:59:30.160
<v Speaker 2>me and Shamiah, our relationship really formed off camera, and

0:59:30.280 --> 0:59:34.000
<v Speaker 2>that's what people don't understand. We started to hang out

0:59:34.120 --> 0:59:37.280
<v Speaker 2>more and more together off camera, not on camera, not

0:59:37.400 --> 0:59:40.960
<v Speaker 2>where people could judge and misplace and put us in

0:59:41.040 --> 0:59:44.000
<v Speaker 2>a position to be weird and awkward. We hung out

0:59:44.040 --> 0:59:47.200
<v Speaker 2>with each other off camera, with our children, with our families,

0:59:47.600 --> 0:59:50.840
<v Speaker 2>with our spouses, and that's how her and I became close.

0:59:51.160 --> 0:59:55.200
<v Speaker 2>It wasn't a trauma bond. We don't talk about any

0:59:55.360 --> 1:00:00.520
<v Speaker 2>of the prior situations when we're not filming, right, and

1:00:00.600 --> 1:00:03.840
<v Speaker 2>it's barely even when we're filming. When we meet with

1:00:03.920 --> 1:00:06.640
<v Speaker 2>each other, we are laughing and joking and kiking in

1:00:06.720 --> 1:00:10.600
<v Speaker 2>and making fucking tiktoks. We're talking about kids, We're talking

1:00:10.600 --> 1:00:13.640
<v Speaker 2>about our next vacation, We're talking about our goals, We're

1:00:13.720 --> 1:00:18.439
<v Speaker 2>talking about, you know what, our next moves, and really

1:00:18.560 --> 1:00:22.800
<v Speaker 2>inspiring and motivating each other. It's not it's not drama,

1:00:22.960 --> 1:00:26.920
<v Speaker 2>it's not craziness. It's not like I really have. We

1:00:27.080 --> 1:00:30.760
<v Speaker 2>have really built a sisterhood. Shamiah has my children and

1:00:30.840 --> 1:00:34.520
<v Speaker 2>I have hers in real life. Shi's coming to my

1:00:34.560 --> 1:00:39.960
<v Speaker 2>house tonight for a sleepover. Literally. But I don't post

1:00:40.040 --> 1:00:41.919
<v Speaker 2>that stuff, you know what I mean? Like, I don't

1:00:42.000 --> 1:00:45.800
<v Speaker 2>post like our real family moments. That's not forenose. I

1:00:45.800 --> 1:00:51.680
<v Speaker 2>don't need y'all calculating anything. We have safe havens within

1:00:51.680 --> 1:00:54.320
<v Speaker 2>each other, we really do. Like we I have a

1:00:54.400 --> 1:00:58.440
<v Speaker 2>safe haven with her. She has a safe haven with me, absolutely,

1:00:58.720 --> 1:01:01.720
<v Speaker 2>like I don't when it comes to that, Like, that's

1:01:01.800 --> 1:01:04.200
<v Speaker 2>one thing that I do value from this friend. Group

1:01:04.400 --> 1:01:06.240
<v Speaker 2>is I did meet a real friend.

1:01:07.040 --> 1:01:09.560
<v Speaker 3>She said about you, she said you were the best

1:01:09.600 --> 1:01:11.320
<v Speaker 3>thing to come out of her being on the show.

1:01:12.120 --> 1:01:15.240
<v Speaker 2>I really did meet a real friend in her. My

1:01:15.400 --> 1:01:18.560
<v Speaker 2>moms go out to lunch like they hang out together.

1:01:19.120 --> 1:01:21.240
<v Speaker 3>Do they breast be up to the channe or does it?

1:01:21.920 --> 1:01:22.080
<v Speaker 1>Is it?

1:01:22.440 --> 1:01:29.240
<v Speaker 2>I think all that brust is shagging. I don't think

1:01:29.320 --> 1:01:33.040
<v Speaker 2>anybody's mom's breast is up to their chin. I have that.

1:01:33.240 --> 1:01:33.400
<v Speaker 5>Now.

1:01:33.560 --> 1:01:37.560
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you something. Now, when it comes to

1:01:37.600 --> 1:01:40.920
<v Speaker 2>Miss Sarah, she flies. Miss Sarah flies. She put her

1:01:40.960 --> 1:01:43.920
<v Speaker 2>real lipstick on, she has the heels on. I and miyamisay,

1:01:43.960 --> 1:01:49.240
<v Speaker 2>and she dressed her corvette. Yes, baby, Okay. When it

1:01:49.320 --> 1:01:51.920
<v Speaker 2>comes to Candy, she'll put a little two piece on,

1:01:52.240 --> 1:01:55.000
<v Speaker 2>she ain't wear no heels, and she'll have that blonde

1:01:55.040 --> 1:01:56.760
<v Speaker 2>hair slick back, and she'll put a little gloss on

1:01:57.240 --> 1:02:00.480
<v Speaker 2>and they have a good time. So, no, when our

1:02:00.560 --> 1:02:02.920
<v Speaker 2>moms are our moms, one thing I want to do

1:02:03.080 --> 1:02:06.200
<v Speaker 2>is leave our moms out of the picture. Yeah, those

1:02:06.400 --> 1:02:10.160
<v Speaker 2>are our safe spaces. Those are the women that really

1:02:10.320 --> 1:02:13.400
<v Speaker 2>nurture us and put us back into life, and like

1:02:14.440 --> 1:02:16.800
<v Speaker 2>you know, those are the women that we need. So

1:02:16.960 --> 1:02:20.919
<v Speaker 2>when it comes to that. I would never disrespect anybody's mom.

1:02:21.160 --> 1:02:25.600
<v Speaker 2>I would never disrespect anybody's dad. I love my dad,

1:02:25.680 --> 1:02:28.280
<v Speaker 2>I love my mom. I love my family, and I

1:02:28.400 --> 1:02:31.560
<v Speaker 2>know she loves hers as well. And I've been able

1:02:31.640 --> 1:02:34.840
<v Speaker 2>to spend a lot of time with Miss Sarah and

1:02:35.440 --> 1:02:37.480
<v Speaker 2>Miss Sarah and my mom. You know, they've been on

1:02:37.600 --> 1:02:41.640
<v Speaker 2>vacations together. So it's certain things that we don't post

1:02:41.760 --> 1:02:44.480
<v Speaker 2>because I think those are near and dear to us,

1:02:45.200 --> 1:02:47.720
<v Speaker 2>and once you show those things, people want to tear

1:02:47.720 --> 1:02:51.320
<v Speaker 2>it apart. And I think we value our families more

1:02:51.400 --> 1:02:53.920
<v Speaker 2>than anything. And that's one thing I admire about her,

1:02:54.120 --> 1:02:56.280
<v Speaker 2>and I think that's one thing she admires about me.

1:02:57.360 --> 1:02:59.360
<v Speaker 1>You know, there is people who are saying that they

1:02:59.480 --> 1:03:02.760
<v Speaker 1>feel like Shemiah has fed you information about Porsche.

1:03:02.920 --> 1:03:05.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't give a damn about Porsche in real life.

1:03:05.920 --> 1:03:12.560
<v Speaker 2>That woman has never and you see I got my

1:03:12.640 --> 1:03:16.360
<v Speaker 2>roal chords. Shamia has never given me any information about

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<v Speaker 2>Porsche ever, any information I got about Porsche. People have

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<v Speaker 2>to realize, I mean, I live in Atlanta. You think

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<v Speaker 2>people don't talk about her, You think that we don't

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<v Speaker 2>have anyone in common? Do you think that it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>nothing that has been heard before. I mean, no, she

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't have to. It's information that I know on pete

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<v Speaker 2>that I've never even shared with Shamiyah. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going to because the moment that I say it, she's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be gagged, just like everybody else were.

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<v Speaker 1>You gagged when Shemiah brought up the mothers. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>her first time here.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gagged about that.

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<v Speaker 3>You've never heard that.

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<v Speaker 2>She never told me about that. She never told me

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<v Speaker 2>about the mothers. She never told me. I was you see,

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<v Speaker 2>in the midst, I was like, and all I could

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<v Speaker 2>think about was let me get her out of here,

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<v Speaker 2>because I see that this is about to now. Of

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<v Speaker 2>course she said, it's things that I never want to

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<v Speaker 2>bring up. Of course she's going to say that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's things I never want to bring up. It's things

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<v Speaker 2>I never want to go down. She's always going to

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<v Speaker 2>say that. But in regards to specifics, she's never told

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<v Speaker 2>me anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think she was wrong for that?

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<v Speaker 2>I think the setting was wrong, But I also think

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<v Speaker 2>that let me say this was the setting wrong, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>but I knew that it was a bulling point. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think that a lot of people, well they didn't

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<v Speaker 2>see it because it wasn't shown right. I think it

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<v Speaker 2>was a lot of things that Shemiah was under attack about.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it was a bulling point to her

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<v Speaker 2>spelling that information right, because if you look back on it,

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<v Speaker 2>Portia said, I knew you were going to say that. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>how did you know you want to say that? Because

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<v Speaker 2>did you poke her enough to say it? And and

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<v Speaker 2>that's what made me think, like, oh, so they basically

1:05:03.240 --> 1:05:06.920
<v Speaker 2>wanted to poke her enough for her to say what

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<v Speaker 2>she supposedly heard that she was going to say. That's

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<v Speaker 2>the point that that's the part that I didn't like.

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<v Speaker 3>You believe and you stop me if I'm wrong? Do

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<v Speaker 3>you believe? Juice? Dora Angela Oakley? And if I missing

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<v Speaker 3>anybody else?

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<v Speaker 6>Adra, I don't think she wanted to be in it, Pinky,

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<v Speaker 6>she's neutral. Ky Michelle, she didn't want to be in

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<v Speaker 6>it either.

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<v Speaker 3>Cynthia Bailey, hmm, what.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what would you do for your employers?

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<v Speaker 3>They treat Portia like she's the boss.

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<v Speaker 2>You said she was a line leader.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't say line leader. I said the marquee.

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<v Speaker 1>Hmmm.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's a marquee or more like

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<v Speaker 2>just a sign. But I think at the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the day.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, first of all, can I say this to you?

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<v Speaker 3>This is this is so like just off the doll.

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<v Speaker 3>You know how to read in person?

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<v Speaker 2>On Twitter?

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<v Speaker 3>Not so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I tell you how long you done this?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't be I won't say this your clipbacks and

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<v Speaker 3>faith listen.

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<v Speaker 4>The good thing is this your clipback in person?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm actually impressed.

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<v Speaker 4>When I see your climpbacks on Lie, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 4>I want to add a little dove to it because

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<v Speaker 4>I don't tweet, okay, but but when you do, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I won't say this your response on tort I'll be like,

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<v Speaker 4>didn't quite hit them, our sister.

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<v Speaker 3>But I will say this in Parson you know how.

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<v Speaker 2>To You're good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm impressed with their shade and it's off the dome

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<v Speaker 1>you okay, back to the top of her hand.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I had to get that out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Scotland was a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you surprised that Pinky nor came Michelle left with

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<v Speaker 1>you to take Shemiah out.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because I don't feel like that they had any

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like they were still neutral parties. You got

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<v Speaker 2>to think about it. They're still coming into this friend group.

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<v Speaker 2>They're still trying to figure out the situation. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think that they were wrong in regards to not leaving

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<v Speaker 2>out with me and Shemia. At the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 2>one is Samia is my girl, and I would never

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<v Speaker 2>leave her in another country or be by herself on

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<v Speaker 2>her own period. Right, that's just what it did. I

1:08:02.920 --> 1:08:04.680
<v Speaker 2>don't give a fuck she was right, wrong, or indifferent.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still not gonna leave her, right. I appreciate Pinky

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<v Speaker 2>and came a shell for staying at the club when

1:08:11.680 --> 1:08:16.600
<v Speaker 2>everybody else scattered like the costco U fucking samples that

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<v Speaker 2>go real fast. I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>Angela positive video. She said she was there.

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<v Speaker 2>Angela's a liar.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that so she wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 2>She stayed for uh Shmiah, and then she went with

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<v Speaker 2>the rest of everybody else. I guess she just didn't

1:08:30.600 --> 1:08:33.280
<v Speaker 2>want to be left off the island. But she still left.

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<v Speaker 2>They still left, let's be very clear. So maybe they

1:08:37.320 --> 1:08:38.680
<v Speaker 2>were all in the same car. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>they she couldn't get an uber or what was happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe what it's something, okay, you're okay. So I think

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<v Speaker 2>that at the end of the day, she's still left

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<v Speaker 2>with the rest of the group. Yeah, maybe she stayed

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<v Speaker 2>for that song because they had to wait for their

1:08:52.640 --> 1:08:55.200
<v Speaker 2>car to pull up, but they still left. They did

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<v Speaker 2>not stay at the club. The only people that were

1:08:59.360 --> 1:09:03.439
<v Speaker 2>left at the club were me, Samia, Pinky, and Ky Michelle.

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<v Speaker 2>In production, they all scattered.

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<v Speaker 3>We see Kim Michelle and Kim Michelle unfollows Samia.

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<v Speaker 2>Not talking about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you well, let me ask you this. Do you

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<v Speaker 3>feel caught in the middle because you're friends with both

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<v Speaker 3>of them not.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? And I respect that. I respect that.

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<v Speaker 1>When it came to the George and Ashley Angela's neighbors

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<v Speaker 1>and whether or not George slept with Shemiah does.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you over your thoughts about all of that,

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<v Speaker 3>and people.

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<v Speaker 1>Really wanting Samiya to be seen as a woman that

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<v Speaker 1>has affairs.

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<v Speaker 2>On Gerald disgusting. It's really disgusting. Like, honestly, it disappoints

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<v Speaker 2>me with this group of women, and you know they're

1:10:00.880 --> 1:10:04.280
<v Speaker 2>quote unquote and I think I've been the person that's

1:10:04.320 --> 1:10:06.800
<v Speaker 2>been the longest married person within the group, even though

1:10:06.800 --> 1:10:09.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm not married anymore, but I was married for eleven years.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's just disgusting. I think it's disgusting of

1:10:12.080 --> 1:10:16.720
<v Speaker 2>Angela to speak on someone's marriage, and she doesn't like

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<v Speaker 2>other people to speak on hers.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if you're a private hiring a private investigator,

1:10:21.600 --> 1:10:24.559
<v Speaker 2>you should hire it on yourself. Why are you hiring

1:10:24.600 --> 1:10:27.400
<v Speaker 2>on other couples and people? I think that's disgusting. I

1:10:27.479 --> 1:10:33.639
<v Speaker 2>think it's I just think that you looking for someone's

1:10:33.760 --> 1:10:38.800
<v Speaker 2>downfall within their marriage is just I don't like it.

1:10:39.080 --> 1:10:41.280
<v Speaker 2>I think that you want to play this victim of

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<v Speaker 2>oh this person said this last season. Okay, well you

1:10:44.760 --> 1:10:46.400
<v Speaker 2>made up with the person who said that they would

1:10:46.400 --> 1:10:49.479
<v Speaker 2>sleep with your husband. How does this work out? And

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<v Speaker 2>then you set up the head of the table and

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<v Speaker 2>least the keiki like, come on seriously, So you forgive

1:11:00.880 --> 1:11:03.439
<v Speaker 2>her that fast, But then you're not gonna forgive the

1:11:03.520 --> 1:11:06.840
<v Speaker 2>person who probably said a little bit of nothing about

1:11:06.880 --> 1:11:10.920
<v Speaker 2>your marriage. She said she won't go to sleep with him.

1:11:11.680 --> 1:11:14.280
<v Speaker 2>She just maybe said she didn't know about him, but

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<v Speaker 2>nobody I mean, from where on the street is nobody

1:11:17.600 --> 1:11:19.320
<v Speaker 2>know about you? But who cares?

1:11:19.880 --> 1:11:20.080
<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think that it's it's very unfortunate that you

1:11:23.360 --> 1:11:26.760
<v Speaker 2>would go that deep. And I think marriage is a

1:11:26.840 --> 1:11:29.760
<v Speaker 2>beautiful covenant. And you know, we all make mistakes and

1:11:29.840 --> 1:11:31.920
<v Speaker 2>we all fall short. But I think for you to

1:11:33.000 --> 1:11:37.679
<v Speaker 2>look for a splinter in someone's marriage, it's pretty fucking crazy.

1:11:41.320 --> 1:11:42.880
<v Speaker 3>We probably let you go. I do want to talk

1:11:42.880 --> 1:11:45.000
<v Speaker 3>to about Jarvis. You have a new man.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the last episode, you know, Shemiah's Halloween party.

1:11:50.240 --> 1:11:54.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he came in costume, he did. Is he real?

1:11:55.600 --> 1:12:01.880
<v Speaker 2>No, he's Ai. I'm just joking. No, Jarvis, Jarvis is

1:12:01.920 --> 1:12:06.439
<v Speaker 2>a real person. He's an amazing man, and that's my guy.

1:12:06.720 --> 1:12:06.880
<v Speaker 1>You know.

1:12:07.160 --> 1:12:11.840
<v Speaker 2>I love that he is very private. I love that

1:12:12.040 --> 1:12:15.880
<v Speaker 2>he shies away from the cameras. You know, I think

1:12:16.040 --> 1:12:19.680
<v Speaker 2>that it's very important for us to keep what we

1:12:19.880 --> 1:12:25.479
<v Speaker 2>have in privacy for now, until we truly figure things out.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need have you seen these women. I don't

1:12:27.960 --> 1:12:29.639
<v Speaker 2>need to share him with the women or the world

1:12:29.800 --> 1:12:31.960
<v Speaker 2>at this point. And you're trying to get him in

1:12:31.960 --> 1:12:33.519
<v Speaker 2>a minute with that no shirt on in that.

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<v Speaker 3>So can I meet him never.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever?

1:12:40.120 --> 1:12:45.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean, we'll see. He's a good guy.

1:12:45.920 --> 1:12:46.080
<v Speaker 1>Though.

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<v Speaker 2>I love Jervis.

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<v Speaker 3>What does he do for a living?

1:12:49.280 --> 1:12:50.040
<v Speaker 2>None of your business.

1:12:51.360 --> 1:12:53.160
<v Speaker 3>He has a job or is he an entrepreneur?

1:12:53.520 --> 1:12:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Or he does all of it he works for me?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you a good you know girlfriend that hangs all

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<v Speaker 3>with his kids?

1:13:04.040 --> 1:13:04.880
<v Speaker 2>You have to ask him?

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<v Speaker 3>Where is he?

1:13:06.240 --> 1:13:06.600
<v Speaker 1>What is that?

1:13:06.720 --> 1:13:10.120
<v Speaker 2>What the kids think? What I'm saying you keep asking

1:13:10.200 --> 1:13:12.080
<v Speaker 2>everybody about this man's kids is if he got a

1:13:12.120 --> 1:13:12.680
<v Speaker 2>two year old?

1:13:13.000 --> 1:13:13.439
<v Speaker 3>Yo?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you know?

1:13:14.640 --> 1:13:15.040
<v Speaker 2>Yes too?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I know him? Who's where is he?

1:13:20.040 --> 1:13:22.599
<v Speaker 1>Is he? Here? Is here?

1:13:23.960 --> 1:13:27.320
<v Speaker 3>Tarvis Tamar Jarvas?

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<v Speaker 6>You know?

1:13:30.920 --> 1:13:33.040
<v Speaker 3>Nice to beat you too?

1:13:34.880 --> 1:13:35.840
<v Speaker 2>Why is my like?

1:13:36.000 --> 1:13:44.120
<v Speaker 4>That's handsle He's not, he is saying, and that's like

1:13:44.240 --> 1:13:45.360
<v Speaker 4>going to get my all to myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So the thing is this, so Shemia hooked all up?

1:13:51.400 --> 1:13:52.559
<v Speaker 2>Shamia introduced her.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it about Kelly that made you want to

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<v Speaker 1>withdraw seventy thousand dollars for her teeth?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't now her?

1:14:04.560 --> 1:14:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Girl?

1:14:04.880 --> 1:14:05.320
<v Speaker 3>Fucked up?

1:14:07.200 --> 1:14:16.040
<v Speaker 2>You ain't ship? No, you know understand this man is

1:14:16.120 --> 1:14:17.000
<v Speaker 2>really reckless.

1:14:17.280 --> 1:14:19.840
<v Speaker 3>Are you in love with Kelly? Of course? Of course?

1:14:21.280 --> 1:14:24.960
<v Speaker 3>Would you like to marry Kelly? It's a possibility, it's

1:14:25.000 --> 1:14:29.519
<v Speaker 3>a possibility. Have you been married before? Could have been?

1:14:29.720 --> 1:14:32.720
<v Speaker 3>You could have been. How are your two children doing?

1:14:33.120 --> 1:14:35.840
<v Speaker 3>Let me say I got two kids? I did. That's

1:14:35.880 --> 1:14:39.040
<v Speaker 3>not true, It's not that's not true. Damn, my sources

1:14:39.080 --> 1:14:40.680
<v Speaker 3>are wrong. How many kids do you have?

1:14:45.120 --> 1:14:46.040
<v Speaker 2>Hey? Why are you pa?

1:14:46.240 --> 1:14:51.000
<v Speaker 3>You are a committed I do have you have two kids? Okay?

1:14:52.040 --> 1:14:53.040
<v Speaker 3>See okay.

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<v Speaker 2>On camera, listen.

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<v Speaker 3>I won't say this. I won't say this. Okay, can

1:15:00.680 --> 1:15:01.800
<v Speaker 3>I okay? Can I?

1:15:01.920 --> 1:15:02.040
<v Speaker 2>Can?

1:15:02.080 --> 1:15:03.479
<v Speaker 3>I do this really fast? Ahead?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, rain Drops? And I mean that respectfully, no disrespect.

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<v Speaker 1>Jarvis is extremely handsome.

1:15:16.520 --> 1:15:18.800
<v Speaker 3>Okay, you gotta keep saying extremely.

1:15:20.360 --> 1:15:21.479
<v Speaker 2>What the fuck is happening?

1:15:21.560 --> 1:15:28.559
<v Speaker 3>You ain't compliment your man? Okay, Jarvis is nice looking.

1:15:29.240 --> 1:15:34.360
<v Speaker 3>It was very nice to meet you. Wow, Oh, rain Drops.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll say this.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to end by saying this, give me your hand.

1:15:39.320 --> 1:15:40.479
<v Speaker 1>I want to say this to you and I and

1:15:40.560 --> 1:15:43.920
<v Speaker 1>I do mean this. Yes, don't change who you are.

1:15:45.800 --> 1:15:46.880
<v Speaker 1>I love you on the show.

1:15:47.560 --> 1:15:52.320
<v Speaker 3>Stay consistent. Don't let the fans bother you. Don't let

1:15:52.360 --> 1:15:55.120
<v Speaker 3>them get to you. Please, don't let them get to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you're doing, like, don't let the audience get to you,

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<v Speaker 1>the good or the bad. Okay, because this too shall pass,

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<v Speaker 1>This too shall pass. Okay, stay the course.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You are an excellent housewife. And I want to give

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<v Speaker 1>you my chants and I was coming from you.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew last season I said after the first episode,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, that's the one to watch, and you

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<v Speaker 1>have not disappointed me since.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Okay, I love your giving up for Kelly Potter.